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TIFU by sending out the wrong image at work

2024.05.20 09:26 Minsker39 TIFU by sending out the wrong image at work

I'm a gamemaster at an escape room. It sounds like a cool job but it's really not super interesting. I just talk to people and pretend they're gonna be smart in there, sit in a chair and watch people try to figure out the same puzzles I see everyday for an hour while I do a silly voice, and then pretend that they did a good job and that I DIDNT give them an extra 10 mins. After each room we send out a photo we take of them with the time stamp they made it out in. This is where my fuck up happens.
I had a group of 10 that were split into 2 groups for a birthday party. I ran 5 people and my co worker ran the other 5. After the room was let out one of the guest came up and told me they had broken a prop. No big deal it happens all the time but he felt real bad about it. I took their photo and walked them out to the lobby While resetting the room I had to take a photo of the broken prop and send it to our work chat to report it. After sending it I finished resetting the room sent out the group photo and started doing closing duties.
That's when the picture loaded and I realized I had sent a photo of a broken prop to the guests. I immediately freaked out because how bad would you feel if you broke something and was told "it's alright it happens!" Only to be sent a photo of the thing you broke. I had done it as instinct because I always just tap the most recent image to send. I deleted the image and replaced it with the right one and I'm praying that I did it quick enough that the right photo shows up and not the other one because I'm not really sure how the emails work. I haven't gotten word that someone called complaining about a photo so I think I'm fine. If you did an escape room recently and got sent a photo of the prop you broke and not your team photo I'm so sorry. It could've been a worse photo though that's for sure.
TL:DR I work at an escape room and someone broke something. I ended up sending a photo of the broken thing instead of the actual group photo I am supposed to send.
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2024.05.20 09:25 ulirang_HR Hindi ko maintindihan yung mga "BOSS" bakit kailangan mag email ng weekend.

Hindi ko maintindihan kung san nanggagaling yung karaptan ng "BOSS" para mag send ng emails during weekend. And take note, nag followup pa ng Sunday.
Kaya ako, naka DND talaga phone ko sa work emails and GCs na hindi ko naman need makita during weekend. Although tinitignan ko parin naman emails ko, kung hindi urgent at hindi ikakaguho ng hindi ko kompya / business, hindi ko sasagutin. Kasi kaya namang mag antay ng Lunes yung inquiry / concern na yun.
Ako yung tipong nag ssend ng scheduled email wag lang madisrupt yung weekend ng colleagues. Hindi ko lang talaga magets yun.
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2024.05.20 09:25 LeisureMint Asus Turkey RMA unauthorised repair and denying claims despite having agreed to with proof

Firstly, I am aware this is an unofficial sub.
I own a Asus Tuf 4070 Ti and had to send it to service (ServisPoint) under warranty about 5 months ago due to overheating issues. I have a well ventilated case with 8 fans inside (positive pressure). Despite this gpu had 80 degrees temps with over 100 hotspot. I figured it could be dried thermal paste due to it being 1 year old. The service centre returned the item with an unreported damage on screw. I tried to make a complaint about this but they simply claimed it was there to begin with. I had not sent a proof of this to Asus beforehand as I was unaware of the infamous reputation of the service centre. The repair report also had no information regarding temperatures seen on tests after thermal replacement, effectively denying responsibility of it ever happening.
5 months after, gpu temps were keep raising and I found out that it had a pump out. The temps were 83-84 degrees (throttling) and the hotspot was 110 degrees. This was quite impossible to happen so quickly, I also work in computer repairs, none of the thermal pastes I used ever caused pump out in such a short notice. The shortest one was 11 months. The thermal paste producers also claim to guarantee their products for 2-8 years depending on brand. This could only happen if the service centre wrongly applied the thermal paste or used a counterfeit thermal paste. I sent it to the service under warranty again with proof of benchmark tests and thermals.
This time I well documented my requests in the RMA form and in the email following the RMA form directly to Asus. I pictured the gpu from every angle and sent it to Asus through email right after handing the gpu to the courier. I clearly explained that I did not consent to any of the repair or any actions without me directly notified beforehand and asked before proceeding. I left my personal number and included a formal signed letter that I explained I wanted the repair report to be thoroughly detailed and would not accept any unauthorised repairs. I also mentioned that Asus would be solely responsible if any unauthorised repairs were to happen or the requests in the RMA form to be ignored. Asus approved my RMA form, therefore, legally agreed on the conditions I included within the form. The request also included that under the Turkish Warranty Obligations, I wanted a replacement due to the same issue repeating the second time.
After 2 days of sending the gpu, I noticed that my gpu wasn't registered in the service centre despite them obtaining the delivery package hours before. When I inquired about my concern to the Asus representatives, they assured me it would be entered to the system and I would be called for my requests included in the RMA form. The gpu was registered to the service centre out of the working hours (after 5pm) and finished the repair at 11pm, leaving me with no chance to call or reach to any of the representatives or service centre. This was also Friday and they had told me that service centre did not work on Saturday.
On Monday, I called Asus immediately within the working hours 9am and inquired about the my repair. Asus representatives said that maintenance has been done on my gpu and the thermal paste was replaced. The gpu was also on his way to me. I told the representatives, I explicitly didn't consent to any repairs and only had one request that could be denied or accepted. Either way, I was also had to be notified under the conditions RMA form included. Asus representatives denied my claims, denied everything included within RMA form despite it being agreed upon and approved by Asus. They also denied working outside work hours but it was somehow sent and repaired outside work hours?.
I will probably start on court proceedings for gross negligence and replacement for all the things Asus denying despite proof. I have documented everything this time on emails and screenshots. Asus also told me that I will be responsible of any damages upon picking up and had to send a complaint to courier if there were any damages. However, this is impossible to do, the gpu package is well protected and Asus legally responsible of the courier service under warranty. I am worried if I pick the gpu up from delivery, I will be probably falsely accused of any damages on the GPU the second time despite having proof due to Asus' service centre (ServisPoint) issues. I have no doubt the repair report will also be missing information on the temperature tests again to prevent me trying to have any claims regarding heating issue.
Any other ideas on how to proceed?
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2024.05.20 09:21 Reasonable_Boat_7915 Sydney smash Saturday ticket AU 2024

