I just stumbled across their page and the divorce drama. I am confused. Are they just influencers because they’re Muslim and are white? (If they’re not white sorry for the assumption).
I’m also confused because the ex husband’s ex wife looks exactly like the new ex wife.

Hi, I know people here are very advanced in manifestation. But I think I don’t know how to do it properly. My SP(husband) and I decided to work things after 1 year of living apart and we spent a nice time for 3 days when I went to visit him to talk things over. He was all open to work things out and all but now I’m back here and last 2 days I’ve spent crying and begging him to not end things. He’s saying that he’s done with me and wants a formal divorce as he can’t let go of the past. I feel like I’m back to square one where I’m again at a loss to know what happened. I was positive and confident and happily imagining things now here I am lying in bed and shocked that he can do this to me. This is the second time he’s said this. Last time he did this in December but he agreed that we can maybe take some more time to think. I know people here are very good at manifestation and technique but I just can’t visualise or even do any techniques for more than 2 days without sadness setting in by looking at 3d. I’m scared that he will do what he says and I hate being this helpless and feeling used by him. Please advice. Also I am confused about one thing - what if he’s good at manifesting more than I am and I am his reality mirrored outside in the world. He has amazing self worth and self concept and doesn’t look least bit sad to be ending this. If he didn’t manifest this and I did this, I want to know how. As I don’t think these were ever my dominant thoughts to end. I always imagined that he would come back begging and realise my worth and not be able to move on but it feels like everything is in reverse here.

I don’t know where to start, this will be a long post. If you read through, thank you!
I first stopped speaking to my mother in 2019, I would now describe her as a covert narcissist but at the time I was just fed up with feeling like I was parenting an emotionally volatile teenager every time I spoke to her, every conversation ended in an argument and I was always to blame, always “breaking her heart”. I was an emotional (and on a few occasions as a teen, physical) punching bag and I just couldn’t take it anymore. For a few months her texts would switch between loving, heartbroken and scorned, getting meaner and meaner the longer I left them without a reply. She then started texting my boyfriend (now husband) to tell him how the no-contact was tearing her apart and giving him messages to pass on to me.
Fast forward, I fell pregnant at the end of 2021 and felt that she needed to hear the news from me. Less out of any actual desire to speak to her and more because I didn’t know what she would do if I let her hear it through the grapevine. I had read a couple of books about narcissistic parents by this point and set very clear boundaries for her. I would send her pregnancy updates and ultrasounds but I didn’t want unsolicited advice or constant phone calls and I was absolutely not prepared to hash out our “differences”. This was fine for a couple of months until is wasn’t and she stopped respecting my boundaries, called me non-stop until I answered and told me I was selfish if I didn’t want to talk. I pushed back and she told me to “have a nice life” and blocked me.
