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I was in class 9 then . I had a huge crush on a girl near my house, she was definitely the most beautiful girl i knew that time, i was average looking though. I even confessed my feelings to her but she said she has a boyfriend already and she can't be with me so we started to talk less but my hormones were too high. I used to masturbate a lot watching porn and imagining her. I had already lost hope for any kind of relationship with her. After few months one of her friend revealed that she had a feeling for me too. So, we started to talk again. Few weeks passed, we both started grow feeling for each other , kissing every now and then become normal and we had already started sexting. Now was the time i asked her for real sex. When i asked her for sex, she denied of anything physical, she said she will break up if i ask for such things again. I also thought it was too early for this. But couple of weeks later, she started to act weird, and all of a sudden she said that she wanted to have sex with me. I don't know what happened within weeks but this was my dream come true moment and i was never going to miss it. The thing is i knew her parents, and i knew that they are very strict so she had to lie to her parents. So she lied about extra class on Saturday.
One of my close school friend used to live with his elder brother renting a room. I requested him a lot and finally he agreed, he somehow managed me his own room for few hours that day. I had already managed the protection/condom.
Now, fast forward. We started to kiss first. It lasted 2-3 minutes. She started to take off my clothes and said me to uncloth her, i started. To be honest, my hands were shivering but i took off her clothes and we both were naked in front of each other. My penis was erect, straight as an arrow pointing towards her. Her lower lips were covered with pubic hair and it was dark pink. I was shocked by her boobs, it was kinda bigger for that age.
I forgot to tell that she was about an year elder than me.
To be honest she looked more beautiful than i imagined her while masturbating. I didn't know much, what to do, what not to do. So i directly touched her nipples and I can't lie how good they were, so soft. I didn't know about blowjb and fingering at that time, She started to play with my penis with her soft hands and i was really enjoying it. Within 3-4 minutes i ejaculated. I was feeling low now. I was still seducing her in various ways. We had a good conversation for a while. Couple of hours later, i was up with full energy and she wanted me inside her and so did I. She put protection on my penis , I tried to get inside her. I thought it will be painful for her as it's her first time. So i went slow but she seemed to be pretty much comfortable , she was enjoying it too. So i didn't think much and went all in. It was my first time and i remember it didn't even last 10 minutes . We both were tired, i was more tired. After sex , she revealed that she already had sex couple of times with her ex few months back and i didn't know how to react. I didn't talk much after that. That was it we cleaned up and went back to our home. We had sex few more times after that but eventually she broke up with me .
Today, Seven years later, we don't even chat now. she is recently married. Her husband is a civil servant.
It's been years. I am doing good in my life , but sometimes i feel i want to be with her. I still want to have physical relation with her.

I’m writing this to hear if I should honestly be worried…let me get straight to the point…

1. I had unprotected oral sex with four men in my lifetime
   
2. Been intimate and had relationships with 3 men in my lifetime
   
3. When I’m intimate, I always have protected sex.
   

4, In total, I’ve had sex (including orally) with 4 men in my lifetime.

1. I have a lot of pubic hair and get ingrown hairs a lot/they reappear because of it (I think). I now have two painless bumps/scars (they look like ingrown hairs and can possibly be ingrown hairs, boils, cysts, etc). one located outside on one of my vaginal lips and one inside the inner lip of my vagina near the opening (if you look at my post history I had one near my clitoris but it went away). Both I squeezed out puss and both ended up scaring.
   
2. I bruise easily especially on my legs and arms. Don’t know if that has to do with any STDs. Probably just deficiency who knows.
   
3. I have acne on my face, red patches that appear out of nowhere, and the skin on my face peels sometimes.
   
4. I get anxious and always assume the worst case scenario when I feel something is off or I’m overthinking like I am now.
   
5. Every time I poop, I stretch my anus to the point I open a cut (another thing that might have to do with deficiency) but better to ask just in case.
   
6. Because I had sex today, I realized before my partner inserted himself into me that he might’ve rubbed the surface of my anus (the cut) before putting on the condom and I’m worried along with possibly getting pregnant as well (I asked on a different sub about the pregnancy).
   

