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2019.10.05 21:05 byPaz Fall Guys

The community-run and developer-supported subreddit dedicated to Fall Guys – a video game developed by Mediatonic Games which flings hordes of contestants together online in a mad dash through round after round of escalating chaos until one victor remains. Available on PC, PlayStation, Xbox and Nintendo Switch. – Subreddit icon designed by Thegr8Klink
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2015.12.30 18:37 PUSClFER People Fucking Dying

Videos and GIFs of people (figuratively) fucking dying.
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2019.12.23 02:57 Jayayaje Gatekeeping turned cute

Gatekeeping turned into cute relationships! Relationships between people of all genders are allowed, not just yuri!
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2024.05.20 06:08 TerribleSell2997 Commercial Airport Full Body Scanners Market Increasing Demand, Growth Analysis and Future Outlook by 2031

The ~Commercial Airport Full Body Scanners market~ is expected to grow at a significant CAGR 8.4% during the forecast period (2023-2029). Commercial Airport Full Body Scanners Market research report refers to gathering and analyzing significant market data serve as best medium for various industry players to launch novel product or service. It is vital for key firms to have constant observation of latest market trends which keep on changing. Constants shifts in the trends and key advancements are observed in the market through this Commercial Airport Full Body Scanners Market report and inform key firms about them. By knowing this, business owners can take effective actions before actually developing any product or service. It also aims at offering thorough knowledge regarding competitors to assist them in taking strategic decision making.
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Nuctech, which is partly owned by the Chinese government, is one of a provider of border-control and security screening systems. The Bureau of Civil Aviation Security (BCAS), the aviation security agency, issued a circular in April 2019 mandating 84 hypersensitive and sensitive airports to replace walk-through metal detectors with full body scanners within a year. Following a global tender, AAI opted to award the contract to Nuctech, a Chinese business, however it was withdrawn and According to a Ministry of Civil Aviation official, a new plan has been sent for budgetary approval, after which a new global tender will be published. The full-body scanners will take the place of walk-through and hand-held metal detectors, which are unable to identify non-metallic weapons and explosives. Security agencies praised them as well, claiming that the scanners will eliminate the need for pat-down searches at a time when COVID-19 has mandated contactless frisking at airports.
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2024.05.20 06:07 Meauw422 It's okay if I name my kid "Ghost Ship Of Cannibal Rats," right?

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2024.05.20 06:06 TerribleSell2997 Commercial Aircraft Video Surveillance Market Increasing Demand, Growth Analysis and Future Outlook by 2031

The ~global commercial aircraft video surveillance market~ is expected to grow at a significant CAGR 3.8% during the forecast period (2023-2029). Commercial Aircraft Video Surveillance Market report provides us with a complete outlook on thorough assessment of thorough data about vital feature of the global industry related to market size, revenue, development and market sales. This study report captures regulatory concerns and entry barriers that greatly affect the market growth. This report emphasizes on how industries get benefit from strategies offered here and achieve ample revenue other than also flashes light on constraints which can become great obstruction. It further helps to predict revenue increasing opportunities available in the marketplace. In addition, it then goes on to talk about volume trends, values and historical pricing structure. This Commercial Aircraft Video Surveillance Market study report also helps to predict growth and opportunities in the market. Furthermore, it also guides on how to increase product demand, growth rate and gain huge profits through changing consumption technologies.
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The Albatros, which is leading the programme, is equipped with a next-generation mission system as well as high-performance sensors. A multifunction radar, multispectral optronic turret, observation windows, a Search and Rescue (SAR) kit release system, and dedicated communication systems are all included in the aircraft. These sensors work together to provide HD video and data feeds, allowing for real-time analysis and improved tactical situation awareness. Atos will be in charge of the inflight video system's design and manufacturing, which will ensure the compression, distribution, and transmission of various data and tactical movies on board while also addressing IT security concerns. As a result, Atos will ensure the status and authenticity of data software and provide secure data and video linkages to ensure that the system meets stringent security criteria.
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2024.05.20 06:06 Terrible-Poetry-8827 I created an open-source screen recorder for macOS, and it’s time to show it to everyone

I created an open-source screen recorder for macOS, and it’s time to show it to everyone
HomePage: https://lihaoyun6.github.io/quickrecorde
Github: https://github.com/lihaoyun6/QuickRecorde
I created this project about a month ago to provide an open-source and free option for guys who need high quality screen recording. And I think it's time to show it to everyone.
QuickRecorder is based on Apple's ScreenCapture Kit API, and it's supports most of the necessary features needed for a "modern" screen recording tool:
  • App is only about 10MB
  • Recording up to 8K@240FPS
  • Driver-free audio loopback recording
  • Hide any windows or applications you don't need
  • Add camera or iPhone/iPad screen to your recording
  • Simultaneous recording from microphone, cursor highlighting, screen magnifier...
  • Even the "Presenter Overlay" in macOS 14 (which most screen recorder do not support)
If you need a lightweight, powerful, easy-to-use and FREE screen recorder, this is it!
Feature introduction
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2024.05.20 06:05 Junior-Elephant-9395 Debating Atom phone or Jelly pro in 2024

Unihertz- Jelly pro/ atom in 2024 ( i know theyre both old models!)
Hey guys- been on a hunt for dumb phone/ phones to get my screen time down. Got a nokia flip 2720, didnt really work out for me- bit too klunky and doesn't run android. Came across unihertz's products, and wanted to try a second hand one for myself, and commit to a real one if im happy with the experience. On the secondhand marketplace where i live in HK, someone is selling a jelly pro with 1 extra battery and atom for cheap. I know these are older models, and im aware of battery life issues.
I would aim to have this phone last me around 1-2 years, ill use it for listening to music for a couple hours maximum, WhatsApp, Google maps, occasional calls. I’ll have another normal smartphone at home but i’ll only use it in the evening for more tedious stuff/ times i know i really need my full screen phone
Based on this info, which second hand phone would you guys recommend i go for? Jelly pro+1 battery/atom rugged? Does anyone still have one of those phones these days and how is it holding up?
I wont buy a brand new one because laws here aren't super consumer friendly, you cant do a trial period and return a phone if you're not satisfied with it unless theres a defect.
Anyway cheers! Super stoked to have a tiny phone and thanks in advance to anyone who answers!
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2024.05.20 06:04 Terrible-Poetry-8827 I created an open-source screen recorder for macOS, and it’s time to show it to everyone

