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2024.06.01 13:21 debzz_z My (34F) brain thinks I'm cheating, but I'm not
Hello everyone, first of all English isn't my first language, I'm on mobile, and I tend to ramble, so I'm sorry about that. I (34F) am in a short relationship (4 months) with L (28M), he's very kind and sweet, and I'm still adapting to this whole new relationship thing, for this last sentence I'll give you some background. My last serious relationship lasted for 3,5 years between me (24F at the time) and F (21M at the time). It started after we matched on a dating app and we went on our first date. Our first date was crazy perfect, he picked me up on a garden and we went to a tattoo/piercing shop where we got pierced. We talked for hours until evening, and he invited me to eat pizza at his place with his dad lol. It was super late by then, and I lived far far away, so we slept together just cuddling, nothing else. Since then we would meet each other every day. One time (6 months into the relationship) he rear ended another vehicle while going back home. So I decided to move closer to him, because the commute was getting to us. So I did. One week into the new lease, I had an accident and broke my ankle. So he decided that it was better for me to stay at his place to recover (bigger house, access to vehicles, and accessible in general). Three months and two surgeries after I decided it was time for me to go home, but he would convince me to "postpone just one more week" every time, and I would always oblige (I know the little doormat I sometimes am). And things would go like that until I hit the one year mark into that lease. And I said to him "or I move back home or I move definitely here, there's no middle therm", so I moved into his place. I offered to pay rent but he refused. Until this moment the relationship was perfect, his father also lived at that place, and we would always cook together, sing together, go for short trips, etc. But after a while I started to have symptoms of anxiety and depression. Until one day I had a panic attack by just sitting in front of my computer at work. I started to treat that and the doctors said I would have to stop work for a bit, because it was super serious (I don't want to go into too much details for that). At the beginning he was super supportive, but now I know that to have a relationship with someone w/ depression and anxiety it's super hard, 0/10 not recommend. So he and his friends started to be petty to me, and I noticed. One day me, him and his friend went for dinner and I got catchup for me. His friends started to berate me on how catchup is bad for my health and that I should stop using it. I simple replied that every time I see him he is smoking his cigarettes and I never said nothing. Or one time that his friend started to talk bad about gold digger women and insinuate that I was one, because I wasn't working. Before stopping to work I had a career in IT, while my bf had an assistant warehouse job, and I used to earn way more than him (that was never important to me before, honestly). So I said "I know I'm not working, but as soon as I get better I'll earn 4 times more than my bf, so your argument doesn't apply". Just wanted to point out that I had my savings, and I was living off it, paying for food, and other bills. My bf then was very mean and cold to me too, and at one point I asked "Do you want me to move out?" and he said "yes". "After that will you break up with me?" And he said "yes". So I activated my survival mode, and started to work my way into leaving. Between that, and getting a job, I started to pack my things quietly, and applying for jobs. All that while mourning the relationship. For him, I was doing nothing, but I was actually already in the way of signing a new lease, going to interviews and packing my things (and hiding in the house), I wanted to just disappear, I felt humiliated to not be able to leave in the next day after that talk. One day he went after me for sex, and I said "don't be like that, I feel like a piece of meat", he answered "so I'm going downstairs to get some salt then", and from that moment on, all the good feelings I had were replaced by disgust and disdain. A couple days after he asked me what I was going to do on next weekend, because he would go on a trip and wouldn't be home, and I said "nothing". I actually went to help the landlord to clean and paint the new place, since I wanted it to be ready ASAP. And I could move in next Wednesday. When I broke the news to him, he looked surprised and said "already??". So I kinda moved all out in less than a day. After that he would always go after me. I was 27 by then, and from that moment on the idea of a relationship would always make me sick. So I had the crazy teenager phase (since I always had long relationships before) and decided that I would be alone. I started to draw a plan to move to New Zealand, as far away from my ex possible and the plans didn't go through. But 3 years later I moved to Europe, my ex would always send messages saying he missed me, even when he was on a relationship, and in one of my birthdays he sent me a picture from his wallet with my picture in it. I replied politely, but I felt disdain honestly. We haven't talked in years now, honestly, and I'm alright with that. I was single for 7 years icking the idea of going through all that again. Ok, so now, what's happening? I'm 34 now, and I have my cute sweet new boyfriend, and every time he comes here to sleep with me I dream that I sneak out the bed to sleep with my ex. Even though I would never do that, even if he was in other bed next to us. I always feel guilty and dirty, like I'm cheating. I spend the days thinking that I should tell my bf, but I don't want to hurt him. All I feel for my ex is disdain and ick. But I feel like I'm hiding something. What do I do?
TL;DR!: Every time my bf sleeps over, I dream that I sneak out of the bed to go to sleep with my ex, and my brain thinks I'm cheating.
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TL;DR!: Every time my bf sleeps over, I dream that I sneak out of the bed to go to sleep with my ex, and my brain thinks I'm cheating.
2024.06.01 10:45 Ready-Bat-8824 May 2024 Hilaria Baldwin’s IG Recap = 5 Posts or “The Baby Also Has Sewer Slippers?!?”
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Alec: Well, in my family now, I'm the only person I know who drops four kids off at school in the morning and comes home and I still have three kids waiting for me. When I get home, I have seven - I have eight children. Ireland, my oldest daughter who's married, Ireland has a baby, and she and her boyfriend are living in Oregon. And I met my wife and I got remarried and I had seven kids in nine years. It's crazy. (I think you meant to say, “my wife is batshit crazy.” The devil is in the details, Zander) And then, all of a sudden, I met my wife, who I love dearly, (I think he repeats this in virtually every interview to counter the years of talking shit about Kim Basinger) every time the baby would get to be two years old, we’d go, maybe it's time for one more baby, one more baby, so we have seven kids. But we're actually selling our house, moving to Vermont. We bought a place in Vermont, and I'm trying to get everybody to start to acclimate up there…I think my wife wants a little change of scenery now, it's so crowded out here…I love Vermont. It's so peaceful. We got a great deal. We got fifty-five acres; house was built in 1792. It's very pretty. The Kids Want Alec Around All the Time Host: What do you do away from your family? Meaning, do you play golf? Do you play tennis? Alec: I play tennis all summer...The thing that's happened in these last ten years, especially the last three or four years, is my kids are used to me being around…I mean they really rely on that… when I'm gone, they're like, you know, they're on FaceTime. If I travel to go away for a couple of days to get a paycheck, they’re on my FaceTime going you know, where are you? What are you doing? You know, they're completely baffled when I go away. (God bless those kiddos and I’m preeetttttty sure they rely on Leonela/Leonetta a whole lot.) Drug & Alcohol Use Alec: Every day for two years, I think I snorted a line of cocaine from here to Saturn. We did one on the rings of Saturn. Then we came home. We took it back home. I mean, cocaine was like coffee back and everybody was doing it all day. I did a lot of coke and then I and then February 23rd, 1985…I stopped doing drugs and my drinking increased, which is they tell you that's going to happen, and that did happen. I just started drinking. I mean, and the thing, I miss drinking. I don't miss drugs at all, but I do miss drinking. I like to drink. (I appreciate next to nothing about this man, but I appreciate the honesty of this statement). Host: But because you don't drink, and because you don't do drugs, what do you do? Do you meditate? What do you do to deal with the pressures of the outside, you know, forces, (I think you mean “lawsuits”, Paul) what do you do to get away from that? Alec: (deadpan) Drink. I drink. I lied; I've been drinking nonstop since 1985. I lie. I tell people I'm sober and I drink my balls off. (Laughs) But no, I do miss drinking, I must say…New York relaxes me. I walk around and I see aspects of it that I've never seen before. I look at a building and I'll go, my god, I never noticed that about that building. Those doors. You know. New York is like a European city. You walk around and keep your eyes open. And I have lunches and coffee with my friends. (Um is he talking about the owner of Madman Espresso? Because that’s the only coffee related person we’ve ever seen him around.) And, I'd like to get out of here because the city is chaotic. (But also relaxing? What the hell?) But we live in the village. It's a little bit more residential. I love New York. I go to the symphony and the opera and the ballet all the time, you know, pretty regularly. But I do try to meditate. Meditating with seven children is like trying to play ping pong on the deck of an aircraft. It's a real pain in the ass. (But they rely on you, Alec?!?!)
MichWho was also there- if only Hillary's mallet could tap some life into the frozen tundra of Mich's mask/face.
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2024.06.01 09:09 jpegarya just needed to vent ig?
i am 19M and feeling really helpless alone and suicidal lately. Since past 3 years everything has been downhill. Never knew it would take such a turn but we had the best family like legit best mom best dad and a cute lil small sister. it all started with small fights b/w mom and dad back in 2k21 when my dad was diagnosed with covid and we almost lost him. But after that my dad went real paranoid. Thanks to those fights my mom was asked to leave on their 20th anniversary (lmao). it's been 2 years since i have even heard my mums voice. my small sister (that time only 9 yr old) got seprated from her mom which was obv traumatising for her. she went crying 24/7 in my arms saying i dont wanna live and all (which made me loose my shit fml). imagine a kid saying that in your arms. My dad went on full depressed and kinda umm idk what to say but yes we lost our bond. we didnt talk for months (except him shouting at me every single day). he attempted suicide twice thinking its all his fault which is clearly not but i am not the feelings express kinda person. i cant express my emotions towards anyone. After my mom i was asked to leave cause acc to him i was partner in crime with my mum. i was away from my sister my dad for 10 months at my grandpas house in a really remote village total loner everyday thinking i should end but the thought of my sis just holding me back. my dad said to me that i m dead to him and blocked me on everywhere. i took sleeping pills (triptomer, petril md) for 4 months (w/o anyone knowing) but still couldnt sleep at all. finally after 10 months i tried to speak. texted him thru dadu's phone managed to get back home with my dad and sis (delhi btw). in between that lost my girl too cause she wanted to cheat on me so bad 3 times and while breaking up said the most beautiful things bout my fam my mum my dad my sis. (hate her)
Moving on we spent delhi me around 3 4 months tg i hardly went out with my friends and my dad suddenly thought oh yes we should move to that stupid dadus place cause he wants some ass striking peace. what about me? hes forcing me to do neet its my 2nd drop year currently. my sis didnt went scl since 2k21. dadu and dads relations are not good either. they aint talking since what ig 2 months i suppose. and whenever they have to shout at each other they take their anger out on me as if i am a ragdoll. everyone treats me like a piece of shit. i dont live i just exist.
my current situationship initated things with me when i was not thinking abt dating at all , Saying things like how much she loves me she will always be beside me even if its long dist for how long only to break things apart in a month? saying things like your life and mine are way different. is it my fault that nobody in my family gets me? does that make me so much unlovable? the person who really craves/wants/needs love affection care never gets that. atp i dont have a single person to count on. yesterday evening only my dad said i am leaving very soon you better learn how to live alone. Honestly i would have ended myself long ago if it wasnt for my lil sis. shes the most beautful thing happened to me ever and loml literally. tho she doesnt talk to me at all but i get it shes growing. (idk if anyone would read this bs but yea why not try)
missed many things coz its my first time venting over here and i am lazy to type itna saara😭😭
ALSO SOMEONE PLS SUGGEST ME COURSES THAT I CAN PURSE INSTEAD OF NEET PLS. i had pcmb but i dont fw bio. suggest something with maths i love it. tysm ig?
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Moving on we spent delhi me around 3 4 months tg i hardly went out with my friends and my dad suddenly thought oh yes we should move to that stupid dadus place cause he wants some ass striking peace. what about me? hes forcing me to do neet its my 2nd drop year currently. my sis didnt went scl since 2k21. dadu and dads relations are not good either. they aint talking since what ig 2 months i suppose. and whenever they have to shout at each other they take their anger out on me as if i am a ragdoll. everyone treats me like a piece of shit. i dont live i just exist.
my current situationship initated things with me when i was not thinking abt dating at all , Saying things like how much she loves me she will always be beside me even if its long dist for how long only to break things apart in a month? saying things like your life and mine are way different. is it my fault that nobody in my family gets me? does that make me so much unlovable? the person who really craves/wants/needs love affection care never gets that. atp i dont have a single person to count on. yesterday evening only my dad said i am leaving very soon you better learn how to live alone. Honestly i would have ended myself long ago if it wasnt for my lil sis. shes the most beautful thing happened to me ever and loml literally. tho she doesnt talk to me at all but i get it shes growing. (idk if anyone would read this bs but yea why not try)
missed many things coz its my first time venting over here and i am lazy to type itna saara😭😭
ALSO SOMEONE PLS SUGGEST ME COURSES THAT I CAN PURSE INSTEAD OF NEET PLS. i had pcmb but i dont fw bio. suggest something with maths i love it. tysm ig?
2024.06.01 07:24 MondayCat73 [Thank You] 🥰 Such belated thanks for my Get Well Post! 🥰
This is so overdue as my surgery was 5 weeks ago yesterday but I gotta say the first three were really rough. Then infection & now a virus so it’s been a bit of a slog. However it’s successful and life changing and through it all I have had so much love I couldn’t believe all the post! Thank you ALL so much. I was so overwhelmed by life I couldn’t even open anything until around week three and then I was too emotional to cope! But the love, care, advice, fun things and beauty touched me so deeply. Thank you just isn’t enough. This is a special community and you are like family to me. I am so grateful to have you in my world. So, one surgery down, two to go. Later!!! On with the thank yous! These are too short and you all deserve an Oscar speech! Proper thank you’s will come! 💌
🥰 u/littlemermaidxx - I love Disney and especially sleeping beauty so Aurora was a perfect choice! Thank you for the stickers & loving wishes my friend.
🥰 u/grasshopper2231 - Such a beautiful envelope and adorable card you chose, along with the lovely get well message. Thank you!
🥰 u/ez330 - What a cute cat get well card. Whatever made you think I might like animals? Thank you. 😊
🥰 u/TyeDyeAmish - What a huge postcard!! I also have loved the Tattoo Talk! Been thinking of more I want! Thank you also for the fun stickers!!
🥰 u/mumbagoespainting - The card is stunningly gorgeous. You are super talented. I can’t believe you made this. Thank you for gifting me such a pretty card. The stickers are adorable! Florence is awesome! Music is my saving grace always too. I’ve been catching up with music docos! I still can’t get over the card. You talented soul. 💫
🥰 u/thecaledonianrose x 2 - Belated thanks for the Easter card and all those cute little Easter stickers! But especially for a beautiful card filled with well wishes. Thank you my friend. So very appreciated.
🥰 u/inkyfingerspgs - Absolutely loved (and needed) the Bear hugs & such thank you for such a supportive message.
🥰 u/neona65 - Your card is simply stunning! Gorgeous envelope & stickers too. Accompanied with such a lovely supportive message also. Thank you!
🥰 u/morenoodles - Thank you for the beautiful card and loving message. Now I know why there have been more sunny days! (Of course it’s raining today!) Thank you for sharing also. I’ll get back to you about that. I appreciated everything!
🥰 u/LibrarianTraining16 - Love the postcard and stickers! Your card got here before my surgery but I didn’t read it! My friend thank you for your support & love. Perfect music rec too! I love those films!!
🥰 u/t3ctim - The card is un”bee”lievabley adorable! You are super talented! They were all intact too! It was just adorable. Your words of strength were greatly appreciated also. Thank you!
🥰 u/Sufficient_Letter883 - Wow the envelope bursting with happy! Then all the stickers! Such a beautiful card. And the jokes! (Laughing with abdominal surgery was a challenge but it was totally perfect!) Loved the playlist! Loved all of it!! Thank you! You went to so much trouble.
🥰 u/amm565995 - A BOX!!! You sent a fricken box!! I ADORE your art! You are so talented. It’s like Van Gogh but made of paper! I have blue skies! Love the sentiment! I hung it on the wall to stare at straight away. And it’s winter here which I hate. A gazillion thank yous! Love it.
🥰 u/travel4me22 - What a bursting and stunning envelope! And you made the card! It’s so beautiful it’s just like you’d buy in the shops. You are insanely talented. Thanks for all the fun things to occupy me. And they have! So thoughtful. Thank you!!! 💫
🥰 u/aepeyc - Thank you for the lovely card with supportive message. You touched my heart.
🥰 u/relax455 - I am in awe of your talent! I absolutely adore the goats so much. Going to have to frame Hello Sunshine! Lovely get well message & great goat herd pun! Thank you for going to so much trouble! 💫
🥰 u/tigerlady13 - Beach Sister! Thank you for the beach healing postcard! I have made it to a local beach to breath in the sea air but that’s about it! I’m so jealous you have summer now! Hope you enjoy it! Thank you!!
🥰 u/hoolu123 - You got me with the dog postcard! Thank you so much for all the happy vibes! And Mr Bear (and donuts!) You are too kind!
🥰 u/imhereforthememes53 - I love turtles!! Love the quote from Rupi Kaur! Thank you for all the well wishes and pretty writing! So neat! And I love pink. Such care. Thank you!
🥰 u/ninajyang - Such a fun postcard with a lovely get well note! Thank you!
🥰 u/Pumpkin-Spice-Witch - Yay for the Hello Kitty card and triple yay for Neopet stickers! Somewhere I have a neopet plushie but not sure where that is. I have heard of Coachella. Didn’t know it was on YouTube! Will check it out and Raye is a new artist I haven’t heard of. Thank you my friend. You spoilt me!
🥰 u/synchrotronboson - Thank you for the Mt Rainier Postcard & hello from a fellow Swiftie! Although I am yet to listen to TTPD as I got the vinyl version and promised myself I’d sit and listen to it with the amazing booklet that comes with. I was handed your post while listening to Miss Americana! Thank you for your card & support!
🥰 u/35days - The Cat postcard is so adorable! Thank you. Beautiful washi & happy stickers. I adore the Tolkien quote so much! Thank you for all the healing wishes for smooth recovery. They are doing the job!
🥰 u/princecowboy - I love the card so much. I now need a version of my cat like that. I love how you can make your dog. And he’s a rescue. Our cat is a rescue! The best kind! I loved his story! That’s brilliant. Thank you!!
🥰 u/BucketResidence - Thank you for such a beautiful card, all the cute stickers & the loving well wishes.
🥰 u/Cassius1213 - I love Tarot!!! Thank you for the Tarot cart postcard from our Easter swap. It was so kind of you.
🥰 u/Melhen16 Thank you for the Get well Ocean card, cute stickers & I love that quote from Winnie the Pooh! Beautiful choice my friend. Thank you!
🥰 I also got a card from someone whose username wasn’t on there. It wished me a Speedy Recovery with a snail & stickers. from OR USA. If your real name starts with R, and this is you, please let me know so I can properly thank you! Thanks!
Thank you all! I am so grateful. Truly. 🥰
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🥰 u/littlemermaidxx - I love Disney and especially sleeping beauty so Aurora was a perfect choice! Thank you for the stickers & loving wishes my friend.
🥰 u/grasshopper2231 - Such a beautiful envelope and adorable card you chose, along with the lovely get well message. Thank you!
🥰 u/ez330 - What a cute cat get well card. Whatever made you think I might like animals? Thank you. 😊
🥰 u/TyeDyeAmish - What a huge postcard!! I also have loved the Tattoo Talk! Been thinking of more I want! Thank you also for the fun stickers!!
🥰 u/mumbagoespainting - The card is stunningly gorgeous. You are super talented. I can’t believe you made this. Thank you for gifting me such a pretty card. The stickers are adorable! Florence is awesome! Music is my saving grace always too. I’ve been catching up with music docos! I still can’t get over the card. You talented soul. 💫
🥰 u/thecaledonianrose x 2 - Belated thanks for the Easter card and all those cute little Easter stickers! But especially for a beautiful card filled with well wishes. Thank you my friend. So very appreciated.
🥰 u/inkyfingerspgs - Absolutely loved (and needed) the Bear hugs & such thank you for such a supportive message.
🥰 u/neona65 - Your card is simply stunning! Gorgeous envelope & stickers too. Accompanied with such a lovely supportive message also. Thank you!
🥰 u/morenoodles - Thank you for the beautiful card and loving message. Now I know why there have been more sunny days! (Of course it’s raining today!) Thank you for sharing also. I’ll get back to you about that. I appreciated everything!
🥰 u/LibrarianTraining16 - Love the postcard and stickers! Your card got here before my surgery but I didn’t read it! My friend thank you for your support & love. Perfect music rec too! I love those films!!
🥰 u/t3ctim - The card is un”bee”lievabley adorable! You are super talented! They were all intact too! It was just adorable. Your words of strength were greatly appreciated also. Thank you!
🥰 u/Sufficient_Letter883 - Wow the envelope bursting with happy! Then all the stickers! Such a beautiful card. And the jokes! (Laughing with abdominal surgery was a challenge but it was totally perfect!) Loved the playlist! Loved all of it!! Thank you! You went to so much trouble.
