Weird birthday poems

My boyfriend's been acting weird ever since he revealed he was planning to propose. Over the last weeks, he's been complaining about price of the ring and how we wouldn't be able to buy other stuff because of it.
I felt a bit sad about how he expressed this, and this happened a few times before I finally told him how I felt about it. I decided to interpret it positively, I thought maybe he wasn't sure about how much to spend and I told him to not worry, something less than 100USD is ok.
Yesterday he was super romantic, talking about marriage and so on. At one point he playfully pointed to his finger, asking when he would get one. He has never mentioned something like this before and it's not traditional where we live.
Today, he revealed he'd bought the ring, I guess he was excited. Then he started demanding I should get one, asking why I was the only one supposed to get one, how would other people know he was engaged as well, why didn't he have the same "rights" as me, etc.
Shortly after he said this, I said I didn't know he wanted one, I could get one for him if he wanted. But he became really insistent and acting offended, almost like he was disappointed I didn't think about it or produce one in the spot.
My birthday is this weekend and I'm thinking he might propose by then, now I feel pressured into getting him something by that time. I love him a lot but he can be very childish and self-centered. If he'd told me in advance, I would have gotten him something as well and I would very much have made it something custom and made it a special occasion.
I love surprising him with gifts. Now I'm thinking, why does everything, always has to be about him? Here's the thing, he only decided he actually wants one, after complaining about having to buy one for me and making me feel sad about something that should feel like is something to celebrate.
Now I'm looking for rings online, but I would like to hear your thoughts on this before I do it. I don't care about buying him a ring, but I would prefer to have a conversation with him because I don't feel ok with the way he's going about it.
Thanks in advance.

Last summer I (16-F) was talking to this guy (17-M), let’s call him Skater Boy, we hung out all summer until close to halloween. We never kissed or even held hands but we both confirmed it was more than platonic. One random day Skater-Boy messaged me saying simply “I’m sorry I don’t think the rizz should continue.” I asked for further explanation he said that he didn’t like me because I was not into skating, cars or street art (Graffiti). In typical teenage girl fashion I took many months to get over him.
Over the months since this Skater Boy had been saying I was weird as and circulating our text conversation to make fun of me. One of my closest friends(17F), Kickflip, is Skater Boys childhood best friend. I expressed hurt at Skater Boys actions and she shut me down and I did my best to move on.
Once while stalking Skater Boys instagram I found this girl (16F) and suspected her and Skater Boy had some history. I shared my findings with Kickflip and we both agreed this girl, Kitten, was someone we’d be friends with, so we started texting and made plans to hangout in person.
Kickflip, Kitten and I became very close friends and Kitten confirmed that she and Skater Boy had talked off and on only ever on social media. Months of friendship went by smoothly until they started hanging out with Skater Boy and his friends. I asked if I could accompany them to hangout as I felt left out and Kickflip informed me that they did not want me there greatly due to the history with Skater Boy. Kickflip didn’t even want me to attend her Birthday party.
This friend group continued on as I becamd increasingly wounded by my exclusion. I never expressed my hurt to not cause conflict.
Prom rolled around they made plans, that I was excluded from. My despair deepened when I discovered Skater Boy asked Kitten to be his date, I found out from a picture of the promposal.
I felt betrayal that Kitten had not told me, and felt some petty jealousy. I held back my sadness and told her I was happy for her. I didn’t want to give my friends any more reason to distance from me.
I went to Kickflip and broke down. She apologized and admitted her guilt at how everyone had excluded me. I also expressed to her how I felt about Kitten and Skater Boy together. She thinks it’s ridiculous that I am this offended.
What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together going on 1 1/2 years. A couple of weeks ago, I threw him a birthday party and one of our mutual friends started talking about this girl and how she was newly single and had huge tits and a big ass, etc etc. My boyfriend made the comment that he had no idea who she was. I tried to explain who she was and he shook his head and said no, I have never talked to her.
Well, I was scrolling through instagram last night and noticed that he had started following this specific girl. She has a private account so he requested and she accepted. I thought it was odd and I felt a little weird about it.
I debated and decided to ask why he had followed her instead of speculating things. So, I asked, “Why did you start following … lol” His response was to say, “we used to be friends back in the day? And this is my account and I make music so I should be connecting with a lot of people?” Then he told me that this was the second time I had asked him about someone on his social media, so it’s starting to concern him that I didn’t trust him. (The first and only time I ever asked him was because I had researched a yoga instructor and saw he followed her, so I asked if he knew her because I was interested in taking a yoga class).
I responded and told him he had told me he had no idea who she was and I didn’t care who he followed at all, he was a grown adult and could make his own choices. That I just saw that and because of the previous conversation, I felt a bit insecure. Especially because all she posts are thirst trap photos of her butt and boobs.
I also told him I didn’t want to feel guilty for asking a question. His response was that, “this not feeling guilty stuff isn’t sitting right with me. And I don’t understand why I need to explain why I followed someone on social media.” He didn’t react to the fact that he lied to me about being friends with her.
I strive to be a kind and loving partner and I try very hard to support and communicate things healthily. But is this controlling that I asked him? I didn’t accuse him of anything, I insisted when I saw that I felt insecure, explained why, etc.
Or am I justified in simply asking him? We’ve had a lot of issues with any time I bring something up, he becomes automatically defensive and no matter how kind I am, he’s mean.

It's thundering outside and I need book recommendations.
Something far out and weird. Nothing too serious. Can be poems, nonfiction, fiction, a manual of some sort. I just finished The Spoon River Anthology and I'm currently listening to The Amusement Park (a history etc).
Thank you. 🙌
PS: Anthologies and short stories are usually my preference regarding length. I have ADHD and cannot focus for long.

I’m 21 male. My girlfriend(20F) and I have been together for 2 years.
The first time I met her parents, her dad pulled me to the side and said to me “I hope you aren’t having sex with me daughter”, I sort of just laughed and walked off as I thought he must have been joking or something.
My girlfriend’s mum and dad have always been off-ish with me, not said much, not interested in me whatsoever when I’m around them.
Her dad has said a load of weird shit to me, one of the worst is “I hope you’re infertile because I don’t want any part of you part of my family”.
My girlfriend’s parents went away for a week and asked my girlfriend if she could stay and look after their dogs. She did and asked if I could stay to help her, they said yes. My girlfriend and I had sex 3 times in the week we stayed there. I through the condom away in the outside bin, they were also wrapped up in toilet paper. A few days after they got back, we went back to their house as it was my girlfriends mums birthday. Her dad pulled me to the side and said “I saw them condoms in my bin, and your fucking disgusting”. The dude must have actually gone through the bin to find them.
I’m not going to much into detail and writing all the stuff he’s said because it will just be to long of a post.
I have never done anything wrong in my life for them to have a reason not to like me.
I’ve said to my girlfriend that I refuse to see them.
AITAH?

i need some advice
ok so basically i (20F) am really conflicted rn because my best friend (19m) invited my ex and his girlfriend to his birthday weekend instead of me not once but twice.
some backstory on the situation… OK so last summer my ex and i had a messy break up which was made worse because not only did we work at the same place but he also moved on with someone else at the same store two weeks after we broke up after being together for over a year. the breakup was amicable but i was really blindsided by it. because we were all friends and i didn’t want to make him choose bc that’s not fair and i’m not the boss of him also he didn’t have the same relationship with my ex as i did. fast forward to the present last month my friend wanted to get a airbnb for his bday weekend and bc of the tension and bad blood my ex and i had he kept being weird and kinda avoided talking abt it or changed the subject and after a few weeks of me asking about it he finally admitted that he was “worried abt” me being uncomfortable even tho i’ve moved on i’m getting therapy to better myself bc i can admit that i wasn’t a perfect partner and i definitely could have been better. That being said I wasn’t a horrible partner, but I acknowledge that I could always do better and be better. then after he told me that I told him that I was OK and then I would be fine because I genuinely just wanted to celebrate my friend. Unfortunately, the beach house had to be canceled because people were dropping out and not paying and my friend didn’t want all that stress about his birthday before it even happened. I could tell he was really bummed about having to cancel because he was really excited to have the party. So to cheer him up, I decided to message a few of his closest friends and set up a surprise for him to show him he’s cared for and appreciated. so I ask if I can take him out to dinner at his favorite place and talked to his other best friends to set up the surprise and I was planning on making a reservation today bc everyone was in. so he text me today a couple hours after we got to work (we work together btw) He text me saying that he can’t do dinner anymore because one of his friends had a lake house and said that they could use it so I’m thinking OK that’s fine. We can move dinner. i’m just excited the weekend birthday celebration is back on come to find out I’m not invited, but my ex and his girlfriend are. I am pretty hurt by the situation, especially because he tells me he’s my I am pretty hurt by the situation, especially because he tells me he’s my closest friend, but sometimes I don’t feel like he tells me i’m his closest friend, but sometimes I don’t feel like it. we had the conversation about me being OK being around my ex and his girlfriend and we talked it out and I felt good about it but it to happen again I don’t know if I’m overreacting and being too sensitive but I don’t know what to do or how to address it or even if I should address it I just don’t know what to do 😭😭😭 i hate feeling like this Because I hate dwelling, it takes up so much time and energy. I don’t know how to stop.

