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A community for White Womenđ¸đźand Black Menđ¤´đżto show their LOVE for each other and their ATTRACTION to each otherâźď¸
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This is a place to offer support, ask questions, and promote discussions about interracial dating and relationships specifically by and for asian women and white men. Visit wmafs for more content
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A space for black women and white men to connect and navigate their love and relationships. No Nsfw content allowed here. It will be removed.
2024.05.20 08:24 Logical_Round_5935 The idea that if we don't have equal representation is bad is a silly idea
"We have men and women at 50/50 so we should have 50/50 in all industries" would be a dumb thing to say because men and women are biologically different in some ways, so of course they might have different abilities and interests.
This applies to other things too. Different religions, ethnic backgrounds etc will have different influences. So being upset x industry doesn't have a nice representation of y group is dumb.
It doesn't always mean discrimination of a nefarious nature.
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2024.05.20 08:23 Honor_post Aishwarya Rai Bachchan Opens Up About Her Cannes Looks Amid Criticism: "It Was Just Magical"
| Aishwarya Rai Bachchan once again turned heads at the 77th Cannes Film Festival, making a dazzling appearance on the red carpet. As a long-standing attendee and LâOrĂŠal Paris brand ambassador, Aishwaryaâs presence always garners significant attention. This year, her fashion choices sparked mixed reviews, with critics and netizens voicing their opinions. Unfazed by the criticism, Aishwarya shared her thoughts on her Cannes looks, calling them âmagical.â Aishwarya Rai Bachchan calls her Cannes looks magical In a recent feature by Vogue India, the Devdas star highlighted the creative process behind her first-day appearance. The design, dubbed âGilded Glow,â was crafted by her close friends Shane and Falguni Peacock. Back in Mumbai, Aishwarya described the ensemble as âmagical,â emphasizing the fresh and beautiful makeup that complemented the outfit. âThe look last evening on the red carpet was designed by my dearest friends Shane and Falguni Peacock. They call it gilded glow, but to me, it was just magical,â she said. Accompanied by her daughter Aaradhya Bachchan, Aishwaryaâs enthusiasm for her look was evident. For her initial red carpet appearance, Aishwarya wore a striking black gown adorned with elegant bling and dramatic white puffed sleeves. Her signature cat eyeliner and bold lips added a familiar yet striking touch. Despite her usual poise, the look received mixed reviews. Some critics found it âshabbyâ and âunattractive,â feeling it lacked the desired drama and glamour. The video feature, uploaded as a YouTube Short by Vogue India, sparked further commentary. Netizens were quick to voice their opinions on Aishwaryaâs fashion choices. One user commented, âAlas sorry gown⌠Magical.. No⌠Time to change your designer.â Another Reddit user wrote, âAish please ditch those designers and go for someone whoâll dress you up beautifully. They made a mockery out of that second green-white gown. Also, this jacket is another Daler Mehendi type.â Aishwaryaâs second look at Cannes featured a silver and blue gown with dramatic sleeves and a voluminous skirt, also designed by Shane and Falguni Peacock. This ensemble, too, elicited a mix of reactions, with some netizens labeling it as âoutright bizarreâ and inspiring numerous memes and harsh critiques. Since her Cannes debut in a yellow Neeta Lulla saree in 2002, Aishwarya has been a consistent presence at the festival, representing India on the global stage. Over the years, she has impressed fashion critics with her style choices, though not every look has been a hit. Notable missteps include a feather-adorned gown by Ashi Studio in 2019, criticized for heavy makeup and an imposing hairdo, and a silver gown by Sophie Couture in 2023, which received mixed reviews due to its oversized hood and large black bow. Despite occasional misses, Aishwaryaâs appearances continue to captivate audiences, showcasing her unique fashion sense. While Aishwaryaâs Cannes looks may draw varied opinions, her commitment to embracing bold and creative designs remains unwavering. As she continues to walk the red carpet, she proves that her fashion choices, magical or not, are always worth watching. submitted by Honor_post to u/Honor_post [link] [comments] |
2024.05.20 08:23 FancySumo Is blue/black paint more durable than white since they are metallic?
I am thinking about ordering a new MT golf R. I like to get a white one to pair with my white Touareg, but noticed the other two color options are metallic paint.
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2024.05.20 08:21 oniwaban-shu TV show recommendations based on my favorite series.
Your recommendations could be from any medium (live action, animation) and from any country, I truly do not mind.
Here are some of my favorite series:
- Black Sails
- True Detective (S1)
- Breaking Bad
- Better Call Saul
- SKAM
- Fleabag
- White Collar
- Monster (anime)
- Bojack Horseman
- Mindhunter
- Daredevil
To paint you a better picture: I'm mostly into character driven, psychological, philosophical slow-burns that focus on character development and themes with a lot of good symbolism, characterization, dynamics and overall immense writing.
