I know this might not be the right place but please help, as you are already experienced in this situation Mene recen Ihave literally given up trusting efforts.Mere pas dene ko exams he abhi IAT, BITSAT, wagera but padhne ka zero motivation. Also drop ki dekhe to there is not much support among the community for it considering the increased competition.
PCMB Guy here. Mene do saal me literally zero efforts dale he, and I still am clear with most of the concepts of PCM. And wese to I can, but I don't know anymore if I remember anything.Waise to I know I have the potential but the thing is what should be the approach? Validation nai mang raha par genuinely ek advice chahiye, specially from the NEETards for the bio part, and all of you for the bio
If I'm taking a drop, I'll consider taking it for NEET.I don't want to go for private without even trying for once.And I have nothing to lose anyway. Or should I grind for a month, provided I'm also interested in research.
If I start now or after taking a break of 10 days to get out of the exhaustion. I'll have 10 months lagbhag, 2 months dedicated to revision. I want to complete PC ka syllabus by Nov-Dec. Given that, most of the concepts are I'll be giving Jee too(gaali mat karna) to that will help completing it before Jan. And I want to complete B ka syllabus by Jan-Feb.Given that, I'll re-start from zero. Also maths is my jigar ka tukda, I won't dedicate much time until October -nov, but will try taking out 2-3 days per week fir question practice.Will sparing that much time will be possible?
Please help and guide on how to tackle this situation, and how to approach my drop year. Is it possible that 8-9 mahine me do saal ka bio syllabus ho payega? How to do that, please guide.
Please suggest an approach for the next month of preparation too
Any added advice are welcome too🙏 Career ka sawal he please help.

Photos and timestamps are linked here (happy to take anything more, and will continue to update this!)

• LEGO 75810 Stranger Things The Upside Down: I believe this set is 100% complete, including the instructions and all figures! One of LEGO’s best builds ever, IMO. Current lowest in the US on BL is $289. Price reduced! Asking $250, OBO.
• LEGO 76269 Marvel Avengers Tower: Presently, this set is fully assembled (as shown in the photos). If you're in Chicagoland, a local exchange would be ideal, but I can also disassemble this - either entirely, or just into chunks - for shipping. Box and instructions are included, and stickers are applied extremely neatly. Asking $400, OBO.
  • I also have 6487483, the LEGO Marvel Taxi GWP set that came with this set, and it's BNIB/sealed. Will include it for $50, OBO (I don't really have use for the Taxi if I don't have the Tower!).
• LEGO 75904 Scooby-Doo Mystery Mansion: I believe the set is complete except for the Velma and Daphne minfigures. In my book, this set is really quite cool, even without them (the purple castle pieces rule!). I don’t think I have these figures - I have no recollection of ever seeing them, and cannot find them after a close search - but if they turn up, I will send them to the buyer for free as well. Don’t hold your breath. All three instruction books included! Price reduced! Asking $140, OBO.
• LEGO 21307 LEGO Ideas Caterham Seven 620R: BNIB. Asking $120, OBO.
• LEGO 21018 Architecture United Nations Headquarters: Box is opened, but bags are sealed. Box is in great shape. When I purchased this (second hand), the seller told me that's how they got it - that the box was never sealed, but they never got around to building it. I don't believe that, necessarily (I've never encountered a non-sealed LEGO set at retail) but... that's all I have to say about that one. Asking $90, OBO.

I’ll update this with any additional information as needed.
Also - I'm always open to hearing trades! Feel free to send over any ideas you have!
I write this every time - and many people do it, which is why I’ve had so many positive interactions here - if you’re interested in a set and you have an offer or trade, please don’t hesitate to send it. The prices are always flexible and I love hearing about cool trade offers, etc.!
Thanks!