That’s all I can come up with for now. Please if you can give me feedback and if I should be worried. Thank you whoever reads this!

Hello, I am a 27F who was previously very athletic and into heavy weightlifting. Symptoms started in 2021 and fast forward to now and I can’t weight lift, can barely do my work so relying mainly on my partner, and basically feeling like I’m falling apart.
Family history

• Grandmother has severe RA

Medicines:

• Norethindrone birth control, imitrex/sumatriptan, Allegra, just started taking quercetin, tumeric, vitamin D + K, and magnesium. Was on 40mg of prednisone for about a month and recently finished a fast taper last week.

Prior to 2021

• Always had some form of feeling sick when stressed, grandma with RA said she faced similar symptoms when she was younger
• Dealt with radiating pain in right leg (pinched nerve feeling), low back pain here and there which I thought was due to weak erector spinae and imbalance due to scoliosis because once I started weight training back aching went away

2021

• May: Overworked at job and developed severe debilating joint pain. Couldn’t even lift 10lbs and starting limping because knee was hurting so badly. Saw a primary care who ran blood tests (C reactive, RF, and anti-ccp) all came back normal so the doc brushed it off thinking it was just my body’s response to stress and because I’m young I’m probably fine. Quit my job and 3 months later went back to feeling normal. Took x-rays of knees, hips and shoulders. Sports medicine doc said knees showed some wear and tear, shoulder showed more wear and tear from overuse injury and called it osteoarthritis in the shoulders, hips were slightly uneven but nothing too remarkable
• Nov: got COVID that resulted in lost of smell and taste, hair loss, pretty bad brain fog, etc.

2022

• July: Covid again, but mild and still have memory issues
• August: Joint pain and feeling of overtraining without working out started appearing (would appear in cycles/phases where I would suddenly not be able to workout and then be fine for a month then back to not feeling well for the rest of 2022)
• Sudden major mood swings (which later found out linked to high cortisol levels), migraines becoming more frequent but still manageable, increased heart rate randomly while at rest, frequent dizzy spells (I would need to sit down sometimes) but always felt like in some form of lightheaded or dizzy state and just learned to adjust as my new “normal”
• Nov- Jan (’23) Severe unknown respiratory virus that lead to bell’s palsy (recovered now), found enlarged pituitary on MRI when looking at the bells palsy as well as herniated disc with nerve compression in neck (which now explained the constant pain in shoulders on top of overuse injury)
• Sometime in 2022 I started having some back pain but it was different than what I’d previously experienced. Pain in shoulders started flaring again as well

2023

• Jan-March: Tested high on cortisol multiple times and high ACTH once, looked into Cushing’s diagnosis from here until Feb 2024
• May: Covid pretty bad for a third time. I had a high fever, severe body aches, etc. Saw Endoniologist but was moving so they advised I continued care at my next location
• June/July: started to feel better and hoped it was just my body recovering from the 4 viruses
• September: symptoms appeared again, migraine frequency now increasing to a couple times a month
• Oct: overtraining feeling getting worse, at this point I was not working out as often due to the previous times I wasn’t feeling good I adjusted my training to only a few times a week if that.
• December: Migraine has increased to once a week, did not experience any period of feeling better like I did in 2022 where I had phases of feeling better.
  • Saw a new sports medicine doctor for radiating leg pain. Also noted I was feeling spine pain (not muscle but pain in my spine). X-ray didn’t show much so they ordered an MRI and found “L5-S1 mild degenerative disc diseases with small left suarticular zone/foraminal disc protrusion without nerve root compression” even though it stated no nerve compression the doc believed it was still most likely the cause of my leg pain and did a steroid injection in the SI joint which helped for a month but couldn’t explain some of the spine pain I was having. MRI also found “mild joint arthropathy” in L3-L4, “mild hypertrophic facet joint arthropathy” in L4-L5, “left subarticular zone disc protrusion with left foramina extension superimposed on mild diffuse disc bulge. Mild narrowing of the left lateral recess. Mild facet joint arthropathy” in L5-S1.

