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2017.03.05 02:40 bluebellfob i dont know how but they found me
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2014.04.02 15:29 mortonsneu For anything related to Morton's neuroma
Welcome to Mortons_Neuroma. A Morton's neuroma is a thickening of the tissue around an irritated or damaged nerve leading to your toes. It can result in a sharp, burning pain in the ball of your foot or feel like you are walking on a pebble. Toes may also sting, burn or feel numb. It can be caused by wearing tight, pointy, incorrectly sized or high-heeled shoes, and exacerbated by high impact activities such as running or other activities that place pressure on the feet.
2015.06.13 07:19 Shill_of_Halliburton libby libs
Libby libs is for liberals that are sissy, girlie, and liberal. All you pantie-wearing liberals who refuse to succumb to a male-dominated, masculinity-focused, testosterone-based nation. Fuck peer-pressure and embrace the first amendment. Freedom can't be free until it's liberally liberated.
2024.05.20 09:13 hype1980 Advice on match please!
Hello people of Reddit, I wondered if I could ask your advice on something! I matched with a girl 1 week ago today. The conversation has been great and she looks very attractive in her photos. We both had a few days off over the weekend so towards the end of last week (Thursday / Friday) I suggested meeting for a coffee or something more active (bowling, axe throwing etc) a couple of times, but each time she kind of swerved the question or said she wasnt sure of her plans. We have carried on messaging all over the weekend, I wondered whether she was just replying out of politeness, so did give her the opportunity to let the conversation die out a couple of times (e.g. closing off the conversation and not asking any more questions) but each time she came back with another message and asked me more stuff.
So my issue is......I've been on dating apps on and off for a couple of years and in my experience if you dont fix a date in the first week, its pretty much not going to happen and you kind of end up as weird pen pals until it just dies out. Usually I would just cut my losses now and move on, with that said we seem to have a lot of interests in common and the same values, so I am really interested to meet and see if we get on. I'd like to try one last time to fix a date but dont want to pressure her if she's not up for it, and she certainly hasnt made any kind of move to ask me out on one. What do you all think?
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So my issue is......I've been on dating apps on and off for a couple of years and in my experience if you dont fix a date in the first week, its pretty much not going to happen and you kind of end up as weird pen pals until it just dies out. Usually I would just cut my losses now and move on, with that said we seem to have a lot of interests in common and the same values, so I am really interested to meet and see if we get on. I'd like to try one last time to fix a date but dont want to pressure her if she's not up for it, and she certainly hasnt made any kind of move to ask me out on one. What do you all think?
2024.05.20 09:08 Spiritual_Estate3 Ovarian dermoid cyst - symptoms
Around six months ago, I (35F) rushed to the ER fearing appendicitis, only to discover a 10cm (3-inch) dermoid cyst on my right ovary that had ruptured. Given its size and the risks of ovarian torsion or cyst bursting, surgery was recommended.
After meeting with a specialist, I'm awaiting a call for a new MRI to assess any growth since then.
Over the past two months, I've been experiencing escalating symptoms:
I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced symptoms lile these, and if you have suggestions for me.
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After meeting with a specialist, I'm awaiting a call for a new MRI to assess any growth since then.
Over the past two months, I've been experiencing escalating symptoms:
- Pain originating from my right hip, extending beyond my belly button to the left side, up from my right leg to just under my right breast, and on my side and back.
- Abdominal pressure and bladder discomfort.
- Disturbances in my digestive system, including nausea, loss of appetite, and shooting pain after eating even only a few bites.
- Increased frequency of bathroom visits.
I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced symptoms lile these, and if you have suggestions for me.
2024.05.20 08:41 DearProgrammer2928 AITA for Refusing to Dance at My Boyfriend’s Brother’s Bachelor Party?
I (25F) am a stripper and it’s a job I am not ashamed of and enjoy a lot. Plus, it makes great money. My boyfriend (27M) of four years asked me tonight if I’d dance for his brother’s bachelor party this Saturday. The dancer they originally had booked, who I helped arrange, had to cancel as she broke her ankle during a performance.
I’ve tried to find them another dancer, calling in favors from my friends in the industry, but weekends are always busy, and it’s too short notice, so everyone is booked solid. I offered to get them into the club I work for and would even be able to arrange for VIP treatment of the party, but this offer was rejected as the club is too far away from other activities they have planned for the evening.
In the end, my boyfriend suggested I dance. He has no problem with my job and didn’t feel like me dancing for the group would be a problem. Now, if it was my boyfriend’s friends, I’d be open to it after discussion to make sure we were both fully okay with this. But the fact that it’s for his brother raises concerns for me and feels just too awkward.
My boyfriend refuses to see the issue, stating we’re all adults and his brother was looking forward to there being a stripper at the party. But it’s just weird to think if we work out, then for the rest of my life, I’ll have to know his brother saw me dance. And at every family event I attend, it’ll just be on my mind.
I’ve told my boyfriend it isn’t happening, and the best I can offer is the club. If they need a stripper that badly, then they’ll take it. He thinks I’m being ridiculous and that someone in my job shouldn’t be bothered by this. If they can be mature about it, so should I. Was my knee-jerk reaction to refuse too harsh?
Honestly, it’s not like I’m ashamed of my job. I’ve performed at all kinds of events, from private parties to big venues, and I’ve never had an issue with my work. But this feels different. I love my boyfriend, and I get that he’s just trying to help his brother have a great night, but I don’t think he understands the potential awkwardness this could create for me. It’s one thing to perform for strangers or even his friends, but family feels like crossing a line.
Imagine the future family gatherings where his brother and his friends would be there, all having seen me dance. I’d constantly wonder if they’re thinking about it, and it would make me uncomfortable. I want to be able to look my boyfriend’s family in the eye without that lingering in the back of my mind.
I know my boyfriend thinks I’m overreacting and being unreasonable, but I don’t feel like my boundaries are too much to ask for. He keeps bringing up that I’m a professional and should be able to separate work from personal life, but this isn’t just any gig. This is something that could affect how I feel around his family for years to come.
I’ve been racking my brain trying to find another solution. I’ve called every contact I have in the industry, and everyone is booked. I even tried reaching out to dancers I know from other cities, but no one is available on such short notice. The club I work at is really the best option I can offer, and it’s frustrating that my boyfriend doesn’t see that.
I feel like he’s putting me in a position where I have to choose between my comfort and his brother’s party plans. I’m willing to help out in any way I can, but dancing for his brother’s bachelor party is where I draw the line. I don’t think it’s fair for him to pressure me into something that makes me uncomfortable.
It’s not like I don’t want them to have a good time. I do. I just don’t want to be the source of entertainment in this specific context. I’m happy to help arrange something else, but I need my boyfriend to respect my boundaries on this. I’m worried this disagreement is causing tension between us, and I don’t know how to make him understand my perspective.
So, Reddit, AITA for refusing to dance at my boyfriend’s brother’s bachelor party? Am I being unreasonable for not wanting to perform for his family? Or should I be more flexible and professional about this situation?
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I’ve tried to find them another dancer, calling in favors from my friends in the industry, but weekends are always busy, and it’s too short notice, so everyone is booked solid. I offered to get them into the club I work for and would even be able to arrange for VIP treatment of the party, but this offer was rejected as the club is too far away from other activities they have planned for the evening.
In the end, my boyfriend suggested I dance. He has no problem with my job and didn’t feel like me dancing for the group would be a problem. Now, if it was my boyfriend’s friends, I’d be open to it after discussion to make sure we were both fully okay with this. But the fact that it’s for his brother raises concerns for me and feels just too awkward.
My boyfriend refuses to see the issue, stating we’re all adults and his brother was looking forward to there being a stripper at the party. But it’s just weird to think if we work out, then for the rest of my life, I’ll have to know his brother saw me dance. And at every family event I attend, it’ll just be on my mind.
I’ve told my boyfriend it isn’t happening, and the best I can offer is the club. If they need a stripper that badly, then they’ll take it. He thinks I’m being ridiculous and that someone in my job shouldn’t be bothered by this. If they can be mature about it, so should I. Was my knee-jerk reaction to refuse too harsh?
Honestly, it’s not like I’m ashamed of my job. I’ve performed at all kinds of events, from private parties to big venues, and I’ve never had an issue with my work. But this feels different. I love my boyfriend, and I get that he’s just trying to help his brother have a great night, but I don’t think he understands the potential awkwardness this could create for me. It’s one thing to perform for strangers or even his friends, but family feels like crossing a line.
Imagine the future family gatherings where his brother and his friends would be there, all having seen me dance. I’d constantly wonder if they’re thinking about it, and it would make me uncomfortable. I want to be able to look my boyfriend’s family in the eye without that lingering in the back of my mind.
I know my boyfriend thinks I’m overreacting and being unreasonable, but I don’t feel like my boundaries are too much to ask for. He keeps bringing up that I’m a professional and should be able to separate work from personal life, but this isn’t just any gig. This is something that could affect how I feel around his family for years to come.
I’ve been racking my brain trying to find another solution. I’ve called every contact I have in the industry, and everyone is booked. I even tried reaching out to dancers I know from other cities, but no one is available on such short notice. The club I work at is really the best option I can offer, and it’s frustrating that my boyfriend doesn’t see that.
I feel like he’s putting me in a position where I have to choose between my comfort and his brother’s party plans. I’m willing to help out in any way I can, but dancing for his brother’s bachelor party is where I draw the line. I don’t think it’s fair for him to pressure me into something that makes me uncomfortable.
It’s not like I don’t want them to have a good time. I do. I just don’t want to be the source of entertainment in this specific context. I’m happy to help arrange something else, but I need my boyfriend to respect my boundaries on this. I’m worried this disagreement is causing tension between us, and I don’t know how to make him understand my perspective.
So, Reddit, AITA for refusing to dance at my boyfriend’s brother’s bachelor party? Am I being unreasonable for not wanting to perform for his family? Or should I be more flexible and professional about this situation?
2024.05.20 08:35 Decent-Map-3286 what are my chances
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OAT Score: have not taken yet
GPA: 3.57
Shadowing Hours: I worked for an optometrist as apprentice optician for 2 years
Masters/PhD: none (possibly going to apply if my stats don't sound to good for applying this upcoming cycle to mph if I have too)
Extra Curricular Activities: volunteer teaching students for 7 + years, crc traning program, continuing learning another language 2 years, dental assistant 4 mo., member in school clubs pre dental (before i switched to opto) women leadership club, muslim association, president leadership fellow program, worked at a science musueum for kids in highschool, peer asisstance for learning science program. i took anatomy/phsyio classes
I am looking at berkeley, sco, and ico. what are my chances?
Also I am missing prereqs is it easy for them to take higher upper division courses in lieu of the intro classes. and do schools accept online lab courses? if so where can i enroll?
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OAT Score: have not taken yet
GPA: 3.57
Shadowing Hours: I worked for an optometrist as apprentice optician for 2 years
Masters/PhD: none (possibly going to apply if my stats don't sound to good for applying this upcoming cycle to mph if I have too)
Extra Curricular Activities: volunteer teaching students for 7 + years, crc traning program, continuing learning another language 2 years, dental assistant 4 mo., member in school clubs pre dental (before i switched to opto) women leadership club, muslim association, president leadership fellow program, worked at a science musueum for kids in highschool, peer asisstance for learning science program. i took anatomy/phsyio classes
I am looking at berkeley, sco, and ico. what are my chances?
Also I am missing prereqs is it easy for them to take higher upper division courses in lieu of the intro classes. and do schools accept online lab courses? if so where can i enroll?
2024.05.20 08:35 JMCLtheFirst I was abandoned by my closest people and I can't seem to move on...
So this is going to be a long story, but a very intriguing one (or so my friends say). Bear with me and if you could offer some advice on what to do please share. I know I'm probably just young and naive but I feel like the pain will never stop. Like I'm going to always be held back by this particular experience.
Also sorry for any grammatical or spelling errors, English isn't my first language.
So all of this begins October of 2022 when I 18 M (at the time) moved to a new city to study film. I was lucky enough to have good grades and be so passionate about this art that it kind of felt incredible to have this new beginning. I rented a small house which I decorated with my collections and all my stuff and ended up loving every second spend in it.
I'm Not very social. Thats just a fact. I've always had my school friends and some people from other activities but none of them really felt like they understood me. No sade to them, I really love them, it's just that I know my hobbies and personality are niece and weird so we don't always see eye to eye. So I wanted to overcome my social anxiety and meet new people.
For the first semester I was all alone. Completely. Spent days upon days without leaving my house if I didn't have school and even didn't have any actual human interaction if not necessary. I didn't realise how much I was hurting myself. The Second semester, someone approached me in school and asked if I could help them with the editing for their final movie, let's call him Jacob 18 M. I already was searching for a group project to join in order to pass the class so this felt like a sweet deal. The group was Jacob and 2 girls, let's call them Ellie 18 F and Hannah 18 F.
With time we started talking about more then just the movie. I was really surprised by how many things we had in common. It was the first time someone I met liked musical theatre or (and this is gonna sound sad, please don't judge me) people didn't want me to leave whenever I approached them. They invited me to things, to their homes and after school and to trips at the beach ect. We were together almost every day. Till late at night or through it. Just the 4 of us. Felt like we could rule the world.
One day i thought Ellie was flirting with me. That was a weird feeling. I'm not very good looking and had a lot of extra weight so that was pretty much the first time but my friends told me that was the case from what I was describing. I mentioned it to Jacob and he told me something I didn't expect. He told me him and Ellie were in an open relationship and were hiding it from everyone except Hannah because of his ex who was in school with us. He also confessed he once had a crush on me and that's why he approached me in the first place. He also saw Ellie flirting with me but was ok with it due to the "rules of their relationship".
I was ok with not having a romantic relationship with Ellie. She would actually become one of the closest friends I've ever had. Or so I thought.
I actually started having a crush on Hannah. She loved some of the movies I loved. Had some of my quirks so I didn't feel ashamed around her and she started watching my favourite tv show with me. During our time together everyone (even her sister and Jacob who found out I liked her) told us that when we were together we could only see each other. As if we had a unique way of communication that nobody else could understand.
I confessed my crush and she told me she felt the same way but that there where 2 problems. First that she gets very anxious about relationships, has only ever been to one and had never kissed anyone. I assured her I wasn't going to pressure anything and I only cared for her and wanted to go on a date sometime. She replied she would like that very much. The second problem she confessed was that she was in love with Jacob for months now but nobody knew. Then everything made sense. The things she did for him and all. How she acted around him. I was surprised I didn't notice it before. She told me she wanted to get over it and proceed to ask to kiss me. We kissed a lot but nothing more that night. She went home after a few hours.
The next day Hannah she felt very distant. We wanted to go to the movies with Ellie but she disappeared all day. Late at night she asked my to go for a walk since we lived near each other. Then she told me she wanted to forget everything and last night was a mistake. That her anxiety has gotten into her and although she really wanted a relationship she couldn't be in one. The next few days we talked again and she said she didn't share any of this with Jacob to have someone in the group I could talk to if I needed help. Ellie was that for her.
It was already summer so we all went to our home towns. I missed her a ton. We stilled talked and the other 2 knew something was off with me. About 2 moths later we all went to Hannah's summerhouse for vacation. We were having fun, getting drunk and all that 19-year old stuff. One night me and Hannah were watching my show together and the time felt right so I asked to kiss her. She told me no and finally told me the truth. Turns out she liked that we flirted but after kissing me she realised it wasn't anything more. Also everyone knew except me. But after all this time I had realised I was in love with this girl. I told her if she could keep all of this to herself and she said yes.
We were all still friends. But I couldn't let go. My mental health began to decent and I started feeling like they would leave me out of stuff to go hang out alone and during October I tried talking some time away to see if they would even talk to me if I didn't. They didn't even say good morning once. I tried again and again. Jacob and Ellie said we all need to talk together. They repeated the same words. Like as if it was rehearsed. I went to "the talk".
Jacob did most of the talking. He talked about boundaries and how after everything between me and Hannah the group hasn't been the same. That after I didn't tell him what happened in our vacation they went to her and forced Hannah to do so. They where all attacking me. I heard lie after lie and all followed up with "we just need some time" and that all of this was cause they loved me.
I have discussed what they accused me of with friends, family and therapists. Although I didn't not believe it at first they all confirmed it was finding little details in my day-to-day behaviour (unrelated to all of the above) and using it to kick me out. They didn't intend of even speaking to me again. Lies feed to everyone by Jacob.
I went away. I don't know if it was for the better. But for a few weeks at first and then months later, I went back to my home town. Their lies became actual blame and I got a message from Ellie saying that we are done (just one month after trying to convince me they needed time and confessing she in particular didn't even notice anything until her boyfriend accused me).
Last time I saw any of them was in December when I gave Hannah her Christmas present. I told her I wasn't trying to get her back and I would continue to keep my distance since my first priority is what she wants and I meant that. I really do love her and would do anything for her to be happy. But I miss her a ton.
It's been 5 months since then. I stopped going to school and kept my distance from anyone related to that life. I have depression and cannot think about anything else. I heard that Jacob still talk shut about me to everyone. I have realised what has happened and have discussed this with multiple common friends who have confirmed this. Jacob is Manipulating the other 2 because of the bad relationship with his parents. He knows Ellie won't do anything with anyone else despite the "open" relationship due to her luck of confidence (so it only works for him). She need him to operate in public and to deal with her extreme anxiety so he takes advantage of that and Hannah follows him everywhere with the excuse of just being a good friend.
