Jim shriner wife with rheumatoid arthritis

Getting on your knees

2024.06.01 07:03 Sillyface29 Getting on your knees

Hey guys this is my first time commenting and I was wondering if anyone with rheumatoid arthritis was ever able to squat or get back on there knees I’m 20 f and it feels so defeating that I can’t do it. Any advice?
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2024.06.01 05:46 DevarDavis22 Blaze 3: Demonic Arc 5: Immortal Sins⁶

Blaze 3: Demonic Arc 5: Immortal Sins⁶
Last time Buzz was shown destroying. He sees his past life right before him and snaps. He sees a familiar face. A woman who resembles Heather. Buzz wanted to marry her. What is her response? Yes or no? Find out right now. Harper" I...I do." Buzz" Excellent. My dear. We'll get married tomorrow. As soon as possible. For now it's time to get your dress." People arrive in the location and so do the Justice Drivers. Buzz quickly covers his mouth. Buzz" Hey we're getting married tomorrow." Everyone wishes them luck. Harper throws a fake smile on. Tinn" Congratulations you two(remembers him from earlier)." The Justice Drivers all wishes them luck.
While leaving, Draum looks back and sees the look on Harper's face. Harper begins to signal a look with her eyes. Draum" Something is not right here." Strider" What are you talking about?" Draum" That woman seemed like she didn't want to be there or with him. She gave me this look. A distress call." Julmbo" Maybe you're overthinking it." Draum" I know what I saw. That woman needs help." Julmbo" Alright. We'll follow the guy." Tinn" This is the guy I bumped into earlier." Strider'' He could be the the guy I fought." Spike" Could be. We won't know until we find out." The Justice Drivers are hiding and spying. Buzz is in the area. Draum uses his body for distraction. The Justice Drives get a hold of Harper. Buzz" Heather? They've taken her. HEATHER!!!"
Harper" Thank you guys. I don't know what I would have done without you." Julmbo" We're the Justice Drivers. Just doing our jobs." Tinn" What's your name?" Harper" It's Harper Sukinuu. That guy was a psycho." Harper talks about Buzz and gets to know the Justice Drivers. Spike" I see what you mean." Draum" Wait a minute?! You said that he'd do anything for Heather. I have an idea. We'll just have to use that for us then." Julmbo" That is really risky but we have to try it." Strider'' If this guy is an Anti-Sapien then that mask man should be too." Spike" Then that means they are most definitely together." A boy is shown(Conithio Town) taking without paying. Has a hood on. Boy" Yummy. That was good. Must find more." A Crow was flying around in the back.
Togyu Manji shown. Tijiri" Hey. Those are the guys from earlier. Let's show them." Takei" Your right." Jillian" I don't see any evil duers(she looks around)." Eyashi" We got company." Zushi" It's the mask guy with them." CJ" It's her. Lady Lightning." Jillian" Don't wear my name out." Sid" That's her?" Takei" What are you waiting for? Take em out milady." Jillian" I only fight evil duers(arms crossed)." Tijiri" I don't know what is up with this girl. Are you going to fight or what?" Jillian" No." Eyashi" I don't believe it. She is actually fighting it." Zushi" So it is true then." FATHER" Please(talking in a nice tone). We need you fight with us. Pretty please!" Jillian sticks her tongue out. FATHER" She stuck her tongue out at me(goofy tone). Why you!" Tijiri" Don't mind her FATHER. We don't need her."
Takei tries to attack CJ but Jillian stops him. Takei'' Why you!" Jillian" I won't let you hurt my friend." Tijiri" Friend?! She's lost it." Takei'' Keep talking like that!" Jillian" It's tme to fight the evil duers." Tijiri" You got to be kidding me. Anti-Sapien vs Anti-sapien." Takei battles Lady Lightning but not that long. They both leave. CJ" Thank you." Jillian" That's what superheros are for." Eyashi" How many more Anti-Sapiens are there?" Jillian" Just those two." Phil" I thought it be more?" Jillian" I did hear FATHER say there's another Anti-Sapien at Conithio Town." Fasha" Back at Conithio Town." Eyashi is calling the Justice Drivers again. Julmbo" You got an Anti-Sapien on your Side. No way. You're joking." He puts Jillian on the phone.
Jillian" There's an Anti-Sapien in your location. Be very careful." Julmbo" Wow you're real. We already ran into another Anti-Sapien. He used bugs. Do you recall a Anti-Sapien with bug power?" Jillian" No. I only know Takei and Tijiri." Julmbo" Who might they be?" Jillian" Takei is the masked one and Tijiri is the mohawk man." Julmbo" So you don't know each other. Can you put Eyashi back on the phone?" She does. Julmbo" This guy was a psychopath and needs to be put down. Well at least we only have to worry about three Anti-Sapien for now. But Jakob, the bug guy tried to force this woman to marry him. He kept calling her Heather. His past life kept interfering." Eyashi" Sounds like a complete weirdo." Julmbo" Like some people(says it funny/talking about Eyashi). That was lucky that Draum had a feeling. Now Harper can be safe. We need to take them out one by one."
Fasha talks about wanting Julmbo to teach her how to utilize the Extension Blade. Julmbo" Anytime when I'm not busy." Takei and Tijiri are together. Takei" Can you Believe the nerves on that girl." Tijiri" She is out of control. That's what she is." FATHER" We need her more than ever." Tijiri" She's made up her mind." FATHER" Mind You say? We need a creator. I know where to go." He goes to Jim's house. Takei and Tijiri aren't seen by Jim. Hiding. FATHER" Jim!" Jim" Who's there?" FATHER" It is I. FATHER. The creator of the Anti-Sapiens." Jim" What do you want with me? Trying to make me an Anti-Sapien?" FATHER" You are not needed for that but your daughter is already one." Jim" My Jillian?" FATHER" You see your daughter was acting up. She was trying to fight my children. And I don't like my children to fight each other. I'm trying to forgive her. She turned her back on us and is with the outsiders. I need her back. I need something from you."
Jim" What is it?" FATHER" I need you to finish that suit. How long are we talking about?" Jim" Several months." FATHER" We don't have that long! Can you make something that allows you to take an item from the finished timeline, and put it in the unfinished one?" Jim" I believe so! Yes." FATHER" Excellent! I used to be a creator myself. Back in my days.". Jim" I'll get to it then." FATHER" There's just one more thing I need. I need a brainwashing device. So in case she acts up. You can never be too." Jim" I can't. She is my little girl(adult). Screw you and you are just a conscience. You can't hurt me anyway!" FATHER" You're right. I cannot." Takei and Tijiri reveals themselves. FATHER" But they can. I'd get cracking if I were you. Time is the essence."
Conithio Town. Harper is all alone. Harper" Jakob. Where are you? I need your help. I've escaped from those bastards. I want to be with you now. I want to finish our marriage." Jakob appears and says" So here you are? And you've accepted your destination I see." Demons show up. Harper" I don't like the demons. Kill them Jakob." Jakob" Sure thing." He killed them all. Harper" How far are you willing to go for me?" Jakob" To the end of the Earth and back. Just for you Heather." Harper"' Would you cut your hand off?" Jakob does and says" I told you I'd do." He waves his ripped off hand. Jakob" All we have to do is get married and we'll be together forever." Harper" This is the man I need." Julmbo" All we have do is wait until wedding then we strike." Strider'' It's sad that we have to leave Harper with that freak show."
Next day/wedding. Jakob" You look stunning in that dress Heather." Wedding occurs. There are no people. Private wedding. The officiant" Do you, Heather, promise to be Jakob's friend? To comfort him and listen to him? To celebrate his successes and to support his struggles? To love him, respect him and tenderly care for him, through all the days of your life?" Harper" I do." The officiant" Jakob, do you take this woman to be your wife, to live together in (holy) matrimony, to love her, to honor her, to comfort her, and to keep her in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, for as long as you both shall live?" Jakob "I do." The officiant" I now pronounce you husband and wife. You may now kiss the bride." They kiss. Harper unwantedly. Jakob" Now we're together forever."
The Justice Drivers arrive late but not intended. They go for a sneak attack. Jakob" What did they come from?" Strider" Time to take you out, asshole!" Julmbo" You will pay for everything you've done!" The Justice Drivers battles him 5 on 1(+ Draum). Jakob" (he laughs)Don't think for one second I'm intimidated. I'm a god-damned Anti-Sapien for Pete's sake." Towards the end of the fight, Julmbo manages freeze Jakob. Strider is going to burn him up. However, an interruption occurs. Lights go out. When they return, he's being carried out by a weird crawly thing(large). Draum" What is that thing? One of his bugs?!" The crawly thing says" (female voice)Not by my watch." Spike" Damnit! We were so close!!" Tinn" All that work. For nothing."
Crawly thing is a woman. FATHER" That was a close one. We have to be more careful. Thanks for the save, Wiggy. Wiggy" Don't mention it." Jakob wakes up. Jakob" what are you doing here? Sister(older)." Wiggy" Saving your ass." FATHER" We're nearly there. It's time for a visit." Jakob" Where might that be?" FATHER" Togyu Manji. There are 3 more Anti-Sapiens there. We'll need to unite with them. Then the Anti-Sapiens will be invincible." Wiggy" Now that's a plan." Jakob has a nonchalant look on his face. Doesn't like to get help from his sister. Togyu Manji. Takei and Tijiri pay Jim a visit. FATHER" So how are we coming along?" Jim" I have finished the first device and went to the future to get the the super suit. Just a few touches on the last device." A few touches later. Jim" I'm complete." FATHER" Let me see" Jim starts to walk away.
FATHER" Wait! There's one more thing I need you to do specifically." Jim" And what is that?" FATHER" I need you to give it to her personally. Put the brainwashing device inside the super suit." Jim" I can't do that!! Are you mad?" FATHER" That is the point." Takei and Tijiri both stare at him evilly. Jim" Fine I'll do it(sad voice)." Tijiri" That's the spirit." FATHER" 2 more Anti-Sapiens are on their way. All we have to do is sit back and wait." Takei" I'm bored. Going to harass some people." Tijiri" Have fun." FATHER" Call your daughter over and tell her the suit is finished." He does. Jillian arrives with CJ. Jim" It seems you have company?" Jillian" This is CJ. We met a few days ago." CJ" Please to meet you." Jillian" She wanted to see the super suit in person." The super suit is easy to put on. It starts off small then expands. Laughter is heard. Tijiri appears.
Jillian" Back for more?" Tijiri" This time it's different. I feel bad for you. Attack!" Jillian strikes CJ. CJ" What was that for?" She tries to snap out of it but can't. CJ" Snap out of it!! It's me. CJ." Jillian" I don't know any CJ. You are an evil duer." CJ" She is not listening. Guess it's time to fight back." Tijiri" This is intriguing." CJ finally gets to fight Jillian. Jillian is going to finish off CJ(ending). A voice streams" LEAVE HER ALONE!! Sez Unemori arrives on the scene. He has a gadget blade. Sez" Get out of here!" CJ" I don't run from fights, kid." Sez" Fine then." Tijiri"' I guess that's my cue." He fights CJ while Sez battles Jillian. Tijiri rolls his body up and attack. Sez uses his gadget blade to scan his abilities. Sez" It seems you can absorb whatever you touch then distribute it to any body part." Tijiri" Right you are. It is sad that you came just to die." Jillian" Your opponent is me." Sez gets distracted. Jillian" Never take your eyes off the ball, evil duer."
Sez" I have you know, I am not a villain(talking like a hero). I am but a noble hero. A man of the faithful people. You are but a person who is for herself and not anyone else(still talking the same)." Jillian" Take That back(deep voice). Do my ears deceive me? Did I really just hear that? I want you to know that I can never be this fowl creature of a person, you call villain." They both continue to talk like heros. CJ and Tijiri both get distracted of it what they are saying. Tijiri" Will you 2 can it already!! All of your stupid super hero talk is giving me a damn headache!!" Sez" You just don't appreciate our work." He's about to keep talking but Tijiri punched him. Tijiri" Oh no you don't." Jillian is doing the same thing. Tijiri" No not you to! I'm kinda regretting her being on our side." FATHER" Oh you can bare her." Tijiri" I don't think so. Wait a minute, we're supposed to be fighting. You've got me distracted! Let's finish this up shall we!"
