Example of friendly letter

Unexpected Ouija

2017.04.04 16:51 ReGuess Unexpected Ouija

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2016.05.31 01:37 TorchIt For nursing student hopefuls

Thinking of going into nursing? Currently taking Microbiology? Anxiously awaiting your acceptance letter? Drop by and chat with friendly folks who can relate.
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2015.12.07 05:02 woofe woofe whats for lumch haha

This is a subreddit devoted to cute little animols such as puppers, cates and turtols, and all sorts of other cute animols :)
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2024.05.20 07:01 ReverseMod Daily Questions Megathread - May 20, 2024

Welcome to the Reverse: 1999 Daily Questions Megathread!

Please use this thread to ask any general inquiries about Reverse: 1999. Also, kindly search keywords under this thread as your questions may have already been answered by other Timekeepers.
Community Guides
Cheat Sheets
Tools
Wiki Pages
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ):
Q1. Should I re-roll?
Q2. Why is my answer incorrect in for the trail puzzle?
Q3. When is the daily reset?
Q4. Does pity transfer over to the next banner?
Q5. How should I build my team?
Q6. Can I re-watch the cut-scenes/story?
Q7. Are multiple copies of a certain character necessary?
Q8. When should I stop leveling characters?
Q9. What should I purchase in the Psychube Shop (Thought Elements/Thoughts in Eternity)?
  1. LF Polarization
  2. Englighten I
  3. Enlighten II
Q10. What should I prioritize in the Oneric Shop (Oneric Fluid)?
  1. Monthy Brief Cacophony
  2. Crystal Casket
  3. Permanent Brief Cacophony (or Moment of Dissonance to craft Brief Cacophony if needed)
  4. Sonorous Knell
Misc Questions
M1. Are macros and auto-clickers allowed?

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2024.05.20 07:00 NanoMod General Info and Weekly Discussion

Welcome to Nano!
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It's common that users have the same questions. So please, before making a new thread, make some research and look for similar questions. You will often find a comprehensive answer to your question has already been given! Please also check the official nano forum linked below.
What is Nano?
A fee-less, instant, decentralized and eco-friendly digital currency meant for peer-to-peer payments. Also knows as the ticker XNO or Ӿ.
Please check out nanocurrencybeginners or the Introduction For Newcomers
Where can I get some and try it out?
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2024.05.20 06:59 Abyyx-32 I don't even know what I should do now

I (19M) am in a relationship with my gf (18F) for almost a year now
AND THIS HAS BEEN THE CONSTANT DOWNHILL IN MY LIFE. This is going to be somewhat lengthy, so whoever stay till the end..Thanks. I need to get some things off my chest .
I met her during a trip , i really wasn't ready to go into another relationship as I had come out from a 2.5 years one recently.. but my best friend (and only friend), said that she seemed like a good woman and told me to give it a chance. We regretted that very quickly.
Seems like she also had a past , She had too come out of a relationship recently. Which was fine by me. But then she had unusually large number of male friends, I'm not going into detail but i understood she CRAVES male attention 24*7 ..
She's the most immature girl I've ever met, she unknowingly (or knowingly) said things to me that gave me several insecurities . Body dysmorphia. Some examples: "My friends You're so fat no one will ever wanna mate with you lol* I was never fat i Was 61 kgs at 5"5. But then I joined gym and I have a pretty decent physique now , but she still passes negative comments at my body (I don't know she does this willingly or cuz she's just not mature) She used to sent me ss of boys flirting with me , and one boy in particular went overboard one time and there was a huge conflict w me and that boy.. After some days she AGAIN sends me ss of that boy sending flirty texts to her and she's entertaining (she was doing her hw) I was genuinely surprised and asked her "You didn't block him yet!?" She said "no I like the flirts" LOL IMAGINE.
AT THIS POINT I'M FUCKED UP WITH MY LIFE. I feel like everyone else is better than me , she made me feel so. I was never THIS MUCH insecure, i am having a severe inferiority complex , I have -ve confidence..(confidence has always been one of my key strengths and now it's gone completely). I'm mostly depressed and spend my time thinking about ending this all . I'm mentally at my lowest. I've tried coming out of this relationship but for some reason I just can't , I have never had such difficulty to come out of a relationship.. I don't know how I got attached.. it's like I'm holding onto a knife, it's making me bleed I still won't let go .. I'm having a mental breakdown rn just from remembering all those things.. my day is ruined again ..it has been like this for several weeks now .
PS: I've still left out many details (i don't wanna recollect those+ this post would get Way too lengthy) I can't end this rn, or I'll be finished.. I don't know what to do anymore.
I just want to talk to someone more experienced or mature as I have no one to talk to
Where should I go from here?
I WANT TO GET BETTER, FOR MYSELF
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2024.05.20 06:54 P3DROCARNITAS I hate how socially awkward I am...

I've never really grown up with people around my age nor interacted/do things people would do at that age... All the friends I had up till middle school split off and I didn't go to a traditional Highschool where I could experience the lifestyle of a teenager... I went to college yeah but I was already an outcast before I even stepped in... Then for job I've always worked around with people that were twice my age...
Now I'm 26 and am now just getting into that realm of being around people my age but whenever I'm in a group (for example going out to eat) I just can't fit in and relate with them outside of work and just kind of sit there spinning my phone on the table since it's not like I have people to text...
Idk I fucking hate this...
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2024.05.20 06:53 JudeGeorge_ Don’t ignore circumstances. Use them wisely.

People are often drawn to manifestation to make a specific change in their lives. The common ones include reconnecting with a specific person, finding a new job or making stacks of cash, but there are plenty of others. All of this is achievable as has been proven numerous times. There is, however, a problem that arises when we focus too much on one particular outcome and fail to notice all the other changes around us.
When we want something specific we naturally focus intensely on that one thing. We raise its importance and fail to notice the other things, or even other people, in the world around us. For example, when I was knee-deep in research papers studying for my psychology degree, my apartment was an absolute mess (as were my relationships!). This is a common occurrence in everyday life and it can happen with our manifestation practices too. When it does, it can cause a lot more frustration than a simple messy bedroom.
Being hyper-focused on our specific desires means we’re less likely to observe the positive changes happening in other areas of our lives on our way to manifesting our desired goal. Here’s an example to help explain what I’m getting at. Recently, I caught up with a friend who’d manifested contact with her ex-partner after being separated for long time. It took her around three months from our first discussions before he made contact with her, apologised for the break up, took responsibility for being an absolute man-child (seriously, why she wanted him back is beyond me, but the Law doesn’t judge even if I do) and asked her to meet for a coffee. You’re probably wondering why it took so long. It’s because she was so focused on her specific desire that she didn’t notice how the world around her was changing to accommodate it.
In those three months, the following happened:
She didn’t make the connection between these events and the love she was generating within herself (for herself). Those internal changes were reflecting in her outer world, but because she was fixated on her one goal and wasn't seeing it, she reacted with frustration. You may recognise some of the following reactions as you may have chosen them yourself in the past:
Don’t get me started on ‘future’ husband…
We discussed how to choose better reactions and…eventually…the 3D caught up.
The lesson here is about how we react to our circumstances and how that helps or hinders our manifestations. Hyper-focusing on a specific outcome blinds us to seeing the way every cell in existence bends to create the things we want and this can lead us to inadvertently rejecting or delaying that which wants to come to us. So, how should she have reacted to those situations?
The difference here is clear. This person is in a state that knows her ex returning is normal because she lives in a world that is curated for her (by her own mind) to provide the context for that situation to occur. If you’re new to all this, read that sentence again until it makes sense. I’ll break it down further in a future article and link to it here as well.
The world changes to create a context that allows our manifestations to appear in the most natural way possible. Your dream lover isn’t going to fall from the sky (very unnatural, although I know there will be one person in the comments who is in love with a professional sky diver….), but they are going to arrive when you accept you live in a world where that’s likely to occur and you’re the kind of person it’s likely to happen to.
When you go about your day, look at everything in the way you want to see it. If you’ve been waiting a long time to see your desire in the 3D world, it’s possible you’ve been failing to notice how the world is creating the perfect context for it to appear. I say failing to notice, because the change is always there. It is the law, after all, and it’s our decision to allow ourselves to witness it.
By training your mind to notice and listen to the world around you, you’re more likely to experience events like those my friend described for what they are — reflections of your emergent state of mind. In doing so, you’ll be able to choose to react to them with gratitude and satisfaction, confident in the knowing that your seed has begun to sprout and your wish has already been fulfilled. These circumstances, and all circumstances, should be used for our benefit and with the understanding that your ‘outer’ experience is always working for you.
Now go and create something beautiful.
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2024.05.20 06:52 Volunder_22 How I code 10x faster with Claude

https://reddit.com/link/1cw7h43/video/zcomf098ii1d1/player
Since ChatGPT came out about a year ago the way I code, but also my productivity and code output has changed drastically. I write a lot more prompts than lines of code themselves and the amount of progress I’m able to make by the end of the end of the day is magnitudes higher. I truly believe that anyone not using these tools to code is a lot less efficient and will fall behind.
A little bit o context: I’m a full stack developer. Code mostly in React and flaks in the backend.
My AI tools stack:
Claude Opus (Claude Chat interface/ sometimes use it through the api when I hit the daily limit)
In my experience and for the type of coding I do, Claude Opus has always performed better than ChatGPT for me. The difference is significant (not drastic, but definitely significant if you’re coding a lot).
GitHub Copilot
For 98% of my code generation and debugging I’m using Claude, but I still find it worth it to have Copilot for the autocompletions when making small changes inside a file for example where a writing a Claude prompt just for that would be overkilled.
I don’t use any of the hyped up vsCode extensions or special ai code editors that generate code inside the code editor’s files. The reason is simple. The majority of times I prompt an LLM for a code snippet, I won’t get the exact output I want on the first try. It of takes more than one prompt to get what I’m looking for. For the follow up piece of code that I need to get, having the context of the previous conversation is key. So a complete chat interface with message history is so much more useful than being able to generate code inside of the file. I’ve tried many of these ai coding extensions for vsCode and the Cursor code editor and none of them have been very useful. I always go back to the separate chat interface ChatGPT/Claude have.
Prompt engineering
Vague instructions will product vague output from the llm. The simplest and most efficient way to get the piece of code you’re looking for is to provide a similar example (for example, a react component that’s already in the style/format you want).
There will be prompts that you’ll use repeatedly. For example, the one I use the most:
Respond with code only in CODE SNIPPET format, no explanations
Most of the times when generating code on the fly you don’t need all those lengthy explanations the llm provides before/after the code snippets. Without extra text explanation the response is generated faster and you save time.
Other ones I use:
Just provide the parts that need to be modified
Provide entire updated component
I’ve the prompts/mini instructions I use saved the most in a custom chrome extension so I can insert them with keyboard shortcuts ( / + a letter). I also added custom keyboard shortcuts to the Claude user interface for creating new chat, new chat in new window, etc etc.
Some of the changes might sound small but when you’re coding every they, they stack up and save you so much time. Would love to hear what everyone else has been implementing to take llm coding efficiency to another level.
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2024.05.20 06:50 kartvee This entrepreneur buys a gas station for his wife’s baby shower

This entrepreneur buys a gas station for his wife’s baby shower
If you’re interested in growing your wealth, starting a business, or living a truly rich life, these six tips can help you do it the right way.
He didn’t buy a bed until he got married. And when his wife was pregnant, he wondered, “How much does a baby cost?” Today he owns ten gas stations and even a building that houses the Wells Fargo bank.
https://preview.redd.it/h815a0yvei1d1.jpg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b4d65328ee20c0a2a76e2239c535b06006828c5c
The farther down this page you read, you’ll understand how you too can buy gas stations and banks.
More importantly, you’ll start to feel, think, and act like a wealthy entrepreneur.
A wise man once told me this:
I remember these words like it was yesterday…
And I like what it means. But I had one problem though.
I struggled to understand the specific principles that wealthy people used to think.
So tell me something…
How did you buy your first car?
Did you buy it cash down?
Or, did you borrow money? Took an auto loan, perhaps?
Let me tell you a little story.