There are so many things I couldn't include (this is a hugh post already) about more lies and proof that they where bad for me. But I can't move on. I have seeked medical help but I just cant imagine my life in the future without them. Everything is a reminder of what we've been through. Jacob used to call me his family and when I begged him for our friendship back he didn't even care. Not on my birthday, not on new years... never. I lost all of them.
I'm back now. Not sure why, whether I'm back to continue my studies or to see if I could win them back. If I could have Hannah in my life in sime form. But I'll probably see them tomorrow morning (I randomly walked behind them today, don't think they noticed me).
Please if you have any advice share it. I just want to feel happy again. Even for a second.
TL,DR: The girl I'm in love with stopped talking to me along with my 2 best friends. I can't move on and I'm supposed to face them again in school after not seeing them for months. They all lied to me and nothing seem to help. I have depression and I dont want to feel like this for the rest of my life.
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Also sorry for any grammatical or spelling errors, English isn't my first language.
So all of this begins October of 2022 when I 18 M (at the time) moved to a new city to study film. I was lucky enough to have good grades and be so passionate about this art that it kind of felt incredible to have this new beginning. I rented a small house which I decorated with my collections and all my stuff and ended up loving every second spend in it.
I'm Not very social. Thats just a fact. I've always had my school friends and some people from other activities but none of them really felt like they understood me. No sade to them, I really love them, it's just that I know my hobbies and personality are niece and weird so we don't always see eye to eye. So I wanted to overcome my social anxiety and meet new people.
For the first semester I was all alone. Completely. Spent days upon days without leaving my house if I didn't have school and even didn't have any actual human interaction if not necessary. I didn't realise how much I was hurting myself. The Second semester, someone approached me in school and asked if I could help them with the editing for their final movie, let's call him Jacob 18 M. I already was searching for a group project to join in order to pass the class so this felt like a sweet deal. The group was Jacob and 2 girls, let's call them Ellie 18 F and Hannah 18 F.
With time we started talking about more then just the movie. I was really surprised by how many things we had in common. It was the first time someone I met liked musical theatre or (and this is gonna sound sad, please don't judge me) people didn't want me to leave whenever I approached them. They invited me to things, to their homes and after school and to trips at the beach ect. We were together almost every day. Till late at night or through it. Just the 4 of us. Felt like we could rule the world.
One day i thought Ellie was flirting with me. That was a weird feeling. I'm not very good looking and had a lot of extra weight so that was pretty much the first time but my friends told me that was the case from what I was describing. I mentioned it to Jacob and he told me something I didn't expect. He told me him and Ellie were in an open relationship and were hiding it from everyone except Hannah because of his ex who was in school with us. He also confessed he once had a crush on me and that's why he approached me in the first place. He also saw Ellie flirting with me but was ok with it due to the "rules of their relationship".
I was ok with not having a romantic relationship with Ellie. She would actually become one of the closest friends I've ever had. Or so I thought.
I actually started having a crush on Hannah. She loved some of the movies I loved. Had some of my quirks so I didn't feel ashamed around her and she started watching my favourite tv show with me. During our time together everyone (even her sister and Jacob who found out I liked her) told us that when we were together we could only see each other. As if we had a unique way of communication that nobody else could understand.
I confessed my crush and she told me she felt the same way but that there where 2 problems. First that she gets very anxious about relationships, has only ever been to one and had never kissed anyone. I assured her I wasn't going to pressure anything and I only cared for her and wanted to go on a date sometime. She replied she would like that very much. The second problem she confessed was that she was in love with Jacob for months now but nobody knew. Then everything made sense. The things she did for him and all. How she acted around him. I was surprised I didn't notice it before. She told me she wanted to get over it and proceed to ask to kiss me. We kissed a lot but nothing more that night. She went home after a few hours.
The next day Hannah she felt very distant. We wanted to go to the movies with Ellie but she disappeared all day. Late at night she asked my to go for a walk since we lived near each other. Then she told me she wanted to forget everything and last night was a mistake. That her anxiety has gotten into her and although she really wanted a relationship she couldn't be in one. The next few days we talked again and she said she didn't share any of this with Jacob to have someone in the group I could talk to if I needed help. Ellie was that for her.
It was already summer so we all went to our home towns. I missed her a ton. We stilled talked and the other 2 knew something was off with me. About 2 moths later we all went to Hannah's summerhouse for vacation. We were having fun, getting drunk and all that 19-year old stuff. One night me and Hannah were watching my show together and the time felt right so I asked to kiss her. She told me no and finally told me the truth. Turns out she liked that we flirted but after kissing me she realised it wasn't anything more. Also everyone knew except me. But after all this time I had realised I was in love with this girl. I told her if she could keep all of this to herself and she said yes.
We were all still friends. But I couldn't let go. My mental health began to decent and I started feeling like they would leave me out of stuff to go hang out alone and during October I tried talking some time away to see if they would even talk to me if I didn't. They didn't even say good morning once. I tried again and again. Jacob and Ellie said we all need to talk together. They repeated the same words. Like as if it was rehearsed. I went to "the talk".
Jacob did most of the talking. He talked about boundaries and how after everything between me and Hannah the group hasn't been the same. That after I didn't tell him what happened in our vacation they went to her and forced Hannah to do so. They where all attacking me. I heard lie after lie and all followed up with "we just need some time" and that all of this was cause they loved me.
I have discussed what they accused me of with friends, family and therapists. Although I didn't not believe it at first they all confirmed it was finding little details in my day-to-day behaviour (unrelated to all of the above) and using it to kick me out. They didn't intend of even speaking to me again. Lies feed to everyone by Jacob.
I went away. I don't know if it was for the better. But for a few weeks at first and then months later, I went back to my home town. Their lies became actual blame and I got a message from Ellie saying that we are done (just one month after trying to convince me they needed time and confessing she in particular didn't even notice anything until her boyfriend accused me).
Last time I saw any of them was in December when I gave Hannah her Christmas present. I told her I wasn't trying to get her back and I would continue to keep my distance since my first priority is what she wants and I meant that. I really do love her and would do anything for her to be happy. But I miss her a ton.
It's been 5 months since then. I stopped going to school and kept my distance from anyone related to that life. I have depression and cannot think about anything else. I heard that Jacob still talk shut about me to everyone. I have realised what has happened and have discussed this with multiple common friends who have confirmed this. Jacob is Manipulating the other 2 because of the bad relationship with his parents. He knows Ellie won't do anything with anyone else despite the "open" relationship due to her luck of confidence (so it only works for him). She need him to operate in public and to deal with her extreme anxiety so he takes advantage of that and Hannah follows him everywhere with the excuse of just being a good friend.
There are so many things I couldn't include (this is a hugh post already) about more lies and proof that they where bad for me. But I can't move on. I have seeked medical help but I just cant imagine my life in the future without them. Everything is a reminder of what we've been through. Jacob used to call me his family and when I begged him for our friendship back he didn't even care. Not on my birthday, not on new years... never. I lost all of them.
I'm back now. Not sure why, whether I'm back to continue my studies or to see if I could win them back. If I could have Hannah in my life in sime form. But I'll probably see them tomorrow morning (I randomly walked behind them today, don't think they noticed me).
Please if you have any advice share it. I just want to feel happy again. Even for a second.
TL,DR: The girl I'm in love with stopped talking to me along with my 2 best friends. I can't move on and I'm supposed to face them again in school after not seeing them for months. They all lied to me and nothing seem to help. I have depression and I dont want to feel like this for the rest of my life.
2024.05.20 08:27 Dr-Whitney The Benefits of Yoga Mental and Physical
Yoga is not a trend; it is as old as 5000 years. Millions of people since ages have been enjoying the benefits of yoga. There are people who feel that while doing yoga they have to stretch themselves like gymnasts. They feel that their body is too rigid to be able to do that. The fact is that one is never too old to increase one's flexibility.
The yoga postures called asanas function by stretching your muscles. This helps in releasing the lactic acid that gets stored with the usage of muscles and it can lead to pain, fatigue, and stiffness. Yoga also helps the joints to gain more mobility. Lubrication in the joints is also increased. The effect is a sensation of fluidity and ease in the entire body.
Yoga stretches ligaments, tendons, and also the fascia sheath enclosing the muscles. You will be able to witness the benefits within a short span of time. Some forms of yoga like Ashtanga, power yoga are more vigorous than the rest. These help in gaining muscle tone. Other less vigorous styles bring about strength and benefits of endurance. If the yoga postures are practiced under the supervision of experts, then they can help to build core strength in the abdominal muscles.
When flexibility and strength increase; the posture also becomes better. The standing and sitting postures help in developing core strength. Yoga increases your body awareness. The deep breathing exercises improve the capacity of the lungs. This helps the individual to perform better in endurance and sports.
Those who perform yoga feel less stressed. They feel relaxed after their first class. The deep breathing process helps the mind to focus on the breath. The mind calms down on account of this. Certain biochemical processes help in reducing stress with yoga. The catecholamine is a hormone secreted by the adrenal glands on account of stress. Yoga helps in decreasing this hormone. It also brings down the levels of neurotransmitters like dopamine, epinephrine. This succeeds in bringing forth a feeling of calm.
Yoga students are of the opinion that there is an alteration of mood after the yoga classes. They feel happier and contented. Yoga is sometimes used as a therapy to treat obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Yoga has a therapeutic effect on heart disease. Yoga can lower blood pressure and slow down the heart rate. This will help people with heart disease, high blood pressure, and stroke. Yoga has also been related to a decrease in cholesterol and triglycerides levels and also it gives a boost to the immunity of an individual.
In the West, yoga has gained immense popularity. They have developed a concept called IYT- integrative yoga therapy. It is utilized for treating certain medical conditions. Various other chronic medical ailments like asthma, arthritis, and back pain have been benefitted with the practice of yoga.
Yoga contributes to the learning and memory of any individual. It can slow down the aging process by raising the energy levels of an individual. It can keep him mentally active and fresh. Yoga has a positive impact on the treatment of depression.
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The yoga postures called asanas function by stretching your muscles. This helps in releasing the lactic acid that gets stored with the usage of muscles and it can lead to pain, fatigue, and stiffness. Yoga also helps the joints to gain more mobility. Lubrication in the joints is also increased. The effect is a sensation of fluidity and ease in the entire body.
Yoga stretches ligaments, tendons, and also the fascia sheath enclosing the muscles. You will be able to witness the benefits within a short span of time. Some forms of yoga like Ashtanga, power yoga are more vigorous than the rest. These help in gaining muscle tone. Other less vigorous styles bring about strength and benefits of endurance. If the yoga postures are practiced under the supervision of experts, then they can help to build core strength in the abdominal muscles.
When flexibility and strength increase; the posture also becomes better. The standing and sitting postures help in developing core strength. Yoga increases your body awareness. The deep breathing exercises improve the capacity of the lungs. This helps the individual to perform better in endurance and sports.
Those who perform yoga feel less stressed. They feel relaxed after their first class. The deep breathing process helps the mind to focus on the breath. The mind calms down on account of this. Certain biochemical processes help in reducing stress with yoga. The catecholamine is a hormone secreted by the adrenal glands on account of stress. Yoga helps in decreasing this hormone. It also brings down the levels of neurotransmitters like dopamine, epinephrine. This succeeds in bringing forth a feeling of calm.
Yoga students are of the opinion that there is an alteration of mood after the yoga classes. They feel happier and contented. Yoga is sometimes used as a therapy to treat obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Yoga has a therapeutic effect on heart disease. Yoga can lower blood pressure and slow down the heart rate. This will help people with heart disease, high blood pressure, and stroke. Yoga has also been related to a decrease in cholesterol and triglycerides levels and also it gives a boost to the immunity of an individual.
In the West, yoga has gained immense popularity. They have developed a concept called IYT- integrative yoga therapy. It is utilized for treating certain medical conditions. Various other chronic medical ailments like asthma, arthritis, and back pain have been benefitted with the practice of yoga.
Yoga contributes to the learning and memory of any individual. It can slow down the aging process by raising the energy levels of an individual. It can keep him mentally active and fresh. Yoga has a positive impact on the treatment of depression.
2024.05.20 08:14 DoctorBibonic Peer Pressure
It's stuck in my mind, trapped and buried in the deepest regions, only to resurface when my mind wonders. I'll be on the brink of sleep, drifting off when the haunting memories return to me. It was to become a man they told me, but it simply made me less of a human.
Decades ago, the summer heat rained down on our small town in Texas. The only safety for the younglings was the shade of trees as our parents forced us outside til the dinner bell rang. School was out, and there was almost nothing to do. Worse of all, my parents refused to take me to the local pool, citing health concerns.
Alas, there was a saving grace. Within the roughly 50-acre plot of forest at the end of the culdesac resided a sprawling stream system. Most of it was muddy or sandy with shallow water, but a specific section sported a large rocky cliff and up to neck-high depths.
I remember the first time I saw him. Rumors and gossip were all I had known at the time. Tales that his eyes stared blankly, the way he acted like a toddler, and his limping gait. I'll admit that most were lies, but the first was most definitely true.
At a gas station, I eyed a candy bar to my right. I almost went to ask my mother for it before I felt a sensation of being watched. Turning to face the people ahead of us in the line, I caught his gaze. His brown eyes stared into mine, still and unmoving.
It was a quick encounter, his mother finalizing the purchase and leaving with him. He stared as he walked out the door, continuing til he was placed into the beaten red truck. Even though it was a short encounter, I already felt the weird feelings the others described.
Laying in my bed, I couldn't help but to think about his stare. It was almost as if there wasn't a mind behind those eyes, simply the shell of a person. The next day, I sat in the living room playing with my action figures. Suddenly a knock rang out from the front door, and I quickly made my way to open it.
Jake and Ethan stood in front of me. They were barely older, but at that age, it made all the difference. I considered myself the luckiest boy in the world to be able to play with older kids, even if the age gap was only a year.
"We're gonna go to the hole, wanna come?" Jake said enthusiastically. He was the leader of our little trio, his ideas of what to do clashing with the boredom of summer.
Enthusiastically I agreed. And quickly after that, I slid on my already tied shoes, following them as we began down the street. Just a minute after leaving the house, I already wished that I didn't. The heat was severe, made worse by the almost zero humidity. I couldn't wait to submerge myself into the refreshing waters of the creek.
Suddenly a bang erupted from the yard to my right, and my head instantly shifted in that direction. The boy was out there, a stick in his hand striking one of the large pines on their property.
Upon noticing me, his arms went limp, his eyes trailing me. Thinking back now, it was obvious that he wasn't smart. He probably had some type of learning disability, autism, or something. I'm not a doctor, but he simply wasn't like the rest of us, and that was why he was outcasted by the kids of the neighborhood.
That didn't matter though, the boy never left his yard. After we came back, our boxers drenched, I saw him attempt to follow me. A shout came from the open window, and the boy stopped, turning and beginning to make his way to the front door. I never saw his father, though, I wouldn't blame him if he packed his bags and left.
The day it happened was humid. Jake and Ethan had invited me to go play at the hole, and I gratefully accepted. As we made our way to the tree line, I noticed the boy hiding behind his tree, a large stick in his hand. Paying no attention, we continued forward, pushing through the thick undergrowth. As we walked, I began to hear what sounded like a set of footsteps behind us. Though every time I turned my head, I would see nothing.
"Do you guys hear something?" I questioned, the others stopping to examine me.
"Are you really scared of the woods?" Ethan asked, a smile on his face.
"What?! No!" I rebuttled as they laughed. Both of them began to walk forward, and after a final glance behind, I followed.
Suddenly he appeared in front of us, his stance wide as he held the stick like a baseball bat. I let out a scream as he jumped out, settling down after I realized it was just simply him.
"What does this idiot want?" Jake questioned, watching as the boy began to approach.
Suddenly and without warning, he began to charge toward us. Jake backed up a little bit, as no matter the age or size of someone, a boy wielding a stick is terrifying, especially when you don't have one yourself. Turning tail, we began to flee, hopping over logs and stones as the boy gave chase.
After a minute of running, Jake skidded to a stop. We were atop the peak of the cliff, around a twenty-foot drop. Rumors of a child jumping off into the water and surviving was prevalent at the time, but none attempted to recreate it.
He approached from behind as we turned in unison. Taking the role of our protector, Jake stepped in front, ready for a fight. The boy slowly stepped forward, his pace steady with intent, and his eyes locked onto Jake. His jaw was limp and open, an obvious stain where drool sept out.
It was quick. It was just so quick. The boy rushed forward, swinging and hitting Jake in the side. He was weak though, and Jake was strong. Grabbing hold of his shirt, he spun him around, sending him flying off the cliff. I heard three impacts, the last one being a splash of water.
Peering over the edge, I stared at his limp body at the bottom of the cliff. The water around him was tinted red, his landing pad being a thin layer of water with sharp rocks under the surface. Glancing at each other wearily, we left, abandoning the crime scene.
When his mother realized her little boy was nowhere to be seen, she called the police. The search efforts were halted by a ravenous storm. His body was carried five miles down the stream, eventually catching onto a fallen tree. By the time a hiker found him, he was barely recognizable.
Animals had feasted– NO! After all these years, I can't even tell the truth. No no no. I need to say it, I need to SAY IT! After he fell, we made our way down, approaching his mangled body. He was gasping for air whilst crying. His jaw was crooked, blood seeping out of a wound on his forehead.
He must've broken his back because he didn't move much. His eyes, oh god his eyes. They stared into mine, wide and terrified. They... They made me do it. It wasn't my choice it was... It wasn't me! I wish I could go back, I wish I could fix things. They made me do it, THEY MADE ME DO IT...