🥰 u/amm565995 - A BOX!!! You sent a fricken box!! I ADORE your art! You are so talented. It’s like Van Gogh but made of paper! I have blue skies! Love the sentiment! I hung it on the wall to stare at straight away. And it’s winter here which I hate. A gazillion thank yous! Love it.
🥰 u/travel4me22 - What a bursting and stunning envelope! And you made the card! It’s so beautiful it’s just like you’d buy in the shops. You are insanely talented. Thanks for all the fun things to occupy me. And they have! So thoughtful. Thank you!!! 💫
🥰 u/aepeyc - Thank you for the lovely card with supportive message. You touched my heart.
🥰 u/relax455 - I am in awe of your talent! I absolutely adore the goats so much. Going to have to frame Hello Sunshine! Lovely get well message & great goat herd pun! Thank you for going to so much trouble! 💫
🥰 u/tigerlady13 - Beach Sister! Thank you for the beach healing postcard! I have made it to a local beach to breath in the sea air but that’s about it! I’m so jealous you have summer now! Hope you enjoy it! Thank you!!
🥰 u/hoolu123 - You got me with the dog postcard! Thank you so much for all the happy vibes! And Mr Bear (and donuts!) You are too kind!
🥰 u/imhereforthememes53 - I love turtles!! Love the quote from Rupi Kaur! Thank you for all the well wishes and pretty writing! So neat! And I love pink. Such care. Thank you!
🥰 u/ninajyang - Such a fun postcard with a lovely get well note! Thank you!
🥰 u/Pumpkin-Spice-Witch - Yay for the Hello Kitty card and triple yay for Neopet stickers! Somewhere I have a neopet plushie but not sure where that is. I have heard of Coachella. Didn’t know it was on YouTube! Will check it out and Raye is a new artist I haven’t heard of. Thank you my friend. You spoilt me!
🥰 u/synchrotronboson - Thank you for the Mt Rainier Postcard & hello from a fellow Swiftie! Although I am yet to listen to TTPD as I got the vinyl version and promised myself I’d sit and listen to it with the amazing booklet that comes with. I was handed your post while listening to Miss Americana! Thank you for your card & support!
🥰 u/35days - The Cat postcard is so adorable! Thank you. Beautiful washi & happy stickers. I adore the Tolkien quote so much! Thank you for all the healing wishes for smooth recovery. They are doing the job!
🥰 u/princecowboy - I love the card so much. I now need a version of my cat like that. I love how you can make your dog. And he’s a rescue. Our cat is a rescue! The best kind! I loved his story! That’s brilliant. Thank you!!
🥰 u/BucketResidence - Thank you for such a beautiful card, all the cute stickers & the loving well wishes.
🥰 u/Cassius1213 - I love Tarot!!! Thank you for the Tarot cart postcard from our Easter swap. It was so kind of you.
🥰 u/Melhen16 Thank you for the Get well Ocean card, cute stickers & I love that quote from Winnie the Pooh! Beautiful choice my friend. Thank you!
🥰 I also got a card from someone whose username wasn’t on there. It wished me a Speedy Recovery with a snail & stickers. from OR USA. If your real name starts with R, and this is you, please let me know so I can properly thank you! Thanks!
Thank you all! I am so grateful. Truly. 🥰
2024.06.01 06:51 Ok_Comb_5303 AITA for beating up my best friends cousin ?
i know by the title you'll say "automatic asshole" but wait listen to my story first. ok so boom, i Amarya or Amri (F15) have a best friend Kameela or Kami. the other day during around i think like 3rd period and my bff's cousin is known for getting expelled for bullying n fighting n all that. She was introduced as a new students and the popular kids invited her in into their circle cuz yk, she was popular and all that, but during lunch me and kami let her sit down and with us since the popular kids decided to skip school the rest of that day. when we were eating lunch and talking. i meantioned my boyfriend named Dontrell my bffs cousin Amari who lets Kami call her Ari told me and i quote "bitch shut your stank ass up" and i looked at that bum like why tf is she saying that to me and i responded with "idk who stank ass you're talking about but definitely not mine sweetheart. are you jealous i got a man or smth ??" and i guess that fumed the alphas in her or some type of shit because then she started yelling at me and i told her "calm tf down" and after that she was a living nightmare. now i know bullies only bully others because their insecure but where i grew up don't mess with me or my family cuz then its gonna be a issue. now 2 days ago i was in the bathroom fixing up my edges and i felt a hand on my shoulder thinking it was kami so i said "what's up kami ?" and i heard a gremlin like deep ass voice that belonged to Amari "leave Dontrell tf alone before i handle you" like this is a MSA story. and i tell her "Leave my boyfriend alone ? hell no." and amari told me "You mean MY boyfriend ?" now i promise y'all im in a small town not the hood.. and i looked at her and told her "listen don't be delusional because he's my man and my man only. i know he's hot but stop acting like we're in some type of MSA story and leave me and him tf alone you understand, you might be kami's cousin but it doesn't mean i won't beat you're ass right here right now so leave me tf alone." and she punched me so obviously i got my get back and beat her tf up, a random girl found us fighting and reported us to the dean. i'm on suspension but my parents are on my side overall so i still have my phone and kami called me earlier about how her family is split between amari's side and my side and now i feel bad for beating amari up since well kami's family is split up between her and mines drama and now im debating if i go to apologize her or keep up my pride. so tell me AITA ??
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2024.06.01 04:28 tornado_c My love interest has disappeared without a trace. Should I confront him?
Okay, y'all. My friend has been heartbroken by a guy and she doesn't know if this guy cares about her. Dear woman wants me to write this post for her instead as she is I hereby quote, "Too lazy to do anything." I'm just posting this on behalf of her. Thank you in advance.
From her point of view:
Basically, I was introduced to this guy by my closest childhood friend. We've started talking for some time and at the start, everything seemed to go swimmingly well. Conversations flowed smoothly and it was dreamlike. There seemed to be some tension there: Staring into each other eyes, the whole world got quiet, etc. The friendship was initiated by the guy and he started texting me a lot and he would call me for hours on end. After only around a week of knowing me, he started pestering me for my phone number and he was extremely persistent. I ended up giving it to him. He started texting me every single day, morning till night, no matter whether if I replied or not. He would send me updates about his life like his outfit, etc. He decided to introduce me to his close friend and that went...well. In short, it was a call with his friends and the girl, who seemed obsessed with the guy as he kept putting me down and comparing herself to me in terms of closeness to the said guy.
He started asking about me at school, like he would ask my childhood best friend about how I was, if I was okay, how I was and all those sorts of stuff. Allegedly, my childhood best friend, let's call him M, always sounded really enthusiastic when he was talking about me. "His voice softens." He initiated everything, as I was not really interested. He would always beg me to call and I ended up giving in. We started having all these late night conversations about any topic that we were into. During these calls, he would always be a little flirtatious. He would always look at me really intimately, as if I was his world. He would say things like, "I like to see your face, stop hiding your beauty." "Oh my gosh, I love talking to you. You're so enchanting." He would always be flirting about how he would be a great boyfriend and constantly asked what my type of guys was. He even had the audacity to question why I was not into him. He did many other things to seem like he genuinely cared for me. For example, he had several lessons in a day. Yes, he's a rather busy lad. However, he would always make time for me and to reply to me, even if it was a text to inform me that he was busy and not purposely ignoring me. He knew that I had trust issues, so he would even send a picture that he was busy to prove that he wasn't purposely avoiding me. Every single time he and I were online on Whatsapp, he would always text me to ensure me that he wasn't ignoring me. Lastly, he is an extremely religious guy, and he never listened to music because of that. However, ever since he met me, he started to listen to the music that I liked and replied to it in detail. He never liked texting, but he would talk to me on Whatsapp all of the time. This is extremely untypical of him, as he is an unemotional guy. In addition to that, the effort put into that should mean something?
The guy kept trying to meet me in person. Since I have extreme trust issues, I didn't want to do that. He was a guy that I met online, and I had let's just say, unpleasant experiences with guys. This was after six months of knowing me. I told him to leave and that he was creep and a pervert due to my personal defense mechanism. He then left me alone and didn't talk to me for a full day. We then talked about it and I told him that I didn't want to talk about why as it was really personal to me. He said that it was fine and I could just tell him when I felt like it.
We were fine after this for another 7 - 8 months. He just really wanted to know and that he wanted me to be honest with him. I kept yelling at him and starting unnecessary fights due to that. Childish, I know. I regret that now, but that's just what I felt and acted upon at that point of time. After all of that, he left and refused to talk to me forever.
I tried to explain to him but he just pushed me away and said that it was fine. I know, I got a taste of my own medicine. He seemed really hurt about the fact that I called him a creep and a pervert and I kept saying that I cared about him when I wasn't willing to be honest with him about why I said those hurtful words in the first place. I tried everything from calling him, to sending him texts, whether it was messages to check up on him or paragraphs explaining and apologising for treating him like garbage.
I was about to leave him and the situation alone when he started picking up my calls. He would pick them up and he would say nothing and just leave the call running. I don't know why he did that, and that confuses me thoroughly.
I regret everything. I realized that I love him deeply. What should I do? He blocked me everywhere and he won't pick up my phone. I'm thinking about showing up at his house. The whole point is not to get him back, but to explain myself. To truly apologise for hurting him. I want to know how he truly feels. Whether he loved me before, still loves me or if it was a whole joke. I sincerely regret my actions, and I want to make up for them. The what if's are burning freshly into my wounds, and I would really appreciate to know the answers.
I know that I sound absolutely horrible and maybe deranged after that paragraph. However, I would really value the opinions of the public. Maybe y'all could help me out? Thank you for your time. Have a great year ahead.
PS. Btw, I apologize for that long winding paragraph and I appreciate y'all for putting away some precious time from your day to read and perhaps, respond to it. Every response is valued, and I really appreciate them.
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From her point of view:
Basically, I was introduced to this guy by my closest childhood friend. We've started talking for some time and at the start, everything seemed to go swimmingly well. Conversations flowed smoothly and it was dreamlike. There seemed to be some tension there: Staring into each other eyes, the whole world got quiet, etc. The friendship was initiated by the guy and he started texting me a lot and he would call me for hours on end. After only around a week of knowing me, he started pestering me for my phone number and he was extremely persistent. I ended up giving it to him. He started texting me every single day, morning till night, no matter whether if I replied or not. He would send me updates about his life like his outfit, etc. He decided to introduce me to his close friend and that went...well. In short, it was a call with his friends and the girl, who seemed obsessed with the guy as he kept putting me down and comparing herself to me in terms of closeness to the said guy.
He started asking about me at school, like he would ask my childhood best friend about how I was, if I was okay, how I was and all those sorts of stuff. Allegedly, my childhood best friend, let's call him M, always sounded really enthusiastic when he was talking about me. "His voice softens." He initiated everything, as I was not really interested. He would always beg me to call and I ended up giving in. We started having all these late night conversations about any topic that we were into. During these calls, he would always be a little flirtatious. He would always look at me really intimately, as if I was his world. He would say things like, "I like to see your face, stop hiding your beauty." "Oh my gosh, I love talking to you. You're so enchanting." He would always be flirting about how he would be a great boyfriend and constantly asked what my type of guys was. He even had the audacity to question why I was not into him. He did many other things to seem like he genuinely cared for me. For example, he had several lessons in a day. Yes, he's a rather busy lad. However, he would always make time for me and to reply to me, even if it was a text to inform me that he was busy and not purposely ignoring me. He knew that I had trust issues, so he would even send a picture that he was busy to prove that he wasn't purposely avoiding me. Every single time he and I were online on Whatsapp, he would always text me to ensure me that he wasn't ignoring me. Lastly, he is an extremely religious guy, and he never listened to music because of that. However, ever since he met me, he started to listen to the music that I liked and replied to it in detail. He never liked texting, but he would talk to me on Whatsapp all of the time. This is extremely untypical of him, as he is an unemotional guy. In addition to that, the effort put into that should mean something?
The guy kept trying to meet me in person. Since I have extreme trust issues, I didn't want to do that. He was a guy that I met online, and I had let's just say, unpleasant experiences with guys. This was after six months of knowing me. I told him to leave and that he was creep and a pervert due to my personal defense mechanism. He then left me alone and didn't talk to me for a full day. We then talked about it and I told him that I didn't want to talk about why as it was really personal to me. He said that it was fine and I could just tell him when I felt like it.
We were fine after this for another 7 - 8 months. He just really wanted to know and that he wanted me to be honest with him. I kept yelling at him and starting unnecessary fights due to that. Childish, I know. I regret that now, but that's just what I felt and acted upon at that point of time. After all of that, he left and refused to talk to me forever.
I tried to explain to him but he just pushed me away and said that it was fine. I know, I got a taste of my own medicine. He seemed really hurt about the fact that I called him a creep and a pervert and I kept saying that I cared about him when I wasn't willing to be honest with him about why I said those hurtful words in the first place. I tried everything from calling him, to sending him texts, whether it was messages to check up on him or paragraphs explaining and apologising for treating him like garbage.
I was about to leave him and the situation alone when he started picking up my calls. He would pick them up and he would say nothing and just leave the call running. I don't know why he did that, and that confuses me thoroughly.
I regret everything. I realized that I love him deeply. What should I do? He blocked me everywhere and he won't pick up my phone. I'm thinking about showing up at his house. The whole point is not to get him back, but to explain myself. To truly apologise for hurting him. I want to know how he truly feels. Whether he loved me before, still loves me or if it was a whole joke. I sincerely regret my actions, and I want to make up for them. The what if's are burning freshly into my wounds, and I would really appreciate to know the answers.
I know that I sound absolutely horrible and maybe deranged after that paragraph. However, I would really value the opinions of the public. Maybe y'all could help me out? Thank you for your time. Have a great year ahead.
PS. Btw, I apologize for that long winding paragraph and I appreciate y'all for putting away some precious time from your day to read and perhaps, respond to it. Every response is valued, and I really appreciate them.
2024.06.01 04:19 tornado_c I (19 F) am deeply confused about my love interest (21 M). Send help ASAP.
Okay, y'all. My friend has been heartbroken by a guy and she doesn't know if this guy cares about her. Dear woman wants me to write this post for her instead as she is I hereby quote, "Too lazy to do anything." I'm just posting this on behalf of her. Thank you in advance.
From her point of view:
Basically, I was introduced to this guy by my closest childhood friend. We've started talking for some time and at the start, everything seemed to go swimmingly well. Conversations flowed smoothly and it was dreamlike. There seemed to be some tension there: Staring into each other eyes, the whole world got quiet, etc. The friendship was initiated by the guy and he started texting me a lot and he would call me for hours on end. After only around a week of knowing me, he started pestering me for my phone number and he was extremely persistent. I ended up giving it to him. He started texting me every single day, morning till night, no matter whether if I replied or not. He would send me updates about his life like his outfit, etc. He decided to introduce me to his close friend and that went...well. In short, it was a call with his friends and the girl, who seemed obsessed with the guy as he kept putting me down and comparing herself to me in terms of closeness to the said guy.
He started asking about me at school, like he would ask my childhood best friend about how I was, if I was okay, how I was and all those sorts of stuff. Allegedly, my childhood best friend, let's call him M, always sounded really enthusiastic when he was talking about me. "His voice softens." He initiated everything, as I was not really interested. He would always beg me to call and I ended up giving in. We started having all these late night conversations about any topic that we were into. During these calls, he would always be a little flirtatious. He would always look at me really intimately, as if I was his world. He would say things like, "I like to see your face, stop hiding your beauty." "Oh my gosh, I love talking to you. You're so enchanting." He would always be flirting about how he would be a great boyfriend and constantly asked what my type of guys was. He even had the audacity to question why I was not into him. He did many other things to seem like he genuinely cared for me. For example, he had several lessons in a day. Yes, he's a rather busy lad. However, he would always make time for me and to reply to me, even if it was a text to inform me that he was busy and not purposely ignoring me. He knew that I had trust issues, so he would even send a picture that he was busy to prove that he wasn't purposely avoiding me. Every single time he and I were online on Whatsapp, he would always text me to ensure me that he wasn't ignoring me. Lastly, he is an extremely religious guy, and he never listened to music because of that. However, ever since he met me, he started to listen to the music that I liked and replied to it in detail. He never liked texting, but he would talk to me on Whatsapp all of the time. This is extremely untypical of him, as he is an unemotional guy. In addition to that, the effort put into that should mean something?
The guy kept trying to meet me in person. Since I have extreme trust issues, I didn't want to do that. He was a guy that I met online, and I had let's just say, unpleasant experiences with guys. This was after six months of knowing me. I told him to leave and that he was creep and a pervert due to my personal defense mechanism. He then left me alone and didn't talk to me for a full day. We then talked about it and I told him that I didn't want to talk about why as it was really personal to me. He said that it was fine and I could just tell him when I felt like it.
We were fine after this for another 7 - 8 months. He just really wanted to know and that he wanted me to be honest with him. I kept yelling at him and starting unnecessary fights due to that. Childish, I know. I regret that now, but that's just what I felt and acted upon at that point of time. After all of that, he left and refused to talk to me forever.
I tried to explain to him but he just pushed me away and said that it was fine. I know, I got a taste of my own medicine. He seemed really hurt about the fact that I called him a creep and a pervert and I kept saying that I cared about him when I wasn't willing to be honest with him about why I said those hurtful words in the first place. I tried everything from calling him, to sending him texts, whether it was messages to check up on him or paragraphs explaining and apologising for treating him like garbage.
I was about to leave him and the situation alone when he started picking up my calls. He would pick them up and he would say nothing and just leave the call running. I don't know why he did that, and that confuses me thoroughly.
I regret everything. I realized that I love him deeply. What should I do? He blocked me everywhere and he won't pick up my phone. I'm thinking about showing up at his house. The whole point is not to get him back, but to explain myself. To truly apologise for hurting him. I want to know how he truly feels. Whether he loved me before, still loves me or if it was a whole joke. I sincerely regret my actions, and I want to make up for them. The what if's are burning freshly into my wounds, and I would really appreciate to know the answers.
I know that I sound absolutely horrible and maybe deranged after that paragraph. However, I would really value the opinions of the public. Maybe y'all could help me out? Thank you for your time. Have a great year ahead.
PS. Btw, I apologize for that long winding paragraph and I appreciate y'all for putting away some precious time from your day to read and perhaps, respond to it. Every response is valued, and I really appreciate them.
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From her point of view:
Basically, I was introduced to this guy by my closest childhood friend. We've started talking for some time and at the start, everything seemed to go swimmingly well. Conversations flowed smoothly and it was dreamlike. There seemed to be some tension there: Staring into each other eyes, the whole world got quiet, etc. The friendship was initiated by the guy and he started texting me a lot and he would call me for hours on end. After only around a week of knowing me, he started pestering me for my phone number and he was extremely persistent. I ended up giving it to him. He started texting me every single day, morning till night, no matter whether if I replied or not. He would send me updates about his life like his outfit, etc. He decided to introduce me to his close friend and that went...well. In short, it was a call with his friends and the girl, who seemed obsessed with the guy as he kept putting me down and comparing herself to me in terms of closeness to the said guy.
He started asking about me at school, like he would ask my childhood best friend about how I was, if I was okay, how I was and all those sorts of stuff. Allegedly, my childhood best friend, let's call him M, always sounded really enthusiastic when he was talking about me. "His voice softens." He initiated everything, as I was not really interested. He would always beg me to call and I ended up giving in. We started having all these late night conversations about any topic that we were into. During these calls, he would always be a little flirtatious. He would always look at me really intimately, as if I was his world. He would say things like, "I like to see your face, stop hiding your beauty." "Oh my gosh, I love talking to you. You're so enchanting." He would always be flirting about how he would be a great boyfriend and constantly asked what my type of guys was. He even had the audacity to question why I was not into him. He did many other things to seem like he genuinely cared for me. For example, he had several lessons in a day. Yes, he's a rather busy lad. However, he would always make time for me and to reply to me, even if it was a text to inform me that he was busy and not purposely ignoring me. He knew that I had trust issues, so he would even send a picture that he was busy to prove that he wasn't purposely avoiding me. Every single time he and I were online on Whatsapp, he would always text me to ensure me that he wasn't ignoring me. Lastly, he is an extremely religious guy, and he never listened to music because of that. However, ever since he met me, he started to listen to the music that I liked and replied to it in detail. He never liked texting, but he would talk to me on Whatsapp all of the time. This is extremely untypical of him, as he is an unemotional guy. In addition to that, the effort put into that should mean something?
The guy kept trying to meet me in person. Since I have extreme trust issues, I didn't want to do that. He was a guy that I met online, and I had let's just say, unpleasant experiences with guys. This was after six months of knowing me. I told him to leave and that he was creep and a pervert due to my personal defense mechanism. He then left me alone and didn't talk to me for a full day. We then talked about it and I told him that I didn't want to talk about why as it was really personal to me. He said that it was fine and I could just tell him when I felt like it.
