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Words. Beautiful, beautiful words.
2010.01.26 19:23 blisstonia 30 ROCK
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2014.12.28 05:26 Kiloueka Birbs being birbs
Go do a good thing today. Pick up some trash. Clean your room. Hug a loved one. Watch Dominion. Draw a pretty picture for a friend. Buy an indie game. Support a queer artist for pride month We're back, but at what cost? We got The Threat.
2024.05.20 01:22 benzychenz I’m starting to wonder if it was all just love bombing
I was in what I thought was the most wonderful relationship, and it was the happiest 4 months of my life.
I’m M30 and she was F27.
Right from the first date we just connected. When we both got home afterwards we simultaneously texted one another how much we enjoyed ourselves and quickly scheduled another date. We quickly went on a 2nd, 3rd, 4th date, and it was from the 3rd that she started staying over.
In the following weeks she starting texting me things such as
“idk what you’ve done to me, I was going through an independent phase and now I’m thinking about you all day at work and smiling at my phone”
“I need you here right now, (X scheduled date) is too far away”
“You trying to make me fall in love with you? 🙈 you’re doing all the right things”
And we became so close. We had similar life goals, similar interests and hobbies, same taste in shows, movies, music, video games. We would go on 2-3 dates a week. She spoke about things she wanted to do together, places to travel in years to come, theatre productions coming in the coming years, I met her family, she met mine. The sex was wonderful and frequent, and she was always so affectionate. She couldn’t keep her hands off me, while out for dinner, waiting for takeaway coffees, or while just on the couch watching a movie. She always told me how wonderful I was, how well I treated her, and she tried to reciprocate, she would bake cookies to bring to mine etc to show how much she appreciated me.
I felt so happy, safe, and secure in the relationship. It was like no relationship I’d ever known before.
Then one day completely out of the blue she texted me that she hadn’t been feeling a connection and didn’t want to string me along anymore. That was nearly 2 months ago and I haven’t recovered at all.
I just don’t understand how we went from that to it just being over in the blink of an eye.
She’s said that it’s her mental health and she’s going to get therapy, and a relationship was just making her feel overwhelmed, and that maybe we can try again down the line but I should move on and not wait for her, but I can’t know how true that is or if she’s just trying to justify her actions to lessen her own guilt. It just feels like everything was meaningless to her when to me it felt like the beginning of a life journey with my future wife.
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I’m M30 and she was F27.
Right from the first date we just connected. When we both got home afterwards we simultaneously texted one another how much we enjoyed ourselves and quickly scheduled another date. We quickly went on a 2nd, 3rd, 4th date, and it was from the 3rd that she started staying over.
In the following weeks she starting texting me things such as
“idk what you’ve done to me, I was going through an independent phase and now I’m thinking about you all day at work and smiling at my phone”
“I need you here right now, (X scheduled date) is too far away”
“You trying to make me fall in love with you? 🙈 you’re doing all the right things”
And we became so close. We had similar life goals, similar interests and hobbies, same taste in shows, movies, music, video games. We would go on 2-3 dates a week. She spoke about things she wanted to do together, places to travel in years to come, theatre productions coming in the coming years, I met her family, she met mine. The sex was wonderful and frequent, and she was always so affectionate. She couldn’t keep her hands off me, while out for dinner, waiting for takeaway coffees, or while just on the couch watching a movie. She always told me how wonderful I was, how well I treated her, and she tried to reciprocate, she would bake cookies to bring to mine etc to show how much she appreciated me.
I felt so happy, safe, and secure in the relationship. It was like no relationship I’d ever known before.
Then one day completely out of the blue she texted me that she hadn’t been feeling a connection and didn’t want to string me along anymore. That was nearly 2 months ago and I haven’t recovered at all.
I just don’t understand how we went from that to it just being over in the blink of an eye.
She’s said that it’s her mental health and she’s going to get therapy, and a relationship was just making her feel overwhelmed, and that maybe we can try again down the line but I should move on and not wait for her, but I can’t know how true that is or if she’s just trying to justify her actions to lessen her own guilt. It just feels like everything was meaningless to her when to me it felt like the beginning of a life journey with my future wife.
2024.05.20 01:22 Ruby_Storm_ [US-TX] [H] Alita Battle Angel Black Barons Collection #21 Filmarena Exclusive SteelBook Limited Edition #2 Double 3D Lenticular Fullslip (Opened but SteelBook is sealed) [W] PayPal/Venmo
Got the One Click box a month ago so I have no need for this. Replaced the opened SteelBook from this one with a sealed one from that set so that's why the fullslip itself is unwrapped but the Steel is sealed. Asking for $140 (includes shipping). If you need anymore pictures please don't hesitate to DM and ask.
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2024.05.20 01:22 PolarisFallen2 New(ish) lobe piercing & 1st jewelry change questions
Hi everyone! I got my first piercing (earlobe, both ears) 3 months ago. My piercer said I could change earrings after 3 months, just to beware about any heavier jewelry or going without any for the whole first year.
Theoretically I should be able to change them now, but… 1. How do I know they’re healed enough? I still get goop coming out of them sometimes. 2. How do I get current earrings out? I believe they are the push in ones. Ball in front, flat on back. 3. How urgent is it for me to get new ones in quick? Like will they close in 1 min if I’m not quick enough? 4. How easily would I be able to put my original earrings (push in, like I said) back in? Since I’m understanding that I shouldn’t go with nothing in them, I’m a side sleeper and a bit worried about the backs of “normal” earrings poking me 5. In your experience, how long until you’d risk leaving them out overnight?
