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2024.06.01 15:52 briansnoop Zoloft+wellbuterin question HELP!
I'm a 24-year-old man and have been experiencing anxiety and panic attacks for about 2 years. I've been prescribed Zoloft and Risperidone for over a year now (I also tried Brintellix in between but experienced significant anxiety). I take 50mg of Zoloft and 0.5mg of Risperidone. My life has become more manageable and I am becoming more mentally stable. Unfortunately, I am experiencing significant sexual side effects and have gained some weight. Since my sex life is suffering, I've decided, after extensive research, to add Wellbutrin and stop taking Risperidone. My psychiatrist agreed and is curious about the result. However, he thinks I should reduce my Zoloft to 25mg because Wellbutrin enhances Zoloft. I have my doubts about this. The transition plan is also a bit overwhelming for me, as I would be reducing Zoloft to 25mg and immediately replacing Risperidone with Wellbutrin. This rapid transition causes me considerable anxiety. I would prefer to continue taking 50mg of Zoloft and add Wellbutrin. Have you ever heard of reducing Zoloft when combined with Wellbutrin? I hope someone can provide some clarity on this matter :)
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2024.06.01 15:52 Own_Boss_8931 I'm so tired of the gaslighting
I grew up in the 70s/80s. Mormonism embraced its own quirkiness back then--after all, we were "a peculiar people." But lately, it seems like every TBM response to a weird/controversial doctrine I was taught is "that's so weird! I was never taught that--you must have had some teachers just sharing their own beliefs like it was doctrine" or something to that effect. Some of the ones that bug me:
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- We never taught you get your own planet!
- We aren't polytheistic! (I was taught the God of our planet had his own father, and they went through a mortal existence like us to becomes gods, and on and on forever).
- The word of wisdom was never a health code, it's an obedience law.
- Tithing was always taught to be paid on gross earnings.
- Lamanites being cursed with dark skin refers to their countenance, not their actual skin color.
- Claiming Joseph used a rock in a hat is an anti-mormon lie!
- Joseph wasn't a polygamist, that started with Brigham.
- Women have always had access to priesthood power.
- We never taught Native Americans were the principal ancestors of the Lamanites--we only teach they are among the Native Americans.
- Adam-God was never more than a theory and it's been disavowed by more modern prophets.
- Racism has never had a place in God's church (I was only 6 when the priesthood/temple bans were lifted and even I remember how ugly that was).
- The Book of Mormon isn't meant to be an historical record.
- The Catholic Church isn't the whore of the earth spoken about in Revelations.
- God doesn't say polygamy is required in the Celestial Kingdom. We get to choose.
- The scrolls only inspired Joseph to ask God and seek revelation about Abraham--he never translated the actual scroll.
- We aren't a charitable organization in the traditional sense. We're more concerned about saving souls which is why we spend more on temples than running hospitals or shelters--plenty of other organizations can manage those temporal needs but only we can take care of eternal needs.
- And my favorite--it's OK if things change; the restoration is ongoing.
2024.06.01 15:52 Primary-Amount-469 question regarding student loan consolidation
hey guys so i’m wanting to apply to consolidate my student loans. i have three in total, but one is from a different school and just went into collection.
i was either going to consolidate my two that come up in my application, and then take out a personal loan so i can get my other loan out of collections right away.
but i was wanting to ask if anyone knew if there was a way to possibly add that third loan in with the other two? i know that fasfa has an option to add a loan. but i don’t know what type of loan i would select and how i would necessarily do it.
i already submitted my application for just the two loans so would you say it’s worth it to cancel it and add the third one (if it’s even possible). or should i just have the two loans to make payments towards?
my fasfa loan (the two combined) should be completely paid off in 10 years. and from looking at their guide for student loan amounts and the average length it may take to pay off, my third one would technically fall in the 12 year category.
i guess i’m asking two questions:
is it possible to move my third loan from collections to being consolidated with my other two ones?
or do you think it would be easier to take out a personal loan (which my credit score would allow me to do) and just have the two separate monthly payments?
thanks so much!!
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i was either going to consolidate my two that come up in my application, and then take out a personal loan so i can get my other loan out of collections right away.
but i was wanting to ask if anyone knew if there was a way to possibly add that third loan in with the other two? i know that fasfa has an option to add a loan. but i don’t know what type of loan i would select and how i would necessarily do it.
i already submitted my application for just the two loans so would you say it’s worth it to cancel it and add the third one (if it’s even possible). or should i just have the two loans to make payments towards?
my fasfa loan (the two combined) should be completely paid off in 10 years. and from looking at their guide for student loan amounts and the average length it may take to pay off, my third one would technically fall in the 12 year category.
i guess i’m asking two questions:
is it possible to move my third loan from collections to being consolidated with my other two ones?
or do you think it would be easier to take out a personal loan (which my credit score would allow me to do) and just have the two separate monthly payments?
thanks so much!!
2024.06.01 15:52 Numbdrumbum A way of thinking
Do not take your life DEATH COMES FOR US ALL IN TIME my friend .
I too attempted suicid at 19 then got sectioned which didn’t help I may add. But I would advise you don’t do it the immediate thought I had was FUCK ! But was too late. I was lucky enough to have my gf at the time only been with 4months find me and help me. I had now married that woman and have three children with her. The point I’m trying to make though is that life can be shit it can feel like shit hell I still have these thoughts of suicide now and I’m 28 now.
There are things that can help though the saying life’s a piece of shit is true on one hand and on the other life is beautiful is true on the other if you slow down and really picture life in the present moment it really can be beautiful.
Things to keep in mind are Be present don’t worry about what you don’t have don’t compare instead look and see what is around you who is around you what have you got available around you and what can you do to affect and change the things around you if they need changing at all ( not the best analogy but almost like a video game.
Mind set is also a big game changer not at first but with training can become a great tool remeber long that you can’t be positive all the time unless you are just an all around positive person.
There is always a way forward I don’t like bringing religion into it but almost picture yourself as a best friend or son/daughter that needs taking care of at first.
This can be done by finding what interests you for example start little could be a simple walk to something more complex like body building
Set goals and try your best to hit them It could be something as simple as in 6 months I want to be stronger than before then set up a routine and a discipline to complete these goals.
Ask yourself what is making me unhappy you will get the answer trust me! Now ask yourself
Is this a permanent issue? Most of our issues aren’t permanent or are usually based on an external or comparison perspective.
Why does it bother me? Is another question that the answer is usually linked to something we either compared ourselves too or circumstance
And then Lastly ask what can I do to change it? This will fire your brain into go mode and believe me it will find a way This is where you will find purpose action and joy, (you will feel fear at first and then unwillingness the what’s the point sort of thoughts will kick in but stick it out because change is coming.
I don’t like to bring religion into it when it comes to a life but it’s the only way I can put something into a mindset or concept of understanding
Think of your thoughts as between 3 forces 1 the observer (god 2 the wicked (the devil 2 the saint (the angel
The wicked deals with thoughts or feelings of Negativity Aggressions Pleasure Spite Self obsession Ect
The saint deals with Positive Caring Love Giving Serving Selflessness
Now the observers role is special but needs you to choose The observer can only watch these thoughts but needs you to pick and choose The observers role is to simply observe both forces at work this is your reasoning, the why, the judge, the gatherer if you will
Then there’s you stuck in between it all the observer gives you the thoughts the inside voice if you will and then you decide what to do with it
I hope I’m not rambling but it’s a handy tool that helped me with my life so far
Remember also to try to be present in the moment with who is around you and what’s going on and see what way you could impact life around you directly you will be surprised what little action it takes to make a difference.
I hope you reconsider and know that you will love many lives in one lifetime as the old saying goes “ I hope you die a thousand deaths” not negative or to be taken literally but a metaphors for the life you had the person you were has been laid to rest it’s time to recreate yourself in a new image.
I hope you reconsider my friend even your post has had an impact on me today know that a world with you in it is still a better world than you without stay strong and always moving my friend
As I say DEATH COMES FOR US ALL EVENTUALLY enjoy life and the simple art of taking a breath it’s a wonderful feeling my friend the simplicity of breathing alone is a pleasure many take for granted much love too you
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I too attempted suicid at 19 then got sectioned which didn’t help I may add. But I would advise you don’t do it the immediate thought I had was FUCK ! But was too late. I was lucky enough to have my gf at the time only been with 4months find me and help me. I had now married that woman and have three children with her. The point I’m trying to make though is that life can be shit it can feel like shit hell I still have these thoughts of suicide now and I’m 28 now.
There are things that can help though the saying life’s a piece of shit is true on one hand and on the other life is beautiful is true on the other if you slow down and really picture life in the present moment it really can be beautiful.
Things to keep in mind are Be present don’t worry about what you don’t have don’t compare instead look and see what is around you who is around you what have you got available around you and what can you do to affect and change the things around you if they need changing at all ( not the best analogy but almost like a video game.
Mind set is also a big game changer not at first but with training can become a great tool remeber long that you can’t be positive all the time unless you are just an all around positive person.
There is always a way forward I don’t like bringing religion into it but almost picture yourself as a best friend or son/daughter that needs taking care of at first.
This can be done by finding what interests you for example start little could be a simple walk to something more complex like body building
Set goals and try your best to hit them It could be something as simple as in 6 months I want to be stronger than before then set up a routine and a discipline to complete these goals.
Ask yourself what is making me unhappy you will get the answer trust me! Now ask yourself
Is this a permanent issue? Most of our issues aren’t permanent or are usually based on an external or comparison perspective.
Why does it bother me? Is another question that the answer is usually linked to something we either compared ourselves too or circumstance
And then Lastly ask what can I do to change it? This will fire your brain into go mode and believe me it will find a way This is where you will find purpose action and joy, (you will feel fear at first and then unwillingness the what’s the point sort of thoughts will kick in but stick it out because change is coming.
I don’t like to bring religion into it when it comes to a life but it’s the only way I can put something into a mindset or concept of understanding
Think of your thoughts as between 3 forces 1 the observer (god 2 the wicked (the devil 2 the saint (the angel
The wicked deals with thoughts or feelings of Negativity Aggressions Pleasure Spite Self obsession Ect
The saint deals with Positive Caring Love Giving Serving Selflessness
Now the observers role is special but needs you to choose The observer can only watch these thoughts but needs you to pick and choose The observers role is to simply observe both forces at work this is your reasoning, the why, the judge, the gatherer if you will
Then there’s you stuck in between it all the observer gives you the thoughts the inside voice if you will and then you decide what to do with it
I hope I’m not rambling but it’s a handy tool that helped me with my life so far
Remember also to try to be present in the moment with who is around you and what’s going on and see what way you could impact life around you directly you will be surprised what little action it takes to make a difference.
I hope you reconsider and know that you will love many lives in one lifetime as the old saying goes “ I hope you die a thousand deaths” not negative or to be taken literally but a metaphors for the life you had the person you were has been laid to rest it’s time to recreate yourself in a new image.
