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Saw my ex again after 7 years
2024.05.14 18:47 leftuaseat Saw my ex again after 7 years
I saw my ex after 7 years, with his son.. And I felt idk.. meh .. For context We we’re together for 4 years and may anak kami, 7 years old na rin. When we broke up, 3 mos pregnant ako because nahuli ko siya with another girl which is yung nanay na rin ng anak niya right now. Nagsusustento naman siya, kahit maliit lang. Hindi na ako nagaask na dagdagan kasi may anak na rin naman siya. Anyways, hindi niya ever since nakita yung anak niya sa akin. And kahit nagsusustento siya hindi siya namimilit na ipakita ko kasi I know alam niya maling ginawa niya.. so back to the story, tumalikod ako kaagad pagkarealize ko na siya yun. Because I hate drama lalo na in public pero grabe kaba ko. But I believe he did see me. Ang strong ng feeling ko na nakita niya ako. Buti he ignored nalang rin my presence. He didn’t texted nor chatted me about the incident though. Funny how yung taong binigay mo yung buong ikaw, and kilalang kilala every inch of you, ngayon kahit makasalubong mo, wala na. Strangers nalang kayo kahit may anak kayo. lol. Yung gusto mong kausapin pero hindi nag-end yung relationship niyo ng maayos and you don’t want to go through the whole drama kaya you both choose to ignore each other nalang. lol. Just wanna let this out. Hayyyy.
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2024.05.13 20:41 tersxin Budaya lucah
Kenapa jais serbu orang berzina,ketuk pintu hotel orang walaupun orang itu mungkin suami isteri,tetapi pada masa yang sama tidak menghalang perkara yang mendorong zina??
Kalau korang tgk tiktok,anak muda BODOH,tkleh nk salahkan sbb orang muda mmg bodoh,tpi kumpulan ini mempopularkan budaya romen di tiktok dan disokong seperti ianya biasa dan berjenaka tentangnya seperti daddy ash atau video lucah yang tersebar..Di dalam negara Islam Agama Islam Keluarga Islam..Tak malu ke?Takda muka ke??Bayangkan kalau perempuan tu,anak kau,kakak kau,dan akan jadi mak orang..Apa kata keluarga,dan kawan kerana kita hidup dalam masyarakat Islam..Apa jadi kalau dia bunuh diri..
Disebabkan budaya ‘menormalisasikan’ zina inilah mendorong zina..Tpi yang kau tahu,serbu hotel mcm zaman p ramlee line telefon takder..Apa nk jadi??Buat secara terangan,walhal zaman dahulu masyarakat malu untuk menunjukkan dosa..aku tk stuju kalau kau ckp kerajaan tkleh kawal,atas alasan terlalu banyak..Sbb kau tak kawal tu lah yg byk..Kawal harga bleh plak
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Kalau korang tgk tiktok,anak muda BODOH,tkleh nk salahkan sbb orang muda mmg bodoh,tpi kumpulan ini mempopularkan budaya romen di tiktok dan disokong seperti ianya biasa dan berjenaka tentangnya seperti daddy ash atau video lucah yang tersebar..Di dalam negara Islam Agama Islam Keluarga Islam..Tak malu ke?Takda muka ke??Bayangkan kalau perempuan tu,anak kau,kakak kau,dan akan jadi mak orang..Apa kata keluarga,dan kawan kerana kita hidup dalam masyarakat Islam..Apa jadi kalau dia bunuh diri..
Disebabkan budaya ‘menormalisasikan’ zina inilah mendorong zina..Tpi yang kau tahu,serbu hotel mcm zaman p ramlee line telefon takder..Apa nk jadi??Buat secara terangan,walhal zaman dahulu masyarakat malu untuk menunjukkan dosa..aku tk stuju kalau kau ckp kerajaan tkleh kawal,atas alasan terlalu banyak..Sbb kau tak kawal tu lah yg byk..Kawal harga bleh plak
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2024.05.12 22:21 Dopamine_rush_001 Garapal yung ex ng live in partner ng ate kong tibo
May mga tao talagang garapal noh? Like wala talaga silang kahihiyan kung anong ginawa nila sa isang tao, ung tipong asal squammy na sila pero they just can't reflect on their actions. Ganito kasi yun, yung ate ko has been in a relationship with someone for almost 17 years and dito nakatira yung babae from 2009 until 2021. Ang kwento ng live in partner ng ate ko kaya sya umalis dun sa tinitirhan nya sa bulacan kasi muntikan na syang i-grape nung bayaw nya (ewan ko kung legit na muntikan na syang ma-grape kasi HINDI naman sya nagreport sa pulis that time basta nalang sya nagpaalam sa nanay ko na if pwede daw ba syang makitira dito sa bahay namin kahit pansamantala lang hanggang maayos lang daw nya yung issue nya sa ate nya at kapag nakapag usap usap na sila ng pamilya nya regarding sa nangyari. Dahil nga maawain yung nanay ko at bukas naman syang tumulong dun sa jowa ng ate ko edi pinatira nalang nya.
Fastforward, after several years, napapansin namin na parang kalaunan nagiging "feeling anak" na si live in partner ng ate ko, alam mo yung feeling close na to the point na lahat ng matters dito sa bahay nakekealam sya, nadidisrespect nya na si mama, pero kahit ganun ginawa nya di sya pinaalis dito sa bahay kasi ang iniisip ng nanay ko "baka kaya ganyan ung ugali kasi literal na parang pinabayaan na ng pamilya nya, intindihin nalang kasi mahal yan ng ate mo". Eto kami si puro intindi ang ginawa, to the point na nilalait nya na pati ako kung anu anong sinasabi ng bruha lalo na kapag nalalasing sya, at parang naging parang pipe at sunud-sunuran yung ate ko sa mga pinagagagawa nya (LITERAL na BULAG sa pagibig) kalaunan, yung galit na pinoproject nila sa akin naging mas grabe, everytime na nalalasing silang dalawa ako yung pulutan na kesyo "bakit pa pinag aral ni mother yang kapatid mo sa private eh maglalandi at mag aasawa lang naman din yan". Sa almost everyday na panglalait nila sakin hindi ako lumaban, hindi ako nakipagsagutan sa kanila kasi that time natatakot ako e, pag nagsusumbong ako sa nanay ko wala naman din nagiging resolution kasi kapag pinagsasabihan sila ni mama, lalo lang lumalala kasi si girl is magaling "magpavictim" at "mag twist ng kwento" kapag kino confront na sya.
Hindi ko alam kung saan nanggagaling yung galit ng ate ko at nung jowa nya kasi pinakitaan ko naman sila nang maayos, Oo may instance na may mga pinag awayan kami nung 2013 pero sila naman nag umpisa nun, ginulpi pa nga ako ng ate ko para dun imagine 14 years old gugulpihin dahil lng hindi nasunod yung inutos na balatan yung nilagang talong, samantalang wala naman silang ginagawa during that time kundi maglaklakan. Dati kaming close ng ate ko pero dahil ginagatungan at sinusulsulan ng karelasyon nya naging sobrang layo na ng gap naming magkapatid. Simula 2013 hanggang ngayon hindi ko na kinakausap yung ate ko, ewan parang naumay na din ako kasi naaalala ko lang yung pangbubully, emotional abuse, verbal abuse.
Hindi ako lumaban sa kanila until nung April 2021, nagkaroon ng gulo dito sa bahay, ALAM NYO BA KUNG SINONG CAUSE? Syempre yung jowa ng ate ko, dahil lang sa aso, pinagbintangan na nila yung 5 years old kong pamangkin na "baka sipain yung aso" nila kaya ayun nagkarambulan na dito sa bahay nag away yung kuya ko at yung ate ko at nauwi pa sa baranggayan. Dahil sa instance na yun tuluyan nang nagkalamat yung relasyon bilang magkapatid ng kuya ko at ate ko dati-dati kasi close sila e may times din na mas kinakampihan ng kuya ko yung ate ko, alam mo yung tipong sanggang dikit sila sa pambubully sakin hahahaha ang ending silang dalawa din mag aaway dahil Lang sa sulsul na jowa ng ate ko. Ayun na nga dahil nga involve na yung minor kong pamangkin na pinabintangan nila na baka sipain yung aso nila, dun na ako sumabog at binulalas ko na yung galit ko sa knla, pati yung hipag ko na matagal nang nagtimpi at nakisama sa knila nang maayos sumabog na din (kasi nga pinagbintangan yung anak nya na baka sipain yung aso, hello 5 yrs old lang pamangkin ko at naka monitor naman ung hipag ko sa bata at di naman tanga ung hipag ko pra kunsintihin ung anak na sipain ung aso)
Fast forward na nga eto na kumapit ka... Dahil nga sa kahihiyan (pero i doubt na meron sila nun) nag alsabalutan ung ate ko at yung jowa nyang bruha sa bahay, like literal na naghakot sila ng mga gamit nila siguro mga one week or two weeks after nung away nila ni kuya. Naghanap sila ng apartment na mga tatlong kanto lang halos ung layo mula sa bahay namin. Ayun na nga nung umalis sila, life must go on kami alam mo ung parang nakahinga kami ng maluwag kasi nawala ung toxic dito sa bahay. Akala namin okay ung relasyon nila kasi diba nakabukod na sila, akala namin literal na through thick and thin ung relasyon nila kasi kayang kaya ngang kalimutan at abandonahin ng ate ko ung pamilya nya para sa babaeng yun e pero akala lang pala namin yun pero nabalitaan nalang namin na si bruha iniwan na si ate sa apartment nila at sumama sa ibang tibo (kasamahan ata sa trabaho ni bruha yung shibuli na pinalit nya sa ate ko) as per sa kwento ng ate ko kay mama, iniwan daw sya ni bruha sa paupahan kasi nagkakaroon na sila ng financial issues or sguro sa dami ng utang ni bruha like home credit at credit card kaya nagkakaroon sila ng issue sa pera. Kaya sguro ang ending imbes na kaharapin ni bruha ung mga pinagkakautangan nya sumama nalang sya sa ibang tibo na akala nyang mas may pera o mas capable na magprovide sa kanya ng mga luho nya. Nalaman na rin namin na may karelasyon ng iba si bruha nung inistalk namin ung fb nya, proud na proud sila nung shibuli eh todo flex sila sa social media (malas nya di nya ako nablock sa fb) ung iba kong kamag anak lang ata naka block sa knya nun kaya di sila aware na may ibang jowa na si gurl. After nga nun mga bandang February 2023 umuwi na yung ate ko sa bahay kasi pinakiusapan nya si mama at nangako sya na tinapos na nya yung relasyon nila ni bruha dahil nga niloko sya at pinagpalit sa ibang shibuli. Pero dahil medyo shunga at puro alak nalang laman ng utak ng ate ko, konting iyak lang sa knya nung ex nyang haliparot binalikan nya na ung babae,na kesyo binubugbog daw at inaaway sya ng pinalit nyang tibo,masyado daw selosa at isip bata ung tibo na pinalit nya pati daw ung nanay nung shibuli is minamaltrato na din sya (classic pavictim style) ayun ang ending konting paawa lang, binalikan ulit ng ate ko ung babae, naging sila ulit at andito nanaman si gurl sa bahay na parang wala syang inagrabyado hahahaha alam mo yung tipong parang hindi sya nagrereflect sa actions nya, na tipong lahat ng tao need mag adjust sa knya kesyo "inaatake ng anxiety" ayan dinadahilan ni ate kesyo na trauma daw si gaga dun sa shibuli,ganyan sinabi nyang dahilan nun nung nag away kami ng ate ko kesyo "ina anxiety daw" kaya daw dapat hindi daw dapat ini-stress hahahaha taena bakit kami mag aadjust sa shota mong anak ni lucifer? Like wtf? Nasa mid 30's na yang shota mong usemanipulative b!*ch pero hindi mo maiwan para sa ano? Nanghihinayang kang iwan kasi may pinagsamahan na kayo?. Taena sana malaman ng ate ko na sobrang tanga nya sa part na yon, sasamahan lang naman sya ng babae na yan depende sa pakinabang sa knya e, sasamahan lang sya sa laklakan, sasamahan lang sya nyan sa paglulustay or pagwawaldas ng pera, sasamahan lang sya sa kadramahan (trauma plus trauma = drama & chaos) ni pagiging anak mo kay mama sinasantabi mo na pra sa babaeng yan samantalang si mama natatakbuhan mo kapag may problema ka specifically nung naospital ka, nung wala kang trabaho, nung pandemic na wala kang maayos na hanap buhay, nung nagkaproblema ka sa mata mo, nung wala kang pang requirements nung nag aapply ka, diba si mama yun lahat? Anong natulong ng karelasyon mong manggagamit? WALA! Kung meron man, di ganun kagrabe compare sa sakripisyo ni mama. Tapos sasabihin mong mismong pamilya mo yung nag cacause sayo ng stress??? hahahaha kaloka ewan sana hanggang pagtanda nyo damayan ka nyan, sana lang di ka nya ulit iwanan, sana lang di ka nyan ulit traydorin, sana lahat ng sakripisyo mo para sknya suklian nya lahat balang araw kasi for sure kaming pamilya mo mismo malayo na malayo na loob sayo kapag dumating na yung time na yon, kaya magipon ka ng pera para sa pagtanda mo, wala na din kaming ganang umalalay sayo after all the sh!ts na dinanas namin sayo/sainyo at sa mga kasinungalingan mo.
Sa mga nakakabasa neto, sana wag dumating sa punto na magpapakatanga kayo pra sa pagibig, sana wag dumating yung time na yung kakayahan nyong magisip at desisyon nang tama ay ma-cloud ng pagmamahal nyo para sa tao. Dahil it is never our duty na maging "rehab" "therapist" dhil may mga taong beyond repair, ika nga, we deserve what we tolerate. It is never my intention to judge someone based on their gender preferences. May mga kaibigan din akong part ng LGBTQIA and di nila deserve ma discriminate. Pero galit ako dun sa pagiging masokista ng ate ko, alam mo yung kahit sinaktan na sya at niloko pagbibigyan nya padin ng chance. Kahit inaabuso na sya nung bruha is G lang sya palagi, laging naka "Yes Master". Wala e sguro talagang karma na nila yung isa't isa, ang masama lang dun is nakaka agrabayado na din.
Pasensya na sa magulong istorya hahahaa eto Lang nakayanan ko hanggang ngayon gigil ako sa jowa ng ate ko gusto ko syang tirisin nang buhay pero bakit nga naman ako bababa masyado sa level nya, eh kakalait nya sakin, kakasilip nya masyado sa buhay ko, hindi rin naman sya umasenso 😂 ok bye 😅
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Fastforward, after several years, napapansin namin na parang kalaunan nagiging "feeling anak" na si live in partner ng ate ko, alam mo yung feeling close na to the point na lahat ng matters dito sa bahay nakekealam sya, nadidisrespect nya na si mama, pero kahit ganun ginawa nya di sya pinaalis dito sa bahay kasi ang iniisip ng nanay ko "baka kaya ganyan ung ugali kasi literal na parang pinabayaan na ng pamilya nya, intindihin nalang kasi mahal yan ng ate mo". Eto kami si puro intindi ang ginawa, to the point na nilalait nya na pati ako kung anu anong sinasabi ng bruha lalo na kapag nalalasing sya, at parang naging parang pipe at sunud-sunuran yung ate ko sa mga pinagagagawa nya (LITERAL na BULAG sa pagibig) kalaunan, yung galit na pinoproject nila sa akin naging mas grabe, everytime na nalalasing silang dalawa ako yung pulutan na kesyo "bakit pa pinag aral ni mother yang kapatid mo sa private eh maglalandi at mag aasawa lang naman din yan". Sa almost everyday na panglalait nila sakin hindi ako lumaban, hindi ako nakipagsagutan sa kanila kasi that time natatakot ako e, pag nagsusumbong ako sa nanay ko wala naman din nagiging resolution kasi kapag pinagsasabihan sila ni mama, lalo lang lumalala kasi si girl is magaling "magpavictim" at "mag twist ng kwento" kapag kino confront na sya.
Hindi ko alam kung saan nanggagaling yung galit ng ate ko at nung jowa nya kasi pinakitaan ko naman sila nang maayos, Oo may instance na may mga pinag awayan kami nung 2013 pero sila naman nag umpisa nun, ginulpi pa nga ako ng ate ko para dun imagine 14 years old gugulpihin dahil lng hindi nasunod yung inutos na balatan yung nilagang talong, samantalang wala naman silang ginagawa during that time kundi maglaklakan. Dati kaming close ng ate ko pero dahil ginagatungan at sinusulsulan ng karelasyon nya naging sobrang layo na ng gap naming magkapatid. Simula 2013 hanggang ngayon hindi ko na kinakausap yung ate ko, ewan parang naumay na din ako kasi naaalala ko lang yung pangbubully, emotional abuse, verbal abuse.