We were fine after this for another 7 - 8 months. He just really wanted to know and that he wanted me to be honest with him. I kept yelling at him and starting unnecessary fights due to that. Childish, I know. I regret that now, but that's just what I felt and acted upon at that point of time. After all of that, he left and refused to talk to me forever.
I tried to explain to him but he just pushed me away and said that it was fine. I know, I got a taste of my own medicine. He seemed really hurt about the fact that I called him a creep and a pervert and I kept saying that I cared about him when I wasn't willing to be honest with him about why I said those hurtful words in the first place. I tried everything from calling him, to sending him texts, whether it was messages to check up on him or paragraphs explaining and apologising for treating him like garbage.
I was about to leave him and the situation alone when he started picking up my calls. He would pick them up and he would say nothing and just leave the call running. I don't know why he did that, and that confuses me thoroughly.
I regret everything. I realized that I love him deeply. What should I do? He blocked me everywhere and he won't pick up my phone. I'm thinking about showing up at his house. The whole point is not to get him back, but to explain myself. To truly apologise for hurting him. I want to know how he truly feels. Whether he loved me before, still loves me or if it was a whole joke. I sincerely regret my actions, and I want to make up for them. The what if's are burning freshly into my wounds, and I would really appreciate to know the answers.
I know that I sound absolutely horrible and maybe deranged after that paragraph. However, I would really value the opinions of the public. Maybe y'all could help me out? Thank you for your time. Have a great year ahead.
PS. Btw, I apologize for that long winding paragraph and I appreciate y'all for putting away some precious time from your day to read and perhaps, respond to it. Every response is valued, and I really appreciate them.
2024.06.01 04:14 tornado_c Relationship Advice? I'm not sure what to do and I am confused about a guy that I love 21 M. I am 19 F turning 20 this year.
Okay, y'all. My friend has been heartbroken by a guy and she doesn't know if this guy cares about her. Dear woman wants me to write this post for her instead as she is I hereby quote, "Too lazy to do anything." I'm just posting this on behalf of her. Thank you in advance.
From her point of view:
Basically, I was introduced to this guy by my closest childhood friend. We've started talking for some time and at the start, everything seemed to go swimmingly well. Conversations flowed smoothly and it was dreamlike. There seemed to be some tension there: Staring into each other eyes, the whole world got quiet, etc. The friendship was initiated by the guy and he started texting me a lot and he would call me for hours on end. After only around a week of knowing me, he started pestering me for my phone number and he was extremely persistent. I ended up giving it to him. He started texting me every single day, morning till night, no matter whether if I replied or not. He would send me updates about his life like his outfit, etc. He decided to introduce me to his close friend and that went...well. In short, it was a call with his friends and the girl, who seemed obsessed with the guy as he kept putting me down and comparing herself to me in terms of closeness to the said guy.
He started asking about me at school, like he would ask my childhood best friend about how I was, if I was okay, how I was and all those sorts of stuff. Allegedly, my childhood best friend, let's call him M, always sounded really enthusiastic when he was talking about me. "His voice softens." He initiated everything, as I was not really interested. He would always beg me to call and I ended up giving in. We started having all these late night conversations about any topic that we were into. During these calls, he would always be a little flirtatious. He would always look at me really intimately, as if I was his world. He would say things like, "I like to see your face, stop hiding your beauty." "Oh my gosh, I love talking to you. You're so enchanting." He would always be flirting about how he would be a great boyfriend and constantly asked what my type of guys was. He even had the audacity to question why I was not into him. He did many other things to seem like he genuinely cared for me. For example, he had several lessons in a day. Yes, he's a rather busy lad. However, he would always make time for me and to reply to me, even if it was a text to inform me that he was busy and not purposely ignoring me. He knew that I had trust issues, so he would even send a picture that he was busy to prove that he wasn't purposely avoiding me. Every single time he and I were online on Whatsapp, he would always text me to ensure me that he wasn't ignoring me. Lastly, he is an extremely religious guy, and he never listened to music because of that. However, ever since he met me, he started to listen to the music that I liked and replied to it in detail. He never liked texting, but he would talk to me on Whatsapp all of the time. This is extremely untypical of him, as he is an unemotional guy. In addition to that, the effort put into that should mean something?
The guy kept trying to meet me in person. Since I have extreme trust issues, I didn't want to do that. He was a guy that I met online, and I had let's just say, unpleasant experiences with guys. This was after six months of knowing me. I told him to leave and that he was creep and a pervert due to my personal defense mechanism. He then left me alone and didn't talk to me for a full day. We then talked about it and I told him that I didn't want to talk about why as it was really personal to me. He said that it was fine and I could just tell him when I felt like it.
We were fine after this for another 7 - 8 months. He just really wanted to know and that he wanted me to be honest with him. I kept yelling at him and starting unnecessary fights due to that. Childish, I know. I regret that now, but that's just what I felt and acted upon at that point of time. After all of that, he left and refused to talk to me forever.
I tried to explain to him but he just pushed me away and said that it was fine. I know, I got a taste of my own medicine. He seemed really hurt about the fact that I called him a creep and a pervert and I kept saying that I cared about him when I wasn't willing to be honest with him about why I said those hurtful words in the first place. I tried everything from calling him, to sending him texts, whether it was messages to check up on him or paragraphs explaining and apologising for treating him like garbage.
I was about to leave him and the situation alone when he started picking up my calls. He would pick them up and he would say nothing and just leave the call running. I don't know why he did that, and that confuses me thoroughly.
I regret everything. I realized that I love him deeply. What should I do? He blocked me everywhere and he won't pick up my phone. I'm thinking about showing up at his house. The whole point is not to get him back, but to explain myself. To truly apologise for hurting him. I want to know how he truly feels. Whether he loved me before, still loves me or if it was a whole joke. I sincerely regret my actions, and I want to make up for them. The what if's are burning freshly into my wounds, and I would really appreciate to know the answers.
I know that I sound absolutely horrible and maybe deranged after that paragraph. However, I would really value the opinions of the public. Maybe y'all could help me out? Thank you for your time. Have a great year ahead.
PS. Btw, I apologize for that long winding paragraph and I appreciate y'all for putting away some precious time from your day to read and perhaps, respond to it. Every response is valued, and I really appreciate them.
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From her point of view:
Basically, I was introduced to this guy by my closest childhood friend. We've started talking for some time and at the start, everything seemed to go swimmingly well. Conversations flowed smoothly and it was dreamlike. There seemed to be some tension there: Staring into each other eyes, the whole world got quiet, etc. The friendship was initiated by the guy and he started texting me a lot and he would call me for hours on end. After only around a week of knowing me, he started pestering me for my phone number and he was extremely persistent. I ended up giving it to him. He started texting me every single day, morning till night, no matter whether if I replied or not. He would send me updates about his life like his outfit, etc. He decided to introduce me to his close friend and that went...well. In short, it was a call with his friends and the girl, who seemed obsessed with the guy as he kept putting me down and comparing herself to me in terms of closeness to the said guy.
He started asking about me at school, like he would ask my childhood best friend about how I was, if I was okay, how I was and all those sorts of stuff. Allegedly, my childhood best friend, let's call him M, always sounded really enthusiastic when he was talking about me. "His voice softens." He initiated everything, as I was not really interested. He would always beg me to call and I ended up giving in. We started having all these late night conversations about any topic that we were into. During these calls, he would always be a little flirtatious. He would always look at me really intimately, as if I was his world. He would say things like, "I like to see your face, stop hiding your beauty." "Oh my gosh, I love talking to you. You're so enchanting." He would always be flirting about how he would be a great boyfriend and constantly asked what my type of guys was. He even had the audacity to question why I was not into him. He did many other things to seem like he genuinely cared for me. For example, he had several lessons in a day. Yes, he's a rather busy lad. However, he would always make time for me and to reply to me, even if it was a text to inform me that he was busy and not purposely ignoring me. He knew that I had trust issues, so he would even send a picture that he was busy to prove that he wasn't purposely avoiding me. Every single time he and I were online on Whatsapp, he would always text me to ensure me that he wasn't ignoring me. Lastly, he is an extremely religious guy, and he never listened to music because of that. However, ever since he met me, he started to listen to the music that I liked and replied to it in detail. He never liked texting, but he would talk to me on Whatsapp all of the time. This is extremely untypical of him, as he is an unemotional guy. In addition to that, the effort put into that should mean something?
The guy kept trying to meet me in person. Since I have extreme trust issues, I didn't want to do that. He was a guy that I met online, and I had let's just say, unpleasant experiences with guys. This was after six months of knowing me. I told him to leave and that he was creep and a pervert due to my personal defense mechanism. He then left me alone and didn't talk to me for a full day. We then talked about it and I told him that I didn't want to talk about why as it was really personal to me. He said that it was fine and I could just tell him when I felt like it.
We were fine after this for another 7 - 8 months. He just really wanted to know and that he wanted me to be honest with him. I kept yelling at him and starting unnecessary fights due to that. Childish, I know. I regret that now, but that's just what I felt and acted upon at that point of time. After all of that, he left and refused to talk to me forever.
I tried to explain to him but he just pushed me away and said that it was fine. I know, I got a taste of my own medicine. He seemed really hurt about the fact that I called him a creep and a pervert and I kept saying that I cared about him when I wasn't willing to be honest with him about why I said those hurtful words in the first place. I tried everything from calling him, to sending him texts, whether it was messages to check up on him or paragraphs explaining and apologising for treating him like garbage.
I was about to leave him and the situation alone when he started picking up my calls. He would pick them up and he would say nothing and just leave the call running. I don't know why he did that, and that confuses me thoroughly.
I regret everything. I realized that I love him deeply. What should I do? He blocked me everywhere and he won't pick up my phone. I'm thinking about showing up at his house. The whole point is not to get him back, but to explain myself. To truly apologise for hurting him. I want to know how he truly feels. Whether he loved me before, still loves me or if it was a whole joke. I sincerely regret my actions, and I want to make up for them. The what if's are burning freshly into my wounds, and I would really appreciate to know the answers.
I know that I sound absolutely horrible and maybe deranged after that paragraph. However, I would really value the opinions of the public. Maybe y'all could help me out? Thank you for your time. Have a great year ahead.
PS. Btw, I apologize for that long winding paragraph and I appreciate y'all for putting away some precious time from your day to read and perhaps, respond to it. Every response is valued, and I really appreciate them.
2024.06.01 04:09 tornado_c Relationship Advice?
Okay, y'all. My friend has been heartbroken by a guy and she doesn't know if this guy cares about her. Dear woman wants me to write this post for her instead as she is I hereby quote, "Too lazy to do anything." I'm just posting this on behalf of her. Thank you in advance.
From her point of view:
Basically, I was introduced to this guy by my closest childhood friend. We've started talking for some time and at the start, everything seemed to go swimmingly well. Conversations flowed smoothly and it was dreamlike. There seemed to be some tension there: Staring into each other eyes, the whole world got quiet, etc. The friendship was initiated by the guy and he started texting me a lot and he would call me for hours on end. After only around a week of knowing me, he started pestering me for my phone number and he was extremely persistent. I ended up giving it to him. He started texting me every single day, morning till night, no matter whether if I replied or not. He would send me updates about his life like his outfit, etc. He decided to introduce me to his close friend and that went...well. In short, it was a call with his friends and the girl, who seemed obsessed with the guy as he kept putting me down and comparing herself to me in terms of closeness to the said guy.
He started asking about me at school, like he would ask my childhood best friend about how I was, if I was okay, how I was and all those sorts of stuff. Allegedly, my childhood best friend, let's call him M, always sounded really enthusiastic when he was talking about me. "His voice softens." He initiated everything, as I was not really interested. He would always beg me to call and I ended up giving in. We started having all these late night conversations about any topic that we were into. During these calls, he would always be a little flirtatious. He would always look at me really intimately, as if I was his world. He would say things like, "I like to see your face, stop hiding your beauty." "Oh my gosh, I love talking to you. You're so enchanting." He would always be flirting about how he would be a great boyfriend and constantly asked what my type of guys was. He even had the audacity to question why I was not into him. He did many other things to seem like he genuinely cared for me. For example, he had several lessons in a day. Yes, he's a rather busy lad. However, he would always make time for me and to reply to me, even if it was a text to inform me that he was busy and not purposely ignoring me. He knew that I had trust issues, so he would even send a picture that he was busy to prove that he wasn't purposely avoiding me. Every single time he and I were online on Whatsapp, he would always text me to ensure me that he wasn't ignoring me. Lastly, he is an extremely religious guy, and he never listened to music because of that. However, ever since he met me, he started to listen to the music that I liked and replied to it in detail. He never liked texting, but he would talk to me on Whatsapp all of the time. This is extremely untypical of him, as he is an unemotional guy. In addition to that, the effort put into that should mean something?
The guy kept trying to meet me in person. Since I have extreme trust issues, I didn't want to do that. He was a guy that I met online, and I had let's just say, unpleasant experiences with guys. This was after six months of knowing me. I told him to leave and that he was creep and a pervert due to my personal defense mechanism. He then left me alone and didn't talk to me for a full day. We then talked about it and I told him that I didn't want to talk about why as it was really personal to me. He said that it was fine and I could just tell him when I felt like it.
We were fine after this for another 7 - 8 months. He just really wanted to know and that he wanted me to be honest with him. I kept yelling at him and starting unnecessary fights due to that. Childish, I know. I regret that now, but that's just what I felt and acted upon at that point of time. After all of that, he left and refused to talk to me forever.
I tried to explain to him but he just pushed me away and said that it was fine. I know, I got a taste of my own medicine. He seemed really hurt about the fact that I called him a creep and a pervert and I kept saying that I cared about him when I wasn't willing to be honest with him about why I said those hurtful words in the first place. I tried everything from calling him, to sending him texts, whether it was messages to check up on him or paragraphs explaining and apologising for treating him like garbage.
I was about to leave him and the situation alone when he started picking up my calls. He would pick them up and he would say nothing and just leave the call running. I don't know why he did that, and that confuses me thoroughly.
I regret everything. I realized that I love him deeply. What should I do? He blocked me everywhere and he won't pick up my phone. I'm thinking about showing up at his house. The whole point is not to get him back, but to explain myself. To truly apologise for hurting him. I want to know how he truly feels. Whether he loved me before, still loves me or if it was a whole joke. I sincerely regret my actions, and I want to make up for them. The what if's are burning freshly into my wounds, and I would really appreciate to know the answers.
I know that I sound absolutely horrible and maybe deranged after that paragraph. However, I would really value the opinions of the public. Maybe y'all could help me out? Thank you for your time. Have a great year ahead.
PS. Btw, I apologize for that long winding paragraph and I appreciate y'all for putting away some precious time from your day to read and perhaps, respond to it. Every response is valued, and I really appreciate them.
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From her point of view:
Basically, I was introduced to this guy by my closest childhood friend. We've started talking for some time and at the start, everything seemed to go swimmingly well. Conversations flowed smoothly and it was dreamlike. There seemed to be some tension there: Staring into each other eyes, the whole world got quiet, etc. The friendship was initiated by the guy and he started texting me a lot and he would call me for hours on end. After only around a week of knowing me, he started pestering me for my phone number and he was extremely persistent. I ended up giving it to him. He started texting me every single day, morning till night, no matter whether if I replied or not. He would send me updates about his life like his outfit, etc. He decided to introduce me to his close friend and that went...well. In short, it was a call with his friends and the girl, who seemed obsessed with the guy as he kept putting me down and comparing herself to me in terms of closeness to the said guy.
He started asking about me at school, like he would ask my childhood best friend about how I was, if I was okay, how I was and all those sorts of stuff. Allegedly, my childhood best friend, let's call him M, always sounded really enthusiastic when he was talking about me. "His voice softens." He initiated everything, as I was not really interested. He would always beg me to call and I ended up giving in. We started having all these late night conversations about any topic that we were into. During these calls, he would always be a little flirtatious. He would always look at me really intimately, as if I was his world. He would say things like, "I like to see your face, stop hiding your beauty." "Oh my gosh, I love talking to you. You're so enchanting." He would always be flirting about how he would be a great boyfriend and constantly asked what my type of guys was. He even had the audacity to question why I was not into him. He did many other things to seem like he genuinely cared for me. For example, he had several lessons in a day. Yes, he's a rather busy lad. However, he would always make time for me and to reply to me, even if it was a text to inform me that he was busy and not purposely ignoring me. He knew that I had trust issues, so he would even send a picture that he was busy to prove that he wasn't purposely avoiding me. Every single time he and I were online on Whatsapp, he would always text me to ensure me that he wasn't ignoring me. Lastly, he is an extremely religious guy, and he never listened to music because of that. However, ever since he met me, he started to listen to the music that I liked and replied to it in detail. He never liked texting, but he would talk to me on Whatsapp all of the time. This is extremely untypical of him, as he is an unemotional guy. In addition to that, the effort put into that should mean something?
The guy kept trying to meet me in person. Since I have extreme trust issues, I didn't want to do that. He was a guy that I met online, and I had let's just say, unpleasant experiences with guys. This was after six months of knowing me. I told him to leave and that he was creep and a pervert due to my personal defense mechanism. He then left me alone and didn't talk to me for a full day. We then talked about it and I told him that I didn't want to talk about why as it was really personal to me. He said that it was fine and I could just tell him when I felt like it.
We were fine after this for another 7 - 8 months. He just really wanted to know and that he wanted me to be honest with him. I kept yelling at him and starting unnecessary fights due to that. Childish, I know. I regret that now, but that's just what I felt and acted upon at that point of time. After all of that, he left and refused to talk to me forever.
I tried to explain to him but he just pushed me away and said that it was fine. I know, I got a taste of my own medicine. He seemed really hurt about the fact that I called him a creep and a pervert and I kept saying that I cared about him when I wasn't willing to be honest with him about why I said those hurtful words in the first place. I tried everything from calling him, to sending him texts, whether it was messages to check up on him or paragraphs explaining and apologising for treating him like garbage.
I was about to leave him and the situation alone when he started picking up my calls. He would pick them up and he would say nothing and just leave the call running. I don't know why he did that, and that confuses me thoroughly.
I regret everything. I realized that I love him deeply. What should I do? He blocked me everywhere and he won't pick up my phone. I'm thinking about showing up at his house. The whole point is not to get him back, but to explain myself. To truly apologise for hurting him. I want to know how he truly feels. Whether he loved me before, still loves me or if it was a whole joke. I sincerely regret my actions, and I want to make up for them. The what if's are burning freshly into my wounds, and I would really appreciate to know the answers.
I know that I sound absolutely horrible and maybe deranged after that paragraph. However, I would really value the opinions of the public. Maybe y'all could help me out? Thank you for your time. Have a great year ahead.
PS. Btw, I apologize for that long winding paragraph and I appreciate y'all for putting away some precious time from your day to read and perhaps, respond to it. Every response is valued, and I really appreciate them.
2024.06.01 03:42 pasta_sauce5 Creepy old man or just trying to be nice??
I work at a shop in a cute small town. A local book shop owner an older man would come into my shop and spark up casual conversation with me. He brought me some legal books and left them for me. He also brought my co-worker a crystal since she collects them so I didn’t think much of it. One day, he invited me to go shooting with him. He said that one of his hobbies is target practice and he’d like for me to come along. I barely knew him at the time, and I felt uncomfortable going alone with a man I just met. I made an excuse that my mom wouldn’t like it, and he still asked about it a couple of times after that before he got the hint that I wasn’t interested in going. I had a slightly weird feeling about him, but I thought that maybe I was being too judgmental and he was just being nice.
One day he brought me a book about the Italian mafia, and coincidentally, it had a section about my family name in it. I am distantly related to mafia members. I wondered if maybe he found out what my last name is and gave me that book, or if it was really just a coincidence. (I never told him what my last name was so I’m not sure how he would’ve known). My other newer co-worker also told me that he gave her a pocket knife and some other cool things like an arrowhead. He also asked for her phone number and texted her pictures of projects he works on. This eased my nerves quite a bit and reassured me that he might just be overly friendly and act this way towards everyone.
So when I ran into him shopping one day and he asked my for my number I gave it to him. Then a few things happened which made me feel more uncomfortable. He asked me if I’d like to stop by his shop once a week to drink coffee with him and chat, and I said yes. He wanted to show me something outside one of his windows if his shop and I was too short to see so he said “I can lift you up”. There was a chair right below the window that I could have stood on instead. I told him I’d just use the chair. IM ALMOST 21 YEARS OLD. I’m not a child that needs to be lifted. He keeps asking me questions about whether or not I have a boyfriend, and today he asked me whether I get catcalled a lot. He also keeps complimenting my outfit choices and asking me if I put lots of effort into deciding what I want to wear. He also makes comments about how petite I am. Then, before I left (he knows I’m not on good terms with my father) he said “don’t worry about things with your father. You don’t need him. I’m your father now”. Then he said some shit about wanting to protect me. Sometimes I get a weird flirtatious vibe from him and I can’t tell whether those are just his natural mannerisms or not.
