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2024.05.17 14:07 RoughAnteater412 I feel like i am not in control of my life, i dont find enjoyment in many things, what can i do ?

Hello, im 19m, uni student.
i have always been into a hobby hunt because i want to be dependant on my own happiness and not making other people the main and only source of my happiness, i have realised this problem 3 years ago, my best friend left me and stopped hanging out with me because i was too depressed and was not really energised so i was just a bit boring and he stopped hanging out with me to hand out with other friends, i dont remember why i was depressed but i remember that after he left me i felt 100 times worse, for 6 months i was almost always alone, i only had a mutual friend and we did not talk daily, i talked to her about the situation because well she is a mutual friend and knows him, she mostly put a chunk of the blame on me, saying relationships need both sides to put effort for it to work, she was implying that i did not put effort, which was wrong but then yes i stopped putting effort because ive been putting effort for a month and never got the same effort back.
after those 6 months, i have always been feeling like shit, i was around 15 but i dont think i truly realised how dependant i was, the mutual friend eventually got us back and he apologised and stuff, it has been almost 4 years now and he is my best friend, he is changed, i hated how i got back instead of moving on but i truly think now he is an amazing friend and has been with me in hard times.
a year after we were friends again, so 3-2 years ago, he started hanging out less and less, for valid reasons, i had to spend most of my time alone, and i did not know how, my days felt too long, unbearable. then i realised the gravity of the situation, i needed to do something and i need to know how to enjoy my own solitude, which is why i have always been hard on myself on trying having hobbies. i started going to the gym and cooking which was great and i still do that. and i have tried many other things but mostly, i did not really enjoy it.
fast forward to now, in my life, my close circle, there is 2 people, my best friend still, and a girl who i have been talking to for maybe 5-6 months now, i have feelings for her, and she does for me, i have told her how i feel a few months ago and she called me, i was scared but it turned out great, she said she feels that way too and she thinks im cute and blah blah blah. Thing is, we live very far away from each other, which is why we arent really officially a "couple". Like obviously she is more than a friend but still, we text and call frequently and i always have much fun. and i really do want to take things more seriously with her but i dont think now is a good time as she is having her finals and university entrance exams and also, sometimes i think if it is a good idea because of the distance, the plan is as we discussed if we do take things to the "next level" is to wait until we both finish uni (~2 years for me. ~4 years for her).
i feel like sometimes i am too attached, i really hate it, i have been like that and i know where it got me to, i dont want to be in that place ever again, i am genuinely scared. sometimes, like today and yesterday where i have not gotten a text from her, i dont feel good and i fucking hate it, i feel very pathetic, why can i not be content with my own ? its not like she disappeared or something, maybe because i already dont feel good and this is a plus to it, because it has happened more than once, one time she said she wanted to be alone for a time and it was around a week, for the first couple of days yeah i did not feel good but then it was normal, and i also started having feelings of hate, which i obviously hated, i get attached and when they want to have alone time i cant help but feel like they are tired of me or something, i hate thinking about it too much, and i know that if i just had a life with many things to do i wont be feeling like this, again which brings us to the hobby thing, i still go to the gym and cook but i would still have a long day not knowing what to do ALONE.
one hobby that i picked up and i hold it dear to me is cycling, i started cycling a lot when i was severely depressed around 2 months ago, it was amazing honestly, it gave me an hour of peace that i needed, just me and my bicycle and i go around my ugly neighbourhood listening to the songs my girl gave to me, i still do it but not daily, it is hard to do it daily because the time to do it is very limited, i can only cycle around 5pm so its a safe uv level and the sun is not too hot (it gets around 40c here) and i cant really do it after 7pm because the sun sets and i want to see the sun, i dont like doing it in the night. another hobby i used to do while i was depressed was building legos, i built a set and spent around a week, an hour each day and it was honestly great. i still have another set but i never got myself to do it, why ? i have a jigsaw puzzle that i am supposed to finish for like 2 months now and i never finished it, i have a big empty portrait in my room that the jigsaw puzzle is supposed to be inside, everytime i look at it it reminds me of my failure lol, i can just never get myself to do it, i tried it 3 times and got bored quickly.
i just hate the feeling of not having control of my own happiness, and many things that i do i do not find enjoyment in, even playing games which is like my main hobby for a long time, i cant enjoy it much if i do it alone, only with my friend which i hate, i feel like i fucked up my life and i dont really know what to do, its funny how i am in the exact same place kinda 2 years ago, i tried many things, playing the piano, drawing, making video games, boxing, running. i just never found great enjoyment in them and it always felt like chores, not hobbies, honestly the only things that i truly find peace with while i do them and it doesnt feel like a chore is going to the gym and cycling, maybe and other small things. But i just feel like these are not enough, i still have a long day and what ? chatting and hanging out with my friend or girl friend is what really makes me the happiest in my day but i just am afraid that maybe everything would fall apart and i will be alone, i need to prepare myself, i need to be more dependant, to make the relationships healthier, to love myself more, but i just dont know how, many things are super boring, does this maybe have to do with dopamine receptors ? i really dont know, what can i do ? i feel like i know what to do, which is focus on my life aspects like hobbies but I just dont really know how.
any comment would be appreciated, thank you all and have a great day :)
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2024.05.17 14:00 avtolik Changelog from the last week [10 - 17 May]