Hindi ako lumaban sa kanila until nung April 2021, nagkaroon ng gulo dito sa bahay, ALAM NYO BA KUNG SINONG CAUSE? Syempre yung jowa ng ate ko, dahil lang sa aso, pinagbintangan na nila yung 5 years old kong pamangkin na "baka sipain yung aso" nila kaya ayun nagkarambulan na dito sa bahay nag away yung kuya ko at yung ate ko at nauwi pa sa baranggayan. Dahil sa instance na yun tuluyan nang nagkalamat yung relasyon bilang magkapatid ng kuya ko at ate ko dati-dati kasi close sila e may times din na mas kinakampihan ng kuya ko yung ate ko, alam mo yung tipong sanggang dikit sila sa pambubully sakin hahahaha ang ending silang dalawa din mag aaway dahil Lang sa sulsul na jowa ng ate ko. Ayun na nga dahil nga involve na yung minor kong pamangkin na pinabintangan nila na baka sipain yung aso nila, dun na ako sumabog at binulalas ko na yung galit ko sa knla, pati yung hipag ko na matagal nang nagtimpi at nakisama sa knila nang maayos sumabog na din (kasi nga pinagbintangan yung anak nya na baka sipain yung aso, hello 5 yrs old lang pamangkin ko at naka monitor naman ung hipag ko sa bata at di naman tanga ung hipag ko pra kunsintihin ung anak na sipain ung aso)
Fast forward na nga eto na kumapit ka... Dahil nga sa kahihiyan (pero i doubt na meron sila nun) nag alsabalutan ung ate ko at yung jowa nyang bruha sa bahay, like literal na naghakot sila ng mga gamit nila siguro mga one week or two weeks after nung away nila ni kuya. Naghanap sila ng apartment na mga tatlong kanto lang halos ung layo mula sa bahay namin. Ayun na nga nung umalis sila, life must go on kami alam mo ung parang nakahinga kami ng maluwag kasi nawala ung toxic dito sa bahay. Akala namin okay ung relasyon nila kasi diba nakabukod na sila, akala namin literal na through thick and thin ung relasyon nila kasi kayang kaya ngang kalimutan at abandonahin ng ate ko ung pamilya nya para sa babaeng yun e pero akala lang pala namin yun pero nabalitaan nalang namin na si bruha iniwan na si ate sa apartment nila at sumama sa ibang tibo (kasamahan ata sa trabaho ni bruha yung shibuli na pinalit nya sa ate ko) as per sa kwento ng ate ko kay mama, iniwan daw sya ni bruha sa paupahan kasi nagkakaroon na sila ng financial issues or sguro sa dami ng utang ni bruha like home credit at credit card kaya nagkakaroon sila ng issue sa pera. Kaya sguro ang ending imbes na kaharapin ni bruha ung mga pinagkakautangan nya sumama nalang sya sa ibang tibo na akala nyang mas may pera o mas capable na magprovide sa kanya ng mga luho nya. Nalaman na rin namin na may karelasyon ng iba si bruha nung inistalk namin ung fb nya, proud na proud sila nung shibuli eh todo flex sila sa social media (malas nya di nya ako nablock sa fb) ung iba kong kamag anak lang ata naka block sa knya nun kaya di sila aware na may ibang jowa na si gurl. After nga nun mga bandang February 2023 umuwi na yung ate ko sa bahay kasi pinakiusapan nya si mama at nangako sya na tinapos na nya yung relasyon nila ni bruha dahil nga niloko sya at pinagpalit sa ibang shibuli. Pero dahil medyo shunga at puro alak nalang laman ng utak ng ate ko, konting iyak lang sa knya nung ex nyang haliparot binalikan nya na ung babae,na kesyo binubugbog daw at inaaway sya ng pinalit nyang tibo,masyado daw selosa at isip bata ung tibo na pinalit nya pati daw ung nanay nung shibuli is minamaltrato na din sya (classic pavictim style) ayun ang ending konting paawa lang, binalikan ulit ng ate ko ung babae, naging sila ulit at andito nanaman si gurl sa bahay na parang wala syang inagrabyado hahahaha alam mo yung tipong parang hindi sya nagrereflect sa actions nya, na tipong lahat ng tao need mag adjust sa knya kesyo "inaatake ng anxiety" ayan dinadahilan ni ate kesyo na trauma daw si gaga dun sa shibuli,ganyan sinabi nyang dahilan nun nung nag away kami ng ate ko kesyo "ina anxiety daw" kaya daw dapat hindi daw dapat ini-stress hahahaha taena bakit kami mag aadjust sa shota mong anak ni lucifer? Like wtf? Nasa mid 30's na yang shota mong usemanipulative b!*ch pero hindi mo maiwan para sa ano? Nanghihinayang kang iwan kasi may pinagsamahan na kayo?. Taena sana malaman ng ate ko na sobrang tanga nya sa part na yon, sasamahan lang naman sya ng babae na yan depende sa pakinabang sa knya e, sasamahan lang sya sa laklakan, sasamahan lang sya nyan sa paglulustay or pagwawaldas ng pera, sasamahan lang sya sa kadramahan (trauma plus trauma = drama & chaos) ni pagiging anak mo kay mama sinasantabi mo na pra sa babaeng yan samantalang si mama natatakbuhan mo kapag may problema ka specifically nung naospital ka, nung wala kang trabaho, nung pandemic na wala kang maayos na hanap buhay, nung nagkaproblema ka sa mata mo, nung wala kang pang requirements nung nag aapply ka, diba si mama yun lahat? Anong natulong ng karelasyon mong manggagamit? WALA! Kung meron man, di ganun kagrabe compare sa sakripisyo ni mama. Tapos sasabihin mong mismong pamilya mo yung nag cacause sayo ng stress??? hahahaha kaloka ewan sana hanggang pagtanda nyo damayan ka nyan, sana lang di ka nya ulit iwanan, sana lang di ka nyan ulit traydorin, sana lahat ng sakripisyo mo para sknya suklian nya lahat balang araw kasi for sure kaming pamilya mo mismo malayo na malayo na loob sayo kapag dumating na yung time na yon, kaya magipon ka ng pera para sa pagtanda mo, wala na din kaming ganang umalalay sayo after all the sh!ts na dinanas namin sayo/sainyo at sa mga kasinungalingan mo.
Sa mga nakakabasa neto, sana wag dumating sa punto na magpapakatanga kayo pra sa pagibig, sana wag dumating yung time na yung kakayahan nyong magisip at desisyon nang tama ay ma-cloud ng pagmamahal nyo para sa tao. Dahil it is never our duty na maging "rehab" "therapist" dhil may mga taong beyond repair, ika nga, we deserve what we tolerate. It is never my intention to judge someone based on their gender preferences. May mga kaibigan din akong part ng LGBTQIA and di nila deserve ma discriminate. Pero galit ako dun sa pagiging masokista ng ate ko, alam mo yung kahit sinaktan na sya at niloko pagbibigyan nya padin ng chance. Kahit inaabuso na sya nung bruha is G lang sya palagi, laging naka "Yes Master". Wala e sguro talagang karma na nila yung isa't isa, ang masama lang dun is nakaka agrabayado na din.
Pasensya na sa magulong istorya hahahaa eto Lang nakayanan ko hanggang ngayon gigil ako sa jowa ng ate ko gusto ko syang tirisin nang buhay pero bakit nga naman ako bababa masyado sa level nya, eh kakalait nya sakin, kakasilip nya masyado sa buhay ko, hindi rin naman sya umasenso 😂 ok bye 😅
2024.05.09 20:17 redditduk [MEGALIST] SG Concerts Gigs Raves - Till Vesak Day (10 - 23 May 2024)
Update 17 May: Sunday 19 May!
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10 May, Fri
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Sat, 11 May
- RADWIMPS WORLD TOUR 2024, Singapore Expo Hall 7, $168
- TesseracT (UK prog metal, djent), L5 @ GR.iD mall (selegie), $88
- Nancy Sit 薛家燕 & Friends - Mother’s Day Celebration 爱在心中母亲节演唱会, resort world sentosa, $118
- 'EK THA RAJA' BADSHAH LIVE IN SINGAPORE, Singapore Expo Hall 5, ft YUNG RAJA, $148
- Konsert Dato’ Jamal Abdillah Seniman Berjasa (G), The Star Vista Theatre (buona vista), $98
- Mediacorp GOLD 905’s Solid Gold Night, Simply Retro BaClub by Tin Box @ CHIJMES, $88
- 25 Years of Ska Love – Gerhana SKA Cinta - Timeless Rhythm (ska reggae rocksteady ska-punk), capitol theatre city hall, $68
- Indie HC: Destiny "To See Another Day" Release Show ft Doldrey, xdesterx, FUSE, Chaosphere, punk, old dm, hardcore gig, aliwal arts centre (kampong gelam, nicoll highway, $28
- Indie Rock Gig: BOY DINNER - Pines, Blindside, Bear the Remedy, Second Chance, Sound, Quitline, $20
- Indie Rock Gig: CTRL CHAOS, MONDA(E), INTERMISSION, Last Minute, Phil's Studio @ High Street Centre L3 (clarke quay/city hall), $15
- Music Matters Live Festival Schedule and the conference Creator Week
- Fountain Square Afternoon: DAY 4 - Adrian Dzvuke 🇦🇺, Dhruv Visvanath 🇮🇳, Jewel Owusu 🇦🇺 , Peej 🇵🇭, Eleanor Whisper 🇮🇩, RANGGA JONES , the center area of CQ @ clarke quay fountain square, free
- Fountain Square Night: Girls Night Out - MATILDE G, JHM (AU), JOYA (HK), Celine Wanyi (HK), Mali (IN), Nao Yoshioka (JP), Emma Dilemma (NZ), Marian Carmel
- Senor Taco Stage: DAY 3 - COUNT VERNON, Oliver Cronin 🇦🇺, Balu Brigada 🇳🇿, Teo Glacier🇳🇿 ), Señor Taco restaurant livehouse at CQ @ Clarke Quay, free
- HIPHOP RNB at IKI: Mic Check with Josh Makazo, Berywam 🇫🇷, ARlo Maverick 🇨🇦, Adrian Dzvuke 🇦🇺, Who Shot Scott 🇳🇿, club iki @ ikigai izakaya riverwalk (clarke quay), pop, R&B, afrobeats and hip-hop free
- It's a girl thing TALK: Singapore Edition - Inch Chua, Preeti Nair, Marian Carmel, Mali, JOYA, Matalie Dau et al., free with RSVP
- Singapore Chinese Orchestra: Mother‘s Day Concert 2024 母亲节音乐会 2024 - 慈母心 - Day 2 of 2 , Singapore Conference Hall @ 7 Shenton Way, $38
- Singapore Symphony Orchestra: SSO Symphony Ball 2024 - SSO Benefit, The Ritz-Carlton, Millenia Singapore, uh $10k
- Cool Cats: Jamie Aditya presents Funky Town (soul and funk) - day 3 of 3, nco club @ 32 beach rd (esplanade), $28
- Jazz Loft: JAPANESE FUSION WONDERLAND with Eric Lee and M.I.C, Blu Jaz L3 @ bali ln (bugis), $24,
- Maduro Jazz: Mellow Mixtape by Mila Vidanovic (soul jazz pop), maduro @ sofitel sentosa, $38++ drink credits
- Irish Music & Plays: Lasalle's Red Dot Green Dot 2024 - celebrating Ireland and Singapore culture, LASALLE college of the arts (rochor), $40
- Choral: Resonance of Singapore - Nonsensical Notes - Songs of Innocence by The ROS Singers, Yong Siew Toh Conservatory concert hall,, $17
Esplanade Pesta Raya Festival 11
- ES Theatre - Bawang Putih Bawang Merah by by Teater Ekamatra, Waterfront Theatre, $45 soldout
- ES Performances: Jalan Raya by Zarina Muhammad, in collaboration with local artists- Day 3 of 3, Annexe Studio, $22
- ES Music Kids: tikTOKtik – Children’s Storytelling by Kelana Purba, and folk songs, dikir barat, Indoor Concourse 230 345pm, free
- ES Music Kids: JUARA MIC JUNIOR di Pesta Raya by The Stars of JMJ, Outdoor Theater 3pm 415pme, free
- ES Dance: Mak Yong by Kumpulan Mak Yong Cahaya Matahari & PUSAKA, Waterfront Theatre Lawn 6pm, free
- ES Music: Sanggar Seni by Kelana Purba and Makyong Kedek (dikir barat), Courtyard 645pm, free
- ES Music: Nadi Singapura x Djangat - ethnic folk percussion and electronic soundscapes, Outdoor Theatre 7pm 815 930pm, free
- ES Music: Malam Balada by Zalelo & Fauzie Laily - M-pop ballads and raya hits , Indoor Concourse 730pm 830 930pm, free
Events & Parties 11
- DJ, [Intervention 5 feat. Gabber Modus Operandi 🇮🇩](Fetching Title#aokv, queer, Projector X Golden Village No Spoilers Box Office Bar @ Cineleisure Orchard L5 ,$22
- DJ, SHiOCK x Manifest - House of Mayhem with DJ IMX & Denz Devarez 🇳🇱🇿🇦 - ft Aphad & YZ, Wallich Manor Lounge @ Sofitel City Centre Hotel L6 (tg pagar), $15
- DJ 🏖, GrooveTop: Hip Hop Pool Party ft. Secret Pals, Durio & AKA Sounds, El Chido 1 Hill Street, Pullman Singapore (city hall), $25
- DJ, Flashback Saturday 90s & 2000s Hip Hop x RnB, Blu Jaz @ bali ln (bugis), $11
- Party Queer: SALUD - united by music - eurofashion, salud cocktail bar @ 19 keong saik rd (maxwell), $25
- DJ,🏖 Fuego Night: Afro Beach 5.0, Sand Bar 53 Siloso Beach Walk, $35
- DJ, Jugaad: The Revolution - Night Of Bollywood X Punjabi Bangers by Untamed, hard rock cafe cuscaden (orchard), $30
- Drag Party, [The KasiCunt Ball: Yin & Yang]((https://kasicuntball-2024.peatix.com/), MDLR club @ 62 cecil street (cbd), $58
- DJ, 10-11 May: Neil Conversion, Unleash pres. Unhinged - circuit party bar in sg, 43 Neil Road (maxwell), lgbt gay bar-club
- DJ, Zodiac Bar Night Party, gay bar at 50 prinsep st (bencoolen)
- DJ, Offtrack: Bongomann (deep house) and Sigmond Fn (aka fzpz), 34 North Canal Rd (bs hong lim park, clarke quay), music gastro bar
- DJ, Highh Club: ASSEMBLY MAYHEM @ Highh School, Highh Party @ Pan Pacific Hotel, 7 raffles blvd (esplanade, promenade), $20,
- DJ, HighHouse Fred E & XTVA (melodic techno & trance) , High House Rooftop Lounge 🗼@ 1 Raffles Place (old 1-altitude), $38
- DJ, NoSleepClub - Excessive heat ft DJs Moss and Nez Senja (rnb hiphop), No Sleep Club @ 20 Keong Saik Rd (outram/maxwell)
- DJ, Neon Pigeon - Mothers I’d Love To Feed., Neon Pigeon @ 36 Carpenter St (clarke quay)
Club Guest Performers 11
- DJ, ARK 11: AMBER NA 藍星蕾 (🇲🇾 chinese style edm) , ARK 11 Club @ Orchard Central Mall L11, IG 📸 $25
- DJ, .WAV(Y) Remixed Presents: DAVE NUNES (🇳🇱House, Afro, Baile Funk, and Amapiano) with PRAV, XG & KNRCK, Mortar & Pestle rooftop bar @ 269 South Bridge Rd, $27
- DJ, Tipsy Unicorn Lizzy Wang (🇨🇳Tech House) , tipsy unicorn beach club, $25
- DJ, ArtBeyond X CIEL: Electric Playa! Ft. Patrice Bäumel (🇩🇪 techno) & Guy Mantzur), Rumours Beach Club 🏖 @ 40 Siloso Bch Walk, Sentosa, $48
- DJ HQ: Thugshop Presents - UFO95 [LIVE, 🇧🇪 techno], headquarters techno-house club @ 66A boat quay, $36
12 May, Sun - Mother's Day
- Concert at Botanic Gardens: SSO Mother’s Day Concert 2024 by Singapore Symphony Orchestra, singapore botanic gardens, shaw foundation symphony stage, free
- Retro Rani by Mediacorp 968, orchid country club, ballroom (yishun), $89
- Indie Hiphop Rnb: PRIVATE FUNCTION 5 - Fahmy., Lucky Levi, SUBHAS, Martin Spacely, CHRISKRIS, BCKNIP, AE$OP CA$H, Phil's Studio @ High Street Centre L3 (clarke quay/city hall), $16
- Indie Screamo, HC Grind Gig: ANGUISH IS FOR LOVER - 🇲🇾: TERDERITHA , Dasawarsa, Rugh, 🇸🇬: ANJING, Mordhau, C.A.S.S (Tibetan Punk Band) , moved to rad studio 345, $20
- Crust Punk: Subconscious (🇮🇩 Batam crust) ft Istilah, Vitriol, Topsy Turvy, lithe style (house) near rochor mrt, $20
- Jazzy Ukulele Mother's Day with Daniel Purnomo & Fabian Lee, Crane OCBC at Wisma Atria Orchard, $10 to $30
- SOTA Wind Ensemble x Dunman High Symphonic Band: Where the Sky Meets the Sea, Victoria Concert Hall, $10
- Choral: Songs From Our Childhood - an educational programme by The ROS Singers, National Library Building, Level 1, Lobby, free, dont worry if registrations are full - its open
- Strings & Melodies: A Family Musical Adventure with violinist Alexander Suptel and Alexandra Novicova, At 36/38 Armenian Street, $58 for 2
- Indie Theatre - Ancient Music Songs: An Open Work Session & Dialogue with Thomas Richards, Centre 42 at 42Waterloo Street, $20
- The Projector Cineleisure Orchard: Mother's Day w The Staircase Duo (pop, rock, acoustic), Projector X Golden Village No Spoilers Box Office Bar @ Cineleisure Orchard L5
- Indie Rock Math Pop Gig: Amberhill Motion & Bloom - Album Launch ft MAXIME & ELO ELO, Esplanade Recital Studio, tix 🎟 $25
Esplanade - Pesta Raya Malay Festival Last
- ES Music: Hidup Pop Yeh Yeh! (Long Live Pop Yeh Yeh!) by Dato’ Jeffrydin, Dato’ L. Ramli, S. Mariam & Masdo 🇲🇾, Concert Hall 8pm, $40
- ES Music: Dangdut Koplo Extravaganza! by Ochi Alvira & Syahiba Saufa 🇮🇩, Annexe Studio 5pm 8pm, $40 soldout
- ES Folk Music and Kids Storytelling: tikTOKtik – Children’s Storytelling by Kelana Purba, Indoor Concourse 230 345pm, free
- ES Music Children's: JUARA MIC JUNIOR di Pesta Raya by The Stars of JMJ, Outdoor Theatre 3pm 415pm, free
- ES Dance: Mak Yong by Kumpulan Mak Yong Cahaya Matahari & PUSAKA, Waterfront Theatre Lawn 6pm, free
- ES Music: Irama Nostalgia with Angklung Empire, Indoor Concourse 630 730pm, free
- ES Music: Sanggar Seni by Kelana Purba and Makyong Kedek, Courtyard 640pm, free
- ES: The Cliffters with The Impian Batiks (60s band, malay, english songs) , Outdoor Theatre 7pm 815pm, free
- OTHERS
- Wanna Dance 2024: On Broadway - jazz, tap, ballet, contemporary, musical theatre - by Jitterbugs, Kreta Ayer People's Theatre (maxwell, chinatown), $55
- DJ Party and Market: Slow Sundays Vol. 6 - Bring Your Own Mom BYOM, DJs Bongomann, Tasha, Tyler Made, FatCatHeartAttack & the 5210 PM Crew - Loyboy, LTLX, Juhvunnn, Tanglin Gin Jungle at Dempsey Hill, 26B Dempsey Rd (napier), free/bar
- DJ, Afro-Cuban Domingos ft DJ Yuma & DJ Cam, at Ziggy Zaggy 51 Kampong Bugis (kallang riverside)
13 May, Mon
- elijah woods : ilu 24/7, 365 tour, ESPLANADE Annexe Studio, $108
- Esplanade: Ebony & Ivory with Erwin Angullia featuring Nur Umairah on vocals (80s contemporary & movies, jazz-pop) Day 1 , Indoor Concourse, free