They made me pick up a rock.
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Decades ago, the summer heat rained down on our small town in Texas. The only safety for the younglings was the shade of trees as our parents forced us outside til the dinner bell rang. School was out, and there was almost nothing to do. Worse of all, my parents refused to take me to the local pool, citing health concerns.
Alas, there was a saving grace. Within the roughly 50-acre plot of forest at the end of the culdesac resided a sprawling stream system. Most of it was muddy or sandy with shallow water, but a specific section sported a large rocky cliff and up to neck-high depths.
I remember the first time I saw him. Rumors and gossip were all I had known at the time. Tales that his eyes stared blankly, the way he acted like a toddler, and his limping gait. I'll admit that most were lies, but the first was most definitely true.
At a gas station, I eyed a candy bar to my right. I almost went to ask my mother for it before I felt a sensation of being watched. Turning to face the people ahead of us in the line, I caught his gaze. His brown eyes stared into mine, still and unmoving.
It was a quick encounter, his mother finalizing the purchase and leaving with him. He stared as he walked out the door, continuing til he was placed into the beaten red truck. Even though it was a short encounter, I already felt the weird feelings the others described.
Laying in my bed, I couldn't help but to think about his stare. It was almost as if there wasn't a mind behind those eyes, simply the shell of a person. The next day, I sat in the living room playing with my action figures. Suddenly a knock rang out from the front door, and I quickly made my way to open it.
Jake and Ethan stood in front of me. They were barely older, but at that age, it made all the difference. I considered myself the luckiest boy in the world to be able to play with older kids, even if the age gap was only a year.
"We're gonna go to the hole, wanna come?" Jake said enthusiastically. He was the leader of our little trio, his ideas of what to do clashing with the boredom of summer.
Enthusiastically I agreed. And quickly after that, I slid on my already tied shoes, following them as we began down the street. Just a minute after leaving the house, I already wished that I didn't. The heat was severe, made worse by the almost zero humidity. I couldn't wait to submerge myself into the refreshing waters of the creek.
Suddenly a bang erupted from the yard to my right, and my head instantly shifted in that direction. The boy was out there, a stick in his hand striking one of the large pines on their property.
Upon noticing me, his arms went limp, his eyes trailing me. Thinking back now, it was obvious that he wasn't smart. He probably had some type of learning disability, autism, or something. I'm not a doctor, but he simply wasn't like the rest of us, and that was why he was outcasted by the kids of the neighborhood.
That didn't matter though, the boy never left his yard. After we came back, our boxers drenched, I saw him attempt to follow me. A shout came from the open window, and the boy stopped, turning and beginning to make his way to the front door. I never saw his father, though, I wouldn't blame him if he packed his bags and left.
The day it happened was humid. Jake and Ethan had invited me to go play at the hole, and I gratefully accepted. As we made our way to the tree line, I noticed the boy hiding behind his tree, a large stick in his hand. Paying no attention, we continued forward, pushing through the thick undergrowth. As we walked, I began to hear what sounded like a set of footsteps behind us. Though every time I turned my head, I would see nothing.
"Do you guys hear something?" I questioned, the others stopping to examine me.
"Are you really scared of the woods?" Ethan asked, a smile on his face.
"What?! No!" I rebuttled as they laughed. Both of them began to walk forward, and after a final glance behind, I followed.
Suddenly he appeared in front of us, his stance wide as he held the stick like a baseball bat. I let out a scream as he jumped out, settling down after I realized it was just simply him.
"What does this idiot want?" Jake questioned, watching as the boy began to approach.
Suddenly and without warning, he began to charge toward us. Jake backed up a little bit, as no matter the age or size of someone, a boy wielding a stick is terrifying, especially when you don't have one yourself. Turning tail, we began to flee, hopping over logs and stones as the boy gave chase.
After a minute of running, Jake skidded to a stop. We were atop the peak of the cliff, around a twenty-foot drop. Rumors of a child jumping off into the water and surviving was prevalent at the time, but none attempted to recreate it.
He approached from behind as we turned in unison. Taking the role of our protector, Jake stepped in front, ready for a fight. The boy slowly stepped forward, his pace steady with intent, and his eyes locked onto Jake. His jaw was limp and open, an obvious stain where drool sept out.
It was quick. It was just so quick. The boy rushed forward, swinging and hitting Jake in the side. He was weak though, and Jake was strong. Grabbing hold of his shirt, he spun him around, sending him flying off the cliff. I heard three impacts, the last one being a splash of water.
Peering over the edge, I stared at his limp body at the bottom of the cliff. The water around him was tinted red, his landing pad being a thin layer of water with sharp rocks under the surface. Glancing at each other wearily, we left, abandoning the crime scene.
When his mother realized her little boy was nowhere to be seen, she called the police. The search efforts were halted by a ravenous storm. His body was carried five miles down the stream, eventually catching onto a fallen tree. By the time a hiker found him, he was barely recognizable.
Animals had feasted– NO! After all these years, I can't even tell the truth. No no no. I need to say it, I need to SAY IT! After he fell, we made our way down, approaching his mangled body. He was gasping for air whilst crying. His jaw was crooked, blood seeping out of a wound on his forehead.
He must've broken his back because he didn't move much. His eyes, oh god his eyes. They stared into mine, wide and terrified. They... They made me do it. It wasn't my choice it was... It wasn't me! I wish I could go back, I wish I could fix things. They made me do it, THEY MADE ME DO IT...
They made me pick up a rock.
2024.05.20 08:10 Fragrant-Guava5804 iPad Air 13 inch - Case Compatibility
 | I’ve explored some cheap work-arounds for case options for the air for a couple of reasons (on a budget after forking out the money for the iPad, also not many case options available yet). submitted by Fragrant-Guava5804 to ipad [link] [comments] Best option I’ve found: Bought a folio case for the 12.9 inch pro, which uses TPU for the primary casing. This is important as the softer material allows for the iPad Air to fit in, despite being a hair larger than the iPad Pro. I have then cut out the power button cover as, if you don’t, this applies pressure on the power button at all times, activating Siri. Not to mention you would not be able to use Touch ID. Otherwise just buy one on Amazon which is made for the air 13. I just hate online shopping lol. |
2024.05.20 08:00 beachvolleyeurope "Unlock the Secret to Preventing Shoulder Injuries in Beach Volley: The Mighty Rotator Cuff"
Hey Beach Volley Lovers,
Fitness and the prevention of injuries are a continuous priority in our game, right? One important and often overlooked aspect in shoulder injury prevention is the role of the rotator cuff. To prevent rotator cuff tears or other related injuries, understanding and implementing proper rotator cuff strengthening exercises should be part of your training routine.
Why, you might ask?
• Strengthening the rotator cuff helps maintain shoulder balance, essential for reducing risk in overhead movements such as serving and spiking. • It ensures any shoulder movements are controlled, minimizing repetitive micro-traumas that can evolve into serious injury.
So how do you strengthen your rotator cuff?
Now let's get a bit more personal. Remember that warm-up and cool-down routines are just as important; these muscles need to be warmed up before jumping straight into a game or training. By applying a hot pack to your shoulder before these exercises, you can prepare the muscles for activity and reduce the likelihood of injury.
No pain, no gain doesn't apply here folks! If you start to feel sharp or severe pain while doing these exercises, put the weights down.
The best offense is a good defense, and I promise, these small tweaks in your training will make a big difference. Let's commit to protecting our shoulders, our game depends on it.
References: Effect of Stretching on Sport Injury Risk: A Review, Rotator cuff strengthening
Until next time, play hard, play smart, and most importantly, play injury-free!
TL;DR: Strengthen your rotator cuff to help prevent shoulder injury, complement this with proper warm-up and cool-down routines. Avoid heavy weights and focus on higher reps.
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Fitness and the prevention of injuries are a continuous priority in our game, right? One important and often overlooked aspect in shoulder injury prevention is the role of the rotator cuff. To prevent rotator cuff tears or other related injuries, understanding and implementing proper rotator cuff strengthening exercises should be part of your training routine.
Why, you might ask?
• Strengthening the rotator cuff helps maintain shoulder balance, essential for reducing risk in overhead movements such as serving and spiking. • It ensures any shoulder movements are controlled, minimizing repetitive micro-traumas that can evolve into serious injury.
So how do you strengthen your rotator cuff?
- Internal/External Rotations - With an elastic band or cable machine, stand with your elbow bent at a 90-degree angle then rotate your forearm away/towards your body.
- Supraspinatus Exercise - Stand and lean forward slightly, with a weight in your hand and arm extended. Rotate the arm with the thumb pointed down until it is parallel to the ground.
- Crossover Arm Stretch - Pull an arm across your chest and apply gentle pressure to stretch the shoulder muscles.
Now let's get a bit more personal. Remember that warm-up and cool-down routines are just as important; these muscles need to be warmed up before jumping straight into a game or training. By applying a hot pack to your shoulder before these exercises, you can prepare the muscles for activity and reduce the likelihood of injury.
No pain, no gain doesn't apply here folks! If you start to feel sharp or severe pain while doing these exercises, put the weights down.
The best offense is a good defense, and I promise, these small tweaks in your training will make a big difference. Let's commit to protecting our shoulders, our game depends on it.
References: Effect of Stretching on Sport Injury Risk: A Review, Rotator cuff strengthening
Until next time, play hard, play smart, and most importantly, play injury-free!
TL;DR: Strengthen your rotator cuff to help prevent shoulder injury, complement this with proper warm-up and cool-down routines. Avoid heavy weights and focus on higher reps.
2024.05.20 07:53 __SageOfSixPaths__ I was peer pressured into changing my pfp 😔
(Do u guys think this one is better than the last???)
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2024.05.20 07:50 scorpiobatr WOW! More BUDDIE parallels: Buck's relationships
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2024.05.20 07:40 Important-Equipment2 MLM-ish 'Easy Money' Scam
As the topic shown, my brother fell into what looks like a scam from a group that gives out 'easy money'.
At first it does look like a harmless group but then when you got deep into it, it requires you to fork out money as deposit then returning it to you with some commission. What I saw was related to stock trading which I have 0 clue about.
He wasn't able to continue after some time since the amount he paid skyrocketed and is continuously pressured to come up with a solution to pay back. Not sure what are the consequences if he doesn't want to continue.
Do you think I should help him report this suspicious activities to relevant authorities or any solutions? For now he is blocking all contacts and other personal information that they might track him down with but I don't know if it helps.
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At first it does look like a harmless group but then when you got deep into it, it requires you to fork out money as deposit then returning it to you with some commission. What I saw was related to stock trading which I have 0 clue about.
He wasn't able to continue after some time since the amount he paid skyrocketed and is continuously pressured to come up with a solution to pay back. Not sure what are the consequences if he doesn't want to continue.
Do you think I should help him report this suspicious activities to relevant authorities or any solutions? For now he is blocking all contacts and other personal information that they might track him down with but I don't know if it helps.
2024.05.20 07:30 rdk67 Spring Day 61: Hot Cicada Sunday
Today! Today issued forth these existential moments, when the absence of human activity is the defining feature of the landscape – not because there is a disaster or a change of heart about the human project but because, well, I don’t know, so I grab my backpack, which stands for aspects of the soul that only sprout in alternate realities – and charge into the day to find out. By noon, the heat is like a flickering color in the mind – unseasonably early for this sort of highlight, and then I remember the cicadas are appearing, which might explain the sudden interest by the rest of the universe. Not halfway down the block, I’m startled by the first cicada of the season – near the top of the tallest tree by the building that houses the renowned music program. The cicada makes music all by itself, and it is like a siren made of clicks, a drumstick pulled across bones.
This is just the beginning of the historical emergence, and the location where I live is one of the nationally recognized hot spots. The people, I don’t believe, have evacuated, but they certainly aren’t rubbing their hands over the trembling earth, waiting for bulging eyes and knobby legs to drag a dirt-stained cicada out of the ground, then off to a place to molt. The molting process is brimming with the sort of metaphor we associate with heaven – something below ground for its whole remembered life, save for a brief time after it hatches, falls out of a tree and into the grass, crawls down into the soil to find a tasty dandelion root to suck on. That original body, on the brightest day of the year, goes searching for a hard vertical surface to cling to, like the side of the tree it was feeding on, then escapes out of its body through the hind end of its own skull.
The heat seems to have its own sense of choice in evidence. While I’m standing there, listening for more clicks, the heat generates a crackling sensation across my shoulders, like patches of my skin are sparkling below my shirt. The clouds – more of those cumulonimbus dreams-come-true – are simultaneously isles and aisles – two bulging eyes – both work, so whichever, either one a somewhat brawny pronunciation, like the words have to walk with a slight bow about the legs, because of the pronounced thigh muscles. Just as I turn to walk away from the lone cicada at the top of the school of music’s tallest tree, the clicking begins again. I stop and turn back to the tree – it stops. I turn to walk, and the clicking sounds again. Maybe the cicada brood will be so large, the movie we call reality has given them final cut, at least for the next few months, so I carry on.
That cicada was a female – they make that clicking sound by rubbing their wings together, and I picture the males all hearing the clicking as a variation of – could some big strong male crawl on over and open this jar for me? The male call is the more familiar whooping siren, which is made with a spasmodic diaphragm on their abdomens – Jerry Lee Lewis at his most raucous – though I believe he did play piano with his feet, so there are dissimilarities, too. The big winners will be the birds and fish, which are looking forward to extra animal protein wherever they look for the next couple of months, second nesting seasons all but in the bag. At the height of his fame, Jerry Lee famously wedded his 13-year-old cousin. Myra Williams was her name, and she said later, after the divorce, she was always the adult in the relationship. They stayed married for 13 years.
Scientists speculate that cicada broods follow such irregular cycles – 7 years, 13 years, 17 years – because they are prime numbers and therefore difficult for predators to sync to over time in the performance of their own boom and bust cycles. I like this theory, though I wonder why the rest of the animal kingdom hasn’t likewise worked the numbers – like cicadas launched themselves into a probabilistic deep-space orbit inside the mind of nature, and never looked back. I picture Neil Armstrong on the ladder of the lunar module, freezing in place, mission command busy on the radio but no reply from Neil until, all wet and new, he bursts forth through the back of his space helmet, as naked as the day he was born, gets busy inflating his wing casings, as mission control cheers, and the scientists all light cigarettes to relieve the stress, maybe hand out cigars.
The heat is a measure of energy in the system – to the extent it also accounts for human absence, we stay huddled inside on hot days like today due to chronic overabundance – nature is giving us too much – which is also true for many allergies and fevers – but with the overabundance of energy, you can find relief through the judicious application of even more energy, which option I used to always forego on general principle – I want to feel the reality of days overabundant as surely as days where the molecules are all optimally excited. These days, I’m in charge of a mid-sized HVAC operation, and thus, feel part of my body living inside a factory of probability that stretches around the world. We humans, on days like today, take it as a given that temperature-controlled climates are part of the deal, that molecules should be in optimal states of excitement.
Which, with self-similarity across scale in mind, might suggest nature treat our excitability with similar regard. Oh to live the life of temperate climes, where fairness and passion are concerned! I’m on my way to the library to borrow a book about love and rage, written by a Buddhist, who examines the roll of anger in transformation. I have no truck with my fellow human sufferers – literally no anger at all – but with human systems? Disembodied intelligences? Those aspects of the hyperform that privilege torment and indifference? When it climbs to a high enough part of the tree to be heard, I can indeed hear my anger. What’s that? A false reality precipitates false authority? Yet knowing this, hyperforms readily believe wealth confers merit. The exaggerated accumulation of capital is an existential disease assuaged with the delusion of personal success.
A block from the library, I come upon two boys playing in a pile of sand beside a garden. The one boy seems to be trying to burrow inside it, and the other is battering the sand with the flat side of a child-sized metal shovel. He has the wrong shovel for the job, a fact I choose to keep to myself, especially since the one really is trying to thwack the tall pile just as hard as he can. The sort of thing kids do in a spirit of curiosity – what happens to the world when the force of one’s anger is applied to a giant pile of sand? Perhaps the urge to use force for no reason is the human behavior we end up with when ambient energy gets so overabundant. This is what life seems to be – the planet’s novel approach to dissipating heat. We are much more than that, of course, and fortunately, the kids have plenty of time and energy to prove it. Their parents tell them to stop.
When a cicada molts, the effect is more than just a body crawling out of a body – for instance, in the moments before this happens, the cicada is visibly squirming inside its former self, which is permanently clinging to the side of a tree, and all the while, it is feeling the pronounced effect of gravity for the first time in its life, not to mention terrestrial life in the trees, where the sap flows freely and sunshine dances on those giant globular eyes for the first time. Emerging cicadas first do a backbend, then hang upside down by their hind ends, letting the legs, wings and abdomen inflate and adjust to the atmospheric pressure, which pressure gracefully draws the body back to an upright posture. They stay that way, letting their wings inflate, flatten out, stiffen. Veins in the wings were veins, were flesh, before the flesh became the will to fly, a means of saying hello.
Nearer the library, I catch sight of someone squatting in the subsurface terrace of the Unitarian-Universalist peace church – I spot a bedroll and backpack, a forty-ounce can of something cold to drink on such a sweltering day. The guy is leaning against the brick wall, staring into space, and I picture him being the pile of sand from the block before – the one repeatedly hit over the head with the flat side of a shovel. At the library, they’re resetting the furniture after a musical performance. I don’t really know who it was – I just see my favorite librarian thanking someone with a violin case, the sort of hardened case they used to carry machine guns around in, and for a moment I hear the rat-a-tat-tat that stands for the sound of anger overcoming us – but then it becomes that highest cicada, back at the top of her tree, rubbing her wings, building railroads.