Our daughter was born 4 months later and at 4 days post-partum I got a text from her saying “I’m flying to name of my town on Friday, I don’t care if you don’t want to see me. You will show me my granddaughter through the window if you’re still not speaking to me”, I called her in hormonal hysterics while she was with friends and she answered the phone with this unnatural, sickly sweet voice and said “darling, you sound so upset what’s wrong? Do you have support at home?” It was like talking to a stranger, the thought of that phone call still sends a chill down my spine. My dad (they have been divorced for many years) eventually talked her out of the visit and she blocked me again.
This pattern has repeated itself multiple times over the past 2 years since my daughter was born, I set a boundary and she disregards it. I am selfish and she is heartbroken, she blocks me and I don’t hear anything for a couple of months. Then she begs me to unblock her so I can send pictures of her granddaughter. For clarity’s sake, I have never blocked her.
That brings us more or less to today. My family (husband, daughter, dog and I) will be moving overseas for work in about 2 months, this happened suddenly as is the nature of my husband’s job. We found out yesterday and my dad was the first person I told (we have a great relationship), he told his mom (my grandmother) and she told my mother. This morning I received multiple calls followed by a text from her telling me she’d like to have a “little chat”, reluctantly I worked up the courage to call her and she asked me straight away if we were moving overseas, I said yes. She told me “I will be coming to stay before you go” I told her that wouldn’t work, I have a lot on my plate preparing for the move and I would be lying if I said that a visit for her wouldn’t add more stress, she started to yell immediately asking “are you really so selfish that you can’t make time for your own mother?” I asked her to calm down and she said “now you’ve fucking done it, that’s it we’re done” and hung up, the whole call was less than two minutes and I hardly got a word in.
I couldn’t help it, I sat and cried for a while. As much distance as I have tried to put between us, hearing my mother speak to me that way still triggers this feeling inside of me and I revert back to this little child hiding in the corner of my room from my mom’s big feelings. I called her back and asked if we could talk calmly, my exact words were “I think your emotions are controlling you right now and I don’t want to leave things like that” unfortunately, she did not stay calm. She told me her heart was broken for me because one day my daughter would cut me off too and I’ll have regrets about the way I’ve treated my own mother, she said I am a my father’s surname through and through, that I’ve always been a selfish bitch who never thinks about anyone else’s feelings, she then told me to have a nice life (again) and that she never wants to speak to me again. She hung up after that.
I guess I just don’t know where to go from here. I feel sick and anxious and I’m not completely convinced that she won’t just turn up to my house anyway. The words “no-contact” sound so clear cut and linear but I feel like my journey has been anything but. Sometimes I think she’s right and I really am selfish for wanting distance, but accomodating her feelings constantly and mentally preparing for her next emotional tirade every few months is also affecting my ability to be present and healthy in my relationships with my own family.
I should mention that she has made no effort to take accountability for our relationship breakdown in the past 5 years. She will ask if I’m “over it yet” or resort to a disingenuous “fine, I was a terrible mother and I never did anything right” type of apology, she also laughed at me when I asked her to seek therapy if she wants any kind of real relationship in the future.
If you’ve read this far and you’re comfortable sharing, please tell me how you cope with the turbulence of no-contact or with emotionally immature parents in general. I would be so grateful to just know that I’m not alone in this.

