Prepade phone card hack

I don't know how I can prevent my mom from making decisions without talking to me first + a rant

2024.05.20 04:58 HowToCook40Humans I don't know how I can prevent my mom from making decisions without talking to me first + a rant

I had clinical yesterday and received a phone call from a family member. The voice mail sounded serious so I left and went to another floor to return the call. I thought maybe a family member had passed and they wanted me to tell my mom. But it my mom and this family member were trying to make a payment using a card I'd already cancelled because it was compromised.
I ended up giving my information because I was still reeling off adrenaline. But when it was all said and done, I didn't even know why my mom needed to give her card information. When I got home, she couldn't remember the details of why, which I should've known would happen.
I know I was stupid. This isn't an unknown family member and they're close with my mom and my grandma when she was alive. None of them however know the extent of my mom's memory issues or why it was caused (alcohol) except my grandma's baby sister and my mom's best friend who's my godfather.
Idk how to prevent stuff like this from happening. So many people didn't know she was even in the hospital. She will throw a fit if I take her phone and I'd hate to do that because she already doesn't really go out. She won't remember to not make decisions like that on her own OR she'll argue me down about it.
I will call the family member tomorrow and find out everything I can but there was no mention of payment back to me and it was for over $2000 (I know...chew me out). Stuff like this is why I'm very nervous about working outside the home. If I'd been home I probably could've kept it from getting that far and my mom would've been able to tell me what was going on while it was happening.
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2024.05.20 04:38 relativelyneutral Didn’t erase Mac mini before Apple Store trade in

Traded in my Mac mini today. I logged out of everything (iCloud, Dropbox, internet accounts), deleted all the files, and checked that there are no longer any passwords, credit cards, history, etc saved on the computer, but didn’t wipe/reset it before bringing it to Apple Store for trade in. (Because I remember last time I wiped/reset my iPhone before doing in store trade in, and they told me I’m not supposed to do that before going. It took a long time for them to figure out how to run the diagnostic tests.) So today I told them I haven’t erased the disk yet, but they said “I’m not gonna turn this on to check.” Then they just took it inside. Should I call them and tell them to erase it? Or will Apple erase it for me?
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2024.05.20 04:35 condormandom Virus/Router hacked? Or something more benign? SSL certificate issue browsing on all devices.

Hello, I am having a very worrying issue. Getting this or similar "Connection not private,""SSL certificate error," etc. on nearly all websites (some working fine like Google search landing pages for example, or landing pages for office/work). Tried basic restarts and resets and not working still.
When I check the certificate from the website, it says the issuing authority is something called 'ospanel' which I don't think is normal???
A few times when I've tried to click through the warning to the website - uBlockOrigin blocks some scam website redirect from popping up "wincoresprize" or something like. So obviously my first thought is virus.
Antivirus (Avira) and Malwarebytes both comes up with nothing however. Getting this issue on all three devices too! (desktop PC, laptop, Android phone) So worried perhaps my router has been hacked. Complete noob in that regard so would appreciate any help on what best to do. Or is it possible for virus on one device to infect all 3?
I logged into the router (ISP supplied) and don't see any other connections. I currently live in a smaller city in Thailand and have a local ISP - is it possible the problem is on their end (hack) or DNS issue? Network traffic seems normal but some of the websites that do work (Reddit, YouTube) load very, very slow but speed test shows max Mbps.
Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.20 04:35 LivingPeace2722 Would you give up everything for your dream?

