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Hello hello! I'm Alex and this time I'm looking to do a story set in the Star Wars galaxy. Before I dive into any discussion of potential plots I'd like first to go over some important stuff; firstly, I'm only looking to do rps with people 18 or older, for a variety of reasons. Also, I only want to do anything with people who are confident in being relatively literate. By relatively literate I mean that one has a good grasp of the English language and can be expected to right at least a few, quality, paragraphs. I've done RPs where replies are over 1000 words, but I'm totally fine if the average replies are less than that. I'm just specifying to explain my interests. For rapid fire stuff: I'm queer, my pronouns are he/they, I'm ND, and I'm a student.
Now, for the plot. To start: I'm VERY familiar with Star Wars legends and canon. I don't have too much of a plot, but I do know I want to strictly avoid playing established characters. Other than that, it's very broad. I do require playing multiple characters, because either me doing everything or just having two characters is extremely boring.
I envision the plot as, rather than following just a small group, instead playing out by using a variety of different characters in distinct scenes. As in, focused more on the ensemble element. I am fine with mains.
Note: lead with information, absolutely do not just say "hey." If you have a question do not ask to ask for a question. Include the phrase "Nerf herder."
As far as setting preferences go, I prefer the Imperial Era, but I am fine with doing something based in the Old/High Republic, or Clone Wars. If you have any characters or ideas about any setting, feel free to shoot something over.
Assuming it's the Imperial Era:
(At the end of the this section is an actual scenario. This is just me saying some potential characters).
I adore Saw Gerrera and his insurrection. The idea of playing freedom fighters against the Empire is massively appealing, especially with how broad it could get: imperial turncoats, former prisoners, Jedi, Mandalorians. Anything, really. They'd fight back against the Empire, always on the run and striking at different locations.
There's also the very important potential of playing as the Empire itself. I think playing members of the Inquisition could be really fun, or as Imperial explorers in the Navy. Or as Stormtroopers on an important mission.
And Mandalorians, of course, are fun and important. Playing as a surviving Mandalorian clan, maybe trying to make a New Mandalore by conquering a planet, or just going fully nomadic.
Or maybe the Mandalorians and Jedis instead take on the life of the frontier. Instead of fighting the Empire tooth and nail they move to some unimportant planet and settle down, perhaps making a farm.
Playing as criminals could be really neat too. Trying to work around the Empire and the rebels to carve out their own fortune.
In the first years following the proclamation of the Galactic Empire it had met its fiercest resistances, but it seemed that it only got stronger by the day. Every day hundreds more ships would be launched, every day thousands more soldiers would be deployed, every day millions more credits were raised for war. Every planet that dared to resist was violently conquered and incorporated into an ever expanding war machine, bent more on the pacification of the Galaxy than being a civilian government. Any who would've dared to resist the new state were mostly regarded to be fools. Even the Jedi, once bastions of the Republic, were either slaughtered with brutal efficiency or hunted down with ruthless intent.
Any who would survive long found themselves, in general, on the fringes or Imperial power. One such region where the Imperial power was the least felt was the Galactic Frontier. Especially in the time when the Empire was more hungry to pacify those insurgents in the Core and Mid Rim.
On the very edge of the Galactic Frontier was a near empty planet. Named Cabur, from the Mando'a for "guardian." It had been named such because in centuries past, during the Mandalorian Wars, the planet had been shelter and, in a way, a "protector" of many Mandalorians. Following the defeat of the Mandoa'ade the planet was settled by a few clans, becoming a small exclave of Mandalorians, rather far away from Mand'alor. Over time more non-Mandalorians would settle on the planet; though they only really came to outnumber Mandalorians by the time of the Clone Wars. During the Clone Wars the planet did see a spike of many refugees evading the war.
During the Clone Wars the planet very nearly saw a battle erupt around it, but the residents, wanting to avoid war, secretly sabotaged the ships of both the CIS and Republic, causing them to crash on the planet. The droids of the CIS were reprogrammed and became commonplace across the planet while the clones were mostly all evacuated away over time.
That said, the crash still never caused much of a stir in the Galaxy. The planet was mostly rural, bar the mining on the planet- it was actually rather plentiful in natural resources, and was temperamental enough to support a large population.
But even trouble would find this fringe planet. After about half a decade of evading the Empire, that cruel state eventually found them. An Imperial Star Destroyer exited hyperspace right above the planet. But it wasn't just any ISD. Onboard were two very important factions: the ISB and the Inquisitorius. The planet was believed to be harboring both anti-Imperial guerrillas and Jedi.

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Hii me and my gf is in a relationship for almost a year na, both of us are Long Distance although pareho kaming nasa manila malayo lang ung places namen kaya pinupuntahan ko nalng sya thru LRT and stuff, pero since september last year nagkwento girlfriend ko saken na gumawa sya ng account sa litmatch. bigyan ko lang ng context, previous friend groups ko kinukwento saken about nakakahanap ng fubu/hookup sa litmatch kaya doon napasok ung idea saken na pang dating/hookups ung litmatch platform. syempre nung nalaman ko na naglilitmatch sya nagalit ako initially binobombard ko ng messages saying na "bat ka pa maglilitmatch kung may jowa ka na" mga ganto ganyan. The evening of the same day tumawag saken girlfriend ko at sinabi na nagdelete na daw sya ng litmatch at akong si tanga naman naniwala kase sabi ko "promise mo na hindi monayan gagamitin" tas sinabi nya oo. then november comes between final half ng november and early december hindi ako kinausap ng girlfriend ko for her reasons na sobrang busy at family problems daw syempre akong si tanga naniwala ulet pero for one week lang after a month i decided to break up with her, it should be the end sana pero nagchat sya ulet na pwedeng magkita and me still being hurt nag agree, and we talked personally and "fixed" the relationship, keep in mind nasa isip ko that time hindi na sya naglilitmatch and actually busy at having family problems talaga. pero FAST FORWARD NAMAN sa febuary this year nung nagtanong ako sa random guy na palong palo mag comment sa second account ng girlfriend ko sabi daw nya nakilala daw nya sa litmatch ung girlfriend ko, syempre ako that night durog na durog na may halong inis and my feelings got the best of me and i bombarded her with messages to the point na parang i got cheated ung messages ko, we didnt talk for a week, tas after everything cooled down we talk civilly and sinabi nya saken na "friend" lang daw ung lalaking yon na sinamahan nya nung nagbreak sila ng gf nya, and i also learned na naka buo sya ng circle of friends na mainly adults sa litmatch, for which i tolerated naman since one of the peeps doon naging sobrang friendly saken.
pero here's the thing, ayoko parin gumamit ung girlfriend ko ng litmatch, ilang beses kona sinabi ito sakanya pero pinipilit pilit parin na pang friends lang ung litmatch. everytime na active at nagpopost sya sa litmatch i always get uncomfortable and even FUCKING RECENTLY kinuwento nya saken na nakipag reconnect daw sya sa lalaking muntikan na magka something sakanila and inargue daw nya na wala nang feelings ung lalaki nayon sakanya and pure friendship lang. im so fucking lost ngayon lalo na malapit na kameng mag 1 year anniversary pero holy shit grabe ung uncomfort at pain na naexperience ko sa first relationship

So, we have CS 9618 p3 and p3 this week, in a day, and I have no idea how to prepare for p4 in VB.NET, is there any way I can save myself?

