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2024.06.01 13:57 bunsonbyrner way of the vermin
this style is oftern adopted by urichins and monks who have left their practise, it relies on tricks and dirty moves
fight to live Starting when you choose this tradition at 3rd level, you become able to strike an extra time if not moving, and the abilty to grapple as a bonus action
street smarts At 6th level, you gain the knowledge to perform the abilty to use ki for certain manuvers
ground grab - when knocked on ground expend one ki point to grapple a enemy within range, if succcesful the enemy ends up on top of the user prone
pocket sand - expend one ki point to blind an enemy
taunt - expend a ki point to force every enemy in an 30 foot radius to roll a wisedom saving throw [14] or be focused on the user
spin cycle - expend one ki point to hit everything around you with one unarmed strike
the biggest hater Starting at 11th level, when a creture you see makes an ability check, an attack roll, or a saving throw you can expend two points to give disadvantage
stay noided at 17th level by expending 5 ki points you enter a noided state where you gain You gain 20 temporary hit points. If any of these remain when the state ends, they are lost. You have advantage on attack rolls that you make with simple and martial weapons. You have a +2 bonus to AC. All your weapon attacks count as magical immune to charm and fear gain two extra attacks
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fight to live Starting when you choose this tradition at 3rd level, you become able to strike an extra time if not moving, and the abilty to grapple as a bonus action
street smarts At 6th level, you gain the knowledge to perform the abilty to use ki for certain manuvers
ground grab - when knocked on ground expend one ki point to grapple a enemy within range, if succcesful the enemy ends up on top of the user prone
pocket sand - expend one ki point to blind an enemy
taunt - expend a ki point to force every enemy in an 30 foot radius to roll a wisedom saving throw [14] or be focused on the user
spin cycle - expend one ki point to hit everything around you with one unarmed strike
the biggest hater Starting at 11th level, when a creture you see makes an ability check, an attack roll, or a saving throw you can expend two points to give disadvantage
stay noided at 17th level by expending 5 ki points you enter a noided state where you gain You gain 20 temporary hit points. If any of these remain when the state ends, they are lost. You have advantage on attack rolls that you make with simple and martial weapons. You have a +2 bonus to AC. All your weapon attacks count as magical immune to charm and fear gain two extra attacks
2024.06.01 13:55 CoffeeAnalyst25 My thoughts on Top 5 and vote splitting scenario
We’ve reached the final couple of weeks of this season and here is my top 5 prediction and chances of vote splitting.
1) Jinto
One of the main content makers of the season. Right from the start, Jinto made content out of tea ☕️ which at first seemed stupid but BiggBoss gave him the comedy arc. Slowly whatever he did, be it some blatant lie or his cussing, BB made sure he was portrayed as a “paavam/nishkalankan” character. This gained him a lot of the typical family audience votes and also the way he took on Jabri gave him the “Raajavu” image, he was also attacked by the whole house at one point which gained him sympathy votes as well.
Jinto has recently toned down his words and made sure he doesn’t curse or use strong language which he has done really well but at what cost ? There has been a significant drop in screen space for Jinto going into the finale which might affect his chances winning the title ?
2) Abhishek Sreekumar
The strongest of the wildcards. Came right into the show with controversies to his name, made sure he would have the alpha/sigma males with him no matter what. I thought that there would only be a small percentage of people who’d fall in that category but surprisingly looking at his vote share, the numbers are huge.
Of course that is not the only category of votes he owns, Abhishek Sreekumar does not seem actually the person he portrays to be. He does seem to be wearing a mask for the sake of getting popularity and owning that particular fan group. There is a large group of audience who think he is very good as a gamer and is a kind guy on the inside. This group wouldn’t care about his fake mask but would rather vote for him seeing his dedication for the game.
Now what audience group is common for Jinto and Abhishek ? They both have played against Jasmin and they have the most stable vote bank of the show : Anti-Jasmin votes.
3) Jasmin
The biggest controversy of the season was Jabri and we know how it has ruined a lot of lives till now. But I strongly believe “We reap what we sow”. Jasmin has been good in some tasks throughout the show but has been an utter failure in TTF. She did have valid points against Jinto at some stages but I’d say she lost the majority of times. She had a 50-50 win over Nora but Nora won it big time for the last fight that happened between them. Jasmin is strong with words and points sometimes but her disrespect and lack of accountability gets her a major L from me. She doesn’t appeal to me at all but that might not be the same for everybody.
I am surprised with the vote share Jasmin has, I’m sure she feels she is a top 2 right now. This might be the category of audience who feel Jasmin has won her arguments quite well and is the “better” when compared to Jinto and Abhishek Sreekumar. Also, there is a small percentage of people who think that her cheating isn’t a big thing and people are being too hard on her. And this isn’t a small percentage of the audience, it is a considerably good percentage which takes us to a vote splitting scenario.
Vote Splitting Scenario
Consider the scenario where Jinto gets 25% votes, Abhishek Sreekumar gets 25% votes and Jasmine gets 30% votes. This is a random assumption without taking into consideration the anti-Jasmine votes. If the anti-Jasmin votes are 10% of the audience, either of Jinto or Abhishek Sreekumar needs to get the majority of Anti-Jasmin votes to be the title winner or to beat Jasmin. It must be stressed that Jasmin has a strong vote base and her votes won’t go down from here no matter what she does.
4) Arjun
Arjun has been a soft gamer throughout this season. He hasn’t really made much impact with his verbal skills but stood out in physical tasks by giving his 100%. I feel BB tried forcing Arjun and Sreethu for the Sreejun combo but hasn’t been organic at all but there has been a larger number of Sreejun simps all over SM.
Even though Arjun seemed to be a decent person in the show, his chance of winning the title is weak considering he hasn’t made much impact even towards the end of the season.
5) Sijo/Sreethu
Sijo came into the show with a lot of plans but sadly had to go out of the show when things went overboard. The punch from Rocky costed Rocky his whole BB appearance while it meant Sijo would stay out of the show for weeks and I feel the little support he had got weaker as weeks passed by. But it eventually got him a lot of sympathy votes for his comeback. Then again, he couldn’t make him impact apart from his “thee” dialogues.
Sreethu has been an example of how pretty privilege works in BiggBoss. Apart from an argument or two and her captaincy week, Sreethu hasn’t done much to gain a unique support from the audience. I remember Sreethu topping one of the weeks with votes but that has eventually died down now (Has it ? We’ll see 😅)
Sorry for the long read, please feel free to share your thoughts :)
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1) Jinto
One of the main content makers of the season. Right from the start, Jinto made content out of tea ☕️ which at first seemed stupid but BiggBoss gave him the comedy arc. Slowly whatever he did, be it some blatant lie or his cussing, BB made sure he was portrayed as a “paavam/nishkalankan” character. This gained him a lot of the typical family audience votes and also the way he took on Jabri gave him the “Raajavu” image, he was also attacked by the whole house at one point which gained him sympathy votes as well.
Jinto has recently toned down his words and made sure he doesn’t curse or use strong language which he has done really well but at what cost ? There has been a significant drop in screen space for Jinto going into the finale which might affect his chances winning the title ?
2) Abhishek Sreekumar
The strongest of the wildcards. Came right into the show with controversies to his name, made sure he would have the alpha/sigma males with him no matter what. I thought that there would only be a small percentage of people who’d fall in that category but surprisingly looking at his vote share, the numbers are huge.
Of course that is not the only category of votes he owns, Abhishek Sreekumar does not seem actually the person he portrays to be. He does seem to be wearing a mask for the sake of getting popularity and owning that particular fan group. There is a large group of audience who think he is very good as a gamer and is a kind guy on the inside. This group wouldn’t care about his fake mask but would rather vote for him seeing his dedication for the game.
Now what audience group is common for Jinto and Abhishek ? They both have played against Jasmin and they have the most stable vote bank of the show : Anti-Jasmin votes.