Buying my first car.

Over twenty years ago, I bought my first car.
And everything happened so quickly…
A car salesman stopped me at my office lobby. He asked if I was interested in buying a car. And he handed me a pamphlet.
It basically said that based on my salary, I was eligible to take an auto loan.
The promise that I could drive a brand-new car in ten days was too tempting.
So I gave in. I signed up for an auto loan.
And in less than ten days, I had this shiny new gray-color car!
It had power windows, an electronic steering wheel, auto-dimming rearview mirrors, and all the bells and whistles. Smart move, right?

Hold on to your horses!

Smart move or not, I’ll let you decide after you’re done reading the rest of this post.
Recently, I’ve been binge-listening to some of the backdated episodes of a podcast I LOVE.
And I bumped into a very familiar name.
Syed Balkhi.

The millionaire teen.

I first heard of Syed long ago in 2006 when I started blogging. But little did I pay attention to what he did. All I knew was that he had a website called WPBeginner.
It was a blog about WordPress for people who built WordPress websites or plugins. I liked his content and spent a lot of time reading his blog posts as I was building WordPress websites too.
Syed is in his thirties today. Which means he must’ve been in his early teens in 2006!
In about eighteen months of starting WPBeginner, he made his first million dollars in annual revenue.
And ever since, he’s grown his business, Awesome Motive, big time by acquiring other WordPress companies.
If you aren’t familiar with WordPress, it’s a CMS software. Content Management System, in short.
It’s a software that supposedly powers 40% of the internet. But that’s not the best part. Here’s what is:
Syed’s company today owns ~60% of all WordPress businesses.
https://preview.redd.it/q94pw2dyei1d1.png?width=1000&format=png&auto=webp&s=ad09e2577179c030bdbba726b7dbaf7f368d44bc
I call this the Balkhi Domination Disc.
Put simply, Syed’s businesses power 24% of the internet.
This is HEWGE!
Okay, another story…

The gas station story.

At some point on the podcast, Syed goes…
Offset expenses?
I was on a run while listening to this, and almost tripped when he said that.
Okay. Take a deep breath. I did that too…
Coz from this point on, it’s PURE GOLD.
And here goes the first and biggest lesson in wealth creation…

Tip #1: Every time you need to buy a depreciating asset, invest in an appreciating asset.

Syed says he learned this lesson from his mentor when he was thirteen or fourteen.
The best way to understand this is to loop back to my opening story…
When I bought my first car, I paid the monthly installments using my salary.
But when Syed’s mentor bought his Mercedes, he didn’t spend money from his savings. Instead, he decided to invest money in real estate. And he used the returns from that real estate to finance his shiny new Mercedes.
When Syed’s wife was pregnant with their first son…
He followed the exact blueprint.
He knew the money one would need with a baby birth – hospital charges, medicines, diapers, toys, and everything else!
So instead of spending money from his savings, Syed used the lesson he learned from his mentor to cover the cost of raising a baby – he bought a gas station!
It didn’t just give him the money to pay for the baby shower and childbirth. The gas station would continue to generate a steady flow of cash every single year.
Darn! Why didn’t it ever strike me before?
Mentor, baby! I’m glad to have found one in a podcast!
Okay, let’s look at the next one…

Tip #2: Build a recurring revenue business

In a content business, you turn email subscribers into paying customers. But Syed calls them just re-occurring revenue. The revenue occurs every time someone on your list buys something from you.
A new customer pays once. And unless you sell them something else, you aren’t going to make bank. The only way your business is going to see revenue trickle in from that customer is when you sell to them again.
The solution?
Build a recurring revenue business.
Syed regularly invests and acquires other WordPress software and tools businesses. This allows him to cross-sell software and tools to existing info product customers.
Of course, you can build recurring revenue info products too, using memberships and subscriptions – but Syed didn’t get into that on this podcast.
So yes, using revenue to acquire new businesses is a great idea. But how much should you invest?
Syed has stuck to one principle:

Tip #3: Heads I win, tails I don’t lose much

Syed learned this principle from his friend Monish Pabrai.
In his book The Dhando Investor, Monish talks about the Patels of India. He describes how this relatively tiny subset of humanity from eastern India went on to own most of the motels in the United States.
According to Monish, one of the biggest reasons why the Patels have been successful in business is because they always have followed this principle – heads I win, tails I don’t lose much. So what does this mean?
Let’s look at it with an example.
Assume the intrinsic value of a certain business is $1,000,000, and you buy it for $700,000. What you just did in that transaction is what he describes as a “heads I win, tails I don’t lose much”.
Because let’s say you did a great job with the business and the intrinsic value went up – you win!
But just in case you didn’t do much with the business and the intrinsic value dropped by $400,000, you only lose $100,000.
Heads you win, tails you don’t lose much!
This is wild!
At this point, I was fully invested in listening to this conversation. And I was just getting restless thinking…
“How can I buy a business on the cheap?”
And it just felt like the hosts heard me!
Let’s look at the answer to my question.

Tip #4: Identify “mismanaged gems” to compound at high double-digit

Back in the 1990s, my uncle built an empire buying distressed real estate properties. And it wasn’t easy. Every time he bought one, there was a lot of work to be done.
From litigation and dispute issues to structural issues, he was usually handed a mess. That’s why they were called distressed assets – thankfully, my uncle had the wherewithal to turn them around.
Mismanaged gems are different.
Syed describes mismanaged gems as good (online) businesses with some limitations. These could be in the form of having limited revenue streams, limited target audience, or something else.
Let’s look at a couple of examples…
  • Let’s take an online business where the creator isn’t aware of the different ways to monetize their business. You can acquire this business for $15,000. You use your Facebook Ads skills to sell $20,000 worth of info products and instantly increase the revenue.
  • If an online business has been running only using word-of-mouth marketing, you can acquire it and use your email list to instantly grow the business by exposing them to a new audience.
Here’s how Syed puts it…
“A business might only be thinking about monetizing from one angle. They’re not thinking about it from a full perspective. So I can look at it and say well yes this is the current revenue today, and I’m getting a bargain on today’s revenue. But here are my contracts that I have with so many different partners and vendors and such that I’ll be able to unlock extra revenue here, here, and here. So I turned this business that has one revenue stream to having like multiple revenue streams. That’s how you take something that was doing like no revenue to or very low revenue to having five eight ten million dollars in revenue.” – Syed Balkhi

Tip #5: Leverage the Ecosystem effect

If you’re starting a business, look for an ecosystem. What does that mean?
Syed’s entire online business is built around the WordPress ecosystem.
But there are many other software platforms like WordPress that have an ecosystem. Look at software like QuickBooks, Google Chrome, or Xero. These software platforms are built like an ecosystem, allowing developers to build plugins and extensions.
Most of these plugins and extensions are sizeable businesses in and of themselves. So if you’re starting a business, you’re better off starting one inside an ecosystem.
Starting a business inside an ecosystem exposes you to massive opportunities. You can grow your business through acquisitions, and cross-selling, amongst many other ways. And this also helps you compound over time.
Related Post: Speaking of selling, I think you’ll find value in this episode on The Launch Plan podcast about the F-Word that stops clients from buying your products.

Tip #6: Go from creatooperator to capital allocator

This one is an advanced idea. If you’ve done well with your business and have some cash in the bank, this one’s for ya!
Essentially what Syed says here is that you have one of two choices:
  1. You can choose to build a business from scratch, or
  2. You can acquire an existing business and multiply it.
Obviously, this is an advanced tip. But great business owners don’t master capital allocation overnight. While there are some common traits between the two, it’s a skill you need to build.
I haven’t bought a business so far. But I’m very interested in this. You’ll likely see me writing more on this topic in future posts.

Bonus ‘Rick’ Tip: Don’t be in a hurry to get wealthy

Have you heard of Rick Guerin?
If you haven’t, no worries. Neither did I – until I listened to this podcast.
Rick Guerin was Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger’s third business partner at Berkshire Hathaway.
Huh? Really?
I couldn’t believe it either. A third partner?
So looked up the interwebs for proof.
It turns out to be TRUE!
Here’s how Monish Pabrai describes what happened to Rick:
Rick was just as smart as Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger. But he was in a hurry. And that’s the bonus tip!
That’s a wrap! Enjoyed reading this?
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Here's a link to the full post: https://kartvee.com/entrepreneur-buys-gas-station/
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2024.05.20 06:49 no1cares_wrkharder I (39F) need advice with my marriage to (40M). He recently told me he is not emotionally connected to me. This came after yet another fight about me wanting relations. What does that mean that he’s not emotionally connected?

We have been together for 11 years, married for 5. We have been through two rounds of marriage counseling, both of which were not productive, mostly because he was unwilling to do the things they suggested. Examples: book recommendation; he refuses to read. Planning a date night once and awhile for me since I handle that all the time; he never did.
He says I’m not “nice” enough or I expect too much. He is extremely disengaged. I know his job is taxing but I’m the bread winner, handle the majority of the housework, handle all the planning, and generally let the man live his life.
When I bring up the idea of divorce, he freaks out, and constantly mentions if I just lower my “crazy” standards, we’d be fine.
I feel like a roommate, a weekend friend to him, a doormat.
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2024.05.20 06:46 SteveW_MC StopKillingGames - A Mogul Mail Suggestion

Some of the commenters during Sunday's Stream mentioned the global campaign to bring federal lawsuits and petitions against videogame publishers who intentionally sabotage the functionality of videogames when the servers shut down. They wanted Ludwig to do a Mogul Mail about it. I wasn't 1 of those commenters, nor am I a representative spearheading this initiative, but I am somewhat familiar with what's going on and wanted to explain it here to see if others are interested. So what is going on?

The Crew

The videogame "The Crew", published by Ubisoft, was recently destroyed for all players and had a playerbase of at least 12 million people. Due to the game's size and France's strong consumer protection laws, this represents one of the best opportunities to hold a publisher accountable for this action. If we are successful in charges being pressed against Ubisoft, this can have a ripple effect on the videogames industry to prevent publishers from destroying more games.
Source
More about "The Crew" Specifically
This includes both physical and digital versions of the game, by the way, as the game cannot function without pinging to the now offline servers, making it completely nonfunctional.

The Petition

Official government petitions have been introduced to prohibit the practice of intentionally rendering commercial videogames inoperable when support ends. Currently, petitions for the United Kingdom, Canada, and Australia have been launched and will soon be open for signing. Plans are also underway for the European Union, but will unfortunately be delayed due to processing times. Further government petitions may be started later with enough assistance.
You can go to the website https://www.stopkillinggames.com and click "take action here" to sign a petition for your country. Depending on the country you're in, you may have to have actually owned the game "the crew" in order to sign, but regardless it's important to understand this increasingly prevalent issue and bring awareness to it.
Here's a video about the initiative from its founder

Erasing Videogames and History

This ties into another videogame-related issue. Most videogames cannot be legally obtained anymore.
Only 13 percent of classic video games published in the United States are currently in release (n = 1500, ±2.5%, 95% CI). These low numbers are consistent across platform ecosystems and time periods. Troublingly, the reissue rate drops below 3 percent for games released prior to 1985—the foundational era of video games—indicating that the interests of the marketplace may not align with the needs of video game researchers. Our experiences gathering data for this study suggest that these problems will intensify over time due to a low diversity of reissue sources and the long-term volatility of digital game storefronts.
Video about the study.
But Nintendo has like 20 N64 games available on Nintendo Online so....