Images of the 2 houses and gardens from above: https://prnt.sc/IBQ-h_7PdBwY Images of the border between our house and the house next door's rear garden: https://prnt.sc/HJptP1sS8TaE
Hello there, the land behind the owners property on the left (Behind their fence) has been unused / unmaintained for years and it is constantly overgrowing into our garden and looks generally terrible. The owners next door tell us the land does not belong to them and we are not sure who owns it.
We own the land behind our fence (There is a door to the back part) and it's becoming an absolute eyesore.
What can we do here? Ideally we'd (obviously) like to take ownership of the land and maintain it but what other options do we have?
Thank you

Welcome back to Weekly One Take, the weekly improv thread with a focus on constructive feedback.
Thank you to everyone who posted takes or gave feedback last week! Great to see all the fantastic submissions and comments.
The Concept
There are two ways you can participate in this thread, and they are not mutually exclusive!
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1. Record a take of yourself improvising over the backing track provided. The idea is not to achieve perfection - record a real, live, raw and unedited solo. It can be a video or just a recording. Upload your take to YouTube or Soundcloud and share it in the comments. Tip: keep your take short and sweet. If you record a 10 minute take, think about chopping it down and submitting just the first few minutes.
2. Give feedback on someone else's take. We're looking for supportive, constructive comments - putting yourself out there for everyone to listen to is scary, and everyone is at a different stage in their guitar journey. Critiques are welcomed, but don't just criticise - offer suggestions on how to improve, and highlight the things you did like too.

This week’s track:
Jam Band
If you have any feedback on the concept as a whole, please let me know in the comments/DM me.
Check out previous weeks here

Hey everyone,
I'm on the lookout for a talented developer who can create high-quality mods for Minecraft. This project will be well-paid, and I'm excited to see what amazing mods can be brought to life!
📋 Requirements:

• Develop a high-quality mod for Minecraft.
• The mod should use the player's microphone to execute commands in the game, similar to the Simple Voice Chat mod.
• The commands should either use items or make the player move, at your discretion.

If you're interested and think you have the skills to make this happen, please drop me a message or comment below. Let's make something awesome together!

I have just released a new course, Master Hair Creation in Blender
Purchase the course on ArtStation Market at the link below, https://www.artstation.com/a/38630148
Also for Crypto users, you can purchase the course via BINANCE at the below USDT address, and send your email to the email address on the link then I will add your email to access the Google link(somehow it's an old method). https://s.binance.com/Wt8Y5wLa
This is the Blender Hair Creation Course. In this course, I cover all major aspects required in creating CG Hair in Blender.
Importantly the Hairstyle that will be covered in this course are AFRO and Bun Hairstyle together with different Hair Cut (controlled by Textures) like Fade and Afro Hawk Hairstyles, Curl and Spiral Hairstyles, Braids Hairstyle together with Music Celebrity or Stylized Braids Hairstyle, and DreadLocks together with Curl DreadLocks Hairstyle.
Apart from Hairstyle, I will talk about creating Facial Hair only Eyebrows, Eyelashes, and Vellus Hair (Peach Fuzz).
Lastly, I show, How you can transfer Hairstyles created in this course and other Bonus Hairstyles to your pre-made or custom Character(s).
I appreciate your support.