Hi- need serious advice. I know this is a novel, I’m so sorry but I would appreciate anyone who reads it. I’m a 20 yr old F and I live with my brother, 19 M, and my two parents. My parents are abusive. There is no way to get around it. Physically when I was young and mentally now. I can’t describe what they put me through now- it’s awful. I promised myself all throughout high school I would leave the moment I turned 18 but something kind of switched and they became more tolerable, almost nicer, so like a fucking idiot I stayed. I started my bachelors, started working and tried to convince myself it was alright. The other reason I stayed was for my brother. I’ve taken care of him my whole life. I didn’t have any other choice, and I didn’t think I wanted one. It was my duty to take care of him and I did my job as best as I could only being 11 months older. I have gotten in the middle of fights, taken beatings, punishments, paid for him, drove him, etc. Time and money I didn’t have to spare spent on him with no repayment, and I’m talking about he wanted a new $60 game so I asked him to help me while I cleaned my room (vacuuming, taking down dirty clothes, wiping down my fan). This has been going on for years. I was the one to complete his college essay, to call his advisors to get his transcripts, to do his homework, otherwise my ass was on the line with my parents. I have done everything I could for him. Plus, he didn’t even get into college because I told him he had to complete his 200 word prompt for his college application, leading him not to get accepted because he didn’t fucking do it. He’s in his first year while I’m almost in my fourth. I have had jobs for the last 3 years in my field while he has done nothing. I begged my parents for a car and drivers license for 2 1/2 years while he, at 19, only got his 4 months ago. He does the bare minimum. Less than that, actually. The night before fall semester started he got into a fight with my father, physically, left the house, and made me go looking for him and try to convince him to go back home until 5am. To say my semester was fucked after that is an understatement. It’s constant but I stay because I’m his sister. It’s my job. It’s also a cultural thing I guess. I know I’m venting but I’m getting to the point I promise. A month ago I asked him to help me clean my room so that I could study since he has a habit of fucking his room up, coming and staying in my room, taking up my bed, and asking me to buy him food. I had just returned from the library, brought him Taco Bell, and wanted to clean a bit before continuing to study for my final the next day. To be clear, if I didn’t pass this class I wouldn’t be on track to graduate or get into my optometry program. He said he didn’t want to help and bitched and moaned but when I pointed out that I had gone out of my way to get Taco Bell for him he agreed to aid. I asked him to just bring up some cleaning stuff and take down my clothes so I could have them clean for work and he left. After an hour or so of waiting for him (yes I was procrastinating and purposely didn’t ask why he was taking so long) I heard him come upstairs with a plate full of sandwiches and go into his room. I was pissed. I started to text him, angrily and cursing I’ll admit, about him not doing shit and being so annoying. I called him a bum for never following on his promises or doing absolutely fucking anything. He started texting in all caps not to call him that otherwise he swore to god I would regret it, and I, being the person that I am (a fucking idiot) called him it again. He rushed out of his room, kicked open my door and threw his phone at me as hard as he could and left me with a bruise. He started standing over me, threatening me, saying shit like he was going to throw me done the stairs, snap my neck, etc. I’ve seen him get that way before- he smashes shit to pieces, breaks anything in his sight, and generally destroys things. For some context he’s a big guy, almost 300lb and used to be able to deadlift 500+lb. I got scared, saw a knife on my counter from dishes I had yet to clean, and pulled it on him. He slowly backed off and went to his room, before I, again, a fucking idiot, called him a bum again. A stupid decision, I know, I would definitely be the bitch that got knifed in a movie and you’d cheer for her death. This time I closed the door before he could come in, he tried to break down the door while I was on the other side, and in response he smashed something made of glass on the other side and punched a hole in my door. I contacted my dad who was far away and he sent my mother home. My mother and I haven’t spoken to each other in a few months since she called me a burden for asking her to help me get my work clothes ready for the week. She came in, spoke to my brother I guess, then came in and spoke to me. She said it was unbelievable and she didn’t know what to say and when I explained what happened and then told me to study for my test. She also went back to talk to him and came back to talk with me, asking me if I pulled a knife on him, which I admitted to, only because I was seriously afraid of him pushing me down the stairs or knocking me out. After that I locked the door and when texting my parents about the situation they only told me not to worry about it, just study. I couldn’t, and I swear to god I tried, all night. I was scared and I think in shock. I got to the lecture