3) Jasmin
The biggest controversy of the season was Jabri and we know how it has ruined a lot of lives till now. But I strongly believe “We reap what we sow”. Jasmin has been good in some tasks throughout the show but has been an utter failure in TTF. She did have valid points against Jinto at some stages but I’d say she lost the majority of times. She had a 50-50 win over Nora but Nora won it big time for the last fight that happened between them. Jasmin is strong with words and points sometimes but her disrespect and lack of accountability gets her a major L from me. She doesn’t appeal to me at all but that might not be the same for everybody.
I am surprised with the vote share Jasmin has, I’m sure she feels she is a top 2 right now. This might be the category of audience who feel Jasmin has won her arguments quite well and is the “better” when compared to Jinto and Abhishek Sreekumar. Also, there is a small percentage of people who think that her cheating isn’t a big thing and people are being too hard on her. And this isn’t a small percentage of the audience, it is a considerably good percentage which takes us to a vote splitting scenario.
Vote Splitting Scenario
Consider the scenario where Jinto gets 25% votes, Abhishek Sreekumar gets 25% votes and Jasmine gets 30% votes. This is a random assumption without taking into consideration the anti-Jasmine votes. If the anti-Jasmin votes are 10% of the audience, either of Jinto or Abhishek Sreekumar needs to get the majority of Anti-Jasmin votes to be the title winner or to beat Jasmin. It must be stressed that Jasmin has a strong vote base and her votes won’t go down from here no matter what she does.
4) Arjun
Arjun has been a soft gamer throughout this season. He hasn’t really made much impact with his verbal skills but stood out in physical tasks by giving his 100%. I feel BB tried forcing Arjun and Sreethu for the Sreejun combo but hasn’t been organic at all but there has been a larger number of Sreejun simps all over SM.
Even though Arjun seemed to be a decent person in the show, his chance of winning the title is weak considering he hasn’t made much impact even towards the end of the season.
5) Sijo/Sreethu
Sijo came into the show with a lot of plans but sadly had to go out of the show when things went overboard. The punch from Rocky costed Rocky his whole BB appearance while it meant Sijo would stay out of the show for weeks and I feel the little support he had got weaker as weeks passed by. But it eventually got him a lot of sympathy votes for his comeback. Then again, he couldn’t make him impact apart from his “thee” dialogues.
Sreethu has been an example of how pretty privilege works in BiggBoss. Apart from an argument or two and her captaincy week, Sreethu hasn’t done much to gain a unique support from the audience. I remember Sreethu topping one of the weeks with votes but that has eventually died down now (Has it ? We’ll see 😅)
Sorry for the long read, please feel free to share your thoughts :)
2024.06.01 13:55 BanditSurvivalist 430lbs to 328 lbs Thoughts
Hi, so I (M, 28, 6'1") began my most recent attempt at a weight loss journey in around November last year. I had always been a bigger guy but a physical job and youth had always been on my side. I had never really felt as though my weight got in the way of anything..
Then a couple of years ago I ended up having a bit of a career change following the birth of my daughter I had decided to move into a more family friendly job (I was a chef working 50 / 60 hour weeks) so a begun working a remote office job and the weight just crept on. I ignored it for the most part until a few incidents in my life made me decide it was time for some changes.
Thanks to anyone who made it through that. I appreciate you taking the time to listen to my ramblings.
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Then a couple of years ago I ended up having a bit of a career change following the birth of my daughter I had decided to move into a more family friendly job (I was a chef working 50 / 60 hour weeks) so a begun working a remote office job and the weight just crept on. I ignored it for the most part until a few incidents in my life made me decide it was time for some changes.
- I discovered that I could no longer buy clothes from anywhere in person. Absolutely nowhere stocked my sizes.
- I went on holiday with my family and I couldn't take my daughter on any of the rides at the theme park. I could only fit on one or two things at the entire park and even then it was horrendously uncomfortable.
- I could no longer fit in chairs with arms. This was especially crappy when I took my family to the circus and had to ask for a folding chair to sit in the isle.
- I was absolutely exhausted at the end of every day. Even a mostly sedentary day. If I had to walk any more than a few thousand feet I was in pain. My knees and ankles especially were beginning to really worry me.
- CICO - tracking calories is a very useful tool. I got a decent calorie / exercise tracking app and I use it religiously.
- Fad diets are just awful. They do not instill good habits at all. They are just a cheap quick use tool and are often quite dangerous.
- Find an exercise you genuinely enjoy and just do that. I've tried workout plans, couch to 5k, circuit training Etc. I didn't enjoy any of them and ultimately lost interest. Eventually I discovered power walking and freeweights and it just works for me.
- Dont focus too much on the number on the scale. I've had weeks where I felt great but only lost a couple pounds and weeks where I felt crap and dropped 8lbs in a week. I tend to focus more on how I actually feel. For this reason I only weigh in every month or so. Just to get an idea of where I'm at.
Thanks to anyone who made it through that. I appreciate you taking the time to listen to my ramblings.
2024.06.01 13:53 DarlingLuna Having the new Captain America debut on a Disney+ show was a terrible idea
For the record, I enjoyed Falcon and The Winter Soldier, even though the writing was quite weak in the later episodes. However, I think it was a fatal mistake to have the new Captain America suit up for the first time on a Disney+ show. Regardless of your personal preference in terms of medium, it’s undoubtable that cinema is overall considered more culturally significant and more prestigious than TV, with a few exceptions. Which is why marquee characters like Batman and Spider-Man are primarily kept to the big screen. Which is why it feels like a terrible move to have their new Captain America debut on a Disney+ show, bevause it immediately robs him of any prestige he might’ve had, and makes us think of him as lesser. I think this will have a huge negative impact on the box office performance of Captain America: Brave New World, on top of the concerning things we’ve heard about the overall quality of the film. Do you think The Falcon and The Winter Soldier diminishes the prestige of the Captain America character, and the box office performance of the upcoming film?
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2024.06.01 13:52 Financial_Ad_2002 Checking exsocials need support to stop
I had been doing good for quite a bit not checking for at least 6-8 weeks and feel like I have backslid last week to checking ex socials again daily or multiple times a day. It hurt at first he had a new gf - then I was like nope done that 6-8 weeks ago - then recently checked and the love bombing he had been doing with new gf seemed to have finally stopped and got me suspicious of trouble in his rebound and like thinking he’d reach back out to me when that ran its course. So kept checking to see if they broke up. He’s an avoidant and heard after new rebound it provides space for them to feel safe to reach out to an ex.
What got me hurting AGAIN is now like 2 days ago it’s back to public I love yous on there to each other which feels so weird for a new relationship with 40 yr olds acting like they’re 12.
I feel addicted to checking it
It gave me closure at first seeing the new relationship and like wow he’s treating her like he treated me with the love bombing and perfectness.
I really wish I never met him
The blocking him option feels like the ultimate end - I wanted friendship or reconciliation - some connection to show I’m doing good. I have him in the audience where he can’t see my posts. Idk why he just doesn’t unfriend me or block me.
He doesn’t care - it’s a waste of time - he’s never coming back
Help me stop hurting myself 😞
Help me understand why I haven’t blocked and why he doesn’t unfriend or block me?
Why am I addicted to this pain?
I was so much happier not looking- omg it just hurts!
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What got me hurting AGAIN is now like 2 days ago it’s back to public I love yous on there to each other which feels so weird for a new relationship with 40 yr olds acting like they’re 12.
I feel addicted to checking it
It gave me closure at first seeing the new relationship and like wow he’s treating her like he treated me with the love bombing and perfectness.
I really wish I never met him
The blocking him option feels like the ultimate end - I wanted friendship or reconciliation - some connection to show I’m doing good. I have him in the audience where he can’t see my posts. Idk why he just doesn’t unfriend me or block me.
He doesn’t care - it’s a waste of time - he’s never coming back
Help me stop hurting myself 😞
Help me understand why I haven’t blocked and why he doesn’t unfriend or block me?
Why am I addicted to this pain?
I was so much happier not looking- omg it just hurts!