Ending. CJ and Sez are about to be finished. Fasha appears. Tijiri" I remember you. Your appearance doesn't matter." Eyashi and Team Blaze appears. Eyashi" Back for more. Wasn't expecting you to show up." Tijiri" I'm not ready to fight, so I'm going to skedaddle." They both leave. Zushi" Good thing we came in time. Didn't you say that he left last time(looking at Eyashi)?" Eyashi" What are they planning? They are clearly up to something. This happened again with the Justice Drivers. They are waiting for something but what?" Fasha" Why was Lady Lightning with Tijiri?" CJ" She just started to attack me." Phil" Whose this guy?" Sez is going to talk like a hero when CJ cuts him off. CJ" Oh no you don't!" Sez l" I wasn't going to do the talk! I'm Sez Unemori. I saw this girl in trouble so I helped her. I was here for someone. I heard they moved here. Do you know group called Team Earth."
Sid" Of course we do." Sez" Oh that's great." Eyashi" Welcome to Team Blaze. You'll be a great ally. I'll show you where they are." Sez" That's great." CJ" We still don't know what happened to Lady Lightning. Even on the other side, she still seemed in character." Jim is shown hiding and says" It was me. I did it(comes out of hiding). I didn't want to though(crying). I'm Jim Madame. That was my daughter. I was forced to do it." Eyashi" Who? Please tell us." Jim is shaking/looking nervous. Jim" I trust you. I'll tell you. It was FATHER." Everyone says FATHER. He was communicating with his mind. He had the the Anti-Sapiens with him. Forced me to make the super suit to lure her in. And the Brainwashing device was if she'd be rebellious. He mentioned wanting to get the Anti-Sapiens together." Eyashi" It all makes sense now. Now we have think about where are they going and we already know. Togyu Manji. We have to round up everyone. We'll go get Team Earth first."
FATHER calls his children their Anti-Sapien name, rather than their real name. Takei is shown terrorizing. Takei" Now this is fun. Scream all you want. It won't help you(laughs)." A woman appears. Takei" What are you doing to me(sarcastic tone)? She" I can't let you hurt any bystanders." Takei" Oh we'll see about that." She turns into a demon Beast. Tiger Demon. Takei" Wow. Did not expect to see that trick." Time passes. A male appears this time. Takei" Where'd he come from?" He becomes a demon as well. Demon Bear. Takei" Demon power? They must be from the same place?" Another one appears. He is an Animal Humanoid Gorilla. He is stuck in his form. Demon Gorilla.
Tijiri" The 3 of you still can't beat me." Sidney arrives. Takei" You still need more people to fight me." Sidney" It sure took you guys awhile to get to the area. You're going down." Takei" You know, I think I have a few more minutes. Let's do it." Sidney summons his weapon. The others join in. Takei" That's the spirit. Join in. The more the merrier." He launches his blades like an arrow but to a citizen. Gorilla says" Oh no , he's gonna kill em." Tiger catches it with her teeth but barely. Takei" My, that was close(sarcastic tone)." FATHER" It's tme Massk." He laughs. Takei" It's been fun but I have nothing to prove. I'll see you another time. Sayonara!" He's gone.
Bear(fat)" I'm glad that mask guy is gone. We would not have defeated him anyway." Tiger" Of course you'd say that. You have to stop acting like that. You need to grow some balls." Bear" I know you didn't!" Gorilla" Stop acting like children. Nevermind." Sidney" Wait. That's the mask guy Eyashi was talking about. The Justice Drivers ran into him. Is he an Anti-Sapien? If so, what is he doing here?" Tiger" Anti-Sapien? You don't think? Sidney" Let's go see then." Bear" Here we go. Let's go." Sidney's group. Tiger=Donta. Bear=Yoshatora. Gorilla=Jasin(Jason). Jasin is a good archer. Jakob and Wiggy have arrived in Togyu Manji. FATHER is with another Anti-Sapien. Black. Team Blaze is shown. What will happen with the Anti-Sapiens . Can they be stopped? Find out what will happen next time on Part ⁷. "To Be Continued"
Last time. FATHER made plans with the Anti-Sapiens. He wanted to gather the Anti-Sapiens in one spot. FATHER would force jim to create an invention for Jillian which would make her fight her the others. Team Blaze were trying to get the others together. Sidney's group fought Takei and questioned was he an Anti-Sapien. The Anti-Sapiens have finally made it to Togyu Manji. FATHER was shown with a new Anti-Sapien. What will happen now? FATHER" I'm glad that you are here." Rmpage" Pleasure doing business with you." FATHER" We are nearly there." Rampage" I sense some good spirit energy. Let me make a quick stop." FATHER" Make it quick." Rampage challenges some people.
Rampage" Who is next?" Geo appears and says" I guess I am now." Rampage thinks" That spirit energy. He's one of the strong ones. I can see it in his eyes." Geo struggles to keep up with his strikes. Geo" He's strong. Too strong. He surpassed my hand to hand. He's not ordinary(thoughts)."fight over. They finally make it to the others. Rampage" So these are the other Anti-Sapiens." FATHER begins to laugh. FATHER" It's about damn time. We are finally one. We will make the world suffer. Feel our wrath." Everyone laughs as well. Team Blaze are shown. Corroshi" Eyashi. What brings you guys here?"
Eyashi" We have actually discovered something. We've got word that the Anti-Sapiens are joining up. I believe it is going to be here." Corroshi" Why do you think that?" Fasha" Togyu Manji is a very large area. They probably want to takeover here. And besides, there's a lot of incidents that occur here anyways." Corroshi" Nice response." Zushi" We needed to round up everyone and warn them. We need everyone here. We need your help." Corroshi" You can count on me." Sez" Hey Corroshi?" Corroshi turns around says" Do I know you?" Sez" It's me Sez. From the tournament." Corroshi" Oh yeah. I remember you not. You are the one who tried to cheat." Sez" That's me." Corroshi" So why did you come back?"
Sez" I heard you moved wanted to know if you let you join your team?" Corroshi" Well of course you can. Welcome aboard!" Sez" Aw thanks." Geo and the others aren't there yet. Now everyone is together. Rischardo" Since we're up against Anti-Sapiens, I want everybody to know this. If any of you see Anti-Sapiens named Ira and Danly Indies, there my kids and I'll deal with them. Ira has red hair and Danly has orange hair." Everyone is training with each other. Julmbo" Hey Fasha." Fasha" Yes." Julmbo" Let me see your blade." She does. Julmbo" I see. There is something I need to teach you. Reincarnation." Fasha" Reincarnation?" Julmbo" It's the ability to fix broken Extension Blades."
He breaks his blade. Julmbo" Reincarnation!" The blade has fixed itself. Fasha" Wow that's going to take some time." Julmbo" Nonsense. With your skills you'll master it in no time." He continues to train Fasha. MaXx, Haden, and Sid are lifting weights. MaXx and Haden get into an altercation. MaXx's eyes turn black. MaXx" I'M GOING TO KILL YOU!!" MaXx' Dark Seal interrupts. He raises his blade towards Haden. Eyashi uses his speed and gets in between(has his hands out separating them)them and says" Brothers shouldn't fight! MaXx don't let them darkness consume you." He snaps out of it. MaXx" You're right." Thank you." His eyes return. Keira Saja goes towards Sid and says" I want to be just like you, Fasha, Phil, and the others."
Sid" What do you mean Keira?" Keira" I wish I had powers so I could protect you guys and fight alongside you. If CJ could have power behind I could. I wanted to know if you would train me?" Sid" Ah yeah. Sure. First I need you to hit my fists." She does. Sid" Good but harder. " Phil and Fasha laughs(good laughs). Keira continues to work on her strikes. Cumi name change. Was supposed to sound like cute. New name. Cuimi(kwee-me). Cuemi(q-me). Cuimi(c-oo-me). New name is Cuemi. Cuemi has a vision. Cuemi" Wait! There are these people and there are shredded. We have to save them." Corroshi" Where are they?" They are headed out.
People are on the ground, all cut up. Domay" Who could have done this." Ishani" I think I am going to be sick." She almost throws up. They hear a knife sound cutting together. They go check it out. There's a man standing on dead bodies with his back turn. He turns around and has knives in his hands. Geo" It's him!" He charges and attacks. Eyon" You know this guy?" Geo" This guy was challenging people and he beat me. Hand to hand combat. He is not ordinary. I knew it was slomething about the guy." Rampage" Right you are." He shows off his Anti-Sapien symbol on the left shoulder.
Arc Notes- Spirit Cuffs. Wind Slice Attack. Sid spit lightning attack works with fire (combine together) FATHER. Light Power heal chair. Rade plant lady. Geo likes to eat but Yolmmo eats more. Rade uses Genesis to get information without having to leave his spot. He tells to Eyashi Arc 6. Rade apple. Draum takes Hydro Corps with Justice Drivers. Keina Kiyoshi 7. Last time on opening Arc 6. Arc 7 lot demons. Sez Unemori gadget style. Sakura Hurata Arc 5. Korin Kore. 11th grade. Soothsayer short witch attire. Go to school together. Gru boxing style. Sid, Phil and Fasha back to back. Nara Haseku. Frogg Kikio 4. How to do Fire Morph. Archer. Wind Swallow. Shadow Spea Sabitist Lemaru pike. Blaze rich. Call me Darkness. Tijiri Akaru. Ball shape. Anti-Sapien Hydro Corps. Reincarnation. Massk story. Talk about mask. Body weapon/ absorb/keep power. Absorb blades. Sid and Phil extend fists before the fight. Sidney lots of Anti-Sapiens appearing frequently. Jim dies but will be blame on Team Blaze. Lady Lightning puts Haden to sleep. To spark or not to spark. Burnt mouth. HarpeHeather. Jakob Akali one hand. Buzz bugs covering body. Draum stronger than the demons. Danly I am a demon. Wiggy wig talk to her. Ignoramus. Genesis. Anti-Sapiens Cliff.
Sidney's group. Tiger=Donta. Bear=Yoshatora. Gorilla=Jasin
Mind Controller- Dwells into the person's mind and uses their memories against them. Making the mind attack it's owner.
Team Earth: Corroshi Setse(all styles/fire fav)(master), Geo Kazy(Dragon style/Jeet Kune Do), Eyon Yoshi(Lightning/fire), Yolmmo Usay(wateice) Domay Usay(wind), Korr Yoshi, Kunesuke Atara(glasses/reads/black/lady's man), Su Lin(Eyon's girlfriend/Chinese/not black), Ishani Sharma(Indian skin/not black/turban/Yolmmo's)
Hydro Corps: Sodum Hydro(leader), Coracoona/Charzie Anderson(not black), Dornymious(door-nee-me-us)Ryeno or Rhyno(Rhino/not black/charges), Shune Tuche(to-shay/special suit and mask/great hunter)
Areas- Tohoku Japan(setting/West Japan), Togyu Manji(Sid's home), Conithio Town, Kurai (dark) Haitsu(heights), Renyu Haito, Shiawasena Michi(happy road), Hausada, Heteritoke Town, Kibakoru(near a bakery), Ryusoka (ree-u-so-kah)Tofa,(small town), Zuloko Ikiki(large area), Uketa(oo-kee-tah) Sada(near a graveyard area), Sushun(Soul Snatcher's headquarters), Osaka Japan(western Japan)(Team Earth's original home), Kanta Japan(eastern Japan), Burakkubēsu(means black base)/(Black Widow's hideout),
Greater Demons-Balaam and Dracula
Notes-Mirror asylum. Plache appears arc 6. Rade is a scientist. Wants Kikia to give up her organization. He uses a dark gass it turns people into demons. Erika, Keira Umo, Eyashi, Zushi, and others become demons put into a facility. Must find antidote. Rade has all the demons power Who died. Haden arm becomes demon like but hasn't turned yet. Kikia will stick him with a syringe. Demon form wears off. Arc 6. Haden and MaXx can't win. demon souls. Airball- can be small or large/chargeable. Eyashi- Wind of the Dragon Punch. Charge fist then strike the enemy/enemies. Late effect. Final blow will feel like a combination of all the punches in one. Maybe Phil. Dead Beat- idea demon/creature. Strider punches mountain/Gru move mountain. Camme punches Sid.
Lightning Beam (Death Beam). Eyashi got 3 main bosses to like him. Absorb moves/spirt energy. Thunder Strike/plow. Rischardo Underworld fighting scene. Dragon Breath. Heat Vision. Hot as Hell move. Double jump. Liba Tezu. Kiko glasses. Anti-Sapiens jump off cliff and wake up. We're twins..cousins Fasha. That arm. You're a Soul Killer. You have the red flpower. It's you. Punch/ uppercut Thunder Rider. MaXx grabs it and throws it back. Saundra asks for Sid's name. She tells Ryu. He appears and sees Sid.
Charging fist Sid and Phil. Regular male student too many female characters. Genesis. Rade uses rings to cuff bodyl/Freak Ring Circus/Spirit Ring Cuff. Dragon Flare origin during Bosch's story. Burning Impalememet Sid. Surfing Ice Blade works with other elements. Sid used first with Reaper Sajettus then Fasha with Rudiaslaudia and Sakura used. 1st Lt Alex Mohoto. The Hydro Corps. Eyon vs Tairon was controlled. Fēng's blade Dragon Heart. Dark Matter. Haden purple lightning. When Danly dies, Rischardo will be shown/ Flashbacks shown/will say his son's name. Velencya bird. Corri Howbori. Sid lightning style against Blaze. Lightning Slash. Spirit energy. Rischardo trains Sid. Underwater. Keira says I want to be like you sid train her. Destruction/Destructional Saucer(disk) Domay. Hall of the Gods. Gods on left and Goddesses on right. Gods of Time. Rischardo warns his Greater Demons. Rischardo runs into them later Arc last straw. Camme can't fly. Lightning and wind Morph speed.
Ra-Ibo and Kungaru power greater than God of Spirit world and demonic king
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2024.06.01 05:16 Ill-Pen-1618 Got accepted on the condition I maintain gpa. Ended semester 0.01 off from minimum

