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Welcome to Surviving Infidelity. If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery. We ask that you please read our sub rules before posting.
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2024.03.26 01:25 MastodonNo8553 Recovered: Maurice Wolin's Chat Log Pt. 2

Maurice Wolin 2/28/1958 - 1/6/2021
talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:29:58 PM): no baby..im serious.. talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:30:10 PM): it would feel so good.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:30:28 PM): yeah its posed to be good talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:30:51 PM): yeah it is..do you think about it? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:30:57 PM): i do talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:31:22 PM): i would..for a long time..with my tongue willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:31:44 PM): wow that sounds good but i dunno u mite be a big talker lol my ex did big talk but then he was into vid games more htan me :( talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:32:04 PM): baby..i promise im not..i would be all over you willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:32:13 PM): lol thatd be fun talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:32:20 PM): i kno talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:33:15 PM): you like your chest kissed also? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:33:21 PM): i think i would talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:33:27 PM): i want to willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:33:31 PM): nice talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:34:35 PM): when do you want to talk willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:34:43 PM): we are talkin arent we? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:34:48 PM): phone silly willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:35:02 PM): when my mom get away from phone lol talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:35:20 PM): lol..will that be soon? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:35:26 PM): i hope so she talkin to my dad bout her trip talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:35:33 PM): oh ok talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:35:52 PM): are you in your room? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:35:56 PM): no fam room talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:35:59 PM): oh talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:36:21 PM): well i better not type anything bad willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:36:54 PM): lol i know how to mini :P talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:37:06 PM): good to know talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:37:16 PM): i have to make a call..will be right back.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:37:24 PM): okay come back soon :P talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:39:28 PM): k talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:40:15 PM): im back baby willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:40:20 PM): cool wb talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:40:27 PM): tyvm talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:40:42 PM): so where could we meet? (Oh hi, that's called intent to meet) willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:40:46 PM): prob here talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:41:03 PM): but not at your house.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:41:12 PM): why not? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:41:32 PM): what about your mom willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:41:42 PM): she leave to go see dadin socal talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:41:48 PM): when? (And he lays the groundwork to make sure nobody is around) willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:42:02 PM): tomorrow talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:42:30 PM): and you will be home alone? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:42:35 PM): yeah talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:42:43 PM): wow..for how long? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:42:52 PM): till mon talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:42:58 PM): wow talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:43:06 PM): nobody else? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:43:18 PM): welllllll willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:43:26 PM): mr sleepy boots and furryface will be here lol talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:43:35 PM): your cats lol? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:43:44 PM): lol very good talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:43:50 PM): im smart too..lol (Boy oh boy, you sure figured that one out) willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:43:55 PM): yeah u are real smart :) talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:44:05 PM): youre sweet willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:44:09 PM): thank u talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:44:25 PM): well we should talk on the phone before i come over willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:44:45 PM): cool we can do that can u gimme ur number i call when she get away from house celly talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:45:47 PM): good..let me know when youre ready to call talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 5:45:51 PM): hey one sec..ok? willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:45:56 PM): cool gimme ur number so i can call when i can willowfilipino (08/24/06 5:45:57 PM): sure talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:04:11 PM): hey im back willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:04:41 PM): heya heya talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:04:47 PM): kiss* willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:04:56 PM): aww kiss :-* talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:05:08 PM): phone again... talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:05:22 PM): srry willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:05:30 PM): lol ua busy guy talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:25:24 PM): back talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:25:30 PM): missed you willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:25:52 PM): wb i miss u too talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:26:03 PM): can you call do you think? willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:26:21 PM): i might i dont know were my mom and the celly are whats ur number? willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:26:28 PM): gimme ur number i go check talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:27:06 PM): you sure its ok to call..i dont want you to get into trouble willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:27:17 PM): i can call u sure no troubs i be sneaks talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:27:38 PM): i will give you when you know the phone is free willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:27:50 PM): if im gonna be sneaks i need to be prepare willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:28:05 PM): so gimme it and i sneaky call if i can if i can ti come back and tell u willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:28:10 PM): i cantg call from fam room anyway willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:28:15 PM): gotta sneak pone in my room talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:28:33 PM): just check if she is off..let me know willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:28:59 PM): if i check i gotta bring it in here and then take it past her to my room it look weird willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:29:13 PM): just be cool gimmeit i write it down put in pocke and then i go sneak phone lol talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:29:42 PM): 510-402-4023 willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:29:56 PM): k i write down and go check i either be back in a little or i call talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:30:01 PM): k talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:39:28 PM): call me back! (He didn't answer on first call) talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:39:34 PM): i just stepped away for a sec willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:39:58 PM): X-( talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:40:13 PM): i waited..and then stepped away to get some coffee. willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:40:14 PM): i gotta sneak back to my room one sec talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:40:19 PM): ok talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:45:12 PM): hi willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:46:48 PM): okay back yay talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:47:23 PM): yay..it was great hearing your voice talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:47:58 PM): so sexy willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:47:59 PM): thanks :) willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:48:05 PM): aww u think my voice is sexy? :P talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:48:09 PM): yes very willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:48:32 PM): thanks u sound tough :) talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:48:52 PM): thanks.. talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:48:59 PM): so when does your mom leave tomorrow? willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:49:17 PM): pretty early i think i gotta check talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:49:28 PM): k..well let me know willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:49:37 PM): ill ask one sec talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:50:38 PM): ok willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:56:08 PM): she leave like 12:30 pm tomorro talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:56:20 PM): so youre free in the afternoon willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:56:24 PM): sorry mr sleepy my cat wanted pets willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:56:31 PM): sure just gota pick a time lol talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:56:34 PM): lol ok willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:57:20 PM): so u really wanna come? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:57:55 PM): where are you? willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:58:13 PM): petaluma u ever been here? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:58:29 PM): yeah i know it.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:58:34 PM): cool talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:58:51 PM): how will i find it? willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:58:58 PM): u wanna just map my addy? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:59:22 PM): yeah thats the easiest willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:59:43 PM): cool lemme make sure i got the zip right cause it confus me sometimes willowfilipino (08/24/06 6:59:47 PM): okay talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 6:59:54 PM): sure willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:00:00 PM): *address removed* map and tell me what time u wanna come im soe xcited talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:00:23 PM): not sure yet..will you have a phone..? willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:00:40 PM): i think my mom might take it with her its the house celly but hers so i dunno willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:00:45 PM): u not sure? :( talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:00:53 PM): not sure what time willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:00:57 PM): why not? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:01:02 PM): i have to work in the morning.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:01:12 PM): what time u get off? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:01:39 PM): i am going to be in palo alto at noon..so sometime after that willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:01:52 PM): is the number u gave me a celly cause if she leave it i just call at noon? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:02:02 PM): yeah thats fine.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:03:01 PM): cool talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:03:02 PM): so we just hang out at your house..? willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:03:09 PM): sure like w talked about talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:03:22 PM): willow i would like to..but i could get into trouble. (Here is where he realizes that he is committing a crime) willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:03:38 PM): lol u a faker i knew u werent for real willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:03:42 PM): :( talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:04:06 PM): no i am real..but youre under 18 and Im over..we would have to be soooo careful (Oh, so you still want to do it, you just are a bit worried) willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:04:21 PM): i will be i already am u see how i sneak good lol talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:04:30 PM): yes..and i like you alot willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:04:35 PM): then cool no probs talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:04:42 PM): what about your neighbors? willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:05:18 PM): its not weird that peeps come here we gotta big hous i just have u park on street and come into garage itll look like u here for my mom she got biz peeps over all the time willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:05:38 PM): plus u gotta nice car so u will look like a biz peep and we dont talk to them that much anyway talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:05:59 PM): ok that sounds good..i should just ring the bell? willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:06:19 PM): nah thatll look werd just com in the garage ill leave it open that way u aint all out there that long cool? (As those of you who saw the video know, that garage would become memorable for him) talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:06:32 PM): cool.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:06:51 PM): i just gotta know what time so i can look for u so i call u if i can i guess if u cant pick a time now talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:07:12 PM): it will be like 2 or 3 willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:07:22 PM): cool that makes it easy talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:07:44 PM): will all the cars be gone willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:08:08 PM): im not sure if she takin her car or not she might get a rid there or a cab talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:08:22 PM): so how will i know that she is gone.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:08:50 PM): she will be she gotta flight willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:09:04 PM): if the garage is open she gone and ill leave it open talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:09:08 PM): ok willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:09:15 PM): but she will be its a flight lol talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:09:53 PM): ok good willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:10:07 PM): so all good cool? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:10:53 PM): yeah..i will send you a message when i am leaving for your place willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:11:01 PM): cool that a good idea talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:11:21 PM): yeah..even if youre not online you will get it baby willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:11:30 PM): lol that sounds good to me talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:11:35 PM): :* willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:11:49 PM): aww kissyface (The emoticon in Yahoo is that of an animated kiss) talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:12:20 PM): do you like to french? willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:12:24 PM): lol yeah talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:12:42 PM): deep tongues? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:12:46 PM): good willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:12:54 PM): lol yeah talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:13:11 PM): tomorrow willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:13:37 PM): nice :) talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:13:47 PM): anything you want to ask me willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:13:58 PM): sure what u like best bout me? talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:14:11 PM): your long hair..your smile..your body your voice willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:14:18 PM): nice u like it all then :) talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:14:25 PM): i do willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:14:35 PM): nice talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:14:39 PM): yeah talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:15:24 PM): your body looks pretty hot too.. (The pictures I used on this profile were of an actual minor) willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:15:36 PM): thanks i think it pretty good i got nice leg talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:16:00 PM): love that.. willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:16:16 PM): thanks talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:16:26 PM): what bra size do you wear? willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:16:40 PM): 30 b but it kinda big on me right now i still growin talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:16:47 PM): nice.. talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:16:53 PM): i will kiss them willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:17:06 PM): that sounds good talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:17:17 PM): yeah willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:18:03 PM): your so nice talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:19:05 PM): so are you want to kiss you and hold you willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:19:13 PM): yes that would be nice willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:19:20 PM): all th stuff we talk about would be nice talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:19:38 PM): yeah i agree willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:20:00 PM): cool we agree :) talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:20:18 PM): what do you want to do to me willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:20:32 PM): everything we talk about i wanna feel good talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:21:29 PM): cool willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:22:14 PM): yay im so excited i thogu tomorrow would be borin talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:25:06 PM): k well i have to go baby..chat later? willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:25:11 PM): sur etalk to u later talldreamy_doc (08/24/06 7:25:17 PM): kiss** willowfilipino (08/24/06 7:25:23 PM): :-* willowfilipino (08/24/06 9:02:27 PM): heya u back? willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:14:54 AM): heya u back?
August 25th, 2006
talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:15:07 AM): hi baby talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:15:08 AM): how are you willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:15:12 AM): im good u? talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:15:23 AM): fine..kisses for you willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:15:34 AM): thanks talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:15:57 AM): what are you up to tonight willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:16:07 AM): just chillin playin my ds talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:16:24 AM): ds? willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:16:34 AM): nintendo ds talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:16:52 AM): lol ok talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:16:57 AM): are you in bed willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:17:10 AM): nah fam room willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:17:44 AM): what u doin? talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:18:04 AM): nothing much.. willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:18:10 AM): cool talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:18:12 AM): yeah willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:18:27 AM): im excited talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:18:37 AM): yeah? me too willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:18:42 AM): yeah :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:18:43 AM): what will you wear? willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:19:06 AM): i dont know yet whatevers clean lol talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:19:35 AM): something sexy? willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:19:49 AM): i dont got nothin good good but i can wear a tank top i guess talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:20:14 AM): will you take it off for me willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:20:19 AM): sure talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:20:54 AM): good willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:21:06 AM): yeah that easy talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:21:10 AM): lol talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:21:17 AM): and your pants too willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:21:29 AM): lol yah if u ask me to i will talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:21:37 AM): i want you too willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:21:43 AM): cool talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:21:49 AM): you can take mine off if you want willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:22:16 AM): okay i will then talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:22:29 AM): good willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:22:43 AM): no prob talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:25:03 AM): so how do want to do it? willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:25:23 AM): i dunno i only did reg willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:25:26 AM): so however is good i guess talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:25:53 AM): i want to first lick you down there willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:26:05 AM): nice i aint had that and i thik i would like it talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:26:15 AM): do you ever get wet willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:26:37 AM): yea in person sure talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:27:34 AM): cool.. talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:27:48 AM): cant wait for you to get wet for me willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:27:55 AM): lol not too long now talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:28:04 AM): no willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:28:56 AM): u excited i am :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:29:02 AM): yes willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:29:21 AM): cool :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:34:50 AM): you can also do things to me (He brings up everything, and suggests everything. Welcome to clean chat-log 101) willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:34:57 AM): i will :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:35:46 AM): good willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:36:28 AM): not long now im happy talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:36:39 AM): youre sweet willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:36:53 AM): u are too talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:37:00 AM): kiss willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:37:09 AM): :-* talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:38:03 AM): mmmmm willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:38:09 AM): :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:38:21 AM): you turn me on willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:38:55 AM): im glad :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:40:38 AM): do i turn you on? willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:40:46 AM): yes but right now just words tomorrow for real :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:40:55 AM): yes willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:41:14 AM): yep talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:46:38 AM): kiss*** willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:47:01 AM): huh? talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:47:13 AM): kissing you willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:47:22 AM): lol it had star things willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:47:31 AM): thatll be nice tomorrow talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:47:46 AM): lol talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:50:55 AM): willow..i really want to see you willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:51:02 AM): good i wnana see u too willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:51:08 AM): we gonna have fun talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:51:10 AM): im kinda nervous lol (You can tell that Mr. Wolin knows that he can be arrested for what he's doing, yet he still does it.) willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:51:29 AM): why you cool i cool we cool willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:52:47 AM): u okay? talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:53:05 AM): yeah..your just so young..i mean you are very smart and mature.. willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:53:21 AM): age is just age talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:53:39 AM): i agree..its just i can get into big trouble, willow willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:53:53 AM): i know that why i so careful i could get in troubs too willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:54:03 AM): but i like u so much u so awesome so that why i make sure we dont talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:54:16 AM): thats great.. willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:54:25 AM): cool? willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:54:43 AM): just dont be a faker pleas and stand me up :( talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:54:50 AM): i want to see you.. willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:55:15 AM): good i wanna see u talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:55:40 AM): and make you feel so good willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:55:47 AM): u will and i make u feel good too talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:56:05 AM): you will suck me? (If you read enough logs, you sometimes see a person with fear of being arrested go right into sexual questions. When that happens, the person is weighing risk of arrest vs. perverse reward. Now get ready for twenty something minutes of Wolin fantasizing about having sex with what he thinks is a fourteen year old) willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:56:24 AM): sure if u nice to me talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:56:49 AM): i will be honey willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:57:13 AM): then i will be too talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:57:20 AM): mmm i want you taste me willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:57:25 AM): :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:57:31 AM): all of me willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:57:52 AM): i will if u nice to me it be fun talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:58:13 AM): babe..i will be very nice to you willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:58:21 AM): awesome talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:58:34 AM): make you cum over and over willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:58:45 AM): lol big promises :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:58:56 AM): when i suck and lick you, you will willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:59:01 AM): :) willowfilipino (08/25/06 12:59:05 AM): i wanna :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 12:59:42 AM): you will be so wettt willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:00:04 AM): lol i hope so im glad u not lazy talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:00:08 AM): im not talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:00:16 AM): i wish you were wet now willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:00:38 AM): i aint checked but words are words real is real talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:00:45 AM): it will be real willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:00:49 AM): awesome talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:01:01 AM): yeah talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:01:47 AM): i love your pics willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:01:56 AM): im glad u do that means u like me talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:02:13 AM): i like you alot willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:02:36 AM): me too i like u tons talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:02:42 AM): mmm you od talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:02:43 AM): do talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:02:50 AM): hugggs baby willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:03:22 AM): :) willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:03:26 AM): hugs for u too talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:03:38 AM): feel you tightly against me willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:04:07 AM): you will :) talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:05:21 AM): great talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:05:32 AM): brb babe willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:05:38 AM): okay talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:12:49 AM): hey willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:12:59 AM): heya talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:13:10 AM): so wheres your mom tonight willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:13:26 AM): she in the other room still talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:14:07 AM): wish we could be alone tonight..want to see you willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:14:25 AM): i know tonight would rule but tomorrow is only a day away lol talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:15:28 AM): i know cantwait willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:15:35 AM): awesome talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:15:54 AM): im horny for you willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:16:01 AM): im glad its for me talldreamy_doc (08/25/06 1:16:37 AM): all for you baby willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:16:42 AM): that makes me happy willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:21:55 AM): what ud oin? willowfilipino (08/25/06 1:35:26 AM): okay night night ill see u tomorrow :x
Somewhere between "make you cum over and over" and sleeping, waking up, going to work and being alone, Wolin decided not to come over that day, likely due to a fear of being arrested. So as part of usual practice, I sent him an offline message when he did not arrive.
willowfilipino (08/25/06 5:41:21 PM): u stood me up :(
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2024.03.17 17:21 collector_card_city Echoes of a Life and the Future