2024.06.01 13:52 MonitoliMal Total Drama Island With Ace Attorney Lawyers Part 7: Episodes 13 and 14 (TEAMS MERGE)
 | Recap: Given how much drama happened before, the teams were graced with a trust-based challenge. While Kristoph didn’t make himself look any better, the one who ultimately suffered the most was Blackquill, whose demeanor changed after Athena’s elimination. Not trusting that he would kill again or simply wanting to eliminate a threat before merge, he ultimately fell at this juncture. Nahyuta also started losing trust for Ga’ran, but he kept that all to himself to survive the premerge. In the next challenge, the teams had to endure Chef’s boot camp. While both teams were close, Kristoph ultimately ended the challenge by knocking down Nahyuta from the tree with a rock, winning the challenge for the Defense. For his irritating caffeine withdrawal symptoms, the prosecution handed Godot his fate. Who will take the final team win and the first merge win in these next 2 episodes? Who will rise from the ashes to compete again? Let’s find out. Here are the teams as they currently stand: submitted by MonitoliMal to AceAttorney [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/4fuwircp7y3d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=fe3a733427b718e15d9f7f0c4e9448fca1fd5cf5 Episode 12 Summary: The final team challenge is the extreme sports challenge. Each team must assign 4 people to compete in 3 separate challenges. The first challenge is skydiving where the rest of the team has to make sure their teammate lands on a mattress as close to the center as possible. Apollo and Klavier both volunteer. While both teams manage to get them to land on the targets, the Defense has more people and thus get a more accurate landing for their first point. The next challenge is a moose rodeo for which Phoenix and Nahyuta both volunteer. Since Nahyuta has a kinder demeanor towards animals, he managed to stay on for much longer than poor Phoenix, netting the Prosecution their first point. For the final game, both a driver for one team and a skier for the other and vice-versa must compete to collect flags for a mud skiing challenge. The driver volunteers are Kristoph and Ga’ran and the skier volunteers are Gregory and Miles. Ga’ran keeps trying to throw off Gregory but can’t find a way without breaking the challenge rules, allowing him to get most of the flags. Kristoph tries to throw off Miles, but actually succeeds before the last stretch by cutting him loose with a sharp object, meaning Miles can’t complete the course and the Defense wins. After the challenge, Blaise and Ga’ran rope Nahyuta into voting out Miles since he’s the most likely to ally against them in merge. Miles ultimately got voted off… BUT before he could get on the Dock of Shame– https://reddit.com/link/1d5la1w/video/sxpvdper7y3d1/player Gregory interrupts the ceremony and says his goodbyes to Miles! He regrets not being able to interact with him as someone on the other team, but is proud of him for making it this far. He didn’t join to win the money, but instead to break him away from Von Karma, however he didn’t expect Miles to take him down himself. Having served his purpose on the show, Gregory volunteers to get eliminated in his son’s place. Miles initially objects to this, but Greg wants him to reunite with his childhood friend Phoenix and his friends not as rivals, but as allies. Chris allows this to happen as he found Gregory Edgeworth “too boring for TV ratings” with his straight-laced demeanor and was itching to eliminate him. And so it was that Gregory Edgeworth was the final contestant not to make it to merge. MERGE TIME: Since Mia and Ga’ran are the only women left, there will be no Buffet of Disgustingness challenge and we’ll skip right to merge! HOWEVER before that can happen, 2 producer fan favorite contestants will return to the game. Please welcome back Prosecutors Franziska Von Karma and Simon Blackquill! Here is the merge cast: https://preview.redd.it/vf5fbydx7y3d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=f15f5f836c13dfcf9d42ca21d1e4a3f583c6bd59 Episode 13 Summary: Simon holds little ill-will towards his team for voting him out, but Franziska is pissed especially towards Miles. She takes out her anger by whipping everybody. The challenge is a game of Say Uncle where everyone has to endure a certain situation for 10 seconds. I won’t bore you with the details of who gets what situation and if they fail it, so I’ll instead list who does the best. Means can make himself calm when he wants to be, Mia could disassociate with a spirit (though this would eventually backfire with the spirit giving up), Blaise is pretty hardy, and Nahyuta is possibly the most calm. However, Blackquill is the champion of endurance and he would be the most likely to win immunity out of everyone. After the challenge, Miles follows his father’s wishes and interacts with Phoenix (much to Franziska’s annoyance). It’s awkward, but Phoenix understands where he’s coming from. Kristoph finally decides to propose an alliance with Ga’ran and Blaise, to which they accept. Nahyuta goes to Apollo and his allies to tell them to just give up in the face of his and Ga’ran’s inevitable dominance. While his allies are annoyed, Apollo notices his bracelet tense up. Nahyuta did this intentionally to get his attention and Apollo knew it. The votes against Franziska were so vast that there was nothing she could do about them. Just as she reentered the game, she had it all thrown away. https://preview.redd.it/uvcwz6t88y3d1.jpg?width=168&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=71b4096e95263323dc71913884dd31b8202ad25b How do you feel about this merge cast? Who do you think will bite the dust next? Feel free to leave a comment! |
2024.06.01 13:52 VinScratch777 Feeling anxious about having anxiety for life, how do you cope and will i ever live a normal life again?
Hey everyone, i have just been diagnosed some medication which is propranolol and mirtazapine for anxiety and my doctor said i could be on it for life. Its put me in a massive rut that was already bad because now i feel i will never function as a normal human again and my life and potential careers and relationships are over. I always suffered with bad anxiety and had bad ruts but always got over them as i had answers and it calmed my brain down. It started with health anxiety which started bad but got better with time and tests and then i got work anxiety that fucked my life up for a month but i quit the job and got over it and went to enjoying my life and looking for remote work.
Now i'm in the worst rut ever and im scared i will be like this for life as i dont see a way out this time. A month ago i had an existential crisis which stemmed from a video i watched on youtube about not knowing life and for all we know we might not be real and all this different scary shit (i so regret watching this) which has fucked me over as there is no answers to this so my brain is fixated. For 2 weeks i was getting up and feeling so fucking depressed but the anxiety didn't full set in yet and i was just existing but still enjoying little aspects of life and trying to make my self come around. Fast forward to 2 weeks into this and hell truly began as i started also looking for work and i had this massive meltdown where it all got on top of me. I started having 24/7 anxiety attacks and still do now where i feel sick all day (can't eat), i'm shaking like no tomorrow and my heart feels like it will explode any minute with how much shit its going thru. I think with this existential shit on my mind + having to find a job as i want to be normal its really getting to me and my anxiety is fully taking over. I'll be honest i don't see a way out. I'm now fretting i will be like this for life and my 'normal' self has forever left me. How can i function like this? My anxiety is getting scared of even it-self. I keep reading depressing stories on here with people with GAD and severe anxiety saying its never the same for them again and they just 'manage'? what kind of life is that? i cant function or do anything, i dont enjoy anything anymore. My mum broke down as shes so clueless on what to do and thats another thing im anxious about, disappointment. I keep imagining i will be in an asylum and never have a chance at life anymore. I'm so fucking fed up and i have cried countless times. Please any advice or help. Does this get better or is it over for me. Fucking mental health is never ending.
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Now i'm in the worst rut ever and im scared i will be like this for life as i dont see a way out this time. A month ago i had an existential crisis which stemmed from a video i watched on youtube about not knowing life and for all we know we might not be real and all this different scary shit (i so regret watching this) which has fucked me over as there is no answers to this so my brain is fixated. For 2 weeks i was getting up and feeling so fucking depressed but the anxiety didn't full set in yet and i was just existing but still enjoying little aspects of life and trying to make my self come around. Fast forward to 2 weeks into this and hell truly began as i started also looking for work and i had this massive meltdown where it all got on top of me. I started having 24/7 anxiety attacks and still do now where i feel sick all day (can't eat), i'm shaking like no tomorrow and my heart feels like it will explode any minute with how much shit its going thru. I think with this existential shit on my mind + having to find a job as i want to be normal its really getting to me and my anxiety is fully taking over. I'll be honest i don't see a way out. I'm now fretting i will be like this for life and my 'normal' self has forever left me. How can i function like this? My anxiety is getting scared of even it-self. I keep reading depressing stories on here with people with GAD and severe anxiety saying its never the same for them again and they just 'manage'? what kind of life is that? i cant function or do anything, i dont enjoy anything anymore. My mum broke down as shes so clueless on what to do and thats another thing im anxious about, disappointment. I keep imagining i will be in an asylum and never have a chance at life anymore. I'm so fucking fed up and i have cried countless times. Please any advice or help. Does this get better or is it over for me. Fucking mental health is never ending.