Maybe I’m way overthinking this and reading into things. I certainly don’t want to be rude if he is just trying to be nice, but I also feel so uncomfortable. Especially with him offering to lift me up. I genuinely have no idea what is going on and I need someone to give me their opinion from an outside perspective.
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One day he brought me a book about the Italian mafia, and coincidentally, it had a section about my family name in it. I am distantly related to mafia members. I wondered if maybe he found out what my last name is and gave me that book, or if it was really just a coincidence. (I never told him what my last name was so I’m not sure how he would’ve known). My other newer co-worker also told me that he gave her a pocket knife and some other cool things like an arrowhead. He also asked for her phone number and texted her pictures of projects he works on. This eased my nerves quite a bit and reassured me that he might just be overly friendly and act this way towards everyone.
So when I ran into him shopping one day and he asked my for my number I gave it to him. Then a few things happened which made me feel more uncomfortable. He asked me if I’d like to stop by his shop once a week to drink coffee with him and chat, and I said yes. He wanted to show me something outside one of his windows if his shop and I was too short to see so he said “I can lift you up”. There was a chair right below the window that I could have stood on instead. I told him I’d just use the chair. IM ALMOST 21 YEARS OLD. I’m not a child that needs to be lifted. He keeps asking me questions about whether or not I have a boyfriend, and today he asked me whether I get catcalled a lot. He also keeps complimenting my outfit choices and asking me if I put lots of effort into deciding what I want to wear. He also makes comments about how petite I am. Then, before I left (he knows I’m not on good terms with my father) he said “don’t worry about things with your father. You don’t need him. I’m your father now”. Then he said some shit about wanting to protect me. Sometimes I get a weird flirtatious vibe from him and I can’t tell whether those are just his natural mannerisms or not.
Maybe I’m way overthinking this and reading into things. I certainly don’t want to be rude if he is just trying to be nice, but I also feel so uncomfortable. Especially with him offering to lift me up. I genuinely have no idea what is going on and I need someone to give me their opinion from an outside perspective.
2024.06.01 02:14 seliskar Maple doing Maple things
 | Luckily, Maple has stopped getting into things and chewing or eating random things! THANK GAWD! So now she's back to being sweet and cute. She even has one of my Peke's old plushies and hasn't done any damage to it (yet) in 48 hours! submitted by seliskar to Pomsky [link] [comments] Today she got her new elevated dog bed. Technically, it's a cat bed, but she's cat sized at 9 pounds! $13 on Amazon!!! We got it because since it's warmed up a bit here (73° in the house today), she's been laying on the floor a lot. We couldn't find my our old gel cooling mat, and when I looked online, they were way more expensive than I remember paying 5 years ago. So we decided on an elevated bed. This one was super cute and affordable. If it happens to fall apart or get wrecked easily, we'll try to find a nicer metal framed one. The ones I saw online were all way BIGGER than she'll ever need. Do they not make small dog elevated beds??? Or cat size ones? I tried to get a photo of Maple "pointing" to where her balls are under the couch, but once the UV light lit up those flourescent balls, she got super wiggly. Usually she just sticks her head under the couch or kitchen gate, and freezes for several minutes until someone helps her. It's like she's trying to will the balls to come to her with her mind! One day a couple months ago, ALL of her balls were missing. We cleaned out under the couch and there were 18 tiny tennis balls under it!!! She used to push them under my end table, and then we got a new couch, so that's more fun apparently. If anyone is in the kitchen, she pushes them under the kitchen gate. What a fun game... like a baby throwing their pacifier out of their car seat/crib/high chair, etc! Does anyone else have a Pomsky who when they're tired, they just drop wherever they are and sleep in really uncomfortable, odd positions? That's what Maple does! Sometimes she'll nest and curl up in a ball, but most of the time she just drops wherever and however. I've seen her with her butt considerably higher than her head, her legs hanging off furniture, wedged between cushions, legs in the air propped up on pillows, etc. She's the only dog I've ever seen do that!!! 2 out of my 5 kids sleep like that (they're all adults) and have since toddlerhood. It's so weird to see when my Peke and I sleep, we have to be in the perfect, same few positions we always sleep in. Also, instead of sniffing to explore new things, she LICKS everything! My kid, Maple's dad, has been playing Baldur's Gate 3 for a couple months, and every time Maple licks something, they quote this line from the game in a gruff British accent, "Stop licking the damn thing!" 😂 Sometimes Maple even stops licking MID lick, and just stays there with her tongue on whatever for a few seconds. Her tongue also sticks out a bit and vibrates when she's excited about a new toy or treat!!! Such an odd little thing, but there's never a dull moment with her! Anyways, that is all! I hope everyone is having lovely weather and that your Pomskies and furbabies are enjoying Spring! Summer is almost here (in Minnesota anyway). |
2024.06.01 02:12 Queen_Bread TD23 Reboot (Season 1 Only) Character Rankings
I'll be doing a separate post just for Season 2 of the reboot later. Anyways,
She says, planning on writing about Season 2 later
Caleb says his iconic catchphrase.
15. Axel (Totally Not An Expy) - While I'm usually not a fan of comparing characters and going "this character is basically just X mixed with Y!!", I have a hard time believing Axel wasn't made with being Neo-Eva in mind. She was angry and left second and that's it... And that did make me really curious as to what they'd do with Axel in the rematch. But that's for later.
Remember when everyone thought Axel was gonna be awesome because of this shot?
14. Nichelle (I HATE YOU JERRY!!!) - This might come off as a surprise, but I don't actually dislike Nichelle. She had an interesting concept (famous teen actress going to TD for exposure) with a neat execution (got "exposed" as a fraud on TV, disappointing her fans and leaving determined to improve herself). It was clear she wasn't meant to be "complete" in Season 1, and was just being set up for a bigger story in S2, and there's nothing really wrong with that! We'll see how that went later.
Nichelle hates 1/2 of the Tennis Rivals, for some reason.
Just wanted to say Priya looks really cute with messy hair.
12./11. Wayne & Raj (Thing 1 & Thing 2) - After Katie & Sadie and Amy & Sammy, I didn't expect to see a 'duo character' I'd actually like. I always knew they wouldn't be the gay couple like most people expected, as it would've been a boring approach, but I did suspect ONE of them would be part of it. And I was right, Raj having a self-discovery moment during the show was very sweet, and so was Wayne being a supportive ally to his bestie, it's a really great message to send to the kids who watch the show (and part of why I don't really like gay Wayne headcanons, it takes away the impact of him being 100% supportive of his best friend despite not being queer himself). Small complaints though, I think it would've been nice if we got to know Raj's thoughts on his coming out instead of just Wayne's, and the 'package deal' characters being eliminated together isn't really my cup of tea either. I don't mind it that much though, because surely Season 2 will separate them and have them be apart from each other for a few episodes, right? ...R-Right?
First and last time we see the Hockey Bros acting mean.
MK: \"I can't wait to be seen as nothing but shipping fodder by the fans next season!\"
9. Damien (Best Design, Hands Down) - And the winner of most unique character concept goes to... Yeah, him. Some guy who's never seen Total Drama and doesn't know what he signed up for? You're crazy if you don't think that's one of the most fun ideas for a new character you've seen. He used a concept other characters failed at (being the token normal/straight man) and made it work! Damien (in season 1) is probably the closest this show has ever had to just having a real person: Being flabbergasted at the insanity that happens in cartoon-land that other characters don't react to, without being played as the "haha token coward afraid of everything", which is something not usually done (...We'll get to season 2 later.). His early exit was sad, but made sense, this wasn't meant to be his season. We all know he was being given an easy, impossible to mess up, set-up for a bigger role in the rematch! There is no way to do this wrong!
Damien: \"Oh well, at least I'll totally have a good arc next season, right?\"
8. Julia (wth is a buttknuckle) - "omg what!! why is queen slay girlboss Julia not in top3 you know shes perfect slay gaslight gatekeep girlb-" Shut up. God. Very annoying fanbase aside, S1 Julia was a fun twist antagonist. The 'good vibes, vegan crystal girlie' instagram influencer being a sour, evil douchebag behind the scenes? Great bit, we all know most of them are like this in real life. Her villainy is criticized by some people for being "too Heather-like", which I disagree with. Sure, her constant immunity wins may seem like heavy plot armor, but unlike Island Heather, others weren't constantly dumbed down to make it work, most of her wins weren't due to dumb luck, (like Heather in Search and Do Not Destroy) and most importantly, Julia was full of flaws. She was a challenge beast, yes, but the constant immunities were the only things she had, for the show goes on its way to show her game otherwise is horrible. Her social game is atrocious, due to being unnecessarily rude to everyone, she had no alliances (and when she did they didn't last a day) and most of her attempts to scheme backfired. Remember when she tried to make Emma vote for Chase and that somehow resulted in them getting back together? Like, wow, making Emma want to vote for Chase is NOT a hard task, girlie, come on. Julia's flaws keep her character grounded and make her stand out from other villains. God, can you imagine if she was like Heather, and everyone got dumbed down to make her look more competent and cause stupid eliminations? That would suck! Not like that'd ever happen though, haha.
Julia telling her fanbase to attack anyone who criticizes her character.
7. Emma (Cringe Girl /affectionate) - God, she's so cringe (/pos). When I saw her face in Chase's intro, I knew there was going to be juicy drama and I'd live for it, but I was not expecting THAT trainwreck. I don't even know how to proceed with this paragraph properly without just calling her cute or stupid (affectionate) and calling it a day. I can't imagine the writers didn't have fun writing her and her extreme emotions; There's a lot of characters the fandom labeled as being "neurodivergent-coded", and while I see the vision with most of them, I think people overlook Emma as one (or maybe I'm just projecting onto her, whatever).While I don't like Chemma as a ship, I can't deny that they have a great dynamic, though it's funnier when it's Emma hating Chase while he tries to win her back, so Chemma getting back together at the end was a bit of a letdown. I do hope season 2 gives us more Chase and Emma individually without both of them being attached to each other though (clueless).
Emma laughs at someone being horribly hurt (cutely).
6. Millie (WOAH! GOOD WRITING!? IN MY TOTAL DRAMA!?) - Now, I know what some of you are probably thinking; "Millie is a horrible character she floated!!" "She foated and had to be carried by Priya!!" "She's a horrible friend she wrote mean things about Priya!!" Shut up shut up shut up. Millie haters, you guys are weak and aren't surviving the winter. Anyways, Millie makes me extremely happy, she has what I consider to be one of the best cases of character development in TD: First arriving with the intent of writing a thesis about how Gen Z is really stupid, befriending someone for the first time, growing to regret ever writing bad things about the others, and then being confronted about it and having to work to patch up her friendship with Priya? Total Drama hasn't had an arc this good in ages, and people think Millie is a bad character? I'm sorry, do you miss Skave or something? I totally understand not liking Millie due to finding her boring or uninteresting,those are valid reasons, but if you dislike Millie because you think she's a "bad person" who "didn't deserve being forgiven" (the amount of people I've seen say this is concerning), then I'm sorry, but I think you're stupid.
When you hate on Millie this is who you're hating btw
Also I'd just like to point out that a lot of comic relief characters aren't very varied in terms of humor either but I don't think the fandom is ready to accept that yet. The hockey bros also only have 1 joke and it's less funny than Lauren's Oops, who said that? Wasn't me! Must've been the wind!
She's literally just a girl why are people afraid of her /j
4. Ripper (do you think Ripper has a fursona? no? just me? okay then) - Ripper in S tier?! I know, scandalous! "But you're not supposed to like Ripper he's a mean bully who farts and is gross he's like Owen!!" Shut up, NERD. Anyway, I'm not really fond of toilet humor, but Ripper made up for it by having a lot of hilarious jokes outside of farting (something people will insist is his entire character) and he has some depth that could use some more exploring, such has his home life and his relationship with his parents. Pretty much every dynamic he had with other characters, even if short, were bangers, proving that his character is super versatile. Chase, Zee, Priya, Millie, Axel, Damien... He just works with anyone. Him, Bowie and Millie are the three characters I believe you can pair up with literally anyone, and you can squeeze a good dynamic out of it.
Ripper knows we love him, because he's based.
3. Zee (I don't have a joke for this one bear with me) - I don't have much to say about him like everyone else, because Zee is a simple character. He's really funny, and that's it, and it just works. Dude's hysterical and that's why I love him. Yeah
Birds don't like Zee because birds are stupid.
2. Chase (Horrible Person, Hilarious Character) - Another probably controversial take, and I just know a certain someone on this sub will be very happy with this placement. Chase is, in my eyes, the best comic relief in this show, part of it is because of how unique and specific the joke with him is. We have a million "comically stupid" characters at this point, and we (or I) still love them regardless, but having a comedic character with a different brand of humor makes them stand out more. Chase is so unapologetically a jerk, and that's what makes him so funny to me. He's not a complete idiot like Tyler, Max, Raj, Wayne, Zee and Ripper are, in fact, in s1 he shows a lot of intelligence and common sense for a comic relief character, it's just that he's such a self-centered douchebag that he doesn't see anything wrong with his actions while everyone else recognizes him as a horrible individual, and that makes him so unique in the sea of "idiot men" characters that is TD. Episode 10 was one of the best episodes in the whole series, and the biggest contributors to that? Come on, you know it's him and Emma. They are everything, they are the moment.
\"Chase how many people did you run over that day?\" Chase:
1. Bowie (Drama King and Queen) - When I first saw his design in the promo, I admit I was very afraid? Not because I didn't think a stereotypically gay character could work, but because this is Total Drama. I was afraid they'd mess up and accidentally make the most offensive shit ever like the last few times they tackled minorities (cough cough Mike). When I first watched the season? All worries left my body in an instant. My God? STRATEGY?! IN TOTAL DRAMA? That isn't just an evil villain manipulating everyone using plot armor??? It was a BLESSING to see, even if I was a little upset he got villanized by the end of the season, it does show that TD will always portray ambition to win as inherently evil and something that needs to be punished (and it certainly doesn't make me very excited for future seasons' villains). For what it's worth, I enjoyed watching an actual strategist character onscreen that was neither fully evil or a moron the writers wanted to believe you to be smart, that makes Bowie the first ever. Also the queer rep? Really awesome. I loved his relationship with Raj, and how healthy it was compared to other TD relationships, and I love how it shows a "villain"/strategy focused player can be a good person/partner. It felt so surreal (in a good way) watching a TD character that wears gender non-conforming clothes and has a very flamboyant and sassy personality. Bowie also has some of the best quotes in the season ("MEEE!" and "Oh my, did I do that? Yes I diiiiid! I'm going to be a MILLIONAAAAAAAIRE!" are some of the best ones)
\"Lift a log if you're the best character in the series\" Bowie:
Final S1 list:
This list looks so positive, right? Well, if you want negativity be sure to look forward to the season 2 post.
Final Thoughts: Overall, excellent cast! the only characters below B tier are the first three boots. A great and colorful cast in a good season filled with great writing, and there's even a second season after it? This is a recipe for success, surely the second season will be as great as the first one, if not better, right? Right?
... Yeah who am I kidding. See you guys next post, when I cover this same cast in THAT OTHER season.
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Average (C Tier)
16. Caleb (The Best First Boot) - Just a reminder that this list only takes S1 into account (in case you got used to Caleb dead last already) so of course I don't HATE this Caleb. There's nothing to hate here. While the character itself didn't really do anything, I like the role he plays in the narrative, being by far the best first boot in this show. Long gone are the days of the first elimination being some idiot nobody likes getting everybody to hate them for the sake of it!Caleb says his iconic catchphrase.
15. Axel (Totally Not An Expy) - While I'm usually not a fan of comparing characters and going "this character is basically just X mixed with Y!!", I have a hard time believing Axel wasn't made with being Neo-Eva in mind. She was angry and left second and that's it... And that did make me really curious as to what they'd do with Axel in the rematch. But that's for later.
Remember when everyone thought Axel was gonna be awesome because of this shot?
14. Nichelle (I HATE YOU JERRY!!!) - This might come off as a surprise, but I don't actually dislike Nichelle. She had an interesting concept (famous teen actress going to TD for exposure) with a neat execution (got "exposed" as a fraud on TV, disappointing her fans and leaving determined to improve herself). It was clear she wasn't meant to be "complete" in Season 1, and was just being set up for a bigger story in S2, and there's nothing really wrong with that! We'll see how that went later.
Nichelle hates 1/2 of the Tennis Rivals, for some reason.
Good (B Tier)
13. Priya (Abusive Parents) - Surprised to see the winner of the season this low? Don't get me wrong, this IS the 'Good' tier, so I do like Priya, she's just not really my type of character. I think all comparisons to Zoey and Sky are incredibly silly and a bit dumb, the only thing they have in common is being athletic, and Priya actually has a personality. Yes, it was clear from the start that she was created with being the winner in mind, but that's not necessarily a bad thing, with Priya having an unique concept (raised by TD fans) and fun interactions and dynamics with the other characters, making her obvious win be satisfying nonetheless (take NOTES, Sky). And even after everything, there is still a good setup for things she could do in the rematch, such as addressing her home life and the way she was raised. Boy, I sure hope that happens!Just wanted to say Priya looks really cute with messy hair.
12./11. Wayne & Raj (Thing 1 & Thing 2) - After Katie & Sadie and Amy & Sammy, I didn't expect to see a 'duo character' I'd actually like. I always knew they wouldn't be the gay couple like most people expected, as it would've been a boring approach, but I did suspect ONE of them would be part of it. And I was right, Raj having a self-discovery moment during the show was very sweet, and so was Wayne being a supportive ally to his bestie, it's a really great message to send to the kids who watch the show (and part of why I don't really like gay Wayne headcanons, it takes away the impact of him being 100% supportive of his best friend despite not being queer himself). Small complaints though, I think it would've been nice if we got to know Raj's thoughts on his coming out instead of just Wayne's, and the 'package deal' characters being eliminated together isn't really my cup of tea either. I don't mind it that much though, because surely Season 2 will separate them and have them be apart from each other for a few episodes, right? ...R-Right?
First and last time we see the Hockey Bros acting mean.
Great (A Tier)
10. MK (Parody Of Annoying Celebrity, Somehow Good) - If you know me, or at least have seen my profile picture, then this placement is probably a surprise. S1 MK is probably one of the most unique concepts this show has had.A thief who takes her castmates' belongings? Fun. Hacking the confessional camera to watch everyone's confessionals? Interesting. Intentionally floating to fly under the radar? Very interesting. Annoying snarker? Yes please. Overall? Great combo. She's only really "low" on this list because she left before being able to put, well, any of her plans in practice. Fortunately, there's still season 2, where we'll see a lot more of her unique strategy and villainy, for sure!!!!MK: \"I can't wait to be seen as nothing but shipping fodder by the fans next season!\"
9. Damien (Best Design, Hands Down) - And the winner of most unique character concept goes to... Yeah, him. Some guy who's never seen Total Drama and doesn't know what he signed up for? You're crazy if you don't think that's one of the most fun ideas for a new character you've seen. He used a concept other characters failed at (being the token normal/straight man) and made it work! Damien (in season 1) is probably the closest this show has ever had to just having a real person: Being flabbergasted at the insanity that happens in cartoon-land that other characters don't react to, without being played as the "haha token coward afraid of everything", which is something not usually done (...We'll get to season 2 later.). His early exit was sad, but made sense, this wasn't meant to be his season. We all know he was being given an easy, impossible to mess up, set-up for a bigger role in the rematch! There is no way to do this wrong!
Damien: \"Oh well, at least I'll totally have a good arc next season, right?\"
8. Julia (wth is a buttknuckle) - "omg what!! why is queen slay girlboss Julia not in top3 you know shes perfect slay gaslight gatekeep girlb-" Shut up. God. Very annoying fanbase aside, S1 Julia was a fun twist antagonist. The 'good vibes, vegan crystal girlie' instagram influencer being a sour, evil douchebag behind the scenes? Great bit, we all know most of them are like this in real life. Her villainy is criticized by some people for being "too Heather-like", which I disagree with. Sure, her constant immunity wins may seem like heavy plot armor, but unlike Island Heather, others weren't constantly dumbed down to make it work, most of her wins weren't due to dumb luck, (like Heather in Search and Do Not Destroy) and most importantly, Julia was full of flaws. She was a challenge beast, yes, but the constant immunities were the only things she had, for the show goes on its way to show her game otherwise is horrible. Her social game is atrocious, due to being unnecessarily rude to everyone, she had no alliances (and when she did they didn't last a day) and most of her attempts to scheme backfired. Remember when she tried to make Emma vote for Chase and that somehow resulted in them getting back together? Like, wow, making Emma want to vote for Chase is NOT a hard task, girlie, come on. Julia's flaws keep her character grounded and make her stand out from other villains. God, can you imagine if she was like Heather, and everyone got dumbed down to make her look more competent and cause stupid eliminations? That would suck! Not like that'd ever happen though, haha.