Hello, here is the latest changelog.
Content: * Added tarot cards as a variant of playing cards and added Ouija board as a playable board game. by aapocalypseAArisen * Adds a new globally unique special to spawn in the ocean : an Oil Platform ! by Peakwastaken * Add More Nightmares by TheMurderUnicorn
Features: * Limbify consumption times by Venera3 * The player can swap between defined outfits with the 'set of clothes' item by RenechCDDA * Provides new utility to mounds of upturned dirt, as well as fixing inconsistencies with its counterpart. by Amnestasia * Resume butchering by inogenous * Adding support for ImTui to draw unicode characters by katemonster33 * The player's overmap destination is now a valid destination for telling NPCs to go-to by RenechCDDA
Balance: * Add Craft, Uncraft, Furniture version, and Construction to Fancy Tables by TheMurderUnicorn * Fix Up Travel Toilets by TheMurderUnicorn * The average skill level of NPCs will rise over time by RenechCDDA * Land prisons also keep you out by casswedson * Tweak Wind Turbine Recipe Learning by TheMurderUnicorn * Make pupating explosion quieter by Procyonae * Added Bronze Wood Saw to Misc Repair Kit Craft by TheMurderUnicorn * Reinforced garbage bags are now watertight by DragonWizard23 * document monster dodge balance by LyleSY * You Can Smash Skunk Skulls by TheMurderUnicorn * Splits star vampires into a fast-blood-sucking and a strong-grabbing version. by carlarctg * Assess and Change Vehicle Part breaks_into Entries by TheMurderUnicorn
Interface: * Updates the Terminus font by Procyonae * Rename cover - concealment by Procyonae * Don't show gun without default ammo defined as an option in reload ui by osuphobia * Provide a visual UI for changing vehicle part shapes by irwiss * Change world setting 'Spawn Time Options' to 'World Time Options' by theFeu
Mods: * Give Liam opinions in XE by Maleclypse * Aftershock: Add poison based bullets, grenades and 'toxic flamethrower' by John-Candlebury * [MoM] EoC-ify Eater drain attack by Standing-Storm * [MA] Starting a new game works again by Procyonae * [MoM] Feral telekinetics have no inherent armor, they use their powers instead by Standing-Storm * [MoM] Add triffid psions by Standing-Storm * [MoM] Rework Combat Sense with modern enchants by Standing-Storm * Tamable Skunks by LordBarkBread * New joke spell by rty275 * [MoM] Increase feral clairsentient dodge by Standing-Storm * [MoM] Normalize feral biokinetic HP by Standing-Storm * [No Hope] Adds a difficulty setting prompt to determine item spawn rates by Procyonae * [Bombastic Perks] More perks by Standing-Storm
Performance: * Optimize item::stacks as well as allocation patterns in item and elsewhere by Procyonae
Bugfixes: * Added the Ouija board to appropriate loot pools. by aapocalypseAArisen * Gives an explanation for why the TALON UGV Liberty Edition turns into the regular TALON UGV M16A4. by TealcOneill * Duct tape described as liquid by osuphobia * Check validity of Win32 file names by Procyonae * fix draw_critter_above bounds check by mischief * fix assert in diary info panel clamp by mischief * Fixed arrows disappearing when unwielded by Procyonae * Fix health dreams when you are ill by Procyonae * xs_gloves_wool_fingerless and xl_gloves_wool_fingerless did not have relevant PREFIX flags. by SomeGuyIGues * Fix heat func fault, correct the null check, remove the original heat_food duplicate bug. by yuganxia * Not to try to reload a gun without default ammo type defined by osuphobia * Define Rubik's personality values by Procyonae * NPCs will prioritize wielding ranged weapons when allowed by Procyonae * Fixes power grid teleportation, crashes, and other buggy interactions by Procyonae * Rotten ingredients correctly result in rotten products by Procyonae * Tutorial screen popup text no longer cuts off by katemonster33 * Fixing a clang-tidy error from a recent ImTui-related PR by katemonster33 * Add molle accessories to webbing belt by b0bhat * Fix integrated armor being incompatible with some mutations by KittyTac * krakens swim by LyleSY
Infrastructure: * Adjust how open_container affects Character::dispose_item by osuphobia * fix forward declaration of imgui ImVec2 by mischief
Build: * Fix netbsd ncurses build. The ncurses include path is set with CURSES_INCLUDE_DIRS by mmyjona
None: * Add cattle samples to more ungulates by Karol1223 * Backport #73104 by Procyonae * Backport #70686 by Procyonae * Backport #72759 and #73703 by Procyonae * Backport #70875 by Procyonae * Backport #71304 by Procyonae * extend zombie security guard drops by casswedson * Expose daily calories calendar to math by GuardianDll * Added explicit roofs to field basecamp 1 by PatrikLundell * Backport #70695 by Procyonae * Backport #70713 by Procyonae * Backport #70688 by Procyonae * Backport #70844 by Procyonae * Backport #71068 by Procyonae * Backport #71351 by Procyonae * Backport #71382 by Procyonae * Backport #71157 by Procyonae * Backport #71333 by Procyonae * Backport #71338 by Procyonae * Gun without magic gun barrel by Kamejeir * clamp the multiplicative speed bonus by GuardianDll * Load faults / fault_fixes with generic_factory by irwiss * Better debug message on loading bad vehicle parts by irwiss * Add -gsplit-dwarf to LTO build to cut memory utilization in linker by kevingranade * Hydration pouch size fixes by TheAthenaCabin0 * Typified editmap by PatrikLundell * Added explicit roofs to hub version 2 by PatrikLundell * Include vehicle roofs for map::draw_from_above by irwiss * Nerf artwork prices into oblivion by Karol1223 * Fix door on select, door controls should keep selection by irwiss * Fix crash when opening construction menu with no visible entries by Qrox * Backport #70772 and #70775 by Procyonae * Backport #70646 by Procyonae * Backport #70657 by Procyonae * Backport #70706 by Procyonae * Backport #70700 by Procyonae * Backport #70767 by Procyonae * Backport #73296 by Procyonae * Trigger rebuild of cataclysmdda.org when a 0.H release candidate is created by kevingranade * Added roofs to livestock 1 by PatrikLundell * Split construction into many files in a subdirectory by PatrikLundell * Extract feed and pet messages by Uwuewsky * Confirm ability requested by TealcOneill * Propane shelved by kevingranade * Refactor f_bulk_trade_accept by RenechCDDA * Backport #71582 by Procyonae * Remove backported test by Procyonae * Backport #70764 by Procyonae * Backport #70698 by Procyonae * Backport #70708 by Procyonae * Backport #73487 by Procyonae * Backport #70768 by Procyonae * Backport #72801 by Procyonae * Remove redundant emscripten build by kevingranade * Cable pockets don't add extra encumbrance by RenechCDDA * Define _XOPEN_SOURCE_EXTENDED on mac localized curses builds for wchar by kevingranade * fix spawn_rate being zero by default by GuardianDll * Backport #71860 by Procyonae * Backport #72898 by Procyonae * Backport #70769 by Procyonae * #include vector in cata_imgui.h by kevingranade * Provided 3D camp construction + Livestock 2 example by PatrikLundell * Use dummy parser for attack_vector to fix string extraction script error by Qrox * typified animation.cpp by PatrikLundell * Backport updated release notes generation workflow to 0.H by kevingranade * skip emscripten build for draft PRs by kevingranade * Backport #71403 by Procyonae * Backport #73113 by Procyonae * Backport #72942 by Procyonae * Routine i18n updates on 11 May 2024 by kevingranade * Give me (Amnestasia) /confirm privileges by Amnestasia * Backport #73632 by Procyonae * Automation changes for 0.H release candidates by kevingranade * Don't access out of bounds by RenechCDDA * skip slow builds for draft PRs by kevingranade * Add translation context to short art snippets by Qrox * Move Sewer Gators to CrazyCata by Karol1223 * Test to ensure unconditional and conditional nest placement works by Procyonae * Skunk Spray Neutralizer by Maleclypse * make the game faster when player sleep near the tree by GuardianDll * Fish fry & tadpole minor audit by Karol1223 * Added construction of roofs by PatrikLundell * Use ncurses accessor macros by kevingranade * Fix carving knife being defined as a bread knife by VladMasarik
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2024.05.17 13:43 Careful-Shape-7221 Am I (30f) over analyzing my spouse's (28M) relationship with his friend (28f)?