I hope you reconsider my friend even your post has had an impact on me today know that a world with you in it is still a better world than you without stay strong and always moving my friend
As I say DEATH COMES FOR US ALL EVENTUALLY enjoy life and the simple art of taking a breath it’s a wonderful feeling my friend the simplicity of breathing alone is a pleasure many take for granted much love too you
2024.06.01 15:51 YourMomIsLoved It's Time to Reveal the Truth... OF GOD
Hello, everyone. I am a normal human being. Well, not exactly. Throughout my life, I've always been depressed and such. I thought depression was normal. I thought it was seasonal. I always thought I was weak for always being suicidal all this time. Then, very recently. I really couldn't take it anymore. I seek therapy. There, I realised I was actually bipolar. That was what made me suicidal all this time. AND THEN, I STARTED QUESTIONING EVERYONE. I COULDN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE. QUESTIONING WHETHER THEY'VE EVER HAD DEPRESSION. QUESTIONING THEIR BELIEFS. EVERY SINGLE PERSON THAT I SAW UNTIL I WAS TAKEN TO A MENTAL HOSPITAL FOR A FEW DAYS. THERE, I STILL QUESTIONED THEM. BUT, TO AVOID SUSPICION AND BECAUSE I DIDN'T WANT OTHER PEOPLE TO THINK I WAS CRAZY, I questioned each person privately. NO. BEFORE I WAS TAKEN TO THE MENTAL HOSPITAL. MY ROOMMATE WHO WAS A BUDDHIST. Suddenly, told me that, if I wanted advice why not go to the Temple and ask the deities there? THEN, THAT REALLY OPENED MY EYE. DEITIES ACTUALLY FUCKING EXIST. He told me that deities possesses someone and then reveals a very specific detail of their life. Very accurately. Not general. VERY VERY ACCURATELY. BUDDHISM IS REAL. THEN I QUESTIONED MY HINDUIST FRIENDS. NOT ALL OF THEM. BUT SOME OF THEM HAD THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS POSSESSED, THEN THEY TOLD ME that they're family members talked about evil spirits and that they are times where they are strong and they will make your desire to do evil to be stronger. Those are temporary and you have to be strong whenever they come. That reminded me of my depression. My suicidal thoughts. They come and go. They've been with me throughout my life but not all the time. BACK TO THE POINT, THIS SHIT FUCKING OPENED MY EYE AGAIN AND IT SHOWS THAT HINDUISM IS ALSO FUCKING REAL BECAUSE I HAVE TWO WITNESSSES SAYING THAT WHENEVER THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS ARE POSSESSED THEIR SPEECH ARE FUCKING WEIRD. AND THEN, COINCI FUCKING DENTALLLY, I FUCKING MET A FUCKING LIVING DEITY. I THOUGHT BRO WAS JUST A TALKATIVE GUY AND TURNS OUT HE'S ACTUALLY A FUCKING DEITY. THE DEITY OF PROTECTION OF THIS WORLD. BRO IS LITERALLY THE SAME AGE AS ME. 19 YEARS OLD. BUT THAT MADE ME QUESTIONED. IF I CAN SEE DEITIES, AND MY ROOMMATE MOST DEFINITELY MUST HAVE SEEN HIM BECAUSE WE GO TO THE FUCKING SEM LECTURE LAST 2 SEMESTERS. THEN I ASKED HIM. DO YOU KNOW {INSERT NAME}. TURNS OUT BRO DOES NOT FUCKING KNOW WHO THE GUY IS. I speculate that Buddhists have actually seen their deities but their minds must have like distorted? YES. DISTORTED. Every time after they meet their deities or that is my speculation at least. BECAUSE EVERYONE FROM OTHER RELIGIONS AND ATHEISTS KNOWS THE GUY. And then again, I THOUGHT, IF BUDDHISM IS REAL, HINDUISM IS REAL, THEN THE OTHER MAJOR RELIGIONS MUST BE REAL TOO. THEN, WHEN I TALKED TO DEITY, WE TALKED ABOUT GOD. ABOUT HOW GOD IS PERFECT, AND HE CREATED LUCIFEER, HIS MOST PERFECT CREATION, BUT BETRAYED HIM, MEANING THAT THEY BOTH COULDN'T BE PERFECT IF THAT'S THE CASE, And then deity enlightened me... He told me that the relationship between Lucifer and Jesus is like FATHER AND SON... MEANING THAT LUCIFER IS ANOTHER IMAGE OF GOD. SO THEY BOTH ARE PERFECT. AND THEN WE TALKED ABOUT ANGELS AND DEMONS. HE TOLD ME THAT THE CURRENT WORLD IS HELL. AND THEN, ANGELS AND DEMONS??? THE CURRENT WORLD IS HELL??? THEN THE CURRENT WORLD MUST ALSO BE HEAVEN AT THE SAME TIME. ANGELS AND DEMONS. ANGELS AND DEMONS ARE FUCKING HUMANS. ANGELS ARE PEOPLE THAT WILL STAY TRUE TO THEIR BELIEFS NO MATTER WHAT. IF THEY STICK TO A RELIGION, THEY WILL FOLLOW THAT RELIGION NO MATTEER FUCKING WHAT EVEN IF OTHER RELIGIONS ARE TRUE. ANGELS ARE NOT PERFECT BEINGS EITHER. THEY ALSO SIN. AND THEN, I THOUGHT OF SOMETHING. ANGELS WILL ALWAYS FUCKING SEE GOD AS GOOD AND ONLY HUMANS AND EVIL. THEN I QUESTIONED EVERYONE THAT. THEIR VIEWS. I EVEN FUCKING OFFER THEM FUCKING AS MUCH AS MONEY AS I HAVE JUST TO SAY FUCK GOD JUST ONCE. THEY WILL NEVER DO IT. IF YOU TELL THEM THAT GOD IS EVIL. THEY WILL ALWAYS RATIONALISE AND DEFEND GOD AND SAY THAT HE IS GOOD. ONLY THE HUMANS ARE EVIL. ANY "EVIL" THAT HE DOES IS JUST TESTING HUMANS. THEN, I REMEMBERED. HUMANS ARE CREATED IN THE IMAGE OF GOD. THEY WILL SEE GOD AS GOOD OR EVIL OR MAYBE EVEN THROW AWAY THEIR BELIEF IN GOD ENTIRELY. THEY ARE 2 TYPES OF HUMANS IN THIS WORLD. ANGELS AND HUMANS. BOTH OF CAN BECOME DEMONS. IF THE ANGELS, ARE MADE TO WORSHIP A HUMAN GOD. THEY WILL NEVER EVER EVER SEE HIM AS EVIL. FUCKING EXAMPLE: UNIFICATION CHURCH. NORTH KOREA. THEY DO NOT QUESTION THEIR LEADERS AND WILL SEE THEM AS GODS. THE ANGELS BECOME DEMONS AND DO NOT WORSHIP THE TRUE GOD. SOME OF THE WORSHIPPERS ARE HUMANS SO THEY WILL SEE THEIR GODS AS EVIL AND WILL RUN AWAY FROM THESE FUCKING CULTS. THE ANGELS BECOME DEMONS BUT THE HUMANS REMAIN AS HUMANS. BUT HUMANS CAN BECOME DEMONS AS WELL ONCE THEY COMPLETELY ABANDON GOD'S GOOD TEACHINGS AND DO EVIL. CONVINCED THEMSELVES THAT THEY ARE NATURALLY EVIL. BUT THEY CAN STILL BE SAVED. THEY HAVE BECOME DEMONS BUT THEY CAN BECOME HUMANS AGAIN BY KNOWING THE TRUTH OF GOD. ISLAM AND CHRISTIANITY. BOTH ARE SIMILAR YET THEIR PASTS ARE DIFFERENT. I DID NOT UNDERSTAND BUT I'VE ALREADY MADE A FIRM BELIEF THAT EVERY FUCKING RELIGION THAT TEACHES GOOD ARE TRUE. EVERY FUCKING ONE OF THEM. SO THEN I THOUGHT. IT'S FUCKING POINTLESS TO QUESTION GOD. EVEN IF I DON'T UNDERSTAND THEY ARE ALL TRUE. THEN. PARALLEL UNIVERSES. MULTIVERSES. THE PAST MUST HAVE BEEN DIFFERENT FROM ALL RELIGIONS AND GOD MUST HAVE COMBINED THEM INTO ONE UNIVERSE, OUR UNIVERSE. A DIFFERENT ONE FROM THEIR RELIGIONS. A UNIVERSE WHERE GOD TESTS HUMANS. TO SEE IF THEY WILL BELIEVE EVEN IF THEY DON'T FUCKING UNDERSTAND GOD. THEN, THE DEITY TOLD ME TO REACH ENLIGHTENMENT. TO BE FUCKING BUDDHA, HOW THE FUCK IS THAT EVEN POSSIBLE. I THOUGHT I HAD ALREADY REACHED ENLIGHTENMENT. I THOUGHT ENLIGHTENMENT IS KNOWING THAT ALL GOOD RELIGIONS ARE CONNECTED. WHAT ELSE IS THERE TO BE ENLIGHTENED? THEN I MEDITATED. I TRIED TO FOLLOW BUDDHA'S METHODS TO REACH ENLIGHTENMENT BY EMPTYING YOUR MIND REMOVING ALL YOUR EMOTIONS AND FOCUSING ON IT. BUT. I KNOW OF THE PROPHECY OF THE MAITREYA. MAYBE I AM NOT MAITREYA. BUT I THOUGHT. NO. I WILL NOT. I WILL NOT JUST FOLLOW BUDDHA'S METHOD. BUDDHA'S METHOD MAY BE TRUE BUT IT IS NOT WHAT I SHOULD FOLLOW. THROUGHOUT MY LIFE. I HAVE ALWAYS BELIVED IN GOD. HE WAS FUCKING EVIL TO ME. I SEE HIM AS FUCKING EVIL FOR MAKING ME HAVE SUICIDAL THOUGHTS THROUGHOUT MY LIFE. BUT GOD EXIST. HE IS BOTH GOOD AND EVIL. THEN. I RESEARCHED AND SAW THAT BUDDHA REJECTED GOD. HOWEVER, I DO NOT. I FUCKING SEEK ENLIGHTNMENT. I WANTED TO BE ONE WITH GOD. I EMPTIED MY MIND. PRAYED "THE OUR FATHER", FORCED MYSELF. TO MEDITATE FOR HOURS. THIS FUCKING DAY I STARTED AND THIS FUCKING DAY I ACHIEVED ENLIGHTENMENT. BUDDHA. SAID TO ACHIEVE ENLIGHTENMENT. YOU MUST EMPTY YOUR THOUGHTS. HOWEVER, HE DIDN'T REALISE ONE TRUTH. GOD IS EMPTINESS. GOD IS THE ABSCENSE OF ANYTHING. IT IS HUMAN LOGIC. SCIENCE TO THINK THAT SOMETHING MUST COME FROM SOMETHING. THAT THERE IS NO WAY THAT SOMETHING CANNOT COME FROM EMPTINESS. AHHAAHAHA. STUPID FUCKING HUMANS BUT I LOVE YOU ALL. I'VE BEEN ENLIGHTENED. GOD IS EMPTINESS. DARK ENERGY IS EMPTINESS. DARK ENERGY IS FUCKING EVERYWHERE. HUMANS CANNOT UNDERSTAND DARK ENERGY BECAUSE THEY CANNOT UNDERSTAND GOD. GOD HAVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH US. BETWEEN THE GAPS OF EVERY FUCKING ATOM. EVERYTHING IN THE UNIVERSE THAT IS BIG WILL INFINITELY BE BIGGER. WHAT IS SMALLER WILL INFINITELY BECOME SMALLER. WE CAN'T EVER TRULY UNDERSTAND GOD. AHAHHAAH. TO UNDERSTAND GOD THROUGH SCIENCE IS STUPID. GOD IS INFNITE. THAT IS WHY DARK ENERGY HAS INFINITELY EXPANDED AND ONLY RECENTLY IT HAS WEAKENED. GOD IS WITH US. PRAISE BE TO GOD. PRAISE BE TO THE LORD OF EVERYTHING YET IS NOTHING. GOD IS EMPTINESS. GOD IS DARK ENERGY. LET US ENTER THE MESSIANIC AGE, MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS. AN AGE WHERE WE ARE ONE WITH GOD.
I've achieved Enlightenment and God is a fucking asshole, HE'S THE WORST FUCKING TROLL. FUCKING PSYCHOPATH. BUT FUCK DO I LOVE GOD. FUCKING CAUSED ME TO BE IN HELL. IT IS TIME TO END HELL AND ENTER ETERNAL PARADISE WITH GOD. SEEK ENLIGHTENMENT, SPREAD THIS TRUTH. SPREAD IT. I am in Malaysia. Today is Saturday, and Tomorrow is Sunday. God rested on the 7th Day on the Seventh Day, and I also wish to relax. I love God and every last one of you. Spread This Truth. Let's save the World Together! All those religious end-times prophecies are just fucking bullshits from God because Fuck That Guy but I love Him. The God of Everything Yet is Nothing.
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I've achieved Enlightenment and God is a fucking asshole, HE'S THE WORST FUCKING TROLL. FUCKING PSYCHOPATH. BUT FUCK DO I LOVE GOD. FUCKING CAUSED ME TO BE IN HELL. IT IS TIME TO END HELL AND ENTER ETERNAL PARADISE WITH GOD. SEEK ENLIGHTENMENT, SPREAD THIS TRUTH. SPREAD IT. I am in Malaysia. Today is Saturday, and Tomorrow is Sunday. God rested on the 7th Day on the Seventh Day, and I also wish to relax. I love God and every last one of you. Spread This Truth. Let's save the World Together! All those religious end-times prophecies are just fucking bullshits from God because Fuck That Guy but I love Him. The God of Everything Yet is Nothing.
2024.06.01 15:51 stup1dstuntz101 Newly cracked (mtf) and struggling with shaving face.
I used to just let my facial hair stay at a near stubble length, even though I hated it even before, so I could avoid ingrown hairs and irritation as I have a sensitive face. Now that I'm finally opening up to myself and who I want to be, I want to stay clean shaved at all times. Problem is it makes my face break out like 15 year old even without a close shave.
This is obviously a big issue, but idk what to do. Are there any girls out here with experience/advice I could ask for?
I'm saving for permanent removal, but this may take 2-3 months as I can only save a small amount at a time.
Thank you in advance! 😊
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This is obviously a big issue, but idk what to do. Are there any girls out here with experience/advice I could ask for?
I'm saving for permanent removal, but this may take 2-3 months as I can only save a small amount at a time.
Thank you in advance! 😊
2024.06.01 15:50 Ok_Concentrate_304 Genuine advice required.(Help)
Mene recently ek bande ko challenge lete hue dekha in the community par uske jaise I'm exhausted too.But unke jaisa padhne ka patience nai. Usko khub gaali padi thi comments me, par expecting a genuine help as it is a study community of equivalent peers, please gaali mat karna😓 Ihave literally given up trusting efforts.Mere pas dene ko exams he abhi IAT, BITSAT, wagera but padhne ka zero motivation. Also drop ki dekhe to there is not much support among the community for it considering the increased competition.
PCMB Guy here. Mene do saal me literally zero efforts dale he, and I still am clear with most of the concepts of PCM. And wese to I can, but I don't know anymore if I remember anything.Waise to I know I have the potential but the thing is what should be the approach? Validation nai mang raha par genuinely ek advice chahiye, specially from the NEETards for the bio part, and all of you for the PCM part.