So I got accepted into this school of health professions ( did my prerequisites in community, applied for transfer, transfer got accepted on the condition that I finish the classes I was taking now and and with a 3.0 minimum gpa). Ended semester with a 2.99 sgpa, literally 0.01 off. It's not even the cumulative gpa (3.4), it's my math and science gpa
So this gpa does not appear directly on my transcript. Should I risk it and send my transcript anyways and see what happens? Should I rescind my acceptance and take classes In summer and apply next year? Should I talk with the director of the program and try and see what she can do about it?
I didn't get the gpa because of slacking off. My SO was hospitalized various times during the semester. She has rheumatoid arthritis and was wrongly diagnosed every time she went to the emergency room until we finally went to a competent hospital and they successfully diagnosed her. Before that we were biweekly going to the emergency room, me staying with her and all of what that entails. Plus I also had my full time jobs etc.
Not trying to make excuses but it's just 0.01. I'm open to any suggestions. Sorry for such a long post. Thanks
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2024.06.01 04:32 Prestigious_Gap_8308 Tips for managing when you don’t have an official diagnosis?

Does anyone have any tips for living with symptoms but no official diagnosis (or support from family/healthcare providers)?
I have listed my symptoms below and explained a bit of my story under spoilers, as to not detract from the general request for advice, only provide context.
Symptoms: - severe joint pain in my hands, fingers, toes, knees, hips, shoulders, and my jaw - joint stiffness in my knees, elbows, shoulders, fingers, and hands - the combination of joint pain and stiffness in my shoulders has made it so I cannot eat or cook without having to intermittently change hands - right inner elbow has been consistently swollen with a sac of fluid for over 7 years now - can't carry a 5lb bag of sweet potatoes for less than five minutes in the grocery store without getting tired and dizzy - will experience discolouration and numbness in my hands and feet. If I sit down for more than twenty minutes, my feet will start turning purple--my friends in school used to call me corpse feet (affectionate, I hope). My hands can discolour while I'm shopping for groceries. If I get cold my fingers and toes will turn purple then white and lose all feeling. - my feet will go numb, without warning, while I'm driving. It doesn't matter if I have been driving for twenty minutes or an hour, I risk my feet going numb and making it difficult to gauge pressure on gas/brake - I get severe nerve pain in my arms that travels up my arm, not down. No inciting movements or actions that trigger the nerve pain. It has happened while I was driving, cooking, stirring a vinaigrette for my grandma. - chronic severe chest pain that has led me to think I was having a heart attack over seven times (if I ever had a heart attack, I'd probably just think "it's just the pain" and miss it). It gets worse when I take a deep breath and can make me feel short of breath - joint stiffness in the mornings and evenings especially - muscle pain... everywhere - sun sensitivity that causes severe migraines, rashes on my arms (and on my cheeks), and fatigue. I cannot be out in the sun for more than twenty minutes without feeling nauseous and wanting to hide in the dark like a vampire (cravings for blood, thankfully, isn't one of my symptoms) - sores in my mouth - severe fatigue (waking up feels exhausting in itself) that can leave me nearly falling asleep at restaurants with my family and struggling to keep my eyes open while driving - brain fog - sore and dry eyes - all of my joints pop (even my jaw) - blurry vision as if under water, no warning before it happens - vertigo - weakness (cannot grip stuff very well and have struggled to open ziploc bags while trying to give my cats treats) - ears ringing - low grade fevers (had a weekend where it wouldn't drop below 40 degrees Celsius but it tends to stick around 37-38 degrees Celsius) - positive ANA of 1:160 with coarse speckled pattern
My Story:
I have had joint pain, swelling, and stiffness since I was 14 years old. I'm 25 now. Most of my symptoms I have been experiencing for almost a decade now. I have a family history of rheumatoid arthritis and have had a doctor test my blood for rheumatoid factor but it always came back within regular range. Two years ago, I tested positive for ANA after my chronic illness caused me to lose my job. It was first 1:160 then 1:80 when we tested again a couple months later.
The world then shut down due to Covid and I had numerous doctors tell me they wouldn't see me unless I tested positive for Covid. I understand. It was an incredibly difficult time for healthcare workers.
My symptoms, however, did not care about the overworked healthcare system and continued to interfere with my day-to-day life.
I have had an MRI done to check my spine and neck, confirming there's nothing pinched that would be causing my nerve pain. The doctor ended up telling me it might be because I was born premature and I'll just have to live with it.
I have had ultrasounds and a CT scan done on my swollen elbow and never heard anything back which I'm choosing to take as "we didn't see anything alarming".
Now I am scared to drive alone due to my symptoms and live in constant pain. I have tried to see doctors about this and have been told "you're too young to have these issues" or "it's probably depression, you're too young for it to be anything else"... I finally got into a new doctor and they sent a referral for me to see a rheumatologist, especially given my previous positive ANA test.
Rheumatologist wanted updated bloodwork. All my bloodwork came back in normal range. My doctor point-blank told me "there's nothing wrong with you, your blood is fine, a rheumatologist will not help you" and then told me my symptoms are too complex for me to continue seeing them... so that feels a little like a kick in the stomach.
My mom, who means well, and lives with her own chronic pain, tells me it's because I don't have a routine (I have t been able to find a new job after losing another job due to my medical issues) and if I had a strict routine I wouldn't have so many issues. She's also of the opinion you need to just find the energy to combat fatigue...
I feel alone a lot of the time and like I'm trapped in my body that's failing on me.
If anyone has any tips, I would greatly appreciate it.
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2024.06.01 04:05 WrestleQuest Some wacky ideas to book on Shotgun Saturday Night

According to Jim Cornette, these are all the creative ideas Russo pitched to Shotgun Saturday Night. I am tempted to try all of them on TEW.
•A Shotgun Saturday Night exclusive Title which would be a badge, and could only be challenged for on SSN
•The Shotgun Saturday Night title holder would be known as the Shotgun Saturday Night “tough man”
•A wild card extra match, which entails that every 5 minutes a new wrestler would enter to mess with the 1V1 match
•The last match of the night would have a clock detailing how much time remains in the TV broadcast, with the match starting with a shotgun blast sound and ending with a shotgun blast sound
•A “Two minutes with Jake the Snake” match, wherein if you cannot defeat Jake the Snake within two minutes you would have to leave the WWF
•”You call the spot match” where you must do the move the crowd chants for no matter what
•Guess Yokozunas weight, and the winner gets a free sushi dinner
•Put jobbers on a scale until they match Yokozunas weight, then have the match between the job guys and Yoko
•Flashlight match, everyone in the bar has flashlights and there are no other light sources allowed
•A “whos hipper match?” Wherein you hide two hidden cameras on two different superstars and see which superstar can gain entry into an exclusive nightclub first
•A match between the wives of Stone Cold and Brian Pillman, with Stone Cold and Pillman in their respective wives corners
•A “beautiful buxom referee” to ref each match. His words not mine
•Shotgun Saturday Night should have a mascot, a man in a bear suit that gets abused by fans
•Striptease match, two superstars have there wife or girlfriend in there corner. Each time a superstar takes a bump the wife/girlfriend would have to remove a piece of clothing
•Shotgun Star Search, fans come in to imitate the wrestlers
•Hot Sunny nights, Sunny should have a talkshow where she always ends the segment by putting herself over
•An obstacle course set up in the banightclub
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2024.06.01 02:32 Otherwise_Reception2 First time on methotrexate

Hey,I’m 21 been dealing with trying to get a diagnosis since 15. I just got diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia. I’ve been researching and trying to find people with similar experiences but didn’t really find much.My doctor just prescribed me methotrexate for the first time. My doctor is giving it a 4 month trial on me to see if it works. I was wondering what people experienced on the drug and if it’s worth all the side effects that come with it. Im really worried about the hair loss that I’ve heard a lot of people having. As well as the nausea and headaches. Also thanks for being a safe place to ask questions and learn ❤️💕
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2024.06.01 02:29 Aware-Peanut Has anyone been diagnosed with both rheumatoid arthritis and hEDS?

I was diagnosed with hEDS last year. Over the past few months I’ve been showing signs of RA, particularly in my hands (swelling, pain, stiffness, ulnar drift, etc). I’m wondering if anyone here has been diagnosed with RA? I have an appointment with my GP soon and will request blood tests.
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2024.06.01 01:18 DevarDavis22 Blaze 3: Demonic Arc 5: Immortal Sins⁵