hi all I wont be able to attend this advent due to my health and wondering if any1 was wanting to buy my ticket of me and i transfers it to there name will cost $40.80 au the same for a regular ticket price and i send the ticket pdf to your account or email after purchase the only thing i need is your name age for transfer if any1 interested let me know
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2024.05.20 09:18 scgoh123 SOLVED - Guide to Unlock Locked Facebook Accounts for iOS users, as of 20 May 2024

I got my Facebook account unlocked in 18 May 2024, after 6 successful video selfie verifications and 4 successful ID verifications. Since the redditors here helped me a lot, I am writing this post to contribute back to this community, to shed some light that your locked account is (still?) salvageable.
NOTE: This post is only applicable to those accounts who meet the following criteria:
  1. Locked out of Facebook Account (NOT SUSPENDED or DISABLED), and still has the option "Get started" to get your ID verified. If your account is either suspended or disabled, there's no choice but to go through their appeal process. If your account is hacked/compromised and got locked out, but you still have full control over your account, you can still do this too.
  2. Account that doesn't use real name, but have at least 1 out of 2 information that matches with your ID: Profile Picture or Birthdate. Facebook AI bot sucks at this - they will only match your ID with your current profile picture, name, and birthdate. For those using nicknames as your Facebook name and using anime characters as profile picture (like me), you're basically screwed because there's no way your official ID will display your nickname and anime characters as your photo.
  3. Not residing in US/UK/EU country. For those residing in these countries, you can still follow the instructions below, but I would suggest you to use more effective methods such as dedicated link for appeal or AG as last resort.
  4. Trapped in a unlock link loop. Thought you have passed their verification? HAHA, back to square one. And please verify your identity again. (facepalm)
  5. No Instagram account being linked to locked Facebook Account. If you have an active Instagram account being linked to your locked Facebook Account, there's a more effective way to do it, although you have to pay to get it solved (Yes, it's Meta Verified, but I doubt they'll be helpful in this case).
My methodologies of unlocking Facebook account are based on these two reddit posts:
By s1ngs4ngs0ng - https://www.reddit.com/facebookdisabledme/comments/1cqn9pe/comment/l4l5m6e/
By u/DeBono-san - https://www.reddit.com/facebookdisabledme/comments/1b0agc2/solved_locked_out_of_facebook_account_for_unusual/
First of all, let me tell you methods that don't work:
  1. Report a Problem: You can use your alternate Facebook account or ask your friend to help you on this, but most likely your requests are going into their feedback trash and no replies will be given.
  2. fb.com/hacked: Only applies when your Facebook account is hacked but not locked. Once your account is locked the system is unable to detect your account is active. You can log out and try this link, but in the end they will still ask you to log in, only to greet you with locked account screen.
  3. https://www.facebook.com/help/contact/260749603972907 : This is the appeal form for disabled accounts. Only applies when your Facebook account is disabled but not locked. You can log out and try this link, but in the end they will say "unable to submit", and ask you to log in, only to greet you with locked account screen.
  4. Dedicated links posted by some of the redditors: Their link may work, but only applies to those staying in US/UK/EU areas. If you try opening any of the links, you'll only be greeted with "The link is broken" screen.
  5. Meta Verified: You can try this method if your account is linked to active Instagram account, but please do not bother to try this if your account is not linked. I talked to 7 human customer supports, 3 escalated the case to their "internal team", all got rejected by them saying that "there is no connection between the Meta Verified profile and the Facebook profile you are requesting for support", which is one of my biggest mistakes I had done (I'll mention it at post-account recovery section). I even got ridiculed by one of the customer support stating that "there's life beyond social media". So ya, please do not try this method.
Now, here comes the real deal. I proposed 2 methods that worked, on iOS mobile browsers with gmail account:
1st method: Video selfie. You can follow the method posted by u/s1ings4ngs0ng: https://www.reddit.com/facebookdisabledme/comments/1cqn9pe/comment/l4l5m6e/
Note: This method works if your luck is good and "Chat with Us" option is available. Remember once you have received the email, treat this as a delicate process because you can only submit the video ONCE. The bot is stupid and no mistakes are allowed. Common mistakes are: Didn't mirror the video (if your video is mirrored); Forgot to compress the video to less than 10MB (sending video via WhatsApp to yourself works FYI). If you haven't received any replies from them after 24 hours, you can assume you have failed their verification and you have to restart the whole process again.