A Symptom of a Wider Problem

Videogame companies are doing what all companies have been trying to do for years now: stop you from owning anything, and requiring you to rent everything.
Ubisoft’s Director of Subscriptions Phillippe Tremblay said: “...gamers are used to, a little bit like DVD, having and owning their games. That’s the consumer shift that needs to happen. They got comfortable not owning their CD collection or DVD collection. That’s a transformation that’s been a bit slower to happen in games.” Source. Video talking about it
They don't want you to own your games. They want to be able to take away the thing you "purchased", destroy it so it no longer works, and force you to buy something new.
GamePass
Gamepass is literally exactly what the corporate overlords are trying to push the entire industry toward: rentiership of all videogames. "Games as a Service" is a fraud.
It's not just videogames
Whenever you "buy" an ebook or movie from, say, Apple, Amazon, Google, etc., or a videogame from Steam, Sony, etc., you don't actually own that piece of digital media. You are renting the product and getting a perpetual license. That license can be revoked at any time for any reason by the company and you will have the thing you "bought" revoked.
This has happened a lot over the years. For example: Telstra.
...[Telstra] announced it would shut down the service in June. Customers were told that unless they moved over to another service, Fetch, they would no longer be able to access the films and TV shows they had bought.
This isn’t simply a case of Netflix removing Friends from the service when a content agreement runs out. These were films and shows people had bought with the expectation they could watch them whenever they wanted – indefinitely.
Vicki Russell posted on X last week saying she was being asked by Telstra to pay $200 for Fetch to retain access to what she said was $2,500-worth of purchases.
Source, fantastic video talking about article
Microsoft Book Store
In 2019, Microsoft shut down their ebook store, erasing all customers' books from their devices. Fortunately, Microsoft offered a refund for the books purchased. Something they did to not raise customer ire, not because they were legally required to do so.
They are able to completely erase the books the customers "bought" because of Digital Rights Management (DRM)
"One of the things that I think people don't realize that's crucially important is that DRM and related software tools are embedded in all sorts of devices that we buy," Aaron Perzanowski, the author of The End of Ownership: Personal Property in the Digital Economy, tells NPR's Lulu Garcia-Navarro.
"Your car, your smart home appliances, your home security system – all of these systems have software that allows for this kind of control over how the devices are used, and I think we're going to see these same sorts of situations crop up in the context of physical devices that are being used in people's homes."
"As this technology has been deployed what we've seen is that the big beneficiaries of DRM have not been copyright holders. They have been technology companies like Amazon, like Microsoft, who are able to control these ecosystems to make it harder for consumers to switch over to new platforms."
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Sony
TV Shows "purchased" through the Play Station store were slated to be erased according to an announcement in December 2023. However, do to the immense and justified backlash, they reneged for now.
Apple
Apple can remove a movie from the App Store and, in some cases, make it impossible for you to access your "purchased" version if you don't have it downloaded. Source
Amazon
In 2020, a Class Action Lawsuit was filed against Amazon for this very reason. "Caudel v Amazon"
The plaintiff claimed that Amazon misleads customers about the reality of what it means to “purchase” a video through the site. Allegedly, the company is aware that customers will believe that purchasing a video gives them unlimited access to it because that is the usual understanding of the word “buy.”
The case was dismissed out of the California Federal Court due to lack of standing). Source.
These Terms of Use expressly state that purchasers obtain only a limited license to view video content and that purchased content may become unavailable due to provider license restriction or other reasons.
AKA: You don't own anything.
Source
More on the lawsuit. The legal filing. Dismissal
This phenomenon is part of what is known as "rentism", "rentier capitalism" or "techno-economic rentiership". It goes far beyond just movies and videogames, but this is getting a bit far afield from what one might expect from a standard Mogul Mail, so I won't dive deeper into that aspect of the subject, but you can google those terms and phrases to find some fun reading.

I forgot to tie this into the "Right to Repair" but this post is getting too long.

Can't even fix the stuff you own. Do you even really own it?
Tractors.
Ludwig, if you're reading this, please do a Mogul Mail about this topic; at least the videogame stuff. You can use all of these sources I've compiled and you don't need to credit me for the compilation. I don't care. This is important and more people should know.
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2024.05.20 06:46 Fun-Feedback-446 Best man i talked online & tick off all my criteria is from Serbia

So here's story of why best man i talked online is from Serbia (31yo). I'm asian (28yo) from Southern East anyway.
I talked with him via online video chat (on late feb 2024). At first i'm just being casual because knowing most guy online only want the "cheeky fun" but then the talk gets more interesting after found out we both an art people. He's musician & music teacher while i'm an artist painter. We both understand the pros cons in art world.
We then move talking in whatsapp. I don't usually do this but the talk was interesting. Thought it was only one time moment but days later, he texted me again & the rest is history. The chemistry & vibes even with a bit of flirty teasing are surprisingly really natural & i didn't expect to enjoy talking with him. He was also really consent meaning if i'm not comfortable with him, he won't annoy me. What i didn't expect & surprisingly either is that he's overall describe my criteria dream man. Tall, well builted, wise, gentleman, sweet, open minded, real good sense of humour, respectful & mature. He's older & Libra (i'm Virgo). He also love share his music taste & also few of paintings he had in his house but surprisingly he don't share to people around & only to someone / his circle that understand the vibes (wow i feel somewhat special hihi). He loves my painting as well so huge bonus. We had deep mature talk too & i related to some of his traits as well for example about mental health.
He even said nice things about me & why he loves talking with me. He did said its hard to get to know if its by online, much to explore & if he has enough money, he would love to visit my country (i'll do the same too). We talked frequent until he became more busy with his work & life. He's not much a social media guy too. But tbh i can't expect much because of we both being far away. And now it become sometimes we talk. More i learned about him, he was quite unpredictable emotionally unavailable sometimes & few time my text were leave as read. But i do know he definitely had other girls he talked beside me. Even that, he was still the best online guy i talked. I don't mind even if we're not a thing (friendly term relationship) But i hope the best for him & who knows if there's miracle for both of us.
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2024.05.20 06:45 higurashi0793 ENFJ Guide from a Jungian Perspective