2024.06.01 13:50 Strong_Parsley_420 Scammed fans at festival in NY
So I was a pretty big fan I won’t lie. But I bought tickets to see her in New York and after the experience I can’t say I’m a fan of the person she turned out to be. A place called Electric Echo Park in Bainbridge NY booked her for a 4/20 hippie fest on the lake. They paid her $15,000 to play. They thought she’d fit the scene and generate a lot of traffic. Well she cancelled the show hours before she was supposed to show. All her fans, including me were already there. There were even people who came from out of the country to see her. She posted this very short video on her insta story that most people didn’t even catch before it disappeared saying she couldn’t come because her flight from the west coast to the east coast lost her bags. She had very little regard for letting her fans know she wasn’t going to show up. Then she told everyone to get a refund from the venue. She spent days asking for more money and a large tip according to the owners and then didn’t even show and left them without a headliner for a festival on a Saturday night. She refused for days to pay them back even though she told everyone to ask them for refunds, they directed her to Shanin who had actually had the money they paid for tickets. I think she did eventually pay them back like a week later. This is a smaller venue trying to get up and running and the owners were very dope and accommodating to all. They thought she’d actually be a cool hippie chick and turned out she was not. She basically was going to take them under. They believed she booked with no intentions of ever showing. The workers I talked to who corresponded with her said she had list upon lists of requests like specific sheets in a specific color of black, obscure grocery items, even down to pick these colored candies out of the bowl. They said she was a total nightmare and was frankly a total bitch. They searched high and low for her requirements so only for her to not show up and leave them to foot that bill. This venue is totally sick and up and coming. The owners were ACTUAL gracious hippies and they didn’t deserve any of this bullshit. It really changed my perspective of her and made me realize as a person she is bad vibes entirely and does not fit the music she makes or persona she portrays. It was a total bummer honestly. But nonetheless it was still a sweet show. Cowboy Killer came back for another night to headline in her place and they were probably better than she could have been anyways. If you’ve not heard of this venue and are in the NY area definitely check them out. They were amazing and did everything in their power to make sure we still had a blast despite the shit storm of Shanin Flake.
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2024.06.01 13:48 Present-Artichoke-17 First time bringing in a stray.....
Hi all!
Soooo.... i ended up bringing in a young male stray cat. I thought he belonged to someone at first because he was very trusting- laying down on his side/showing his stomach. Lets strangers pet him. I brought him in, I have another indoor cat, so I've kept the stray in my bathroom (only room that fully closes off).
I'm a little out of my element. I've had him scanned for a chip, negative. I've been doing my due diligence- posting on FB and Ring Neighbor. Hes being fed, has water, i set up the litter box in the tub which hes been using.
I brought him to the vet- he got a clean bill of health from the tests, got dewormer as a preventative, got his basic vaccines since i wasnt sure if i was able to keep him. (I want to keep him....). Hes not neutered, about maybe 2 years old. Has scars so they think hes been on the street a while.
Hes generally very sweet. Vocal lol. purring all the time, or meowing to be let out of the bathroom. he shows me his belly, i can pet him when hes eating. lets me comb him. i can pick him up. he has claws but has never tried using them on me.
I feel so guilty because my bathrooms small.... so I got gates to try to section space off and so him and my cat can get used to each other. theyve seen each other when ive gone in and out of the bathroom with no issues or hissing.
when hes in the bathroom hes layin down most of the time- sleeping, is this normal? i get so worried that hes just stress napping because the bathrooms small so its not like he can really roam in the room.... my friend whos taken in strays before said hes probably just finally relaxing not worrying about shelter or food. also because hes a stray hes more active at night maybe so sleeping more during the day is normal.
im trying to slowly introduce so he has more space to roam- i have gates sectioning off two spaces (stray just jumps them) my cat has been super patient, very curious and tries to let the stray have his space but hes a curious kitty he wants to approach more. when they see each other they dont hiss, but the stray didnt like my cat following him around and hissed then, my cat just took two steps back and sat- the stray from my understanding still seem to feel claustrophobic and moments of over stimulation. ive been letting him out in small increments like 15-20minutes with a good break inbetween because it seems overwhelming for both (ive only done this twice thus far)
im just worried because i hear him meowing to get out and clawing at the door occasionally to get out and its so discouraging that im doing this right.... it breaks my heart
does anyone have tips or tricks? im not rereleasing him... its been under a week so im not giving up on anything yet as i know this can be a weeks months long process. but would love to hear other scenarios. i have a calming collar on him which seemed to help in the beginning.
thank you!
submitted by Present-Artichoke-17 to CatAdvice [link] [comments]
Soooo.... i ended up bringing in a young male stray cat. I thought he belonged to someone at first because he was very trusting- laying down on his side/showing his stomach. Lets strangers pet him. I brought him in, I have another indoor cat, so I've kept the stray in my bathroom (only room that fully closes off).
I'm a little out of my element. I've had him scanned for a chip, negative. I've been doing my due diligence- posting on FB and Ring Neighbor. Hes being fed, has water, i set up the litter box in the tub which hes been using.
I brought him to the vet- he got a clean bill of health from the tests, got dewormer as a preventative, got his basic vaccines since i wasnt sure if i was able to keep him. (I want to keep him....). Hes not neutered, about maybe 2 years old. Has scars so they think hes been on the street a while.
Hes generally very sweet. Vocal lol. purring all the time, or meowing to be let out of the bathroom. he shows me his belly, i can pet him when hes eating. lets me comb him. i can pick him up. he has claws but has never tried using them on me.
I feel so guilty because my bathrooms small.... so I got gates to try to section space off and so him and my cat can get used to each other. theyve seen each other when ive gone in and out of the bathroom with no issues or hissing.
when hes in the bathroom hes layin down most of the time- sleeping, is this normal? i get so worried that hes just stress napping because the bathrooms small so its not like he can really roam in the room.... my friend whos taken in strays before said hes probably just finally relaxing not worrying about shelter or food. also because hes a stray hes more active at night maybe so sleeping more during the day is normal.
im trying to slowly introduce so he has more space to roam- i have gates sectioning off two spaces (stray just jumps them) my cat has been super patient, very curious and tries to let the stray have his space but hes a curious kitty he wants to approach more. when they see each other they dont hiss, but the stray didnt like my cat following him around and hissed then, my cat just took two steps back and sat- the stray from my understanding still seem to feel claustrophobic and moments of over stimulation. ive been letting him out in small increments like 15-20minutes with a good break inbetween because it seems overwhelming for both (ive only done this twice thus far)
im just worried because i hear him meowing to get out and clawing at the door occasionally to get out and its so discouraging that im doing this right.... it breaks my heart
does anyone have tips or tricks? im not rereleasing him... its been under a week so im not giving up on anything yet as i know this can be a weeks months long process. but would love to hear other scenarios. i have a calming collar on him which seemed to help in the beginning.
thank you!
2024.06.01 13:48 GameKingSK Review of the game after almost 2 weeks
 | XDefiant has been out for almost 2 weeks now so I’d like to share some general observations I’ve made over the pre-season period. I have a little over 11 hours of pure in-game time, while Ubisoft Connect shows a little less than 20 in total. submitted by GameKingSK to XDefiant [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/p8ei6wig7y3d1.png?width=1720&format=png&auto=webp&s=bd14474018ba5365ec45d1059f7093b8cf0d880a I’m not a pro or anything, but I think I’m decent enough to provide good feedback. The positives:
Overall, I enjoy the game a lot and if the devs can support it, I will keep playing for a long time. Other notes and observations:
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2024.06.01 13:48 Budget-Ad-4765 Postpartum, Low B12
I am 9 months postpartum and had a high-risk pregnancy, so lots of stress and anxiety on top of my normal day-to-day anxiety. I developed an eye twitch throughout pregnancy, but my B12 was never tested. I had my eyes checked a few months postpartum because it got so annoying and all looked good.
