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2024.05.20 05:50 PeachDeep2530 I (21F) and my boyfriend (25M) have been dating for 11 months now. The whole relationship he has been curious of others. what do I do?
I’ll start off by saying I don’t know if im insecure because my ex used to cheat on me. but I feel see like my current boyfriend isn’t treating me right. (We’ve been dating for 11 months now) when we first started dating I had a look on his phone and he messaged other girls to have sexual interactions with while me and him were seeing eachother. then it went to some girl at the gym he knew he had matched with on tinder (she was hot he says) he looked her up on instagram chat to see if they had spoke on instagram? then his ex messaging him and he was entertaining it and deleted the messages. then he went to Bali for a boys trip. apparently some girl was trying to crack onto him and his friends had to remind him he had a partner. And last but not least. he told me he didn’t want to watch porn anymore because he felt guilty (I never told him to stop he said it) so I took his word, only to find out he still did it. He’s now stopped but he still looking at sexual girls on reddit, twitter and onlyfans. Because he’s “curious” I’ve tried to bring all of this up and he gets defensive and angry or flips it onto me. It makes me feel very poorly about myself especially when me and him have sex quite literally everyday. but he still needs to look at others. if we go out in public he always has a look at other girls. when he kept stuffing up I know I shouldn’t of but I stood on his level and would like guys photos so now he always flips that onto me. im 21. he’s 25. I’ve tried my hardest to make this relationship work but im the one that always feels like I can’t talk to him about this because he gets so angry and has tried to break up with me twice because of me sharing my emotions and I get angry and upset because he can’t seem to understand how this effects me. am I too sensitive? he lives in my family home with me, my family adores him, we are building a house together and when we’re good we’re really good! it’s just time like these and when I confront him is when I second guess the relationship. I’m a big communicator and he’s not.
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2024.05.20 05:50 PeachDeep2530 im f(21) he’s m(25). my boyfriend is curious of other girls, what do I do?
I’ll start off by saying I don’t know if im insecure because my ex used to cheat on me. but I feel see like my current boyfriend isn’t treating me right. (We’ve been dating for 11 months now) when we first started dating I had a look on his phone and he messaged other girls to have sexual interactions with while me and him were seeing eachother. then it went to some girl at the gym he knew he had matched with on tinder (she was hot he says) he looked her up on instagram chat to see if they had spoke on instagram? then his ex messaging him and he was entertaining it and deleted the messages. then he went to Bali for a boys trip. apparently some girl was trying to crack onto him and his friends had to remind him he had a partner. And last but not least. he told me he didn’t want to watch porn anymore because he felt guilty (I never told him to stop he said it) so I took his word, only to find out he still did it. He’s now stopped but he still looking at sexual girls on reddit, twitter and onlyfans. Because he’s “curious” I’ve tried to bring all of this up and he gets defensive and angry or flips it onto me. It makes me feel very poorly about myself especially when me and him have sex quite literally everyday. but he still needs to look at others. if we go out in public he always has a look at other girls. when he kept stuffing up I know I shouldn’t of but I stood on his level and would like guys photos so now he always flips that onto me. im 21. he’s 25. I’ve tried my hardest to make this relationship work but im the one that always feels like I can’t talk to him about this because he gets so angry and has tried to break up with me twice because of me sharing my emotions and I get angry and upset because he can’t seem to understand how this effects me. am I too sensitive? we are building a house together and when we’re good we are great! it’s ever since he’s moved into my family house the bad has happened. I haven’t been perfect either but I’ve never stood this low to make him feel insecure.
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2024.05.20 05:44 syzuhair1 NCAT hearing evidence by REA
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I just received the NCAT hearing evidence documents provided by REA on order after the concilliation hearing. The tribunal hearing date is set on 18th July 2024. The order during the meeting was that REA must present the evidence to tenant and tribunal until 21st of May. I than as tenant have to respond with my evidence by 28th of May. I just want to be sure if someone has had experience submitting these. Did they do it in person? Or email? I have linked my cast on NCAT website and submitted "forms" where it allows you to uploaded 5mb file. I just want to be sure I dont miss anything.
For those who might be interested in what the REA submitted to me and tribunal here are the details
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I just received the NCAT hearing evidence documents provided by REA on order after the concilliation hearing. The tribunal hearing date is set on 18th July 2024. The order during the meeting was that REA must present the evidence to tenant and tribunal until 21st of May. I than as tenant have to respond with my evidence by 28th of May. I just want to be sure if someone has had experience submitting these. Did they do it in person? Or email? I have linked my cast on NCAT website and submitted "forms" where it allows you to uploaded 5mb file. I just want to be sure I dont miss anything.
For those who might be interested in what the REA submitted to me and tribunal here are the details
- Index page listing what is included
- REA and landlord agency agreement
- Residential tenancy agreement
- Invoice for $1540 including $700 for deck sand and polish $300 for outdoor shed panel repair $150 for flyscreen door autoclose repair cleaning fee $250 plus GST.
- Email showing photos taken by landlord when he visited property to fix the tandem port gate which fell off its hinge due to rust in the first week and while fixing that he saw the main door damage and raised the issue with REA and took photos. The main door got damaged by our movers which we got fixed at later stage. However the autofly mechanism was out of its place due to a screw not being tightened correctly. We did the fix and sent proof to agent however she claims its still not fixed. I shared the video evidence of it being working fine.
- Ingoing and outgoing report.
2024.05.20 05:43 Count-Daring243 Best Casual Green Dresses
 | submitted by Count-Daring243 to u/Count-Daring243 [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/6uoxk2mx5i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ebdd9e5ddf497546b9fca9791fea1d5378fb4d96 Discover the perfect blend of comfort and style with our collection of Casual Green Dresses. In this article, we've handpicked a variety of dresses that cater to all tastes and occasions, making it easy for you to find your new go-to outfit. Whether you're heading to a picnic in the park or a casual dinner with friends, our selection of green dresses is sure to have something that will impress. So, get ready to elevate your wardrobe with our top picks in casual green dresses! In this article, we'll be discussing the top green dresses available on the market. This compilation offers a wide variety of options, from simple and elegant designs to bold and daring styles. You'll find an array of dresses with unique features, such as off-the-shoulder necklines, ruffles, and even floral prints. There's something for everyone in our collection, making it the ultimate guide to finding the perfect casual green dress. The Top 9 Best Casual Green Dresses
Reviews🔗Green Tiered A-line Dress for Women by INC International Conceptshttps://preview.redd.it/3xbavi1y5i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c979ca91dd89a99ea8cec7839ae9a0d11306858a I recently had the pleasure of trying on the Inc Women's Tiered V Neck A Line Dress in a lovely green shade. I must say, this dress has become a staple in my wardrobe for those days when I want to effortlessly transition from day to night. The self-tie belt at the waistline not only adds a chic touch but also highlights my figure, making me feel confident all day long. The tiered ruffle skirt falls gracefully to a mid-calf length, adding a fun and flirty touch to the overall look. One of the standout features of this dress is its ability to seamlessly take me from my office desk to dinner with friends. The V-neckline provides just the right amount of sophistication for the office, while the ruffles and self-tie belt add an extra edge for a night out. I also appreciate the green color, as it's versatile enough to pair with various accessories and shoes. While there isn't a whole lot to dislike about this dress, I will say that it may not be the most ideal option for those who prefer a looser fit. The self-tie belt helps to define the waistline, but those with broader hips may find the fit slightly less comfortable. Additionally, the sizing may run a bit small, so be sure to consult the size chart before making a purchase. All in all, I absolutely adore the Inc Women's Tiered V Neck A Line Dress in green. It's the perfect piece for those looking to add a touch of femininity to their wardrobe while remaining both stylish and versatile. 🔗Green Maxi Dress with Trendy Hem and Necklinehttps://preview.redd.it/8hwkrqhy5i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=06d96e3a810b1624337ef13de11bb1d12d923d2c I recently got my hands on this fabulous Emerald Green High-Low Maxi Dress from Maniju, and it has quickly become my go-to piece for events and gatherings. The moment I tried it on, I fell in love with the apron neckline - it's a trendy twist on a classic maxi dress style. The high-low hem adds a touch of flair to this already stunning ensemble, making it a show-stealer at any event. The hidden back zipper ensures a seamless finish, while the adjustable spaghetti straps provide flexibility in fitting. Overall, I feel confident and stylish when I slip into this emerald green beauty, and it's definitely a dress I'll be wearing time and time again. The only downside, if I must pick one, is that it might be a little too showy for some low-key occasions, but that's easily forgiven considering how fabulous I feel when wearing it. 🔗Casual Green Front Twist Dresshttps://preview.redd.it/65kd84vy5i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=95bd297453b6d30e6cfca7348cf91bf74631789e I was thrilled when I came across the Cupshe Army Twist Sleeveless Mini Dress in my favorite color, Dark Green. As a fashion enthusiast, I'm always on the lookout for unique pieces that stand out in a crowd. This dress does exactly that with its intricate front twist detail, smocked waist, and X-shape silhouette, making it a perfect blend of edgy and chic. The first thing I noticed about this dress was its high-quality fabric. Made from 100% rayon, it's not only comfortable to wear but also drapes beautifully on my body. The scoop neckline adds a feminine touch to this otherwise bold design. One minor issue I encountered was the sizing. I usually wear an M, but I found it to be slightly tight around the waist. I suggest ordering a size up if you're unsure about your sizing. Overall, the Cupshe Army Twist Sleeveless Mini Dress is a great addition to my wardrobe. Its unique design and comfortable material make it perfect for both casual outings and more formal events. I highly recommend giving this fashion-forward piece a try! 🔗Summer Empire Waist Dress with Pocketshttps://preview.redd.it/6gklobez5i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f5e4238a064740d8a47859783d2011eb49dd34b7 I can't say enough about this versatile army green dress. The moment I pulled it out of the package, I could tell it was made from high-quality fabric. It's 95% Rayon and 5% Spandex, giving the exact right blend of comfort and flexibility. I just love the way it hugs my figure without being too tight. The empire waist is really flattering and helps define my waistline. Plus, the dress has pockets - a feature that's always a winner in my book! One of the things I appreciate most about this dress is how versatile it is. I've worn it casually with a pair of flats and I've dressed it up with some high heels and statement jewelry for a more formal occasion. It washes really well and doesn't lose its shape or color. I've even worn it to the beach and it worked perfectly with a pair of flip-flops and sunglasses. One minor negative is that the model's photos are a tad misleading, as the dress feels a bit longer on me than what's shown in the pictures. However, it's not a deal-breaker for me. Overall, I'm extremely satisfied with my purchase of this army green dress. It's comfortable, versatile, and fits me perfectly. I would recommend it to anyone looking for a comfortable and stylish addition to their wardrobe. 