I don't care what genre as long as they check all the boxes. It could be a comedy, thriller, romance or crime drama, as long as they have those elements I've mentioned then I'm all in regardless of genre. Even superhero shows that I'm not really a fan of, if they have those elements and execute it well I'm still tuning in (Daredevil as an example).
NOTE: I'd really appreciate it if the series you're recommending has an ending đ
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2024.05.20 08:21 Cyber_Decay License transfer question
I have two xbox 360s (one old white version and a black slim model). i accidentally transferred my purchase licenses to my old white one. I want my black slim to be my main console but canât transfer back until 9/17/2024. Since the store will be shut down in june, does that mean ill lose the opportunity to transfer back to my main console?
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2024.05.20 08:20 authenticoverreplica Chick identification help
| I have been trying to figure out what kind of chicks these are. Does anyone know? I got them in an assortment from TSC. They are bantams without feathered legs and feet.. One is yellow with black and white feather popping out. One is black and gray. One is lavender with black legs. They are adorable, but I'm so curious to know what breed they are. I've been looking all over the internet. Any ideas? submitted by authenticoverreplica to BackYardChickens [link] [comments] |
2024.05.20 08:20 aquilaruspante1 Question for women.
I read and I can confirm lately getting matches became more difficult for men.
Have women noticed a shift in their experience or is this concerning only men?
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2024.05.20 08:19 red_roverz Children's book about candy that isn't Wonka
| I understand that this photo is vague but it's what I remember the cover looking like. Book would be from around the early 2000 What I remember about the book: - 2 siblings or lost friends are separated the older one trying to find the younger who is at the candy factory - This group of children has to travel to the factory - Lots of young children stay or kept at this factory - I remember the book having lots of illustrations but for the life of me can't find it (illustrations in book are black and white) - chapter book If anyone could please help me find this so I can stop losing sleep over it that would be amazing, thank you. submitted by red_roverz to HelpMeFind [link] [comments] |
2024.05.20 08:18 Lopsided_Tangerine72 AIO for wanting to break up with my bf of 2 years for being a horrible driver?
Iâve been with my partner for 2 years this month and I do love our relationship.
There are times, however, I truly question my bf (30m) judgement/morals/behavior.
His driving is absolutely horrendous, and is a constant point for a fight in our relationship. Whether heâs driving my car or his, itâs always the same. Either heâs driving too fast for the conditions or heâs trying to multitask and play with his phone/watch videos and is swerving through lanes. This is the point where Iâll tell him to pull over and let me drive, but he wonât. Sometimes it almost feels abusive because I have a lot of triggers with driving and heâs just not listening to me.
We live in an area near the shelter that animals get dumped daily. They always run out into the country roads and motorists going 50+ mph lead to instant death for these animals.
It finally happened to my boyfriend, and he struck a killed a dog. I asked him to pull over but for over 1/2 mile he just wouldnât . I donât know if was in shock or not, but he kept repeating to himself that it was a cat, and because I didnât see it, I believed him. But I still told him to turn around and help the animal out of the road, itâs his duty to stop. But he wouldnât
Finally almost a mile down the road he stopped, got out, looked at his vehicle, made some remark about getting dinner still, and got in the car. I told him he needed to go back that instant and look. He was so bothered by going back, he kept saying that thereâs nothing he could do at that point
When we got to the point of the accident, his whole front end is in the road along with a deceased dog. I have never felt such disgust and rage at my partner for leaving the scene, but also for lying to me and himself.
So maybe I wouldnât be breaking up with him for the driving, but for the disgusting actions that took place after
Iâve made mistakes in life but I have always owned up to them and have always wanted to do better
He even said âI donât want to go back because what if it was a dog and someone yells at meâ
Iâm also autistic so my black and white thinking is instantly making him an enemy.
He did eventually apologize but not before I pulled the babies body out of the intersection and screamed at him in front of all the onlookers
What do I do?