I am nursing and my daughter showed signs of a dairy and egg intolerance when she was three weeks old, so I’m not consumed any dairy or egg in 9 months. I also don’t eat a lot of red meat and never eat fish.
I went to the doctor a few days ago for a physical and mentioned my eye and wanted to get my blood checked. Turns out my B12 is 177. My anxiety is SO bad though and I can’t help but to feel its more serious. After getting one injection and starting to supplement for a few days, I’m starting to get some body twitches- is that normal? The doctor is so nonchalant but I want to make sure that I’m taking the right dosage and taking the right steps. Any recommendations are appreciated. What other bloodwork should I have done?
Also, I know being postpartum, nursing, and being dairy free, probably contributed to this and it’s probably the B12 deficiency giving me symptoms and its not anything more serious (me reassuring myself here lol)
submitted by Budget-Ad-4765 to B12_Deficiency [link] [comments]
I am nursing and my daughter showed signs of a dairy and egg intolerance when she was three weeks old, so I’m not consumed any dairy or egg in 9 months. I also don’t eat a lot of red meat and never eat fish.
I went to the doctor a few days ago for a physical and mentioned my eye and wanted to get my blood checked. Turns out my B12 is 177. My anxiety is SO bad though and I can’t help but to feel its more serious. After getting one injection and starting to supplement for a few days, I’m starting to get some body twitches- is that normal? The doctor is so nonchalant but I want to make sure that I’m taking the right dosage and taking the right steps. Any recommendations are appreciated. What other bloodwork should I have done?
Also, I know being postpartum, nursing, and being dairy free, probably contributed to this and it’s probably the B12 deficiency giving me symptoms and its not anything more serious (me reassuring myself here lol)
2024.06.01 13:48 CS2_PostMatchThreads TheMongolz vs BLEED / MESA Nomadic Masters Spring 2024 - Upper Bracket Final / Post-Match Discussion
TheMongolz 🇲🇳 2-0 🇪🇺 BLEED
Mirage: 13-4 Anubis: 13-9Map picks:
| TheMongolz | MAP | BLEED |
|---|---|---|
| X | Vertigo | |
| Dust2 | X | |
| ✔ | Mirage | |
| Anubis | ✔ | |
| X | Inferno | |
| Nuke | X | |
| Ancient |
Full Match Stats:
| Team | K-D | ADR | KAST | Rating |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 🇲🇳 TheMongolz | ||||
| 🇲🇳 910 | 36-22 | 90.3 | 71.8% | 1.43 |
| 🇲🇳 mzinho | 32-21 | 82.7 | 79.5% | 1.37 |
| 🇲🇳 Senzu | 29-21 | 77.1 | 74.4% | 1.27 |
| 🇲🇳 bLitz | 23-26 | 72.8 | 69.2% | 1.09 |
| 🇲🇳 Techno | 21-24 | 59.8 | 69.2% | 0.91 |
| 🇪🇺 BLEED | ||||
| 🇸🇪 nawwk | 28-25 | 62.9 | 82.1% | 1.10 |
| 🇬🇧 CYPHER | 25-32 | 84.4 | 69.2% | 1.02 |
| 🇳🇴 jkaem | 22-31 | 75.2 | 59.0% | 0.87 |
| 🇩🇪 faveN | 19-26 | 60.6 | 61.5% | 0.77 |
| 🇸🇪 hampus | 20-29 | 60.0 | 66.7% | 0.77 |
Individual Map Stats:
Map 1: Mirage
| Team | T | CT | Total |
|---|---|---|---|
| 🇲🇳 TheMongolz | 8 | 5 | 13 |
| CT | T | ||
| 🇪🇺 BLEED | 4 | 0 | 4 |
| Team | K-D | ADR | KAST | Rating |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 🇲🇳 TheMongolz | ||||
| 🇲🇳 Senzu | 17-8 | 99.2 | 70.6% | 1.68 |
| 🇲🇳 mzinho | 16-8 | 93.2 | 88.2% | 1.66 |
| 🇲🇳 910 | 17-10 | 94.8 | 82.4% | 1.54 |
| 🇲🇳 Techno | 11-9 | 66.0 | 70.6% | 1.05 |
| 🇲🇳 bLitz | 8-12 | 61.0 | 76.5% | 1.04 |
| 🇪🇺 BLEED | ||||
| 🇸🇪 nawwk | 14-12 | 65.9 | 82.4% | 1.12 |
| 🇬🇧 CYPHER | 13-15 | 98.5 | 70.6% | 1.11 |
| 🇩🇪 faveN | 9-12 | 70.8 | 52.9% | 0.78 |
| 🇸🇪 hampus | 6-14 | 42.9 | 64.7% | 0.53 |
| 🇳🇴 jkaem | 5-16 | 50.5 | 41.2% | 0.34 |
Mirage detailed stats and VOD
Map 2: Anubis
| Team | T | CT | Total |
|---|---|---|---|
| 🇲🇳 TheMongolz | 10 | 3 | 13 |
| CT | T | ||
| 🇪🇺 BLEED | 2 | 7 | 9 |
| Team | K-D | ADR | KAST | Rating |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 🇲🇳 TheMongolz | ||||
| 🇲🇳 910 | 19-12 | 86.9 | 63.6% | 1.39 |
| 🇲🇳 bLitz | 15-14 | 82.0 | 63.6% | 1.18 |
| 🇲🇳 mzinho | 16-13 | 74.5 | 72.7% | 1.16 |
| 🇲🇳 Senzu | 12-13 | 60.0 | 77.3% | 1.01 |
| 🇲🇳 Techno | 10-15 | 55.0 | 68.2% | 0.82 |
| 🇪🇺 BLEED | ||||
| 🇳🇴 jkaem | 17-15 | 94.4 | 72.7% | 1.31 |
| 🇸🇪 nawwk | 14-13 | 60.7 | 81.8% | 1.09 |
| 🇬🇧 CYPHER | 12-17 | 73.6 | 68.2% | 1.00 |
| 🇸🇪 hampus | 14-15 | 73.2 | 68.2% | 0.98 |
| 🇩🇪 faveN | 10-14 | 52.7 | 68.2% | 0.77 |
Anubis detailed stats and VOD
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2024.06.01 13:46 Ordinary_Concept_308 UFO Sighting (REAL) Avenal Cutoff Road, CA USA
 | Look…. I am a tow truck driver, I was driving through here tonight on my way back from Hanford and I recorded some shit that I can’t really explain. It baffles me, I’m gonna explain what I seen & recorded without jumping to any conclusions on what I believe it may be: submitted by Ordinary_Concept_308 to UFOs [link] [comments] There was a flying object circling my vehicle, normally I don’t get nervous over planes or helicopters but I noticed this was extremely low to the ground & had the ability to turn off all lights, and reappear in a new place. The flying object circled my tow truck twice before I got my phone out, and mind you, I’m driving around 55-70mph. In my first video, the flying object appears over the fields to my right, it had flashing lights almost like a plane but I already determined it wasn’t. It flew over to the left side of the road and then the lights changed from flashing to solid & multiple, it then seemed to gain enough speed to turn itself around to face me. It then turned on what appeared to be a headlight as it flew towards me, and when I got close it flew over the fields. Now this part is one I cannot explain, when it went over the fields, it then turned off its lights and flew at speeds I’ve never seen a plane fly before and disappeared behind me. I started recording the video again (tried to keep them short because I was sending them on IG and messages), and it was because the object was following me. You can clearly see the object behind me in the air, as well as a single light following what appeared to be near the roadway. Both never got too close even when I slowed down speeds they kept their distances. I have a couple more videos of them just moving around behind me and this went on for about 20 miles. Now, I am not one to believe in conspiracies. I try and deny all superstitions & go with what I can prove to be facts, but that’s where the problem is: there are some maneuvers this object was doing that a plane absolutely cannot do. 1) the object was very low, like under the telephone wires low at times 2) the way it cut & darted around was extremely fast, absolutely no way any plane could make those moves, not even a fighter jet could. 3) the speed in which it took off over the crops seemed to be well over 400mph, and I’m not sure exactly how fast it really went this is an estimate. Yes, a jet may have that ability but you would certainly hear the engines roar if it was. 4) the object is small, not as big as a plane at all, you can hear me in the video question if this was a crop duster but there’s absolutely no way. Not only can a crop duster not move that fast, but the object was far too small to be one. It wouldn’t be able to hold any liquid at all at that size to do anything. 5) I have NEVER seen a plane able to disable & reconfigure its lights in the way this object did on video, at times it appeared to even move backwards while facing me, meaning it had to at least be matching my rate of speed. 6) one major thing bothering me is how long it followed me until it disappears. It followed me through the whole road, and at first I was wondering if it was possibly the prison there monitoring the area, but I soon realized I was far away from the prison and it was gone before I got there, meaning it chose not to fly over the prison for whatever reason. I do not know what I saw & recorded tonight, what I do know is I have proof of it all & I’m willing to share it. I’m going to attach a picture of where I was located while recording the video because I managed to get a decent recording of my GPS on the tablet I use & it sort of shows my location. I am curious if you know what company might be out there using high grade military drones to monitor the area. Yes, I can say without a doubt that if it is a drone, it has to be something that the public could never get their hands on. It followed for 20 miles at least, I did not think this possible for drone technology. I am not sure what it was interested in or why it decided to get in front of me with a spotlight, & I am not even certain it was a drone. What it was doing broke all knowledge I thought I had on drone capabilities. I am more than willing to share these to you all & I hope you might have more information on what exactly I saw tonight at around 2:30am - 3am, which even though I already know that isn’t a crop duster, no fuckin way it was out dusting crops at 2:30am. |