🔗Universal Thread Women's Midi Green Slip Dresshttps://preview.redd.it/uieatqmz5i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=694818da97a6fb6e5699da609af4adf7abef9eae Lately, I've been loving the Universal Thread Midi Slip Dress in green for those relaxed weekends spent brunching with friends or unwinding on date nights. This little number is incredibly comfortable, as it's made from a lightweight fabric that glides effortlessly over your body. The scoop neckline adds an extra touch of flirtiness, making this dress super versatile. Pair it with flats for a laid-back vibe, sneakers for a casual look, or even wedges for a dressier feel - the possibilities are endless! . Plus, the green hue adds a pop of color to any outfit. It's a wardrobe staple that's perfect for any low-key gathering. 🔗Lulus Sleeveless Twirl Wrap Dress in Emerald Greenhttps://preview.redd.it/lz16jc106i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=37a84f911d922fd48f07c5470c6fcc5e6cb770ef I recently purchased the Lulus My Whole Heart Emerald Green Long Sleeve Wrap Dress in size medium, and I have to say, it's my new go-to dress for special occasions. The moment I put it on, I felt a perfect blend of elegance and comfort. The emerald green color adds a vibrant touch to any event, while the long sleeves provide a modest yet stylish look. One of my favorite features is the self-tie cinch, which adds a distinctive touch to the overall design. It's perfect for those moments when you want to feel a little extra glamour. Plus, the front slit creates a sassy appearance that is sure to turn heads. However, there are a few things that could be improved. The polyester fabric has great movement but can be a bit warm during summer events. Additionally, although the wrap bodice is stunning, it does require some adjustment to ensure the perfect fit. Overall, I absolutely love the Lulus My Whole Heart Emerald Green Long Sleeve Wrap Dress and would recommend it to anyone looking for a unique and stylish evening dress. The twirly skirt and self-tie feature make it a standout piece that is sure to be a hit at any event. Just remember to keep an eye on the fabric's breathability and the wrap's fit for the best experience. 🔗Women's Dark Green Long Sleeve Dress with Pocketshttps://preview.redd.it/ygepumi06i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d3798ed4457a88dc386f2e0ab910be177249964 I recently had the pleasure of sporting the DB Moon Women's Casual Long Sleeve Dress, and let me tell you, it's quickly become one of my go-to outfits! This lovely green dress is not only stylish but super comfortable too, making it perfect for any casual occasion. The fabric is a wonderful blend of polyester and spandex that feels incredibly soft against my skin. Additionally, it's lightweight, breathable, and has just the right amount of stretch to allow for freedom of movement throughout the day. One of my favorite features of this dress is definitely the hidden pockets - so practical and convenient! The round neck and elastic waist add an extra touch of comfort, ensuring that I never have to worry about fighting with an uncomfortably tight waistband. Plus, the elastic waist seam helps keep the skirt from dragging down the bodice, strike a perfect balance of fit and looseness. Machine washable and hand washable, this dress is not only easy to care for but also boasts numerous care instructions to maintain its pristine condition. With low temperature water and a gentle wash cycle, you can keep this dress looking like new for many wears to come. While there aren't any immediate drawbacks to this dress, I would love to see a slightly wider range of sizes available. However, that hasn't stopped me from wearing it regularly and receiving numerous compliments on its lovely green hue and casual, easy-going style. 🔗Green Belted Maxi Dress by Cupshehttps://preview.redd.it/xe81ryu06i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3eefd8b33f3bb731abada88bac6d933634cd3dd2 I recently decided to go for a night out with friends and I was in a desperate need of a dress that would make a statement. As I was browsing through the Cupshe collection online, I came across this In the Groove Emerald Belted Maxi Dress. The color was lovely and the belted waist looked so flattering! I ordered my XS size and it arrived just in time for the occasion. As soon as I tried it on, I couldn't believe how comfortable and stylish it looked. The ribbed velvet gave it a luxurious feel and the surplice neckline added a touch of elegance to it. What I loved the most was the self-tie sash belt, which allowed me to cinch in my waist for that perfect hourglass figure. Plus, with short sleeves and a flowy silhouette, it was the perfect blend of casual yet sophisticated. Another great thing about this dress is that it's super easy to care for. It requires regular washing, making it convenient for daily wear or special occasions. The only downside I noticed was that it's made of 95% polyester and 5% spandex, which may not be the most breathable fabric for very hot weather. Overall, I am very pleased with my purchase and would highly recommend this dress to anyone looking to elevate their style and make a statement at their next event. 🔗Versatile Women's Long Sleeve Boat Neck Pocket Dresshttps://preview.redd.it/idcrwr716i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5bc536a95aa2ad619fb82be26c644d21c9f11b4a I recently got my hands on this lovely green dress, and believe me, it has quickly become a staple in my wardrobe. The Themogan Women's Casual Long Sleeve Boat Neck Knee Length Pocket A-Line Swing T-Shirt Dress in Forest Green is perfect for any occasion. The first time I wore it, I was pleasantly surprised by the comfort level of the stretch jersey material. It's so soft and light, making it perfect for warmer days or evenings out. I find myself reaching for this dress as often as possible because it's just that comfortable! One of the things I love most about this dress is its versatility. On weekdays, I pair it with a blazer and some cute flats for work. But on weekends or when I'm traveling, I throw on a pair of sandals or sneakers and some jewelry to dress it up a bit. Plus, the pockets are an added bonus – they're perfect for holding my phone, keys, and wallet while I'm on-the-go. As much as I adore this dress, there's one minor downside: it tends to wrinkle easily. To keep it looking its best, I've had to invest in a good steamer or iron. It's not a deal-breaker by any means, but it's something to keep in mind if you're considering adding this dress to your collection. Overall, I am absolutely thrilled with my purchase of the Themogan Women's Casual Long Sleeve Boat Neck Knee Length Pocket A-Line Swing T-Shirt Dress in Forest Green. Its incredible comfort, versatility, and stylish design make it a must-have for any busy woman's wardrobe. Buyer's GuideCasual green dresses are versatile pieces of clothing that can easily be dressed up or down for various occasions. Whether you're attending a backyard barbecue, running errands, or simply lounging around the house, there's a green dress out there that will suit your needs. However, finding the perfect casual green dress can be challenging with so many options available. To make your shopping experience easier, we've compiled a buyer's guide detailing important features, considerations, and general advice about casual green dresses.Choose the Right Fabrichttps://preview.redd.it/cf5cj0s16i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef938d41eb973e75f69ea4ffd1631fa5b7be93eb The fabric plays a significant role in determining the comfort, breathability, and durability of your casual green dress. Opt for natural fibers like cotton, linen, or rayon for comfort and breathability. These fabrics are lightweight and perfect for warmer climates. On the other hand, polyester blends offer more structure and can withstand frequent washing without losing their shape. Consider each fabric's pros and cons before making your final decision. Consider the SilhouetteCasual green dresses come in various silhouettes, from flowing maxi dresses to tailored midi dresses and shorter minis. The right silhouette depends on your personal style and body type. A-line dresses are universally flattering as they cinch at the waist and flare out towards the hem, creating an hourglass shape. Wrap dresses are another option that accentuates the waistline and offers ample coverage. Shirt dresses provide a more relaxed fit, making them ideal for laid-back days.Pick the Right LengthCasual green dresses are available in different lengths, ranging from mini to maxi. Minis can be suitable for warmer weather or more casual events, while midi and maxi dresses are great for adding elegance and keeping cool in hotter climates. Ensure the length of your dress suits your personal style and comfort level. Additionally, check local dress codes if attending an event to ensure your dress meets any requirements. https://preview.redd.it/zseoco426i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=73f67eb071e902e1819cad76e3ecde8e92b293a1 Accessorize AppropriatelyCasual green dresses can be accessorized in numerous ways to create various looks. Pair your dress with neutral-colored sandals or sneakers for a laid-back vibe. Dress it up with heeled pumps or wedges for a more polished appearance. Add statement jewelry like bold earrings or a chunky necklace to elevate your outfit further. A stylish clutch or crossbody bag helps carry essentials while maintaining the overall aesthetic of your ensemble.Take Care of Your DressTo prolong the life of your casual green dress, follow proper care instructions. Hand-washing is ideal to prevent color fading and fabric stretching. If machine-washing is necessary, use a gentle cycle and cold water to maintain garment quality. Avoid using bleach or fabric softeners, as these can damage clothing materials. Lastly, always hang your dress to dry to preserve its shape and prevent wrinkles.FAQhttps://preview.redd.it/4p3c7nn26i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=abc60ae33c3de772e8ac6524fdcd338f1c024707 What is the best type of fabric for a casual green dress?Cotton, linen, and chiffon are popular choices for casual green dresses due to their breathability and comfort. Each of these fabrics has unique qualities, so it's important to consider personal preferences and the specific dress style when making a decision.How can I find a green dress that suits my body shape?Body shape plays a significant role in finding the right dress. A-line and empire waist dresses are usually flattering for most body shapes. Additionally, consider the dress's length and sleeve style in relation to your height and personal style preferences. https://preview.redd.it/zbng3lw26i1d1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8f0405b153505bc2006ef26685420b64da556f36 What type of accessories should I pair with a casual green dress?Neutral-colored accessories, such as gold or silver jewelry, complement green dresses well. A matching clutch or handbag can also enhance the overall look. Shoes, on the other hand, should be chosen based on the dress's level of formality and personal style.How do I care for a casual green dress?Caring for a casual green dress depends on its fabric. Generally, cotton and linen dresses should be machine-washed on a gentle cycle and air-dried to prevent shrinking and maintain the fabric's quality. Chiffon dresses require more delicate care, such as hand washing or dry cleaning.Can I dress up a casual green dress for a more formal occasion?Yes, you can dress up a casual green dress by adding statement pieces like bold jewelry, structured handbags, and high heels. Layering with a blazer or cardigan can also elevate the overall look, making it suitable for more formal events.How can I determine the right size for a green dress?To ensure a proper fit, it's essential to check the size chart provided by the retailer. Measure your bust, waist, and hips, and compare these measurements to the size chart to determine the right size for a green dress.How do I choose the right green color for a dress based on my skin tone?Your skin tone plays a significant role in choosing the right green color. Those with cool-toned skin may find olive, emerald, and forest green more flattering, whereas those with warm-toned skin may prefer lime, mint, and green-yellow hues.What should I look for in a casual green dress to ensure it's comfortable and stylish?