I (M) am getting married this summer and we both come from a conservative culture so haven’t done anything before marriage. I’ve been going through a weight loss journey since I got engaged, and lost a bit of weight but in the past several weeks I’ve been negligent and gained a bit back tbh.
I’m committed to losing weight until I get to a healthy weight, but I have accepted that I’m not going to be at a lean healthy weight in time for my wedding, for reference I am a 6’4 male and currently weigh 320 lb, goal weight is 220 lb.
Of course she knows I’m fat because she’s seen me? But she’s never seen me naked. And idk how many fat men experience this and probably tmi but when my pp is flaccid it’s either like an inch long because the fat pad or sometimes it’s all the way in if it’s cold/just came out the showeI’m crouching 😅 - idk why I’m nervous about it but my doctor said it’s fine and that it’s common in overweight men
Really appreciate if anyone with a similar experience/anyone can give my advice, what to think about, and be more confident etc.
I’ve accepted that I’m not going to be anywhere near my goal weight in time for this summer so I should stop with the extreme dieting etc. and just focus on healthy sustainable weight loss

Just as the title says. I want to start out by saying I do live with my mom along with one of my brothers (19). My mom and I split the bills evenly and I work full time. My mom got divorced back in 2013 to my step dad, before then my mom and I never had a healthy relationship, she always chose her husband and their sons( half brothers) over me. I was in and out of the house living with either friends or grandparents. After the divorce we reconnected and have been getting along since then. Fast forward to now, last night after I got off work she told me she was going out with her boyfriend. I was like okay cool have fun then she told me he was going back to Mexico( where he’s from) & when he gets back she’s going to get married and move her boyfriend and his son in. I was shocked but didn’t say anything after. I want to add that since they’ve been dating my brothers and I never met him not once. We know his name and that’s it. He’s been invited to many dinners and family functions and will ghost my mom or say he’s scared of my brothers “beating him up.” They also NEVER spend time together, maybe like once every five months and they live in the same town. I told her that was weird and she replies “that’s an adult relationship.” I disagree. I know that yes, I can move out, which will take a bit of time for me to gather money to do so but I will do it. I also know one of my brothers (19) that lives with me and my mom will want to leave as well and I’m more than happy for him to live with me & before I get any hate in living with my mom in my 30s, I want to add we’re Mexican and living with parents until marriage is the norm, along with other reasons I chose to stay. The other two brothers (26) & (28) live on their own. I spoke with them and they also said it was very odd but that I can’t do anything about it. I want my mom to be happy but I just find this very odd and I have bad feelings about this.. even if I was on my own I’d still have these feelings. Despite her being independent when she’s with a man she always follows the man’s lead even at the cost of her children, atleast that’s how it was for me growing up. He has three more children he wants to bring and move in with my mom. We don’t have enough room for them, we live in a three bedroom two bath single wide. Years ago she mentioned this when we lived in another house and wanted to move him and all his children in and my brother was still in highschool so she didn’t do that but know that’s their goal. I just want to know if I’m over reacting? I want her to be happy but there’s so many red flags, atleast to me. How do I bring this up to her without sounding like I’m being selfish?

Alrighty someone pretty much broke down the final 4 episodes. Again, read at your own risk. This is courtesy of @fallenred on Tumblr who got it from someone else on Twitter.
Ben * The guy in that almost threesome’s name is Paul * As you already know he got nervous and runs off after that, we don’t know
Frannie * Yes she and John gets engaged but didn’t want to take Polin’s thunder so they weren’t included in the banns * Frannie asks Violet to vouch for them, thinking the Queen would still be upset for not choosing her pick * Violet continues to have reservations about Kohn but Frannie put her in her place by saying she loves him
Kanthony * Yes Kate is pregnant!
Eloise and Cressida * When Cressida was trying to take credit for Whistledown, Eloise got pissed * Charlotte wasn’t convinced that it was Cressida and ask for more proof * Lord Cowper threatened to ship Cressida to Scotland if she doesn’t fix this * Eloise slowly working things out with Pen
Will and Alice * Will decided to close his club * They hosted a dinner party when the Cressida written Whistledown issue was released
The main plot * Polin are happy in episode 5 * Colin finds out in episode 6 * They mostly fought throughout episode 7 but made up by the Butterfly ball * Polin married at the end of the episode 7 * Sexy times montage to start episode 8 * Pen tells everyone she’s Whistledown as she doesn’t need it anymore * Queen forgives her * One final narration from JA before transitioning to Nicola’s voice (yeah this is it. No more Whistledown) * Epilogue had Pen being pregnant and “Yellow” by Coldplay plays
So yeah… we don’t know much about Ben beyond saying deuces to Tilley in episode 6. But rumors and spoilers are everywhere. 😟

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It’s been a few months ago, but I put several posts out here under another username which I have deleted now.
My husband asked me for a divorce, and I was having a really difficult time with the entire thing and pleading the Lord to fix it and to change his heart.
The day before I was going to sign the divorce papers, he reached out to me, and we ended up talking and reconciling our marriage.
I never anticipated this, but I’m so thankful the Lord heard my cry and my prayers and restored what was impossible to fix on our own.
God is good, and I never thought He would do this after four months of separation, but the Lord is good and I’m so thankful God is the God of restoration.
Praise Jesus

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Hi everyone, would love some thoughts on getting back out there after separation or divorce. I know it’s different for everyone, but how soon did you start dating after? I’m separated now for a very short amount of time, but I have never felt more peace, security, and joy than I have right now. I don’t want to get on dating apps yet, but I feel like I processed a lot of the bad things in my marriage while I was still in it. I don’t miss him, I recognize the mistakes I made in the marriage as well, and don’t feel relationship related anxiety. I think I’d date if I met someone organically and felt a good connection, but I’m hesitant. Would love to hear anyone else’s experiences!