Once you have received an email that says "You can get back into your account". Congrats, but WAIT A MINUTE. The pointers I mentioned below is extremely important.
2nd method aka the method I used and worked:
  1. Request for a name change to your name following your official ID. Note that you have to do this on mobile browsers, with your locked account being logged on. You can access the name change link here: https://www.facebook.com/help/contact/1417759018475333 .Wait for 24 hours and it should tell you that your name change is successful. You stand a higher success rate if you submit your ID as well.
  2. Take a photo of your official ID (eg: Passport) in landscape mode using your phone camera, in a good lighting settings. Make sure the four corners are visible and you can manually cover out info like passport number without impacting the visibility of these information: Name, birthdate, photo.
  3. Wait for 24 hours, log in to Facebook in both your browsers and Facebook App. Do the ID verification process again on mobile browser. Note: DON'T DO IT on the app because it doesn't allow you to upload from photos, you can only take live photos from the app and the quality of the photos will be compromised. And use email as the method of communication, WhatsApp failed for me for some reason. After it's done, make sure that both your accounts are still logged on to the app and the browser. Do not clear any cookies or log out from the session.
  4. You should receive an email that says "You can get back into your account". If not, try no.2 and no.3 after 24 hours, otherwise they might treat you as a spam bot and barred you from submitting further. If you have received the success email, congrats, but WAIT A MINUTE. The pointers I mentioned below is extremely important.
NOW, the pointer here - to prevent yourself falling into the unlock-lock loop:
Treat the unlock link as a delicate process. Do not make one mistake, once a mistake is done, you might ended up falling into the loop again. I recommended Safari as the mobile browser to use for this whole process.
  1. Make sure that your account is logged on to both mobile browser and Facebook app.
  2. Long press on the "Get back into your account" button and press "Copy link".
  3. Paste the link into your mobile browser you used to log in with your Facebook account.
  4. You should have been greeted with the screen here. If you are prompted to enter a password, or you are greeted with this instead, STOP here and wait for 24 hours for another unlock link to send to you, and repeat step 1 again.
  5. If you are at the correct screen, continue the process, they will ask you to verify login information. DO NOT REMOVE any of them yet, you can do this later once you have unlocked your account.
  6. Set a new password. Make sure it's a strong password and not using any of the old passwords.
  7. You have unlocked your account. Hooray!
Things to do post-account recovery:
  1. Update your profile picture to the real photo of yours. It sucks for those who wished to remain anonymous in social media, but with Facebook's policies and more scam accounts out there it's better to be safe than sorry.
  2. Set-up 2FA authentication (and also screenshot a copy of backup codes) to secure your account further.
  3. Remove hackers' info and links (if your account is compromised).
  4. Link your account to active and legit Instagram account in Meta Accounts Centre. If your account got locked out again (touch-wood), at least there's accounts centre and meta verified to get your account back. Stupid me I unlink my locked account from Instagram, causing me to lose this route of getting back my account.
  5. Download a copy of your information and store it somewhere (and make it a habit once a year).
Lessons learnt:
  1. Never ever take account security and backups for granted. My whole misery started when someone logged into my account at 3am (GMT+8), tampered my 2FA (that's why I didn't receive 2FA notification and my google authenticator failed), and Facebook bot decided to lock me out just like that. Even though I don't use Facebook as often now, but it's still important to me and I almost lose my 14 years worth of memories and contact lists just like that. Should I have been doing security checks and backups at least once a year, all of these won't really impact me as much as it is right now.
  2. Being anonymous is no longer existent in Facebook. Facebook has been infamous on purging accounts using fake names since 2013, never ever had I known that it will strike me this way by needing me to get verified using my real identity. I even suspected they wanted to purge my account because of my usage of fake names.
Final words: I hope my methods can help you in a way to get your accounts back. Getting locked out really sucks, but patience and luck might play a part in getting your accounts back.
Moderators please don't delete this post as I didn't violate any rules here. Thanks!
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2024.05.20 09:07 KingHeavy-D Screen Protector vs Apple Care+