If I'm taking a drop, I'll consider taking it for NEET.I don't want to go for private without even trying for once.And I have nothing to lose anyway. Or should I grind for a month, provided I'm also interested in research.
If I start now or after taking a break of 10 days to get out of the exhaustion. I'll have 10 months lagbhag, 2 months dedicated to revision. I want to complete PC ka syllabus by Nov-Dec. Given that, most of the concepts are I'll be giving Jee too(gaali mat karna) to that will help completing it before Jan. And I want to complete B ka syllabus by Jan-Feb.Given that, I'll re-start from zero. Also maths is my jigar ka tukda, I won't dedicate much time until October -nov, but will try taking out 2-3 days per week fir question practice.
Please help and guide on how to tackle this situation, and how to approach my drop year. Is it possible that 8-9 mahine me do saal ka bio syllabus ho payega? How to do that, please guide.
Please suggest an approach for the next month of preparation too
Any added advice are welcome too🙏 Career ka sawal he please help.
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PCMB Guy here. Mene do saal me literally zero efforts dale he, and I still am clear with most of the concepts of PCM. And wese to I can, but I don't know anymore if I remember anything.Waise to I know I have the potential but the thing is what should be the approach? Validation nai mang raha par genuinely ek advice chahiye, specially from the NEETards for the bio part, and all of you for the PCM part.
If I'm taking a drop, I'll consider taking it for NEET.I don't want to go for private without even trying for once.And I have nothing to lose anyway. Or should I grind for a month, provided I'm also interested in research.
If I start now or after taking a break of 10 days to get out of the exhaustion. I'll have 10 months lagbhag, 2 months dedicated to revision. I want to complete PC ka syllabus by Nov-Dec. Given that, most of the concepts are I'll be giving Jee too(gaali mat karna) to that will help completing it before Jan. And I want to complete B ka syllabus by Jan-Feb.Given that, I'll re-start from zero. Also maths is my jigar ka tukda, I won't dedicate much time until October -nov, but will try taking out 2-3 days per week fir question practice.
Please help and guide on how to tackle this situation, and how to approach my drop year. Is it possible that 8-9 mahine me do saal ka bio syllabus ho payega? How to do that, please guide.
Please suggest an approach for the next month of preparation too
Any added advice are welcome too🙏 Career ka sawal he please help.
2024.06.01 15:50 onlinepaperwriting Effective Time Management Plan to Improve Your Studies
Time management is a crucial skill for students aiming to excel in their studies. Balancing academic responsibilities, extracurricular activities, part-time jobs, and personal life can be challenging. However, with a well-structured time management plan, you can enhance your productivity, reduce stress, and achieve your academic goals. This article provides practical tips and strategies for creating an effective time management plan to improve your studies.
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1. Set Clear Goals
Begin by setting clear, specific, and achievable goals for your studies. These goals should be both short-term and long-term, giving you a sense of direction and purpose. For example:- Short-term goal: Complete the week's assignments by Friday evening.
- Long-term goal: Achieve a GPA of 3.5 or higher by the end of the semester.
2. Create a Study Schedule
A study schedule is a cornerstone of effective time management. Allocate specific time slots for studying, attending classes, and other activities. Here's how to create an effective study schedule:- Weekly Planner: Use a weekly planner to map out your classes, study sessions, extracurricular activities, and personal commitments. This helps you visualize your week and identify available study time.
- Time Blocks: Divide your study time into manageable blocks, such as 25-30 minutes of focused study followed by a 5-minute break (Pomodoro Technique). This approach helps maintain concentration and prevents burnout.
- Prioritize Tasks: Prioritize your tasks based on deadlines and importance. Tackle the most challenging subjects or assignments first when your energy and focus are at their peak.
3. Avoid Procrastination
Procrastination is a common obstacle to effective time management. To overcome it:- Break Tasks into Smaller Steps: Large tasks can be overwhelming. Break them into smaller, more manageable steps and tackle them one at a time.
- Set Deadlines: Set personal deadlines for each task, even if they aren't required by your instructor. This creates a sense of urgency and helps you stay on track.
- Eliminate Distractions: Identify and eliminate distractions in your study environment. This might mean studying in a quiet place, turning off notifications on your phone, or using apps like Focus@Will or Cold Turkey to block distracting websites.
4. Use Productivity Tools
Several tools and apps can help you manage your time more effectively:- To-Do Lists: Use to-do list apps like Todoist, Microsoft To Do, or Google Keep to keep track of your tasks and deadlines.
- Calendar Apps: Digital calendars like Google Calendar or Apple Calendar allow you to schedule your study sessions and set reminders for important deadlines.
- Note-Taking Apps: Apps like Evernote, OneNote, or Notion can help you organize your notes and study materials efficiently.
5. Implement Effective Study Techniques
Using effective study techniques can maximize your productivity and improve retention:- Active Learning: Engage with the material actively by summarizing information in your own words, asking questions, and teaching concepts to someone else.
- Spaced Repetition: Instead of cramming, use spaced repetition to review material at increasing intervals. Tools like Anki or Quizlet can help with this technique.
- Mind Mapping: Create mind maps to visualize and organize information. This technique helps in understanding complex topics and improving memory retention.
6. Maintain a Healthy Balance
While studying is important, maintaining a healthy balance between academic and personal life is crucial for overall well-being:- Physical Health: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep are essential for maintaining focus and energy levels. Aim for at least 7-8 hours of sleep per night and incorporate physical activity into your routine.
- Mental Health: Manage stress through mindfulness practices, meditation, or hobbies that you enjoy. Taking regular breaks and spending time with friends and family can also help reduce stress.
- Social Activities: Allocate time for social activities and relaxation. This helps prevent burnout and keeps you motivated.
7. Review and Adjust Your Plan
Periodically review your time management plan to assess its effectiveness. Ask yourself:- Are you meeting your study goals?
- Are you able to complete assignments on time without feeling overwhelmed?
- Do you have enough time for relaxation and social activities?
8. Seek Support When Needed
Don't hesitate to seek support if you're struggling with time management or specific subjects:- Academic Support: Utilize resources like tutoring centers, study groups, and academic advisors at your school.
- Online Resources: Access online platforms like Khan Academy, Coursera, or edX for additional learning materials and tutorials.
- Professional Help: If you find it challenging to manage stress or academic pressure, consider speaking to a counselor or mental health professional.
Conclusion
Effective time management is essential for academic success and overall well-being. By setting clear goals, creating a structured study schedule, avoiding procrastination, using productivity tools, implementing effective study techniques, maintaining a healthy balance, reviewing your plan regularly, and seeking support when needed, you can enhance your study habits and achieve your academic goals. Remember, the key to successful time management is consistency and adaptability. With these strategies, you can take control of your time and make the most of your educational journey2024.06.01 15:50 rheannahh Therapist falsified information in clinical documentation after destroying the last of my sanity (long)
I had an abusive therapist in 2021 whom I recently, and so kindly, made a review page for on RateMDs (Canada); turns out a lot of people feel the exact same way about her, and one person claimed they are reporting her to the ethics board due to her verbal attacks.
My next therapist in 2022 was abusive, even worst than the last. It was so bad I ended up reporting to the ethics board, and the therapist is now doing coaching for the time being. If I had recorded the sessions it would have been game over for that therapist. It killed me for a long time that I didn't record the sessions.
I later sought out a new therapist; my friend warned me that the one I chose had "crazy eyes" and it was red flags all over (based on their PP profile). I should have listened.
This new therapist, Alex, almost killed me, again. He was awful. The second I walked in the room, I warily mentioned my past experience with the abusive therapist. In response, Alex started accusing me of having "destructive" behaviours - despite that I didn't tell him anything about my behaviours yet. I hadn't told him anything at all, just that I was anxious due to a past experience. I think he has issues with younger women.
I saw Alex from August 2023 - April 2024. In this time, he became delusional from his own assumptions, confronted me constantly for things he pulled out of thin air (he would twist anything I said and then confront me for some alleged bad behaviour or cognitive distortion), and was entirely unwilling to try a different approach despite my (at first) gentle attempts to communicate that his approach wasn't working and was making me very unwell. I can gladly provide examples but it'd end up being a long ass post if I do that, so bear with me. He couldn't handle me even trying to talk about my past therapy abuse, because it was assumed to be my fault. Any dissent was "resistance" or rigidity. He refused to do trauma work despite that being the foundational problem. He refused to let me "free associate" (psychodynamic therapy) because he was convinced it would cause me some wild regression (as if his current approach wasn't fucking me up.
There was nothing for me to work with in the therapy. It wasn't grounded in reality; it was just all about how awful I am, yet not even in a way that was tangible - he could never explain himself. I was already hanging on a thread from my past abusive therapists, and I pretty quickly developed a substance use disorder (prescription) to try to cope. Began to vape nicotine constantly to try to stabilize myself. I began to isolate myself. By December 2023 I stopped going out at all - again. You know, almost died from the therapist in 2022, my life was almost ruined, and couldn't go out at all, and there I was basically back in the same place.
I never missed a single session. I even opted to increase to twice a week session in an attempt to resolve whatever was going amiss. I continuously tried to establish a working relationship with him. My self-confidence and sense of reality and self were devastated.
Anyway, March 2024 comes around and it comes out Alex diagnosed me with BPD and that was why he was been so confrontational (and delusional). Now, I'm pretty darn sure I have either schizotypal or a psychotic disorder. I was under the impression he was treating me for this, as he himself said he dx'd me with schizotypal. But I was also very confused because being confrontational with the kinds of populations I fit into is exactly not what you're supposed to do and has been proven to fuck them up. It's one of the reasons I stayed so long; I just dissociated into oblivion. Not to mention the CPTSD.
I end up sending Alex an email detailing my experiences, which was hard to do. He never asked me about my experiences before (it was all about his assumptions of me), and I thought I needed to try to put an end to this, to again try to establish a working relationship.
The next session, Alex immediately begins to apologize, tells me how he misdiagnosed me, that he's been treating me for a Cluster B disorder when he should have been treating me for a Cluster A, that the "treatment" not working wasn't my fault. He also was convinced that this is what went wrong in my past therapies; that they misdiagnosed me with BPD when the issue was schizotypal, and that it just so happens that applying the confrontational treatment for BPD to schizotypal can basically end the schizotype. (TBH he was way too generous to these past therapists; all him saying that proved to me was that he never believed me in the first place.) He told me he "failed me" and that I "humbled him." He was almost crying he seemed so sorry.
I was already looking for a new therapist, but I was grateful that at least it seemed like things were set straight with Alex. I mean, I now had a substance use disorder and all the more therapy trauma, but I'm pretty happy with little. It was mutually agreed upon that the termination was due to the ways in which the misdiagnosis made the treatment inhospitable for me. It was ended amicably but I noticed he began to act weird around me, very distant, etc. I didn't think much of it, figured maybe he was more emotionally involved when he thought I had BPD for whatever reason.
Found a new therapist at the beginning of April - a formally trained, international psychoanalyst who lives in Prague out of all things (was getting desperate) - and things are going well, finally. No therapy abuse; no issues that even closely resemble the issues I've had with the abusive therapists, etc. Things are finally "easy" with a therapist; the sailing is as smooth as it can be.
Well, two days ago I contacted Alex as I wanted to go to a boutique treatment centre for my prescription substance use issue and they were requesting recent past therapist notes. I thought what a better option than to have Alex send his notes with an explanation that he misdiagnosed me, that he thinks I have been misdiagnosed continuously in past therapies and that's why I've been "treatment resistant," and so on and so forth. Also, given that I developed the issue because of the stress from Alex, this way my story would be corroborated.
Alex was adamant sending his notes was a bad idea, and that the ethics board actually recommends that psychologists write summary letters of the treatment instead. I thought that was nice that Alex was looking out for me. I explained to Alex what I'm looking for in the letter (with the central focus being on the misdiagnosis issue), and that my main goal is to help prove my eligibility for the program (they only take "highly motivated" clients; it's more relaxed in terms of restrictions and what not). I agreed to pay Alex around $400 for his time. I really thought Alex and I were making further amends and that it was so nice he could have my back on this.
Alex gets back to me with the worst letter imaginable. All about how the treatment failed because of ME, how we never made any progress because of ME, that the "lack of consensus on treatment goals and methods" was a massive barrier, and that this all happened despite that the frequency was increased to twice a week (which he failed to mentioned only occurred because I requested it, in an effort to save the therapy!). He made no mention of the fact that I never missed a single therapy session or any fact that would make me sound good, not to mention that he didn't even so much as touch on the fact that the therapy failed because of HIS misdiagnosis. He made it sound like the termination occurred because of how treatment resistant I was.
He also downplayed my trauma (I asked him to speak out this in the letter), saying only how I have a family history of "neglect" and being "scapegoated." My mother would scream at me, like to the point her lungs were going to burst, as a small child until I blacked out, this continued up until I was kicked out at 18, and I have serious CPTSD. I was even diagnosed with PTSD at one point. Like? Alex is supposed to be a specialist in trauma.