I discovered Shera's videos quite a few years ago, and loved her humour as well as her message to level up. I started noting down all her little gems. They give me motivation, and a giggle too. I am older, in my fifties, and have been happily married for over 15 years, so I don't need her dating, sugaring, or 'get the bag' advice, but I do love her level up advice. I saw another lady share her notes, so I wanted to as well. There are tons, I've realised! I hope you enjoy them!
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How do you become the prize?

If you don’t start as the prize, then you aren’t the prize. If you don’t know if your mind that you are already the prize then you can never be the prize.

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How to be more feminine so I can be spoiled more?

It’s a lifestyle. You have to act, fake it until you make it, and create a lifestyle. The days that you don’t feel very feminine are the days that you have to use more of your masculine energy.

Remember to always have a space to come back to that is feminine, and recharge yourself with feminine energy. Create a more feminine environment, wear more feminine clothes, listen to music that is going to help your femininity instead of diminishing it.

Keep things that you like to do feminine and do feminine things. Going shopping, getting your nails or hair done, buying shoes, picking out décor for our rooms, decorating tables, going on picnics, watching girly movies.

Recharge yourself by doing some of those things. You need to be able to recharge your femininity at least once or twice a week.

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Live the type of life you want already. It may not be on the scale that you want to live it at, but it needs to be a version of it. For example, if you want to live a soft, feminine life make sure your current life reflects that: your current environment, the current way you dress, the current way you walk, talk and act.

The more you receive, the better treatment you receive, if you can get a provider who can let you live a more feminine life, a softer life, then it's just going to get better and better.

But already live the life you want to live, that way they can only improve you and they see how you treat yourself and see what you like and that’s what they are going to be giving you. Your goals will be met just by dating.

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What are some ways to keep him interested in he provides well?

Look good
Make sure you know what his interest are
Talk to him
Make sure he feels like he is the man
Look good when you are out with him
Make sure you are pretty and heads turn ‘ooh who’s he with’
His self-esteem will skyrocket when you go out with him if you look good and he’s not going to want to leave that


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Men like women to switch it up as long as it’s classy.

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Flower attract bees to them by their bright colours and they smell good. Attract men to you:

· Wear bright pretty colours
· Smell good
· Look fresh, dewy and youthful
· Look attractive

Look like the prize. Look like his fantasy. Look through his eyes: what would he like to see?

It’s not that complicated. Bring it back down to simplicity? What do men like?

Heels
Skirts
Dresses
Makeup
Long hair
Red lipstick
Baby voice
Feminine colours
Make them feel good
Give them compliments
Let them talk
Don’t talk about your boring stuff – they don’t care

Use the formula to get success with men.

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If you want to dress casual in jeans and a cute top, still wear heels, hair, full makeup. If you’re going to wear jeans, you’re going to need to wear heels.

Also think about this: what sort of man are you attracting. If you wear jeans when you meet you’re going to get taken to a jeans date. Dress for the life you want.

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When we had a fight I cut my hair short & bangs & went shopping. He was so glad he said “you look like a different person!” The fight was forgotten & he treated me new again & took me shopping again.

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"Life is fun! (...) life is a movie, life is a stage. Get into character... "

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Men don’t care about anything else but what you look like and how you make them feel.

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If you’ve let yourself go, level yourself up to the point that their jaw will drop when they see you.

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The only limitations are the ones you believe in.

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What do rich men’s wives all have in common besides being pretty?

They’re feminine
They’re classy
They’re not loud and obnoxious
They don’t outshine their husband
They hold back and keep it together in public
They are well proportioned

Shera had a friend who was a little rachet, and she ended up marrying wealthy. She had to totally change everything about herself:

The way she dressed
The way she wore her hair
The way she spoke
The kind of shoes she wore
Her makeup
She had to change it all
How she acted around people
How she spoke to men
She had to change everything
It’s not that she changed who she was inside or her personality
It’s that she changed who she was around men
There’s a difference

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Your stock should go up after you get married, not down. If your stock is not rising after marriage you’re doing it backwards. That means still investing into yourself, your beauty, your clothing, into your stash (money, wealth and investments). If you got married and your stock plummeted, that’s your fault.

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Loving yourself means putting yourself first as a priority. Knowing your worth and value and not taking any crap from anybody because you value yourself, you love yourself. That’s all loving yourself means. And not talking down about yourself. And knowing that you deserve what you want in life.

Once you do that other people will as well – men, co- workers, your boss, parents, spouse, brother, sister, cousin, whoever. Whoever is in your life at the moment will recognise that you love yourself and that you don’t have to submit to them or that you’re not desperate for their approval. In fact they may start to be desperate for your approval. So make sure you’re putting yourself first.

Don’t be always talking about the other person and what they want or what they think. Don’t care who they are. Don’t care about other people or their spouse or the person they’re interested in. It’s not about them, it’s about you. If they can’t recognise you and they don’t like you, then you are wasting time.

If you have to sit there and be puzzled about why someone is not responding properly or why they’re not doing this or that, it means they don’t like you so just move on and stop trying to waste time worrying about it. You already know that in the back of your mind; you’re just hoping for a different outcome that there won’t be.

Make sure that when you realise you are putting other people before yourself as a priority then you’re not going to get the type of man or people attracted to you that you need. When you can get somebody in the click of a finger and they’re not used to that it means you are valuable and that they are not necessary. They are very unnecessary and therefore they feel like you have even more value because you don’t need them. You don’t need them, they need you. That’s why they seek you out. That’s why they call you, that’s why they ask you out.

Make sure you’re not getting caught up in silliness. If they’re not putting you first, you’re gone. Or you put them on ice; that means you let them figure it out and when they start acting right again then you allow them back into your life. If you’re chasing behind someone, if you’re worrying about someone who ghosts you then you’re not putting yourself first.

And that means you don’t love yourself. A lot of people were taught to act a certain way – not cocky etc – if you don’t, all people see you as is a doormat. You can let down your guards later when they are fully invested in you and aren’t going anywhere, but until that happens they are there to impress you.

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How do you fall in love with yourself when you aren’t happy with yourself?

Become happy with yourself:

· Do things that make you happy
· Look the way you need to look
· Continue to do this every day until you are happy

Only you can make you happy

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Don’t go out there lookin’ like Plain Jane. Plain Jane gets passed by with the eye.

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The key is confidence. You can learn all you want, if you don’t have confidence you can’t pull it off. The key is confidence, knowing your value, and not listening to no dusties. That’s the key, that’s the masterclass right there – be confident.

Be main character energy. Stop caring what people think. Have a goal of what you want and go for it and don’t stop until you get it. Speak positive about yourself and stop dealing with dusties. That’s just it. You do all those things and you’re going to have something. You’re going to get what you’re looking for. That’s it.

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It’s not what you look like – it’s how you make them feel.

Are you going to make them feel young again?
Are you going to make life exciting for them?
Do they enjoy being with you?
Do they like being seen out in public with you?