I've been dating this guy for a couple of years and he recently reconnected with one of his friends but something has always seem a little off to me. They've known each other since they were kids but they fell out for years over some misunderstanding. At first I didn't mind them hanging out and talking but I've gotten more insecure about their relationship over time. The first time I met his friend, he told me that she insisted I get dolled up; later found out that wasn't true and he wanted me to so I would feel less insecure. She didn't leave a good impression on me, I felt as though she insulted my interests and how I speak and the entire time I felt like I was a third wheel on someone else's date. I'm not usually a jealous type but I was feeling some type of way and my bf noticed but thought it was funny/cute. I know I'm wrong for this next part, but eventually I did look into their messages because he would constantly bring her up in conversation. I understand all relationships have their own rules/boundaries but I felt like they were being slightly inappropriate, especially since they're "like brother and sister". Something that stuck out the most was them talking about how she could start an OF and him volunteering to go with her to places then notifying me afterwards. I voiced my uneasiness towards some of the content in the messages and I'm constantly told it's nothing to worry about. They'll talk/text at all hours and I also voiced how that made me feel. At one point I did tell him I wanted him to stop talking to her in which I was told if he did he would be angry about it for a long time; in which I decided to drop the request. They both at one point did say to each other that it felt like there was a strain on my and bfs relationship and suggested they stop talking to one another; something I encouraged to not happen....I don't want him to feel like I'm picking and choosing he can and can't talk to but I'm lost at how I can get my feelings through to him. I've also tried being cordial and getting to know her but she seemed uninterested and I noticed a few times I would message her to start a conversation that would be opened and read, but she's sitting and replying to my bf (he would tell me or I would be sitting next to him and reading the convo over his shoulder) We've been going through a stressful time right now and he's told me he talks to her about our relationship problems for advice. Out of spite and anger, I did message her the other day to tell her how I felt about the whole situation and it felt like she blew off my concerns stating that "she didn't see it that way but she understood". She immediately sent what I said to my bf amd he claimed I was painting him as some villian; all I told her was that I wasn't comfortable with some of the stuff they talk about and how I felt like I was second priority to him; but I still insisted that she don't drop her friend because of how I felt. We had an argument about it and agreed that we would start fresh; which I was okay with until yesterday. My bf is a little reclusive and likes to keep to himself (he's usually in his office all day) and I asked if he would sit in the kitchen with me so I could clean the dishes he needed for the food he just bought and planned on cooking. He told me he'd rather sit on the couch in the other room because it was more comfortable than the kitchen chairs and plus friend (28f) was about to call. I'm not sure how long they were on the phone for but I left the room each time he came in. I feel like I'm being overdramatic but in that moment and even now it felt like her baby daddy drama was more important than sitting and talking with me, even if it was for a few minutes. After the call, he decided he wasn't making dinner anymore (I can wait until tomorrow) and asked if I would lay with him after his shower. When he got out and before he got into the bed, I saw he was writing out a long response to whatever text she just sent so I decided to just go to sleep and not wait on him any longer. And now we're here. I think men and women can be friends while in relationships but this feels so off to me. I feel like ever since she became more prominent in his life that I've been pushed back in his and as selfish as it may sound, I think it's unfair. I have been cheated on in the past with a similar situation (ex and a mutual friend at the time) and I know that's a factor in my uneasiness but this time it feels like the blatant disregard to how I feel is more in my face. I'm already insecure and being in my 30s I don't feel like I should put up with feeling this way in a relationship. I thought about leaving quite a bit lately but I don't know if I can or if their relationship is even a valid reason. A part of me feels like I'm overreacting and another part is telling me they don't give a F about my concerns to lay down any type of boundary in their relationship. I get that they're "like siblings" but some of the stuff they talk about I wouldn't with my own. Any advice on what to do or how to navigate this situation? Edit: I wanted to add that at times, he also shared his accomplishments/concerns with her before letting me know anything as well; I felt like this needed to be added because it does intensify my insecurities about their relationship
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2024.05.17 13:38 Inner_Calligrapher_9 My partner has a pattern of developing feels for people at work…

I’m going to try to keep this short. My partner is the most lovely, supportive and awesome human. They do live on the spectrum and don’t identify with gender which I only mention because I think those things can make it hard for them to for emotional relationships though they are unmasking more.
Shortly after we met before we were married they kept bringing up a girl from work, an employee. Cute but that’s a no go in my head. I said as much and I felt we should both stay away from work people. He didn’t and I struggled a lot, he lost his job, he and her (she was married) went through something tough and it was painful.
So therapy happened. Healing, communication and an agreement that work place relationships aren’t healthy or a good idea.
A few years later I start hearing about someone cute at the new job. I say wow, be careful with that. They ultimately pursued a relationship with her despite my big feels and concerns and it ended with people not getting their needs met or feeling very great and she left the workplace for perhaps unrelated reasons.
So now a few years later here we are, I hear about this cute girl at work and admittingly my body has a response. I assume we have been down this road and we are on the same page until she texts him asking for “casual sex”. He says no and is sad about it and I hold space. I get it’s a bummer. Then he goes on to text with her about sexual fantasies, which he came and showed me and told me but I was still hurt really bad. He kept saying I would get along with her, which I’m sure but it’s the fact there is this pattern of work people after we agreed that was a no go.
Maybe I don’t have the right to say who he can develop feelings for but he opens the door and lets these people in. Personal cell numbers, texting after work hours, etc
I really attempted to put my foot down and ask my partner not to engage in this as it’s outside the boundaries of our relationship though they strongly feel I just can’t manage them having feelings for other people.
They have dated other people outside of work, I’m always supportive. I have them to the house, I don’t care if they have sex when I’m at home. I’ll make meals, buy gifts, plan meals for us all to go out.
My problem is with him impulsively becoming highly attached to people at work and putting myself, our family at emotional risk and financial risk (if he is fired or leaves). This girl recently told him she needed space; she really just wanted sex and my partner had big feels that didn’t match which at work is a lot to manage- she can’t just ghost. I see her trying to navigate and take breaks and come back to say ok we can be friends then act friendly and he thinks it’s mixed signals.
My partner has even thought of leaving their job, a very good job because of the situation.
At this point they are still seemingly upset or disappointed in feeling that I can’t or won’t support them loving another human- I’m just feeling like they never come about it ethically and within the boundaries of our relationship.
I can’t figure out how we exist in this space with them thinking I don’t know, accept and love them when I am just seeking respect in my marriage and relationship when really the only boundary is no work people.
Is it me, am I the drama? If I am I know yall will tell me if anyone read all this…
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2024.05.17 13:05 Recent-Tie-9763 Am I (F22) being too overbearing or clingy to my boyfriend (M22)?