So I read the letter and was confused. Got back to him assuring that I'd still pay him, but suggested maybe he remove some parts of it if he can't revise them. Told him I disagree with the reasons for termination and why the treatment didn't work out, and reminded him of the fact he misdiagnosed me. I was honestly very confused and thought maybe he forgot. Told him it's probably not helpful to minimize my trauma.
Cue a minute after I send that email, and it suddenly dawns on me. The pathetic excuse of a therapist never recorded his fuck up in my clinical file. He obviously maintained his delusional narrative within his notes, presumably to cover his ass in case I reported him or sued him for malpractice (unlikely anyway), given his misshapen and misapplied "treatment" caused me a ton of harm due to his incompetence.
I was seeing red and sent him another email informing him that I actually recorded our final session, given what happened with my previous therapist (and Alex knew about my regret of not recording those sessions, and I'd often leave my phone out during our sessions). It's one-party consent in Canada, and Alex at the very beginning told me he was fine if I recorded the sessions anyway. So yeah, I emailed Alex whilst appalled telling him all about how I recorded him stating he misdiagnosed me, was treating me for the wrong disorder, that therapy not working wasn't my fault, and so on.
Told him he can either write me a letter based on facts - facts I can corroborate given my session recordings - or I'm not paying him for shit. Told him to not even bother replying if he isn't willing to write me a letter grounded in reality. Shockingly, he never got back to me.
And now he'll never know if I was bluffing and he gets to spend the next few months in terror that I'm going to use session recordings to report him for knowingly putting false information in clinical documentation.
What the hell. He could have at least TRIED to make me sound decent in the letter given that he knew what he was saying was bullshit. I guess dissonance is a real bitch. I also don't for a second buy that if I had BPD, his shit-tier "treatment" would have magically worked. It was gaslighting and abusive. You can't just make horrible assumptions about people or create a false reality, shove that in the person's face, then gaslight them all the more when the person is fucking confused and, eventually, distraught.
What a gaslighting loser. I should legitimately report him. Leaving him a bad review as we speak.
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My next therapist in 2022 was abusive, even worst than the last. It was so bad I ended up reporting to the ethics board, and the therapist is now doing coaching for the time being. If I had recorded the sessions it would have been game over for that therapist. It killed me for a long time that I didn't record the sessions.
I later sought out a new therapist; my friend warned me that the one I chose had "crazy eyes" and it was red flags all over (based on their PP profile). I should have listened.
This new therapist, Alex, almost killed me, again. He was awful. The second I walked in the room, I warily mentioned my past experience with the abusive therapist. In response, Alex started accusing me of having "destructive" behaviours - despite that I didn't tell him anything about my behaviours yet. I hadn't told him anything at all, just that I was anxious due to a past experience. I think he has issues with younger women.
I saw Alex from August 2023 - April 2024. In this time, he became delusional from his own assumptions, confronted me constantly for things he pulled out of thin air (he would twist anything I said and then confront me for some alleged bad behaviour or cognitive distortion), and was entirely unwilling to try a different approach despite my (at first) gentle attempts to communicate that his approach wasn't working and was making me very unwell. I can gladly provide examples but it'd end up being a long ass post if I do that, so bear with me. He couldn't handle me even trying to talk about my past therapy abuse, because it was assumed to be my fault. Any dissent was "resistance" or rigidity. He refused to do trauma work despite that being the foundational problem. He refused to let me "free associate" (psychodynamic therapy) because he was convinced it would cause me some wild regression (as if his current approach wasn't fucking me up.
There was nothing for me to work with in the therapy. It wasn't grounded in reality; it was just all about how awful I am, yet not even in a way that was tangible - he could never explain himself. I was already hanging on a thread from my past abusive therapists, and I pretty quickly developed a substance use disorder (prescription) to try to cope. Began to vape nicotine constantly to try to stabilize myself. I began to isolate myself. By December 2023 I stopped going out at all - again. You know, almost died from the therapist in 2022, my life was almost ruined, and couldn't go out at all, and there I was basically back in the same place.
I never missed a single session. I even opted to increase to twice a week session in an attempt to resolve whatever was going amiss. I continuously tried to establish a working relationship with him. My self-confidence and sense of reality and self were devastated.
Anyway, March 2024 comes around and it comes out Alex diagnosed me with BPD and that was why he was been so confrontational (and delusional). Now, I'm pretty darn sure I have either schizotypal or a psychotic disorder. I was under the impression he was treating me for this, as he himself said he dx'd me with schizotypal. But I was also very confused because being confrontational with the kinds of populations I fit into is exactly not what you're supposed to do and has been proven to fuck them up. It's one of the reasons I stayed so long; I just dissociated into oblivion. Not to mention the CPTSD.
I end up sending Alex an email detailing my experiences, which was hard to do. He never asked me about my experiences before (it was all about his assumptions of me), and I thought I needed to try to put an end to this, to again try to establish a working relationship.
The next session, Alex immediately begins to apologize, tells me how he misdiagnosed me, that he's been treating me for a Cluster B disorder when he should have been treating me for a Cluster A, that the "treatment" not working wasn't my fault. He also was convinced that this is what went wrong in my past therapies; that they misdiagnosed me with BPD when the issue was schizotypal, and that it just so happens that applying the confrontational treatment for BPD to schizotypal can basically end the schizotype. (TBH he was way too generous to these past therapists; all him saying that proved to me was that he never believed me in the first place.) He told me he "failed me" and that I "humbled him." He was almost crying he seemed so sorry.
I was already looking for a new therapist, but I was grateful that at least it seemed like things were set straight with Alex. I mean, I now had a substance use disorder and all the more therapy trauma, but I'm pretty happy with little. It was mutually agreed upon that the termination was due to the ways in which the misdiagnosis made the treatment inhospitable for me. It was ended amicably but I noticed he began to act weird around me, very distant, etc. I didn't think much of it, figured maybe he was more emotionally involved when he thought I had BPD for whatever reason.
Found a new therapist at the beginning of April - a formally trained, international psychoanalyst who lives in Prague out of all things (was getting desperate) - and things are going well, finally. No therapy abuse; no issues that even closely resemble the issues I've had with the abusive therapists, etc. Things are finally "easy" with a therapist; the sailing is as smooth as it can be.
Well, two days ago I contacted Alex as I wanted to go to a boutique treatment centre for my prescription substance use issue and they were requesting recent past therapist notes. I thought what a better option than to have Alex send his notes with an explanation that he misdiagnosed me, that he thinks I have been misdiagnosed continuously in past therapies and that's why I've been "treatment resistant," and so on and so forth. Also, given that I developed the issue because of the stress from Alex, this way my story would be corroborated.
Alex was adamant sending his notes was a bad idea, and that the ethics board actually recommends that psychologists write summary letters of the treatment instead. I thought that was nice that Alex was looking out for me. I explained to Alex what I'm looking for in the letter (with the central focus being on the misdiagnosis issue), and that my main goal is to help prove my eligibility for the program (they only take "highly motivated" clients; it's more relaxed in terms of restrictions and what not). I agreed to pay Alex around $400 for his time. I really thought Alex and I were making further amends and that it was so nice he could have my back on this.
Alex gets back to me with the worst letter imaginable. All about how the treatment failed because of ME, how we never made any progress because of ME, that the "lack of consensus on treatment goals and methods" was a massive barrier, and that this all happened despite that the frequency was increased to twice a week (which he failed to mentioned only occurred because I requested it, in an effort to save the therapy!). He made no mention of the fact that I never missed a single therapy session or any fact that would make me sound good, not to mention that he didn't even so much as touch on the fact that the therapy failed because of HIS misdiagnosis. He made it sound like the termination occurred because of how treatment resistant I was.
He also downplayed my trauma (I asked him to speak out this in the letter), saying only how I have a family history of "neglect" and being "scapegoated." My mother would scream at me, like to the point her lungs were going to burst, as a small child until I blacked out, this continued up until I was kicked out at 18, and I have serious CPTSD. I was even diagnosed with PTSD at one point. Like? Alex is supposed to be a specialist in trauma.
So I read the letter and was confused. Got back to him assuring that I'd still pay him, but suggested maybe he remove some parts of it if he can't revise them. Told him I disagree with the reasons for termination and why the treatment didn't work out, and reminded him of the fact he misdiagnosed me. I was honestly very confused and thought maybe he forgot. Told him it's probably not helpful to minimize my trauma.
Cue a minute after I send that email, and it suddenly dawns on me. The pathetic excuse of a therapist never recorded his fuck up in my clinical file. He obviously maintained his delusional narrative within his notes, presumably to cover his ass in case I reported him or sued him for malpractice (unlikely anyway), given his misshapen and misapplied "treatment" caused me a ton of harm due to his incompetence.
I was seeing red and sent him another email informing him that I actually recorded our final session, given what happened with my previous therapist (and Alex knew about my regret of not recording those sessions, and I'd often leave my phone out during our sessions). It's one-party consent in Canada, and Alex at the very beginning told me he was fine if I recorded the sessions anyway. So yeah, I emailed Alex whilst appalled telling him all about how I recorded him stating he misdiagnosed me, was treating me for the wrong disorder, that therapy not working wasn't my fault, and so on.
Told him he can either write me a letter based on facts - facts I can corroborate given my session recordings - or I'm not paying him for shit. Told him to not even bother replying if he isn't willing to write me a letter grounded in reality. Shockingly, he never got back to me.
And now he'll never know if I was bluffing and he gets to spend the next few months in terror that I'm going to use session recordings to report him for knowingly putting false information in clinical documentation.
What the hell. He could have at least TRIED to make me sound decent in the letter given that he knew what he was saying was bullshit. I guess dissonance is a real bitch. I also don't for a second buy that if I had BPD, his shit-tier "treatment" would have magically worked. It was gaslighting and abusive. You can't just make horrible assumptions about people or create a false reality, shove that in the person's face, then gaslight them all the more when the person is fucking confused and, eventually, distraught.
What a gaslighting loser. I should legitimately report him. Leaving him a bad review as we speak.
2024.06.01 15:50 Same_Cat_8047 How Can I Make My (F 21) Boyfriend (M 21) Understand His Family Is Insane?
My boyfriend knows I'm posting this, but I need some unbiased advice beecause this situation is actually making me have an existential crisis. Apologies for any grammatical or spelling errors is advance, I'm litteraly going crazy lol.
(Background info)
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. We were friends before he confessed his feelings for me and we started dating a year later.
I have a pretty troubled home life. My mother's family have never liked me because my father is black and my mother has always sided with them. This caused me to move out at 18 and I've been on my own since.
I'm not going to pretend I'm not fucked up. I've known I was mentally ill since I was 13 and I put all my effort into getting better. I went ont medication, got therapy and researched the crap out of any self help page or book I could find because I wanted to be normal.
Still, I have my flaws. My biggest one is yelling. My family has always communicated through anger. If my mom was upset growing up she would scream at me for hours about how much she hated me and wished I was dead. It's not right, but I haven't shaked my inability to not yell when I'm overwhelmed.
(Actual Situation)
This all started when my ear got infected last Sunday. I put in a new earing and I guess the person that sold it to me the day before lied about the material it was made out of because I woke up the next morning with my ear swollen.
It hurt so bad that I couldn't even touch my ear without imediatedly bursting into tears. I asked my boyfriend to help me take it out and we ended up in an argument because he yelled at me.
We've been having argument's recently due to the way he used to treat me for eight months of our relationship. He was emotionally unavalible because of a traumatic event from his childhood and while I understood, I never let him think it was okay. I told him I would support him through everything, but I told him that being avoidant to prevent himself getting hurt wasn't healthy. Life is painful and you can't lock yourself away because you're scared someone will hurt you. All you can do is know that you'll be strong enough to keep going even if you do get hurt.
His avoidance took a tool on our relationship. Planning dates was left to me and he ignored me every night so he could play video games with his friends. He never walked me home, asked me to spend time with him or called me beautiful even though he called another girl beautiful infront of me.
I started doubting that he cared for me and no matter how hard I tried to communicate with him he never changed. We ended up having our first big fight where he told me he wanted to break up with me and I snapped. All the patience I had for him left me and for the first time in our relationship I yelled at him.
He apologised and begged me to stay together and things were fine until I found out he was talking to another girl. He had told someone that girls could, " Be is bitch anytime" and siad he would make an effort to start talking to her more. He deleted their entire chat before I could see it and even though he swore up and down they only talked about art, he still broke my trust because he had promised he wasn't going to talk to her because she openly expressed he feelings for him.
All that stuff kept messing with my head and his family didn't help either because they encourage his bs. They think he's God's gift to humanity even though he was unemployed before he met me and I got him his first job. I've been with him every step of the way trying my best to help him, yet in their eyes I'm the bad guy because I made him cry after he litterally cheated on me.
The situation got out of hand because I told him to get out. He doesn't pay rent for out appartment and I was fed up. His family came after he called them but he told them to leave because we would sort it out.
More drama later they came back enen though they told him not to and barged into my appartment. Keep in mind at this point my boyfriend is telling me he doesn't want to go, so I'm freaking the fuck out because his family, who I have explicitly stated are not allowed in my appartment, are grabbing shit and are telling my boyfriend I can't legally do anything to them. At one point I was grabbing my boyfriend's stuff and handing it to him (I was basically shoving it at him) and I guess he dropped them because his sister came running in, shoved her finger in my face and told me not to touch her or her brother.