2024

• Jan: Migraines increase to 2-3 times a week so started on triptans as doc thought it was the same migraines not fully going away. First triptan didn’t really work so started a second one (sumatriptan) and migraine would still last for 2 days (took one pill first day and would help but next day still lingered so would take a second dose and then it would go away). Working out has now changed to be bare minimum (light weight machines)
• Feb: Tested high cortisol again on blood (42, end limit 19), and one salivary cortisol came back high, low vitamin D and increased A1C from October. Referred to endocrinologist again. Endocrinologist PA said severity of symptoms wouldn’t be cushings. Did a dexamethasone test which came back normal and suggested I see Rheumatologist for possible seronegative RA (I didn’t tell the endocrinologist about my previous RA check so when they mentioned if I had heard of RA and I told them I tried testing and it came back negative they then told me about seronegative RA)
• March: Joint symptoms and feeling of overtraining severely increased. Stopped being able to lift weights including machines. Tried to still play volleyball but can barely play. Joint pain now prominent in fingers, wrist and elbows, on top of knees and shoulder pain. Low spine very noticeably in pain. (Not muscular pain, literally pain on the spine). Morning stiffness has increased, back would sometimes feel “stuck” and fingers would ache pretty bad. Weather was also very cold and snowing while randomly switching to 70s and back to snowing which did not help. Migraines calmed down to 2 times a month.
• April: Saw NP at rheumatology who ordered tests and leaning towards RA or AS, more so AS. Placed on high dose of prednisone. Started with 20mg but didn’t help so increased to 40mg which helped (not completely but did notice a difference). On prednisone for about a month (into May). NP took x-rays of hands, hip and feet and said they looked normal. Ordered blood tests which got delayed a month (just received them will note below)
• May/now: Just finished prednisone (was a fast taper from 40 to 30, 20,10,5,5,5) and feeling the pain in my back come back as well as my fingers, elbows, etc. Migraine also came back a lot worse, had a three day long strong migraine that didn’t respond to sumatriptan and had to go to urgent care for a shot. The shot got rid of the migraine for a few days but feeling another one coming back less than a week later.
  • Got MRI with contrast of the pelvic and found “mild pubic symphyseal arthritis with osteophytic ridging and mild degenerative marrow signal change” and again the L5-S1 spondylosis
  • Due to the messed up labs, I had to get my blood drawn for these test while on 40mg on predinose. These were the notable results: High white blood cell count (11.8 x10 3/UL, reference range 3.8-10.8 x 10 3/UL), Low neutrophils (32%, reference range 42-75%), High lymphocytes (65%, reference range 16-52%), High lympocytes (7.7 x 10 3/UL, reference range 1.2-3.4 x 10 3/UL), Low Carbon Dioxide level (23 nmol/L, reference range 24-33 nmol/L). Rheumatoid factor was normal ( <9 IU/ml, reference range 0-12 IU/ml), C-reactive protein extended range was normal (<0.03 mg/dL, reference range 0-0.5 mg/dL). Erythrocyte sedimentation rate normal (4 mm/Hr, reference range 0-19 mm/Hr). Anti-CCP normal (<16 units, reference range <20 negative). My anti-ccp in 2021 was 3 so while it’s still within normal range it did increase. Hep A antibody abnormal (reactive, however I’m pretty sure I received the Hep A vaccine)
  • I feel like having my tests done while on 40mg of prednisone affected my results in a negative way but I’m not sure if it actually affects them or not

Any insights are greatly appreciated as my symptoms are getting noticeably worse with no answers.

I spent over a year just working on myself. in that year i stopped shaving and stopped wearing a bra. both of these things have made me feel happier and more confident.
however, i’m hopping back into the dating world and i’m a little insecure. i only trim my pubic hair and don’t shave my legs nor armpits. i think a lot of the hairless rhetoric is founded in pornagraphy, an industry that disgusts me overall. i’m personally content with my body hair, but i’m nervous that others will find it disgusting. even some more “progressive” men, i’ve noticed, can be taken aback by it. what do i do to bolster my confidence, especially in the vulnerablility of sex. thanks all!