My (F22) bf (M22) and i have been going out for about 9 months now. My bf's a lot more social than me. Im not exactly an introvert or anything, i just have bad social anxiety. Like im more of a get together with friends and go drinking at apple bees or go bowling type of girl, while hes more clubs and college parties. (He's graduated last year) So I always get anxiety when my boyfriend goes out. But I do believe that's just a me problem that stems from insecurity because I trust him like I don't think he'll cheat on me and all. I just feel anxious. I feel like when he goes out clubbing or partying, he's gonna miss the single life or not cheat, but realize theres better out there. Im pretty insecure and ik thats not cute but i cant help it, but again thats a me problem and i dont ever let myself inflict those feeling onto him. And its sucks cause I get a littlee fomo even thought I get invited sometimes and deny cause I'm too anxious to come or i just genuinely have work. But when he goes out, I never expect him to text me the entire time, but I'm just big in my good mornings, my goodnights and my I got homes. I also wish to know if he's going out for the night, especially if he's drinking. Like I'd never expect him to notify me everytime he leaves the house or anything like that, just sometimes if he's staying out I like to know as a lil reassurance (of his safety and if he cares) Is there any way I can lessen my stress over my anxieties and insecurities? And am I being too overbearing and clingy?
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2024.05.17 12:57 parttimenostalgic [Thank You] <3 for the Amazing postcards

It's a very late mail that I received this week. Sorry for the delay. Thank you for the 5 cute postcards.
@u/somewhatfoolish- Thank you for the Lovely Halloween postcard. When I first saw it I thought the text was printed at the back but it was your very pretty and neat handwriting. Thanks for telling me your autumn traditions. Loved the card 🧡
@u/melhen16 - Thank you for the Pretty purple and blue Sea themed postcard and sea stickers. I loved the quote that you chose. The card is really very cute! 💙
@u/spookyoneoverthere- Thank you for the Mad libs 😂 and the handmade card is really cute. I agree with you over the kidney part. 💜
@u/hoolu123- Thank you for the chihuly postcard. It's very lovely and the way you decorated it at the back with stickers is really cute, loved it. 💚 (the mail came very late idk why)
@u/sufficient _letter883- Thank you for the Zoological park postcard, it's has a really cute hippopotamus 💛.
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2024.05.17 12:38 fairuzfaiza Mess up my order and make no amends to fix it? Fine, I'll do that myself.

About 3 weeks ago i ordered this dress online which i found really cute through an Instagram page. I received the dress and i really liked it. However, they didn't even send it in my size. it was about 3 sizes down from my size. I texted the page immediately after finding out it was smaller than what i ordered. They said that they only take returns when the item is checked in front of the delivery man (so that if any fault is found with the product, the delivery man can return it to the seller) . And they really can't do much if the delivery man already left the place. In my apartment complex, delivery men are not allowed in the building (due to some recent crimes in my area). So, I couldn't check the parcel right when i received it. I told them that and they responded that they would initiate an exchange and just need a couple days.
Days go by and i text them several times over the course of 3 weeks. I constantly text them and they don't reply, I call them on the number they provided but its invalid. And even when i did manage to get another number, they hung up on me when i told them about my issue. I realized they were not going to exchange it as it doesn't benefit them in any way rather wastes their resources. But i wasn't the one to let my money to go waste and plus i liked the quality of the dress.
I devised a plan. Now, my plan was to place an order again and this time ill exchange two dresses and just tell the delivery man that the dress didn't fit and return the smaller dress. My plan was almost perfect but there was still a possibility that they might mess up again. Also, it was cash on delivery, so i wouldn't lose money in this way since i was not going to keep the dress.
I placed another order through their Instagram page with my order account. But this time i used the address of my neighboring building and used my other number. I placed the order with my size. And there was a big chance that they might fuck up. But i just had to take a chance. They confirmed my order. When the delivery man arrived i told him to wait downstairs till i try it on. I exchanged the dresses and told the delivery man that they had sent me the wrong size and I'd like to return that.
My plan worked and i got the dress in my size. I blocked them from both my accounts and unsent any personal information i sent them. I'm lowkey proud of it and I feel like it was just a big Fuck you from my side.
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2024.05.17 12:17 Safe_Pipe5254 Does this boy likes me?

So, I have a crush on my class mate for like 6 months now. We have same taste in a lot of things and he is very kind. Last night we had dinner with bunch of our classmates. I saw him several times, he was wearing grey suit and looking fine. We talked 5 mins before leaving, he doesn't compliment me at that time but it feels like he wanted to say something. Also, we are friends, we talk on insta and send reels as well. When I reached home. I texted him saying that he looks good today. To which he replied, you were looking so cute. I said why you didn't say it to me there? He replied, you were looking so nice that I wasn't able to process anything for a while!!??!! Now reddit users, does this boy likes me? Or is it normal to get compliment like this?
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2024.05.17 12:01 AutoModerator Daily Discussion Thread 05/17/2024

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2024.05.17 11:56 CrepusculeMilk Is my (24F) boyfriend (23m) getting complacent, or am I too needy?