I created an open-source screen recorder for macOS, and it’s time to show it to everyone
HomePage: https://lihaoyun6.github.io/quickrecorde
Github: https://github.com/lihaoyun6/QuickRecorde
I created this project about a month ago to provide an open-source and free option for guys who need high quality screen recording. And I think it's time to show it to everyone.
QuickRecorder is based on Apple's ScreenCapture Kit API, and it's supports most of the necessary features needed for a "modern" screen recording tool:
  • App is only about 10MB
  • Recording up to 8K@240FPS
  • Driver-free audio loopback recording
  • Hide any windows or applications you don't need
  • Add camera or iPhone/iPad screen to your recording
  • Simultaneous recording from microphone, cursor highlighting, screen magnifier...
  • Even the "Presenter Overlay" in macOS 14 (which most screen recorder do not support)
If you need a lightweight, powerful, easy-to-use and FREE screen recorder, this is it!
Feature introduction
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2024.05.20 06:02 RemarkableMap8419 Should I continue to date this guy and try to make it work or should I move on?

(Warning long read ahead)
Hi! For the sake of privacy I won't refer to anyone in my story by there real names I will go by these fake names I'll use. Anyways let's begin.....
So I recently got over a rough break up with my ex and in order to move on I downloaded the dating app Tinder. I swiped right on a couple of people but I ended up meeting this really sweet guy named Sasuke. He was super sweet and he helped me out with my situation that I was in. He saw that I was in a rough spot so he offered his home to me so that way I can bounce back and be able to grab my own apartment again after my ex destroyed my credit with a derogatory mark. So after meeting him on February 16th and only knowing him for like 3 days I moved in. Best sleep I had in a while right. After like the 5th or 6th day I decided to have the sexy time with Sasuke. It was good but I feel like I moved to fast on doing it with him but it's too late for regrets now.
So during that first week he was showing me affection. Giving me hugs and he gave me a kiss before I went to work at my job. After the sexy time happened I noticed he beginned to change... He would say that affection is based on actions and saying I love you to you isn't really a true way to show ones love for one another. I was like cool so how do you show affection to another person and he was like its based on actions and what you do for a person. Again he's not completely wrong but the problem with that way of thinking came out way later...
After a month of dating which he took me downtown Atlanta and I was always allowed to ride with him he says that I was his girlfriend. I was surprised because he never gave me a title until now and it took me off guard but I was happy that he called me his girlfriend. We dated each other for like 2 months and we did have our arguments along the way. When I wanted a hug or a kiss he would shove me off of him. If I said a opinion he didn't like he was quick to punch me in my arm or slap my thigh or whatever the case maybe. He says love is based on actions right so I told him having a hug or kiss is a action so why couldn't he do it??
He always says that I force my trauma onto him but I never had any real trauma happen to me??? He would always tell me fuck my feelings when we argue and that he has all of this bad stuff that happens to him (Ex: physical abuse or being stabbed ect don't wanna name all the trauma) so why do I feel entitled as a woman to complain and say he hurted my feelings when he had all these things happened to him and you don't see him crying about it. He was basically telling me to suck it up and deal with it on my own because it's not his responsibility to cuddle me which I'm not asking for I'm just asking for him to CARE a little about my feelings.
I often would ask him why did you open your house up to me if you felt uncomfortable with someone staying with you??? Because you could have just left me alone at my friend's house. He would always say oh I felt bad I felt like you needed the help which btw he constantly throws in my face that I never took advantage of his kind gesture because I didn't have to pay anything to stay here I just needed to work on myself and get me another apartment again.
At this point the arguments intensified because he never showed me affection and he always shoved me away from him and I felt lonely... I always wondered why his girlfriends cheated on him and why the other two dumped him but maybe that's the reason why because the lack of affection?? Regardless he always says fuck my feelings and never seem to cared about them. When it was his birthday and I bought him a crap ton of balloons and cake he was like I told you I don't like that shit so why did you do it??? He never once said thank you for what I did btw until I asked him about it later.
We argued again yesterday and apparently it was enough to warrant him dumping me because I was too soft and sensitive and he doesn't have time to cuddle me which I'm not asking for again I'm just asking him to CARE A LITTLE. He looked me dead in my face and said that all people inherit violent tendencies. He said if he threw his mom down a flight of stairs imagine what I could do to you and he looked me seriously in my eyes when he said that. I feel like he was mentally and verbally abusive but physical I'm not sure because we wrestled and play fight but sometimes he would hit me in the face or shove me through a room ECT and never apologized for it because he says he always warns me about the consequences of us play fighting.
But overall I was just trying to see if this is worth me saving?? Should I try to make amends and continue to date him or should I run for the hills like my friends are telling me?? He did threaten to beat me way worse then his mom so that is a red flag and when I got up this morning I looked to my left and saw a whole bunch of woman on his phone which might explain why he doesn't want to work it out with me because he was cheating which I may be reaching on. When I tried to dump him in that first month because we were two different people with showing ways of affection he told me to try and work it out and don't give up on us and when I tried to apply that same logic to the situation he just said he couldn't do it anymore in order to protect his money and not go to jail for beating me he said it was necessary. So should I stay or should I go?
(If you have any questions I'll answer them in the comments this is getting long lol)
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2024.05.20 06:02 Adorable-Opening-634 Cloud connectivity

Hi there, I'm working on a .net winforms app from 1 year. Our team has asked me to have a small cloud storage for the folders generated through the application. They just gave me the names like pipeline, blob etc and asked me to check bdb.ai and asked me to make a flowchart on building cloud storage I'm really confused as to how to create a simple storage for this.
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2024.05.20 06:02 OrganicRelief6867 Biggest flaw of every Cedar Point coaster (day 17: Woodstock Express)

Blue Streak: I got arrested for trying to streak on it
Cedar Creek Mine Ride: There's nothing in the shed
Corkscrew: There's no wine bottle to open.
GateKeeper: Named after what thoosies do best
Gemini: My ex's sign
Iron Dragon: The only coaster Cedar Point has been willing to build another coaster over top of…and now they’ve done it twice
Magnum XL-200: Inconsistent experience, You only get hit by a fish when the ride is running really well
Maverick: "Attention guests in the queue, Maverick is currently experiencing a temporary technical delay. We are unsure of when the ride will resume operation at this time. You are welcome to remain waiting in line, or you may leave the queue to go elsewhere, but please be aware that by doing so you will be forfeiting your current spot in the queue. Thank you for your patience."
Millennium Force: It’s become so overrated that it’s so underrated that it’s so overrated that it’s so underrated … (I’m having a stroke)
Raptor: “I kicked this guy”
Rougarou: I had to Google WTF a "rougarou" was.
Steel Vengeance: Have to go through TSA to ride.
Top Thrill 2: It lasts three pumps and it's over.
Valravn: There's a better bird themed B&M literally right there.
Wild Mouse: It's the tallest and fastest Zamperla coaster operating at the park
Wilderness Run: I can't get on without kidnapping someone
Woodstock Express:
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2024.05.20 06:00 Lord_PanDA_ How Far Apart Are Samsung TV Legs? All Sizes From 32 to 85-Inch Screens Included!