I’m going to keep this as short and simple as possible. But about 2 or 3 times I have found out that one of my two SD’s(10 and 12) is shaving their privates with my razor whenever I leave it in the bathroom. I have a feeling it is my 12YO SD since she’s older and more mature than the 10YO. The first two times I let it go because I was just really uncomfortable with the fact that it was being used. This is the 3rd time my razor was used to shave someone’s privates and left caked full of hair in the shower. I have a feeling BM has not educated either of them on shaving among other hygiene things. I don’t want to step on BM’s toes and speak to her daughters about something so personal but I don’t want them to be left in the dark either about things like this. At first I was pissed off and utterly grossed out then I remembered being their ages and going through puberty and hating that I had pubic hair. Would it be appropriate for me to talk to them about this? We have a relatively good relationship and I have spoken to them both about periods before as they live with us most of the time and SD(12) even came to me first when she got her period for the first time since it happened to be at our house. I don’t want to make them uncomfortable or make them feel embarrassed or awkward but this is getting to be too much.

Sorry if this is the wrong sub but the teachers at AdvancedRunning told me off for asking there.
So, I was wondering why nobody talks about pubes when talking about running training? What’s the scientific consensus on this? Cos I’ve always felt like I run faster when I have no pubes at all, but then, whenever I picture a really fast runner, like Daniel Noggins, or Billyan Hornet, I always picture them with a LOT of pubic hairs. What’s the deal pls?

I started with an uncomfortable feeling right at the top of the vulva, like the very top before it opens on 3/27, it felt similar to when I had ureaplasma back in 2022. Went to get tested & was BV+ & did metro. gel. Symptom persisted, got tested for mycoplasma/ureaplasma & tested positive on 4/18. Did Cipro & Levaquin because results showed those meds would be best. No complete relief from this feeling. I went last week to get re-tested for everything & now I have BV again (atopobium vaginae, not gardnerella) & a UTI (e. choli) I’m finishing up Flagyl & Amoxocillin for the infections still with no relief from this one & only symptom. The only thing I can think of is that it’s the hair causing the irritation. I waxed 2-3 times BEFORE my symptom started in March so I’ve been letting it grow because I didn’t want to cause more damage. It’s been 2.5 months of hair growth & it’s on & off throughout the day. I wake up & don’t have it but once I start moving around it starts up again. Does this sound more like it could be my hair rather than a symptom of my infections? I’m about to go on 2 months with this symptom & I’m SOOOO tired & over it.

I am a 15 year old boy (almost 16), and i think i have delayed puberty because im 5’3 and have just a bit of pubic hair on the base of my penis but no armpt hair or other things. And i hate it for multiple reasons 1 because im the smallest of the clas, 2 i can get no girlfriend, 3 i workout more than a year but i cant put on muscle, 4 my sister who is 1 year younger than me is taller than me, 5 everybody thinks im 12-13 and a bunch of other stuff, it just sucks people make jokes of me etc. It just makes me depressed and i cant enjoy thinks like i used to when no body hitted puberty. Ive gone to te docter and he gave me a refer to a specialist so i have a appointment there, but its with my mom, and i really dont want to get alward questions, and show my genitals to the doctor. I dont know what to do anymore. Please help me
Thank you

So let me start off by saying I can overthink things. But this has me wondering.
My wife and I have been married 14 years and have kids. I am a bit older than her. 45m 36f For awhile now I’ve felt like she’s cold to me. We don’t really argue too much but it just feels off. Sex is usually about once sometimes twice a week. I’ve just had an uneasy feeling though. She started losing weight recently and started shaving her pubic hair again and buying sexy panties. The other night we had sex and she left them on. Of course they got stained and crusty from the activity.
That day(earlier) she wore a different pair of sexy panties to work( said she didn’t want visible panty lines, understandably). Just now I got to thinking about things and decided to look in the laundry. That pair she wore to work was pretty crusty as well, with her normal underwear not being crusty. However just like guys can get random erections, females can get randomly wet. What’s everyone’s thoughts on this? Should I ask her about it? I don’t know when she’s really have time to cheat but I suppose where there’s a Will there’s a way. She has been carpooling with a coworker as of late and her job is pretty laid back as far as letting her leave when she needs to. I really need some advice here. But the panties as well as the cold shoulder and her not initiating sex has me wondering