Short backstory: We started dating about 9 months ago. He's stationed here through the army and wants to stay with me after he's done. Our relationship started really strong and intense. Hour long phone calls every day, seeing each other once or twice a week, we would regularly come up with cute date ideas, and he would seem really excited to come and see me. I know that this amount of effort wasn't sustainable, and we've since mellowed out, but in the past month or two I have often ended up feeling a little neglected.
Right now we usually see each other once every week or two because of work, even though we only live 20 minutes apart. We would often play video games online to make up for it. However, he has now started playing "our games" more with his friends at the army and I've become more of an afterthought. They hang out and go out to eat and play games every single day, sometimes during the weekends too. He'll usually text me once a day to check up on me and the conversation usually ends there. Sometimes he'll tell me that I can join their game "if I want", and sometimes I do. His friends are nice and I don't mind spending time with them, but I feel like I can never catch him without them. When I come over to his place, his friends will also always be in his room with us. Sometimes they'll just play video games without me because the "party is full". Playing games with his friends is also not a substitute for "relationship time" in my eyes.
Having him come over to my place is a challenge too. He's become increasingly apathetic about coming over and when he does, he sulks or is bored. In the past he would sometimes cancel last minute to hang out with his friends. All we do is watch youtube/netflix and sit in bed and cuddle. He says he's comfortable just relaxing with me, and while I feel the same, I'm also starting to miss how he used to to take me out and contribute ideas. "Do you want to do something fun next weekend? Wanna go eat? Wanna go on a walk?" All of my questions are met with "Up to you/Whatever you want to do". And when I come up with plans and we go out he's bored because "we just like different things". If I try to suggest something that he likes, he wants to do it with his friends. I cook meals for him when he comes over and try to make him relax after a long mission, but I'm starting to feel like our relationship is stagnant. For a while I thought he was just less interested in me. Sometimes he'll be sad and after attempting to get him to open up all day, he'll mention that he's homesick and doesn't know if he wants to stay here with me. He has intense ADHD and changes his mind often and it makes me anxious. I don't know how to help him or how to plan our future.
When I tried asking him if he's losing interest, he got mad at me and told me that he's just tired from work and wants to rest. I should stop overthinking and that I'm needy for demanding to "hang out all the time or do things every day". I don't know how to explain that it's not really about hanging out every day, or him wanting time with his friends. I just feel like we stopped bonding and making new experiences, like there's nothing that glues us together anymore except for comfort and the title of a relationship. "Quality time" now consists of staring at a screen and watching shows or videos for a day, and then he goes back to his friends. I have my own hobbies and usually hang out with my own friends, but every time I tell myself that I'll just lower my expactions and focus more on my own things, I feel like I'm mentally abandoning that relationship. At this point we each see and talk to our friends more than we see each other.
I've had pretty toxic relationships in the past and have developed a bit of relationship anxiety, so maybe I really am just overthinking everything. He told me that he's gonna try to do better and I haven't really brought it up since then, but I still can't help but doubt if it's really going to change. It also makes me wonder how life would be if we ever ended up living together.
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2024.05.17 11:44 ThrowRA-Wy I (23M) need advice on pursuing an autistic girl (20F)

I’ve been friendly with this girl for a few months now as we were in a class together at college this past semester. We’ve started talking very heavily the past week or so, typically staying up until 2-3 am to text with each other, but I’m having a tough time getting a read on the situation. She’s made a lot of comments about how she thinks she thinks we get a long really well and even had me take a personality test to see how our personality types fit together. I thought that really cute actually and according to her we’re very compatible. She also made a few comments that I would typically consider flirting such as calling something I tell her about myself cute and saying how funny she thinks I am. However, I’ve made attempts to flirt with her and I’m not 100% certain she realized I was flirting. We had an interesting conversation last night about it being really tough for her to read social cues, knowing how are other people are feeling, and needing people to be pretty direct with her that made me realize this. So I guess the advice I’m looking for is exactly how direct I need to be when expressing my interest? And if that works out is there anything else I should be aware of when dating someone with autism?
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2024.05.17 11:26 Dusayanta Failing to generate image

I have NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1650 with 4GB VRAM. Whenever I try to use the tool, it abruptly stops after some time at Moving Model to GPU and below is the terminal output.
C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831>.\python_embeded\python.exe -s Fooocus\entry_with_update.py --preset realistic Already up-to-date Update succeeded. [System ARGV] ['Fooocus\entry_with_update.py', '--preset', 'realistic'] Python 3.10.9 (tags/v3.10.9:1dd9be6, Dec 6 2022, 20:01:21) [MSC v.1934 64 bit (AMD64)] Fooocus version: 2.3.1 Loaded preset: C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831\Fooocus\presets\realistic.json [Cleanup] Attempting to delete content of temp dir C:\Users\dusay\AppData\Local\Temp\fooocus [Cleanup] Cleanup successful Total VRAM 4096 MB, total RAM 7975 MB Trying to enable lowvram mode because your GPU seems to have 4GB or less. If you don't want this use: --always-normal-vram Set vram state to: LOW_VRAM Always offload VRAM Device: cuda:0 NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1650 : native VAE dtype: torch.float32 Using pytorch cross attention Refiner unloaded.

IMPORTANT: You are using gradio version 3.41.2, however version 4.29.0 is available, please upgrade.

Running on local URL: http://127.0.0.1:7865
To create a public link, set share=True in launch(). model_type EPS UNet ADM Dimension 2816 Using pytorch attention in VAE Working with z of shape (1, 4, 32, 32) = 4096 dimensions. Using pytorch attention in VAE extra {'cond_stage_model.clip_l.logit_scale', 'cond_stage_model.clip_g.transformer.text_model.embeddings.position_ids', 'cond_stage_model.clip_l.text_projection'} Base model loaded: C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831\Fooocus\models\checkpoints\realisticStockPhoto_v20.safetensors Request to load LoRAs [['SDXL_FILM_PHOTOGRAPHY_STYLE_BetaV0.4.safetensors', 0.25], ['None', 1.0], ['None', 1.0], ['None', 1.0], ['None', 1.0]] for model [C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831\Fooocus\models\checkpoints\realisticStockPhoto_v20.safetensors]. Loaded LoRA [C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831\Fooocus\models\loras\SDXL_FILM_PHOTOGRAPHY_STYLE_BetaV0.4.safetensors] for UNet [C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831\Fooocus\models\checkpoints\realisticStockPhoto_v20.safetensors] with 788 keys at weight 0.25. Loaded LoRA [C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831\Fooocus\models\loras\SDXL_FILM_PHOTOGRAPHY_STYLE_BetaV0.4.safetensors] for CLIP [C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831\Fooocus\models\checkpoints\realisticStockPhoto_v20.safetensors] with 264 keys at weight 0.25. Fooocus V2 Expansion: Vocab with 642 words. Fooocus Expansion engine loaded for cpu, use_fp16 = False. Requested to load SDXLClipModel Requested to load GPT2LMHeadModel Loading 2 new models [Fooocus Model Management] Moving model(s) has taken 3.41 seconds Started worker with PID 3544 App started successful. Use the app with http://127.0.0.1:7865/ or 127.0.0.1:7865 [Parameters] Adaptive CFG = 7 [Parameters] Sharpness = 2 [Parameters] ControlNet Softness = 0.25 [Parameters] ADM Scale = 1.5 : 0.8 : 0.3 [Parameters] CFG = 3.0 [Parameters] Seed = 773559624287465126 [Parameters] Sampler = dpmpp_2m_sde_gpu - karras [Parameters] Steps = 30 - 15 [Fooocus] Initializing ... [Fooocus] Loading models ... Refiner unloaded. [Fooocus] Processing prompts ... [Fooocus] Preparing Fooocus text #1 ... [Prompt Expansion] indian women, intricate, elegant, highly detailed, wonderful quality, sweet colors, lush atmosphere, sharp focus, cinematic, thought, perfect composition, dramatic light, professional, winning, extremely thoughtful, color, stunning, aesthetic, beautiful, innocent, fine, epic, best, awesome, novel, contemporary, romantic, artistic, surreal, cute [Fooocus] Preparing Fooocus text #2 ... [Prompt Expansion] indian women, intricate, elegant, highly detailed, wonderful quality, dramatic light, sharp focus, elaborate, atmosphere, fancy, pristine, iconic, fine, sublime, epic, cinematic, directed, extremely, beautiful, stunning, winning, full color, ambient, creative, positive, cute, perfect, coherent, vibrant colors, attractive, pretty [Fooocus] Encoding positive #1 ... [Fooocus] Encoding positive #2 ... [Fooocus] Encoding negative #1 ... [Fooocus] Encoding negative #2 ... [Parameters] Denoising Strength = 1.0 [Parameters] Initial Latent shape: Image Space (1152, 896) Preparation time: 21.16 seconds [Sampler] refiner_swap_method = joint [Sampler] sigma_min = 0.0291671771556139, sigma_max = 14.614643096923828 Requested to load SDXL Loading 1 new model
C:\Users\dusay\Work\Fooocus_win64_2-1-831>pause Press any key to continue . . .
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2024.05.17 11:21 SearchForLove 28[M4F] #chandigarh / #online - tall fit nerdy ambiverted creative guy who works in finance / programming.