hall early and tried to study there but that didn’t help either. I had done alright in the class, done very well in the lab, but knew I bombed the final. I went home and didn’t speak to anyone at home for days. After about 3 days I went downstairs and saw my dad who tried to act like it wasn’t a big deal. I explained how insane and irrational the entire situation was and how I wanted to move out. I couldn’t handle dealing with all of their shit, and if I was the problem like they said I was then I would be fixing that too. I have a very important board exam this summer that I also have to take to get into optometry school and I proposed that I would live on campus, only for the summer. He refused, angrily saying that it wasn’t me place to move out, that he would never support me, and that if that’s what I wanted to do I could get the fuck out right now. A few things- I pay partially for my school. I don’t make much but I put a lot of what I do have toward school and the rest towards little things for me and my brother. Secondly, almost every single thing within my bedroom I have paid for. Excluding the mattress, furniture, and my phone, I have paid for everything I need or want through hard work. Thirdly, both my parents are currently unemployed but wealthy. Wealthy enough that they can go on vacations, pay for four cars, go out with their friends, and pay for their son’s tuition with no hassle. It’s only mine that poses a problem, which is the reason they let me work. They attempt to dictate how I should spend my money constantly. The argument went on for an hour, him accusing me of failing because I chose to, him proposing that he get a lock for my door, telling me I could move into the basement, etc. When my father refused to budge I went upstairs, used a loc that I had bought for when your staying at a hotel to barricade the door and have not spoken to him since. It has been a month now and I have not spoke to anyone in person, though my mother has been trying to guilt me into making me give up my refrigerator in my room by telling me my grandfather is in hospice, there will be a funeral soon, and me having that fridge is making me too fat to be presentable, as well as trying to be nice and hugging me when I have to leave for work in the morning. Now, with all of that context, here’s what’s going on. Since the entire incident happened I have been trying to figure out a way to leave. I have looked into campus housing but it’s an additional $7000 per semester that I don’t think I can afford even if I take out student loans and do FAFSA. I’m scared of the position. It’ll put me in when it comes to going to school. I do have another choice though. I recently toured an apartment complex that is beautiful it’s my dream place and the rent is less than $1500 a month. The only problem is that I only currently make being part time 12 to 1300 a month I just got a raise to $18 an hour but even then that’s not gonna be enough to cover it if I’m going to school at the same time, I’ve looked into some options and FAFSA and loans wouldn’t be able to cover any of my housing outside of living on campus. The only problem with living on campus is I can’t make the morning drive less than an hour and a half to work and I’m afraid with how it all affect my schedule and will to study. I was honestly giving up the idea of moving out at all because it seems so impractical and there was no way that I could actually leave and take my stuff with me without a fight. However, I recently learned that my parents tomorrow are leaving on a five day vacation to Vegas with Little to no thought of how that affects me and the position that I’m in with my brother, if I can figure out a way to somehow be able to afford the rent for this place afford a car to get to work because we have really bad public transportation in my area then I think I would just drop out of school and go. I love optometry more than anything and that’s why I was willing to deal with all of this but maybe school just isn’t in the cards for me. I don’t want to give it up but I don’t think that I’ll make it out of here alive, in all honesty. I can’t keep up with everything it’s ruining my life and I’m only 20 years old. But it’s so scary that I don’t know if I can even take the steps to moving out. I just paid tuition for the spring summer semester and have only $500 to my name. I would need to take out a loan to be able to put down the down payment for the car and the apartment and what if I don’t get approved? What if my work doesn’t give me full-time? what am I gonna do then? I don’t have anybody in my life that could help me. I also have a big family that would all be on their side and agree with them and what if I leave and they come back and cause a scene that causes me to lose my job? They would 100% do that. I know for some people it’s a no brainer but put yourself in my shoes. I have no money, family, friends, or support. At least here I have car and my room and sometimes they’re tolerable. I would only have to do it for 1-2(?) more years. On the other hand, this place is destroying me. I hate who I am becoming because of it. Would it be worth giving up my future for getting my dreams or moving out? If you read all of this you’re amazing, thank you so much. I can only stare at a pros and cons list for so long 🙃
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2024.05.20 04:34 AylanJ123 Who did you chose in retirement?