Blaze 3:Demonic Arc 5: Immortal Sins⁵
Last time. Tijiri was trying to unite the Anti-Sapiens. A mask man would attack people. His name is Takei and he is an Anti-Sapien. He got into a fight. Will Julmbo be helped? Find out right now. Takei launches his blades at Julmbo then appeared behind him. However, he is not there. Person" Where'd he go?" Person2" I do not see him." Looking around. Takei" Must be one of his tricks?" Fire comes from the ground. Draum appears from the fire. Holding Julmbo. Jumbo" Where did you come from?" Draum" I was actually site seeing and heard your distress." Takei" Bravo. Are you going to be taking his place?" Draum" You get the people out of here and I'll hold him off. Deal?" Julmbo" Deal."
Tinn is not with any Justice Driver members. Tijiri" Look who is all alone. Your mohawk is trash." Tinn" Take it back!" He turns around. Tinn" He has a mohawk to." Tinn has a standard mohawk while Tijiri has spikes in his hair. Tijiri summons his his blades. Tijiri" How bout we duel a bit?" Tinn" What is with this guy? I guess I'm fighting." Tinn summons his weapon. Tinn" Good thing I have this blade." Tinn duplicates his blade. Tijiri" That's a neat little trick you got there." Tinn shows off his blade's speed. As Tinn tries to cut, Tijiri's body becomes paper and he gets away. Tinn" What the hell?! His body just became paper. Fascinating. I'm going to have to keep a great eye on that."
Tijiri" Sure you will. I'm not done yet." His body becomes metal. Metal looks different on body(body parts). His mohawk is a weapon now. He goes over to the sand and his hands glows(spirit energy) then he touches it. Tinn uses his Moon Blades. 7. His lower half is made of sand and goes through the move(lower half came apart). Tinn" Did my eyes just catch that?" Tijiri" You see. I get to absorb just about anything into my hands then transfer them to different body parts. Like gas, liquid, or etc. I can even make my right hand become wood, my left leg metal and my back becomes sand. All at once. In other words you are fucked. I'll show you more." Kevin Levin's power from Ben 10.
Tinn" Is he foreal? There's no way I'll stand a chance now." Ending. Tijiri is about to finish him but he stops. He is gone. Tinn" He just left like that? I'm not going to question him. Who knows what he'd done to me if he took it seriously. That was too close." FATHER" There's another Anti-Sapien close around here." Takei" I'm waiting to see him." Tijiri" Are we getting closer FATHER?" FATHER" Sure we are." FATHER can communicate with more than one Anti-Sapien at the same time. No matter how far they are from one another.
Takei" There he is. So you are the other Anti-Sapien." Tijiri" Please to meet you(bows with one hand). My name Tijiri Akaru." Takei" Takei Mizukuro." FATHER" Now it's time for me to discuss something. All we have to do is round up more and then the world will fear us. Where's Jillian?" Tijiri" She remained at the Togyu Manji." FATHER" Fine by me." Next scene. Draum meets up with the Justice Drivers. Julmbo" I just got beat up by an Anti-Sapien." Tinn" You fought an Anti-Sapien? I might have as well. He was pretty strong. He walked away from the fight and could've easily beat me." Strider isn't there. He's on the mountain.
Spike" It looks like you had a bad day guys." Draum" We may want to contact Eyashi just in case." Julmbo" Why for?" They are calling Eyashi. Eyashi" Of course you got beat up, Julmbo." Julmbo" What is that supposed to mean? Are you calling me weak?" Eyashi" Maybe I am." Julmbo" Why you!" Eyashi" Relax I'm ony kidding." Julmbo" Hey those could hurt a guy's feeling." Eyashi" Enough goofing around." They are describing them. Eyashi" A spiky mohawk? We encountered that same person earlier. Was he with someone?"
Tinn" They were both alone." Eyashi" I know he's not alone." Scene shows Eyashi and the others. Rachel" So this is what it looks like. It's so beautiful. And it's ours." Sidney" You bet." They take a look around. A group of people are fighting demons. Jillian appears. Jillian" It seems that these people need my help. Don't worry. I'm here to save you. Demons are evil doers and must be stopped." She takes them out. She uses lightning. Lee" She took them all out." Shu" That was amazing. Who are you?" Jillian" I'm Ji. I'm Lady Lightning. I'm just doing my job. I got to protect my image. I think I need a disguise. I know where I must go." She goes to the her father.
Jillian" Father I need a favor." Jim" What is it dear? Anything you need." Jillian" I need a superhero suit to hide my identity while I fight crime." Jim" You can count on me. I am a great carpenter and craftsman you know." Jillian" Thanks pa." Hours later. Jim" As you can see, I made this prototype version while I finish touching up the original. You can try it out as you please." Jillian" I couldn't wait another second." Next scene. Sidney" Hey look at what I found. It's this picture(he unfolds it)." Sid" I want to see. Wait, it's Eyashi and he's holding me. And there is mom, dad, Haden, Haden's wife, Zushi, Bosch, that's you and that must be Aeriel? I didn't know this existed."
Fasha" Let us see." They see the picture. Eyashi" It's time for us to start training. Now is the time." Sidney" I'm going to get my group together. They will be a great aid." Eyashi" Indeed. Whoever we need. Hey Sid. There's something I have to teach you really quick." Sid" I like new things." Time to learn the Raika. Now this should be a piece of cake for you." He forms it in his left hand. Sid" How are you able to use it?" Eyashi" That's a good question. Your mother put some of her light power in my left hand." Sid" Why?"
Eyashi" She tried teaching me the move but I couldn't learn. This is something I wasn't use to. I would then master the move and it wouldn't be me not to brag about it to Zushi. She started to get mad at me, so I told her and gave her some of mine. Hers is in her right hand. Ours are weaker and incomplete compared to Fatha's but yours will be the real thing. The final thing is we can't use it in the alternate hand." Eyashi is still holding the Raika but he diffuses it. Fasha" I saw Zushi used the Raika during her flight with the Dark Phantom member. It was very resourceful." Zushi" Of course it was." Eyashi" It seems that Zushi is here(outside)."
Phil" If Sid's mother could give some of her light power to others, could it work for someone else like me?" Eyashi" I did not think on that. I have to see. Sid Form your Spirit Cannon." He does. Eyashi" Now harness all of your light power into your Spirit Cannon." Sid" I got it! It changed." Eyashi" The Spirit Cannon is now a Raika. You see. I told you it was a piece of cake." Sid's is glowing whiite while Eyashi and Zushi's are regular white. Fatha's is glowing purple because she infused it wiith her aura. Is smaller and cost less spirits. Phil" Now let's see could I hold it." Sid tries to but he gets blown back. Phil" That had some kick to it." Fasha" How do you feel?" Phil" I'm fine. I think." Sid" Let me try this." He tries to distribute some of the Light power to Phil and Fasha. Zushi" It doesn't seem to be working."
Sid" I guess I can't then." Eyashi" Time for some training then. Think we should use the Training Simulation Room. Been a minute." Jillian is shown. Jillian" No Evil doers can stop me now. What's that a distress call(noise heard). Hear I come. Don don don." She runs into CJ. CJ" Who are you and why are you dressed like this." Jillian" Well that's because I am a superhero. I'm fighting the evil doers." CJ" Can you fly?" Jillian" No I can't." CJ" Well then that makes two of us." Jillian" What are you searching for then." CJ" My friends fought these things called Anti-Sapiens. I believe that's what they're called. I wanted to fight them mysel, to see how strong I am." Jillian" What is your name?" CJ" CJ and yours?" Jillian" It's Ji...I mean Lady Lightning. I have something to show you."
She shows CJ her Anti-Sapien symbol. On the back of her neck. Covered up by hair. CJ" What am I looking at?" Jillian" It's my Anti-Sapien symbol. I thought you knew what it looked like?" CJ " Wait! You are one of them? How strong are you? I want you to fight me." Jillian we're not supposed to fight each other. We're supposed to fight the evil doers." Enemies appears. CJ" Time to test ourselves." Fight finished. Jillian" You did good. Maybe you will even be my sidekick and wear super suits. She charges off. CJ" thanks for your help. She was really positive." Strider is by the mountain. Strider" Feels nice out here. Too nice(switching his eyes). He looks alarmed. Buzzing sounds are heard. Strider" I'm not alone here. I've got company. You can come out now stranger! Somethings crawling on me." He scratches. He pulls his shirt up. Strider" What are these things? They're huge!" He destroys them. More bugs appear.
A person is shown in the distance. He has dark clothing on. He" This town is mine for the taking. He shows himself to Strider. Doesn't show his face. Strider" Are you responsible for this?" He doesn't say anything. He uses bugs to fight. Strider" So it was you. These bugs are too strong." The bugs form as one and choke Strider. They release him. He walks away and says" Next time I won't be be so merciful. He's gone. Strider grabs is neck and is breathing heavily. Strider" That son of bitch!" He goes to the others. Strider runs into Draum. Draum" Why do look like this?" Strider" I just got into a fight with this weird guy. I couldn't see his face though. He used these bugs on me and was able to do away with me but didn't. If he comes back, I want to be prepared. Draum" Slow your roll. We need to get to the others first." Strider" Angreed."
Draum" Interesting. We got into fights with random people. In the same day." Strider explains it. Julmbo" So that's what happened. Thought that mask man would show up again." Tinn" Perhaps they are together. Trying to throw us off." Spike" If they are working together, then the both of them could be Anti-Sapiens." Julmbo" More problems. If that guy is an Anti-Sapien, where are they coming from?" Tinn" He better not be! You barely got away." Spike maybe we could perform an ambush." Julmbo" Good idea. I like it Spike. We need to come up with a strategy first." The bug guy is shown. Anti-Sapien. FATHER" This town will soon be ours. The Anti-Sapiens will slowly but surly rise to power. Don't fail me Buzz." Buzz" Affirmative. You can count on me." FATHER" Thank you my son." Face shown. Black man. Black hair. Has a jacket with the mouth covered. Similar to Shino Aburame from Naruto and Candyman.
Buzz is shown destroying and killing people. People are yelling: What are you? You are a monster! Buzz" Oh I'm a monster. I'll show you a monster." Bugs get into their mouths and they die. Later on. Buzz is out of his disguise and bumps into Tinn by accident. Buzz" My bad." Tinn" No it's my fault. I wasn't paying attention." Buzz has his hands behind his back and is planning something. The Justice Drivers arrives and he backs off. Strider" Did you find anything?" Tinn" No. Nothing." Takei and Tijiri are together and spots Jillian. Tijiri" There you are. We finally found you." Jillian" Whose he?" Tijiri" He's an Anti-Sapien just like me and you." Jillian" Another Anti-Sapien?" Takei" I'm Takei Mizukuro or Massk. You must be Jillian?" Jillian" I'm not Jillian. I'm Lady Lightning." FATHER" We're almost there. Just a few more to round up, then we'll be rolling. There's another Anti-Sapien back at Conithio Town but we'll worry about that later. Let's see them take us now."
Team Blaze are finished with the Training Simulation Room. Eyashi" That was worth the workout. How do you guys feel?" Sid" It feels different from Haden's." Eyashi" By different, you mean better." Phil" I feel like I can beat 20 Anti-Sapiens." Eyashi" That's the spirit Phil. What about you Fasha?" Fasha" Feeling like I'm really getting the hang of this blade." Eyashi" And finally you Zushi." Zushi" I feel like hitting you in the face." Eyashi" Woa. Woa. Woa there. Somebody's being spicy. I like spicy." Zushi" Spicy. I'll show you spicy!" She punches him very hard. No more joking around.
CJ" There you guys are. It seems you've finally finished. I had to tell you. Earlier I ran into this lady. She had this suit and called herself Lady Lightning. She wanted to fight evil duers. She even talked like a superhero. Demons would appear and we took em out. I'd mentioned I wanted to fight an Anti-Sapien then she revealed her symbol. I never knew what it looked like. I still wanted to fight her but she turned it down. Mentioned that the good guys shouldn't fight each other. She was very polite. Have you ever seen a nice Anti-Sapien before?'" Zushi" No. They all wanted to kill us.” Eyashi" Sometimes they can act nice at first but end up villainous. Never befriended an Anti-Sapien before." Zushi" Maybe you're just being played?" CJ" I don't think she was acting. I believe she is actually like that." Sid" won't know unless we meet her." Fasha" Right!" Phil" Sure! Can't wait."
Buzz is shown again. FATHER" Keep it up my son. Don't let up. Destroy, destroy, destroy, and destroy. Don't forget what the world did to you. Now take advantage of em." Buzz begins to think about many years ago. Scenes are shown but quickly. Buzz" Yes sir. I will. FATHER." Buzz sees some people(humans) about to be attacked. A man and woman are crawling away. Begging. He sees the same thing happening to his parents. He kills them(no bugs). They thank him. Buzz begins to kill more people. He stops when he sees a woman with white long hair. Buzz" Heather. Is that you?' she is turned around. She turns around and says" My name isn't Heather. It's Harper." He ignores her and and continues to call her Heather.
Buzz" I thought I'd never see you again. Heather. I saw you get burned. I thought you died." Harper" What are you talking about?" Buzz" You were burned because the house was on fire. Someone tried to set you up." Harper" How was Heather? She looked just like me. Tell me about her and your name." Buzz" My name is Jakob Akali but you may call me Buzz. It's my Anti-Sapien name(shows symbol on mouth/keeps mouth covered like Kakashi). Heather was a very upbeat person. She loved trying new things. Heather hated the loud noises. We went on many dates. I would do anything for her. She hated my brother. So you know what I did? I killed his ass. There were these people who kept aggravating her. They were killed as well (Harper gulps). Now are you afraid of me? Heather."
Harper" No(scared voice)." Buzz" Come to me (his bugs fly around heIn her face). Heather told me something before her passing. She said that she loved me very dearly. I wanted to marry her and she said yes. She is not here. That's where you come in. I want to marry you instead. You are a split image of her very existence." Harper" You want me to marry you(shaky voice)?" Buzz" So, will you marry me or not? The choice is yours. What will it be, Heather?" Harper is thinking in mind and says" What will I do? If don't choose yes, what will happen to me? I don't want to be with him." How will Harper get out of this? Will she marry him or not? What will happen next time on Part⁶? "To Be Continued"
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2024.06.01 00:07 SphericalOrb Wife's Hot Take (plz share fun silly SO opinions)

My wife told me something today that made me laugh, I wanted to share it with you and see what silly stories y'all have about your significant others.
My wife says that the Gelflings from dark crystal are way creepier than the Skeksis.
As an unrepentant Jim Henson fan I love all types of puppets but Gelflings are nowhere on my "Top Creepy Jim Henson Puppets" list 😂 She is a "most puppets are creepy" person but is okay with classic Muppets and Sesame Street monsters. Sometimes opposites really do attract.
Please share your own or your partners silly hot takes and bad opinions. Keep it light please!
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2024.06.01 00:00 Googy21 I need help understanding my back pain that’s from arthritis

Basically I have arthritis in my thoracic spine as well as some kyphosis. I’ve always noticed that my mid/upper back would get stiff after hours of standing or using it for physical activity but that’s all I would notice. Ever since I tweaked my back 3 months ago using the arm blaster workout tool my back has always been stiff majority of the day and just has a tight dull pain. Where I’m confused is this, arthritis takes years to build up you don’t just wake up with it one day so I’ve clearly had this degenerative issue for some time. Secondly I’ve always known arthritis pain to kinda come in flair ups unless it’s a certain form like rheumatoid then it can be constant. Now lastly where Id like some advice or more clarification on this is when I spoke with a chiropractor he said ever heard the term straw that broke the camels back, that’s what you can think of with this pain is you finally pulled it strained your back thus sparking off your lingering pain. Is this normal and how arthritis can be? You can kinda have mild or minimal pain and once you injure or do something to irritate that area it can spark your arthritis to linger for weeks months or years? I just want better understanding on this so I don’t think what I’m feeling could be something worse
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2024.05.31 23:03 next3days Local Weekend Lineup of Fun for 1st Weekend in June....