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2024.05.20 08:14 Last-Solution2092 Women are blamed for everything
Has anyone else noticed that everything is "women's fault" according to society? If we are in abusive relationships or we have lazy partners, we should have picked better. If our children's fathers are deadbeats, we should have chosen better. If we are assaulted and raped, we should have been more careful, or not been out, or not been drunk, or should have fought harder or said no more. We are told to settle for less instead of expecting others to be better. There are so many more examples that I can't think of right now, but its always our fault, according to everyone else. There's no accountability for men. It's always, we should have known better or done something diffently, never men/other people need to change and stop doing horrible things. We are always responsible for others actions, and it's gotten old. I'm tired of it. I'm curious if anyone else has noticed this pattern in their lives
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2024.05.20 08:13 AltF4_Bye THE VERY REAL THREAT TO US BASED WHISTLEBLOWERS & THE TRAGIC DEATH OF PHILLIP SCHNEIDER..
| With Lou Elizondo coming forward and stating that he was made aware of a possible threat against him & other current whistleblowers, I wanted to bring the mysterious death of Phillip Schneider back in to the light. https://www.reddit.com/abovethenormnews/s/g5z7A2vvp0 The entirety of the video is interesting but skip to 5:51 for the statement made in image 1 by Lou Elizondo Phillip Schneiders initial cause of death was ruled ânatural causesâ but it was later confirmed that a ârubber hose was wrapped once around Phillipâs neck and was knotted in frontâ His death along with with his close friend and colleague Ron Rummel (Ex-Airforce officer, cause of death labeled a suicide) 3 years prior was also shrouded in mystery as both men had no prior mental incapacities or documented issues with mental health but were known advocates for disclosure at the time. Both men were openly vocal about their involvement in US based black projects, many of which they alleged involved NHI. Someone who frequently spoke with him before his untimely death quoted him as saying, âIf they ever say that I have committed suicide, you will know that I have been murdered!â Photos 2 - 8 Show a letter written by Phillips wife, Cynthia, to the Clackamas County Sheriffs office and medical examiner pleading for further investigations to be conducted. What are yâallâs thoughts on this? submitted by AltF4_Bye to aliens [link] [comments] |
2024.05.20 08:13 ccphm i need real men advice.
i have a bf of 6 months in ldr. hes broke and unemployed when i met him (taking care of his sick grandma at home). i knew that before we became official. i flew to his home stayed w him and his family for 3 months (all the food,dates& gifts i gave him it was all me, he did cook and clean clothes cuz thats what he has to offer. no problem) i got back home after 3 months, months went by i felt like im losing my softness in him.
we talked about this that i want a man who is stable. hes said that hes not going to be like this forever. he promised that he will find a job and he promised that he will give back what i had given him. he also added that he doesn't need my money and stuff. all he wants is my love.
this is why maybe he got insecured bcs i dont bring out my softness for him bcs of what he lacks in the relationship.
i know i love him and he loves me too. we consistently talk everyday. i saw a lot of comments men and women about dating a broke/unemployed man. when a guy said he will do it, he mean it. but on the other hand some relationship works, some aren't. idk what to do atp.
all i know its just that my advice for myself is that i gave him a timeline on how long should i keep up and focus on myself.
any thoughts? or give me a reason to stay? i need real men advice.
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2024.05.20 08:12 Brilliant_Bluebird_3 Advice on avoidant, quiet bpd ex?
Very long. Tbh was nice to just type all of this out.
Appreciate anyone who reads it.
We broke up 2 months ago. Sheâs very angry and as far as I know only victimizing herself. She hasnât reflected on the relationship through my perspective at all. She shows no empathy and has only shown more narcissistic tendencies as time progressed. I recognize itâs been a short amount of time and ultimately I Love her and accept her for who she is. I am not perfect, I donât say that to play the white night. Iâve spent days researching bpd to both ensure we can actually move forward if the opportunity presents itself and better understand her situation. Sheâs a quiet bpd. She never cheated or crossed any moral boundaries as well so Iâm still very invested.
I feel like this extreme anger she still holds is a sign she holds feelings still? She recently broke no contact after a month and went through my phone to delete pics we agreed on. But she went through my entire phone, something we didnât agree to. Deleting my messages with herâŚ. Additionally Threatening to delete all of my pictures of her as she held my phone against me. Obviously Iâm not going to yank it out of her hands so I backed off. Sheâs keeping tabs on me. Punishing me to try and make me hate her so she can move on easier it seems. (Iâve heard her say in the past she wanted to find out I was cheating to move on easier). She seems to be on an ego trip by her attitude and keeping me blocked. My reaction has been the opposite of her intention. Iâve responded saying Iâm here for you when youâre ready to talk. I didnât sit there blaming her when we spoke⌠I told her my perspective of things and that we both had issues and I donât blame you, but you canât keep victimizing yourself. The whole time Iâm talking she looks like she could care less and is rolling her eyes. To be completely honest, I stalked her Pinterest⌠everything she was saving was extremely arrogant and pointing towards her devaluing me by making fun of my insecurities. As well as things that reinforced the notion of narcissistic traits. I never really recognized any of these things throughout the relationship, trapped in the fog I suppose.