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Shera, on when you talk about all your feelings and prior history:

“You’re being an informant on yourself. You’re telling on yourself. You’re giving out all your secrets and revealing everything. So that’s definitely not feminine energy, because feminine energy is naturally dark. You know, it’s water, it’s the cosmos, it’s that. So when you’re revealing everything, when nothing is unknown and everything is known, now you’re masculine. Because that’s light- everything is known. So the more you say, the more you tell, the more you open up, the more masculine you become in that energy, and the less mystery and femininity and feminine allure you have, because now you’re an open book. And they have all the clues to how the story ends and how to manipulate the character.”

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“Feminine energy is naturally dark, is water, is the cosmos, is that. So, when you are revealing everything, nothing is unknown and everything is known, now you’re more masculine, because that is light, everything is known.

So the more you say, the more you tell, the more you open up, the more masculine you become in that energy, and the less mystery and femininity and feminine allure you have because now you are an open book, you’re predictable.

And they have all the clues to how the story ends and how to manipulate the character.”

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Get them to worry about you, while you worry about you.

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How do you find your purpose? You create it.

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Leveling up is actually a lot of fun when you are present and mindful about it it’s probably be the best gift you could ever give yourself as a woman.

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Stop caring what other people think and live the life you want to live. If you don’t like kissing people’s butts, don’t kiss their butt.

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A lot of women don’t realise that if you just get into your feminine, and you stick with your standards, you can get what you ask for.

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How to become detached and unbothered?

Stop caring. When you care too much, that’s when you can’t detach and be unbothered. Stop caring, become ‘take it or leave it’. That’s your attitude. You will be fine with it or without it.

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Three years ago I was getting yelled at a public train station (which we had to take because neither of us had a car) by my dusty disgusting ex. I lived in a cheap apartment with four unsavory roomates and their boyfriends. Now I live in a luxury high rise with a conceirge and valet. All I did today was get a facial, sit by the pool and shop. I don’t have to worry about a SINGLE THING and every man in my life treats me like a queen. I’m truly breaking generational curses; my dad left my mom with four kids alone while she worked at Denny’s waitressing overnight. If it weren’t for Shera’s wisdom I don’t know where I would be today but I just give thanks every day that I saw the light. This is my one and only life so why shouldn’t I be living peacefully and bougie.

It’s crazy how fast life can chance when you realize your worth and act on it. Keep on inching further and further; the more luxurious things you do the more the rest of your life catches up. It literally started with me going to the expensive nail salon instead of the cheap one. Then I felt like I deserved more. I moved into a nicer apartment that was out of my budget at first, then a nicer car, then I started buying designer bags and now I live in an ultra-luxurious place. Small steps and the rest of your life will catch up in time. Of course look your best every day and be healthy. And do not give a second of your time to anyone who does not treat you with respect, remember if they’re not adding to your life they are taking away.

The universe somehow just opened up and rains abundance on me. The more you surround yourself with the vibrations of prosperity the more it will be drawn to you. Ella Ringrose on YouTube helped me a lot to draw in money.

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Shera ever since I started watching you I have levelled up my life completely. I lost 50 pounds and changed my whole look to be more feminine. My husband was so motivated he started making more money and bought me a home and my dream car. He does everything I want now and he feels proud to bring me home his paycheck. I no longer work and just workout every day and focus on my children. A lot of my family members don’t understand this life but I am very happy and comfortable.

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If you give yourself away too easily, your value is low.

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10 Important Habits of a Gold Digger

1)high standards
2)high self-esteem
3)perspective
4)purpose
5)options
6)be unapologetic
7)looks
8)business plan
9) knowledge/value of money
10)stay unbothered

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‘Busy patterns that aren’t classy make you look older’. You can show how classy your clothing is by the cut, colour and pattern, not the brand or designer.

Look to magazines for style inspiration:

O magazine = for older women
Instyle = more youthful

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Men need respect, they don’t want your love.

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Wealthy men like women who are thin, feminine, and classy, or classy/sexy.

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Classic = classy. Dress in a way that you wouldn’t look crazy in a photo in 20 years time.

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‘We’re not trying to fit in, we’re trying to stand out.’

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Looking beautiful, adore your blouse and that classy backdrop. I have earrings very similar. I have to go out now, I’m over 60 and always look stylish heading out the door . Make up and a cute dress today. You never know who is at the coffee shop 😊

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Be cute, be feminine, don’t talk so much. Let him do the hard work.

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‘You’re not his momma stop acting like it’ video
Women will turn into their man's mother without realizing it! Then he will run.

A lot of times when a woman has been in a relationship for a long time or is married, they start acting like a mother to the man without even realising it. To avoid that, do these things:
· Totally change everything – change how you dress, put more makeup on, wear heels.
· Act ten years younger.
· Don’t be concerned about the things you used to be concerned about.
· Let everything be free and fly.
· If you once worried about dishes in the sink don’t worry about it anymore.
· Change it up.
· If he realises that you stop caring and you just put all that extra energy that you were nagging and trying to organise and keep stuff right or that you were frustrated about – if you took all that extra energy and put it back into yourself – and you stopped worrying about the house and the domestic issues and him doing this, this and that. He’s going to think, ‘Well dang, everything is out of order, now she’s dressing like this and putting on makeup and looking this way, and the dishes aren’t clean anymore, or she’s not nagging me about picking up my clothes and the room is a mess’, then either he’ll get up and do it or he’ll start turning into your father.
· You mirror what they do and they’re gonna start seeing what you are doing by you have to act that way with them.
· You stop cleaning dishes, you start leaving your stuff on the floor.
· You start dressing cute, and say you’re going out.
· You forget to do stuff, or you stop helping out because you don’t want to damage your nails or the Real Housewives is on.
· Start doing the same thing to him – he watches sport, you say, ‘Oh Housewives is on, I wanna watch it. I don’t wanna watch it later.’
· You don’t do any of this like it’s revenge, just like you joined him in not being responsible, or joined him with more relaxed rules.
· He might like it. He might be like ‘you’re so laid back, you look happy today’.
· Then he might start cleaning up more because it’s not an order.
· But as long as you’re happy and not nagging him, he’s going to do it voluntarily.

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How you act and how you make him feel will give you more power to get what you want.

· Look good
· Be more feminine
· Speak softly
· Smile
· Laugh at whatever he is saying and make him feel good about who he is
· Let him talk more than you
· Feed his ego
· Act vulnerable and he will want to do things for you, will want to please and impress you

(I added:
· Ladylike, dainty, girlish, delicate, compassionate, considerate, sympathetic, tolerant, warm-hearted, gracious
· Calm, refined and tasteful
· Agreeable, friendly, good-natured,
· Kind, moral, pleasant, delightful)

That’s how you get what you want.

Our power is in our femininity, not in our masculinity, not in being in competition with a man, but making them weak because we are giving them exactly what no-one else does and so they’re not used to it and they yield to it and want more of it and they’re going to do what you want.

Being feminine is the key to getting what you want. There is no magic formula; it’s just ‘being feminine’. Work on that and you will get what you want. Work on your baby voice. Work on asking men for things and help, feeling vulnerable around them and stroking their ego and you can pretty much get what you want, especially if you choose the right target. Don’t go up and choose someone who has a thousand options, go up and choose someone who feels lucky to be with you and who will act accordingly.