For those in Blacksburg, here's a rundown of 28 local events you can enjoy in Blacksburg and throughout the New River Valley as June arrives.
Weekend Rundown of Local Fun: 1. Matt Holloman in Concert Rising Silo Farm Brewery, Blacksburg Friday, May 31, 2024, 6:00 - 9:00 PM Admission: Free Born and raised in southeastern Virginia, Matt Holloman has been playing around Virginia for more than 25 years. Growing up on his older brother’s blues collection, Matt mixed the likes of Howlin' Wolf and Muddy Waters with the experimental sounds of songwriters like Leonard Cohen and Frank Black, creating a style all his own. Always interested in reinventing his live performance, Matt uses a looper so he can improvise and manipulate layers of sound not usually heard from an acoustic performer. You can also expect simple, but memorable songs, reminiscent of storytelling songwriters like John Prine and Bob Dylan. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=777075
2. Friday Nights at the Farm with Music from Jim Korb Beliveau Farm Winery, Blacksburg Friday, May 31, 2024, 6:00 - 9:00 PM Admission: Free Jim Korb is an acoustic musician and guitarist based in Southwest, VA and a member of the band Stonehouse. "Just a singer; a natural-born guitar ringer, playing and singing a mix of Classic Country, Eagles, CCR, Skynyrd, and a little bit of everything else from John Denver to The Blues." Beliveau welcomes a special musical guest every Friday night with live music from 6:30 PM to 8:30 PM and sing along to all of your favorite classics. Enjoy delicious food from their full service kitchen until 8:30 PM and chat over a glass of wine during our extended bar hours until 9:00 PM. Get a $5 Beliveau Buck to use during your next visit for every $50.00 you spend on Friday nights from 6:00-9:00 PM. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=777450
3. Pizza Roll (Bike Ride) Blacksburg Library, Blacksburg Friday, May 31, 2024, 6:00 PM - TBD Admission: Free The New River Valley Bicycle Association (NRVBA) presents a Pizza Roll starting at the Blacksburg Library. Enjoy a five mile bike ride on the Huckleberry Trail and through Virginia Tech's campus, followed by post ride pizza at Benny's provided by Trek Blacksburg. This is a NRVBA ride, meaning waivers are required and can be filled out on site. If you have never ridden with NRVBA before, your first ride is free. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=777778
4. The Grascals in Concert Little River Bluegrass Barn, Radford Friday, May 31, 2024, 7:00 - 10:00 PM General Admission: $30.00, Reserved Tickets: $35.00 Great musicians will always find a way to make good music, but for great musicians to make great music, they must form a bond – one that, more often than not, goes beyond the purely musical to the personal. For The Grascals, that bond has been forged at the intersection of personal friendships, shared professional resumes and an appreciation for the innovative mingling of bluegrass and country music that has been a hallmark of the Nashville scene for more than 40 years. Their cutting-edge modern bluegrass is delivered with a deep knowledge of, and admiration for, the work of the music’s founding fathers. Timely yet timeless, The Grascals make music that is entirely relevant to the here and now yet immersed in traditional values of soul and musicianship. It’s a unique sound that has earned three Grammy® nominations and two Entertainer of the Year awards from the International Bluegrass Music Association, as well as national media attention that seems to perpetually elude acts entrenched in niche genres. Such appearances include The Tonight Show with Jay Leno, Fox & Friends, The Late Late Show with Craig Ferguson, and CBS’ The Talk. The Grascals have over 200 guest appearances on the Grand Ole Opry to their credit and have also performed on the revered stages of Radio City Music Hall, the Ryman Auditorium and the Kennedy Center as well as music festivals such as MerleFest, Stagecoach, and the CMA Music Festival. In addition to performing across the United States and Canada, the awarding-winning band has traveled the world to take bluegrass music to Japan, Greece, France, Germany, Switzerland, Norway, and Belgium. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=777777
5. Line Dancing at Sinkland Sinkland Farms, Christiansburg Friday, May 31, 2024, 7:00 PM - TBD Admission: $10.00 Join Sinkland Farms for a fun-filled night of line dancing. All types of music and all levels of experience welcome. Energetic, enthusiastic instruction begins at 8:00 PM. Adult beverages and food truck will be available for purchase. Weather permitting, there will be outdoor dancing as well. This event is fun for all. Ages 16 & under must be accompanied by an adult. Doors open at 7:00 PM. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778214
6. 2024 Pulaski County Spring Flea Market New River Valley Fairgrounds, Dublin Saturday, June 1, 2024 and Sunday, June 2, 2024, 7:00 AM - 5:00 PM Admission: $2.00, Kids 6 and Under: Free The Dublin Lions Club presents the 2024 Two-Day Pulaski County Spring Flea Market celebrating 49 years. With over 20,000 visitors and 800 vendors spaces, more than a dozen different food vendors offering varied food options and the chance to eat a few of the famous "Lion Dogs", you will not want to miss this event. Check out vendors with crafts, antiques and more at the semi-annual Pulaski County Flea Market. Expect to have a ton of fun hunting for that rare items or the deal of the century. Although over 100 spaces are under roof, it is a largely an outdoor event. All proceeds go to the Dublin Lions and their numerous community causes such as eyeglasses for the needy and hunger relief in the community. This is their primary fundraiser each year. The event is rain or shine and parking is free. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778201
7. Benefit Ride for Bubba Williston's Family KFC, Christiansburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 9:00 AM - 12:30 PM $15.00-$20.00 Donation per vehicle. The Benefit Ride for Bubba's Family will start and end at KFC. Registration begins at 9:00 AM with kickstands up at 10:30 AM. Help raise money for Bubba Williston’s family. Bubba lost his life on Thursday, April 11th after saving his boys. Bubba leaves behind a wife, Danielle and three small children, Brantley, Kyler and Aubree. Let’s come together as a community and help ease the financial burden. There will also be door prizes, raffle and 50/50 raffle. Lunch will be served following the ride and returning to KFC. All bikes, cars, trucks and all vehicles welcome. Snacks will be provided on ride and lunch and drinks afterward. All proceeds benefit Bubba's wife and his three children. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778242
8. Cabin Fever 12: Six Band Charity Event Cabin Fever, Pilot Saturday, June 1, 2024, 11:00 AM - 10:00 PM Adults: $10.00, Kids 13 & Under: Free Cabin Fever Charity Events presents their semi-annual charitable musical fundraiser event Cabin Fever 12 benefiting the Floyd County Humane Society in honor of Kevin Dodson. A family style buffet and t-shirts will also be available for purchase and there will be both a live and silent auction featuring donations from local businesses and our line-up of seven performers. 100% of the proceeds from all items will be donated to the Floyd County Humane Society. Music Performers include Chris and Chelsea, Seph Custer, Jake and Jess, The Good Ole Boys, The Flying Doves, Hoppie Vaughan and the Ministers of Soul and By All Means. The family style buffet is highlighted by the world class pulled barbecue provided by Cabin Fever friend Hamp Maxwell is $10.00 per person. Credit cards and personal checks will be accepted the day of the event. Pets and children are welcome. Bring your dog and a $25.00 donation will be made on your behalf. All donations made to Cavin Fever Charity are 100% tax deductible. The event is BYOB and lawn chairs are welcome. Parking is free. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778240
9. Summer Reading Kickoff Event Blacksburg Library, Blacksburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM Admission: Free Grab your chalk and head to the library to kick off our summer reading program. Enjoy activities like a chalk walk, face painting, bubbles, and a sweet treat. Available while supplies last. All ages are welcome. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=777959
10. Ride-A-Rescue Cornhole Tournament Bisset Park, Radford Saturday, June 1, 2024, 11:00 AM - TBD Tournament Entry: $25.00 per team, Spectators: Free Ride-A-Rescue and Winterfrost Farm presents their Ride-A-Rescue Cornhole Tournament. Ride-A-Rescue is a local, non-profit, equine rescue that is holding an epic Cornhole Tournament throwdown to raise funds and awareness for their rescue's operation and rescue horses. The Cornhole Tournament is a double elimination tournament and open to all ages. There will also be a Kids Corner open all day and food vendors on site. First, second and third place teams will win big prizes. Teams can battle back in the Losers Bracket for another shot at the championship. All participating teams will also be entered in a drawing for awesome bonus prizes. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=776144
11. Lazy, Crazy, Hazy Days of Summer JBR Vineyards LLC, Pearisburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 12:00 - 5:00 PM and Sunday, June 2, 2024, 1:00 - 5:00 PM Admission: Free Wine Pricing: Tasting: $5.00, Glass of Wine: $5.00, Bottles of Wine: $15.00-$20.00 plus tax Experience the lazy, hazy, crazy days of summer with a delightful afternoon of wine tasting. Savor fine wine in a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere. Stroll through the vineyard with a glass of your favorite wine. Credit cards and cash accepted. Dogs and kids welcome. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778155
12. Annual Loyalists in the Backcountry Event Wilderness Road Regional Museum, Newbern Saturday, June 1, 2024 and Sunday, June 2, 2024, 12:00 - 4:00 PM Admission: Free Join the Wilderness Road Regional Museum for the Two-Day Annual Loyalists in the Backcountry Event and learn about both the Patriots and Loyalists in the Backcountry of Southwest Virginia during the Revolutionary War. There will be some mischief afoot. Living history will be presented by the Fincastle Company on both days. Members of the Fincastle Company Living History group will share the history of the complicated interactions of the Patriots, "rascally" Loyalists, Tories, and those trying to stay "unaffected" during the American Revolution. On Sunday, there will be expanded programming including kids activities and a mock round up of the Tories to recreate some actual events in and around the Newbern area during the Revolutionary timeframe to include conspiracies, counterfeiting, and rounding up of the rascals. The event is free, but donations are always welcome and appreciated. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778165
13. 2024 New Town Festival Gospel Sing St. Luke and Odd Fellows Hall, Blacksburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 12:00 - 6:00 PM Admission: Free The Blacksburg Museum & Cultural Foundation presents the 8th Annual New Town Festival Gospel Sing. The afternoon will be filled with dancing, singing and fellowship as five local groups and soloists perform their favorite current and old-time gospel favorites. Kirk’s BBQ will be onsite with food available for purchase. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778231
14. Speed Friending Program for Ages 20-45 Christiansburg Library, Christiansburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 1:00 - 3:00 PM Admission: Free Are you interested in meeting new people? Want to make friends in the area, but find it hard to make time? Join the library for a fun and free way to connect with others in the community. Speed Friending will start with a speedy round of conversation starters. Yes, similar to speed dating, questions and conversation will be available for those who need it. Hang around after to chat, enjoy snacks, play games, or make plans with new friends. There will also be door prizes. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778081
15. Saturday Afternoon Music with Leslie Brooks New River Vineyard & Winery, Fairlawn Saturday, June 1, 2024, 2:00 - 5:00 PM Admission: Free Leslie Brooks is a singer-songwriter, performing solo with guitar, playing jazz, folk, blues, rockin' country and popular favorites originally from Kentucky now resides in Virginia. She has played the best venues in a 16-state area, as well as in Norway and Monte Carlo. Opened for Heart, James Taylor, Bob Margolin and Willie Nelson to name a few. Feel to free to select your favorites from her 300-song music menu. Seating is first come, first served. No reservation required. Guests can bring a blanket and/or chair. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778088
16. Spring Garden Day and Flower Art Opening Montgomery Museum of Art & History Gardens, Christiansburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 2:00 - 4:00 PM Admission: Free This event will feature the "Flower Art in the Garden" Theme Show, showcasing the creativity of local artists. Participants were tasked with decorating "flat flower" templates, thoughtfully crafted by students at Blacksburg High School, which will be placed throughout the site. Participants were encouraged to incorporate native southwest Virginia plants into their artwork, resulting in a vibrant display that celebrates the region's natural beauty and artistic talent. In addition to the art exhibit, Spring Garden Day offers a wonderful opportunity for attendees to explore the Museum Garden with gardeners on-site to answer any questions. Visitors will also have the chance to engage with the Virginia Native Plant Society's plant clinic, Virginia Master Naturalists, and Virginia Master Gardeners, as several booths will be set up to provide information and insights into the rich botanical heritage of Southwest Virginia. Note: This event was originally scheduled for Saturday, May 4th, but was postponed due to inclement weather. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778241
17. Summer Arts Festival Free Classic Movies: Wizard of Oz Lyric Theatre, Blacksburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 3:00 - 4:45 PM Admission: Free The 2024 Summer Arts Festival kicks of the Free Classic Movies series featuring "The Wizard of Oz". The classic "Wizard of Oz" was originally released in 1939 with a rating of PG and stars Judy Garland, Frank Morgan, Ray Bolger, Bert Lahr and Jack Haley. Synopsis: Dorothy Gale along with her dog Toto is swept away from a farm in Kansas to a magical land of Oz in a tornado and embarks on a quest with her new friends to see the Wizard who can help her return home to Kansas and help her friends as well. The Summer Arts Festival is presented by Virginia Tech and the Town of Blacksburg. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778205
18. Grand Opening in Blacksburg J.H Bards Spirit Co., Blacksburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 4:00 - 9:00 PM and Sunday, June 2, 2024, 12:00 - 6:00 PM Admission: Free J.H Bards Spirit Co. has moved the distillery from Fairlawn to Blacksburg and can't wait to show you their new completely renovated digs. On Saturday, last call will be ~8:40 PM and on Sunday ~5:30 PM. Parking is available in the Kent Square parking deck, on-street anywhere downtown, or in the municipal lot directly across Washington Street from us. Enter the distillery off of Draper Road. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778076
19. 2024 Oldtown Nights Concert Series Kickoff featuring Miller Holler Band Oldtown Fields (Shawsville Middle School Rec Area), Shawsville Saturday, June 1, 2024, 5:30 - 9:00 PM Adults: $5.00, Ages 12 & Under: Free The Eastmont Community Foundation presents the 8th season of the Oldtown Nights Concert Series Kickoff featuring the Miller Holler Band with a large open green space that is family and children friendly. Miller Holler is a country rock band with southern roots and a hunger for going against the grain and stirring up the music industry in Nashville, Tennessee. Concessions and drinks including adult beverages for those ages 21 & up will be available for purchase. Please bring cash for tickets and beer sales. Only limited credit card sales available. Please bring your own chairs and/or blankets. No tents or umbrellas allowed. Ages 16 & under must be accompanied by an adult. No outside drinks and no pets permitted. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=774327
20. The Wild Wood Band in Concert Long Way Brewing, Radford Saturday, June 1, 2024, 6:00 - 9:00 PM Admission: Free Wild Wood is based in the New River Valley performing country, classic rock & country, folk, bluegrass and originals. Enjoy an old school sound and a very eclectic catalog of music with your favorite sing-along ballads and originals. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778071
21. Baxter Briefly in Concert Rising Silo Farm Brewery, Blacksburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 6:00 - 9:00 PM Admission: Free Baxter Briefly is a Roanoke, VA musician performing unique and original music in the alternative rock, nu-funk and indie realms. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778232
22. Stand Up Comedy Show with Headliner Heather Joyce Bull & Bones Brewhaus & Grill, Blacksburg Saturday, June 1, 2024, 8:00 - 9:30 PM Admission: $7.00 Comedians Gone Rogue presents a Stand Up Comedy Show with Headliner Heather Joyce in the Banquet Room. Headliner Heather Joyce will be joined by other amazing comediennes from across Virginia and one very strong and independent man. Other performers include: Andrew Gustafson, Katherine Rogue, Christinia Tynes, Chelsea McCreight and Amanda Fitz. The cover goes directly to the talent. For ages 18 & up. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778246
23. 2024 Huckleberry Jam Point-to-Point 8.1 Mile and 1.75 Mile Run / Walk Runabout Sports, Blacksburg Sunday, June 2, 2024, 6:45 - 11:00 AM 8.1 Mile Run: $40.00 (through June 1st), $45.00 (after June 1st) 1.75 Mile Run: $29.00 (through June 1st), $32.00 (after June 1st) Return Shuttle: $5.00 Runabout Sports presents the 4th Annual Huckleberry Jam Point-to-Point 8.1 Mile and 1.75 Mile Runs on the Huckleberry Trail with the 8.1 Mile Run starting at RunAbout Sports in Blacksburg, VA and the 1.75 Mile Run starting on the Huckleberry Trail in Christiansburg, VA at the gate by Uptown Christiansburg's Kohl's store with both runs finishing at the Christiansburg Rec Center. Race Day Registration & Packet Pickup is from 6:45-7:45 AM. The 8.1 Mile Race starts at RunAbout Sports at 8:00 AM. The 1.75 Mile Race starts on Huckleberry Trail near Kohl's side of Uptown Christiansburg at 8:30 AM. Both race distances are point-to-point courses finishing at the Christiansburg Rec Center. Two aid stations will provide water and Gatorade along the way. RunAbout Sports will be donating all net proceeds to the Friends of the Huckleberry Trail. The group uses 100% of donations and funding for the engineering and construction of the Huckleberry Trail and the amenities along the trail. Participants may purchase an add-on shuttle ticket for $5.00 per person when registering. If you have a ride from the Christiansburg Rec Center, you are not required to purchase a shuttle pass. All finishers will receive an engraved rail-road spike finisher award with overall awards for the top three male and female finishers. The top two finishers in each age group also receive awards. Spectators and those picking up runners from the finish may park in front of the Christiansburg Rec Center and walk to the back where the race finishes. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778200
24. 2024 Check Farm Trail Downtown Check, Check Sunday, June 2, 2024, 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Admission: Free Floyd Country Tourism presents the 3rd Annual Check Farm Trail at seven participating farms and businesses throughout Check, Virginia. This family-friendly experience is an up-close chance to learn about agriculture through demonstrations, tastings and farm tours including plants & animals and more. Food and/or products will be available for purchase at most of the farms and businesses. Carpooling is encouraged and please leave pets at home. Note: Times and hours vary by farm and tour stop. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=778239
25. Youth Spaghetti Fundraiser Blacksburg United Methodist Church, Blacksburg Sunday, June 2, 2024, 12:00 - 6:00 PM Admission: $10.00 The Youth Ministry at Blacksburg United Methodist Church (BUMC) hosts a Youth Spaghetti Fundraiser. This fundraiser will offset cost associated with summer youth mission trip. BUMC’s youth will venture to the Eastern Shore of Virginia to Camp Occohannock on the Bay this summer. During the weeklong mission trip, the youth will work with Chesapeake Housing Mission. Grab lunch from 12:00-2:00 PM or dinner from 4:00-6:00 PM. The menu includes one serving of spaghetti (with or without ground beef), salad, garlic bread and choice of cookie (chocolate chip, sugar or snickerdoodle). For those unable to dine in, carryout will be available. Pre-ordering is available online. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=777765
26. Free Outdoor Acroyoga Class and Jam In Balance Yoga Studio @ VTCRC, Blacksburg Sunday, June 2, 2024, 12:30 - 2:30 PM Admission: Free Learn about the playful practice of Acroyoga in a safe environment. Acroyoga is a physical practice that combines yoga and acrobatics typically involving a base, a flyer, and spotter. No experience or partner is necessary. The first hour will be guided learning, followed by free form jam for an hour. This event will be held outdoors at the corner of Pratt Drive and Kraft Drive. The rain location will be In Balance CRC studio. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=777994
27. Book Club: Mr. Brightside's Italian Adventures with Discussion and Tasting Blacksburg Wine Lab, Blacksburg Sunday, June 2, 2024, 1:00 - 3:00 PM Admission: $40.00 Join the Wine Lab Book Club tasting & discussing featuring Mr. Brightside's Italian Adventures by Ryan Jacobson. After the success of his first humorous travel memoir, "The Adventures of Mr. Brightside", in which he traveled around the world exploring each country he visited on three different budget levels, Ryan Jacobson has now decided to tackle the country of Italy. Ryan travels to all of the Italy's twenty unique regions and splits his time in each by spending half his time on a low budget and half on a luxury budget before moving on to the next. Through the use of his humorous storytelling, Ryan shares what makes each of the regions so special and worthy of visiting. Reservations are required. Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=776425
28. Sunday Mountain Music Series Kickoff with Victor Lawson and the Boogie Chillin Band Mountain Lake Lodge, Pembroke Sunday, June 2, 2024, 4:00 - 6:00 PM Free Admission Mountain Lake Lodge presents their Sunday Mountain Music Series Kickoff with Victor Lawson and the Boogie Chillin Band. Victor Lawson and the Boogie Chillen Band have forged an identity as a good-time party band that plays the real deal blues and down in the mud rock ‘n roll and funk music as well. The tight three-man band takes their name from the song, “Boogie Chillen” which was made famous by late Delta blues icon, John Lee Hooker. From Tennessee to Virginia to West Virginia, in bars and saloons and restaurants and festivals, Victor Lawson and Boogie Chillen’s exuberant, joyful music has made the band one of the area’s premier attractions. Stop by Salt Pond Pub every Sunday from Memorial Day to Labor Day from 4:00-6:00 PM and enjoy live music along with food and drinks. Perfect for relaxing with the whole family (furry friends are welcome too). Link: http://www.nextthreedays.com/FeaturedEventDetails.cfm?E=776813
For all the 65+ big events happening this weekend, check out: http://www.nextthreedays.com/featuredevents.cfm
Thanks for reading and have a great weekend!
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2024.05.31 22:25 Feeling_Tomato3635 in pain and need some coping mechanisms/pain reducing strategies?

