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2014.10.24 00:23 Cakesmite Funny but fake.
Welcome to /GoodFakeTexts! This subreddit is for posting text messages that are extremely likely fake, yet funny.
2016.03.23 10:23 walwalan Ex-Iglesia Ni Cristo: for ex-members, the curious, and the enlightened
Ex-Iglesia Ni Cristo is a subreddit for members who have left and/or are planning to leave the Iglesia Ni Cristo (Church of Christ). The INC is a restorationist non-trinitarian sect from the Philippines that was established in November 1913 by Expelled Adventist, Felix Y. Manalo.
2011.03.10 23:30 stainedsheets Taco Bell
Taco Bell. Live Mas!
2024.05.19 19:18 Obvious_Path_9960 Time
I have time issues with my ex when dropping kids. We meet at the police station for safety reasons. I have had orders of protection against him since 2018 and the last one will expired in two more years. We do not have a time settle in written, we are in court mostly because the time and drop off place. We have 50/50 and I also have residential custody. First the time it was 8:00 he always was 15-20 min late. Later I switch it to 7:30, he was also late. Arriving almos at 8. Now 6:30 but he’s always sending me text that he will not be there at that time and he’s doing 8:00. Who usually puts the time frame? What can I do? My kids are 7 and 8.
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2024.05.19 19:14 Vampirek1tten FxA] 🌑🥀Come On Down/Looking For Rp Buddies🌙
Hi I am looking for a few long term roleplay partners!!! I love ooc chatting. ‼️Not replacing any rp partners. Just searching for a few more. ‼️I am central time zone. I do bxg(mc) and gxg(mc)
So to be honest and blunt. I really am looking for someone who would share ideas back and forth and have a good laugh and have fun. Roleplay is a way for me to escape reality.
I do not do bxb plots. And I also do not do fandom roleplays. But beware you need to match the requirements and I’ll be going over a few other details. Till then everyone.
╔═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╗ What I’m Looking For ╚═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╝ 🥀 Literate to Advance Literate. (Three or more paragraphs. Please put effort into each reply.) Needs to rp in third person please.
🕊️Need to be eighteen or older as I am 23 years old.
🥀Please be detailed with character bios and have some ready, or don’t mind making them. That includes having a real face claim not anime or drawn ocs
🕊️ please try to be very sociable and communicate. I want you to put in effort and be excited.
🥀 I am one of those people who like to make up non-canon scenarios OOC. And talk about our characters outside the roleplay. So I would love you to do the same. Again it’s about matching that energy. Don’t be scared to ask any questions.
🕊️I will not carry the story-making process on my own. I will have my own ideas to share and let's keep an open mind. Though I expect you to have some ideas as well
🕊️Please be okay with playing multiple characters! This includes non main ocs, to help the story move and build.
🥀Have semi good grammar and punctuation. No text talk or abbreviations
🕊️You use these “” for talk and these ‘’ for thoughts no**
🎉Thank You For Reaching The End🎉 So ending on that note. Please bring awesome happy excited vibes. I’ll respond as soon as I can!!! I can’t wait!!!
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So to be honest and blunt. I really am looking for someone who would share ideas back and forth and have a good laugh and have fun. Roleplay is a way for me to escape reality.
I do not do bxb plots. And I also do not do fandom roleplays. But beware you need to match the requirements and I’ll be going over a few other details. Till then everyone.
╔═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╗ What I’m Looking For ╚═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╝ 🥀 Literate to Advance Literate. (Three or more paragraphs. Please put effort into each reply.) Needs to rp in third person please.
🕊️Need to be eighteen or older as I am 23 years old.
🥀Please be detailed with character bios and have some ready, or don’t mind making them. That includes having a real face claim not anime or drawn ocs
🕊️ please try to be very sociable and communicate. I want you to put in effort and be excited.
🥀 I am one of those people who like to make up non-canon scenarios OOC. And talk about our characters outside the roleplay. So I would love you to do the same. Again it’s about matching that energy. Don’t be scared to ask any questions.
🕊️I will not carry the story-making process on my own. I will have my own ideas to share and let's keep an open mind. Though I expect you to have some ideas as well
🕊️Please be okay with playing multiple characters! This includes non main ocs, to help the story move and build.
🥀Have semi good grammar and punctuation. No text talk or abbreviations
🕊️You use these “” for talk and these ‘’ for thoughts no**
🎉Thank You For Reaching The End🎉 So ending on that note. Please bring awesome happy excited vibes. I’ll respond as soon as I can!!! I can’t wait!!!
2024.05.19 19:14 Vampirek1tten [FxA] 🌑🥀Looking For Rp Buddies🥀
Hi I am looking for a few long term roleplay partners!!! I love ooc chatting. ‼️Not replacing anyone just have a few more spots open‼️I am central time zone. I do bxg(mc) and gxg(mc)
So to be honest and blunt. I really am looking for someone who would share ideas back and forth and have a good laugh and have fun. Roleplay is a way for me to escape reality.
I do not do bxb plots. And I also do not do fandom roleplays. But beware you need to match the requirements and I’ll be going over a few other details. Till then everyone.
╔═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╗ What I’m Looking For ╚═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╝ 🥀 Literate to Advance Literate. (Three or more paragraphs. Please put effort into each reply.) Needs to rp in third person please.
🕊️Need to be eighteen or older as I am 23 years old.
🥀Please be detailed with character bios and have some ready, or don’t mind making them. That includes having a real face claim not anime or drawn ocs
🕊️ please try to be very sociable and communicate. I want you to put in effort and be excited.
🥀 I am one of those people who like to make up non-canon scenarios OOC. And talk about our characters outside the roleplay. So I would love you to do the same. Again it’s about matching that energy. Don’t be scared to ask any questions.
🕊️I will not carry the story-making process on my own. I will have my own ideas to share and let's keep an open mind. Though I expect you to have some ideas as well
🕊️Please be okay with playing multiple characters! This includes non main ocs, to help the story move and build.
🥀Have semi good grammar and punctuation. No text talk or abbreviations
🕊️You use these “” for talk and these ‘’ for thoughts no**
🎉Thank You For Reaching The End🎉 So ending on that note. Please bring awesome happy excited vibes. I’ll respond as soon as I can!!! I can’t wait!!!
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So to be honest and blunt. I really am looking for someone who would share ideas back and forth and have a good laugh and have fun. Roleplay is a way for me to escape reality.
I do not do bxb plots. And I also do not do fandom roleplays. But beware you need to match the requirements and I’ll be going over a few other details. Till then everyone.
╔═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╗ What I’m Looking For ╚═══.·:·.☽✧ ✦ ✧☾.·:·.═══╝ 🥀 Literate to Advance Literate. (Three or more paragraphs. Please put effort into each reply.) Needs to rp in third person please.
🕊️Need to be eighteen or older as I am 23 years old.
🥀Please be detailed with character bios and have some ready, or don’t mind making them. That includes having a real face claim not anime or drawn ocs
🕊️ please try to be very sociable and communicate. I want you to put in effort and be excited.
🥀 I am one of those people who like to make up non-canon scenarios OOC. And talk about our characters outside the roleplay. So I would love you to do the same. Again it’s about matching that energy. Don’t be scared to ask any questions.
🕊️I will not carry the story-making process on my own. I will have my own ideas to share and let's keep an open mind. Though I expect you to have some ideas as well
🕊️Please be okay with playing multiple characters! This includes non main ocs, to help the story move and build.