Hello! I've seen that a lot of people are confused about ENFJs and how exactly we work, and considering that there are many websites with different —even contradictory— concepts and definitions of ENFJ, I wanted to provide one closer to what Carl Jung first described in Psychological Types in 1921. I hope this will help people gain a wider perspective of our type, and clear up some associated misconceptions.
But, before we begin, there are some concepts and questions that need to be addressed first:
Are websites like 16 Personalities reliable? What about tests?
📣 No, they aren't. 16 Personalities has wildly different concepts about types, and most importantly: while it's not outright stated, their personality model isn't based on jungian functions or the types Myers-Briggs described in Gifts Differing in 1980. Their test and type description is based on the Big Five personality model, which is something else on its own. You can check this in more detail on their FAQ page. If you used 16p to discover your type, there's a high chance it may not be the same type as what Jung or Myers-Briggs describe in their respective books. Other websites and tests may also handle different concepts, so take their results with a grain of salt.
If tests and websites are unreliable, how can I be sure of my type?
📣 By reading! I'm afraid that there isn't a quick shortcut to instantly know yourself and what type best fits you. Knowing your type is a journey in itself, full of self-reflection and doubt. It's hard, but very rewarding. However, if you are doing this just for fun, feel free to take any popular tests floating around.
I am friendly and outgoing, but sometimes I need space. Am I INFJ or ENFJ?
📣 Social extraversion/introversion and cognitive extraversion/introversion are two different things. Jung managed his concepts and descriptions of different psychological phenomena and gave them different meanings from what we're familiar with. I know, it's confusing. But I'll do my best to clear up what he actually meant later on, so don't worry!
Where are you getting all this information?
📣 Psychological Types, by Carl Jung. I also have Gifts Differing: Understanding Personality Type by Isabel Briggs Myers with Peter B. Myer, however, I am not fond of Myers-Briggs' interpretation of Jung's writings. In my opinion, it's an oversimplified version of types and functions, and she displayed an obvious intuitive bias in her book. Another book that's popular is Lectures on Jung's Typology by Marie-Louise von Franz, who also worked together with Jung to describe types and functions. However, be warned: by her own admission, she dislikes Fe-dom types and her description of ExFJ is rather insulting, so expect some bias as well.
Before we begin talking about what is ENFJ, we have to understand Jung's word salad and what he meant with all these concepts and descriptions. It takes a lot of patience and effort to understand Psychological Types, because as you may know (or not!), psychology is a relatively new science, and many of its roots come from philosophy, anthropology, and even religion. Jung refers to a lot of other authors, philosophers, and other literary figures to describe what he believed were "personality types".
What was the goal with all this? Well, Carl Jung was a Swiss psychoanalyst, and by associating certain patterns of behavior with different mental illnesses, he aimed to make their diagnosis easier for other psychiatrists. So, understandably, Psychological Types is full of technical language that may be hard to understand for anyone who isn't already familiar with the field of psychology. This is why a lot of other websites and other authors, while relying on Jung to describe types, tend to water down concepts and inevitably miss some important context that can't be properly explained until you take the effort to read the entire thing. That's why we have like 10 different descriptions of the same type or functions floating around.
Jung associated Fe-types like ENFJ or ESFJ with hysteria. Of course, this was back in the 19th century, and the target of this diagnosis was almost always women. Thankfully, it's no longer an official mental illness.
⚠️ An important consideration: most of the original texts that laid the foundation for MBTI to exist are from the early 19th century. Expect a lot of sexism and traditional gender roles.
"It may seem superfluous to the reader if I add a special chapter on definitions of terms to the text of my study. However, I have had ample experience of the fact that it is precisely in psychological works that one cannot be careful enough with terms and expressions, since it is precisely in the field of psychology, as nowhere else, that the greatest variations of terms occur, which often give rise to the most stubborn misunderstandings." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 476).
I will not be listing every single concept, because it'd take the entirety of this post and even more to explain what everything means. I'll list the most common ones that show up when describing types.
🫂 Extravertion and Intravertion:
"If we look at the course of a human life, we see how the destinies of one person are more conditioned by the objects of his interests, while the destinies of another are more conditioned by his own inner being, by his subject. As we all deviate somewhat more to one side or the other, we are naturally inclined to understand everything in terms of our own type." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 4)
As I said before, extraversion and introversion have different meanings in this area, so when we talk about an extraverted type, we mean to say that it's a type whose dominant function is an extraverted one. To understand better what is an extraverted function, we need to have two vital concepts in mind: subject and object.
🌎 The object, in this concept, is anything that exists outside your mind: it may be the world, it may be people, it may be experiences, it may be sensations, anything that is not inherently part of you. It may be what's happening in your environment, or the environment in itself. It's the external, that which exists without needing any additional interpretation or guessing.
👤 The subject is you. Your mind, your feelings, your values, your logic, your impressions, your subjective interpretation of ideas or people or what's happening around you. Anything that is purely personal, be it your inner understanding of how things fit together, your interpretation of a painting, your like or dislike of a song, etc. Your subjective experiences or thoughts, that's the subject.
In a way, it's you, the subject vs. the world, the object. Of course, there's much more to this, but this is the easiest way I can explain it. You'll see these two concepts popping around because they're the very foundation of functions.
"But every human being possesses both mechanisms, extraversion and introversion, and only the relative predominance of one or the other determines the type." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 5).
Extraversion and Introversion, as I was saying before, are defined by what's your disposition towards the external world vs. the inner self. If your decisions are mostly influenced by what's happening outside your mind, then we are talking about an extrovert. If your decisions are influenced by your own inner world, regardless of what's happening outside of it, then we talk about an introvert.
"If the orientation towards the object and the objectively given prevails in such a way that the most frequent and most important decisions and actions are not conditioned by subjective views but by objective conditions, we speak of an extraverted attitude. If this is habitual, we speak of an extraverted type. If someone thinks, feels and acts, in a word, lives in a way that directly corresponds to objective circumstances and their requirements, in both a good and a bad sense, then they are extraverted. He lives in such a way that it is obvious that the object as a determining factor plays a greater role in his consciousness than his subjective view. Certainly he has subjective views, but their determining power is less than that of external objective conditions." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (pp. 384-385).
It's important to know that Jung initially described only four functions: Feeling, Thinking, Intuition, and Sensing. These functions would be either extraverted or introverted depending on how they relate to the external, objective world vs. the inner, subjective world. For example, Extraverted Feeling (Fe) is an extraverted feeling function because it favors the external feeling environment over more personal, subjective feelings that only belong to the subject.
In contrast, the introvert prefers to make decisions based on their inner self, on their personal views and convictions, regardless of what's happening around them. Someone whose function is introverted will not value the outside world a lot, and feels like is a threat to them:
"The introvert has an abstract attitude towards the object; basically, he is always anxious to withdraw his libido from the object, as if he had to prevent the object from overpowering him." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 380).
Now that we have some basic concepts cleared out, I hope understanding the Extraverted Feeling type is a bit easier. I want to start by how Jung described Fe:
"Feeling in the extraverted attitude is oriented towards the objectively given, i.e. the object is the indispensable determinant of the way of feeling. It is in accordance with objective values. Whoever knows feeling only as a subjective fact will not readily understand the nature of extraverted feeling, because extraverted feeling has freed itself as far as possible from the subjective factor and has instead subjected itself entirely to the influence of the object." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 411).
❗️We have to understand here that feelings are not emotions. Under this context, feeling is what we either accept or reject, what we value or not, how do we feel about something. An emotion, in this context, is something that causes a bodily response: if you feel angry, your heartbeat increases, your arms shake, and your face turns red. If you feel sad, you'll start crying and shaking. If you feel happy, your heartbeat increases and you smile. In contrast, just liking or disliking something may or may not make you react in any way. For example, let's say that you have an intense dislike of a celebrity. You don't start shaking and crying just because you dislike that celebrity. But what if you're a fan of a certain band? If you listen to one of their songs, you may start feeling happy. In both of these cases, we have two concepts floating around: a "feeling" (disliking a celebrity or liking a band) and an "emotion" that may be a reaction to that feeling (feeling happy when listening to your favorite band).
Feeling types usually have this misconception going around that we're emotional wrecks and can't think logically. This misunderstanding comes from the confusion that Feeling means being emotional. And while a feeling can give rise to an emotion, it's not emotion in itself, these are two different things. To put it simply: Feelings are values, and emotions are reactions to those values.
Now, to continue on how Jung described Fe, he gave a great example of how this type of Feeling is influenced by the outside world:
"I can feel compelled to use the predicate "beautiful" or "good", not because I find the object "beautiful" or "good" out of subjective feeling, but because it is appropriate to call it "beautiful" or "good"; and appropriate insofar as a judgment to the contrary would somehow disturb the general emotional situation. Such an appropriate emotional judgment is by no means a simulation or even a lie, but an act of fitting in. Thus, for example, a painting may be called "beautiful" because a painting hung in a salon and signed with a well-known name is generally assumed to be "beautiful", or because the predicate "ugly" could offend the family of the happy owner, or because the intention on the part of the visitor is to create a pleasant emotional atmosphere, for which it is necessary that everything is felt to be pleasant. Such feelings are directed according to objective determinants. As such, they are genuine and represent the entire visible feeling function." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (pp. 411-412).
A common misunderstanding surrounding Fe, and by extension Fe types, is that Fe is by nature insincere and fake, and that we're double-faced and superficial. But I think of it differently: if your friend got a bad haircut and they look terrible, is it dishonest to say that it isn't that bad if it comes from an honest intention of not wanting to hurt their feelings over something they can't change? Do you always need to tell people what you think, regardless of how it may affect them? I think honesty without kindness is just cruelty.
But, moving on!
"The evaluations made through the act of feeling correspond either directly to objective values or at least to certain traditional and generally accepted standards of value. It is largely due to this kind of feeling that so many people go to the theater or to a concert or to church with properly measured positive feelings. It is also to thank for the fashions, and what is far more valuable, the positive and widespread support of social, philanthropic and other cultural endeavors. In these things, extraverted feeling proves to be a creative factor. Without this feeling, for example, beautiful and harmonious sociability is unthinkable. In this respect, extraverted feeling is just as beneficial and rational a power as extraverted thinking." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 412)
To me, Fe represents that desire for human connection, to feel community, to think about others. We live in an age where hyperindividualism is encouraged everywhere, to care about yourself only, to isolate and disregard anyone who doesn't make you feel good. If that kind of mindset is pushed constantly by corporations and influencers, a lot of people will have a hard time understanding something like Fe, since it opposes everything hyperindividualism stands for. It's frustrating, but I think it's also not surprising to see a lot of people in the MBTI community having an intense dislike of Fe types, especially Fe-dom types, because of this. The idea that only you, as an individual, matter, is so prevalent that for some people, caring about something other than yourself is just dumb.
⚠️ Another thing to take in mind is that Jung determines the dominant function by what we value the most. By this, it means that your intention is what matters, not the results. For example, a socially awkward person can be an ENFJ as long as they value the outside feeling environment over everything else, no matter how clumsy they may be at it. We tend to think of ENFJ as mind-readers, masters of socialization, or community leaders, and it certainly can be the case! But, just as the ENFJ can be a well-loved, charismatic therapist, it can also be the nervous shrinking violet who awkwardly tries to please people around them. We often make the mistake of measuring someone's preference of a function by how "skilled" they are at it, by how much positive results come from them using that function, when in reality, you can be an absolute dimwit and still be a Ti-dom. Your dominant function is always the one that dictates your decisions, regardless of the results of those decisions.
Now, as with all functions, Extraverted Feeling has its dark side.
"However, this beneficial effect is lost as soon as the object gains excessive influence. In this case, the overly extraverted feeling draws the personality too much into the object, i.e. the object assimilates the person, whereby the personal character of the feeling, which is its main stimulus, is lost. This makes the feeling cold, objective and untrustworthy. It betrays a secret intention, or at least arouses such suspicions in the unbiased observer. It no longer makes that pleasant and refreshing impression which always accompanies a genuine feeling, but one senses posturing or acting, when perhaps the egocentric intention is still quite unconscious." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (pp. 412-413).
It's possible to care too much. When Fe gains excessive influence over the psyche, it places so much value on harmonious relationships that it comes at the detriment of the subject. Unhealthy Fe demands that you adapt to every single social environment, to make sure to please everyone, and to sacrifice your personhood in favor of the external feeling world. This is why the unhealthy Fe user comes across as fake and dishonest: it's impossible to be a different person to fit in with different social settings without sacrificing your integrity.
"Since situations in life constantly alternate with one another, triggering different or even contrasting emotional tones, the personality dissolves into just as many different feelings. One time you are one thing, the next time something completely different - apparently, because in reality such a diversity of personality is impossible." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 415).
When we talk about types turning unhealthy or acting in erratic or destructive ways, we also have to talk about their inferior function. After all, is your inferior function that keeps your dominant function in check, so to speak. Your inferior function is a sensible counterpart that, while it opposes your dominant function, it provides a different perspective, like another voice that says "yes, but..." to anything you say. This is the role of Introverted Thinking (Ti).
❗️Contrary to popular belief, inferior Ti is not when you lack intelligence, logic, or intellect. To begin with, Thinking isn't related to intelligence. It can lead to it, but just like Feeling can lead to emotions, it ultimately isn't emotions in itself. In the same way, Thinking can lead to intelligence, but it isn't intelligence in itself. It's a process of thought, not the result of that thought. For example, you can think about a math problem, but that thinking may not necessarily lead to a correct answer.
The relationship between the dominant function and the inferior function is the most important one. If the balance between the two functions is disturbed, it leads to destructive or toxic behaviors, or as how Jung called it, neurosis. So what is the relationship between Ti and Fe?
"You can only feel "right" if nothing else disturbs your feelings. But nothing disturbs feeling as much as thinking. It is therefore easy to understand why thinking is suppressed as much as possible in this type of person. This is by no means to say that such a woman does not think at all; on the contrary, she may think a great deal and very intelligently, but her thinking is never sui generis, but an epimetheic appendage of her feeling. As far as feeling permits, she can think very well, but any conclusion, however logical, which might lead to a result disturbing to feeling, is rejected a limine. It is simply not thought." Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 414)
Thinking is the opposing force to Feeling. And for a type that values Feeling the most, it's only to be expected that it tries to suppress Thinking the most. If a logical thought has the power to disturb the social harmony, the average or unhealthy ENFJ will do their best to pretend it isn't there. But it's impossible to completely suppress a part of your mind. The thoughts that you're desperately trying to push away, will always come back in different forms:
"Unconscious thinking reaches the surface in the form of ideas, often of an obsessive nature, whose general character is always negative and devaluing. There are therefore moments in women of this type when the worst thoughts attach themselves to the very objects that the feeling values most highly. Negative thinking makes use of all infantile prejudices or comparisons that are suitable for casting doubt on the value of feelings, and it draws on all primitive instincts in order to be able to explain feelings as "nothing but". Jung, Carl. Psychological Types (p. 417).
By this, Jung means that the suppressed Ti will leak out in the form of harsh criticism, prejudice, or comparing people according to unreasonable expectations of them, destroying the previously positive feelings about them. Basically, Ti will turn destructive, making the usually pleasant ENFJ assume the worst out of someone.
All of the above paints a picture of a dishonest, paranoid, and troubled ENFJ. They're desperate to win people over, to make everyone happy, but they have lost themselves in this desire and sacrificed their integrity to the point they sound hollow, they lack substance, and the more they try, the less convincing they are. At the same time, their inferior Ti makes them think all sorts of terrible things about the people around them, and they start doubting their relationships and the sincerity of the people they love.
🫂 I will be making a part two later describing Ni from Jung's perspective and how to tell ENFJ and INFJ apart. Ni is kind of tricky to describe, especially as an auxiliary function, but I'm sure it'll help a lot of people who may be confused about their type! Also, the majority of what I described above can be applied to the ENFJ's sensor counterpart, ESFJ. And as I said before, Jung only described four functions and eight personality types, which later expanded to 16 personality types under Myers-Briggs system, therefore there isn't a "function stack" to speak of right now, but I can do my best to describe the closest thing we have to it from Psychological Types.
I hope this was helpful. Thank you for reading! 💖
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2024.05.20 06:44 RepulsiveGeologist19 Vent about like

So I 16 M, have had a slew of friends over my life so far, I have another friend close to my age ( who’s online and care about dearly, also fyi , hes bi I’m gay, and I have low self esteem trust issues and high anxiety so I over think a lot ) . We’ve been growing distant lately, since they got out of a relationship , with a guy that manipulated them into thinking they were younger ( the guy was 22 ). Since then I haven’t been doing much Rp stuff, like SCP and military rp ( because that what they like same as I ) and I kinda stopped playing because it reminded me of that ex of there’s because of how shit they treated my friend. Bit recently I’ve been getting into a slew of anxiety attacks and panic attacks, over a guy that manipulated me to date him, then him telling me it was a cruel pranks to get me away from him, when he invited me on a date to his band concert. And in that slew , some of my attacks have been for my friend ( where we will call H ) mainly because we’ve grown so distant, and we’ve talked in the past , but they are also mainly super busy with the Rps ( they’re also in JROTC or ROTC ) . Yesterday after noon ( it’s 12:38 am where I am ) I sent a letter how I felt, and in a short term they said back, of how they care about me a lot too, and busy with life in general, and scared about possibly being trans ( because I genuine and scared of woman because I was SA by my sister when I was younger ) and how we don’t don’t much activity wise anymore, but they do still very much over me and hope I improve getting better. They also told me that they had to crush someone they liked ( like a partner ) and I got overthinking, about it because of the sensitive stuff I said in the letter I wrote. And they have more confidence in that guy that manipulated him than that guy he just told me about. Which got me overthinking on over drive. Which I hate doing all the time. They also know I like them too and im also like a big brother they never had ( from Alabama though but we do love eachother in both ways ). And they fear if we do ever date they’d lose that closeness ( even though we’ve uhhh, done some stuff together ). Anywhom I got school but I’m probably gonna stayed , gn people.
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2024.05.20 06:44 BrujaNinjaMom Petty Revenge!