Here is the main of it (i have already posted in another channel specific to a religious holiday about this but i think its better to get general input from people)
My wife's family does a lot of gift giving, Im ok with birthdays and one offs outside of that (weddings or something like that) but they do much more
To make it simple ill break it down. Each person gets their own present for each event that applies so ill just put the holiday and how many gifts we need to buy EVERY YEAR.
4 - Birthday
4 - Christmas
2 - Anniversary
1 - Mothers Day
1 - Fathers Day
Now the problem isn't so much the fact that we have to get something, because a card is $3-5 and idc about that. Its that the gifts need to be $80-150 (so as to not be disrespectful) so averaging that at $115 that is $1,380 in presents per year, over $100 a month if that helps you visualize.
No one is that young so ive listed the ages below ages: Me: 30
Wife: 29
Wifes Mom: older than us
Wifes Dad: older than us
Wifes Sister: 40
Sisters Husband: 40
A little about myself: My family doesnt do gifts at ALL so i might be on the other side of the spectrum from this. and this very well might be normal behaviour. But I am wondering if this is something that is normal for a family. I personally think buying anniversary presents for her parents is weird, maybe for the bigger number anniversary or birthdays but not every single year.
Please help me see the light

I (29 F) had a mutual crush on a guy (39 M) who I met a two years ago. We see each other very sporadically IRL. We rarely interacted at first, but eventually he began initiating conversations with me. When I met him, he had a girlfriend but I was completely unaware. He never posted about her on social media. It took me a year to realize he had one, but we only interacted as friends (and quite sparsely) up until that point. I was able to get over that, but it felt strange. Fast forward to October 2023, and I finally admit my crush. He tells me it's mutual. Eventually admits that I was difficult not to notice when we first met, which was very flattering. We are long distance, and end up talking almost every day. I kept having this gnawing feeling in the back of my mind, so I asked him about it.
He changed his tune a bit: said he saw me talking to a mutual friend later on that night, so he figured he should follow me. But that wasn't what he told me before. I said that behavior was a bit of a red flag to me, and things were never the same. He said I didn't understand what was going on in their relationship at the time, but never explained. I told him I didn't want to be with a person who scopes out others, but still sticks around. We made plans to meet in person this past January. The week before, he stops responding to my texts, but I would see him actively using IG. Finally, he told me it was because someone he dated reached out to him to reconnect. He told her he didn't want to, and she attempted suicide, said it messed him and felt pressured by our situation and didn't want any "expectations", and stay friends no matter what. It was like he was preparing for the end before we even began.
I asked him if he still wanted me to come out there cos I felt uncomfortable, and he said yes. I visit the local law school and make plans to occupy myself just in case. The first night we met he asked to my hotel room and tried to have sex with me in less than an hour. Then he made all these plans with me that didn't come to fruition. The next day, he didn't try to kiss or hug me. All the intimacy was gone. I asked why and he said it was too soon. I end up feeling even more confused, but I agree. I just didn't understand the switch-up.
On the last day, we kiss goodbye. I go home, he becomes sporadic with his texts and ignores me. I keep asking him how he feels about me now that we got to hang out more in person, he dodges. I try to speak to him over the phone, he refuses. We never have a clarifying conversation about this and just stop talking for awhile.
I ended up initiating contact back in March and April. We started getting along well again. He told me he missed talking to me, sent a photo of himself on his birthday, sent a selfie, and I sent him a romantic poem. He said it was one of the most thoughtful gifts he ever received. We have stimulating conversations about poetry. He celebrates me getting published and asks for a copy of the anthology. I call him my muse, and he heart reacts the text. I ask him if it's okay to send him sexy pictures, and he said I can send him anything I want especially if it's sexy.
This past Sunday, we flirted. Yesterday, he claimed that we were "just friends". This was in the middle of a conversation where we were talking about me moving to his city for law school. I ask him if that means we should stop flirting. I tell him I don't send sexy photos and romantic poems to someone who is just my friend. I felt used by this person again, like I was just a placeholder for entertainment.
Every time things get real between us, he pushes me away. So I blocked him everywhere. I just want reassurance that this was the right thing to do. Was this person ultimately just using me?
TL;DR I met a guy who seemed fantastic but learned he tends to hide important information from me. He made me feel really comfortable, and seemed equally as interested until the idea of close physical proximity emerges on the horizon. Every time this person and I progress in the right direction, he switches up on me. I blocked him because I felt used, but I could use some reassurance that this was the right thing to do.

NeoDestiny, let's imagine that while Nathan was at a birthday party one of his friend's parents gave Nathan their number. They repeatedly text and facetime one another. Nathan goes to them for professional and relationship advice. That parent says things like, "I miss you so much", and Nathan wants to meet up with that parent when they're in town next, doesnt even mention the child friend. What is your immediate assumption of that sort of relationship?
Now let's say that this parent also so happens to follow other teenagers on social media, and talks to some of them too. There's rumors of that parent dating someone who turned 18 not that long ago.
Would none of this raise alarm bells for you? Would you let Nathan see that parent without you present?
Now before someone says that this is a change in framing from the actual Drake and Millie situation because they're both celebrities is it now no longer strange because Drake is a rapper and Millie was a child actor?
Sorry, but Drake shouldn't be sharing his contact information with a child regardless if he's a fan of the show or not. If it was Natalie Dyer or Winona Ryder I don't give a shit. They're adults. But as far as I'm aware Drake wasn't speaking to them, he was speaking to the female child star. If Millie was asking for professional advice (whether it be because he's a rapper, child actor, famous celebrity) there are other ways to do that then giving her your personal phone number. Get her in contact with an agent or a producer through professional emails.
You can say this is a self-report or whatever, I don't care. I coach wrestling to children, I work closely with a children's theatre, and I volunteer in other youth activities. You're never going to catch me texting those children I mentor; their parents can message me their questions. You're never going to see me following a child's social media page. That shit is weird.

It’s a long long story of our relationship to know our relationship. But it was her first relationship with a girl. She had been healing from her ex boyfriend and was adjusting to moving to the state I live in and we became friends. I helped her get into therapy, helped her find coping skills, helped her find a lot about herself. And I was happy to do it, as her friend. Then things became more and she said she didn’t want a relationship, I respected her. I respected her boundaries. Months later she asked me out and I was elated. We spent all our time together. We talked about the future. We talked about everything. Everything was amazing.. until I started having emotions. Our first fight was because I found messages between her and her ex boyfriend when I was using her computer for homework. These texts were when I met, and she was wishing he was there and that he lived with her and she was attached to him. She even talked about me. I felt unsettled, and told her. She had a panic attack and I consoled her for hours. After that, she was different. She wasn’t as attached to me. She made me feel loved, but it always left me feeling a bit insecure, which I talked to her about and told her I’d need reassurance. I felt weird about it but moved on. Our next big fight was over miscommunications. So, I facilitated our conversation. Tried to work towards solutions, and scripts I could use to communicate my feelings without her feeling attacked. Things were good for a long time. Until our fight a week ago, where she did something I got (rightfully) upset about. I talked it through with her and she apologized and acknowledged she was in the wrong. We communicated so well! We were supposed to have date night that night. She was upset after and I comforted her for a three hours and she kept saying "I ruined date night it's all my fault I was so excited and I ruined everything" and it took everything I had to convince her we could still go on a date and have a fun night. And we did! We were laughing the whole time, singing, enjoying our time together. When we got home her vibe changed completely and she started journaling (which is fine of course I was just confused). I had worn something a little sexy under my pants that night just in case, and when the lights turned out and I realized she wanted to go to bed, I went through my bag to change out of it and she asked what I was doing. I told her "oh I was just wearing something silly in case we got physical tonight or something but it's okay l'm happy to go to sleep I just needed to change! I just was prepared in case but I'd be happy to cuddle, or talk, or just have some type of physical affection. And she got upset because sex is a very sensitive topic for her. In our past fight, I told her If we ever needed to talk about it, I would bring it up softly. I guess I didn't and she got upset and wouldn't cuddle me or anything. I said I was sorry and let out a sigh and she said "I literally will cuddle you in 5 minutes I just need to lay on this side" I got upset for some reason, felt a little sad because she struggles with physical touch and to me it comes so naturally with my partner, anyone else I hate it) and I said "do you ever just feel like we are just best friends sometimes because we're not as physical as other people?" And she said again "oh my god I literally said I'd cuddle you in five minutes. I hear you. I'm going to bed" and that was it. The next morning I left for work and I gave her a kiss on the head and sat with her for a minute because she reached out for me. Later that morning and we were texting normal. She said she loved me and was proud of me and she said she was having anxiety because of last night so I offered her some space and told her I love her. Towards the end of the night shr asked when I got off work and I told her and she Wa texting me about how upset she was, that I ruined her sisters birthday, etc. she said she felt bad for "not putting out even if you didn't mean it as sex." (I want to preface I have NEVER EVER pressured her to have sex. That's one of the reasons she was with me, because I didn't care for a second if we did or didn't. That doesn't matter to me! Not to mention we are two girls, and in the time we were together I never asked her to touch me like that because it was her first relationship with a girl and I have a bit of sexual trauma and it takes me awhile to be comfortable. So any time we had sex, it was mostly for her so she could feel good and that was perfectly fine with me. I let her initiate so she never ever felt pressured. That night we had a fun date and I just was prepared in case we did) I called her and she told me she was breaking up with me, that I caused her too much anxiety because of last night and she doesn't want to feel that way. We went back and forth and I said "if you are going to break up with me I need you to do it to my face." So I drive there, she has all my stuff packed, and she does it to my face. I was so upset and hurt and tired from crying the sight of that just made me drop to my knees. She made her decision. In one day. There was no fighting for me and I pathetically begged and she said it was permanent. We were going to a wedding in two days where she grew up. We were going to my graduation in two weeks. We were looking at rings two days ago. I'm baffled. I'm heartbroken. I can't stop crying, there's a cold rock in my stomach and I can't eat. I am just completely blindsided. In my head we could get through anything, we could talk through anything. Every morning sitting on the couch drinking coffee together, every night is making dinner for each other, us laughing and smiling and just hugging in the kitchen, all of it I was ready to have for the rest of my life and it's just gone. I don't understand. I've never loved someone like this. It feels like the world is ending. Between these issues there was so much love. She treated me so well and better than anyone ever has before. She was kind, caring, thoughtful, and truly, seemed to love me. I tried so hard to accommodate and be there for her and make her feel loved. Looking through texts, not even a week ago she said how she loved how I made everyone around me including her feel loved. We were talking about rings two days before. She was my best friend and I believed we could get through anything. I don’t get how she left in one night. I need some insight. I’m heartbroken. Thank you for reading if you did.