How Far Apart Are Samsung TV Legs? All Sizes From 32 to 85-Inch Screens Included!
Whether you have a compact 32-inch screen or a huge 85-inch display, understanding the leg distance is crucial for a stable setup.
As Samsung doesn't have any list of leg width for all sizes, this post is gathered from many sources (both Samsung and real tests from other users throughout various forums).
Here's a summary of what you'll find in the detailed guide.
Full article here: https://pointerclicker.com/how-far-apart-are-the-legs-on-samsung-tv/
NOTE: If you’re looking for a more detailed number for each TV size, just check out the hyperlink under the heading's name.

1. Leg Width for Different Samsung TV Sizes

The distance between the legs of a Samsung TV varies with the screen size and model.
For a comprehensive list of measurements, check out the detailed guide. The guide includes the exact leg width for these Samsung TV sizes (inches): 32, 40, 43, 49, 50, 55, 60, 65, 70, 75, 80, 82, 85.
This information will help you ensure that your TV is securely placed on your stand.

2. Can You Adjust the Width Between Samsung TV Legs?

Unfortunately, you cannot adjust the width between the legs on a Samsung TV.
The legs fit into fixed slots designed for optimal stability, and changing their position could lead to instability and potential damage.

3. Importance of Correct Leg Width

Having the correct leg width is essential for the stability of your TV.
Incorrect leg spacing can cause the TV to wobble or not fit properly on your stand. For example, larger TVs require specific leg spacing to maintain balance and safety.
Understanding the leg spacing of your Samsung TV is vital for a secure setup. If you need more flexibility or a different look, consider mounting your TV on the wall.
What’s your experience with setting up Samsung TVs? Share your tips and questions in the comments below!
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2024.05.20 06:00 Direct-Caterpillar77 GM Locked Me Out Of Interacting With Other Players Because I Got Confused