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Men don’t like jealous women. You look insecure if you show jealousy. If you feel jealous, act like you don’t care – laugh it off.

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Men don’t like to be told what to do or have someone running their life. They don’t need you to offer them suggestions – this will just make them feel like a child, emasculated and they will rebel.

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Have a hobby and have a life.
Have your own life.
Make yourself number one.

Make sure he likes you more than you like him. If he really likes you he is going to chase you and not let you go, and you don’t even have to do anything to make this happen.

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I am not a people pleaser. I live for myself not others. And that’s how you have to be to be unbothered. Be unbothered always and you will live your best life.

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I live in a fantasy world every day. That’s why I can create the world that I want.

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A dream woman is motivation for a man in every way. If you no longer motivate him, you are no longer his dream woman.

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A good actress will melt into her role.

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Instead of waiting and having regret later, make the decision now to do what’s best for you, not what’s best for the outside world and what they think. Do what’s best for you in the long run, not what’s best for you right now in this one moment which will pass. Think ahead. Right now is gone. As soon as you think about it, it’s gone.

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To be a dream woman and to be worshipped by the man you are with, you have to stay focused on you. Don’t be about him. A man’s dream woman does not mean she is all over him. She has a life. Keep a healthy distance instead of being extra clingy. That way you stay on his level. Make sure you appeal to his friends (in a classy way) too. He will see that others appreciate you and know that he has the prize.

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“Put outfits together in your mind when negative people are talking.”

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How to be unbothered?

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‘Fake it till you make it. That’s what happened with me I started to pretend that it didn’t bother me. Now I’m literally so unbothered and focused on myself.’

‘When you are showing that you’re upset or bothered, you are giving them power to know they affected you. I love everyone but I do not argue. I have trained myself not to get emotional even at my husband or family. Being this way also makes you more respected, it’s part of your charisma.’

‘Being unbothered is a choice.’

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If you're over 35 the best ways to look young is to drink a gallon of water a day....it's good for wrinkles..and helps your makeup glide on like butter.

Eat less and eat as much green as you can (Kale, Broccoli, Spinach) so you can be as slim as possible so that you feel good in your clothes....

Work out to increase your confidence...

Dress your age....nothing worse than a woman who dresses out of her age range...makes you look like you're trying too hard...

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Build confidence by not accepting that you have low self-esteem. Every day improve yourself so your self-esteem gets higher and higher. Don’t wallow in it, don’t accept it. Every day tell yourself what you want:

I look good
I feel good
I’m great

Tell yourself that. Give other people compliments, and they will give you compliments. Before you know it, you’ll have high self-esteem. You have to work on it, it doesn’t come automatically. It took a long time to tear down your self-esteem, and it takes a moment to pull it back up.

Just work on it, keep moving forward. Don’t let anyone put you down again.

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How to keep your husband interested

· Less communication
· Less giving of information
· Spend more time apart
· Don’t get so close that he is going to want to back up
· You have to get close then back up, get close then back up again
· Look your best at all times
· Don’t smother people and they won’t try to escape you
· Have a life
· Have things to do
· Have a to-do list that does not require that person

Go out and do things. He will appreciate you more when you get back. He will wonder what you’ve been doing. He will anticipate your return.

Don’t let him conquer you. When men have conquered a woman, they will move on. If he doesn’t feel like he can ever conquer you, he will try harder. Never let him feel like he totally has you.

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Masculine people (men or women) tend to run to the rescue of others.

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Shera, on uplevelling your looks and being your best every time you step out the front door: Don’t let life pass you by. Life is short. Life is very short.

Comment on Shera’s video: My mom went through a season where she dressed up and it just made our whole family and home come alive. I remember when my mom walked into the living room all fixed up and my little cousin's eyes just lit up. He said be careful don't touch her lol. He literally went from seeing her as a plain ol’ aunt to a princess. He was so young, but he couldn't fake it; that was his instincts.

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· It’s not about looking young, it’s about looking good.
· If you miss an opportunity to be levelling up, you are only cheating yourself.
· Stay ready.
· Every day do something to improve yourself - hair, exercise, mindset, self-esteem
· Enjoy getting ready – be creative
· If you’re wearing makeup, go bold. Men want to see the makeup.
· Men like it when you look your best. When you’re out in public, people are judging a man’s status by the type of wife he has, how she looks. You add status to any man that you are with.
· If you are attractive, you will have a lot of friends inviting you out. They will use you to attract attention because you look good. They are going to gravitate towards you and associate you with success. Your appearance will get you further than almost anything else.

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When you’re trying to lure a man in, dress for that man. Men do pay attention to what you look like.

Broke men pay attention to your silhouette. They look at your body because they just want to have sex with you.

Men with money pay attention to what you wear: your clothes, your shoes, your jewellery, your shoes, your hair, everything. Are you appropriate? If he wants to take it to the next level and take you out and get to know you, start a relationship, introduce you to his friends, he isn’t just looking at your body.

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The better you look, the more successful he looks.

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Men are visual creatures. Everything men do is based on that they see. How they treat you is based on what they see.

If you go without makeup, hair not done, and dressed badly, you won’t get the same treatment even by the people who see you every day. When you look good, the people around you have a little bit more respect for you. They see you looking pulled together and to see you any other way is foreign to them.

When you are levelled up, keep this in mind, don’t backslide. When a man meets you looking good, he wants to see you like that for your entire marriage. He doesn’t want you to let yourself go.

Try hard to keep yourself up during your marriage; how you looked when you met him is how he wants to see you forever more.

Men are very visual creatures, so when they see us looking bad, it upsets them. It literally makes them clench inside a little bit because they are so affected by the visual.

You are like a Christmas tree or a beautiful ornament. It’s a pleasure to look at you and they’ll want to be around you just for that.

People may treat you badly because you didn’t keep up your looks - a man could be speaking to another woman or ignoring you.

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“Just act and dress like a feminine lady. You’re making them feel younger by being in their presence. Watch 1950s Hollywood movie stars to watch how those ladies acted.”

Never help a man level up as they will always put you in a maternal role and look at you as a mother figure.

How to change your mindset:
1. Tell yourself that you are no longer allowing people to make you feel bad about something – that’s your choice.
2. Decide that you want to be better, and each day take action towards being better. Your self-esteem will rise from this.
3. Surround yourself with like-minded people so you can influence and help each other.

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People who talk less are generally more well respected.

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“Look for the positive in every negative comment or situation, and you will find it every time.

Whatever your weakness is, make it your strength, to fuel you to the next level. That’s how you really level up from inside. Face your weakness head on. If someone calls you fat, flaunt it. Say, ‘So what? Yes, I eat, I haven’t seen a rib in many decades, but I’m happy. I got a lovely husband, nice house, nice car.’

Instead of being a victim about it, empower yourself with it. Your flaw can be your power. It can be your power if you take it and embrace it and stop focusing on it as an insecurity. The more you focus on something as an insecurity, the more other people will focus on it because they know it’s your weakness and that’s how you get affected. Whatever your flaw is, turn it into something that can give you more than it can take from you. If people say it’s a flaw, take it and turn it into a power.”