The heat on the walk home – neighborhoods still evacuated – is like a drunken horse I’m forced to ride. I can feel my body swaying from side to side a little more than usual, so I try to imagine some other time – for instance, when our bodies will be able to take the heat on a day like today and do something with it – cranial stimulation or micromachines to repair the body or even just a way for the body to stay cool without installing an HVAC system. A crow stops me cold when I hear it imitating the sound of a cicada – it doesn’t have the tone exactly right, but it’s doing the clicks, and I know this is true of crows – they acquire new elements of language from what they hear, and the crows must be hearing female cicadas calling out to the others. What a witness! I call up to the crow – or maybe it’s just got a cicada in its beak. In instant reply, the crow shrieks.
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This is just the beginning of the historical emergence, and the location where I live is one of the nationally recognized hot spots. The people, I don’t believe, have evacuated, but they certainly aren’t rubbing their hands over the trembling earth, waiting for bulging eyes and knobby legs to drag a dirt-stained cicada out of the ground, then off to a place to molt. The molting process is brimming with the sort of metaphor we associate with heaven – something below ground for its whole remembered life, save for a brief time after it hatches, falls out of a tree and into the grass, crawls down into the soil to find a tasty dandelion root to suck on. That original body, on the brightest day of the year, goes searching for a hard vertical surface to cling to, like the side of the tree it was feeding on, then escapes out of its body through the hind end of its own skull.
The heat seems to have its own sense of choice in evidence. While I’m standing there, listening for more clicks, the heat generates a crackling sensation across my shoulders, like patches of my skin are sparkling below my shirt. The clouds – more of those cumulonimbus dreams-come-true – are simultaneously isles and aisles – two bulging eyes – both work, so whichever, either one a somewhat brawny pronunciation, like the words have to walk with a slight bow about the legs, because of the pronounced thigh muscles. Just as I turn to walk away from the lone cicada at the top of the school of music’s tallest tree, the clicking begins again. I stop and turn back to the tree – it stops. I turn to walk, and the clicking sounds again. Maybe the cicada brood will be so large, the movie we call reality has given them final cut, at least for the next few months, so I carry on.
That cicada was a female – they make that clicking sound by rubbing their wings together, and I picture the males all hearing the clicking as a variation of – could some big strong male crawl on over and open this jar for me? The male call is the more familiar whooping siren, which is made with a spasmodic diaphragm on their abdomens – Jerry Lee Lewis at his most raucous – though I believe he did play piano with his feet, so there are dissimilarities, too. The big winners will be the birds and fish, which are looking forward to extra animal protein wherever they look for the next couple of months, second nesting seasons all but in the bag. At the height of his fame, Jerry Lee famously wedded his 13-year-old cousin. Myra Williams was her name, and she said later, after the divorce, she was always the adult in the relationship. They stayed married for 13 years.
Scientists speculate that cicada broods follow such irregular cycles – 7 years, 13 years, 17 years – because they are prime numbers and therefore difficult for predators to sync to over time in the performance of their own boom and bust cycles. I like this theory, though I wonder why the rest of the animal kingdom hasn’t likewise worked the numbers – like cicadas launched themselves into a probabilistic deep-space orbit inside the mind of nature, and never looked back. I picture Neil Armstrong on the ladder of the lunar module, freezing in place, mission command busy on the radio but no reply from Neil until, all wet and new, he bursts forth through the back of his space helmet, as naked as the day he was born, gets busy inflating his wing casings, as mission control cheers, and the scientists all light cigarettes to relieve the stress, maybe hand out cigars.
The heat is a measure of energy in the system – to the extent it also accounts for human absence, we stay huddled inside on hot days like today due to chronic overabundance – nature is giving us too much – which is also true for many allergies and fevers – but with the overabundance of energy, you can find relief through the judicious application of even more energy, which option I used to always forego on general principle – I want to feel the reality of days overabundant as surely as days where the molecules are all optimally excited. These days, I’m in charge of a mid-sized HVAC operation, and thus, feel part of my body living inside a factory of probability that stretches around the world. We humans, on days like today, take it as a given that temperature-controlled climates are part of the deal, that molecules should be in optimal states of excitement.
Which, with self-similarity across scale in mind, might suggest nature treat our excitability with similar regard. Oh to live the life of temperate climes, where fairness and passion are concerned! I’m on my way to the library to borrow a book about love and rage, written by a Buddhist, who examines the roll of anger in transformation. I have no truck with my fellow human sufferers – literally no anger at all – but with human systems? Disembodied intelligences? Those aspects of the hyperform that privilege torment and indifference? When it climbs to a high enough part of the tree to be heard, I can indeed hear my anger. What’s that? A false reality precipitates false authority? Yet knowing this, hyperforms readily believe wealth confers merit. The exaggerated accumulation of capital is an existential disease assuaged with the delusion of personal success.
A block from the library, I come upon two boys playing in a pile of sand beside a garden. The one boy seems to be trying to burrow inside it, and the other is battering the sand with the flat side of a child-sized metal shovel. He has the wrong shovel for the job, a fact I choose to keep to myself, especially since the one really is trying to thwack the tall pile just as hard as he can. The sort of thing kids do in a spirit of curiosity – what happens to the world when the force of one’s anger is applied to a giant pile of sand? Perhaps the urge to use force for no reason is the human behavior we end up with when ambient energy gets so overabundant. This is what life seems to be – the planet’s novel approach to dissipating heat. We are much more than that, of course, and fortunately, the kids have plenty of time and energy to prove it. Their parents tell them to stop.
When a cicada molts, the effect is more than just a body crawling out of a body – for instance, in the moments before this happens, the cicada is visibly squirming inside its former self, which is permanently clinging to the side of a tree, and all the while, it is feeling the pronounced effect of gravity for the first time in its life, not to mention terrestrial life in the trees, where the sap flows freely and sunshine dances on those giant globular eyes for the first time. Emerging cicadas first do a backbend, then hang upside down by their hind ends, letting the legs, wings and abdomen inflate and adjust to the atmospheric pressure, which pressure gracefully draws the body back to an upright posture. They stay that way, letting their wings inflate, flatten out, stiffen. Veins in the wings were veins, were flesh, before the flesh became the will to fly, a means of saying hello.
Nearer the library, I catch sight of someone squatting in the subsurface terrace of the Unitarian-Universalist peace church – I spot a bedroll and backpack, a forty-ounce can of something cold to drink on such a sweltering day. The guy is leaning against the brick wall, staring into space, and I picture him being the pile of sand from the block before – the one repeatedly hit over the head with the flat side of a shovel. At the library, they’re resetting the furniture after a musical performance. I don’t really know who it was – I just see my favorite librarian thanking someone with a violin case, the sort of hardened case they used to carry machine guns around in, and for a moment I hear the rat-a-tat-tat that stands for the sound of anger overcoming us – but then it becomes that highest cicada, back at the top of her tree, rubbing her wings, building railroads.
The heat on the walk home – neighborhoods still evacuated – is like a drunken horse I’m forced to ride. I can feel my body swaying from side to side a little more than usual, so I try to imagine some other time – for instance, when our bodies will be able to take the heat on a day like today and do something with it – cranial stimulation or micromachines to repair the body or even just a way for the body to stay cool without installing an HVAC system. A crow stops me cold when I hear it imitating the sound of a cicada – it doesn’t have the tone exactly right, but it’s doing the clicks, and I know this is true of crows – they acquire new elements of language from what they hear, and the crows must be hearing female cicadas calling out to the others. What a witness! I call up to the crow – or maybe it’s just got a cicada in its beak. In instant reply, the crow shrieks.
2024.05.20 07:22 MissSpidergirl Tutors saying weird things
Hi everyone,
Posting as a student here.
I have been home schooled in the UK (online) for the past year and essentially given the power to pick who I wanted for my teachers by my parents. I have been having the weirdest experiences and looking for support or explanations?
Here is a list:
• teachers getting angry at me for not being able to answer a problem and telling me “I never had a tutor” angrily
• booking lessons with me through the agency then not turning up. Pretending they booked the wrong time, telling me what the right time is, again not turning up. I have been there the whole time waiting for them. Tell me they will offer some times during the week as a one-off. I wait for them to tell me which days, keeping my evenings (after 7pm) open for them. Don’t offer new times. This specific tutor is only available at 9am on Sundays for an hour and has now told the agency they ‘are not around for the next two weeks’ even though they know my exam is in 3 weeks and we have missed each other for the last 4 weeks. The week after they did not turn up, they turn up, start to test me on a topic as if we are in an exam, then get angry at me for not knowing it perfectly off by heart? They were like “have you read it”, “yes, I have studied this module”, “no, you may have studied it but you do not know it. There is no point unless you know it” then they made us reschedule for the next week now have disappeared? How am I supposed to know to do homework if they don’t let me know in advance? And they are only free on a Sunday at 9am which is a bad time for me because my dad works night shifts. I told them about my dad and they just completely ghosted the message making me feel unimportant to them. Also, the tutor doesn’t have perfect grades of his own, and keeps making reference to ‘boffins’ who get the good marks… and I told him I was in the middle of other exams and he acted completely surprised and disappointed I have other subjects to sit exams for. As if all I am doing with my life is meeting him on a Sunday morning at 9am.
• one private tutor completely forgot who I was. When starting each class, they would tell me to remind them which topic we were on because they could not remember, at one point this teacher got angry at me for politely asking them (with notice) if we could please start 15 minutes later so I could go to the toilet and have some water because I was coming out of a two hour lesson (never said I wouldn’t be fine to finish 15 minutes earlier if they had another lesson), telling me off and saying they are going to charge me for the whole thing rudely when I said I wouldn’t come to the lesson if they were going to treat me badly. This was our first lesson after they basically disappeared because they ‘had migraines’ and then forgot to arrange a lesson for two months, ignoring my texts. I had to call the agency and get them to make them book a lesson (this is all halfway through our module). Before they started avoiding lessons because of migraines, they had spent lesson time confiding in me that they were suffering from a bereavement of someone’s sibling (that they didn’t actually know). I felt really uncomfortable with this the whole time but was supportive.
• tutor telling me “you want to take a break now” and making me wait in a “break” for 30 minutes, then charging me for those 30 minutes even though I did not need a break? Later found out what he was teaching me was completely awful and way, way too basic - I would have gotten a D if I followed his advice.
• tutor refusing to teach me the topic I asked them to teach (part of the curriculum and a topic they previously said they would be happy to teach - they brought it up not me, so I later asked if they meant that and if so, that I would be interested to cover it soon), but suddenly trying to pressure me to instead pay them for internship ‘application review’ services I did not ask for help with.
All the above happened with lessons scheduled through a tutoring agency. The tutors knew I could raise concerns with the agency, and yet still acted this way. To disclose, I am a straight A student and work hard. I have high standards for my lessons. I depend on these lessons because outside of them, I do not have a great social life. So I am deeply focused on my studies. I am respectful with their time and always accommodate to their preferred time. I am always in lessons on time and switched on, and complete tasks around lessons if they are set. Most often, I have to actively ask for homework to be set (I do not ask for it to be marked, as I know that takes time). If it is marked, I compensate them per hour taken. I feel scammed. I have been waiting for two weeks now anxiously for a message from the tutor in the second bullet, who is supposed to be supporting me as a practice partner for an oral exam I have soon, and is not replying to my polite messages asking if he can please send me what the plan is or at least share the past papers he said earlier in our lessons he had but never got round to sending, in order that I might do some work while waiting for him to come back after two weeks, even though my exams are close. What gives?
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Posting as a student here.
I have been home schooled in the UK (online) for the past year and essentially given the power to pick who I wanted for my teachers by my parents. I have been having the weirdest experiences and looking for support or explanations?
Here is a list:
• teachers getting angry at me for not being able to answer a problem and telling me “I never had a tutor” angrily
• booking lessons with me through the agency then not turning up. Pretending they booked the wrong time, telling me what the right time is, again not turning up. I have been there the whole time waiting for them. Tell me they will offer some times during the week as a one-off. I wait for them to tell me which days, keeping my evenings (after 7pm) open for them. Don’t offer new times. This specific tutor is only available at 9am on Sundays for an hour and has now told the agency they ‘are not around for the next two weeks’ even though they know my exam is in 3 weeks and we have missed each other for the last 4 weeks. The week after they did not turn up, they turn up, start to test me on a topic as if we are in an exam, then get angry at me for not knowing it perfectly off by heart? They were like “have you read it”, “yes, I have studied this module”, “no, you may have studied it but you do not know it. There is no point unless you know it” then they made us reschedule for the next week now have disappeared? How am I supposed to know to do homework if they don’t let me know in advance? And they are only free on a Sunday at 9am which is a bad time for me because my dad works night shifts. I told them about my dad and they just completely ghosted the message making me feel unimportant to them. Also, the tutor doesn’t have perfect grades of his own, and keeps making reference to ‘boffins’ who get the good marks… and I told him I was in the middle of other exams and he acted completely surprised and disappointed I have other subjects to sit exams for. As if all I am doing with my life is meeting him on a Sunday morning at 9am.
• one private tutor completely forgot who I was. When starting each class, they would tell me to remind them which topic we were on because they could not remember, at one point this teacher got angry at me for politely asking them (with notice) if we could please start 15 minutes later so I could go to the toilet and have some water because I was coming out of a two hour lesson (never said I wouldn’t be fine to finish 15 minutes earlier if they had another lesson), telling me off and saying they are going to charge me for the whole thing rudely when I said I wouldn’t come to the lesson if they were going to treat me badly. This was our first lesson after they basically disappeared because they ‘had migraines’ and then forgot to arrange a lesson for two months, ignoring my texts. I had to call the agency and get them to make them book a lesson (this is all halfway through our module). Before they started avoiding lessons because of migraines, they had spent lesson time confiding in me that they were suffering from a bereavement of someone’s sibling (that they didn’t actually know). I felt really uncomfortable with this the whole time but was supportive.
• tutor telling me “you want to take a break now” and making me wait in a “break” for 30 minutes, then charging me for those 30 minutes even though I did not need a break? Later found out what he was teaching me was completely awful and way, way too basic - I would have gotten a D if I followed his advice.
• tutor refusing to teach me the topic I asked them to teach (part of the curriculum and a topic they previously said they would be happy to teach - they brought it up not me, so I later asked if they meant that and if so, that I would be interested to cover it soon), but suddenly trying to pressure me to instead pay them for internship ‘application review’ services I did not ask for help with.
All the above happened with lessons scheduled through a tutoring agency. The tutors knew I could raise concerns with the agency, and yet still acted this way. To disclose, I am a straight A student and work hard. I have high standards for my lessons. I depend on these lessons because outside of them, I do not have a great social life. So I am deeply focused on my studies. I am respectful with their time and always accommodate to their preferred time. I am always in lessons on time and switched on, and complete tasks around lessons if they are set. Most often, I have to actively ask for homework to be set (I do not ask for it to be marked, as I know that takes time). If it is marked, I compensate them per hour taken. I feel scammed. I have been waiting for two weeks now anxiously for a message from the tutor in the second bullet, who is supposed to be supporting me as a practice partner for an oral exam I have soon, and is not replying to my polite messages asking if he can please send me what the plan is or at least share the past papers he said earlier in our lessons he had but never got round to sending, in order that I might do some work while waiting for him to come back after two weeks, even though my exams are close. What gives?
2024.05.20 07:20 UltimateYakReady What Keeps You Motivated? Let's Share Our Study and Writing Strategies!
Hey everyone,
I've been thinking a lot lately about what keeps students motivated to study and write, and I wanted to share some thoughts and hear what works for you all. For many of us, motivation can feel like a rollercoaster, with highs of inspiration and lows of procrastination. It's fascinating how different factors play into our drive to keep going.
For some students, the motivation comes from a genuine passion for the subject. When you're deeply interested in what you're learning, studying doesn't feel like a chore. It becomes an exciting quest for knowledge. Writing, in this case, is a way to express that passion, to explore ideas and share your insights with others.
Then there's the goal-oriented motivation. Setting clear, achievable goals can be a powerful motivator. Whether it's aiming for a high GPA, getting into a good college, or securing a dream job, having a concrete target can keep you focused and driven. Writing, in this scenario, often revolves around producing the best essays and reports to achieve those academic goals.
External validation and support also play a huge role. Positive feedback from teachers, parents, or peers can boost your confidence and motivate you to keep improving. Being part of a study group or writing club can provide a sense of community and accountability, making the whole process more enjoyable and less isolating.
Sometimes, the pressure to succeed can be a motivator. Deadlines and exams, while stressful, can push you to stay on track. The sense of accomplishment after finishing a tough paper or acing an exam can be incredibly rewarding and a reminder of why the hard work is worth it.
But let's not forget about the intrinsic satisfaction that comes from learning and personal growth. For many, the act of studying and writing is a way to challenge oneself, to think critically, and to develop as an individual. The joy of understanding a complex concept or crafting a well-argued piece can be a motivation in itself.
Of course, staying motivated isn't always easy. We all have days when we feel burnt out or distracted. On those days, it's important to remind ourselves of our reasons for studying and writing. Sometimes, taking a break, changing your study environment, or finding a new perspective on your work can reignite that motivation.