To give some hindsight, she broke up with me. She wasnât empathetic to say the least when I needed support and I was really struggling in life. Ultimately, I couldnât support her emotionally as I did throughout our relationship. She grew incredibly codependent on me and I enabled it the entire duration. Quickly filling the victim and the caretaker. Losing that support put her in survival mode. I slowly grew resentful and defensive as she suffocated me with only her feelings everytime we had an argument. Looking back, not a single question was brought up about my general wellbeing. She slowly devalued me over a year and we then broke up. She feels like I betrayed her. In a way I did, but I needed her support for once and I broke down. Iâm not perfect. I had a very difficult time communicating this to her, but there were a lot of nonverbal cues.
Iâd really like advice if this no contact will even work. Sheâs obviously adamant about no further contact. Even beginning a smear campaign claiming Iâm stalking her after Iâve reached out without her consent shortly after the breakup and Iâve sent her a bpd workbook through the mail after the whole phone interaction. Sheâs in therapy, but it could all be one sided. Iâm working on myself so please donât advise that. Iâm moving on but at the same time I recognize that this could be a phase. I want her back. Weâve been together for two years, I donât want to throw that away over miscommunication. Iâm not trauma bonded. I assessed if I truly Love her. On top of that, I see that this isnât easy for her. I finally understand why she was so reliant on me and Iâm just sorry for her. I just want to hug her. Iâm forced to wait honestly. I feel stuck until itâs been a longer duration of time. Any advice to get through to her? Sheâs stuck in black and white thinking. She canât see my side of things at all. I see some posting saying they dissociate the ex and move on. Or continue to remain angry and move on. Wtf can I even do besides move on from her? I recognize this is from trauma. I recognize this is not her identity. I just want to at least have a conversation where she can actually be receptive.
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2024.05.20 08:12 MonchChamp Skyrim crashes on New Game
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"0060","+","Sleek Wolf Armor - Replacer and Standalone - CBBE - 3BA - BHUNP - HIMBO - Vanilla"
"0061","+","Timing is Everything SE"
"0062","+","YOT - Your Own Thoughts SE"
"0063","+","Zikoru Swords Collection"
"0064","+","Ebony Armor Male Neck gap fix"
"0065","+","Kome's Inventory Tweaks"
"0066","+","JK's Arnleif and Sons Trading Company"
"0067","+","JK's Riverwood Trader"
"0068","+","JK's White Phial"
"0069","+","Skyrim Reputation"
"0070","+","Strange Runes"
"0071","+","Artifacts - The Ice Blade of the Monarch [SSE]"
"0072","+","Atlas Map Markers SE - Updated with MCM"
"0073","+","Dawnguard Arsenal SSE"
"0074","+","Man Those Borders! (SSE)"
"0075","+","JK's Warmaiden's"
"0076","+","JK's The Drunken Huntsman"
"0077","+","Yes Im Sure"
"0078","+","JK's The Bannered Mare"
"0079","+","Winter Is Coming SSE - Cloaks"
"0080","+","Immersive College of Winterhold"
"0081","+","No Spinning Death Animation SE"
"0082","+","OBIS SE - Organized Bandits In Skyrim Special Edition"
"0083","+","Wearable Lanterns"
"0084","+","Windyridge - Player home in Winterhold"
"0085","+","Hjertesten Hall - Player Home and Settlement"
"0086","+","Halla - A Whiterun Player Home"
"0087","+","Elianora's Breezehome Overhaul"
"0088","+","Open Cities Skyrim"
"0089","+","Run For Your Lives"
"0090","+","Dragon Falls Manor - SSE"
"0091","+","Stormcloak Battle Armor Replacer SE"
"0092","+","Perfect Legionnaire - Imperial Armor Reforged 6-0"
"0093","+","Silver Armor SE"
"0094","+","Royal Armory - New Artifacts"
"0095","+","Volkihar Knight - Vampire Armor"
"0096","+","Armors of the Velothi Pt. II"
"0097","+","Simple XP Buff - A Faster Skill Leveling Mod"
"0098","+","Unusual Perks of Barenziah"
"0099","+","Andrealphus' Jobs Overhaul x Sons of Skyrim - SkyPatcher"
"0100","+","Elven Eternity - Anime MMR"
"0101","+","Stress and Fear - A Dynamic Sanity System"
"0102","+","Tonal Architect"
"0103","+","Freyr - Integrated Standing Stones of Skyrim"
"0104","+","Mannaz - Integrated Races of Skyrim"
"0105","+","Ice Spike and Ice Spear no Impale"
"0106","+","Unlimited Wood Chopping"
"0107","+","Armor of Malacath"
"0108","+","Gorm HDT-SMP Armor - But Black"