I am not The OOP, OOP is u/IcemanEx54
GM Locked Me Out Of Interacting With Other Players Because I Got Confused
Originally posted to rpghorrorstories
TRIGGER WARNING: manipulation, controlling behavior, sexism
Original Post March 6, 2024
I'm a player in a tabletop RPG campaign and I just wanted to vent about this session. The GM uses a "rules light" homebrew system and it's his homebrew world as well. He's been doing this campaign for years now, but I just joined through a mutual friend after another player left recently.
When I joined the campaign, the GM had told me he wanted me to be from a particular country as a prince, and since it was his homebrewed world, I went with it. The country I'm a prince of is a massive empire that has conquered many lands. I wanted to be a morally good character so I made up a backstory where my prince had a secret romance with a commoner so it gave me more empathy and understanding than my other royal peers would have. Then in session 1, he had the commoner immediately break up with me since the players were all leaving the city session 1.
Several sessions later, there is a carnival being hosted in the empire and all the players are attending. The players split up and my part began with my character watching as a mentally handicap child was put in the dunk tank and was being dunked against his will. So I had my character help the child and stop the game (This isn't relevant to the larger story but I thought it was really weird). Then I am told I have to go to the "main stage" which is just a strip club seemingly. And of course, walking around topless serving drinks is my character's commoner love interest that I made in session 0. The GM laughs a bit and comments, "Isn't it funny? Look at what your ex has to do without you." I have my character give her the shirt off his back and we go to the outskirts of the carnival to find a quiet place to talk, but then the carnival was ambushed by some enemies as arrows and fire rained down on the parade.
Suddenly, my character and his ex are teleported back to the main stage and the GM starts jumping back and forth between all the player characters asking what we want to do without any sort of initiative and if we don't respond quickly enough he skips to another player. I ask, "What direction are the arrows coming from?" GM, "You can't tell". "Which direction to the palace?" I ask. "You don't know," he tells me. I'm honestly genuinely confused about what to do here and my mind goes blank, but then the GM has my bodyguard (a Brienne of Tarth type) tell me to follow her so I do. As he cuts back and forth, another player loses his mom in the chaos, I tell GM, "I want to help him find his mom." "You can't see him" GM tells me. Then I ended up surrounded by 12 ambushers in the "Pleasure Gardens". GM asked what I would do. I say since the carnival is burning, I look for a piece of wood on fire and since it's the pleasure gardens maybe there's some oil I can spill and light on fire to separate myself, my bodyguard, and ex who are all with me from the ambushers. He tells me there's no oil and then I'm held down by the men. I tried to escape, but he says I failed (he just did a dice roll behind his screen and didn't tell me the results). I am then hogtied by the ambushers with my bodyguard and ex and thrown in a cart. Meanwhile, the other two players have stolen a cart and are escaping. I try to do a goofy wave as my character is tied up towards my companions and he just says, the carts never pass each other so the other players don't see you. Before the session ends he tells me my bodyguard is dead.
After the session, I think my body language showed I was a bit bummed. So GM pipes in, "You want to know why you failed that encounter?" He proceeded to tell me it was because I followed my bodyguard and there was no way a woman could have protected me and I needed to make the choice instead. Some of the other players chimed in and said it was surprising my bodyguard failed since in the lore she was a 20-year veteran who survived "The Great War". The GM keeps defending his choice. Then he started making self-deprecating jokes about how he just sucks then and he's the worst GM ever until the other players all reassure him it's fine. I kind of just sat there shell-shocked.
His system reduces dice rolls to a rarity and he does them all himself as a "way to keep tension". I'm honestly more about hanging out with my friends than judging the quality of any campaign or system but this was my first "combat" of any sort in the campaign and I just felt so helpless in this system and it was frustrating. Plus there are no insight or persuasion rolls, just what the GM claims "my character would know" and "how his NPCs would act". So I'm not sure how I was supposed to handle this encounter. Being a GM myself, I thought he was using my bodyguard character to get me back on track, but I thought wrong. I honestly wouldn't have minded if he was just railroading me for a plot point, but him trying to manipulate me and saying his hands were tied when he essentially locked me out of interacting with the other players for the rest of the session is what bothers me the most.
Edit: Changed gaslighting to manipulating since I was using the term wrong and don't want to dilute it's meaning.
Update: GM Defends Style And Told Me He Owns My Character March 20, 2024
This is an update from my post a couple of weeks ago.
One of my friends in the group reached out to me and asked me to not leave the group. He told me there were only 2 sessions left and asked me to stick around as a favor to him. I told him I'd reach out to GM and see if we could get on the same page. So I texted the GM and told him I wanted to talk because I had some concerns after the way everything went down last session. He was down and we talked on the phone a couple of days later. To my surprise, the first thing he did was profusely apologize. I hadn't been responding in our group chat, partly because I was mad and partly because my partner had a death in her family. I guess me not responding caused him to dwell on the last session a bunch. He said he was going to retcon my bodyguard's death and keep her alive. I even told him that the treatment of women in the campaign was bad and that it was making the story worse, he told me that it is something that he can work on being better about too. I was surprised, but all this gave me a lot of optimism for this conversation.
I was honest and I told him that his homebrew system is very difficult for me since I don't have a character sheet. So my character doesn't have abilities, he doesn't level up, and I can't do things like roll investigate or perception rolls which makes it hard for me to make informed decisions. I told him it makes me very risk adverse because I don't have things like HP to even know if I'm in danger. He responded to this by telling me I shouldn't worry about that because his GM style rewards me if I roleplay well enough. He went on to say he hates systems with things like perception rolls because that's "Not how real life works".
I also lamented the fact that I also don't get to interact with the other players much. I didn't mention this in my first post, but he plays with all of us in a Discord call but he only plays with us one at a time, and the two of us who aren't playing are expected to listen and record notable quotes for his notes. He'll switch between characters where each player gets 2-3 "scenes" in a 3 hour session. He has our characters all spread out across the country Game of Thrones style and I've only gotten to play with another player in 2 sessions so far. This was also why that carnival scene was so frustrating because all 3 players were finally in the same place and we were trying to find each other and he just kept saying, "You don't see them".
He told me that he doesn't do party-based adventures because you can't get character growth that way. I pushed back and said I've seen awesome character growth in traditional DnD style games in the past, it just depends on the group. I also said he's just making things harder for himself by trying to run three campaigns instead of one. And if we don't have character sheets and aren't in a party then this is all more dramatic improv than a tabletop RPG.
He responded by saying his way is better because it creates a real story and that I should be happy because he made me the main character. (I guess that is what me being the prince means?) He then went on a rant about how much he loves the game world he created and he's very grateful that our characters brought it to life. But then he says that since it's his world, he feels like he owns our characters now and that after the campaign he wants us all to sign off on him using the characters to write books and a screenplay. And if we don't he'll just change their names and do it anyway. He then thanks me and tells me that this campaign is the main thing that has been stopping him from self-harm and going to dark places. Then he says he has to go and he rushes to hang up before I can say anything else.
I'm dumbfounded after that rapid-fire series of bombshells. I've known since the first few sessions that this was barely a TTRPG, but I got to hang out with my friends so I didn't care what it was. It was nice to hang out with old friends a couple times each month. Then the story got weird, and there was so much misogyny, and then I had the horrible session that caused my original post. Then in this conversation, he throws up even more red flags that I'm not blind to, but he is also planting a seed that he may harm himself without the campaign which is not something I want on my conscience. I'm just exhausted at this point.
TLDR: GM says that abilities and parties make TTRPGs worse and he wants to use our characters to write books/movies after the campaign because he owns them since we're playing in his world. He says he may fall back to self-harm without the campaign, making me feel guilty for wanting to leave.
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Any update to this?
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I ended up doing one more session for the finale. There was some drama during that session and when I mentioned that I didn't want to play in the next season of the campaign. I wasn't sure if I wanted to post about it again. I might still, but I think I want to take some time and reflect on everything.
Final Update May 11, 2024
[Final Update] Moving On From My Toxic DM And Losing A Friend In The Process
This will hopefully be my last post on this sub for a long time, but I’ve been using this place to vent about my toxic situation for a while so I figured I might as well post how everything concluded and what happened when I left. I’m going to reflect on everything and recap the important parts so no one has to read 3 posts.