- Sonic Explorations - a collaboration with Eunoia JC MEP and What the Forte (contemporary, classical), Eunoia Junior College (bright hill), free
14 May, Tue
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Other Arts Events
- Till 9 Jun Musical: Hamilton by Lin-Manuel Miranda, marina bay sands, $80
- Festival 25 Apr- 26 May: Voilah! France Singapore Festival, various
- Festival 1 - 25 May: Singapore HeritageFest 2024
- 16-26 May: Theatre: Paradise or the Impermanence of Ice Cream by Singapore Repertory Theatre aka STC (Advisory - Some Mature Content), KC Arts Centre - Home of STC, $53
- 16-25 May: Theatre - I and You by Lauren Gunderson (G), Gateway Theatre Bukit Merah, $35
- 18-26 May Kids Chinese Theatre - 《小问号和探险家》The wee Question Mark and the Adventurer, 54 Waterloo Street (bras basah), $34
- 23-25 May: Indie Theatre: William Shakespeare's Twelfth Night, The Artground at Goodman Arts Centre (mountbatten mrt), $27
- 23-26 May: Kids Ballet - Peter & Blue's Treasure Hunt 2024 Presented by Singapore Ballet (G), School of The Arts (SOTA) Studio Theatre (bencoolen, dhoby ghaut), $35
- 10 May - 22 Sep Exhibition - Olafur Eliasson: Your curious journey, Singapore Art Museum (SAM) at Tanjong Pagar Distripark, tix 🎟 from $12
- 11-18 May: Fine Art Exhibition - Nanyang Academy of Fine Arts - Our BA (Hons) Fine Art graduating cohort, The Ngee Ann Kongsi Galleries, NAFA Campus 1, free
- Ended: Comedic Theatre - God of Carnage, Drama Centre Black Box @ national library (bugis), $30
- Ended: Teochew Opera - The Pawned Wife 典妻 by Nam Hwa Opera, SCCC Auditorium @ 1 Straits Blvd (shenton way), $10
- Ended: Theatre - Backstage Betrayal, A Crack the Case Mystery (Some Mature Content), KC Arts Centre @ 20 Merbau Rd, $68
- 17 May (Fri) 1st Sex-Positive Comedy Show in Singapore, Phil's Studio @ High Street Centre L3 (clarke quay/city hall), $27
- 17 May: Dance: TARI 24: GETARAN JIWA by Atrika Dance Company, national library drama centre L5 (bugis), $32
- ==18 May (Sat): Fanny Ruwet à Singapour le 18 mai 2024, Alliance Française Singapore (newton mrt), $67==
- 18 May: Comedy - Noted With Thanks by Kuah Jenhan, wild rice @ funan (city hall), $38
- 18 May: One @ the Ballet - A Passion to Dance, Singapore Ballet at Bugis+ Mall L7, $20
- 18 May: Improv Comedy - THE SPEAKERS CORNER by RPM Studios, The Improv Company (The Den) at 62B south bridge rd (clarke quay), $22,
- 18 May: Standup Comedy - Dev Ready, The Lemon Stand Comedy Bar at Hotel Royal @ Queens (bras basah), $32
- 18 May: Objectifs Photography Opening: The Yearning for Harmony by Full-time farmer in Japan, part-time photographer, Ryhan M.Y., info
- 21 May: The Ladyboss presents- STRANGERS IN-SYNC: Night of Comedy! , Monk's Brew Club at 57 East Coast Road Singapore,
- Till 31 May DJ, ARK11 Club Complementary Entry for all Moms, @ Orchard Central Mall L11
17 May, Fri - Start of Singapore International Festival of Arts (SIFA 2024)
- Arch Enemy (melodic death metal, melodeath) - Deceivers Asia Tour 2024 in Singapore, Scape Orchard, The Ground Theatre (somerset mrt), $118
- SCO: Young Children's Concert 2024 儿童音乐会 2024 - Karung Guni Boy by Singapore Chinese Orchestra - Day 1 of 2 , Singapore Conference Hall @ 7 Shenton Way, $20
- SSO: Chamber: Smetana and Dvořák by Singapore Symphony Orchestra, Victoria Concert Hall, $20
- Reggae Remedy : WITH SURPRISE GUEST (Ska, Rocksteady, Dancehall & Reggae), el pico at 6 Hongkong St (clarke quay), free
- Crust Punk Show: bastarddestroyer (ID), deviare, afterdeath, cass, topsy turvy, rad stuido 345, $10
- NLB: Diabetic Duo (Amanda Ong & Sope) - Open Stage Originals - singer-songwriter duo, folk soul, alt-pop, National Library Building, Level 1 Lobby, free, dont worry about registration its open
- Tribute: Some Might Say Oasis, molly malone's irish pub @ 56 circular rd (raffles place, boat quay)
- Cool Cats: Rai Maia presents Soul Sessions (neo-soul hiphop) - day 2 of 3, nco club @ 32 beach rd (esplanade), $28
- Maduro Jazz: A Classical Aftertaste with The David Loke Trio ft Charmaine Teo & Hang Oh, maduro @ sofitel sentosa, $38++ drink credits
- Candlelight: Film Scores at RWS S.E.A. Aquarium w Vocalise String Quartet, S.E.A. Aquarium Sentosa, $73
Esplanade
- ES Music: Danny Koh (50s to 70s pop, jazz pop), Indoor Concourse, 645 745pm, free
- ES Music: Rock Weekender Bender: Pennylane (80s, rearranged tunes), Outdoor Theatre, 715pm 845pm free
- ES Theatre: Moby Dick by Plexus Polaire - mutimedia theatre, puppets & live music - Day 1 of 2, SIFA 2024, Waterfront Theatre, $38
SIFA 2024
- Theatre/Multimedia AI: Una Isla by Agrupación Señor Serrano (ES) - 1 of 2, SOTA Drama Theatre (bencoolen, dhoby), $38
- Theatre: DIDO AND AENEAS - a riotous reimagination of Henry Purcell's timeless opera by T:>Works (SG) - 1 of 2 , stamford arts centre at 155 waterloo st (bugis), free but $20 refundable deposit
- Theatre & Puppetry: Remember My Party by The Finger Players - 1 of 2, stamford arts centre at 155 waterloo st (bugis), free but $20 refundable deposit
- Theatre: Waiting For Audience《等待观众》by Nine Years Theatre (SG) - 1 of 2, stamford arts centre at 155 waterloo st (bugis), free but $20 refundable deposit
- School Events
- Temasek Poly Theatre:Teatrofest 2024: The Good Person Of Szechwan - 1 of 2, Temasek Polytechnic (tampines west), $6
- ==ACSI Symphonic Band & Wind Ensemble Around the World, ACS(I) Centre for Performing ARts 2, $12==
- ITE College Central Theatre: ITE Theatrical Ensemble presents : Normal #11 , 2 Ang Mo Kio Dr, $10
- Eunoia JC Rock: EPHEMERAL, At Eunoia Junior College 2 Sin Ming Place (bright hill), free
Event Theme Nights
- DJ, Offtrack: Ramesh - global grooves, 34 North Canal Rd (bs hong lim park, clarke quay), music gastro bar
- DJ Club Hell: Exhibitionist in Hell, gay lgbt club @ 113 telok ayer st
- DRAG, Tuckshop: NYMPHIA WIND meet n greet, 51 Neil Road, $68 doors only
- Main Party: Nymphia Wind - House of Wind x Tuckstop, Projector X Golden Village No Spoilers Box Office Bar @ Cineleisure Orchard L5
- DJ, W Sentosa Cove: DJ Matty
- DJ, High House: HIGH FIDELITY Session #1 ft. AOSWith Andrew T & Julian Quintero, High House Rooftop Lounge 🗼@ 1 Raffles Place (old 1-altitude), $38
- DJ, Blu Jaz: Back To The 2000s (Hip Hop x RnB x Pop) , Blu Jaz @ bali ln (bugis), $10
- ==DJ, Potato Head: James Selva. 36 Keong Saik Rd, bistro bar==
- DJ, MUGIC with Black Pomade (🇵🇹🇮🇹 PT-IT) ft Halal Sol, Projector X Golden Village Ruby Lounge @ Cineleisure Orchard L6, $37
Club Guest Performers
- DJ, HOSPITALITY 2024 feat. P MONEY x WHINEY & ANAЇS (UK 🇬🇧) - Kings of Bass with Hospital Records (the UK DNB label), MDLR club @ 62 cecil street (cbd, tpi building), IG 📸) $37
- DJ, Celestial Seasonings: 1st Anniversary with Aldonna (AU 🇦🇺) ft Miss Lil, JAS, and 3MZY., tuff club @ 138 robinson rd cbd, $37
- DJ, Drip: Posh Singapore edm techno pop with DJs tajima, ling, belle, drip club @ 100 Orchard Rd Concorde Hotel, tix 🎟, $30
- DJ, XclusiV Club Xtra Special Event - DJ NADD & DJ KIDD & SAN, Xclusiv (XV) asian Restaurant Club (fmr. Prism) @ marina square, S039594, $30
- DJ, Marquee: Marquee Utopia - trance & future rave night, marquee nightclub @ marina bay sands shoppes, $20
- DJ, Zouk Phuture: EATS EVERYTHING (UK 🇬🇧 deep tech house), zouk phuture club @ clarke quay, IG 📸 $48
- DJ, Zouk: Mambo Jambo (70s 80s disco boogie night), $35
18 May, Sat
- Power Station 动力火车 - 「都是因为爱」世界巡回演唱会, indoor stadium, from $138
- Jazz It Up! A Jazzy Celebration of Chinese Songs 2024 爵士也华彩 2024 - Day 1 of 2 - ft Teresa Carpio (杜丽莎), Wysom Wong (黃偉深), Serene Koong (龚芝怡), Jazz Association Singapore, SCCC Auditorium @ 1 Straits Blvd (shenton way), IG 📸 $48
- CAPITAL 958 唱FUN天 (G) - Day 1 of 2, the theatre @ mediacorp (one-north), $38
- SCO: Young Children's Concert 2024 儿童音乐会 2024 - Karung Guni Boy by Singapore Chinese Orchestra - Day 2 of 2 , Singapore Conference Hall @ 7 Shenton Way, $20
- SG Music: TRIFECTA Backyard sessions - Charlie Lim, Shye, Tengy, Regina Song (pop, rock, rnb) and DJ set by Culture, IG Set Times📸, TRIFECTA - Surf, Snow, Skate Park (at Somerset MRT skate park), free
- Indie Hiphop & Rock & DJs: G-Town Presents: That's What I Call Open House - Live Hip Hop collectives Leftmind, Sappy Chill x Reptile Skin Business Club, Grungy Alt Rock with Bellied Star, DJS HZQ, El Professionel, Sadat, Nez Senja, Intermission Bar @ the projector golden mile tower (indie cinema, nicoll hwy mrt), feat. Mediocre Haircut Crew, Mars B, Fariz Jabba, Abangsapau, Sharbil, Boonbakes, Infra.24, Fauxe, Naztykeys, Fandy Razak, Big Mat, Tengy & Leftmind's Shane 2 Sweet , Kzy , Acapslim , Opus Renegade and Zimmy E., IG 📸 $20
- Indie Emo Pop Punk Gig: Sad Boy Hours Emo Night - Pillow Head, Circle Line Kid x Last Minute, A Letter You'll Never Read, DJ TheSoundofAlvin, Tonehouse Studio at Parklane Shopping Mall (bencoolen) L3 , IG 📸 $15
- Indie Synth Electronic - Hyper Highways by Synth Commune insp. by Nam June Paik - PolyBlank, Bokeh Fields, Falling Islands, Microchip Terror, Darts Legend @ One North, 20 Ayer Rajah Crescent, IG 📸 $7
- Indie Open Mic: INDIGO SCALES Open Mic Night - Melodies under the Stars, little island brewing co @ south beach (esplanade mrt, opp suntec convention)
- Wisma Geylang Serai Senandung Rock Jiwa Retak - thje competition, Wisma Geylang Serai (the Geylang Serai CC at Paya Lebar MRT) L1, free
- Cool Cats: Rai Maia presents Soul Sessions (neo-soul hiphop) - day 3 of 3, nco club @ 32 beach rd (esplanade), $28
- NLB Talk: Music Talk: The Play-by-Ear & Sight-Reading Divide in music learning and making., National Library (bugis) Lobby, Level 1, *free, its the public area *
- NTU A Cappella: NTU Harmonix's Story of My Life, Ngee Ann Polytechnic Music Box 535 clementi rd (king albert pk), $22
- NTU Jam Bands - Rocking In The North '24: Dream On - bands of North Hill Halls, Phil's Studio @ High Street Centre L3 (clarke quay/city hall), IG 📸 $7
- NUS Rock Bands: Amplitube by NUS Amplified, ESPLANADE Annexe Studio, IG 📸 $15
Esplanade
- ES: songs on my floppy disk by Krysta Joy (singer songwriter), Indoor Concourse 545 645 745pm, free
- ES Music: Across the Golden Era - A Tribute to Hong Kong Movies & TV Series by The Mashed Ups, Outdoor Theatre 630 8pm 930pm, free
- ES Theatre: Moby Dick by Plexus Polaire - mutimedia theatre, puppets & live music - Day 2 of 2, SIFA 2024, Waterfront Theatre, $38
SIFA 2024
- Theatre/Multimedia AI: Una Isla by Agrupación Señor Serrano (ES) - 1 of 2, SOTA Drama Theatre (bencoolen, dhoby), $38
- Music Performances at Stamford Arts Center @ 155 Waterloo St (bugis):
- 1 - 145 pm: Suhaili
- 3 -4 pm, 5-6pm: Sonic Escapade with Micheal Spicer, Deborah Tan, Lydia Ang & Zheng Jie (improv avant garde eastern & western, from new age folk to industrial post-rock)
- 7-730pm: Tetradics with Ridwan Ramli, Khairil Shazwan, Khoiriyyatun Sabila & Hanisah Tan (malay trad drums)
- 8-830, 930-10pm: NUS Fingerstyle Guitar Ensemble
- 8-830, 930-10pm: The Harp Quarterly with Karen Tay & Nigel Foo
- THEATRE AT STAMFORD ARTS CENTRE @ 155 waterloo st (bugis), ALL FREE but $20 refundable deposit
- Theatre: Work In Progress by Dramabox (SG) - 1 of 2
- Theatre: ANAK by The Necessary Stage (SG) - 1 of 2
- Theatre: The Radicalisation of Mrs Mary Lim-Rodrigues by Michelle Tan, Centre 42 (SG) - 1 of 2
- Theatre: DIDO AND AENEAS - a riotous reimagination of Henry Purcell's timeless opera by T:>Works (SG) - 2 of 2
- Theatre & Puppetry: Remember My Party by The Finger Players - 2 of 2
- Theatre: Waiting For Audience《等待观众》by Nine Years Theatre (SG) - 2 of 2
- Dance: The Romeo by Trajal Harrell (US/CH) - 1 of 2 w special post show talk, Victoria Concert Hall, $38
- Others
- Chinese Drama Performance by Hua Yi Secondary at Jurong West Public Library, Storytelling corner (children's section), free
- Methodist Girls' School Festival of Arts – Kizuna (Drama, International and Indian Dance), NUS University Cultural Centre Theatre, $30
- Blackbird: Flash Mobsta, Rock Rosettes, DJ Maverick, Blackbird Music Bar @ Gillman Barracks (labrador park),
Event Theme Nights
- Wellness and DJ Party Immersion by Wild Pearl - BIG SPLASH with Yoga Movement & Rumours Beach, Rumours Beach Club 🏖 @ 40 Siloso Bch Walk, Sentosa, IG 📸 $37
- DJ, Wallich: The Adults Are Dancing ft DJs Lincey & Fantastic Dinosaur, Wallich Manor Lounge @ Sofitel City Centre Hotel L6 (tg pagar), IG 📸 $22
- DJ Moonstone: WILD FYAH - An Afrobeats Reggae Party with DJ Rumshot & Cynan, Moonstone BAR @ 103 Amoy St
- DJ, One Crew Dj pres. The Calm Before The Storm (Indian event) , Drinq Bar @ Grantral Mall (tai seng), $35
- DJ, Offtrack: Daryl Knows & Kevin Sy (disco house baeleric), 34 North Canal Rd (bs hong lim park, clarke quay), music gastro bar
- DJ, iki: Latino Anthem (Reggaeton x Latin Pop), club iki @ ikigai izakaya riverwalk (clarke quay), doors
- Drag Cabaret DJ, QABARET Bareback to the 80s!, 🏳️🌈 Projector X Golden Village No Spoilers Box Office Bar @ Cineleisure Orchard L5, IG 📸 $40
- DJ, Club Hell: Divas in Hell, 🏳️🌈 gay lgbt club @ 113 telok ayer st, $30
- DJ & Live, LE Party @ SG (LGBT Gathering) - DJ Vanvanz & Inhouse Live Band , 🏳️🌈 CT Hub @ Kallang, $43
- DJ, W Hotel Sentosa Cove Leland
- DJ, Disco Night with DJ Titus, TA Community - the singapore Swedish Cafe at 594 Serangoon Rd, free
- DJ, HighHouse: Melodic Techno & Trance - DJs Fred E & Vanan M, High House Rooftop Lounge 🗼@ 1 Raffles Place (old 1-altitude), $38
- DJ, 🏖 Sand Bar: Sunset Saturday, Sand Bar 🏖 @ 53 Siloso Beach Walk, Sentosa
- DJ, 🏖 Manifest Pool Party - Dr Whyte + Himmat + Gifted Fire (LIVE SET) + James S + Mikki S (house n techno), 1-Altitude Coast 🗼@ The Outpost Hotel Sentosa, IG 📸 $43
Club Guest Performer
- DJ, Behind the Green Door: Anthony Middleton (🇬🇧 house, Audiofly), Behind the Green Door @ 97 Duxton Road (maxwell), tix 🎟, $35
- DJ, Marquee: Marquee Rising ft DJ Kiara 🇸🇬, marquee nightclub @ marina bay sands shoppes, $20
- DJ, Drip, Dreamfellas Presents: CLOUT, drip club @ 100 Orchard Rd Concorde Hotel, $27
- DJ, Bollywood Club X pres. KALA CHASHMA, hard rock cafe cuscaden (orchard), $29
- DJ, Zouk: One Dance, Total Recall, Slime Hiphop, zouk clarke quay
- DJ, Ce La Vi: BIG NITE OUT! feat. NAKADIA 🇹🇭 & OSCAR L 🇪🇸 (techno & house), marina bay sands hotel rooftop bar-club 🗼, $38
- DJ, MODAL presents MODE09 feat. Tommy Four Seven (🇬🇧 techno), MDLR club @ 62 cecil street (cbd) L2, $37
19 May, Sun
- VCHpresents Chamber: The Pavel Haas Quartet 🇨🇿, Victoria Concert Hall, $20
- Jazz It Up! A Jazzy Celebration of Chinese Songs 2024 爵士也华彩 2024 - Day 2 of 2 - ft Teresa Carpio (杜丽莎), Wysom Wong (黃偉深), Serene Koong (龚芝怡), Jazz Association Singapore, SCCC Auditorium @ 1 Straits Blvd (shenton way), $48
- Vocabella Ladies Choir: Lux et Amor - featuring Dan Forrest's Lux: The Dawn From on High and local compositions., School of the Arts (bencoolen/dhoby), $32
- Mus'Art Youth Wind Orchestra: Extravadanza - Music of Dance - band classics such as El Camino Real to pop favourites like Michael Jackson, NUS Yong Siew Toh Conservatory main concert hall L1, $15
- Victoria School Chinese Orchestra : A MUSICAL JOURNEY IV (G), Singapore Conference Hall @ 7 Shenton Way, $15
- Jazz Loft: Sunday Jam Session , The Jazz Loft @ Blu Jaz Cafe L3, free
- Blackbird: New Stream Brass Band, Blackbird Music Bar @ Gillman Barracks (labrador park)
Esplanade:
- ES: Theophilus Tan - Spring: Your Curated Experience by Musicians’s Initiative (plays Tchaikovsky, Schumann) , ESPLANADE Recital Studio, $32
- ES: Rock Weekender Bender: Heritage - songs by Allman Brothers, The Who, Pink Floyd, Eric Clapton, and many more!, outdoor theatre 715 845pm, free
- ES: Sweet Sunday Sounds (60s – ‘80s) with Izzathy & Shukor, Indoor Concourse, 545 645 745pm, free
SIFA 2024
- ESPLANADE Workshop: The Double Presence of Performer and Puppet: Workshop with Plexus Polaire, , Esplanade Rehearsal Studio, $38
- Workshop: The choreographic world of Trajal Harrell: Workshop with Ondrej Vidlar, NAFA Campus 1 (bencoolen), $28
- THEATRE AT STAMFORD ARTS CENTRE @ 155 waterloo st (bugis), ALL FREE but $20 refundable deposit
- DJ, Drip Pool Party V16 - Hip Hop R&B Latin Hits, Afrobeats - DJ Ange, Shai, K Faith, voco Orchard Hotel 581 Orchard Road, $26
Monday Soon....