"0109","+","The Elder Scrolls - Tomebound"
"0110","+","The Great City of Winterhold Patch Collection"
"0111","+","The Great City of Dragon Bridge SSE Edition"
"0112","+","The Great City of Rorikstead SSE Edition"
"0113","+","The Great City Of Winterhold SSE Edition"
"0114","+","The Great Cities- Resources"
"0115","+","The Great City of Solitude SSE"
"0116","+","The Great City Of Dawnstar SSE Edition"
"0117","+","The Great City Of Falkreath SSE Edition"
"0118","+","The Great City Of Morthal SSE Edition"
"0119","+","Guards Armor Replacer SSE"
"0120","+","The Great Cities - Minor Cities and Towns SSE Edition"
"0121","+","SkyClimb"
"0122","+","Yet Another Starting Skills Mod"
"0123","+","EVG Animated Traversal"
"0124","+","Experience"
"0125","+","Paired Animation Improvements"
"0126","+","Animation Queue Fix"
"0127","+","Amazing Follower Tweaks SE"
"0128","+","Simple Leather Armor Replacer"
"0129","+","Knight Sword SE"
"0130","+","Grandmaster Wolven Armor and Swords SE"
"0131","+","Akaviri Katana - Blades Sword Replacer"
"0132","+","Open Animation Replacer"
"0133","+","Dunmeri Leaf Swords"
"0134","+","Ritevice - Sword of Stendarr"
"0135","+","ORI - Harkon's Sword - Blood Matron"
"0136","+","Elven Blades SSE"
"0137","+","BillyRo Ultimate Swords Anthology"
"0138","+","Sharpen Other Swords II - AnimObject Swapper"
"0139","+","AnimObject Swapper"
"0140","+","Immersive Equipment Displays"
"0141","+","JaySuS Swords SE"
"0142","+","Perk Points and More Gold for Bounty Quests"
"0143","+","Even Better Quest Objectives SE"
"0144","+","Dynamic Mercenary Fees"
"0145","+","Immersive Weapons"
"0146","+","Immersive Armors"
"0147","+","JS Embalming Tools SE"
"0148","+","JS Rumpled Rugs SE"
"0149","+","Base Object Swapper"
"0150","+","Detailed Rugs"
"0151","+","JS Knapsacks SE"
"0152","+","JS Torture Tools SE"
"0153","+","JS Emissive Eyes SE"
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"0155","+","JS Helm of Yngol SE"
"0156","+","JS Initiate's Ewer SE"
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"0158","+","JS Essence Extractor SE"
"0159","+","JS Dwemer Control Cube SE"
"0160","+","JS Dwarven Oil SE"
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"0162","+","JS Dwemer Artifacts SE"
"0163","+","JS Common Cages SE"
"0164","+","JS Unique Utopia SE - Daggers"
"0165","+","JS Instruments of Skyrim SE"
"0166","+","JS Barenziah SE"
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"0169","+","JS Dragon Claws SE"
"0170","+","JS Ioun Stones SE"
"0171","+","JS Purses and Septims SE"
"0172","+","The Joy of Perspective"
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"0174","+","Stones of Barenziah Quest Markers"
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"0177","+","Wyrmstooth"
"0178","+","Summermyst - Enchantments of Skyrim"
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"0180","+","ConsoleUtilSSE"
"0181","+","True Directional Movement - Modernized Third Person Gameplay"
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"0183","+","JContainers SE"
"0184","+","Expressive Facial Animation -Female Edition-"
"0185","+","Expressive Facegen Morphs SE"
"0186","+","SMP-NPC crash fix"
"0187","+","SkyHUD"
"0188","+","Fuz Ro D-oh - Silent Voice"
"0189","+","Immersive Patrols SE AE"
"0190","+","Alternate Start - Live Another Life - SSE"
"0191","+","Sacrosanct - Vampires of Skyrim"
"0192","+","Dragonbane Replacer"
"0193","+","Isis Dagger"
"0194","+","NordWarUA's Vanilla Armor Replacers SSE"
"0195","+","JS Shrines of the Divines SE"
"0196","+","Blended Roads"
"0197","+","Haugbui - A Draugr Overhaul"
"0198","+","Security Overhaul SKSE - Lock Variations"
"0199","+","Unique Uniques SE"
"0200","+","RUGNAROK - Special Edition"
"0201","+","Frankly HD Nightingale Armor and Weapons [SSE]"
"0202","+","Frankly HD Dawnguard Armor and Weapons"
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"0204","+","RS Children Patch Compendium"
"0205","+","Seranaholic by rxkx22 - SSE"
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"0207","+","LeanWolf's Better-Shaped Weapons - All in One Installer"
"0208","+","RUSTIC CLOTHING - Special Edition"
"0209","+","Bijin NPCs SE"
"0210","+","Gemling Queen Jewelry SE"
"0211","+","Bijin Warmaidens SE"
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"0213","+","Ancient Dwemer Metal - My patches for SMIM Dawnguard Dragonborn by Xtudo"
"0214","+","Apachii Sky Hair SSE"
"0215","+","Noble Skyrim Mod HD-2K"