I worded it that way to avoid spoilers on notifications LOL
Who did you chose to inherit stuff to during your first retirement? I managed to choose myself buahahahha
If you check a cruncher bough by yourself, you can put 1234 and go to your profile. Click the inspection button (The keybind to interact and inspect stuff) and that's gonna open your own card on the Retirement case board.
For text, I put: "I inherit everything to a certain 25 years old male. Skinny, bald and blue eyes. No glasses or beard. Passcode 1234 and phone number XXX-XXXX" (I forgot). That's the info given in your own citizen card.
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2024.05.20 04:26 condormandom Virus/Router hacked? Or something more benign? SSL certificate issue.

Virus/Router hacked? Or something more benign? SSL certificate issue.
Hello, I am having a very worrying issue. Getting this or similar "Connection not private,""SSL certificate error," etc. on nearly all websites (some working fine like Google search landing pages for example, or landing pages for office/work). Tried basic restarts and resets and not working still.
When I check the certificate from the website, it says the issuing authority is something called 'ospanel' which I don't think is normal???
A few times when I've tried to click through the warning to the website - uBlockOrigin blocks some scam website redirect from popping up "wincoresprize" or something like. So obviously my first thought is virus.
Antivirus (Avira) and Malwarebytes both comes up with nothing however. Getting this issue on all three devices too! (desktop PC, laptop, Android phone) So worried perhaps my router has been hacked. Complete noob in that regard so would appreciate any help on what best to do. Or is it possible for virus on one device to infect all 3?
I logged into the router (ISP supplied) and don't see any other connections. I currently live in a smaller city in Thailand and have a local ISP - is it possible the problem is on their end (hack) or DNS issue? Network traffic seems normal but some of the websites that do work (Reddit, YouTube) load very, very slow but speed test shows max Mbps.
Posted here because I saw a similar thread from last year but it's now locked. He resolved by flashing and factory resetting the router (mine is ISP provided so don't think I can do that). Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.20 04:09 aaaa2016aus Have scammer cards info from Venmo and phone number/social media?

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2024.05.20 04:01 aaaa2016aus Malachi broadwater scammed me of $2500, what can i do?

Malachi broadwater scammed me of $2500, what can i do?
It was the venmo scam, my “friend” went to a concert, we’re not friends anymore obviously, but she ran into him apparently and let him use her phone and he added the two cards shown there to HER Venmo account and then venmoed ME $2499. Then requested it back and she was calling me on ft saying i had to send it back. I was stressed and ddnt know what to do in the moment, i saw him on the FaceTime call though and he told me he won’t let her leave till i send it back so i did. She said after that he had her Zelle $2500 to him. I know i shouldn’t have sent it back but it’s too late now. He then filed a chargeback on his card of course and now my venmo is negative. She gave me all his information she has, and i plan to go to the police, venmo is saying they’re still doing an investigation, the phone numbers are from him i guess they put her number in a groupchat to keep track of who they use? Any advice? Thanks, also the cards and phone numbers are his so do as you will.
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2024.05.20 03:44 MD1990X Turning a Tableau hero tray style into a deck format.

Hey guys! Thanks for taking time to drop in here.
I'm having 2 perceived issues and looking for some feedback or guidance. Attached is an image of the final Tableau a player could have as well as a glimpse of what those cards look like.
The issue is simply that such a big Tableau of cards takes up a ton of table space with the minimum hero setup (4 heroes)
Between that, the board, an item shop I'm just worried thatll take so much space that it'll defeat one of my core goals - feeling playable. Players will nerd 1 very large table or 2 folding tables. It could be done on 1 folding table but may be cramped.
So I'm wondering if anyone thinks it's possible to turn a Tableau into a deck of cards that can be used and cards and cards "on cooldown" - I feel like that sort of format swap will make it impossible to keep the game as intended.
What are your thoughts? Would you be unwilling to play a game due to table space requirements?
P.S - is reddit so glitchy for everyone's phones. I can never seem to post a write up and pictures at the same time.
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2024.05.20 03:36 MoziWanders Wife emptied our bank account, wants to default on home