Julia telling her fanbase to attack anyone who criticizes her character.
7. Emma (Cringe Girl /affectionate) - God, she's so cringe (/pos). When I saw her face in Chase's intro, I knew there was going to be juicy drama and I'd live for it, but I was not expecting THAT trainwreck. I don't even know how to proceed with this paragraph properly without just calling her cute or stupid (affectionate) and calling it a day. I can't imagine the writers didn't have fun writing her and her extreme emotions; There's a lot of characters the fandom labeled as being "neurodivergent-coded", and while I see the vision with most of them, I think people overlook Emma as one (or maybe I'm just projecting onto her, whatever).While I don't like Chemma as a ship, I can't deny that they have a great dynamic, though it's funnier when it's Emma hating Chase while he tries to win her back, so Chemma getting back together at the end was a bit of a letdown. I do hope season 2 gives us more Chase and Emma individually without both of them being attached to each other though (clueless).
Emma laughs at someone being horribly hurt (cutely).
6. Millie (WOAH! GOOD WRITING!? IN MY TOTAL DRAMA!?) - Now, I know what some of you are probably thinking; "Millie is a horrible character she floated!!" "She foated and had to be carried by Priya!!" "She's a horrible friend she wrote mean things about Priya!!" Shut up shut up shut up. Millie haters, you guys are weak and aren't surviving the winter. Anyways, Millie makes me extremely happy, she has what I consider to be one of the best cases of character development in TD: First arriving with the intent of writing a thesis about how Gen Z is really stupid, befriending someone for the first time, growing to regret ever writing bad things about the others, and then being confronted about it and having to work to patch up her friendship with Priya? Total Drama hasn't had an arc this good in ages, and people think Millie is a bad character? I'm sorry, do you miss Skave or something? I totally understand not liking Millie due to finding her boring or uninteresting,those are valid reasons, but if you dislike Millie because you think she's a "bad person" who "didn't deserve being forgiven" (the amount of people I've seen say this is concerning), then I'm sorry, but I think you're stupid.
When you hate on Millie this is who you're hating btw
Fantastic (S Tier)
5. Scary "Lauren" Girl (I don't care if she's one-note stfu) - Scary Girl is a character I've noticed to be pretty divisive. The people who love her do so because they think she's pretty funny, and the people who hate her think she's a one-note gimmick. I'm the former, obviously, I see a lot of people complain that they find Scary Girl to be "overrated", (1. Not a valid reason to dislike a character 2. She literally isn't. Stop throwing that word around, it's already losing it's meaning) and while I do understand why people wouldn't like her, because yeah she does only have 1 joke, I think that one joke is really funny and consistently lands.She's literally just a girl why are people afraid of her /j
4. Ripper (do you think Ripper has a fursona? no? just me? okay then) - Ripper in S tier?! I know, scandalous! "But you're not supposed to like Ripper he's a mean bully who farts and is gross he's like Owen!!" Shut up, NERD. Anyway, I'm not really fond of toilet humor, but Ripper made up for it by having a lot of hilarious jokes outside of farting (something people will insist is his entire character) and he has some depth that could use some more exploring, such has his home life and his relationship with his parents. Pretty much every dynamic he had with other characters, even if short, were bangers, proving that his character is super versatile. Chase, Zee, Priya, Millie, Axel, Damien... He just works with anyone. Him, Bowie and Millie are the three characters I believe you can pair up with literally anyone, and you can squeeze a good dynamic out of it.
Ripper knows we love him, because he's based.
3. Zee (I don't have a joke for this one bear with me) - I don't have much to say about him like everyone else, because Zee is a simple character. He's really funny, and that's it, and it just works. Dude's hysterical and that's why I love him. Yeah
Birds don't like Zee because birds are stupid.
2. Chase (Horrible Person, Hilarious Character) - Another probably controversial take, and I just know a certain someone on this sub will be very happy with this placement. Chase is, in my eyes, the best comic relief in this show, part of it is because of how unique and specific the joke with him is. We have a million "comically stupid" characters at this point, and we (or I) still love them regardless, but having a comedic character with a different brand of humor makes them stand out more. Chase is so unapologetically a jerk, and that's what makes him so funny to me. He's not a complete idiot like Tyler, Max, Raj, Wayne, Zee and Ripper are, in fact, in s1 he shows a lot of intelligence and common sense for a comic relief character, it's just that he's such a self-centered douchebag that he doesn't see anything wrong with his actions while everyone else recognizes him as a horrible individual, and that makes him so unique in the sea of "idiot men" characters that is TD. Episode 10 was one of the best episodes in the whole series, and the biggest contributors to that? Come on, you know it's him and Emma. They are everything, they are the moment.
\"Chase how many people did you run over that day?\" Chase:
1. Bowie (Drama King and Queen) - When I first saw his design in the promo, I admit I was very afraid? Not because I didn't think a stereotypically gay character could work, but because this is Total Drama. I was afraid they'd mess up and accidentally make the most offensive shit ever like the last few times they tackled minorities (cough cough Mike). When I first watched the season? All worries left my body in an instant. My God? STRATEGY?! IN TOTAL DRAMA? That isn't just an evil villain manipulating everyone using plot armor??? It was a BLESSING to see, even if I was a little upset he got villanized by the end of the season, it does show that TD will always portray ambition to win as inherently evil and something that needs to be punished (and it certainly doesn't make me very excited for future seasons' villains). For what it's worth, I enjoyed watching an actual strategist character onscreen that was neither fully evil or a moron the writers wanted to believe you to be smart, that makes Bowie the first ever. Also the queer rep? Really awesome. I loved his relationship with Raj, and how healthy it was compared to other TD relationships, and I love how it shows a "villain"/strategy focused player can be a good person/partner. It felt so surreal (in a good way) watching a TD character that wears gender non-conforming clothes and has a very flamboyant and sassy personality. Bowie also has some of the best quotes in the season ("MEEE!" and "Oh my, did I do that? Yes I diiiiid! I'm going to be a MILLIONAAAAAAAIRE!" are some of the best ones)
\"Lift a log if you're the best character in the series\" Bowie:
Final S1 list:
This list looks so positive, right? Well, if you want negativity be sure to look forward to the season 2 post.
Final Thoughts: Overall, excellent cast! the only characters below B tier are the first three boots. A great and colorful cast in a good season filled with great writing, and there's even a second season after it? This is a recipe for success, surely the second season will be as great as the first one, if not better, right? Right?
... Yeah who am I kidding. See you guys next post, when I cover this same cast in THAT OTHER season.
2024.06.01 01:45 kayladiane05 Alaskan Cruise Review
First off - everyone’s tips on here have been fantastic! Thank you all so much for unknowingly giving me all the tips to make my cruise great.
We just took our first ever cruise! Did North bound 10 day on your own. We had a fabulous time! This was a big trip for us coming from Upstate NY. So we splurged a little.
Itinerary rundown: Boarded in Vancouver, Ketchikan, Juneau, Skagway, Glacier Bay, Inside passage. On your own: Motor coach to Denali Princess from Whittier (one night), McKinley Princess (one night), Anchorage Hotel Captain Cook (one night).
Excursions: Alaskan Lumberjack Show (so fun!), Mendenhall Glacier (booked at one of the stalls off the ship), White Pass.
Food was all over the place for us. We had Sabatinis for our anniversary dinner which was great! We used our two casual dining at Alfredo’s both times - which we really enjoyed. We only ended up at the MDR twice and it was good each time. The blueberry cobbler desert was the best dessert I had on the boat (last night). The buffet was ok. It was fine but we understood the mass number of people they were cooking for so we knew it wouldn’t be super high end. The desserts at the buffet and International Cafe were nothing to write home about. Gelato was good.
We both ended up with head colds. Mine started after Skagway. Thankfully we had done the bulk of our trip and eating before. We had also booked a balcony so we could stay in our cabin during Glacier Bay and Inside Passage day. It seemed a good third of our bus during the on your own portion was sick.
Something to note - we wish we would have done the trip in reverse. We were so exhausted by the end of the Denali day. McKinley Princess Lodge was cute and the better of the two (in our opinion) but there was a lot we wanted to do at Denali.
Overall - we are so happy we did this! We saw amazing sights and can’t believe all that we were able to do in 10 days.
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We just took our first ever cruise! Did North bound 10 day on your own. We had a fabulous time! This was a big trip for us coming from Upstate NY. So we splurged a little.
Itinerary rundown: Boarded in Vancouver, Ketchikan, Juneau, Skagway, Glacier Bay, Inside passage. On your own: Motor coach to Denali Princess from Whittier (one night), McKinley Princess (one night), Anchorage Hotel Captain Cook (one night).
Excursions: Alaskan Lumberjack Show (so fun!), Mendenhall Glacier (booked at one of the stalls off the ship), White Pass.
Food was all over the place for us. We had Sabatinis for our anniversary dinner which was great! We used our two casual dining at Alfredo’s both times - which we really enjoyed. We only ended up at the MDR twice and it was good each time. The blueberry cobbler desert was the best dessert I had on the boat (last night). The buffet was ok. It was fine but we understood the mass number of people they were cooking for so we knew it wouldn’t be super high end. The desserts at the buffet and International Cafe were nothing to write home about. Gelato was good.
We both ended up with head colds. Mine started after Skagway. Thankfully we had done the bulk of our trip and eating before. We had also booked a balcony so we could stay in our cabin during Glacier Bay and Inside Passage day. It seemed a good third of our bus during the on your own portion was sick.
Something to note - we wish we would have done the trip in reverse. We were so exhausted by the end of the Denali day. McKinley Princess Lodge was cute and the better of the two (in our opinion) but there was a lot we wanted to do at Denali.
Overall - we are so happy we did this! We saw amazing sights and can’t believe all that we were able to do in 10 days.
2024.05.31 23:21 Moechie-1312 Will he come back to me even after blocking me everywhere and doesnt give a shiet about me anymore?
So me(19F) and my ex(21M) broke up 3 days ago because he’s going to Korea to study for 2y and plan on living there forever and I am staying in the US. I watched all those tiktoks and read all those reddits hearing people say that the guy will always come back. However I believe mine wont and we will never contact again because we are in 2 different paths from now on but I just want to hear your advices so that I can give up my last hope. This is a pretty long one. Please forgive me.
So I am an international student and I got a scholarship to go to the US for uni and I plan on residing here in the future. Everything is hard for me I only made one best friend who is from the same country as me and that’s it. I cannot make any white friends because it’s hard. Let alone finding a guy to date. My type is white tall athletes guys and all of them in my school only want white soro girls so I dont have hope finding a boyfriend in my school. That’s why I tried downloading dating apps. I am a virgin and I’ve never been in a relationship before and I never lost my first kiss. And s*x and first kiss are precious to me.
We matched on Tinder 6 months ago and he was very active and tried to get to know me. He’s pretty special to me because he was looking for a serious relationship and asked for my insta instead of my snapchat. When everyone there is just trynna hook up he really want a relationship and when I said I will not have s*x until I graduate will you wait for me and he respects me. We went on few dates and things went really well because he’s exactly my type, tall, dirty blonde and blue eyes. He even made the effort to drive to see me every single time because he’s 1h15 away and I dont have a car. And he paid for things too. His type is Asian too because I noticed that he followed many attractive Asian famous girls and many friends from Korea. I noticed one in there name A that he liked every single posts of her. But we were nothing at that point so I didnt say anything. He was just back from a trip to Asia and he likes Korea the most. He said that country is beautiful, safe and cheaper than Us and he did tell me he want to move there to live in the future. But at that point I was just planning on dating for fun so I dont care and keep going.
Funny enough we keep talking even though we dont have anything in common. After getting to know basically every basic things about each other, our conversation is plain and is just ‘wyd’ ‘im tired’ ‘im working’ etc. It’s shallow and not very deep. I noticed that but Im lonely so having a guy like that everyday is actually amazing to me. I dont have the intention of marrying him or anything and he doesnt too. But after several dates I slowly get attached. He hugged me, carried me up like a princess. Everything I have dreamt of before. And finally that day I lost my first kiss to him and he asked me to be his gf and I said yes. It was amazing.
So after we are officially dating. I got jealous of his followings and easily annoyed because he’s a super nonchalant guy.
I made a mess about him following those revealing models and he said he didnt remember because it’s a long time ago and delete all of them. However, when it comes to that girl A and some other I mentioned he said I will delete those I dont know but she’s just my friend and I wont delete her. ‘We dont even talk.’ Just a friend he knows from his Korea trip. Then I let it ago, but then after a while I noticed him liking her posts again and again and each time I fought with him and finally he told me he wont like her post anymore and he stopped.
But then I noticed him following a new girl B and she’s from Korea and I asked him and he said she’s his Korean teacher. I feel something sus but I cant do anything. He’s trying his best to learn Korean just to be able to live there and dont even care about my country. He doesnt even try to say my name correctly or learn anything about my country.
He’s really busy and he trynna work hard to earn money and his sleep schedule is really messed up. Im always annoyed because he takes hours to reply to me. And many small fights like how he only reply to my ‘i miss you’ but never say it first, and never call me, only texting. After a month of dating we got into a big fight. Imma sum it up. I asked him to come see me on Friday but then his grandpa got into a health problem so he had to drive his mom to the hospital and he said he will pick me up on Sat. I was all prepared and woke up early and then he overslept. Then he said he’ll come at 3.30 in the afternoon. I was waiting again. Until he texted me at 4. saying that his car tag exprired so he couldnt come see me. I was so sad but cant help it because it’s all valid reasons. I waited untill next week again, and I asked him to meet again. And then he overslept again, leaving me hanging and waiting like an idiot. I was so upset this time I texted him paragraphs saying not good things like why are you so irresponsible why dont you care about my feelings etc. if you dont text me back before 10a let’s just break up. Next morning he woke up and told me ‘you know what, we not gonna work’ then he unadded me on snapchat and unfollow me on instagram and unfollow me on tiktok too. But i still can text him on insta and imess and discord. I was so shocked and begged him to come back everywhere. I was crying like a baby dont wanna lose him. It was a traumatizing day for me. Eventually he responded and said ‘you dont know but I forgave you many times’ ‘maybe im not good enough for you’ and stuffs like that.. but eventually he added me back and said he’ll give me one last chance.
We got back for 2 days and now he’s lost a large part of interest for me. Then I asked to meet again and he said he cant because his schedule changed again and I got upset again and he unadded me again, block me on insta and tiktok and discord, but I still can text him on Imess. Then I apologized again and we got back again and he said ‘I do mean the last one’.
Then Im constantly careful not to hurt him or fight and we got on dates and we got more physically close to each other. However I dont feel any deep connection we’re just very shallow. Idk how to explain it. I think we’re just there to not be lonely. At least for me. I feel like he doesnt give a shit if i leave or not anymore.
Things go well for another month then I realize summer is comming and I’ll have to leave him for 3 months. I was not happy bc he’s not upset ab the fact that im going away at all. Then I noticed he slowly get colder towards me. I mean it’s not obvious but he doesnt crave for touching hugging me as much as before. I have to ask for kiss and hugs. And he only texted me on snap and never on instagram where I noticed he’s online everyday. His snap scores also went up 10 every morning and Idk if im a creep but like 1 or 2 even when he’s not snapping me so he’s snapping others. I know he has like 1 or 2 guy friends but I took a look at his phone sometimes (which he’s always trynna hide whenever he’s w me) and noticed some girls as well. But maybe just for streaks. And ofc he’s still texting that B girl for Korean lesson. And A girl is now in Japan for a trip. A and B post stories EVERY SINGLE DAY and it’s their cute photos and I know my bf is online on instagram everyday and watch those stories so I am very unhappy.
Then the day come when I have to go away for summer. He asked me when Im back and I said September. Then he said he’ll go to Japan in August for 1 month and I said okay. So we are in LDR now and I asked him to call me bc I need more contact to feel loved and valued. He said he will, but he never call me. He said it’s just he just never call anyone. I was upset many times but I also let it go. Also he never said he loved me. Only like.
Then I saw him like a thirst trap reel of a revealing famous korean girls 2 weeks ago. I was so fcking offended but he’s sick so im not making any fuss. After 4 days I decided to bring that up and texted him paragraphs on insta, imess and snap about how offended and sad I am and asked him why he do that when we are dating. Just for him to seen on insta and imess and reply on snap ‘I dont know’. Eventually, i let it go again because I dont wanna lose him if I take things further.
Then we went on for a couple more days before he texted me ‘I have something to tell you. I’ll go to Japan and to Korea and study there for 2 y w the intention of living there. I’ll be back sometimes to the US but obv that’s not enough for you’ then it’s some more lots of texts of me trying to keep it until he finally say ‘it’s best we break up, it wont work’.
Then he blocks me on everything, Insta, tiktok, snap, discord, mess. I dont dare to check if he blocks my number or not. And he’s gone, cold-heartedly, so easily as if I am nothing. I asked my friends to stalk him for a bit and notice that right after he blocks me. He likes B’s posts, his Korean teacher. And he like A’s posts, the girl he promised he wont ever again, who’re in Japan rn. So he moved on, and ready for his next life, no look back, no regret. While I am here. I think he’s the best I can find on dating apps, because everyone there just trynna hu. And I wont be able to find bfs in school. So i’ll be alone for a long time. Idk what to do, im so pessimistic. And i still want him to crawl back for an ego boost, that at least he still miss me. But apparently not, he’s already moved on, and already didnt give a shit ab me for a long time. So what tiktok says is wrong right. He’ll never come back..
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So I am an international student and I got a scholarship to go to the US for uni and I plan on residing here in the future. Everything is hard for me I only made one best friend who is from the same country as me and that’s it. I cannot make any white friends because it’s hard. Let alone finding a guy to date. My type is white tall athletes guys and all of them in my school only want white soro girls so I dont have hope finding a boyfriend in my school. That’s why I tried downloading dating apps. I am a virgin and I’ve never been in a relationship before and I never lost my first kiss. And s*x and first kiss are precious to me.
We matched on Tinder 6 months ago and he was very active and tried to get to know me. He’s pretty special to me because he was looking for a serious relationship and asked for my insta instead of my snapchat. When everyone there is just trynna hook up he really want a relationship and when I said I will not have s*x until I graduate will you wait for me and he respects me. We went on few dates and things went really well because he’s exactly my type, tall, dirty blonde and blue eyes. He even made the effort to drive to see me every single time because he’s 1h15 away and I dont have a car. And he paid for things too. His type is Asian too because I noticed that he followed many attractive Asian famous girls and many friends from Korea. I noticed one in there name A that he liked every single posts of her. But we were nothing at that point so I didnt say anything. He was just back from a trip to Asia and he likes Korea the most. He said that country is beautiful, safe and cheaper than Us and he did tell me he want to move there to live in the future. But at that point I was just planning on dating for fun so I dont care and keep going.
Funny enough we keep talking even though we dont have anything in common. After getting to know basically every basic things about each other, our conversation is plain and is just ‘wyd’ ‘im tired’ ‘im working’ etc. It’s shallow and not very deep. I noticed that but Im lonely so having a guy like that everyday is actually amazing to me. I dont have the intention of marrying him or anything and he doesnt too. But after several dates I slowly get attached. He hugged me, carried me up like a princess. Everything I have dreamt of before. And finally that day I lost my first kiss to him and he asked me to be his gf and I said yes. It was amazing.
So after we are officially dating. I got jealous of his followings and easily annoyed because he’s a super nonchalant guy.
I made a mess about him following those revealing models and he said he didnt remember because it’s a long time ago and delete all of them. However, when it comes to that girl A and some other I mentioned he said I will delete those I dont know but she’s just my friend and I wont delete her. ‘We dont even talk.’ Just a friend he knows from his Korea trip. Then I let it ago, but then after a while I noticed him liking her posts again and again and each time I fought with him and finally he told me he wont like her post anymore and he stopped.
But then I noticed him following a new girl B and she’s from Korea and I asked him and he said she’s his Korean teacher. I feel something sus but I cant do anything. He’s trying his best to learn Korean just to be able to live there and dont even care about my country. He doesnt even try to say my name correctly or learn anything about my country.