I am on telegram: search sg music chat or visit t.me/sgmusicchat2024.05.08 02:52 bigbang032 May friend na makulit mangutang
This is about my past colleague na naging close friend ko, and isa sa mga naghelp noong nagka family problem, and financial crisis ako before. Out of utang na loob ay napahiram ko sya ng medyo malaking amount, pambayaf ng credit card debts nya kasi mataas na interest. Last 2020, pandemic days, napahiram ko sya ng money na dapat ay budget ko my upcoming wedding that time. Usapan ay ibabalik nya after few months pero 2 years bago nya naisettle ng buo. Kahit nasa Manila kami parehas ay di na din kami nagmemeet. Last meet up namin ay year 2019 pa.
I went back sa old job ko which offers a better income. Last year, nagstart sya manghiram na naman. Binabayaran naman nya on time kaso natrigger na inis ko dahil mas on time pa sya magmessage, kaysa sa monthly period ko. Kapag di umuubra ang drama nya na malaking amount ay umaabot na sya sa pangungulit kahit 5k nalang daw.
Madami na din sya naging drama, na sa totoo lang ay na disappoint na ako sa kanya. Umabot na sya kasi sa dinahilan nya namatay stepmom nya pero may post sa fb na kakadine out lang with her family. Minsan din naidahilan ko na wala akong pera at ang hawak ko lang ay budget ko pangfood this month pero, pati iyon desperate sya hiramin.
Sinasabi nya pasensya na at ako lang daw nalalapitan nya. Pero nalaman ko halos lahat pala kami mga friends,and dati nyang colleagues eh hinihiraman nya na. Ang hinala ko ay nagkanda loko loko ang mga sideline nila ng asawa nya na nagpapautang sila with interest. Palagi kasi nya dahilan na wala aalaga sa nagaaral na anak nila kaya di nya mapag work muna asawa nya.
Umabot na ako sa point dati na nagdeactivate ng FB para di nya makulit. Nagwoworry ako sa kanya pero nakakatakot kamustahin dahil baka magdrama na naman at magtry umutang. Nakuha na nya kasi inis ko nung Jan 1 eh nagmessage na uutang.
Ilang months na dinedecline ko na sya pero recently, nangungutang na naman. Nag advice na ako na baka coop ng company nila ay pwede makahelp sa kanya.
Totoo talaga na habang tumatanda, iilan nalang ang mga friends na pwede ikeep.
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I went back sa old job ko which offers a better income. Last year, nagstart sya manghiram na naman. Binabayaran naman nya on time kaso natrigger na inis ko dahil mas on time pa sya magmessage, kaysa sa monthly period ko. Kapag di umuubra ang drama nya na malaking amount ay umaabot na sya sa pangungulit kahit 5k nalang daw.
Madami na din sya naging drama, na sa totoo lang ay na disappoint na ako sa kanya. Umabot na sya kasi sa dinahilan nya namatay stepmom nya pero may post sa fb na kakadine out lang with her family. Minsan din naidahilan ko na wala akong pera at ang hawak ko lang ay budget ko pangfood this month pero, pati iyon desperate sya hiramin.
Sinasabi nya pasensya na at ako lang daw nalalapitan nya. Pero nalaman ko halos lahat pala kami mga friends,and dati nyang colleagues eh hinihiraman nya na. Ang hinala ko ay nagkanda loko loko ang mga sideline nila ng asawa nya na nagpapautang sila with interest. Palagi kasi nya dahilan na wala aalaga sa nagaaral na anak nila kaya di nya mapag work muna asawa nya.
Umabot na ako sa point dati na nagdeactivate ng FB para di nya makulit. Nagwoworry ako sa kanya pero nakakatakot kamustahin dahil baka magdrama na naman at magtry umutang. Nakuha na nya kasi inis ko nung Jan 1 eh nagmessage na uutang.
Ilang months na dinedecline ko na sya pero recently, nangungutang na naman. Nag advice na ako na baka coop ng company nila ay pwede makahelp sa kanya.
Totoo talaga na habang tumatanda, iilan nalang ang mga friends na pwede ikeep.
2024.05.07 11:37 Brilliant-Chard-9281 Tama ba ang desisyon ko?
Una sa lahat, magsosorry na agad ako if magiging magulo ang pagkwento ko nito. HAHAHAHAHA AT MAHABA TONG KWENTO KO KAYA SORRY NA HAHAHAHA
Me (F 24) & my partner (M 26) ay hiwalay ngayon ng tirahan sa kadahilanang hindi maiwan ng partner ko ang papa niya kasi gusto nya raw makabawi sa papa nya..
Bigyan ko narin kayo ng onting background saming mag partner, meron kaming isang anak, nasa puder ko ngayon ang anak ko kasi obviously walang mag aalaga sakanya doon kasi working ang partner ko at may katandaan narin po ang papa nya (60 yrs old).
Pinili kong umuwi dito sa mama & lola ko dahil hindi na kinakaya ng stress ko ang mga nangyari doon simula nung lumipat kami doon sa bahay nila last yr november.
Nov. last yr ako at partner ko lang kasi ang anak ko iniwan ko muna sa mama ko para makapag work kami parehas. Ang kasama namin doon is ate niya.
Onting backgroud ulit, may 3 syang half sister. yung Panganay (ate 1) ang nagdecide na bumalik kami doon sa haus nila kasi si bunso (ate 3) is hindi “raw” umuuwi doon palagi sa haus nila (nabalitaan kasi nilang may jowa syang shibuli)..
So parang pinagkatiwala nila samin yung bahay kasi slam nilang maaalagaan ulit kasi andiyan ako, maaalagaan at malilinisan ulit yung bahay.. So fast forward smooth sailing naman kaming tatlo sa bahay at totoo ngang di sya always umuuwi dito sa bahay kasi nakikitulog sya doon sa dorm nung shibuli.
Nagbago ang lahat nung sinabi ni Ate 1 sa papa nila na si Ate 3 is may jowang shibuli at hindi laging umuuwi dito sa bahay kaya yung ichura ng bahay nila magulo at alam mong parang inabandona kasi hindi laging nagkakaroon ng tao sa bahay. Wag kayong maiinis kay ate 1 kung bat nya sinabi, hindi kasi sya umuwi ng bahay nung nagbakasyon don saglit ang papa nila dahil nakainom at doon natulog sa dorm. Napilitan na sabihin ni ate 1 para hindi narin mag alala at maconfuse ang papa nila..
Maraming nangyri after ng confession na yon.. Naging mailap na samin si ate 3 at mas tumatagal yung araw na hindi sya umuuwi sa bahay pati ang ugali at pakikitungo nya samin nag iba narin..
Pero nakisama parin kami ng maayos sakanya kasi nirerespeto namin sya bilang ate.. Fast forward february madalang na ang uwi ni ate 3 sa bahay, nagtataka na kami kasi hindi na sya nagsasabi sa partner ko na hindi na muna sya uuwi.. not until nabalitaan nalang namin na yung shibuli nagpaalam doon sa work na hindi papasok kasi maglilipat daw ng bahay (doon na kami nagkaroon ng clue na baka bubukod na si ate 3 kasi magreretire na yung papa nila by march) then one day nagchat sakin si ate 3 na pagbukasan syang gate kasi malapit na raw sya sa bahay..
Naghakot sya ng gamit nya kasi nakalipat daw sila ng bahay.. hinayaan na namin kasi mukhang yun naman talaga gusto nya yung may freedom sya.. fast forward march na andito narin ang papa nila bale ang kasama ko na sa bahay is partner, papa niya at yung anak namin (btw december palang kinuha na namin anak ko kay mama kasi nagresign nako sa work) so ang routine doon is ako talaga luto, taga hugas at tagalinis ng bahay (yung typical na household chores ako ng gumagawa plus yung anak ko) tapos ako rin ang taga bili ng mga ipapamalengke para pang ulam namin araw araw, malapit lang naman yung palengke doon sa bahay nila pero nakakapagod kasi almost everyday akong bumibili doon tas pag uwi luto ko pa at hugas ko :(
Nung una ok pa ang lahat natitiis ko pa kahit na andaming nangyari magmula nung bumalik kami sakanila kasi ngathankful lang ako na wala kaming binabayaran na upa kundi bill lang tas food namin.. pero napuno ako nung minsan na naputulan kami ng tubig dahil hindi pala nagbabayad si ate 3 ng bill sa water from december up until march (nung kasama pa kasi namin sya nag insist syang magbabayad ng water bill) walang tumulong sa partner kong magbayad non, ni isa sa family member walang nag insist na tulungan sya! Kaya sagad na yung pasensya ko kasi kita ko talaga na wala silang pake panay lang ang hingi ng pasensya ni ate 1 samin dahil sa kagagawan ni ate 3. Kaya naubos pasensya ko kasi sa lahat ng perwisyo na binigay nya samin magmula nung bumalik kami sa bahay nila panay lang sila hingi ng pasensya. Walang accountability kaya nag spend ako ng mahal na araw sa mama ko kasi sobrang sama ng loob ko.
Fast forward bumalik na ako doon sa babay after mahal na araw. Same routine same shit pero this time nananawa nako sa nangyayari kasi alam kong wala akong maaasahan kundi sarili ko lang.. May mga times na umiiyak ako kasi bakit ako nadadamay sa drama nilang family na dapat hindi naman kasi labas na ako doon eh, pero kami sumalo ng partner ko kasi walang ginagawa yung ibang ate ni partner.. Grabe yung stress, pagod at iyak ko doonsa araw araw kasi nakikisama ako.. Ang laki ng pinayat ko gawa ng stress at wala kaming privacy mag asawa kasi sobrang liit ng bahay nila tipong pagpasok mo sala-kusina tas kwarto na.. tiniis ko ang ganong set up ng 5 buwan pero di nako nakatiis at umuwi nako dito sa mama ko kasi naaawa narin ang mama ko sa sitwasyon ko, sya na mismo ang humikayat sakin na umuwi na dito dahil baka hindi na raw kayanin ng katawan ko ang stress at magkasakit nanaman ako, kawawa daw ang anak ko if magkakasakit ako kasi walang mag aalaga sa baby ko..
Sa ngayon nag usap kami ng partner ko and i can say na talagang ayaw nya unuwi dito kasi ayaw nya iwan yung papa niya. (btw malakas pa ang papa niya kayang kaya pa gumawa ng household chores at walang malalang sakit bukod sa diabetic sya) may maiiwan naman doon sa papa nya yung nakababata nyang kapatid na uuwi na doon next month. Napagusapan din namin na pag may work nako i think maghihiwalay na kami (di kami kasal btw) hindi niya na kasi ako mapipilit pang umuwi doon not unless nakabukod kami.
Tama lang ba ang desisyon ko na umuwi nalang dito samin for the sake of my health and sanity?
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Me (F 24) & my partner (M 26) ay hiwalay ngayon ng tirahan sa kadahilanang hindi maiwan ng partner ko ang papa niya kasi gusto nya raw makabawi sa papa nya..
Bigyan ko narin kayo ng onting background saming mag partner, meron kaming isang anak, nasa puder ko ngayon ang anak ko kasi obviously walang mag aalaga sakanya doon kasi working ang partner ko at may katandaan narin po ang papa nya (60 yrs old).
Pinili kong umuwi dito sa mama & lola ko dahil hindi na kinakaya ng stress ko ang mga nangyari doon simula nung lumipat kami doon sa bahay nila last yr november.
Nov. last yr ako at partner ko lang kasi ang anak ko iniwan ko muna sa mama ko para makapag work kami parehas. Ang kasama namin doon is ate niya.
Onting backgroud ulit, may 3 syang half sister. yung Panganay (ate 1) ang nagdecide na bumalik kami doon sa haus nila kasi si bunso (ate 3) is hindi “raw” umuuwi doon palagi sa haus nila (nabalitaan kasi nilang may jowa syang shibuli)..
So parang pinagkatiwala nila samin yung bahay kasi slam nilang maaalagaan ulit kasi andiyan ako, maaalagaan at malilinisan ulit yung bahay.. So fast forward smooth sailing naman kaming tatlo sa bahay at totoo ngang di sya always umuuwi dito sa bahay kasi nakikitulog sya doon sa dorm nung shibuli.
Nagbago ang lahat nung sinabi ni Ate 1 sa papa nila na si Ate 3 is may jowang shibuli at hindi laging umuuwi dito sa bahay kaya yung ichura ng bahay nila magulo at alam mong parang inabandona kasi hindi laging nagkakaroon ng tao sa bahay. Wag kayong maiinis kay ate 1 kung bat nya sinabi, hindi kasi sya umuwi ng bahay nung nagbakasyon don saglit ang papa nila dahil nakainom at doon natulog sa dorm. Napilitan na sabihin ni ate 1 para hindi narin mag alala at maconfuse ang papa nila..
Maraming nangyri after ng confession na yon.. Naging mailap na samin si ate 3 at mas tumatagal yung araw na hindi sya umuuwi sa bahay pati ang ugali at pakikitungo nya samin nag iba narin..