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I've been thinking a lot lately about what keeps students motivated to study and write, and I wanted to share some thoughts and hear what works for you all. For many of us, motivation can feel like a rollercoaster, with highs of inspiration and lows of procrastination. It's fascinating how different factors play into our drive to keep going.
For some students, the motivation comes from a genuine passion for the subject. When you're deeply interested in what you're learning, studying doesn't feel like a chore. It becomes an exciting quest for knowledge. Writing, in this case, is a way to express that passion, to explore ideas and share your insights with others.
Then there's the goal-oriented motivation. Setting clear, achievable goals can be a powerful motivator. Whether it's aiming for a high GPA, getting into a good college, or securing a dream job, having a concrete target can keep you focused and driven. Writing, in this scenario, often revolves around producing the best essays and reports to achieve those academic goals.
External validation and support also play a huge role. Positive feedback from teachers, parents, or peers can boost your confidence and motivate you to keep improving. Being part of a study group or writing club can provide a sense of community and accountability, making the whole process more enjoyable and less isolating.
Sometimes, the pressure to succeed can be a motivator. Deadlines and exams, while stressful, can push you to stay on track. The sense of accomplishment after finishing a tough paper or acing an exam can be incredibly rewarding and a reminder of why the hard work is worth it.
But let's not forget about the intrinsic satisfaction that comes from learning and personal growth. For many, the act of studying and writing is a way to challenge oneself, to think critically, and to develop as an individual. The joy of understanding a complex concept or crafting a well-argued piece can be a motivation in itself.
Of course, staying motivated isn't always easy. We all have days when we feel burnt out or distracted. On those days, it's important to remind ourselves of our reasons for studying and writing. Sometimes, taking a break, changing your study environment, or finding a new perspective on your work can reignite that motivation.
2024.05.20 07:12 TrackingSystemDirect Do Vehicle Trackers Reduce Insurance Premiums for Teenage Drivers?
 | Ensuring Safe Teen Driving: Harnessing Technology To Manage Risk and Lower Insurance CostsConcerned about your teen's driving habits? You're not alone. The thrill of newfound freedom and the impulsiveness of adolescence can lead to risky behavior on the road. The good news? Technology provides a solution. Have you heard of GPS trackers designed for teen drivers? These devices help monitor your teen's driving behavior and keep them within set boundaries. Ready to learn how they work?Best Plug & Play GPS Tracker For Teen DriversVisit Website: https://gpstrackershop.com/product/obd2-gps-tracker-no-monthly-fee-for-teens/https://preview.redd.it/r414wld3li1d1.jpg?width=4200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c5329ebf258447a8cbc04b1a59a7f57fe0c1dc48 GPS trackers use a network of 31 satellites to pinpoint your vehicle's location, accurate to within 5 meters. With real-time data, you can watch over your teen's driving behavior right from your phone or a third-party site. 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Can you believe that separate policies can cost upwards of $2,000?To illustrate, adding a 16-year-old girl to your policy could cost between $1,165 and $3,036 annually. However, separate policies can range from $2,453 to a whopping $6,479! Does your teen happen to be a boy? Well, that would cost even more due to their higher likelihood of risky driving behavior. But remember, adding them to your policy still saves you money in the long run. Top 5 Teen Driving Monitoring AppsMany car insurers offer discounts for safe driving. For this, you need a teen GPS tracker, which monitors your teen's driving habits. These devices check daily mileage, the time of driving, sudden acceleration or braking, and more. The better the driving, the better your rates. But how about trying out some driving monitoring apps? Here are the top 5 teen driving monitoring apps according to parents:TrueMotion Family Safe DrivingTrueMotion offers a comprehensive and user-friendly monitoring experience, and the best part is that it's free. It includes the feature of geofencing, allowing you to set boundaries for your teen's driving behavior. The app also allows for speed restrictions and curfews, and if any of these limits are crossed, you'll get immediate notifications. The app tracks your teen's driving habits and grades them on a scale of 100 points, so your teen can see their driving improvement over time. The app requires GPS capability to be enabled on your teen's phone, and it's available for both Android and iOS platforms.DriveSmartAnother free app, DriveSmart offers a more personalized experience compared to TrueMotion. It's designed more for the teen than the parents, offering the teen opportunities to improve their scores in lagging categories, such as braking. However, it's up to the teen to decide when to start the app. Some notable features include a reminder for the driver to buckle their seatbelt and monthly driving challenges. It's available for Android and iOS phones.Drivesafe.ly ProThis app is one of the pricier options (ranging from $4 per month to $35 per year), but it comes with a unique feature: hands-free messaging capabilities. The app automatically puts the phone in hands-free mode when the vehicle is in motion. It reads text messages and emails in real-time and allows the driver to respond accordingly. However, it may take some time to get used to the app, and some research suggests that hands-free mobile device use can still be distracting for drivers. The app is currently available only for Android phones.Toyota Safe & SoundAlthough created by Toyota, this app isn't restricted to Toyota vehicles. It puts the phone in do not disturb mode when the car is moving, similar to Drivesafe.ly Pro's app. If the teen driver exhibits poor behaviors such as speeding or texting, the app automatically plays a predetermined playlist as a form of deterrent.AT&T DriveModeAT&T's app is not limited to AT&T customers. It turns on safety features when the car is moving at 15 MPH or faster, which includes muting text alerts and replying to messages with a standard response. If the app is turned off, parents will receive a notification. The app is available for both Android and iOS platforms.https://preview.redd.it/kttsf3fsli1d1.jpg?width=1792&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e4591efe0a2ad78f0e9f95f6a5857bffc73c34d5 Encouraging Facts About Teenage DriversFinally, let’s remember that not all of the changes that come with adding a teen driver to your family are bad. Yes, your car insurance prices will go up; that happens anytime you add additional drivers to a plan, and so it only makes sense that policies would especially get more expensive when you are adding a driver from what is generally considered the riskiest driver pool, drivers between the ages of 16 and 19. Teen drivers are, however, generally safer now than they have been in previous years, with fewer fatalities and accidents reported each year as a general trend.Additionally, check out the following 10 positive facts about teenage driving: https://www.trackingsystemdirect.com/positive-facts-about-teenage-driving/ Top 10 Positive Facts About Teenage Driving
https://preview.redd.it/o39xy37vli1d1.jpg?width=1792&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=354a7e5b4330cf76ca28c830b95bb8e626000fb1 Using Car GPS To Track TeenagersLive GPS tracking units can be installed permanently or simply hidden on a vehicle operated by a teen which will then give parents the ability to oversee the driving activity of that teen at any time. Car tracking units will document the locations a teen visits, speeds they drive and more. Parents can even compare the driving data with text message records to determine if a teen is texting while behind the wheel. By comparing text and driving records Montana parents can at least eliminate one of the high-risk driving behaviors associated with teenage driving. However, the live tracking data also provides parents a simple way to locate their teen if the teen runs out of gas, becomes lost or simply needs some form of emergency assistance.Clearly, the issue of safety among teenage motorists in Montana is a serious one that needs to be addressed frequently and intelligently. The old way was not working and if car tracking units are going to help parents in Montana then that should be something discussed in detail. No state wants to have the distinction of being the most dangerous state for teenage motorists and no parent wants to have their child harmed in a vehicle-related accident. Things need to change in Montana. Best Auto Insurance For Teen DriverWhen a teen finally passes their written and driver's examinations at the DMV a whole new world of opportunity is opened up. Solo car rides or drives with friends to burger joints, movie theaters and almost any location are now only a set of car keys away. However, with that freedom can come a substantial cost in the form of car payments and auto insurance. In fact, one study conducted by NerdWallet showed that family car insurance goes up roughly $1500 per year when a teen gets added to the auto insurance plan! Ouch! So what is the best way to keep car insurance for newly licensed teen drivers as low as possible so parents don't go broke trying to keep up with rising auto insurance rates?Auto insurance providers are data-driven businesses so they are fully aware that teen drivers are for more likely to engage in risky driving behaviors such as speeding. They also understand teen drivers can easily succumb to peer pressure and by doing so make unwise driving decisions. Lastly, car insurers know teens can be careless which can result in potential auto-theft. However, one piece of technology called the GPS car tracker can help reduce many of these liabilities. For example, when a parent equips a vehicle tracker on a teen's car, that parent will then have the ability to monitor everywhere that teen is going and how fast they are driving. What's even better is that the real-time GPS units can also send out alerts to notify parents if the vehicle was stolen or if a teenager is driving their car too fast! Many auto insurance companies recognize the benefits associated with GPS vehicle monitoring and will provide discounts on car insurance packages for this. However, GPS auto tracking technology is more than just a tool to reduce car insurance rates for teens because the devices can literally save lives. The best car GPS tracking devices will cost parents around $99.00-$199.00 per device. Grades MatterCar insurance companies study the facts and they know firsthand that teens that perform well in the classroom are statistically more likely to perform well on the road. In fact, many insurance providers will offer anywhere from a 10-15% discount on auto insurance for teens who maintain a "B" average or better in the classroom. Therefore, parents that keep their kids focused on the schoolbooks will also keep more money in their pockets.Professional Driving CoursesIn every facet of life the one constant is that experience matters. Therefore, teens who go the extra mile by enrolling in various driving programs and professional driving courses are often rewarded by auto insurers with discounted rates.Shop, Compare And Combine Insurance PlansShopping around and comparing quotes is always good advice, but combining insurance plans can also help reduce rates. Family plans where the entire household is on one coverage policy are shown to save families sometimes as much as $3,000 annually! So combine those insurance plans and shop around to find the most cost-effective option!Auto insurance is not only the law it's also extremely beneficial, especially when/if bad things occur. However, that does not mean that auto insurance for teen drivers should break the bank. Parents can save some cash on their teen auto insurance by investing in GPS tracking systems, inspiring their kids to do better at school, enroll them in professional driving classes. Of course, don't forget to shop, compare and combine auto insurers. Stay safe while driving and always try and save some cash! https://preview.redd.it/f5bnvbxxli1d1.jpg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7dc053726a1c0b3110730dfef4f988018526788b Frequently Asked QuestionsWhat Are Some Strategies To Lower Teen Car Insurance?Considering the cost, it's natural to want to lower your insurance expenses. Here are some tips:
What Is The Most Dangerous State For Teen Driving?You might think populous states pose the most risk for teen drivers. However, states like New York and California aren't even in the top half for unsafe teen driving. Surprisingly, Montana holds the dubious honor of being the most dangerous state for teen drivers. This fact is sparking a search among Montana parents for new safety measures for their young drivers.Carinsurance.com conducted a survey focusing on multiple factors. These included teen driver deaths per 100k population, texting behaviors, alcohol use, and insurance costs. It also covered other relevant details. Montana scored alarmingly high on several of these high-risk aspects. It ranks third for teens who text while driving and tops the list for teen drunk driving with 13%. This report, although troubling for Montana parents, is vital for developing better safety measures. Faced with these findings, many Montana parents are taking action. They're turning to car tracking technology, allowing them to monitor their teens' driving habits directly. Learn more about teen driving monitors here: https://www.trackingsystemdirect.com |
2024.05.20 07:05 ExaminationOld6393 Tucking Properly and garments for all day tuck
TUCKING ALL DAY
A serious guide for a very sexy purpose
This guide is intended to provide information to help a person who is Assigned Male At Birth (AMAB) the instruction for a comfortable way to be tucked for long periods of time and/or to achieve the smoothest appearance. Various clothing options will be provided as well as the pro’s and con’s of each one.
Disclaimer – This guide is intended for people who are 18 years of age or older. For serious tucking only. People who are pre-Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) or who are not going to change their hormones can experience some initial discomfort, pain, or even physical harm leading to a hernia. Consult your primary care physician at your next regular checkup, they will want to conduct an inspection of your lower abdomen for any potential signs of a future hernia. The test is simple involving some pressure being used outside your body to test for any signs of tears just below your skin. While a hernia is not likely to happen to most folks, it is highly worth a few few extra seconds at your visit to the doctor.
This guide should not be used as your only source of information. Please read the entire document before attempting the tucking method from section 2 of this guide.
Thanks, I hope this helps you get soft and smooth you wonderful people!
Section 1 - Terminology
Many people who want to tuck for extended periods of time do not want to refer to their genitalia by the medical terminology. This guide will use slang terminology instead.
Medical Term Term Used Here Definition Used Here
Testicles Berries Balls
Anus and Colon Bussy The surrounding skin is well shaven and the colon is cleaned and ready for penetration
Scrotum Coin Purse This does not include the testicles
Penis Clitty The shaft and head of the penis
Male Genitalia Meat Meaning the external portion, once the testicles are internal they are not included under “Meat”
? Grower A penis which is smaller when not erect
? Shower A penis which is approximately the same size whether flaccid or erect
Section 2 Tucking method
2-1 Tucking Intro
One of the goals of an All Day Tuck is for your Meat to stay in place and the important factors are proper coverage of the garment, sufficient compression of the Meat, and enough insulation to keep everything warm enough to remain a little moist. At times you may want to add a Boy Short panty or any women’s panty over your chosen tucking garments.
Prolonged tucking requires proper hygiene to avoid a yeast infection. It also requires a regular shave down there to avoid chaffing.
The first few times you tuck using this method there can be some initial discomfort or even pain. Do not push yourself too hard. You may want to ease into the full tuck by attempting this method but stop before following all steps. This can be similar to a little stretching before a physical activity. You will need to assess your level of pain, it should not be extreme.
At times you may want to tuck and experience difficulty because there is too much blood in the spongy tissue of your Clitty or you may not have the proper garments yet to contain a proper tuck. In these cases you can follow this tucking method and simply sit down at the edge of your bed or a chair to reduce the size of your swollen Clitty or just to hold your tuck in place
2-2 Hiding Those Berries!
You may need to crouch or lay on your side for best results. Begin by placing your dominant hand behind your back and between the legs.
Grasp the very bottom of your Coin Purse and give it a little tension by pulling gently downwards.
Maintain that light tension on the Coin Purse and bring it back towards your Bussy.
Your Berries should have risen and now be close to the base of your Clitty.
Using your non-dominant hand and spread your fingers in order to be able to manipulate both of your berries. (Live Long and Prosper hand sign From Star Trek)
Gently encourage your Berries upwards on either side of your Clitty. This is where discomfort or pain may occur.
*For novices. You may wish to focus on one Berry at a time if there is difficulty or pain. Just make a small circular motion on the underside of the Berry/Berries to encourage them upwards. There are small openings to the lower abdomen where Berries drop from in infancy. Those openings are usually smaller than your adult Berries, until they are gently stretched a little.
For those who are going to take HRT, an anti-androgen will be taken until such time as the berries cease to function. At that point they will likely become smaller, softer, and less sensitive. Tucking becomes much easier but reproductive functions will be greatly affect
Keeping your berries in the original position will increase their temperature. This will not have any feminizing effects on your body but will likely decrease your sperm production and I have no idea if it will affect production of Testosterone.
2-3 Getting The Meat Into Position
Once the Berries “pop” into position use your non-dominant hand to push your Clitty back towards your Bussy and against your Coin Purse. Note, you should still be using your dominant hand to maintain the position and tension on your Coin Purse.
The final step for this tucking method and just before you secure your tuck with appropriate clothing is to hold the tuck together by squeezing your thighs together.
The next section covers the popular clothing items used to maintain a tuck in a comfortable and sustainable way.
NO DUCT TAPE!!!
Section 3 Clothing To Secure That Tuck
Gaffs
I use many different brands and do not recommend any one over another. I will say that BBlair offers good quality and it’s Trans Owned! Gaff And Go offers gaffs with thinner waist straps. Pictured here is a transwoman who likely has less meat than average or an expert at minimizing There are many shapes and materials for modern gaffs. Stretch Satin is the most securing material and stretches less than other clothing options listed below, but has an optimal design. A stretch satin gaff is a great choice for beginners and experts alike. Some less desirable aspects are the cheaper models often do not have a narrow thong leaving to much material between the butt cheeks, they are generally 25-35 USD, and are less sexy or less like a woman’s panty.
Most of my 14 years tucking have been with Gaff panties.
No-Show Women’s Stretch Brief Panties
I have no brand opinions for these. You can just go to any women’s department and are likely to find something that works.
This is the most comfortable and least sexy option for securing a tuck, most suitable for a good night’s sleep. Multiple panties are layered with one or two being put on backwards. You may add a final layer with the panties put on in the intended position. You should experiment with panties one and two sizes smaller than recommended for your waist/hip size.
Your Meat may remain secured best if positioned a little more towards your front which can leave a little bulging with some outfits.
Even More Options – Advanced
Stripper Clothing!!! Bonus points!!!
Body Zone and The Beauty Cave offer options I have access to at a store near me. I am not endorsing these Brands over other brands, I just do not know of other brands that may work. These items are thin and stretchy unlike similar items designed for swimming, this is key.
Bikini Bottoms Method
This is great for those with less Meat or who are experienced with gaffs and with minimizing their Clitties.
Prepare your tuck and put a string bikini bottom on as a first layer. It should be located further back than intended so that the bottom of the Coin Purse and head of the Clitty will be contained. It’s okay if a little Meat sticks out over the top.
Put a second string bikini on as intended to be worn. This method may not work for everyone and will take some practice. A tie string bikini might help with it’s customizable tension.
This is the method I use for tanning and achieving porn star tan lines.
Conclusion
Compression
Comfort
Warmth
Find what works for you and have fun
SIT ON IT!!!