He’s really busy and he trynna work hard to earn money and his sleep schedule is really messed up. Im always annoyed because he takes hours to reply to me. And many small fights like how he only reply to my ‘i miss you’ but never say it first, and never call me, only texting. After a month of dating we got into a big fight. Imma sum it up. I asked him to come see me on Friday but then his grandpa got into a health problem so he had to drive his mom to the hospital and he said he will pick me up on Sat. I was all prepared and woke up early and then he overslept. Then he said he’ll come at 3.30 in the afternoon. I was waiting again. Until he texted me at 4. saying that his car tag exprired so he couldnt come see me. I was so sad but cant help it because it’s all valid reasons. I waited untill next week again, and I asked him to meet again. And then he overslept again, leaving me hanging and waiting like an idiot. I was so upset this time I texted him paragraphs saying not good things like why are you so irresponsible why dont you care about my feelings etc. if you dont text me back before 10a let’s just break up. Next morning he woke up and told me ‘you know what, we not gonna work’ then he unadded me on snapchat and unfollow me on instagram and unfollow me on tiktok too. But i still can text him on insta and imess and discord. I was so shocked and begged him to come back everywhere. I was crying like a baby dont wanna lose him. It was a traumatizing day for me. Eventually he responded and said ‘you dont know but I forgave you many times’ ‘maybe im not good enough for you’ and stuffs like that.. but eventually he added me back and said he’ll give me one last chance.
We got back for 2 days and now he’s lost a large part of interest for me. Then I asked to meet again and he said he cant because his schedule changed again and I got upset again and he unadded me again, block me on insta and tiktok and discord, but I still can text him on Imess. Then I apologized again and we got back again and he said ‘I do mean the last one’.
Then Im constantly careful not to hurt him or fight and we got on dates and we got more physically close to each other. However I dont feel any deep connection we’re just very shallow. Idk how to explain it. I think we’re just there to not be lonely. At least for me. I feel like he doesnt give a shit if i leave or not anymore.
Things go well for another month then I realize summer is comming and I’ll have to leave him for 3 months. I was not happy bc he’s not upset ab the fact that im going away at all. Then I noticed he slowly get colder towards me. I mean it’s not obvious but he doesnt crave for touching hugging me as much as before. I have to ask for kiss and hugs. And he only texted me on snap and never on instagram where I noticed he’s online everyday. His snap scores also went up 10 every morning and Idk if im a creep but like 1 or 2 even when he’s not snapping me so he’s snapping others. I know he has like 1 or 2 guy friends but I took a look at his phone sometimes (which he’s always trynna hide whenever he’s w me) and noticed some girls as well. But maybe just for streaks. And ofc he’s still texting that B girl for Korean lesson. And A girl is now in Japan for a trip. A and B post stories EVERY SINGLE DAY and it’s their cute photos and I know my bf is online on instagram everyday and watch those stories so I am very unhappy.
Then the day come when I have to go away for summer. He asked me when Im back and I said September. Then he said he’ll go to Japan in August for 1 month and I said okay. So we are in LDR now and I asked him to call me bc I need more contact to feel loved and valued. He said he will, but he never call me. He said it’s just he just never call anyone. I was upset many times but I also let it go. Also he never said he loved me. Only like.
Then I saw him like a thirst trap reel of a revealing famous korean girls 2 weeks ago. I was so fcking offended but he’s sick so im not making any fuss. After 4 days I decided to bring that up and texted him paragraphs on insta, imess and snap about how offended and sad I am and asked him why he do that when we are dating. Just for him to seen on insta and imess and reply on snap ‘I dont know’. Eventually, i let it go again because I dont wanna lose him if I take things further.
Then we went on for a couple more days before he texted me ‘I have something to tell you. I’ll go to Japan and to Korea and study there for 2 y w the intention of living there. I’ll be back sometimes to the US but obv that’s not enough for you’ then it’s some more lots of texts of me trying to keep it until he finally say ‘it’s best we break up, it wont work’.
Then he blocks me on everything, Insta, tiktok, snap, discord, mess. I dont dare to check if he blocks my number or not. And he’s gone, cold-heartedly, so easily as if I am nothing. I asked my friends to stalk him for a bit and notice that right after he blocks me. He likes B’s posts, his Korean teacher. And he like A’s posts, the girl he promised he wont ever again, who’re in Japan rn. So he moved on, and ready for his next life, no look back, no regret. While I am here. I think he’s the best I can find on dating apps, because everyone there just trynna hu. And I wont be able to find bfs in school. So i’ll be alone for a long time. Idk what to do, im so pessimistic. And i still want him to crawl back for an ego boost, that at least he still miss me. But apparently not, he’s already moved on, and already didnt give a shit ab me for a long time. So what tiktok says is wrong right. He’ll never come back..
2024.05.31 23:07 Ecstatic-Return-8019 I don't know whether to keep or abort the baby anymore
I (25F) found out I was pregnant on Mother's Day. Told my boyfriend (28M) and his reaction was not what I'd expected (considering I asked him just the previous week if I was pregnant would he want me to get an abortion and he said NO, he wants to keep it). He did not hug me, kiss me, even hold my hand it took about 5 minutes for him to say we need to have an abortion.
I've been the one going back and forth with him on it but he stayed solid, being negative saying we made a mistake, we lusted after each other that night, he's mad we were irresponsible, a baby would be another bill neither of us can afford on and on. Just a complete 180 from what he's been saying about having a baby from the moment we got together. (He dated baby mother's and surrounded himself with women with children before we got together).
So even after waking up the morning after we found out, I kept asking him are you sure? He's like this is what we have to do. I booked the consultation appointment while he was in gamestop selling a game system for gas money. That's how bad he's doing financially for reference.
Anyway, the past month I've been pregnant he's been totally absence claiming he's 'working', but doesn't have his $100 half of the ultrasound appointment that's monday. He gets paid weekly. I get paid every 2 weeks and work part time and still saved it up.
We've seen each other 3 times this month compared to me being at his house with his family exclusively for almost 8 months straight while I was taking a break from work. Suddenly doesn't want me over for long, doesn't want to spend time together, doesn't want me involved in any of his family activities like his cousin's grad or meeting his other cousin who came into town.
I argued with him and he spun it into something completely different ignoring the pregnancy in the equation altogether. Both times I brought up his lack of involvement and attentiveness to me.
I kept getting emails from planned paranthood that they had ultrasound appointments opening up and a week before I asked my boyfriend if we could do the earlier appointment date offered. He said no because he can't get off work in time enough (works at a restaurant as a cook). I said, isn't this an emergency situation where you should just call off? (And he works in the afternoon, the appointment would obviously be morning). He's like no, keep the appointment as is (Monday). I was frustrated and angry passing up all these appointment offers as my symptoms continued getting worse.
Then yesterday, I asked him did he get off for the original appointment date. He said yeah. Asked him to send me the $100, casually says he doesn't have it. As him what's going to happen if they offer to schedule the abortion for the next day? He says and I QUOTE:
"LET'S PRAY IT'S A LITTLE LATER." I called him over and over again until he texted back 'we're busy'. He was at work. I'd had it. I called his Mom and broke down to her. No one knew so far because we'd planned the abortion - why break everyone's hearts? But at this point, he was clearly sabotaging the appointments and I was scared he'd make an excuse, wake up late, all types of shit at this point.
So after ignoring me the entire rest of the night, I'm in his text messages saying I'm done and I want to break up. This really was the last straw for me. He could've gotten my forgiveness for everything in our relationship if he'd hugged me that night kissed me, said I love you and told me, "I'm happy. We're going to get through this. I love you and let's get married." But of COURSE not.
Even if he'd supported me at ALL this past month, I wouldn't have come to this conclusion. So when he finally calls me today, guess what he says ladies and gentlemen? JUST FUCKING GUESS.
"I want to keep the baby." Then tries to gaslight me that he had never made up his mind, told me he needed time, on and on and on. Ya'll I told him if it's twins I can't do an abortion and he had fear in his eyes like, 'bitch you're getting the abortion'. He was like, "Stop playing." Now he wants to keep the baby!!!! I think it's mainly because he feels bad now that everyone knows the abortion was his idea. It's like, too bad! You should've listened to me and thought about it before responding!
I feel like he's emotionally fucking with me at this point thinking he can keep going back and forth on a decision like this like it's nothing. Now I'm so torn. I was happy I was pregnant and didn't try to stop from getting pregnant because I was 100% sure he would be an amazing father and take care of me. Now that he's suddenly let me down at my most vulnerable time, I cannot imagine being tied to him for the rest of my life. I'm not into the single mom life, not into co-parenting, I want to get married and have a solid family and have my child be loved eternally by their dad specifically because of how I grew up. I want him fully involved, even moreso than me.
So now I'm just sitting here second guessing everything. I truly don't know what to do. I feel so sick and I want to feel better and I want him out of my life. But now all those dreams he smashed a month ago are coming back. Someone please weigh this out for me. I never intended to be a mom. My switch flipped as soon as I saw the test.
TL;DR: I'm pregnant and my boyfriend emotionally and physically abandoned me and keeps flip-flopping and playing with my emotions on whether or not he wants to be a father.
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I've been the one going back and forth with him on it but he stayed solid, being negative saying we made a mistake, we lusted after each other that night, he's mad we were irresponsible, a baby would be another bill neither of us can afford on and on. Just a complete 180 from what he's been saying about having a baby from the moment we got together. (He dated baby mother's and surrounded himself with women with children before we got together).
So even after waking up the morning after we found out, I kept asking him are you sure? He's like this is what we have to do. I booked the consultation appointment while he was in gamestop selling a game system for gas money. That's how bad he's doing financially for reference.
Anyway, the past month I've been pregnant he's been totally absence claiming he's 'working', but doesn't have his $100 half of the ultrasound appointment that's monday. He gets paid weekly. I get paid every 2 weeks and work part time and still saved it up.
We've seen each other 3 times this month compared to me being at his house with his family exclusively for almost 8 months straight while I was taking a break from work. Suddenly doesn't want me over for long, doesn't want to spend time together, doesn't want me involved in any of his family activities like his cousin's grad or meeting his other cousin who came into town.
I argued with him and he spun it into something completely different ignoring the pregnancy in the equation altogether. Both times I brought up his lack of involvement and attentiveness to me.
I kept getting emails from planned paranthood that they had ultrasound appointments opening up and a week before I asked my boyfriend if we could do the earlier appointment date offered. He said no because he can't get off work in time enough (works at a restaurant as a cook). I said, isn't this an emergency situation where you should just call off? (And he works in the afternoon, the appointment would obviously be morning). He's like no, keep the appointment as is (Monday). I was frustrated and angry passing up all these appointment offers as my symptoms continued getting worse.
Then yesterday, I asked him did he get off for the original appointment date. He said yeah. Asked him to send me the $100, casually says he doesn't have it. As him what's going to happen if they offer to schedule the abortion for the next day? He says and I QUOTE:
"LET'S PRAY IT'S A LITTLE LATER." I called him over and over again until he texted back 'we're busy'. He was at work. I'd had it. I called his Mom and broke down to her. No one knew so far because we'd planned the abortion - why break everyone's hearts? But at this point, he was clearly sabotaging the appointments and I was scared he'd make an excuse, wake up late, all types of shit at this point.
So after ignoring me the entire rest of the night, I'm in his text messages saying I'm done and I want to break up. This really was the last straw for me. He could've gotten my forgiveness for everything in our relationship if he'd hugged me that night kissed me, said I love you and told me, "I'm happy. We're going to get through this. I love you and let's get married." But of COURSE not.
Even if he'd supported me at ALL this past month, I wouldn't have come to this conclusion. So when he finally calls me today, guess what he says ladies and gentlemen? JUST FUCKING GUESS.
"I want to keep the baby." Then tries to gaslight me that he had never made up his mind, told me he needed time, on and on and on. Ya'll I told him if it's twins I can't do an abortion and he had fear in his eyes like, 'bitch you're getting the abortion'. He was like, "Stop playing." Now he wants to keep the baby!!!! I think it's mainly because he feels bad now that everyone knows the abortion was his idea. It's like, too bad! You should've listened to me and thought about it before responding!
I feel like he's emotionally fucking with me at this point thinking he can keep going back and forth on a decision like this like it's nothing. Now I'm so torn. I was happy I was pregnant and didn't try to stop from getting pregnant because I was 100% sure he would be an amazing father and take care of me. Now that he's suddenly let me down at my most vulnerable time, I cannot imagine being tied to him for the rest of my life. I'm not into the single mom life, not into co-parenting, I want to get married and have a solid family and have my child be loved eternally by their dad specifically because of how I grew up. I want him fully involved, even moreso than me.
So now I'm just sitting here second guessing everything. I truly don't know what to do. I feel so sick and I want to feel better and I want him out of my life. But now all those dreams he smashed a month ago are coming back. Someone please weigh this out for me. I never intended to be a mom. My switch flipped as soon as I saw the test.
TL;DR: I'm pregnant and my boyfriend emotionally and physically abandoned me and keeps flip-flopping and playing with my emotions on whether or not he wants to be a father.
2024.05.31 21:18 Icy-Bowler-7624 [Thank you]’s for the Last Week of May!
u/duygusu Thank you for your literary postcard of Leaves of Grass! Love the quote on the front, as well as the adorable stickers you used! :)
u/thepandapost Thank you for your art postcard!! It’s truly beautiful. I love discussing art and maybe it’s just me, but it often concerns me when people refuse to discuss it because I find that life is full of art no matter where you go! I also adore the cute cat washi you used! <3
u/raspberrypoppyseed Thank you very much for your amazing Disney Florida postcard! It’s so cute. I hope you were able to enjoy your trip! I’m also loving the princess stickers you added :D
u/zkhg Thank you for the “Ew David” postcard! I adore Schitts Creek so this was so lovely to receive!! <3
u/awachob Thank you for the “Step Off” Seinfeld reference card!! I love how colourful it is. I also adore the extra stickers you sent me - will definitely be using these in my journal! :)
u/bananas3706 Thank you for your beautiful NYBG postcard!! It’s so lovely that you pick flowers every Tuesday - wishing you some more great picks for the rest of summer! <3
u/kk6321 Thank you for your lovely “Greetings from Oregon” postcard! It’s gorgeous. I will definitely be checking out this podcast recommendation! Best of luck with your 1,000 flair goal :D
u/t3ctim Thank you for the stunning Trafalgar Square postcard! I visited many many years back, but I had only seen it in the day, so it’s lovely to see the night view that this postcard offers! :)
u/happyjoy23 Thank you for your lovely card and the beautiful stickers you used to decorate!! I also adore the manatee and jewelry stamps you used! <3
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u/thepandapost Thank you for your art postcard!! It’s truly beautiful. I love discussing art and maybe it’s just me, but it often concerns me when people refuse to discuss it because I find that life is full of art no matter where you go! I also adore the cute cat washi you used! <3
u/raspberrypoppyseed Thank you very much for your amazing Disney Florida postcard! It’s so cute. I hope you were able to enjoy your trip! I’m also loving the princess stickers you added :D
u/zkhg Thank you for the “Ew David” postcard! I adore Schitts Creek so this was so lovely to receive!! <3
u/awachob Thank you for the “Step Off” Seinfeld reference card!! I love how colourful it is. I also adore the extra stickers you sent me - will definitely be using these in my journal! :)
u/bananas3706 Thank you for your beautiful NYBG postcard!! It’s so lovely that you pick flowers every Tuesday - wishing you some more great picks for the rest of summer! <3
u/kk6321 Thank you for your lovely “Greetings from Oregon” postcard! It’s gorgeous. I will definitely be checking out this podcast recommendation! Best of luck with your 1,000 flair goal :D
u/t3ctim Thank you for the stunning Trafalgar Square postcard! I visited many many years back, but I had only seen it in the day, so it’s lovely to see the night view that this postcard offers! :)
u/happyjoy23 Thank you for your lovely card and the beautiful stickers you used to decorate!! I also adore the manatee and jewelry stamps you used! <3
2024.05.31 21:14 Throwra1509232 Boyfriend (M/26) and I (F/24) break up after 6 years. Gaslighting or me losing the LOML due to my stupidity?
I (25/F) and my boyfriend (26/M) have been together for 6 years. We've gone through a lot and I've seen him grow into a logical and pretty level headed person. We spoke to eachother mostly on a daily basis and none of our other fights or "breakups" have lasted for more than a day or two. I love him very much and still see a future with him. We've had a history where I have made him feel insecure and doubtful to my lack of trust stemming from my past boyfriends who've cheated on me. It took me two whole years to trust him fully. And we do have an ongoing problem with communication. We've been LDR for a year now due to me getting a job abroad.
The fight: It all began when I had sent him a stupid question from Instagram reels. It said " who could you choose: the girl or the world?" Mind you it was 11.30 pm and he goes to sleep by 12 am. We just got off a video call 15-30 mins before so I assumed he was still awake. He replied stating that he was gonna sleep. And I was persistent with him answering by sending him cute gifs of cats begging. He said "what's your problem?" And then nonchalantly replies that he'd choose me. I get mad and state that he's being rude and he replied that I am by stopping him from sleeping.
I don't initiate a conversation the next day and he replies what's up. Annoyed me repies with " the person you are trying to reach is currently unavailable". He pursists and starts questioning my where abouts as I am not picking up his video call requests. He then texts me that i am probably hanging out with a guy and that's not willing to pick up his call and show him my whereabouts. I accept his video call and show him that I'm home in my pajamas. He then jumps into me acting like this because I'm toxic. I just say that no, I'm hurt because you didn't answer a dumb question I asked and instead was being mean. He then jumps into me making a big deal out of nothing and this only happening because we text. And that I have a history of getting angry at him when texting. I just reply that I'm hurt by his words. He keeps going that he thinks that its all reels I watch that are affecting my brains and he is the one that always apologizes for things first and he doesn't want to anymore. It keeps becoming a bigger argument because we brought up our pasts.
Cue to me blocking him (ik that was not the best thing but I do this because he's relentless and does not give me time to breathe when we argue and I've done this before). He normally tries to reach out to me through friends/family when I do this but this time he doesn't and it's already been a day since we last spoke.
I unblock him and try to reach out to him with the excuse of him having a few items of mine. He gives me very cold replies, only reacting to my messages. I said that I atleast deserve full responses after 6 years of being together and we then get into another row. This time, I say the old him would've reached out to me by now but he didn't and that's like a red flag to me. I continue saying that I saw him put a lot of effort from his side when we lived together but when we got into LDR, I see less of it. This goes on and in the end he just tells me to block him. I get hurt and say that this could've been sorted with a half hearted apology and he's gaslighting me and just block him again.
It's been 2 weeks of no contact and honestly I'm not doing so well. I keep thinking about why he acted so differently this time. Speaking to friends, they say that this was a very immature reaction but then again, they're my friends so I don't really believe it.
TLDR: Boyfriend refuses to answer a silly question before he sleeps, I block him and unblock him. Blames me saying that I'm toxic and hanging out with another guy. I say he's gaslighting me. He then says I'm getting influenced by Instagram reels and using these words. Then tells me to block him. Been no contact for 2 weeks now. Do I reach out to him?
SORRY FOR THE LONG POST ⊙﹏⊙
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The fight: It all began when I had sent him a stupid question from Instagram reels. It said " who could you choose: the girl or the world?" Mind you it was 11.30 pm and he goes to sleep by 12 am. We just got off a video call 15-30 mins before so I assumed he was still awake. He replied stating that he was gonna sleep. And I was persistent with him answering by sending him cute gifs of cats begging. He said "what's your problem?" And then nonchalantly replies that he'd choose me. I get mad and state that he's being rude and he replied that I am by stopping him from sleeping.
I don't initiate a conversation the next day and he replies what's up. Annoyed me repies with " the person you are trying to reach is currently unavailable". He pursists and starts questioning my where abouts as I am not picking up his video call requests. He then texts me that i am probably hanging out with a guy and that's not willing to pick up his call and show him my whereabouts. I accept his video call and show him that I'm home in my pajamas. He then jumps into me acting like this because I'm toxic. I just say that no, I'm hurt because you didn't answer a dumb question I asked and instead was being mean. He then jumps into me making a big deal out of nothing and this only happening because we text. And that I have a history of getting angry at him when texting. I just reply that I'm hurt by his words. He keeps going that he thinks that its all reels I watch that are affecting my brains and he is the one that always apologizes for things first and he doesn't want to anymore. It keeps becoming a bigger argument because we brought up our pasts.
Cue to me blocking him (ik that was not the best thing but I do this because he's relentless and does not give me time to breathe when we argue and I've done this before). He normally tries to reach out to me through friends/family when I do this but this time he doesn't and it's already been a day since we last spoke.
I unblock him and try to reach out to him with the excuse of him having a few items of mine. He gives me very cold replies, only reacting to my messages. I said that I atleast deserve full responses after 6 years of being together and we then get into another row. This time, I say the old him would've reached out to me by now but he didn't and that's like a red flag to me. I continue saying that I saw him put a lot of effort from his side when we lived together but when we got into LDR, I see less of it. This goes on and in the end he just tells me to block him. I get hurt and say that this could've been sorted with a half hearted apology and he's gaslighting me and just block him again.
It's been 2 weeks of no contact and honestly I'm not doing so well. I keep thinking about why he acted so differently this time. Speaking to friends, they say that this was a very immature reaction but then again, they're my friends so I don't really believe it.