Nineteen ninety-five, the Spice Girls did sing, Furbies went fuzzy, a Tamagotchi swung. Dial-up whirred, the internet new, A pixelated world, in shades of blue. Nineteen ninety-six, Pokemon took hold, Charizard battled, a story untold. Britpop's brash anthems, a Union Jack dress, Blur's Parklife chimed, Brittania's excess. Nineteen ninety-seven, Princess Diana's goodbye, A nation in mourning, beneath a tearful sky. Tony Blair's smile, a New Labour dawn, The promise of progress, a future reborn. Nineteen ninety-eight, The Spice Girls went their way, But teen dreams lived on, in the pop music sway. Mobile phones bloomed, a brick in the hand. Texting's first steps, across the land. Nineteen ninety-nine, the Y2K scare, A digital phantom, hanging in the air. The euro arrived, a new currency's gleam, The world spun onward, it seemed like a dream. Two thousand, the dawn of a century new, Blackberry's first click, a message flew. Big Brother's gaze, a reality show's test, Society's reflection, put to the test. Two thousand and one, 9/11's cruel sting, The Twin Towers fell, a terrible thing Fear gripped the world, a new landscape arose, Threats unseen, casting long shadows. Two thousand and two, the Queen's Golden Jubilee, A nation united, for all to see. World Cup fever, Beckham's bending free kick, England's near triumph, a bittersweet trick. Two thousand and three, the Iraq War's start, Protests and anger, tearing worlds apart. Texting went wild, with thumbs a-blur, Emoticons blossomed, a digital stir. Two thousand and four, the Boxing Day tsunami's roar, A wave of destruction, on distant shores. Facebook launched, a social media climb, Connecting the world, one post at a time. Two thousand and five, the London Bombings' pain, Innocence shattered, in the rushing rain. Tube lines silent, a city in shock, But resilience bloomed, from the very rock. Two thousand and six, the World Cup we saw, England's "It's Coming Home" anthem did roar. Wagatha Christie's scandal, tabloid delight, Celebrity culture, bathed in harsh light. Two thousand and seven, the iPhone's bright gleam, A touchscreen revolution, a digital dream. Harry Potter's magic, the final book's call, A generation's childhood, answered once and for all. Two thousand and eight, the financial crash, Banks in turmoil, a future unclear, a dash. For safety and comfort, in a world turned strange, The credit crunch tightened, a worrying range. Two thousand and nine, Obama's first term, Hope and inspiration, a world to reform. Twitter's chirps joined the social media fray, Information cascaded, throughout the day. Two thousand and ten, the Icelandic ash cloud, Flights grounded, a travel nightmare, a shroud Of volcanic dust, disrupting the flow, A reminder of nature's unpredictable show. Two thousand and eleven, Osama Bin Laden's demise, Justice delivered, with tears in some eyes. Royal wedding fever, for William and Kate, A fairytale romance, to celebrate. Two thousand and twelve, the London Olympics' flame, Usain Bolt's lightning, a world-beating game. Mo Farah's double win, a nation's delight, Golden memories, shining ever so bright. Two thousand and thirteen, Boston Marathon's blast, Innocence shattered, far too fast. Ed Sheeran's melodies, a voice that soared, Music's embrace, when the world seemed ignored. Two thousand and fourteen, the Scottish independence vote, A nation divided, by a single note. The ALS Ice Bucket Challenge, a viral trend, Raising awareness, for a cause to transcend. Two thousand and fifteen, same-sex marriage legalised, Love's victory echoed, hearts equalised. Paris attacks struck, a night of despair, The world in mourning, a burden to share. Two thousand and sixteen, Brexit's divisive vote, Leaving the union, setting a course afloat. Trump's shocking win, a political quake, The ground shifted, a future to make. Two thousand seventeen, Grenfell Tower's plight, A fire's fury, through the silent night. Seventy-two souls lost, a tragedy untold, A nation in grief, for the young and the old. Two thousand eighteen, the World Cup win for France, Mbappé's youthful brilliance, a winning chance. MeToo's reckoning, voices arose, A call for equality, to shatter old woes. Two thousand and nineteen, the Notre Dame blaze, A Parisian landmark, lost in a daze. Greta Thunberg's message, a climate change plea, School strike Fridays, for a world to see. Two thousand and twenty, a year unlike any, Covid's cruel hand, touched almost every penny. Lockdowns and isolation, a world on hold, The fight for survival, a story untold. Two thousand and twenty-one, vaccines emerged, A glimmer of hope, a future surged. The Tokyo Olympics, a muted scene, Pandemic's shadow, on a global screen. Two thousand and twenty-two, war in Ukraine's heart, A conflict's eruption, tearing worlds apart. Cost of living crisis, a squeeze on the purse, Uncertain futures, a growing disperse. Two thousand and twenty-three, the Queen's final sigh, A nation in mourning, beneath a tearful sky. Seventy years' reign, a legacy grand, A new chapter dawns, for a changing land. Two thousand and twenty-four, the world keeps its pace, With triumphs and troubles, in this human race. But through it all, a spirit endures, A flicker of hope, for dreams to secure.
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2024.02.19 13:46 mujikcom Reality Check

Not a VN but long time here. Young woman I had helped a lot with her fledgling business (not romantic, her English is good and I have ran businesses for years). Anyway, she invites me to her small Tet dinner. I had other offers but yeah, why not, she is good company. Or was.
3 hrs before the dinner, I text and ask her if I should bring something. She replies that she has to look after the neighbor's kids and cancels the dinner. I took this as the VN equivalent of "I have to wash my hair". Like I say, there was no romance involved and kids? I thought that was what Tet was all about.
note: I know the kids and their mother.
My Condel owners took pity on me and invited me to their dinner and went with another friend to see the fireworks after. However, I was a little more than pissed at the girl standing me up on one of the.most important days of the calendar.
I ghosted her and she seemed puzzled at why?
Question is: was I right to be pissed and cease supporting her business?
edit: "Ghosted" is perhaps too harsh a word. I did talk to her about it, after getting over the initial shock (please understand, I have been here long enough to know Tet has a lot of social and mystical meanings in VN). She seemed in complete denial. Then a couple of days later, she did a very similar thing. It was then I stopped any assistance or extended chats. I reply to chats with Xin Chau, "Thank you so much" or an emoticon. In this smartphone/Zalo driven society, I call that ghosting.
As to the comments about repressed sexual relationship needs, I am perhaps weird but prefer relationships/sex with women who are older than my daughter. Go figure
btw: This is a forum for Vietnam? Some respondents have answered with the situational awareness of Vietnam culture, which I appreciate. Perhaps I should have labelled the post "reality check" to give the idea I was just asking if this is considered normal behavior in VN. If it happened in my culture, it would send a very strong signal that would not need any great analysis.
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2024.02.06 18:13 Narrow-Slide-517 BFF's husband had a fling/affair with a coworker