My ex-husband was a real piece of work, 25+ years and a wonderful current husband later and it is easy to laugh about some of his shenanigans. In polite company I would say we had different moral centers. In not so polite society I would explain he would "beep" anything with a hole that stood still long enough, could not tell the truth if his life depended upon it, and put most of my hard earned money up his nose.
A couple of examples: Our phone got turned off because he was making 900 and 976 (sex lines) calls. He tried to tell me someone had stolen his phone card (that was the thing at the time, most people did not have cell phones), but a friend worked for the phone company and gave me the phone records. I did not have a phone again until after we divorced and I moved to an area with a different phone company.
He told me he had used the rent money to buy me a mothers day present - he didn't. Another time he told me he had gotten mugged and they had given him a black eye and stolen all his cash - again the rent money. I knew there were holes in his story and later found out he actually had gotten caught with another fellas girl, and the other fella had given him the black eye. Assuming the rent money is what they were "partying" with before they were caught.
When we separated, we were receiving food stamps. I got custody of the kids and had gone to the welfare office with the court order to let them know what was going on and find out what I needed to do. I thought I had gotten it all sorted out, but I stopped getting any food stamps and never did again (once my money was not going up his nose, I discovered I did not need the food stamps anyway). I put in several inquires to welfare and about 1 1/2 years later the welfare office finally contacted me and I found out he had been getting all the food stamps! He claimed he had no idea those food stamps were for the kids.
Now for the petty revenge (aside from living my best life without him, while he ended up living (literally) under a bridge for a few years)-
Because I had been the only one working, he had been the one to get all our utilities turned on. Therefore they were all in his name. After I kicked him out, he called me one day and said he was having the gas deposit moved to his new place, I would have to repay the deposit to have the gas put into my name and he would give me half. Of course he never did, but I knew that was going to happen.
The electric bill, which was also in his name, apparently did not have the same requirement. Several months later I moved out of the rented unit we had shared into an area with a different utility company. The electric bill for our old place was still in his name, I had not paid it for several months when I moved out, and left as many things turned on in the unit as I could without creating a fire hazard.
A few months later and he calls me because the electricity had been turned off at his new place. He was furious, as he had been told that it was turned off because of the money owed on the place we had shared. Did not understand why I had not moved it into my name as I had done for the gas. I, or course, claimed I had no idea what had happed to him, but was internally and after I hung up the phone laughing so hard!
I have had a few other satisfing moments through the years, and many other "funny" stories of things he tried to get away with, but this is enough for one post!
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2024.05.20 06:42 Fum_unda_chez I feel so stuck.

I have a bachelors degree in biochemistry from 3 years ago. I want to go to graduate school but none of my professors even knew me. I was invisible. I was and am still fat and ugly so that may have something to do with it. I’m also not bright, I earned a whopping 2.85 gpa for my B.S. I have no where to turn to get a letter of recommendation. None of my past employers liked me and I have no friends. I thought about going back for a second undergrad degree but I have 11,000 in credit card debt and I can’t take out any loans. That means I’d have to work full time to keep up with my expenses. I also hate both of my jobs and all of my coworkers. I have no family to help me, and no family even near me. My sister is literally 16 hours away and my custodial parents are even farther. I can’t ask any of them for help. I have no boyfriend or husband. I’m literally just by myself working two shitty jobs trying to crack away at debt. I feel like I’m going insane. I want to do something more important. I want to work at a place where I like most of my coworkers. I want to be paid more than 17 dollars an hour. Did I also mention both these jobs are night jobs?!? I’m exhausted. There are people with only a high school education who are getting paid at least 19. I don’t know what to do. I want to quit both jobs so badly they are ruining my mental health but no one likes me and no one wants to hire me. I don’t even know what I’m doing wrong. I try to be nice to everybody. I’m the problem but I don’t for the life of me know what I’m doing. I’m also so close to 30. I’m literally 25. I hate my life so much.
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2024.05.20 06:41 RepresentativePut337 Day 114. Learning Who to Ask for Help

There are so many “essentials” to caregiving that they just become another chore that may or, more likely, may not get done. For example, we all know it’s essential to floss our teeth well and to do it daily. But when you’re so tired from work, taking whatever time you can with your family while giving care to your patient, you are mightily tempted to forego flossing for tonight. It’s understandable. It doesn’t help your teeth any, but it’s understandable.
Another “essential” is asking for help. On one hand, when your loved one is first diagnosed with whatever awful disease it is, it feels like you’re barraged with well intended offers of support from anyone and everyone. That is very kind. It is. And the intent is generous. But initially, in the early stages of the new diagnosis, you don’t even know what to ask for. However, as time passes–and the offers become fewer–you will learn about your person’s and, hopefully, your own needs. Still, some things are so difficult to understand that asking a friend or family member to help may not be the best choice. For some things, we have to look to professional support. For example, dealing with insurance and learning to read hospital bills. Another big issue for caregivers is knowing your rights at work. It varies from state to state. In these situations, you will want to find accurate and accessible information from sources specializing in these matters. Now, this might be a great task to put your sister-in-law in charge of. She likes this sort of thing, and it takes a massive burden off your shoulders.
Yesterday, I introduced three organizations that specialize in these matters. There are many more, but those are a fantastic place to have Wendy, your sister-in-law, start doing her research.
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2024.05.20 06:39 ConsequenceSure3063 Best Céline Hats

Best Céline Hats

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Céline hats are more than just a accessory; they're a fashion statement. Perfect for any season, these hats come in various styles and colors, making them versatile for any outfit. In this roundup, we explore the latest collection from Céline, showcasing their beautiful and innovative designs that will elevate your look. Whether you're searching for a chic sun hat or a stylish beanie, Céline has got you covered.

The Top 14 Best Céline Hats

  1. Céline Checked Cotton Cap for Men - Introducing the elegant and versatile Céline - Initial Cap in checked cotton, a sophisticated addition to your men's wardrobe, perfect for a stylish flair on any casual occasion.
  2. Celine Beige Embroidered Baseball Cap for Women - Discover the stylish Céline Baseball Cap in Beige Cotton, perfect for women. Featuring a chic Céline embroidery, 7cm visor, and hexagonal design, this adjustable cap offers comfort and trendy appeal.
  3. Céline Men's Embroidered Visor Cap - Black - Discover the luxurious comfort and French flair of Celine's black cotton baseball cap. Featuring an adjustable hexagonal visor, this stylish headwear boasts an embroidered touch for a sophisticated and effortless look.
  4. Celine Initial Black Baseball Cap for Men - Celine's Initial Baseball Cap in black cotton boasts an eye-catching "C" patch and hexagonal design, offering a perfect blend of trendy style and comfort for men in size M.
  5. Celine Classic Beige Hat - L - Introducing the Céline Baseball Cap, a limited-edition, high-quality 100% cotton beige cap featuring a hexagonal crown, logo embroidery, and adjustable tab for the perfect fit, designed in France to elevate your style.
  6. Céline Triomphe Cotton Baseball Cap - Women's M - Céline's Triomphe Baseball Cap in White Cotton, a stylish M-size hat for women blending classic design with modern flair, exuding a sense of chic effortlessness.
  7. Céline Wool Ribbed Beanie - Black - Experience unmatched comfort and style with the Celine Beanie in Ribbed Wool - Black for Men, designed to elevate your winter ensemble with its luxurious craftsmanship and timeless design.
  8. Céline Classic Wool/Cashmere Hat - Beige - Experience timeless elegance with the Triomphe Cap in Wool and Cashmere, a stylish and luxurious accessory designed for men who appreciate classic fashion and high-quality materials.
  9. Celine Initial Blue Hat - Discover the sleek Celine Initial Baseball Cap in Blue, featuring a C' initial patch and hexagonal design for an understated yet stylish look.
  10. Céline Triomphe Beige Baseball Cap - Women's Size M - Discover the statement-making Céline Triomphe Baseball Cap in Beige/Brown, featuring a bold Triomphe patch, hexagonal design, and adjustable tab, crafted in France for a touch of chic.
  11. Celine Striped Flannel Baseball Cap - M - Céline's Striped Flannel Baseball Cap in Grey / Black with adjustable tab and hexagonal design, featuring embroidered Celine lining and made in France, is a stylish headwear accessory for men, blending practicality with a touch of French elegance.
  12. Céline Aran Mohair Wool Beret in White for Women - Experience timeless elegance with Céline's White Aran Mohair Wool Beret, a luxurious and versatile accessory for women. Made from the finest mohair wool, this beret offers both comfort and fashion in one stunning package.
  13. Celine Women's Vanille/Gris/Taupe Triomphe Bucket Hat in Checked Wool - Experience timeless elegance with the versatile Celine Triomphe Bucket Hat in grey checked wool, boasting a stylish design perfect for women who value quality and sophistication.
  14. Céline Earflap Chapka in Brown Monogram - Discover the luxurious and warm Celine Monogrammed Chapka for Women, crafted from premium 100% lambskin and shearling with a distinctive hexagonal design, featuring adjustable tabs and a 2.2 in visor, all made in France to perfection.
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Reviews

🔗Céline Checked Cotton Cap for Men


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I recently got my hands on this stylish Celine hat, and I must say, it's been quite a game-changer in my wardrobe. The first time I wore it, I received so many compliments from friends and strangers alike. The hexagonal design and adjustable feature make it super comfortable to wear, while the vibrant brown color adds a perfect touch of sophistication.
Its French origin is evident not just in the superior quality of the material but also in the intricate detailing and innovative design. However, one drawback I've noticed is how sometimes the adjustable strap tends to loosen up after prolonged use, but it's a minor inconvenience that doesn't take away from the hat's overall charm. Nonetheless, I highly recommend this Celine hat for anyone looking to add a touch of class and elegance to their outfit.

🔗Celine Beige Embroidered Baseball Cap for Women


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I recently got my hands on the Celine Baseball Cap in Cotton in Beige, and I must say, it's an absolute game-changer! . The stunning embroidery and hexagonal design are the first things you'll notice – they give the cap that 'wow' factor. What I really appreciated was the adjustable tab, which ensures a perfect fit no matter your head size.
However, be aware that because it's made in France, it may have a slightly heftier price tag than you're used to. All in all, this hat has been a stylish and comfortable addition to my wardrobe, and I can't wait to see how many more compliments I receive wearing it! .

🔗Céline Men's Embroidered Visor Cap - Black


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I recently got my hands on the Celine Baseball Cap in Cotton - Black, and boy, it has been a game-changer for me! This stylish yet simple cap provides the perfect touch of effortless cool to any outfit. The hexagonal design on the visor adds just the right amount of detail, making it stand out without being too flashy. The adjustable tab ensures a comfortable fit, and I love that it's made in France - it has that extra touch of quality that I look for in fashion items.
However, I must admit that the cap isn't perfect. The sizing can be a bit tricky, so I'd advise trying it on before purchasing, or checking the size chart carefully. Additionally, the price point is a bit steep for a baseball cap, but the overall design and quality make it worth the investment if you're a Céline fan.
In summary, the Celine Baseball Cap in Cotton - Black is a stylish and well-made addition to any wardrobe. Its unique design and adjustable fit make it a versatile and comfortable choice for both casual and dressier occasions. Just be sure to pay close attention to sizing, and be prepared to spend a little extra for this luxurious accessory.