It all started when I decided to start DMing to keep in touch with some college friends after graduation. During my first campaign, one of the players, Pirate, asked if his friend, Colorado, could join. I didn't really know Colorado, but I figured, "the more, the merrier."
Colorado had some issues early on, giving unsolicited advice to everyone on how to play and viewing newer or shy players as “side characters”. However, he frequently missed sessions, only showing up for less than half of them for the first few years so nothing came to a head early on. Then, Colorado decided he wanted to bring back his tabletop campaign from his college days and started trying to recruit players after my sessions. Pirate suggested I join the campaign, promising that Colorado was a better DM than player. Since I had been the Forever DM up to that point, I agreed to give it a go.
I created a character who was part of the royal family but enjoyed interacting with commoners in the slums, even having a secret girlfriend from that background. After that, Colorado also started hitting me up to help with the campaign. I ended up photoshopping character art for a bunch of his NPCs and I even drew his world map for him. I didn't mind doing it, as I do that kind of stuff for fun.
For our first session, Colorado had already created character sheets for us based on our backstories, but only he could see them. Colorado would also roll all the dice himself so “all we had to focus on is roleplaying”. We played one on one in different "scenes" that could last around 30 minutes to an hour each. We usually had around 2 to 4 scenes per session, depending on what Colorado thought was important. During the game, Colorado asked us to write down quotes from him and the other players when it wasn't our turn.
I had to wait for well over an hour before I could finally play. My first session was on rails. I mostly just had to repeat after Colorado during a ceremony. Afterwards, I got to sneak out of the castle and meet with my commoner girlfriend, but Colorado immediately had her break up with me. Then I was told that I had to leave the city. I was essentially locked out of my hanging out in the slums and commoner girlfriend subplots. NPCs generally disliked my morally good character, especially my sister who was depicted as purely evil towards me. Despite my efforts to mend the relationship, she never changed her mind and Colorado never rolled any dice to determine that. Later Colorado revealed to me the character was based on his ex-girlfriend, who was originally intended to be the player character from my country before they broke up.
Eventually, I finally got to interact with another player, Soldier, who I had really good chemistry with and we had a really fun scene. Which Colorado exclaimed, “See! This is why I keep you apart. It makes these moments so much more epic!” But I’m just thinking that if we were in a party, every session could be this epic.
Then Colorado got busy. He went to some alternative medicine nature retreat and didn’t pay his rent the whole time he was gone so he got evicted. At that point, the campaign went on hiatus as people got busy and Colorado was couch hopping. It was during that time I considered the campaign over and made my first post because I thought it fit the sub. Then a year after the last session, Colorado started trying to organize the group to do 3 more sessions to finish the campaign. I just ghosted the group chat for a while, but Pirate’s roommate is a player in the campaign I DM so Pirate started hopping on the call asking me to come back for the finale. Pirate told me that it would be different this time because all of our characters were going to meet up for the finale and he really wanted to play with me. I naively agreed to give the game a second chance.
The first of those three sessions led to this post and this follow up.
[TLDR - I never got to meet up with the other characters. Colorado made my ex a stripper and I was captured by invaders with no dice rolls to prevent it. I had a conversation with him about my concerns after the last session. He apologized and agreed to make changes saying he needed the campaign for his mental health.]
Colorado decided to have a single super finale session, which I reluctantly attended because of sunk cost fallacy. I was imprisoned, beaten and whipped, separated from my girlfriend and recently resurrected bodyguard. A deus-ex ninja offered to help me escape, but I wanted to save all the prisoners. So I helped the commoners escape with the ninja before saving my girlfriend. My bodyguard got captured, but I made sure my girlfriend escaped and then I went to save my bodyguard because I wasn’t letting her die after she just got resurrected. I tried to find my bodyguard but every door was locked and I was forced into a long one on one fight with a guard that would make John Carpenter blush. I lost the fight due to an unknown -2 modifier on my fighting rolls, leading to my re-imprisonment.
Pirate tried to board a boat to reach my location, but was unsuccessful. Colorado informed him that the sailors refused to let him on the ship because they didn't like his tone. Fortunately, Soldier saved me and we agreed to stop the big bad and rescue my bodyguard together. With a squad of Soldier's peers, we pursued the big bad into the woods. Without any rolls, all the other soldiers were sniped by archers.
Finally, the two of us reached the clearing where the big bad and his followers were. We were outnumbered about 30-2. My bodyguard and the other commoners were tied to a tree. Soldier was the same race as the villain so he approached while I stayed hidden. He delivered an awesome passionate speech against the big bad's actions saying that it wasn’t what their ancestors would want. I’m sitting there waiting and hoping for a persuasion roll… and nothing. Colorado says the big bad doesn’t change his mind and he sets the tree on fire, causing my bodyguard and the commoners to burn to death. Soldier and I retreated into the woods to end the campaign.
Pirate was supposed to have a scene after us, but he fell asleep because it was past 1am. Colorado kept trying to call Pirate on the phone. I joke, “Hey, we’re old now, being up past midnight isn’t as easy as it used to.” To which Colorado replies, “I just thought Pirate had more respect for me than this.” The Discord call becomes quiet and after Colorado starts focusing on Soldier and I. He wants to know why we’re not discussing the ending more. I remarked that it was a bit of a downer and I’m tired. Then Colorado starts spiraling, saying that RPGs are just another medium that he failed at just like film and music. HE STARTS CRYING and hangs up from the Discord call. Soldier and I stayed on and had a short “That was awkward” conversation. I don’t know Soldier well so I didn’t say much about my grievances with the campaign and eventually we ended up just talking about Baldur’s Gate 3 for an hour.
The next day, I wake up to a barrage of texts from Colorado apologizing, mansplaining how hard it is to be a DM as if I’ve never done it myself. He then starts sending me messages with all his ideas for my character in the next season and how he promises I’ll have more freedom next time. I wouldn’t understand, but he NEEDED to do the prison sequence and my bodyguard to die for my character growth, but next season will be different. I tell him I’m not doing another season. Colorado replies saying that he thought I’d say that because Pirate (who was apparently not sleeping) told him Soldier and I were bitching about the campaign after the session. Colorado said that once I get over it, we can start talking about season 3. I reaffirmed my stance. Then Colorado texts me one last time and asks if I’ll still make his maps and character art even if I don’t play. I said no again.
It's been two months since I last heard from Colorado or Pirate. We used to play games and talk about pro wrestling all the time, but now there's been no contact. A lot of the comments on my posts helped me realize I was prioritizing Colorado’s mental health over my own and I felt like it was my responsibility to support his campaign because he constantly referenced how important it was to his mental health. Intentional or not, he preyed upon my empathy. I’m not his Giving Tree and I shouldn’t be left a stump for a campaign where he doesn’t even want us to affect the world.
I sometimes worry Pirate is going through a similar situation to me, but for a longer period of time. Pirate introduced me to Colorado, and he's really loyal to him. I think that slowed down my exit from the group because I trusted Pirate to be my friend as well. I remember opening up to Pirate about a panic attack I had while Colorado was spiraling one day, and he just shrugged it off as me being dramatic. It's frustrating. I want both of them to be happy, but I can't make that happen for them, especially if it comes at the expense of my own well-being.
I ended up venting to some of my irl friends and they really supported and listened to me which is why I didn’t feel a need to vent here. I learned a lot about what not to do when DMing from this campaign and it made me reevaluate my approach to playing RPGs. Now I'm in a group with my irl friends and it's a blast. I can relax and just have fun playing again.
TLDR - I started DMing to stay connected with college friends who were scattered across the country. One player, Pirate, introduced me to Colorado, who eventually took over as the DM. Colorado had some unconventional methods, such as not using character sheets and controlling all the dice rolls. The game became focused on his storyline and my character had limited agency. Despite this, I gave the campaign a second chance. In the final session, things went poorly, and Colorado had a breakdown. Despite his apologies and promises for the next season, I decided not to continue playing. I have not heard from Colorado or Pirate since. I now play with my real-life friends and it's much more enjoyable.
RELEVANT COMMENTS/ADDED INFO
TicketPrestigious
Glad you're doing better. That does sound like quite a toxic situation.
If I've understood it right, the stuff with Pirate 'falling asleep' but actually listening in to you and Soldier talking feels like a massive red flag to me. I understand worrying about him since you were/felt like you were friends, but if he's enabling Colorado with that sort of stuff then it's probably best to move on.
OOP
Yeah even the best case would be that Pirate woke up after Colorado left the call and just overheard Soldier and me talking without us realizing because his mic was muted and we assumed he had passed out and then he snitched after which is still a bad look tbh. I had been distancing myself from Pirate since he invalidated my panic attack prior to this. It's just hard to be vulnerable with someone again after that.
THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP
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2024.05.20 05:57 Ok-Equivalent9908 [TOMT] an old game from the 2010s