Hi all, thanks in advance. In California, my wife and I have been together for 19 years. We own our home and my disabled mother rents a studio apartment built out of the back. 3 weeks ago my spouse and I got in to an argument. When we argue we have agreed to have separate sections of the house, she gets essentially a 1 bedroom apartment that has been sectioned off and holds all her clothes and things. During this argument she intentionally burst in to my section of our home, physically attacked me, sat down on the ground and would not leave when asked. The only proof I have of physical attack is a ripped shirt from the evening.
There have been many times where she gets upset, either because of a large fight or a small misunderstanding, and she disappears for weeks at a time. She blocks my phone number, refuses to discuss the home we own or pertinent life stuff. She will show up at the house unannounced despite us agreeing to communicate so we won't be here at the same time, she comes in to my space without letting me know despite us building an apartment in the back of our house specifically for her use. She physically attacks me sometimes, she will scream over and over at the top of her lungs that I am physically abusing her when I am multiple rooms away (as an intimidation tactic, I'm sure the neighbors can hear it). She blacks out during our fights, she's admitted this, but then accuses me of things I haven't done. When I ask her for when such and such happened she won't discuss it.
It's not a good situation and she shouldn't be here but my dilemma is that this time she waited for me to leave the house for an out of town trip and then took $8000 of the $9000 we had without telling me. This locked my card and left me stranded. The specific amounts she chose to take were my unlucky number and our anniversary date is what she claimed she left in, intentionally vindictive. Since then she has refused to discuss an amicable split of things (I've given her an itemized list with my thoughts on each item). She says she won't pay any of our bills or confirm if or how long she plans to give me cash to live on or move. I am currently not working, she is the sole supporter and has always made a substantial amount more than I.
She took our only running vehicle and refuses to return it or come up with a plan for us to find her a reliable vehicle. This car isn't registered, last was out of state, it won't pass smog here, and needs a lot of work). I can't spend the little bit of money I have fixing one of our cars until I know she isn't going to take it. I have lost work because I don't have a car to get around.
She has told me her plan is to let the home be foreclosed on and she won't be coming back, that I am not allowed to rent the attached open adu/apartment that is in the back. She sent me a sale estimate from our title company, it shows we would need to at least spend $30k to sell our home outright, but has not addressed where this money will come from. I have asked numerous times for her to provide the lawyer benefits info that her work provides for both of us and she won't send me it despite telling me that she is represented through the same service. She even told me last night she had thought about taking our two cats out of our home and when I said I wasn't comfortable with her removing our pets to a friends house she is staying at with an address she won't share she told me to "Fuck off" and won't confirm she won't remove them.
She has simply said that she does not care, she won't be "taken advantage of" and that she is forcing me to stay in the home until the bank sends the sheriffs to kick me and my severely disabled mother out in to the street. If we go through with the divorce, from what I can tell, she can request for the judge to force a short sale on the home if I can't refinance in my name alone, which I can't. We spent our life savings last a little under 2 years ago buying this home, I have absolutely no desire to become a renter again and give it up. I am hoping she starts being reasonable but I can't rely on that, and I absolutely can't trust her. She keeps telling me we will "talk about it in front of a judge" but won't say when she plans to file for divorce. She is dragging this out as long as possible and taking my resources so I can't protect myself or pay for the home and obligations we both agreed to.
The only plan I can see is to present my case to a judge for a domestic violence restraining order. I would ask for temporary control of our property, namely the home. I'd also ask for at least half of her income until our divorce is finalized, with the judge deciding what the final spousal support split would be at that time. From what I understand I can ask for her to continue taking care of the bills she covered and that's all of them (I don't want her to be without what she needs financially though). I would ask for her to not be allowed with a certain distance of me or our house, I am worried she will take things, threaten tenants, etc. She has already told me and my sister that she is going to our home to serve my mother eviction papers, and has asked multiple times for me to do so. This has all happened in a very short time and I have been very reasonable with her and willing to work on a plan.
Any ideas thoughts or suggestions? Thanks, I really don't want to do any of this but need advice since it looks like I might have to.
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2024.05.20 03:36 ohemjaaayyyy13 Installment for newly approved credit cards

I already tried searching dito sa Reddit but for some reason wala ako makitang answer. Sorry na agad. But is there a chance na hindi ma-approve yung installment payment ko sa CC if medyo bago pa yung card?
Planning to purchase an iPhone from Power Mac Center. I’ve read here na puwede naman split payment using different credit cards and puwede din installment. Pero baka mamaya hindi ma-approve ng bank kasi bago pa yung credit cards. 😅 halos magkakasabay kasi dumating yung CCs ko from different bank and meron promo but you need to spend a certain amount. So yun yung plan ko, gamitin siya to purchase sa Power Mac.
Please share your experiences about this para ma-enlighten ako 😁🙏🏼
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2024.05.20 03:34 ilike-it Phone Key not working, please help and Servicing Advice!

