Two guys and a horse guy

we have a cat that we’ve had since i was in kindergarten(i graduated hs a year ago), and recently she’s been pissing on our beds in our rooms a lot. because of this, she wants to put her down. i told her that the simple solution to prevent the cat from doing this is to just close the door. doesn’t seem to hard right? literally takes two seconds to close a door.
my mom seems to be making up BS excuses for not being able to remember to close a door, saying things like “i’m too busy”. how can you be too busy to close a door? it takes two seconds. i try to keep the doors closed when im home, but im at my dads house 75% of the time so i can’t be watching the doors when im not there, obviously.
why should my mom being unable to keep a door closed be the determining factor to put the cat down. not to mention this cat hasn’t been to the vet ever, at least not in my memory. how could we know what type of medical problems she even has?
i can’t be in the wrong for calling her out on this and getting mad at her, can i?
i’m sure there’s a lot i left out, so if yall wanna ask more questions about this ask in the comments and ill fill you guys in as much as i can.

So, many people agree the villagers in NH were too samey and they needed more dialogue. And, obviously when a new game comes out the hope is that they improve this. But tbh, I think Nintendo could do so much more with villagers. Imagine for a moment, you are in the design room, what do you think would make villagers notably better than they are currently that's reasonably achievable?
Here's my hot take, even if the villagers had 100 extra lines of dialogue there's still a problem, at least 2 of my villagers are exactly the same. There's 10 villagers and 8 personalities, which means no matter what you have minimum 2 repeated personalities (and let's be real, most people have more repeats than that) which contributes massively to the dialogue feeling stale.
Is the solution more personality types? No! Because the second thing everyone complains about is wanting more villagers, so we would just run into the problem again.
So whats my solution? Giving villagers more dialog "pools" to draw from. A villagers personality would set their base dialogue (sidebar: I would like at least 2 personalities to be standoffish if not outright mean so it's more rewarding to befriend them, ur girl loves a project), then they would have 2-3 other traits/interests that they could "grab" dialogue from instead.
Depending on how in depth they wanted to go, this could functionally replace hobbies. Here are some example traits/interests, with some "hobby" style reactions to go with them:

• The obvious one, Species - Like how frogs mention they like the rain, but for everyone. This one's really economical because there are lots of shared traits so they could just mix and match (dogs and cats both have fupaws, goats and rhinos both have horns, etc.) which would make it seem like there's more custom dialogue than there is.
• Snowy/Tropical - They prefer cool or hot weather respectively and comment on whether they like or dislike the current weather. Affects what kind of drinks they carry around, be more likely to be outside in their preferred season, and they could fan themselves in summer or shiver in winter.
• Stargazer - Interested in space, talks about stars and planets (and aliens, perhaps?). Mentions hanging out with Celeste, lets you know if there's going to be shooting stars, talks about astrology etc. Stays up late if there's a meteor shower, read books with stars on them/magazines for the horoscopes.
• History Buff - Interested in the museum, comments on your recent donations, mentions bugs/fish currently in season, interest in fossils and gyroids, comments on Brewster's gyroid room and talks about blathers. More likely to be in the museum, look at bugs with magnifying glass.

So for example Sherb could be [Lazy, Goat, Snowy], and Biskit could be [Lazy, Dog, Stargazer]. Even just one extra "trait" would help these villagers feel like different characters with similar personalities rather than 1 guy wearing different hats, and it would mean if the dialogue got stale there would be a reason to let your villager move out for someone else with different interests, even if their personality is the same.
Thanks for coming to my ted talk, remember Nintendo is one of the biggest game companies in the world and it is not unreasonable to hold them to higher standards, tip ur waitress, etc, etc.