I lost my boyfriend because I got him a birthday present. I haven’t heard anything from him since his birthday Sunday. Maybe I should’ve ignored him because if I don’t, he’ll feel smothered.
I wasn’t able to be there in person because both of us had to work all day. Anyway, I thought that since I wouldn’t be there in person, it would be a nice gesture to send him a bundt cake. It was fairly inexpensive, nothing extravagant. He’s also sent me things before, so it wasn’t weird.
I sent him it, He told me he really liked it hasn’t spoken to me since then. Maybe I came off as psycho or overly attached.
And what do you know, I haven’t heard anything from him since that day. We’ve been dating over a year and I screwed up with that one action. Of course I also did a couple of other things that could’ve messed it up.
About a day later I texted him asking if I could stay over for a couple days because my roommates invited a bunch of people over who would be there all week and they were making a lot of noise. That’s all I said, but maybe that’s what ended the relationship? And it has to be over because there’s no other explanation for me not hearing from him since Sunday. Sure he works three jobs, but he opened the message and didn’t respond which must mean he’s sending a message of his own that it’s over.
I’ve stayed over at his place before. He’s invited me over plenty of times. I did my best not to sound demanding, and I even told him but if he wasn’t comfortable with that I could just stay at a hotel, but I guess I shouldn’t have asked all.
I have been doing my best to be ice cold, apathetic and detached because that’s what they like. Trust me, I know from experience. I’ve been trying my best not to be my overly affectionate, too attached borderline self, and keep my distance. You shouldn’t be emotionally attached to somebody when we dated 2 years anyway that’s still basically the fucking talking stage.
I’ve even improved my appearance. My skin is cleared up, I have lost a bunch of weight, but I guess nothings ever going to be enough. I’m officially single. I must be because guys don’t break up with people. They just kind of goes silent, and you never hear from him again.

Hey everyone! This is my first time posting so please be gentle. So, I, 42 am a divorced mom of two biological boys (14&17). I met my now ex husband through bumble in 2019. I had been single for about 8 years at that point, had done a lot of self work, and was ready for a partner. In walked this guy, he checked a lot of the boxes I had although he wasn’t super cute and his sense of humor was hurtful (that second one should have been a red flag). He had three boys around my sons’ ages (now 13,16,19). His oldest son has severe autism with violent tendencies and the mother was suffering from pretty severe cptsd from him and had stepped back from taking him when I came into the picture. At the time my ex told me she was a shitty mom who just didn’t care about her son. I was gutting and it hooked me. Having work in the disability field for years before I became a hairstylist I knew I could help. Looking back it’s clear to me I fell in love with his children while settling for him but I digress. There were things throughout the relationship that I felt were off but back then I loved painting and I painted every red flag the greenest color I could find! Everything started going south not long before he proposed. His mannerisms started changing, his personality and need for control increased and my voice got smaller and smaller. He went from be a moderate to a Trump loving conservative almost overnight. I had moved into his house a year in and had to beg for any space within it. It took 6 months to get a closet! I had mentioned to him early on I wasn’t interested in marriage and at that time we were on the same page. Two years in and he started dropping hints and I knew if I wanted this relationship to continue I would need to concede the marriage argument. At this point I thought that as long as things stay the way they are I would be ok with it. A few days later I see he ordered wedding bands off Amazon. I started to panic. Now to be fair to my ex I did tell him I didn’t want a fancy ring or a wedding but to put it on our joint Amazon account was weird, right? I told my mom about it and she caved and told me he was going to propose at the beach when we planed to go down just the two of us. I remember feeling trapped but knew I would say yes because to say no meant the end of the relationship. He proposed with a photo album of our five boys holding will you marry me signs. It was really sweet albeit really sloppy and seemingly last minute. After the proposal I felt better. He seemed nicer, kinder, and happy and it put me on cloud nine. Then wedding planning started. As I had stated before I told him I didn’t want a wedding but said I’d agree to do a court house thing and then have an epic party afterwards. He played to my empathy about my 80 year old dad wanting to walk me down the aisle. I wanted to pick a date a year or two out and he again used my dad’s health as a reason to do it in under three months. I know now that it was because he couldn’t keep up the mask for much longer. The entire wedding planning was done by me, for a wedding I didn’t want. I even bought a dress that I had no interest in buying all for him to have a second big wedding and he couldn’t even give input or help out in any way! The day of the event he comes to me and says he has picked the song he wants to walk out to and it was “someone to bleed on” by The Rolling Stones. I explained that I’ve conceded everything for this wedding for him but I had chosen a song to walk in and out to and didn’t want that song. He changed it anyway so minutes after saying “I do”, blasting all over the loudspeaker is “we all want some to bleed on”. Nice. So very nice. Two weeks into our marriage and I was still feeling off about the idea of being a wife. I had never nor had ever planned to get married but I was convinced it was just in my head and I’d settle down. That weekend we were headed to his brothers house for his moms birthday party. Ten minutes in and he had jumped onto the kids zip line and smashed into a tree snapping the rop and his collar bone in the process. The following weeks were of him getting as high as possible on pain pills and waking me up every ten minutes to help him with something. Going back to the doctors and pretending to be in so much pain that they gave him more. Mind you I’m caring for five boys, a household, oh and did I mention I own a salon suite too? It was madness. After two weeks of little sleep and too much simpathy, I was coming down the stairs in a rush because I had woken up late to find his oldest son (with autism) trying to give himself his liquid meds because I had sent him down to my ex to give him his meds before school. He had tried to wake him but couldn’t and didn’t want to get in trouble for not taking his meds so he tried to do it himself. For context, it’s a high powered sedative that in the wrong dose could kill him. I was livid. I snapped and shouted at the ex. I told him if he couldn’t get his shit together I was going to have to reach out to his family for support. He flipped out throwing things and yelling that I have betrayed his trust. He then proceeded to call and text me throughout the day while I was with clients to let me know how horrible I am. Next text would be I’m sorry. I’ll do better. The usually bs weak men give when they’ve been called out. I finally responded when he suggested I hold his drugs and give them out when it was time. I responded that I have enough kids to parents and didn’t need a sixth and that if he admits he has a problem with his addiction he needed to handle it. I’m a supporting role not his caregiver and nurse. This made him snap. When I went home that night I tried to explain that addiction was his responsibility and I’d be by his side every minute while he fought it but that it’s an inside job to fix and I wasn’t going to help him continue to abuse them or switch to a child/parent role to take care of him. Three months later I had to have a hysterectomy. By accident the doctors found tumors and all sorts of fun little things in my lady bits. The surgery was five hours long due to the damage from end stage endometriosis. My ex had a work event about 45 minutes away from the hospital and asked me if I minded him going while I was in surgery. I didn’t have an issue with it but asked that he keep him phone on so I could reach him. He said he would. When I woke up he wasn’t there. No biggie. I didn’t expect him to be. I ask for my phone and try and call him. No answer. I try a few more times before calling his mom to see if she had heard from him. She told me he had said the nurse told him I’d be there for several more hours so he turned his phone off. I guess because I refused the pain meds after surgery I was able to go early. My demon in law snapped at me for being impatient (right…after…surgery). My ex got angry at me for my huffy post anesthesia voicemail and refused to speak to me on the ride home and made sure to hit every pothole just to show me! Now I could go on and on but for the sake of the post I won’t. Just picture a year of that over and over again and you’ll get jest of my marriage. If I moved an item in the house I was wrong. If I questioned his opinion I was wrong. I was mocked by both him, one of his brothers, and his mom. While the rest of the family were lovely, I couldn’t understand why everyone found my exs behavior acceptable. The final straw for me was after my dad was diagnosed with stage four esophageal cancer. He had been through radiation and chemotherapy and was super weak. We admitted him to the ER as one does. The outcome wasn’t looking good. I was spending every minute of free time with my dad. In truth, I was a little neglectful of my family but I felt it was warranted given the situation. My dad was moved to a nursing home 40 minutes away after 6 weeks in the hospital. He was delirious , bed bound, and incontinent. During his hospital stay his pressure sores got so bad they were to the bone. The patient to nurse staff was deplorable and my poor sweet dad was being neglected so my mom, sister, and I took turns being there to change and care for him. (spoiler* as of this post he is 81 and cancer free. Still bed bound but he’s alive and getting better every day!) During this time my ex would get upset that I wasn’t around. He would pick fights and get the kids to chime in making me feel guilty for seeing my dad over my family. When I would ask them to come only the boys would. My ex, the one time he came kept looking at his phone and ignoring everyone like a sulking teenager. One night on my way home from seeing my dad I was crying on the phone to my ex. The evening before my dad has an episode of sundowning and smashed his forehead with the metal pole used to hold his feeding tube food. While trying to tear the tube out of his stomach the pole came crashing down on his face. He should have gotten stitches but by the time the nursing staff checked on him the bleeding had stopped. Seeing him like that, this strong sweet gentle man, I just broken down. My ex, out of the blue offered for us to bring my dad home to live with us and before anyone asks why my mom couldn’t take him, she has (and beautifully I may add) but when all of this was going down she was having health issues of her own plus given her age us siblings felt better if she wasn’t the primary caregiver if possible. To say I was elated was an understatement. When I got home that night I was so full of love for my ex. We had a long conversation about what it would mean for us and it was decided that night. I called my mom excitedly to tell her the news. My mom and I started calling around to get a hospital bed, in home nursing care, the works. A few nights later I’m talking my ex about all the things my mom and I had set up that day when he gets quiet. By this point in our relationshit I knew what was coming; he then tells me that this is moving too fast (although this situation had been going on for months and the topic of parental care responsibilities had been discussed throughout our relationship ad nauseam). An argument ensued and something in me that night snapped. The last string of love was cut. I stopped speaking. Days go by and he asked me what it would take for me to get back to normal. I tell him until he is willing to go to therapy with me and make the changes necessary I don’t see this working. This man took a whole ass month to finally agree and by that time those 30 long no talking days showed me just how little I meant to him. The day he agreed to therapy he packed his three boys up and headed down to his mother’s beach house while I was at work, leaving my oldest home and left out. My son who he promised to adopted and said he saw as his own. My son and I sat in that house that night dumbfounded. While down at the beach he over drafted our joint bank account for tires for his truck when he knew the joint account was for bills only as we keep our bank accounts separate. He stayed an extra day and didn’t bother communicating anything. When he got home we got into a fight after I wasn’t bounding down the steps to see him. He blew up at me about not wanting to file taxes with him because he owes a lot of back taxes and this man says “then what’s the point of even being married to you?” I left that day. He took his sons and left and I got a U-Haul and hauled it out of there. I left everything I couldn’t fit into that thing. For the next two months I received no less than 80 texts and 10+ calls every day from my ex. Meanwhile I’m trying to find a place to live, buy all new things, and transition my sons and my step sons to this new normal. In between him calling me he got ahold of our phone bill (my hair clients and friends) and started calling anyone he could to slander my name. It was hell. He was drinking and I’m sure using drugs. He used his family to get information out of me. I was a mess. I finally filed a restraining order when he went to rehab in hopes of sending a clear message to be left alone. The week before a state trouper had put an extreme PO on him after finding him drunk and passed out on the kitchen floor with loaded guns around. (This is a daily thing in our house by that point, finding loaded guns around and taking the firing pins out to make them useless after years of trying to keep them secure.) We were officially divorce after he got out of rehab. Thanks to my mom’s insistence on a prenup I didn’t even have to be at my own divorce because he couldn’t get anything from me or my business. The protective order was in place and I was feeling good about things. Once or twice I’d see a truck that looked exactly like his drive by my street. The state trooper who had put the ERPO on my ex had warned me to install cameras so I have them out all over my house. It’s been just over a year since then and my life is worlds better now but I just received notification that my ex is trying to shield my protective order. The order is over now and because it wasn’t violated it won’t be renewed. So here’s where I get to my point, my PO isn’t the first he’s received. To my knowledge he has had four that are known. Four he has shielded already. If those women were able to keep them from being hidden I would have seen them when I did a back ground check on him. #onlinedating So would I be the asshole for pleading the court not to shield the order? He has a high paying job and his field of work in no way would be impacted by this. Just in case you want to make a claim for that. And in case you were worried about his boys, we see them all the time thanks to their mom and her ptsd has been much better and she was able to regain full custody of their oldest. She and the boys are a blessing to our lives!