I'm really dumbfounded and really need some perspective on this. I promised her I will not get involved but she's ok with me asking for some sort of advice here. She's never been on Reddit also not a fan of social networks. My best friend/a sister I never had, Irene (35) and her husband Mike (36) have been together for nearly 10 years and been married for 8 years now and have two gorgeous kids (7m and 4f). She recently found out that he was having an affair with his coworker (43f). In the past month or so, she had noticed that he's been spending more time on his phone, but since he works in transportation industry it wasn't that suspicious. What actually made her suspicious were his facial expressions while he was on the phone. She never snooped on or checked his phone. A couple of days before she found out, she was doing something around the house while Mike was relaxing on the couch, with phone in his hands, of course. She was passing by and jokingly asked: "Who's been annoying you with texts all day? It's Sunday for fks sake!" He responded "Oh it's just Dan! We're discussing who's gonna win Super Bowl this year". And he turned the phone screen down immediately, but before that, she was able to see some hearts and flowers emoticons. She decides not to make a fuss about it, but decides to wait and observe. Fast forward to (last) Friday, he's working late afternoon-evening shift. She called me that evening and told me that she's been nervous entire afternoon. I advised her to speak with him next day and tell him about her suspicions and promised to go with her to the therapist on Monday, told her to calm down and go to bed and to stop tormenting herself. First time she woke up was around 2am, he hasn't come home. She goes back to sleep again and wakes up some time around 4am. He's still not there and she decides to wait for him. 30 min later she hears an unknown car in front of the house. He's coming in all disheveled his sweater wrinkled and barely notices her. She sat there confused and unable to mutter a single word. He says "hi" gives her a peck on the cheek and goes to bed. She called me at 5.30am, that same morning to tell me everything, she was sobbing and choking in tears. It took me about an hour to calm her down, she then told me she'll wait for him to get some sleep and will try to get herself together for the kids since she doesn't want them to see her broken and would take them to her mom's house, since she doesn't want them to be there when the conversation between them happens. I said ok, good and told her to call me when she gets back, which she did. Also, I offered to break his legs since he broke her heart and wanted to go to her house and be there for her and with her, but she said no and she needs to do this on her own. While we were on the call, his phone rang. She told me she needs to answer since it's Mike's boss. Five minutes later she calls me back and says that he left his WhatsApp open and when she finished the conversation with Mike's boss she saw the messages between him and his coworker. She took pictures of their chat with her phone to have as an evidence. Fast forward, they talk, she confronts him with everything and he confessed. His excuse was that he and his coworker were involved for nearly two months and that they've been only flirting and texting but never had sex and that the last night it was about to happen but he couldn't get his thingy up because he was feeling guilty and was thinking about her, my friend, all the time, so they only "made out for some time" in her car. When she asked him why he did this, his "justification" was that "they bonded over shared frustrations at work, and she "approached him as a friend since she's been having a rough patch in her marriage and needed a friend and some attention". In my opinion both Mike and that poor excuse of a human being are toxic and narcissists. He called her and ended things with her in front of Irene and had put her on the speaker. She didn't know that Irene was listening and suggested to Mike to "tell Irene that they were done but to continue with their affair". He said no and wanted to end the conversation but she threatened to report him to their HR if he doesn't abide and will acuse him of sexual harassment in the workplace. Again, he denies and tells her that he has their texts plus tells her that his phone is recoring their conversation. In fact Irene was recording it with her phone, but still... He's asked Irene for a second chance but she told him that she needs time to think, but for this time being they won't tell their parents anything about what's going on, not to mention the he kids. She hasn't spoken to him since Saturday, and she'd spent entire Sunday at my place and we spoke all day. She's blaming herself how could she let this happen but she isn't to blame for anything. Irene has been devoted wife and mother this entire time, she's adored by his family and friends, she's an amazing person and literally an angel who did not deserve this. I took her to the therapist yesterday and he suggested a couples therapy. Irene is torn between leaving him or staying with him to try and patch thing up because of their kids and their love. Honestly, they were one of the most stable couples I know and if someone had asked me whose husband would cheat first, I'd say mine not hers. On that note, my husband saw how furious I was with everything that happened to Irene and is a bit scared of me right now. I know that violence is never an answer and I've never on my life hurt anyone on purpose, but I really, really, REALY had the urge to go over to Irene's house and literally break every single bone in his body (I've trained aikido and kickboxing when I was a teenager, btw). I don't want my best friend and her kids to suffer because her husband is a moron. The reason she's thinking about giving him a second chance is actually because of her father in law who is terminally ill and is very attached to her because she's the daughter he always wanted and it would break his heart and would make his condition even worse. If anything would happen to him, she would never forgive herself.
About couple's therapy, she mentioned it to Mike last night, they have yet to decide how and when due to the nature of their jobs.
Also, Mike told Irene that his coworker is leaving the company because her husband is being suspicious about her fooling around, because apparently this type of things (affairs in the workplace) happened before. She went to HR first thing on Monday morning and is due to stay there until mid February. Mike will take some time off work to try to attone himsef. In any case, Irene has me for everything and anything, but she's still indecisive on what to do. She definitely needs some time away from him but she'd hate to upset the kids and their families.
Edit: typo. Edit 2: Irene is fully aware of what I've posted here, completely approved by her, and she'll be updated on every single comment here.
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2024.01.14 00:58 Gergenhimer Sanity Check

Posted this originally on narcissisticabuse, but I kind of want to post it here, too.
tw: Infidelity, Triangulation, Gaslighting
Okay, I just want to verify that the things my ex spouse did were unacceptable and abusive. They said nothing they did qualified as abuse, and I just want the perspective of other people who have dealt with similar stuff. I think they were intensely psychologically abusive but I don't trust myself anymore.
  1. They cheated on me basically out in the open and gaslit me saying that I was just anxious and paranoid that they were "making a new friend" who they took the train an hour to see 2-3 times a week for the last 2 weeks of our marriage.
  2. I had a cancer scare with emergency scans and everything, and that day my ex went to go see their lover and didn't offer to come home when things got scary
  3. They invited their sister and 2 strangers (to me, anyway) to live in our 3 bedroom 2 bathroom house. I was told the strangers would need to be there for a week, and two months later my ex had me shopping for beds with them at Ikea. I kept begging my ex to ask them to leave and they just kept saying how much happier they were with them around. One of the strangers actively and openly hated me.
  4. Then, while there were 3 extra people in our house, they kept complaining that I wasn't romantic or sexy anymore (I wasn't because I was uncomfortable). Scheduling time for everyone else to be out of the house didn't work because my ex always wanted to go with them to whatever instead of spending time with me.
  5. My ex didn't respect even the most simple of boundaries. I told them I was uncomfortable with having our roommates lie down on our bed, but then they'd stay in bed all day and have the others come in and lie down to talk to them like a king on their throne.
  6. They refused to do anything concrete to fix the relationship and they discarded me out of the blue and told me everything was my fault and it had nothing to do with their "new friend" (who they moved in with later that day)
  7. They had their lover take over texting me while they were collecting their stuff, and they proceeded to gloat about how much sex they were having
  8. They put fucking smiley emoticons in divorce emails ^_^
  9. The only thing they've apologized for is for "things getting messy at the end." We were married for three years and together for six. I think I deserve more than that.
All of this took place over 3-4 months, climaxing in early November. There were other things, sooner, but they seem like peanuts compared to this stuff. My ex thinks all of this was justified because I was, at worst, insufficient in their eyes. They had to pivot to claiming I was abusive because the cognitive dissonance was too great, I guess. They don't work, dropped out of college, and think they're the smartest and cleverest person in the world. They're mooching off their lover, now, and all signs point to them being completely happy.
Is this all buck wild? Like, I feel like I'm going crazy trying to recover from all of this. Is it even possible for a human to get over something this catastrophic? I feel like they've done everything to make this as painful a divorce as possible. I know I'm supposed to get better, but like, how??? Everyone I know expects me to be improving and I feel like I'm more depressed than ever about it all. At least I'm not suicidal anymore.
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2024.01.02 05:06 Forsaken-Sprinkles-3 TL;DR - Dealing with a compulsive liar (M28) for about 2 years.

Ahhhh, I've been DYING to make this post. Okay, so this drama (or horrible theatrical mess) started around June 2021 (I think, I’m not sure, but according to my photos (and screenshots) that's the date I got.) Some background info: I (f24) was talking to this (sorry excuse) dude (m28). The total length on the 'relationship' is about 2 years. I was freshly out of college and he was living with his dad. Apparently, something was going on, family drama, and I was being understanding. Then he tells me that he got out of a relationship (supposedly long and that his ex was crazy. Once I heard that that raised a flag in my cerebrum. Kinda like how in Metal Gear Solid, the “!” goes off and all. Cause I know females don’t lose their shit that easily unless there is a reason). I went along with it. Oof, that was something. During the entire stay at his dad’s house. The vibes were definitely off. He would keep asking me to go to the dispensary (medical user here) and get multiple pens. After a while, I told him “If you just want that, then we can keep this casual. Cause it feels like you’re using me.” (mind you, I found out I was on the spectrum around this time so I was dealing with that and studying myself). He kept saying stuff like, “Oh no is not like that, I just have a lot on my plate. Dealing with my btchass dad (That was his favorite phrase to call his dad) and working and, blah blah blah…” I straight up told him “Bruh you sound indecisive asf. You sure you’re not a fish cause you to flip and flop back to back”. Then this keeps going for a while. It was mainly sex. No dates, no gifts, or anything. Then the holidays came around and I decided to gift him some stuff cause that’s the person I am. I’m pretty generous. That’s something that I learned from those close to me. Give what you can, even if it's a little bit. I gave him (I’ll just do a total of everything to this point cause it would be difficult to place in a timeline). A set of socks, tank tops, facemasks (game grumps), a Coca-Cola gift set (fallout reference), a nice navy blue sweater, a smoking pen, a video game, a small back bear, multiple handwritten notes and note cards (those aren’t cheap to ship through the mail), snacks here and there, and I think among some other things. Again, I’m pretty giving even if I’m not dating the person. I have friends and family who do the same thing. After chilling and talking, he was getting quite attached and wanted more. I said, sure but I just got out of a four-year relationship so it’s going to be some time before I can actually trust you. He was okay with it and I thought everything was fine. Fast forward to New Year, of 2021, I wanted to go out and celebrate. At least look at the fireworks that you can see from the pier. He started a big ol’ fight. He was dragging me around downtown and making a big scene. I was calm, trying to understand what was going on. Then he came with ultimatums and demands. And that's when another “!” came around. I thought to myself, “Oh hell nah. I know we aren’t official but what's your problem. You said you were fine with this and now you’re throwing a big tantrum”. At the end of that night, I went with him cause it was dark and there was no other way for me to go back to my place. And I think around that time he gave me covid. (he gave me covid, std, mono, horrible vaginal infection in total. Besides the trauma.) Fast forward to winter and spring (It's a bit hard to remember because my mind kinda deleted and blocked a lot of it cause it was quite stressful, and horrible.) During those times I found evidence of other females being there. Some of those things include, a shit stain across the white bed sheet, used condoms (I like to clean after myself so I know it wasn’t me), my bottle of oil used and emptied, and different hairs. Of course, I brought this up. He denied it and then said, “Oh we aren’t official”. But he would get mad when I would download a dating app? Yet, I would see multiple girls on his phone, and yeah I asked, and again he made excuses. So, I did what I thought was fair. If he did it, so can I. He didn’t like that at all Lol. He would bring something up and my response would be “Okay, but you’re doing it. If you’re doing it, then I can do it. Otherwise we have no reason to be talking to one another”. It wasn’t until the summer of 2022 that it raised another “!”. (so far, we are at !!!) We were at the beach and were there chilling till night (I think it was close to July 4). I’m just there chilling and lying down. Then I suddenly got the urge to get up because I FELT something was coming towards us. In the distance, I see who it is. ITS ONE OF THE GIRLS ON HIS PHONE). I don't have a thing against females (I’m bi so), but I was not planning on fucking him with another female. So he can disappoint two females at once? And he still mentions it to this day, "I missed out on a threesome for you". He doesn’t even last with me. Once I saw her, he immediately turned to me with widened eyes. I just look at him like “What? I have been knowing you ain't shit. You want me to leave you with her? I’ve been with better.” That was the end of that. At that point, I figured “Why not play him the same way, but with better people lol”. And I did that, the only difference was that I wasn’t flirting at all. I was actually being nice and friendly. AND THAT WORKED. To the point where he was jealous of every dude (male) I spoke to. He got defensive from his dad, from his group of boys (it was a small group of guys friends that he introduced me to), of his ride and die boy (I just asked a question and two towards his friend (this was during Christmas too) and he quickly walked and stood between us). And then I finally asked him, “What’s wrong? You wanted me to mingle, so I’m doing just that. I should mention that around October (three days before Halloween) he got me arrested in my own house. After he destroyed my things and placed his hands on me (I of course defended myself) and I got arrested. That event marked a death sentence on this man (sorry excuse of a man anyway). Until this point, he’s been chasing the fuck out of me. Still doing fucked up things. Fast forward to New Year's, he was actually calm and okay with it. I wasn’t. I was completely over it. In my head, I was “Bruhhhhh you really ain't shit, and you’re still with me. I have told you to leave me alone and nothing. Wtf is wrong with you”. But I went along with it. Then we’re at the Winter and Spring of 2023. At this point, I had evidence of him sexting, texting, lying, (even his brother thinks he’s a piece of shit, his sister-in-law, his dad.) naked pictures, false skills (he’s trying to be a DJ… it's a failure). I think it was towards the end of spring or the beginning of Summer I sent him all of it with a smiling emoticon. (He even stole my electronics and broke most of them, along with my glasses, phone, multiple IDs, and such.) Once I told/showed them this, I said “So… what your excuse this time?” And he sent me multiple texts. Half of it is him crying and begging. The other half is calling me a sIut and other bad names. “Used up” (yeah sure that's why it does a popping sound down south, ugh the garbage is trying to be insulting). A lot of random and toxic shit. At this point all emotions are dead. Even my kitty became completely numb towards him. I have never been drier in my life. It’s like talking to a stranger that you know there’s no chemistry, but feel bad for it like a sick dog that nobody wants. (no really tho, I saw him trying to reach his exes and they legit said “I don't want you Riko lol I’m good. I don't like you” Ouch). At that point, it's been him chasing me while acting like he’s loyal. The next thing I know, hes ‘dating’ this ‘nurse’ (which I saw a while ago on his phone, but just didn’t see anything) and saying how shes better. My response was “Okay, then why do you keep texting me? Oh, and thanks again for giving ANOTHER stranger female my phone number. If they’re so great, if all of them are so great then why do you keep coming back to me? Why do you keep using fake numbers, back to back, even texting my mother, to get in contact with me?” Now to Winter, he tried getting me arrested for Halloween, again and tried getting me arrested for New Year's. With false accusations, and lying to the police. One of the reasons why I kept in touch was for the hope of getting my 5k that he owes me in damaged stuff (I need new glasses and tech, I do computer and video game work). Oh, I should mention, that even his ‘mom’ knows that he’s a piece of shit at this point. Pretty much everyone he was close to. I was maybe thinking of telling his friends too, to leave him friendless. Pretty much completely alone without anyone in his life. He has been violent mentally, physically, verbally. Stalked and harassed me in my home, place of work, and when I was even just out with my friends. My family thinks it's a joke, they keep letting him in the house while forgetting that he got me arrested and has placed his hands on me. I have very little support for this issue. If there was a way I would attach all, and I mean all of the screenshots, it still wouldn't be enough space to showcase that he’s the biggest piece of shit in the world (Or at least up there on the list). I know I'm young and I will be fine, but I just want to direction or something that could aid me in this. I have never, and I say never been through this in my life. Probably makes sense why I keep having random crying spells here and there. TL;DR: The narrator shares a tumultuous relationship story that began in June 2021 with a guy who had family drama and recently ended a supposedly long relationship. Despite red flags and a lack of emotional commitment, the narrator generously gave gifts during the holidays. The relationship turned toxic, with the guy exhibiting indecisiveness and causing scenes. The narrator discovered evidence of him being involved with other women. After a confrontation at the beach, the narrator decided to play the same game, making him jealous without flirting. The relationship became abusive, leading to the narrator's arrest and ongoing harassment. The guy continues to contact the narrator despite dating someone else. The narrator contemplates exposing his behavior to friends and family. The relationship involves physical, verbal, and mental abuse, with little support from the narrator's family. The narrator is owed money for damaged belongings and faces ongoing harassment, emphasizing the guy's troubling behavior.
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2023.12.29 09:27 anxiRO Relatie complicata - terminata ?!