M23, about two weeks I decided to fuck around on dating apps and change my age range to 35-55. Unsurprisingly, didn’t get very many matches. On bumble i did match with a 49 year old woman. Looks amazing for her age. She was weird from the get go, couldn’t hangout past 5 on weekdays, no weekends really, wouldn’t give me her number because of the security issues in that. I kinda tried to brush it off as an older woman getting back into the dating scene and was just really quirky. Anyways, the past two weeks I’d say a total of 5-7 times she tried to coordinate a plan to hangout. Usually a movie or a restaurant. Also unsurprisingly, couldn’t really do it since I work 8-5 and she can’t do weekends or anytime.
Anyways, out of nowhere today she hits me up asking to hangout. It’s a Sunday and I agree, why not. I’m on my way to meet her at a movie and I just get this gut wrenching feeling that somethings off. My mind goes straight to catfish, I tell her my concerns, we video call on bumble, boom problem solved she’s real. We then agree to meet later that night at a race track/restaurant to do some drinking and dancing. I get there a little before plan to meet, let’s say 7, and she’s not there. Well she finally hits me up at 7:20 saying she’s there by the entrance. I go outside and see she’s on the phone in what looks like a serious convo. I say hi and she says hi gimme a second, so I politely step away, no sweat. Anyways, an hour goes by, I decide to go to my car and text her I’m leaving. I get to my car and im about to tell her im leaving i get a few messages from her saying she’s done with the call and she’s sorry. I get out of my car and meet her by the entrance again and she’s still on the phone and I hear her say into the phone (not whispering, just normal tone) “no, he’s coming back.” I felt that was odd…so anyways she’s still on the phone, I give her 20 more mins and I start walking back to my car…well I turn around and she’s following me while on the phone still. I zig zag a bit and she’s still hot on my trail, so instead of going to my car, I picked up the pace and went back into the restaurant. I’m sitting there hiding from her, very weirded out, and my mind starts racing, I call a buddy just to be on the phone with someone and he’s telling me I need to leave and that she could be on the phone with someone out there in the lot. I want to leave, however, she’s standing in the way of the entrance and the lot, still on the phone. I look up on my phone and turns out the bar and dance floor close at 8 on Sundays, and she was going off the Friday-Saturday hours. I was able to call a friend to come get me, while she’s texting me apologizing trying to offer me a free meal at a restaurant, saying she’s off the phone now, and giving a whole bunch of options we can meet. I politely declined and she apologized and said she understood why I left, and then said she was on the phone with some military guy who was acting suicidal (I live near an Air Force base) and that’s why she was on the phone for so long.
Anyways, my friends and I are indifferent on what happened. Some of my friends think I was being a paranoid wimp and was just dealing with a quirky older woman who kinda forgot how to act when dating, and is maybe just a little forthcoming about what she wants. However, the other half think I made the right call and were very concerned, thought I was going to get mugged, beaten, or worse trafficked or killed.
What do yall think? Should I cut ties? Should I try and meet her again if she offers?

Hi guys,
One thing I've noticed is that the "fun" or "hookup" culture is more common than ever. This is probably because of the mentality that you don't have to go through the hard work of building a relationship and understanding each other; you can directly jump to the physical aspect. This was rare in the past, and that's where I'm still stuck. Do you remember those days when people used to flaunt, "He talked/chased me for these many months before I really committed"? I don't hear these things anymore. How do you fall in love in a week? Do you fall in love or lust? Or do your hormones confuse you into thinking it's love? I don't know honestly, and I could be wrong, but yeah, that's pretty much it.
About me now: I am a working guy who's passionate about cybersecurity. If that's irrelevant, I am also into fitness (very regular) and music. Did you know I was a writer once? Never mind, you read and decide. So, what are we having, an ice cream or an ice cream? (No frozen desert, please.)

I (male) have been in a grunge band for 2 years now, everyone has long luxorious hair, and I'm here with a buzzcut. I brought it up as a joke one time, and my bandmates said that I should grow it out saying it would look good on me, whay do you guys think? I'm not gonna put a pic of myself cuz I'm f*ckin ugly lmao, but I have dark brown hair and a cirlcular to oval shaped head. What do you guys think