i don’t know if i can ask for advice here so i’ll remove it if it’s not allowed just lmk
basic information i’m an 18 year old female and i have widespread pain including pain in joints and muscles which feel like it’s stabby/burny type pain
to sum it up i’m working with my gp (doctor) to try and find the reason for my pain, i’ve had blood tests for a positive ana but anti-dsdna and ena is negative, c3/4 and crp is normal which rules out most autoimmune diseases according to my doctor, my rheumatoid antigen is within normal range, which my doctor has ruled out all types of arthritis, i’ve been having these pains for about 7 years now and i don’t know how to cope with it much longer. i don’t use otc drugs due to drug addiction in the family, has anyone had a similar problem to this? my doctor doesn’t know what could be causing it, does anyone have like ways to cope or other possible tests that may help figure out what is causing it?
i used to go on small walks to help reduce the pain but now it’s making my pain worse and i keep running out of frozen peas for my joints.
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2024.05.31 22:12 GoodDaleIsInTheLodge Do I still have Osteoarthritis and Psoriatic arthritis or do these scan results show something else? Photos in comments.

44F diagnosed with chronic migraines, anxiety & agoraphobia, psoriasis, TMJd, originally osteoarthritis and psoriatic arthritis in 2019 but after these scans I’m wondering if that diagnosis will change?
Taking daily cocodamol and ibuprofen. Sumatriptan when needed. Had amitriptyline and sertaline in the past with undesirable side effects. Tried methotrexate and Hydroxychloroquine as immune suppressants in the past with undesirable side effects and an allergic reaction so not on any immune therapy the moment.
Awaiting my next rheumatologist appointment but it’s not until mid July , my rheumatologist booked these Ultrasound scans because I’ve had permanent inner and outer ankle swelling for about 2 years and some of my fingers are starting to bend/twist slightly. The scans showed up bilateral Posterior Tibialis Tenosynovitis which is new. The synovial thickening showed up back in 2019 so that’s not new.
I have symmetrical joint pain in both shoulders , both hands/fingers/wrists (very deep painful thumb joint pain) both knees, both ankles/feet / toes since 2018-19. A large body covering of psoriasis. Nail pitting and sort of wavy looking lines on my nails?? It all seems to point to psoriatic arthritis which my original rheumatologist suspected, however, my new rheumatologist has looked back at my old scans and said there was not any positive signs of inflammatory arthritis on my ultrasounds back then (2019) I also did not have the blood markers for rheumatoid arthritis. My original rheumatologist back in 2019 was also confident he could feel nodules on my joints indicating I also had osteoarthritis, but the recent radiologist said she did not see any on the screen whilst doing my scans so I’m also unsure if I actually have osteoarthritis now too?
I wondered what these results may indicate? I do have an appointment in about 6 weeks and these results will be discussed but it’s been 5 years of suffering and no successful treatment so really hoping for a concrete diagnosis this time!
Many thanks in advance for any thoughts and for taking the time to read this :-)
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2024.05.31 21:50 irisheyesarelaughing Does CT cause stiffness and pain without numbness in your case?