2024.06.01 13:46 lentildaswinton At the end of my tether
I would never normally turn to Reddit but I’ve reached the end of my tether. I’m an ex-nurse so medically, I’m good - I don’t need medical advice, more an outlet to rant and get some support. If you have nothing nice to say, please don’t bother; my mental health is incredibly fragile right now.
I’m 34 next month, and I started my period for the first time at 8 years old (it was apparently triggered by CSA).
From the moment it started until now, it has been HORRIFIC. Waking up in pools of blood, barely able to leave the house without bleeding everywhere - never been able to wear skirts, shorts, or anything white. There’s never been a pattern, some periods would last for 3 months, sometimes it would disappear for a year.
I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2017 and was put on metformin. This did nothing to help.
In 2018, I had weight loss surgery as my bmi was (and still is) out of range for IVF. I have had 11 miscarriages - 4 of them were when my weight exceeded 28 stone, 5 were when my weight was at 18 stone, 2 at 16 stone, and 4 when my weight increased slightly.
I have been tested for natural killer cells, I’ve been tested for thrombocytopenia, I’ve been tested for EVERYTHING - nothing has come up except a dodgy thyroid (which I’m on medication to fix).
Anyway, after my surgery, my periods relaxed a bit and I started having one every three months or so which lasted about 3 weeks. Everything was okay until - and I am NOT anti-vax in the slightest! - I had my astrazeneca jab on 6.2.21 - literalky a day later, i bled until 12.6.23. I bled, heavily, every single day for over two years.
I was referred to gynaecology in March 21 and rhey didnt see me until August 22 when I was blue-lighted to a&e with severe iron-deficiency (iron levels 2) where they did a biopsy and a scan. The scan showed thickened endometrium and the biopsy was normal.
I ended up in hospital with an adrenal crisis and the bleeding still wouldnt stop. They gave me tranexamic acid, mefanamic acid, norethisterone - absolutely NOTHING would stop the bleeding. Eventually they discharged me and sent for an emergency iron infusion.
Fast forward a few months and the same thing happens again. Back to hospital, another iron infusion, still no medication would work. They did another biopsy - nothing.
This happened again every few months for about a year which takes us up to last June when I had another biopsy which came back showing “endometrial hyperplasia” but I received a letter from the specialist who said everything was normal. I tried to clarify with them but they weren’t sure what was going on. So I asked for a second opinion at a different hospital.
The new hospital did a biopsy which came back normal (this was Feb 24). After the biopsy, I stopped bleeding. It finally stopped! Until March came along and then I started bleeding AGAIN - I am STILL bleeding now. I’m off for another iron infusion at 2:30 today because my iron stores have dropped to 2 again and I’m at my wits end.
I’ve had 7 iron infusions in 2 years, no medication helps, no dietary changes help, no vitamin, mineral or nutritional deficiencies are documented. I eat very healthily, I exercise and I do everything I can to support my hormonal health (naturally, no additional supplementation aside from folic acid and folate).
I’m booked in to have the mirena coil fitted (again) at the end of June (apparently no sooner slots) but I’m losing the will to live. I genuinely cannot continue waking up like this day after day. I haven’t been able to work for four years because this is overruling my life.
They won’t do a hysterectomy “in case” I want to have children, they won’t investigate for endometriosis because I have “too much scar tissue” and they won’t check my egg quality because my BMI is just over 35. I’m working to lose weight (even though I lost 12 stone through weight loss surgery) but my body has plateaued and I can’t seem to lose anymore. My endocrinologist is scratching his head, I’m at a loss, and I’m genuinely fearful that if this continues much longer, I might end up taking drastic action.
submitted by lentildaswinton to Periods [link] [comments]
I’m 34 next month, and I started my period for the first time at 8 years old (it was apparently triggered by CSA).
From the moment it started until now, it has been HORRIFIC. Waking up in pools of blood, barely able to leave the house without bleeding everywhere - never been able to wear skirts, shorts, or anything white. There’s never been a pattern, some periods would last for 3 months, sometimes it would disappear for a year.
I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2017 and was put on metformin. This did nothing to help.
In 2018, I had weight loss surgery as my bmi was (and still is) out of range for IVF. I have had 11 miscarriages - 4 of them were when my weight exceeded 28 stone, 5 were when my weight was at 18 stone, 2 at 16 stone, and 4 when my weight increased slightly.
I have been tested for natural killer cells, I’ve been tested for thrombocytopenia, I’ve been tested for EVERYTHING - nothing has come up except a dodgy thyroid (which I’m on medication to fix).
Anyway, after my surgery, my periods relaxed a bit and I started having one every three months or so which lasted about 3 weeks. Everything was okay until - and I am NOT anti-vax in the slightest! - I had my astrazeneca jab on 6.2.21 - literalky a day later, i bled until 12.6.23. I bled, heavily, every single day for over two years.
I was referred to gynaecology in March 21 and rhey didnt see me until August 22 when I was blue-lighted to a&e with severe iron-deficiency (iron levels 2) where they did a biopsy and a scan. The scan showed thickened endometrium and the biopsy was normal.
I ended up in hospital with an adrenal crisis and the bleeding still wouldnt stop. They gave me tranexamic acid, mefanamic acid, norethisterone - absolutely NOTHING would stop the bleeding. Eventually they discharged me and sent for an emergency iron infusion.
Fast forward a few months and the same thing happens again. Back to hospital, another iron infusion, still no medication would work. They did another biopsy - nothing.
This happened again every few months for about a year which takes us up to last June when I had another biopsy which came back showing “endometrial hyperplasia” but I received a letter from the specialist who said everything was normal. I tried to clarify with them but they weren’t sure what was going on. So I asked for a second opinion at a different hospital.
The new hospital did a biopsy which came back normal (this was Feb 24). After the biopsy, I stopped bleeding. It finally stopped! Until March came along and then I started bleeding AGAIN - I am STILL bleeding now. I’m off for another iron infusion at 2:30 today because my iron stores have dropped to 2 again and I’m at my wits end.