🥀Have semi good grammar and punctuation. No text talk or abbreviations
🕊️You use these “” for talk and these ‘’ for thoughts no**
🎉Thank You For Reaching The End🎉 So ending on that note. Please bring awesome happy excited vibes. I’ll respond as soon as I can!!! I can’t wait!!!
2024.05.19 19:13 WardenZero Hard to find an honest SB
Found a girl on seeking, been talking for a week. Had some fun cam calls. She was new to the game. She's in correction I work for the gov. We met on Saturday all we did was kiss, rub her thighs, and grab dinner. We met at a resturant and it was booked. So she hoped into my car to a different place. During the time at the new resturant she kept texting someone "her friend" claims was a cop who was bi checking on her. And such. She was frustrated about it and I was like no worries we are just having dinner. Then the second time she went for a call she dipped. Do you think I should be worried or just chalk this as an L? Also she deleted her account on seeking, fetlife, and blocked me on snap. I did verify she worked at corrections. Idk if I need to be worried. I was very respectful towards her cause I can tell she was nervous. It's a lot different talking on the phone vs. irl. And when I paid the bill and drove back her car was still at the first resturant.
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2024.05.19 19:13 ryltea Having waves of doubt about my (32F) marriage (33M) being emotionally abusive and don’t know what to do or think?
I may be in an abusive relationship and idk what to do or think
I met my husband when I was young, ten years ago. He was my second boyfriend and is from a different culture, so there were things I both didn’t understand and was fascinated by.
I am doing trauma therapy right now and learning about damaging relationships in light of my childhood. As I’m reading about the abuse a narcissistic parents imbues on their child it’s crashing into me that I might be doing this all over again.
He’s done so many things that make me believe and know he loves me. But I’m worried I shouldn’t have overlooked the red flags.. - the time when, after I made a photo book of all our dates for his first birthday, he forgot mine that year and then showed up with a bouquet of flowers and argued with me about why he couldn’t be there (I traveled to see him at work). He’s forgotten it again since. - shortly after we got married I found out he had been snapchat messaging his ex. He saved loads of their chats somehow and I stumbled upon them as he received a snap at an odd time. The texts had started when we were dating, included sexting, and he told her she’d always be his first love. He told me it was a mistake and I didn’t want to give up so easily. Nothing I know of has happened since. - he hasn’t had a job in four years. I have broken myself emotionally from trying to keep us afloat, but he spends his days playing video games. - when we get in arguments and he flat out refuses to speak to me until I apologize. - he dreams of the day I give up everything and move back to his home and family, despite the fact I’m the only one that works.
He was the one who insisted on marrying me and moved to be with me but reading patterns of abusive relationships I’m starting to wonder if it’s not just my parents who took advantage of my desire to be seen and loved. Am I making the mistake of both our lives? I also want to be a loving and understanding wife because I struggle with mental health issues and he struggles with neurological disabilities. But how much of this is me being too nice and him being too something? I really love him but I’ve been hurt so bad and I can’t even trust myself anymore.
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I met my husband when I was young, ten years ago. He was my second boyfriend and is from a different culture, so there were things I both didn’t understand and was fascinated by.
I am doing trauma therapy right now and learning about damaging relationships in light of my childhood. As I’m reading about the abuse a narcissistic parents imbues on their child it’s crashing into me that I might be doing this all over again.
He’s done so many things that make me believe and know he loves me. But I’m worried I shouldn’t have overlooked the red flags.. - the time when, after I made a photo book of all our dates for his first birthday, he forgot mine that year and then showed up with a bouquet of flowers and argued with me about why he couldn’t be there (I traveled to see him at work). He’s forgotten it again since. - shortly after we got married I found out he had been snapchat messaging his ex. He saved loads of their chats somehow and I stumbled upon them as he received a snap at an odd time. The texts had started when we were dating, included sexting, and he told her she’d always be his first love. He told me it was a mistake and I didn’t want to give up so easily. Nothing I know of has happened since. - he hasn’t had a job in four years. I have broken myself emotionally from trying to keep us afloat, but he spends his days playing video games. - when we get in arguments and he flat out refuses to speak to me until I apologize. - he dreams of the day I give up everything and move back to his home and family, despite the fact I’m the only one that works.
He was the one who insisted on marrying me and moved to be with me but reading patterns of abusive relationships I’m starting to wonder if it’s not just my parents who took advantage of my desire to be seen and loved. Am I making the mistake of both our lives? I also want to be a loving and understanding wife because I struggle with mental health issues and he struggles with neurological disabilities. But how much of this is me being too nice and him being too something? I really love him but I’ve been hurt so bad and I can’t even trust myself anymore.
2024.05.19 19:11 Same-Ad1100 How should I feel about this?
A 33f and I were talking and going on dates, she was cheating on her boyfriend with me. I’m 23m she almost got caught on a lunch date with me, when she got away with it she essentially suddenly changed because she was guilty. I know she likes me but she would try not to look at me when we talked ( we see eachother often because we work at the same place )
at first she would still let me tease her and she would blush and smile and stuff but quickly she wanted no business with flirting, and would give me the cold shoulder, I get it, it made her feel like a bad person. However she would then send me videos and stuff that she thought I would like and make an effort to talk to me when he wasn’t around.
Yesterday she texted me and said that she ended it with Seth she is obviously now kind of grieving that and didn’t respond to me after we exchanged a couple of messages. We haven’t seen eachother in person and won’t till Tuesday. How should I play this though? Do I try and talk with her, do I leave her alone and give her space. I’m not sure how to react to her telling me she ended it with him she randomly texted me “promise not to be weird?” Before texting me
She still likes me and wants to connect with me clearly ( Our previous relations were honestly pretty passionate and exciting and she is the one who originally asked me for my number and if I wanted to go out with her ) but it feels weird for her to say that like that. I do get it though she didn’t want me to immediately go straight to trying to fuck her as soon as she told me. Any advice?
Edit: we were never really candidates to be with eachother, it was just supposed to be fun
TL;DR how am I supposed to behave??
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at first she would still let me tease her and she would blush and smile and stuff but quickly she wanted no business with flirting, and would give me the cold shoulder, I get it, it made her feel like a bad person. However she would then send me videos and stuff that she thought I would like and make an effort to talk to me when he wasn’t around.
Yesterday she texted me and said that she ended it with Seth she is obviously now kind of grieving that and didn’t respond to me after we exchanged a couple of messages. We haven’t seen eachother in person and won’t till Tuesday. How should I play this though? Do I try and talk with her, do I leave her alone and give her space. I’m not sure how to react to her telling me she ended it with him she randomly texted me “promise not to be weird?” Before texting me
She still likes me and wants to connect with me clearly ( Our previous relations were honestly pretty passionate and exciting and she is the one who originally asked me for my number and if I wanted to go out with her ) but it feels weird for her to say that like that. I do get it though she didn’t want me to immediately go straight to trying to fuck her as soon as she told me. Any advice?
Edit: we were never really candidates to be with eachother, it was just supposed to be fun
TL;DR how am I supposed to behave??
2024.05.19 19:10 ryltea I may be in an abusive relationship and idk what to do or think
I met my husband when I was young, ten years ago. He was my second boyfriend and is from a different culture, so there were things I both didn’t understand and was fascinated by.
I am doing trauma therapy right now and learning about damaging relationships in light of my childhood. As I’m reading about the abuse a narcissistic parents imbues on their child it’s crashing into me that I might be doing this all over again.