Who here got the applecare+ but still uses a screen protector anyways?
I currently use the Belkin Ultra glass and their warranty service is superb! They would send you a brand new one if ever the screen protector fails on you. I’ve had mine replaced twice on my iPhone 15 Pro.
Despite that, I’m still tempted to take my screen protector off.
Guess I am just here the seek validation if anyone here relies on Applecare+ solely. Specially now that they cover screen repair.
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2024.05.20 09:07 tub-of-sour-cream i know my life is far from over but i feel like im falling apart

im 19 and in my second semester of comm college.
I wanna go to art school and study animation, i love art so so much. I wanted to apply to art school in my senior year of highschool but i didnt come up with a portfolio i was proud of to submit to schools with, so i told myself id take a "gap year" by going to cc and working on it, seeing what seemed plausible from there. I havent done anything. and worse then that, i fell into some a depression right as my second semester started. my first semester, i got all As. my second, im literally not going to pass a single class because i couldnt bring myself to do anything. if i wasnt stressed out by one thing, it was another, and its a vicious cycle of me being overwhelmed and embarrassed of myself and intimidated by everything i had to do. i kept telling myself and my advisors i would and i still couldnt bring myself to. i feel so useless and stupid and i dont know whats wrong with me. i know ive been through some bad stuff but it cant seriously have been bad enough to warrant this kind of incompetence??
and i think the most frustrating part is that this isnt the first time. its not the first time ive gotten myself excited at the thought of a new opportunity and genuinely WANTED to work towards it and ended up falling into some kind of pit ive always had to barely climb my way out of. its happened multiple times since middle school and i always mourn who or what i couldve been if i was more functional. i know im not stupid, far from it, but god i feel so stupid when im at a low like this. i cant ever seem to learn my damn lesson and i dont know what my problem is. all i know is that i dont wanna keep living like this. i hate this. its not that i dont wanna live, thankfully. mostly, i like who i am, who i can be as a person, what im capable of. but this feels. so pathetic.
i dont know what im gonna do now. so many deadlines for certain schools have passed, so many deadlines for certain scholarships have passed, things i know i couldve been at the very least a solid competitor for if i had put my best foot forward, but i never can. my options are so limited now. i got accepted to an animation program in LA, but the deposit is due by the end of this month and i dont think its reasonable for me to go. my parents keep saying "if its what you want to do, go for it" in attempt to be supportive but i dont wanna go $300,000 in debt for art school for an industry that is in shambles because of passion. i know pursuing art already is a gamble, and i want to have faith, but i dont know about "insane student loan debt" faith, even with whatever financial aid they could offer me. what about housing?? id have nowhere to be! even more money!
even if i did make that work, i wouldnt be able to bring my 8yo dog with me without being the worst owner ever. i know that sounds dumb on paper but shes everything to me, shes the reason i kept going after all these stupid depressive pits, and genuinely going away for 4 years might actually haunt me for the rest of my life. i get emotional just thinking about how shes getting older. i just dont think i can handle that heartache. what if i did manage to somehow get a place for myself, but then i just had to work all the time i wasnt studying??? she'd be alone and itd be so unfair for her and id feel awful but id feel awful without her anyways-- but i really really want to study animation in california.. i dunno.
my safe option was a school in the city i go to that has a decent enough program, and i applied, but for some reason i got notified my app was considered incomplete because my damn hs transcript didnt get through to them and it took like a month to confirm it was submitted afterwards. now, ive reached out to their admissions about the status of my app, made multiple emails and calls, and i cant get ahold of anyone who can help me and im so so scared. if i at least dont have this as an option, i literally dont know what im going to do. im so scared. the only other school i am confident ican apply to still and get into is still an art school in cali with rolling admissions, but id still have to grapple with the tuition/housing situation and i just dont know if ill be able to figure something out. i feel like a failure with nothing to show for myself.
so now im failing basically a whole semester of my classes, have no idea what the hell im gonna do for next semester, and the stress and anxiety is only multiplying exponentially, i keep stress eating and its weighing on my mind even more because ive been trying to lose weight, and have made good progress, but i keep hitting this damn plateau and its just another thing on top thats making me feel worse about myself.
i feel so mediocre. i feel like wasted potential. i know im smart and have strong ambitions but i have nothing to prove that. i just want to feel good about myself, get a job, not feel exhausted all the damn time regardless of how much i sleep, feel good enough to draw what i love consistently enough, not eat away the feelings of my stress. i want to create and learn so so much. i want to feel refreshed and love my life and i know i can get there but it feels so out of reach. im so tired of being like this.
i dont even know what i can do going forward to get myself out of this. none of my friends know just how bad i have it right now and honestly im too ashamed to admit it. im probably going to send this to my counselors, see if i can take at least some of these classes during the summer or something, but i have genuinely no idea what is going to happen with me and im so terrified that i feel eternally paralyzed. i cant even taken my damn daily vitamins. its almost like nothing even feels real to me anymore, im just existing.
at the very least, ive asked various friends of mine to hold myself accountable for going to the doctor tomorrow. i cant and dont want to live like this anymore. i feel stupid and i need help. it wouldnt even be the first time ive tried but i guess im gonna have to be serious about it this time because even if things works out, no way i wanna fumble art school and what i care about. im just so scared of everything right now. i dont know what im gonna do. i dont know what i can do. hell, all of this is just my worries about my work and myself and doesnt even scrape the surface of family troubles. i feel like im drowning and i need to apologize to every professor and counselor that has had a shred of patience with me. i just want things to get better, to not feel like im somehow broken or incompetent on a level other people aren't. i need help :(
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2024.05.20 09:04 Stella_Saturn Since I am in NC might as well share my story