Phone Key not working, please help and Servicing Advice!
I got a used Model 3 a while ago and absolutely loved it. But over these past few weeks, I have been having trouble with the phone key. Before you suggest resetting the phone Bluetooth, car Bluetooth, and deleting the app, I’ve done it all, and nothing is working. I figured it could be a bug or something and hoped it would clear after the update (2024.14.6), but it didn’t. The phone shows it’s connected to my car but doesn’t work! Also, I bought this at 17k miles, and now it’s 29k. Everything’s perfect; I didn’t need to change the tires or service it, but now that I have this phone key issue, do you think it’s time for servicing?
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2024.05.20 03:30 scifiwhy95 Filed a police report after getting robbed recently.

I was robbed recently by a guy who stole my wallet (without me knowing maybe pickpocket) and grabbed my phone right off my hands and ran away, In that moment of shock i decided to call 911 and report it since it had happened in front of my eyes. Would this have any implications as my employer is applying for STEM extension and I’m really worried about the implications of filing a police report and if it would affect my f1 status in anyway.
PS - I could confirm it was the same guy who stole both because he swiped my credit cards and approved the transaction from my phone. Luckily both credit card companies cleared off the charges as fraudulent.
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2024.05.20 03:25 No_Orchid124 Idk whats going on

I have used whatsapp a total of 1 time in my life when I was out of the country to text my parents. I have not had the app for 3 years. Yesterday I got the same text from two numbers giving me a verification code that I did not request. I then got a phone call from a random number who left a message but didn’t say anything. Since yesterday I’ve gotten two more WhatsApp codes and I just have no clue whats going on. I’ve tried to download the app and login to enable 2FA but it keeps saying it cant send SMS and that I’ve recently connected. Idk why someone would want to hack my whatsapp but its causing a lot of anxiety and idk what to do. What could happen if someone did gain access to my account?
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2024.05.20 03:19 Illustrious_Break104 Polaroid overreaction

I 21F and my bf 21M have been together for a year. I found a polaroid in my bf’s wallet of him and his ex. A month prior the topic of the Polaroid had come up because he pulled it out of his wallet while trying to get out a card. I asked to see it and he said no because it was a group photo and one of the people in the photos was someone he used to talk to but he kept the photo because he had fond memories with said group. Which is fair for me because I don’t show him my ex so I don’t expect him to do the same. Anyways, today I got a bit curious and looked in his wallet and it wasn’t a group photo, rather a couple selfie with his ex. I want it to be clear that it’s not he has a picture with her but the fact he lied and made a backstory to it. To add further context, we’ve been having some issues and for the sake of getting objective advice, I will list a time line of events.
Feb- He was visiting me (we’ve been long distance until mid March) and I got this feeling to search his phone. So while he was sleeping or so as I thought, I went through his phone. I found that a month prior he had downloaded tinder and found messages between him and an ex stating that he missed her lips, both sets. He caught me going through his phone and he stated that he had downloaded tinder due to a email notification and he downloaded the app to see what it was about. I don’t believe that was the reason but for what it’s worth, he admitted that he did delete the account after about 30 mins, this is confirmed in his emails. The tinder conversation took up much of my energy so we didn’t talk about the texts. I do have to say, I acknowledge that I should’ve never went on his phone in the first place.
Over the next few weeks, I will have to say my behavior was immature and reeked of insecurity. I would go through his instagram following and if I saw that he liked pictures of women I deemed to be prettier than me, it would cause me to lash out rather than talking to him about it.
Late march- We had a talk about him feeling like he was having to prove himself to me after the incident. It was a genuine conversation and we both acknowledged how we might have hurt the other person. Although, he doesn’t view the tinder action as cheating because he never did anything with anyone. He acknowledged it was wrong, which is good enough for me.
April- I deactivated my instagram as I am working on becoming more secure in myself and it is a distraction from me studying for the LSAT. I finally found it in me to talk to him about the text messages I saw in February. I explained that I wasn’t mad because it occurred before we had our conversation about boundaries and he was heartfelt in his apology.
May (current month): I do want to add that through this, he has been dealing with moving across the country for a new job, post grad anxieties and family issues (I will not delve into but all I can say is it is enough to make someone cut ties with family). Even though I had shown clear progress in communicating and being more sure of myself and our relationship, he still feels, rightfully so that I needs time alone to adjust to his new environment, as I had basically spent the night the past two weeks. He told me that he had went through my phone and found a note I had written in a moment of anger stating that although I forgave him, if he cheated again, I’d simply cheat back and exit the relationship quickly. In the notes app entry I also wrote that I believe he needs validation from women. Btw I did not cheat, he knows this but what hurt him was me saying I would. It made him feel like I didn’t trust him. I will admit that I was hurt that he viewed me coming over as me being afraid to leave him alone but given the record of a few months prior, I understood and we agreed to me coming over less. I am still adjusting to this new arrangement but he makes a concerted effort by FaceTiming on the days we don’t see each other. Friday night after our FaceTime, he sent me the following text: “Wanted to say this on the phone but I installed hinge (primarily to help me decide if it’s a validation/interest issue, I wasn’t really interested and felt guilty so figured it’s best to work on us fully that’s when I sent u the message, I deleted it bck but I think you should know) I’m sorry.” I acknowledged his apology and thanked him from being upfront. Back to the Polaroid, how to bring up the issue without him interpreting it as me being insecure? tl;dr my bf lied about what a picture contained and I found out by going though his wallet. After months of conversation about my lack of trust in him. How do I bring up the issue?
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2024.05.20 03:07 Puzzleheaded-Zoe UnionBank CS waiting time experience