There is SO much through those horrible 11 years. But the last 2.5 have truly been the hardest, mostly because I am just EXHAUSTED to the point....I don't even usually bother fighting against a single thing/become comfortable as the door matt.
What did me in, is he owes my grandmother $3k for HIS HALF of unpaid debt to her. They are currently (under my dumb stupid blessing) are letting him rent what is my family's home they are leaving to me when they die for a whooping $600 a month. S I X HUNDRED. 3br 1bth huge fenced back and front yard. 3 porches. Huge attached garage. $600.......
He knew it was only a 6 month agreement. And that either I would be retaking my home, or the rent would be raised to $1000, as i would be taking $600 of it monthly and planned to use it towards a rental of my own. (My family and i truly helped him willingly, so he at least had 6 months to get on his feet.) I on the other hand, was fortunate enough to have my recently divorced bff of 25 years with an open room in her home, badabingbadaboom.
Truthfully, I was basically forced out of my house before I had a say. It wasn't my first choice to leave every bit if furniture/my daughter's bedroom set/ect...THAT I ALONE have purchased throughout the years, to my floppy meatsuit of an ex manchild who's idea of "hard labor" is mowing a lawn..but it was my ONLY choice. (That's another story for another day, lol. This one's long enough)
Anyways the 6 months is up, and it had come time to go forward with what was already previously understood as to happen...I should have seen it coming, given that he suddenly started to attempt far more communication (our child being his perfect excuse to disguise what was really going on....
.....and then THIS MF-ER...MAN.... My grandmother tells me on my way out after stopping by for breakfast, that my ex had told her unless they lower the rent for him, he won't pay the 3k debt from TWO years ago now (he promised as soon as he got his tax return, he would pay it) but now he'd need it to find another rental property......this 33 year old man....telling this to My sweet and kind grandmother, who is the a matriarch to my family mind you, she has basically RAISED this 33 year old brat since his infanthood (since he was 22 years old!). ~His parents were 2.5 hours away, his dad is an attorney in some podunk hillbilly town, and his mom is all the worst parts of the gossipy church women put together. They only cared about his younger sister and her two children, lol. So.~
I was floored. I told her something along the lines of "uhhhh I'm pretty sure that's a form of extortion????"
Anyways. I slept on it, and woke up to choosing violence. By violence, I mean I messaged the only thing I knew he "CARED" about, at least for now, until there's nothing for him to gain. I just wanted to make sure he knew where i stood really, and how careful he should tread with me now after hearing that.
...this girl was the other former bff of MY bff. She HATED me for at least a decade. "Frienmies" if yiu will. I had been told SEVERAL times around 6 years ago (ish) that she told our mutual bestie how she was going to "fuck my boyfriend, and get him to leave me. That he was her dream guy" LOFL ...and had witnessed/heard her myself FLIRT with him heavy and totally disrespectfully in front of me. Up until the day they boinked in secret, this girl followed all my social accounts religiously for allll these years....
You can imagine, I had some STUFF I was dying to let out, but I will say, I refrained from being an absolute c-word. I basically in the most passive aggressive tone, EXPOSED what my exs current game was with my family home and the mistreatment of my grandparents.
I told her to ask about his stomach illness he faked so well, had me so SO sympathetic towards him that I asked if he would just instead making basically double pay for the summer months (school district employee) and not taking off....to take off, an I would just work ot graves or whatever extra I could/did...and then how the DAY BEFORE our child started 1st grade, he pulled the rug out from under by creating a literally pointless 4 hours screaming match.....and leaving me, the house, the dogs, and the bills high and dry. No tummy ache to ever come about again...
Or how he had a disguised app with nudes and texts from women he cheated on me with or had fucked when we were in a slump/split. And how she's also in it.
And to ask the father of the year what his 7 year olds doctors name was...we used her since the 2day infant visit lol.
Or to ask him who's been the provider for our child's education since 3 years of age. Her insurance. Dental. Ect. (Hint: it's not him).
I asked her to ask him why he told me that she "owned her own home and was so independent and worked so hard to be where she is now" as a means to rub salt in my wounds while he forced me out if my/OUR old home in the worst mental depression I'd ever dealt with.....when that is not true because she cheated on her husband with multiple men while he was deployed and lost her Marital home in divorce. She lives with her parents and two younger brothers.
Why he was still.texting me and sending me his unsolicited or answered selfies to me.
I wrapped it up with my point of the information being that for my exs sake, I pleaded she encouraged him to don"the right thing".
I mean....I knew he was putting on a dog and pony show for her from day 1. He's a fraud, I learned that over and over. He will lie/manipulative/step on whatever and whoever without a care in the world, all while making whoever they choose to feel as if they're to blame if any sort of conflicts or grievance against them rose.
So I knew in my exes false reality he was painting for this chick was no doubt of how amazing a father he is, and how shitty of a parent and person I am in turn....
side note: ffs he even lowered his own vocal tone forcefully when j met him 11 yrs ago to disguise his godawful nasal screach
WITHIN 10 DAYS. NOT EVEN 2 WEEKS Of me sending her all this...
First text - him asking for our childs doctor's information for the first time in 5 years. Evidently they had a sore throat in the middle of the night. (Mmmmok)
4 days later - he is asking if we could discuss getting her needed dental work finished up as we've put it off for a while (he literally never cared the first phase lol)
That same day - he is pandering sympathy and attention because he's suddenly having stomach attacks again and he's got a colonoscopy scheduled and blahblahblahhhhhh.
I mean....literally the list of the shit I exposed directly goes on and on.....and he made sure to cover up each one down the line. Like. If that isn't "master manipulation".....what is? There has got to be a word for this oh so insanely predictable behavior lol.
Certainly. I'd hope the chick truly SEES what is happening? That the dude is literally whether subconsciously/uncontrollably covering up his actions because he knows deep down, what was done was wrong all around...or just creating and perfecting his own stage right before our eyes? Lol RIGHT?!
I just have to laugh at it all now. It's just a RL sitcom of disaster at this point. 😑