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2024.05.20 05:41 New_Designer_768 AITA for sending a screenshot of the messages that my ex sent me to his new partner?
this is translated in google translator
My ex and I wrote to each other again after a few months (the relationship was long distance, it lasted 2 years) and we distanced ourselves again because we fought a lot (at the end of the year) and in February of this same year I found out that he is dating someone Furthermore, I complained to him because we had agreed that we would take some time to improve, he even told me that he was not going anywhere. The thing is, I told him that he thought he loved me, right? and he said he needed that and "how do you think I'm going to be with someone I'm dating forever?". Curiously, a week before (literally) I wrote to him saying that I felt like he was falling out of love with me... and I asked him if he still wanted a future with me, and he told me yes...
Days passed and I wrote to him apologizing, basically accepting that he is with someone else, I was very sad, I cried every day, until he wrote to me one night, saying that he missed me and that he thought about me every day and that he still He slept with a stuffed animal that I gave him... he also asked me to delete the message. The message confused me a lot, I just said good night. Days passed and I felt happy with the thought of "he is with her, but he loves me, and when he feels ready he will come with me", days passed and I realized how bad that thought was, I also began to See things from the past relationship. Apart from making me hide the relationship, making me never comment on anything with hearts and so, when he complained to him because he didn't tell anyone that he has a girlfriend, he made me feel bad for complaining to him. Another thing is that when we were having sexting, during the time we talked again after finishing, he accidentally said that: "the photos I like the most are the first ones, they make me very nostalgic."
Those first photos were when I was 15 years old, he was just 18 years old.
By the time this happened, he was 21, I had asked him to delete those photos, that's why I got scared when he said it, and he realized it and told me, sorry, sorry, I'm going to delete it, I'm going to delete it (I didn't mind). believe).
When I realized that, I sent an arrest to the girl he was dating, and that night he complained to me for doing that, which was a very weak moment and I took advantage of it. I told him that I didn't want anything to do with him anymore, that I forgave him and blocked him. he didn't apologize. The next day I felt bad, because I thought the best thing was to walk away without doing anything. In itself, I'm doing you a favor for not canceling it with all this...
did I do wrong? he deserved it? Should I have done something else? I give more information if you need... help
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My ex and I wrote to each other again after a few months (the relationship was long distance, it lasted 2 years) and we distanced ourselves again because we fought a lot (at the end of the year) and in February of this same year I found out that he is dating someone Furthermore, I complained to him because we had agreed that we would take some time to improve, he even told me that he was not going anywhere. The thing is, I told him that he thought he loved me, right? and he said he needed that and "how do you think I'm going to be with someone I'm dating forever?". Curiously, a week before (literally) I wrote to him saying that I felt like he was falling out of love with me... and I asked him if he still wanted a future with me, and he told me yes...
Days passed and I wrote to him apologizing, basically accepting that he is with someone else, I was very sad, I cried every day, until he wrote to me one night, saying that he missed me and that he thought about me every day and that he still He slept with a stuffed animal that I gave him... he also asked me to delete the message. The message confused me a lot, I just said good night. Days passed and I felt happy with the thought of "he is with her, but he loves me, and when he feels ready he will come with me", days passed and I realized how bad that thought was, I also began to See things from the past relationship. Apart from making me hide the relationship, making me never comment on anything with hearts and so, when he complained to him because he didn't tell anyone that he has a girlfriend, he made me feel bad for complaining to him. Another thing is that when we were having sexting, during the time we talked again after finishing, he accidentally said that: "the photos I like the most are the first ones, they make me very nostalgic."
Those first photos were when I was 15 years old, he was just 18 years old.
By the time this happened, he was 21, I had asked him to delete those photos, that's why I got scared when he said it, and he realized it and told me, sorry, sorry, I'm going to delete it, I'm going to delete it (I didn't mind). believe).
When I realized that, I sent an arrest to the girl he was dating, and that night he complained to me for doing that, which was a very weak moment and I took advantage of it. I told him that I didn't want anything to do with him anymore, that I forgave him and blocked him. he didn't apologize. The next day I felt bad, because I thought the best thing was to walk away without doing anything. In itself, I'm doing you a favor for not canceling it with all this...
did I do wrong? he deserved it? Should I have done something else? I give more information if you need... help
2024.05.20 05:38 ThrowRApalmayqueso (UPDATE) I [30M] think my wife [29F] is in love with her female best friend.
Hi, it's been a long time and my other posts here got deleted so I give up in trying to post a final update and forgot about this site but today I saw that someone posted it on a site and I think is good to post an update because. I saw that there are people who keep sending me private messages asking how I'm doing.
I'm finally divorced, I thought it would take at least eight months to complete but it was faster than I thought since in my country it takes the signature of only one person for the divorce to be completed. She started making things complicated for me when she realized that we were really going to part ways, she even made up that I had cheated on her when I had only said that we were going to divorce because of differences, that way no one would ask, not even her parents who now think that I'm the one who cheated but I don't care. But as I always say; I got tired of trying to understand her and her actions.
I hope she can finally be happy, since I know she wasn't happy with me and I wish happiness for myself too.
I was very afraid that she might keep the house because she started telling me too many things because she wanted the house, but I didn't wanted to deal with her anymore so I just gave her a few of the furniture and appliances in the house even though I paid for everything, it doesn't matter, she was a housewife so after all she deserves her share in the divorce and I know her, She would have kept insisting and I was so feeble-minded at that point that I just wanted to stop seeing her forever, to be free of her.
I guess she came out of the closet herself because now she's dating an older woman and living with her as far as I know, I don't know if she lied to me and I don't want to know it, I don't want to know if that woman is another lover she had, I don't want to know how much they know each other, I don't care, I don't want to hurt myself with that. It's her life so at least now she's being herself. My sisters wanted to go and beat her up when they found out but I told them not to go or she could take advantage of that in the divorce. I found out about a lot of other things she did behind my back but I don't want to talk about it, just that I'm a big fool.
About her best friend, I really have no idea what happened to her, my sister knows that woman's wife and to this day they upload photos together with the baby. My sister couldn't talk about it to that woman's wife because, well, she doesn't have any proof and my wife always totally denied cheating on me with her.
I've been feeling good, I'm not going to lie and say it's easy, I think people on Internet have more empathy for my ex than for me when I talk about this haha but I think now I don't care anymore, I have my family and friends being my biggest support. I used to hide a lot of things from my psychologist because I knew that he would tell me that those things are wrong and a big part of me didn't wanted to hear the truth but a few months ago I was totally honest with many things that happened in my marriage, he scolded me a little but has helped me to see all the abusive things that I suffered, even if it was not something physical I think that mentally they damaged me a lot. I'm not going to play the victim because I refused myself many times to get out of there and keep trying like a fool. I don't see myself as a victim, I've been a victim before and I don't want to feel that way again
I've been going out with my friends to clubs, having married so young I lost part of my youth because I had to work, study and keep a house so I've been really enjoying partying. Less than a month ago I started dating a girl, it's nothing serious but we enjoy each other's company. It's weird to be with a woman who makes me feel ¿appreciated? And she doesn't look at me with boredom when I talk, I'm really quiet (Some people called me sexist for saying that being quiet is a good thing, but I never saw it as a flaw) but she's too talktive so It's always good to have a talk with her. My ex-wife and I had almost no intimacy, I have a trauma and it was hard for me to feel comfortable being intimate and now looking back, I thought my ex just wanted to make me feel comfortable but now I see that she used my trauma as an excuse to not touch me. Every time I tried to get comfortable, she would just say, "You know? Let's stop this or you'll have nightmares later.", I was very stupid too to believe all that, she just didn't wanted to touch me. But thanks to this girl I've started to enjoy myself and feel comfortable.
Not many things happened honestly, after giving the appliances and furniture to my ex, she just totally stopped talking to me and now she has a girlfriend or whatever they are. I've been focusing on myself, I feel like I'm too young to be divorced anymore but I feel good, I feel like this has been my biggest sign to start again and I want to move forward for myself and my family. I think I learned a lot about this as painful as it still is.
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I'm finally divorced, I thought it would take at least eight months to complete but it was faster than I thought since in my country it takes the signature of only one person for the divorce to be completed. She started making things complicated for me when she realized that we were really going to part ways, she even made up that I had cheated on her when I had only said that we were going to divorce because of differences, that way no one would ask, not even her parents who now think that I'm the one who cheated but I don't care. But as I always say; I got tired of trying to understand her and her actions.
I hope she can finally be happy, since I know she wasn't happy with me and I wish happiness for myself too.
I was very afraid that she might keep the house because she started telling me too many things because she wanted the house, but I didn't wanted to deal with her anymore so I just gave her a few of the furniture and appliances in the house even though I paid for everything, it doesn't matter, she was a housewife so after all she deserves her share in the divorce and I know her, She would have kept insisting and I was so feeble-minded at that point that I just wanted to stop seeing her forever, to be free of her.
I guess she came out of the closet herself because now she's dating an older woman and living with her as far as I know, I don't know if she lied to me and I don't want to know it, I don't want to know if that woman is another lover she had, I don't want to know how much they know each other, I don't care, I don't want to hurt myself with that. It's her life so at least now she's being herself. My sisters wanted to go and beat her up when they found out but I told them not to go or she could take advantage of that in the divorce. I found out about a lot of other things she did behind my back but I don't want to talk about it, just that I'm a big fool.
About her best friend, I really have no idea what happened to her, my sister knows that woman's wife and to this day they upload photos together with the baby. My sister couldn't talk about it to that woman's wife because, well, she doesn't have any proof and my wife always totally denied cheating on me with her.