UnionBank CS waiting time experience
I had a concern regarding my Virtual Card (di ko sya ma-add sa grab app ko) so I decided to call UB CS, knowing na medyo matagal nga sila mag accomodate ng calls. Not sure if onti yung CS nila or super dami lang talaga tumatawag but thats a convo for another day!
So I thought since 7:40pm on a Sunday naman, baka mabilis yung waiting time, sike! 1 hour and 8 minutes.
I read thru reddit and saw the hack for toll free ng smart - sike! 53 minutes, wala parin, inantok na ko and pressed option 1 nalang (yung call back)
I called again this morning (starting 7:29am) and nabigla ako nun may sumagot na CS like 20-ish minutes?
Anyway sharing my experience lang rin someone is reading through the subreddit to check for perfect times to call :)
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2024.05.20 03:06 phlaries $900 budget. Help me pick a new android phone. They've all gone to shit.

Very happy with my S10 but it just doesn't work anymore. I need a new phone. I'd like to not have to purchase another one for the next 5 years, so I want to buy the best that's available right now.
I was just about to pull the trigger on an S24, but saw that it doesn't have an SD card slot. That's almost a dealbreaker for me. Can anyone recommend a phone that's as good as the S24 (better than the pixel 8) but allows you to add micro SD card slots?
I've looked into the Zenfone and its camera just doesn't cut it for me - I work in content creation.
U.S.
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2024.05.20 03:06 phlaries $900 budget. Help me pick a new android phone. They've all gone to shit.

Very happy with my S10 but it just doesn't work anymore. I need a new phone. I'd like to not have to purchase another one for the next 5 years, so I want to buy the best that's available right now.

I was just about to pull the trigger on an S24, but saw that it doesn't have an SD card slot. That's almost a dealbreaker for me. Can anyone recommend a phone that's as good as the S24 (better than the pixel 8) but allows you to add micro SD card slots?

I've looked into the Zenfone and its camera just doesn't cut it for me - I work in content creation.
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2024.05.20 03:04 Tozbagha Why are the SIMS and travel insurance so annoyingggggggggggg?