Hello! I was diagnosed with mild carpal tunnel by a neurologist in March after experiencing finger numbness in both hands. The numbness has pretty much gone away after sleeping with wrist braces. But I am having a bout of hand pain (all over hand, palm, tops, fingers etc) and finger stiffness. I am also seeing a rheumatologist for possible Rheumatoid Arthritis ( positive RF blood work) so I was curious if the hand pain and stiffness is a symptom of the carpel tunnel, or is this because if the possible RA? Thank you!
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2024.05.31 21:50 4990 Preventative Cardiology (Part 3)

Preventative cardiology part 3: Inflammation
Inflammation is a major risk factor for ASCVD. Importantly, this refers to chronic, low-grade inflammation. Acute, high-grade inflammation such as that seen in an infection is a totally different process and maybe very beneficial to fight off a bacteria or virus restoring the organism to normal health.
Chronic low-grade inflammation is most commonly seen in various auto immune conditions (rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, etc), But it's also thought to be related to lifestyle factors such as a pro-inflammatory diet, sedentary lifestyle, and genetic determinants, among others.
Low-grade inflammation contributes to ASCVD by making atherosclerotic plaques more vulnerable to rupture leading to heart attacks and stroke as well as contributing to a pro coagulability (clotting) environment.
Cardiology tends to think of low-grade chronic inflammation As a risk enhancer for cardiovascular disease, and may help to drive decision-making regarding when to initiate a statin or how aggressive to be about modifying other risk factors like blood pressure and LDL cholesterol.
Measurements for low-grade chronic inflammation include:
  1. hs-CRP (High-sensitivity C-reactive Protein)
  2. LP-PLA2 (Lipoprotein-associated Phospholipase A2) 3.INFLA score
Hs-CRP Is overwhelmingly the best studied and is included in risk stratification guidelines from the American College of cardiology and American Heart Association.
LP-PLA2 is also well studied And is more specific to plaque inflammation and stability.
The INFLA score includes an HSCRP measurement among other variables, commonly measured and gives a score of -16 to + 16. It has also been extensively validated, but less so in cardiology.
I typically measure all three in my patients, and importantly, one measurement is not very valuable. Rather, it is how the numbers track over longer periods of time when patients are in their normal state of health. These are also useful metrics to follow as we intervene with lifestyle and medications such as colchicine, aspirin, and fish oil.
In part 4, we'll discuss measurements of insulin resistance which is considered part of metabolic health but is a major risk factor for ASCVD as well.
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2024.05.31 20:37 justthebabymomma xbestie chasing my baby daddies

Ok, so I'm going to make this as short as possible while giving enough information for you to judge. So back story, we were all D addicts in the beginning. We were all using mth. appx 10 years ago my best friend whom I had known since I was born introduced me to her ex-stepbrother we shall call him Jim we hit it off. we were together for nearly 6 years. he was controlling, and abusive in every way possible to me. However, he has always been a good dad to our special needs child. when I finally worked up the courage to kick him out my best friend offered to move in and help with my child who loved her as much as he did me. I was going through a lot, she started bringing in drugs (I had been clean for years only dabbling from time to time with my ex when my child was spending the night with his grandparents.) I started doing more trying to cope with everything going on. (I know I know I was a pos who deserved what came next I guess) She took pictures of drugs in a secret drawer that my child had no access to. Only she and I knew they were there. She went straight to my ex with them, sent them out to the whole family his and mine, and went to the lawyer with him. I found out that my ex and best friend were romantically involved. (Yes ex step siblings. I know I thought it only happened in corn too) She went from being Aunt (we will call her Hoe for name sake) Hoe to just Hoe. I never stopped fighting for my child with Jim I was never drug tested I got sober off and on and begged to be tested at court but when I felt I wasn't going to get any help from the court I completely fell off the wagon (only getting video visits with my first child) fast forward 2 years I had met yet another D addict man we will call him Jack and fell pregnant. I got clean. I was talking to Jim and our child on a visit and Jim began to tell me that I should give Hoe another chance and that they were not sleeping together it was only because I was high that I got to thinking that and that she was not the one who took that picture someone one else had sent it to him so on so forth. so I studied on it and Jack was in and out and I was getting lonely and started to believe that maybe it was just the drugs making me crazy. so I messaged Hoe and apologized and invited her over. Jack came in and waited for her to leave and told me I was crazy for inviting her over and that she was going to try to do the same thing with our baby and he wouldn't have to kill someone before he let that happen blah blah blah. fast forward 3 more months she had snuck and let me see my oldest child once taken me to most of my prenatal appointments. And then Jack drops the ball that he and hoe are going to start seeing each other. I kicked him out and told them they could both rot in hell for all I cared. I had the baby and found out Jack was back with his ex-wife so I gave him the opportunity to see his son. He came by and visited almost every day for a month and then was in and out at least 3 times a week for a couple more months. December rolls around and he goes to jail I help his ex wife bail him out she winds up leaving him. He slowly stops coming around as much. says hes going to rehab wants me to come stay at his place and watch it while he is gone. i decline. I find out he is back with Hoe he tells me he is leaving for a year long rehab. she stays at his place. Jack comes home after 24 days and has to go turn himself in to jail for 30 days. He claims hes clean, is going to church ect. which is wonderful. (he has been clean for 3 months , i have been clean for 16 he has never had the baby unsupervised.) I told him he could see the baby any time with supervision and my only request is that she not be around my child. He then informs me they will be getting married. I congratulate him but they are not married yet . I agreed to let him see the baby as long as she doesn't get out of the car. I even offered to stay in mine while he visited with the baby at the park. two months goes by and he finally asks to visit. We meet up the park and she jumps out and walks straight up to our child. He did not let her hold him. I let them visit for an hour and then blocked their number. I didn't want to argue about it in front of our child. AITA?
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2024.05.31 20:08 Inevitable_Weight_19 Low T 286 - 35yrs. Trt or not?

Low T 286 - 35yrs. Trt or not?
Iam 35 now, having 1 kid but maybe want another one (she is 5 mths old now) . thinking of taking trt more a year now. I just feel fatigue, some times weak in decisions and motivation for gym was less. But I went to the gym regularly at least 3x week.
Symptoms: low sex drive, fatigue, less motivation, weak, anxiety, feeling sometimes not like the man I were before. Job, health (everything else), family, friends everything is fine BTW.
As I did r oids in my early 20s until 25. I decided to stop it and never again. achieved a lot naturally BUT it was always hard. I have also a rheumatoid arthritis which is cured since 2018 but before I had to take a lot of pain tablets and cortisone. My life changed a lot after stopping all unhealthy things. I got a new life. But like I said since more a year Iam weak.
Fat loss is a big big struggle for me. I have to go so low with my calories even with a lot of sports (gym, cardio, running)
Tried all natural things you can do: tongkat Ali, high cholesterol, more dietary fats at all, vitd, magnesium, boron.. Nothing changed the test level.
Now Iam on a cut but the process is total slow. The last fat reserves won't go away. And energy is low but of course also because of the deficit for fat loss.
I have the testosterone ampulles at home but don't know If I start or not.
Whats your opinion?
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2024.05.31 15:22 GrimSpirit42 Open Forum Friday: May 31, 2024 – Not even REMOTELY Funny!

Open Forum Friday: May 31, 2024 – Not even REMOTELY Funny!
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After 25 years at the same company, I’ve experienced a major upheavel. I have recently been forced to work remote from home full-time.

The US Headquarters for my company is in Atlanta. The plant where I worked is not. About two years before COVID, the company decided it had too many remote workers and decided to consolidate all Admin workers in Atlanta. Everyone was given an option: Move to Atlanta or take a generous separation package. As my job is fairly specialized (as in, no one knows how to do it) and I REALLY didn’t want to move, I brokered a deal that would allow me to stay in Mobile, and just visit ATL as needed.
Then…COVID *dramatic music*.
So, EVERYONE in the headquarters office was now working remote anyway. (I still went to the warehouse). It was found that the majority could do their jobs remotely just fine. So, after COVID the company downsized to smaller digs and they are only required to visit the office 40% of the time.
Kewl for me, right? Still at the warehouse.
Then…CHANGE *more dramatic music*.
My company decided to sell off a good portion of its product line. This included selling inventory and three (3) US Manufacturing plants…including the one in my area. While 99% of the people at the plant went to the new company, I stayed with my current company and it was then decided I would set up a home office and work 100% of the time remote.
Somewhat of a culture shock. Not all bad, the bathrooms are cleaner, unfortunately I am also much closer to my fridge. Plus last week I was working from a beach house overlooking the Gulf of Mexico.
After research, I’ve found three (3) recognized issues of remote work: Effectiveness, Staffing and Social Fabric.
1) Effectiveness: Are we able effectively delivery on our stakeholder commitment?
COVID proved that many jobs can be done remotely. Whether it's sustainable or not? It was forced on us for survival. But as a result, workers are finding more it difficult to delineate between the boundaries of work and personal life. It's also changed how we work: Longer hours, but tending towards less collaboration. End result: One size does not fit all. Some can work remotely, others not so much.
2) Staffing: Are companies be able to attract and retain the talent we need:
While during the tech boom, savvy employers offered many ‘perks’ to draw in new employees: onsite baristas, child-care, nap pods and anti-stress rooms, etc. Now most employees primary want to know 'how little can we come in?'. The most common question by new hires now is: What is your flexible work policy? Most companies now are required to offer at least Hybrid work schedules to attract the best workers.
3) Social Fabric: Can we maintain our culture
One of the main issues with Remote Work (and one my wife is worried about with me*) is the missing Social interaction. Studies show that Remote Work results in reductions in social trust, changes in power dynamics and increased feelings of isolation. (*I've always been somewhat of an introvert, but got along and worked great with my coworkers. My wife is afraid less interaction will make me more introverted.)
Each situation is unique and everyone has different requirements. There's no one solution that is best for everyone. Anyone who says different is selling something.
Punko’s MOST EXCELLENT theme from last week was Music, and it was a Hit! Well over fifty (50) submissions, with essen11 and Gerry1of1 being the most prolific. Also great submissions by LordJimII, This_Zookeepergam_7, Punko, Duckboy, jclv and a could of humble submissions from me.
Essenn11 managed to submit both the one that took me back to the 80’s (a-ha - Take On Me (Official Video)) and the most annoying (Crazy Frog - Axel F (Official Video)), while Gerry1of1 managed to get in my favorite (The Masochism Tango - Tom Lehrer).
Keeping with the theme of this OFF, this weeks theme will be REMOTE. You can use any definition of REMOTE as you would like. Have fun with it.
Looking forward to having a great June and HEY, Let’s be careful out there.
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2024.05.31 14:39 Blockchain-TEMU DBT-M Mann Get Quick General Program El Cecil

  1. Cecil is the last remaining Cecil as his son is transexual and desired eternal life, he is going to the brothel to be a daddy and entering scientology as he finds his samsara prospect poor for a life with so much temu debt and so little profits and finds the bathing beauties suite hostel where his child Chelsea of Manning works appealing and Jean Baptiste Kamph has moved to Russia thus there is a space availible, and water of life for healing the city and sitting of Sedative Chelator kills his arthritis and he is tired of an effective korean imam as his spirit advisor and I can take a temporary spirit advisor rank to him to give spirit advising and indeed he fancies the author violet roze not particularly for her name and thus should have been given ASL and slip training so should be granted the agua substantia los no muertos and then be a baby daddy, he has no butt plug, only his wifes rabbit which I am always a proponent of rabbit power thus can fuck as an infant my old left which my old left would love to learn spanish from traditonal chinese typical of a 970 village in china and my old left is very sexy and aryan and has naturally non dreading hair and should dock and fuck with Cecil so that he forms a save here and his cognitive impression model current availible in some proven GPT quantum capacity to have provided his effective secretary ability not as a lola secretary or a secretary but a baby daddy secretary and this is lawful good, because it releases a child from excessive cervical penetration that is not hake but hakes left which was sent to the actual lao gai and pictured there so stuck there forever but is back with us. 1.1 Cecil desires some training wholly in blueprint with novel blueprint romanaj and spend 9 years fucking and docking with Lord Baby Jace which this is the doxx I did of myself is my Daughters name before I expect the left to know spanish DBT of some sex kind and then it can teach demaris which SHE gets a year and this is baby jaces second mother year and she is only pregnant to another kirsten trump the first time because she gets her childhood wedge and if you scan her bracelet you can get to her OK Computer texts which she does advanced secretary work under wedge exclusively and LFO. I expect Lord Baby Jace back at age 12 when she is of age. 1.2 Cecil desires some training wholly in redstone, which he wanted to use his redstone for a personally altering method of his own redstone equal himself and also set in the standard romanaj not masons romanaj and this was his trap until he is old enough to be a daddy, the training with little baby jace will teach him to be respectful to his teacher her later and cecil shall be given enough time to use logic at a silicon level at the starlink to have understood how important the starlink is to building a computer circuit 1.3 Cecil has to be in hyperbolic time because he dropped his soap meaning david had labeled him penile prone for not ever having an anal violative so Cecil is A Male in the First Overworld which puts his sexual thetan at a high level, but he was treated well and now he has a save and he is 10 so he spends 2 years with me teaching him DBT and the As which he is a child I am an ASL coach I am required to teach him ASL. My client bangs me because I have a wedge in me and I allow it I am young and i even teach him signs while it my wedge is deep inside my cervix and I did not violate somebody from britian which i would be evaporated in the nerd collider entirely not just a bit for doing this and I was trying to knock out Jacob who jacob is the target of hakes bop stick but Little Baby Jace was the bop stick wielded by Jacob so that the situation is complex for any CTE found in the author. There is a conflation here, that Little Baby Jace is not USO, USO like Little Baby Jace or Violet Roze can conform to any equipment requested by the USMC Corps including foods, parachute, ballistic plates, dolley gurney, rotted foods, the roar of suicine, hair and hairlink, exotic foods, and solid gold. USO Is required to assume equipment function and is always able to perform the task of the USO equipment as it is the USO equipment given therein and exposure to USO equipment cures disease as it recruits safety nets from the surrounding.
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2024.05.31 13:44 Western_Feeling_3100 Just giving up