Like we all know that in the world of Naruto theee are child soldiers which is messed up and stuff and apparently konoha is ok with slavery but
I just realized how racist most characters are like seriously the prejudice against a minority (people with bloodlines) is huge there not to mention the ableism with rock Lee wich luckily he has been able to overcome and there's so much sexism like omg there's so much
The hypocrisy of so many characters is astounding and are we forgetting how kidnapping little girls is a regular for kumo? Like I get Orochimaru but cmon guys the Byakugan isn't worth war and neither is a jinchuriki that you won't even be able to control
Like seriously I'm pretty sure the one with the least atrocities we've seen is Suna and that's because every single bad thing they did was either about neglecting garra which is a regular to jinchuriki and that the daimyo cut the funding so much they resorted to ally with Orochimaru like it's something without horrible consequences
Speaking of jinchuriki neglect it's outstanding how much y'all want to provoke them, I get the "I'm sorry I don't want to have my child hang out around you as the fox will inevitably kill them if they annoy you too much " Which leads into the kids BULLYING NARUTO but they're kids whatever, but it's the adults with PITCHFORKS AND TORCHES that makes me that they didn't go to any school especially with them not being a to recognize Naruto's dad dispite the similarities

Hey guys. First of all, im not sure if this is the best place to ask advice for a specific issue im having. Issue is a monitor inside component thats lose. If anyone knows a better subreddit, please let me know. So the display port socket from my monitor has came loose. Monitor itself is a 24G2, and the socket is in a accompanying photo. I successfully removed the backside of the monitor, and retrieved the socket that was lose inside of the monitor. Now my question is, whats my best option from here? Cuz i looked if maybe i needed to solder it, or if it just clicks back in, with the metal clips inside or on the socket. I looked in google, YT, but couldn’t find any relevant information. Unsure of whats my next step, if someone can guide me to a better place for advice, please help me. Thanks…..i just realized i cant post photos. Lmao i just joined sorry

For years I have had this save on NBA2K16 MyLeague, where I created a player, got him drafted 20th overall in the 2019 draft class, and played every single regular season, and playoff game. This player is based off of myself, of course. I have been trying to find an NBA ranking simulator, where I type in the sufficient awards, team and player, to find out where he would rank all time, and I would like your guy’s’ input. I would like a link to a website as well, that could predict his ranking roughly based on achievements, but I will break it down for you guys (if you care).
1st season; Drafted 20th overall by the Warriors (This happened before that season so Ik this is unrealistic) Averaged: 11 ppg 2 rb 3 as 45% fg 37% 3 77% ft
Now fast forward to the 2026/27 season with the Raptors: This player has (at 27 Years old) 1 championship 1 finals mvp 5x all star 4x all nba 4x all defense 2x MVP 1 DPOY
With career averages of 24/4/6 on 52/42/87 And playoff averages of 29/4/7/3stls on 52/43/90
At 27 years old he has a less powerful team now, 70% of modern NBA players are on their respective teams. Where do you guys see this player’s future going, and where does he currently rank all time, and at the moment? Luka has an MVP and all chips and awards are up to date as of now (May 2024)