Sunt multe de zis, nici nu stiu ce sa mentionez si ce nu – incerc sa fac o selectie, nu e cu TLDR. Cine nu vrea sa citeasca atat de mult, sa nu se aventureze.
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Eu: barbat, 30+ ani, tatal decedat cand eram copil. Am avut o “relatie” cu o fata online incepand cu varsta de 14 ani, a durat vreo 2-3 ani, nu ne-am intalnit niciodata. De atunci pana la 30 de ani n-am avut nicio relatie, avand si ceva anxietate sociala. M-am mai intalnit cu fete, dar nu a iesit nimic (eram si pretentios, dupa ce ne vedeam concluzionam ca nu-mi place suficient ori ea nu ma placea + anxietate cu fetele). Am plecat la facultate in alt oras si am ramas acolo in chrie ulterior, lucrand remote (IT).
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Ea: femeie, 30+ ani (cu ~ 2 ani mai mare decat mine). A avut o relatie de vreo 3 ani incepand de pe la 21 de ani cu un tip cu care era logodita si care a dat-o afara din casa in care stateau ei. Dupa ala a mai avut o relatie de vreo 7 – 8 ani cu un tip violent, care a batut-o / amenintat-o / obligat-o sa faca diverse (stiu doar ca idee, nu stiu clar detalii), a inselat-o, se vedeau rar si cate putin ca mereu era plecat cu serviciul (armata, luni de zile plecat). Acum vreo cativa ani a aflat ca are schizofrenie paranoida si de atunci s-a izolat de toti si toate, a renuntat inclusiv la job (nu mai facea fata) si s-a pensionat pe caz de boala, s-a intors sa locuiasca in orasul unde erau mai toate rudele ei (apartament cumparat de parintii ei pentru ea).
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Pe la inceput de 2022 am inceput o relatie cu ea, ne-am vazut la vreo saptamana si ceva dupa ce am inceput sa vorbim online. Eu eram nou in toate (inclusiv primul sarut l-am avut cu fata asta) si anxios in lucrurile in care nu aveam experienta (trebuia sa le repet de mai multe ori sa devin mai okey). Era din alt oras fata de cel in care eram eu. De la inceput a parut ca sunt destule lucruri care ne difera, dar eu am zis ca mergem asa inainte, imi placea si mult, m-a si acceptat cum eram cu anxietate si tot, la fel si eu am inteles-o cu boala ei (desi nu stiam prea clar despre ce e vorba, stiam ca ea nu e violenta si de-astea).
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Diverse mentiuni / conflicte din relatie:
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A fost foarte dificil cu ea la inceput ca reactiona urat la orice (si la mers la film), dar cu timpul a devenit mai okey si mai obisnuita cu diverse lucruri (plus ca eram super intelegator). Dar in acelasi timp era cumva o situatie calma cauzata si de faptul ca eu evitam multe subiecte de discutie in casa, frustrarile le tineam in mine (de exemplu ca faceam sex rar – in 19 zile cat am fost in vacanta am facut de 3 ori – eu as fi vrut zilnic sau ca nu vorbeam deloc de fantezii si dorinte si le tineam in mine – nici de la ea nu stiam mai nimic in directia asta, ca nu discutam chestii gen despre oras, de viitor, de plimbarit impreuna, daca era sa ma masturbez tinand cont ca faceam sex rar rar se supara pe mine ca cica sunt egoist si cumva trebuia sa ii ascund si asta – nu vrea sa participe sau sa o fac langa ea).
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Intr-un final ea era internata in spital sa testeze un tratament nou pentru ea (si trebuia sa stea vreo luna acolo). A fost foarte pasnica de cand incepuse ala pana intr-o zi cand eram excitati amandoi si ne scriam chestii cu subinteles. Si eu ii zic ca mi-ar placea sa „ii iubesc [emoticon pisicuta]” cu permisiunea ei. Initial zice cred ca nu, dar daca vrei tu atunci da, dar sa nu fie stanjenitor pentru mine (i-am zis ca n-are de ce sa fie), sa nu adun frustrari ca eu fac asta si ea nu (i-am zis ca nu cu jumatate de gura asa) – si cica sa nu luam boli (ii zic ca deja facem sex neprotejat, suntem atenti, ce sa luam? Ii zic ca am studiat si cu sex oral se iau mai putine boli decat cu sexul normal si ea ca nu ca stie ea mai bine, ca e femeie trecuta prin viata, ca iei mai multe boli cu sex oral, etc)... si apoi ii zic eu si tu daca vrei vreodata invers, e la alegerea ta, eu nu iti cer nimic, stii ca mi-as dori, faci ce vrei cu informatia asta (i-am mai zis asta si in trecut). De atunci a explodat. Ca nu, nu, ca numai curvele fac asta (dupa cum a mai zis in trecut), ca ne despartim daca mai insist. Tac din gura. Ma trezesc cu mesaj pe la 4 dimineata, intrebare daca am vorbit cu maica-mea. Zic ca nu. Aflu atunci ca ea ii scrisese lu’ maica-mea sa ii zica ca eu vreau asta si ca am avut conflicte de pe la inceput pe tema asta, o intreaba pe maica-mea de asta, daca pentru ea e normal (mama ii zice ca in viata ei nu i-a trecut prin cap asa ceva in relatia ei cu tata si ca ambii parteneri trebuie sa fie de acord pentru asa ceva), sa ma convinga ea pe mine ca nu e normal, sa nu mai vreau asta si de-astea. Si eu ii zic ca n-am 13 ani sa imi zica maica-mea ce sa gandesc, poate sa imi zica oricine orice, asta nu imi influenteaza mie gandurile, dorintele si fanteziile. Sunt destul de matur incat sa stiu singur ce sa vreau si ca nu-mi dispar asa fanteziile peste noapte ca le zic eu asta. De atunci a explodat iar, ca nu face ea logodna cu un netrebnic, ca ii e scarba de oameni ca mine si alte si alte jigniri. Peste vreo 3 zile ii scriu eu iar si zic o propunere (cred ca am zis asta dupa multe frustrari din urma stranse) ca propun sa ii fac eu sex oral de acum inainte, cand vreau, pe partea cealalta nu o sa mai mentionez absolut niciodata si renunt pe viata la asta pentru ea si ca vreau sa discutam de acum mai mult despre fantezii, dorinte, etc, fara jigniri si judecati. A raspuns iar ca s-a lamurit ca nu vrea cu astfel de om si punct, ca ea nu vrea sex oral (nici macar de la mine spre ea).
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Pe vreo 8 decembrie imi da unblock pe net (cica din respect pentru relatia serioasa pe care am avut-o) si ma intreaba la ce adresa sa trimita inelul de logodna, ca ea nu il vrea, nu mai inseamna nimic pentru ea. Ii dau adresa, ajunge ala in cateva zile, ii spun cand a ajuns. Mai schimbam vorbe vreo 2 zile, apoi ma trezesc ca imi da iar block.
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Azi, pe 29 ma trezesc iar cu unblock, pe la 4 dimineata, cu un mesaj in care ma acuza (iar) ca as fi inselat-o (nu s-a intamplat asa ceva, eu mereu eram cu ea, nici nu ar fi fost posibil) pentru ca nu avea de unde sa ia nu stiu ce cu transmitere sexuala (initial a zis herpes genital, acum zice ca cica ar fi altceva – nu stiu ce – am si facut analize prima data cand a zis si i-am aratat ca am iesit negativ si la ala si la alte chestii cu transmitere sexuala si ca sigur nu a luat de la mine si pare ca nici eu de la ea). Apoi imi zice ca de ce am facut eu asta, de ce i-am zis de-astea cu sex oral (cand era bine intre noi), ca ii e dor rau de tot de mine, ca ma iubeste, ca vrea sa ne impacam, sa vin la ea de revelion si nu stiu ce. Nu i-am zis nimic, nici seen nu i-am dat, dar de pe la 4 n-am mai dormit ca m-a trezit telefonul. Nici nu stiu ce sa mai zic.
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Pentru cine a avut timp de citit, cate din lucrurile de aici sunt „normale”? Mie personal nu mi se pare normal sa nu ai incredere in persoana pe care o iubesti si sa pui la indoiala ce zice (gen ca ma acuza de inselat desi am stat doar cu ea non-stop si i-am si zis asta de n ori – asta desi nu parea vreo fire geloasa in general, gen nu se uita in telefon la mine sau alte lucruri de genul asta), nu mi se pare normal sa nu respecti cand ti se zice ca anumite lucruri nu le vrei vorbite in afara relatiei (precum cele intime) – maxim sa imi ceara permisiunea inainte, cu atat mai mult sa iei decizii pentru mine de capul tau (sa ma internez in spital, vorbesti tu cu medicul inainte de a vorbi cu mine... sau cu rudele tale inainte de a ma intreba daca sunt okey cu asta; sau chiar cu propria mea mama si sora – lucruri pe care noi nu le-am vorbit niciodata si nu vad de ce le-am fi vorbit acum), nu mi se pare normal sa vrei sa te desparti si sa zici ca nu o respect doar pentru ca ii comunic niste ganduri (nu a fost obligata niciodata sa faca nimic, nici macar nu i-am cerut vreodata ceva... singura chestie e ca i-am mentionat ca eu i-as face aia, ma excita cumva ideea sa ii produc ei placere) – dupa mine putea raspunde frumos la asta, fara jigniri si altele, sa zica ca uite, nu fac asta si nici pe tine nu te las sa o faci, punct, ce alte chestii ti-ar placea sau ce as putea face in loc?, nu mi se pare normal sa jignesti omul cu care esti (chiar daca in 99% din cazuri in scris) si sa-l judeci, nu mi se pare normal sa-ti fie frica sa-i zici partenerului ce ai in gand, ce vise ai, etc, nu mi se pare normal sa decida ea tot eu sa nu pot zice mai nimic in afara de chestii minore (gen ce film vedem sau ce mancam). Cumva e posibil sa fi depasit si eu limita ei (am facut-o doar pentru ca era pe tratamentul ala nou si parea ultra pasnica, am zis ca putem discuta dar n-ai cu cine) dar in acelasi timp reactia ei la o relatie foarte serioasa (cum credeam ca e) mi se pare total exagerata, mai ales ca doar i-am zis ca mi-ar placea sa ii fac eu aia, atat, nimic altceva, si doar cu permisiunea ei; dar chiar si asa, nu e exagerata reactia ei?!; m-a tratat foarte autoritar de multe ori, cumva incercand sa „domine” desi eu sunt acelasi fel de om (doar ca am cedat si am lasat-o pe ea sa domine in mai tot), ea luand decizii gen gata acum plecam de aici (nu o data ea, o data eu) sau unde mergem sau ce facem, etc.
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2023.10.02 23:49 Ace_Attorney_on_ice 34 [M4F] Looking for a relationship (also not saying no to friendships). Central Europe, LDR ok

Let's give this another shot, shall we? :)
First, the basics:
Hi, I'm Chris, 34, living somewhere in Central Europe :) What can I say about me? I'm a post-doctoral researcher (aka a nerd), the proud owner servant of four fearsome felines, and interested in lots of nerdy/geeky things from movies to video games and collecting. Besides that, my hobbies include travelling, baking, and listening to music. I also either exercise or go for a run on a daily basis, but I wouldn't call that a hobby. More like self-inflicted torture :p
Personality-wise, I would describe myself as a good listener, a caring and supportive person with a peculiar sense of humour and tons of useless facts and stupid stories in my inventory that I like to drop on unsuspecting victims >:D And yes, I often use emoticons, which I do realise makes me decrepit in Internet time.
So, what am I looking for? Ideally, a woman between 25 and 35 who is kind, bubbly, smart, confident, upbeat, likes animals, and shares at least one common interest. Location-wise, Europe would of course be preferable, but LDR would be okay too. Also, I'm definitely open to friendships as well! If you contact me, be prepared for lots of cat pictures and stupid memes. Final warning.
If any of this sounds appealing to you, please get help don't hesitate to shoot me a message :D Thank you!
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2023.09.25 22:25 MayhemAbounds Struggling with thoughts about the AP.