Like, I litterally had no idea what was going on because my boyfriend is saying he doesn't want to leave but he's doing nothing about his family.
Eventually he tells me the won't leave unless he goes with them so he'll just leave to make them happy and come back tomorrow. He didn't come back the day after and was ignoring my calls. We ended up speaking because I told him that this wasn't healthy and if he was upset he needed to tell me because this was between us and we were the only two people that could solve it. I told him it was fine if he was upset and wanted to end things, but he couldn't just ghost me and them show back up like nothing happened.
He ended up telling me that he told his family he wanted to leave but was too afraid to tell me. This man is 6'1 200lbs but is afriad of his 5'5 140lbs girlfriend? Like, what? I've litterally always given him a listening ear and yeah I've gotten mad when he cheats or is avoidant, but I'd like to think after all the time I've been patient and undersatnding with him he would see that I care yk?
Long story short we went back and forth with me telling him he needs to talk to his family about the boundaries they crossed and about the passive agressive way they treat me and his sister tells him that she doesn't belive it because I'm manipulative and that he was super happy before he met me and that i issolate him from his family. This man has never once said he wanted to go see his family. I've literally bought stuff for his little sister and begged him to go drop it off and he hasn't so this is news to me. The only problem I've had was them showing up with no notice. If he wants to go there, yeah I might be a little sad or upset because our jobs are super demading and we don't get a lot of tome together, but I'm not going to stop him.
And like, I've been making an effort with his family. His mom was begging him for $400 to pay her internet bill and I litteraly gave her $1000. And even though they're passive agressive and ignore me, I still make the effort to showup to family things, So, idk how I'm manipulative and "need to talk to a therapist and get medicated" as she says.
So, yeah. I guess I just needed to vent because i'm genuinly so scared that I'm secretly a master manipulator and I have him here against his will.
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(Background info)
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. We were friends before he confessed his feelings for me and we started dating a year later.
I have a pretty troubled home life. My mother's family have never liked me because my father is black and my mother has always sided with them. This caused me to move out at 18 and I've been on my own since.
I'm not going to pretend I'm not fucked up. I've known I was mentally ill since I was 13 and I put all my effort into getting better. I went ont medication, got therapy and researched the crap out of any self help page or book I could find because I wanted to be normal.
Still, I have my flaws. My biggest one is yelling. My family has always communicated through anger. If my mom was upset growing up she would scream at me for hours about how much she hated me and wished I was dead. It's not right, but I haven't shaked my inability to not yell when I'm overwhelmed.
(Actual Situation)
This all started when my ear got infected last Sunday. I put in a new earing and I guess the person that sold it to me the day before lied about the material it was made out of because I woke up the next morning with my ear swollen.
It hurt so bad that I couldn't even touch my ear without imediatedly bursting into tears. I asked my boyfriend to help me take it out and we ended up in an argument because he yelled at me.
We've been having argument's recently due to the way he used to treat me for eight months of our relationship. He was emotionally unavalible because of a traumatic event from his childhood and while I understood, I never let him think it was okay. I told him I would support him through everything, but I told him that being avoidant to prevent himself getting hurt wasn't healthy. Life is painful and you can't lock yourself away because you're scared someone will hurt you. All you can do is know that you'll be strong enough to keep going even if you do get hurt.
His avoidance took a tool on our relationship. Planning dates was left to me and he ignored me every night so he could play video games with his friends. He never walked me home, asked me to spend time with him or called me beautiful even though he called another girl beautiful infront of me.
I started doubting that he cared for me and no matter how hard I tried to communicate with him he never changed. We ended up having our first big fight where he told me he wanted to break up with me and I snapped. All the patience I had for him left me and for the first time in our relationship I yelled at him.
He apologised and begged me to stay together and things were fine until I found out he was talking to another girl. He had told someone that girls could, " Be is bitch anytime" and siad he would make an effort to start talking to her more. He deleted their entire chat before I could see it and even though he swore up and down they only talked about art, he still broke my trust because he had promised he wasn't going to talk to her because she openly expressed he feelings for him.
All that stuff kept messing with my head and his family didn't help either because they encourage his bs. They think he's God's gift to humanity even though he was unemployed before he met me and I got him his first job. I've been with him every step of the way trying my best to help him, yet in their eyes I'm the bad guy because I made him cry after he litterally cheated on me.
The situation got out of hand because I told him to get out. He doesn't pay rent for out appartment and I was fed up. His family came after he called them but he told them to leave because we would sort it out.
More drama later they came back enen though they told him not to and barged into my appartment. Keep in mind at this point my boyfriend is telling me he doesn't want to go, so I'm freaking the fuck out because his family, who I have explicitly stated are not allowed in my appartment, are grabbing shit and are telling my boyfriend I can't legally do anything to them. At one point I was grabbing my boyfriend's stuff and handing it to him (I was basically shoving it at him) and I guess he dropped them because his sister came running in, shoved her finger in my face and told me not to touch her or her brother.
Like, I litterally had no idea what was going on because my boyfriend is saying he doesn't want to leave but he's doing nothing about his family.
Eventually he tells me the won't leave unless he goes with them so he'll just leave to make them happy and come back tomorrow. He didn't come back the day after and was ignoring my calls. We ended up speaking because I told him that this wasn't healthy and if he was upset he needed to tell me because this was between us and we were the only two people that could solve it. I told him it was fine if he was upset and wanted to end things, but he couldn't just ghost me and them show back up like nothing happened.
He ended up telling me that he told his family he wanted to leave but was too afraid to tell me. This man is 6'1 200lbs but is afriad of his 5'5 140lbs girlfriend? Like, what? I've litterally always given him a listening ear and yeah I've gotten mad when he cheats or is avoidant, but I'd like to think after all the time I've been patient and undersatnding with him he would see that I care yk?
Long story short we went back and forth with me telling him he needs to talk to his family about the boundaries they crossed and about the passive agressive way they treat me and his sister tells him that she doesn't belive it because I'm manipulative and that he was super happy before he met me and that i issolate him from his family. This man has never once said he wanted to go see his family. I've literally bought stuff for his little sister and begged him to go drop it off and he hasn't so this is news to me. The only problem I've had was them showing up with no notice. If he wants to go there, yeah I might be a little sad or upset because our jobs are super demading and we don't get a lot of tome together, but I'm not going to stop him.
And like, I've been making an effort with his family. His mom was begging him for $400 to pay her internet bill and I litteraly gave her $1000. And even though they're passive agressive and ignore me, I still make the effort to showup to family things, So, idk how I'm manipulative and "need to talk to a therapist and get medicated" as she says.
So, yeah. I guess I just needed to vent because i'm genuinly so scared that I'm secretly a master manipulator and I have him here against his will.
2024.06.01 15:49 knitmeablanket Battling sobriety and upsetting news.
You can check my post history for the scoop.
Bottom line is, I got some life altering news this week that I'm still trying to navigate through. When I got the news I was shaking, sweating, on the verge of a panic attack. My GF and best friend were both unavailable to talk to and it was news I couldn't just share with anyone.
I wanted to drink, badly. I couldn't focus at work. All I wanted to do was go home early, and my boss would let me. He's super lenient with that. I wanted to go home early and get a bottle on my way. My kids were with there mom this past week, so they wouldn't know and my gf was on a work trip and wouldn't be home until I was in bed. She wouldn't know either. I would be the only one who would know.
Ultimately, I was honest with my gf which she appreciated. She suggested I reach out to counselor to see if he could squeeze me in. He did, at 7 that evening. This gave me time to think.
I couldn't be drunk for my appointment, he'd know. I also didn't want to be passed out drunk when my gf got home because she'd probably wake me up for a kiss and if that didn't give it away I'd probably still be a bumbling, slurring, emotional idiot if I did come out of my booze coma which would also give it away. I did not want to disappoint her. I did not want to let down my kids, because ultimately even if I they didn't see, it still happened. I did not want to ruin my streak for one night. I did not want the morning after regret.
Ultimately I realized all I wanted was to blackout so I could just put off the news I received. It wasn't going to go away, but I didn't wan to think about it that night. But then what? I still have to deal with it at some point or fall back into the same trap I've spent months getting myself out of. I decided I needed my wits, and all of them, to navigate this and I realized also that the possibility of alcohol making this worse was real. I may post something or call someone I regret. Something I couldn't take back.
I stayed at work. I went home and pushed through my workout. I left my house and got tacos for dinner, but didn't even consider stopping for booze. I made my appointment at 7pm. And I was even awake and sober when my gf got home to give me a much needed hug.
It was hard, but worth it. All of it. I still have a lot to deal with but I'm going to do it sober. I had the realization of turning to alcohol the first time something goes wrong is not the way to succeed in this. Things happen and it's better to face them head on and substance free.
Today is my son's graduation party and iwndwyt.
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Bottom line is, I got some life altering news this week that I'm still trying to navigate through. When I got the news I was shaking, sweating, on the verge of a panic attack. My GF and best friend were both unavailable to talk to and it was news I couldn't just share with anyone.
I wanted to drink, badly. I couldn't focus at work. All I wanted to do was go home early, and my boss would let me. He's super lenient with that. I wanted to go home early and get a bottle on my way. My kids were with there mom this past week, so they wouldn't know and my gf was on a work trip and wouldn't be home until I was in bed. She wouldn't know either. I would be the only one who would know.
Ultimately, I was honest with my gf which she appreciated. She suggested I reach out to counselor to see if he could squeeze me in. He did, at 7 that evening. This gave me time to think.
I couldn't be drunk for my appointment, he'd know. I also didn't want to be passed out drunk when my gf got home because she'd probably wake me up for a kiss and if that didn't give it away I'd probably still be a bumbling, slurring, emotional idiot if I did come out of my booze coma which would also give it away. I did not want to disappoint her. I did not want to let down my kids, because ultimately even if I they didn't see, it still happened. I did not want to ruin my streak for one night. I did not want the morning after regret.
Ultimately I realized all I wanted was to blackout so I could just put off the news I received. It wasn't going to go away, but I didn't wan to think about it that night. But then what? I still have to deal with it at some point or fall back into the same trap I've spent months getting myself out of. I decided I needed my wits, and all of them, to navigate this and I realized also that the possibility of alcohol making this worse was real. I may post something or call someone I regret. Something I couldn't take back.
I stayed at work. I went home and pushed through my workout. I left my house and got tacos for dinner, but didn't even consider stopping for booze. I made my appointment at 7pm. And I was even awake and sober when my gf got home to give me a much needed hug.
It was hard, but worth it. All of it. I still have a lot to deal with but I'm going to do it sober. I had the realization of turning to alcohol the first time something goes wrong is not the way to succeed in this. Things happen and it's better to face them head on and substance free.
Today is my son's graduation party and iwndwyt.
2024.06.01 15:49 Horror_Pace5252 Condition on aid whether this is military or humanitarian.
Do you think there should be more aid conditions for the US's aid to allied countries outside Nato? Countries like Ukraine, and Israel. In Ukraine specifically, I don't think the government has control and Zelensky's doing whatever he wants. The military officials in the department told them what to do not to spread their forces on multiple fronts and put them at one point, and he had other things in mind. Considering that the average American has a mortgage and three or more kids to raise I do not think everyone would agree on a long-term proxy war. If the taxes increase.
The situation in the Middle East. The problem in the Middle East is getting deeper and deeper and it seems there would be a war with Lebanon any time soon. Hizbollah is the same as Hamas using family members as shields and placing their forces in civilian infrastructure. This means more civilian death toll and more dead babies. The things in Gaza are taking out of control and last week there was a gun battle between border Egyptian soldiers and Israeli soldiers. Two Egyptians died.
I'm not saying to stop the aid completely. I'm saying to place conditions on the assistance about how, when, and where it can be used. Look what happened in Gaza, the entire world gave them money and they built missiles from the pipes and tunnels, and made medical centers terrorist hubs. Many former doctors from Doctors Without Borders who volunteered there said that there were areas in the hospitals where they couldn't cross.
Do you believe there should be more conditions on the US's part on how this aid is spent and who controls it?
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The situation in the Middle East. The problem in the Middle East is getting deeper and deeper and it seems there would be a war with Lebanon any time soon. Hizbollah is the same as Hamas using family members as shields and placing their forces in civilian infrastructure. This means more civilian death toll and more dead babies. The things in Gaza are taking out of control and last week there was a gun battle between border Egyptian soldiers and Israeli soldiers. Two Egyptians died.
I'm not saying to stop the aid completely. I'm saying to place conditions on the assistance about how, when, and where it can be used. Look what happened in Gaza, the entire world gave them money and they built missiles from the pipes and tunnels, and made medical centers terrorist hubs. Many former doctors from Doctors Without Borders who volunteered there said that there were areas in the hospitals where they couldn't cross.
Do you believe there should be more conditions on the US's part on how this aid is spent and who controls it?