Pero nakisama parin kami ng maayos sakanya kasi nirerespeto namin sya bilang ate.. Fast forward february madalang na ang uwi ni ate 3 sa bahay, nagtataka na kami kasi hindi na sya nagsasabi sa partner ko na hindi na muna sya uuwi.. not until nabalitaan nalang namin na yung shibuli nagpaalam doon sa work na hindi papasok kasi maglilipat daw ng bahay (doon na kami nagkaroon ng clue na baka bubukod na si ate 3 kasi magreretire na yung papa nila by march) then one day nagchat sakin si ate 3 na pagbukasan syang gate kasi malapit na raw sya sa bahay..
Naghakot sya ng gamit nya kasi nakalipat daw sila ng bahay.. hinayaan na namin kasi mukhang yun naman talaga gusto nya yung may freedom sya.. fast forward march na andito narin ang papa nila bale ang kasama ko na sa bahay is partner, papa niya at yung anak namin (btw december palang kinuha na namin anak ko kay mama kasi nagresign nako sa work) so ang routine doon is ako talaga luto, taga hugas at tagalinis ng bahay (yung typical na household chores ako ng gumagawa plus yung anak ko) tapos ako rin ang taga bili ng mga ipapamalengke para pang ulam namin araw araw, malapit lang naman yung palengke doon sa bahay nila pero nakakapagod kasi almost everyday akong bumibili doon tas pag uwi luto ko pa at hugas ko :(
Nung una ok pa ang lahat natitiis ko pa kahit na andaming nangyari magmula nung bumalik kami sakanila kasi ngathankful lang ako na wala kaming binabayaran na upa kundi bill lang tas food namin.. pero napuno ako nung minsan na naputulan kami ng tubig dahil hindi pala nagbabayad si ate 3 ng bill sa water from december up until march (nung kasama pa kasi namin sya nag insist syang magbabayad ng water bill) walang tumulong sa partner kong magbayad non, ni isa sa family member walang nag insist na tulungan sya! Kaya sagad na yung pasensya ko kasi kita ko talaga na wala silang pake panay lang ang hingi ng pasensya ni ate 1 samin dahil sa kagagawan ni ate 3. Kaya naubos pasensya ko kasi sa lahat ng perwisyo na binigay nya samin magmula nung bumalik kami sa bahay nila panay lang sila hingi ng pasensya. Walang accountability kaya nag spend ako ng mahal na araw sa mama ko kasi sobrang sama ng loob ko.
Fast forward bumalik na ako doon sa babay after mahal na araw. Same routine same shit pero this time nananawa nako sa nangyayari kasi alam kong wala akong maaasahan kundi sarili ko lang.. May mga times na umiiyak ako kasi bakit ako nadadamay sa drama nilang family na dapat hindi naman kasi labas na ako doon eh, pero kami sumalo ng partner ko kasi walang ginagawa yung ibang ate ni partner.. Grabe yung stress, pagod at iyak ko doonsa araw araw kasi nakikisama ako.. Ang laki ng pinayat ko gawa ng stress at wala kaming privacy mag asawa kasi sobrang liit ng bahay nila tipong pagpasok mo sala-kusina tas kwarto na.. tiniis ko ang ganong set up ng 5 buwan pero di nako nakatiis at umuwi nako dito sa mama ko kasi naaawa narin ang mama ko sa sitwasyon ko, sya na mismo ang humikayat sakin na umuwi na dito dahil baka hindi na raw kayanin ng katawan ko ang stress at magkasakit nanaman ako, kawawa daw ang anak ko if magkakasakit ako kasi walang mag aalaga sa baby ko..
Sa ngayon nag usap kami ng partner ko and i can say na talagang ayaw nya unuwi dito kasi ayaw nya iwan yung papa niya. (btw malakas pa ang papa niya kayang kaya pa gumawa ng household chores at walang malalang sakit bukod sa diabetic sya) may maiiwan naman doon sa papa nya yung nakababata nyang kapatid na uuwi na doon next month. Napagusapan din namin na pag may work nako i think maghihiwalay na kami (di kami kasal btw) hindi niya na kasi ako mapipilit pang umuwi doon not unless nakabukod kami.
Tama lang ba ang desisyon ko na umuwi nalang dito samin for the sake of my health and sanity?
2024.05.06 07:56 Dangerous-File-5650 Relapse
Ang hirap pa din its been three months since we had no contact. Pero and sakit sakit pa din pinipilit ko magmove forward pero feeling ko walang progress. Pagod na pagod na din ako umiyak tuwing naalala kita. When I reread the last convo we had di ko pa din mapigilan na maiyak, ok lang naman na di ako pasok sa standards mo after may mangyare sa atin pero bakit mo naman kelangan i-cut off ako sa buhay mo? Ano bang nagawa kong masama? Di ko naman kasalanan na akala ko safe ako eh na di ako mabubuntis kaya pumayaga ako na gawin yun I even told you na ok lang na wag mo ko panindigan kasi ayoko din naman na obligahin ka kasi alam ko lahat ng pinagdadaanan mo and dahil may isa ka pang anak from ur ex pero bakit naman ganun blinock mo pa ko? Ganun ba walang kwenta ung tingin mo sa kin. I know kasalanan ko na I tolerated everything pero alam mo sa sarili mo na I was so good to you. I kept validating your emotions cause I thought yoo will someday realize that your heart belongs to me. Now I am 12 weeka pregnant feeling shitty and alone. Di ko naman hiningi sayo na maging tayo pero sana man lang andito ka kapag need ko ng karamay, kapag need ko ng tao na mapagsasabihan ng lahat gaya ng pagiging lagi kong anjan para sayo. Ang pathetic ko na pero I know deep inside mahal pa kita. Di ko alam kelan to matatapos. I asked my friend to get my things from you pero never ka nagreply even sa kanya ganun ba ko talaga kawalang kwenta sayo na even ung gamit ko na nasa sayo talagang dinededma mo na ibalik? What have I done to u for u to make me miserable like this ilang years ka pabalik balik sa buhay ko para lang wasakin ako ng paulit ulit.
Sorry sa makakabasa neto, ang drama pero siguro pregnancy hormones lang and aminado ko na tanga ko. Umaasa pa din ako na marerealize nya ung lahat ng ginawa nya skn and iacknowledge man lang nya sana ung pinagbubuntis ko.
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Sorry sa makakabasa neto, ang drama pero siguro pregnancy hormones lang and aminado ko na tanga ko. Umaasa pa din ako na marerealize nya ung lahat ng ginawa nya skn and iacknowledge man lang nya sana ung pinagbubuntis ko.
2024.05.05 15:52 tersxin Tragedi Malaysia
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Ibu bapa yang bodoh tidak menjaga anak-anak yang masih mentah,untuk hidup bebas yang menjadikan 2 remaja perempuan dan ramai lelaki bercampur di dalam hotel dan mereka adalah Melayu Islam..Masyarakat kurang sensitif terhadap tragedi dan masalah,kurang simpati dan hanya membuat semua yang terjadi sebagai bahan jenaka…Lagu Melayu Islam berunsurkan Zina..Kumpulan Muzik melayu Islam tanpa bersalah membuka aurat seperti orang kafir tetapi menyanyikan lagu raya..melakukan dosa dan redha akan dosa yang dilakukan..Cuaca panas melampau.Pihak keselamatan yang mementingkan wang daripada keselamatan negara.Budaya sugar daddy,call girl,kelab malam,dadah,zina berleluasa…Pada zaman dahulu,mungkin yang terlibat orang dewasa,tetapi kini remaja turut serta dalam gejala haram..Ini adalah bala yang diturunkan..Malaysia mungkin tidak mengalami Tsunami atau gempa bumi,tetapi ini adalah salah satu bala yang menyeksa seluruh Malaysia kerana yang jahat tidak insaf dan yang baik tidak menegur..
Bagi aku,ini semua terletak kepada kekuatan agama pada sesebuah negara,sebagai penahan seseorang untuk membuat jenayah meskipun tiada siapa yang tahu..Kemudian,ini adalah kesan polisi negara yang gagal yang telah mendesak ramai orang melakukan jenayah untuk hidup kerana makanan asasi seperti beras tidak dapat diperolehi...Kemudian,pencen yang dimansuhkan kepada penjawat awam menindas lagi golongan miskin...Kemudian adalah sikap pihak penguatkuasa undang-undang yang menerima sogokan dan menjadikan keselamatan Malaysia sebagai taruhan kerana gaji sedikit yang berpunca oleh kegagalan kerajaan..
Ingatlah,tiada erti kekayaan jikalau kita tidak selamat untuk menikmati kekayaan tersebut di rumah kita,apabila kita berisiko untuk dirompak atau dibunuh bila2 masa..Akhirnya adalah sikap rakyat Malaysia yang tidak matang dalam kehidupan…Tidak matang bermaksud tidak mempunyai kewibawaan dan kesiapsediaan untuk mencegah kesalahan dan mendorong kebaikan..Rakyat Malaysia terlalu lembut dan tidak mempunyai tindakan yang berguna mengambarkan kebodohan…Contohnya,apabila kelab bola sepak memberikan prestasi yang hampa,tidak sepadan dengan bajet yang diberikan,pemain neutralisasi diambil,tindakan mestilah diambil tidaklah cukup hanya dengan kata-kata semangat sahaja..Ini punca masalah yang terjadi seperti zina,bahan lucah,jenayah berlaku di siang hari..Kemudian,rakyat Malaysia tidak kompeten dan serius apabila menggalas tugas kerana sikap yang kompeten dan professional dalam rakyat boleh menggerak negara ke hadapan kerana setiap tugas diambil dengan fokus dan tanggungjawab..
Tetapi dengan sikap dengki,penting diri,mencampur urusan peribadi dan kerja,kualiti kerja yang rendah kerana malas,cuai dan malas,sikap Lemah dalam bekerja,masih mengamalkan sikap ‘ekonomi sara diri’ dalam kerja professional menjadikan kerja tidak disiapkan dan pesawat boleh terhempas membunuh warga Malaysia yang lain..Easy time creates weak men..Naratif negara kelas ketiga direka untuk membezakan negara blok komunis dan blok kapitalis..Malaysia negara kelas ketiga kerana dasar berkecuali bukanlah disebabkan warna kulit atau ekonomi..Malaysia tidak lebih rendah berbanding negara USA..Kembalilah kepada agama supaya dirahmati Tuhan dan tingkatkan taraf kerja kita supaya kita dapat hidup aman damai dan sesi akan tempat yang selesa kepada keluarga kita.
Persoalannya Sampai Bila?
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Ibu bapa yang bodoh tidak menjaga anak-anak yang masih mentah,untuk hidup bebas yang menjadikan 2 remaja perempuan dan ramai lelaki bercampur di dalam hotel dan mereka adalah Melayu Islam..Masyarakat kurang sensitif terhadap tragedi dan masalah,kurang simpati dan hanya membuat semua yang terjadi sebagai bahan jenaka…Lagu Melayu Islam berunsurkan Zina..Kumpulan Muzik melayu Islam tanpa bersalah membuka aurat seperti orang kafir tetapi menyanyikan lagu raya..melakukan dosa dan redha akan dosa yang dilakukan..Cuaca panas melampau.Pihak keselamatan yang mementingkan wang daripada keselamatan negara.Budaya sugar daddy,call girl,kelab malam,dadah,zina berleluasa…Pada zaman dahulu,mungkin yang terlibat orang dewasa,tetapi kini remaja turut serta dalam gejala haram..Ini adalah bala yang diturunkan..Malaysia mungkin tidak mengalami Tsunami atau gempa bumi,tetapi ini adalah salah satu bala yang menyeksa seluruh Malaysia kerana yang jahat tidak insaf dan yang baik tidak menegur..
Bagi aku,ini semua terletak kepada kekuatan agama pada sesebuah negara,sebagai penahan seseorang untuk membuat jenayah meskipun tiada siapa yang tahu..Kemudian,ini adalah kesan polisi negara yang gagal yang telah mendesak ramai orang melakukan jenayah untuk hidup kerana makanan asasi seperti beras tidak dapat diperolehi...Kemudian,pencen yang dimansuhkan kepada penjawat awam menindas lagi golongan miskin...Kemudian adalah sikap pihak penguatkuasa undang-undang yang menerima sogokan dan menjadikan keselamatan Malaysia sebagai taruhan kerana gaji sedikit yang berpunca oleh kegagalan kerajaan..
Ingatlah,tiada erti kekayaan jikalau kita tidak selamat untuk menikmati kekayaan tersebut di rumah kita,apabila kita berisiko untuk dirompak atau dibunuh bila2 masa..Akhirnya adalah sikap rakyat Malaysia yang tidak matang dalam kehidupan…Tidak matang bermaksud tidak mempunyai kewibawaan dan kesiapsediaan untuk mencegah kesalahan dan mendorong kebaikan..Rakyat Malaysia terlalu lembut dan tidak mempunyai tindakan yang berguna mengambarkan kebodohan…Contohnya,apabila kelab bola sepak memberikan prestasi yang hampa,tidak sepadan dengan bajet yang diberikan,pemain neutralisasi diambil,tindakan mestilah diambil tidaklah cukup hanya dengan kata-kata semangat sahaja..Ini punca masalah yang terjadi seperti zina,bahan lucah,jenayah berlaku di siang hari..Kemudian,rakyat Malaysia tidak kompeten dan serius apabila menggalas tugas kerana sikap yang kompeten dan professional dalam rakyat boleh menggerak negara ke hadapan kerana setiap tugas diambil dengan fokus dan tanggungjawab..
Tetapi dengan sikap dengki,penting diri,mencampur urusan peribadi dan kerja,kualiti kerja yang rendah kerana malas,cuai dan malas,sikap Lemah dalam bekerja,masih mengamalkan sikap ‘ekonomi sara diri’ dalam kerja professional menjadikan kerja tidak disiapkan dan pesawat boleh terhempas membunuh warga Malaysia yang lain..Easy time creates weak men..Naratif negara kelas ketiga direka untuk membezakan negara blok komunis dan blok kapitalis..Malaysia negara kelas ketiga kerana dasar berkecuali bukanlah disebabkan warna kulit atau ekonomi..Malaysia tidak lebih rendah berbanding negara USA..Kembalilah kepada agama supaya dirahmati Tuhan dan tingkatkan taraf kerja kita supaya kita dapat hidup aman damai dan sesi akan tempat yang selesa kepada keluarga kita.
Persoalannya Sampai Bila?
2024.05.02 10:08 60b3r Super Combo Kantor Polisi x Kang Parkir
Perpanjangan SIM di sebuah kantor polisi di Kota Bandung yang membuat saya berpikir "HAH? SERIUS INI KELASNYA IBUKOTA PROVINSI? KOK TOLOL"
Anekdot (pengalaman pribadi) ini bukan sekuel drama parkiran Masjid Raya Al-Jabbar, ini sebenarnya prekuel karena terjadinya sudah setahun yang lalu, cuma gedek-gedeknya sampe sekarang... Baik pelayanan kantor polkis dan pengalaman kang parkirnya. Karena anak rantau jauh, aku memutuskan buat perpanjangan SIM online, dan sudah hampir 2 bulan nggak ada kabar. Aku tanya sama hotline Satpas, rata2 seminggu sih udah jadi. Katanya harusnya kantor polisi yang akan info bahwa bisa diambil kapan dan dimana. Saya bilang gaada tuh info, maka saya putuskan untuk ambil sendiri ke kantor.
Sesampainya di kantor, saya tanya sama polisi yang jaga di depan pos gerbang "parkirnya dimana pak?" padahal jelas dan nyata di dalam kantor polisi ada parkiran juga. Disuruh parkir diluar, pinggiran jalan yang jelas dan nyata ada plang dilarang parkir. "OK" jawabku judes. Dari kejauhan, terlihat kang parkir senyam senyum sambil mengisap rokoknya, tanpa membantu parkir para tamu aparat negara ini. Aku masukin motorku ke sela2 ruang kosong yang sempit, sambil memperhatikan apakah kang parkirnya akan datang membantu. Ternyata tidak. Well, as per usual.
Masuk ke kantor polisi, ga ada orang di reception. Kirain udah jam makan atau hari libur, saya melihat kalender dan jam untuk memastikan bahwa saat itu masih hari dan jam kerja. Celingak-celinguk gak ada siapa2 di lantai satu. Saya bunyikan bel di meja. Sepuluh detik berlalu, tak ada respon. Saya mencoba masuk ke lantai dua, yang ada batas gerbang keamanan sebelum tangganya. Saya nyelonong. Gak bunyi alarm apa2. Hmmm, heran juga, standar keamanan sebuah kantor polisi yang terletak bersebelahan langsung dengan Gereja Katedral.
Saya memasuki beberapa ruangan yang gak ada petugas satu-pun. AC nyala, tapi ew, bau rokok! Ternyata ada toh, kantor pemerintahan resmi yang membiarkan pekerjanya ngerokok di ruang ber-AC. Saya akhirnya menemukan satu ruangan yang polisinya lepas seragam dan cuma pake kaos oblong. Dia yang menyerahkan SIM saya, tanpa laminating hologram. Katanya kalau mau pake hologram bayar lagi. Seingat saya, di Malang saya perpanjang SIM langsung ada plastik pelapis hologramnya. Saya terima SIM tersebut, tanpa berusaha melihat badge nama di seragam yang tersingkap di bangkunya. Sengaja dilepas atau emang lagi gerah, gatau juga.
Keluarlah saya buat pulang. Sesampai di parkiran liar yang persis di depan kantor polisi tersebut, muncullah random kang parkir yang juga masih nggak ngapa2in, not even helping me getting my bike out from the tight pool of chaotically parked motors. Aku kasih 100rb sambil bilang "gak ada uang kecil bang." mengikuti saran u/DeTomato_ dari di thread u/Kikuch1 yang ngomongin tukang parkir. Berharap jawaban "bawa aja bang, kaga ada kembalian euy". Oh boy, I was not prepared for what comes next.