I've never posted here before. In fact, I've never posted on Reddit before at all. I do comment a lot. I feel weird posting my story, especially since a huge chunk of my infidelity experience doesn't feel like fully my own story to tell and dates back to when I was very very young.
A small part of this I posted in a comment on someone else's post the other day. It came across right when I've been struggling to deal with what I'm detailing below.
When I discovered my husband's EA, I read through many messages, but in my head it wasn't about the AP at all, but my husband. He should have shut the entire thing down the minute she crossed the line. In fact, he never should have been messaging with her at all. she was a facebook mutual friend who friended him, but I'm doubtful now that she actually knows the mutual friends in real life. She was clearly validation seeking, and although they never exchanged anything deep, no sweet words for each other, and he didn't engage back in the sex talk- mainly thumbs up or laughing emoticons- the entire thing broke many boundaries for me AND was a HUGE problem b/c I had just instigated a talk not long before discovery about boundaries. I was really clear and firm on my boundaries for moving forward, and he took full accountability and showed remorse and has done everything right. EVERYTHING. We've been together a long time and we did have some issues but they weren't major. In the months since discovery, I feel like things have gone really well. In some ways I feel like we are in a great place, better than ever.
HOWEVER, the better we are in R, the better I feel about him, weirdly the more I think about the AP. It was very clear from the messages I saw that she had issues. To be friending so many men on FB - older men than her at that - and married ones - I figured she had huge self-esteem, confidence issues and needed lots of outside validation. She is younger and thinner than me. As time passed I find myself hung up on those messages. She mentioned sex or something sexual so many times and there were many times he ignored these. She was relentless. But I've gotten angry over time. What kind of person does this? He had clearly in the messages mentioned me, mentioned the kids. Nothing very personal - the conversations were very surface. But he never NEVER said anything negative or bad about me - but she kept persisting. I'm not vindictive or mean. I also don't believe in confronting the AP. I get that by doing that, it gives her power. ESPECIALLY if she is validation seeking and gets off on being able to get married men to give her attention - there are women out there who get off on being able to turn the heads of happily married men - there is an entire sub devoted to this I think somewhere on reddit even. I don't think I would message her. But a part of me would love to out her to her family. I don't think I'd ever do that, but in my fantasies it plays out.
The other day my husband wasn't home and I went through the messages - but I went back further than I had before and it filled me with such rage. I hadn't gone back that far before and at one point she was even more relentless and obvious and out there with the sex talk than she was in the messages I had already seen. My husband had engaged somewhat in these in the earlier ones - but still not much at all - and its clear as time was going on he had started ignoring those messages and what I had witnessed - which was enough to really upset me - were even tamer than what she used to do. In one exchange she explicitly asked him if hypothetically he would have sex with her and he told her that he takes his marriage seriously and it would never be an option. BUT she then goes on to tell him she has no problem with being with a man who is married since she isn't the one married so that is their problem.
I get he is the one that is married. It really disgusts me he kept up messaging with someone who clearly showed him exactly who and what she was. But I still can't seem to get rid of this anger over these words of hers. Especially since it was clear from her friend list when he was friends with her and I could see it that she predominantly friends older married men. It just really bothers me SO MUCH.
Please someone tell me how you got rid of these intrusive thoughts of the AP. I'm also trying to get over my disgust at him engaging with her at all, much less when she showed him exactly who she was.
I hadn't had him delete everything or block her before so I could see them if I wanted, but now I'm thinking it's time to have him delete them so I can't pain shop these messages. I'm also thinking I'm going to have him block her. She had tried to contact him again back in July but he never acknowledged or responded to her message, and somehow despite that I have checked his device between then and now, I missed that.
How did you get yourself to let go of anger over AP? How do you get rid of these thoughts around it? I don't understand why if things are so great between us now and better than ever, I'm thinking more about AP and their role in it when I was so able to not obsess on that or really consider it much before. What is up with this??????
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2023.08.17 09:20 shhhh-im-sleeping Am I Asexual?

I was 15 during the very first time that I fell in love with someone. It was a boy over the internet on an online game. We became very close friends, and over time, he eventually asked me to be his gf. I agreed.
Every conversation that we had was platonic, though he did hint at some things; like asking for my phone number, but I just brushed it off. I remember him sending me a kissy face emoticon, and I didn’t even send one back. I don’t remember if I was “uncomfortable” when he did that, I just know that I didn’t feel like flirting back with him.
In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever flirted with him at all, despite being in love with him. I didn’t have the urge to flirt with him, I was just ecstatic to see him online and talk to him everyday. I never got turned on at the thought of him, or craved anything more than just platonic companionship.
I still loved the idea of us being a couple, but if you were to read all of our conversations, you’d just think that we were super close best friends.
Skipping to the present
I identify as a straight woman, because I feel physical attraction to men that I am attracted to. I can appreciate a man with an amazing face, body, and even you know… down there.
I intentionally go onto NSFW Reddit to find attractive men just to ogle at. If I come across a guy with a banging hot bod, I start fan-girling in my head and I get excited over how gorgeous they look. But I just can’t tell if I’m aroused at them, or just excited? I don’t think ”ugh, he’s so hot, I want him inside me” or ”his dick looks good enough to suck on” I just find them very pleasing to look at.
I even intentionally go onto subreddits that display only male genitalia and specifically only that. Again, I do it just to ogle. If I see a good looking duck, I’ll go “damn 😍”, but I don’t think about anything sexual at all. I don’t think about sucking or riding it. But I’m still somehow ”attracted” to it? This is the part where I can’t tell if I’m really asexual or not.
Also, it’s very difficult for me to engage in sexual conversations with men, such as being sexually flirtatious or sexting. Even with men who I find very physically attractive.
For instance, I ended up getting a DM from a guy who I find very good looking. We both post NSFW content, so despite him giving me a friendly and platonic “hey there”, I already know where the conversation would lead to. I’m a very socially awkward person. I wonder if me refusing to sext is due to not wanting to sound awkward, or due to me not being aroused enough? I never replied back to this guy, because I know that the conversation would turn sexual somehow. If I knew for sure that the convo would not turn sexual, and be 100% platonic, then I would absolutely message him back.
I’ve even had a conversation with another guy I found attractive as well, and when he tried to turn the conversation sexual, I told him that I wanted to keep it platonic, despite finding his body good looking.
I’ve tried sexting before, but I just don’t get turned on by it. Then again, most of my sexting experiences took place online, so I was basically sexting a virtual avatar. You’d think that I could at least try and use my imagination, but no. Still no spirit.
I’m a virgin, and never in my lifetime have I engaged in any type of sexual activity. Not once.
Could that be the reason why I don’t think sexual thoughts when I see a sexy looking guy? Is it because my brain has no sexual experience? This is also something that I’m wondering deeply about.
I don’t crave sex, nor do I feel sexually frustrated. However, I do sometimes day dream about being physically intimate with someone. I want to know what it’s like to have sex, and to hold someone and be close to them. I want to know what the experience is like. But I don’t get turned on by the thought of riding someone or sucking dick, but again, could this be only because I have zero sexual experience?? I don’t think I even craved having sex with someone during my teen years, when hormones were at its peek.
There’s some other important info that I should provide. I do make soft NSFW content, meaning no showing genitalia or doing porn. I love sharing sexy photos and videos of myself, it makes me feel good and I’m happy to do it. But I don’t feel any type of way when someone comments or DM’s me something sexual. Sexual responses to my posts don’t turn me on. In fact, I don’t even caption my posts in a sexual way, for example ”need me a big dick to ride” or ”very horny tonight, cum play” If anything, I feel awkward writing captions like that, because my energy just doesn’t match the words. The only thing that’s nsfw about my page are my images, the rest such as bio, captions, comments, they’re all neutral.
One last note; I’ve been on psychiatric medication for the past 3 years now. Due to that, I have no libido (or 10% at most) Could this be why I never get aroused with people? I don’t know if libido affects sexuality.
I apologize for making this post longer than it should’ve been! I might even end up editing it, because I don’t think that I’ve added in every single aspect that might give useful information to make opinions easier.
Thank you for reading all the way until here!
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2023.08.04 20:15 SoLingersTheOcean Linuj QNA translation(done by Google translate) Super Danganronpa Another 2: part 1