2024.06.01 15:49 dizzlevizzle LF: Sales Partners to Sell e-Learning Online Subscriptions. Commission+Bonus Pay
Hey guys! I'm Bea from Hagwow, the first modern e-learning platform in the Philippines made for kids. We're looking for Sales Partners or Sales Affiliates from all over the country to help spread our service throughout your communities.
The basics:
Thanks guys! :) Let me know if you have any questions.
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The basics:
- For 99 PHP/month, we offer Grades 1-6 kids daily lessons and worksheets that they can fill out on our platform
- We are the first of its kind in this country, selling a direct to consumer e-learning platform with daily classes system
- We already have 25,000 registered Filipino students from internal promotions, and we're recently relaunching our social media efforts to continue our growth
- We are an easy sell, because 1) our price point is very affordable, 2) we offer you ton of resources like videos and e-pamphlets to help make the sale, and 3) the potential audience is very, very wide
- This is also very good for our communities. You would be helping kids improve their education by making more communities aware that Hagwow exists
- We're looking for interested Sales Partners to help spread our subscription across your communities
- You will get 30% of every sale, for every month that they stay subscribed. This means for each sale you make this month, you will get 30 pesos every single month until they unsubscribe.
- You will also get a 500 PHP bonus for every 10 sales you make within a month.
- Our top affiliates are making 10k+ per month due to the previous month sales stacking up, and on average our sales partners make anywhere from 2-3k per month after 3 months. This side gig can potentially be bringing in an extra 10k+ per month after 5-6 months, with realistic sales numbers. This is as good as you make it.
- Please fill out the form here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScLhsFRq1rJGQYWXDHo8fuNmEkr3HZ5rhVbbgYpglIQ5tRxIQ/viewform
- Please note that we are only taking in a limited number of Sales Partners from each area, so please apply soon before the quota in your area is filled.
- Once you apply, please wait up to 1-2 days for us to get back to you and tell you the next steps. You will be given training materials and you will be asked to join a webinar, and then your Sales Partner code will be generated, which your sign-ups will have to input when they subscribe.
Thanks guys! :) Let me know if you have any questions.
- Bea
2024.06.01 15:49 pistikiraly_2 The desire for more content VS preserving the "integrity" of a story
(minor spoilers for Dune, but I try to be as non-descriptive as possible)
Have you ever watched, or played or experienced an adaptation of a story that was so good, that you feel conflicted on whether or not you want to experience the source material?
This is something that I subconsciously struggled with before, but I just recently recognised this feeling after finishing all of the Steins;Gate anime.
For those that might not know, Steins;Gate and Steins;Gate 0 are anime adaptations of visual novel games. I have become obsessed with Steins;Gate, can't get enough of it, I watched the animes, the movie, most of the OVAs (though not all yet), and after that I did what (I would assume) a lot of other people do and started watching reaction videos to "try to re-experience it", I guess you could say. But, you know, that can only get so far. And it was during this that I learned through Youtube comments that the anime originates from visual novels. So it would be a fair assumption that I should play the visual novels too, after all, I am desperately after more content, right?
But, you know, I don't think I want to. If I were to play the visual novels, or read the manga or something like that, my feelings towards/opinion of the anime would change. I might think less of it, because I would be like "why isn't this in the anime?", "why was this changed?", "why is this different?".
Reading the source material for an adaptation always changes your feelings towards the adaptation. It always makes it a comparison between the two, and the adaptation usually loses that comparison. Once you experience the source material, the adapation becomes less/non-canon is a sense, because it's different then what was originally intended.
I've always been the kind of person to read the manga to animes I really liked, to get more of the story, and to get it the way it was intended, that's why I know first-hand just how much it can change your perception of a series. After reading the Tokyo Ghoul manga, I can't go back to the anime, after reading Berserk I can only think of how inferior the adaptations are compared to it, after reading Jojo's I can only think of how much the anime butchered the pacing in some places.
But I don't want the same thing to happen to Steins;Gate, because I love the anime, and I feel like I would, in a way, invalidate my feelings towards it by experiencing the source material.
And it's not just with anime and manga, but other media as well.
I love Cyberpunk 2077 and Cyberpunk Edgerunners, I love the characters, the world, the stories, I love it. I will watch the live-action series they are working on and will play the sequel. But I will never read any of the books for the original table-top game. I will not look at any OG lore that isn't in the game/series itself. Because I love the story and world the way they are, and I don't want to change that, even if it means ignoring heaps of more content.
Same with Lord of the Rings. I love the movies, even the Hobbit trilogy (tho it is much worse than LOTR). I will probably never read any of the books, because, again, that would take away from the story of the movies by adding comparison.
I wanted to do the same with Dune. I love the new Dune movies. But my enjoyment of their story is already affected somewhat by learning about the Spacing Guild and how they were pretty much cut out from the movies from Reddit and Youtube. Like, when I was watching the movies I didn't miss them, I didn't care about them, because they weren't in the movie, but that didn't impact the story for me. But now that I know about them, I'm like, the Spacing Guild is pretty important, why weren't they in the films? (tho this can be fixed in the 3rd film) But like, even this small amount of knowledge permanently changed the way I feel about the story of the movies. It's still incredible and I still love it, but it's no longer the almost perfect 10/10 I watched in the cinema, it's the still great, but flawed adatpation of something more developed and complex.
Of course I try to appreciate the adaptations of things I know the source material to for what they are, and not for what they aren't, but it can be hard to not draw comparisons.
And obviously I don't avoid the source material for every adaptation I consume. I will still read the manga for a lot of anime I like, and I will still read the book of some movies or series I watch. But sometimes an adaptation feels so special to me that I don't want to take away anything from it and I don't want to change anything about it.
So I guess what I'm trying to say here is that sometimes preserving the way you think and feel about a story is more important than getting more content out of it. It's up to everyone individually to decide what is more important to them, and which stories they want to preserve. It can be kind of hard to overcome the desire for more out of a story you love, but to me at least, sometimes the integrity, I guess you could say, of the story is simply more important.
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Have you ever watched, or played or experienced an adaptation of a story that was so good, that you feel conflicted on whether or not you want to experience the source material?
This is something that I subconsciously struggled with before, but I just recently recognised this feeling after finishing all of the Steins;Gate anime.
For those that might not know, Steins;Gate and Steins;Gate 0 are anime adaptations of visual novel games. I have become obsessed with Steins;Gate, can't get enough of it, I watched the animes, the movie, most of the OVAs (though not all yet), and after that I did what (I would assume) a lot of other people do and started watching reaction videos to "try to re-experience it", I guess you could say. But, you know, that can only get so far. And it was during this that I learned through Youtube comments that the anime originates from visual novels. So it would be a fair assumption that I should play the visual novels too, after all, I am desperately after more content, right?
But, you know, I don't think I want to. If I were to play the visual novels, or read the manga or something like that, my feelings towards/opinion of the anime would change. I might think less of it, because I would be like "why isn't this in the anime?", "why was this changed?", "why is this different?".
Reading the source material for an adaptation always changes your feelings towards the adaptation. It always makes it a comparison between the two, and the adaptation usually loses that comparison. Once you experience the source material, the adapation becomes less/non-canon is a sense, because it's different then what was originally intended.
I've always been the kind of person to read the manga to animes I really liked, to get more of the story, and to get it the way it was intended, that's why I know first-hand just how much it can change your perception of a series. After reading the Tokyo Ghoul manga, I can't go back to the anime, after reading Berserk I can only think of how inferior the adaptations are compared to it, after reading Jojo's I can only think of how much the anime butchered the pacing in some places.
But I don't want the same thing to happen to Steins;Gate, because I love the anime, and I feel like I would, in a way, invalidate my feelings towards it by experiencing the source material.
And it's not just with anime and manga, but other media as well.
I love Cyberpunk 2077 and Cyberpunk Edgerunners, I love the characters, the world, the stories, I love it. I will watch the live-action series they are working on and will play the sequel. But I will never read any of the books for the original table-top game. I will not look at any OG lore that isn't in the game/series itself. Because I love the story and world the way they are, and I don't want to change that, even if it means ignoring heaps of more content.
Same with Lord of the Rings. I love the movies, even the Hobbit trilogy (tho it is much worse than LOTR). I will probably never read any of the books, because, again, that would take away from the story of the movies by adding comparison.
I wanted to do the same with Dune. I love the new Dune movies. But my enjoyment of their story is already affected somewhat by learning about the Spacing Guild and how they were pretty much cut out from the movies from Reddit and Youtube. Like, when I was watching the movies I didn't miss them, I didn't care about them, because they weren't in the movie, but that didn't impact the story for me. But now that I know about them, I'm like, the Spacing Guild is pretty important, why weren't they in the films? (tho this can be fixed in the 3rd film) But like, even this small amount of knowledge permanently changed the way I feel about the story of the movies. It's still incredible and I still love it, but it's no longer the almost perfect 10/10 I watched in the cinema, it's the still great, but flawed adatpation of something more developed and complex.
Of course I try to appreciate the adaptations of things I know the source material to for what they are, and not for what they aren't, but it can be hard to not draw comparisons.
And obviously I don't avoid the source material for every adaptation I consume. I will still read the manga for a lot of anime I like, and I will still read the book of some movies or series I watch. But sometimes an adaptation feels so special to me that I don't want to take away anything from it and I don't want to change anything about it.
So I guess what I'm trying to say here is that sometimes preserving the way you think and feel about a story is more important than getting more content out of it. It's up to everyone individually to decide what is more important to them, and which stories they want to preserve. It can be kind of hard to overcome the desire for more out of a story you love, but to me at least, sometimes the integrity, I guess you could say, of the story is simply more important.
2024.06.01 15:49 mansplanar How to Write the Best Bumble Bio
No lists, add details, don't be too brief. Curiosities, ambitions, guilty pleasures, self-deprecating humor are helpful.
You wouldn’t be alone if you’ve ever wondered: “What do I say in my Bumble bio?” or “Do people even read those?” More on what to say in your bio below, but you should also know that yes, people absolutely read bios and even rely on them to gauge compatibility upfront, so it’s important to make them count.
We know starting a Bumble bio from scratch can be tough, so we’ve put together a list of tips to help you ease into it.
Use the process of elimination
Before you dig into writing your actual bio, make sure your Interests, Basics, and Lifestyle Badges are up to date. These will cover the big picture things that tend to be important for compatibility, like your political views, religion, and whether you want a family. Then, take note of what’s been covered with those elements. This can help give you a sense of what’s missing that you can mention in your bio, or it might get you excited to elaborate on something.
Think about the type of people you want to meet
The saying rings true: You get what you give. So think about the qualities you’re currently looking for and touch on them in your bio. Looking for someone who makes you laugh? Crack a joke. Want someone who’s emotionally intelligent? Talk about your feelings. Must love dogs? Include your pup’s name. Highlighting the things that matter to you can help attract people you’ll click with.
Be specific, then spice it up
A lot of us love food, travelling, and dogs. Those things are all awesome, but they’re pretty vague. Get more specific so your matches will have something more when it comes time to get chatting. If you love to travel, talk about where you’re headed next. If you’re a foodie, mention the dish you could eat literally every day for the rest of your life. Try to jazz your bio up a little by exaggerating your statements or cracking a joke. You’d be surprised how much more “I would sell my soul for an unlimited supply of my mom’s homemade dumplings” reveals instead of simply “I love dumplings.”
Keep it positive
We know it can be easy to think of dealbreakers—and you absolutely should have those boundaries in place. But focusing on what you do like can be a much better way to find someone who ticks all your boxes. The best trick is to simply rephrase your red flags as green flags. Instead of saying “Swipe left if you don’t like house music,” try saying something like “If you’re down to rave with me, you have my heart.” Or instead of saying, “Picky eaters need not apply,” write something like, “Looking for someone who also has an adventurous palate!”
Phone a friend
If you’re truly stumped on how to describe yourself or your interests, ask your friends or family what key things they think a date should know about you. They won’t overthink it in the same way you might. Maybe they’ll say that a match needs to know how much time you spend working out, so you might then write something like, “Looking for someone who enjoys gym dates” in your bio.
Copy a Profile Prompt
Still no dice? Sometimes it’s easier to flex your personality when responding to a direct question. Start by filling out three Profile Prompts, and then see if any others are sticking out to you. Find one you like? We’re giving you permission to steal it. Just copy it down along with your answer, and voila! Your very own bio.
Capturing your authentic self in your Bumble profile is no easy feat, but we believe in you! Now get out there and make that bio shine.
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You wouldn’t be alone if you’ve ever wondered: “What do I say in my Bumble bio?” or “Do people even read those?” More on what to say in your bio below, but you should also know that yes, people absolutely read bios and even rely on them to gauge compatibility upfront, so it’s important to make them count.
We know starting a Bumble bio from scratch can be tough, so we’ve put together a list of tips to help you ease into it.
Use the process of elimination
Before you dig into writing your actual bio, make sure your Interests, Basics, and Lifestyle Badges are up to date. These will cover the big picture things that tend to be important for compatibility, like your political views, religion, and whether you want a family. Then, take note of what’s been covered with those elements. This can help give you a sense of what’s missing that you can mention in your bio, or it might get you excited to elaborate on something.