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It had a 2D view of the hallways and there would be lockers and stuff. You could only run backwards or forwards and I think there were stairs you could walk up but maybe not. So it’s not one of those games where you could just walk around the world, you would just run forward.
The animation was pretty detailed for its time, so the character was not just a blob and the whole game wasn’t pixelated. Not sure how to explain this, but the game had a bit of a dark vibe and had like a sketchbook type of a style and it had some color. I think the character had dark hair, dark clothes and was tall and skinny.
The main things I remember is that there would always be a clock on screen that would show you how much time you had to complete the objective (not sure what that was), and when you ran out of time the clock would come up to the middle of the screen and start ringing like a school bell and you’d just have to restart.
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I’ve been trying to figure out what this game was for a long time but I can’t find it anywhere. It’s making think it’s imagined playing it so many years ago. 😣
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2024.05.20 05:56 cluelessly_clueful Mentally confused but always seem to find myself having a crush on someone

I don’t know why, but I always seem to accept the fact that I am attracted to someone, and usually they are pursuing with me something before I am with them. Or, sometimes, Anyway. Though this time I just am attracted to someone but I don’t really know if I should just ignore it or like make a move. It’s weird because it doesn’t really consume me to the point of jealousy like some of my last crushes did. Although, I wouldn’t say it was jealousy on my end I was struggling with, but the fact that many of them would befriend and wonder about certain people who were weirdly obsessed with me…like I was dating members of a secret hate club on me. This person though is just on my mind a lot since my third or fifth interaction with them. and I feel really peaceful after accepting I have a crush on them, but it also worries me because I am in a situation in life that I almost don’t have control over…so maybe it’s not about the boy and it’s just about me being able to accept that sometimes life’s struggles are bound to be, and with them I have to let go and accept other pleasures of life. Like maybbbee liking someone? But also, letting go completely scares me because I have really weird dreams at night, along w odd situations and real life awake encounters and I’d almost rather just be taught or told what all the oddness is about. Because I spend a lot of time trying to make sense of very strange things. I wish I didn’t and it was just a puzzle, but no matter what I do someone likes to make it seem like I am the fault to the weirdness in their life. Maybe that’s what’s happening with this newfound crush of mine. Whatever it is, I just hope they are not a complete secret hater of mine. I’m really tired of it. I just want someone who genuinely gets me and is like my other half. I’m not sure if those things are real in life. But I’m tired of the unfunny flirting. I have a feeling if something does happen with them, that it would involve that. And I might laugh just bc he makes me feel kinda giddy but I also just feel like it may be my fault if there isn’t any maturity to the relationship. Although, might I say, the energy he came at me with was very steadfast and persistent so you can’t blame me for falling for that. It’s almost like he was taught to hunt people and then once he spots his hunter he learns to turn them into friend. Idk how to explain it. Just he’s a cutie pie. But my exact height maybe a bit taller and it just gives me ptsd back to when I was dating this boy in jh/hs. And YES real ptsd. I’m not just throwing it around. I don’t want to have flashbacks of the guy anymore. I also don’t want to just accept someone as a partner if they aren’t even attracted to me or it’s some weird “duty to god” for them. Anyway, I’m not your project or his. I just want to share something good about my life without being called a name. Not looking for advice even. Just I believe I should be allowed that right since I’m steady listening to other people about their’s.
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2024.05.20 05:56 HemLen1985 Victim of repeat cheating

About 3 years ago I discovered my wife was cheating on me with a co worker of hers. It was what I guess you would call an emotional friend. I won't get in to the details of how I found out but after confronting her a few times over a few months she finally turned around and ended things with that person. At the same time many issues she had with me came to light and were brought up as reasons for what she did. I took all of this to heart, wanted my marriage to work, and agreed with many of her concerns. This led to a period of reconciliation between us where we we really working on things, and our relationship, love life, etc. was as good as it had been in a while. Things seemed good, I knew she was genuinely remorseful too.
That good period lasted for 9 months or so and then I noticed a change in her behavior towards me. She wanted to be out of the house more, do more things on her own, etc. This was coming out of covid so of course I understood, and supported her as I was fully committed to making things work for her as much as I could. During this time I began hearing about a new employee of hers though. His name always seemed to come up when talking about where she'd been, baseball, things for work, etc. Normal stuff, all good but coming out of being cheated on and the residual affects of that, hearing the same guys name a lot raised a lot of flags.
I expressed my concerns over this which led to a lot of defensiveness but insistence that things were good. I noticed our romantic life began to suffer during this time too, not non existent but very sporadic and noticeably different. More defensives when it came up. Generally she was much more withdrawn, emotionless towards me, just different. I also noticed my wife on her phone texting more, a bad habit from the first instance of cheating, and she always seemed to be texting with this employee. This continued throughout a couple vacations we took, constant texting, taking selfies, etc. She continued to spend more time out and later hours at work during this time too. I raised my specific concerns multiple times, tried to express I was feeling isolated, etc, but the friendship continued.
Things came to a head around that christmas. She became very angry when I again brought up my concerns. During this time she became very resistant and unwilling to make decisions together, make plans, spend time together, ets. and her mood towards me really seemed to change for the worse. I asked about marriage counselling and we did begin attending during this time. This was about a year ago and our love life ended at that time too at her insistence. So we attended counselling for about 3 months, both of us were honest and shared but after a while she pulled away from that. She became very angry and resentful, dissociated from her family and mine during this time too. Brought up past resentments with how they'd treated her in the past. Just overall very angry and negative.
The friendship continued, with her continued insistence it was innocent. over the past year I've noticed some periods of time where shes spent less time with him, less texting, but I mean any amount of it I hope people would understand is harmful to me. Things never went away though and she'd make a show of saying shes with him, etc. or he'd be there with others just so I knew she wasn't hiding anything. I feel my concerns are valid, especially given our past issues and my genuine efforts to work on the marriage and on self improvement.
Recently though on the topic of self improvement I've been noticing a big chasm between how others around me (coworkers, family, etc.) react to me and how my wife does. I feel I'm a very positive person and others react very well to this but my wife maintains this strong wall against me despite my self improvement and consistently more positive behavior in our marriage over several years now, citing past behavior on my part that led to the first affair. This has become harder and harder for me to live with. I despearately want to make my marriage work, for myself, our kids and for every other normal reason. There is just so much to lose and I know I could contribute to a good marriage if we both wanted to work towards one.
She refuses to do that though. Cites past behaviour. But stays in the marriage, etc. It hasnt added up for a while. Why the abject refusal to at least try working on things when were still together with no plans not to be? Like why not at least try. Start with small things, low stakes at the start, build the trust, etc. Doesn't make sense. So recently I've started noticing things and I've found proof after 2 years of this that she has recently been lying about spending time with this employee. Business trip inconsistencies, etc. Scrap notes talking about cuddling, etc, being kissed on the forehead, holding hands, etc. with him when she was supposed to be elsewhere with other people.
So I confronted her with my feelings that something about her recent trip doesn't add up. Can she prove she was where she said she was. I know she cant. She became extremely angry, defensive, threats to leave the marriage, to walk out over me going there. It was bad. I never laid my cards fully out though to prove I know she's lying. I wanted to see if she would admit to anything, she won't. Still insists her friendship with this person has been significantly reduced (it hasn't, again I have proof of lying and that its inappropriate). I'm not sure if its sexual, but there is a clear emotionally supportive friendship happening that is definitely walking the line.
We're at the point now where we are talking separation for the summer. So I can work on my trust issues (yeah again I'm the cause of everything). Part of me feels its ok to try. She says shes still open minded to work on things if a separation helps to improve things but she won't commit. Theres clearly a lot of gas lighting here. I'm torn if this is even worth it or if I'm out of hope. Again there is so much to lose. I love this person so much and know it could work if we were focused on the same things. And of course the impact to my kids that I desperately want to avoid. I understand the emotional cheating is to fill something she wasn't getting from me in the past. But again, lots of self improvement on my part over years now and she has acknowledged I've changed for the better and can be a good husband. But refuses to work on things (despite being together) or to even tell me what she needs different. All I get is that she's traumatized from the past.
I'm looking for advice here. I know what I'm describing is a situation most would walk away from or even not let get this far. But here I am several years later. My strong conviction and desire is to try to earn a chance to make it work together, until the wheels fall off. But I also know I'm at the end of the road now. Am I right to keep trying this last ditch effort? Or am I being misled in it too. I'm so stressed, confused and have been carrying this for years. I know most of the replies will be blunt and that I should leave her, end things, start over. But I'm looking for any advice out there too that could help me stay on the path I've been on, I still have some hope. Please help. I need reassurance I'm still on the right path.
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2024.05.20 05:55 Practical-Insect-191 Fortnite crew bug