I've been feeling good, I'm not going to lie and say it's easy, I think people on Internet have more empathy for my ex than for me when I talk about this haha but I think now I don't care anymore, I have my family and friends being my biggest support. I used to hide a lot of things from my psychologist because I knew that he would tell me that those things are wrong and a big part of me didn't wanted to hear the truth but a few months ago I was totally honest with many things that happened in my marriage, he scolded me a little but has helped me to see all the abusive things that I suffered, even if it was not something physical I think that mentally they damaged me a lot. I'm not going to play the victim because I refused myself many times to get out of there and keep trying like a fool. I don't see myself as a victim, I've been a victim before and I don't want to feel that way again
I've been going out with my friends to clubs, having married so young I lost part of my youth because I had to work, study and keep a house so I've been really enjoying partying. Less than a month ago I started dating a girl, it's nothing serious but we enjoy each other's company. It's weird to be with a woman who makes me feel ¿appreciated? And she doesn't look at me with boredom when I talk, I'm really quiet (Some people called me sexist for saying that being quiet is a good thing, but I never saw it as a flaw) but she's too talktive so It's always good to have a talk with her. My ex-wife and I had almost no intimacy, I have a trauma and it was hard for me to feel comfortable being intimate and now looking back, I thought my ex just wanted to make me feel comfortable but now I see that she used my trauma as an excuse to not touch me. Every time I tried to get comfortable, she would just say, "You know? Let's stop this or you'll have nightmares later.", I was very stupid too to believe all that, she just didn't wanted to touch me. But thanks to this girl I've started to enjoy myself and feel comfortable.
Not many things happened honestly, after giving the appliances and furniture to my ex, she just totally stopped talking to me and now she has a girlfriend or whatever they are. I've been focusing on myself, I feel like I'm too young to be divorced anymore but I feel good, I feel like this has been my biggest sign to start again and I want to move forward for myself and my family. I think I learned a lot about this as painful as it still is.
2024.05.20 05:37 cargon424 Farmers asked me to remove debris with a deadline or they would cancel our policy.
Howdy Folks! I received a letter from Farmers asking me to remove some debris from my backyard by a certain date. I have since completely removed the debris and have even taken extra measures such as power washing the entire back yard so that its almost spotless. I was given a date to have everything removed by, should I expect a drone or in person visit the date the deadline was set? Or what kind of next steps should be expected. The letter did not ask for me to submit photos just to remove the debris. Not sure what to expect next?
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2024.05.20 05:29 Mean-Pepper-5183 AITAH for ignoring a guy as I feel scared and freaked out but also feeling bad for it?
I (F) met this guy on a dating app 2 days ago and just from our 10 minute conversation on the app he had told me he found my Instagram then shortly added my Snapchat account, I began speaking to him on Snapchat and I began getting a very weird feeling.
Barley a day after us knowing eachother he proceeded to tell me what schools I attended from pre-K up to High school and I don't have any of this information on social media so I was confused but he said he recognised me from a Instagram photo of my high school.
He has now been texting me 24/7 and sending me multiple tiktoks telling me that I'm giving too many mixed signals, although I've known him for 2 days and respond to his messages only every hour or two. He also reminds me alot of my abusive ex as he has already began to threaten me and get very annoyed if he sees me reposting things on tiktok whilst he is on delivered.
I know it is wrong that I find some comfort in it as he reminds me of my ex but I don't know what to do and want to get rid of him but I cannot turn to anyone in my family as they will jusy say im being dramatic and to ignore it.
It is now 4am and he has been spamming my phone from 12pm, I know I will be told to block him and I do but he makes multiple accounts and I do not have any clue how he has found my phone number as I never give it out to anyone. I feel slightly scared but also feel bad for ignoring him as maybe he could have good intentions but not knowing how to show it in a normal way.
So please tell me Am I the A hole?
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Barley a day after us knowing eachother he proceeded to tell me what schools I attended from pre-K up to High school and I don't have any of this information on social media so I was confused but he said he recognised me from a Instagram photo of my high school.
He has now been texting me 24/7 and sending me multiple tiktoks telling me that I'm giving too many mixed signals, although I've known him for 2 days and respond to his messages only every hour or two. He also reminds me alot of my abusive ex as he has already began to threaten me and get very annoyed if he sees me reposting things on tiktok whilst he is on delivered.
I know it is wrong that I find some comfort in it as he reminds me of my ex but I don't know what to do and want to get rid of him but I cannot turn to anyone in my family as they will jusy say im being dramatic and to ignore it.
It is now 4am and he has been spamming my phone from 12pm, I know I will be told to block him and I do but he makes multiple accounts and I do not have any clue how he has found my phone number as I never give it out to anyone. I feel slightly scared but also feel bad for ignoring him as maybe he could have good intentions but not knowing how to show it in a normal way.
So please tell me Am I the A hole?
2024.05.20 05:19 Obvious-Squash-8786 [22] [M] Am I being catfished? Please help.
So I met this person on a mental health app. We’ve spoken for around a year, on and off. She told me she was from New Zealand — I mean, to me, she does sound kiwi (I’ve studied some of their literature and I think I’m familiar with the accent, my best friend is kiwi). I’ve heard her parents speak too. But… I used a grabify link to confirm her location via IP. It said South Africa! I haven’t video chatted with her, but I did get her to take a photo with my user and the date with her hand in the frame… She could have been using a VPN? For reference, she’s never asked me for inappropriate photographs (nudes etc.) or money. I just hope it’s nothing like sextortion omfg I’m having a panic attack.
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2024.05.20 05:18 PeachDeep2530 im f(21) he’s m(25). my boyfriend is curious of other girls, what do I do?
I’ll start off by saying I don’t know if im insecure because my ex used to cheat on me. but I feel see like my current boyfriend isn’t treating me right. (We’ve been dating for 11 months now) when we first started dating I had a look on his phone and he messaged other girls to have sexual interactions with while me and him were seeing eachother. then it went to some girl at the gym he knew he had matched with on tinder (she was hot he says) he looked her up on instagram chat to see if they had spoke on instagram? then his ex messaging him and he was entertaining it and deleted the messages. then he went to Bali for a boys trip. apparently some girl was trying to crack onto him and his friends had to remind him he had a partner. And last but not least. he told me he didn’t want to watch porn anymore because he felt guilty (I never told him to stop he said it) so I took his word, only to find out he still did it. He’s now stopped but he still looking at sexual girls on reddit, twitter and onlyfans. Because he’s “curious” I’ve tried to bring all of this up and he gets defensive and angry or flips it onto me. It makes me feel very poorly about myself especially when me and him have sex quite literally everyday. but he still needs to look at others. if we go out in public he always has a look at other girls. when he kept stuffing up I know I shouldn’t of but I stood on his level and would like guys photos so now he always flips that onto me. im 21. he’s 25. I’ve tried my hardest to make this relationship work but im the one that always feels like I can’t talk to him about this because he gets so angry and has tried to break up with me twice because of me sharing my emotions and I get angry and upset because he can’t seem to understand how this effects me. am I too sensitive? we are building a house together and when we’re good we are great! it’s ever since he’s moved into my family house the bad has happened. I haven’t been perfect either but I’ve never stood this low to make him feel insecure.
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2024.05.20 05:18 rubberduckieu69 Theory on my great grandfather's father
I am hoping some fellow genealogists may be able to share their thoughts about my theory concerning who my great grandfather's father is. I've been working to figure out who his father is for three and a half years now and believe the end is finally in sight. I would like some peace of mind, and I'm also hoping to share my theory with the family, as they've been very kind and accepting of the whole situation, likely because they didn't know the people involved personally. I'm also open to ideas that may prove my theory, beside having relatives from each side to test to see if they match our family, as I'm still trying to connect with biological cousins (only connected with an adopted one so far).
My grandma has two DNA matches from this one family, a grandson and great granddaughter of a couple, Gunichi and Masako. Unfortunately, the shared matches are too distant to be helpful. Based on how much DNA they share, I am confident that her grandfather is either Gunichi's brother, Gunichi's father, or Masako's father. I'll detail my evidence (or lack of) pointing towards each candidate:
For added context, my great grandpa was born in 1919 in Hawaii.
UKICHI TANOHARA - Masako's father Ukichi is who I currently believe the father to be. He was living in the same county as my great grandfather's mother (about 6 miles away). "Coincidentally," he had a son pass away around the time of my great grandpa's conception. Using the conception date calculator, his son's death date is literally a day before the range of conception dates. My theory is that he had a fling with my great grandpa's mother out of grief, or maybe because he had to travel to town to file his son's death certificate.
Some less important details: While I have not yet seen a photo of him, I have seen a photo of his sister and his nephew from another sister, and they both share some features with my great grandpa, which some other family members (including my grandma) seem to agree on. Also, Ukichi was the same age as my great grandpa's older sister's father, William Stone - the man we initially believed was his father as well. I bring this up because William was 30 years older than my great-great grandma. Ukichi was around that same age (possibly the same birth year).
KAKUTARO HASHIMOTO - Gunichi's father Kakutaro was my theory for a year or two. When I first found out that my great grandpa's father wasn't his father, I informed my great grandpa's cousin, and was surprised to learn that he had been told the story many years ago. He told me that my great grandpa's father was a Japanese traveling salesman. That fact is the reason why I believed Kakutaro to be the father. I thought the coincidence that he was a traveling salesman couldn't be a coincidence. However, now I'm more inclined to believe it was a story that got changed as it was passed down.
Beyond that, I don't have too much other evidence. Kakutaro arrived in NYC in April 1919 - a month after my great grandpa would've been conceived - so he was definitely traveling around at the time. One detail that made me change my mind about Kakutaro was seeing a photo of Gunichi. Gunichi and Masako's children do share some features with my great grandpa. However, Gunichi looks completely different. He doesn't share features with my great grandpa at all, meaning those features shared with my great grandpa came from Masako, who I haven't seen a photo of yet.
HATSUTARO HASHIMOTO - Gunichi's father I don't have much reason to suspect Hatsutaro. In fact, he was living on Kauai, whereas my great-great grandmother was living on Hawaii. I don't believe he had any reason to visit, especially since she was living in a more isolated town.