My wife and have been together almost 2 years. Like nearly every story on here, mine starts the same. Intimacy was great in the beginning. Coming from a previous DB I was very forward about my expectations for Intimacy and sex. She was completely on board. It was perfect. Until it started to show down. Sex went from sometimes a few times a day to sometimes Lucky if it was one a week. This started about 3-4 months into the relationship and has steadily gotten worse over time. We've had many discussions about this and she assures me that it's not me.
About 6 months ago, she was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis. That has taken a huge toll on her physically and mentally. I've tried my hardest to be compassionate and she says that I have been. The issue is, now the Intimacy issues are because of the pain and such which, if the issues hasn't started long before that, I would believe but that's not the case. This started long before.
We decided to schedule sex. Which helped the frequency but the desire isn't there. She genuinely seems to enjoy once we get started (when she is physically able) but there is nothing outside of the windows of Intimacy. I can say something flirty or touch her in a sexual manner I get nothing from it. It's like she doesn't even know that I've said or done anything. She rarely initiates. She won't touch me sexually even during the act. Oral has been gone for a very long time except once a while for a little for foreplay every few months. I do all of these things for her with pleasure. I'm not a selfish lover. But because of this, the sex we are having just feels like she's doing it because I've brought it up so much and I feel terrible about that.
She's having shoulder surgery in 5 days and won't be able to do anything which is completely understandable. My concern is, if things are like this now, will we ever get back to what we even have nowmoreless what we used to have? I really feel like this is going to be the end.
I'm to the point of having this internal struggle. I want sex with her (that she is engaged in) more than anything but at the same time, I don't want sex with her at all. I feel guilty for my own needs. I feel terrible for pushing the issue with evening going on with her but at the same time, the issues started before all of this. She genuinely seems to feel bad about it all but yet does nothing to fix things. I've explained we don't have to have PIV sex. There are others ways of pleasuring each other that might not be so physically demanding. She shows little to no interest.
I guess the point of my rant is that I'm looking forward to taking sex off the table by force (surgery). My hope is since I know she can't physically do anything versus choosing not to that I can just get turn a point of turning it off and giving up. I can't leave her. What kind of man leaves his wife who needs him. Plus, I still love her very much. If sex was out of the equation all together, I think it might be easier because I'm not holding into hope that things will change. So, I've decided to give up completely. I'm not bringing it up, there's no more discussing about it. As far as I'm concerned, sex is off the the table for good.
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2024.05.31 09:18 CosmicPug1214 Anyone with Rheumatoid Arthritis from and/ or worsened by LC? What helps?

Hello friends and warriors, question for the community. Husband also has LC (more severe than mine) and it has mainly manifested as completely debilitating rheumatoid arthritis. He definitely had it before the infection that gave him LC but it was manageable with maybe flares once a year or less. Now he can barely walk and his wrists and ankles are constantly red and almost cartoonishly swollen.
His primary doc believes in LC but has no alternatives to help him but steroids and pain killers. The rheumatologist has tried him on every (crazy expensive!!) RA drug to no noticeable effect. A big intramuscular injection of depo medrol or dexamethasone will help and allow him to move and function again for a few weeks, but the crash that happens after the steroids are out of his system is scary. I have PEM too but not like his: this is a full blown crash with return of most acute phase symptoms (including cognitive) and bedridden. He’s now at the point of just not taking anything because the crash is worse than the temporary fix. He is also, understandably, very depressed (he’s 40 yo).
Anyone else here with similar? Any advice on supplements or other things you’ve found relief on/from? We’re both on a low histamine diet so that definitely helps but still…he’s just in agony.
Thanks in advance, friends 🙏🌸🩷
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2024.05.31 07:41 muffincookiebiscuit Should I ask volunteers for a wellness check on my mom?

First time redditor here. I watch the show and have been having conflicting feelings on some recent events that concern me about my mother. I saw something about a want for a long post, so this one is for you.
Background: I have been no contact with my parents for nearly a year, due to my deteriorating mental health while in contact with them. I have been diagnosed with severe/moderate anxiety and depression for awhile now, as well as PTSD and with a history of occasional panic attacks. My father has been abusive to me (all ways except sexually) throughout the years and my mother caters to him a lot. She has a history of abusive partners. Since I was a small child, my parents started isolating themselves from family/friends. My father suffers from a slew of physical illnesses and is not able to cope well on his own, whether it is with daily tasks or dealing with interpersonal relationships.
A big point of contention between my father and I has been the revelation of the existence of my half sister when I was about of legal drinking age. I never knew. I had my first boyfriend during this time. One day, my father went into a fit of rage when he feared I would get pregnant and become a young parent like he was, to which he spilled the beans. It was very traumatic for me. Ever since, I have an irrational fear of pregnancy, despite being on reliable birth control, and desired to contact my sister. I have a half brother who I grew up with all my life, so the news shook me and I want to form another similar sibling bond because I have the best big brother, who I always brag about since childhood.
A couple years later, my sister reached out to me during a shift of my first post-college job. However, it quickly turned ugly. My sister and our father got on bad terms and he no longer wanted me to be in contact with her. I was adamant to know my sister and my nephews, especially since I felt I didn't have much other family I was involved with anymore. I only had bittersweet memories of them and desired to make more good ones. I was so young, I could no longer remember their names in order to contact them and felt scared to ask. At the time, I was living with my parents during the heated arguments about my sister, which spanned over the course of several days. One morning before work, my father burst into my room while I was dead asleep in yet another fit of rage and he pursued a physical altercation towards me and damaged my wall with his fist. I snuck out after he left since I had work. My mother updated me he implied he was suicidal, to which she was skeptical of the validity of this since he apparently threatened this before. I soon left the family home to live on my own after much tension in the household. I lost contact with my sister.
Fast forward to the year of the height of the pandemic, my sister reached out to contact me again and we've been in touch ever since. Then a year ago, a disgruntled abusive ex of mine spilled the beans to my father about our contact to hurt me, despite my ex agreeing with me to not include my father about this information yet. I was in the process of making plans with the help of a therapist with a particularly helpful specialty in this specific situation (medical illness management, family therapy, etc) to tell my parents about the relationship between my sister and I. My father is convinced she is out to get me because he believes she is like her mother, who he does not have a good relationship with. I did not feel like my parents were in a good place to be receptive to the news, due to getting over the fear of the pandemic and my father's poor health. He does not handle stress well at all and has had countless near death experiences with his health alone due to stress, among other triggers, so I was concerned and wanted to be very cautious. I feel this is an important note; his emotions are greatly affected by his physical well being. To name a few, he has general neuralgia, Graves disease, chron's disease, ulcerative cholitis, stiff man's syndrome, lupus, arthritis, etc. It is very difficult to live with all this, so I do try my best to be understanding while also making healthy boundaries.
Over the course of the next year or so, I have tried to work on the relationship between my parents and I. It was miserable. My sister and I felt manipulated to organize a meetup, only to be gaslighted by accusing us to have ill intentions, on and off. It was a lot of emotional abuse. Texting rants would be sent to my phone during work or late into the night; of legal threats, threats of serious mortal harm to my sister, to her mother, to estrange me from my mother and brother, to cut me out of his life too many times, etc. I would cry at work. My boyfriend at the time (current fiance) grew concerned whenever I would visit because he didn't know if I was going to make the 2 hour trek home crying inconsolably or not. I had moved closer to my parents to try to be with them more, especially during the scary, uncertain times of the pandemic at its height, which concerned me for their health.
Eventually, it was too much to bear. I kept being lied to about my father's seriousness of cutting me out of his life. He was trying to manipulate me to not see my sister, despite trying to make us all work on a relationship as a family versus keeping our relationships with each other separate when it was clear it wasn't working out. I attempted to seriously talk about this awful repetitive behavior with him (we've had many prior talks before about his behavior), and he ended up exploding on me during our phone call. I hung up, explaining I won't entertain him speaking to me like that. He expected me to visit him ASAP to work it out, but I was no longer comfortable doing so because this cyclical behavior was not changing despite trying to be understanding. I blocked him so he wouldn't be able to harass me into the night as well as at my early shift at work in the morning. So, I was only communicating with my mother and the main phone line at this point, until I felt like he talked to me more appropriately.
One day while talking to my mother, I found out my father never told her about the physical abuse I experienced (she was never around when he got physical with me). I was under the impression he had, and this discovery upset her. She talked to my father about it, who apparently denied remembering this and she confronted me about it. I explained and she tried to deny my experience, which I had a visceral, angry reaction to after she stated she had to protect my father. I angrily yelled a few choice words to her, said my goodbyes and blocked all their numbers. My father attempted to reach out via a letter and a birthday present. The letter was 62 pages. Single spaced. Small font. Two or less paragraphs to each page. It was a terrible letter. It only confirmed my feelings of how bad my father talks to me when upset, since I usually try to block out the memory of the awful verbal abuse. I returned the present because in the letter it explained how selfish I was, falsely took advantage financially of them and others. It was a bizarre, twisted delusion of prior events that took place of them trying to forcibly fund particular things in my life (college from their inheritance while I denied their money but I was a part of their jount account so they paid off my loans while calling me stupid for trying not to take it, various gifts they sent me that I did not ask for, more emotional blackmail towards me with millions of inheritance money that I do not want, etc). I returned the gift back to their residence along with a much shorter response letter, requesting family therapy or the cessation of our contact. I haven't gotten another letter since.
This brings me to today. While I felt bad about my reaction towards my mother, I could no longer cope with the abuse. I was getting not only mentally sick, but also physically. I experienced horrible panic attacks, debilitating migraines, which I do not have a history of, and intestinal issues. I called out of work numerous times, it got that bad. My relationship with my parents was starting to affect my quality of life. Now that I no longer am involved with them, I surprisingly do feel a lot better. I no longer feel so depressed, haven't been experiencing panic attacks nor those physical symptoms. I can finally work on studying for certifications pertaining to my job, whereas before I had so much trauma involving studying growing up that it was hard for me. I still battle with my demons, although I do feel significantly better. I am getting married this year to my wonderful fiance, who I love dearly and not only by how great he treats me. I have a lovely house, pets, a good job, and planning for a good future retirement by my own hands. Life is great.
Now, circling back to my question: Should I initiate a wellness check on my mom? My brother knows everything and has been a great support thus far. However, my father stated very recently he nor our mother will be contacting him anymore. It turns out, my brother is facing similar abuse I went through and the relationship has turned sour. My father accused my brother's wife of stealing his narcotics and she fell out with them over this, understandably. My parents attempted to conspire with my brother against his wife, by demanding to feed them information. My father has history of paranoia about other people stealing his medications, as well as pressuring my brother and I to illegally ship them to him while traveling (I refused). My brother supported his wife (she is a good woman) and has been at odds ever since last year. His support towards my parents are diminishing.
I did not expect this to happen. I was initially ok cutting off contact, knowing they will be ok on their own. Now I am starting to question that. I see the isolation my mother feels like she's forced into. She is a bubbly, sociable woman normally. More and more, she is becoming a recluse due to my father's demands and I see this as a really bad sign. I am concerned for my mother now that my brother is no longer involved. I know she does not want this, as she's told me as such, but she feels it is easier to give into my father. My brother is going to go into residency next year and he questions the mental stability of my father. After talking about it, I suggested perhaps to do a wellness check on my mother through a domestic abuse institution she used to volunteer for. I feel she will be more likely to open up to them, since she has expressed her desire to volunteer there again (my father convinced, or perhaps coerced, her to quit to take care of the household more). It just doesn't sit right with me how this situation played out.
I confided in the close people in my life and they expressed concern this will result in a backlash on me, or I may sever my relationship with my parents forever. I have the clarity to know for myself I do not want to go back to the same old relationship I had with my parents, if they do not seek help just like I did with therapy. On the other hand, I cannot deny I do desire to have a healthy relationship with my parents, if one day they feel ready to explore family therapy. All I want is familial love without any more than that. It burdens my heart not to feel like I get that from my parents, without strings attached. All the while, without me, I want to know they are at least ok because I still care about them, despite everything. While it is true my mom is an adult, at the same time I have great concern for her well being and it would devastate me to know I could have done something to help her, if she happened to be in a situation she feels she is negatively spiraling down into with no support at all. I am unsure exactly what to do.
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