I know tons of people have this piercing and don’t seem to stress too much about it, but just really like to get my mind around things. Glad to be pointed to an article or other resource instead but haven’t found anything with much detail. Thanks in advance!
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Theoretically I should be able to change them now, but… 1. How do I know they’re healed enough? I still get goop coming out of them sometimes. 2. How do I get current earrings out? I believe they are the push in ones. Ball in front, flat on back. 3. How urgent is it for me to get new ones in quick? Like will they close in 1 min if I’m not quick enough? 4. How easily would I be able to put my original earrings (push in, like I said) back in? Since I’m understanding that I shouldn’t go with nothing in them, I’m a side sleeper and a bit worried about the backs of “normal” earrings poking me 5. In your experience, how long until you’d risk leaving them out overnight?
I know tons of people have this piercing and don’t seem to stress too much about it, but just really like to get my mind around things. Glad to be pointed to an article or other resource instead but haven’t found anything with much detail. Thanks in advance!
2024.05.20 01:21 damnwhatisthat89 Frequently used
Do you put the last device you use or just actually put the frequently used one Because when I got hacked I was using my new device but I've only used it probably for 6-7 months while I've used the old one for about a year also if I did top up but unsure if I have the right receipt should I still add it or just put that I have not topped up before?
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2024.05.20 01:20 TacticalWarfarin [WTB] Ops Core Step-In Visor, Spiritus JSTA pouch, Spiritus Single 556 Insert, Single Pistol Insert
Looking for the Ops Core Step-In Visor. Prefer ranger green, but will entertain tan.
Not much on here for price references, a new visor sold last month for $200 and one sold two years ago for $225 (are these just not that popular?)
Offering $250-$300, more if photochromic lens.
SS JSTA Pouch in RG $50-$60ish, 556 and pistol insert $20 each.
If prices are off, let me know.
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Not much on here for price references, a new visor sold last month for $200 and one sold two years ago for $225 (are these just not that popular?)
Offering $250-$300, more if photochromic lens.
SS JSTA Pouch in RG $50-$60ish, 556 and pistol insert $20 each.
If prices are off, let me know.
2024.05.20 01:20 OkBarracuda4797 Airbnb house mate heard throwing up during the day and during the night…
Disclaimer: this person is not a loved one or someone close to me, I have no judgement towards them, I also don’t think I’m in a position to say anything and to be quite frank - I’ve never known that alcoholism gets this bad, I’m just worried and bothered and I don’t know how to respond or if I should be doing something.
At some point I noticed he sounded very ill from the throwing up and I asked one of the house mates if he was okay. The other house mate said “yeah, he just orders food then downs bottles of vodka and then throws up”. The casualness of it all bugs me out because this is incredibly new to me and I find it odd that someone is clearly not okay but we are just going with it…And from the way it’s been going on none stop it’s a routine thing.
I am not exaggerating when I am saying this is the 3rd cycle today of him vomiting. First was at like 10am and then again at around 4pm and now it’s midnight.
Like this is the situation, I’m here for a month stay, I don’t see the mates that often, maybe when I go to the bathroom or through the window when get back but we are not close. Secondly, I feel it would be so weird and possibly perceived as rude or judgmental if I brought it up to the guy. I mean age difference wise as well, he’s like middle aged maybe 35-40 years old. Coming from a 21 year old chick, I think he’d be insulted?
Do I just ignore it? Do I bring it up? If I tell the host it might make it a bigger thing and I don’t want that for either of us - he might feel put on the spot. Or maybe I’m just putting my nose where is doesn’t belong (then again it’s not like I can turn away from it it’s so fucking loud, and like clock work).
Like I don’t see him, he stays in his own larger section of the house, and it seems like he doesn’t use the shared spaces. Is it better to leave it?
I apologize if my tone comes off as bitchy or judgmental. I don’t know what to do here and I’d really appreciate it if someone could tell me what to do because I am concerned and if there is something I should be doing then I’d like to know.
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At some point I noticed he sounded very ill from the throwing up and I asked one of the house mates if he was okay. The other house mate said “yeah, he just orders food then downs bottles of vodka and then throws up”. The casualness of it all bugs me out because this is incredibly new to me and I find it odd that someone is clearly not okay but we are just going with it…And from the way it’s been going on none stop it’s a routine thing.
I am not exaggerating when I am saying this is the 3rd cycle today of him vomiting. First was at like 10am and then again at around 4pm and now it’s midnight.
Like this is the situation, I’m here for a month stay, I don’t see the mates that often, maybe when I go to the bathroom or through the window when get back but we are not close. Secondly, I feel it would be so weird and possibly perceived as rude or judgmental if I brought it up to the guy. I mean age difference wise as well, he’s like middle aged maybe 35-40 years old. Coming from a 21 year old chick, I think he’d be insulted?
Do I just ignore it? Do I bring it up? If I tell the host it might make it a bigger thing and I don’t want that for either of us - he might feel put on the spot. Or maybe I’m just putting my nose where is doesn’t belong (then again it’s not like I can turn away from it it’s so fucking loud, and like clock work).
Like I don’t see him, he stays in his own larger section of the house, and it seems like he doesn’t use the shared spaces. Is it better to leave it?