Thank you all for your thoughts and insight!
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My grandma has two DNA matches from this one family, a grandson and great granddaughter of a couple, Gunichi and Masako. Unfortunately, the shared matches are too distant to be helpful. Based on how much DNA they share, I am confident that her grandfather is either Gunichi's brother, Gunichi's father, or Masako's father. I'll detail my evidence (or lack of) pointing towards each candidate:
For added context, my great grandpa was born in 1919 in Hawaii.
UKICHI TANOHARA - Masako's father Ukichi is who I currently believe the father to be. He was living in the same county as my great grandfather's mother (about 6 miles away). "Coincidentally," he had a son pass away around the time of my great grandpa's conception. Using the conception date calculator, his son's death date is literally a day before the range of conception dates. My theory is that he had a fling with my great grandpa's mother out of grief, or maybe because he had to travel to town to file his son's death certificate.
Some less important details: While I have not yet seen a photo of him, I have seen a photo of his sister and his nephew from another sister, and they both share some features with my great grandpa, which some other family members (including my grandma) seem to agree on. Also, Ukichi was the same age as my great grandpa's older sister's father, William Stone - the man we initially believed was his father as well. I bring this up because William was 30 years older than my great-great grandma. Ukichi was around that same age (possibly the same birth year).
KAKUTARO HASHIMOTO - Gunichi's father Kakutaro was my theory for a year or two. When I first found out that my great grandpa's father wasn't his father, I informed my great grandpa's cousin, and was surprised to learn that he had been told the story many years ago. He told me that my great grandpa's father was a Japanese traveling salesman. That fact is the reason why I believed Kakutaro to be the father. I thought the coincidence that he was a traveling salesman couldn't be a coincidence. However, now I'm more inclined to believe it was a story that got changed as it was passed down.
Beyond that, I don't have too much other evidence. Kakutaro arrived in NYC in April 1919 - a month after my great grandpa would've been conceived - so he was definitely traveling around at the time. One detail that made me change my mind about Kakutaro was seeing a photo of Gunichi. Gunichi and Masako's children do share some features with my great grandpa. However, Gunichi looks completely different. He doesn't share features with my great grandpa at all, meaning those features shared with my great grandpa came from Masako, who I haven't seen a photo of yet.
HATSUTARO HASHIMOTO - Gunichi's father I don't have much reason to suspect Hatsutaro. In fact, he was living on Kauai, whereas my great-great grandmother was living on Hawaii. I don't believe he had any reason to visit, especially since she was living in a more isolated town.
Thank you all for your thoughts and insight!
2024.05.20 05:15 IntelligentRisk8572 AITA?
im new to Reddit so I apologize if im doing this wrong, i think im asking for advice/opinions.. im 21f and two or three years ago i started hanging out with an old friend again after a few years, it was right after a serious relationship for me so honestly i was just rebounding and having fun with an old friend. Anyways.. after about a month of hanging out everyday with him and his friends, and three hookups later, hes driving me home and says “ive started talking to this one girl recently and id feel bad if we kept seeing each other while I pursued her”. Very understandable, i told him thats no problem, no worries and that were all good. That was the last i heard of him until a year later.After about a year, im back together with the ex i was hung up on while rebounding with (well call him jake). Im at the mall with my friend and i get a “hey girly” text from a girl well call sara. Anyways, sara proceededs to say that her and jake were dating and she thinks jake was cheating on her with me, she then said when she found out abt the cheating he cried and said that while he tried to break it off with me, i “screamed and cried” and said “i love you, ill off myself if you leave… that I assaulted him during one of our hookups. I was blown away.
Sara clarifies and assures me she knows the truth and that hes a lying cheating loser and i fill her in on what really happened between us, keep in mind, I know woman can hurt men like that, but the three times we hooked up I was stomach down face down the whole time and it was during a very sickly time in my life, I was under 90lbs. It just wasn’t possible unless i drugged the mf somehow, he was very big… anyways, after that jake tried reaching out to me to hang out again and i literally said “if i assaulted you why would u wanna hang w ur abuser?” And blocked him after that.For the next year n half Sara and I aren’t close friends but we are mutuals and frequently interacted via instagram, the typical liking posts and replying to stories… i didnt start noticing anything off about Sara until it was basically too late, essentially it started with a TikTok she reposted on instagram saying something like “when she copy’s you” idk just something along those lines. I cant tell you why i had a feeling it was about me, but i did.. i ignored it and immediately pushed down the idea that she posted that directed towards me, i remember thinking to myself “there’s no way, i mean we’ve had literally no issues lol”.. and i mean her and i are still interacting completely normal still atp.
i cant remember how long after the TikTok repost till the indirect, direct posts, started getting really personal. Things like “the girl they cheat with is always uglier.” But it really started going downhill till i noticed.. no matter what time it is.. 4am..1pm.. she was my first instagram story viewer, without fail, everytime.In my head at this point im just thinking like “yk i post a lot, its not weird, maybe she’s just really active like me” during this time im really just trying to avoid the truth which is, that girl isn’t my friend, her and I weren’t close but i hold friends more dear than anything and i always have, she went through something hurtful that i was involved with and although i didnt know she and jake were together i felt i owed her loyalty and at least someone that’ll be real with her.
Now im getting to the main event.. i know.. this is already insane enough. Trust me. Anyways very very soon after i clock it that Sara is always my first viewer, thats when the eerily similar post come up. It started with random little things, and maybe thats why it took me so long to notice but it started with me posting a picture of a bush outside and, im not joking, two minutes later after being my first viewer, posts a SOMEHOW “prettier” (subjectively) bush than i posted. Then id post a selfie in a certain pose and minutes later shed post the same exact thing of herself. By this time ive NOTICED what’s slowly happening but I truly didnt want to believe this shit again im thinking to myself “youre not that bitch, why would someone COPY you” i mean this girl is pretty! Smart! Insane daddy’s money! Why tf would she be pressed over me, at the time i was sick and depressed and lowkey Emo.
the basically blatant copying continued for a few months, i really didnt want to bring it up and it had gotten to a point where i was thinking of this situation pretty often, it made me feel gross and weird and mean, i felt mean thinking she’d copy me. It was horrible. I had gotten Into a new Relationship at this time and i was just ignoring it until one day i lost a picture of a hummingbird and the caption says “omg a hummingbird has never been so close to me” those birds are very important to me they remind me of my grandmas old cottage. NOT EVEN A WHOLE 2 MINUTES GO BY and she posts a video of a hummingbird flying CLOSER to her.That was the breaking point for me honestly, i didn’t say anything to her nor post anything bout her, i simply unfollowed her on instagram and that was that, I unfollowed her and refreshed her account 5 seconds later SHE BLOCKED ME. It had all clicked, she was on my account all day. Everyday refreshing my account, always my first viewer, post exact lookalikes to what im postng, purchasing clothes and random things i own. It was all on purpose and she knew what she was doing. But that was that, what’s done was done and i moved on, literally forgot about her existence.
UNTIL THREE MONTHS LATER i get a. Message from one of those fake phone numbers saying “come get ur man girl” and sends a photo of my bf at the time liking a body photo of Sara’s on instagram. Now I wasn’t mad at the obviously photoshopped screenshot, like that shit was fucking stupidly photoshopped the fonts were completely different, i was mad about her HUNG UP on me. I replied saying stuff like youre nothing but a spoiled brat who cries when she doesnt get her way, i said she complains about these things in her life that she causes herself, all the drama she was in and i blindly defend her, somehow she was always in beef with ppl that stalked her and copy’s her an all these People want to be as rich and pretty and smart and funny her and they cant so they hate her, i said you are the evil one and now i see it, you cause these issues and when people defend themselves or disengage with you because of your behavior towards them you blast them on social media painting them as the bag guy because you know people will blindly believe you. I said much more in much better wording but thats basically that.. AND BOY DID SHE NOT LIKE THAT
here begins the relentless posting of me, she’s posted blatant insane lies like im a pedo and a racist,, that i support mass genocide and im a rapist, im a stalker who wants to be her so bad but ill never be as educated and wealthy and ill never have a good job and will be a lifeless loser my whole life. INSANE SHIT LMAOO, i entertained it for a while, shed post lies and id post “un actually here’s what happened” and she’s post my post and cover out the parts she sounds bad and only post the parts where I admittedly went wrong, but like i willl literally admit Where i said sum I shouldn’t have so wtf.This cycle goes on for months, she contacts these older girls who previously had beef with me and had them give her all my information so now she’s signing my phone number up for the national guard, my address, my full name and family’s name. She’s actually lost her mind atp, it’s been two years and biweekly she Post about. me, pushing this narrative that im all these things yet has no proof to back up anything, even tho i have timeline proof of my posts then hers, i buy something then she buys it after, saying Vietnamese noses are ugly. Proof of her asking for my information. She has her army of blinded losers constantly stalking me along with her and talking about me, texting me talking all this ignorant shit and ive sat here all by myself just flabbergasted, for the first year it really did get to me, id feel sick, i felt the need to prove to her and her instagram followers that im not who she’s saying i am, and even she herself knows that. I eventually just stopped fighting back, i stopped trying to clear my name and clear the air.. i learned she’s a Narcissist , no matter the response. She’s going to feed off of it, i’ve been nice, i’ve been rude, i’’ve been empathetic, and ive been cruel. nothing stopped her and im afraid nothing but time will.
This started when i was 19 and i’m now 21, i’’ve called the cops but since this is classified as “cyber bullying” there’s no laws and nothing they can do, after learning i called the cops on her she started posting about a case she’s making against me for defamation which is confusing bc i never told a lie, she did. I notice After two years she just projects everything, her deepest insecurities are right there if you look, it’s what she brags, and shows off the most, herself. She has everything, anyone could want and need yet she’s still so Miserable, yet me, broke as fuck, pretty but nothing to brag abt, i don’’t materially have what she has and she thinks because of that i created this whole mess, but ive always been richer,, im happy with myself, im content most days and thats incredible, i have the most beautiful friends who love me. And would die for me, family i adore. I have everything. The great job, the loads of money and gucci purse can fucking wait, thats my even what i want truly, i want to be a mother. there’s much more detail but this post is already so long and draining, i honestly dont know what to say, I haven’t gone on her account in months but ill still hear and see screenshots every now and then of what she says, the most recent one was yesterday and its that i apparently have been calling her little brothers phone, who’s also a minor. Just untrue, honestly sinister, evil shit. Evil person. And i regret befriending her..