Man, I'm just trying to complete a basic online transaction.
CTAS "declined" my card twice, but it actually went through, so I had to figure out how to call the Israeli support number (without a phone plan that includes international calling!!). Only for them to say to email. It took them several days to respond. Finally got that sorted out.
I was more careful with the SIM card after that fiasco. When they inevitably declined my card, I waited days to make sure the decline was real (it was). So I use my parents card to make the purchase. It goes through this time, only for them to hit me with "We've run out of phone numbers, contact support"
Are you actually kidding me?? How the actual fuck do you run out of phone numbers?? Aren't there like hundreds of millions of combinations for each country code? Am I missing something? And of course. OF COURSE. Their support number doesn't let me press 2 to get to the English language automated machine. So I had to hunt for an email address. I think I found the right email. I hope.
I'm just so done. Are online payments in Israel always this obtuse?
Sorry I know it's not like the world-is-ending issues, I just really need to vent to someone. And also, be careful when ordering your stuff I guess.
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2024.05.20 02:52 Possible-Cheetah-381 Uber rental: can I use uber gift cards to pay for Uber rental?

I want to use Uber gift cards towards Uber rental car. can I do this?
I cannot get the physical card before I need it. Can a relative give me the card number over the phone so I can pay when I pick up the car from my destination
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2024.05.20 02:49 cosmicmess08 Spending over $1,000/month on bills even while living at home

So I've been living at home trying to save up for an apartment for about 5 months now and I truly don't know how I will ever afford to move out with the monthly expenses I'm currently paying that don't even include rent, utilities, groceries or gas.
Here's my monthly expenses:
Student loans - $38 (making the bare min payment based on income driven payment plan)
Toll Bill - $85.90 (outstanding bill due to error with expired cc, payments to be made until dec 2024)
HBO Max - $10.81
Spotify - $16.23 (I do pay for both mine and my sisters accounts, she is supposed to be sending me money every month but that never happens, but also paying for just my individual account would only be $4 cheaper a month. I feel bad asking her for her half cause she is struggling financially more than me.)
Chewy Dog Food Autoship - $50.99 (approx every 6 weeks)
Apple iCloud storage - $9.99 (this was a kinda impulse upgrade before a trip cause I didn't have storage left on my phone for any pictures, will be looking into other options/canceling)
Orange Theory - $119.00 (I know this expense is the obvious choice for first to go, but this is the only kind of fitness class that I enjoy and that I actually truly use. I've done the $10 planet fitness thing and I hated it and just never went)
Credit card payment - $400 (min payment is about $176, but I am trying to pay down balance)
Cell Phone - $95.99 (just paid off phone, down from $145/month, plan includes unlimited everything and international coverage, which is necessary as I travel a lot for work, including internationally)
Car Insurance - $133 (car fully paid off but chose to still have essentially full coverage)
LifeStorage Unit - $107.50 (living at home means 80% of my belongings are condemned to a storage unit. It started out at only $85 a month when I first got it and has since increased in price)
VCA Care Club - $37.99 (includes cost of annual shots/vaccines and free exams for my dog for a year, other option would be paying about $500 outright annually for shots)
Overall, doesn't seem like that many expenses, however they do add up to about $1,100 a month! Most of these are necessary expenses, and even if I were to get rid of all subscriptions, I would still be paying $945/month.
Am I just doomed to be paying this amount every month?? Is that just the cost of existing in the world these days? I paid off my car last year, and just paid off my phone, I utilize free Netflix and Hulu subscriptions through my phone plan. I know the toll bill and my storage unit are temporary expenses but I am feeling hopeless. I don't know how I will be able to afford an apartment on top of these expenses. My average monthly income is about $3,000-3,500. Any advice???
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2024.05.20 02:45 Backdoorpickle Low Levels... Don't be stupid when you have a legendary pelt.

I'm around level 350. Not the best PVPer in the world, but certainly not the worst and also have every weapon, card, etc maxed up, upgraded, all the tonics.
I'm just sitting there in my catalogue, hanging out on Roanoke Ridge this morning, playing a game on my phone and letting Harriet passively not pepper spray me to get my "don't kill an animal for 24 hours" challenge knocked out.
Dumbass level 16 player rides up, kills me, then downs my horse. So I respawn, put my poor horse (RIP CeeDee) out of his misery and summon Parsons, my sturdy Overo Mustang, and hunt this dumbass down. Kill him, AND his horse... of course. The horse drops a nice legendary bison pelt. Scooped it up, killed homeboy a couple of more times, then fast traveled and threw that thing in my hunting wagon.
I get that y'all have low-level curiosity, but try to be a little less brain-dead about it, yeah? If you hadn't killed my horse, I would have left you the pelt.
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