This is a long read.
TL;DR: Drake is a creep with a clear pattern of predatory behavior towards many minors and I have the receipts to back it up.
INTRODUCTION
This is a comprehensive post regarding Drake's extremely questionable behavior regarding minors and young women in general. There's more than 60 links in this post to various sources and it contains almost 30.000 characters.
If you want to repost, make a YouTube video, an article, a TikTok or Twitter thread then do it - I do not need credit, I do not care - I only want this information to be spread.
This post will serve as an archive that people can refer back to or use as a source to back up their claims.
Let me be clear - I do not like Drake. I've thought the guy was a creep ever since the Millie Bobby Brown video and I despise him - but I'll still try to remain as objective as possible here, you know my bias now though.
This thread is partly based on this thread from 2022
THE 17 YEAR OLD AT A SHOW
Drake is performing at a show in Ogden, Denver where he calls a girl up on stage. I really encourage you to watch this yourself, but since I know the majority of you won't watch it, I've described it for you below.
Video starts with her on stage, he asks her name, where she is from, asks the crowd to welcome her to the stage and tells her she looks great. He then asks her to give him two seconds because "I gotta be ready for you".
He wipes off his sweat with a towel and proceeds to take her hand, put it on his shoulder, his hand on her hip/back and they slowdance for a few seconds. He spins her around and stop her with her back facing him. This is when it starts to get.. really weird.
Drake says "I told you I like your hair, right, what is it, like herbal essence or something?" while he's caressing her shoulder and smelling her hair. He says something I can't hear properly, puts the mic down and exposes her upper back and neck by pulling her shirt collar down. The crowd goes wild. He then starts kissing her shoulder and neck, putting her arms around her and fondle her breast.
A few seconds later he picks up the mic again and says "you can't have me carried away again before I get in trouble - how old are you?" She responds "17". The crowd has a mixed reaction - Drake says something that is hard to make out, because of the crowd but when it's clear he says "I can't go to jail yet, man - 17? Why do you look like that? You thick - look at all this!"
It's hard to make out exactly what he says afterwards because of the poor quality (2011 zoomed video at a concert, it's bad..), but he says something about it bringing them (the 17 year old and Drake) to a close and follows it up with "I got one question for you (...) I just want to know if (something about women in Colorado), I should just take one opportunity to take one home?"
The girl nods "As a Colorado woman you'd enjoy that?" "Well, listen 17, I had fun - I don't know if I should feel guilty or not, but I had fun. I liked the way your breasts felt against my chest. I just want to thank you." He then puts the mic down again, grabs her hand and kisses it. You might think that was a little over the top, but he then immediately follows it up by putting his hand on her chin and kissing both of her cheeks, her forehead and then on her fucking lips.
I think he asks her to walk off stage, it's hard to make out, but then he says "It's okay. I'm only 23, I can do shit like that. It's all good, you know what I'm saying" and the video ends.
Addition: I know this girl has said she was not offended, violated, whatever you want to call it, but that's not the point. And I do not mean to sound like a complete dick, but it's not about her - it's about Drake and proving his pattern of behavior over many instances. If you stopped here because she denied it, you completely missed the point.
MILLIE BOBBY BROWN
Now this video was what really made me do a double take on Drake. Now, there's one very important fact to establish here and that is that Millie Bobby Brown at the time of this interview (18. September 2018) is 14 (Born 19. February 2004). I'll quickly transcribe the interview here:
Interviewer:

What about your relationship with Drake, tell me about your friendship, how did this all come about?

Millie Bobby Brown:

I love him. I met him in Australia and he's honestly so fantastic and a great friend and a great role model. You know we text - we just texted each other the other day and he was like "I miss you so much" and I was like "I miss you more". He's coming to Atlanta, so I'm definitely gonna go and see him and I'm so excited.

Interviewer 2:

You and Drake? That's awesome. That's awesome..

Interviewer:

What advice does he give you? What does he say?

MMB:

About boys he helps me, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah he's great. He's wonderful, I love him.

Interviewer:

What's his advice with boys?

MMB:

Ehm, you know.. That stays in the text messages.

I'm sure it's obvious what is wrong here and I don't need to spell it out for any of you, but I do have one thing to add. If Drake is giving advice about boys and telling her "I miss you so much" they must have talked for a while. It's not something you say after knowing a person for a week. We are talking months at least. There's 7 months between her birthday and the interview - did Drake already start talking to her when she was 13? It would make sense that Drake was in Australia during their summer (Dec-Feb) for festivals/concerts/vacation.
Millie has only commented on this once which was a few days later in a story on Instagram
I don't want or mean to infantilize her, but she was 14. She would have no chance of knowing if Drake actually was grooming her. There's not a chance that she could understand the dynamic at play and why it's wrong at that age.
Drake also defended their friendship on the song Another Late Night when he raps:

Weirdos in my comments talkin' 'bout some Millie Bobby, look
Bring them jokes up to the gang, we get to really flockin'

Ironically enough that very same song is also connected to the next person
BILLIE EILISH
The year after the Millie Bobby Brown controversy Drake gets caught texting a minor again and this time it's Billie Eilish. She does a yearly interview with Vanity Fair, and in the 2019 version she's asked who's her most famous contact in her phone. That's when she reveals she's been texting with Drake and that he's so very nice to her. Billie is at the time of the interview (released 25. November 2019) 17 (born 18. December 2001).
Billie did defend Drake and their texting in an interview with Vogue ~3 months later:

“The internet is such a stupid-ass mess right now,” says Eilish, who quit Twitter in 2018. “Everybody’s so sensitive. A grown man can’t be a fan of an artist? There are so many people that the internet should be more worried about. Like, you’re really going to say that Drake is creepy because he’s a fan of mine, and then you’re going to go vote for Trump? What the fuck is that shit?”