2024.05.20 05:10 moon_cat_libra Partner Visa 820 Application Questions
Hello all!
I am putting together my Partner Visa (820) application, and I have a few questions about certain aspects. For reference, I am a 26-year-old female from the US, and my Australian partner is also 26.
Some background:
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I am putting together my Partner Visa (820) application, and I have a few questions about certain aspects. For reference, I am a 26-year-old female from the US, and my Australian partner is also 26.
Some background:
- We met/started dating in September 2022, while I was earning my Masters in Europe.
- I came out to Australia for 3 weeks in March 2023, which is when the relationship became committed and exclusive for the purposes of this visa application - We have photos, flight itineraries, hotel bookings, photos with his family etc. from this trip.
- I returned to the US afterward, and we have PLENTY of records of communication while during long-distance.
- My partner visited the US in June 2023, spent time with my family, and the two of us travelled within the US and took an international trip to Mexico together (we have various records of all of this).
- I moved to AUS on a Working Holiday Visa in September 2023, and my partner and I briefly lived with his parents until our own lease began in November 2023.
- Since living together, we have tons of photos together, photos with his family during holidays, joint wedding invitations, joint bank account, shared utilities & household expenses, joint car insurance, travel bookings, a visit from my parents (photos with both of our families together), etc.
- While we only moved in together in November 2023, we have heaps of evidence of our relationship and commitment to one another while doing long distance & travelling prior to this. Is this sufficient to prove that we have been in a de-facto relationship for 12 months, or is it crucial to get a relationship registration? I have read conflicting information everywhere about the "12-month cohabitation" requirement.
- In regard to the health requirement, I understand that you receive a HAP ID and a list of requirements once the application is submitted, meaning that you couldn't schedule the appointment beforehand even if you wanted to. However, some people have said that they are immediately asked to make an appointment and are given 30 days to submit the documents?
- Can anyone from the US advise on how they completed the US police check? It is so annoying that we need to send fingerprints by mail, I am not sure whether doing this myself (and risking the prints being rejected) or paying for it at a local police station (which can be booked out months in advance) is the best bet.
- For those who have had this granted and are US citizens, what is the processing time as of late? It seems like there is a huge variation, anything from 3 months to 2 years, and I am curious if the applicant's home country has a significant impact on this or if other factors are more important.
2024.05.20 05:08 coleca617 [REVIEW] POOR REPLICA & SHADY SERVICE: Hermes Depeches 25 in Noir Togo leather from seller Linda
![[REVIEW] POOR REPLICA & SHADY SERVICE: Hermes Depeches 25 in Noir Togo leather from seller Linda](https://b.thumbs.redditmedia.com/b_6_cknbyNPOh6FWT9JxlaYzv565C_VuRDl-w8ejWDc.jpg "[REVIEW] POOR REPLICA & SHADY SERVICE: Hermes Depeches 25 in Noir Togo leather from seller Linda") | Disclosure - No incentive offered or received. submitted by coleca617 to DesignerReps [link] [comments] Seller - Linda. Whatsapp: (86)13631359060. Store page: LINK Price - 2590Y + 290Y for shipping = 2880 Yuan = ~400 USD Payment method - Paypal F&F Shipping - FedEx Timeline - 5/5: Order requested with seller and payment made same day 5/7: PSPs received 5/16: Bag received in USA PHOTOS: ● My Photos - LINK ● PSPs received - LINK ● Authentic Link and Pictures- Can be the brand website or reseller sites such as Spotted Fashion, Bragmybag, TPF, and resale sites like Fashionphile and The RealReal. REVIEW : ● Quality numeric rating and assessment - 3/10: Leather itself is soft but has a plasticky smell. I am hoping that will fade with time. The grain of the leather is a bit flatter and lighter than authentic Togo leather from the brand. From a distance this could be believable, but there are several obvious and major issues showing the item as a replica. ● Accuracy numeric rating - 1/10: In short, I am kicking myself for only relying on the PSPs which are mostly at a distance and I did not probe in detail with the seller with add’l photos. Here are the most notable problems: 1: As comparison shown HERE, the ‘HERMES PARIS’ **engraving on the sangle is completely wrong**–Font itself if wrong as is the size of the writing seems to be half the size and not centered. This wasn’t evident in the PSPs. 2: As comparison shown HERE, I didn’t initially even notice this in the PSPs as I was paying more attention to the font/lettering which can look off, but ‘Hermes Paris made in france’ stamping is in the wrong place. They put the stamping on the lip of the middle flap rather than on the back wall of the bag. It appears that larger versions of the Depeches bag (in size 38 for instance) which are briefcases, do seem to place the stamping in the middle flap but not for the 25 size. 3: As shown HERE, the hole punched out in the sangles for the hardware, is larger than the hardware, thus the metal visible on the backside. Anyone who is familiar with hermes kelly products should recognize this as an obvious problem ● Satisfaction numeric rating - 1/10: This was my first purchase with the seller Linda although I have purchased many other bags with other ‘recommended’ sellers over the past 5 years. While most were smooth without issues, couple purchases with issues in the past were resolved with the seller easily with an exchange or refund. This was not the case with Linda. This is probably the most disappointing experience yet with a rep. While I did notice that Linda seems to have some reviews that were positive with other brands, I personally wouldn’t do business with her again, and wouldn’t recommend at least for Hermes products. ● Service/Communication rating - 1/10. Initial exchange was quick and was shipped out promptly. When I reached out regarding the issues most notably with the very obvious issues (i.e. obviously wrong engraving with the wrong font and tiny font size), the seller tried to tell me that this is Hermes’s new hardware; anyone familiar with Hermes products should know this is a ridiculous claim for Hermes. When I asked for 1 photo of an authentic item with engraving/font like this one, the seller stopped answering and just said “you accept it” with no options for resolution offered. Buyers beware. https://preview.redd.it/pdo9gnvz0i1d1.jpg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=143c21667c77d4a89cf547444583e1e164b61d03 |
2024.05.20 05:07 Extra-Spinach-9680 AITA for making up an excuse to cancel the plans with my date after his first impression was bad?
So I just went out on a date (or at least I was going on a date) with a guy I met off Hinge. I’ve had gotten all ready for this date hours beforehand and I was feeling confident, hot, and ready for a good night. As soon as I drive to this guys house and saw him come out, I immediately wasn’t attracted to him. He didn’t look like his photos on Hinge. He also did not try AT ALL to at least look like he had put in some effort for our date. I’m not a shallow person but if you offer to invite a girl to a 5 star restaurant and then show up in a hoodie, cargo pants and sneakers then it kinda looks off. For reference I was wearing a black dress, boots and a cropped leather jacket.
Immediately from the start I was holding the conversation as he was really quiet and awkward. As we were driving to the restaurant he admitted to me that he had taken an edible before this and he was a little high…
And that’s when I knew I couldn’t go on a date with this guy. Like that’s disrespectful right? So I quickly told the guy that we needed to go back to my apt which was 5 min away so I could change in my comfortable shoes. (As I felt very over dressed compared to him.) I told him he could just stay in the car. I went up called my girl friend and told her the situation. Some people might say I’m bitchy for this but honestly I don’t want to sit through a date I have no interest in because that’s just wasting both of our times. She told me should would call and pretend she’s freaking out about something and needs me to come pick her up. And that’s what happened. He understood and I dropped him back off.
This hasn’t happened to me before but I now know to FaceTime before meeting up. So AITA? I feel bad for lying but I honestly just felt embarrassed.
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Immediately from the start I was holding the conversation as he was really quiet and awkward. As we were driving to the restaurant he admitted to me that he had taken an edible before this and he was a little high…
And that’s when I knew I couldn’t go on a date with this guy. Like that’s disrespectful right? So I quickly told the guy that we needed to go back to my apt which was 5 min away so I could change in my comfortable shoes. (As I felt very over dressed compared to him.) I told him he could just stay in the car. I went up called my girl friend and told her the situation. Some people might say I’m bitchy for this but honestly I don’t want to sit through a date I have no interest in because that’s just wasting both of our times. She told me should would call and pretend she’s freaking out about something and needs me to come pick her up. And that’s what happened. He understood and I dropped him back off.
This hasn’t happened to me before but I now know to FaceTime before meeting up. So AITA? I feel bad for lying but I honestly just felt embarrassed.
2024.05.20 05:05 AromaticRepair8974 Unfair refund to buyer
 | https://preview.redd.it/tvgsm0hfzh1d1.png?width=469&format=png&auto=webp&s=020bf54a9cbef438e703c8ae40fbeba53747c454 submitted by AromaticRepair8974 to PlayerAuctions [link] [comments] A buyer requested a refund supposedly because the account did not match the provided information, although it did match completely (order 12741594). The account was for Call of Duty. He opened a dispute claiming that the account was level 1, which was correct and was evidenced in the photos I included in the listing (context: the account is a very nice account with a lot money inverted but is level 1 because is a new account). After opening the dispute, he stopped responding for more than 5 days and did not reply after I had responded to him. Therefore, I decided to escalate the issue to PlayerAuctions. Today, I received the news that they granted him the refund, and now I have a $10 penalty and my listings are hidden. Additionally, the account was not returned to me. This is completely unfair, so please address this case and resolve this issue for me because I lost the $100 sale and on top of that, I have to pay another $10 for the refund fee. This is a scam! I can't believe that, also the dispute number was #266039. You can check the post of the account yourselves (order 12741594), I included this link where you can find all the photos of the sold account: https://myalbum.com/album/Bi9XwryTqC8AFW/This is what was given to the buyer. What he said was that the account information didn't match, arguing that the account was level 1. As you can see in the top right corner, it is evident that the account is level 1, so these are false accusations and the account was given exactly as shown in the photos. If you don't take action on this matter. This is totally unfair, what do I have to do to get this resolved? |
2024.05.20 05:05 Grammarnazi_bot Using a camera as a ploy to talk to cute guys?