I apologize if my tone comes off as bitchy or judgmental. I don’t know what to do here and I’d really appreciate it if someone could tell me what to do because I am concerned and if there is something I should be doing then I’d like to know.
2024.05.20 01:20 disc0m0lvi Long Distance with no end (21M & 20F)
TL;DR it's basically another 5 years of long distance and even then we don't know if we will be able to close the distance or not. And if we do, it will be against both of our wishes, just for the sake of our relationship. There is no certain end to the distance.
I know it's a bit long but please advise.
So me (21M) and my gf (20F) have dated for almost 3 years now. We were high school sweethearts and only the past 7 months of our relationship have been long distance. I moved to Germany to do my bachelors and we didn't break up cause we both really love each other. We have been together so long and it is a very stable, mature relationship unlike any of my peers. I would marry her if I could.
Since I'm an international student and she is 6000kms away, I can only afford to go home once a year. We are from a conservative muslim majority country where it's very hard to have any privacy or autonomy as a young couple. We haven't even kissed in 3 years together 🤯. So getting married at such a young age is not possible esp when I'm a student myself.
The real problem is that she is in medical school right now and will complete her studies in 4 years. After which, she plans to take USMLE (US Medical Licensing Examination) and move there. I believe she will be successful because she is a nerd honestly XD. A lot of time involved in getting matched in the US and getting a visa. So basically it will take her maybe 5 years to get to the USA. She has been hoping that I move there with her, I will be done with my bachelors by then and we can get married there. She also says that as a medical professional, the best place to work is in the USA as the apprenticeship is shorter there and they pay their doctors the most. So she isn't open to considering any other countries. Training in the UK is 7 years and it's half that in USA. So that explains why she wants to go to the USA.
Problem #1: I intend to settle in Germany as I have a passion for cars and that's the industry I want to work in. Germany is a pretty good country for that and the standard of living here is seriously good. You need to earn maybe twice or more to have the same standard in USA. I really don't admire life in the US. I would rather enjoy my free healthcare, paid days off, mental health being a valid excuse to stay at home and the crazy long maternal/paternal leave.
Problem #2: Since I am an immigrant here, I really want to stay here for the 5 years and get a German passport because I stand no chance of migrating to the USA on a third world country passport. Also uprooting your life like this and moving so far away from everything you love is incredibly painful. I cannot imagine doing that all over again to move to USA after spending 5 years in Germany and being fully integrated. I will also be more than a day's flight away in the USA from my parents and that makes me feel worse as the only son.
So now that I have explained our situation, it is another 5 years until we have any chance of closing the distance and that too will be in a country atleast one of us doesn't like or have much prospect in. I'm afraid we will spend another 5 years on our relationship only to be disappointed in the end when things don't work out cause there is no end seemingly. What should we do? Should we part ways? Should we stick together and hope that magic somehow brings us together in favorable terms.
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I know it's a bit long but please advise.
So me (21M) and my gf (20F) have dated for almost 3 years now. We were high school sweethearts and only the past 7 months of our relationship have been long distance. I moved to Germany to do my bachelors and we didn't break up cause we both really love each other. We have been together so long and it is a very stable, mature relationship unlike any of my peers. I would marry her if I could.
Since I'm an international student and she is 6000kms away, I can only afford to go home once a year. We are from a conservative muslim majority country where it's very hard to have any privacy or autonomy as a young couple. We haven't even kissed in 3 years together 🤯. So getting married at such a young age is not possible esp when I'm a student myself.
The real problem is that she is in medical school right now and will complete her studies in 4 years. After which, she plans to take USMLE (US Medical Licensing Examination) and move there. I believe she will be successful because she is a nerd honestly XD. A lot of time involved in getting matched in the US and getting a visa. So basically it will take her maybe 5 years to get to the USA. She has been hoping that I move there with her, I will be done with my bachelors by then and we can get married there. She also says that as a medical professional, the best place to work is in the USA as the apprenticeship is shorter there and they pay their doctors the most. So she isn't open to considering any other countries. Training in the UK is 7 years and it's half that in USA. So that explains why she wants to go to the USA.
Problem #1: I intend to settle in Germany as I have a passion for cars and that's the industry I want to work in. Germany is a pretty good country for that and the standard of living here is seriously good. You need to earn maybe twice or more to have the same standard in USA. I really don't admire life in the US. I would rather enjoy my free healthcare, paid days off, mental health being a valid excuse to stay at home and the crazy long maternal/paternal leave.
Problem #2: Since I am an immigrant here, I really want to stay here for the 5 years and get a German passport because I stand no chance of migrating to the USA on a third world country passport. Also uprooting your life like this and moving so far away from everything you love is incredibly painful. I cannot imagine doing that all over again to move to USA after spending 5 years in Germany and being fully integrated. I will also be more than a day's flight away in the USA from my parents and that makes me feel worse as the only son.
So now that I have explained our situation, it is another 5 years until we have any chance of closing the distance and that too will be in a country atleast one of us doesn't like or have much prospect in. I'm afraid we will spend another 5 years on our relationship only to be disappointed in the end when things don't work out cause there is no end seemingly. What should we do? Should we part ways? Should we stick together and hope that magic somehow brings us together in favorable terms.
2024.05.20 01:19 Euphoric_Resource_43 Booking confirmed, but owner not responding. Will I take a hit if I cancel?