🔗Celine Initial Black Baseball Cap for Men


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I recently got my hands on this elegant baseball cap from Celine, and it's been my go-to accessory ever since. The initial patch adds a unique touch to this timeless design, making it stand out from other caps I've seen. The adjustable strap ensures a perfect fit, no matter how my hair feels on any given day.
However, the black color does tend to fade slightly after some time in the sun. Overall, this sleek and stylish cap is a must-have for anyone who appreciates high-quality accessories.

🔗Celine Classic Beige Hat - L


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When I first discovered this stylish Celine baseball cap, I knew I had to add it to my collection. The combination of beige and brown creates a timeless color palette that complements almost any outfit. As a fan of Celine's clean and minimalistic designs, I was thrilled by the hexagonal pattern and the subtle, yet bold embroidery.
Made in France, it's clear that this cap boasts unmatched quality. The adjustable tab ensures the perfect fit every time while maintaining the cap's polished appearance.
The one caveat is the price - it's quite expensive for a headgear. However, the limited edition nature, combined with the impeccable craftsmanship, makes it worth considering for those seeking a unique and enduring accessory.

🔗Céline Triomphe Cotton Baseball Cap - Women's M


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As a stylish woman who loves to rock hats in my everyday outfits, I recently had the opportunity to try on the Celine Triomphe Baseball Cap in White. This cap instantly added a chic and sporty flair to my look, making it the perfect choice for casual outings or laid-back weekends. Crafted from high-quality cotton, this hat was not only comfortable to wear but also maintained its shape even after multiple wears.
The highlight of this cap has to be the intricate Triomphe pattern embroidered along the visor, giving it a classic and timeless appeal. However, I did find the sizing to be a bit of a con, as the Medium size I chose felt slightly tight. Overall, the Celine Triomphe Baseball Cap in White is an elegant and versatile addition to my hat collection, offering stylish protection from the sun while making me look effortlessly chic.

🔗Céline Wool Ribbed Beanie - Black


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I recently got my hands on the Celine Beanie in Ribbed Wool - Black for Men, and I have to say, it's a game-changer in my Winter wear. The subtle ribbing not only adds texture but also provides an extra layer of insulation against the chill. Unlike many other beanies, this one doesn't suffocate my head or make me sweat; it's light and breathable, yet surprisingly warm.
One feature that stands out is its versatility. Whether I'm out running errands or going for a casual stroll, it pairs perfectly with both casual and semi-formal outfits. The black color is neutral enough to match almost anything, and the ribbed design gives it a unique touch that sets it apart from other beanies.
However, one minor drawback is that it doesn't offer much protection against the wind. On really blustery days, I find myself needing to combine it with a hood or a scarf for added protection. But overall, the Celine Beanie has been my go-to choice for staying stylish and warm in these colder months.

🔗Céline Classic Wool/Cashmere Hat - Beige


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My winter mornings have become so much easier since I got my hands on this luxurious Triomphe Cap by Celine. The blend of wool and cashmere provides a perfect balance of warmth and comfort. This cap has quickly become my go-to accessory on those chilly days.
The beige color is versatile and matches almost all my outfits. A minor drawback, though, is that it sheds a bit, but the softness and coziness make up for it. Overall, I'm absolutely loving this Celine hat! .

🔗Celine Initial Blue Hat


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As a reviewer who's been sporting the Céline Initial Baseball Cap in Blue (Size M) for men, I can't emphasize enough how this hat has made a statement in my daily attire. The intricate hexagonal design stands out - a nod to the brand's classic style. The adjustable strap ensures a comfortable fit while maintaining its effortless and cool look.
However, as a con, it may not be that suitable for a very hot day, as cotton can feel a bit warm. But don't worry, it's the perfect companion for a stroll around town or a casual outing with friends. Overall, the Céline Initial Baseball Cap is a stylish addition to your accessories that adds charisma to every outfit.

🔗Céline Triomphe Beige Baseball Cap - Women's Size M


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As a fashion enthusiast, I have recently added the Celine Triomphe Baseball Cap to my wardrobe collection. The beige and brown color combination is perfect for elevating any outfit, while the adjustable tab ensures a comfortable fit that suits various head sizes.
The highlight of this hat is undoubtedly its stunning Triomphe patch, which adds a touch of elegance and exclusivity to the overall design. Moreover, the hexagonal pattern on the cap adds a unique flair that sets it apart from other traditional baseball caps. However, one downside is that the fabric might feel slightly stiff at first, but it does soften up with time.
Made in France, this cap exudes quality and craftsmanship that is hard to come by nowadays. Despite not having any other reviews available for this product, I am confident that it will be a favorite in my collection due to its classic appeal and versatile nature.
For those who desire a blend of chic style and sporty functionality, the Celine Triomphe Baseball Cap is definitely worth considering. Its combination of timeless elegance and modern design makes it a perfect accessory for any wardrobe.

🔗Celine Striped Flannel Baseball Cap - M


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As a fashion enthusiast, I recently got my hands on this Céline Baseball Cap, and I must say, it's been an absolute game-changer. The grey and black striped flannel fabric provides a subtle hint of casual chic, making it perfect for both casual outings and smart-casual events.
The 7cm visor helps keep the sun out of my eyes, while the adjustable tab ensures a perfect fit every time. The hexagonal pattern and the Céline embroidery are a great nod to the brand's heritage without going overboard on the logo-driven trend. The only downside is that it's made in France, which may be a tad expensive for some.
Overall, I can't recommend this stylish cap enough! .

🔗Céline Aran Mohair Wool Beret in White for Women


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In the heart of winter, there's something undeniably charming about pulling on a soft, warm beret. I recently got my hands on the Celine's Beret in Aran Mohair Wool. It's a stylish yet practical piece, offering both fashion and function. The off-white color adds a classic touch, perfect for pairing with any outfit.
One of the standout features of this piece is the Aran Mohair Wool it's made from. It's incredibly soft, providing excellent insulation against the cold. I was pleasantly surprised by how warm it kept my ears. However, one downside to this quality is that the wool might be too warm for milder temperatures.
The design is simple yet elegant, with a slightly oversized fit that gives it a modern twist. But, this might be a little too slouchy for some heads. Despite that, I find the loose fit charming and stylish.
Overall, the Celine's Beret in Aran Mohair Wool is a versatile piece that provides both style and comfort. It's perfect for keeping your ears warm during those frosty winter days.

🔗Celine Women's Vanille/Gris/Taupe Triomphe Bucket Hat in Checked Wool


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I recently added the Celine Triomphe Bucket Hat in Checked Wool to my wardrobe, and it's become one of my favorite go-to accessories for stylish protection from the sun. The grey, brown, and beige check pattern adds a playful twist to the classic bucket hat design, while its medium size ensures a comfortable fit that won't swallow my face.
One aspect that blew me away was the hat's material. The checked wool feels incredibly soft against my skin, while its breathability keeps me from overheating. Even on days where I've been caught in the rain, this hat has held up impressively well due to its top-notch construction.
However, there's one drawback I've noticed with this hat. Its larger size means it doesn't fold as compactly as my other hats do. But honestly, who folds their Celine hat, right? Overall, it's a stylish and comfortable addition to my collection that I can't see myself parting with anytime soon.

🔗Céline Earflap Chapka in Brown Monogram


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I've been using this stylish and elegant Céline Brown Monogrammed Chapka during my daily strolls and it's been a game-changer. The plush and warm lambskin shearling ear flaps provide a perfect protection against the harsh winter winds, while the high-quality leather material makes it durable and chic.
The adjustable tabs with distinctive D-ring hardware make it effortless to find the right fit, and the hexagonal visor design offers a unique touch. Made in France, this 100% cotton, 50% cotton, 50% polyamide lined chapka not only keeps me cozy but also adds a sophisticated air to my winter wardrobe. The only downside is that it's a limited edition, so getting your hands on one might be a bit challenging! .

Buyer's Guide

When looking to buy a Céline hat, there are several features that you should keep in mind. Considering these features will help you ensure that you're buying a high-quality hat that is comfortable, stylish, and meets your needs.

1. Material

Céline hats are known for their exquisite materials. Whether it's straw, wool, or leather, the quality of the material significantly affects the durability and comfort of the hat. Make sure you choose a hat made from authentic, high-quality materials.

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2. Style

Céline offers a variety of hat styles, ranging from wide-brimmed sun hats to classic fedoras. Consider the occasion and context in which you will be wearing your hat, as well as your personal style preferences, when choosing a style.

3. Fit

A well-fitted hat not only looks better but also provides better protection from the sun, wind, or cold. Pay close attention to the sizing chart provided by Céline when choosing a hat, and consider trying it on in-store if possible.

4. Durability

Céline hats are known for their high-quality craftsmanship and durability. Look for hats with reinforced stitching, strong seams, and protective coatings, especially if you're purchasing a straw or fabric hat that could be susceptible to damage from moisture or sun exposure.

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5. Care

Different materials require different care methods to maintain their condition. Ensure that you understand the recommended care instructions for the Céline hat you choose, as this will help prolong its life and maintain its appearance.

More Considerations

  • The Céline brand offers various price points, so consider your budget when shopping for a hat.
  • Pay attention to the warranty or return policy offered by the retailer, as this can protect your purchase.
  • Consider the overall aesthetic of the hat, including its color, patterns, and trim details, to ensure it complements your personal style.
By keeping these features and considerations in mind when shopping for a Céline hat, you will be well-equipped to find a quality, stylish, and comfortable hat that meets your individual needs and preferences.

Additional Resources

For more information on Céline hats, please visit the Céline website or consult a fashion expert. We also recommend browsing fashion blogs and magazines for additional styling inspiration and advice on choosing the perfect Céline hat for you.

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FAQ

What types of hats does Céline offer?

Céline offers a wide range of hat styles including straw hats, wide-brimmed sun hats, beanies, berets, and baseball caps. Their collection features both casual and elegant options to suit different occasions and personal styles.

What materials are Céline hats made from?

Céline hats are crafted using high-quality materials such as wool, cotton, straw, and leather. These materials ensures durability, comfort, and longevity, making Céline hats a worthwhile investment.

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How should I store my Céline hat to ensure it lasts longer?

To prolong the life of your Céline hat, store it flat or on a round, padded hat form to maintain its shape. If storing multiple hats, consider investing in a hatbox or cabinet to keep dust and other elements away from the materials.

How do I clean my Céline hat?

The cleaning method for Céline hats depends on the materials used. For straw hats, gently brush off any dirt or debris with a soft-bristled brush. Wool hats can be spot-cleaned with a damp cloth and mild soap, but avoid soaking them as this may damage the fabric. Beanies and other knitted items may require hand-washing with cold water and mild detergent, but always check the care label on your specific item.

What size should I choose for my Céline hat?

Céline hats generally come in one size that fits most, but some styles, such as beanies, may be designed to accommodate a range of head sizes. If unsure about sizing, consult the product description or size chart for further information. If possible, try on the hat in-store or ask for help from a sales associate to ensure the best fit.

How can I tell if a Céline hat is authentic?

  • Examine the stitching and construction of the hat - authentic Céline items are expertly crafted with high-quality materials and precise workmanship.
  • Be wary of discounted prices that seem too good to be true, as they may indicate a counterfeit product.
  • Check the logo on the hat for accuracy - authentic Céline hats will feature a clean and crisp logo with properly aligned letters.

Where can I purchase Céline hats?

Céline hats can be purchased online through the official Céline website or authorized retailers, as well as in-store at Céline boutiques around the world.