So I did get a diagnosis last month after seeing the rheumatologist, and she asked about hair loss. I did tell her that my hair has lost at least a third of its original thickness in the last 5 years or so (and I am very lucky to have had ridiculously thick hair to start, so I still have a lot), but I never even considered mentioning body hair. I've only ever seen info on face and scalp hair, so I mentioned the thinning and also that a lot of my eyelashes are gone.
I've never been a super hairy person, but most of the hair I did have on my arms and legs is gone - my forearms have only very sparse fuzz now, and I can go weeks without shaving my legs without it being noticeable to anyone without close inspection - but the biggest issue is, well my pubic hair. I started losing it several years ago, basically in exactly the one place you'd want to HAVE hair down there, and currently there's a completely bald patch. It's not something I ever think about much just because it's not like it's something I usually see other than when I shower or get dressed, or that anyone else sees. I'm assuming I should mention it when I go for my follow up in two weeks? Is this type of hair loss consistent with lupus alopecia?

I forgot if its a comedy or skit but i remember they have this trivia game where they have to answer right if they fail someone is gonna wax their pubic hair and theres also woman in that portion. I don't know if they really do wax it cuz its covered and only their upper body is shown.

Last week I signed up to get my facial hair laser removed. Presenting more fem is something that I've been kinda experimenting with for a while but only in the past year have I actually started seriously changing my appearance to try and appear cuter and more feminine. And even though every time I look in the mirror and see beard shadow I get this kinda grossed out and creepy feeling, I still worry that presenting fem is just a phase I'm going through and I'll regret getting it removed 15-20 years from now.
Unlike leg and pubic hair, which I don't think I'll ever regret getting laser removed, facial hair is a big commitment to looking more feminine imo. And I really just don't want to regret not being able to look more masculine 15-20 years from now. I've seen people who get beard transplants because they want to look more manly and I can't help but feel like I'm throwing something away by doing this, but at the same time I don't want to hold onto it if I'm not enjoying it at all.
I'm not actually scheduled to get it removed until September at the recommendation of the laser specialist, so I have plenty of time to think it over and change my mind if need be. I'm not asking if I'm making the right decision here because I know nobody can really answer that for me but... am I making the right decision here? Most fems I think would be ecstatic about getting facial hair removed, and the fact that I don't feel that way feels like evidence that I'm making the wrong decision. At the same time, I really just don't like the way it looks. I've been plucking it for almost 8 months now because shaving just wasn't doing enough for me, and even then I still get bothered when I see the faint outline of it.

Healthy 30yo male. Recently I have started experiencing something kind of odd. I have a mild history of anxiety and panic attacks that lead me to be put on a beta blocker to keep my heart rate down. My heart is seemingly healthy after testing.
Anyway, I asked my cardiologist if it was ok to taper off it and I did start to however I went back on it because of the following symptoms, they also haven’t gone away really even though I went back on the beta blocker.
Basically whenever I get the “adrenaline” from being nervous/anxious I get a pulsing sharp pain where my pubic hair is. It seems to be more on one side sometimes but sometimes not. But it generally pulsates a sharp pain for a few seconds inside that area and then goes away. Once I went on the beta blocker again it doesn’t seem to be happening as often however when I had sex tonight and I ejaculated, I had the same occurrence of the momentary pulsating pain in that pubic hair area (it’s not actually the hair that hurts it’s deeper inside but still the front).
I mentioned it in passing to my doc when we talked about other things and he didn’t seem concerned. Should I be more concerned about this?
I first experienced it about 2-3 days after tapering to half of the beta blocker. I went on a walk, started having the pulsating pain half way through for a few seconds both in a small area that I’d describe as where the left chest meets the armpit and then in the public area. My right arm started to also feel a little bit weird. I’ve had cardiac ct scoring, cardiac mri, and echo done so I don’t think I was having a heart attack unless I have some crazy artery blocked that was missed.