I messed up and confirmed a booking for 3 days of walks before having a meet and greet. She sent the request about a month and a half ago, and we agreed to set up a meet and greet the weekend prior to the booking. I reached out yesterday asking if she still wanted to have one and got no response. I reached out today to ask if she still wanted me to walk her dog and haven’t gotten a response to that yet either. I want to cancel, but I’m worried I’ll be shooting myself in the foot since she hasn’t technically told me to. Any advice would be appreciated!
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2024.05.20 01:19 No-Fly-6002 Giving eachother the promise to wait for one year
Assalam Alaykum everyone,
There is this girl that came into my life since a couple of months and that I directly from the first sight was interested in. At the beginning of course it was just being attracted but I through circumstances got to know her more and I really like her character.
Unfortunately it appears that we both have circumstances that will make it harder for us to make our nikkah now.
I am pretty sure that she is interested in me and she knows I have interest in her. We both don’t want a haram relationship or anything like that, we are very careful.
I really like her and I think we match very well together. Do you think if I ask her if she is interested in me and if she’s willing to wait for one year till we can do the nikkah? In this time we could think over it and look if our plans match eachother
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There is this girl that came into my life since a couple of months and that I directly from the first sight was interested in. At the beginning of course it was just being attracted but I through circumstances got to know her more and I really like her character.
Unfortunately it appears that we both have circumstances that will make it harder for us to make our nikkah now.
I am pretty sure that she is interested in me and she knows I have interest in her. We both don’t want a haram relationship or anything like that, we are very careful.
I really like her and I think we match very well together. Do you think if I ask her if she is interested in me and if she’s willing to wait for one year till we can do the nikkah? In this time we could think over it and look if our plans match eachother
2024.05.20 01:19 FeelingLost1982 Looking for advice
So my wife and I haven’t been on the best terms. Long story short I cheated on her over 3 years ago. Things were really good since then until they weren’t. She’s told me twice now since August she no longer loves me. She’s dealing with her emotions and feelings from what I did all over again as she rug swept them.
We’re still living together and we have attended MC twice in the last month. But things are still really tense. She wants a bunch of space but it’s hard because we do still live together, have 2 kids, have supper together, sometimes have coffee together in the morning.
I don’t want to go back to our old relationship. From where I sit that one is done. But she doesn’t want to split up yet. She says she’s closer to separating than staying together at the moment.
It’s so hard for me. I gave her my full effort since DDay. I was never more in love with her. So to hear these things was a huge shock.
What I’m wondering is what can I do? I try to give space the best I can. We definitely don’t hang out together really, other than coffee. Eventually I would like to learn to be friends and then start trying to have a new relationship. But because she wants this space, any time I try to be friendly and build a new friendship, she typically shuts down.
I’m just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and has advice. I’m finding she doesn’t want to talk to me about us in any way. I feel like I don’t have a voice in this. And I feel like any of my needs or wants aren’t even really listened to. They’re definitely not a priority. I do not want to push her away, but I feel completely stuck where I’m at.
Thanks for listening
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We’re still living together and we have attended MC twice in the last month. But things are still really tense. She wants a bunch of space but it’s hard because we do still live together, have 2 kids, have supper together, sometimes have coffee together in the morning.
I don’t want to go back to our old relationship. From where I sit that one is done. But she doesn’t want to split up yet. She says she’s closer to separating than staying together at the moment.
It’s so hard for me. I gave her my full effort since DDay. I was never more in love with her. So to hear these things was a huge shock.
What I’m wondering is what can I do? I try to give space the best I can. We definitely don’t hang out together really, other than coffee. Eventually I would like to learn to be friends and then start trying to have a new relationship. But because she wants this space, any time I try to be friendly and build a new friendship, she typically shuts down.
I’m just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and has advice. I’m finding she doesn’t want to talk to me about us in any way. I feel like I don’t have a voice in this. And I feel like any of my needs or wants aren’t even really listened to. They’re definitely not a priority. I do not want to push her away, but I feel completely stuck where I’m at.
Thanks for listening
2024.05.20 01:19 frenchynerd Is this because of lack of fiber? Please stupid body, stop this!
Every day, for like the past month or two, like a clock.
Not in the morning. Morning goes fine.
3 pm. It starts. Slight cramps. Urge to go now. A little bit comes out, small soft bits. Or a longer one. But only one. If it's a good day, it will happen twice and I will be fine. But on most days... Repeat every 15 min for the next four hours. Or more, if I'm unlucky. And it cuts my appetite, and I can't get in the calories that I baldy need because I'm now officially underweight.
If I get too fed up with it, I take Dicyclomine and it stops it, but upsets my stomach and makes me anxious.
Is this because of lack of fiber? I don't have a lot in my diet. Really really fed up 😭 Now, I'm anxious when the afternoon comes, hoping I won't be on the toilet all afternoon.
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Not in the morning. Morning goes fine.
3 pm. It starts. Slight cramps. Urge to go now. A little bit comes out, small soft bits. Or a longer one. But only one. If it's a good day, it will happen twice and I will be fine. But on most days... Repeat every 15 min for the next four hours. Or more, if I'm unlucky. And it cuts my appetite, and I can't get in the calories that I baldy need because I'm now officially underweight.
If I get too fed up with it, I take Dicyclomine and it stops it, but upsets my stomach and makes me anxious.