Hi everyone I'm new in this reditt and my english is not good at all but I'll try to do my best to write this in english so sorry if theres a mistake on this post but I don't know what happened with my game.
Since last year I started to play fortnite on my PC before that I used to play fortnite on a Xbox One and I decided to buy the fortnite club in the og season and only that month and I made sure to deactivate the option to buy the crew automatically in epic games and y keep playing fortnite on my PC but today just for no reason I decided to play fortnite on my Xbox One and when I started the game for no reason it appears that screen when you just bought the fortnite crew the one who says "Claim your rewards" and the game gave me the crew skin from the last season I don't know what moth exactly but the name of the skin is "Silas Hesk" and also the game gave me all the rewards for "buying" the crew except the V-bucks I check my purchase history and there's nothing about a purchase in fortnite so I don't know what happened.
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2024.05.20 05:54 imachoculatedonnut I want to know if I was the toxic friend or if my classmates were indeed toxic

So for context, i'm not really fluent in english so sorry if there are grammar mistakes, i'm trying my best, also this story isn't as heavy as some of the stories i've read here, but i want to share my story if someone is currently going through something similar. So I (20 M) graduated from high school a couple years ago after spending 14 years in the same school, the reason is that in my country school is from kindergarden to senior year in the same institution. I arrived when i was 4 years old, since i was little i was described as a shy empathetic boy with a heart of gold, and it was really difficult for me to play with other kids or being included. Through elementary my life was pretty bad for me, for example, when we had to play as a group, my classmates would pick on me for being too slow and would purposely pick me to chase them in games and mock me for the rest of the day, while calling me gay or too soft for "simple jokes", though they knew that it wasn't funny for me and made me cry many times, i was most of the time alone, and if i was with somebody they would mock me. 5th grade was literally hell for me, that year i met this guy, let's call him "Aaron". Aaron was the new boy in school, a really sweet, rebel and extroverted boy, and i was really mesmerized by him, causing to have a crush, i won't lie. Since day 1 in school, we became really close, we passed many time together, we hanged out on both houses, this dude included me in everything, treated me like a human for the first time and was really nice, until he started hanging out with the group of boys that bullied me, and basically his personality made a 180° turn, and he became cruel, making the same cruel jokes, leaving me alone and making me feel like shit. I had such a crush in him that i stayed "friends" with my bullies, just because i couldn't bare being alone.
The relationship with those guys was tought for me, most of them when they didn't ignored me completly, they treated me like their "little brother that they can pick on", they made plans without me, made fun of my hobbies and made faces when i would be on their team
This "friendships" changed when i went to a schooltrip to the forest, where i was with this group, i didn't really had a choice, it was either bunking with them or not going. The first night i had an anxiety attack and felt really sick, and i think that was one of the few times where this group of guys finally treated me like a decent human or even a friend, they helped me calm down, held my head while i cried my heart out and even came out of the closet with them. It was the first time in years i felt included and a human, and for the rest of 2018 and most of 2019 i had a relationship where this guys and the rest of my classmates treated me like a person and cared for me.
When we got to the pandemic and came back to school in 2021, all my classmates started ignoring me, Sometimes there were good and funny moments, but usually they left me alone or ignored me during breaks, and they showed that they were friends (hugged each other or had a lot of trust in eachother), and i wanted to meet them better and i tried to socialize more, but when i tries to join the conversation, there were smiles and awkward conversations by almost everyone, and if I said something abouf feeling left out or feeling like the odd one out of the class, i was told that i was too fragile, too sensitive, I was the one who had to integrate and change.
Many times i arrived home crying because i was left out of a hang out, or watched in stories on IG friends going to parties, or that they would talk about those events knowing that i didn't knew anything before and without adding me. You can't get over the fact of coming home wanting to cry because you weren't included on conversations or parties or creating lies for my parents that I had been part of an anecdote that I only witnessed as basically a camera. I felt like a camera in my own life.
Now writing this, i remember some messed up things some of my classmates said in front of me. Like: - Aaron: "You know OP? If you died i wouldn't be that affected, i have more friends and i would quickly forget you" - Classmate: "oh (OP name) is really cool, i really like him". Then they would look at me and say: oh no (OP) not you, the cool (OP name)
Nowadays, i remember those experiences and feel a lot of pain, maybe i could have tried more and maybe i'm wrong? I hate feeling like even now when i have a healthy group of friends in college, i have to deal with the memories of being left out or ignored and blamed for it
I'm confused and don't know if i was toxic or if my classmates were the ones and i was right for cutting them off my life Thanks for reading
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2024.05.20 05:53 Amypaz10 AITA Returning a Birthday Gift After Boyfriend's Hurtful Comment About My Past