Does Céline offer customer support for their hat products?

Yes, Céline offers customer support via email, phone, and live chat. They also provide after-sales service to assist with any issues or concerns that may arise regarding your purchase of a Céline hat.

How long does it typically take to receive a Céline hat after ordering online?

Delivery times vary depending on the shipping method chosen at checkout and your location. Generally, domestic orders can take 3-5 business days, while international shipments may take up to 10-15 business days, although this can vary depending on customs clearance times.

What is the return and exchange policy for Céline hats?

Céline offers a 14-day return and exchange policy from the date of receipt, provided that the item is in its original condition and packaging. To initiate a return or exchange, contact Céline's customer service for further instructions.
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Hey I wanted to make a new post with the full story. I met this guy off hinge and we started talking immediately he said he was looking for a relationship and I told him if the person seems right I would love to be in one with someone. We go on dates for the first week and I told him I write poetry so he starts writing me love letters and finding my favorite flowers. He also was going to get me a cat bc I told him I wanted a pet but we only knew each other for a week. We were supposed to meet up for a date but he ends up being hours late turns out he was going on a date w another girl every day before me and him would hang out back to back. He even had the paintings they did together hung up on his wall. I confronted him about and he said he was talking to multiple people at once because he gets really obsessed with people and that his friends told him that that would be a good idea so he won’t be obsessed. He then said he was planning on picking me over her but then I was like is that a red flag. But we spend the next five days together and he buys me a bunch of things but I end up going on vacation and the text messages became distant he ends up going to a graduation for this girl he claims is his friend but I’m pretty sure they had something going on. We weren’t texting at the time bc he kept leaving me on read for days. At the graduation he’s screaming my name to get my attention but he’s there for another girl. So after that happened I decided to reach out to him and he ignored me after he was the one screaming for my attention. Why would someone do this what does this mean? Is he crazy for context I’m 22 and he’s 24.
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As we journey further into the realm of PVC possibilities, let us now focus on the timeless appeal of PVC picket fences. These charming boundaries not only define and enclose your garden area but also add a touch of classic elegance. Our Value DIY PVC picket fences are designed to withstand the elements while requiring minimal maintenance. Say goodbye to the tedious tasks of repainting and repairing traditional wooden picket fences. With PVC, you can enjoy a beautiful and durable garden fence without the hassle.
Pool Fencing: Safety and Style in Harmony
Swimming pools are sources of joy and relaxation, but they also come with a responsibility to ensure the safety of your loved ones. Our Value DIY PVC pool fencing strikes the perfect balance between safety and style. Designed with secure construction and impeccable craftsmanship, our pool fences offer peace of mind without compromising the aesthetics of your outdoor space. Create a secure oasis for your family and guests to enjoy while adding a touch of sophistication to your pool area.
Garden Arbors: Enchanting Entryways to Tranquility
A garden should be a place of tranquility and natural beauty. Our Value DIY PVC garden arbors are the perfect addition to create enchanting entryways to your outdoor haven. These architectural structures provide a framework for climbing plants and vines, enhancing the visual appeal of your garden while offering a sense of privacy and seclusion. Step through the arbor and enter a world of natural serenity.
Lattice or Trellis Panels: Privacy and Elegance Combined
Privacy is essential in any outdoor space, and our Value DIY PVC lattice or trellis panels offer the perfect solution. These versatile panels not only provide privacy but also add a touch of elegance to your backyard. Whether you want to screen off certain areas, create a cozy nook, or add visual interest to your outdoor design, our lattice or trellis panels are the ideal choice. With PVC's durability and low maintenance requirements, you can enjoy the privacy and beauty of your outdoor space for years to come.
Privacy Screens: Secluded Serenity
Transform your backyard into a secluded sanctuary with our Value DIY PVC privacy screens. These screens are designed to create intimate spaces and shield your outdoor area from prying eyes. Whether you're looking to relax by yourself, entertain guests, or simply enjoy some solitude, our PVC privacy screens offer the perfect balance of privacy and aesthetics. With various design options available, you can find the screen that perfectly complements your outdoor setting.
Expert Installation and Resources
We understand that embarking on a DIY project can be a daunting task. That's why, in addition to providing high-quality PVC products, we also offer comprehensive installation resources and support. Our detailed instructions and user-friendly guides ensure that you have all the information you need to successfully install your Value DIY PVC products. Whether you're a seasoned DIY enthusiast or a first-time do-it-yourself
Value DIY PVC: Empowering Your Fencing Project with Quality and Affordability
Continuing our exploration of the remarkable Value DIY PVC range, let's delve deeper into the benefits and features that make it the perfect choice for your do-it-yourself fencing needs. Backed by the reputable Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group, our Value DIY PVC range combines quality, affordability, and ease of installation to provide a seamless and enjoyable fencing experience.
Affordability Meets Quality
When it comes to fencing projects, cost is a significant consideration. Traditional materials, such as wood or metal, can be expensive, and the price often increases with the desired height or length of the fence. However, with our Value DIY PVC range, you can enjoy cost savings without compromising on quality. PVC offers an affordable alternative that is highly durable, long-lasting, and requires minimal maintenance [1]. Say goodbye to the ongoing expenses of staining, painting, or repairing traditional fences. Value DIY PVC provides an attractive and cost-effective solution that stands the test of time.
Easy Installation for DIY Enthusiasts
We understand the satisfaction that comes from taking on a do-it-yourself project. With Value DIY PVC, you can embrace your DIY spirit and confidently install your own fencing. Our range is designed with ease of installation in mind. The PVC materials are lightweight and easy to handle, making the process smoother and more manageable. In addition, we provide detailed installation resources and support, ensuring that you have the guidance you need every step of the way. By embarking on a DIY fencing project with Value DIY PVC, you not only save on installation costs but also gain the pride of accomplishing the task yourself.
Versatility for Creative Solutions
The versatility of PVC opens up a world of possibilities for your fencing project. Value DIY PVC empowers you to unleash your creativity and customize your fence according to your preferences. PVC pipes and panels can be easily cut, shaped, and assembled to achieve the desired design. Whether you're looking for a traditional picket fence, a contemporary horizontal slat design, or a unique pattern, Value DIY PVC provides the flexibility to bring your vision to life. Additionally, PVC can be easily painted or stained to match your outdoor aesthetics, further enhancing the customization options available to you.
Endless Applications Beyond Fencing
The benefits of Value DIY PVC extend beyond fencing alone. PVC's versatility and affordability make it a fantastic material for various DIY projects and crafts. For example, PVC pipes can be transformed into kids' furniture, toys, or outdoor water sprinklers, unlocking a world of fun and creativity for your family. With Value DIY PVC, you have the opportunity to explore and expand your DIY endeavors, turning ordinary PVC materials into extraordinary creations.
Backed by Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group
Value DIY PVC is proudly supported by the renowned Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group. With their extensive expertise and commitment to excellence, the Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group ensures that the Value DIY PVC range meets the highest standards of quality and customer satisfaction. You can trust that your investment in Value DIY PVC is backed by a reputable franchise group dedicated to delivering superior products and service.
In conclusion, Value DIY PVC empowers you to embark on a fencing project that combines affordability, quality, and easy installation. Whether you're a seasoned DIY enthusiast or a first-time do-it-yourselfer, our range provides the tools and resources necessary to bring your vision to life. Backed by the Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group, you can have confidence in the durability
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2024.05.20 06:36 Majestic-Shop5182 The Benefits of PVC for Your DIY Fencing Needs Value Fencing ® Franchise Group