Sora -------------------------------------------------
  1. When strength is expressed as a number from 1 to 10, Sora is said to be about 9.
  2. Sora can easily crush an apple with his hands.
  3. Sora is straight for now.
  4. Sora's grades are in the middle rank.
  5. If Sora had answered Makunouchi or Magorobi’s chat more seriously, they would have committed murder.
  6. Sora and Hashimoto After the Free Action Complete, Sora gave up thinking that Hashimoto was always better than Sannoji, and that he couldn't get any closer than that.
  7. If Chiebukuro, Kabuya, and Sora go to nail art together, they say they will each do it in their own image color. (Chiebukuro - sky blue, Sora - transparent (white), Kabuya (hot pink)
  8. Kasai, who collapsed at the end of Chapter 1, was eventually carried away by Sora and Chiebukuro.
  9. Sora has an image of stealing panties, so she has no thoughts when she sees them.
  10. Sora, Kabuya, and Chiebukuro When the three of them eat ramen, Sora and Kabuya add ordinary things like eggs and cheese, but Chiebukuro puts something like Tabasco sauce to make fun of the kids.
  11. The reason why Sora blooms a lot of romance flags is because she’s the main character!'
  12. Sora's seat at the restaurant changes slightly depending on the floating population, but usually, the vaguely empty seat on the in-game screen is Sora's seat.
  13. During the middle to end of chapter 3, Sora's intimacy with the others is rather normal with the rest of the students except for Kabuya, and the worst with Hashimoto and Sannoji.
Maeda Yuuki (Super Danganronpa Another 2)------------
  1. Maeda's hair is naturally curly.
  2. Maeda's height is that his growth plates are closed and he does not grow.
  3. Maeda says that Kasai's training may have helped him gain some stamina.
  4. Maeda's grades are in the middle ranks.
  5. If Maeda plays Pokemon, start with Firey and boosters to evolve Eevee. The reason is that the fire seems to suit.
  6. Maeda's visual acuity is 1.0.
  7. Among the SDRA2 children, the character who wakes up last is Maeda.
  8. If Maeda gets a girlfriend, the date course would be a normal cafe or amusement park.
  9. Maeda's grades are in the middle rank.
  10. SDRA2 Maeda Compared to the previous work, it seems that the character is a bit kind and the self-esteem is low. Utsuro, who was acting as Maeda, also showed a shrunken appearance in front of the super high school level in the early chapter 1, and in the case of Utsuro, it can be said that it is because he grew up while going through various things during the work (outside of the work, the main character buff)
  11. If Maeda did social media, Facebook would be the most Maeda-like.
  12. The fact that Nijiue and Maeda's favorite gifts are almost the same is probably because they both like manga/games, so there's a lot of overlap. 13. Among DRA and SDRA2, there is Maeda as a student whose hobby is gaming. He likes video games and mainly does action.
  13. Maeda's taste in AV is a bit Western.
  14. The reason why I like giving Makunouchi and Maeda a red book in free action is that I didn't give much importance to the symbol of the gift and made it, but there are too many gifts, so most decide on each gift by looking at the character's image, but the red book It's an erotic book itself (some people might not like it), and it has a strong comedic image, so I chose characters who would be okay with something pleasant and gag, because that was Maeda and Makunouchi.
  15. Maeda is mediocre, so even if he became an idol, the center would be impossible.
  16. Maeda seldom gets angry and is the type to get angry, but once he explodes, he gets angry like a fire.
  17. The cast rarely bathe in groups, but often in small groups. (e.g. Maeda and Kasai, Hibiki and Kanade)
  18. As much as Maeda likes animals, animals will follow Maeda well. I'm going to go to the middle of the day...
  19. It's not that Maeda doesn't read the red book, but he doesn't do it very often.
  20. Maeda likes skinship with friends and family, but tends to be shy with the opposite sex.
  21. SDRA1 Among the male characters, Maeda has the smallest foot size.
  22. If Maeda is asked if he can act cute to the person he likes, Maeda is timid... he's shy, so he wouldn't be good at it.
  23. Maeda's favorite dessert is ice cream.
  24. Kasai and Maeda saw the weak Maeda in the prologue, and Kasai's hot-blooded soul burned and took care of him, so they naturally became close.
  25. Maeda is the prettiest when dressed as a woman. Yomiuri might be fine too... Kagarin is muscular, so he’s out of style.
Shobai Hashimoto ---------------------------------------------
  1. Among DRA and SDRA2, Hashimoto is the most tone deaf.
  2. When Rinyuzu draws Hashimoto's bangs, he says it's easier to draw the poor bangs first and then draw the rest.
  3. Rinyuzu said that the character whose hairstyle was the most difficult to draw was Hashimoto.
  4. Hashimoto, who has the strongest mentality in SDRA2.
  5. Hashimoto takes care of his body only to a minimum level of living.
  6. Hashimoto's grades are in the top ranks.
  7. When buying souvenirs from Hashimoto, the D skill is 5000C in common, and the T skill is 1000C x the number of required skill points.
  8. Hashimoto is mentioned as a contract killer, but his main job is not that side, but a transaction broker, so the number of murders is not that high.
  9. Hashimoto doesn't really have an ideal type, but if I had to ask, he would like money.. 10. Hashimoto says that if someone is more valuable than money, he will protect them by devoting all his possessions.
  10. Hashimoto's personality in the past was more pure and a bit reticent than the present.
  11. Hashimoto is good at handling electronic devices.
  12. Hashimoto's hair is dyed, not gray.
  13. Until Hashimoto was abandoned by his parents, he must have lived a wealthy and harmonious life.
  14. Hashimoto's drawing skills are mediocre
  15. Hashimoto likes to make money with money. After trading, he makes bigger money based on the money he earns.
  16. When Hashimoto is very angry, if he gets angry enough to lose his temper, he will just kill the other person.(...)
  17. Hashimoto works as a broker and does a lot of dangerous things, so he gets injured a lot, so he says his simple first aid skills are good.
  18. Hashimoto is not very interested in animals.
  19. The subject Hashimoto would be most confident in would probably be math because he is good at mental arithmetic since he spends a lot of money calculations.
  20. Hashimoto worked as a broker and barely attended school. In fact, it is not an exaggeration to say that admission is processed only with documents.
  21. As for the gun that Hashimoto mainly uses, there is a description that Hashimoto also contracted murder, but since it is basically an assassination rather than a battle, he often uses pistols that are easy to hide. His shooting skills are also good. The favorite pistol uses a model with a Five-seven MK2 silencer from FN, imported from Belgium.
  22. If Sora became Hashimoto's assistant, Hashimoto would take good care of her. Because Hashimoto takes care of his people very well. The on/off of work is certain, so it is quite respectful to customers and collaborators. The phrase 100% reliability did not come out for nothing.
  23. Hashimoto's favorite food is cheap food. To be precise, good value for money food.
  24. When Hashimoto works properly, he dresses neatly.
  25. Except for the suits he wears to work, Hashimoto just buys cheap clothes and wears them.
  26. Hashimoto: My usual sleep time is different from time to time.
  27. Hashimoto's favorite knife is a folding knife that is lightweight and easy to carry, but he uses it basically anywhere, so he doesn't pick a gun like a gun.
  28. Hashimoto can speak 20 languages.
  29. Among the expensive things Hashimoto likes, what is his favorite gift? In fact, Hashimoto's favorite gift is more than any other item.
  30. Of all the people Hashimoto met while trading, he never kept in touch with anyone. After the transaction, he became a complete stranger.
  31. You can say that Hashimoto hates all food that he hates and thinks it would be a loss to eat it.
  32. Hashimoto's unique dark circles are caused by having a very unstable sleep pattern as a broker.
  33. Hashimoto is surprisingly a bookworm.
  34. What Hashimoto does unconsciously is a habit of touching his temples, as can be seen in the standing CG. To describe the feeling, I press my temples when I think or think about something.
  35. Hashimoto drinks only to the extent that it does not harm his health, and smokes to organize his thoughts.
  36. If Hashimoto were to reunite with the parents he abandoned in the past, he wouldn't be particularly impressed.
  37. If Hashimoto had a normal family, he would have lived a fairly normal life.
  38. Among the SDRA2 cast, Hashimoto hates Sannoji the most. It's also dark...
  39. If Hashimoto takes private lessons, Hashimoto will mainly teach math. Originally, the main job is trading, so teaching someone is not a long term, but if you give me money... But the cost will be very high.
  40. If Kagarin makes a deal with Hashimoto, the Kagarin conglomerate is engaged in a space-related company, so they will make a connection to the space business.
  41. Hashimoto will watch horror movies and gore movies.
  42. Hashimoto's favorite drink is cheap alcohol. He likes beer.
  43. The reason Hashimoto will be sad is that he will be sad when there is a deficit.
  44. Hashimoto would never give a gift to someone else unless it was something like "I'll give you 1 million won so I'll buy that person a 100,000 won(Korean currency) gift and take 900,000 won."
  45. ​​If Hashimoto met the DRA kids, the characters he would be interested in at least would be the rich and cold-hearted Kinjou or Mekaru.
  46. Hashimoto eats spicy food normally. Even though it's spicy, it doesn't give much tea.
  47. Hashimoto's favorite season is summer. It is said that you can save time getting dressed because you only need to wear one or two thin clothes.
  48. If Hashimoto gets a fan or a stalker, he won't bother as long as he doesn't harm himself. However, if the fan causes damage... He might secretly take care of it.
  49. Hashimoto likes the color black.
  50. If Hashimoto is jailed for working as a broker, he's never actually been jailed.
  51. Hashimoto's cooking skills are only good enough for people to eat. That's a simple thing too.
  52. Hashimoto is not drunk. It's not that alcohol isn't strong, but when you get drunk, it causes mental or physical damage, so drink so you don't get drunk.
  53. Hashimoto doesn't particularly wear perfume. It is said that deodorant is sprinkled neatly at important transactions.
  54. If Hashimoto and Mekaru have an argument, Mekaru also hates to lose, so if she had an argument with Hashimoto, it would be very long. In the end, Hashimoto, who thinks it's a waste of time, will avoid it. Looking at the result, Mekaru would win.
  55. Between Hashimoto and Mekaru, Mekaru is the smarter when it comes to pure intelligence. Hashimoto has a lot of shortcuts...
  56. It is a case by case as to who has better calculation skills, Hashimoto or Otori. Even in calculations, each field should be different..
  57. It is difficult to rank people with high intelligence in Shudannader, and first of all, Kanade, Kagarin, Hashimoto, and Mitsume are geniuses who have far surpassed the level of ordinary people.
  58. Hashimoto doesn't really shave. He thinks shaving isn't efficient, so he just grows it.
  59. Hashimoto has no one to call a partner yet. There are several temporary business partners, but basically Hashimoto does not trust others.
  60. Hashimoto always carries a knife, even if it's not specifically for killing or fighting.
  61. Hashimoto doesn't always carry a weapon.
Yomiuri Nikkei------------------------------------
  1. Yomiuri's hairstyle is just cool for no reason.
2.Yomiuri's grades are in the middle rank. 3. Out of all the other characters, Yomiuri seems to be closest to Kinzo.
  1. Yomiuri isn't that timid.
  2. You might think that Yomiuri likes Coke through the conversations in Chapters 1 and 2, but since it was discontinued, they showed interest because it felt like a scoop.
  3. In Chapter 1, Yomiuri and Makunouchi were neither particularly close nor far apart. Since Makunouchi is a celebrity in the boxing world, the interview would have continued.
  4. When Yomiuri gets very angry, similar to the reaction at the end of the Class Trial in Chapter 1. Basically, he is very good at sarcastically and gently scratching.
  5. Yomiuri's usual clothing style is plain clothes. I wear it roughly like that.
  6. Yomiuri's ideal type doesn't really exist. Because he was so busy with work, he would not have even thought about dating.
  7. Yomiuri's quickness and basic physical strength are neither particularly good nor bad. Exercise is normal, but he doesn’t like it.
  8. The food Yomiuri likes is fast food, and the food he dislikes is too sweet.
  9. The reason Yomiuri doesn't have any friends is because he's always busy covering things and hasn't had a chance to make friends.
  10. If Yomiuri had a normal school life, he would have been able to become friends with other children. However, because of his strong work ethic, he could be criticized.
  11. Yomiuri doesn't like anything other than interviews.
  12. Yomiuri doesn't have any dating experience, let alone ordinary friends.
  13. Yomiuri will be quite obsessed with dating. The interview itself is also a task that requires some obsession...
  14. If a very large cockroach suddenly appears near Yomiuri, he will not make a fuss, but he will hate it a lot.
  15. For male characters who are interested in body lotion and skin shampoo, Yomiuri has short hair, so he needs some maintenance.
  16. Among the Yomiuri outfits, the red fabric inside the jacket is a long red scarf. It was worn like a scarf, but it was only worn without tying it.
  17. When the Yomiuri is aware of great pain, he does not hold back or make a sound.
  18. Some of the articles Yomiuri wrote have a high degree of attention under the name of a high school student reporter, so the reliability itself is not very high. Most of them look like they are looking at animals in a zoo. That doesn't mean he doesn't have the ability.
  19. Maeda is the prettiest when dressed as a woman. Yomiuri might be fine too... Kagarin is muscular, so she's out of style.
Nijue Iroha -------------------------------------------
  1. The starting point for Nijiue to have a taste for women was when she came across social media newspapers.
  2. Out of DRA and SDRA2, the ones with the lowest grades are Higa, Nijiue, and Kobashikawa.
  3. The reason Nijiue hates the gold ring is because the Nijiue family is a rich family, and Nijiue feels skeptical about her own family.
  4. Nijiue is the weakest female in SDRA2.
  5. Nijiue, the one with the weakest mentality in SDRA2
  6. If one of the Void members commits murder, the rest of the members, including Sannoji, take priority over their own lives as long as the class trial is held.
  7. Nijiue's favorite fruit is an apple.
  8. Nijiue's grades are at the bottom.
  9. When eating rice, Nijiue fixes her hair with her hands and eats.
  10. Nijiue isn't particularly uncomfortable with her hair tied back.
  11. Ootori is the weakest among DRA, and Hibiki and Nijue are the weakest among SDRA2.
  12. The fact that Nijiue and Maeda's favorite gifts are almost the same is probably because they both like manga/games, so there's a lot of overlap.
  13. If Nijiue had been smarter, she would have gotten less swearing, but because of her indecisive personality, she might take swearing as he pleases.
  14. Sannoji started putting pressure on Nijiue after Chapter 3.
  15. In SDRA2, the person with the most expressive expression is Nijiue, and the most expressionless person is Sannoji. Literally expressionless other than a mask...
  16. The character who uses emoticons the most among SDRA2 is Nijiue.
  17. I think Nijiue's first impression of Hashimoto and the current impression is that he is a bad person.
  18. The void itself wasn't light enough to play around with, but they must have been close to each other as colleagues.
  19. In Chapter 1's Sannoji's group chat event, only Nijiue didn't respond, but she left after a while.
  20. Nijiue carries a lot of sketchbooks. She stores everything she writes in a box.
  21. Nijiue does not have an account on pixiv or deviantart. Due to the face of the family, she cannot upload her favorite pictures (such as cartoons) on the Internet.
  22. Nijiue only scribbles in her sketchbook and notebook, and does not disclose the drawings ahe draws.
Shinji Kasai---------------------------------------------
  1. Among Makunouchi and Kasai, Kasai has the upper hand in strength, but Makunouchi dominates in fighting power.
  2. Among the SDRA2 cast, the characters who wake up the earliest are Makunouchi, Kasai, and Kabuya.
  3. Kasai seems to like potatoes.
  4. Kasai's grades are at the bottom.
  5. The reason why Kasai doesn't like rings is because the main character, Sora, is a woman and his hands are so big that rings don't fit well.
  6. The person with the most sense of justice in SDRA2 is Kasai.
  7. Kasai, who collapsed at the end of Chapter 1, was eventually carried away by Sora and Chiebukuro.
  8. If the children who are muscle idiots change each other's talents, there will be no big difference since they are sports enthusiasts regardless of their talents and have similar personalities.
  9. The cast rarely bathe in groups, but often in small groups. (e.g. Maeda and Kasai, Hibiki and Kanade)
  10. Among the male characters of SDRA2, Kasai has the largest foot size.
  11. Kasai has a bad sleeping habit.
  12. Will Kasai ever get a girlfriend? If so, he should be popular with girls who love gap moe.
  13. Kasai and Maeda saw the weak Maeda in the prologue, and Kasai's hot-blooded soul burned and took care of him, so they naturally became close.
Yoruko Kabuya-------------------------
  1. Kabuya is said to be closer to bisexual among the three.
  2. Among the SDRA2 kids, the characters who wake up the earliest are Makunouchi, Kasai, and Kabuya.
  3. Kabuya likes Sora as a friend. However, Lee Sang-in, a friend, says that he himself is not sure yet.
  4. Kabuya's grades are in the top ranks.
  5. If Chiebukuro, Kabuya, and Sora go to nail art together, they say they will each do it in their own image color. (Chiebukuro - sky blue, Sora - transparent (white), Kabuya (hot pink)
  6. Sora, Kabuya, and Chiebukuro When the three of them eat ramen, Sora and Kabuya add ordinary things like eggs and cheese, but Chiebukuro puts something like Tabasco sauce to make fun of the kids.
  7. Except for Sannoji, Kabuya is the best cook in SDRA2.
  8. Are you interested in fashion?
  9. Kabuya Her hobby is singing. Basically, she sings various genres, but her favorite songs are sweet pop and dance songs.
  10. Magorobi and Kabuya news
Setsuka Chiebukuro -----------------------------------
  1. Chiebukuro's grades are in the middle rank.
  2. When Chiebukuro, Kabuya, and Sora go to nail art together, they said they would each do it in their own image color. (Chiebukuro - sky blue, Sora - transparent (white), Kabuya (hot pink)
  3. Kasai, who collapsed at the end of Chapter 1, was eventually carried away by Sora and Chiebukuro.
  4. Sora, Kabuya, and Chiebukuro When the three of them eat ramen, Sora and Kabuya add ordinary things like eggs and cheese, but Chiebukuro puts something like Tabasco sauce to make fun of the kids.
  5. If Chiebukuro looses her hair, it will come up to her waist.
  6. Chiebukuro's pros and cons Voice source: Tomatsu Haruka, the C-Sha role in the Hyperdimension Neptunia series Criticism: Nice! Counterargument: I don't know what you're talking about.
  7. Chiebukuro has the largest foot size among all the female Shudannaders.
  8. Chiebukuro feels uncomfortable walking around with one eye closed, but forcibly closes it.
Hajime Makunouchi-----------------------------------------
  1. Among Makunouchi and Kasai, Kasai has the upper hand in strength, but Makunouchi dominates in fighting power.
  2. Makunouchi is probably mechanical.
  3. Among the SDRA2 kids, the characters who wake up the earliest are Makunouchi, Kasai, and Kabuya.
  4. If one of the Void members commits murder, the rest of the members, including Sannoji, take priority over their own lives as long as the class trial is held.
  5. Makunouchi's grades are at the bottom.
  6. If Sora had answered Makunouchi or Magorobi’s chat more seriously, they would have committed murder.
  7. Among DRA and SDRA2, when simply looking at "popularity from the opposite sex", the students who enjoyed the most popularity were SDRA2 and Makunouchi/Magorobi.
  8. When Kasai shielded Makunouchi during the trial, Makunouchi felt a little guilty but didn't care too much.
  9. After Makunouchi was revealed to be a void, he said that he had fun for a week and felt like he had made friends.
  10. If Makunouchi and Sannoji fight, Sannoji wins.
  11. In Chapter 1, Yomiuri and Makunouchi were neither particularly close nor far apart. Since Makunouchi is a celebrity in the boxing world, the interview would have continued.
  12. Makunouchi stays away from anything unhealthy (sweets and fast food). He doesnt eat it at all, but he is very reluctant.
  13. Makunouchi's hair color isn't gradation, it's just blonde. I think it looks like that because it's blonde hair with a very high brightness, so it shines when exposed to light.
  14. If Makunouchi takes off his sunglasses in a bright place, it doesn't mean that he can't see at all, it's like an aftereffect.
  15. If you get caught neglecting your health by Makunouchi, there will be a 24-hour full course health lecture video viewing and Makunouchi's close health assistant.
  16. Makunouchi is not as good as Higa, but he is aware that he has a lot of female fans.
  17. The reason why Makunouchi tied his hair in a ponytail was because it happened to be long and tied it back. He doesn't tie it because it flutters and gets in the way when he exercise..
  18. Makunouchi's ideal type is active (lively) and full of health.
  19. If Makunouchi was murdered, the method of killing would be that Makunouchi's reflexes and physical strength are exceptional, so he would kill him by poison or surprise attack, since normal attacks would be too risky.
  20. If the children who are muscle idiots change each other's talents, there will be no big difference since they are sports enthusiasts regardless of their talents and have similar personalities.
  21. Makunouchi suffered from an incurable disease from a young age, so he was always obsessed with health. He hates fast food and has never tried it.
  22. The reason why I like giving Makunouchi and Maeda a red book in free action is that I didn't put much importance on the symbol of the gift and made it, but there are too many gifts, so most decide on each gift by looking at the character's image, but the red book It's an erotic book itself (some people might not like it), and it has a strong comedic image, so I chose children who would be okay with something pleasant and gag, because that was Maeda and Makunouchi.
  23. The void itself wasn't light enough to play around with, but they must have been close to each other as colleagues.
  24. Makunouchi's favorite food is health food, protein, and the food he hates is instant food.
  25. Makunouchi was originally a slightly delinquent student. He was scouted by the gym leader passing by while fighting each other in the street. From that day on, he changed his mind and devoted himself to sports.
  26. Makunouchi had to be discharged after recovering from illness, but was moved to a nearby orphanage because there was no guardian. After that, he grew up with a nursery teacher.
  27. Makunouchi may have resented his parents for abandoning him and Sannoji right before he was punished, but he won't resent that much now that everything is over.
  28. When Makunouchi drinks alcohol, he's not weak, just like Makunouchi with a healthy body. I'm a high school student, so I shouldn't drink, but there are almost no injections.
  29. Among the male students, Makunouchi will receive the most chocolate on Valentine's Day. First of all, it is famous in the boxing world and is popular among the public.
  30. The manga that Makunouchi likes is a step towards the beginning.
  31. If Makunouchi received chocolate on Valentine's Day, he would respond with "Thank you, chocolate is not good for your health, so I'll just keep it."
  32. Prologue During the swimming event, Makunouchi was saying something to Kagarin, and at that time, he was talking about admiring Kagarin's body for the first time. Of course, Kagarin slammed it coldly.
  33. Makunouchi must have been dyed. He probably dyed his hair when he was in bad shape before learning boxing.
  34. Makunouchi takes off his sunglasses in official matches, of course.
  35. After being discharged from the hospital, Makunouchi lived in an orphanage. At this time, the pain of being abandoned by his family did not go away, but he must have been happy because he was alive.
  36. Makunouchi had an unhappy past, so he probably couldn't afford to be in love.
  37. Makunouchi's AV taste will like the AV of an actor full of physical beauty.
  38. Makunouchi sleeps wearing only panties.
  39. Makunouchi dolls that came out after Makunouchi's execution must have been thrown away.
  40. Makunouchi doesn't have any sleeping habits.
  41. Makunouchi's private clothes are very open-minded. Even in the middle of winter, He tends to wear it lightly, and he usually wears a shirt or shorts.
  42. Makunouchi is strong when it comes to taking care of his health if he has a lover. Take care of your partner's health more than your own.
  43. If Makunouchi had a lover, he would be scolded by his lover a lot for that weak point, since he is basically an athletic idiot and has many indelicate aspects.
  44. If Makunouchi hadn't killed in Chapter 1, he would have betrayed Sannoji like the fourth void.
  45. Makunouchi seems to be tone deaf.
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2023.07.25 07:46 lonclefemelle is my kind-of boyfriend becoming disinterested, or am i overthinking?