About the author
I was assigned male at birth. I am in my 40s now. I was deeply closeted until I was 30 years old and just ready for everything to end. I love this world and want others to have an easier time in life than I did. I love you all. See you around you sexy babes <3
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A serious guide for a very sexy purpose
This guide is intended to provide information to help a person who is Assigned Male At Birth (AMAB) the instruction for a comfortable way to be tucked for long periods of time and/or to achieve the smoothest appearance. Various clothing options will be provided as well as the pro’s and con’s of each one.
Disclaimer – This guide is intended for people who are 18 years of age or older. For serious tucking only. People who are pre-Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) or who are not going to change their hormones can experience some initial discomfort, pain, or even physical harm leading to a hernia. Consult your primary care physician at your next regular checkup, they will want to conduct an inspection of your lower abdomen for any potential signs of a future hernia. The test is simple involving some pressure being used outside your body to test for any signs of tears just below your skin. While a hernia is not likely to happen to most folks, it is highly worth a few few extra seconds at your visit to the doctor.
This guide should not be used as your only source of information. Please read the entire document before attempting the tucking method from section 2 of this guide.
Thanks, I hope this helps you get soft and smooth you wonderful people!
Section 1 - Terminology
Many people who want to tuck for extended periods of time do not want to refer to their genitalia by the medical terminology. This guide will use slang terminology instead.
Medical Term Term Used Here Definition Used Here
Testicles Berries Balls
Anus and Colon Bussy The surrounding skin is well shaven and the colon is cleaned and ready for penetration
Scrotum Coin Purse This does not include the testicles
Penis Clitty The shaft and head of the penis
Male Genitalia Meat Meaning the external portion, once the testicles are internal they are not included under “Meat”
? Grower A penis which is smaller when not erect
? Shower A penis which is approximately the same size whether flaccid or erect
Section 2 Tucking method
2-1 Tucking Intro
One of the goals of an All Day Tuck is for your Meat to stay in place and the important factors are proper coverage of the garment, sufficient compression of the Meat, and enough insulation to keep everything warm enough to remain a little moist. At times you may want to add a Boy Short panty or any women’s panty over your chosen tucking garments.
Prolonged tucking requires proper hygiene to avoid a yeast infection. It also requires a regular shave down there to avoid chaffing.
The first few times you tuck using this method there can be some initial discomfort or even pain. Do not push yourself too hard. You may want to ease into the full tuck by attempting this method but stop before following all steps. This can be similar to a little stretching before a physical activity. You will need to assess your level of pain, it should not be extreme.
At times you may want to tuck and experience difficulty because there is too much blood in the spongy tissue of your Clitty or you may not have the proper garments yet to contain a proper tuck. In these cases you can follow this tucking method and simply sit down at the edge of your bed or a chair to reduce the size of your swollen Clitty or just to hold your tuck in place
2-2 Hiding Those Berries!
You may need to crouch or lay on your side for best results. Begin by placing your dominant hand behind your back and between the legs.
Grasp the very bottom of your Coin Purse and give it a little tension by pulling gently downwards.
Maintain that light tension on the Coin Purse and bring it back towards your Bussy.
Your Berries should have risen and now be close to the base of your Clitty.
Using your non-dominant hand and spread your fingers in order to be able to manipulate both of your berries. (Live Long and Prosper hand sign From Star Trek)
Gently encourage your Berries upwards on either side of your Clitty. This is where discomfort or pain may occur.
*For novices. You may wish to focus on one Berry at a time if there is difficulty or pain. Just make a small circular motion on the underside of the Berry/Berries to encourage them upwards. There are small openings to the lower abdomen where Berries drop from in infancy. Those openings are usually smaller than your adult Berries, until they are gently stretched a little.
For those who are going to take HRT, an anti-androgen will be taken until such time as the berries cease to function. At that point they will likely become smaller, softer, and less sensitive. Tucking becomes much easier but reproductive functions will be greatly affect
Keeping your berries in the original position will increase their temperature. This will not have any feminizing effects on your body but will likely decrease your sperm production and I have no idea if it will affect production of Testosterone.
2-3 Getting The Meat Into Position
Once the Berries “pop” into position use your non-dominant hand to push your Clitty back towards your Bussy and against your Coin Purse. Note, you should still be using your dominant hand to maintain the position and tension on your Coin Purse.
The final step for this tucking method and just before you secure your tuck with appropriate clothing is to hold the tuck together by squeezing your thighs together.
The next section covers the popular clothing items used to maintain a tuck in a comfortable and sustainable way.
NO DUCT TAPE!!!
Section 3 Clothing To Secure That Tuck
Gaffs
I use many different brands and do not recommend any one over another. I will say that BBlair offers good quality and it’s Trans Owned! Gaff And Go offers gaffs with thinner waist straps. Pictured here is a transwoman who likely has less meat than average or an expert at minimizing There are many shapes and materials for modern gaffs. Stretch Satin is the most securing material and stretches less than other clothing options listed below, but has an optimal design. A stretch satin gaff is a great choice for beginners and experts alike. Some less desirable aspects are the cheaper models often do not have a narrow thong leaving to much material between the butt cheeks, they are generally 25-35 USD, and are less sexy or less like a woman’s panty.
Most of my 14 years tucking have been with Gaff panties.
No-Show Women’s Stretch Brief Panties
I have no brand opinions for these. You can just go to any women’s department and are likely to find something that works.
This is the most comfortable and least sexy option for securing a tuck, most suitable for a good night’s sleep. Multiple panties are layered with one or two being put on backwards. You may add a final layer with the panties put on in the intended position. You should experiment with panties one and two sizes smaller than recommended for your waist/hip size.
Your Meat may remain secured best if positioned a little more towards your front which can leave a little bulging with some outfits.
Even More Options – Advanced
Stripper Clothing!!! Bonus points!!!
Body Zone and The Beauty Cave offer options I have access to at a store near me. I am not endorsing these Brands over other brands, I just do not know of other brands that may work. These items are thin and stretchy unlike similar items designed for swimming, this is key.
Bikini Bottoms Method
This is great for those with less Meat or who are experienced with gaffs and with minimizing their Clitties.
Prepare your tuck and put a string bikini bottom on as a first layer. It should be located further back than intended so that the bottom of the Coin Purse and head of the Clitty will be contained. It’s okay if a little Meat sticks out over the top.
Put a second string bikini on as intended to be worn. This method may not work for everyone and will take some practice. A tie string bikini might help with it’s customizable tension.
This is the method I use for tanning and achieving porn star tan lines.
Conclusion
Compression
Comfort
Warmth
Find what works for you and have fun
SIT ON IT!!!
About the author
I was assigned male at birth. I am in my 40s now. I was deeply closeted until I was 30 years old and just ready for everything to end. I love this world and want others to have an easier time in life than I did. I love you all. See you around you sexy babes <3
2024.05.20 07:04 Significant-Tower146 Best Centerpoint Scopes
 | submitted by Significant-Tower146 to u/Significant-Tower146 [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/hanxzpkbki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a97b9b2a33326268a179c55737905267d133114 Welcome hunters and shooting enthusiasts! If you're looking to elevate your shooting experience, you've come to the right place. Let's dive into the world of Centerpoint Scopes, a leading brand in hunting optics. We've rounded up some of their top-tier products, each with unique features designed to cater to every shooter's needs. The Top 19 Best Centerpoint Scopes
Reviews🔗Killer Instinct Lumix Speedring Crossbow Scope: Improved Targeting for Huntinghttps://preview.redd.it/h5bajq2cki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=84abfbc6b1ce31df3b82ee257f840537498c2c48 Using the Killer Instinct MSCKI-1020 Lumix Speedring 1.5 to 5 x 32 IR-E Crossbow Scope has been quite an experience. The scope has made hunting much more enjoyable for me, thanks to its amazing abilities to lock onto and track moving targets from vast distances. One of the features that really stood out is the durability of the metal case. This thing has a real tank-like feel to it, resisting impacts and harsh weather as if it was made for it. The spring-loaded covers on the lenses also proved to be quite reliable, keeping the lenses safe and scratchless until I was ready to hunt. The built-in Speed Ring is another aspect of the scope that has impressed me. Making adjustments for my crossbow's speed has been a breeze, and the illuminated reticle is a big help when it comes to sighting in low-light conditions. I particularly appreciate the contrast the red/blue illumination provides. However, there was one downside that I found a little disturbing. The scope came in a condition that made it apparent that someone had used it before. I was not happy with this fact, especially considering I had paid for a brand new product. Overall, the MSCKI-1020 Lumix Speedring 1.5 to 5 x 32 IR-E Crossbow Scope is a product that I would recommend, even with its minor fault. It certainly helped me become a better hunter, and it would do the same for anyone looking to enhance their hunting experience. 🔗Killer Instinct Lumix 4x32 Black Ir-E Crossbow Scope with LED Illuminationhttps://preview.redd.it/lnbgjpgcki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=18565c92db7821448f52d9020ce5cbcb40445293 I recently had the opportunity to try out the Killer Instinct Lumix 4x32 Ir-E Crossbow Scope. This black 1021 model was a great addition to my hunting gear, providing exceptional clarity thanks to its multicoated optics and 1-inch mono tube construction. The fast focus eyepiece is a game-changer, allowing me to quickly adjust my sight even when on the move. One feature that stood out was the illuminated cross-hair reticle, which came in both blue and red. It was perfect for low-light situations, making it easier for me to spot my target. I appreciated the adjustment click value of 0.5 inches at 100 yards, as it gave me accurate and consistent shot adjustments. However, there were a few downsides to this otherwise great scope. The exit pupil was smaller than I would have liked, making it a bit more challenging to see the cross-hair reticle at times. Additionally, the scope's weight was lighter than expected, which might not have been ideal for everyone. Overall, I'm happy with my experience using the Killer Instinct Lumix 4x32 Ir-E Crossbow Scope. It's a quality product with some small drawbacks, but its pros certainly outweigh the cons. If you're in the market for a reliable crossbow scope, this one is definitely worth considering. 🔗Compact Variable Multi-Reticle Crossbow Scope for 300-410 fps Shootinghttps://preview.redd.it/df8zvaucki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f7233e5370b0262af888d76641291526e147c000 As a reviewer who's been using the Dead-Zone Scope from Excalibur, I can confidently say it's a game-changer for crossbow enthusiasts. This 32mm, 1" tube scope offers unparalleled light transmission and clarity that makes it an ideal choice for those who prefer the thrill of hunting. Its variable multi-reticle design suits crossbows shooting in the 300-410 fps range, providing a perfect fit even for experienced hunters. One of my favorite features is the bold crosshairs, which make it easy to sight in, even for us who don't have the sharpest eyesight. The scope provides a crystal-clear view, which has been essential in my hunting endeavors, hitting the bullseye consistently at 60 yards. Installation was a breeze, and the ease of adjusting the focus makes it a standout product. However, one thing that could be improved is the set screw. After a little mishap with the speed ring, it's proven to be a bit tricky to tighten back up. Apart from that, I wholeheartedly recommend this Dead-Zone Scope to anyone looking for an accurate and reliable companion on their hunting adventures. 🔗Powerful Dual-Speed Digiscoping Scope with Extra Low Dispersion Lenshttps://preview.redd.it/ao6gub7dki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=06bc82eb96070c825ec1109ae09626d9312299ba Recently, I had the chance to get my hands on the Knight PT 72mm f/6.0 Ed-Apo Photography Scope from Snypex. This digiscoping scope was a game changer for my photography, allowing me to capture stunning images with my DSLR camera. One of the standout features of this scope was the dual speed focuser. It made it incredibly easy to achieve precise focus, even in low-light conditions. The scope's focal length of 432mm and f-stop of f6.0 provided a beautiful and sharp image, which was especially noticeable when using the optional eyepiece. Moreover, the scope was built to last, with a durable white paint coating on its aluminum housing. The 1/4"-20 tripod mounts at both ends of the shoe made it easy to balance the weight, and the integrated dovetail plate was a handy addition for quick-release heads. However, I did encounter a minor issue when trying to attain focus on stars. Despite the scope's apochromatic doublet lens, I found that achieving proper focus was a bit challenging. Additionally, while the price was reasonable at $160, I noticed that it was listed for a much higher price on the product website. Overall, the Knight PT 72mm f/6.0 Ed-Apo Photography Scope from Snypex is a powerful and versatile tool for photography enthusiasts. With a few minor adjustments, it could become an exceptional choice for both digiscoping and spotting scopes. 🔗Bresser 88-20009 Spotting Scope Camera for Exploring Hard-to-Reach Spaceshttps://preview.redd.it/g1rv7whdki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8db4446214fc011dc903fb161e4b18900ed55e93 Bresser See-It Scope HD: A Handy Tool for Exploring the Hidden Recently, I found myself in a situation where I needed to take a closer look at something in a hard-to-reach place. I grabbed my Bresser See-It Scope HD, set up the flexible coil and bright LED light, and got to work. One of the most impressive things about this scope is its versatility in navigating tight spaces. The coil is flexible and easy to maneuver, allowing me to explore various angles of the subject. Plus, the bright LED light was a game-changer when it came to illuminating dark areas. The 2.31-inch LCD screen is large enough to gather a group of friends or coworkers around to view the action together. I appreciate how the digital camera mounted on the coil makes it easy to record video and take photos without having to switch to a different device. That being said, there were a few downsides to using the Bresser See-It Scope HD. For one, the scope's 1 times magnification might not be enough for those looking for a more detailed view. Additionally, I noticed that the device's image quality wasn't on par with higher-end digital camera options. Overall, the Bresser See-It Scope HD is a handy tool for those seeking accessibility and illumination in hard-to-reach areas. While its digital camera feature leaves room for improvement, the flexibility and bright LED light make it a worthwhile addition to any toolbox. 🔗Affordable 20-60x60 WP Blackhawk Spotting Scope with Rubber Armor and High-Quality Opticshttps://preview.redd.it/2yurib1eki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0f8c1dff1bb1b29e20640a076fdba51962554112 Recently, I found myself using the Barska Blackhawk 20-60x60 Spotting Scope, and I must say it exceeded my expectations. As someone who enjoys outdoor activities, this scope proved to be an essential companion. One of the remarkable features of this scope is its wide variety of models with variable zoom magnifications. It allows me to see objects in greater detail no matter the situation. The multi-coated optics maximize light transmission, resulting in superior brightness and clarity, even during darker hours. In addition, the massive objective lens delivers brighter images in low-light conditions. The rubber armor offers protection and shock absorption, while its ergonomic design enhances overall handling. Its convenient and good portability is a game-changer for someone like me who loves to explore the outdoors. The spotting scope is perfect for all-weather conditions, and the built-in Porro prism system offers greater depth perception and a wider field of view. However, one downside I encountered was difficulty achieving clear focus at the highest zoom level. Fortunately, a slight adjustment in focus corrected the issue, and I was able to enjoy the scope's remarkable performance once again. In conclusion, the Barska Blackhawk 20-60x60 Spotting Scope is a reliable and versatile tool for anyone who appreciates the beauty and detail of the outdoors. Its impressive features, coupled with its budget-friendly price, make it a worthy investment for anyone seeking to enhance their outdoor experiences. 🔗Compact Spotting Scope with 15-45x Magnificationhttps://preview.redd.it/51gkkofeki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d3cb7cf19e9e8774dcb13b529611454dd2c7b924 I recently went on a nature trip and decided to bring along the Bresser Spektar 15-45x60 Zoom Spotting Scope. It was quite compact with dimensions of 365 x 80 x 165 mm and only weighed 3.74 lbs, making it easy to pack into my backpack. When I arrived at my destination, I eagerly unpacked this handy spotting scope and eagerly started looking through it. The first thing that caught my attention about the spotting scope was its versatile magnification range of 15-45x. I didn't have to worry about setting up a tripod as it was conveniently portable. However, it was just as easy to support it by resting it on a parapet, making it even more user-friendly in a variety of settings. As I started using the spotting scope, I couldn't help but notice the outstanding optics of the Bresser Spektar series. The image clarity was top-notch, and the focus knob was surprisingly precise despite being so compact. Despite some minor flaws, like a slightly darker optics in some instances, the overall value of this spotting scope was highly impressive. After trying it out at a range of distances and in different light conditions, I was quite impressed and ended up highly recommending this spotting scope, especially for outdoor enthusiasts on a budget, who are still looking for an outstanding, affordable tool for their hobby. Its ability to deliver a crisp visual experience even at high magnifications set it apart from the competitors in the same price range. The spotting scope came with a ready-to-use bag, a user manual, and was available for a store pickup at Walmart, which further added to the convenience of the purchase. Overall, I found the Bresser Spektar 15-45x60 Zoom Spotting Scope to be a great companion during my exploration of nature's beauty, and I would highly recommend it for those seeking impressive optics without breaking the bank. 🔗Axcel AVX-41 Modular 8x Scope Lens Combohttps://preview.redd.it/cmdreg3fki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0ce0d6018553625403afa6dec88e48a9b5193b08 Recently I was introduced to the Axcel AVX-41 Scope Lens Combo 8x while attending a hunting seminar. I was intrigued by its modular scope series design, as it claimed to offer various adjustment options for the perfect hunting experience. The 41mm scope included in the combo has a number of components to choose from, such as sun shades, torque indicators, and interchangeable ring pins. Plus, the rheostat cover allows for control of brightness across various lighting scenarios. What I appreciated the most about this combo was its ambidextrous design and the versatile Doc's Choice lens it came with. The various powers of the lens make it suitable for multiple hunting situations. Overall, the Axcel AVX-41 Scope Lens Combo 8x exceeded my expectations and has become my go-to scope while trekking through the wilderness. Highly recommended! 