I went to Los Angeles in early December and flew Southwest. I remember seeing people occasionally stand in a short line, maybe 1-3 deep, waiting for the restroom at the front of the plane. There were longer lines at the rear of the plane.
I flew yesterday and was walking to the restroom at the front of the plane when this woman seated several rows in front of me got up to use the restroom. Since I was already on my way up there, I just waited off to the side of the aisle next to the restroom, not in anyone’s way. The flight attendant who spoke to me, I already thought was incredibly bad at her job - barely smiled at any passengers. She made a man who was attempting to go to the restroom to change his kid’s diaper wait in the aisle for 3 minutes so she could finish taking alcoholic drink orders. She even finished with one passenger and went to a different passenger to take their order before getting out of his way. She also made a different passenger on his way back from the restroom walk all the way back to the front of the plane so she could pass by instead of trying to make room for the passenger. I thought it was absolutely terrible customer service. She told me I can’t crowd the front of the plane and had to go back to my seat. I wasn’t crowding because I wasn’t in anyone’s way and about 10 seconds after I got back to my seat the woman came out of the bathroom.
Has this been a rule on Southwest flights? As I said, I don’t fly very often, typically once or twice a year, and it’s been 6 months since my last flight. I don’t have an issue with it if it is, i just didn’t know it was. Maybe I’m just annoyed because I felt she was unprofessional most of the flight, when all the other flight attendants I had on both flights were nothing but kind and professional. I would understand them sending people back to their seats if there were people actually standing in the aisles waiting, but they typically don’t seem to have a problem with multiple people waiting in line at the back of the plane. It also doesn’t make sense that people are allowed to “crowd,” to use their word, the area of the plane where 3 flight attendants are working but it’s not allowed to stand where there’s only 1 flight attendant working.
I’m just genuinely curious, I’d never been told that before on a flight. It didn’t make sense to me. I would’ve actually been in the way if I’d gone to the back of the plane, but I wasn’t blocking the aisle at the front of the plane. I was also fed up because I’d been awake since 4:15 and had my first flight and my second flight both delayed, so I really was not in the mood for the way she spoke to me. I don’t care what instruction is given to me, but I care a lot about how I’m spoken to. She straight up said “go back to your seat, no crowding.” If she had said “I’m sorry sir, we ask that passengers don’t wait at the front of the plane for the restroom, would you mind going back to your seat?” I would’ve had no issue with it. Same message, entirely different tone. I’ve been in customer service, including management at Chick-fil-A, for 10 years so I tend to be pretty judgmental when it comes to what I perceive to be subpar customer service.
Not at all trying to be the asshole here, just a tired ass passenger asking a question. I felt it was especially strange because I was already walking to the restroom when the other passenger got up and went in before me. I don’t feel like I should have to walk back to my seat and risk that happening again on my way back to the restroom. Same thing for the guy trying to change his kid’s diaper, what if you had kept this man waiting and someone in a seat ahead had gotten up to use the restroom. Are you gonna make the guy you made wait go back to his seat because you wouldn’t move out of his way? That’s not fair.
Again I’m fine with the rule if it is a rule, I didn’t know it was. Maybe I’m just irritated with the way I felt she carried herself and didn’t seem to provide a positive experience for anyone on the plane.

I can't with her anymore.... Ok listening to the most recent few episodes made me want to go back and re listen to the first few episodes cause I was noticing some inconsistencies that were nagging on my brain.. I get to the episode where Bridget is whining about how she feels like she was portrayed as wanting to get the girls drunk to ruin their shoot... Bridget you were portrayed as a jealous woman because that's EXACTLY what you were. You can try and say they "edited" you to look bad but you have to give them material to edit. She wanted Playboy bad and was all too happy to aid in the drinking of a potential playmate cause she is petty. We all have a little petty in us and now she's pissed that she's drawing attention to that behavior and it tarnishes her good girl image. I didn't think less of Bridget watching the episode when it originally aired as a then 25 year old woman. I thought yeah.... I'd probably do the same... Now she's trying to act like the producers and EVERYONE else were out there to make her look bad and that's not how she meant it and blah blah blah. Now I have an issue. You are trying to force a narrative that you were there for all the right reasons and blazey blah... What are the right reasons for dating an 80 year old I'll always wonder but i digress cause I've already rambled and that's not my point... You were there cause you wanted to be in that magazine bad and were obviously willing to do whatever needed to be done to do that. Don't try and pretend it was anything but a petty moment now that people are rewatching. In the Marston episode he mentions a text where you replied "take out the word master". Giiiiiirl. That right there. Petty. Just own it. Ok I feel I have ranted long enough and thank you to anyone who made it this far I hope it makes some sense🤣 I'm just super excited to have people to talk about this with who may possibly see what I've always seen about these women..