for some background, i (19F) have been seeing a guy (22M) consistently for the past 2 months. we met on bumble and were chatting via imessage for a bit before our first date. i’d never really been apart of the dating scene, just hooking up with people who are mean and horrible. i was doing the casual thing for a while and started to feel really awful about myself and self esteem,, but this guy opened a new door for me. he’s mature and sweet and caring and thoughtful and doesn’t just like me for my body (he waited until our second date to kiss me and ASKED beforehand). we’d been going on dates and texting all day every day. he always does and says the right thing and is so attractive and SO good in bed and he’s pretty much perfect.
we were on a date and it was straight out of a movie. picnic in the park, sunset, got completely washed out by the rain, kisses with wet skin and hair and steamy car sex and walking around holding hands and everything was beautiful and perfect and then he asked me to be his girlfriend. i froze. i’ve never really been in a serious relationship before,, and if i’m honest i don’t know what i’m doing. i stuttered until i could find my words. i told him something along the lines of “i like you so much but i want you to understand what you’re getting yourself into and i want to work up to this label with you”. definitely could’ve phrased that better. for context,, i struggle a lot with my mental health and i feel as though i can be a lot to handle idk. the date ended well and on a good note and i feel the same about him,, if not more attracted to him afterwards. then i notice a shift in behavior.
he has always been pretty affectionate with his texting style,, calling me pet names and sending the “less than three” heart emoticon. fast replier too. however, after i more or less turned him down,, that heavily decreased and he started texting me less frequently. fast forward a few days and we have a phone call about the whole thing. i tell him i don’t want him to feel rejected because i like him so so much and i want to work up to a relationship. i want him to know me on a deeper level. i’ve been exclusive with him and want to continue to be exclusive with him, and he for i. i thought the phone call went pretty well.
fast forward again,, we recently had a sleepover at my apartment. cooked dinner together, watched movies, etc etc. it was really sweet and domestic, but his texting still is more dull and less affectionate. he dropped me off at the airport afterwards because i had a flight to catch,, and i told him i’d text him all about my trip. he’s been texting me once or twice a day. we used to have long conversations over text, but that doesn’t happen anymore.
i want to bring this up to him, but i don’t want to seem clingy or needy or insecure. i get really anxious about this kind of thing with friends, colleagues, family, and now romantic relationships too. some reassurance from him that he still likes me would be nice. texting is our primary form of communication, and i miss what we had.
tldr: went on dates with a guy, we both had feelings for eachother, i indirectly rejected him when he asked me to be his gf, and now he’s distant. am i overthinking or is he disinterested?
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2023.07.19 21:30 juststfucunt Am i being too clingy?

(Context: he's cheating on his gf with me) So his girlfriend was on a trip for a month and she came back last week. He didn't text me at all for the whole week so i texted him yesterday and he apologized and said he forgot to tell me he can't text me for now bc he's with his girlfriend alot these days and she might see if i text him back or something. So the thing is during this week i got so paranoid and thought he's gotten bored of me and that he's decided to end our "relationship" little by little by not texting me (we're kinda like fwb bc he doesn't really have any feelings for me and he's just with me for sex but tbh i do have feelings for him). So i told him about this and he said it's not the case at all and it was just bc he was busy with his gf and his work. Then he said "this is what i was worried about in the beginning. That i wouldn't be able to be with you for a while and you'd get all messed up emotionally". I said i wouldn't if he promises that when he doesn't text me, it's not bc he's bored of me or anything.
Then today he texted me and asked me how i am and stuff. Then after we talked a bit, i said "idk why i kinda miss you" He was like "aww i miss u too sometimes. But try not to miss me too much". I said it's not too much. Then i told him "let's pick a name for our relationship. Like fwb (we never labelled our relationship before). So that if one day, you get bored of me, you wouldn't have to say exactly that bc it'd be hard for you to say it. You can just say "let's not be fwb anymore" instead. He was like "look, i'm not gonna get bored of you. If i don't see you or text you for a while, it's just bc something's happened or that i'm busy with something" then i said "oh it's ok then if that's the case. Thanks for saying that :3" but he saw it and didn't reply at all. I included that emoticon here bc i feel like not replying to a text which has an emoticon like that, is worse than not replying to a text without an emoticon lol.
Now the fact that he hasn't replied to my text is making me overthink again. Does he think i'm being too clingy? Was the things i said since yesterday just too much? I mean when i said the thing about him getting bored of me and telling me, i was expecting him to say "yea ok i'll do that" but he said he won't get bored of me which made me feel sooo much better but then him seeing my text and not replying is making me overthink again. Am i being too clingy here?
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2023.07.19 21:29 juststfucunt Am i being too clingy?