He’s done so many things that make me believe and know he loves me. But I’m worried I shouldn’t have overlooked the red flags.. - the time when, after I made a photo book of all our dates for his first birthday, he forgot mine that year and then showed up with a bouquet of flowers and argued with me about why he couldn’t be there (I traveled to see him at work). He’s forgotten it again since. - shortly after we got married I found out he had been snapchat messaging his ex. He saved loads of their chats somehow and I stumbled upon them as he received a snap at an odd time. The texts had started when we were dating, included sexting, and he told her she’d always be his first love. He told me it was a mistake and I didn’t want to give up so easily. Nothing I know of has happened since. - he hasn’t had a job in four years. I have broken myself emotionally from trying to keep us afloat, but he spends his days playing video games. - when we get in arguments and he flat out refuses to speak to me until I apologize. - he dreams of the day I give up everything and move back to his home and family, despite the fact I’m the only one that works.
He was the one who insisted on marrying me and moved to be with me but reading patterns of abusive relationships I’m starting to wonder if it’s not just my parents who took advantage of my desire to be seen and loved. Am I making the mistake of both our lives? I also want to be a loving and understanding wife because I struggle with mental health issues and he struggles with neurological disabilities. But how much of this is me being too nice and him being too something? I really love him but I’ve been hurt so bad and I can’t even trust myself anymore.
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I am doing trauma therapy right now and learning about damaging relationships in light of my childhood. As I’m reading about the abuse a narcissistic parents imbues on their child it’s crashing into me that I might be doing this all over again.
He’s done so many things that make me believe and know he loves me. But I’m worried I shouldn’t have overlooked the red flags.. - the time when, after I made a photo book of all our dates for his first birthday, he forgot mine that year and then showed up with a bouquet of flowers and argued with me about why he couldn’t be there (I traveled to see him at work). He’s forgotten it again since. - shortly after we got married I found out he had been snapchat messaging his ex. He saved loads of their chats somehow and I stumbled upon them as he received a snap at an odd time. The texts had started when we were dating, included sexting, and he told her she’d always be his first love. He told me it was a mistake and I didn’t want to give up so easily. Nothing I know of has happened since. - he hasn’t had a job in four years. I have broken myself emotionally from trying to keep us afloat, but he spends his days playing video games. - when we get in arguments and he flat out refuses to speak to me until I apologize. - he dreams of the day I give up everything and move back to his home and family, despite the fact I’m the only one that works.
He was the one who insisted on marrying me and moved to be with me but reading patterns of abusive relationships I’m starting to wonder if it’s not just my parents who took advantage of my desire to be seen and loved. Am I making the mistake of both our lives? I also want to be a loving and understanding wife because I struggle with mental health issues and he struggles with neurological disabilities. But how much of this is me being too nice and him being too something? I really love him but I’ve been hurt so bad and I can’t even trust myself anymore.
2024.05.19 19:10 Distressed_mom1985 50/50 custody can I legally keep my 6 year old
My ex and I have not been able to communicate at all in the last 5 years, his current wife was the same woman who moved into my home when we were still married but she says Native American culture states that men cannot talk to women, so he hasn’t been allowed to talk to me. His wife does not have custody of her children due to a 1st degree attempted murder charge against her ex. My son who is now 15, moved in with his dad 2 years ago and has been committing crimes. My 6 year old daughter has called his wife “mom” in the past but now states that “Winu is NoT my family” so I suspect a problem… I texted my ex and said he has to come pick up our 6 year old at 5pm or he can not take her. His wife is not included in court documents, she never went to court. Can I legally keep my daughter if my ex doesn’t show up to pick her up, but sends his wife like usual? We have been doing week on, week off with her for 5 months
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2024.05.19 19:09 Sea_Offer9719 F4F Adventure/Action Rp Partner Search
Hey all!
With the semester ending I have a little more downtime (with the exception of the job I will be starting soon!) but with my spare time, I decided to add on another roleplay! I am 20F and write in third person pov, I can write lengthy replies, but in all honesty…I’m looking for something fun, for the most part fast paced and low key. I’m never a stickler for word count, as long as what you send is coherent, adds to our story and moves it along. I don’t at all mind OOC chat, in fact, I enjoy it! However, I know for some that might not be something they’re open to and that’s completely fine! As long as we can communicate our ideas for our story, as well as boundaries and/or dealbreakers when it comes to themes!
I am searching for a 19+ woman to write some sorta adventure/action story! Involving perhaps gangs? Mafia? Being on the run? I’ve haven’t really thought too hard about it since I’d like for us to brainstorm together! I have a few loose ideas that I can share in DMs, all I know is I want for our characters to be some bad asses! Ofc this involves romance between characters, my favorite trope is enemies to lovers but I’m down for anything that’s involving 18+ characters (I am wanting a lesbian romance!).
I am searching for a partner that also writes in third pov, for the most part is active (tho life comes first so I understand if there are days where replies are slower, I may be the same way.) someone who isn’t a stickler for word count but can add to the story and has themselves a discord!
I am also open to any ideas you may have so if I meet your criteria and you think you meet mine but don’t wanna go down the path of adventure/action…don’t be shy to shoot me a text! Im open minded but fair warning: anything involving princesses and/or fairies just isn’t my thing, sorry in advance!
Other than that, I am excited to hear from you!
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With the semester ending I have a little more downtime (with the exception of the job I will be starting soon!) but with my spare time, I decided to add on another roleplay! I am 20F and write in third person pov, I can write lengthy replies, but in all honesty…I’m looking for something fun, for the most part fast paced and low key. I’m never a stickler for word count, as long as what you send is coherent, adds to our story and moves it along. I don’t at all mind OOC chat, in fact, I enjoy it! However, I know for some that might not be something they’re open to and that’s completely fine! As long as we can communicate our ideas for our story, as well as boundaries and/or dealbreakers when it comes to themes!
I am searching for a 19+ woman to write some sorta adventure/action story! Involving perhaps gangs? Mafia? Being on the run? I’ve haven’t really thought too hard about it since I’d like for us to brainstorm together! I have a few loose ideas that I can share in DMs, all I know is I want for our characters to be some bad asses! Ofc this involves romance between characters, my favorite trope is enemies to lovers but I’m down for anything that’s involving 18+ characters (I am wanting a lesbian romance!).
I am searching for a partner that also writes in third pov, for the most part is active (tho life comes first so I understand if there are days where replies are slower, I may be the same way.) someone who isn’t a stickler for word count but can add to the story and has themselves a discord!
I am also open to any ideas you may have so if I meet your criteria and you think you meet mine but don’t wanna go down the path of adventure/action…don’t be shy to shoot me a text! Im open minded but fair warning: anything involving princesses and/or fairies just isn’t my thing, sorry in advance!
Other than that, I am excited to hear from you!
2024.05.19 19:09 Glayyn SUMMER BREAK SMP [smp] {1.20.4} {16+}
Summer Break SMP: Your Ultimate Minecraft Survival Adventure
Welcome to Summer Break SMP, a dynamic and vibrant Minecraft server where creativity meets adventure in the perfect balance of building, grinding, and socializing. Whether you’re a seasoned player or a newcomer looking for a welcoming community, Summer Break SMP offers a rich and engaging survival multiplayer (SMP) experience that will keep you hooked from day one.