How do you guys feel about buying duplicates ? I’ve decided I’m only going to collect one of each car instead of buying two of everything ( one for package and one for loose ) and I’m just going to keep everything packaged.
I’ll buy a double occasionally to customize and get my “fix” of opening one up and holding it in hand. But for the most part I think it’s financially better to just buy one. But I was talking to a friend that also collects and he thinks collecting doubles is not smart as well, so much so that he doesn’t even buy the same casting twice even if it’s a different color. (His take is , if u really want a different color then you can just customize one instead of buying every color released from factory.)
What’s your guys take on this ?

Today, i saw one of the young people I used to be a support worker for. Those young people had severe BPD and severe trauma. They shared their secrets with me. I tried to help.
I actually ended up leaving that job rather abruptly, because the manager was one of the worst I’ve ever encountered in my life. She constantly belittled her employees in emails, saying we ‘didn’t care for the young people at all’ because we hadn’t cleaned an 8 bedroom house in one day. Constantly tell us we weren’t doing enough despite giving us 800 tasks to do, telling us how we responded to YP’s self-harm incidents wrong.
She told me i ‘had body odour’ after i had done a sleep (2pm shift, to sleep, wake up at 7, immediately start shift again), which is a complaint I’ve never had again in my life. If there was an employee fall out, somehow she’d know, isolate you in a room and ask you about it. My co-worker told me she was dragged into a meeting and called bitchy for asking fairly simple questions. I was told I’d be ‘knocked out’ (not verbatim) because I’d walked out crying after the body odour talk and hadn’t answered ‘have a good weekend’, told it would be a disciplinary note on my file.
Then, there were some sketchy things going on. The young people told me the manager had told them they couldn’t tell us support workers things. I was in such a bad place already, because of various inflicted consequences from a terrible manager, that I forgot boundaries and asked further. Not smart.
I was taken into a conversation with the manager; where i was told off. I then had a BPD meltdown and told the manager i was going to kill myself. I think she knew then, exactly what i was. Another young person. I couldn’t regulate at all, and as a consequence, couldn’t say goodbye to the young people.
It’s my biggest regret, that I couldn’t say goodbye myself. I know I could never explain to them why I was leaving, because I couldn’t bad mouth the person in charge of caring for them. I’d already done that and got in trouble. The micromanager had to be kept a secret from the young people. I wrote them letters, saying I left because of ‘health issues’. Not entirely not true .
But I could see, today, in their eyes, they don’t forgive me. They’re hurt. They think I just abandoned them. It hurts. I have so many complicated feelings right now. Wishing I could explain to them what happened, how that place is behind closed doors, but I can’t. I can’t take away the safety of the place they’re recovering, and I know that. I just wish I could apologise.
They walked away as soon as they recognised me. I suppose it’s just something I’ll never get closure on, because to do that would be disrespecting boundaries, and frankly, be kind of weird.

Hey everyone,
I'm on the lookout for a talented developer who can create high-quality mods for Minecraft. This project will be well-paid, and I'm excited to see what amazing mods can be brought to life!
📋 Requirements:

• Develop a high-quality mod for Minecraft.
• The mod should use the player's microphone to execute commands in the game, similar to the Simple Voice Chat mod.
• The commands should either use items or make the player move, at your discretion.

If you're interested and think you have the skills to make this happen, please drop me a message or comment below. Let's make something awesome together!

Traveling with friends offers a multitude of benefits, making the experience not only enjoyable but also enriching in various ways. Here are some key advantages:

1. Shared Experiences

• Memorable Moments: Creating shared memories strengthens bonds and provides stories to reminisce about for years.
• Camaraderie: Facing new challenges and adventures together fosters a sense of unity and deepens friendships.

2. Cost Efficiency

• Splitting Costs: Shared expenses for accommodations, transportation, and food make the trip more affordable.
• Group Discounts: Many travel services offer discounts for groups, reducing overall costs.