Is this because of lack of fiber? I don't have a lot in my diet. Really really fed up 😭 Now, I'm anxious when the afternoon comes, hoping I won't be on the toilet all afternoon.
2024.05.20 01:19 Additional-Pop5600 Ex blocked me.
My ex broke up with me a little under 2 months ago. It was very sudden as we had appeared to be quite happy. He just said he felt stressed and couldn’t do it anymore. We spoke a few times the first month after breaking up and saw each other several times due to uni. He always maintained he loved me and I made him happy but he couldn’t do it anymore. We agreed to go no contact for a month and then try and be friends. But I said a few days later I didn’t feel I could ever be friends and that I couldn’t talk to him anymore. We both said we would always care for each other at the end of the call. I don’t feel anything that bad was said. I saw him at university a week or so later and was polite and friendly. I then messaged him after 2 weeks of not speaking and said that I felt better about things and asked if he still want to be friends. He never read it or replied. I do respect and understand this as I had said I didn’t want to talk again. I was hoping he understood I just needed space for a while as the breakup was quite harsh. But I left it and didn’t reach out again. I just went to delete the message as it’s been 2 weeks with no reply and I’ve seen he’s blocked me. It has really hurt my feelings as at the end of the day he’s the one who dumped me. I don’t understand why he’s had to block me when I didn’t reach out again. I was just hoping for some advice as this has caused me to go back to feeling awful about what’s happened.
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2024.05.20 01:19 Zhenxiang_shizhe Let's talk about visas to the Philippines Kevin Dewayne Hughes - Life in the Philippines
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2024.05.20 01:18 RachaelOblige Should I come out to my parents?
So I’ve been 100% confident that I’m trans for a couple months or so by now, and it’s genuinely been the most freeing realization I’ve ever had. My siblings (the ones that don’t live with my parents anymore) have been incredibly supportive and even offered help in several ways.
Everyone I’ve told so far has been nothing but ecstatic for me, and I’ve had a really positive experience so far.
That being said, a part of that is because I’ve been very calculated about who to tell so far. My parents are… well they think Elon Musk is a genius and that Trump is the obvious choice for president. They took me out of class in high school years ago to attend a pro-life march. Hell, my dad is a rather well known public speaker against abortions…
It’s important to note I have a usually positive relationship with my parents but they also still think I’m religious. I really don’t know if I should tell them before or after I start hrt (not really any time SOON but hopefully have a solid plan to by October so this is a fast approaching deadline)
I know it’s obviously a case by case thing. i just want others’ opinions cause I’m just conflicted.
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Everyone I’ve told so far has been nothing but ecstatic for me, and I’ve had a really positive experience so far.
That being said, a part of that is because I’ve been very calculated about who to tell so far. My parents are… well they think Elon Musk is a genius and that Trump is the obvious choice for president. They took me out of class in high school years ago to attend a pro-life march. Hell, my dad is a rather well known public speaker against abortions…
It’s important to note I have a usually positive relationship with my parents but they also still think I’m religious. I really don’t know if I should tell them before or after I start hrt (not really any time SOON but hopefully have a solid plan to by October so this is a fast approaching deadline)
I know it’s obviously a case by case thing. i just want others’ opinions cause I’m just conflicted.
2024.05.20 01:18 hahafooledya I [M21] am at my wits-end with my SOs [F20] messiness, justified?
I [M21] am at my wits-end with my SOs [F20] messiness
One year relationship
In the beginning of us being together this wasn’t the case. When I would come over she would usually have a clean room and even if it was even a little bit messy she would apologize and/or not let me in until it was clean. Over time her cleanliness seems to erode (I guess) over time, especially after moving into her own place with her sister (who isn’t much better). It’s even started to feel like her being clean and tidy in the beginning was a mask and I’m seeing the real her now
Examples:
I remember one time her phone fell under the seat so I helped her reach it. I saw so much trash and food and filters and weed crumbs under her seats.
Ive expressed about this before and she changed temporarily. Eventually I gave up on it because it’s her car and I’m never in it for long (I don’t have my own car). Plus if it really bothers I just don’t have to be in it
I’m no neat freak but I was raised to be a good host but it seems she wasn’t(?) One time after we had sex I accidentally left a used condom laying around (nothing inside, just used). The next day she had a friend over unexpectedly. No biggie, she hung out her in her room for a bit while I watched tv in the living room. She told me after that her friend left and she saw it and pointed out the condom. I sincerely apologized to my girlfriend for it as I know it would be seen as gross and embarrassing. My girlfriend didn’t care, saying “this is my house”.
A few days ago (let’s say Wednesday) she told me she accidentally spilled her ashtray on the floor. Weekend comes and that spill is still on the floor. I laughed about it initially, thinking she would get to it. She never did, despite us eating and watching tv in the living room all night and it being as simple as sweeping it up. I even accidentally stepped on the pile of ash, filters, and sticks and expressed it made me upset. Still nothing done about it, instead just walks around it every time.
what am I doing about it?