Hello all. I'm 22, have really bad anxiety when it comes to talking with cute guys, finding excuses to hang out with them, and coming up with date ideas. I figured that I have one of those cool cameras; I could use it as an ice breaker, offer to help them get some shots done at the park, which tricks them into having a picnic date with me (and also get to take photos). Thoughts on this?
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2024.05.20 05:03 Automatic_Nobody_168 Regret picking husband
Wish I had broken up with my husband (30M) when I ( 25F) first met him 4 years ago. He led me on and kept sleeping with me while he secretly met with and was trying to decide what to do about the last girl he saw who found out she was pregnant. Can’t handle hearing her name ever or the word ab***tion. Why did I keep dating him after I found out? He was trying to decide if he should marry her.
We continued to date because I’m an idiot. And he wouldn’t stop following girls he slept with on social. He likes their selfies and messages them a lot. He got upset that I asked him to stop and remove them..:many times. I had moved into his house and he made me leave for a week because I asked him again to stop talking to this younger girl he slept with. I went to my parents for a week and found out he had been on tinder. I know he matched someone, but I don’t know if he cheated on me. I moved back in.
I eventually blocked the girl myself. He still has girls he dated on there and the girl he got pregnant on social too. He calls me insecure and to get over it. I feel like he made me insecure by talking to them and getting on tinder. I always wonder if he wanted her back instead of me. So many times he has declined to sleep with me and it makes me embarrassed and upset.
Fast forward and I’m pregnant. He maybe touches me ten times that year. He told me he didn’t really feel good about me during that time and I have no idea why. I feel so ugly and unsupported. He barely helps with the baby and I had PPD. He was complaining about me doing so badly to others. Apparently he needs to sleep after working 8 hours but I need to get up every hour every night to help our baby and all day long. I guess it’s safe for me to feel like I’m too tired to hold the baby but not safe for him to go to work tired.
He wanted to get married. We have a rushed wedding and he won’t let me change anything because he already mentioned possible dates to his dad. His dad picked our wedding date. His mom designed the wedding. I couldn’t go dress shopping or design my cake. I have hair growing out and a postpartum body. I can’t even look at my wedding photos. I feel like my special moment was taken from me. He wouldn’t let me change anything because he told family already and invited them. He also never got on one knee for me. Which all girls dream of. But he had an ex fiancé who he took to the beach and got on one knee for. For me he sat next to me on the first day I had morning sickness. I am jealous I am angry. I feel like he will never love me as much. She devastated him. I haven’t even known him half as long as she did.
He sounds horrible but he says very lovely things to me. He scratches my back for a long time and cooks what I want for dinner. I do not really feel comfortable talking to him about these things though. He gets very worked out and upset and calls me names…he is a good person I think though.
What do I do? Did I mess up my life? Should I get us relationship counseling? I don’t feel any peace. I feel he puts other girls feelings before mine. I feel too old and ugly and full of baggage to start over and I’m not sure I could handle someone else’s past either. I couldn’t handle another woman raising my girl.
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TLDR: husband has past flings on social and won’t remove them. His pregnancy when he met me. Wouldn’t stop talking to ex and was on tinder. What should I do?
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We continued to date because I’m an idiot. And he wouldn’t stop following girls he slept with on social. He likes their selfies and messages them a lot. He got upset that I asked him to stop and remove them..:many times. I had moved into his house and he made me leave for a week because I asked him again to stop talking to this younger girl he slept with. I went to my parents for a week and found out he had been on tinder. I know he matched someone, but I don’t know if he cheated on me. I moved back in.
I eventually blocked the girl myself. He still has girls he dated on there and the girl he got pregnant on social too. He calls me insecure and to get over it. I feel like he made me insecure by talking to them and getting on tinder. I always wonder if he wanted her back instead of me. So many times he has declined to sleep with me and it makes me embarrassed and upset.
Fast forward and I’m pregnant. He maybe touches me ten times that year. He told me he didn’t really feel good about me during that time and I have no idea why. I feel so ugly and unsupported. He barely helps with the baby and I had PPD. He was complaining about me doing so badly to others. Apparently he needs to sleep after working 8 hours but I need to get up every hour every night to help our baby and all day long. I guess it’s safe for me to feel like I’m too tired to hold the baby but not safe for him to go to work tired.
He wanted to get married. We have a rushed wedding and he won’t let me change anything because he already mentioned possible dates to his dad. His dad picked our wedding date. His mom designed the wedding. I couldn’t go dress shopping or design my cake. I have hair growing out and a postpartum body. I can’t even look at my wedding photos. I feel like my special moment was taken from me. He wouldn’t let me change anything because he told family already and invited them. He also never got on one knee for me. Which all girls dream of. But he had an ex fiancé who he took to the beach and got on one knee for. For me he sat next to me on the first day I had morning sickness. I am jealous I am angry. I feel like he will never love me as much. She devastated him. I haven’t even known him half as long as she did.
He sounds horrible but he says very lovely things to me. He scratches my back for a long time and cooks what I want for dinner. I do not really feel comfortable talking to him about these things though. He gets very worked out and upset and calls me names…he is a good person I think though.
What do I do? Did I mess up my life? Should I get us relationship counseling? I don’t feel any peace. I feel he puts other girls feelings before mine. I feel too old and ugly and full of baggage to start over and I’m not sure I could handle someone else’s past either. I couldn’t handle another woman raising my girl.
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TLDR: husband has past flings on social and won’t remove them. His pregnancy when he met me. Wouldn’t stop talking to ex and was on tinder. What should I do?
2024.05.20 05:02 Automatic_Nobody_168 Regret picking husband
Wish I had broken up with my husband (30M) when I ( 25F) first met him 4 years ago. He led me on and kept sleeping with me while he secretly met with and was trying to decide what to do about the last girl he saw who found out she was pregnant. Can’t handle hearing her name ever or the word ab***tion. Why did I keep dating him after I found out? He was trying to decide if he should marry her.
We continued to date because I’m an idiot. And he wouldn’t stop following girls he slept with on social. He likes their selfies and messages them a lot. He got upset that I asked him to stop and remove them..:many times. I had moved into his house and he made me leave for a week because I asked him again to stop talking to this younger girl he slept with. I went to my parents for a week and found out he had been on tinder. I know he matched someone, but I don’t know if he cheated on me. I moved back in.
I eventually blocked the girl myself. He still has girls he dated on there and the girl he got pregnant on social too. He calls me insecure and to get over it. I feel like he made me insecure by talking to them and getting on tinder. I always wonder if he wanted her back instead of me. So many times he has declined to sleep with me and it makes me embarrassed and upset.
Fast forward and I’m pregnant. He maybe touches me ten times that year. He told me he didn’t really feel good about me during that time and I have no idea why. I feel so ugly and unsupported. He barely helps with the baby and I had PPD. He was complaining about me doing so badly to others. Apparently he needs to sleep after working 8 hours but I need to get up every hour every night to help our baby and all day long. I guess it’s safe for me to feel like I’m too tired to hold the baby but not safe for him to go to work tired.
He wanted to get married. We have a rushed wedding and he won’t let me change anything because he already mentioned possible dates to his dad. His dad picked our wedding date. His mom designed the wedding. I couldn’t go dress shopping or design my cake. I have hair growing out and a postpartum body. I can’t even look at my wedding photos. I feel like my special moment was taken from me. He wouldn’t let me change anything because he told family already and invited them. He also never got on one knee for me. Which all girls dream of. But he had an ex fiancé who he took to the beach and got on one knee for. For me he sat next to me on the first day I had morning sickness. I am jealous I am angry. I feel like he will never love me as much. She devastated him. I haven’t even known him half as long as she did.
He sounds horrible but he says very lovely things to me. He scratches my back for a long time and cooks what I want for dinner. I do not really feel comfortable talking to him about these things though. He gets very worked out and upset and calls me names…he is a good person I think though.
What do I do? Did I mess up my life? Should I get us relationship counseling? I don’t feel any peace. I feel he puts other girls feelings before mine. I feel too old and ugly and full of baggage to start over and I’m not sure I could handle someone else’s past either. I couldn’t handle another woman raising my girl.
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TLDR: husband has past flings on social and won’t remove them. His pregnancy when he met me. Wouldn’t stop talking to ex and was on tinder. What should I do?
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We continued to date because I’m an idiot. And he wouldn’t stop following girls he slept with on social. He likes their selfies and messages them a lot. He got upset that I asked him to stop and remove them..:many times. I had moved into his house and he made me leave for a week because I asked him again to stop talking to this younger girl he slept with. I went to my parents for a week and found out he had been on tinder. I know he matched someone, but I don’t know if he cheated on me. I moved back in.
I eventually blocked the girl myself. He still has girls he dated on there and the girl he got pregnant on social too. He calls me insecure and to get over it. I feel like he made me insecure by talking to them and getting on tinder. I always wonder if he wanted her back instead of me. So many times he has declined to sleep with me and it makes me embarrassed and upset.
Fast forward and I’m pregnant. He maybe touches me ten times that year. He told me he didn’t really feel good about me during that time and I have no idea why. I feel so ugly and unsupported. He barely helps with the baby and I had PPD. He was complaining about me doing so badly to others. Apparently he needs to sleep after working 8 hours but I need to get up every hour every night to help our baby and all day long. I guess it’s safe for me to feel like I’m too tired to hold the baby but not safe for him to go to work tired.
He wanted to get married. We have a rushed wedding and he won’t let me change anything because he already mentioned possible dates to his dad. His dad picked our wedding date. His mom designed the wedding. I couldn’t go dress shopping or design my cake. I have hair growing out and a postpartum body. I can’t even look at my wedding photos. I feel like my special moment was taken from me. He wouldn’t let me change anything because he told family already and invited them. He also never got on one knee for me. Which all girls dream of. But he had an ex fiancé who he took to the beach and got on one knee for. For me he sat next to me on the first day I had morning sickness. I am jealous I am angry. I feel like he will never love me as much. She devastated him. I haven’t even known him half as long as she did.
He sounds horrible but he says very lovely things to me. He scratches my back for a long time and cooks what I want for dinner. I do not really feel comfortable talking to him about these things though. He gets very worked out and upset and calls me names…he is a good person I think though.
What do I do? Did I mess up my life? Should I get us relationship counseling? I don’t feel any peace. I feel he puts other girls feelings before mine. I feel too old and ugly and full of baggage to start over and I’m not sure I could handle someone else’s past either. I couldn’t handle another woman raising my girl.