3. Safety and Support

• Safety in Numbers: Traveling with friends can enhance safety, providing a support system in unfamiliar environments.
• Emotional Support: Friends can offer comfort and reassurance if anything goes wrong or if you encounter stressful situations.

4. Diverse Perspectives

• Different Interests: Friends bring varied interests and skills, enriching the travel experience with different activities and insights.
• Problem Solving: A group can come up with diverse solutions to any problems that arise, making it easier to handle challenges.

5. Enhanced Enjoyment

• Fun and Laughter: Shared laughter and fun moments make the trip more enjoyable and reduce stress.
• Shared Activities: Enjoying activities like sightseeing, hiking, or dining together can be more fulfilling than doing them alone.

6. Personal Growth

• Learning from Each Other: Friends can introduce you to new experiences and perspectives, fostering personal growth.
• Improved Relationships: Overcoming challenges and enjoying successes together can strengthen your relationships and improve communication skills.

7. Efficiency and Convenience

• Task Sharing: Planning and logistics can be shared, reducing the burden on any one person.
• Support System: Friends can help with navigating new places, making decisions, and managing unexpected situations.

8. Increased Motivation

• Encouragement: Friends can motivate each other to try new things, step out of comfort zones, and make the most of the travel experience.
• Accountability: Having friends along can keep you committed to plans and help maintain a positive attitude throughout the trip.

Traveling with friends can turn an ordinary trip into an extraordinary adventure, providing numerous emotional, practical, and financial benefits. The shared experiences and strengthened bonds can make such trips some of the most cherished moments of your life.
4oTraveling with friends offers a multitude of benefits, making the experience not only enjoyable but also enriching in various ways. Here are some key advantages:

1. Shared Experiences

• Memorable Moments: Creating shared memories strengthens bonds and provides stories to reminisce about for years.
• Camaraderie: Facing new challenges and adventures together fosters a sense of unity and deepens friendships.

2. Cost Efficiency

• Splitting Costs: Shared expenses for accommodations, transportation, and food make the trip more affordable.
• Group Discounts: Many travel services offer discounts for groups, reducing overall costs.

3. Safety and Support

• Safety in Numbers: Traveling with friends can enhance safety, providing a support system in unfamiliar environments.
• Emotional Support: Friends can offer comfort and reassurance if anything goes wrong or if you encounter stressful situations.

4. Diverse Perspectives

• Different Interests: Friends bring varied interests and skills, enriching the travel experience with different activities and insights.
• Problem Solving: A group can come up with diverse solutions to any problems that arise, making it easier to handle challenges.

5. Enhanced Enjoyment

• Fun and Laughter: Shared laughter and fun moments make the trip more enjoyable and reduce stress.
• Shared Activities: Enjoying activities like sightseeing, hiking, or dining together can be more fulfilling than doing them alone.

6. Personal Growth

• Learning from Each Other: Friends can introduce you to new experiences and perspectives, fostering personal growth.
• Improved Relationships: Overcoming challenges and enjoying successes together can strengthen your relationships and improve communication skills.

7. Efficiency and Convenience

• Task Sharing: Planning and logistics can be shared, reducing the burden on any one person.
• Support System: Friends can help with navigating new places, making decisions, and managing unexpected situations.

8. Increased Motivation

• Encouragement: Friends can motivate each other to try new things, step out of comfort zones, and make the most of the travel experience.
• Accountability: Having friends along can keep you committed to plans and help maintain a positive attitude throughout the trip.

Traveling with friends can turn an ordinary trip into an extraordinary adventure, providing numerous emotional, practical, and financial benefits. The shared experiences and strengthened bonds can make such trips some of the most cherished moments of your life.

If you ever played Super Mario 64 or watched a movie that takes place in the Middle East you know the sound of the desert. But can someone explain to me where these chords come from? What is it exactly and where does our association come from?