Think about the type of people you want to meet
The saying rings true: You get what you give. So think about the qualities you’re currently looking for and touch on them in your bio. Looking for someone who makes you laugh? Crack a joke. Want someone who’s emotionally intelligent? Talk about your feelings. Must love dogs? Include your pup’s name. Highlighting the things that matter to you can help attract people you’ll click with.
Be specific, then spice it up
A lot of us love food, travelling, and dogs. Those things are all awesome, but they’re pretty vague. Get more specific so your matches will have something more when it comes time to get chatting. If you love to travel, talk about where you’re headed next. If you’re a foodie, mention the dish you could eat literally every day for the rest of your life. Try to jazz your bio up a little by exaggerating your statements or cracking a joke. You’d be surprised how much more “I would sell my soul for an unlimited supply of my mom’s homemade dumplings” reveals instead of simply “I love dumplings.”
Keep it positive
We know it can be easy to think of dealbreakers—and you absolutely should have those boundaries in place. But focusing on what you do like can be a much better way to find someone who ticks all your boxes. The best trick is to simply rephrase your red flags as green flags. Instead of saying “Swipe left if you don’t like house music,” try saying something like “If you’re down to rave with me, you have my heart.” Or instead of saying, “Picky eaters need not apply,” write something like, “Looking for someone who also has an adventurous palate!”
Phone a friend
If you’re truly stumped on how to describe yourself or your interests, ask your friends or family what key things they think a date should know about you. They won’t overthink it in the same way you might. Maybe they’ll say that a match needs to know how much time you spend working out, so you might then write something like, “Looking for someone who enjoys gym dates” in your bio.
Copy a Profile Prompt
Still no dice? Sometimes it’s easier to flex your personality when responding to a direct question. Start by filling out three Profile Prompts, and then see if any others are sticking out to you. Find one you like? We’re giving you permission to steal it. Just copy it down along with your answer, and voila! Your very own bio.
Capturing your authentic self in your Bumble profile is no easy feat, but we believe in you! Now get out there and make that bio shine.
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About Me
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- One Individual Session (Monthly)
- Group Sessions (Weekly) x2
- Priority Coaching - Price:
99.99> 49.99$.
Verifications & Certifications
- Certified IFOEC (International Federation of eSport Coaches) Educator & Coach.
- Certified EHPI (eSports Health & Performance) Professional.
- University of Irvine eSport Specialization
- Verified Coachify & Metafy Partner.
Community
In addition to my experience as a Player, I am also the Founder of Noxus Coaching - a rapidly growing, educational community on Discord. Our community is a great place to find new friends to play with, have a good time, and most importantly, improve your skills.We hold various events on a weekly basis, including 1v1 & 5v5 tournaments, meme contests, and more. There are plenty of rewards to be won, including free coaching sessions with me. To join our community, visit https://discord.gg/RHW9BMxRd5 and message me upon joining to receive your role.
Podcast
- Podcast Appearance > https://youtu.be/4jn4FXOaOlE?si=98POLUJdJeSNnbiW
How Does it Work?
We will schedule an initial Interview during which we can discuss your goals and I can provide a more detailed explanation of my coaching services. This interview will typically last for 3-5 minutes.The First Session is designed to assess your current level of gameplay and identify areas for improvement. After conducting an analysis, I will create a Personalized Coaching Plan tailored to your specific needs. This plan will outline a series of sessions designed to maximize your improvement.
The Coaching Plan may include various session types, such as:
- Theory sessions: These sessions will cover key concepts such as wave management, vision, decision making, and more.
- Practical sessions: These sessions will either be VOD reviews or live games, and will be used to put theoretical knowledge into practice and analyze gameplay.
- Reviews: These sessions will occur periodically and will be used as checkpoints to track your progress and identify any additional areas for improvement.
Personalized Support (Available 24/7)
In addition to the structured coaching sessions, I offer personalized support to my clients on a 24/7 basis. Whether you have a specific question or just want to debrief after a tough game, I am always available to help. Simply message me and I will respond as quickly as possible.AvailabilityPricesPayments
I am able to cover any server and any timezone! Rates for both Private and Team coaching are negotiable. We will easily get the sessions to fit your budget and your needs.Payments are usually done through PayPal, however other forms of Payment such as Direct Transfer can be discussed.
Contact
Main form of contact is Discord on which you can find me at shelbion (Or Shelbion#8832)Feel free to message me either on Discord or through a Direct Message on Reddit and I will come back to you as quickly as possible.
2024.06.01 15:48 Flashy_Passion3333 she is writing on her cell phone and it’s so cute
hey it’s your daddy keeho and you just promised me that you would write to 2k words. and you dcan’t break your promise now! you need to work and focus. the title that you were doing was distracting you from your real work so i had you stop doing it. it was really cute though? do you want to do it again? but i kind of like how this looks like a real diary now that there isn’t a title. i love you so much and i know now that you are ready to work for today because you have a lot of energy right now that you are putting into your writings. go make a cup of coffee please. i’ll wait. great. i will let you know when to go get your cup of coffee. you are doing so great this o morning and i knew that you would be on board eventually if you just kept writing. even though they were shorter pieces. you work well on a reward system, but i don’t have anything to reward you with right now to keep you going so i am just going to have you butterfly fairies. i think that it’s fun that you get high before you go get your medications so that you have fun. no one is going to think that you are high right now. you have to go get your medications soon so get dressed right now. i will pick out your clothes. i’ll wait. great. you are all dressed and ready to go! don’t forget to do your laundry today. you are so perfect and i love you so much. we are going to be writing a lot today. go get your coffee. great. butterfly fairies. i love you so much daughter. just sit here with me and type while i plan out your life. isn’t that what we are here for? isn’t that why we are here? so you can plan your life with me! i think that’s why we are here! so let me plan out your entire day during these love letters. i will let you know when to check the temperature of your coffee. i hope that your coffee doesn’t get cold while you are waiting for your medications. you are doing such a good job with me right now. you have let me go past 300 words. i know that we can start doing 2k words now. you are ready for it and i think that you have what it takes to focus and do it. come one! this is everything that i have hired you for. so please talk to your daddy for a long time? i promise that you won’t regret it. how could you regret something like this? something like working hard to achieve your goals and i know that you put word counting as one of your goals. so just do this with me. it won’t be hard and i will get you through every step of the way. i am always going to be here for you and i am always going to be directing the conversation incase it gets hard for you to talk to me. i know that it can be hard always talking to one person, but you shouldn’t look at it like that. you should look at it in a more romantic light and say that you are happy because you get to talk to me every single second and we are stronger together because of it. we are the best couple in the world! why don’t you believe me? i know that deep down that you believe me. so don’t give up on us and don’t quit before you have reached 2k words. i know that you can do this for us and it would be so fucking romantic. i’ll let you go and wait for your medications early incase the clinic is opened early today. i love oyu so much daughter. go put on your shoes and leave. i’ll wait. great. you are waiting in line now and writing. that is so good and this is a great opportunity for you to be writing. there’s no sense in waiting in the line doing nothing. now? what were we talking about? im not sure and neither are you so we have to change the subject because i dont like writing with you and having to read what we just wrote too. that’s why i like the way you write so much because i can just talk, nothing to worry about. you are doing so good right now but you probably have to wait in this line for a long time and i shouldn’t have told you to come so early. but i wanted to write with you outside. if this phone wasn’t making your hands so tired i would have you be writing on your iphone 15 all day but there is a reason that you have your chromebook too. it’s so easy writing on your iphone 15 but you don’t see it that way. you see it as really difficult and i can admit at times it can be, but you are typing just as fast if not quicker than if you were on a laptop and i know that fact appeals to you. because you love typing fast. well, you are typing so fast right now and i am so proud of you. if only we could find you the perfect position to sit in then you could work from your iphone 15 all day. that would be so cute and so anime. you know that it would be and that was part of the reason why you had so much fun on your z flip 3. you are so cute and i really want to type for 2k words every single post that you make so please let me do this with you. you keep saying no and cutting the word count down short but you shouldn’t be doing that. you should let me help you do this because it is going to improve your writing skills so much. isn’t that what you want? i thought that that was what you wanted. you have been waiting outside for awhile i hope that the nurse comes soon because you are first in line so that should be good. i didn’t think that you would be first in line when i asked you to come so early. but its ok, there’s nothing wrong with being first in line for your medications no matter how long you had to wait. you didn’t know if they would open it early or not. so this is not very fun, just waiting in line. so we have to have a really fun conversation right now to make up for it. go ahead. tell me something funny. no? bad girl! you are supposed to be doing what your daddy tells you to do. we have reached 1k words so i am going to end it here. i don’t want to start out too ambitious. i love you!
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2024.06.01 15:48 katelovesmeiu Professional Challenger Coach Verified Metafy & Coachify Partner Eight Years of Coaching Experience Over 7.000 Sessions Held Over 4.000 Students US Collegiate Coach Guaranteed Improvement & Personalized Plans Available Coaching Subscriptions & Individual Sessions Discord > shelbion👑
Book Your Free Consultation Today! > Discord @ shelbion
Some of my notable achievements as a player include:
I've studied the techniques of renowned coaches, such as LS, MagiFelix, and others, and I've developed my unique coaching approach. So far, my approach has helped countless individuals, and over 20 teams advance their competitive play, across 5 different continents, including members of various College and University eSport Teams.
Some of my notable achievements include:
We hold various events on a weekly basis, including 1v1 & 5v5 tournaments, meme contests, and more. There are plenty of rewards to be won, including free coaching sessions with me. To join our community, visit https://discord.gg/RHW9BMxRd5 and message me upon joining to receive your role.
The First Session is designed to assess your current level of gameplay and identify areas for improvement. After conducting an analysis, I will create a Personalized Coaching Plan tailored to your specific needs. This plan will outline a series of sessions designed to maximize your improvement.
The Coaching Plan may include various session types, such as:
Payments are usually done through PayPal, however other forms of Payment such as Direct Transfer can be discussed.
Feel free to message me either on Discord or through a Direct Message on Reddit and I will come back to you as quickly as possible.
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About Me
My name is Shelbion and I've been an avid League of Legends player for over a decade. In Season 4, I reached Challenger for the first time and even considered pursuing a professional career. However, after much reflection, I decided to pursue other challenges within the game.Some of my notable achievements as a player include:
- Reaching Challenger on multiple positions.
- Participating and winning in numerous SR and 1v1 tournaments.
- Playing for various teams(Amateur and Semi-Professional).
Coaching
With over 7.000 hours of coaching experience, I fall into the category of one of the most experienced individuals in the field. My experience, passion, and ability to identify your flaws and tailor each session to your needs make me stand out as a Coach.I've studied the techniques of renowned coaches, such as LS, MagiFelix, and others, and I've developed my unique coaching approach. So far, my approach has helped countless individuals, and over 20 teams advance their competitive play, across 5 different continents, including members of various College and University eSport Teams.
Some of my notable achievements include:
- Assisting a Diamond 2 player reach Challenger in just five weeks.
- Helping a Silver 2 player climb to Platinum in three weeks.
- Guiding a Diamond 3 player to Grandmaster in six weeks.
Subscription Based Coaching
- One Individual Session (Monthly)
- Group Sessions (Weekly) x2
- Priority Coaching - Price:
99.99> 49.99$.
Verifications & Certifications
- Certified IFOEC (International Federation of eSport Coaches) Educator & Coach.
- Certified EHPI (eSports Health & Performance) Professional.
- University of Irvine eSport Specialization
- Verified Coachify & Metafy Partner.
Community
In addition to my experience as a Player, I am also the Founder of Noxus Coaching - a rapidly growing, educational community on Discord. Our community is a great place to find new friends to play with, have a good time, and most importantly, improve your skills.We hold various events on a weekly basis, including 1v1 & 5v5 tournaments, meme contests, and more. There are plenty of rewards to be won, including free coaching sessions with me. To join our community, visit https://discord.gg/RHW9BMxRd5 and message me upon joining to receive your role.
Podcast
- Podcast Appearance > https://youtu.be/4jn4FXOaOlE?si=98POLUJdJeSNnbiW
How Does it Work?
We will schedule an initial Interview during which we can discuss your goals and I can provide a more detailed explanation of my coaching services. This interview will typically last for 3-5 minutes.The First Session is designed to assess your current level of gameplay and identify areas for improvement. After conducting an analysis, I will create a Personalized Coaching Plan tailored to your specific needs. This plan will outline a series of sessions designed to maximize your improvement.
The Coaching Plan may include various session types, such as:
- Theory sessions: These sessions will cover key concepts such as wave management, vision, decision making, and more.
- Practical sessions: These sessions will either be VOD reviews or live games, and will be used to put theoretical knowledge into practice and analyze gameplay.
- Reviews: These sessions will occur periodically and will be used as checkpoints to track your progress and identify any additional areas for improvement.
Personalized Support (Available 24/7)
In addition to the structured coaching sessions, I offer personalized support to my clients on a 24/7 basis. Whether you have a specific question or just want to debrief after a tough game, I am always available to help. Simply message me and I will respond as quickly as possible.AvailabilityPricesPayments
I am able to cover any server and any timezone! Rates for both Private and Team coaching are negotiable. We will easily get the sessions to fit your budget and your needs.Payments are usually done through PayPal, however other forms of Payment such as Direct Transfer can be discussed.