hi guys!!! Okay so I picked up something very important from the Hashira Training Arc outro that I wanted to share with y'all. This is gonna probably seem all messy and disorganized so I'll try to share it as coherently as I can! Hear me out:
So there's a scene when Tanjiro (pre-Demon Slayer, wearing his charcoal selling outfit) is walking through the snow in the woods, presumably in the mountains where he and his family lived. There were red berries on the ground, each representing his family members after his dad's death: his mom, Nezuko, and their younger siblings. Tanjiro stepped on them, and they all got crushed; one was more in tact than the others, and I think that was supposed to represent his family getting killed by Muzan and Nezuko being turned into a demon by him.
I think that's talking about the guilt Tanjiro was carrying with him up to that point of basically being the only human survivor. But then right after that we see him present-day, equipped especially with sword guard Rengoku's brother gave him. I think it pays homage to that message he gave Giyuu in episode 2, about moving forward and carrying out their fallen loved one's wills. It's so fucking sweet holy shit.
ALSO!! I think the berries were referencing a scene from S2, when Nezuko was remembering their mother and the conversation being about their brother's eyes being as red as those berries her mother ate while pregnant with him. 🥹
Props to Ufotable for being so good about details. They do a phenomenal job. 🙏🏼

I am not using the megathread since this needs more attention than just a comment. Apologies for flouting the rule.
I see many young folks stand in the line, get frustrated and go back - thats just pathetic. You’re giving up 5 years of future, for a couple of minutes. DO NOT GIVE UP, go cast your vote. It is a privilege but more importantly, a responsibility.
Ps. Go right now coz it will only get hotter through the day.

Hi guys. At a walk this morning (~7:30 am) I lost a gold ring near the adliya Leena pharmacy (near baskin robins) and aljazeera adliya. It’s a gold ring that has some engravings on it, so if anyone finds it, I’d really appreciate it if you could either hand it over to the security of aljazeera or dm me. It’s a family heirloom so I’d really appreciate not losing it!

Context first, predicament(s) after. Feel free to scroll down.
My parents have been together my whole life. Lots of complications throughout the years, etc. I can give an entire history of abuse at the literal hands of my father back to when I was in third grade as I have been deeply traumatized, as has my younger sibling (28 F). I will try to post key events for context in an attempt to catch up to the present.
Firstly, I made peace with my childhood when I was about 26 after a long talk about my OCD with my parents where my dad expressed that he deals with a lot of the symptoms I talked about. I chalked it up to him being an undiagnosed whatever the hell he has. I haven't forgiven him, but I have an understanding. They should have split IMO the first time he put his hands on someone, but she stayed out of survival, which I don't fault her for.
2007:
Once when I was in high school she called me and told me that she had my sister from daycare and that she wasn't coming back, and that she couldn't come get me because dad said he was going to kill her if she came home. I begged for her not to leave me, and after the call I saw that he had a gun out on his bed when I walked past their bedroom. She came home late that night and slept in my bedroom with my sister. She has since told me that he would also make threats to burn the house down if she ever left him, burn down her new house, kill all of us, etc.
Skip to about 2012-2014:
When I moved out of state and out of their house to be with my boyfriend my dad was already pissed that I was going to visit and basically told me to never come back. I was in a rush to leave anyways, because he had recently beat my sister with a plate so loudly that I could hear it over my gaming headset with friends in another room. So, I granted his wish and didn't see him for over a year. As I was packing I told my sister and mom that if he puts his hands on anyone I'm going to sue them for custody of my sister.
Obviously, my relationship with my mother and my sister at this time became strained as they lived with him so I couldn't visit often. While I was gone he started stalking my mother and installed an app on her phone so he could track her at all times. She worked in an office building that didn't have good service and he'd ask her why she wasn't at her desk, etc. He sent her various threatening messages that I screenshotted and sent to myself on her phone. He was under the impression she was cheating on him, and went so far as to buy a semen test kit to test a literal mayo stain on one of her work clothes. He was unhinged and completely psychotic at this time, and I was completely, and still am, on my mothers side.
Not sure of the rest of this timeline as far as dates up until the present, so here are the key events after this stalking episode:

• Dad accused Mom of cheating with a dude at the tyre shop in town. Mom admits this is when she stopped loving him. This wasn't the first time he had accused her, but she had enough.
• This is around when he starts the stalking episode
  • I find out, yadda yadda yadda from above, and I found her a lawyer and a women's shelter that would help her disappear.
  • She loses her nerve and doesn't go through with it.
• We find out that Dad has been having an internet affair with some lady and was sending her money on the DL
• Mom found out about internet affair after he made some mistakes with covering his tracks
  • My sister and I also found out and my dad was pissed because he said my mom was cheating and that she was just trying to get us on her side
• Mom and dad plan to go seperate ways.
  • they don't
• They move closer to me because I have a son. Things calm down for a long time until they need work done on their house.
  • My dad is so paranoid that my mom is cheating with the construction dudes that he makes my mom pack herself a cooler with food and drinks and makes her sit in her room all day.
• I am barely able to get my mom out of the house to run errands etc because dad is paranoid that I'm taking her to meet her alleged boyfriend, etc.
• Things stay calm for a few years, to my knowledge.
• Dads health slides. He can no longer walk. He's in a wheelchair and needs my mothers assistance with literally everything from dressing and using the restroom, etc.
  • This keeps her close as well, because she has to stay and take care of him.
  • They cannot afford a home health aide with insurance or otherwise.
• Mom came to me literal days ago and said that she's planning on divorcing him and is she a POS for wanting to leave him given his health problems. I tell her NO and that she deserves to have a happy life.
• 2 days after this she tells me she has a guy she's been talking to that was one of her old classmates from school, and he's super kind and has a ranch back home with horses and blah blah blah and she can come stay etc etc.

So basically, her plan is to leave for a week, have a home assistance person paid to go take care of him, etc. and then ask for the police to help get him out and then she's going to sell everything and move off with this dude.
I told her that she needs a real plan. First of all he's violent when angry, even if he's in a wheelchair. I feel like he would try and hurt himself and obviously burn the house down since that was always his main threat, and that me and my mom and sister might have to go through a fucking criminal investigation. I literally cannot stomach it.
Also, I am scared for my dad because holy fuck. He can't walk, he can't do anything for himself. The fucked up part of me cares for him still. The logical part of me knows he brought this upon himself. I just don't know what to do. My mother's plan is shaky at best, and it's just a fucking mess. I told her that she needs to confide in her sister-in-law who is married into the family to see if her and my uncle can take him on, because my mom has never asked for shit, and the whole family (he has like 6 surviving siblings) knows that he's an abusive prick and that my mom doesn't and has never deserved to be treated the way he has treated her. But again, I'm conflicted.
I told my mom that she needs to hold onto the house for now because she doesn't even know the dude that well and then what, she ends up homeless if he's not a good fit? IDK. Nobody is thinking things through, and I am expected to keep this secret until she goes through with it? I am going to lose my mind, and have already been up at night crying and throwing up because of the anxiety. Please, if anyone can give me any guidance I'd sincerely appreciate it.