I rarely ever got in growns on my pubic area. I went for a wax 2 times months ago and now I get them constantly all over the area. I haven’t waxed in over 3 months and I’ve removed the hair several times since then. They just keep coming back. Everytime I think they’re going to clear up more come in. They are causing scars, and they hurt a lot. Any advice? I exfoliate with the fur finger mitt 3-4x a week and use the fur serum. Help please!

So i’d say i have quite a lot of hair on my pubic area, thighs and butt area and i really don’t like it but i’m wondering if shaving is just a personal preference or if it actually does anything for the body or if i should just keep it.

I think it’s a form of psoriasis, but I’m unsure. This is just under my arm above my waist, it’s also present at the edge of my pubic hair area, and seems to be slowly spreading across my torso one bit at a time.
Not itchy, nor painful, no other symptoms. Good overall health (though admittedly a little over weight)
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Anyone else feel the need to write down how insane the behavior is? My mom just called me “cheap and selfish” for not paying for a Saint Bernard’s vet visits that she unexpectedly brought through the door yesterday. My disabled brother was gagging from the dog smell, the cats are terrified and so is the Pomeranian. She can’t even pay bills on time and now will fork over (or expects me to) 150-200 dollars a week on dog food. The weird thing she does is make impulsive choices that align with her own plans or wishes, and then expect all the children to just smile and clean and pay for things. I clean the house! Not her! So yeah, another one for the heinous record.
Other entries include her leaving pubic hair all over the bath tub for me to clean and destroying me sister’s razor with pubes, and then she’s also left her Summer’s Eve vag wipes for me to clean. She’s kind of evil 🤷‍♀️ I’m just going to keep building the heinous record, because if I don’t, I might go mad before I can leave :,)

Having a hymenectomy (minor surgery to remove hymen tissue, I’m female) done this Friday (5/17).
I was told last week not to shave or remove hair from my pubic area at least a week before the surgery. AFAIK this is to prevent risk of infection from microscopic bacteria.
This past Saturday (5/11) I had plans to go swimming with friends and without thinking, I shaved my bikini area with an electric trimmer since I hadn’t done so in a while. I immediately realized my mistake and have been washing the area thoroughly every single day to mitigate any bacteria from shaving/swimming.
Since it was just 6 days before the surgery I am hoping it will still be okay, because I don’t want them to cancel my surgery if I speak up. It is important to me that this gets done now. Am I okay to have the surgery still?

(read whole thing pls)i have butt and anal hh and every morning i take a shower before school and my balls smell like i’m also on glyco for it but that does not help and i have tried shaving my pubic hairs, i’ve tried body powders, antibacterial soap, whole body deodorant and tried applying drysol down there but the smell continues, i don’t understand what is causing this? pls help me

Me and my boyfriend specifically on the 1st of may were both grinding with our underwear on, but after that we started rubbing our genitals but not fully naked i still had my underwear on,( however he rubbed his tip on my clit naked but he didn’t go all the way down when rubbing).. i was very wet so im concerned that some pre cum may has swimmed all the way to my vagina. He came on my pubic hair but we immediately cleaned it and cleaned himself, after some minutes we again rubbed more his tip on my clit, the same way as before..
On the 13th of may i got what i think is « my period » but it came very different that’s what concerned me ( i started spotting light brown on the 10th which is something that never happened to me before) and then on the 13th i got “my period” but it’s very light than usual and that also never happened to me before (my pad is only half filled or even less and i usually have heavy flow the second and the first day, but this time i didn’t and the color of my blood was bright red or brown) ..
Can someone explain what is it? I took two pregnancy test and the last one was on the first day of my period and it came back negative… im still terrified..