Server Overview
Summer Break SMP is a survival multiplayer server designed to offer players a well-rounded Minecraft experience. Our server is tailored for those who enjoy the fundamental aspects of survival gameplay—building magnificent structures, grinding for resources, and forming lasting connections with other players.
Key Features
Building Paradise:
Creative Freedom: Build anything your heart desires, from sprawling cities and cozy villages to intricate redstone contraptions and breathtaking landscapes.
Collaborative Projects: Join forces with fellow players on large-scale builds or community projects, adding a cooperative element to your building endeavors.
Regular Build Competitions: Participate in themed building competitions to showcase your skills and earn unique rewards.
Community and socializing:
Friendly Community: Connect with a diverse group of players who share your passion for Minecraft. Our community is welcoming, inclusive, and always ready to help out.
Events and Activities: Engage in regular events such as PvP tournaments, treasure hunts, and seasonal festivities that bring the community together.
Voice and Text Chat: Stay connected with fellow players through our Discord server, where you can chat, plan builds, and form lasting friendships.
Server Management and Quality of Life:
Active Moderation: Our team of dedicated moderators ensures a safe and enjoyable environment for all players by enforcing server rules and handling any issues promptly.
Lag-Free Experience: We prioritize server performance to provide a smooth and lag-free gameplay experience, even during peak times.
Backups and Security: Regular backups and security measures are in place to protect your progress and creations.
In conclusion,
Summer Break SMP is more than just a Minecraft server; it’s a community where you can unleash your creativity, grind for resources, and make new friends. Whether you’re constructing a towering skyscraper, exploring the vast landscapes, or simply hanging out with other players, every moment on Summer Break SMP is an opportunity for adventure and fun.
Join us today and make your summer break unforgettable in the world of Minecraft!
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Welcome to Summer Break SMP, a dynamic and vibrant Minecraft server where creativity meets adventure in the perfect balance of building, grinding, and socializing. Whether you’re a seasoned player or a newcomer looking for a welcoming community, Summer Break SMP offers a rich and engaging survival multiplayer (SMP) experience that will keep you hooked from day one.
Server Overview
Summer Break SMP is a survival multiplayer server designed to offer players a well-rounded Minecraft experience. Our server is tailored for those who enjoy the fundamental aspects of survival gameplay—building magnificent structures, grinding for resources, and forming lasting connections with other players.
Key Features
Building Paradise:
Creative Freedom: Build anything your heart desires, from sprawling cities and cozy villages to intricate redstone contraptions and breathtaking landscapes.
Collaborative Projects: Join forces with fellow players on large-scale builds or community projects, adding a cooperative element to your building endeavors.
Regular Build Competitions: Participate in themed building competitions to showcase your skills and earn unique rewards.
Community and socializing:
Friendly Community: Connect with a diverse group of players who share your passion for Minecraft. Our community is welcoming, inclusive, and always ready to help out.
Events and Activities: Engage in regular events such as PvP tournaments, treasure hunts, and seasonal festivities that bring the community together.
Voice and Text Chat: Stay connected with fellow players through our Discord server, where you can chat, plan builds, and form lasting friendships.
Server Management and Quality of Life:
Active Moderation: Our team of dedicated moderators ensures a safe and enjoyable environment for all players by enforcing server rules and handling any issues promptly.
Lag-Free Experience: We prioritize server performance to provide a smooth and lag-free gameplay experience, even during peak times.
Backups and Security: Regular backups and security measures are in place to protect your progress and creations.
In conclusion,
Summer Break SMP is more than just a Minecraft server; it’s a community where you can unleash your creativity, grind for resources, and make new friends. Whether you’re constructing a towering skyscraper, exploring the vast landscapes, or simply hanging out with other players, every moment on Summer Break SMP is an opportunity for adventure and fun.
Join us today and make your summer break unforgettable in the world of Minecraft!
Application Form- https://forms.gle/Zk9bccXfhS7SNt636
2024.05.19 19:06 Anitaruihi19 My friend (21F) keeps on getting back with his bf (22M) despite him being a racist, cheating and backstabbing person. Idk if love can cure this thing but, what should I tell her?
Some backstory before you bomb me with let it be that's not your business, cuz I'm really worried about her and she is such a nice person.
I'm not a very friendly person. I'm cold and have a very tough time making friends. Our school organized a trip to Paris before graduation and I thought I was going to be alone, like always, and didn't mind since one gets used to it.
I was shocked when one of my classmates ( let's call her Lee to make this easier) offer me to share room with her and one of her best friends ( let's call her Nancy, she is the main character of this story).
They have always been kind to me since I arrived to school lash year. Lee even invited me to her Quinceañera and even today I can't understand why they were all so welcoming and nice to me.
We weren't the closest of friend so I was really surprised. I later discovered that Lee turned down and offer from one of her friends to be with Nancy and with me. That's another story, so I won't go into detail about that.
When you share room with someone, even if it's for a week, you get to know them a lot.
I knew she had a bf because we where all in the same class last year. What I didn't know is that they broke up.
She told us the whole story when eating at McDonald's with another friend ( let's call him Dan). He's relevant to the story since he's friends with the friends of Nancy's ex. Nancy told us they broke up in good terms. After the break up some of his ex's friends ( let's call the ex Cole since keeping up with the ex bla bla bla Is getting tedious) told Nancy about his multiple affairs. They were at least 3 in the 8 months of the relationship. One at the FIRST WEEK. Another one when he went to visit his relatives in Rumania, and another one I don't remember when.
We talked a lot that night. A few days later Dan told us some nasty things Cole said at Nancy's back. For example, quote, You changed me for that fucking nasty *beaner*.
It's important to say Dan isn't friends with Cole, so he might have said that to hurt Nancy through Dan, idk.
My sister is also friends with a friend of Cole. I listen to the audios he sent her and we can sum them up by saying that "Nancy was a slut, trying to get someone between her legs". He also told my sister that Nancy ended the relationship because, quote again "she wanted to be with other men while Cole was away, since she didn't felt loved enough". He also told my sister that he was texting a lot of guys with very friendly messages, while Cole worked his ass of to give her the best, spending many money on her, like if she was an investment or something.
Let's say that, at the very end of the relationship, a guy started texting Nancy and there was mutual interest. Though she always turned down his offers and invitations for the relationship's sake.
It's also worth mentioning that after the break up, Cole was dating again after literally a week, showing off her girlfriend specially to Nancy.
Nancy hasn't been in any dates since. She kept on talking with this guy though, but it wasjust texting, nothing more.
Now, fast forward to today, they're posting stories together holding hands and kissing ( Cole and Nancy). I haven't asked Nancy or Lee about it ñ, but it seems very, very sus to me.
I'll ask my twin, Queen of the gossip, if this is real or just bait.
I haven't talked with Nancy a lot since the trip, more than the usual hi wassup. I'm really looking forward to keep my friendship with them since they're really good people.
I really want to help her since I found what he said and what he did to her almost unforgivable for a boyfriend.
Idk of someone here has been to something similar to help me to help her. Thanks of you read through the whole post and look forward to your comments.
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I'm not a very friendly person. I'm cold and have a very tough time making friends. Our school organized a trip to Paris before graduation and I thought I was going to be alone, like always, and didn't mind since one gets used to it.
I was shocked when one of my classmates ( let's call her Lee to make this easier) offer me to share room with her and one of her best friends ( let's call her Nancy, she is the main character of this story).
They have always been kind to me since I arrived to school lash year. Lee even invited me to her Quinceañera and even today I can't understand why they were all so welcoming and nice to me.