The Benefits of PVC for Your DIY Fencing Needs Value Fencing ® Franchise Group
Explore The Benefits of PVC for Your DIY Fencing Needs
Author: Willie Labuschagne Date: 2023-05-14
The Benefits of PVC for Your DIY Fencing Needs
PVC, also known as polyvinyl chloride, is an excellent choice for affordable and attractive fencing solutions. Not only is PVC cost-effective, but it also offers a range of additional benefits that make it stand out from traditional materials. Durability is a key advantage, as PVC is built to withstand the elements and maintain its pristine appearance over time. Furthermore, PVC requires minimal maintenance and is easy to clean, making it a hassle-free option for busy homeowners.
Explore Our Extensive PVC Range
At our store, we take pride in offering an extensive selection of PVC products that cater to diverse backyard needs. Our Value DIY PVC range includes:
Picket Fences: Create a charming and timeless aesthetic for your garden with our PVC picket fences. These classic designs add character to any landscape and provide a sense of enclosure and definition.
Pool Fencing: Safety is paramount when it comes to pools, and our PVC pool fencing combines both functionality and style. Keep your loved ones protected while enhancing the overall look of your pool area.
Gates: Our PVC gates not only provide secure entry and exit points but also serve as elegant focal points for your outdoor space. Choose from various designs and sizes to find the perfect match for your needs.
Garden Arbors: Add a touch of elegance and sophistication to your garden with our PVC garden arbors. These structures provide a beautiful framework for climbing plants and create a captivating entrance or focal point.
Lattice or Trellis Panels: Enhance the privacy and visual appeal of your backyard with our PVC lattice or trellis panels. These versatile panels can be used as standalone privacy screens or incorporated into existing structures for added charm.
Privacy Screens: Enjoy some seclusion in your outdoor space with our PVC privacy screens. These screens offer privacy without compromising on style, allowing you to create a tranquil oasis for relaxation.
In addition to our PVC range, we also offer bed headboards to further elevate the aesthetics of your bedroom. With Value Fencing, you have access to a comprehensive selection of PVC products that cater to various areas of your home and outdoor living spaces.
Affordable, Convenient, and DIY-Friendly
Value DIY PVC range is specifically designed to provide affordable and accessible solutions for homeowners and DIY enthusiasts. By purchasing directly from us, you can save on costs without compromising on quality. We offer a user-friendly online shopping experience, allowing you to order and collect your chosen products at your convenience.
The DIY aspect of our PVC range is another notable feature. We provide comprehensive resources and instructions, ensuring that even those with limited experience can confidently install our PVC products. With our step-by-step guidance, you can transform your backyard into a stunning oasis without the need of special tools or even having to cut holes in your VC posts. Simply rivet the supplied rail connectors in the desired positions.
Continuing the Journey: Exploring the Value DIY PVC Range for Your Backyard
In our previous discussion, we delved into the remarkable features of our Value DIY PVC range, highlighting the affordability and versatility it brings to your outdoor living space. Now, let us continue our exploration, focusing on additional aspects and benefits of these exceptional PVC products.
Bed Headboards: Elevate Your Bedroom Aesthetics
A well-designed bedroom serves as a sanctuary for relaxation and rejuvenation. With our Value DIY PVC range, you have the opportunity to enhance the ambiance of your bedroom with our stylish bed headboards. These headboards not only provide support and comfort but also add a touch of sophistication to your sleeping quarters. Choose from a variety of designs and finishes to match your personal style and create the bedroom of your dreams.
PVC Picket Fences: Charming Boundaries for Your Garden
As we journey further into the realm of PVC possibilities, let us now focus on the timeless appeal of PVC picket fences. These charming boundaries not only define and enclose your garden area but also add a touch of classic elegance. Our Value DIY PVC picket fences are designed to withstand the elements while requiring minimal maintenance. Say goodbye to the tedious tasks of repainting and repairing traditional wooden picket fences. With PVC, you can enjoy a beautiful and durable garden fence without the hassle.
Pool Fencing: Safety and Style in Harmony
Swimming pools are sources of joy and relaxation, but they also come with a responsibility to ensure the safety of your loved ones. Our Value DIY PVC pool fencing strikes the perfect balance between safety and style. Designed with secure construction and impeccable craftsmanship, our pool fences offer peace of mind without compromising the aesthetics of your outdoor space. Create a secure oasis for your family and guests to enjoy while adding a touch of sophistication to your pool area.
Garden Arbors: Enchanting Entryways to Tranquility
A garden should be a place of tranquility and natural beauty. Our Value DIY PVC garden arbors are the perfect addition to create enchanting entryways to your outdoor haven. These architectural structures provide a framework for climbing plants and vines, enhancing the visual appeal of your garden while offering a sense of privacy and seclusion. Step through the arbor and enter a world of natural serenity.
Lattice or Trellis Panels: Privacy and Elegance Combined
Privacy is essential in any outdoor space, and our Value DIY PVC lattice or trellis panels offer the perfect solution. These versatile panels not only provide privacy but also add a touch of elegance to your backyard. Whether you want to screen off certain areas, create a cozy nook, or add visual interest to your outdoor design, our lattice or trellis panels are the ideal choice. With PVC's durability and low maintenance requirements, you can enjoy the privacy and beauty of your outdoor space for years to come.
Privacy Screens: Secluded Serenity
Transform your backyard into a secluded sanctuary with our Value DIY PVC privacy screens. These screens are designed to create intimate spaces and shield your outdoor area from prying eyes. Whether you're looking to relax by yourself, entertain guests, or simply enjoy some solitude, our PVC privacy screens offer the perfect balance of privacy and aesthetics. With various design options available, you can find the screen that perfectly complements your outdoor setting.
Expert Installation and Resources
We understand that embarking on a DIY project can be a daunting task. That's why, in addition to providing high-quality PVC products, we also offer comprehensive installation resources and support. Our detailed instructions and user-friendly guides ensure that you have all the information you need to successfully install your Value DIY PVC products. Whether you're a seasoned DIY enthusiast or a first-time do-it-yourself
Value DIY PVC: Empowering Your Fencing Project with Quality and Affordability
Continuing our exploration of the remarkable Value DIY PVC range, let's delve deeper into the benefits and features that make it the perfect choice for your do-it-yourself fencing needs. Backed by the reputable Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group, our Value DIY PVC range combines quality, affordability, and ease of installation to provide a seamless and enjoyable fencing experience.
Affordability Meets Quality
When it comes to fencing projects, cost is a significant consideration. Traditional materials, such as wood or metal, can be expensive, and the price often increases with the desired height or length of the fence. However, with our Value DIY PVC range, you can enjoy cost savings without compromising on quality. PVC offers an affordable alternative that is highly durable, long-lasting, and requires minimal maintenance [1]. Say goodbye to the ongoing expenses of staining, painting, or repairing traditional fences. Value DIY PVC provides an attractive and cost-effective solution that stands the test of time.
Easy Installation for DIY Enthusiasts
We understand the satisfaction that comes from taking on a do-it-yourself project. With Value DIY PVC, you can embrace your DIY spirit and confidently install your own fencing. Our range is designed with ease of installation in mind. The PVC materials are lightweight and easy to handle, making the process smoother and more manageable. In addition, we provide detailed installation resources and support, ensuring that you have the guidance you need every step of the way. By embarking on a DIY fencing project with Value DIY PVC, you not only save on installation costs but also gain the pride of accomplishing the task yourself.
Versatility for Creative Solutions
The versatility of PVC opens up a world of possibilities for your fencing project. Value DIY PVC empowers you to unleash your creativity and customize your fence according to your preferences. PVC pipes and panels can be easily cut, shaped, and assembled to achieve the desired design. Whether you're looking for a traditional picket fence, a contemporary horizontal slat design, or a unique pattern, Value DIY PVC provides the flexibility to bring your vision to life. Additionally, PVC can be easily painted or stained to match your outdoor aesthetics, further enhancing the customization options available to you.
Endless Applications Beyond Fencing
The benefits of Value DIY PVC extend beyond fencing alone. PVC's versatility and affordability make it a fantastic material for various DIY projects and crafts. For example, PVC pipes can be transformed into kids' furniture, toys, or outdoor water sprinklers, unlocking a world of fun and creativity for your family. With Value DIY PVC, you have the opportunity to explore and expand your DIY endeavors, turning ordinary PVC materials into extraordinary creations.
Backed by Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group
Value DIY PVC is proudly supported by the renowned Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group. With their extensive expertise and commitment to excellence, the Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group ensures that the Value DIY PVC range meets the highest standards of quality and customer satisfaction. You can trust that your investment in Value DIY PVC is backed by a reputable franchise group dedicated to delivering superior products and service.
In conclusion, Value DIY PVC empowers you to embark on a fencing project that combines affordability, quality, and easy installation. Whether you're a seasoned DIY enthusiast or a first-time do-it-yourselfer, our range provides the tools and resources necessary to bring your vision to life. Backed by the Value Fencing PVC Franchise Group, you can have confidence in the durability
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2024.05.20 06:36 Tushar90005 How does Power Automate integrate with power apps?

Power Automate and Power Apps: A Powerful Duo
Microsoft's Power Platform offers a range of tools for building business applications. Two key components are Power Apps, for creating user interfaces, and Power Automate, for automating workflows. Let's explore how these two integrate seamlessly to create robust solutions.
Power Apps: The Interface Builder
Think of Power Apps as the visual layer. It allows you to drag-and-drop various controls to build user-friendly interfaces for your applications. These can be web apps, mobile apps, or even desktop applications. Power Apps integrates with various data sources, allowing users to interact with data through the app.
Power Automate: The Automation Engine
Power Automate acts behind the scenes, automating tasks and processes. You can create workflows, called flows, that respond to triggers and perform actions. These actions can involve sending emails, updating databases, or interacting with other applications.
Integration in Action
The magic happens when you connect Power Apps and Power Automate. Here's how:
Buttons and Actions: Within your Power Apps interface, you can add buttons or other controls that trigger Power Automate flows. For instance, clicking a "Submit" button in a form can initiate a flow that saves the form data to a database and sends an email notification.
Data Flow: Power Automate can receive data captured through Power Apps forms or user interactions. This data can then be used within the flow to perform actions.
Automating Updates: Power Automate can be set to automatically update data within your Power Apps based on certain events. For example, a flow might update an inventory list in a Power App whenever a new sale is made.
Benefits of Integration
Streamlined Workflows: By automating tasks behind the scenes, you can significantly improve efficiency and reduce manual work for users.
Enhanced User Experience: Integrating automation with the user interface makes interacting with data and processes much smoother for users.
Reduced Errors: Automating tasks eliminates the possibility of human error in data entry or repetitive processes.
Getting Started
Microsoft provides a wealth of resources to help you get started with integrating Power Apps and Power Automate. You'll find pre-built templates for common workflows, as well as tutorials and documentation to guide your development process.
In conclusion, Power Automate and Power Apps working together offer a powerful solution for building applications that streamline workflows, improve user experience, and boost overall productivity.
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2024.05.20 06:36 jayden__boi Please fix this

Please fix this
I was making a bot, it was fully done, but I forgot to actually make it. I got a notification and minimized my browser. I went back on it and it told me to login, I relogged in and the entire thing was gone, I had to restart
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2024.05.20 06:36 Ego_Identity I (29/M) am fighting every week with my girlfriend (28/F) for the past year and a half after we started to live together. We have been together, for more than 5 years. How do I change myself faster? Or are we incompatible, even if I change?

Long Story for an example of a fight:
I had a haircut the day prior and my girlfriend noticed the product that was used for my haircut was good. It kept my hair in a certain shape that looks good. The day before, she said I should ask what product the hairstylist used, when I get the chance. Today, I showered and noticed my hair was still shaping correctly after it was dry and I talked to her about the product. I wanted to say that I won't be calling the stylist because I think my hair is shaping fine. I don't remember how I specially worded it, but that made her want to help find ways to shape my hair right, and started talking about how she has a hair spray that doesn't feel sticky and hard like a Gel. I rejected her and said I don't want hair spray. she felt offended because I said no without fully listening to her. she asked me why I don't want hair spray, and it was the same reason that she gave to me why she normally doesn't like hairspray, and that the hair spray she is recommending is not like other hairspray. she felt hurt and rejected. I felt like it's the morning and we are fighting again. I smirked when she started to have more stern tone, and that was inconsiderate of me. I didn't want to be bogged down by this again and keep constantly fighting, because I thought I only said one sentence that caused the fight, which was that I don't want hair spray. it became worse and we argued. she told me why what I did was disgusting. I asked her question and shot her down when she was just trying to help. she just kept saying to check myself. I realized I just said that about the product to her because I didn't want product in my hair. so I wasn't being straight with my intention when speaking. I said sorry and apologized about how I was speaking and how I know I need to work on it. we reconciled and went to work out, not fully reconciled.
On the way to the gym, she mentioned that I should seriously check myself, and that my sorry in the future might not cut it anymore. that made me be negative and shut down again. I contemplated about breaking up and why we should even be together still because we fight every week. I have been emotionally drained. We had fights a few days ago as well. While in the negative mood, I worked out, and after I was done, I sat next to her to stretch while she was working out. I closed my eyes and stretched and after a while, I see her waiting, standing right in front of me. She said something on the line of if I was done with working out. I just nodded my head without talking. After that she just started walking out without waiting for me. I noticed she was upset still. On the car, it was silent for a while until I asked what she was going to eat. She said she doesn't know. I said something on the lines of that she should eat something. She was planning to eat buffet in the evening with her friends. I thought she should still eat something until then because we still had 4 hours. She said "if I eat I'll be full." I said she should still eat something. She repeated the same thing that if she eats she will be full. But I said to her that there's other process going on in the body after she eats and that she will digest. She thought that I was condescending because I was telling her something she already knows and I repeated 4 times. I did that because she gave me the same answer. She started cursing and yelling at me. I am not feeling good about this relationship. I know I hurt her and she has reasons to yell and curse at me, but I can't continue if the environment is like this.
Is it worth it to continue this relationship? We have been constantly fighting every week for a year and a half after we moved in together. We have been in the relationship for more than 5 years. We have "broken up" 5 times, but I only physically left the place for a week once. She loves me, and I love her, but she believes I love her even less. She is willing to work it through, and won't quit until I do. If we ever break up, it will have to be me who decides. In the relationship, I know I have to grow and become better. During the relationship, I know I focused mainly on work to grow my career, and she has been feeling neglected. I have also been neglecting my own physical health for my work, and she feels that I am not prioritizing her. Which if I think about it, is true. She has been great and independent. She is financially stable, and makes more than me. I feel like she is way better than me. And I know I have to work on myself dramatically. Not just for the relationship, but also as an adult. She lived independently for years before meeting me, and she is very self sustainable. I haven't been, and I only do things the bare minimum to survive, as she puts it. For every fight, she had guided me to resolve it. When we fight, we talk for hours. It always starts with me hurting her from what I say, and I get triggered by her tone and it feels condescending. When I get triggered, I shut down, staying quiet and sometimes I talk back to justify my actions. In the end, I try my best to put down my ego. We end up reconciling with me saying sorry and apologizing. I do feel bad for causing her pain. These days it's starting to be worse in my opinion. I keep making similar mistakes as before, and she becomes livid and start cursing and yelling. I feel disrespected and frustrated. I talk back and always end up saying sorry and reconciling. I just want to know if there is light at the end of the tunnel. I want to change, but I feel it's hard to in this environment that I am seeing as toxic for the both of us. How do I change myself faster?
I need to work on communication skills. Speaking with my true intentions rather than phrasing that would cause miscommunication.
I need to be more considerate, and watch what I say to not offend, even if we are comfortable with each other.
I need to be more considerate in doing things for my girlfriend. She has been doing way more for me than I have for her.
I need to be stepping up more for the household, and I know this is not fair for her.
I want to do all these, but it makes me feel depressed every time we fight, and wares me down. If I'm not in love fully with her, I want to make it grow, and I want to reach her with the same intensity that she does. Love isn't enough, and I know I have to work harder to be better.
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