Sampah masyarakat tersebut ternyata mematahkan ekspektasi. Asli, dicariin dong kembaliannya! Trus dia kasih 45rb. Aku bingung. Dalam benakku, parkir di depan kantor polisi, yang punya tempat parkir sendiri, yang harusnya gratis karena merupakan kantor pelayanan masyarakat, selama 30 menit, masak sih tarifnya 55rb? Aku bilang "uang saya tadi 100rb pak". Baru dia kasih lagi 50rb sambil senyam-senyum meringis. Lah kontol, dia kirain aku bakalan langsung kantongin itu kembalian limaribuan segepok dan ga aku hitung lagi uang kembalian ini dengan teliti dan hati-hati? Keterlaluan, the audacity of this leech is beyond comprehension.
Aku tanya lagi, "emang 5 rebu kang parkirnya? yang bener aja!". Barulah ia merogoh koceknya lagi dan dia kembalikan 2rb lagi. Lha, jadi 3 ribu? Kek mana la ini? Aku langsung menggeber sepeda motor dengan kencang dan teriak dengan lantang kayak orang kesetanan "JANCOOOOK!" sebagai ode kepada amarah Jawa Timuran yang menggelora. I just hope my curse was heard by Sundanese Jesus in the church.
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Anekdot (pengalaman pribadi) ini bukan sekuel drama parkiran Masjid Raya Al-Jabbar, ini sebenarnya prekuel karena terjadinya sudah setahun yang lalu, cuma gedek-gedeknya sampe sekarang... Baik pelayanan kantor polkis dan pengalaman kang parkirnya. Karena anak rantau jauh, aku memutuskan buat perpanjangan SIM online, dan sudah hampir 2 bulan nggak ada kabar. Aku tanya sama hotline Satpas, rata2 seminggu sih udah jadi. Katanya harusnya kantor polisi yang akan info bahwa bisa diambil kapan dan dimana. Saya bilang gaada tuh info, maka saya putuskan untuk ambil sendiri ke kantor.
Sesampainya di kantor, saya tanya sama polisi yang jaga di depan pos gerbang "parkirnya dimana pak?" padahal jelas dan nyata di dalam kantor polisi ada parkiran juga. Disuruh parkir diluar, pinggiran jalan yang jelas dan nyata ada plang dilarang parkir. "OK" jawabku judes. Dari kejauhan, terlihat kang parkir senyam senyum sambil mengisap rokoknya, tanpa membantu parkir para tamu aparat negara ini. Aku masukin motorku ke sela2 ruang kosong yang sempit, sambil memperhatikan apakah kang parkirnya akan datang membantu. Ternyata tidak. Well, as per usual.
Masuk ke kantor polisi, ga ada orang di reception. Kirain udah jam makan atau hari libur, saya melihat kalender dan jam untuk memastikan bahwa saat itu masih hari dan jam kerja. Celingak-celinguk gak ada siapa2 di lantai satu. Saya bunyikan bel di meja. Sepuluh detik berlalu, tak ada respon. Saya mencoba masuk ke lantai dua, yang ada batas gerbang keamanan sebelum tangganya. Saya nyelonong. Gak bunyi alarm apa2. Hmmm, heran juga, standar keamanan sebuah kantor polisi yang terletak bersebelahan langsung dengan Gereja Katedral.
Saya memasuki beberapa ruangan yang gak ada petugas satu-pun. AC nyala, tapi ew, bau rokok! Ternyata ada toh, kantor pemerintahan resmi yang membiarkan pekerjanya ngerokok di ruang ber-AC. Saya akhirnya menemukan satu ruangan yang polisinya lepas seragam dan cuma pake kaos oblong. Dia yang menyerahkan SIM saya, tanpa laminating hologram. Katanya kalau mau pake hologram bayar lagi. Seingat saya, di Malang saya perpanjang SIM langsung ada plastik pelapis hologramnya. Saya terima SIM tersebut, tanpa berusaha melihat badge nama di seragam yang tersingkap di bangkunya. Sengaja dilepas atau emang lagi gerah, gatau juga.
Keluarlah saya buat pulang. Sesampai di parkiran liar yang persis di depan kantor polisi tersebut, muncullah random kang parkir yang juga masih nggak ngapa2in, not even helping me getting my bike out from the tight pool of chaotically parked motors. Aku kasih 100rb sambil bilang "gak ada uang kecil bang." mengikuti saran u/DeTomato_ dari di thread u/Kikuch1 yang ngomongin tukang parkir. Berharap jawaban "bawa aja bang, kaga ada kembalian euy". Oh boy, I was not prepared for what comes next.
Sampah masyarakat tersebut ternyata mematahkan ekspektasi. Asli, dicariin dong kembaliannya! Trus dia kasih 45rb. Aku bingung. Dalam benakku, parkir di depan kantor polisi, yang punya tempat parkir sendiri, yang harusnya gratis karena merupakan kantor pelayanan masyarakat, selama 30 menit, masak sih tarifnya 55rb? Aku bilang "uang saya tadi 100rb pak". Baru dia kasih lagi 50rb sambil senyam-senyum meringis. Lah kontol, dia kirain aku bakalan langsung kantongin itu kembalian limaribuan segepok dan ga aku hitung lagi uang kembalian ini dengan teliti dan hati-hati? Keterlaluan, the audacity of this leech is beyond comprehension.
Aku tanya lagi, "emang 5 rebu kang parkirnya? yang bener aja!". Barulah ia merogoh koceknya lagi dan dia kembalikan 2rb lagi. Lha, jadi 3 ribu? Kek mana la ini? Aku langsung menggeber sepeda motor dengan kencang dan teriak dengan lantang kayak orang kesetanan "JANCOOOOK!" sebagai ode kepada amarah Jawa Timuran yang menggelora. I just hope my curse was heard by Sundanese Jesus in the church.
2024.05.02 01:04 Alternative-Rub-9804 Im tired of live-in life and staying
25/F w/ a child. Im so lost , I regret to have a child with my ex. dahil don naging kami uli . don’t get me wrong gusto ko ng anak , mahal ko baby ko pero ang tanga ko kasi ayaw ko naman talaga sya yung tatay at the 1st place . moving forward, naging maayos naman kami almost 2yrs na , masipag sya sa bahay sobra dahil nagkaroon kmi ng past na ako yung gumagawa ng gumawa tapos sya wala lang , he changed in a good way meaning to say. pero ako , madalas na yung walang ginagawa minsan nagluluto ako pero dahil mainit yung panahon diko na kaya mag luto ng mainit. dun na nagsimula yung away namen , tamad na daw ako pera lang inaakyat ko sa bahay, earning (90k) while si hubby (38k). I found him reasonable naman kaso napuno ako kasi dun pa sya kasama ng parents nya nagmamaktol. eh ayaw nga skin ng parents nya kahit ilang ulit na ko gumawa ng paraan at alam nya yon. Nakakapagod lang din na umiintindi ako sa init ng ulo nya pag napapagod sya ng sobra , dko naman hiniling na gawin nya yon. Pinalayas ko sya , at sabe ko kung gaganunin nya ko mag hiwalay na kame out of my rage. UMALIS sya , Im tired of chasing him but we have debts and responsibilities sa bahay (rent/ kuryente ). Im planning to sell the things that we acquired just to pay all things and ayoko na ng drama magpost sa Fb marketplace dahil makikita ng relatives/friends namen. Gusto ko maayos na lahat tsaka ko sya kokontakin para sa sustento ng anak ko. But on the back of my mind gusto kong ayusin dahil alam kong at fault ako, but Im tired, and he’s tired. Masyado ng madrama para samen. Any thoughts?
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2024.04.30 23:30 tersxin Nakalness
Sedap sangat doh lagu ni..Nakalness dan Aali 3gp dan kumpulan Fpb menunjukkan rakyat tempatan berbakat walau masih muda dan boleh menandingi negara-negara lain walau berbeza warna kulit dan budaya..Nakalness anak muda,umur tk smpai 30,tetapi boleh buat muzik yang BAIK..Muzik yang baik ni universal..Aku tknak cerita pasal artis dia sangat..Tetapi dua lagu dia bagi aku 10/10…Pertama,Badboy,kalau kau minat rentak yang upbeat dan bertenaga,lagu ni adalah lagu yang well done dari segi beat,video simple,tetapi tetap well done,ini lagu HiTS..Lagu rap yang ada FLOW dan boleh nyanyi…Lagu ni beri nafas baru,unik kepada muzik negara selain rap tkda flow,,atau lagu sedih seperti lagu Dawai...Januaari pula lagu sentimental.Lagu ni sangat sedap..10/10…Editing dan Video out of this world dan the best in the world..City life...Dua lagu ni takkan bosan..Ambil masa dan dengar,lagu taraf S menandakan walau underground,boleh mencipta lagu yang berkualiti,bukan pada nama dan warna kulit semata.Tidak perlu perempuan seksi,profanity dan makian dalam karya.
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2024.04.30 17:36 ELlunahermosa Kung sino ka man report ng report, mapapagod ka lang. I will still approve all of this sa ayaw mo at sa gusto. If you cannot take the heat, just leave the kitchen.
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2024.04.28 11:23 itmedaonenonly Any other possible alternatives besides paglalayas?
It's not for me actually, it's for my bf and bff. My bff just lost her mom tapos sobrang nagkagulo na bahay nila after losing the very foundation of their home, which is si tita. I watched every drama unfold, and kahit ako paglalayas nalang din naiisip ko kasi mga hindi niya maaasahang tao nasa bahay nila. Esp freshies kami, struggling na nga kami magadjust sa school + malayo pa tapos meron pa siyang family burden.
Sa bf ko naman 'yung family niya is unsupportive of his studies, dahilan din na 9 silang magkakapatid so may financial burden talaga. Lalo na may anak na 'yung panganay din. Pinapapili siya kung aral or trabaho, dapat isa lang, bawal pagsabayin. I feel like lowkey pinepressure siya na tumigil na sa college since buong fam nila wala namang nagcollege talaga. Tapos I think toxic talaga household nila, in denial lang siya? Or baka judger lang ako kasi outsider ako huhu
Ang original plan talaga is maghanap ng work tapos magsama muna sila ng bf at bff ko para hati sila sa rent. Balak ko sasama din ako sa work nila na papasukan nila para makahelp din ako sa kanila financially. And total cut-off po talaga ang family hanggang sa maka-recover ang mental health nila. Pero at the same time, I feel like it's too rash of a decision din.
We've been working on scholarships, financial assistances, etc.. I'm also giving everything I can. Wala po kaming napasang scholarships except sa DOST, pero me lang kasi ang nakapasa. And even if makaget man scholarship, 'yung household din kasi mismo nila ay inuubos sila. Bakit ba kasi ganito ang pamilyang pinoy😭😭
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Sa bf ko naman 'yung family niya is unsupportive of his studies, dahilan din na 9 silang magkakapatid so may financial burden talaga. Lalo na may anak na 'yung panganay din. Pinapapili siya kung aral or trabaho, dapat isa lang, bawal pagsabayin. I feel like lowkey pinepressure siya na tumigil na sa college since buong fam nila wala namang nagcollege talaga. Tapos I think toxic talaga household nila, in denial lang siya? Or baka judger lang ako kasi outsider ako huhu
Ang original plan talaga is maghanap ng work tapos magsama muna sila ng bf at bff ko para hati sila sa rent. Balak ko sasama din ako sa work nila na papasukan nila para makahelp din ako sa kanila financially. And total cut-off po talaga ang family hanggang sa maka-recover ang mental health nila. Pero at the same time, I feel like it's too rash of a decision din.
We've been working on scholarships, financial assistances, etc.. I'm also giving everything I can. Wala po kaming napasang scholarships except sa DOST, pero me lang kasi ang nakapasa. And even if makaget man scholarship, 'yung household din kasi mismo nila ay inuubos sila. Bakit ba kasi ganito ang pamilyang pinoy😭😭
2024.04.26 18:07 Urfuturecpalawyer Ang hirap ng sitwasyon dito
Ang hirap din na adult na ako pero dahil nag-aaral pa lang at wala pang napapatunayan sa buhay, di pinapakinggan.
Long story so be patient. Yung bahay na tinitirhan namin ngayon, binili ng lola ko tapos nakapangalan sa panganay nyang anak (Tito ko) at asawa nito. Tapos may isa pang lupa kung saan yun dapat ang ipapamana sa tatay ko kaso di ko alam at anong nangyari pero doon tumira si tito ko at asawa n'ya. Technically, exchanged. Itong bahay namin, kay tito nakpangalan tapos yung kabila, sa tatay ko.
Kaso, yung ipapamana sana sa tatay ko, walang assurance kasi yung titulo raw non, nakasangla. Which is shady for me kasi afaik, simula nung nabili yon, nakasangla na raw titulo. Eh ilang dekada na yon. Bakit hindi kinukuha ng may hawak ng titulo yung lupa kung talagang nakasangla??
Tapos ngayon, itong bahay namin, sa tito ko nakapangalan kaso tatay ko gumastos to renovate kasi nga dito kami nakatira. Ang problema, yung tito ko, hiwalay sa asawa tapos nagkasakit mentally. Yung asawa n'ya naman, nakatira pa rin sa bahay nila ng tito ko kasama yung kabit n'ya.
Gusto ko sana, habang nabubuhay pa lola ko. Mag-usap na sila for settlement saka kung ano ang mangyayari. Tingin kasi ng lola ko, sa tatay ko, retirement plan. Tapos hilig pang mag-request na ipa-renovate ang bahay. Di lang namin masabi na, nakakahinayang ipagawa tong bahay kasi wala naman kaming habol dito kasi kahit hiwalay na sila tito, sa kanila pa rin naman to nakapangalan. So legally, sila ang rightful owner.
Tapos ayon, di naman makausap ng matino lola ko kasi magda-drama. May superiority complex pa kasi nga matanda na. Tapos kapag may pinapaayos kami dito sa bahay, like kwarto o cr. Magre-request din sya na may ipagawa sa place n'ya.
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Long story so be patient. Yung bahay na tinitirhan namin ngayon, binili ng lola ko tapos nakapangalan sa panganay nyang anak (Tito ko) at asawa nito. Tapos may isa pang lupa kung saan yun dapat ang ipapamana sa tatay ko kaso di ko alam at anong nangyari pero doon tumira si tito ko at asawa n'ya. Technically, exchanged. Itong bahay namin, kay tito nakpangalan tapos yung kabila, sa tatay ko.
Kaso, yung ipapamana sana sa tatay ko, walang assurance kasi yung titulo raw non, nakasangla. Which is shady for me kasi afaik, simula nung nabili yon, nakasangla na raw titulo. Eh ilang dekada na yon. Bakit hindi kinukuha ng may hawak ng titulo yung lupa kung talagang nakasangla??
Tapos ngayon, itong bahay namin, sa tito ko nakapangalan kaso tatay ko gumastos to renovate kasi nga dito kami nakatira. Ang problema, yung tito ko, hiwalay sa asawa tapos nagkasakit mentally. Yung asawa n'ya naman, nakatira pa rin sa bahay nila ng tito ko kasama yung kabit n'ya.
Gusto ko sana, habang nabubuhay pa lola ko. Mag-usap na sila for settlement saka kung ano ang mangyayari. Tingin kasi ng lola ko, sa tatay ko, retirement plan. Tapos hilig pang mag-request na ipa-renovate ang bahay. Di lang namin masabi na, nakakahinayang ipagawa tong bahay kasi wala naman kaming habol dito kasi kahit hiwalay na sila tito, sa kanila pa rin naman to nakapangalan. So legally, sila ang rightful owner.
Tapos ayon, di naman makausap ng matino lola ko kasi magda-drama. May superiority complex pa kasi nga matanda na. Tapos kapag may pinapaayos kami dito sa bahay, like kwarto o cr. Magre-request din sya na may ipagawa sa place n'ya.
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2024.04.21 08:19 boredpizz4 Have you ever had that eureka moment?
“You know that moment when suddenly things that were not clear to you once before, becomes really clear and then you realize that you fully understood the situation?”
Throughout my teenage years, i had talked to several people with different perspectives from mine which I never really got back then. I wasn’t empathetic. Definitely didn’t grow like one. Naiinis lang ako for not seeing things that way before. But as years passed by, I started experiencing and encountering challenges that made me perceive the different corners of life and so I realized they were right.
Gets ko na yung part na wala raw s’yang kaibigan sa college or people he can hang with after class, tapos sabi ko naman “don’t u have classmates, Why don’t u hang with them?” and he responded, “magkaiba yung classmate sa kaibigan eh”, little did I know that the phrase that what was once before I could not fully comprehend, would hit me so hard in the future especially in my situation right now that i transferred uni. Hey k, I don’t know where you are sa ngayon, but I do hope u’re in a good place and sana people stopped bugging u for being smart. U were such a good friend.
Gets ko na yung linya na “ayaw ko magka-anak/hindi pa ako sure.” Grabe I was very self-centered, I would just say na “don’t you wanna spread ur genes ganda mo pa naman sana” “kahit isa lang?”. No comment nalang kasi namimilit talaga ako dati hahaha.
I was such a player and I talked to plenty of girls at the same time back then kahit may jowa until they would show interest sakin, tapos ako naman yung mag backout. Ewan ko ba, but once I get to know everything about u parang nawawalan na ako ng gana kasi there’s nothing to talk about na eh.
But now I’ve changed so much, I disappeared from the internet. I rarely talk to people. Even if I’m interested or I find you attractive, napapagod na rin ako kasi parang it’s just an unending cycle of relationship. Nakakapagod na mag reply. Parang usap pa lang alam mo na na dun lang din mapupunta.
I don’t know what’s happening to me, pero it’s like I got tired of all the dramas. Like I’ve been in that situation already, tamang experiences na siguro ‘yon and it’s time to be better and maghanap ng consistency. I stopped entertaining dramas and petty rumors about me anymore. Parang galit ako ngayon tapos mamaya mawala na kaagad, sinasarili ko nalang, or most of the time I just don’t give a shit even if they think different of me kasi I’ve been through worse and those were nothing compared to it.