We weren't the closest of friend so I was really surprised. I later discovered that Lee turned down and offer from one of her friends to be with Nancy and with me. That's another story, so I won't go into detail about that.
When you share room with someone, even if it's for a week, you get to know them a lot.
I knew she had a bf because we where all in the same class last year. What I didn't know is that they broke up.
She told us the whole story when eating at McDonald's with another friend ( let's call him Dan). He's relevant to the story since he's friends with the friends of Nancy's ex. Nancy told us they broke up in good terms. After the break up some of his ex's friends ( let's call the ex Cole since keeping up with the ex bla bla bla Is getting tedious) told Nancy about his multiple affairs. They were at least 3 in the 8 months of the relationship. One at the FIRST WEEK. Another one when he went to visit his relatives in Rumania, and another one I don't remember when.
We talked a lot that night. A few days later Dan told us some nasty things Cole said at Nancy's back. For example, quote, You changed me for that fucking nasty *beaner*.
It's important to say Dan isn't friends with Cole, so he might have said that to hurt Nancy through Dan, idk.
My sister is also friends with a friend of Cole. I listen to the audios he sent her and we can sum them up by saying that "Nancy was a slut, trying to get someone between her legs". He also told my sister that Nancy ended the relationship because, quote again "she wanted to be with other men while Cole was away, since she didn't felt loved enough". He also told my sister that he was texting a lot of guys with very friendly messages, while Cole worked his ass of to give her the best, spending many money on her, like if she was an investment or something.
Let's say that, at the very end of the relationship, a guy started texting Nancy and there was mutual interest. Though she always turned down his offers and invitations for the relationship's sake.
It's also worth mentioning that after the break up, Cole was dating again after literally a week, showing off her girlfriend specially to Nancy.
Nancy hasn't been in any dates since. She kept on talking with this guy though, but it wasjust texting, nothing more.
Now, fast forward to today, they're posting stories together holding hands and kissing ( Cole and Nancy). I haven't asked Nancy or Lee about it ñ, but it seems very, very sus to me.
I'll ask my twin, Queen of the gossip, if this is real or just bait.
I haven't talked with Nancy a lot since the trip, more than the usual hi wassup. I'm really looking forward to keep my friendship with them since they're really good people.
I really want to help her since I found what he said and what he did to her almost unforgivable for a boyfriend.
Idk of someone here has been to something similar to help me to help her. Thanks of you read through the whole post and look forward to your comments.
2024.05.19 19:04 mdaquan Can’t watch live.
 | I’ve watched just about every minute of every game, also attended about 15 games this year on a 20 game plan, plus Game 2 v Sixers and Games 1 and 5 v Pacers. Been a fan since the mid-80’s. The last time they won the chip was the year I was born. The day I graduated college me and 2 friends ditched my family and went across the street to a pub to watch Patrick miss that finger roll. Against the pacers. Almost 29 years ago to the day. submitted by mdaquan to NYKnicks [link] [comments] I’ve loved every minute of this season. If you had asked me six months ago if there was anything that would stop me from a Game 7 I’d have said no fucking way. But this afternoon I’m attending the 18th birthday of my nephew who is currently undergoing treatment for leukemia. His immune system is low so the party has to be outdoors and just got pushed back to 2:45. So, I set the DVR and I’ll be radio silent with no texts, messages, Reddit, etc until I get home and watch. I’m as invested as all of you, but this is just a friendly reminder that no matter what happens today, be thankful for your friends and family and your health. Look around and just enjoy the moment while the game is on. Take it in. We love to get into this, but it is just a game. Have fun today everyone, be safe and LETS GO KNICKS! (pic is from my seats before Game 1 Pacers) |
2024.05.19 19:02 EnceladusJones239 How do I (31M) deal with this? I have done nothing wrong however we are in a fight
Hi everyone,
I have been with my girlfriend (27F) for only two months but we have been dating since New Years Day.
This morning I shared something with her that I thought would actually be trust building and show a level of respect for our relationship - it was that that I wanted to share. I told her how I had declined to go to an ex's wedding, an ex that is still in my friendship group (with her partner now) - this ex has a track record of making small comments that look back to our relationship. We ended our relationship like 7 years ago. This is a relationship that ended badly for me and its not full of memories that I like to revisit. I've never pushed back on those comments - I think it was due to a lack of self-respect I had in those moments with that person.
Anyway earlier this week I declined the invite to her wedding in a text that reads below:
Hey EX, I’ve been thinking about this for a while and I’m sorry but I’m not going to come to the wedding. Over the last couple months I’ve discovered or realised a personal boundary of mine; our past, the end of it, I guess isn’t a warm and positive memory for me and I find myself reminded of it by things you say on occasion or even just a casual memory we can fall into and now that I have CURRENT GIRLFRIEND I don’t want to go there in my mind anymore - falling in love again woke me up to something I guess. Hopefully you know I’m not bitter or anything and actually think we survived a minefield and came out intact - and I value that. I wish you guys all the best! Like I know you’ll have such a fun wedding but I won’t be there.
I showed my girlfriend this message and explained that I've set this boundary and how our relationship has, and my respect for it, caused me to see that I need to draw a line in the sand.
Anyway, my Girlfriend did not react well. She got very upset and actually went home and we couldnt have the day we had planned together. She was very questioning as to my relationship with my ex (she knows we are still in the same friend group) and she wondered why I was still connected with her, why I never pushed back on this stuff, how I am not over it (which I of course am - i just dont want to go back there mentally) and all this other stuff. Whats hard is that this was very hard for me! This entire thing. Sending the text and then telling her - I want to have an open and honest relationship hence why I shared it but she was of the mind that I shouldn't have shared it. Now im apologising and wondering how to make it up to her but also wondering how I can connect with her and just even have her see a small sliver of my side.
She is mad at me yet I don't think ive done anything wrong. She feels disrespected even though I was trying to hold our relationship at the utmost level of respect. I feel like I can never bring this up again but how do I let her know that there is a side that she isn't seeing at all.
TL:DR I opened up to my girlfriend about drawing boundaries with my ex and she got angry.
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I have been with my girlfriend (27F) for only two months but we have been dating since New Years Day.
This morning I shared something with her that I thought would actually be trust building and show a level of respect for our relationship - it was that that I wanted to share. I told her how I had declined to go to an ex's wedding, an ex that is still in my friendship group (with her partner now) - this ex has a track record of making small comments that look back to our relationship. We ended our relationship like 7 years ago. This is a relationship that ended badly for me and its not full of memories that I like to revisit. I've never pushed back on those comments - I think it was due to a lack of self-respect I had in those moments with that person.
Anyway earlier this week I declined the invite to her wedding in a text that reads below:
Hey EX, I’ve been thinking about this for a while and I’m sorry but I’m not going to come to the wedding. Over the last couple months I’ve discovered or realised a personal boundary of mine; our past, the end of it, I guess isn’t a warm and positive memory for me and I find myself reminded of it by things you say on occasion or even just a casual memory we can fall into and now that I have CURRENT GIRLFRIEND I don’t want to go there in my mind anymore - falling in love again woke me up to something I guess. Hopefully you know I’m not bitter or anything and actually think we survived a minefield and came out intact - and I value that. I wish you guys all the best! Like I know you’ll have such a fun wedding but I won’t be there.
I showed my girlfriend this message and explained that I've set this boundary and how our relationship has, and my respect for it, caused me to see that I need to draw a line in the sand.