What I'm looking for -
Anything goes really. We can spend quality time online or we can meet in real in a few weeks if you are closer to haryana or punjab or chandigarh or delhi . (I also visit mumbai sometimes )
(If you are from outside India, that's also fine since I don't care which part of the world I live in if I can be with someone I love.)
Then we can go for long walks, go on a date/outing. While I love physical affection like cuddles, hugs, kisses , I love a nice company too and will respect your boundaries if you don't want to be touched in the first meeting.
Ideally, I'm looking for a meaningful medium term relationship but which has a potential to turn into something everlasting in future. But I'm open to casual setups too in case you feel you aren't ready for serious commitment.
I don't understand people who go through traditional route of arrange marriages. How can they bypass this dating phase and jump into the nuptials directly. Also, if you don't test out the compatibility beforehand, you could very well end up in a deadbedroom situation, which is big cause of divorce.
Personality type :
Physically, I'm tall ( 6'0" ), cute, neither the most handsome nor ugly, average built and medium wheatish complexion.
I am a semi-introvert. - I don't have social anxiety or anything but I am avoidant of certain people, yet find it easy to talk to strangers. Although I can't approach women in real life. I'm pretty blunt by nature. I can speak well in stage and on public , get into conversations with Co-passengers in trains, buses etc. Yet, I feel intimidated/uncomfortable talking to my relatives, immediate neighbors, school friends. I'm fluent in English and Hindi.
I'm more the thinking type than feeling. But I do feel bad for hurting someone. I fall In love fast but do not get attached too fast.
I'm super blunt and straightforward. Sometimes chill, sometimes intense. I have great anger control, a friendly amicable temperament.
I prefer voice chat because although time is not an issue for me, we can express emotions clearly and I can explain myself more elaborately than text where I have to cut down. But texting is good too and has its own advantages. Or alternatively, if you are not comfortable speaking, you can just listen. I can sing you a song on call.
Hobbies and passions :
I love watching crime, thrillers and inspirational movies. I love reading books especially non fiction books and web articles, forums, blogs.
I like puzzle games / board games. . I don't play much video games anymore. But I can play to give you company. MOBA, FPS, anything .
I used to play all kinds of sports in my college days but now it's just football & badminton
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2024.05.17 11:02 Mushroomvalk Asked for a girls number and got met with a “why would you think I’m gay?”

So for context I go to the gym most mornings, on my days off, later. The later days there’s always this girl who LITERALLY stares at me during sets. She’s a much bigger build, covered in tattoos with a topknot.. bearing in mind we always say hi or she smiles at me etc. Not huge conversations because I’m focussed on my workouts so I don’t want to socialise, just do the thing and leave. But it’s such a regular routine that it does take away my focus.
Today she came into the showers just as I was getting out, I wrap a towel around my waist because I don’t really care who sees my chest but she just stood a bit taken a back when getting to her locker. I made eye contact and said ‘alright?’ And she smiled back.
As I’m drying off she asks if I’ve got much on today and I tell her I’m just running errands in town etc, ask her and she to is going to the same place as me. I take it as a ‘we’re both free today and alone’.
I ask if she fancies grabbing a coffee, my treat and if so maybe I could get her number to text her there?
She shoots me an awful look and says “look, I’m not gay if that’s what you’re suggesting and I don’t like coffee”
I played it off cool and just said I only suggested because it’s nice to have company when doing boring stuff plus I feel less guilty buying coffee if I’m treating someone as well (coffee has gone up in price man)
I feel stupid but I just thought there was something between us and I’m confident in making the first move 🤷🏼‍♀️
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2024.05.17 10:56 ShmekelFreckles I may be late on this, was casually playing Tamurkhan yesterday, just vibing

Love his chieftains, really cool and powerful mechanic. Had a few dilemmas of my chieftains bickering. Gave me nostalgic flashbacks of Baldur’s Gate and KOTOR days. Largely inconsequential but adds flavour, really cute feature, I thought.
And then I started getting dilemmas with Khargan, I recruited him last cause I didn’t find him very interesting. Not sure what I expected from a guy called “The Crazed”, but he’s a complete nutjob to the point that a chaos dwarf and a SKINWOLF come out and say “Yo, this guy is fucked, why do we even have him?”. So of course flavour text of these dilemmas direct you to obvious decision of telling Khargan to sit his ass down. But if you don’t take his side in arguments this motherfucker has a soy meltdown and BEATS THE SHIT out of opposing chieftain, just straight up whacks him. I was seething when level 40 Ezar Doombolt won a trip to the hospital right before the siege of Nan-Gau that he was supposed to be overseeing. Like how tf did it even happen, you know, in the game world? I keep my chieftains spread out in different armies, insane fucko was across the Darklands, hundreds of miles away from him. What, Tamurkhan was having a discord call with his chieftains and Khargan trolled so hard over the mic that poor stunty malded and got a heart attack or something?
All jokes aside I actually love this feature, 10/10, need more stuff like this. But just saying, if you’re already having a rough time then maybe don’t recruit Khargan at all, unless you want to do all chieftain quest battles.
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2024.05.17 10:25 cutefunfresh The one that got away? (Internet boyfriend edition)