"0216","+","Beyond Skyrim - Assets"
"0217","+","A Quality World Map"
"0218","+","KS Hairdos SSE"
"0219","+","Caliente's Beautiful Bodies Enhancer -CBBE-"
"0220","+","Sidequests of Skyrim"
"0221","-","MCO_separator"
"0222","+","Payload Interpreter"
"0223","+","Animation Motion Revolution"
"0224","+","oneclickmodified v"
"0225","+","Attack MCO-DXP"
"0226","+","Behavior Data Injector"
"0227","+","Combat Pathing Revolution"
"0228","+","SCAR - Skyrim Combos AI Revolution"
"0229","+","SmoothCam"
"0230","+","IFrame Generator RE"
"0231","+","MCO Universal Support"
"0232","+","Dodge MCO-DXP"
"0233","+","Disable Turn Animation SE I AE"
"0234","+","Keyword Compatibility Framework"
"0235","+","Smooth Combo Animation Framework Fix"
"0236","+","Smooth Moveset"
"0237","+","Smooth Heavy Armor Count"
"0238","+","Smooth Magic Casting Animation"
"0239","+","Dynamic Fus Ro Dah"
"0240","+","Smooth Weapon Jump Animation"
"0241","+","Open Animation Replacer - IED Conditions"
"0242","+","Dynamic Bow Animation"
"0243","+","TK Dodge SE"
"0244","+","Simple TKDodge Sidestep"
"0245","+","No .esp"
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2024.05.20 08:11 SimbaTheSavage8 A scrapped early draft of the Tree Girls Kpop NS
Final post here, although this is so early I don't think it matters The famous Tree Girls are coming to town, but I have never heard of them.
I live in a perfectly normal town.
Or as normal as you could get. Blackjack Town was as exciting as its name. Something always happened here. Like the time Mr Kim, the local greengrocer, fell off his stepladder with his hands frozen to his sides. Passed away before the ambulance came along, dead as a dodo. The paramedic, Mr Cavanaugh, said he had a heart attack, but my mama thought differently. His time had come, she had said. Already on deathâs door.
Thatâs the strange thing about my mama. She had a knack of predicting when someone would die. I first noticed it when I was twelve or so, when my papa lost my balance and fell into the creek. Drowned on the spot. Even Mr Cavanaugh couldnât save him.
The funeral was held the following Saturday.
My mama sat, her hands folded neatly into her lap, her face concealed under a white veil. Her face was a mask of stone and she shed not a single tear. Not when the hymns were sung, not when she tossed flowers into the mound of dirt, and especially not when people came up telling us how sorry they felt for our loss. When I asked her about it she simply shrugged.
Little Johnny played too much with water
Little Johnny has never been colder
All the kingâs nurses and all the kingâs men
Couldnât make him breathe again.
My mama was singing that rhyme, over and over, and it went on for about 2 whole weeks. I suspected at the time it was her way of coping, a way to hide the pain of losing her husband, or a fate no one couldâve predicted. But instead she smiled, her face far away and off on some grand fantasy adventure.
His time had come. Little Johnny always played with water. Now he was swept away by the waves.
She nodded as she explained, her long, bony fingers running through my hair. She drew me closer, so I could smell the sage and peppermint on her breath and whispered to me:
Promise me you wonât play alone.
I promised.
I sometimes thought of that promise in school and even at home, where I did chores and tried to help my mama, whose eyesight and mind was fast failing her. It was difficult, day after day. On good days she would sit still and smile toothlessly as I spooned porridge into her mouth. But on bad days she screeched like a hawk and raked her talons across my arm.
Yet I soldiered on. Thinking
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2024.05.20 08:11 Falconpunch100 Who's got the best art? (Brides to Be)
See everyone's full art here:
Embla Lapis Nel Sharena Alcryst This is actually a very good Bridal banner in terms of art and design; I like every single one of the brides. Even Nel, who I think is the weakest one out of the four brides, still looks very pretty. Embla's lovely black and red wedding dress with a rose motif looks beautiful, Lapis is extremely cute and I love the longer veil and the double-layered wedding dress (and the fact that she has a sharp as hell blade makes it funnier), Nel is very extravagant with the blues on the trim of her wedding dress, and Sharena is amazing with how her design takes inspiration from Henriette, as Veronica's takes inspiration from her Legendary self.