You may be saying to yourself, “why not help out sometimes?” Well one, it’s her house so it’s not my responsibility. And two, I actually have. I’m someone who was raised to be a good houseguest as well. When I’m over her place I clean. Not only do I genuinely want to help sometimes but I try to take care of any mess I contribute to. I’ll wash dishes, take out trash from our food delivery bags, etc
You may also be asking, “well have you communicated this to her?” One, I feel this isn’t something a partner should have to bring up as it is her personal and basic well-being. I feel it’s weird to have to tell my partner about the importance of keeping her home/room clean. Plus if this basic thing is changed just for the sake of the relationship or because a partner brings it up, similar to her car, would be it be real change? Two, tactfully I mention it all the time: “the trash is getting full, you guys should do the dishes more often I don’t want y’all to get pests, I think you should throw out the food in that Tupperware in fridge being it’s been in there for a few months, etc
some understanding
She works too jobs, one at a daycare and another as an aba therapist. She was heavily abused as a child and endures emotional and financial abuse from her sister often. In my opinion, she has every reason to be burnt out and not have the energy to do even basic things sometimes. She does try to be better. Though she has back problems that deter her from being able to do the dishes in one go she has done it here and there. She has cleaned the bathroom, washed her clothes, and keeps bed bed clean. It sounds like I’m scraping the bottom of the barrel here, I know, but I’m saying these things to say ‘I don’t think she’s lazy. I think she’s dealing with more than she can handle externally and internally and it’s affecting how she lives. I see her efforts and I don’t want it to come across as me condescending’. (Therapy would be helpful imo but she lacks the time and desire, she says).
TL;DR: my so has become messier and messier over time. She deals with a lot so I can get not having the energy to always clean but it’s a little crazy at this point. She wants to improve a lot in her life so that leads me to be hopeful but I’ve heard you shouldn’t be with someone for their potential. Perhaps I’m taking this too seriously
What do you think?
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One year relationship
In the beginning of us being together this wasn’t the case. When I would come over she would usually have a clean room and even if it was even a little bit messy she would apologize and/or not let me in until it was clean. Over time her cleanliness seems to erode (I guess) over time, especially after moving into her own place with her sister (who isn’t much better). It’s even started to feel like her being clean and tidy in the beginning was a mask and I’m seeing the real her now
Examples:
- Her car
I remember one time her phone fell under the seat so I helped her reach it. I saw so much trash and food and filters and weed crumbs under her seats.
Ive expressed about this before and she changed temporarily. Eventually I gave up on it because it’s her car and I’m never in it for long (I don’t have my own car). Plus if it really bothers I just don’t have to be in it
- her room
I’m no neat freak but I was raised to be a good host but it seems she wasn’t(?) One time after we had sex I accidentally left a used condom laying around (nothing inside, just used). The next day she had a friend over unexpectedly. No biggie, she hung out her in her room for a bit while I watched tv in the living room. She told me after that her friend left and she saw it and pointed out the condom. I sincerely apologized to my girlfriend for it as I know it would be seen as gross and embarrassing. My girlfriend didn’t care, saying “this is my house”.
A few days ago (let’s say Wednesday) she told me she accidentally spilled her ashtray on the floor. Weekend comes and that spill is still on the floor. I laughed about it initially, thinking she would get to it. She never did, despite us eating and watching tv in the living room all night and it being as simple as sweeping it up. I even accidentally stepped on the pile of ash, filters, and sticks and expressed it made me upset. Still nothing done about it, instead just walks around it every time.
what am I doing about it?
You may be saying to yourself, “why not help out sometimes?” Well one, it’s her house so it’s not my responsibility. And two, I actually have. I’m someone who was raised to be a good houseguest as well. When I’m over her place I clean. Not only do I genuinely want to help sometimes but I try to take care of any mess I contribute to. I’ll wash dishes, take out trash from our food delivery bags, etc
You may also be asking, “well have you communicated this to her?” One, I feel this isn’t something a partner should have to bring up as it is her personal and basic well-being. I feel it’s weird to have to tell my partner about the importance of keeping her home/room clean. Plus if this basic thing is changed just for the sake of the relationship or because a partner brings it up, similar to her car, would be it be real change? Two, tactfully I mention it all the time: “the trash is getting full, you guys should do the dishes more often I don’t want y’all to get pests, I think you should throw out the food in that Tupperware in fridge being it’s been in there for a few months, etc
some understanding
She works too jobs, one at a daycare and another as an aba therapist. She was heavily abused as a child and endures emotional and financial abuse from her sister often. In my opinion, she has every reason to be burnt out and not have the energy to do even basic things sometimes. She does try to be better. Though she has back problems that deter her from being able to do the dishes in one go she has done it here and there. She has cleaned the bathroom, washed her clothes, and keeps bed bed clean. It sounds like I’m scraping the bottom of the barrel here, I know, but I’m saying these things to say ‘I don’t think she’s lazy. I think she’s dealing with more than she can handle externally and internally and it’s affecting how she lives. I see her efforts and I don’t want it to come across as me condescending’. (Therapy would be helpful imo but she lacks the time and desire, she says).
TL;DR: my so has become messier and messier over time. She deals with a lot so I can get not having the energy to always clean but it’s a little crazy at this point. She wants to improve a lot in her life so that leads me to be hopeful but I’ve heard you shouldn’t be with someone for their potential. Perhaps I’m taking this too seriously
What do you think?
2024.05.20 01:18 crashdown903 Help to not get pulled into toxic communities online..
Okay, I hope I don't get torn apart for this. Just being honest about what I'm experiencing, and trying to make sure I don't fall down the wrong path.