I’ve had 7 iron infusions in 2 years, no medication helps, no dietary changes help, no vitamin, mineral or nutritional deficiencies are documented. I eat very healthily, I exercise and I do everything I can to support my hormonal health (naturally, no additional supplementation aside from folic acid and folate).
I’m booked in to have the mirena coil fitted (again) at the end of June (apparently no sooner slots) but I’m losing the will to live. I genuinely cannot continue waking up like this day after day. I haven’t been able to work for four years because this is overruling my life.
They won’t do a hysterectomy “in case” I want to have children, they won’t investigate for endometriosis because I have “too much scar tissue” and they won’t check my egg quality because my BMI is just over 35. I’m working to lose weight (even though I lost 12 stone through weight loss surgery) but my body has plateaued and I can’t seem to lose anymore. My endocrinologist is scratching his head, I’m at a loss, and I’m genuinely fearful that if this continues much longer, I might end up taking drastic action.
2024.06.01 13:46 Xo-Mo No Tip = No Food
My God. This morning, my acceptance rate has plummeted from 80% to 40% in less than an hour.
To keep it short, no one is tipping today.
90% of the delivery offers are for over 15 to 20 mi and less than $2-$3. Gas is $4.50 - $5 a gallon in the Chicago area. And you want me to use a gallon and a half of gas and only pay me $2?
Never gonna happen.
I know many of us drivers come on here to complain about this. We post images, screenshots, examples. I could do the same but I'm not going to. Because I would have to add about 30 different screenshots showing $2 for a 15-mile drive. That's just stupid.
Regardless of the cost of your food. Regardless of the fees that Uber charges. You are hiring a driver to use their own car and their own fuel to deliver your food for you. If you do not compensate that driver for at least the cost of the fuel, not to mention the time it takes to go to the restaurant and drive all the way to your house, don't expect very many (if any) drivers to accept that offer.
submitted by Xo-Mo to UberEATS [link] [comments]
To keep it short, no one is tipping today.
90% of the delivery offers are for over 15 to 20 mi and less than $2-$3. Gas is $4.50 - $5 a gallon in the Chicago area. And you want me to use a gallon and a half of gas and only pay me $2?
Never gonna happen.
I know many of us drivers come on here to complain about this. We post images, screenshots, examples. I could do the same but I'm not going to. Because I would have to add about 30 different screenshots showing $2 for a 15-mile drive. That's just stupid.
Regardless of the cost of your food. Regardless of the fees that Uber charges. You are hiring a driver to use their own car and their own fuel to deliver your food for you. If you do not compensate that driver for at least the cost of the fuel, not to mention the time it takes to go to the restaurant and drive all the way to your house, don't expect very many (if any) drivers to accept that offer.
2024.06.01 13:45 Accurate_Yogurt_4155 Fuck hemangiosarcoma - How to process his final day/decision to let him go - gutted beyond belief, please help I just want to join him
Long story short: Otis was my baby and he had terminal cancer and was losing function and quality of life rapidly this past week. As soon as it went into a range where he was just lying there, breathing fast, not much interest in the usual things, including food and water, we let him go. Logically I knew it was coming, and didn't want to make him suffer or selfishly keep him around languishing through bad days, but somehow I thought I'd be ok eventually. I've had months to know this was coming, and then it was over too soon and I wish a few things had gone differently at the very end (but with the vet there, and my husband, etc, it was hard to not leave Otis's side to oversee some minor details -- like adding special sweetener to his saucer of milk that he drank while getting the sedation shot, or having the meats I'd prepped right there, since he finished his milk so fast and I wanted him distracted and eating instead of feeling the pinch). Anyway, I want to die and I don't know how to process this. I just want my baby back.
(Super long story below, and it's not even everything - no need to read it, I'm sure. Sorry so long, this all just happened 8 hours ago)
Otis was my little 9 pound baby. My shadow. My love bug. I can't put into words our bond and love, but I know many on here get it. He simply wasn't "a dog" he was our baby
Before his 11th bday he suddenly had a large painful swollen shoulder. Turned out to be hemangiosarcoma deep in his muscle. Came on overnight. We consulted with surgeons and oncologists and decided that with such a dismal prognosis, plus his insane fear of the vet, and questionable findings on his ultrasound and X-rays re: possible spread (nothing conclusive), plus's grade 5 heart murmur and (medically managed) luxating patella in his back knee, we'd take him home and spoil him rotten for whatever time he had left.
Well within a week the pain/pressure in his shoulder became too much and we opted for palliative surgery (amputating his front leg), since he was otherwise "fine" and totally himself. Just a painful shoulder and no signs of spread beyond that - just to get him out of pain for his remaining days. They told us it's a surprisingly easy surgery and recovery, and he did amazing.
He adjusted insanely well to tripod life within 2 weeks, still loved his walks, hikes and outings, tons of special foods (beyond the home cooked meals he already enjoyed) - he was the absolute center of our world.
Since it was muscular, they couldn't say when it would return - not quite as bad as hemangio in organs, not quite as good as the skin version, but not many stats. And little dogs usually don't get this, so we weren't sure what to expect but knew his surgery was just to get him out of pain and it would hopefully not return for a few months +. Clean margins on the surgery, etc
Well he only got about 5 weeks before another lump showed up- thankfully not painful this time. And then another.
Ultimately he got 2.5 months from diagnosis before his belly was distended, he had a giant lump on his back the size of an apple, and smaller ones started popping up other places, and his heart and lungs were working way too hard (breathing 60-90 breaths a minute at rest).
He still wanted to go on short walks and go out for burritos and stay by my side all day long (thankfully I work from home). Didn't seem to be in any pain, but the pressure started building in his belly which made his heart and lungs have to work harder this past week.
Then 5 days ago he lost his appetite and thirst and threw up a few times. We tried an appetite stimulant and it helped a lot, but he wasn't the same guy. Just wanted to rest mostly, and eat our foods if they were new/novel, but they made his belly too full and he'd breathe heavily after eating, even though he loved the foods. His eyes seemed duller /glassy the past 3 days, And then started to withdraw a bit (though he still always wanted/needed me right nearby - carried him up and downstairs with me all day long).
The first night he panted overnight (last night) I knew it was too much. I carried him downstairs still in his bed (he normally ran down on his own), and he didn't want to get out of bed to go potty so I just opened the door and he looked out into his yard and into the sunshine. He wasn't himself at all. Normally he runs out and barks or snorts at the neighbor dogs and kicks and makes sure all is under control out there. But this morning he didn't want to get out of bed, even in front of the open door.
He didn't want us petting him, and last night when I carried him upstairs to bed something hurt and he made a little cry. Most likely tumors inside were bothered by being picked up, and also the distensión and pressure in his belly. That night he panted overnight several times and I knew it was time.
We had someone come over and help him transition that evening (tonight).
And as soon as the appointment was scheduled , and after not eating or drinking without the stimulant (and even then, still needing hand feeding of only new people food), suddenly he was willing to eat the steak and chicken we cooked for him - loved it so much. Ate all kinds of foods all day long until the appt.
After laying on the floor on his side, belly so big, breathing fast, coordination with his legs starting to fail him the last few days, falling down today several times (and yesterday) and not able to walk outside other than a quick potty break, he suddenly got such a burst of energy where the vet arrived.
I knew this would probably happen, but it was so hard to see him bouncing around and happy and excited, even though that's all I wanted for him. One last happy day, after several days of just laying on the floor, breathing faster. Just made the timing question a little harder to see him perk up and eat after a week of constant decline and loss of function/coordination.
It all happened a little faster than I expected, and a few details about his final treats of steak and chicken and milk got a little muddled bc my husband stepped in to get those so I could hold Otis's head and hand the whole time. I know it's also my grief making me upset that I couldn't make it exactly as planned, but he went peacefully and it went well, considering. We told him how much we loved him and i got to hold him one last time. I couldn't believe I was saying goodbye. I tried to not cry until after he was gone, and just love him and soothe him and not stress him out. He was the best boy. My baby. My soul dog.