Hello,
I just turned 22, and I realize that I'm completely lost in my life. I don't have any degree, I'm overweight, and I feel incredibly lazy. I really want to go back to university, but I'm not sure if I have it in me to finish. I currently live abroad, and I’m thinking about moving back home to start university there. However, I'm afraid that I may be too old and struggle with balancing work and university, especially since I'm not sure if my parents would support me.
Additionally, I'm worried that I might not be able to get into the program I want, which would mean another year working to save money and redoing my finals. I'm really afraid that when I finally get to university, I will be the oldest and feel completely out of place. Is it over for me, or can I do something to get everything under control and turn my life around? I really don't like where my life is heading, and I find it very hard to do anything to fix it. Comparing myself to my very successful friends isn't helping at all.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.

If you've seen my last post, you know I was contemplating khula as my husband was potentially cgeating. But for some reason, my family wants me to take some time, which means a few months before finalising any decision. I on the other hand want to proceed with the khula asap and have told my mom that I want this done before Muharram. Otherwise I'll keep gaslighting myself to stay in this marriage. I've also mentally checked out from this marriage and am already thinking of what I want to do in the future. I am going to pursue masters in psychology and am also looking forward to remarrying since now I know better and this marriage was arranged by my family. Am I being weird for already thinking about marriage and potential matchmaking apps I can checkout. I am already over this marriage. I just need it to be officially over so that I can get over it and heal and move on

Hello, my name is Ghost(She/They), and over the course of this week, our host R(who is a 21yr old trans girl) has discovered that we might be a system, and firstly this isn’t an appeal for a diagnosis or anything, we just need to get this off our chest honestly.
For “brief” context, we can’t remember much of our childhood before the age of 9-10 and that goes for all of our alters (which as of last night there are 7 including R and me), and what we can remember is patches of memory. And more than that from what we can recall, R had not only me (Ghost) as an “imaginary friend” that residded within her and took care of things when they got particularly stressful, but she also had other version of herself which she could relinquish control to in order to accomplish certain stressful or triggering tasks such as math, science, or social outings. And for the longest time she filed these things under either her diagnosed ADHD, or just an overactive imagination. And before realizing I and others in the system were most likely alters, there were periods where I and these “versions of R” for lack of a better word, would go dormant.
This all culminated in the last two months, where R started dating a person who was a part of a system, and this was the first time in their life they ever had contact with the concept of D.I.D or OSDD. And throughout this period of dating and also of learning more about these disorders, R subtly questioned her life, but never pushed the topic much, as she feared it would be a burden to their partner, and might cause her life to change too much.
Fast forward to one week ago, where the partner (who was their first partner ever mind you) broke up with R after a period of rocky relations due to being long distance. This break up caused a sizable breakdown in R, and all culminated in me (after comforting them and calming them down for a few days), sitting them down and discussing the prospect of us being a system with them. This has been the main topic of conversation and debate for the last few days, where we have delved into our entire life and started to put all the pieces together, which also has resulted in 5 more alters popping up over the course of these 3 days (3 old ones brought back as alters, and two newly created ones after a particularly emotional moment the other night).
All of that “Brief” context to say, we are unsure of how to move forward as a system, especially since R is still very much in denial. Switching between alters feels strange at the moment, and R thought the sensation of switching would be more akin to blacking out, but it is more like suddenly and unexpectedly becoming someone else while she is in the background watching, and admittedly it feels weird to all of us too, especially since we all now can consider ourselves as alters separate from R, which is hard since at this point most of us feel blended together, which is causing R much distress.
There is a lot more I could go into but I will leave it at this… R really wants to get to know more about our alters, as we are now, and to feel more secure and safe from the ideas of imposter syndrome she is feeling at the moment. If anyone here has any suggestions as to what we can try to do moving forward, so that we can feel less lost and confused, we would greatly appreciate it.