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Don’t listen to what people say; what do you think? Opposition creates interest.

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· Be extra feminine in the way you dress, speak, act.
· Be charming - smile, don't argue (and then do exactly what you were going to do anyway).
· Ask for help from your man - opening a jar, lifting something, reaching up high, anything - they love it. Do this three times a day. Say things like 'It's too heavy for me'. Doing this makes them feel protective of you.
· When you are offered help, accept it.
· Talk to men in a feminine baby-voice.
· Practice being feminine and flirty every day to men everywhere so that it becomes second nature. Things such as asking a man for assistance at the supermarket and smiling and saying thank you in a feminine voice.
· Use your feminine charm on everyone around you.
· Look your best, put on makeup every day, smell good, be well groomed, have nice nails.
· Speak to him as if he's a person and not a child - don't try to control him. Mothers control their children and men don't want to have sex with their mother.
· Ask for what you want, but do it in a feminine way.
· Act like the prize to be the prize.
· Be unpredictable - men will get bored of you if you are too predictable. If you are unpredictable it is exciting to them plus scares them a little too. They will wonder why you are different.
· Don't talk so much.
· Mirror how he acts to bring him closer. Say your man is a bit distant; my natural inclination is to wonder what is wrong, try and talk to him etc. That is clingy, a better way to behave is mirror that - be busy doing your own things, happy but busy and let him come looking for you when he comes out of his cave.
· Be feminine in everything you do - surround yourself with reminders of your femininity - i.e. a pink phone cover.
· Be the receiver not the giver.
· Let him think up ideas, with your subtle input.
· Hardly ever text or call him at work, unless you need him to pick up something.
· Dress up every day for no reason.
· Smile.
· Always be levelling up.
· Have a plan B.
· Don't tell him your plans for the day or where you have been - be a little mysterious and let him wonder what you've been up to.
· Keep the mystery alive with privacy - closet, bathroom etc.
· Don't do everything together.
· Have hobbies and interests of your own.
· Make him feel like a man by asking his advice, seeking help from him, not trying to tell him what to do etc.
· Keep up with new trends and the latest styles. Try new looks, buy new clothes, look cute.
· Make him feel younger by being fresh, new and exciting.
· Be excited by life and easily impressed.
· Go on vacation, go out to places.
· Do new things and turn him on to new things. Do new things in bed.
· Change your looks - look different, be different.
· Listen to the latest music.
· Keep up with the latest trends in things.
· Be an exciting adventure.
· Be happy go lucky, not a care in the world, everything is fun.
· Head up, chin up, look around, smile.
· Get all excited when you talk about little things.
· Light up when you talk to people.
· Bring a high energy.
· Wear your hair long and straight or smooth-wavy.
· Be seasonal - with your look/outfit, eating, décor.
· Reinvent yourself regularly.
· Play different characters for fun.
· Channel someone else when you go out.
· Be constantly changing and improving.
· Be a lively woman - bubbly, happy, exciting, smiling, lifts their spirits, fun to be around.
· Grab his hand and pull him along like a child.
· Be energetic and breathe life into others.
· Mirror his body language about 10-30 seconds later.
· Try new things, new looks.
· Practice your charm on waiters etc.
· Be a people watcher in different environments depending on the lifestyle you desire.
· Look from the outside in - how do people view you? How attractive are you?
· Transform yourself.
· Be his ultimate fantasy girl.
· Look good, do your makeup every day.
· Speak to your him as if he is a person and not a child.
· ‘Can you help me/lift that/get me a blanket?’ in a baby voice. Get him used to looking after you. ‘This is too heavy for me, I can’t reach it’. Do this three times a day minimum.
· Ask for what you want in a feminine way.
· Use the baby voice.
· Be extra feminine.
· Be charming – smile, don’t argue – agree (but do exactly what you want anyway).
· Ask for help from men.
· When you are offered anything, accept it.
· Talk to men in a feminine nature.
· Practice being feminine and flirty every do so that it becomes second nature to you – it will become easier with practice.
· Ask questions and smile.
· Play a bit dumb (not stupid; request their knowledge).
· Use your feminine charm on everyone around you – practice on any man to get better.
· Never get too comfortable (don’t let yourself go).
· Keep the illusion going – makeup, hair, lotion, fragrance.
· Look like you did when you first met (me: 66-67kg, long blonde hair, stylish clothes).
· Men are visual creatures and your hair is foremost – long, silky and straight.
· Have your makeup on, look cute.
· Shera’s husband treated her differently when she gained weight and then lost weight.
· Shera’s advice to a lady who gained 40 pounds and now her husband isn’t attracted to her: ‘Lose 40 pounds’.
· Still look sexy even if you’ve been together a while.
· Exfoliate your face and body.
· Have glowing, moisturised skin.
· Use highlighter on your face.
· Wear perfume, body lotion, nicely scented products.
· Wear red lipstick, eye makeup.
· Wear light, modern perfumes.
· Have simple, nice nails.
· Tell him that whatever you want is your ‘ultimate fantasy’.

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If you want to be married to a rich man, dress like a rich man’s wife.

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Be unbothered

It’s so amazing to just not care. You have no idea how much better your life gets when you stop caring. When you stop caring about stuff that’s not beneficial to you, everything blossoms, everything. Because your attention is no longer on anything negative, it’s all on you, and so you blossom.

How to keep your man chasing you? Be busy, don’t call him all the time. Have a hobby or a business and let him have to go looking for you.

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Did you ever feel insecure about your weight?

“No.

At any weight my mental game was tight, it was good. I could get anything I wanted, so it never really held me back. The only thing that would ever make me feel insecure about anything is… I really don’t have a lot of insecurities anymore. I had the normal insecurities of a child. But when I grew up and I understood that you could take your power from any situation, you no longer have insecurities.

If I was insecure about my weight, I wouldn’t be up here on YouTube, and if someone says something about how I look, I don’t care. I say Okay yeah and so what? I’m eating good, I’m living good. It doesn’t bother me, because that’s not what defines me. I’m gonna get paid skinny or fat. I’m gonna be happy at whatever makes me feel happiest. So it’s all about how you feel about yourself and how you value yourself. You don’t base your self-worth on what other people think about you.

And the reason why I teach people you gotta look good if you want to turn heads and make men cross the room is because if you are trying to get a date, yes, you have to be concerned with what other people find attractive. But that should not ever play a role in your own personal self-esteem.

Whatever you need to feel good at the time, tomorrow or today, that’s what you need to be doing.”