Hi everyone, I’m wondering if I could have some guidance on what the best path to get my citizenship would be.
I would be getting citizenship through my mother who was born in 1960 by Italian parents (who are still alive and have only been italian citizens their whole lives). She came to the US in the 70s and did not become a US citizen until the early 2000s, maybe 3-4 years after I was born. I’m not sure if she renounced Italian citizenship at that point (nor does she remember, but I think she did).
The Boston consulate is booked out for years so I want to see what my options are for a quicker route.
1: Do I have to hire an Italian lawyer for this case and if so can someone give a rough estimate cost?
2: Or is it possible to just go to my grandparent’s comune and if so what’s required? (I’m assuming all of the same documents that the consulate would require)
3: My mother’s name on my birth certificate, her marriage certificate, and divorce certificate has been anglicized, will this be a problem if I go with option 2?? On all other things such as bank/tax statements, license, social security, have her true legal non-anglicized name.
Thank you all!

I (27m) have known my wife (27f) for over a decade. We dated in high school and I messed it up being a dumb kid. We remained best friends (her words) up until about 3 years ago when we reconnected and decided we should try again since we both knew we still loved each other. She’s my soul mate, she’s the mother of my two kids, she’s as good a woman as you could ask for. So obviously you’ve come to the conclusion the problem has been 99% me. I’ve just been a dick a lot and we’ll have periods of good times and then we’ll have a big blowout fight and we’ll bicker for months then have good times and so on and so forth. She has BPD which I have not handled correctly in the past. We recently told each other we should divorce and that night is when the tornadoes hit the American south and it made me realize exactly what she meant to me and what’d I’d be losing not only for myself but for my kids. I’ve been talking to her all night and telling her how sorry I am for everything I’ve caused and trying to take responsibility but I didn’t have role models as a kid so I have literally no idea how to express myself and she keeps telling me I’m making excuses and stuff like that. All I’ve accomplished so far is she’s told me she hates me 100 times and kicked me off the bed and threw me across the room a couple times. Please if anybody has any advice on how to approach this to keep my family together don’t hesitate to tell me. One of our big problems is I used to shut down instead of communicate and now I don’t know how to get my feelings across to her. It’s like she’s forcing herself to stay mad at me because she’s never been able to keep a straight face when she’s mad at me when we look in each others eyes and tonight she’ll laugh and then just cuss me out when she realizes she’s not “hating” me. What do I say to save this marriage? How do I take responsibility without sounding like I’m making excuses? How do I convince her I’m trying to express myself when I rolled a 0 on charisma?
tl;dr Me and my wife have two kids and she wants a divorce. How do I convince her otherwise?

I (M) am getting married this summer and we both come from a conservative culture so haven’t done anything before marriage. I’ve been going through a weight loss journey since I got engaged, and lost a bit of weight but in the past several weeks I’ve been negligent and gained a bit back tbh.
I’m committed to losing weight until I get to a healthy weight, but I have accepted that I’m not going to be at a lean healthy weight in time for my wedding, for reference I am a 6’4 male and currently weigh 320 lb, goal weight is 220 lb.
Of course she knows I’m fat because she’s seen me? But she’s never seen me naked. And idk how many fat men experience this and probably tmi but when my pp is flaccid it’s either like an inch long because the fat pad or sometimes it’s all the way in if it’s cold/just came out the showeI’m crouching 😅 - idk why I’m nervous about it but my doctor said it’s fine and that it’s common in overweight men
Really appreciate if anyone with a similar experience/anyone can give my advice, what to think about, and be more confident etc.
I’ve accepted that I’m not going to be anywhere near my goal weight in time for this summer so I should stop with the extreme dieting etc. and just focus on healthy sustainable weight loss