So..it’s a long story, but I really just need to talk about it. Im missing the guy I with broke up seven months ago after a 11 month long relationship (even you can even say 11 months).
In that 11 months we went through some shit..here’s is how it happened, I had recently moved back home after college and we matched on tinder in October (2022). Well the problem was he was living back were I had just moved from (2hr drive), but he had family close so we’d see each other occasionally. We talked for a while, went on a few date, and really hit it off. It felt very natural and fun. Well after 4 months (February 2023) decided to make things official. However, he was never keen on making it FB official until March. When we finally made it official on FB someone left a comment about “once a cheater always a cheater” so I immediately reached out to him about it. He confessed that his last relationship he had cheated on his girlfriend of 2 years. He tells me all the details and we decide to move on from it bc I’m not one to judge on someone’s past. (Keep in mind this is just a month into our “official” relationship)
Two weeks later I get a message from someone on FB telling me that they are his Ex’s best friend and dives into details that he failed to mention like they in fact dated for FOUR YEARS not two like he said, he also failed to mention that they were living together up until September 2022 only a month before we starting talking to each other on tinder. I immediately confront him about it. He goes on to say that he didn’t realize they were dating that long and that he never told me when they broke up bc he thought it didn’t matter to me about his past and he was just really ashamed and that’s why he never told me about it. Of course I forgive him and we move on. Well I’m a ruminator. It was still bothering me so I told him I think we needed to take a step back.. however we went right back to talking the next day because I was so upset . I felt like someone had gutted me with a knife. That was in May(2023).. only 3 months into our relationship..
In June (2023) we end up going to on a trip together with my family and we have a great time. Probably one of the best weeks of my life. I felt so in love with this guy. Then in July (2023) my car gets stolen out of his driveway WITH HIS DRUMS INSIDE while I’m out of town visiting family. Through that entire situation he was so helpful and kept my mind off of it all. Stayed home from work and let me stay at his place until we figured out a way to get my car back. I literally cried leaving him because I felt so in love with him. Fast forward to mid July and my birthday comes. I’m still without a car so I get a rental so I can stay with him and hang out with my friends who still live in my college town. I get there a day before my birthday and we get dinner and watch a movie with my friends. On my birthday we spent it out with my friends and then go to a movie with one of his friends that night. That whole day I was waiting for a card or something, not that I’m materialistic I just felt like he hadn’t planned anything for us. He hadn’t even planned a dinner, whereas for his birthday I surprised him with balloons every where and all his favorite things … I find revenge get a little hand written card!!! It made me upset. So I said something about it. And his respond was “I really didn’t think it was that big of a deal. We aren’t really a birthday family .. I’ll do better next year.” I told him okay ,but ultimately came to the decision we needed a extensive break. I told him I felt like my needs weren’t being met and I wanted to feel like a priority we took a 3 week long break.. Basically all of August we didn’t see each other. Then September rolled around and we hardly seen each other still. We had tried to make an agreement on our break that we’d see each tier at least once a week after the break, but that didn’t happen. In October (2023) I finally called it for good. It felt like we were just on different roads that never had an intersection.. I’ve missed him before..like back in February (2024) I snooped and seen that he might be seeing someone..I can usually snap myself out of it.. but recently I can’t. I keep thinking about reaching out.. someone tell me what’s wrong with me.. tell me that “if he wanted to he would” I’m just.. wrecking my bre’s I’m trying to find a reason it’s a good idea.. maybe that’s why I’m posting this.. to try to make sense of my irrational thinking. Please help me… at least help me stop ruminating. Do I reach out?? Or do I just keep the no contact going??