I'm a male in my mid 30's I've been single almost my whole life, I dated one girl for about 4 months in my late 20s. I have actively been trying to meet someone for years. (dating apps, through friends etc). I don't think I'm too terrible. All my close friends and female friends have expressed that they think I'm great and that someone will be lucky to date me. It's just never worked out though. As you can imagine this does get frustrating after a while. All the rejections take a toll. Lately, my social media feed has been showing me a ton of those male-run dating podcast-type videos. The ones with the toxic misogynistic men sitting around a table complaining about women. At first, I swiped right past the video. But I ended up listening to one, and then another and another. I have to admit the videos are really appealing to someone like me. A group of people telling me that it isn't my fault that I'm 37 and single still, it's women's fault. Telling me that It's not because I'm short, lost my hair, and am a little overweight. but that it's because women are selfish and only want tall rich men. Those kinds of statements honestly were making me feel better like it was not me who was the problem. I feel like this is a super bad thing to start relating to. I am very aware that women are not the issue, and that these men are super toxic and trying to suck me in by making me feel like a victim of women. But I am seeing how easy it is for a guy who's feeling depressed and unloved to fall into these super toxic communities. So here is my question. Aside from therapy (which I am in). What are ways to stay positive about life, even when I am going through it alone? I am really upset that I even entertained the ideas these toxic groups believe. So I am really trying to figure out how to be positive through the loneliness without turning to a dark community.
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I'm a male in my mid 30's I've been single almost my whole life, I dated one girl for about 4 months in my late 20s. I have actively been trying to meet someone for years. (dating apps, through friends etc). I don't think I'm too terrible. All my close friends and female friends have expressed that they think I'm great and that someone will be lucky to date me. It's just never worked out though. As you can imagine this does get frustrating after a while. All the rejections take a toll. Lately, my social media feed has been showing me a ton of those male-run dating podcast-type videos. The ones with the toxic misogynistic men sitting around a table complaining about women. At first, I swiped right past the video. But I ended up listening to one, and then another and another. I have to admit the videos are really appealing to someone like me. A group of people telling me that it isn't my fault that I'm 37 and single still, it's women's fault. Telling me that It's not because I'm short, lost my hair, and am a little overweight. but that it's because women are selfish and only want tall rich men. Those kinds of statements honestly were making me feel better like it was not me who was the problem. I feel like this is a super bad thing to start relating to. I am very aware that women are not the issue, and that these men are super toxic and trying to suck me in by making me feel like a victim of women. But I am seeing how easy it is for a guy who's feeling depressed and unloved to fall into these super toxic communities. So here is my question. Aside from therapy (which I am in). What are ways to stay positive about life, even when I am going through it alone? I am really upset that I even entertained the ideas these toxic groups believe. So I am really trying to figure out how to be positive through the loneliness without turning to a dark community.
2024.05.20 01:18 Toast_Master9471 Sh thoughts and anniversaries
Me and my partner are in a few days celebrating our 1 year anniversary. I currently, and for the past few weeks have been not exactly doing too great, I've been wanting to relapse, but haven't yet, plus I'm not sure I even wanna be together with my partner anymore. I can't exactly break up with them, we are going to go to the same school for the coming 4 years, we live in the same small town, they are my best friend and have been for the past almost 6 years. I think a break up would ruin it all really. As they've also been a huge support for me when I was going through stuff, never judged me, all that good stuff, I don't wanna ruin it by a break up. I'm also afraid it would ruin them, because they have a bit of a shitty mental health. Personally I've never really loved them, I'm aromantic, that stuff kinda throws me off, but recently I've just really been feeling a lot less towards them. But I've felt similar a time before, where they made me relapse and I hated them for a month. I go from hating them to actually wanting to yk woohoo them, and there's nothing that disgusts me more than the thought of even seeing them without clothes or even them without clothing close to me.
I also really wanna relapse, but I don't think my partner would be too happy when they find out I did it on/close too our anniversary.
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I also really wanna relapse, but I don't think my partner would be too happy when they find out I did it on/close too our anniversary.
2024.05.20 01:18 LuxannasKarma Why do i get jealous when my partner shares her time?
Why do i get jealous when my partner shares her time?
My partner and I have been together for 8 months now. This is the first healthy relationship that ive ever been with. We are like best friends dating. It's amazing But one thing that I don't understand is why do i get so upset when i have to share their time with someone else (their best friend for example) We meet a decent amount of times per month Like 1-2 times a week We go on dates or just meet at each other's place. But sometimes( maybe once a month) we would also invite my partner's bsf and friends I always get upset for some mins when i find out that other people would be joining us. Ofc i do not tell her this cause i'd sound selfish I just dont understand why do i feel like this.
It's not an insecure or jealousy thing( yk jealous of the relationship she has with her bsf or anything like this) Like im not jealous of the bsf or friends but the 'time'?
Idk does it make sense :(
TL;DR; am i just a bit over possessive and atill have some things to work(abandonment issues)
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My partner and I have been together for 8 months now. This is the first healthy relationship that ive ever been with. We are like best friends dating. It's amazing But one thing that I don't understand is why do i get so upset when i have to share their time with someone else (their best friend for example) We meet a decent amount of times per month Like 1-2 times a week We go on dates or just meet at each other's place. But sometimes( maybe once a month) we would also invite my partner's bsf and friends I always get upset for some mins when i find out that other people would be joining us. Ofc i do not tell her this cause i'd sound selfish I just dont understand why do i feel like this.