I got broken up with over a month and a half ago and i feel like I am overreacting. We dated for 3 months and had every intention of being in it for the long hall. There was only one ongoing "fight" if you could even call it that. There was this girl that he had kept texting even though it made me uncomfortable. The only reason I did not want him to continue to text her was they had a previous fling. They had slept together even though they both were in relationships. He never told me much about her just that is was a huge mistake and he would never do it again. There is more context but it is not my place to share but based on it I was okay with starting a relationship with him. The issue I had was they both seemed to have this bond based on the situation. It was borderline unhealthy. The other issue was that he had neglected to tell me she was local until I had found her social media accounts stating that she went to a high school in the area. He also kept talking to her without telling me and were on a facetime call multiple times after he said he would stop talking to her. I found this out by looking on his phone. I never had the intent of going onto his phone to look at the messages, I was going on to send a photo to myself when I saw her contact/profile. (During our breakup I admitted it was not my place to look and had apologized for invading his privacy and breaking his trust, however he had also broken mine by continuing to lie and not tell me he had been talking to her).
At the time of out break-up I was completely blindsided as the night before he had been in my bed and everything was fine. A mutual friend had told him I went on his phone and apparently that was his breaking point. Despite the fact he knew I knew he was still talking to her. This mutual friend had been extremally jealous of me (she admitted so) which is why I believe she told him. I understand now after talking to my therapist that she had been using me. This friend had painted me in an awful light and had been telling a lot of people lies as well as exaggerating the truth to make it seem as bad as possible. (Just for context I am 17 and mutual friend is 20) For awhile I felt like I was an awful person but have recently realized that not everything was my fault. TW:PREGNANCY AND ABORTION
Our breakup was really rough and he never really explained why he was breaking up with me so the above paragraph is just my assumptions. During our breakup we were in minimal contact. This is were the situation take a huge turn so beware. I found out I was pregnant not even a week after we broke up. I was in shock as I was on birth control (also: I am extremally allergic to latex ) but I still knew the risk. The same day I found out he had asked me to not text him as he was "advised" not to text me even though he had agreed to stay in contact with me. I did not tell him. About a week later I had been in the hospital and had posted a story to my social media which he had texted me to ask if I was okay. He had looked at ever story I had posted and had liked all of my posts. I was trying to get us back on good terms before I told him I was pregnant. I went to a clinic in another state and was told I was about 5 weeks pregnant. About a week after I had thought I miscarried because there was a lot of bleeding. We had texted a few days before and had said we both still cared about each others wellbeing. So I felt like It was a good time to tell him. My reasoning was if I had miscarried then it was over and done with but if I was still pregnant he had the right to know. I told him. It did not go well. So much for caring about my wellbeing. He basically freaked out (which I expected) and told me that he needed time to process and "he didn't know" if he ever wanted to talk to me about it. To say I was pissed off was an understatement. First because he thought I would lie about something like that and second because he was fine with me someone who is also struggling with everything and hiding the biggest secret of all from everyone taking on the weight of everything. I went to the clinic a few days after and to no ones surprise I was still pregnant because the universe decided I needed more to deal with. They gave me the abortion pills I had order the pervious appointment. I wasn't sure what I was going to do in complete honesty. Part of me wanted to keep it but I knew it was not practical.
I knew we wanted time but as we saw I did not have time to give him. I was nearing on 7 weeks and needed to make a decision as the longer I waited the harder it would be. For more context I have a lot of health issues which were flaring up because of all the stress I was under. I texted him that I was still pregnant and he told me he couldn't deal with it and blocked me. I was definitely a bit harsh when I texted him my text read along the lines of "I did not miscarry I dont care if you answer or not". I broke down a bit after that and downed the first pill. I wrote him an email with all the photos I had and basically said you are a dick. It may have been a bit overkill to write him a dozen pages on why I thought blocking me was rude and selfish and that I hadn't asked him for anything and then proceeded to hand deliver them 2 weeks later which caused him to block me on everything else. I don't regret it btw it made me feel better. They best/worst part of this all is we are going to the same college and my friend who knows the entire situation is working under his mom this summer. I feel like I might be overreacting over the entire thing. I feel like I am going insane and what he did was not that bad, At least not as bad as my exes because he was a really good boyfriend and he was the first person I ever loved and saw a future with. So now I am in the no contact feels with a playlist to prove it.
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2024.05.20 09:04 Competitive_Tea_436 Aitah to cuss out our uncle's wife at our cousin's graduation party?

My partner ( C, male, 30s) and I ( HV, female, 30s) have been together since 2016 and we have a 5 years old son. We engaged in 2018 but decided to not go through with marriage since we love the way it is right now. I am originally from Vietnam, and I'm currently a U.S permanent resident, and it has nothing to do with being with my partner. That is pretty our situation right now.
My partner's mother (HN) has 3 younger brothers. Since HN has kids pretty early so my partner is much older than all other cousins. Ever since I've been with my partner, I've been watching those kids growing up. We've been there for them on every big occasions of their life. Birthdays, boy scouts completion, high school graduation, college graduation, wedding..., we were always there celebrating and supporting them with cash and gifts. We love those kids.
Today, we were supposed to be at a party celebrating the youngest cousin's college graduation at 6. It was just a very informal family dinner of 12 and we were officially invited with card sent to our mail. The card was written by my partner's uncle's wife, and it does require RSVP. My partner confirmed we were going through group texts with all of his uncles and cousins. At 3, my partner received an email from his uncle's wife read as follow:
"Hi C We have sent you an invitation to R's graduation dinner to your house about two weeks ago but your mom also mentioned she did not receive her invite so we are following up with the info and as well forward this to you. As Aunty, I'm sorry to say if you did receive the card invite that requires rsvp then it is etiquette to give a reply and number attending. Otherwise we take it no attendance and no spot will be prepared for you and family. As you are partially Chinese, the standards and expectations will still apply and be expected. The other part of you is a Filipino community. As all other Asian communities know Filipino they stand alone. They either include or exclude. It is their culture. As Aunty, it's a challenge not only for us to invite your family with no marital status just based on unknown relationships, this is the same with your mom and sister. We had hoped it will be different with you. It's time to take your relationship to a higher level otherwise it will be looking both are taking advantage of each other and now a son with US citizenship status without your marriage. It is advantage to HV to be US citizen without marriage. A lot of people want to come to US this way. This will always be no one knows how to address your family on the card invite. This is your life and choice. No one care enough to let you only an aunty. We will not follow up further. Sorry, I do not have your cell number. Thank you. Aunty Sent from my iPhone "
I wish I can attach the screen shot of the actual email here. This is not the first time the uncle's wife has done this to us. And she has been sending nasty email like this to almost all members of my partner's family talking about stuff like this. I'll follow up with you guys the email she sent to my partner's mom, and other uncles. Every time it happens, we let it slide since we love and respect the uncle and the cousins. At the end, she is still the uncle's wife and the cousins' mother. But this time, it's way cross the line. My partner was so livid he sent the email screen shot to all of his uncles and his mom and ask wtf is this. The uncle had nothing to say but apologize to him and said he didn't know his wife sent this. My partner asked him 'are you going to check your wife out this time or are you just going to let her continue to break our family apart?'. He was silent and said he couldn't do anything. My partner decided to show up at the party and talk to her out of her delulu. And we just did. We show up, she was just smiling up and waving to us like nothing happened. We asked her to come outside to talk or we can talk to her right there at the party. She finally had to went outside. We didn't hold our tongue this time. I told her to keep my name and my son's name out of her mouth, if she wants to keep her tongue inside there. She was acting shocked and that she didn't do nothing wrong, that the email was just a reminder. The result was she left to go inside in tears, and other uncles and cousins came out to say that was epic, that was what they wanted to said to her after all of those nasty emails. So are we the assholes?
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2024.05.20 09:01 ultradip New to Random Acts of Pet Food? Read this FIRST!