Anyway, my Girlfriend did not react well. She got very upset and actually went home and we couldnt have the day we had planned together. She was very questioning as to my relationship with my ex (she knows we are still in the same friend group) and she wondered why I was still connected with her, why I never pushed back on this stuff, how I am not over it (which I of course am - i just dont want to go back there mentally) and all this other stuff. Whats hard is that this was very hard for me! This entire thing. Sending the text and then telling her - I want to have an open and honest relationship hence why I shared it but she was of the mind that I shouldn't have shared it. Now im apologising and wondering how to make it up to her but also wondering how I can connect with her and just even have her see a small sliver of my side.
She is mad at me yet I don't think ive done anything wrong. She feels disrespected even though I was trying to hold our relationship at the utmost level of respect. I feel like I can never bring this up again but how do I let her know that there is a side that she isn't seeing at all.
TL:DR I opened up to my girlfriend about drawing boundaries with my ex and she got angry.
2024.05.19 18:59 Wooden-Protection-33 i feel so used by my ex bf after he broke up with me and got in contact with his ex
in january i (f18) got into a relationship with my now ex (m17) and the first month was really good untill we started having sex a week before valentines day and right after valentines day happened he just completely switched up also throughout our entire three month relationship id ask questions about him and his ex because they just broke up right before we started dating (i had just gotten out of a relationship as well) but he promised me he was over her because they were off and on all the time and he was tired of that and i believed him she also lived in a whole different state because he just moved here so i really trusted him and i would also ask questions about her because once literally displayed in his closet i noticed letters that his ex had given him and i found pictures of them that he hid poorly and id notice stuff of hers around his room like gifts and whatever every-time id ask about it he would get so mad and so defensive and be like “well you and your ex this and that” and then two months into the relationship he just out of the blue one day said “if i ever get in a bad place mentally ill need to take a break from the relationship” obviously i was confused so we bickered about it and i tried ignoring it but after valentines day and leading up to that conversation he had been acting different and it only got way worse almost exactly a month later a week after prom he texts me “im in a bad place mentally” and “sometimes i feel like im not ready for a relationship” and he refused to admit that was him breaking up with me so the next day i had to do it and say the words for him literally a few days later he starts following his ex on social media and she never followed him back so he stopped following her for a second but now its been a month since we’ve broken up and now they’re following each other on both of their little secret accounts and he blocked me on everything and i know i shouldn’t be paying attention but it’s difficult to not stalk because his ex lives in a different state so thats my only source which i know isnt really reliable but im just so hurt because he told me be was completely over his ex when we started dating and i really “loved” him (whatever love means for an 18 year old) i gave a lot of me to him he was my first real experience with stuff and he also told me i was the one to take his virginity (even though he had a whole box full of condoms prepared??? like on our third date he was like “i have condoms in my room” (i should have known)) but him and and his ex we’re together for like three years sooo and he also said so many other things that i know now were lies and now i just know i was the rebound untill either of them were available again and i just feel so used because after valentines day we were having sex at least once a day every single day and before we got intimate i told him i wanted to wait a little but he kept pressuring me so i finally gave in and i got really attached like i’ve never had a connection like that with someone else before he saw me when i was most vulnerable and now i just feel so used and dirty i should have known what his true intentions were especially because the second we started having sex he changed and our relationship just went to shit but it hurts even more because what we did meant a lot to me but i know it meant nothing to him especially since i don’t think i was his first time even though he was mine i just dont know what im supposed to do i know i have to move on and whatever i know ill meet more people and whatever and im so young and dumb and this is all a learning experience but im so hurt how do i live with this feeling for now it hurts so much i feel so used he meant so much to me and i was just a body until his ex came back to him.
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2024.05.19 18:55 thesecretis_404 A heart let down
It's been a bit since I've written to you.
A lot and nothing has happened since you left. Every time I feel like I'm having fun, I think of you being there with me. Every time I spend time with my family, I wish you were there with me. Every time I feel sad, I think of you there with me, comforting me. The world could be collapsing around me, and it wouldn't feel real if you weren't there with me. Nothing really feels real without you there...
I tried to imagine a life without you being my partner, and I couldn't. I always thought you'd be there. I always thought that even if we were just friends, you'd be there. I took you for granted, A_____. That should have been my discussion with you on that Monday. I knew what I was feeling, but I always had a problem communicating my issues with you... I wish I didn't. I wish we could have faced our issues together.
Today is my birthday, and it is the first of probably the remainder of my life that I don't get a text message from you at midnight. I stayed up until 30 past midnight, hoping you were just late. You always tried to be the first, and you were for most the time that I knew you. 10 years of friendship... I wish it had been longer.
I wish i could have woken up next to you this morning.
I miss you. A lot. A_____.
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A lot and nothing has happened since you left. Every time I feel like I'm having fun, I think of you being there with me. Every time I spend time with my family, I wish you were there with me. Every time I feel sad, I think of you there with me, comforting me. The world could be collapsing around me, and it wouldn't feel real if you weren't there with me. Nothing really feels real without you there...
I tried to imagine a life without you being my partner, and I couldn't. I always thought you'd be there. I always thought that even if we were just friends, you'd be there. I took you for granted, A_____. That should have been my discussion with you on that Monday. I knew what I was feeling, but I always had a problem communicating my issues with you... I wish I didn't. I wish we could have faced our issues together.
Today is my birthday, and it is the first of probably the remainder of my life that I don't get a text message from you at midnight. I stayed up until 30 past midnight, hoping you were just late. You always tried to be the first, and you were for most the time that I knew you. 10 years of friendship... I wish it had been longer.
I wish i could have woken up next to you this morning.
I miss you. A lot. A_____.
2024.05.19 18:54 trvpiclgal (15F) I cant handle it
I hate living a life full of pain. Im a horrible person and want to change. I keep telling people that but they done believe me. I dont want to disapoint my parents and im scared of the afterlife. i hate everyone and i just want my ex back. he was so perfect. the only reason i kept going was for him and now hes gone and he doesnt want anything to do with me. he said i could kill myself for all he cares and was sat making fun of me with his friend. i dont know what to do. please someone help me i cant take these thoughts anymore.
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2024.05.19 18:53 BOKUtoiuOnna Butch inceldom/stone butch blues
Today, I watched a video on a left-wing media channel about people (mainly straight men) with issues in dating and incels. As always, all discussions of issues with dating centres only cisgender heterosexual men and women. When the interviewee, a man who was researching incels and those struggling with dating, was asked about the lgbt community, he spoke about how he definitely saw dissatisfaction in older gay men, who'd aged out of the stereotypical image of young gay male attractiveness. I found it irritating that he glossed over all other lgbt people, especially since I see the people who have the most in common with straight men in our community are those of us who are extremely masculine (butch, transmasc) and date exclusively women.
My first relationship was when I was in university and was very toxic. Codependant, sexually abusive and far too drawn out (1.5 years). After that, I had about 3 more unsatisfactory brief sexual encounters. I was then sexless for 3 full years. I got in a relationship and it was the first time I have ever felt like my gender and sexuality as a nb stone butch was respected and understood. My gender and sexuality feelings are undeniably extremely atypical and burdensome to navigate. She made me feel sexy. She dumped me 9 months into a happy relationship, "randomly" (in her words), because she was feeling slightly afraid of commitment. She said I could do better. I found that to be a ludicrous thing only an attractive cis femme could say. The likelihood of me finding someone who accepts me with something akin to the sexuality of a straight man in the body of a woman is next to none. I find it likely I will be sexless for another few years. People around me think this is pessimistic, and often themselves are upset when they don't have sex for a month or two. I cannot imagine even registering not having sex for two months, and I do not think I am being pessimistic.