On the song Another Late Night where Drake mentions Millie Bobby Brown, Lil Yachty is featured (one of Drake's gho.. co-writers) and he raps the line:

I let her go, she fine as hell but baby wasn't stylish (Yeah)
She had big tits like Billie Eilish but she couldn't sing (Drip)

Now - I know this is not Drake, I just thought it was a 'funny' coincidence that these two women are connected through their shared experiences with Drake and this song. On another note some might say that Drake should have asked Yachty to omit this line if he really was a friend of Billie Eilish since she has been quite vocal about sexualization of herself and women in general.
BELLA HARRIS
This one is pretty fucking bad in my opinion. Bella Harris is the daughter of Jimmy Jam who's a record producer, songwriter etc. and has been very successful. Through him she's been in and around the entertainment/music business her whole life and met Drake that way.
There's an archive of photos posted here that contains the old IG posts she had with Drake. The first one was on May 5th, 2016 - Bella Harris is born 20. April, 2000. She had just turned 16 at the time.
Objectively I think they are defendable since they are all music related - Rihanna concert, Summer Sixteen Tour (ironic name..) and the American Music Awards, but then two years later they reportedly start dating and that makes it really difficult to believe, especially with the last archived photo of them in 2018. Also the same photo that is referenced in this article talking about Drake renting an entire restaurant for an intimate dinner between them.
Note that E! have confirmed it and are not backing down on their claim despite Harris denying it on Instagram.
Her father liked this post on Instagram about the whole situation. It's not particular to the restaurant or previous potential dating it's more so a general declaration of support for Drake, but that includes the PDF-file allegations.
Him supporting Drake made me search for more information, because I wanted to find whether or not he had spoken about it at the time. That led me to this article where her mother, Lisa, is being asked a few questions regarding Bella.

I was surprised Jimmy Jam hasn't introduced Bella to Drake, Rihanna or anybody else in the music world she is interested in meeting.
"No," said Lisa. "She loves Rihanna, she loves Beyoncé. [Bella has met Bey; her brother Max has met Ri-Ri.] She hasn't met Drake. Too old."

Lisa Harris about a photo of Bella (included in the article) - Bella is 14, almost 15 at the time.

I think Drake would behave himself around a child, even one dressed like this, to wit: Mom doesn't think this photo is too sexy, in all its legginess?
"SHE'S WEARING A BATHING SUIT and a coat!" said Lisa. "Sexy? What? My point is it's a body business, so I don't look at it [that way]. It's a posed picture. She has a one-piece bathing suit on. It's artistic."

KYLIE JENNER
Ever since the Kanye (also fuck Kanye for the record) vs. Drake beef we (or I at least) became aware of the fact that Drake has had a long relationship with the Kardashians/Jenners and known them for many, many years. In fact Drake performed at Kylie's sweet 16 back in 2013. You know what that Sweet 16 was specifically remembered for as well? Drake kissing Kylie on the cheek in front of everyone, including her then boyfriend Jaden Smith.
That's not out of the ordinary and would be very normal, if it wasn't for the clear pattern that is going on here, because guess what - 6 years later Drake and Kylie reportedly start dating, well.. dating/fucking/whatever you wanna call it. Admittedly this article is easily dismissed as paparazzi journalism and clickbait, but what if I told you that Drake has rapped this:

Yeah, I’m a hater to society/Real shit, Kylie Jenner that’s a side piece/Yeah, I got 20 muthafuckas in’ Kylies.

You probably wouldn't have heard it, since it was on an unreleased track played on an Instagram Live back in 2020, but it does make it seem pretty likely that he did actually hook up with her, especially considering the response Drake posted

“A song that mark ran last night on night owl sound live set shouldn’t have been played,” he wrote, “It’s a song that leaked 3 years ago and got scrapped shortly after. He was just going too deep in the drake/future catalogue. Last thing I’d want to do is wake up having any friends of mine feeling disrespected so I just had to say that to start off the day.”

Kylie was 22 at the time they reportedly hooked up.
HAILEY BALDWIN (NOW BIEBER)
In 2016 there were reports that Hailey and Drake were dating. Apparently they hooked up at a party that Drake hosted, where another attendee is also mentioned that seems oddly relevant:

Drake and Hailey weren't the only ones getting close, with Kylie Jenner and rumoured new boyfriend PartyNextDoor were seen "making out" at the party.
"It was almost like she was trying to make a statement," an insider added.

Now again - there's nothing illegal in a 11 year age difference and dating a 19-year old as 30. It's weird, yes. But again we come back to the pattern. Why do Drake know Hailey? Through their similar friends and friend group (Kardashians/Jenners). How long has Drake known Hailey? Well, when Hailey was 19, she said they had known each other for a long time.
We can actually get even closer with certainty since we know that Hailey attended Kylie's Sweet 16 in August, 2013. Hailey is born 22. November 1996, so she was also 16 at the time. So it's another girl that Drake has known since she was a minor and started dating when he got the opportunity. This is not normal.
Another pattern that Drake also seem to follow is that likes to hook up with his friends girl. We know for a fact that he hooked up with Lil Wayne's girlfriend while he was in prison. He not only rap about it, but also admit it in an interview. It's not really hard to believe that he did the same with Bieber.
CYDNEY CHRISTINE (LIL CC)
Cydney Christine is a beatmaker and model - she produced the Drake song Money In The Grave and in a Complex interview/roundtable she talks about it and Drake.

Really the only artist I reached out to is Drake. I'd never met him, never spoke to him, I don't know why, but he has been following me for the past like 6 years. I don't know why..

This interview was uploaded 17. December 2019, Cydney Christine's is born 21. July, 1997, meaning she was 22 at the time of the interview and 15-16 when Drake started following her. This is somewhat innocent but strange since Drake is 27 at the time. That's not what is really weird though.
In March 2023, Lil CC is on the No Jumper podcast and here she speaks about Drake and having her debut beat being a Drake single.
Lil CC: I played basketball, right, so he really was a fan or not a fan, sorry, supported one of my teammates at the time um..
Adam 22: And this is when you are in high school?
Lil CC: Yeah, in high school. So he was a fan of women's basketball - high school basketball - I was her teammate so he followed me because of her, and I was like "oh shit, bitch, you got Drake to follow me, like what the hell? Like that's so crazy". So he followed me and I lost it - I have to meet Drake, I love Drake, I've always loved Drake, still love Drake.
There's more to the conversation, but the relevant part is here is that it's just very, very strange for Drake to be a women's high school basketball fan. They are 16 at the time. He's a supporter of a 16 year old female high school basketball player as a 27 year old grown adult man. He has not hooked up with her, dated or anything of the sorts that we know of or that she has told - for the record.
AALIYAH
It's not like I have whole section for this, but his obsession with Aaliyah is just another part of the pattern. I don't have a lot to contribute here, but if you don't know Aaliyah's story I'd recommend reading her Wikipedia and specifically the section about her personal life. If you think that 'obsession' is too strong a word for how much Drake admires her, I think you should take a look at this Complex article from 2018 and reconsider.
UNCONFIRMED STORIES
(I will continuously update it whenever I find or get sent new information to add here.)

• Back in 2021 Drake was being exposed on TikTok for his 'private Tinder' where one of his guys would go out and the hottest girls in town, interview them and find the one that Drake would like the best.

“He finds the girls and then he interviews them, and out of all the girls he interviews, he picks the one that he thinks is the best,” she continued. “Then, he drives her to Drake’s place, Drake has sex with her, and then he drives her home. So, basically, Drake has his own private Tinder.”

• This girl explaining how her friend was invited by Drake's crew and she was brought along as a +1. No ID check, very young girls. Worth a watch: https://www.tiktok.com/@simonestrauss/video/7365696116085591304
  
• This reddit post - yes I know this is 'so easy to just say', but I think the poster was very right by pointing this out:
  

I'm sure you guys won't believe me, but this is the type of situation where someone vanishing and telling you is the best you'll get.

• This YouTube comment about a girl claiming to be a victim of trafficking in Toronto in 2015 and that Drake had ties in all these circles.
  
• This article from 2016, where Drake and his buddy get aggressive with an amateur photographer for taking pictures of Drake and two women. This isn't strange in and of itself, but then there's this post from 2018
  

From the article:

The mystery women were dressed identically in matching white parkas, skinny tan pants, tan boots and ponytail hairstyles.

From the post:

Maybe this foreign born one named A+ list singerapper should have told the whole story about his split with a fellow foreign born A+ lister. How she caught him more than once with another woman and his fascination for watching porn involving women wearing pigtails.

• This post

This foreign born A+ list singerapper asked for all kinds of photos from not only the 18 year old he is dating but at least two other 18 year old females and he didn't make sure they were 18 before he started asking.

• This post

That teen, who was topless in the dressing room of this foreign born A+ list singerapper last night was nowhere in the ballpark of being legal.

• This one is fucking WEIRD - some guy was jerking off and noticed something. Now there's plenty of reasons as to why they would do this, it's porn and they need a story. But then there's this post from 2017:

This one named foreign born A list rapper is going around telling porn stars he is starting his own porn company. It is just his excuse to have sex with them all and not pay.
Drake

• This Twitter post/video of UK rapper Potter Payper calling out Drake for messaging 'bare young girls in England'.
  
• This entire thread is weird to say the least. More CDAN rumors as well. Read the thread, it's too much to paste and explain here.
  
• Drake paid out $350K to sexual assault accuser - Drake initially filed a lawsuit against Layla Lace/Laquana Morris for civil extortion, fraud, defamation, abuse of process and intentional infliction of emotional distress strongly implying he's innocent - but why pay someone $350.000 then?
  

The former stripper and Instagram model wrote: "Drake forced me to perform oral on him. It wasn't your ordinary oral it was more so a fetish." She then describes how he told her to spit into a cup "until he had measured it."