I feel like ang late nagdevelop ng brain ko for people like them, but too early for people around me right now. Time makes us grow soft, but no one will know the violence it took to be this gentle. I am not proud of what I’ve done, what I used to be, but day by day I’m trying to be better.
All those in-yuns, I finally realized they were right. You guys were right! Im finally on the same page as u guys were a few years back!! Hey I’m here.
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Throughout my teenage years, i had talked to several people with different perspectives from mine which I never really got back then. I wasn’t empathetic. Definitely didn’t grow like one. Naiinis lang ako for not seeing things that way before. But as years passed by, I started experiencing and encountering challenges that made me perceive the different corners of life and so I realized they were right.
Gets ko na yung part na wala raw s’yang kaibigan sa college or people he can hang with after class, tapos sabi ko naman “don’t u have classmates, Why don’t u hang with them?” and he responded, “magkaiba yung classmate sa kaibigan eh”, little did I know that the phrase that what was once before I could not fully comprehend, would hit me so hard in the future especially in my situation right now that i transferred uni. Hey k, I don’t know where you are sa ngayon, but I do hope u’re in a good place and sana people stopped bugging u for being smart. U were such a good friend.
Gets ko na yung linya na “ayaw ko magka-anak/hindi pa ako sure.” Grabe I was very self-centered, I would just say na “don’t you wanna spread ur genes ganda mo pa naman sana” “kahit isa lang?”. No comment nalang kasi namimilit talaga ako dati hahaha.
I was such a player and I talked to plenty of girls at the same time back then kahit may jowa until they would show interest sakin, tapos ako naman yung mag backout. Ewan ko ba, but once I get to know everything about u parang nawawalan na ako ng gana kasi there’s nothing to talk about na eh.
But now I’ve changed so much, I disappeared from the internet. I rarely talk to people. Even if I’m interested or I find you attractive, napapagod na rin ako kasi parang it’s just an unending cycle of relationship. Nakakapagod na mag reply. Parang usap pa lang alam mo na na dun lang din mapupunta.
I don’t know what’s happening to me, pero it’s like I got tired of all the dramas. Like I’ve been in that situation already, tamang experiences na siguro ‘yon and it’s time to be better and maghanap ng consistency. I stopped entertaining dramas and petty rumors about me anymore. Parang galit ako ngayon tapos mamaya mawala na kaagad, sinasarili ko nalang, or most of the time I just don’t give a shit even if they think different of me kasi I’ve been through worse and those were nothing compared to it.
I feel like ang late nagdevelop ng brain ko for people like them, but too early for people around me right now. Time makes us grow soft, but no one will know the violence it took to be this gentle. I am not proud of what I’ve done, what I used to be, but day by day I’m trying to be better.
All those in-yuns, I finally realized they were right. You guys were right! Im finally on the same page as u guys were a few years back!! Hey I’m here.
2024.04.20 07:22 Sad-School-6604 What's shared in Reddit, should stay in Reddit
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I am feeling distressed. Actually I don't know what to feel right now. Halo halo. I just woke up feeling super sad, super empty. Drama. Like I wanted to cry for no reason then andaming pumasok sa isip ko.
I was just reading a story here in this sub about their circle of friends at ang dami kong narealize, or probably I already know but I'm just not paying attention to it.
I (25F) had a circle of friends that I've been with since childhood. A (26M), B (26M), C (26F) and D (25F) are my somehow distant relatives and we grew up being friends and classmates together from elem to highschool. Daming away bata, pero at the end of the day, solid pa din kami.
Kahit nung magstop ako sa uni at magtrabaho at the age of 18, they never stopped being my friends. I remember na C and D were with me when I first applied for a job as a call center agent. I don't know the BPO industry. I know nothing about it, but I am proficient with the English language kahit noong elementarya pa lang, so when a headhunter asked me if I'm interested, I said yes. Actually kahit anong job lang talaga ina-apply-an ko. Nung time na yon, kahit sales lady lang. Ang pera namin at most 2h to 3h lang. D had 3h and both C and I only have around 2h. We went there at 11 AM and went home around 3 AM the next day at natanggap naman ako.
We only ate once around lunch time pa. Hahaha! Sabi ko pa sa kanila around 5 PM, mauna na sila umuwi, kaya ko na. Pero hindi nila ako iniwan kasi alam nila yung problem sa bahay at na kailangan ko sobra ang trabaho. Ang pameryenda lang samin ng company is one cup noodles at biscuit tapos water from water dispenser. Hindi ko kinain, binigay ko sa kanila kasi candy na lang kinakain nila nung time na yon. Ayaw pa nila tanggapin, kaso sabi ko nakakain na ako, to which is hindi pa naman. Sobra lang akong nahihiya at naaawa sa kanila. Tapos while waiting sa result ng interview, around 2 AM, nagkausap pa kami na "may takeout kami kanina na tirang chicken sa mang inasal diba? Kinain namin sa cr." Tapos tawanan kami kasi bakit sa cr? Nahihiya daw sila doon sa company kumain kasi maamoy. Noong time na yon, tawa lang kami ng tawa. But now, looking back, while I sacrifice my chance to go to school, they also sacrifice their time and patience para makakuha ako ng trabaho. I was very very grateful sa kanilang dalawa, until now. Tanda ko pa din na nangako akong sa unang sahod ko, treat ko sila, but hindi ko s'ya nagawa agad. It was a few months after pa kasi sobrang daming gastos sa bahay at hindi ko naman nahahawakan ang pera at ang ATM ko to be honest. Pero nabibigyan naman ako ng sapat na baon at pera pangpasok ulit sa work. I had no qualms or misgivings about it. Happy ako makatulong sa bahay.
That time, C and D are in college (they went to different university). C went to a state uni taking financial management while D, who's a bit well off, went to an expensive uni taking customs administration hehe. Me? I was working. For the first year, almost ever weekend kasama sina A and B, na ibang uni din pinapasukan since A chose to go to a uni in a different province to be a policeman, B chose a marine university to be a seafarer, kumakain kami sa labas. Not expensive. Lomi lang. Hahaha! I remember ang dami naming napuntahan na places nearby sa barangay lang namin ha, na lomian talaga. Sometimes ako yung nalilibre kahit ako yung may trabaho which I super duper appreciate talaga.
Since we all went different ways, may mga friendships na mabubuo sila sa college at ako naman sa work. However, I'm the type of person na aakalain mong extrovert kasi I can talk to everyone happily pero I can never open up about a lot of things. Parang I build walls? Na recently ko lang narealize. Around second year of working, we slowly became busy. Sobrang dami nilang school works, at ang daming projects, papers, etc.
(Medyo magulo but I already took two years in college kaso I stopped so at this point, they were all in their third yr to fourth yr in college.)
I realized na we're slowly losing our weekends getaway, papunta sa nawawalan na din kami ng time magreach out sa isa't isa. Then, I noticed that whenever I want to tag them sa memes sa FB or send them memes thru messenger, may iba na silang tinatag or may ibang nagsshare na sa kanila. Especially with C and D.
I remember, I think this was back in 2021. I saw a post about a trio that I can super relate that's about us. Pero nung makita ko yung post, si D pala ang nagshare tapos tagged ang dalawa sa friends n'ya sa college. Understand ko ha, it's just that I can't help but be jealous like, hindi ba ako ang naaalala n'yo sa ganito? Hahaha. Idk. That's so petty of me.
Then, starting from there, I noticed everything I don't want to. It was that I was the only one tagging them sa memes, reaching out and saying "kamusta?" on our GCs. Sending funny videos and memes. They never did that to me. Even until now. Nagsesend pa din ako ng kung ano ano sa "patay" naming GC. Hahaha. Because I still treat them as my main group of friends, even if they don't think the same about me,, although tatlo na lang kami sa GC since may asawa na pareho sina A and B and we don't want their wives to feel jealous about the things we talk about kasi alam n'yo naman siguro, na altho walang malisya, may napapagusapan pa din kaming naught things sa GC namin, so we created a new one na tatlo lang kami.
Right now, I really really felt sad.
Nakagraduate na din naman ako last year although two year course lang, but until now, I don't have the motivation to work. Parang naburnout ako? I want to look for a job, kaso I don't know how to start, and no, I'm not soliciting advises kasi I know how to start, but like I don't have a motivation or something. Magulo? Hahaha. Super. Pati utak ko.
Although, job hopper ako before I went back to school, I started working when I was 18 and it lasted until I was 23. Kahit madalas na sinasabi sakin na, "mas madami nagagastos mo at napapapunta sa'yo kaysa sinusulit mo sa bahay", I felt like I was really really burnout. Like ayokong kumilos, ayokong maligo, ayokong kumain. Tulog nga lang ako ng tulog, kaya taba ako ng taba. Hahahaha. Kain tulog cellphone lang ako. Palamunin. Like a money sucking bitch. Hahahaha.
Adik nga ako ngayon sa pagbabasa ng manhwa, and reading things unrealistically like rebirth wishing for it to be true. Sobrang lagi kong naiisip, can I go back to when I was 17? Before my father was diagnosed with cancer, before he died, before I started working and before being forced to grow up?
I don't know. Siguro kung mababasa to ng mga kapatid ko or ng nanay ko, iiyak sila tapos ako pa ang masusumbatan. Like "hindi naman kita pinilit magtrabaho, gusto kitang makatapos din agad. Pinipilit kitang magaral." That's true. Most of it was my fault, totoo namang pinilit ni nanay na wag ako magquit ng school, since madami scholarships na mapapasukan, kaso yung araw araw na gastos? Baon, pamasahe, pagkain, school projects, libro? I remember pa sabi ng kuya ko, ang luho ko kasi. Mayabang kasi ako. Akala mo anak mayaman. I'm not. Sobrang takaw ko lang talaga. Pero may tama din s'ya. Hahahaha. Kasi I've never really realized na mahirap kami. My mother? Naglalabada or nangangatulungan at times. My father? Driver. Kulang na kulang sa pamilya namin tapos kung makabili ako ng softdrinks at chichiriya dati, kala mo nga naman anak mayaman.
Ahh. You know, recently like a year ago? ko narealize yung implication ng isa sa mga sitwasyon namin sa bahay. Siguro under 10 years old ako noon. Lima kami sa bahay. Kumakain, ang sampung pisong tuyo, may apat na piraso. Ang ulam namin, sabaw ng kape at tagiisang tuyo. "Bakit kape lang sa'yo, tay?" "Ulo ng tuyo ang paborito ko, akin na kung ayaw n'yo." Naiiyak ako ngayon kasi naalala ko, hindi naman sa paborito n'ya ang ulo ng tuyo kung hindi kulang sa aming lima ang apat na piraso kaya ulo lang nakakain n'ya.
I missed tatay ah. Grabe. Hahahaha. Kung siguro, hindi s'ya maaga namatay, kahit papaano, mapapatikim namin s'ya ng maayos na buhay. Ng mamatay s'ya, we're almost there eh. Kakatapos lang ni Kuya ng college at sasakay na s'ya ng barko in a few months, nagttake lang ng boarding exam.
2017 was the worst yr we've had. He was diagnosed with cancer early June. Hospitalized for 20 days in a private hospital with a total bill amounting to more than half a million. Saan kami kumuha ng pera? Utang lahat. Hahaha! His sss and company helped. The medical card he have, helped too. He was told that he'll have at most three months to live, so he was discharged. On my birthday. But he died exactly 3 months after, with only a week before my sister's 18th birthday. I remember sabi ng tatay sa bunso namin, "ano gusto mong pagkain? Anong gusto mong handa? Dalaga na bunso namin." And she answered kahit ano. We never thought na mahahandaan nga n'ya ang bunso namin. Tumapat ng siyaman ang birthday n'ya. Bilang kagustuhan din n'ya na maipaghanda ang bunso namin, nagpacater kami kahit wala din naman kaming pera. But that celebration wasn't really for my sister's birthday, para talaga sa tatay yon. We're all mourning and grieving, but we don't have time to. Ang dami naming utang. Nabaon kami.
But years later, heto na kami. Nakabayad na ng utang, with a special help from my brother. Nakapagpaayos ng bahay. Hindi na putik ang natutungtungan namin, hindi na kami binabaha sa loob pag umuulan, hindi na pumapatak ang tubig sa mga butas sa bubong. Hindi na namin kailangang magising ng disoras ng gabi dahil nabasa ang hinihigaan namin. May kanya kanya na kaming kwarto, kung dati pangarap namin ang may pintura sa bahay, pati kwarto meron na din. May TV na kami at hindi na kailangan pukpukin para magkatao or dumayo sa kapitbahay tapos pagsasarhan ng bintana, may ref na kami at hindi na kailangang magpahabilin ng hotdog. Ang electric fan namin na hindi umiikot at iisa lang, ngayon sa sobrang dami, hindi nagagamit lahat. Hindi naman kami yumaman, pero ngayon, afford na namin yung mga bagay na hindi namin akalaing magkakaroon din kami.
A lot of things happened in the span of those years from when I was 17, 18 to now that I'm 25.
And now, my brother has his own family. He's a seafarer and is married to a very very nice and kind hearted teacher. May baby na sila. My younger sister is an engineer working for a reputable company. Ako? Nakatapos din ako ng hospitality management. Kuya ko nagpaaral sakin. Kasi napangako n'ya yon nung mamatay si tatay. Sobrang thankful ako. Pero to be honest, I don't really want to go back to school. But I was happy I did.
Lahat ng kasabayan ko, graduate na, may magagandang trabaho tapos ako, "ay call center ka lang?". Itinatawa ko lang. Hahahaha.
I don't know what I'm even saying here kasi sobrang halo halo na. Hahahaha. Sorry. I just want an outlet din or a release. I don't think I'm depressed. I also don't think I'm suicidal although the thoughts came in mind every now and then to which is almost everyday. Hahahaha. But I will not act on it.
It's just that it just felt like at some point, I was robbed of my time. I can't say that I was robbed of my childhood kasi di naman na ako bata. Hahahaha! Kind of like it felt like I was forced to grow up.
Please, don't think too badly of me. Okay lang mga 90%, pero sana may 10% na nagegets ako. Parang ang dami kong gustong sabihin, pero wala na akong maitype. Hahaha! I don't know what's the point of this pero I felt like I was able to breathe kahit papaano. It's like telling things to a stranger that I will never meet. Thank you for reading although it's very confusing and is not organized. Hahaha
It was all my fault. It was all my choice that lead me up here, that lead me to where I am now.
I'm almost 26 at wala pa akong nararating sa buhay. I've tried and I'm tired. Pagod na ako.
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I am feeling distressed. Actually I don't know what to feel right now. Halo halo. I just woke up feeling super sad, super empty. Drama. Like I wanted to cry for no reason then andaming pumasok sa isip ko.
I was just reading a story here in this sub about their circle of friends at ang dami kong narealize, or probably I already know but I'm just not paying attention to it.
I (25F) had a circle of friends that I've been with since childhood. A (26M), B (26M), C (26F) and D (25F) are my somehow distant relatives and we grew up being friends and classmates together from elem to highschool. Daming away bata, pero at the end of the day, solid pa din kami.
Kahit nung magstop ako sa uni at magtrabaho at the age of 18, they never stopped being my friends. I remember na C and D were with me when I first applied for a job as a call center agent. I don't know the BPO industry. I know nothing about it, but I am proficient with the English language kahit noong elementarya pa lang, so when a headhunter asked me if I'm interested, I said yes. Actually kahit anong job lang talaga ina-apply-an ko. Nung time na yon, kahit sales lady lang. Ang pera namin at most 2h to 3h lang. D had 3h and both C and I only have around 2h. We went there at 11 AM and went home around 3 AM the next day at natanggap naman ako.
We only ate once around lunch time pa. Hahaha! Sabi ko pa sa kanila around 5 PM, mauna na sila umuwi, kaya ko na. Pero hindi nila ako iniwan kasi alam nila yung problem sa bahay at na kailangan ko sobra ang trabaho. Ang pameryenda lang samin ng company is one cup noodles at biscuit tapos water from water dispenser. Hindi ko kinain, binigay ko sa kanila kasi candy na lang kinakain nila nung time na yon. Ayaw pa nila tanggapin, kaso sabi ko nakakain na ako, to which is hindi pa naman. Sobra lang akong nahihiya at naaawa sa kanila. Tapos while waiting sa result ng interview, around 2 AM, nagkausap pa kami na "may takeout kami kanina na tirang chicken sa mang inasal diba? Kinain namin sa cr." Tapos tawanan kami kasi bakit sa cr? Nahihiya daw sila doon sa company kumain kasi maamoy. Noong time na yon, tawa lang kami ng tawa. But now, looking back, while I sacrifice my chance to go to school, they also sacrifice their time and patience para makakuha ako ng trabaho. I was very very grateful sa kanilang dalawa, until now. Tanda ko pa din na nangako akong sa unang sahod ko, treat ko sila, but hindi ko s'ya nagawa agad. It was a few months after pa kasi sobrang daming gastos sa bahay at hindi ko naman nahahawakan ang pera at ang ATM ko to be honest. Pero nabibigyan naman ako ng sapat na baon at pera pangpasok ulit sa work. I had no qualms or misgivings about it. Happy ako makatulong sa bahay.
That time, C and D are in college (they went to different university). C went to a state uni taking financial management while D, who's a bit well off, went to an expensive uni taking customs administration hehe. Me? I was working. For the first year, almost ever weekend kasama sina A and B, na ibang uni din pinapasukan since A chose to go to a uni in a different province to be a policeman, B chose a marine university to be a seafarer, kumakain kami sa labas. Not expensive. Lomi lang. Hahaha! I remember ang dami naming napuntahan na places nearby sa barangay lang namin ha, na lomian talaga. Sometimes ako yung nalilibre kahit ako yung may trabaho which I super duper appreciate talaga.
Since we all went different ways, may mga friendships na mabubuo sila sa college at ako naman sa work. However, I'm the type of person na aakalain mong extrovert kasi I can talk to everyone happily pero I can never open up about a lot of things. Parang I build walls? Na recently ko lang narealize. Around second year of working, we slowly became busy. Sobrang dami nilang school works, at ang daming projects, papers, etc.