🔗Versatile Spotting Scope with Smartphone Adapter and Bluetooth Remotehttps://preview.redd.it/je47odcfki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5c9ed397bfa02921a70330cc1bcbca2ec69c51ac I recently went on a hike in the mountains and saw a beautiful raptor perched high above on a rocky cliff. With the Popular Science PS LandScout spotting scope, I was able to get a closer look. The image was crystal clear, and it felt like I could almost touch the raptor. The scope's adjustable magnification from 20x to 60x made it easy to spot even the smallest of details, which was amazing when observing the stars at night. It also came with a smartphone adapter and a Bluetooth remote, allowing me to capture stunning photos and videos of my adventures. The only downside was, it was a bit heavy, but it was worth it for the incredible views. 🔗Axcel AVX-41 Scope Lens Combo: Customizable, High-Power Optics for Hunting and Shootinghttps://preview.redd.it/musxy7vfki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3a1eb5e8fdd093497a3b3d7e1b5c8ec694a94fdb I recently had the chance to try out the Axcel AVX-41 Scope Lens Combo in my archery practice, and I have to say, it was a game-changer. The 41mm scope offered me an impressive level of adjustability thanks to its modular design, which allowed me to customize my setup to perfection. One of the standout features was the inclusion of the Doc's Choice lens, available in various powers. It made a significant difference in my accuracy, and I could easily see the target even at longer distances. Additionally, the #10-32 stainless steel rod and T Connector were a great addition, providing extra durability and stability to my setup. Although the combo offers a wide array of components for customization, I did find that it might be a bit overwhelming for archers new to scope adjustments. However, with a little bit of guidance, it's definitely a versatile and reliable choice for experienced archers looking to up their game. 🔗Versatile, Waterproof Condor Spotting Scope for Outdoor Adventureshttps://preview.redd.it/phvy446gki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a3462360f66daf3b1d27b91d2695c1cacd056852 Let me share my delightful experience with the Bresser Condor 20-60x85 Spotting Scope. This little gem has quickly become my go-to companion on nature walks, sporting events, and even leisurely birdwatching trips. The fully multicoated optics allow for a bright and high-contrast picture, which I truly appreciate. The spotting scope is waterproof and, thanks to the 240-degree rotatable body, I can adjust the angle effortlessly for better observation. The stepless magnification feature also ensures sharp images at a wide range of magnification; just what I need. Despite its impressive features, this spotting scope is remarkably lightweight at just 1750g. And let's not forget, the kit includes a convenient bag with shoulder straps for easy transport, a cleaning cloth, and a comprehensive manual to guide you through your new spectacle. 🔗Top-Rated Sky Watcher ProED 80mm Apochromatic Refractor Telescope for Stunning Astronomical Viewshttps://preview.redd.it/i2tj0tjgki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a5a0bdc8b7d7ce34576258264409e68074cd86f5 Picture yourself on a clear, starry night, gazing up at the sky with the Sky Watcher ProED 80mm Doublet APO Refractor Telescope tucked under your arm. The experience of using this telescope is nothing short of breathtaking, transporting you to a world beyond our own. As you turn the knobs on the terrestrial scope, the image comes into sharp focus, revealing intricate details of the celestial objects before you. The stunning optics of this telescope are second to none, offering up an unrivaled view of the night sky. One of the standout features of this telescope is its versatility. Whether you're observing the wonders of our solar system or peering into the depths of the cosmos, this telescope delivers with ease. Its slim, sleek design is perfect for those who value portability and convenience, making it a popular choice for amateur astronomers and stargazing enthusiasts alike. However, like any product, the ProED 80mm Doublet APO Refractor Telescope is not without its drawbacks. While its optical performance is top-tier, the focuser can be somewhat finicky, requiring a bit of extra effort to dial in a precise focus. And while the telescope comes with a good quality carrying case, it's worth mentioning that it can be a bit snug, making it a bit of a challenge to fit the scope inside. Despite these minor flaws, the ProED 80mm Doublet APO Refractor Telescope offers a truly unforgettable experience. Its high-quality optics, versatility, and stunning performance make it a top choice for anyone looking to explore the depths of the universe from the comfort of their own backyard. 🔗Sky-Watcher StarTravel 120mm Refractor Telescope: Portable, Affordable, and Versatile Stargazing Companionhttps://preview.redd.it/7xc1v81hki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b08e56337e4bc35a991d702a1f7594e48e3a7920 I recently had the opportunity to use the Sky-Watcher StarTravel 120mm f/5 telescope, and I must say, I was impressed with its performance and ease of use. The optical tube assembly is made of high-quality materials, and the images it produces are crisp and vibrant. The fast f/5 focal ratio allows for capturing lunar and solar eclipses, as well as stunning views of terrestrial objects. One of the standout features of this telescope is its portability. Weighing only about 8.6 lb, it can be carried and easily transported in its compressed 25-inch length. The quick setup process is a breeze, making it perfect for both beginners and more advanced astronomers. However, one downside I noticed is the alt-azimuth mount, which feels a bit lightweight. It also requires a solid equatorial mount and guiding method for longer exposure astrophotography. Despite these minor issues, I believe the StarTravel 120mm is an excellent choice for anyone looking for a beginner's telescope, or someone who wants a reliable and portable option for observing the night sky. 🔗Sky-Watcher 150mm Maksutov-Cassegrain Premium Telescope for Astrophotography and Planetary Observationhttps://preview.redd.it/z123xzdhki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a4e67444ce0f8d7e9c7660824d6864ab396f582d As a telescope enthusiast, I can attest to the impressive features of the Sky Watcher 150mm Maksutov Cassegrain Telescope. This telescope is perfect for those who are looking for a balance between high-quality optics and portability. It's a dream come true for anyone who wants to observe celestial objects without lugging around a heavy and cumbersome device. One of the remarkable features of this telescope is its fully baffled tube, which ensures a dark and clear view of the night sky. The baffles prevent stray light from interfering with the viewing experience, making it ideal for stargazing and planetary observation. The long focal length of this telescope offers increased detail and magnification compared to other models, delivering crisp and high-contrast views of distant celestial bodies. The Sky Watcher 150mm Maksutov Cassegrain Telescope also boasts exceptional quality optics. The primary mirror features borosilicate glass with an aluminum coating and a quartz overcoat, producing 94% reflectivity. The corrector plate uses proprietary Metallic High-Transmission Coatings (MHTC), delivering professional-grade optics and a unique viewing experience. This telescope is not only a delight for seasoned astronomers but also a great choice for beginners who are looking to explore the wonders of the night sky. Its impressive bundle of accessories makes it an even better value for money. The package includes a 28mm 2-inch eyepiece, a 2-inch 90-degree star diagonal, and a 9x50 straight-through finderscope, ensuring that you have everything you need to start your stargazing journey. In conclusion, the Sky Watcher 150mm Maksutov Cassegrain Telescope is a fantastic choice for anyone who wants a high-quality telescope that's also portable and easy to use. It may not be the most advanced model in the market, but for its price, it's hard to beat. Overall, I highly recommend this telescope to anyone looking to dive into the world of astronomy. Buyer's GuideCenterpoint Scopes are an excellent option for hunters, shooters, and outdoor enthusiasts who are looking for high-quality, reliable, and accurate scopes. These scopes come with various features that cater to different preferences and needs. This guide will help you understand the essential features, considerations, and advice when choosing a Centerpoint Scope.Features to Considerhttps://preview.redd.it/95574cfkki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e973991abd9e3b7740ea7f0f9a37e0d806db4bb4 MagnificationMagnification is a crucial factor when choosing a Centerpoint Scope. The magnification determines how much the object appears to be enlarged through the scope. Higher magnification offers better precision, but it may also lead to more image distortion. Consider the magnification range that suits your needs and shooting distance.Objective Lens DiameterThe objective lens diameter determines the amount of light that enters the scope, affecting brightness and clarity. A larger objective lens diameter allows more light to enter, but it may also increase the scope's weight and size. Choose an objective lens diameter that balances light gathering capability and portability.Field of ViewThe field of view (FOV) is the area observable through the scope. A wider FOV is beneficial for tracking and locating fast-moving targets, but it may compromise precision. Choose a Centerpoint Scope with an FOV that suits your shooting style and target type. https://preview.redd.it/47y79oukki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8848f6bacc75bfbb0070f51c8ea54ce6b431c1a5 Eye ReliefEye relief is the distance between your eye and the scope's eyepiece for comfortable viewing. Insufficient eye relief may cause eye strain or injury. Opt for a Centerpoint Scope with a generous eye relief distance that accommodates the use of shooting glasses.ReticleThe reticle is a crosshair that helps you aim and estimate distance. Different reticles provide various advantages, such as improved target acquisition, holdover, or range estimation. Choose a Centerpoint Scope with a reticle that suits your shooting style and target type.Construction and DurabilityA well-built Centerpoint Scope can withstand rough handling and harsh weather conditions. Look for features such as waterproofing, fog-proofing, and shock-resistance to ensure the scope maintains accuracy and reliability. https://preview.redd.it/rx63teflki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0d8905bf5e7e3ea8d89f5319eee1e54ce3cf1cb6 Choosing the Right Centerpoint ScopeWhen selecting the best Centerpoint Scope for your needs, consider your shooting style, target type, and environmental conditions. Take into account your budget, as well, since different models may offer varying levels of performance and features.Proper Care and MaintenanceTo ensure longevity and accuracy, always clean and store your Centerpoint Scope properly. Follow the manufacturer's guidelines for maintenance, avoid subjecting it to extreme temperature changes, and protect it from sudden impacts and vibrations.Centerpoint Scopes offer a variety of features and benefits for shooters and hunters. By understanding the essential features and considerations, you can make an informed decision when selecting the right Centerpoint Scope for your needs. Remember to always consider proper care and maintenance to ensure its performance and durability. FAQhttps://preview.redd.it/v7oznf1mki1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fdf65c3e31ea86f327a5d6d6a8f5013a62d1a219 What are Centerpoint Scopes?Centerpoint scopes are high-quality, affordable gun scopes designed for hunting, target shooting, and long-range precision shooting. These scopes are known for their durability, ease of use, and excellent features that make them suitable for a wide range of shooters.Who manufactures Centerpoint Scopes?Centerpoint scopes are manufactured by Optics Technologies, a company that specializes in designing and producing various types of optics, including rifle scopes, spotting scopes, and binoculars. They focus on delivering high-quality optics at competitive price points, making them accessible to a broader audience.What are the features of Centerpoint Scopes?
What types of Centerpoint Scopes are available?Centerpoint offers a wide range of scopes designed for different shooting needs and preferences, including:
What is the warranty on Centerpoint Scopes?Centerpoint scopes are backed by a limited lifetime warranty. If you experience any issues with the scope's performance or construction, you can contact the manufacturer for assistance.Where can I purchase Centerpoint Scopes?Centerpoint scopes can be purchased directly from the manufacturer's website or from authorized dealers and retailers specializing in hunting and shooting optics. It is recommended to research the dealer's reputation and customer feedback before making a purchase to ensure you receive an authentic, high-quality product.As an Amazon™ Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. |
2024.05.20 07:04 theconstellinguist An Explorative Study of Financial Manipulation of Working Women Through Discourse
https://www.jbt.org.pk/index.php/jbt/article/view/201/180
Financial manipulation refers to the unfair use of someone’s labor and financial resources
The present study aims to find out the role of language in financial manipulation of working women. Financial manipulation refers to the unfair use of someone’s labor and financial resources
.
The objectives of the present study are to explore the reasons behind women‟s financial manipulation.
Women are manipulated into giving the financial power to men who then devalue their earning ability. They often do that to avoid being called selfish. That shouldn’t inherently be motivating but it is. This study looks into why insults and slander are sufficient to let people give up their power and decide for themselves where their money goes.
To find out how the working women are trapped into the alluring web of discourse that leads them to ignore their own needs and put their income in the hands of male members of family
In Pakistan, historically men take charge of all the decisions related to money. Language was used to manipulate them.
The study postulates the hypothesis that in context of Pakistan, the working women consciously or unconsciously fall a victim to the financial manipulation in order to be accepted and adjusted in the family where the male members take the charge of all decisions especially related to money.
In this regard, language is employed as a tool of persuasion and manipulation.
Non-physical abuse was used to take the financial power away from the female earner to the male simply for being male. Non-physical abuse was how this happened, and women acted mainly on fear of not being heaped in with the slander and abuse thrown at those who did not give in.
According to Miller (1995), the types of non-physical abuse experienced by women include psychological, economic, social and emotional ones.
Financial abusers that are male restrict the use of financial resources and refuse to give the power to women even if they were the ones who earned the power. This right to take what is not earned is kept in place through primarily emotional, psychological, and social abuse by the men. Attacks against feminists, calling them selfish or other slander seems to be a big one, especially when these women show they can carry themselves and spend money on themselves and their dreams without shame or guilt. That is a huge threat to them so they do everything they can to slander it.
He has shown that the economic abuse involves victim to be economically dependent on the „perpetuator‟. It includes restricting the use of financial resources and refusing the power to women to take any finance related decision.Evan (2007) has described that in more than half of the abusive relationships women are denied
An access to capital resources and are made financially dependent.
The women of South Asia are economically far behind the men; they have less opportunities for employment and less control on the use of their own income, the very income they made.
Rabbani, Qureshi and Rizvi (2008) studied the various forms of
domestic violence done to the victims in Karachi. It came out that the husbands used tactics like refusal to pay the utility bills and stealing the
Jewels of women. The women in South Asia are economically far behind the men as they have less opportunities of employment and have less control on the use of their own income (Bhan, 2001; Nandi and Platt, 2010 Kishor and Gupta, 2009).
Women again repeatedly gave into to social, psychological and emotional abuse, repeatedly giving up their power simply because of these abuses threatening them and at the ready if they didn’t.
The studies carried so far explored the financial abuse of women in cases where the women are fully conscious of the fact that they are manipulated but there are also the cases of manipulation when the women become sufferers willingly as with the help of linguistic strategies they are made to accept certain roles that they would not have accepted otherwise
Finance is a core need for the survival of human beings. The partitioning of finance for anyone other than the original beneficiary towards men is inherently misogynistic and since it is core to the survival, depending on the amount, a hate crime if distributed to men that aren’t the woman who is the intended direct beneficiary of her own money.
Finance is the core need for survival of human beings and for an active participation in the established social system of the world
.
Men therefore keep their supreme social status over women in place not through merit but using abusive compulsion to force women to give up their power in repeated mechanistic process
It is being observed that women have internalized their duties to earn and to contribute to the financial matters of the family. However the male members of family do impose decisions particularly related to finance
owing to the supreme social status that they enjoy
.
Holding, controlling and destroying bank accounts were seen as part of abusive financial manipulation of someone who considered themselves “in charge” of the woman at hand, whether or not they were.
Littwin (2012) also explains the three types of men who strives to achieve the financial control are
:
Holding of bank accounts
of females
Hold of women‟s money
An allowance of money to the women
Threatening women psychologically is how male members exert their power. Men only seemed to value the women for the underpaid/unpaid work they did in the family, calling it “being the most responsible family member” and showed no appreciation of anything else or any willingness to just show their own responsibility and contribute their fair share.
In case of working women, the male members of family exert their power of discourse to threaten women psychologically. It came out that the women are appreciated less for other traits as much as they are admired for being the most responsible members of family.
Women need financial control to make their dreams come true, but time and time again they were successfully manipulated by slander, psychological abuse, social abuse, and emotional abuse especially vitriol aimed at their successfully financial independent peers trying to make these women seem unappealing or selfish. It worked almost every time, showing lack of solidarity and giving in to gaslighting is a huge threat to female financial independence and the danger of the female misogynist to female financial independence.
The women need financial control in order to make their dreams true. The manipulative strategies are implied to subjugate women and discourse comes out to be the most effective one. The results declared the fact that the women are conscious of the fact that they are economically abused but they were afraid of the old set notions prevailing in the society that defined stereotypical roles of women and announce the superiority of men. Owing to it, the working women hardly resist this manipulation.
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Financial manipulation refers to the unfair use of someone’s labor and financial resources
The present study aims to find out the role of language in financial manipulation of working women. Financial manipulation refers to the unfair use of someone’s labor and financial resources
.
The objectives of the present study are to explore the reasons behind women‟s financial manipulation.
Women are manipulated into giving the financial power to men who then devalue their earning ability. They often do that to avoid being called selfish. That shouldn’t inherently be motivating but it is. This study looks into why insults and slander are sufficient to let people give up their power and decide for themselves where their money goes.
To find out how the working women are trapped into the alluring web of discourse that leads them to ignore their own needs and put their income in the hands of male members of family
In Pakistan, historically men take charge of all the decisions related to money. Language was used to manipulate them.
The study postulates the hypothesis that in context of Pakistan, the working women consciously or unconsciously fall a victim to the financial manipulation in order to be accepted and adjusted in the family where the male members take the charge of all decisions especially related to money.
In this regard, language is employed as a tool of persuasion and manipulation.
Non-physical abuse was used to take the financial power away from the female earner to the male simply for being male. Non-physical abuse was how this happened, and women acted mainly on fear of not being heaped in with the slander and abuse thrown at those who did not give in.
According to Miller (1995), the types of non-physical abuse experienced by women include psychological, economic, social and emotional ones.