• This comment about a model claiming Drake 'made girls puke in dog bowls for him'. Now that's a typical thing you can dismiss as a rumor, but the same guy commented 16 days ago and said this:

If Kendrick mentions anything about dog bowls or birthday parties in Toronto, then shit is more serious than we thought

• This interview of Aya (Born 24. April 2007) (a 'dancer' in Ice Spice - Deli and probably known for other things I just don't know her) where she's asked about having sex with Drake. She said she can't speak on it because of 'court'.
  
• This Tweet of a guy talking about his experiences in high school and the hottest girls posting from Drake's mansion and being followed by him "every single time".
  

LYRICS, REFERENCES, TWEETS, PICTURES, TIES
(Again - Feel free to share with me and I'll add it.)

• On the song Nice For What Drake raps:

You got a baby Benz, you got some bad friends
High school pics, you was even bad then

• This Tweet

"If amazing was a young bitch I'd be going to jail...cause I'm fucking amazing" - Me

• This image of Drake and Malone from Drake's Instagram that's been deleted now. Malone is infamous for impregnating a 13 year old when he was 20.
  
• On the song The Heart Part 6 Drake raps:
  

Just for clarity, I feel disgusted, I'm too respected
If I was fucking young girls, I promise I'd have been arrested
I'm way too famous for this shit you just suggested

• Also on the song The Heart Part 6 Drake raps:

Only fuckin' with Whitneys, not Millie Bobby Browns, I'd never look twice at no teenager

• His connection to Baka Not Nice who Drake is very close with.

In 2014, Baka was arrested and charged with forcing a 22-year-old woman into prostitution and taking her money. In 2015, he pleaded guilty to assaulting the woman and an unrelated weapons charge.

• Adel Nur who has very close business ties to Drake. He's executive producing the show Euphoria together with Drake and they co-own some shady companie(s). Another user went in-depth on their connection here.
  
• J Mulan who's an entrepreneur and close with Drake. This entire thread about her being a trafficker - and especially OP's comments are worth reading .
  
• DJ Eric who's the owner of Area 29, a strip club in Houston. Drake shouts him out in songs and is allegedly also trafficking for Drake.
  

(DIS)HONORABLE MENTION
I know people say Jorja Smith, and I do agree that dating a 19-year old as a 30-year old man is weird and rather pathetic, but every other girl mentioned is related to minors. Their relationship if you can call it that was for sure toxic, and it seems like Drake was a piece of shit abusing the power dynamic between them. This is taken from the Drizzy subreddit, but I can't provide the source since that gets the post blacklisted as it's temporarily banned because of brigading.

In “Summer Games” Drake also says ”I kept it decent, even the secrets, kept it between you and I”. What secrets exactly? Well in Jaded, Drake says this woman “told him all her insecurities”.
It’s also interesting that the song “Summer Games” is about a woman who broke up with Drake right at the beginning of the summer. Drake and Jorja were dating in April of 2017 which is right before the summer starts and only lasted a couple weeks.

But that's all there is to it. I can't dig up anything else, so unless someone have something credible with sources, I don't think there's good enough reason to add her to the list further up.
FINAL NOTE
I know there's questions about the reliability of CDAN and that he was exposed, but in the very same article The Daily Beast refers back to one of their old articles on the subject which definitely confirms that he had/have industry ties and do know a lot. Another reddit user dove further in and made some compelling arguments.
If you have anything to add, please post it in the comments and if credible/sourced I'll put it in the post. If I got anything wrong please correct me and I'll edit it. If you have sources that contradict anything in the post, please also share them with me and I'll include them.
Please share this anywhere you want. I don't care about credit. If any media outlets wants to use it for their article or whatever, please do - feel free. You do not need to ask permission.

For the sake of anonymity, all the people in this post's name have been substituted with fake names
26 yo gay M here, I'm in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend ... But I still don't "love him" in the sense that all my friends are saying I should be.
I never "fell in love" with any person in my life in the way my friends describe how they did with their partners: there was no heart racing, no butterflies in my stomach, no having intrusive thoughts about that person, no longing for that person in their absence. I never had this all consuming affection for any person in my life.
Alot of people would see me buying him flowers, or his favourite pastries from a pastry shop across the street from us on my way back from work and qualify those as romantic gestures. But I think people fail to see that I buy flowers for my partner not because of the romantic connotation, but because his main hobby is gardening and loves to have floral arrangement in our house. I buy him his favourite chocolate cream pastry because I know that on certain days of the week the workload at his job is higher and he likes to be comforted. I give him foot rubs and massages because he has a physically demanding job, while mine is sedentary and I can afford 20 minutes to alleviate his physical burden. To me those of acts of care I do, tailored to the person I'm invested in.
The same holds true to my female bestfriend of 8 years Laura. I LOVE her, arguably more than my partner. This statement is not to disparage my boyfriend. I simply have spent more time with her, went through more hardship with her, and am thus more invested in her than him. I still to this day, whenever I visit her, come with her favourite pastry. I would always even in public brush her tangled hair with my fingers or a brush if she had one on her, because I know it reminds her of her childhood and relaxes her. I often would scratch her head gently, which would inevitably make her faint if she was any kind of tired after her day.
Kevin, another one of my close firiend, that I've known for 5 years, had got this obsession with dried coconut cubes. I thought I could only find them in Italy on the border of France, near my hometown. Turns out found a remote shop in my town where I could buy them and was so excited to be able to give him that treat !! Like who gets this excited about a niche treat one of your 10 friends is obsessed with ?
I don't understand monogamy. The notion that my partner sleeping with another person is the ultimate breach of trust and is worth erasing multiple years of the cultivated relationship seems like an alien notion to me. Also, thinking that I am suppose to satisfy every sexual need and fantasy my partner has seems conceited to me. I understand that there are things I will never be willing to do sexually, same with my partner. If he would go to another person to have his desires filled, as long as he takes his precautions to not impact my health (AKA PrEP and condoms), I don't really care to know. I don't have any ownership on his body and what he does with it, and thus I don't think he owes me any explanation so long as it doesn't impact my health. To me as long as the partner is willing to cultivate a relationship with me, and be there for me and support me, and respect me and my values : I don't really care about the rest.
I love giving and receiving affection: of any kind. And weirdly that includes PDA. It's not so much that I like PDA because it's a public display, but more so that when I love a person, I will show them affection no matter the context: private or public. Knock on my door to a surprise birthday party ? in fucking tears. Give me a gift I've been meaning to buy for myself and didn't realise you were taking notice ? dead inside Any and all forms of physical affection : huge hug from my bestfriends before saying goodbye / spontaneous affectionate strokes from my partner etc ... Thing is these are not reserved for my romantic partner. I have the same reaction if anyone I'm really close to shows that degree of affection and attention.
Back in highschool, I've had tons of crushes, and unrequited infatuation towards other boys in my school. But as far as I can remember (also confirmed by my bestfriend from highscool), those crushes were very very shallow, purely physical. Would even go as far as completely ignore the blatant character flaws of the subject of my attraction. So might have been pure obsessive lust that mimicked a classic crush.
Worth to note: this is my first relationship ever (26 yo), I stumbled into it: What was suppose to be a situationship with regular hookups, ended becoming more long term than I thought. We saw eachother more and more often, he confessed that he loved me and I (almost out of politeness) said it back. Thing is, I like him as a person. I like the life we've built together, for the short time we've spent building it. I just don't love him any differently than my friends, god-mother, or family members with whom I'm close with. The main variable in my "love" for someone is the time I spend with them, how long I've known them, and how much they've been there / done for me while knowing them. I would be perfectly content being single, provided I could keep all those relationships I've cultivated.
Thing is no one in my social circle seems to understand that. They all say "you just haven't met the right guy". But I'm not so sure the problem is coming from my boyfriend.

Hello everyone, I just got married (me a us citizen) to my spouse (Mexican National).. and will start the immigration process CR1. We are both currently living in Mexico. My concern is that my wife was in the US before because she was brought in as a child. She didn't know she was undocumented until she got close to her 18th birthday. She didn't have daca status. She left to Mexico roughly 10 days after her 18th birthday so my understanding is that she left within the 180 days from accruing the unlawful presence ban. My concern is what kind of documentation can she provide so to show she really left the US shortly after her 18th birthday. My biggest fear is her getting her process denied due to the consular officer thinking she actually left 180 days after her 18th bday. She has her INE and driver's license which shows the issue date but not sure if that is good enough to prove she left timely. She is 24 now and has multiple jobs in Mexico as well so I'm hoping that can help prove that she was actually in Mexico. Not sure what other documentation we can provide to prove this. Any input will be greatly appreciated. Thank you everyone and I apologize if the format is weird as I'm typing this from a cell phone.

IMPORTANT INTRODUCTION BEFORE WE START
This is not about liking Drake or not. You can hate his music, hate his persona, hate everything about him, clown him, but still have the intellectual honesty to say that calling him a P-do is exceeding the limit and blatant disinformation, and the fact people are chain sharing this fake narrative and influencing other thousands of people is lame and wrong.
How do fake news work and how do they spread? - Making up fake screenshots, distorting the reality of things and not mentioning occurencies that do not favor the narrative these people are trying to push. - All things that we’ll see in this thread.

• Word of mouth, mostly. ”Hey you know Drake did this and that?” “Wow I didn’t, what an asshole”. Then it’s an endless cycle where this allegations spread without providing any proof - or fabricating ones. Just a comment, post or tweet with enough likes or upvotes but no sources at all is enough - if people are approving it, it must be true.