Welcome to Random Acts of Pet Food!

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To make requests or participate in offers, giveaways, or contests

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2024.05.20 09:01 Formal_Length3385 18 [TM4A] AroAce (Cupioromantic/Cupiosexual) AZ, USA (Online/In-Person) looking for a long term relationship :)

i would like if you are around my age range (18-21ish). i like to think i'm more mature than my age, which either means i am or i'm the average 18-year-old since covid stunted most of everyone's maturities lmao. i would also like if you text similar to me, and by that i mean emoji's, occasional slang, all caps if something is funny/scary, etc, rather than capital letters and periods with no exclamation since i only talk like that to family/important emails
i’m from AZ, so it would be nice if you are either in AZ, have the same time zone (mst), or live nearby. though, be aware that i do not what to stay in my current city. i either would move where you are or to a whole other place, either a big city (like nyc), a whole other country (canada), or a small rural town no one has ever heard of surrounded by trees and such. i do have a small dog who is rather old so i would like to bring him if i can convince my family :)
with romance/sex, it's preferrable and romance is like a must lol. mostly like cuddling and kissing, and it's not necessary, but i would prefer to share a bed since it's much more intimate. which is how i view more romantic/sexual things are a way to bond/have fun, not ways to be attracted or build attraction to someone, though sex is something i don’t explicitly need if you don’t want it
i can be blunt and i like to know full boundaries. i don't like accidentally hurting people, so i would like if you are a bit blunt and confident enough to tell me if i'm doing something wrong or if i'm making you uncomfortable. i have adhd, so some things i need to be told even if it's obvious since i tend to accidentally break boundaries since i know i wouldn't mind
living wise, i like things 50/50. like sweeping together, mopping together, cleaning, cooking, etc. partly because it's more efficient but also because i see it as a bonding thing. and along with that, i always thought it would be cute to just consider each other as "friends", tell family/friends that, even if it's not completely true. though, i would tell other people that you are my partnegirlfriend/boyfriend if you prefer that :))
i can't drive yet, but i'm getting there. i also keep going back and forth between being a tattoo artist and being a commission-based artist. it would depend on if we would travel a lot/what tattoo studio i get into. if i do tattooing, my cousin has offered to teach me since she is a full-time tattoo artist
i like talking a lot (clearly), but i like silence too. if we were in person/on call, moments of silence don't bother me unless i feel like i need to talk. i also love playing video games, even if i'm not that great at some, along with anime, so i would gladly sit on a call and watch anime/play a video game with you to get us more comfortable with each other :)
if you like the sound of me, please DM :) i can answer specific questions if you have any and would probably prefer that. i can also send pictures of myself and talk about my dog if you are curious and willing to send a picture back
also, assuming you got to the bottom of this post, DM with your name, age, where you live/time zone, and what you would like in a relationship (romance/sex wise) :))
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2024.05.20 08:58 Ireneliz36 The Bottomless Email Strategy – Email Marketing Heroes

The Bottomless Email Strategy – Email Marketing Heroes
The Bottomless Email Strategy – Email Marketing Heroes

What You’ll Learn In The Bottomless Email Strategy?

  • Even if you believe nothing fascinating ever happens to you, learn these three techniques to write more of your own stories than you'll ever be able to use.
  • The eight different value categories from which to choose to ensure that your subscribers enjoy each and every email you send them. (And by reply, I mean, they tell you how much they enjoy your emails!).
  • You don't even need to ponder or be creative to use these four original email formats to keep things interesting and incorporate stories into sales offerings.
  • The quickest route to improve email writing and discover your own voice so that readers can hear you in their thoughts.
  • How to take unfair advantage of your lack of experience as a sales copywriter.
  • A technique I employ when I'm completely blank and don't know what to write in order to get unstuck and energized.
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2024.05.20 08:58 Nice-Charge4250 EU Deadline Extended until Monday May 20th 🐾‼️🐾