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i brought 3,000 grand to casino and went back in fourth all night and was down 2,000 and downed a good amount of drinks and my friends were ready to get going but weren't being dicks and would of stayed later. They lost all there money. Well i always wanted to bet a large hand on blackjack and this was chance. I had 1,000 left and i left my atm card as usual when i gamble at home. So decided i would bet 800 so i had money left to go to the bars. I figured if i had a great chance to double i didn't have to but could double for less etc. Everyone thought great idea and even went to high roller table, waited for fresh shoot and told the fellow players who were betting even more then me and they didn't seem to mind me playing the 1 hand of first deck. I think some of you realize what's going to happen. Dealer gets a 6 and i get a 8 everything is great right? Then i get another 8. I crap because i had no way of splitting because i don't have enough money. I have to stay, dealer had 16 hits 3, has 19 table loses. I don't know why but when i lose i threw hand up and everyone's sees my cards. Lots of comments how they would have given me the money etc even the dealer throws some shade. As bad as that was and it was bad that's not even the worst moment i've had in a casino but that's for another day if i ever have the courage to share! lol

It started because I told him it i don’t think it’s a good idea for me to stay over his moms house with our babies ( we have 5 month old twins ) because we don’t have a playpen there and they are rolling so where would they beable to safely sleep?he goes on a rant talking about I’m trying to keep the kids away from his family which is not true, I have diagnosed postpartum anxiety and he knows this I’m nervous about them rolling off the couch or bed, it’s not coming from a bad place , he then tell me he feels like he had kids by a retard and says to his mom”come speaks to this idiot “ when he puts her on the phone I told her I don’t want to speak right now and then I told my husband im done, I really feel like I want to divorce him because of this any advice?

So we are drawing a blank. We've said quite a few different ideas but none have stuck/seemed to be "it".
Budget is around £600 and we would be looking at doing something between Thursday 30th of May to Saturday 1st of June (31st is our anniversary).
We've thought about things ranging from staying in a cabin in Wales, to Alton Towers for a few days to a short quick break abroad.
A few other things (including Alton Towers) have been hampered by the fact it's half term those days (we have a daughter ourselves).
Our babysitter will be available from Thursday lunchtime till Saturday evening (maybe Sunday if I can really sweet talk the Mother in Law).

We matched on Tinder and had been talking for about a month before I finally had a day off on the same night he asked me out to a show at a local bar. Despite my initial anxiety I had a really good time and I think I really like him! I'm 21 but this feels like such a big deal for me and I'm proud my myself for letting myself do this! I had a really bad breakup in highschool (though it could barely be considered a relationship with how anxious both of us were) and for the past 5 years I've been letting it hold me back, so I really wasn't sure if anything would come of me using Tinder, like I thought that i wouldn't be able to find somebody who I really connected with, but I'm so glad I took the risk. He's genuinely so cool and nice and somehow he already makes me feel better about some of my insecurities? Literally have not felt this way in Years, I cannot stop thinking about him for more than a few minutes at a time and everytime I remember "I went out with him!!" I start getting really flustered and giddy. My friends are all really happy for me too, I can't believe this is my life now? I don't want to jinx anything but oh my god, he's perfect, I really hope he feels the same.
The only downside is if we become official, I will have to buy a bigger bed, since I still have a twin size mattress that is half populated by pillows and stuffed animals.

We just added in meal 3 for our twins. So now we are doing 3 meals a day plus 5 bottles. I feel like we can’t go anywhere now because we have to make sure to get the meals/bottles in! And then it gets too close to naptime and I don’t want to ruin a good nap because they fell asleep for 5min in the car 😒. What are all of you doing in this in between stage when you’ve added in meal 3 but baby hasn’t started to decrease milk intake yet?

Recently got an AP. Based in Texas. I’m intrigued by the idea of “notel” trips, and want to start trying them.
Does anyone else here fly in from out of state, hit a park, and fly home later that night? It’s a two-hour flight for me. Curious if you have tips to make the most of a single day - ie, rent a car vs shuttle, etc.

To preface this, I’m 17 and I have terrible social anxiety/depression, while my sister is 18(about to be 19) and generally fine. After every school day I’m so incredibly tired and stressed I can’t do my homework. Doing anything related to school stresses me out beyond belief and I get distracted. Even with really easy things that would make my life easier. Like revising and turning in something I’ve already done. My mother just had a long conversation with my sister and I about how we do nothing. It’s Sunday and we’ve slept the whole weekend. She says she doesn’t want us missing out on memories and that we don’t take advantage of the things we can do. Which I get.. but we’re not rich and I go back and forth between my parent’s apartments every Friday. I’m not permanently anywhere. That isn’t an excuse but it does make things harder. There’s things I want to do but there’s so many steps and making plans every weekend stresses the people around me out. If I ask my dad or mom’s boyfriend for a ride to a store it won’t get done till a different day/week and they’ll sigh and act like I’m taking advantage of them. I have no friends, what would I go out and do without my family? If I ever ask for something I feel incredibly bad because we don’t have money and I’m not smart or useful. I have terrible grades and I sleep and cry all the time. What gives me the right to ask for something fun? I know I need to grow up and get a job soon, that’s all they ever talk about, but I feel like I need to work on so many other things as well. I need to get a better diet because I don’t eat or overeat, I need to learn to drive, I need to participate in school and make friends, I need to make cleaning myself not something I do obsessively everyday out of fear but a habit to make myself feel healthy, I need to get control over my depression and anxiety before it controls my whole life, I need to look for places to live, I need to get off my phone, I need to do so much but I feel constantly overwhelmed. In the end I end up doing nothing.
TL;DR I am stuck in a constant cycle of feeling overwhelmed and being too depressed to do anything. I fear that I’ll never break this cycle and that it’ll plague me throughout my adult life until I’m a sour old lady who blames everything on the world. Fear tactics just make me more depressed. I want to get a job but I’m already failing half my classes and I am so mentally and physically tired I have no Idea how I’d manage a job after school. I think a job would be way less stressful than school though. How do I change my life before I get stuck like this as an adult?