Let’s start FACT-CHECKING:
Drake groomed Millie Bobbie Brown

• DEBUNKED by MBB herself “Why u gotta make a friendship ur headline?” (…) “U guys are weird… For real”
• NOBODY ever said they talked romantically nor is there any evidence about it. (If somebody tells you that there are screenshots, they are lying). Drake is a celebrity and idol for MBB and he was just giving her advice, as she herself stated.
• Drake, as a role model, has an history of being a mentor for young people that see him as an example, for example NBA player Amari Bailey or Justin Bieber

Drake waited for Bella Harris to turn 18 and dated her

• FAKE NEWS. They never dated as it’s been DENIED by Bella herself on IG stories and by TMZ and more sources ”I have to set the record clear and say no dine ever happened”
• Additionally, father of Bella likes a post SUPPORTING Drake

Drake kissed a 17 years old on stage
This is real - let’s clarify some things that people who tell this story don’t want you to know: - The girl (Tia Owens) specified there was no abuse during the act and nothing happened after. ”It was nothing then, and nothing now” - The age of consent in Canada is 16 and in the state where the concert took place, Colorado, 17 - Not as a justification, but as a clairification that needs to be made. - Noting that he episode is from almost 18 years ago where Drake himself was 23 years old. People are acting like this happened on his last tour, now that would be real WEIRD behavior.

• It was indeed a mistake on Drake’s part - certainly not enough for him to get called a p—hile for any person that is honest thinking.

Drake commented under Billie Eilish post and groomed her

• FAKE NEWS. A screenshot that went VIRAL of a Drake IG comment saying “Finally 🥳” when she celebrated her 18th birthday is blatantly fake, created by people that spread this voluntary misinformation.
• As if fabricating a fake screenshot isn’t enough of a coward and shameful move, Billie herself DEBUNKS Drake’s relationship as people wanted it be portrayed as weird, purposedly pushing this narrative, AGAIN ”The internet is such a stupid-ass mess right now. Everybody's so sensitive, (…) A grown man can't be a fan of an artist? There are so many people that the internet should be more worried about."

Also some important mentions: - SZA clearing Drake’s name - Drake calling out Tyga for dating Kylie Jenner when she was only 16
FACTUAL CONCLUSIONS: - Drake NEVER dated nor groomed nobody that was a minor - Literally ALL the girls that were harassed by Drake haters insisting they were molested, DENIED the fact something weird happened - “Drake paid them 🤓” - Right, as if MBB, SZA, Bella Harris or Billie Eilish need any money and to lie to their audience and the entire world. - The stage episode was indeed a mistake on Drake’s part, but for people to defamate him like this, comparing him to the likes of Kelly or others who have real accusations and CONVICTIONS, is just disrespectful. Also noting that the girl denied any abuse occured.

• ZERO girls EVER came out and spoke up about him being weird, nor their families or nobody for them
• There are ZERO official allegations, ZERO formal or even informal accusations and ZERO rumours from trustable sources
• There are ZERO interviews or declarations by him, ZERO screenshots, ZERO lyrics in songs, ZERO tweets that note a weird behavior from Drake’s part (unlike someone else…)

My grandma criticized my mom for homeschooling, so for years we had to be on guard around her to keep ourselves safe.
Everyone knows that the world is full of anti home school militants that are brainwashed by the system and will betray family? Right? And then you will get sent to the dungeons of public schools and lose all your potential and sense of self as they make you stand in lines and crack under the pressure of bullying and government employee authority. Basically, your family will be ripped apart and you won't be yourself anymore if you fail to be a good enough homeschooler.
Before going to grandma and grandpas house, our mom would coach us for a week on how to behave since our grandma didn't understand homeschooling well enough to know that it was the best thing ever. We were supposed to tell our mom if she started snooping and asking questions when mom wasn't around.
It wasn't really that hard to keep grandma happy, because my education was quite good. In 4th grade I could do long division, and convert fractions and decimals. I could string together sentences in Latin, and well... while my confidence wasn't good enough to write essays under normal circumstances, I had written a few and I had a very good grasp of English grammar and punctuation rules.
My grandma asked my mom a question which seriously offended her.
"If your husband gets sick or loses his job one day, do you have any plans?"
We were scraping by on a single income, and my dad was often paranoid about the security of his job.
My grandma suggested that when my littlest sister was a teenager, my mom could go to college for 2 years for a teaching licence on top of the higher education she already had. "You'll already have so much experience in teaching... and then you'll have the rest of your life to--"
My mom was so hurt by this, she thought the implication was

1. you clearly think being a housewife isn't good enough, and my way of life has been disrespected
2. you want me to serve public schools (evil)

at the time I was really hurt too (why is grandma being mean to mom???) and didn't trust grandma very much, because my mom would be on the phone and talking to all her homeschool friends about the enemy attack.
But when I became an adult I saw it from my grandma's perspective. There was a lot of problems in her family history with every other man not being dependable back in the day (they would drink alcohol and play cards), and half the women had always had respected professions. Even in the 1800s one of the women in that family was a lawyer. Many of them were school teachers, which was a extremely respected profession for women when my grandma was a child. Her mom was a school teacher and was well loved for it.
(Why couldn't my mother see that her disdain of school teachers hurt grandma, as much as anything my grandma insinuated might be hurting her???)
My mom also saw my grandma's suggestion as a passive agressive way of trying to stop her from having more kids, but I don't think my grandma even imagined that my mom planned to have as many kids as possible.
My mom told me in a hushed tone that the catholics thought birth control was evil (we weren't catholic..? but she said it like they were on to something...). She was angry with her sisters for not having their babies so that my brothers would have friends. She seemed to think that human souls were deterministic and just waiting for you to find "a good enough" spouse instead of being too picky for them to be born. It's... weird.
Maybe grandma wanted her to get out and go to college and get a job for her own mental health? The more she associated with the homeschool community, the more kookoo she got. The women in homeschool co-ops were insane. I think they turned my mom against grandma. They also convinced her that they had secret knowledge and were building a utopian society.
It was mostly women in those co-ops. Ironically they would say stuff about public school being "feminized" so their sons wouldn't get good male role models. They acted like they cracked the secret to life because they let their boys play in mud. No public schooler anywhere has ever played in mud.
My grandma never criticized homeschooling that much, but my mom took everything as a slight because she spent hours every week listening to other home education cultists do the same exact thing.
She asked horrifically prying questions about if I was making enough friends my age or if I was independent enough.
"Grandma said a thing about you being independant... Did you do anything to make grandma think...?" "no mom this is a list of what happened today..."
It was much more relaxing to be with *other* grandma, my Nanah, who LOVED homeschooling and would brag and show us off. it felt like every single person in the grocery store recognized my grandma and recognized my face. It's kind of weird, to realize that every picture taking session Nanah made me smile for (constantly interrupting all my birthdays and stuff) had gone straight to facebook, and than my Nanah had thousands of facebook friends. The entire town was my Nanah's facebook friend. I felt very great and important, as people asked me questions and I could answer them on the spot
"WOWWW! In fourth grade! Do you know Latin?" "NO WAY! NO WAY COME LOOK AT THIS THE KID REALLY KNOWS LATIN!"
I was so prideful and feeling such a rush out of being the smartest kid in the world... than I didn't notice no one was asking my brothers and sisters questions like that and that I somehow was just speaking for everyone. My brother would shy away, and I'd just answer for him.
Nanah would brag to the whole church that I was homeschooled.
Grandma never made a big deal out of it. She told me some important things, like how if you want to stay married for a long time then you need to have your own thing.
Both grandma and grandpa were in separate clubs in the community, and sometimes went places with friends, they had their own spaces in their house, with the common areas being a beautiful blend of their two personalities, and they never got divorced.
Nanah insisted on sharing every single thing with whoever she was married to, and I don't even know how many different Papaws I've had.
It reminds me of how I don't have a great relationship with my mom, but I spent almost two decades 100% subject to her every whim, going all the places that she goes.
Every single advice grandma said, my mom would interpret it as a threat or a put-down and complain later to the homeschool moms. If only I had realized that my grandma was kind of normal. A lot of what she did "wrong" was not gush and gush about how wonderful my mom is for homeschooling like my Nanah did, and the way people in our community did. My mom had come to fully expect this type of heavy praise for no reason other than signing a homeschool form. My grandma just acted normal which was very good for me, because she was the only one doing that at the time, and I had no idea.
I wish I could have spent more time with my "anti homeschooling" grandma, without me mistrusting her, but now it's too late.