EU Deadline Extended until Monday May 20th 🐾‼️🐾
THIS IS BREAKING MY HEART!! He has wonderful notes, and his EU deadline was extended by a miracle!!! Give this young guy a share, boost, prayer, adoption/foster miracle!!!!!
Claude (A1206202) 1 year 1 month old Neutered 43.00 pounds HW negative
“When I met Claude he was friendly, relaxed and happy to have attention. He knows how to sit and take treats nicely. He allows petting all over, with his tail wagging gently the entire time. Friendly gentle demeanor."
VOLUNTEER OBSERVATION On 5/4/24 Easy Going Good on Leash Warms Up Wants to Run
📍Dallas Animal Services (Texas) To adopt: email dasadopt@dallas.gov and go to the shelter at 1818 N. Westmoreland ✉️ To foster: dasfoster@dallas.gov (must be local to the DFW area) ✉️ Rescue tag: dasrescue@dallas.gov
https://adopt.adopets.com/pet/177314ab-270a-4b56-902d-83ff572d839a
https://www.facebook.com/share/MHqgaLAehkGajAZf/?mibextid=WC7FNe
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2024.05.20 08:54 divyankasinghaniya Tissue Paper Market: Industry Share & Competitive Landscape Assessment

The global tissue paper market size was valued at USD 85.81 billion in 2023. The market is projected to grow to USD 133.75 billion by 2030, exhibiting a CAGR of 6.55% during the forecast period.
Maintaining domestic cleanliness and hygiene requires the use of tissue paper. One of the main factors driving the demand for tissue products worldwide is the growing awareness of the importance of implementing appropriate sanitation and hygienic standards in homes and commercial settings. To keep workplaces clean and sanitary, a variety of tissue paper products are used in business settings, catering establishments, and hospitals. Consumers now favor sanitizing property-based hygiene products to prevent bacterial and viral illness and maintain their health. The market is expanding even more because of the growing customer demand for cutting-edge tissue products that offer improved protection against bacteria and viruses. Fortune Business Insights™ presents this information in their report titled "Global Tissue Paper Market, 2024–2030."
Top Companies Covered in the Tissue Paper Market:
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Segments:
Segment for Bath & Toilet Tissue to Lead Due to High Usage of Cotton Towels And Napkins
Based on product type, the market is segmented into facial tissue, paper towels, wipes, bath & toilet tissue, and others. Due to the widespread use of cotton towels and napkins for bathroom sanitation, the bath & toilet segment dominates the market. There is a significant need for high-quality tissue products in the expanding tourist and modernizing hospitality industries.
Due to an Increase in Corporate Housing Facilities, the Commercial Sector will Dominate the Market
Based on the application, the market is segmented into household and commercial applications. Among the commercial uses are businesses like hotels, restaurants, and offices. Due to the large usage of tissues during meal service and table cleaning in hotels and restaurants, the commercial segment commands a sizeable market share.
Report Coverage:The report offers: • Major growth drivers, restraining factors, opportunities, and potential challenges for the market. • Comprehensive insights into the regional developments. • List of major industry players. • Key strategies adopted by the market players. • Latest industry developments include product launches, partnerships, mergers, and acquisitions.
Drivers & Restraints:
Personal Care and Sanitation Requirements are Rising, Which will Boost Market Growth
Because of the increasing importance of maintaining optimum health and cleanliness, everyone now uses tissue paper. These handy wiping items are frequently used to clean kitchen surfaces, hands, faces, and instruments in diagnostic and research labs. So, the main factor boosting increased product demand is the global rise in hygiene awareness. The Food and Agricultural Organization of the United Nations (FAO) reports that China's output of household and sanitary papers climbed from 10.99 million tons in 2020 to 11.25 million tons in 2021 for domestic and export use.
Growing environmental issues, including deforestation and global warming brought on by the removal of trees, constrain the market for products made of pulp and inhibit consumer demand, which stifles the global tissue paper market growth.
Regional Insights
Asia Pacific Dominates the Market due to Presence of Influential Economies in this Region
During the projected period, a sizable tissue paper market share is anticipated for the Asia Pacific region. This can be attributed to aspects like the expanding capacity of East Asian nations like China and Japan and the region's ability to produce goods made of wood. In 2019, there were roughly 2700 paper and board firms in mainland China, according to a China Paper Association (CPA) survey. Additionally, because of its enhanced utility in the expanding food and food services sector, the expansion is mostly coming from populated nations like China, India, and Japan, driving the total tissue paper market growth in the region.
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Competitive Landscape
Growth of the Market Requires Innovation and Efficient Distribution Channels
Maintaining a company's capacity to produce tissue items requires an effective supply chain and inventory management. The market's top producer of products made from pulp, Svenska Cellulosa AB, is a well-known organization. To increase the absorbency of products made of paper and pulp and to efficiently utilize the raw material to increase environmental sustainability, the company employs product innovation as a business strategy. In order to attain the necessary returns on their market investments, well-known tissue paper industry players like CMPC and Hengan Inc. utilize a variety of investment strategies.
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2024.05.20 08:50 Stroepwavel_ WIBTA if I publicly humiliated my roommate?