TLDR: Boyfriend refuses to answer a silly question before he sleeps, I block him and unblock him. Blames me saying that I'm toxic and hanging out with another guy. I say he's gaslighting me. He then says I'm getting influenced by Instagram reels and using these words. Then tells me to block him. Been no contact for 2 weeks now. Do I reach out to him?
SORRY FOR THE LONG POST ⊙﹏⊙
2024.05.31 20:52 yendortheviking It’s been 1 year and I turn 26 today
One year ago, my boyfriend passed away suddenly 3 days before my birthday. I was shattered and devastated. We chose each other, and I knew exactly what my life was going to look like with him. We were going to sail the world, move in together, give our parents grandkids… he made me believe in love. Every day after his passing, I would look at myself in the mirror and I wouldn’t be able to recognize myself. I didn’t know who I was without him, and it scared me. It scared me that I was turning into a new person that he wouldn’t recognize, and maybe someone he wouldn’t love anymore. I was growing further away from him.
Even though it’s been the worst year of my life, I did some pretty amazing things. I started going to therapy, I went on the trips we planned (a trip to Vietnam, 2 music festivals), celebrated his birthday and our anniversary, went to a music festival solo and grew a relationship with his family and new friends. I even started going on dates! (Big one lol) I know he would be so proud of me.
As I enter the second year of his passing and a new year for myself, even though the last year was actually terrible but it’s been significant one. I learned a lot about myself, and I am changed. I am not the same person I was when we were together. He changed my life, but his passing changed me. I am so sad that he isn’t here to experience who I am today. It’s unfortunate that his passing has made me a better person and that he’s not here to get the benefits of it.
I know the road is rocky for a lot of us. But I hope that you all are able to find some joy in your life. One day at a time, one moment of joy at the a time, and eventually the grief gets a little smaller. It’s absolute robbery to be in the situation and I’m sorry this is what life has given us but you’re stronger than you know. We can do hard things ❤️
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Even though it’s been the worst year of my life, I did some pretty amazing things. I started going to therapy, I went on the trips we planned (a trip to Vietnam, 2 music festivals), celebrated his birthday and our anniversary, went to a music festival solo and grew a relationship with his family and new friends. I even started going on dates! (Big one lol) I know he would be so proud of me.
As I enter the second year of his passing and a new year for myself, even though the last year was actually terrible but it’s been significant one. I learned a lot about myself, and I am changed. I am not the same person I was when we were together. He changed my life, but his passing changed me. I am so sad that he isn’t here to experience who I am today. It’s unfortunate that his passing has made me a better person and that he’s not here to get the benefits of it.
I know the road is rocky for a lot of us. But I hope that you all are able to find some joy in your life. One day at a time, one moment of joy at the a time, and eventually the grief gets a little smaller. It’s absolute robbery to be in the situation and I’m sorry this is what life has given us but you’re stronger than you know. We can do hard things ❤️
2024.05.31 20:12 Jonbomb44 Can’t Wash Dresses
This is going to sound incredibly stupid, and honestly, it is, but this thread feels like a perfect place to make a post about it.
So I’m MtF (24), and I realized I was trans a few years ago— towards the end of 2021 when I had just turned…well, 21. 😅
Sparkles ✨✨✨
For the longest time, and still to this day in several ways to be quite frank, I haven’t been allowed to openly explore or express my femininity. I come from a conservative Cuban household of ranging spectrums (my mom being a centrist while my stepdad is MUCH more overtly red). Both Christian, and when my abuela was still alive, she was a Jehova’s Witness too.
Soooooo uh. Yeah. Complicated situation. When is it ever not though, am I right?
I used to live primarily with my grandparents (long story) while my mom would visit every day to check up on me, cook meals and such. When I came out to her as genderfluid in 2022—probably the biggest mistake looking back, since it led to crossed wires of what I was REALLY trying to convey—she was “accepting.” More on that later, lol. But she told me that I have to keep it hidden from my grandma, otherwise she’ll have a heart attack and it’ll kill her. =)
Placed a WHOLE lot of pressure on me to stay in that closet. And that would’ve been one thing by itself, y’know?
But she NEVER asked any followup questions with me (what my preferred pronouns are, whether I wanna go by a different name, my broader plans for transition, etc.) or revisited the topic in general ever again, which has remained the status quo up to this point.
She essentially buried my trans identity under the rug; not caring that it was something EXTREMELY important to me I had trust issues with conveying to her. Again, when I came out to her, I probably shouldn’t have described it as “sometimes I feel like a girl, and sometimes I feel like a boy.” Cause as I later explored things, I realized that isn’t true (much more of a she/they androgynous genderfluid). But even with those circumstances, I imagine as a parent it’s basic decent courtesy to TRY and care more about something that’s so important to your child? I told her directly to her face back then that it was something I was struggling to reconcile internally, and that I really wanted her support moving forward.
But it seems it went in one ear and out the other. Thinking that so long as she does the bare minimum of not kicking me out or starting arguments about me being trans, she’s a Good Mom™️.
What a joke. >.>’
The one good thing that DID come out of it was her being willing to let me wear dresses when going out. But there were multiple ground rules she put down with that:
1)- I couldn’t be seen by anyone else in my family wearing feminine attire around the house.
2)- Likewise, I couldn’t TELL anyone else in my family that I’m trans.
And this one was more indirect. But the latter two conditions made it so that, if I wanted to wear a dress while going out, I’d have to bring a fanny pack to hide the one dress I found at the time (an old hand-me-down from my abuela which miraculously fit well) before changing in a public restroom. Most often then I would eventually have to change back to my boymode clothes before going back to my mom’s car— during the times she’d pick me up.
Cause God forbid I arrive back to my home wearing a dress & raising questions, right? /sarcasm
It’s noteworthy context to add here that I DO have a driver’s license (have had one since I was 18). But my mom refuses to let me use it. 🙃
In particular because she has a weird vendetta against me “relying too much” on GPS??? She told me that she wouldn’t let me drive independently until I learned how to navigate by JUST reading signs. So the car my dad bought for me pretty just went to waste outside of driving instructor lessons, which we eventually ran out of money to pay for. It was on a lease too, so that car just outright got taken away from me after a certain amount of time had passed.
He also took away my grandparents’ house (again, LONG story, just know he’s a piece of shit), by selling it since he still legally owned it. Barely a month after my abuela’s passing. Which is why I’m forced to live with my mother and my stepfather in their apartment now, with little to no freedom to go anywhere else. My mom never let me have a job when I was younger either cause she wanted me to focus ENTIRELY on my education, to a toxic degree might I add which gave me burnout depression. So it’s only now in current day that I’m actually gonna start working soon.
I’ve never been allowed to have true independence and autonomy throughout my life. Which is perhaps most physically symbolized by how in 2023, I bought a handful of cute pretty dresses in New Jersey when I was visiting my boyfriend (we’re in a long-distance relationship), and I haven’t washed them even once up until now because I’ve been deathly afraid of them shrinking in the wash like my first one tragically did. And I’ve told my mom about this conundrum, but she doesn’t care whatsoever and has made no efforts to help me take care of those dresses. Thus making me perpetually nervous and uncomfortable with pushing the topic.
So yeah, I have stinky, dirty dresses which have stayed stinky and dirty purely because of my apathetically neglectful and controlling transphobic mother keeping me stuffed in a closet for as long as she can. <3
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So I’m MtF (24), and I realized I was trans a few years ago— towards the end of 2021 when I had just turned…well, 21. 😅
Sparkles ✨✨✨
For the longest time, and still to this day in several ways to be quite frank, I haven’t been allowed to openly explore or express my femininity. I come from a conservative Cuban household of ranging spectrums (my mom being a centrist while my stepdad is MUCH more overtly red). Both Christian, and when my abuela was still alive, she was a Jehova’s Witness too.
Soooooo uh. Yeah. Complicated situation. When is it ever not though, am I right?
I used to live primarily with my grandparents (long story) while my mom would visit every day to check up on me, cook meals and such. When I came out to her as genderfluid in 2022—probably the biggest mistake looking back, since it led to crossed wires of what I was REALLY trying to convey—she was “accepting.” More on that later, lol. But she told me that I have to keep it hidden from my grandma, otherwise she’ll have a heart attack and it’ll kill her. =)
Placed a WHOLE lot of pressure on me to stay in that closet. And that would’ve been one thing by itself, y’know?
But she NEVER asked any followup questions with me (what my preferred pronouns are, whether I wanna go by a different name, my broader plans for transition, etc.) or revisited the topic in general ever again, which has remained the status quo up to this point.
She essentially buried my trans identity under the rug; not caring that it was something EXTREMELY important to me I had trust issues with conveying to her. Again, when I came out to her, I probably shouldn’t have described it as “sometimes I feel like a girl, and sometimes I feel like a boy.” Cause as I later explored things, I realized that isn’t true (much more of a she/they androgynous genderfluid). But even with those circumstances, I imagine as a parent it’s basic decent courtesy to TRY and care more about something that’s so important to your child? I told her directly to her face back then that it was something I was struggling to reconcile internally, and that I really wanted her support moving forward.
But it seems it went in one ear and out the other. Thinking that so long as she does the bare minimum of not kicking me out or starting arguments about me being trans, she’s a Good Mom™️.
What a joke. >.>’
The one good thing that DID come out of it was her being willing to let me wear dresses when going out. But there were multiple ground rules she put down with that:
1)- I couldn’t be seen by anyone else in my family wearing feminine attire around the house.
2)- Likewise, I couldn’t TELL anyone else in my family that I’m trans.
And this one was more indirect. But the latter two conditions made it so that, if I wanted to wear a dress while going out, I’d have to bring a fanny pack to hide the one dress I found at the time (an old hand-me-down from my abuela which miraculously fit well) before changing in a public restroom. Most often then I would eventually have to change back to my boymode clothes before going back to my mom’s car— during the times she’d pick me up.
Cause God forbid I arrive back to my home wearing a dress & raising questions, right? /sarcasm
It’s noteworthy context to add here that I DO have a driver’s license (have had one since I was 18). But my mom refuses to let me use it. 🙃
In particular because she has a weird vendetta against me “relying too much” on GPS??? She told me that she wouldn’t let me drive independently until I learned how to navigate by JUST reading signs. So the car my dad bought for me pretty just went to waste outside of driving instructor lessons, which we eventually ran out of money to pay for. It was on a lease too, so that car just outright got taken away from me after a certain amount of time had passed.
He also took away my grandparents’ house (again, LONG story, just know he’s a piece of shit), by selling it since he still legally owned it. Barely a month after my abuela’s passing. Which is why I’m forced to live with my mother and my stepfather in their apartment now, with little to no freedom to go anywhere else. My mom never let me have a job when I was younger either cause she wanted me to focus ENTIRELY on my education, to a toxic degree might I add which gave me burnout depression. So it’s only now in current day that I’m actually gonna start working soon.
I’ve never been allowed to have true independence and autonomy throughout my life. Which is perhaps most physically symbolized by how in 2023, I bought a handful of cute pretty dresses in New Jersey when I was visiting my boyfriend (we’re in a long-distance relationship), and I haven’t washed them even once up until now because I’ve been deathly afraid of them shrinking in the wash like my first one tragically did. And I’ve told my mom about this conundrum, but she doesn’t care whatsoever and has made no efforts to help me take care of those dresses. Thus making me perpetually nervous and uncomfortable with pushing the topic.
So yeah, I have stinky, dirty dresses which have stayed stinky and dirty purely because of my apathetically neglectful and controlling transphobic mother keeping me stuffed in a closet for as long as she can. <3
2024.05.31 19:22 Moechie-1312 Will he come back to me even after blocking me everywhere and doesnt give a shiet ab me anymore?
So me(19F) and my ex(21M) broke up 3 days ago because he’s going to Korea to study for 2y and plan on living there forever and I am staying in the US. I watched all those tiktoks and read all those reddits hearing people say that the guy will always come back. However I believe mine wont and we will never contact again because we are in 2 different paths from now on but I just want to hear your advices so that I can give up my last hope. This is a pretty long one. Please forgive me.
So I am an international student and I got a scholarship to go to the US for uni and I plan on residing here in the future. Everything is hard for me I only made one best friend who is from the same country as me and that’s it. I cannot make any white friends because it’s hard. Let alone finding a guy to date. My type is white tall athletes guys and all of them in my school only want white soro girls so I dont have hope finding a boyfriend in my school. That’s why I tried downloading dating apps. I am a virgin and I’ve never been in a relationship before and I never lost my first kiss. And s*x and first kiss are precious to me.
We matched on Tinder 6 months ago and he was very active and tried to get to know me. He’s pretty special to me because he was looking for a serious relationship and asked for my insta instead of my snapchat. When everyone there is just trynna hook up he really want a relationship and when I said I will not have s*x until I graduate will you wait for me and he respects me. We went on few dates and things went really well because he’s exactly my type, tall, dirty blonde and blue eyes. He even made the effort to drive to see me every single time because he’s 1h15 away and I dont have a car. And he paid for things too. His type is Asian too because I noticed that he followed many attractive Asian famous girls and many friends from Korea. I noticed one in there name A that he liked every single posts of her. But we were nothing at that point so I didnt say anything. He was just back from a trip to Asia and he likes Korea the most. He said that country is beautiful, safe and cheaper than Us and he did tell me he want to move there to live in the future. But at that point I was just planning on dating for fun so I dont care and keep going.
Funny enough we keep talking even though we dont have anything in common. After getting to know basically every basic things about each other, our conversation is plain and is just ‘wyd’ ‘im tired’ ‘im working’ etc. It’s shallow and not very deep. I noticed that but Im lonely so having a guy like that everyday is actually amazing to me. I dont have the intention of marrying him or anything and he doesnt too. But after several dates I slowly get attached. He hugged me, carried me up like a princess. Everything I have dreamt of before. And finally that day I lost my first kiss to him and he asked me to be his gf and I said yes. It was amazing.
So after we are officially dating. I got jealous of his followings and easily annoyed because he’s a super nonchalant guy.
I made a mess about him following those revealing models and he said he didnt remember because it’s a long time ago and delete all of them. However, when it comes to that girl A and some other I mentioned he said I will delete those I dont know but she’s just my friend and I wont delete her. ‘We dont even talk.’ Just a friend he knows from his Korea trip. Then I let it ago, but then after a while I noticed him liking her posts again and again and each time I fought with him and finally he told me he wont like her post anymore and he stopped.
But then I noticed him following a new girl B and she’s from Korea and I asked him and he said she’s his Korean teacher. I feel something sus but I cant do anything. He’s trying his best to learn Korean just to be able to live there and dont even care about my country. He doesnt even try to say my name correctly or learn anything about my country.
He’s really busy and he trynna work hard to earn money and his sleep schedule is really messed up. Im always annoyed because he takes hours to reply to me. And many small fights like how he only reply to my ‘i miss you’ but never say it first, and never call me, only texting. After a month of dating we got into a big fight. Imma sum it up. I asked him to come see me on Friday but then his grandpa got into a health problem so he had to drive his mom to the hospital and he said he will pick me up on Sat. I was all prepared and woke up early and then he overslept. Then he said he’ll come at 3.30 in the afternoon. I was waiting again. Until he texted me at 4. saying that his car tag exprired so he couldnt come see me. I was so sad but cant help it because it’s all valid reasons. I waited untill next week again, and I asked him to meet again. And then he overslept again, leaving me hanging and waiting like an idiot. I was so upset this time I texted him paragraphs saying not good things like why are you so irresponsible why dont you care about my feelings etc. if you dont text me back before 10a let’s just break up. Next morning he woke up and told me ‘you know what, we not gonna work’ then he unadded me on snapchat and unfollow me on instagram and unfollow me on tiktok too. But i still can text him on insta and imess and discord. I was so shocked and begged him to come back everywhere. I was crying like a baby dont wanna lose him. It was a traumatizing day for me. Eventually he responded and said ‘you dont know but I forgave you many times’ ‘maybe im not good enough for you’ and stuffs like that.. but eventually he added me back and said he’ll give me one last chance.
We got back for 2 days and now he’s lost a large part of interest for me. Then I asked to meet again and he said he cant because his schedule changed again and I got upset again and he unadded me again, block me on insta and tiktok and discord, but I still can text him on Imess. Then I apologized again and we got back again and he said ‘I do mean the last one’.
Then Im constantly careful not to hurt him or fight and we got on dates and we got more physically close to each other. However I dont feel any deep connection we’re just very shallow. Idk how to explain it. I think we’re just there to not be lonely. At least for me. I feel like he doesnt give a shit if i leave or not anymore.
Things go well for another month then I realize summer is comming and I’ll have to leave him for 3 months. I was not happy bc he’s not upset ab the fact that im going away at all. Then I noticed he slowly get colder towards me. I mean it’s not obvious but he doesnt crave for touching hugging me as much as before. I have to ask for kiss and hugs. And he only texted me on snap and never on instagram where I noticed he’s online everyday. His snap scores also went up 10 every morning and Idk if im a creep but like 1 or 2 even when he’s not snapping me so he’s snapping others. I know he has like 1 or 2 guy friends but I took a look at his phone sometimes (which he’s always trynna hide whenever he’s w me) and noticed some girls as well. But maybe just for streaks. And ofc he’s still texting that B girl for Korean lesson. And A girl is now in Japan for a trip. A and B post stories EVERY SINGLE DAY and it’s their cute photos and I know my bf is online on instagram everyday and watch those stories so I am very unhappy.
Then the day come when I have to go away for summer. He asked me when Im back and I said September. Then he said he’ll go to Japan in August for 1 month and I said okay. So we are in LDR now and I asked him to call me bc I need more contact to feel loved and valued. He said he will, but he never call me. He said it’s just he just never call anyone. I was upset many times but I also let it go. Also he never said he loved me. Only like.
Then I saw him like a thirst trap reel of a revealing famous korean girls 2 weeks ago. I was so fcking offended but he’s sick so im not making any fuss. After 4 days I decided to bring that up and texted him paragraphs on insta, imess and snap about how offended and sad I am and asked him why he do that when we are dating. Just for him to seen on insta and imess and reply on snap ‘I dont know’. Eventually, i let it go again because I dont wanna lose him if I take things further.
Then we went on for a couple more days before he texted me ‘I have something to tell you. I’ll go to Japan and to Korea and study there for 2 y w the intention of living there. I’ll be back sometimes to the US but obv that’s not enough for you’ then it’s some more lots of texts of me trying to keep it until he finally say ‘it’s best we break up, it wont work’.
Then he blocks me on everything, Insta, tiktok, snap, discord, mess. I dont dare to check if he blocks my number or not. And he’s gone, cold-heartedly, so easily as if I am nothing. I asked my friends to stalk him for a bit and notice that right after he blocks me. He likes B’s posts, his Korean teacher. And he like A’s posts, the girl he promised he wont ever again, who’re in Japan rn. So he moved on, and ready for his next life, no look back, no regret. While I am here. I think he’s the best I can find on dating apps, because everyone there just trynna hu. And I wont be able to find bfs in school. So i’ll be alone for a long time. Idk what to do, im so pessimistic. And i still want him to crawl back for an ego boost, that at least he still miss me. But apparently not, he’s already moved on, and already didnt give a shit ab me for a long time. So what tiktok says is wrong right. He’ll never come back..
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So I am an international student and I got a scholarship to go to the US for uni and I plan on residing here in the future. Everything is hard for me I only made one best friend who is from the same country as me and that’s it. I cannot make any white friends because it’s hard. Let alone finding a guy to date. My type is white tall athletes guys and all of them in my school only want white soro girls so I dont have hope finding a boyfriend in my school. That’s why I tried downloading dating apps. I am a virgin and I’ve never been in a relationship before and I never lost my first kiss. And s*x and first kiss are precious to me.
We matched on Tinder 6 months ago and he was very active and tried to get to know me. He’s pretty special to me because he was looking for a serious relationship and asked for my insta instead of my snapchat. When everyone there is just trynna hook up he really want a relationship and when I said I will not have s*x until I graduate will you wait for me and he respects me. We went on few dates and things went really well because he’s exactly my type, tall, dirty blonde and blue eyes. He even made the effort to drive to see me every single time because he’s 1h15 away and I dont have a car. And he paid for things too. His type is Asian too because I noticed that he followed many attractive Asian famous girls and many friends from Korea. I noticed one in there name A that he liked every single posts of her. But we were nothing at that point so I didnt say anything. He was just back from a trip to Asia and he likes Korea the most. He said that country is beautiful, safe and cheaper than Us and he did tell me he want to move there to live in the future. But at that point I was just planning on dating for fun so I dont care and keep going.