Not a complaint or a problem, just sharing a little slice of my sugar life since there seems so little positivity here some days :)
I've been seeing my SD for about 6 months. He adores me and spoils me, I feel very, very lucky. I have a curvaceous body, which is a huge plus for him, and due to that and our age gap (30 years) we draw a lot of attention when we're out. That's okay because 1) he sugars me "openly" (his wife knows), and 2) being seen with me on his arm is a HUGE thrill for him. Whether the attention we get is admiring or judgmental (usually a mix), he eats it up. And I really love it as well; I wear form fitting outfits, show cleavage, etc.
(Why do I love it, you ask? I've had huge boobs since I was a teenager and that itself invites a ton of judgement, especially since I was kind of a tomboy back then, so it's intensely, deeply validating for me for to have my date actively enjoying that attention and turning it into something positive and approving.)
Anyway, his 55th birthday was a few weeks ago. His wife attended the party for friends and family and he invited me to the afterparty held by his close friends. I'd only met two of them, but I knew a few of them also sugar so it wouldn't be weird.
He gave me his credit card to pick out an outfit and I found a beautiful silver dress (shiny, full length, low-cut w/ spaghetti straps), and had it modified to hug my curves. I also had my hair done. I looked SMASHING. I was so excited! I wanted to make sure everyone knew he was the luckiest boy in the room. I'll admit I had butterflies in the car on the way but when he saw me walk into the space (his friend's loft) and take off my coat I swear it actually blew a fuse in his brain lol. My nerves vanished right then. I had eyes on me all night but I smiled and chatted with his friends like it was nothing. I think I pretty much stole the show and he wouldn't have had it any other way.
So... success :)

So not too long ago i (22f) decided to help a “best friend” who was in need and homeless with a child at the time(30f). For the sake of the story let’s call her B and my husband’s “best friend” (25M) we will call A . Getting into the story , we decided to help B out , she moved out of the state resigned in and came to live with me , my husband , and A .
B was in a long term relationship with my older brother , it was very toxic and too drawn out. As a friend i always was there to support and consult her about things , i know it sounds weird or even inappropriate for me to get “involved” but she would never listen to me about the advice to leaving my brother and repeating the cycle. Well he ended up getting incarcerated, leaving B and her child homeless.. nothing to their names beside a vehicle. I live in a different state so i offer to help if they could manage the drive . They ended up doing that and moving them and their belongings out here with us . It was definitely a full house totaling three adults and B’s child .
We were room-mating with my husbands best friend at the time (for about 3 years before B) because we all are in our early twenties trying to figure out how to manage living away from everything we know to get a fresh start and prosper in this new state together . We all roomed in a decent sized house: 3beds , 1bathroom. So we had the means and room too help out . We all were in agreement that we would help . A went through a breakup just before we all started to room together so by the time B arrived he was single for about 3 years.
A was going through a tough and rocky road with addiction. My husband and I really tried to help him out but he would never bring it home so there wasn’t anyway for us to complete call him out for it . It would always turn to “I’m a grown asss man” , which we understand but we were trying our best to help him while fighting our own addictions . B ended up pursuing A not too long into her moving in with us. It was the first time in a long time we saw A was finally happy and slowed down on his vise. Lo and behold both of them would go out on benders for days , staying with their “friends” and then coming home completely whacked out . They even brought a random guy into our house , this guy was yakked out shaking and falling asleep on our couch . I ended up talking with my husband about it because while they were out and doing whatever , we were taking care of the house , going to work and cleaning , looking after B’s child .
One day I go into B’s room with her and I tried to have a conversation with her but the entire time she was “sick” in bed , literally ignoring about what I was saying to her. I ended up leaving and being upset at her because I always was there for her as a bff and she can just ignore me . She ended up ignoring me for 2 weeks , in my own home . She’d go out again for these benders , but then she started posting subliminally on social media about me. Just random nonsense, I didn’t even realize it was about me at first.
We decided to have a house meeting , their drug abuse was effecting everything and everyone in the house . We go to have this conversation and straight off the bat B took it as a fight , she started to shut down about the whole situation. She started throwing things and screaming at me . I started to cry and my husband was in front of her telling her to leave . A was in agreement with us that B was being out of line and he sat there consulting me . My husband and I ended up leaving the house but before that I went up to B to apologize (I know I wasn’t in the wrong at that time but it felt needed , I still cared about her and didn’t want her to think I didn’t) . She ignored me again . We left it alone for another two weeks , she ended up texting me an apology and I didn’t even reply . It hurt so bad that my “sistebestfriend” could treat me like that and say all these horrible things about me . The post about me got way worse and they were obviously about me at the point .
I tried again to apologize to her and make things at least cordial again because now my husband and A , were trying to stay out of it making it a “girl problem “ but now their friendship was rocky , so for the sake of them I put my feelings aside in effort to repair whatever was left of mine and B’s friendship. She was super fake about it , she would only acknowledge me whenever A was around . So I just gave up , the post got worse and worse . My husband ended up just putting his foot down and told her that she needed to go else where . She ended up packing up and leaving while talking shit and throwing everything. So now that B and A were together for about 2 months , A decided to go with her . B , her child and A moved into “friends” house (same one they do benders at ) .
My husband had hard time trying to maintain his friendship with A , because every time A would come over B would be blowing up his phone . Fast forward to my husband birthday last year , A came over for about 30 mins but within those minutes he was super doped up, barely coherent. My husband tried to talk to him one on one but as soon as he did A blew up in his face , claiming everything was our fault , that him and B don’t need shit from us and that pretty much we are the reason for all the dismay . Their relationship ended up dwindling soon after , while all the was happening my brother got out of jail . Come to find out that the entire time B is with A she is cheating on him with my older brother . We tried to again help A before it was too late for him or even respect for him. I ended up texting him to tell him with receipts to prove her wrong doing against him . He blocked me and my husband . They ended up moving across country , where A is completely isolated from everything beside drugs.
Fast forward to today , I get a call from my brother and he said that he got a new number and everything because he ended ties with B . She ended up finding his new number and is trying to start up cheating with him again . I’m not sure if I should even care at this point or try to get through to A again . (Such a long story but definitely not the end of it, left out a lot of details but I need advice)

So not too long ago i (22f) decided to help a “best friend” who was in need and homeless with a child at the time(30f). For the sake of the story let’s call her B and my husband’s “best friend” (25M) we will call A . Getting into the story , we decided to help B out , she moved out of the state resigned in and came to live with me , my husband , and A .
B was in a long term relationship with my older brother , it was very toxic and too drawn out. As a friend i always was there to support and consult her about things , i know it sounds weird or even inappropriate for me to get “involved” but she would never listen to me about the advice to leaving my brother and repeating the cycle. Well he ended up getting incarcerated, leaving B and her child homeless.. nothing to their names beside a vehicle. I live in a different state so i offer to help if they could manage the drive . They ended up doing that and moving them and their belongings out here with us . It was definitely a full house totaling three adults and B’s child .
We were room-mating with my husbands best friend at the time (for about 3 years before B) because we all are in our early twenties trying to figure out how to manage living away from everything we know to get a fresh start and prosper in this new state together . We all roomed in a decent sized house: 3beds , 1bathroom. So we had the means and room too help out . We all were in agreement that we would help . A went through a breakup just before we all started to room together so by the time B arrived he was single for about 3 years.
A was going through a tough and rocky road with addiction. My husband and I really tried to help him out but he would never bring it home so there wasn’t anyway for us to complete call him out for it . It would always turn to “I’m a grown asss man” , which we understand but we were trying our best to help him while fighting our own addictions . B ended up pursuing A not too long into her moving in with us. It was the first time in a long time we saw A was finally happy and slowed down on his vise. Lo and behold both of them would go out on benders for days , staying with their “friends” and then coming home completely whacked out . They even brought a random guy into our house , this guy was yakked out shaking and falling asleep on our couch . I ended up talking with my husband about it because while they were out and doing whatever , we were taking care of the house , going to work and cleaning , looking after B’s child .
One day I go into B’s room with her and I tried to have a conversation with her but the entire time she was “sick” in bed , literally ignoring about what I was saying to her. I ended up leaving and being upset at her because I always was there for her as a bff and she can just ignore me . She ended up ignoring me for 2 weeks , in my own home . She’d go out again for these benders , but then she started posting subliminally on social media about me. Just random nonsense, I didn’t even realize it was about me at first.
We decided to have a house meeting , their drug abuse was effecting everything and everyone in the house . We go to have this conversation and straight off the bat B took it as a fight , she started to shut down about the whole situation. She started throwing things and screaming at me . I started to cry and my husband was in front of her telling her to leave . A was in agreement with us that B was being out of line and he sat there consulting me . My husband and I ended up leaving the house but before that I went up to B to apologize (I know I wasn’t in the wrong at that time but it felt needed , I still cared about her and didn’t want her to think I didn’t) . She ignored me again . We left it alone for another two weeks , she ended up texting me an apology and I didn’t even reply . It hurt so bad that my “sistebestfriend” could treat me like that and say all these horrible things about me . The post about me got way worse and they were obviously about me at the point .
I tried again to apologize to her and make things at least cordial again because now my husband and A , were trying to stay out of it making it a “girl problem “ but now their friendship was rocky , so for the sake of them I put my feelings aside in effort to repair whatever was left of mine and B’s friendship. She was super fake about it , she would only acknowledge me whenever A was around . So I just gave up , the post got worse and worse . My husband ended up just putting his foot down and told her that she needed to go else where . She ended up packing up and leaving while talking shit and throwing everything. So now that B and A were together for about 2 months , A decided to go with her . B , her child and A moved into “friends” house (same one they do benders at ) .
My husband had hard time trying to maintain his friendship with A , because every time A would come over B would be blowing up his phone . Fast forward to my husband birthday last year , A came over for about 30 mins but within those minutes he was super doped up, barely coherent. My husband tried to talk to him one on one but as soon as he did A blew up in his face , claiming everything was our fault , that him and B don’t need shit from us and that pretty much we are the reason for all the dismay . Their relationship ended up dwindling soon after , while all the was happening my brother got out of jail . Come to find out that the entire time B is with A she is cheating on him with my older brother . We tried to again help A before it was too late for him or even respect for him. I ended up texting him to tell him with receipts to prove her wrong doing against him . He blocked me and my husband . They ended up moving across country , where A is completely isolated from everything beside drugs.
Fast forward to today , I get a call from my brother and he said that he got a new number and everything because he ended ties with B . She ended up finding his new number and is trying to start up cheating with him again . I’m not sure if I should even care at this point or try to get through to A again . (Such a long story but definitely not the end of it, left out a lot of details but I need advice)