That being said...the loser here is clearly Alcryst. Compared to how lovely and unique the brides look, Alcryst is kind of just...the same Alcryst we know, just with a white tuxedo. Pretty boring...
Overall, I would say something like: Sharena = Embla > Lapis >= Nel >>> Alcryst.
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2024.05.20 08:10 Throwaway567890356 restraining order guidance
this may sound stupid. super short but, my ex and his friends roofied me many years ago. i got over it & he spent the last few years convincing me he is a better person. we went out to dinner last week because we wanted proper closure and he made me think it was a safe space to talk about the trauma. he didnât like what he heard and he told those friends. one said âi would just kill her and do the 25 years to lifeâ. the ex owns a gun and now iâm scared. he made a joke about shooting me when he first got it. why send a screenshot of those messages unless to scare me or if he really intends to do something. is this grounds for a restraining order? or do i just deal with it. so many men nowadays kill women for seemingly nothingâŚ.
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2024.05.20 08:09 Ma2340 I lost 20 lbs and already notice men are treating me differently.
I did some body recomposition and lost 20 lbs. Iâm 5â5 and went from a US dress size 12 to size 8. I would still like to slim down further to a size 6 or 4. I am curvier on the bottom. So, my measurements are 34-28-40. Already, I am noticing a difference in how men perceive me and I find it very annoying. Iâve noticed more men hitting on me. Not only that but when they do, they often are nervous doing so. Guys were interested in me before but not in the same way and the ones who approached were rarely nervous. So, Iâm like the old me wasnât good looking enough to make anyone nervous. But now I am? I also donât understand because Iâve always been very outgoing. Even when I was talking to someone very attractive, it wouldnât make me nervous. From a logical and objective standpoint, I get it. Many more men are attracted to thinner women. Still, I am bothered by it. Even when I was heavier, my face was still slim. I did not have a double chin or anything. So my face is pretty much the same. Who I am on the inside has not changed. And while I like my body better now, I wasnât obese. I wasnât plus size. I was just higher side of average. Iâm like 20 lbs was making men see me as less of a person before? Why should they get to experience this new version of me? Like maybe they donât deserve me now. Women always complimented me. A lot of my women friends say little to nothing about my weight loss. And when I ask them about it, theyâre literally like you looked good before and look good now. My weight is literally the least interesting thing about me. And I hope any partner would feel that way too. That there is so much more to me than just how my body looks. I get that a stranger canât perceive that. Basically now when some guy hits on me, I sometimes think would you have been interested in me 20 lbs ago? Would you break up with me for gaining 20 lbs? Again, I know itâs not a rational way of thinking about things but sometimes I canât help but feel this way.
I know this type of thing is talked about a lot. But most of what I saw/read were people discussing this change after very significant weight loss (like 50+). Thatâs why I wasnât expecting a big change in how people were treating me before. For anyone else who has experienced this, how did you learn to stop letting it bother you?
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2024.05.20 08:09 _AquarianAvacados VENT IT OUT// I really can't make this ish up. I (slipped-up) messaged my once "friend"/ex of 11 yrs new gf exposing my conartist-esque ex after I had had enough of his games. And not even 2 weeks later....every single thing I attempted to expose - he is working on covering back up far quicker.
There is SO much through those horrible 11 years. But the last 2.5 have truly been the hardest, mostly because I am just EXHAUSTED to the point....I don't even usually bother fighting against a single thing/become comfortable as the door matt.
What did me in, is he owes my grandmother $3k for HIS HALF of unpaid debt to her. They are currently (under my dumb stupid blessing) are letting him rent what is my family's home they are leaving to me when they die for a whooping $600 a month. S I X HUNDRED. 3br 1bth huge fenced back and front yard. 3 porches. Huge attached garage. $600.......
He knew it was only a 6 month agreement. And that either I would be retaking my home, or the rent would be raised to $1000, as i would be taking $600 of it monthly and planned to use it towards a rental of my own. (My family and i truly helped him willingly, so he at least had 6 months to get on his feet.) I on the other hand, was fortunate enough to have my recently divorced bff of 25 years with an open room in her home, badabingbadaboom.
Truthfully, I was basically forced out of my house before I had a say. It wasn't my first choice to leave every bit if furniture/my daughter's bedroom set/ect...THAT I ALONE have purchased throughout the years, to my floppy meatsuit of an ex manchild who's idea of "hard labor" is mowing a lawn..but it was my ONLY choice. (That's another story for another day, lol. This one's long enough)
Anyways the 6 months is up, and it had come time to go forward with what was already previously understood as to happen...I should have seen it coming, given that he suddenly started to attempt far more communication (our child being his perfect excuse to disguise what was really going on....