When I (21 F) was about 13 years old I started talking to a boy that I met on an app called KIK… typical. He lived in the UK and I’m in the US so we had quite the time difference. We began talking during both of our winter breaks at school, which was perfect because we got to talk all day, every single day. I would hardly eat or sleep, and if I did, he was on Skype sleeping too. He was so cute, so funny, so smart, and so easy to talk to. We started Skyping soon after and began dating after a month or so. We would Skype and text daily and send each other packages whenever we saved up enough money to do so. We dated for about 2 years, he was so special to me, but I broke up with him shortly after entering high school because I wanted so badly for my relationship to be in real life and not just through a screen, and we were both so young so I knew there was no chance we were gonna be able to come up with enough money to meet. I don’t know if I’ve ever regretted something as much as I regret ending that relationship. Later that year I found myself, a 15, almost 16 year old girl in a relationship with a super senior, a 18, going on 19 year old. That relationship ended in a sexual assault before I was even old enough to get a tattoo. Fast forward to 2024, I’m 21, finished high school, some college, some therapy, some medication, and I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years, I love him so much, he’s my best friend… might not be the best thing though? I haven’t felt a connection with anybody in the same way as my first love. Is that natural? Is that normal? I find myself still thinking of him, looking at his social media, even posting things on my story indirectly, directly for him. I miss him. I’m scared that I let someone special get away, and I’m scared that he would never feel the same way. We’ve only talked once or twice in brief sentences since breaking up. If anybody actually read this, can you relate, or do you have any suggestions? I guess I just want to be validated, I feel like a crazy stalker.
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2024.05.17 10:22 BeginningCoat6482 He's been too busy to meet up again - for 4 months now.

I (32f) met this guy (33m) on Tinder in February. We instantly hit it off over text, texted 3 days straight and had a 4 hour phonecall on the second day. I then kind of pressured him into a date, he said he needed to study for finals, but could meet up for a few hours if it was important to me .
The date went well, we talked for 3 hours, laughed a lot. He seemed really nervous, but nothing too extreme and we had a lot talk and laugh about, as in our texts. He isn't super attractive by modern standards, but that doesn't bother me at all, I find him cute and told him that. He hinted at his looks being a problem, but I reassured him that I liked him and wanted to meet up again if he found time.
Since then we have been texting on and off for 4 months, but he hasn't had time for another date yet -at least he says that. He seems to enjoy talking to me, though, but he isn't flirty at all (I don't think he's the type to flirt at all), he's very focused on his work and getting his degree, which I admire. at the same time I am going crazy over here.
I have built up this mental image of him for 4 months now and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. He has many qualities I like, he's funny, witty, very intelligent, has ambition and drive and many interests... I feel like I'm starting to fall in love, which is unfortunate, because he keeps saying he has to put his career and studies first until at least July and he doesn't want to just meet up sometimes, because he knows that if we start meeting up and getting closer, I will be even less okay with him having to prioritise other things over me for months. I get that, I really do - but I'm going crazy. I can't seem to concentrate on anything else anymore, I have this deep urge to meet him, I can't wait anymore.
How can I get through the next 2 months without much flirting, no dates, no "security" but the prospect of this relationship in the future? I really don't think he's lying to me, he just seems very ambitious, shy, logical over emotional and just not experienced in relationships.
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2024.05.17 09:43 Striped_Sock Boyfriend confused me with his other girlfriend

Dear all, I would like advice on how to deal with this and whether and how to bring this up with my partner.
Situation: my boyfriend A is out with his girlfriend B to a fair. I was chatting with A afterwards about it and asked whether he saw something cool. He said 'yes, there were some cool things to see''. Felt like a bit of a dry reply, but I left it. Sometimes he is short in texting, that's fine.
A few days later, we were talking about the fair, some things he saw and thought out loud 'did I not send you that video?'. 'No, he had not sent it to me', I said. He showed me a video of him and gf at the fair, talking directly to the listener about what they were seeing, etc.
He is also seeing another girl, C, and while watching the video I got the vibe that he made it for her, not for me. I think he realised too at that moment but I left it and pretended to just like seeing the video.
I feel hurt that he didn't make a video for me, misremembered sending it to me, and find it quite painful that he confused us. I like to feel special and do have some worries about being replaced by C (in attention and receiving cute texts) so this was not helping..
Should I mention this, or leave it as 'harmless mistake'? And if so, how would I do this in the best way?
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2024.05.17 09:26 Loose-Foundation4110 Asking me to pay on first date?

OK, so basically me and my coworker have started to get flirty at work (servers) it’s just a summer job and we both go back to college in the fall so obviously aren’t looking for anything too serious just fun and company. However, I do believe a man should always pay on the first date. He has been asking me to hang out, but keeps having me plan the dates which I find weird. The first time we ever hung out was really late night drive to boba and a few lookout spots and he took me home. It was kind of a platonic feel and nothing happened between us physically. So I wasn’t sure if he would be trying to pursue another hang out, but he had made it clear that he wanted to see me again, which I found a little surprising. He wanted to go to the beach for the second hang out/date the next wknd but I couldn’t that day and and suggested maybe going to see a movie that evening instead. This fell through because the day of and the day before the plan he had not reached out to me at all abt the plan and by the time I texted him to ask what was going on tickets were already sold out. So I canceled because the whole thing just gave me a little bit of a weird vibe and it felt like he was kind of avoiding putting any effort into the plan. Anyways, earlier this week he had asked me to hang out again and we decided we’d see a movie again, which would be tomorrow. I planned the place and what we would do after, again just like last week but asked him to just look at showtimes and pick a movie (giving him a chance to get the tickets in advance) he kept avoiding doing it and saying he’d get around to it?? And I had to ask him a few days later if he’d had a chance to pick a movie and a time and he said AGAIN he’d do it later. It’s now the night before the plan and I asked him if this is still happening or what and he says he’ll look at tickets and get mine but asked if I could Venmo him? I’m just confused because he is the one who is consecutively asking me to hang out but won’t contribute to the plan and now wants me to pay for my self on the first date? Also let me preface that I am a gracious person who would definitely offer in person to pay for my own ticket, and if he were to get my ticket I would thank him. But idk how to go about this situation and need advice because I personally think being asked to pay for my own ticket on the first official date as a young cute girl is kind of wild. The last thing he said was the Venmo thing on text and idk how to respond! Is it out of pocket of him? Also we both are 19 so he definitely isn’t an extremely financially stable person but I feel like it’s the thought that counts no?
Anything helps thank u!
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2024.05.17 09:25 Exotic_Ad6512 One of the best dream ive had, in terms of characters, pacing and ending etc...