Financial abusers that are male restrict the use of financial resources and refuse to give the power to women even if they were the ones who earned the power. This right to take what is not earned is kept in place through primarily emotional, psychological, and social abuse by the men. Attacks against feminists, calling them selfish or other slander seems to be a big one, especially when these women show they can carry themselves and spend money on themselves and their dreams without shame or guilt. That is a huge threat to them so they do everything they can to slander it.
He has shown that the economic abuse involves victim to be economically dependent on the „perpetuator‟. It includes restricting the use of financial resources and refusing the power to women to take any finance related decision.Evan (2007) has described that in more than half of the abusive relationships women are denied
An access to capital resources and are made financially dependent.
The women of South Asia are economically far behind the men; they have less opportunities for employment and less control on the use of their own income, the very income they made.
Rabbani, Qureshi and Rizvi (2008) studied the various forms of
domestic violence done to the victims in Karachi. It came out that the husbands used tactics like refusal to pay the utility bills and stealing the
Jewels of women. The women in South Asia are economically far behind the men as they have less opportunities of employment and have less control on the use of their own income (Bhan, 2001; Nandi and Platt, 2010 Kishor and Gupta, 2009).
Women again repeatedly gave into to social, psychological and emotional abuse, repeatedly giving up their power simply because of these abuses threatening them and at the ready if they didn’t.
The studies carried so far explored the financial abuse of women in cases where the women are fully conscious of the fact that they are manipulated but there are also the cases of manipulation when the women become sufferers willingly as with the help of linguistic strategies they are made to accept certain roles that they would not have accepted otherwise
Finance is a core need for the survival of human beings. The partitioning of finance for anyone other than the original beneficiary towards men is inherently misogynistic and since it is core to the survival, depending on the amount, a hate crime if distributed to men that aren’t the woman who is the intended direct beneficiary of her own money.
Finance is the core need for survival of human beings and for an active participation in the established social system of the world
.
Men therefore keep their supreme social status over women in place not through merit but using abusive compulsion to force women to give up their power in repeated mechanistic process
It is being observed that women have internalized their duties to earn and to contribute to the financial matters of the family. However the male members of family do impose decisions particularly related to finance
owing to the supreme social status that they enjoy
.
Holding, controlling and destroying bank accounts were seen as part of abusive financial manipulation of someone who considered themselves “in charge” of the woman at hand, whether or not they were.
Littwin (2012) also explains the three types of men who strives to achieve the financial control are
:
Holding of bank accounts
of females
Hold of women‟s money
An allowance of money to the women
Threatening women psychologically is how male members exert their power. Men only seemed to value the women for the underpaid/unpaid work they did in the family, calling it “being the most responsible family member” and showed no appreciation of anything else or any willingness to just show their own responsibility and contribute their fair share.
In case of working women, the male members of family exert their power of discourse to threaten women psychologically. It came out that the women are appreciated less for other traits as much as they are admired for being the most responsible members of family.
Women need financial control to make their dreams come true, but time and time again they were successfully manipulated by slander, psychological abuse, social abuse, and emotional abuse especially vitriol aimed at their successfully financial independent peers trying to make these women seem unappealing or selfish. It worked almost every time, showing lack of solidarity and giving in to gaslighting is a huge threat to female financial independence and the danger of the female misogynist to female financial independence.
The women need financial control in order to make their dreams true. The manipulative strategies are implied to subjugate women and discourse comes out to be the most effective one. The results declared the fact that the women are conscious of the fact that they are economically abused but they were afraid of the old set notions prevailing in the society that defined stereotypical roles of women and announce the superiority of men. Owing to it, the working women hardly resist this manipulation.
2024.05.20 07:01 Marc_wastheone The Comprehensive Dynamics of Showering
Showering is a multifaceted hygienic practice that integrates numerous complex processes involving physics, chemistry, and physiology, all orchestrated within a controlled aquatic environment. The typical environment for showering is engineered through a sophisticated plumbing system designed to deliver water via an elevated nozzle or series of nozzles known collectively as a showerhead. The manipulation of valves or taps that regulate the flow and temperature of the water is critical, ensuring an optimal balance for both thermoregulation and mechanical cleansing of the epidermis.
When an individual initiates the showering process by adjusting these valves, they enable the precise control of water temperature and pressure. The interaction between water, modifiable to various thermal states, and the skin—the body’s largest organ—occurs through laminar and turbulent flow dynamics. These dynamics enhance the mechanical agitation necessary to dislodge sebum, sweat, dead skin cells, and particulate matter accumulated from daily environmental exposure. Gravitational forces aid in transporting these impurities away from the body, directing them towards the drainage system that efficiently disposes of such waste.
The mechanical aspect of showering is augmented by a significant chemical component involving surfactants and emulsifying agents found in cleansing products like soaps and shampoos. These agents reduce water's surface tension, allowing it to more effectively penetrate and dissolve oils and hydrophobic substances present on the skin and hair. Surfactants operate by forming micelles around oil particles, encapsulating them, and facilitating their removal during rinsing. These chemical interactions are pivotal in disrupting the lipid bilayer of microorganisms, thereby exerting a powerful antimicrobial effect, which is essential for maintaining overall hygiene and health.
The physiological response to showering is equally intricate. Exposure to varying water temperatures induces vasodilation or vasoconstriction, contingent on whether the water is warm or cold. Warm water typically causes blood vessels to dilate, enhancing blood flow and promoting a sense of relaxation. In contrast, cold water can cause vasoconstriction, which invigorates the body by increasing alertness. Thermoreceptors in the skin detect these temperature changes, triggering a cascade of neural responses that influence the body's homeostasis and contribute to the subjective experience of comfort or rejuvenation.
The act of scrubbing during a shower adds another layer of complexity. Repetitive rubbing and scrubbing the skin stimulates the somatosensory system, potentially triggering the release of endorphins, the body's natural painkillers, leading to a sensation of well-being. Tactile stimulation from scrubbing also promotes lymphatic drainage, aiding in toxin removal from the body and enhancing overall immune response. This physical interaction with the skin is not merely about cleanliness but also plays a role in maintaining physiological and psychological balance.
Moreover, showering has significant psychological benefits. The routine can provide a meditative and reflective time, allowing individuals to mentally prepare for the day ahead or unwind from daily activities. The combination of physical cleansing and mental clarity achieved through showering can significantly contribute to an individual's mental health and emotional stability. This dual benefit underscores the importance of showering beyond mere hygiene.
From a biochemical perspective, the interaction between water and skin initiates numerous reactions. When water contacts the skin, it softens the keratinocytes—the primary type of cells in the epidermis—making it easier to remove dirt and dead cells. The role of water temperature in these processes is critical; hot water can open pores and allow deeper cleansing, while cold water can close pores and tighten the skin, offering different therapeutic effects.
The use of various cleansing products introduces additional chemical interactions. Shampoos and conditioners, often containing specific pH-balanced formulas, interact with hair cuticles, ensuring that the hair shaft remains smooth and manageable. These products frequently contain proteins, vitamins, and minerals designed to nourish the hair and scalp, emphasizing the showering process's role in comprehensive personal care.
Additionally, the aromatherapy aspect of showering should not be overlooked. Many shower products include essential oils and fragrances that can affect mood and well-being. Lavender, for instance, is known for its calming properties, while citrus scents can invigorate and energize. These olfactory stimuli interact with the brain's limbic system, further contributing to the psychological benefits of showering.
Environmental factors also play a role in the showering experience. The design and ambiance of the shower space—lighting, color schemes, and even the materials used—can influence the overall experience. Modern shower systems often include features such as adjustable spray patterns, rainfall showerheads, and even integrated music systems, all designed to enhance the sensory experience and provide a personalized bathing ritual.
Water conservation and sustainability are increasingly important considerations in the design and use of shower systems. Innovations such as low-flow showerheads and systems that recycle greywater are becoming more prevalent, reflecting a growing awareness of environmental impact. These advancements ensure that the practice of showering can be maintained sustainably without compromising the comprehensive benefits it offers.
The societal and cultural dimensions of showering are also noteworthy. Showering practices vary widely across different cultures and historical periods, reflecting diverse beliefs about cleanliness, health, and social norms. In some cultures, communal bathing practices are an integral part of social life and tradition, highlighting the role of bathing in community bonding and cultural identity.
From a historical perspective, the evolution of bathing practices—from ancient Roman baths to modern showers—illustrates the changing perceptions of hygiene and the technological advancements that have shaped our current practices. Innovations in plumbing and water heating have transformed showering from a luxury into a daily necessity for many people worldwide.
Showering also intersects with healthcare and therapeutic practices. Hydrotherapy, the use of water in various forms to treat illness and maintain health, has been practiced for centuries. Modern adaptations of hydrotherapy can be found in therapeutic showers designed to aid in rehabilitation and recovery, showcasing the intersection of hygiene and medical care.
In conclusion, showering is a complex and multi-dimensional practice that extends far beyond basic hygiene. It involves an intricate interplay of physical, chemical, and physiological processes that contribute to overall cleanliness, health, and well-being. The benefits of showering are holistic, encompassing physical cleansing, mental clarity, relaxation, invigoration, and even social and cultural significance. As such, it remains a fundamental daily ritual that supports both individual health and broader societal practices.
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When an individual initiates the showering process by adjusting these valves, they enable the precise control of water temperature and pressure. The interaction between water, modifiable to various thermal states, and the skin—the body’s largest organ—occurs through laminar and turbulent flow dynamics. These dynamics enhance the mechanical agitation necessary to dislodge sebum, sweat, dead skin cells, and particulate matter accumulated from daily environmental exposure. Gravitational forces aid in transporting these impurities away from the body, directing them towards the drainage system that efficiently disposes of such waste.
The mechanical aspect of showering is augmented by a significant chemical component involving surfactants and emulsifying agents found in cleansing products like soaps and shampoos. These agents reduce water's surface tension, allowing it to more effectively penetrate and dissolve oils and hydrophobic substances present on the skin and hair. Surfactants operate by forming micelles around oil particles, encapsulating them, and facilitating their removal during rinsing. These chemical interactions are pivotal in disrupting the lipid bilayer of microorganisms, thereby exerting a powerful antimicrobial effect, which is essential for maintaining overall hygiene and health.
The physiological response to showering is equally intricate. Exposure to varying water temperatures induces vasodilation or vasoconstriction, contingent on whether the water is warm or cold. Warm water typically causes blood vessels to dilate, enhancing blood flow and promoting a sense of relaxation. In contrast, cold water can cause vasoconstriction, which invigorates the body by increasing alertness. Thermoreceptors in the skin detect these temperature changes, triggering a cascade of neural responses that influence the body's homeostasis and contribute to the subjective experience of comfort or rejuvenation.
The act of scrubbing during a shower adds another layer of complexity. Repetitive rubbing and scrubbing the skin stimulates the somatosensory system, potentially triggering the release of endorphins, the body's natural painkillers, leading to a sensation of well-being. Tactile stimulation from scrubbing also promotes lymphatic drainage, aiding in toxin removal from the body and enhancing overall immune response. This physical interaction with the skin is not merely about cleanliness but also plays a role in maintaining physiological and psychological balance.
Moreover, showering has significant psychological benefits. The routine can provide a meditative and reflective time, allowing individuals to mentally prepare for the day ahead or unwind from daily activities. The combination of physical cleansing and mental clarity achieved through showering can significantly contribute to an individual's mental health and emotional stability. This dual benefit underscores the importance of showering beyond mere hygiene.
From a biochemical perspective, the interaction between water and skin initiates numerous reactions. When water contacts the skin, it softens the keratinocytes—the primary type of cells in the epidermis—making it easier to remove dirt and dead cells. The role of water temperature in these processes is critical; hot water can open pores and allow deeper cleansing, while cold water can close pores and tighten the skin, offering different therapeutic effects.
The use of various cleansing products introduces additional chemical interactions. Shampoos and conditioners, often containing specific pH-balanced formulas, interact with hair cuticles, ensuring that the hair shaft remains smooth and manageable. These products frequently contain proteins, vitamins, and minerals designed to nourish the hair and scalp, emphasizing the showering process's role in comprehensive personal care.
Additionally, the aromatherapy aspect of showering should not be overlooked. Many shower products include essential oils and fragrances that can affect mood and well-being. Lavender, for instance, is known for its calming properties, while citrus scents can invigorate and energize. These olfactory stimuli interact with the brain's limbic system, further contributing to the psychological benefits of showering.
Environmental factors also play a role in the showering experience. The design and ambiance of the shower space—lighting, color schemes, and even the materials used—can influence the overall experience. Modern shower systems often include features such as adjustable spray patterns, rainfall showerheads, and even integrated music systems, all designed to enhance the sensory experience and provide a personalized bathing ritual.
Water conservation and sustainability are increasingly important considerations in the design and use of shower systems. Innovations such as low-flow showerheads and systems that recycle greywater are becoming more prevalent, reflecting a growing awareness of environmental impact. These advancements ensure that the practice of showering can be maintained sustainably without compromising the comprehensive benefits it offers.
The societal and cultural dimensions of showering are also noteworthy. Showering practices vary widely across different cultures and historical periods, reflecting diverse beliefs about cleanliness, health, and social norms. In some cultures, communal bathing practices are an integral part of social life and tradition, highlighting the role of bathing in community bonding and cultural identity.
From a historical perspective, the evolution of bathing practices—from ancient Roman baths to modern showers—illustrates the changing perceptions of hygiene and the technological advancements that have shaped our current practices. Innovations in plumbing and water heating have transformed showering from a luxury into a daily necessity for many people worldwide.
Showering also intersects with healthcare and therapeutic practices. Hydrotherapy, the use of water in various forms to treat illness and maintain health, has been practiced for centuries. Modern adaptations of hydrotherapy can be found in therapeutic showers designed to aid in rehabilitation and recovery, showcasing the intersection of hygiene and medical care.
In conclusion, showering is a complex and multi-dimensional practice that extends far beyond basic hygiene. It involves an intricate interplay of physical, chemical, and physiological processes that contribute to overall cleanliness, health, and well-being. The benefits of showering are holistic, encompassing physical cleansing, mental clarity, relaxation, invigoration, and even social and cultural significance. As such, it remains a fundamental daily ritual that supports both individual health and broader societal practices.
2024.05.20 07:00 NanoMod General Info and Weekly Discussion
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- Nano can be purchased at various Exchanges. More info in this guide or main site
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2024.05.20 06:59 Camp-North 2 Week Sleepaway Camp
The Benefits of a 2 Week Sleepaway Camp: An Adventure of Growth and Fun
Introduction
Sleepaway camps have long been a staple of childhood summers, offering a unique blend of adventure, independence, and learning. Among these, two-week sleepaway camps strike an ideal balance, providing enough time for children to immerse themselves in the camp experience while still fitting into a busy family schedule. These camps offer a myriad of benefits, from fostering independence to creating lifelong memories.Building Independence and Responsibility
One of the primary benefits of a two-week sleepaway camp is the opportunity for children to develop independence. Being away from home encourages kids to manage their daily routines, make decisions, and solve problems on their own. This autonomy builds confidence and a sense of responsibility. Campers learn to wake up on time, organize their belongings, and navigate their day without direct parental oversight, which translates into valuable life skills.Social Skills and Lifelong Friendships
Sleepaway camps are a social melting pot where children from diverse backgrounds come together. This environment fosters the development of social skills as campers interact, collaborate, and live with peers. Shared activities such as team sports, campfires, and group projects create strong bonds, often leading to lifelong friendships. The camp setting, free from the usual social hierarchies of school, allows children to express themselves more freely and build authentic connections.Exposure to New Activities and Skills
Two-week camps are packed with a variety of activities that may be new to many campers. From archery and rock climbing to arts and crafts and performing arts, the range of activities is designed to engage different interests and talents. This exposure helps children discover new passions and talents they might not encounter in their everyday lives. Learning new skills also boosts self-esteem and encourages a growth mindset.Emotional Growth and Resilience
Living away from home, even for two weeks, can be challenging for some children. This experience, however, is invaluable for emotional growth. Campers learn to cope with homesickness, navigate conflicts, and adapt to new environments. These challenges build resilience and emotional intelligence, preparing children to handle life's ups and downs more effectively. Additionally, the support of counselors and peers provides a safety net that helps children feel secure while facing these challenges.Disconnecting from Technology
In today's digital age, a break from screens is a significant benefit of sleepaway camps. Two-week camps typically have limited access to electronic devices, encouraging children to engage with the natural world and each other. This digital detox promotes physical activity, creativity, and face-to-face interactions. Campers often find joy in simple pleasures like hiking, swimming, and stargazing, which can be more fulfilling than digital entertainment.Cultivating a Love for Nature
Many sleepaway camps are situated in beautiful natural settings, offering children a chance to appreciate the great outdoors. Activities such as hiking, canoeing, and nature walks immerse campers in nature, fostering a sense of environmental stewardship. This connection to nature can inspire a lifelong appreciation and respect for the environment, encouraging sustainable habits and a love for outdoor activities.Conclusion
A two-week sleepaway camp is more than just a fun escape; it is a transformative experience that contributes to a child's development in numerous ways. From fostering independence and resilience to building social skills and a love for nature, the benefits are profound and lasting. For parents seeking a well-rounded, enriching summer experience for their children, a two-week sleepaway camp is an excellent choice that promises growth, adventure, and cherished memories.Camp North Star is situated in beautiful Poland Spring, Maine, surrounded by many beautiful and natural landscapes that we get to share and enjoy with our campers. Trips are offered every session and happen on the days we are not on our normal activity schedule. Trip days are a time to relax and enjoy time with friends and bunkmates.
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