This happened last night, but my phone is still blowing up.
I'm a F28 woman who used my savings to buy my M30 boyfriend, Alex, a PS5 for his birthday yesterday.
He knew he was getting it because he said it was the only thing he wanted. We've been together for four years, so the cost wasn't an issue until I found out what he really thinks of me.
Some background: When I was 18, I dated a guy named Russel who I met online. We broke up after three months, and shortly after, I started dating Mark, a coworker. A few months later, I discovered Russel and Mark were close friends, but I didn’t know this because I hadn’t met Russel's friends.
After finding out, I took a break from dating and met Alex two years later. I was honest with Alex about my past, including the fact that I unknowingly dated friends. He said he understood and that my past didn’t bother him.
Last night at his party, I brought the PS5, and everyone, including Alex, was thrilled. Alex's best female friend, Irene, laughed and said, "I wish I was a thot so I could afford a PS5 too."
I gave her a confused look, and she said, "nevermind," and walked away.
I confronted Alex about it, and he said, "She’s just messing with you. Can’t you take a joke?"
I pressed further, asking why she was calling me names, and he replied, "Everyone knows you were a thot before you met me."
I asked him to explain, and he said, "You know… messing with best friends?"
He then patted my shoulder and said it was okay because I'm not who I was back then. He claimed if he could get over my "colorful past" and "thot mentalities," I should give Jessica another chance.
I didn’t say anything. I just got up, took the PS5 from the gift table, and left.
Alex was furious and called me about 20 times, but I didn’t care. I was so hurt that I took the bow off the PS5 and returned it to the store for a refund.
I thought that was the end, but Alex and his friends, including Irene, are berating me for being petty and say I brought this on myself by making poor choices.
I told Alex he deserves better than me and should find someone who wasn’t a "thot" and get the PS5 from them because I returned it.
He started screaming that I’m "the biggest AH" for returning it and that I should be grateful he ignored my "colorful past."
Now I’m wondering if taking it back went too far.
AITA?
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2024.05.20 05:53 ab-absurdum Directed Energy; Human-Machine Interfaces; Hypersonics; Renewable Energy Generation & Storage; Space Technology; RAND Corporation; Sandia National Laboratories. Who is Maynard Holliday? Calling all FOIA experts. Let's pull on some strings. [in-depth]

I was digging around and found this seemingly well-connected character. I believe there are more than a few good strings here that we could be pulling on together. I'm not at all familiar with the FOIA process, but I know some members here are and might enjoy a new rabbithole to dig down.
If you have experience filing a FOIA request and would be willing to file one or multiple requests for us, please reach out via modmail or comment here.
I really feel there may be some good leads here. Thank you to anyone who is willing to assist!
Below is a biography from https://www.defense.gov/About/Biographies/Biography/Article/2762694/maynard-holliday/
Mr. Maynard A. Holliday is Performing the Duties of Assistant Secretary of Defense for Critical Technologies in the Office of the Under Secretary of Defense for Research and Engineering. In this capacity, he oversees investment and capability analysis of the Pentagon's critical technology areas. He has oversight of 11 principal directors assigned to those critical technology portfolios and their roadmaps — the comprehensive strategies to manage, provide oversight and guide choices for each critical technology area. These critical technology areas include 5G; Advanced Computing & Software; Directed Energy; Human-Machine Interfaces; Hypersonics; Integrated Network Systems-of-Systems; Integrated Sensing & Cyber; Microelectronics; Renewable Energy Generation & Storage; Space Technology; and Trusted Artificial Intelligence & Autonomy.
Mr. Holliday has more than 30 years of professional experience leading technological innovations in both government and the private sector. Most recently, he was a Senior Engineer at the RAND Corporation working on autonomous vehicle safety metrics and policy, explainable artificial intelligence, swarm robotics and drone defense. Previously, he served as Senior Technical Advisor and Special Assistant to Frank Kendall, Under Secretary of Defense for Acquisition, Technology and Logistics. Mr. Holliday helped establish the Defense Innovation Unit Experimental and was a member of the Defense Science Board. Mr. Holliday has also worked for the Department of Energy as a project manager for the U.S.-Russia Nuclear Material Security Task Force. He was awarded the DOE’s Meritorious Service Award, its highest, for his exceptional service in helping secure tons of weapons grade nuclear material. Prior to his government service, Mr. Holliday was a senior engineering and robotics professional at the Lawrence Livermore and Sandia National Laboratories, as well as various robotics start-ups and technology companies in Silicon Valley.
Mr. Holliday is a co-organizer of Black in Robotics, a virtual world-wide community of roboticists and their allies whose mission is to bring together Black researchers, industry professionals and students in robotics to mutually support one another to help navigate academic, corporate, and entrepreneurial paths to success. He is also co-founder of Robot Garden, the robotics-themed hacker space in Livermore, Calif. He also has been working with Bay Area public schools lecturing on robotics and teaching robotics through the Citizen Schools program in East Oakland. Mr. Holliday was named Citizen Schools Volunteer of the Year for 2012 and was also recognized with a Presidential Volunteer Service Award from the White House for his efforts. Before leaving government service in 2017, he was awarded the Secretary of Defense Medal for Exceptional Public Service recognizing his contributions to national security through his considerable and trusted advice on multiple DOD initiatives.
Mr. Holliday graduated from Carnegie Mellon University in 1984 with a Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering. He later won a scholarship to attend Stanford University, where he earned a Master of Science in Mechanical Engineering Design with an emphasis on robotics, international security and arms control. Mr. Holliday also won a scholarship to attend the International Space University in France and was a two-time finalist for the U.S. Astronaut Corps.
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