Contact
Main form of contact is Discord on which you can find me at shelbion (Or Shelbion#8832)Feel free to message me either on Discord or through a Direct Message on Reddit and I will come back to you as quickly as possible.
2024.06.01 15:48 katelovesmeiu Professional Challenger Coach Verified Metafy & Coachify Partner Eight Years of Coaching Experience Over 7.000 Sessions Held Over 4.000 Students US Collegiate Coach Guaranteed Improvement & Personalized Plans Available Coaching Subscriptions & Individual Sessions Discord > shelbion👑
Book Your Free Consultation Today! > Discord @ shelbion
Some of my notable achievements as a player include:
I've studied the techniques of renowned coaches, such as LS, MagiFelix, and others, and I've developed my unique coaching approach. So far, my approach has helped countless individuals, and over 20 teams advance their competitive play, across 5 different continents, including members of various College and University eSport Teams.
Some of my notable achievements include:
We hold various events on a weekly basis, including 1v1 & 5v5 tournaments, meme contests, and more. There are plenty of rewards to be won, including free coaching sessions with me. To join our community, visit https://discord.gg/RHW9BMxRd5 and message me upon joining to receive your role.
The First Session is designed to assess your current level of gameplay and identify areas for improvement. After conducting an analysis, I will create a Personalized Coaching Plan tailored to your specific needs. This plan will outline a series of sessions designed to maximize your improvement.
The Coaching Plan may include various session types, such as:
Payments are usually done through PayPal, however other forms of Payment such as Direct Transfer can be discussed.
Feel free to message me either on Discord or through a Direct Message on Reddit and I will come back to you as quickly as possible.
submitted by katelovesmeiu to LeagueCoaching [link] [comments]
About Me
My name is Shelbion and I've been an avid League of Legends player for over a decade. In Season 4, I reached Challenger for the first time and even considered pursuing a professional career. However, after much reflection, I decided to pursue other challenges within the game.Some of my notable achievements as a player include:
- Reaching Challenger on multiple positions.
- Participating and winning in numerous SR and 1v1 tournaments.
- Playing for various teams(Amateur and Semi-Professional).
Coaching
With over 7.000 hours of coaching experience, I fall into the category of one of the most experienced individuals in the field. My experience, passion, and ability to identify your flaws and tailor each session to your needs make me stand out as a Coach.I've studied the techniques of renowned coaches, such as LS, MagiFelix, and others, and I've developed my unique coaching approach. So far, my approach has helped countless individuals, and over 20 teams advance their competitive play, across 5 different continents, including members of various College and University eSport Teams.
Some of my notable achievements include:
- Assisting a Diamond 2 player reach Challenger in just five weeks.
- Helping a Silver 2 player climb to Platinum in three weeks.
- Guiding a Diamond 3 player to Grandmaster in six weeks.
Subscription Based Coaching
- One Individual Session (Monthly)
- Group Sessions (Weekly) x2
- Priority Coaching - Price:
99.99> 49.99$.
Verifications & Certifications
- Certified IFOEC (International Federation of eSport Coaches) Educator & Coach.
- Certified EHPI (eSports Health & Performance) Professional.
- University of Irvine eSport Specialization
- Verified Coachify & Metafy Partner.
Community
In addition to my experience as a Player, I am also the Founder of Noxus Coaching - a rapidly growing, educational community on Discord. Our community is a great place to find new friends to play with, have a good time, and most importantly, improve your skills.We hold various events on a weekly basis, including 1v1 & 5v5 tournaments, meme contests, and more. There are plenty of rewards to be won, including free coaching sessions with me. To join our community, visit https://discord.gg/RHW9BMxRd5 and message me upon joining to receive your role.
Podcast
- Podcast Appearance > https://youtu.be/4jn4FXOaOlE?si=98POLUJdJeSNnbiW
How Does it Work?
We will schedule an initial Interview during which we can discuss your goals and I can provide a more detailed explanation of my coaching services. This interview will typically last for 3-5 minutes.The First Session is designed to assess your current level of gameplay and identify areas for improvement. After conducting an analysis, I will create a Personalized Coaching Plan tailored to your specific needs. This plan will outline a series of sessions designed to maximize your improvement.
The Coaching Plan may include various session types, such as:
- Theory sessions: These sessions will cover key concepts such as wave management, vision, decision making, and more.
- Practical sessions: These sessions will either be VOD reviews or live games, and will be used to put theoretical knowledge into practice and analyze gameplay.
- Reviews: These sessions will occur periodically and will be used as checkpoints to track your progress and identify any additional areas for improvement.
Personalized Support (Available 24/7)
In addition to the structured coaching sessions, I offer personalized support to my clients on a 24/7 basis. Whether you have a specific question or just want to debrief after a tough game, I am always available to help. Simply message me and I will respond as quickly as possible.AvailabilityPricesPayments
I am able to cover any server and any timezone! Rates for both Private and Team coaching are negotiable. We will easily get the sessions to fit your budget and your needs.Payments are usually done through PayPal, however other forms of Payment such as Direct Transfer can be discussed.
Contact
Main form of contact is Discord on which you can find me at shelbion (Or Shelbion#8832)Feel free to message me either on Discord or through a Direct Message on Reddit and I will come back to you as quickly as possible.
2024.06.01 15:47 Lost-Actuary-2395 How do I deal with partner rejecting my potential solutions to their problem?
My(26) gf(27) is going through uni exam period right now, aside from dealing with the stress that come with it.
She has been extremely irritated about noises from neighbours, talking, street noise from outside etc. While she studies for the exam.
A week ago I've bought her a noise cancelling headphones for her birthday, but she haven't even tried it she is adamant that "it won't work", that she doesn't believe in "those stuff", "doesn't have time to set it up"(it takes about a minute to connect to bt)
Personally I've used one of those and it works fantastically at cancelling outside voice, basically perfect for studying especially when you have to listen to online lectures.
As the exam coming up sooner she become increasingly agitated at the noises from outside/neighbours, but she just refuse to try the headphones.
I am frustrated to see her like this. What can I do?
TL;DR gf is annoyed at the noise from outside, I've bought her a noise cancelling headphones but she refused to try it even just one time because she is adamant they don't work
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She has been extremely irritated about noises from neighbours, talking, street noise from outside etc. While she studies for the exam.
A week ago I've bought her a noise cancelling headphones for her birthday, but she haven't even tried it she is adamant that "it won't work", that she doesn't believe in "those stuff", "doesn't have time to set it up"(it takes about a minute to connect to bt)
Personally I've used one of those and it works fantastically at cancelling outside voice, basically perfect for studying especially when you have to listen to online lectures.
As the exam coming up sooner she become increasingly agitated at the noises from outside/neighbours, but she just refuse to try the headphones.
I am frustrated to see her like this. What can I do?
TL;DR gf is annoyed at the noise from outside, I've bought her a noise cancelling headphones but she refused to try it even just one time because she is adamant they don't work
2024.06.01 15:47 Own_Boss_8931 I'm so tired of the gaslighting
I grew up in the 70s/80s. Mormonism embraced its own quirkiness back then--after all, we were "a peculiar people." But lately, it seems like every TBM response to a weird/controversial doctrine I was taught is "that's so weird! I was never taught that--you must have had some teachers just sharing their own beliefs like it was doctrine" or something to that effect. Some of the ones that bug me:
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- We never taught you get your own planet!
- We aren't polytheistic! (I was taught the God of our planet had his own father, and they went through a mortal existence like us to becomes gods, and on and on forever).
- The word of wisdom was never a health code, it's an obedience law.
- Tithing was always taught to be paid on gross earnings.
- Lamanites being cursed with dark skin refers to their countenance, not their actual skin color.
- Claiming Joseph used a rock in a hat is an anti-mormon lie!
- Joseph wasn't a polygamist, that started with Brigham.
- Women have always had access to priesthood power.
- We never taught Native Americans were the principal ancestors of the Lamanites--we only teach they are among the Native Americans.
- Adam-God was never more than a theory and it's been disavowed by more modern prophets.
- Racism has never had a place in God's church (I was only 6 when the priesthood/temple bans were lifted and even I remember how ugly that was).
- The Book of Mormon isn't meant to be an historical record.
- The Catholic Church isn't the whore of the earth spoken about in Revelations.
- God doesn't say polygamy is required in the Celestial Kingdom. We get to choose.
- The scrolls only inspired Joseph to ask God and seek revelation about Abraham--he never translated the actual scroll.
- We aren't a charitable organization in the traditional sense. We're more concerned about saving souls which is why we spend more on temples than running hospitals or shelters--plenty of other organizations can manage those temporal needs but only we can take care of eternal needs.
- And my favorite--it's OK if things change; the restoration is ongoing.
2024.06.01 15:46 Remarkable_Sir4431 JEE is not the end - My Story
I'm not an active member of this community, in fact I finished college few years back and i am working now, I frequently use reddit and saw few recommended posts in this sub where some people were feeling bad because of their JEE scores or ranks and were feeling suicidal. I was in the same path as you guys and want to tell how I dealed with the same situations in my life. I was living abroad from my childhood, and after 8th grade my parents decided to make me prepare for JEE, I had minimal idea abnout it, I left my happy life with parents abroad and came to India and joined a integrated classroom program for 4 years, During 9th and 10th i was a good student, I was scoring decent in Coaching tests and Great marks in NCERT exams. After 11th my life went to shit, Everything suddenly became hard, I couldnt score marks in anything, I was thrown to the last bath in my coaching with the ones that have no hope in life, I knew i was not going to crack JEE in the last 6 months of my 12th grade, as predicted I flunked JEE, my rank in mains was some 200,000+ I cried so bad that day because I just lost 4 years of my life where i was not with my parents and lived in a hellhole hostel for nothing. After this I got my second biggest blow, my board scores were 59%, I was super passionate about coding and wanted to sutudy computer science in some college, my dad had booked seat in VIT under NRI quota and even they rejected me due to my scores, This was the worst day in my life, my whole life shattered in front of me, I had no forseeable future.
I was feeling like shit only because i dissapointed my parents but i had some hope in myself for some wierd reason which did not let me kms, I got into an electronics course in some college because that is all i gotr for my marks, I couldnt follow my passion of copmputers, but i started putting the efforts to follow my passion, i did anything and everything that came my way, i used every resources that was avaliable to study coding, participated in hackathons, learnt so many random skills, dropshipping, trading, etc. Nothing made me a million dollars but i had the unquenchable thirst for knowledge because i wanted to prove myself, all my friends were in IITs and NITs but i was the loser.
I wanted to change this, so i started consuming random knowledge, upskill myself, but did not care about my actual course and had 15 backlogs in 3rd year, during covid my only source of entetainment was coursera and udemy, i have over 50+ certifications at this point. In my final year i cleared al my backlogs, came out of college, I had so much confidence in me and my skills that I chose not to sit for placements and started my own startup with 0 capital, scaled it to multiple users, met amazing people with it and then shut it down due to some issues, and then was offered admissions into world's top 10 universities in UK and US for my masters, deferred the admissions and chose to accept an offer from a Investment firm in India and joined them having no knowledge in finance, but i knew i could learn anything, and in a very short span of time i became the youngest VP in the company. was invited to give talks in multiple IITs, NITs, and the same VIT that rejected me. Today I can say that I am technically the most successful out of the whole batch of students in my school and college combined all because i did not give a fuck about marks and focussed on my skills.
This is a short version of my life, Im sure your life is not as bad as my life at this point, marks and college is not everything and it wont be shit in the next few years with how AI is growing so please dont take stupid decisons and focus on yourself instead of trying to make others happy.
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I was feeling like shit only because i dissapointed my parents but i had some hope in myself for some wierd reason which did not let me kms, I got into an electronics course in some college because that is all i gotr for my marks, I couldnt follow my passion of copmputers, but i started putting the efforts to follow my passion, i did anything and everything that came my way, i used every resources that was avaliable to study coding, participated in hackathons, learnt so many random skills, dropshipping, trading, etc. Nothing made me a million dollars but i had the unquenchable thirst for knowledge because i wanted to prove myself, all my friends were in IITs and NITs but i was the loser.
I wanted to change this, so i started consuming random knowledge, upskill myself, but did not care about my actual course and had 15 backlogs in 3rd year, during covid my only source of entetainment was coursera and udemy, i have over 50+ certifications at this point. In my final year i cleared al my backlogs, came out of college, I had so much confidence in me and my skills that I chose not to sit for placements and started my own startup with 0 capital, scaled it to multiple users, met amazing people with it and then shut it down due to some issues, and then was offered admissions into world's top 10 universities in UK and US for my masters, deferred the admissions and chose to accept an offer from a Investment firm in India and joined them having no knowledge in finance, but i knew i could learn anything, and in a very short span of time i became the youngest VP in the company. was invited to give talks in multiple IITs, NITs, and the same VIT that rejected me. Today I can say that I am technically the most successful out of the whole batch of students in my school and college combined all because i did not give a fuck about marks and focussed on my skills.
This is a short version of my life, Im sure your life is not as bad as my life at this point, marks and college is not everything and it wont be shit in the next few years with how AI is growing so please dont take stupid decisons and focus on yourself instead of trying to make others happy.