Funny enough we keep talking even though we dont have anything in common. After getting to know basically every basic things about each other, our conversation is plain and is just ‘wyd’ ‘im tired’ ‘im working’ etc. It’s shallow and not very deep. I noticed that but Im lonely so having a guy like that everyday is actually amazing to me. I dont have the intention of marrying him or anything and he doesnt too. But after several dates I slowly get attached. He hugged me, carried me up like a princess. Everything I have dreamt of before. And finally that day I lost my first kiss to him and he asked me to be his gf and I said yes. It was amazing.
So after we are officially dating. I got jealous of his followings and easily annoyed because he’s a super nonchalant guy.
I made a mess about him following those revealing models and he said he didnt remember because it’s a long time ago and delete all of them. However, when it comes to that girl A and some other I mentioned he said I will delete those I dont know but she’s just my friend and I wont delete her. ‘We dont even talk.’ Just a friend he knows from his Korea trip. Then I let it ago, but then after a while I noticed him liking her posts again and again and each time I fought with him and finally he told me he wont like her post anymore and he stopped.
But then I noticed him following a new girl B and she’s from Korea and I asked him and he said she’s his Korean teacher. I feel something sus but I cant do anything. He’s trying his best to learn Korean just to be able to live there and dont even care about my country. He doesnt even try to say my name correctly or learn anything about my country.
He’s really busy and he trynna work hard to earn money and his sleep schedule is really messed up. Im always annoyed because he takes hours to reply to me. And many small fights like how he only reply to my ‘i miss you’ but never say it first, and never call me, only texting. After a month of dating we got into a big fight. Imma sum it up. I asked him to come see me on Friday but then his grandpa got into a health problem so he had to drive his mom to the hospital and he said he will pick me up on Sat. I was all prepared and woke up early and then he overslept. Then he said he’ll come at 3.30 in the afternoon. I was waiting again. Until he texted me at 4. saying that his car tag exprired so he couldnt come see me. I was so sad but cant help it because it’s all valid reasons. I waited untill next week again, and I asked him to meet again. And then he overslept again, leaving me hanging and waiting like an idiot. I was so upset this time I texted him paragraphs saying not good things like why are you so irresponsible why dont you care about my feelings etc. if you dont text me back before 10a let’s just break up. Next morning he woke up and told me ‘you know what, we not gonna work’ then he unadded me on snapchat and unfollow me on instagram and unfollow me on tiktok too. But i still can text him on insta and imess and discord. I was so shocked and begged him to come back everywhere. I was crying like a baby dont wanna lose him. It was a traumatizing day for me. Eventually he responded and said ‘you dont know but I forgave you many times’ ‘maybe im not good enough for you’ and stuffs like that.. but eventually he added me back and said he’ll give me one last chance.
We got back for 2 days and now he’s lost a large part of interest for me. Then I asked to meet again and he said he cant because his schedule changed again and I got upset again and he unadded me again, block me on insta and tiktok and discord, but I still can text him on Imess. Then I apologized again and we got back again and he said ‘I do mean the last one’.
Then Im constantly careful not to hurt him or fight and we got on dates and we got more physically close to each other. However I dont feel any deep connection we’re just very shallow. Idk how to explain it. I think we’re just there to not be lonely. At least for me. I feel like he doesnt give a shit if i leave or not anymore.
Things go well for another month then I realize summer is comming and I’ll have to leave him for 3 months. I was not happy bc he’s not upset ab the fact that im going away at all. Then I noticed he slowly get colder towards me. I mean it’s not obvious but he doesnt crave for touching hugging me as much as before. I have to ask for kiss and hugs. And he only texted me on snap and never on instagram where I noticed he’s online everyday. His snap scores also went up 10 every morning and Idk if im a creep but like 1 or 2 even when he’s not snapping me so he’s snapping others. I know he has like 1 or 2 guy friends but I took a look at his phone sometimes (which he’s always trynna hide whenever he’s w me) and noticed some girls as well. But maybe just for streaks. And ofc he’s still texting that B girl for Korean lesson. And A girl is now in Japan for a trip. A and B post stories EVERY SINGLE DAY and it’s their cute photos and I know my bf is online on instagram everyday and watch those stories so I am very unhappy.
Then the day come when I have to go away for summer. He asked me when Im back and I said September. Then he said he’ll go to Japan in August for 1 month and I said okay. So we are in LDR now and I asked him to call me bc I need more contact to feel loved and valued. He said he will, but he never call me. He said it’s just he just never call anyone. I was upset many times but I also let it go. Also he never said he loved me. Only like.
Then I saw him like a thirst trap reel of a revealing famous korean girls 2 weeks ago. I was so fcking offended but he’s sick so im not making any fuss. After 4 days I decided to bring that up and texted him paragraphs on insta, imess and snap about how offended and sad I am and asked him why he do that when we are dating. Just for him to seen on insta and imess and reply on snap ‘I dont know’. Eventually, i let it go again because I dont wanna lose him if I take things further.
Then we went on for a couple more days before he texted me ‘I have something to tell you. I’ll go to Japan and to Korea and study there for 2 y w the intention of living there. I’ll be back sometimes to the US but obv that’s not enough for you’ then it’s some more lots of texts of me trying to keep it until he finally say ‘it’s best we break up, it wont work’.
Then he blocks me on everything, Insta, tiktok, snap, discord, mess. I dont dare to check if he blocks my number or not. And he’s gone, cold-heartedly, so easily as if I am nothing. I asked my friends to stalk him for a bit and notice that right after he blocks me. He likes B’s posts, his Korean teacher. And he like A’s posts, the girl he promised he wont ever again, who’re in Japan rn. So he moved on, and ready for his next life, no look back, no regret. While I am here. I think he’s the best I can find on dating apps, because everyone there just trynna hu. And I wont be able to find bfs in school. So i’ll be alone for a long time. Idk what to do, im so pessimistic. And i still want him to crawl back for an ego boost, that at least he still miss me. But apparently not, he’s already moved on, and already didnt give a shit ab me for a long time. So what tiktok says is wrong right. He’ll never come back..
2024.05.31 19:21 Moechie-1312 Will he come back to me even after blocking me everywhere and doesnt give a shiet about me anymore?
So me(19F) and my ex(21M) broke up 3 days ago because he’s going to Korea to study for 2y and plan on living there forever and I am staying in the US. I watched all those tiktoks and read all those reddits hearing people say that the guy will always come back. However I believe mine wont and we will never contact again because we are in 2 different paths from now on but I just want to hear your advices so that I can give up my last hope. This is a pretty long one. Please forgive me.
So I am an international student and I got a scholarship to go to the US for uni and I plan on residing here in the future. Everything is hard for me I only made one best friend who is from the same country as me and that’s it. I cannot make any white friends because it’s hard. Let alone finding a guy to date. My type is white tall athletes guys and all of them in my school only want white soro girls so I dont have hope finding a boyfriend in my school. That’s why I tried downloading dating apps. I am a virgin and I’ve never been in a relationship before and I never lost my first kiss. And s*x and first kiss are precious to me.
We matched on Tinder 6 months ago and he was very active and tried to get to know me. He’s pretty special to me because he was looking for a serious relationship and asked for my insta instead of my snapchat. When everyone there is just trynna hook up he really want a relationship and when I said I will not have s*x until I graduate will you wait for me and he respects me. We went on few dates and things went really well because he’s exactly my type, tall, dirty blonde and blue eyes. He even made the effort to drive to see me every single time because he’s 1h15 away and I dont have a car. And he paid for things too. His type is Asian too because I noticed that he followed many attractive Asian famous girls and many friends from Korea. I noticed one in there name A that he liked every single posts of her. But we were nothing at that point so I didnt say anything. He was just back from a trip to Asia and he likes Korea the most. He said that country is beautiful, safe and cheaper than Us and he did tell me he want to move there to live in the future. But at that point I was just planning on dating for fun so I dont care and keep going.
Funny enough we keep talking even though we dont have anything in common. After getting to know basically every basic things about each other, our conversation is plain and is just ‘wyd’ ‘im tired’ ‘im working’ etc. It’s shallow and not very deep. I noticed that but Im lonely so having a guy like that everyday is actually amazing to me. I dont have the intention of marrying him or anything and he doesnt too. But after several dates I slowly get attached. He hugged me, carried me up like a princess. Everything I have dreamt of before. And finally that day I lost my first kiss to him and he asked me to be his gf and I said yes. It was amazing.
So after we are officially dating. I got jealous of his followings and easily annoyed because he’s a super nonchalant guy.
I made a mess about him following those revealing models and he said he didnt remember because it’s a long time ago and delete all of them. However, when it comes to that girl A and some other I mentioned he said I will delete those I dont know but she’s just my friend and I wont delete her. ‘We dont even talk.’ Just a friend he knows from his Korea trip. Then I let it ago, but then after a while I noticed him liking her posts again and again and each time I fought with him and finally he told me he wont like her post anymore and he stopped.
But then I noticed him following a new girl B and she’s from Korea and I asked him and he said she’s his Korean teacher. I feel something sus but I cant do anything. He’s trying his best to learn Korean just to be able to live there and dont even care about my country. He doesnt even try to say my name correctly or learn anything about my country.
He’s really busy and he trynna work hard to earn money and his sleep schedule is really messed up. Im always annoyed because he takes hours to reply to me. And many small fights like how he only reply to my ‘i miss you’ but never say it first, and never call me, only texting. After a month of dating we got into a big fight. Imma sum it up. I asked him to come see me on Friday but then his grandpa got into a health problem so he had to drive his mom to the hospital and he said he will pick me up on Sat. I was all prepared and woke up early and then he overslept. Then he said he’ll come at 3.30 in the afternoon. I was waiting again. Until he texted me at 4. saying that his car tag exprired so he couldnt come see me. I was so sad but cant help it because it’s all valid reasons. I waited untill next week again, and I asked him to meet again. And then he overslept again, leaving me hanging and waiting like an idiot. I was so upset this time I texted him paragraphs saying not good things like why are you so irresponsible why dont you care about my feelings etc. if you dont text me back before 10a let’s just break up. Next morning he woke up and told me ‘you know what, we not gonna work’ then he unadded me on snapchat and unfollow me on instagram and unfollow me on tiktok too. But i still can text him on insta and imess and discord. I was so shocked and begged him to come back everywhere. I was crying like a baby dont wanna lose him. It was a traumatizing day for me. Eventually he responded and said ‘you dont know but I forgave you many times’ ‘maybe im not good enough for you’ and stuffs like that.. but eventually he added me back and said he’ll give me one last chance.
We got back for 2 days and now he’s lost a large part of interest for me. Then I asked to meet again and he said he cant because his schedule changed again and I got upset again and he unadded me again, block me on insta and tiktok and discord, but I still can text him on Imess. Then I apologized again and we got back again and he said ‘I do mean the last one’.
Then Im constantly careful not to hurt him or fight and we got on dates and we got more physically close to each other. However I dont feel any deep connection we’re just very shallow. Idk how to explain it. I think we’re just there to not be lonely. At least for me. I feel like he doesnt give a shit if i leave or not anymore.
Things go well for another month then I realize summer is comming and I’ll have to leave him for 3 months. I was not happy bc he’s not upset ab the fact that im going away at all. Then I noticed he slowly get colder towards me. I mean it’s not obvious but he doesnt crave for touching hugging me as much as before. I have to ask for kiss and hugs. And he only texted me on snap and never on instagram where I noticed he’s online everyday. His snap scores also went up 10 every morning and Idk if im a creep but like 1 or 2 even when he’s not snapping me so he’s snapping others. I know he has like 1 or 2 guy friends but I took a look at his phone sometimes (which he’s always trynna hide whenever he’s w me) and noticed some girls as well. But maybe just for streaks. And ofc he’s still texting that B girl for Korean lesson. And A girl is now in Japan for a trip. A and B post stories EVERY SINGLE DAY and it’s their cute photos and I know my bf is online on instagram everyday and watch those stories so I am very unhappy.
Then the day come when I have to go away for summer. He asked me when Im back and I said September. Then he said he’ll go to Japan in August for 1 month and I said okay. So we are in LDR now and I asked him to call me bc I need more contact to feel loved and valued. He said he will, but he never call me. He said it’s just he just never call anyone. I was upset many times but I also let it go. Also he never said he loved me. Only like.
Then I saw him like a thirst trap reel of a revealing famous korean girls 2 weeks ago. I was so fcking offended but he’s sick so im not making any fuss. After 4 days I decided to bring that up and texted him paragraphs on insta, imess and snap about how offended and sad I am and asked him why he do that when we are dating. Just for him to seen on insta and imess and reply on snap ‘I dont know’. Eventually, i let it go again because I dont wanna lose him if I take things further.
Then we went on for a couple more days before he texted me ‘I have something to tell you. I’ll go to Japan and to Korea and study there for 2 y w the intention of living there. I’ll be back sometimes to the US but obv that’s not enough for you’ then it’s some more lots of texts of me trying to keep it until he finally say ‘it’s best we break up, it wont work’.
Then he blocks me on everything, Insta, tiktok, snap, discord, mess. I dont dare to check if he blocks my number or not. And he’s gone, cold-heartedly, so easily as if I am nothing. I asked my friends to stalk him for a bit and notice that right after he blocks me. He likes B’s posts, his Korean teacher. And he like A’s posts, the girl he promised he wont ever again, who’re in Japan rn. So he moved on, and ready for his next life, no look back, no regret. While I am here. I think he’s the best I can find on dating apps, because everyone there just trynna hu. And I wont be able to find bfs in school. So i’ll be alone for a long time. Idk what to do, im so pessimistic. And i still want him to crawl back for an ego boost, that at least he still miss me. But apparently not, he’s already moved on, and already didnt give a shit ab me for a long time. So what tiktok says is wrong right. He’ll never come back..
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So I am an international student and I got a scholarship to go to the US for uni and I plan on residing here in the future. Everything is hard for me I only made one best friend who is from the same country as me and that’s it. I cannot make any white friends because it’s hard. Let alone finding a guy to date. My type is white tall athletes guys and all of them in my school only want white soro girls so I dont have hope finding a boyfriend in my school. That’s why I tried downloading dating apps. I am a virgin and I’ve never been in a relationship before and I never lost my first kiss. And s*x and first kiss are precious to me.
We matched on Tinder 6 months ago and he was very active and tried to get to know me. He’s pretty special to me because he was looking for a serious relationship and asked for my insta instead of my snapchat. When everyone there is just trynna hook up he really want a relationship and when I said I will not have s*x until I graduate will you wait for me and he respects me. We went on few dates and things went really well because he’s exactly my type, tall, dirty blonde and blue eyes. He even made the effort to drive to see me every single time because he’s 1h15 away and I dont have a car. And he paid for things too. His type is Asian too because I noticed that he followed many attractive Asian famous girls and many friends from Korea. I noticed one in there name A that he liked every single posts of her. But we were nothing at that point so I didnt say anything. He was just back from a trip to Asia and he likes Korea the most. He said that country is beautiful, safe and cheaper than Us and he did tell me he want to move there to live in the future. But at that point I was just planning on dating for fun so I dont care and keep going.
Funny enough we keep talking even though we dont have anything in common. After getting to know basically every basic things about each other, our conversation is plain and is just ‘wyd’ ‘im tired’ ‘im working’ etc. It’s shallow and not very deep. I noticed that but Im lonely so having a guy like that everyday is actually amazing to me. I dont have the intention of marrying him or anything and he doesnt too. But after several dates I slowly get attached. He hugged me, carried me up like a princess. Everything I have dreamt of before. And finally that day I lost my first kiss to him and he asked me to be his gf and I said yes. It was amazing.
So after we are officially dating. I got jealous of his followings and easily annoyed because he’s a super nonchalant guy.
I made a mess about him following those revealing models and he said he didnt remember because it’s a long time ago and delete all of them. However, when it comes to that girl A and some other I mentioned he said I will delete those I dont know but she’s just my friend and I wont delete her. ‘We dont even talk.’ Just a friend he knows from his Korea trip. Then I let it ago, but then after a while I noticed him liking her posts again and again and each time I fought with him and finally he told me he wont like her post anymore and he stopped.
But then I noticed him following a new girl B and she’s from Korea and I asked him and he said she’s his Korean teacher. I feel something sus but I cant do anything. He’s trying his best to learn Korean just to be able to live there and dont even care about my country. He doesnt even try to say my name correctly or learn anything about my country.
He’s really busy and he trynna work hard to earn money and his sleep schedule is really messed up. Im always annoyed because he takes hours to reply to me. And many small fights like how he only reply to my ‘i miss you’ but never say it first, and never call me, only texting. After a month of dating we got into a big fight. Imma sum it up. I asked him to come see me on Friday but then his grandpa got into a health problem so he had to drive his mom to the hospital and he said he will pick me up on Sat. I was all prepared and woke up early and then he overslept. Then he said he’ll come at 3.30 in the afternoon. I was waiting again. Until he texted me at 4. saying that his car tag exprired so he couldnt come see me. I was so sad but cant help it because it’s all valid reasons. I waited untill next week again, and I asked him to meet again. And then he overslept again, leaving me hanging and waiting like an idiot. I was so upset this time I texted him paragraphs saying not good things like why are you so irresponsible why dont you care about my feelings etc. if you dont text me back before 10a let’s just break up. Next morning he woke up and told me ‘you know what, we not gonna work’ then he unadded me on snapchat and unfollow me on instagram and unfollow me on tiktok too. But i still can text him on insta and imess and discord. I was so shocked and begged him to come back everywhere. I was crying like a baby dont wanna lose him. It was a traumatizing day for me. Eventually he responded and said ‘you dont know but I forgave you many times’ ‘maybe im not good enough for you’ and stuffs like that.. but eventually he added me back and said he’ll give me one last chance.
We got back for 2 days and now he’s lost a large part of interest for me. Then I asked to meet again and he said he cant because his schedule changed again and I got upset again and he unadded me again, block me on insta and tiktok and discord, but I still can text him on Imess. Then I apologized again and we got back again and he said ‘I do mean the last one’.
Then Im constantly careful not to hurt him or fight and we got on dates and we got more physically close to each other. However I dont feel any deep connection we’re just very shallow. Idk how to explain it. I think we’re just there to not be lonely. At least for me. I feel like he doesnt give a shit if i leave or not anymore.
Things go well for another month then I realize summer is comming and I’ll have to leave him for 3 months. I was not happy bc he’s not upset ab the fact that im going away at all. Then I noticed he slowly get colder towards me. I mean it’s not obvious but he doesnt crave for touching hugging me as much as before. I have to ask for kiss and hugs. And he only texted me on snap and never on instagram where I noticed he’s online everyday. His snap scores also went up 10 every morning and Idk if im a creep but like 1 or 2 even when he’s not snapping me so he’s snapping others. I know he has like 1 or 2 guy friends but I took a look at his phone sometimes (which he’s always trynna hide whenever he’s w me) and noticed some girls as well. But maybe just for streaks. And ofc he’s still texting that B girl for Korean lesson. And A girl is now in Japan for a trip. A and B post stories EVERY SINGLE DAY and it’s their cute photos and I know my bf is online on instagram everyday and watch those stories so I am very unhappy.
Then the day come when I have to go away for summer. He asked me when Im back and I said September. Then he said he’ll go to Japan in August for 1 month and I said okay. So we are in LDR now and I asked him to call me bc I need more contact to feel loved and valued. He said he will, but he never call me. He said it’s just he just never call anyone. I was upset many times but I also let it go. Also he never said he loved me. Only like.
Then I saw him like a thirst trap reel of a revealing famous korean girls 2 weeks ago. I was so fcking offended but he’s sick so im not making any fuss. After 4 days I decided to bring that up and texted him paragraphs on insta, imess and snap about how offended and sad I am and asked him why he do that when we are dating. Just for him to seen on insta and imess and reply on snap ‘I dont know’. Eventually, i let it go again because I dont wanna lose him if I take things further.
Then we went on for a couple more days before he texted me ‘I have something to tell you. I’ll go to Japan and to Korea and study there for 2 y w the intention of living there. I’ll be back sometimes to the US but obv that’s not enough for you’ then it’s some more lots of texts of me trying to keep it until he finally say ‘it’s best we break up, it wont work’.
Then he blocks me on everything, Insta, tiktok, snap, discord, mess. I dont dare to check if he blocks my number or not. And he’s gone, cold-heartedly, so easily as if I am nothing. I asked my friends to stalk him for a bit and notice that right after he blocks me. He likes B’s posts, his Korean teacher. And he like A’s posts, the girl he promised he wont ever again, who’re in Japan rn. So he moved on, and ready for his next life, no look back, no regret. While I am here. I think he’s the best I can find on dating apps, because everyone there just trynna hu. And I wont be able to find bfs in school. So i’ll be alone for a long time. Idk what to do, im so pessimistic. And i still want him to crawl back for an ego boost, that at least he still miss me. But apparently not, he’s already moved on, and already didnt give a shit ab me for a long time. So what tiktok says is wrong right. He’ll never come back..