(Medyo magulo but I already took two years in college kaso I stopped so at this point, they were all in their third yr to fourth yr in college.)
I realized na we're slowly losing our weekends getaway, papunta sa nawawalan na din kami ng time magreach out sa isa't isa. Then, I noticed that whenever I want to tag them sa memes sa FB or send them memes thru messenger, may iba na silang tinatag or may ibang nagsshare na sa kanila. Especially with C and D.
I remember, I think this was back in 2021. I saw a post about a trio that I can super relate that's about us. Pero nung makita ko yung post, si D pala ang nagshare tapos tagged ang dalawa sa friends n'ya sa college. Understand ko ha, it's just that I can't help but be jealous like, hindi ba ako ang naaalala n'yo sa ganito? Hahaha. Idk. That's so petty of me.
Then, starting from there, I noticed everything I don't want to. It was that I was the only one tagging them sa memes, reaching out and saying "kamusta?" on our GCs. Sending funny videos and memes. They never did that to me. Even until now. Nagsesend pa din ako ng kung ano ano sa "patay" naming GC. Hahaha. Because I still treat them as my main group of friends, even if they don't think the same about me,, although tatlo na lang kami sa GC since may asawa na pareho sina A and B and we don't want their wives to feel jealous about the things we talk about kasi alam n'yo naman siguro, na altho walang malisya, may napapagusapan pa din kaming naught things sa GC namin, so we created a new one na tatlo lang kami.
Right now, I really really felt sad.
Nakagraduate na din naman ako last year although two year course lang, but until now, I don't have the motivation to work. Parang naburnout ako? I want to look for a job, kaso I don't know how to start, and no, I'm not soliciting advises kasi I know how to start, but like I don't have a motivation or something. Magulo? Hahaha. Super. Pati utak ko.
Although, job hopper ako before I went back to school, I started working when I was 18 and it lasted until I was 23. Kahit madalas na sinasabi sakin na, "mas madami nagagastos mo at napapapunta sa'yo kaysa sinusulit mo sa bahay", I felt like I was really really burnout. Like ayokong kumilos, ayokong maligo, ayokong kumain. Tulog nga lang ako ng tulog, kaya taba ako ng taba. Hahahaha. Kain tulog cellphone lang ako. Palamunin. Like a money sucking bitch. Hahahaha.
Adik nga ako ngayon sa pagbabasa ng manhwa, and reading things unrealistically like rebirth wishing for it to be true. Sobrang lagi kong naiisip, can I go back to when I was 17? Before my father was diagnosed with cancer, before he died, before I started working and before being forced to grow up?
I don't know. Siguro kung mababasa to ng mga kapatid ko or ng nanay ko, iiyak sila tapos ako pa ang masusumbatan. Like "hindi naman kita pinilit magtrabaho, gusto kitang makatapos din agad. Pinipilit kitang magaral." That's true. Most of it was my fault, totoo namang pinilit ni nanay na wag ako magquit ng school, since madami scholarships na mapapasukan, kaso yung araw araw na gastos? Baon, pamasahe, pagkain, school projects, libro? I remember pa sabi ng kuya ko, ang luho ko kasi. Mayabang kasi ako. Akala mo anak mayaman. I'm not. Sobrang takaw ko lang talaga. Pero may tama din s'ya. Hahahaha. Kasi I've never really realized na mahirap kami. My mother? Naglalabada or nangangatulungan at times. My father? Driver. Kulang na kulang sa pamilya namin tapos kung makabili ako ng softdrinks at chichiriya dati, kala mo nga naman anak mayaman.
Ahh. You know, recently like a year ago? ko narealize yung implication ng isa sa mga sitwasyon namin sa bahay. Siguro under 10 years old ako noon. Lima kami sa bahay. Kumakain, ang sampung pisong tuyo, may apat na piraso. Ang ulam namin, sabaw ng kape at tagiisang tuyo. "Bakit kape lang sa'yo, tay?" "Ulo ng tuyo ang paborito ko, akin na kung ayaw n'yo." Naiiyak ako ngayon kasi naalala ko, hindi naman sa paborito n'ya ang ulo ng tuyo kung hindi kulang sa aming lima ang apat na piraso kaya ulo lang nakakain n'ya.
I missed tatay ah. Grabe. Hahahaha. Kung siguro, hindi s'ya maaga namatay, kahit papaano, mapapatikim namin s'ya ng maayos na buhay. Ng mamatay s'ya, we're almost there eh. Kakatapos lang ni Kuya ng college at sasakay na s'ya ng barko in a few months, nagttake lang ng boarding exam.
2017 was the worst yr we've had. He was diagnosed with cancer early June. Hospitalized for 20 days in a private hospital with a total bill amounting to more than half a million. Saan kami kumuha ng pera? Utang lahat. Hahaha! His sss and company helped. The medical card he have, helped too. He was told that he'll have at most three months to live, so he was discharged. On my birthday. But he died exactly 3 months after, with only a week before my sister's 18th birthday. I remember sabi ng tatay sa bunso namin, "ano gusto mong pagkain? Anong gusto mong handa? Dalaga na bunso namin." And she answered kahit ano. We never thought na mahahandaan nga n'ya ang bunso namin. Tumapat ng siyaman ang birthday n'ya. Bilang kagustuhan din n'ya na maipaghanda ang bunso namin, nagpacater kami kahit wala din naman kaming pera. But that celebration wasn't really for my sister's birthday, para talaga sa tatay yon. We're all mourning and grieving, but we don't have time to. Ang dami naming utang. Nabaon kami.
But years later, heto na kami. Nakabayad na ng utang, with a special help from my brother. Nakapagpaayos ng bahay. Hindi na putik ang natutungtungan namin, hindi na kami binabaha sa loob pag umuulan, hindi na pumapatak ang tubig sa mga butas sa bubong. Hindi na namin kailangang magising ng disoras ng gabi dahil nabasa ang hinihigaan namin. May kanya kanya na kaming kwarto, kung dati pangarap namin ang may pintura sa bahay, pati kwarto meron na din. May TV na kami at hindi na kailangan pukpukin para magkatao or dumayo sa kapitbahay tapos pagsasarhan ng bintana, may ref na kami at hindi na kailangang magpahabilin ng hotdog. Ang electric fan namin na hindi umiikot at iisa lang, ngayon sa sobrang dami, hindi nagagamit lahat. Hindi naman kami yumaman, pero ngayon, afford na namin yung mga bagay na hindi namin akalaing magkakaroon din kami.
A lot of things happened in the span of those years from when I was 17, 18 to now that I'm 25.
And now, my brother has his own family. He's a seafarer and is married to a very very nice and kind hearted teacher. May baby na sila. My younger sister is an engineer working for a reputable company. Ako? Nakatapos din ako ng hospitality management. Kuya ko nagpaaral sakin. Kasi napangako n'ya yon nung mamatay si tatay. Sobrang thankful ako. Pero to be honest, I don't really want to go back to school. But I was happy I did.
Lahat ng kasabayan ko, graduate na, may magagandang trabaho tapos ako, "ay call center ka lang?". Itinatawa ko lang. Hahahaha.
I don't know what I'm even saying here kasi sobrang halo halo na. Hahahaha. Sorry. I just want an outlet din or a release. I don't think I'm depressed. I also don't think I'm suicidal although the thoughts came in mind every now and then to which is almost everyday. Hahahaha. But I will not act on it.
It's just that it just felt like at some point, I was robbed of my time. I can't say that I was robbed of my childhood kasi di naman na ako bata. Hahahaha! Kind of like it felt like I was forced to grow up.
Please, don't think too badly of me. Okay lang mga 90%, pero sana may 10% na nagegets ako. Parang ang dami kong gustong sabihin, pero wala na akong maitype. Hahaha! I don't know what's the point of this pero I felt like I was able to breathe kahit papaano. It's like telling things to a stranger that I will never meet. Thank you for reading although it's very confusing and is not organized. Hahaha
It was all my fault. It was all my choice that lead me up here, that lead me to where I am now.
I'm almost 26 at wala pa akong nararating sa buhay. I've tried and I'm tired. Pagod na ako.
2024.04.19 05:15 Danielfaris2001 SIAPA PAK SAKO? ❓❓❓
 | ❓❓❓SIAPA PAK SAKO (ISHAK HAJI MUHAMMAD)❓❓❓ Nama Pak Sako sendiri bukanlah satu nama asing bagi negara kita terutama dalam bidang kesusasteraan. Pak Sako atau nama sebenar beliau Ishak Hj. Muhammad, dilahirkan pada bulan September 1909 di Kampung Bukit Siguntang, Temerloh, Pahang. Beliau juga dikenali dengan nama pena seperti Hantu Raya, Isako San, Pak Pandir Moden dan juga Anwar. Beliau banyak menghasilkan novel, cerpen, esei dan memoir serta turut menulis rencana untuk akhbar Kumpulan Utusan Melayu. submitted by Danielfaris2001 to Ajar_Malaysia [link] [comments] Antara karya beliau yang cukup terkenal ialah novel 'Putera Gunung Tahan' dan 'Anak Mat Lela Gila'. Kedua-dua novel tersebut mencerminkan pandangan dan cita-cita pengarangnya sebagai seorang patriot dan sasterawan. Dari tahun 1939 hingga 1941, beliau bertugas sebagai salah seorang sidang pengarang Utusan Melayu yang pada ketika itu dipimpin oleh Abdul Rahim Kajai (Abdul Rahim bin Haji Salim). Dalam waktu yang sama beliau mula bergiat dalam pergerakan politik. Sumbangan dirinya menyebabkan Kerajaan Pahang memberikan nama jalan di Temerloh sempena nama dirinya (berdekatan Lembaga Hasil Dalam Negeri [LHDN] Temerloh) Adakah anda ingin melihat hasil sumbangan beliau? Maka anda wajib lihat ini. Terbitan The Biblio Press 👉🏻 https://shope.ee/2LBbHMpBlE |
2024.04.15 08:32 indonesian_activist AnakJaksel.AI public testing phase #6: Image generation!
 | By popular request, submitted by indonesian_activist to indonesia [link] [comments] walau image generation bukanlah core competency AJAI, we believe we’re decent enough at it to give it a shot and satisfy user’s needs, thus AJAI sekarang sudah dapat men-generate image dengan 3 mode; standard, camera and anime __ __ Standard mode prompts: Mode default/standard merupakan mode yang paling versatile di antara 3 mode ini dan cocok juga untuk men-generate logo/vector art. 1. “bro tolong buat gambar cewek rambut pendek dengan tanktop putih, dreamscape, warhammer 40k, standard mode” https://preview.redd.it/cgexigcc7luc1.jpg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e98627305893ca13f9e7e3eb2395d29dce2340cd 2. “bro mirip yang tadi tapi ganti ke gta5 artwork style” https://preview.redd.it/5os3r37d7luc1.jpg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9d248e34dd23cfb6ec5f99bdc087b15bf55e4bad 3. “sekarang yang style vector illustration, simple, white background” https://preview.redd.it/5vgz6l3e7luc1.jpg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=97559f7bc85b8e628bf0ad68edb68f4a9f9d4bfe __ Camera Mode Prompts Sedangkan camera mode adalah mode untuk yang ingin membuat gambar khusus orang/people yang photorealistic seperti foto kamera “my brai, bikinin gambar cewek rambut pendek dengan tanktop putih, camera mode” https://preview.redd.it/5s4xqowe7luc1.jpg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=67fb5e25ec333ff1824b1c314d132e368b113be8 __ Anime mode prompts Dan last but not least agar komunitas WIBU juga mau ikut ngeramein AI ini “AI sama tolong buat gambar cewek rambut pendek dengan tanktop putih, anime mode kudasai” https://preview.redd.it/y9hes5pf7luc1.jpg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b58695dc2858e1673971f5c168acdb5f5b322032 Semoga dapat menghibur dan juga bermanfaat yahttps://AnakJaksel.AI/Previous posts · AnakJaksel.AI public testing phase #5: Fast streaming text generation, <3 detik! · AnakJaksel.AI public testing phase #4: Finance, news, places, products, events and jobs search examples! · AnakJaksel.AI public testing phase #3, edisi spesial Ramadhan yang bisa mengakses internet! · AnakJaksel.AI public testing phase 2 is now live! · Custom LLM(Large Language Model) trained on 1 billion tokens of JakSel slang :) __ __ __ *POST CREDIT BONUS\* As a reward karena telah membaca sampai akhir, maka surprise, ada juga kpop mode untuk generate image people ala fashion photography aktris2 korea, “broski bikinin gambar cewek rambut pendek dengan tanktop putih, kpop mode” https://preview.redd.it/k1unybog7luc1.jpg?width=512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e4f9a90596b4c3739e5ffb681819bb8700560a5a “Ok bro, terakhir nih, bikinin gambar cewek korea yang menurut loe, berdasarkan training data loe, memiliki kumpulan atribut2 yang paling disukai oleh komunitas reddit indonesia***, kpop mode”*** https://preview.redd.it/02mgwgnl7luc1.png?width=512&format=png&auto=webp&s=b3330ab17bf551394178d8e1ce5e27d6aefaf5c2 Gimana pas gak? Dan kalau nanya kenapa gak ada IGO mode, well sebenarnya udah ready sih IGO modenya hanya saja legal team berpendapat mode ini akan mengundang drama dan kolega2 hotman paris, jadi kita postpone dulu releasenya, tunggu updatenya di insta ya 😉 |
2024.04.13 01:57 CrushLandiOnYou Sana kayanin ko :)
Malapit na naman kaming mag pasukan ngayong 3rd semester. Ang bilis ng araw at buwan dahil after 3 months, 2nd year na ako. Sa katunayan, kung hindi nagkaroon ng pandemic graduating na sana ako next year. Pero dahil shit happens sa buhay, tumigil ako sa unang taon ko sa college dahil hindi ko gusto ung napasukan kong school and currently an irregular 1st year student. Kung gaano kabilis ang araw at buwan na tumatakbo ganoon din kabilis ang gastos sa school. I feel bad, kasi pakiramdam ko hindi ko deserve mag-aral sa school namin given na ang mahal ng tuition dahil literal na ginagapang lang ng magulang ko ung pag-aaral ko.
Bigla-bigla na lang akong naiyak noong isang araw habang kausap ko ung daddy ko sa phone at sinabi niyang "kakayanin natin ito anak basta galingan mo lang sa pag-aaral at magtapos ka". Naiiyak talaga ako, kasi madalas iniisip ko kung paano ba ako magkakaroon ng extra income, kung kakayanin ko ba or hindi or baka naman masyado lang akong takot na mapagod at umalis sa comfort zone ko. Marami naman akong time, dahil irreg pero hindi ko nama-maximize ng ayos ung oras ko. Madalas na nag-iisip ako at naaapektuhan ung pag-aaral ko. Pasado naman lahat ng courses na kinuha ko last semester pero it was not enough to satisfy me.
Ang dami kong gustong gawin sa buhay ko, sadyang nalilimitahan lang ng financial difficulties. Hindi ako madalas manghingi ng pera sa magulang ko, pero binibigyan naman ako nila kapag nanghingi ako pero dahil 20 na ako iniiwasan kong humingi ng humingi kasi nakakahiya. Lagi ko na lang pinapaalala sa sa sarili ko na ung mga gusto ko sa buhay ay hindi ko magagawa at ma-achieve sa loob ng isang taon but I should take a first step kung paano ko sila ma-aachieve but lagi akong takot sa mga bagay na unfamiliar ako.
Ilang buwan na lang uuwi na naman ung tatay ko at magco-college na ung kapatid ko. Paniguradong mas mahihirapan kami sa financial. Na-anxious ako ngayon pa lang, pero hindi ako pwedeng sumuko dahil pinapapaala ko lagi sa sarili ko na mag-iimprove pa ung buhay at maipagmamalaki pa ako ng mga magulang ko. Sadyang masyadong personal ito para i-open up ko sa mga kaibigan ko.
Umagang-umaga pero ang drama-drama ko. Pero sana makaya ko :)
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Bigla-bigla na lang akong naiyak noong isang araw habang kausap ko ung daddy ko sa phone at sinabi niyang "kakayanin natin ito anak basta galingan mo lang sa pag-aaral at magtapos ka". Naiiyak talaga ako, kasi madalas iniisip ko kung paano ba ako magkakaroon ng extra income, kung kakayanin ko ba or hindi or baka naman masyado lang akong takot na mapagod at umalis sa comfort zone ko. Marami naman akong time, dahil irreg pero hindi ko nama-maximize ng ayos ung oras ko. Madalas na nag-iisip ako at naaapektuhan ung pag-aaral ko. Pasado naman lahat ng courses na kinuha ko last semester pero it was not enough to satisfy me.
Ang dami kong gustong gawin sa buhay ko, sadyang nalilimitahan lang ng financial difficulties. Hindi ako madalas manghingi ng pera sa magulang ko, pero binibigyan naman ako nila kapag nanghingi ako pero dahil 20 na ako iniiwasan kong humingi ng humingi kasi nakakahiya. Lagi ko na lang pinapaalala sa sa sarili ko na ung mga gusto ko sa buhay ay hindi ko magagawa at ma-achieve sa loob ng isang taon but I should take a first step kung paano ko sila ma-aachieve but lagi akong takot sa mga bagay na unfamiliar ako.
Ilang buwan na lang uuwi na naman ung tatay ko at magco-college na ung kapatid ko. Paniguradong mas mahihirapan kami sa financial. Na-anxious ako ngayon pa lang, pero hindi ako pwedeng sumuko dahil pinapapaala ko lagi sa sarili ko na mag-iimprove pa ung buhay at maipagmamalaki pa ako ng mga magulang ko. Sadyang masyadong personal ito para i-open up ko sa mga kaibigan ko.
Umagang-umaga pero ang drama-drama ko. Pero sana makaya ko :)