RESTAURANT KANISHKA-Hotel Ashoka - Kakatiya Hotels Pvt. Ltd, 6-1-242, Main Rd, Reddy Colony, Hanamkonda, Telangana 506001
After 2 and a half hours of travel to Warangal we took a break at hotel Ashoka we sat for lunch at Kanishka restaurant. the waiters in the restaurant were rude to us. the serving was done late to us and the dresscode of the waiters was not pleasant. We ordered our meal the first one was the soup. The soup was too watery there were no bread crumbs at all. Coming up next is the fried rice, the rice was not properly cooked. the curry given along with fried rice was tasteless. so my rating for the restaurant is 0.5/5
RESTAURANT ATHIDHI SPICES-No. 6-2-6/1/2/3, New Bus stand Road Near Kalyan Laxmi Shopping Mall and Kalyan Jewellers, Hanamkonda, Telangana 506001
After visiting the thousand pillar temple and the Bhadrakali temple we sat for dinner at Restaurant ATHIDHI SPICES AT HOTEL SHREYA. we ordered our dinner and it was served to us. the food was splendid and we ate to our stomach fill. there was a foul smell all around the restaurant. SO I WOULD RATE IT A 4.5/5
KAKATIYA RESOT -53JM+79, 4-27, near Kakatiya Resorts, Bussapur, Telangana 506344
On the way to Laknavaram lake we sat for lunch in hotel kakatiya resot. the food was either too spicy or too salty. the area for handwash was full of spiders. the washrooms were too dirty as if they hadn't cleaned it for months. the mosquitos were breeding all over the place. the staff were using vulgar language amongst themselves which was heard by everyone. so my rating is 0/5
HOTEL SANKALP-Hyderabad - Warangal Hwy, Road, Raigiri, Telangana 508116
After a 2 hour journey to Hyderabad we stopped for dinner at hotel Sankalp. the food was excellent and the place was filled with people. we had a good time at the hotel.The washrooms were not properly maintained.otherwise everything is fine.so my rating is a 4.2/5
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Hey guys, I have been having issues with my screen randomly going black while gaming or doing the AIDA64 Benchmark. I have a ROG STRIX 3080 RTX, gpu drivers are up to date. I changed the windows driver timeout detection and recovery time from 8 to 60 and then to 120 I was sure that was the problem for a sec but the people still persist when doing the AIDA64 GPU Benchmark. It usually fails between the 64-bit Interger IOPS and AES-256.
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Walked into a restaurant with a clear sign on the front door “no pets”. A guy follows with a Maltese in a fully covered stroller so I point to the door and say “no pets”. He gruffly says “service dog,” looks shifty and walks towards his party at a table. I frowned, and assumed he was just lying so he could bring his dog to a restaurant (my uncle with Parkinson’s has a giant poodle service dog that helps with mobility). My friend says the dog could be there for diabetes and epilepsy. But if that were the case wouldn’t the dog need to, idk be near the human? The dog was in a covered stroller, he couldn’t see the human while in it and the human ran around the cafe grabbing food and drinks and went outside for a smoke at one point (without the dog). When we both happened to be picking up food at the same time, I asked, “where’s your service dog?” He just grabbed his food and walked away.
So Reddit, AITAH?

I was engaged to a guy 2 years ago that I didn’t complete want or love I just tried to settle since I turned 30 and I was freaking out .
We were long distance and had different time zones . He was always expecting to talk on the phone or text . I would ignore him since I wasn’t in love with him , didn’t feel a connection. I was still not over my ex. Which is super selfish of me . I also was working a super stressful job where I couldn’t be on my phone . My plan was to go out there and visit him more which never happened .
Anyhow one day my phone wasn’t working and I received his messages super late and he send me a really rude message saying we are done and basically cussing me out . So I returned his ring . He blocked me off everything and I noticed two weeks later he posted his love for a new girl named “K” He told me recently in 2023 when “you left me alone in New York and didn’t respond to my text I found K”
I was single and last year in 2023 he added me on social media liked all my pics send me nice comments like “you look pretty” but he never direct messaged me . So I did one day and mind you this man is in his 30s and he told me I have to ask my mom and sister on their thoughts I’m not sure I’m confused , you let me alone in New York. He basically told me I will get back to you . He kept playing games liking my pics sending comments but never directly messaged me.
So I decided for my own mental health I would block him because I also wasn’t dating anyone else thinking he would come back around . Another month later I saw he made a whole love page to “K”
Fast forward to : yesterday I saw his sis made a congratulations post for his engagement to K . It really hurt me and I feel sick. Just two weeks ago he commented on my pic my aunt posted saying I am so pretty
Why do I feel so bad and hurt over something I didn’t initially want ? Why was he playing games with me ? It just hurts me and I am writing to complete strangers. My friends told me it’s because I haven’t found someone else . I don’t know but I feel so sad

There was a point in the Frederick PD interview on day one, they were slowly getting ready to cut Chris loose for the night. Graham asks Chris about his father's flight into DIA, etc. I want you to go home and get a good night's rest, your workout, etc. I thought that was a test, can this guy ignore his missing wife and kids and not say something like "i'm going to be up all night worrying".
I was hoping when they went to Wisconsin they would ask him what he did when he got home that night. did he sleep? how much? did he actually work out? was he so programmable at that point (by SW, by NK) would he just do what was suggested to him? Did he take his dad to breakfast? What was the conversation between Chris and Ronnie when he picked Ronnie up?