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im at level 364 so it’s not as if I’m super new
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Dear D...
Before I met you, I always felt like there was something missing in my heart, ever since I was really young; there was something that no matter how much I tried to replace I could never succeed. The thoughts of this hole in my heart being existent for the rest of my life felt soothing eventually but also painful multiple times. I always felt like an outcast no matter how much I tried to fit in, no matter how close I got to my friends. When you came, all those thoughts, all those feelings got away...
When I first met you, my whole world turned upside down. The shock that flowed through felt electric, like I touched a generator that collects energy. I could feel your gaze penetrate mine and vice versa. Then we looked away and shortly aftet we persuaded each other. I was more vocal and direct, you were more quiet and stood close to me all the time. I was sensitive and tense, you were more detached and chill. The moments I talked to you felt like paradise, it felt like I was talking to a long lost friend, to a brother from an another lifetime. In our dreams the roles would be reversed all the time: I would become the quiet and cold one and you would be the sunshine boy filled with happiness and joy. And of course you were the hugger. The nerve.
I wanted to be in your presence all the time, but I was scared of the intensity as well. I could tell you were also scared of it, but everytime I was chasing, you were running. Everytime I was running you were chasing. We were never in the middle. We had different methods to cope with the connection, because we were never fully direct with each other. I would have panic attacks and cry on the corridors when no one was around and later listen to music that reminded me of you, wrote poems about you and started to draw you out of the back of my mind. It felt uncanny how much you looked just like in the drawings. You would deal with it by drinking and overthinking and later outright confess to me overnight, the last night we were together. Then we separated. I needed time to reflect, something I did for the sake of both of us. You felt hurt and I felt hurt, but we needed space. I needed space. I felt like I was too much for you, and you did not deserve me.
That is when I started to grow. To change, to try and stand up and live my life the way I used to. I thought I would go back to my heart having that hole again, and dealing with it like old times, again. But the hole was no longer there. Because you filled that place in my heart. You and only you. And the pain became more powerful. I hurt even more because the separation made me wish I was in your presence more, to just hold you and never let you go. To tell you that I love you back, but I knew you would not believe me. You would think I would only say it back out of pity, not honesty. Because you have your own demons in your head, your own voices that make you overthink. Those voices are louder then my own voice.
Then I learned about the connection. At first I left it at chance. I had moments when I was going back to you, and moments when I was leaving you. Eventually you came back, and hugged me and took a photo with me and your best friend. You asked me if things will be the same between us. I had no response. I wanted to go back to it, but I knew it would be wrong. You wanted me back but I knew you did not evolve properly. You missed me, the same I missed you if not more but as the more awakened one I had to push you away. I told you eventually that I love you back the same way you told me: through text. You denied it and thought that I was just messing with you. You stopped talking to me. I know I hurt you, but I wanted to let you know as well. I hurt you because I love you.
Months went by and I learned to not let my anger take the best of me. To not let our past define our future. I learned to love myself, use the energy you gave me, both good and bad and embrace it. You were the reflection of my shadow self, who wants to tell people sometimes to stopp bugging me and that wants to be alone sometimes and I was your shadow self, the part that you keep locked because you got hurt: the kind, loyal and naive side of you that I showcase on the outside. I kept running into you; twin flame numbers kept pestering me. Dreams kept influencing me. But I had to stay away. I could see in your eyes that you were expecting me to make a move sometimes, smile at me warmly and just stare. But you were also mirroring me; if I was away, you were also away. Then I came back to you and you felt like I was just talking to you out of pity. So you let your ego out on me again.
You cant fully grasp the connection and how this experience should transform you, not just make you feel better. That you should heal wounds, not use me as a distraction for your own pain. Our dreams were almost always manifested by you; they always appeared when I was thinking the least about you, and in them you always wanted to do something with me. You might had good intentions, but you were also taking away my energy. The energy that I would use to heal would be drained because you were taking part of it for yourself. Because you did not had your own energy to use. Because you dont want to use your own healing process and make your own energy. I learned to love myself and also to love my friends and the friendships I had with them and the blessing that comes with having such strong bonds. I learned what I want in a partner and how my life should be settled for here on out. But I know deep down that I wont love anyone as much as you. Its just not possible. They will have another place in my heart, another type of love, but no one could replace you and I know this is gonna be vice versa for you as well. From what I have seen you still did not hook up with anyone after I came in your life; for the record you ironically broke up with your girlfriend around the time I came in your life and were super curious whenever there was a girl I had a crush on.
And as much as I love you, I cant allow this. I have to block you out through every way possible. I cant force you to change for the better, but maybe if you dont have me or my energy to use, there could be a chance. We will also separate fully in a couple of weeks with me off to college and you in your last year of highschool. Maybe my full absence will help you grow, just like how I felt when I experienced the separation a year ago. Again, I hurt you because I love you. If you heal yourself you know you can find me. When you are healed just call me and I will answer. Until then you have to be put away from my mind and energy. I will be fine, I will live my life and enjoy my part of it. I will miss you every single day, but I will remind myself of how you are not healed and how you need this space for yourself. Even if this space will still make me wish to hold you in my arms, and hold you as tight as possible.
Goodbye D. Until we meet again, I hope you will have a great life ahead of you and I hope we will reunite eventually... when both of us are healed. If we dont then... I guess see you in the next lifetime.
I love you.

“Silly little screeching cricket,” said Witch. “You forgot to buy a ticket.”
“The carnival goes round and round,” said Light. “The multiverse is our playground. Nothing’s free and nothing’s lost. Every visit has its cost.”

The traveling extravaganza known as the Witchlight Carnival, continuously drifting from one Plane to the next, lands in the same Plane, the same given location, every eight years, on the dot. For one spectacular, yet fleeting, night, the Carnival embodies the spirit and magic of the Feywilds, the Plane of Faerie. It just so happened that eight years ago, when you were only a child, the Carnival arrived right at your doorstep, outside the town of Waterdeep. Attending the carnival in hopes of a night of splendor, mischief, and fun, you instead left feeling like something was missing, something was left behind.
A prized trinket, maybe a part of your personality, or perhaps even a person close to you—whatever it was, it disappeared that night, stolen from you with seemingly little chance of return. Over the years, your memory had grown slightly foggy, the emotions of this childhood loss slowly drifting away. Until eight years had suddenly gone by and the Witchlight Carnival made its fateful return to Waterdeep once more, the fresh sense of loss cut clear again in your mind. You return to the Carnival, determined to find what you had lost all those years ago, but instead, you find yourself entangled in a plot far bigger than yourself.
And you're not sure how deep this rabbit hole goes...
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Howdy, I'm Andy (they/he), and I'm a 19-year-old forever DM. Well, at least until I started playing PbPs. I've been wanting to play The Wild Beyond the Witchlight for so long now, so I bit the bullet and decided I wanted it to be the very first PbP campaign I DM'd. I'm honestly so obsessed with the aesthetics of both the Carnival and the Feywilds, and I'm looking for players who are, too!
The version of this campaign we'll be playing is based on IndieRex's The Wild Beyond the Witchlight: Reimagined as well as some of the other supplemental material online. The original adventure spanned levels 1-8, but the Reimagined adventure spans levels 1-14. This campaign emphasizes roleplay and non-violent solutions to problems, but combat is still very much an option.
As a GM, I prioritize roleplay, collaborative storytelling, and player choice. It also doesn't matter to me where you keep/make your sheets, but Avrae will be available for rolling. Personally, I prefer to use DiceCloud or MPMB's PDF sheets when keeping digital copies, but again, you may use whatever you like.
Things to keep in mind:

• This is an inclusive table. Homophobia, transphobia, racism, or any other form of bigotry will not be tolerated.
• While this is an asynchronous game, players closer to my timezone (CST/CDT or UTC-5) are preferred.
• You don't need experience with 5e to apply.
• At least 1-2 posts a day are expected to keep the game moving, but I understand that life happens. Just let me know if something arises and we can work it out. Communication is key at my table.
• I am looking for a party of around 4-5 players.

Apply here: https://forms.gle/t5gUFx2TWQ7vrAUv9

The first stars of night twinkle above the apricot sunset. Giant dragonflies whir overhead, trailing streamers, and a low mist curls over the ground. Looking around, you glimpse wondrous and vibrant creatures—elf stilt walkers, dancing faeries, and painted performers. Everywhere there is laughter, pixie dust, bubbles, and the wistful tune of a whistling calliope.