.....and then THIS MF-ER...MAN.... My grandmother tells me on my way out after stopping by for breakfast, that my ex had told her unless they lower the rent for him, he won't pay the 3k debt from TWO years ago now (he promised as soon as he got his tax return, he would pay it) but now he'd need it to find another rental property......this 33 year old man....telling this to My sweet and kind grandmother, who is the a matriarch to my family mind you, she has basically RAISED this 33 year old brat since his infanthood (since he was 22 years old!). ~His parents were 2.5 hours away, his dad is an attorney in some podunk hillbilly town, and his mom is all the worst parts of the gossipy church women put together. They only cared about his younger sister and her two children, lol. So.~
I was floored. I told her something along the lines of "uhhhh I'm pretty sure that's a form of extortion????"
Anyways. I slept on it, and woke up to choosing violence. By violence, I mean I messaged the only thing I knew he "CARED" about, at least for now, until there's nothing for him to gain. I just wanted to make sure he knew where i stood really, and how careful he should tread with me now after hearing that.
...this girl was the other former bff of MY bff. She HATED me for at least a decade. "Frienmies" if yiu will. I had been told SEVERAL times around 6 years ago (ish) that she told our mutual bestie how she was going to "fuck my boyfriend, and get him to leave me. That he was her dream guy" LOFL ...and had witnessed/heard her myself FLIRT with him heavy and totally disrespectfully in front of me. Up until the day they boinked in secret, this girl followed all my social accounts religiously for allll these years....
You can imagine, I had some STUFF I was dying to let out, but I will say, I refrained from being an absolute c-word. I basically in the most passive aggressive tone, EXPOSED what my exs current game was with my family home and the mistreatment of my grandparents.
I told her to ask about his stomach illness he faked so well, had me so SO sympathetic towards him that I asked if he would just instead making basically double pay for the summer months (school district employee) and not taking off....to take off, an I would just work ot graves or whatever extra I could/did...and then how the DAY BEFORE our child started 1st grade, he pulled the rug out from under by creating a literally pointless 4 hours screaming match.....and leaving me, the house, the dogs, and the bills high and dry. No tummy ache to ever come about again...
Or how he had a disguised app with nudes and texts from women he cheated on me with or had fucked when we were in a slump/split. And how she's also in it.
And to ask the father of the year what his 7 year olds doctors name was...we used her since the 2day infant visit lol.
Or to ask him who's been the provider for our child's education since 3 years of age. Her insurance. Dental. Ect. (Hint: it's not him).
I asked her to ask him why he told me that she "owned her own home and was so independent and worked so hard to be where she is now" as a means to rub salt in my wounds while he forced me out if my/OUR old home in the worst mental depression I'd ever dealt with.....when that is not true because she cheated on her husband with multiple men while he was deployed and lost her Marital home in divorce. She lives with her parents and two younger brothers.
Why he was still.texting me and sending me his unsolicited or answered selfies to me.
I wrapped it up with my point of the information being that for my exs sake, I pleaded she encouraged him to don"the right thing".
I mean....I knew he was putting on a dog and pony show for her from day 1. He's a fraud, I learned that over and over. He will lie/manipulative/step on whatever and whoever without a care in the world, all while making whoever they choose to feel as if they're to blame if any sort of conflicts or grievance against them rose.
So I knew in my exes false reality he was painting for this chick was no doubt of how amazing a father he is, and how shitty of a parent and person I am in turn....
side note: ffs he even lowered his own vocal tone forcefully when j met him 11 yrs ago to disguise his godawful nasal screach
WITHIN 10 DAYS. NOT EVEN 2 WEEKS Of me sending her all this...
First text - him asking for our childs doctor's information for the first time in 5 years. Evidently they had a sore throat in the middle of the night. (Mmmmok)
4 days later - he is asking if we could discuss getting her needed dental work finished up as we've put it off for a while (he literally never cared the first phase lol)
That same day - he is pandering sympathy and attention because he's suddenly having stomach attacks again and he's got a colonoscopy scheduled and blahblahblahhhhhh.
I mean....literally the list of the shit I exposed directly goes on and on.....and he made sure to cover up each one down the line. Like. If that isn't "master manipulation".....what is? There has got to be a word for this oh so insanely predictable behavior lol.
Certainly. I'd hope the chick truly SEES what is happening? That the dude is literally whether subconsciously/uncontrollably covering up his actions because he knows deep down, what was done was wrong all around...or just creating and perfecting his own stage right before our eyes? Lol RIGHT?!
I just have to laugh at it all now. It's just a RL sitcom of disaster at this point. đ
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