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TLDR: husband has past flings on social and won’t remove them. His pregnancy when he met me. Wouldn’t stop talking to ex and was on tinder. What should I do?
2024.05.20 05:01 cs_phoenix Need help copying this TW fit
 | Hello, I’m trying to find the exact polo and pants Tiger is wearing in this photo so I figured this subreddit might help! At the least I’d like to figure out the event/date this photo was taken so I could try to continue my research from there. submitted by cs_phoenix to golf [link] [comments] I’ve done a reverse image search and stuff to no avail, so I’m hoping someone with good golf knowledge can help me out. I’m primarily interested in finding this exact polo (and pants) but any other recommendations are appreciated as well. Thanks! |
2024.05.20 04:59 IntelligentRisk8572 AITA?
im new to Reddit so I apologize if im doing this wrong, i think im asking for advice/opinions.. im 21f and two or three years ago i started hanging out with an old friend again after a few years, it was right after a serious relationship for me so honestly i was just rebounding and having fun with an old friend. Anyways.. after about a month of hanging out everyday with him and his friends, and three hookups later, hes driving me home and says “ive started talking to this one girl recently and id feel bad if we kept seeing each other while I pursued her”. Very understandable, i told him thats no problem, no worries and that were all good. That was the last i heard of him until a year later.After about a year, im back together with the ex i was hung up on while rebounding with (well call him jake). Im at the mall with my friend and i get a “hey girly” text from a girl well call sara. Anyways, sara proceededs to say that her and jake were dating and she thinks jake was cheating on her with me, she then said when she found out abt the cheating he cried and said that while he tried to break it off with me, i “screamed and cried” and said “i love you, ill off myself if you leave… that I assaulted him during one of our hookups. I was blown away.
Sara clarifies and assures me she knows the truth and that hes a lying cheating loser and i fill her in on what really happened between us, keep in mind, I know woman can hurt men like that, but the three times we hooked up I was stomach down face down the whole time and it was during a very sickly time in my life, I was under 90lbs. It just wasn’t possible unless i drugged the mf somehow, he was very big… anyways, after that jake tried reaching out to me to hang out again and i literally said “if i assaulted you why would u wanna hang w ur abuser?” And blocked him after that.For the next year n half Sara and I aren’t close friends but we are mutuals and frequently interacted via instagram, the typical liking posts and replying to stories… i didnt start noticing anything off about Sara until it was basically too late, essentially it started with a TikTok she reposted on instagram saying something like “when she copy’s you” idk just something along those lines. I cant tell you why i had a feeling it was about me, but i did.. i ignored it and immediately pushed down the idea that she posted that directed towards me, i remember thinking to myself “there’s no way, i mean we’ve had literally no issues lol”.. and i mean her and i are still interacting completely normal still atp.
i cant remember how long after the TikTok repost till the indirect, direct posts, started getting really personal. Things like “the girl they cheat with is always uglier.” But it really started going downhill till i noticed.. no matter what time it is.. 4am..1pm.. she was my first instagram story viewer, without fail, everytime.In my head at this point im just thinking like “yk i post a lot, its not weird, maybe she’s just really active like me” during this time im really just trying to avoid the truth which is, that girl isn’t my friend, her and I weren’t close but i hold friends more dear than anything and i always have, she went through something hurtful that i was involved with and although i didnt know she and jake were together i felt i owed her loyalty and at least someone that’ll be real with her.
Now im getting to the main event.. i know.. this is already insane enough. Trust me. Anyways very very soon after i clock it that Sara is always my first viewer, thats when the eerily similar post come up. It started with random little things, and maybe thats why it took me so long to notice but it started with me posting a picture of a bush outside and, im not joking, two minutes later after being my first viewer, posts a SOMEHOW “prettier” (subjectively) bush than i posted. Then id post a selfie in a certain pose and minutes later shed post the same exact thing of herself. By this time ive NOTICED what’s slowly happening but I truly didnt want to believe this shit again im thinking to myself “youre not that bitch, why would someone COPY you” i mean this girl is pretty! Smart! Insane daddy’s money! Why tf would she be pressed over me, at the time i was sick and depressed and lowkey Emo.
the basically blatant copying continued for a few months, i really didnt want to bring it up and it had gotten to a point where i was thinking of this situation pretty often, it made me feel gross and weird and mean, i felt mean thinking she’d copy me. It was horrible. I had gotten Into a new Relationship at this time and i was just ignoring it until one day i lost a picture of a hummingbird and the caption says “omg a hummingbird has never been so close to me” those birds are very important to me they remind me of my grandmas old cottage. NOT EVEN A WHOLE 2 MINUTES GO BY and she posts a video of a hummingbird flying CLOSER to her.That was the breaking point for me honestly, i didn’t say anything to her nor post anything bout her, i simply unfollowed her on instagram and that was that, I unfollowed her and refreshed her account 5 seconds later SHE BLOCKED ME. It had all clicked, she was on my account all day. Everyday refreshing my account, always my first viewer, post exact lookalikes to what im postng, purchasing clothes and random things i own. It was all on purpose and she knew what she was doing. But that was that, what’s done was done and i moved on, literally forgot about her existence.
UNTIL THREE MONTHS LATER i get a. Message from one of those fake phone numbers saying “come get ur man girl” and sends a photo of my bf at the time liking a body photo of Sara’s on instagram. Now I wasn’t mad at the obviously photoshopped screenshot, like that shit was fucking stupidly photoshopped the fonts were completely different, i was mad about her HUNG UP on me. I replied saying stuff like youre nothing but a spoiled brat who cries when she doesnt get her way, i said she complains about these things in her life that she causes herself, all the drama she was in and i blindly defend her, somehow she was always in beef with ppl that stalked her and copy’s her an all these People want to be as rich and pretty and smart and funny her and they cant so they hate her, i said you are the evil one and now i see it, you cause these issues and when people defend themselves or disengage with you because of your behavior towards them you blast them on social media painting them as the bag guy because you know people will blindly believe you. I said much more in much better wording but thats basically that.. AND BOY DID SHE NOT LIKE THAT
here begins the relentless posting of me, she’s posted blatant insane lies like im a pedo and a racist,, that i support mass genocide and im a rapist, im a stalker who wants to be her so bad but ill never be as educated and wealthy and ill never have a good job and will be a lifeless loser my whole life. INSANE SHIT LMAOO, i entertained it for a while, shed post lies and id post “un actually here’s what happened” and she’s post my post and cover out the parts she sounds bad and only post the parts where I admittedly went wrong, but like i willl literally admit Where i said sum I shouldn’t have so wtf.This cycle goes on for months, she contacts these older girls who previously had beef with me and had them give her all my information so now she’s signing my phone number up for the national guard, my address, my full name and family’s name. She’s actually lost her mind atp, it’s been two years and biweekly she Post about. me, pushing this narrative that im all these things yet has no proof to back up anything, even tho i have timeline proof of my posts then hers, i buy something then she buys it after, saying Vietnamese noses are ugly. Proof of her asking for my information. She has her army of blinded losers constantly stalking me along with her and talking about me, texting me talking all this ignorant shit and ive sat here all by myself just flabbergasted, for the first year it really did get to me, id feel sick, i felt the need to prove to her and her instagram followers that im not who she’s saying i am, and even she herself knows that. I eventually just stopped fighting back, i stopped trying to clear my name and clear the air.. i learned she’s a Narcissist , no matter the response. She’s going to feed off of it, i’ve been nice, i’ve been rude, i’’ve been empathetic, and ive been cruel. nothing stopped her and im afraid nothing but time will.
This started when i was 19 and i’m now 21, i’’ve called the cops but since this is classified as “cyber bullying” there’s no laws and nothing they can do, after learning i called the cops on her she started posting about a case she’s making against me for defamation which is confusing bc i never told a lie, she did. I notice After two years she just projects everything, her deepest insecurities are right there if you look, it’s what she brags, and shows off the most, herself. She has everything, anyone could want and need yet she’s still so Miserable, yet me, broke as fuck, pretty but nothing to brag abt, i don’’t materially have what she has and she thinks because of that i created this whole mess, but ive always been richer,, im happy with myself, im content most days and thats incredible, i have the most beautiful friends who love me. And would die for me, family i adore. I have everything. The great job, the loads of money and gucci purse can fucking wait, thats my even what i want truly, i want to be a mother. there’s much more detail but this post is already so long and draining, i honestly dont know what to say, I haven’t gone on her account in months but ill still hear and see screenshots every now and then of what she says, the most recent one was yesterday and its that i apparently have been calling her little brothers phone, who’s also a minor. Just untrue, honestly sinister, evil shit. Evil person. And i regret befriending her..
2024.05.20 04:51 PeachDeep2530 boyfriend is curious of other girls. What do I do?
I’ll start off by saying I don’t know if im insecure because my ex used to cheat on me. but I feel see like my current boyfriend isn’t treating me right. (We’ve been dating for 11 months now) when we first started dating I had a look on his phone and he messaged other girls to have sexual interactions with while me and him were seeing eachother. then it went to some girl at the gym he knew he had matched with on tinder (she was hot he says) he looked her up on instagram chat to see if they had spoke on instagram? then his ex messaging him and he was entertaining it and deleted the messages. then he went to Bali for a boys trip. apparently some girl was trying to crack onto him and his friends had to remind him he had a partner. And last but not least. he told me he didn’t want to watch porn anymore because he felt guilty (I never told him to stop he said it) so I took his word, only to find out he still did it. He’s now stopped but he still looking at sexual girls on reddit, twitter and onlyfans. Because he’s “curious” I’ve tried to bring all of this up and he gets defensive and angry or flips it onto me. It makes me feel very poorly about myself especially when me and him have sex quite literally everyday. but he still needs to look at others. if we go out in public he always has a look at other girls. when he kept stuffing up I know I shouldn’t of but I stood on his level and would like guys photos so now he always flips that onto me. im 21. he’s 25. I’ve tried my hardest to make this relationship work but im the one that always feels like I can’t talk to him about this because he gets so angry and has tried to break up with me twice because of me sharing my emotions and I get angry and upset because he can’t seem to understand how this effects me. am I too sensitive?
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