As the title says, I was sextorted more than a month ago. Most importantly, nothing has been leaked, thank God!
I'm 17 years old, the sextortionist knows that.
It started on a sm platform -> moved to insta -> moved to snap.
We texted for a few months and had Insta posts uploaded back in 2018, which led me to believe she was real. Could have been a hacked account if you ask me. I didn't have any sexual interest in the beginning. It got spicy after about 4 months of talking.
However, I was smart enough to keep my face out of the picture. But people who know me will know it's me because of the background. The blackmailer also put a selfie next to the nudes.
Unfortunately, I did pay her once. I paid $150 in Apple gift cards. They wanted more, so I realized paying wasn't going to help, so I blocked them and found this Reddit community.
Nothing was leaked, at least not to my knowledge. No one told me they saw anything and I used Google image search and put a Google alert on my name.
My followers have dropped a bit, but I think that's because I made it private and stopped accepting new follow requests, so I hope it's just coincidence.
The best part is that the scammer has multiple ways to contact me if he really wanted to, but he didn't even intend to.
I know it's impossible to guarantee that nothing will happen, but what do you think? I'm grateful for any advice!
I had a lot of suicidal thoughts at first because I had no idea what the consequences of a leak would be. The most helpful thing has been this Reddit community. So a big thank you to the mods for creating and maintaining a safe place to ask for help and share stories! Also, thanks to everyone who has helped me here. It means a lot to me because I haven't been able to talk to anyone irl about it.
Btw my mental health at the moment:
Getting better every day. Every day feels like a milestone.
But my anxiety kicks in EVERY SINGLE MORNING after I wake up. I have no idea why, but I think I'm dreaming about it. I'm always rushing to my phone to see if someone warned me that it was sent out.
Also, my anxiety is triggered when a girl texts me. I have no idea why, but it just brings me flashbacks.
Somehow I just feel like I have a lack of energy in my life. I'm just not as motivated and interested in things as I used to be. It has definitely changed me and my personality. I feel like I have developed some self-hate. Somehow I don't feel like a human being anymore. I may seek professional help soon.
At least I looked very good in the picture, I would be known as the new Drake in case of a leak😂.

I (USC) am applying for my husband from Amsterdam, and we were already uploading our documents into the portal when we were informed that our case was moved to Frankfurt, Germany. I see others across Europe also have been moved to Frankfurt, so that's probably going to impact the wait time. We just submitted the DS260 and affidavit of support a few days ago so now we're just waiting for them to ask for proof of intent to redomicile.
If anyone has been DQ'd recently: did you get the interview date yet? Anyone have an idea of how big the impact will be?
Also: if anyone has any ideas on how to speed up the process by getting things done earlier, shoot! (he's going to take the COVID booster since we saw another user saying that it needs to be within 12 months? Just so that the doctor doesn't ask us to later and it's free 🤷‍♀️)

As the title suggests, I swapped out my old CPU (ryzen 3700x) for a new CPU (ryzen 5700x3D) and now I don't get any display whatsoever. I updated my mobo (Asus X570 Prime-P) bios a few days ago to get ready for the swap and it was working totally fine, I even updated to windows 11 and it still ran fine.
When I turn on the computer, it seems like everything boots up fine. The GPU, RAM, and case fans all light up, and the CPU fan spins normally as well. Just don't get any picture.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. So far I've tried resetting the CPU and GPU, putting in my old one, trying different display cables and nothing works. If anyone has any ideas on what to try I'm all ears, and thanks for any help in advance
Parts list Old CPU: ryzen 3700x New CPU: ryzen 5700x3D Mobo: Asus x570 Prime-P RAM: Teamforce 32gb RGB GPU: Nvidia 3070

Hi I made this post early but it was way more emotional driven so I took it down and thought I’d explain it better. My grammar might be bad cause I’m still very emotional but not sad or mad just straight up jealous. Hi I’m not a sex worker but I’m friends with a lot of guys who are very open about sex and things involving sex our group had a couple girls in it but I’m known as the only dominant girl of the group so sometimes me and my guy friends will hook up and I’ll dominate them. One day one of my friends who’s a very submissive guy, a bit Spazzy but very cute wanted me to help him out. He had a girl friend who was very subby and he needed someone more dominate. They had an open relationship so it was fine. Recently they broke up do to a separate issue and he the first thing he did was asked me out. In the moment I knew I’d the situation and told him “let’s wait until you’re put back together emotional then we can try” he agreed and a couple weeks later after toying with the idea I kinda got excited thinking about having him be my cute little pet boyfriend. I thought of having a romantic relationship which is something I never saw in my future so I came back around and said “you know what let’s try it it’ll be fun” he got excited to and started to call me mommy and such standard fair for kink play relationships. Well we set the date to have the date and I started to eagerly wait for that day. Well yesterday I found out he slept with our other mutual friend. I tried to play it off like oh we all do that all the time so it’s okay but I can’t get over this feeling of jealously it’s all consuming. At first I was thinking horrible things about her like how she’s not as pretty as me or that she’s not as dominate as me which regardless of being true isn’t a nice thing to think about any one and my jealously is getting worse as time goes on. I’m worried by the time we even have the date I won’t be able to hide it. I’ve never been jealous before of anyone because I never wanted a romantic relationship until now. I feel awful. So my question is are these feelings normal? How do I deal with them? Should I even try to pursue a relationship with anyone if this is how I get? I’m not a romantic type at all I rather be the creepy mommy of the group who’s cool and approachable not the jealous bitch.

I despise you, but I never imagined that day would come. My feelings for you have always been strong and solid, even when you only wanted one thing from me, and looking through my eyes was like gazing into yours the same day the falsehoods of your love brought me back into reality. My body was your temple, and I wanted you to own me, but you took this opportunity for granted and destroyed me with your selfishness. Your lust is as strong as it has always been, strong enough to conquer and push past me as a human being, and you were well aware of this.
You can say all you want about how much you hate me and can't stop dividing yourself and your hatred for me while I'm around, but I'll only ever hug you with my loving arms. Day by day, I embraced you as the person I want, mistakes and all, and although I spent so much time adoring you, I never realized what was being pulled right from under my nose the entire time. You promised me everything I could think of, but all I wanted was to have you in my life for the remainder of our time on Earth.
I became something unrecognizable again, but you told me every night that it would be lovely. When I came to you with my heart in my hand, crying for your assistance, you finally removed your mask and acknowledged to me that you loathed me. With my heart pounding for you in my palms, all I could think of was treachery. Even as I felt my body giving out beneath me, my passion for you remained strong. Nausea rose up inside of me, and I collapsed to my knees in front of you, as you reveled in my miserable existence because there's nothing left of who I once was.
I came to you with my nerves completely exposed, but when I needed you to put me back together, you said, "What about fixing my exposed nerves instead?" I tried to patch them for you several times, but they kept bursting open at the seams since the thin lining was never enough for you. I bled myself dry for you, exposing the most vulnerable aspects of my soul. My naked body was exposed to you without your permission, sometimes with your lipstick smeared on my lips where it did not belong. Your idea for how you wanted me became a reality.
There were many individuals who were as lustful as you were, and my body was covered in old open wounds that were ready to break loose one day. It wasn't as beautiful as you had promised this time, and the familiar sense of being held in my lover's arms was no longer appealing. My body was once sacrosanct, but after being retaliated against by famished wolves, no part of me hasn't gone touched or exposed since. You promised, and while I assumed you weren't as ravenous as those wolves, you were their fourth coming all along.