I (26 M) live with three girls, S(23), M (22) and C (24). We live in a 4 bedroom, one bathroom apartment in nyc (manhattan) and I wouldn't say it's all been bad, but majority of it had been, mainly because the girls are just disgustingly dirty.
M , constantly leaves her pads in the bathroom, open and left for days till they iodize and smell up the bathroom of dead blood. S is fine and C is equally as dirty as M, leaving makeup stains on the counter, she uses a badet but is constantly spilling shit on the floor.
They leave rotting food discard in the trash for two weeks at a time, the whole apartment smells like trash, they also don't want to take out the trash. There's a full trash in the bathroom that hasn't been taken out in 4 months (I don't use it so I'm not going to throw it out)
I've been living with then over the past 4 months and I've complained time and time again but they ignore me. I've sent emails to the landlord who said he couldn't do anything and finally the other day I decided to try one last time to communicate by sitting down with the girls, everything went well (I thought) till I came back and was met by period blood on the toilet seat and hair in the drain.
We've had fights about this and I feel like I'm being cornered, I'm not obsessive about cleanliness, I could care less what they do in their own rooms, but common spaces need to be kept clean and tidy cause they're shared and I feel like I'm being ignored.
I'm sick and tired and just want a clean space to exist in. I'm considering sending all the pictures I took on a public thread to our landlord and cc'ing all the roommates, with names and dates too
Wibta for publicly posting the pads and other dirty things to the landlord?
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2024.05.20 08:44 tldn0510 About my uni and math leaked papers PLZ HELP ME OUT

guys, I must get a 7 to meet the conditions of my 1st uni choice and I'm just freaking out because of those leaked papers...
Should I chill down and wait for the grades until this July?
or should I send them an email to consider the situation?
I was sure that I would get a 7 after finishing my math exams, but as time passed, I became anxious about this. Now I feel like I will end up getting a 6 for math, which I can't deal with. Do you guys think the grade boundaries can go up to 78 or 80% from 70%??
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2024.05.20 08:39 New_Paramedic1896 ACP ending, next steps?

Verizon has been very good about sending reminders about the ACP wind down and what's next; however they haven't provided info for customers who don't plan on consenting for their service to continue.
I never cancelled Spectrum as I have a very good deal with them- $25 a month for 100/20 down/up, and this price has only ever gone up once in the last 10 years and the so called "speed upgrade" that was actually because of the FCC changing what is considered broadband internet made it go from 20/2 to 100/20 down/up. I only never cancelled it because ACP and Verizon Forward made Verizon home internet free, so I kept Spectrum so I could go back to it if the ACP ever ended.
Anyways, the most recent email they've sent is that the home internet, if consent to continue service isn't given, will be disconnected on May 20th. When this happens, will they send another email detailing the gateway return and account closing procedures? Or will I have to call (dreaded) customer support and figure it out with them?
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2024.05.20 08:39 marlshroom can’t register phone number

i am trying to register into whatsapp so i can contact my mom while she is in another country. each time i put my phone number in and try to receive the verification code, it says “we couldn’t send an SMS to your number”. i have been emailed back and forth with the whatsapp support bots for the whole day and have done absolutely every step they have given me and none of them have worked. my phone is able to receive sms messages from other sources, and my dad just tried on his phone also with a different number and he received the same error message. what can i do?
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2024.05.20 08:38 SiDtheTurtle At my wits end: neighbours flouting rules on parking, hours and planning

Not sure where to begin with this one, but I'll keep the facts.
England, privately owned houses, neighbours and I share a drive, he is renovating top to bottom. Basically while I feel there is a legal route I can Google for all of these, none of them actually accomplish anything. Summary below:
I feel completely helpless to do anything to resolve these issues. Any advice?
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2024.05.20 08:37 Jpasholk [Update] SCSettings 2.4 - Quickly Access Buried Toggles & Settings - Now With UpdateKit Support

[Update] SCSettings 2.4 - Quickly Access Buried Toggles & Settings - Now With UpdateKit Support
Hey Guys!
I figured I’d bug everyone again with an update about SCSettings!
A few people wondered why there wasn’t support updating without manually going to RoutineHub so I figured I’d add that in.
It had been a long time since I used a Shortcut updater. The last time I used one was Check for updates, I think?
The funny thing is I likely don’t have too many updates planned until I think of other things I could incorporate or Apple adds new features. I may add in dynamic icons for light-mode 🤔
But it was fun learning how to use the UpdateKit API!
Anyway, I ended up creating a new menu named ‘Support’ where I added an option to check for updates. I also threw the BuyMeACoffee link in there since I had to use that space for the support option anyway. I think that’s better anyway so it’s not so in your face.
Btw thank you so much for the people who ‘bought me a coffee’!! I didn’t really think anyone would donate, but I went ahead and added it in anyway.

Changes in this version:

  • Added a support menu:
    • Check for updates with UpdateKit.
    • Moved BuyMeACoffee link.
  • Added a check for iPhone before vibration.
  • Added arrow symbols to sub menu option titles.

Grab SCSettings From RoutineHub!

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2024.05.20 08:29 otis-milburn15 SMTP server for spam emails

I want to send emails to my clients but I want to send emails into their inbox, not in spam. Someone suggested me to use SMTP server for this and I found SMTPget
Is there anyone who has already used their services or other SMTP servers?
I want to send 10k emails daily.
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2024.05.20 08:21 moonlitstargirl Strata asked to recoup legal expenses due to their own negligence

During most of 2023, the strata manager for my IP failed to deliver notice & invoices for us to pay for the quarterly levies. It was only during late 2023 when the manager emailed to request for late payments which I have since paid. They are now claiming us for interest and fees related to hiring debt collection agency, ~$2k. The issue w/ paying this is that I believe they are negligent in providing the notices after 1) failing to update new mailing address in 2022 w/ email trail, 2) not sending emails of the notices as well during 2023 when they may have just sent physical notices to the old mailing address. The key is we have email trail to request them to update address in 2022, so clearly they had an admin issue in updating this.
I don't see the grounds for us to pay this fine but I want to understand what the implications are and risks if they escalate further. I think they are in the wrong having not sent the notice & invoices in time.
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