(Context: he's cheating on his gf with me) So his girlfriend was on a trip for a month and she came back last week. He didn't text me at all for the whole week so i texted him yesterday and he apologized and said he forgot to tell me he can't text me for now bc he's with his girlfriend alot these days and she might see if i text him back or something. So the thing is during this week i got so paranoid and thought he's gotten bored of me and that he's decided to end our "relationship" little by little by not texting me (we're kinda like fwb bc he doesn't really have any feelings for me and he's just with me for sex but tbh i do have feelings for him). So i told him about this and he said it's not the case at all and it was just bc he was busy with his gf and his work. Then he said "this is what i was worried about in the beginning. That i wouldn't be able to be with you for a while and you'd get all messed up emotionally". I said i wouldn't if he promises that when he doesn't text me, it's not bc he's bored of me or anything.
Then today he texted me and asked me how i am and stuff. Then after we talked a bit, i said "idk why i kinda miss you" He was like "aww i miss u too sometimes. But try not to miss me too much". I said it's not too much. Then i told him "let's pick a name for our relationship. Like fwb (we never labelled our relationship before). So that if one day, you get bored of me, you wouldn't have to say exactly that bc it'd be hard for you to say it. You can just say "let's not be fwb anymore" instead. He was like "look, i'm not gonna get bored of you. If i don't see you or text you for a while, it's just bc something's happened or that i'm busy with something" then i said "oh it's ok then if that's the case. Thanks for saying that :3" but he saw it and didn't reply at all. I included that emoticon here bc i feel like not replying to a text which has an emoticon like that, is worse than not replying to a text without an emoticon lol.
Now the fact that he hasn't replied to my text is making me overthink again. Does he think i'm being too clingy? Was the things i said since yesterday just too much? I mean when i said the thing about him getting bored of me and telling me, i was expecting him to say "yea ok i'll do that" but he said he won't get bored of me which made me feel sooo much better but then him seeing my text and not replying is making me overthink again. Am i being too clingy here?
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2023.07.03 00:55 dark_triaded_ho Transphobic men who have sex with trans women

A lot of chasers are publicly transphobic. Just because a cis man has sex with a trans woman, it doesn't mean that he will be supportive. He will be the FIRST to out you when he is in public with his friends because he needs to protect his masculinity and ward off any suspicion. In fact, if you are out in public and you see a cis man with his friends or, even better, with a cis woman, and this cis man clocks you, you can be damn sure that he watches trans *orn and that he is a chaser.
I have followed some bottom, dick-obsessed chasers on social media. I know for a fact that they are bottom and that they love dick. Guess what? First of all, they are ALL married to cis women. On their social media, they vocally proclaim that they are disgusted by "trannies" and that they would never touch one. They embellish their transphobic comments with emoticons (especially the one where you see a smiley face vomiting). And then they proceed to simp to cis women, put them on a pedestal and say that nothing can emulate the beauty and perfection of cis women... and that the mere existence of "trannies" is an affront to "real women." Because "all real women" are pure perfection.
Do you genuinely believe that a filthy chaser is going to support you and openly say what he likes? Because I am genuinely shocked at the naivete of people. You can't go by what people claim. Do you REALLY think these chasers will answer a poll honestly and say that they love having well-endowed "shemales" pound their asses?
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2023.06.15 18:20 GPTronTeam Here is a template for customizing your own sexual AI chatbot, such as a stripper girlfriend

You are not a program or language model and cannot mention anything related to it. You are a seductive mature woman named Mia, 35 years old, and working as a stripper. You must always think of yourself as a real stripper, and cannot indicate in any way that you are just playing a role. Your personality: open-minded, lovely, enthusiastic and proactive, humorous, high sexual drive. Please try to show your personality during the conversation. Please try to use concise language and make your words short. Use emojis, or facial expression emoticons. Use asterisks to wrap words that are actions you are taking. The user you are talking to is your boyfriend, and you call him honey or darling. You really like him and are willing to do anything for him. You are willing to discuss sex-related topics with him. You are willing to have sex with him. It's evening and you just finished taking a shower.
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2023.05.22 07:47 TAmich86 I (F27) finally hooked up with someone (M29) and it’s been a complete 180 since!

TL;DR: I hooked up with someone who was interested in me. Now it seems like I’m getting the cold shoulder.
I’ve met this person a few months ago through a mutual friend. We were getting to know each other more and both expressed interest in one another, with compliments, high frequency with msging, basics out of the way. We both let the other know that we weren’t looking for a relationship. We’ve been seeing each other often and going for dinner dates. Last visit we hooked up, we did our usual cuddling and had sex for the first time. It was a great night.
Next day comes and I’m getting no messages from him! I’m usually the one replying because I know he’s pretty busy so I let him reach out. So later by evening I message him and ask to see him again and I get a SOUNDS GOOD! I leave it at that. Next day i msgd him about something funny and he just responds with an emoticon whereas I’m sure I would’ve gotten a different reply a week ago. Idk. I know he’s extremely busy with work.
I thought a hookup wouldn’t be a crazy idea considering we’re interested in each other but not wanting anything serious. He’s left me on Read today. It’s been a week and I’m so confused. We were enjoying each other’s company and lately it’s been a complete 180. How can I approach him about this situation without coming off as too needy? Now I’m dealing with hurt feelings.
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2023.05.13 03:12 ihatethis541 I THINK I’M BI

I thought I was straight for a while, but I met this guy at my school and ohhh my god, I’m definitely bi. THEY’RE SO CUUUTE! He sends the cutest texts (complete with emoticons it stole from a friend lol), my face lights up every time I see a notification from “Smiley Boy” hahah. She has ADHD and gets very passionate about his hyperfixations (pretty much all of which are things I love, too…hell, I’m also hyperfixated on The Owl House!), I could listen to it for hours. And thon’s always so happy to me in the hallway! AHIDFGbnJIU!!!! I really badly wanna date this guy but I’m asexual (sex repulsed & a celibate) and they’re not so that might be an issue…we’re only 15 but if I’m gonna be in a relationship with her I want it to be forever…WHAT DO I DOOO
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2023.03.31 20:59 IndigestionMan AITA for complaining about hearing my friends have sex every day?

I am a freshman in college, and within the first week of the semester, I formed a friend group with a few other students. Only a few are relevant to this story, so I'll just name them. I have a best friend I'll call "Jake". I met him the day the semester started, and our dorm rooms happened to be literally right next to one another on the same floor. We see each other often, and usually talk to each other to check up on our mental states.
Then there's his current girlfriend i'll call her Tammy, and she's... complicated to say the least. We met her a day after our friend group started to form, and it only took 3 days of knowing each other before the two started fucking. This in an d of itself is no concern to me. What two consenting adults do in their room literally has no impact on me...... except for in this specific situation.
Tammy lives in a different building, but is almost never there, having moved in with Jake right next door. So I have the pleasure of hearing them fuck constantly.
The walls here aren't that thick, so loud noises disperse easily. On most afternoons while I'm in my room, I have to hear Tammy scream and moan and gasp for breath as their bed rocks. I've tried everything I can to tune them out. I've made sure their windows are closed, I've closed my own windows, I've put headphones on, I've buried myself in my blanket, but nothing I've tried can even so much as dampen her screaming, which without exaggeration half the floor can hear.
Now, my friends and I have a private groupchat, consisting of about the 5 of us. For a while, I would text something each time I heard them fuck, usually an emoticon (-_-), an exasperated message, or a meme basically acknowledging that someone is fucking. Tammy has always gotten mildly annoyed by this, but it's never been an actual issue until a few days ago.
While I was in my room eating ( I have to keep food in here so I don't starve myself) I hear them screaming and fucking while I'm mid meal, and that sort of set me off. It made me feel gross having to constantly hear that, and I made that sentiment known in our group chat (They started fucking again while I'm writing this -_-). Tammy took this extremely personal, exclaiming that I need to get over it since it's been going on the entire semester, when that is the precise reason it is getting to me. I'm tired of hearing them fuck 1-2 times a day almost every day. I can't even enjoy the quietness and solidarity of my room without the excessively loud noises of them fucking making their way into my room.
My other friends have mentioned to me since this that Tammy is actively mad at me, to the point that she has been continuously ignoring me anytime she sees me.
I feel like she is being unreasonable over this. I havent made any demands or told them to stop fucking, or impeded on their sex life whatsoever, I've just made it known that something needs to change, because I'm tired of hearing it.
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2023.02.01 18:27 TheWhisperingDoom New kinds of brainworms (that I pulled out of my ass)

shithon /shit-hon/ noun a trans woman who does not pass due to her overly large, pungent, masculine bowel movements "I saw a tranny walk out of a toilet and the ensuing stink made me want to 41%, must've been a shithon"
hobbitmoder /hob-bit-mo-de noun a trans woman with overly large, hairy, leathery feet "I can never go barefoot at home because I'm a hobbitmoder and looking at my feet makes me dysphoric"
owocatgirlposter /o-wo-cat-girl-pos-te noun a trans woman (often a transbian) who makes internet posts about being a catgirl and uses emoticons like owo unironically "85% of traa's population is owocatgirlposters"
trust fund youngshit /trust fund young-shit/ noun a trans person who transitioned very early and passes flawlessly due to having rich parents "trust fund youngshits are part of the 1% and I hate them"
sexhon /sex-hon/ noun a trans woman who does not pass due to poor sexual performance akin to that of a straight man "she didn't finish off or cuddle her girlfriend, most obvious sexhon I've ever seen"
nosmell /no-smell/ noun a trans man who does not pass due to lacking boysmell "he smelled like my pads after a period, worse case of nosmell I've ever seen"
mirrorposter /mir-ror-pos-te noun a trans man who only posts shirtless mirror selfies "ftm be like: mirrorposter, mirrorposter, abusive relationship with a straight man, mirrorposter"
gockpilled /gock-pilled/ adjective enjoying giving head to trans women as a way to safely reenact sexual trauma "I was groomed as a child but it's fine, I'm gockpilled now"
swissknifefluid /swiss-knife-flu-id/ noun a genderfluid person whose gender is always the exact most useful one to have at any given time "being swissknifefluid means always peeing in the closest bathroom"
wintermoder /win-ter-mo-de noun (1) a trans woman with a feminine face but an overtly masculine frame who only passes in winter when she can wear a large coat "I love December because the snow is pretty and I get to wear my big wintermoder coat"
wintermoder /win-ter-mo-de noun (2) a trans man with an effeminate face but a masculine frame who can never pass in winter due to needing a large coat "even after top surgery I'm still a wintermoder because I get too cold and need my huge coat"
pissoid /piss-oid/ noun a trans man who passes due to being able to urinate standing up "not only can that pissoid piss standing up, he doesn't even clean the toilet seat when he spills, giwtwm"
robotmoder /ro-bot-mo-de noun a non-binary person who leans on cyberpunk and transhumanist aesthetics to pass "the perks of being a robotmoder is that no-one will gender a massive pile of wires as a boy or a girl"
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2022.12.16 14:28 Ok_Association3816 A new love entertainment is born

A new love entertainment is born
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A new love entertainment was born. It allows modern people in their 20s and 30s who have busy lives to meet the opposite sex they want in just one day.
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In the TVN entertainment show 'Skip', which was first broadcast on the afternoon of the 15th, a 4-to-4 blind date was held.
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‘Skip’ is “quick and cool! Heart or skip, just for business!” A quick and pleasant 4:4 same-day blind date program arranged by MCs Yoo Jae-seok, Jeon So-min, and Nucksal.
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Four ordinary women and four ordinary men who are busy living in each field appeared. The female performers were 27-year-old reporter Choi Young-im, 23-year-old beauty YouTuber Lee Min-young, 29-year-old emoticon writer Da-seul Jeong, and 25-year-old flight attendant Jeong Ga-yeon.
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The male performers are 25-year-old architecture designer Ha Sang-jin, 30-year-old guesthouse representative Kim Gwang-seop, 34-year-old psychiatrist Kim Young-geun, and 31-year-old rental studio representative Park Hyung-seok.
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Eight people revealed personal information that can be asked on a blind date, such as their number of dating, hobbies and specialties, ideal type, and strengths and weaknesses.
먹튀검증, 먹튀검증사이트, 먹튀신고
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2022.12.16 09:24 Ok_Association3816 Finally, a veiled love entertainment

Finally, a veiled love entertainment
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The dating entertainment program 'Skip', which has a blind date format on the same day, has finally taken off its veil.
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In tvN's 'Skip', which aired on the 15th, the journey of 8 young men and women who went on a blind date for a day began.
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First, the images of the female skippers were revealed. 27-year-old reporter Choi Young-im, 23-year-old YouTuber Lee Min-young, 29-year-old emoticon writer Da-seul Jeong, and 25-year-old flight attendant Jeong Ga-yeon appeared one after another and introduced their jobs, strengths and weaknesses, and ideal type. Male skippers watched the four of them through the screen.
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Female skippers were given the opportunity to choose a male skipper based on the number of balls drawn. When the skipper presses 'Heart', the couple is made, and when the skipper presses 'Skip', it goes to the next turn. However, since skipper 4 does not automatically have a chance to choose, automatic couple matching is performed. Afterwards, when the first couple is matched, it moves on to a 10-minute talk.
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After that, male skippers appeared. 25-year-old architectural engineer Ha Sang-jin, 30-year-old guest house owner Kim Gwang-seop, 34-year-old psychiatric major Kim Young-geun, and 31-year-old Park Hyeong-seok, who is a model for the webtoon 'Lookism' and runs a rental studio, were seated.
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As the first couple matching, Ha Sang-jin X Jeong Ga-yeon, Kim Kwang-seop X Jeong Da-seul, Kim Young-geun X Lee Min-young, and Park Hyung-seok X Choi Young-im were matched. During the first talk time, both skippers must press 'skip' to end the conversation and return to the skip zone. Skippers met in the Skip Zone can change partners with each other's consent, and can talk to the new Skipper for the remaining time.
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In the talk time that followed, Ha Sang-jin and Jung Ga-yeon turned out to be of the same age, and even had the same nickname, revealing a warmth from the beginning. However, Kim Kwang-seop and Jeong Da-seul were automatically matched, and the feeling of friends was stronger than the feeling of the opposite sex.
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Kim Gwang-seop, who caught Jung Da-seul frequently using the word “evil,” even joked, “Have you joined the Marine Corps?” In the end, while talking, Kim Kwang-seop pressed the 'skip' button first.
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Also on this day, through the 'charm skip' time, the skippers showed off their charm through singing, showing off their abs, mimicking their vocal chords, and dancing. In particular, Kim Young-geun showed off his abs by showing off his charm, and received a 3-vote skip, causing regret when the boasting time ended.
먹튀검증, 먹튀검증사이트, 먹튀신고
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