I have learnt that I am expected to be as sexually aggressive and proactive as a straight man. Without exception, femmes are upset when I am not and will never make the first move. I perform poorly on dating apps and hate them. I find it a good way to meet crazy or unsuitable people at best or, more commonly, get ghosted. I would rather like to meet people in person. When I try to improve my confidence and talk to girls I find attractive in real life, people around me have a few discouraging responses to it:
When I read Stone Butch Blues I was struck by how it depicted this well of loneliness I have felt my whole life. I am very little understood by most of society, and only really feel comfortable in a relationship, yet it is so hard to even be understood there. And yeah, it's just real. I feel like cold hard numbers are against me. I wonder why this isn't talked about more and I wonder how you guys deal with it? Feel free to share any experiences, theories or advice.
(PS, obviously I'm not an incel I've had sex with 5 people. I DO however get derogatively called it a lot for being pessimistic about the effort to reward ratio of my dating life and the obvious numbers game against me. My bisexual ex best friend called me an incel for expecting her to actually respond to my text messages about my ex breaking up with me, which she said she didn't because "I didn't seem upset". When I have showed how upset I am I have also been called an incel because people don't expect it of me. Therefore I am comparing my predicament to that of men who are treated similarly under the reign of toxic masculinity).
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My first relationship was when I was in university and was very toxic. Codependant, sexually abusive and far too drawn out (1.5 years). After that, I had about 3 more unsatisfactory brief sexual encounters. I was then sexless for 3 full years. I got in a relationship and it was the first time I have ever felt like my gender and sexuality as a nb stone butch was respected and understood. My gender and sexuality feelings are undeniably extremely atypical and burdensome to navigate. She made me feel sexy. She dumped me 9 months into a happy relationship, "randomly" (in her words), because she was feeling slightly afraid of commitment. She said I could do better. I found that to be a ludicrous thing only an attractive cis femme could say. The likelihood of me finding someone who accepts me with something akin to the sexuality of a straight man in the body of a woman is next to none. I find it likely I will be sexless for another few years. People around me think this is pessimistic, and often themselves are upset when they don't have sex for a month or two. I cannot imagine even registering not having sex for two months, and I do not think I am being pessimistic.
I have learnt that I am expected to be as sexually aggressive and proactive as a straight man. Without exception, femmes are upset when I am not and will never make the first move. I perform poorly on dating apps and hate them. I find it a good way to meet crazy or unsuitable people at best or, more commonly, get ghosted. I would rather like to meet people in person. When I try to improve my confidence and talk to girls I find attractive in real life, people around me have a few discouraging responses to it:
- "Is she even gay?" "How do you know if she's gay"
- "Why do you flirt like a straight man, that's probably why lesbians don't like you"
- "Maybe you should go to more queer events"
When I read Stone Butch Blues I was struck by how it depicted this well of loneliness I have felt my whole life. I am very little understood by most of society, and only really feel comfortable in a relationship, yet it is so hard to even be understood there. And yeah, it's just real. I feel like cold hard numbers are against me. I wonder why this isn't talked about more and I wonder how you guys deal with it? Feel free to share any experiences, theories or advice.
(PS, obviously I'm not an incel I've had sex with 5 people. I DO however get derogatively called it a lot for being pessimistic about the effort to reward ratio of my dating life and the obvious numbers game against me. My bisexual ex best friend called me an incel for expecting her to actually respond to my text messages about my ex breaking up with me, which she said she didn't because "I didn't seem upset". When I have showed how upset I am I have also been called an incel because people don't expect it of me. Therefore I am comparing my predicament to that of men who are treated similarly under the reign of toxic masculinity).
2024.05.19 18:51 17_kyotta Why they always call me beautiful but never pursue me? F(22)
Growing up having a pretty face and never heard people calling me ugly. But why those boys always makes me feel wanted and then ghost me? Is it because of my behavior? Are you guys sure about the pretty privilege? Or because I don't have a nice body or boobs?
I have this kind of behavior where I act childish sometimes. But I think this is one of the reasons why boys are feel off to me.
I have the body figure where my ass is big but I don't have boobs. I mean just exact body my boobs not too big. I am 46 kg and 152 cm.
When I fall inlove, it's deep to the point I always overthink.
Recently I just realized after breaking up with my ex last year. I tried to use these dating apps, I met a lot of guy. They always said I'm beautiful, pretty it's always like this. But in the end they don't want to pursue me. It's like they're just making fun of me. If I have feelings they will ghost me.
I also encountered a guy invites me to his house and we did s*x. After a few days he ghosted me. Not just him but I also encounter another one. After they taste me they will ghost me.
Now I'm wondering if am I just for s*x ? Or I didn't deserve to be loved? This situation always happens to me. It's like Deja Vu, nothing's changed. I just want to be Loved. Not to use me.
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I have this kind of behavior where I act childish sometimes. But I think this is one of the reasons why boys are feel off to me.
I have the body figure where my ass is big but I don't have boobs. I mean just exact body my boobs not too big. I am 46 kg and 152 cm.
When I fall inlove, it's deep to the point I always overthink.
Recently I just realized after breaking up with my ex last year. I tried to use these dating apps, I met a lot of guy. They always said I'm beautiful, pretty it's always like this. But in the end they don't want to pursue me. It's like they're just making fun of me. If I have feelings they will ghost me.
I also encountered a guy invites me to his house and we did s*x. After a few days he ghosted me. Not just him but I also encounter another one. After they taste me they will ghost me.
Now I'm wondering if am I just for s*x ? Or I didn't deserve to be loved? This situation always happens to me. It's like Deja Vu, nothing's changed. I just want to be Loved. Not to use me.
2024.05.19 18:51 forreasonsunknown79 I’m playing with fire
I just want to get this out there because it’s eating my lunch right now. I have been flirting heavily w a coworker. She’s way out of my league but she’s been receptive and has reciprocated. I act had to delete our text thread for feear that my wife would see it. A couple o things:
Another thing is that I’ve only had sex with one person , my wife, so that’s another aspect here. Thanks for reading.
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- Cheaters suck. I’ve been cheated on by my wife before we were engaged.
Another thing is that I’ve only had sex with one person , my wife, so that’s another aspect here. Thanks for reading.
2024.05.19 18:49 quipsme 6 months post 1003 - training update
 | It's nearing 6 months since I finished 1003 in December 🤯. I'm proud to have kept up consistency since then (lots of 60 mile weeks!) and I've had a bunch of fun incorporating weekly trail runs and switching up some routes. After taking a month light post CIM, I have basically stuck with "Plan A" since January. I have gotten faster (5-10 seconds/mile), but haven't quite kept up the strength and overall progress is slower than pre-1003 test, I think due to no specific target race (less motivation/structure), little periodization / not significantly changing my routine and less training intensity (less lifting, more trail running). submitted by quipsme to 1003club [link] [comments] Lifting: 2/week lifting:
Interval paces (green) sped up in early 2024, as did traditional track work (instead of 2Q) |
2024.05.19 18:47 Fabulous-Fox-8303 Looking for Support, Feeling so Alone
Trigger warning, mental health topics like suicide. Thanks for reading this. I filed for divorce back in Nov because my husband’s mental health was not improving and he was getting more abusive towards me and his disabled 10 year old son (whom I adopted). We had spent Oct apart to see how a split would be and I felt my like was more peaceful. His mental health continued to decline and this culminated in a bad episode where he screamed and cursed at me then threatened to kill himself in front of our son. I got us out and called the police and they took him to the hospital. After getting out, he was not allowed to see my son other than at supervised visitation locations or to come to the house.