It's not an insecure or jealousy thing( yk jealous of the relationship she has with her bsf or anything like this) Like im not jealous of the bsf or friends but the 'time'?
Idk does it make sense :(
TL;DR; am i just a bit over possessive and atill have some things to work(abandonment issues)
2024.05.20 01:18 Soninetz Unbounce vs Leadpages: Ease of Use Comparison
 | In the realm of digital marketing tools, two heavyweights stand out: Unbounce and Leadpages, offering powerful analytics and web design experience. These platforms, like leadpages, offer powerful features to create high-converting landing pages effortlessly. Unbounce boasts a user-friendly interface and robust A/B testing capabilities, while Leadpages excels in simplicity and a vast array of templates. Marketers often find themselves torn between these options, weighing factors like pricing, customization, integrations, and customer analytics. Understanding the nuances of each platform, analytics, and optimization is crucial for optimizing lead generation efforts and maximizing ROI. Let's delve into a comparative analysis of Unbounce vs. Leadpages to help you make an informed decision. submitted by Soninetz to AllPromos [link] [comments] Useful Links: Key Takeaways
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2024.05.20 01:17 anxiousmess3 feeling anxious because my friends are talking about v*
I have to wake up in 6 hours because I have a uni exam tomorrow so I need to sleep, but I was already feeling extremely anxious because of the exam (scared of failing, scared of somehow getting s* during the exam or on the train ride to get to uni) so I thought I could text my friends group chat in hopes to calm down by chatting a bit. I asked them all how they're feeling since I haven't seen them in like nearly a month because I was busy studying for this exam and they had work, so I'm not scared of catching smth from them or anything, but istg two of them started telling me how they tu. One is currently feeling s* and said she tu a few times and nearly choked during one of these times, the other simply said that the other day he was coughing so much that he tu. And now I'm panicking even more and can't sleep.
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2024.05.20 01:17 FabulousBeautiful231 Only the facts RE: Karen Read
What we know 100% for sure at this point: Officer Okeefe was found near death at 34 Fairview by Read, McCabe & Keri. His last known whereabouts was arriving at a party at 12:15-12:30 at 34 Fairview. Injuries on head, arm & knuckles plus hypothermia cause of death. ME reports undetermined. A minimal investigation is conducted that is clearly incompetence or cover up. Witness statements taken, not signed and very inconsistent with each other and with previous statements. Karen Read tail light is broken and pieces found near John. Ring video from Okeefe house shows time light was broken. Various video footage directly conflicts with all testimony given that is incriminating against Read. Video evidence, receipts and testimony all suggest Read was not drunk. Library video would confirm 100% if Read hit John or not, but amazingly, the 2 min period when Karen drove by happened to be missing. It was when Read was driving home so status of light was crucial. The state sat on this video for 14 months, failing to provide to defense until multiple pre trial hearings finally forced them to hand over. Of course, by then , the library had no copies of original footage and states copy missing 2 min is what we are left with. *imo, this one fact guarantees something is very wrong here
That’s all the facts I can think of, please add ones I missed. The bottom line is, the state can NOT prove motive, intent, knowledge, impairment - which means the elements for charges can not be met. We will never know what really happened that night but taking this to trial was a huge waste of tax money and clearly Read should not have been charged
Possible theories Read unknowingly hit John by accident. Read intentionally hit John. Higgens accidentally hit John with Jeep snowplow. Higgens intentionally hit John. Nagel crew hit John. Unknown 3rd party attacked John. McCabe or Albert member(s) attacked John.
All reasonable theories and the botched investigation ensures we will never know the truth but I think the bizarre injuries suggest Higgens accidentally hit John with his Jeep snow plow (explains parallel cuts ect) and the Albert & McCabe family’s helped to cover it up because accidental death on property would be a huge lawsuit. They didn’t intend on framing Read but that morning, Jen McCabe saw broken light and saw opportunity to push towards her. McCabe immediately runs in the house to advise everyone of new plan but she didn’t know the ring video at John’s existed. The state arguing against the phone cellibrite report is absurd since that exact info is used to convict people across the country so JM did search hos long to die in the snow which is proof she had knowledge prior to discovery of John at 6am
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That’s all the facts I can think of, please add ones I missed. The bottom line is, the state can NOT prove motive, intent, knowledge, impairment - which means the elements for charges can not be met. We will never know what really happened that night but taking this to trial was a huge waste of tax money and clearly Read should not have been charged
Possible theories Read unknowingly hit John by accident. Read intentionally hit John. Higgens accidentally hit John with Jeep snowplow. Higgens intentionally hit John. Nagel crew hit John. Unknown 3rd party attacked John. McCabe or Albert member(s) attacked John.
All reasonable theories and the botched investigation ensures we will never know the truth but I think the bizarre injuries suggest Higgens accidentally hit John with his Jeep snow plow (explains parallel cuts ect) and the Albert & McCabe family’s helped to cover it up because accidental death on property would be a huge lawsuit. They didn’t intend on framing Read but that morning, Jen McCabe saw broken light and saw opportunity to push towards her. McCabe immediately runs in the house to advise everyone of new plan but she didn’t know the ring video at John’s existed. The state arguing against the phone cellibrite report is absurd since that exact info is used to convict people across the country so JM did search hos long to die in the snow which is proof she had knowledge prior to discovery of John at 6am