this is the best dream I've ever had I can't remember when is the last time I had such a long dream, literally, I was in this story for a whole night damn...(since its a dream I could not able to remember all )
My dream started with me hanging out in college with my friends. We were just talking about our daily stuff and having fun, but suddenly the topic changed. We were talking about our crushes and relationships, etc. At that time, a group of girls passed by us. Among them was a girl who, according to my friends, is very attractive. I didn't see it that way. Sure, she’s pretty, but not so attractive that I'd drool over her.
My friends were saying stuff like, "She’s the girl of my dreams," "She’s very cute," and admiring the way she talked, her body language, and her dressing sense. I said, "Guys, stop it. She’s not that attractive." One of my friends replied, "What if she confessed that she’s in love with you? Would you reject her?" I was so done with these guys drooling over her, so I said something very disrespectful.
"Even if she were offered to me for free, I would have to decline."
(What was I thinking when I said that? That was so bad. That’s not me. Damn, kill me, kill me, kill me...)
Somehow, the words I said reached her, so she confronted me under a sakura tree. (WTF, how is there a sakura tree in this country anyway?) She was blasting me: "WTF were you thinking? Why do you even care to comment on me?" Then she landed a bomb on me: "I could ruin your life by saying you made filthy comments about me. I could even make a police complaint." I was petrified. I didn’t know what to do.
Then she landed another bomb by blackmailing me: "Whether you like it or not, you have to be my boyfriend. I'll make your life so miserable that you'll never even think about searching for love again."
Now I had only one way out: I had to accept it, or my life was over...
The next day, the class was buzzing about how this average-looking guy bagged that baddie. Little did they know that I was her literal personal assistant. She was mistreating me, asking me to get snacks, do assignments, drop her at the railway station so she could get home, and what was with that text message: "Make me laugh, or I’ll post a story about you misbehaving with me." Days passed, and I was working overtime and broke because of her...
Literally, I was a pressure cooker
One day, she stopped making me do these things. I wondered if I should continue without her telling me, or maybe she had found a real boyfriend or something? Anyway, it was a win for me. I was happy. A week passed, and still no interaction with her. I was out of her grip now... yay!
That day, I found her in the canteen sitting alone. She saw me... I thought that was an indication to buy her some snacks, so I bought her some egg puffs. I was very curious to ask her, "Am I free now?" But to my surprise, when I gave her the puffs, she started crying. I didn’t know what to do. People were looking at me as if I did something wrong. She stopped crying eventually and said, "Why did you buy me puffs?"
I said, "You always liked them, right? And why are you crying?"
She opened up to me about her life, her family problems, etc., and how she acts differently in college to maintain her image. She said she was tired of it all. I replied, "I'm here for you, and you don't have to pretend around me. You can be yourself."
After that day, my life changed. I was still doing the same things for her—getting snacks, doing her assignments, dropping her at the railway station she still acts like a boss, but now it felt like I was taking care of her like a mother.
Things remained like this, I'm I her bf now?
I didn’t get a proper ending, but it was a damn good story. When she shared her life, it was very emotional, but I couldn’t remember much of it.
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2024.05.17 09:18 OneSeparate9226 My boyfriend and I are fighting over a guy I had a “crush” on back then. Any advice?

To give backstory, my boyfriend and I have been together for three months and I really do like him and want to be with him for as long as I can but this is one red flag that worries me, other than that he’s the perfect boyfriend. I had a crush on a friend of a friend for a little bit way back then, it was stupid and tiny and it went nowhere, completely out of boredom. He’s not anything like what i’d want and everyone knew that, I was genuinely just bored.
My boyfriend went through my phone one night while I was sleeping and searched up his name in my texts and saw that I used to send my friends silly texts like “he’s so cute” and things of that nature. When this happened he blew up because we are semi friends still since we have mutual friends and was upset that i never told him about it. It was years ago and it did not mean a thing. Every time we text (which has only been 3 times and once was him giving condolences to a family member passing) he asks me to open it and see the messages.
Tonight I said I’ll show him in the morning what we were talking about (asking if I could sublease his apartment for the rest of the term because my lease is about to end) and I didn’t want to open his message right now because I didn’t want to reply and he doesn’t want me to text him back at nighttime. So I abided by that and said okay I won’t reply, then he got mad that I wouldn’t open the message. I just thought it would be weird to leave him on read then reply later on and I didn’t even feel like replying at that time anyway. Now we’re in a huge fight and I gave in and said fine I’ll leave him on read and show you but he said it’s too late and that I was being defensive, which I do somewhat understand but he knows that I normally leave people on delivered for a bit until I want to reply. I feel like it would’ve been weird if it was the opposite and I jumped to read his message and reply, but I guess what I did was worse.
I went through this with my last boyfriend where I wasn’t allowed to talk to any guys in any way and pretty much abandoned my guy friends and it was this controlling cycle that I shouldn’t have let continue on because it got worse and worse and if this happens with this boyfriend then I just reallowed it to happen which is partially also why I said no to reading it at that moment. I understand his concerns and I do empathize, and I reassure him all the time that I only have eyes for him. He also told me to ask him if I could take over the lease as well, so I’m even more confused now. Can someone please advise me, I feel so confused. And if I’m in the wrong please let me know as well, I need a third perspective on it rather than just ours.
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2024.05.17 09:17 OneSeparate9226 My boyfriend and I are fighting over a guy I had a “crush” on back then. Any advice?

To give backstory, my boyfriend and I have been together for three months and I really do like him and want to be with him for as long as I can but this is one red flag that worries me, other than that he’s the perfect boyfriend. I had a crush on a friend of a friend for a little bit way back then, it was stupid and tiny and it went nowhere, completely out of boredom. He’s not anything like what i’d want and everyone knew that, I was genuinely just bored.
My boyfriend went through my phone one night while I was sleeping and searched up his name in my texts and saw that I used to send my friends silly texts like “he’s so cute” and things of that nature. When this happened he blew up because we are semi friends still since we have mutual friends and was upset that i never told him about it. It was years ago and it did not mean a thing. Every time we text (which has only been 3 times and once was him giving condolences to a family member passing) he asks me to open it and see the messages.
Tonight I said I’ll show him in the morning what we were talking about (asking if I could sublease his apartment for the rest of the term because my lease is about to end) and I didn’t want to open his message right now because I didn’t want to reply and he doesn’t want me to text him back at nighttime. So I abided by that and said okay I won’t reply, then he got mad that I wouldn’t open the message. I just thought it would be weird to leave him on read then reply later on and I didn’t even feel like replying at that time anyway. Now we’re in a huge fight and I gave in and said fine I’ll leave him on read and show you but he said it’s too late and that I was being defensive, which I do somewhat understand but he knows that I normally leave people on delivered for a bit until I want to reply. I feel like it would’ve been weird if it was the opposite and I jumped to read his message and reply, but I guess what I did was worse.
I went through this with my last boyfriend where I wasn’t allowed to talk to any guys in any way and pretty much abandoned my guy friends and it was this controlling cycle that I shouldn’t have let continue on because it got worse and worse and if this happens with this boyfriend then I just reallowed it to happen which is partially also why I said no to reading it at that moment. I understand his concerns and I do empathize, and I reassure him all the time that I only have eyes for him. He also told me to ask him if I could take over the lease as well, so I’m even more confused now. Can someone please advise me, I feel so confused. And if I’m in the wrong please let me know as well, I need a third perspective on it rather than just ours.
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