He went out of state to stay with family, then found an inpatient treatment center in Cali. We agreed that I would hold off with the divorce to allow him to use the health ins and focus on treatment full time while I took care of our son and worked full time. During this time, he would still try to flirt with me and say he still loves me, etc. I turned him down and eventually his advances stopped and I hoped he was focusing on recovery. The first treatment center was not good (understaffed, false advertising, etc.) so he then moved to an intensive outpatient center that he had found nearby.
He started saying that he wanted to move to Cali because of state programs and lifestyle. I was annoyed that he would be so far from our son, leaving me with full time care, but he had never been very reliable or responsible. He said he was depressed and his calls grew less frequent. However, I foolishly started harboring a small hope that he would actually get better and come back to our family.
He told me about a month ago that he was being released. He mentioned randomly wanting to move to the same town where the treatment center was located. This bothered me, why there? On the day he was released, I figured it out…there must be a woman. I confronted him and he said he had a gf but they broke up. I was immediately DEVASTATED. Couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep. Couldn’t understand how he could be so immature and selfish to do this while he was supposed to be focusing full time on treatment. He acted like I was over-reacting and I spent hours texting him and explaining my concerns, such as, what if she ends up pregnant? He continued to act like I was overreacting, that his treatment was not affected, that trauma bonding between patients is common, etc. I pivoted in our divorce to continue requiring supervised visits as I could not trust his recovery. I also started having intrusive thoughts about the woman, who I found out was another patient. I grew extremely jealous. I spent time trying to convince him not to abandon our son and move across the country. We ended up spending countless hours talking and going over our communication issues, he finally apologized profusely, took accountability for fucking up, and was somewhat friendly. He said the relationship with the other patient was toxic and completely over. He said I had made it pretty clear after Oct and by filing divorce that our relationship was completely over, if he had known that there was still some hope, or how much this would have hurt me, that he would have made different decisions.
He arrived back in town on Wed. I spent the evening talking to him, and the is point my desire to rekindle something was embarrassingly full tilt, he was soo much calmer and collected but also very distant. We spent more time together and I grew more confused. I finally confessed to him yesterday that I wanted to try and see if anything was left of our relationship before filing the final papers. The extra draw to it for him would be the financial stability and support I am capable of providing. We talked on the phone and he said it was all too fresh and too much, as I have the house he is basically on the verge of being homeless and is jobless. But he said he was open to discussing it further.
Fast forward to last night, he exercised a supervised visitation with my son and we talked briefly after. He told me he needed to tell me something, that his ex-gf from the facility was indeed pregnant. I almost threw up. I am 38 and wanted kids with him, but our relationship was never stable enough emotionally or financially to try. I asked if she was going to keep it and he said at first no but now she was changing her mind. She is still a patient at the treatment center and is there bc of a recent suicide attempt. The whole thing makes me feel so ill.
The icing on the cake was last night, when he indicated that he had stipulations for getting back together with her. When I wanted to get back with him he was unsure (he already knew she was pregnant), but potentially wanted to go back to her. That was the final straw for me, I really lost it on him. He was already thinking about abandoning his living son to go live with this woman, now they will have a baby. But now I can’t sleep or eat or do anything. My life feels like a Jerry Springer episode, but I am a responsible, kind, hardworking person who did so much for my husband for years, including saving his son from his abusive, drug-addicted, ex-wife and raising him as my own. I know I made choices here too that led to this mess, but I have never felt this hurt and lost before. I am trying to seek out more therapy, etc, but nothing seems to be helping yet.
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He went out of state to stay with family, then found an inpatient treatment center in Cali. We agreed that I would hold off with the divorce to allow him to use the health ins and focus on treatment full time while I took care of our son and worked full time. During this time, he would still try to flirt with me and say he still loves me, etc. I turned him down and eventually his advances stopped and I hoped he was focusing on recovery. The first treatment center was not good (understaffed, false advertising, etc.) so he then moved to an intensive outpatient center that he had found nearby.
He started saying that he wanted to move to Cali because of state programs and lifestyle. I was annoyed that he would be so far from our son, leaving me with full time care, but he had never been very reliable or responsible. He said he was depressed and his calls grew less frequent. However, I foolishly started harboring a small hope that he would actually get better and come back to our family.
He told me about a month ago that he was being released. He mentioned randomly wanting to move to the same town where the treatment center was located. This bothered me, why there? On the day he was released, I figured it out…there must be a woman. I confronted him and he said he had a gf but they broke up. I was immediately DEVASTATED. Couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep. Couldn’t understand how he could be so immature and selfish to do this while he was supposed to be focusing full time on treatment. He acted like I was over-reacting and I spent hours texting him and explaining my concerns, such as, what if she ends up pregnant? He continued to act like I was overreacting, that his treatment was not affected, that trauma bonding between patients is common, etc. I pivoted in our divorce to continue requiring supervised visits as I could not trust his recovery. I also started having intrusive thoughts about the woman, who I found out was another patient. I grew extremely jealous. I spent time trying to convince him not to abandon our son and move across the country. We ended up spending countless hours talking and going over our communication issues, he finally apologized profusely, took accountability for fucking up, and was somewhat friendly. He said the relationship with the other patient was toxic and completely over. He said I had made it pretty clear after Oct and by filing divorce that our relationship was completely over, if he had known that there was still some hope, or how much this would have hurt me, that he would have made different decisions.
He arrived back in town on Wed. I spent the evening talking to him, and the is point my desire to rekindle something was embarrassingly full tilt, he was soo much calmer and collected but also very distant. We spent more time together and I grew more confused. I finally confessed to him yesterday that I wanted to try and see if anything was left of our relationship before filing the final papers. The extra draw to it for him would be the financial stability and support I am capable of providing. We talked on the phone and he said it was all too fresh and too much, as I have the house he is basically on the verge of being homeless and is jobless. But he said he was open to discussing it further.
Fast forward to last night, he exercised a supervised visitation with my son and we talked briefly after. He told me he needed to tell me something, that his ex-gf from the facility was indeed pregnant. I almost threw up. I am 38 and wanted kids with him, but our relationship was never stable enough emotionally or financially to try. I asked if she was going to keep it and he said at first no but now she was changing her mind. She is still a patient at the treatment center and is there bc of a recent suicide attempt. The whole thing makes me feel so ill.
The icing on the cake was last night, when he indicated that he had stipulations for getting back together with her. When I wanted to get back with him he was unsure (he already knew she was pregnant), but potentially wanted to go back to her. That was the final straw for me, I really lost it on him. He was already thinking about abandoning his living son to go live with this woman, now they will have a baby. But now I can’t sleep or eat or do anything. My life feels like a Jerry Springer episode, but I am a responsible, kind, hardworking person who did so much for my husband for years, including saving his son from his abusive, drug-addicted, ex-wife and raising him as my own. I know I made choices here too that led to this mess, but I have never felt this hurt and lost before. I am trying to seek out more therapy, etc, but nothing seems to be helping yet.