When his heart stopped I couldn't breathe. Shaking, holding my breath, just beyond.
I knew he had terminal cancer for the last 3 months and thought somehow that I could handle this - I'd been processing it this whole time and made every day count even more than usual - but I feel so empty and lost and guilty and devastated.
I feel like I let this happen to him. I feel like I wanted the appt to be a little different in some ways. I need to get over those details. We didn't want him to suffer anymore. As much as we thought we made the call before it was too late, I'm sure he spent many days and hours feeling bad. He didn't deserve any of this.
I want to see him tomorrow morning, snorting and oinking and meowing and making all his weird noises, and licking my face all over. I want my baby back.
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Before his 11th bday he suddenly had a large painful swollen shoulder. Turned out to be hemangiosarcoma deep in his muscle. Came on overnight. We consulted with surgeons and oncologists and decided that with such a dismal prognosis, plus his insane fear of the vet, and questionable findings on his ultrasound and X-rays re: possible spread (nothing conclusive), plus's grade 5 heart murmur and (medically managed) luxating patella in his back knee, we'd take him home and spoil him rotten for whatever time he had left.
Well within a week the pain/pressure in his shoulder became too much and we opted for palliative surgery (amputating his front leg), since he was otherwise "fine" and totally himself. Just a painful shoulder and no signs of spread beyond that - just to get him out of pain for his remaining days. They told us it's a surprisingly easy surgery and recovery, and he did amazing.
He adjusted insanely well to tripod life within 2 weeks, still loved his walks, hikes and outings, tons of special foods (beyond the home cooked meals he already enjoyed) - he was the absolute center of our world.
Since it was muscular, they couldn't say when it would return - not quite as bad as hemangio in organs, not quite as good as the skin version, but not many stats. And little dogs usually don't get this, so we weren't sure what to expect but knew his surgery was just to get him out of pain and it would hopefully not return for a few months +. Clean margins on the surgery, etc
Well he only got about 5 weeks before another lump showed up- thankfully not painful this time. And then another.
Ultimately he got 2.5 months from diagnosis before his belly was distended, he had a giant lump on his back the size of an apple, and smaller ones started popping up other places, and his heart and lungs were working way too hard (breathing 60-90 breaths a minute at rest).
He still wanted to go on short walks and go out for burritos and stay by my side all day long (thankfully I work from home). Didn't seem to be in any pain, but the pressure started building in his belly which made his heart and lungs have to work harder this past week.
Then 5 days ago he lost his appetite and thirst and threw up a few times. We tried an appetite stimulant and it helped a lot, but he wasn't the same guy. Just wanted to rest mostly, and eat our foods if they were new/novel, but they made his belly too full and he'd breathe heavily after eating, even though he loved the foods. His eyes seemed duller /glassy the past 3 days, And then started to withdraw a bit (though he still always wanted/needed me right nearby - carried him up and downstairs with me all day long).
The first night he panted overnight (last night) I knew it was too much. I carried him downstairs still in his bed (he normally ran down on his own), and he didn't want to get out of bed to go potty so I just opened the door and he looked out into his yard and into the sunshine. He wasn't himself at all. Normally he runs out and barks or snorts at the neighbor dogs and kicks and makes sure all is under control out there. But this morning he didn't want to get out of bed, even in front of the open door.
He didn't want us petting him, and last night when I carried him upstairs to bed something hurt and he made a little cry. Most likely tumors inside were bothered by being picked up, and also the distensión and pressure in his belly. That night he panted overnight several times and I knew it was time.
We had someone come over and help him transition that evening (tonight).
And as soon as the appointment was scheduled , and after not eating or drinking without the stimulant (and even then, still needing hand feeding of only new people food), suddenly he was willing to eat the steak and chicken we cooked for him - loved it so much. Ate all kinds of foods all day long until the appt.
After laying on the floor on his side, belly so big, breathing fast, coordination with his legs starting to fail him the last few days, falling down today several times (and yesterday) and not able to walk outside other than a quick potty break, he suddenly got such a burst of energy where the vet arrived.
I knew this would probably happen, but it was so hard to see him bouncing around and happy and excited, even though that's all I wanted for him. One last happy day, after several days of just laying on the floor, breathing faster. Just made the timing question a little harder to see him perk up and eat after a week of constant decline and loss of function/coordination.
It all happened a little faster than I expected, and a few details about his final treats of steak and chicken and milk got a little muddled bc my husband stepped in to get those so I could hold Otis's head and hand the whole time. I know it's also my grief making me upset that I couldn't make it exactly as planned, but he went peacefully and it went well, considering. We told him how much we loved him and i got to hold him one last time. I couldn't believe I was saying goodbye. I tried to not cry until after he was gone, and just love him and soothe him and not stress him out. He was the best boy. My baby. My soul dog.
When his heart stopped I couldn't breathe. Shaking, holding my breath, just beyond.
I knew he had terminal cancer for the last 3 months and thought somehow that I could handle this - I'd been processing it this whole time and made every day count even more than usual - but I feel so empty and lost and guilty and devastated.
I feel like I let this happen to him. I feel like I wanted the appt to be a little different in some ways. I need to get over those details. We didn't want him to suffer anymore. As much as we thought we made the call before it was too late, I'm sure he spent many days and hours feeling bad. He didn't deserve any of this.
I want to see him tomorrow morning, snorting and oinking and meowing and making all his weird noises, and licking my face all over. I want my baby back.
2024.06.01 13:44 Jahcrsde My game crashes when clicking on any button
---- Minecraft Crash Report ---- // You should try our sister game, Minceraft! Time: 2024-06-01 06:30:21 Description: mouseClicked event handler java.lang.NoSuchMethodError: 'net.minecraft.class_339 net.minecraft.class_442.method_25411(net.minecraft.class_339)' at net.minecraft.class_442.handler$dom000$gbfabrictools$addConfigScreen(class_442.java:1530) at net.minecraft.class_442.method_25426(class_442.java:156) at net.minecraft.class_437.method_25423(class_437.java:297) at net.minecraft.class_310.method_1507(class_310.java:1080) at net.minecraft.class_8032.method_49296(class_8032.java:98) at net.minecraft.class_8032.method_25419(class_8032.java:90) at net.minecraft.class_8032.method_48639(class_8032.java:74) at net.minecraft.class_4185.method_25306(class_4185.java:94) at net.minecraft.class_4264.method_25348(class_4264.java:56) at net.minecraft.class_339.method_25402(class_339.java:189) at net.minecraft.class_4069.method_25402(class_4069.java:38) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_1611(class_312.java:98) at net.minecraft.class_437.method_25412(class_437.java:409) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_1601(class_312.java:98) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_22686(class_312.java:169) at net.minecraft.class_1255.execute(class_1255.java:102) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_22684(class_312.java:169) at org.lwjgl.glfw.GLFWMouseButtonCallbackI.callback(GLFWMouseButtonCallbackI.java:43) at org.lwjgl.system.JNI.invokeV(Native Method) at org.lwjgl.glfw.GLFW.glfwPollEvents(GLFW.java:3403) at com.mojang.blaze3d.systems.RenderSystem.pollEvents(RenderSystem.java:201) at com.mojang.blaze3d.systems.RenderSystem.flipFrame(RenderSystem.java:219) at net.minecraft.class_1041.method_15998(class_1041.java:288) at net.minecraft.class_310.method_1523(class_310.java:1241) at net.minecraft.class_310.method_1514(class_310.java:802) at net.minecraft.client.main.Main.main(Main.java:250) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.game.minecraft.MinecraftGameProvider.launch(MinecraftGameProvider.java:470) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.launch.knot.Knot.launch(Knot.java:74) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.launch.knot.KnotClient.main(KnotClient.java:23) A detailed walkthrough of the error, its code path and all known details is as follows: --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -- Head -- Thread: Render thread Stacktrace: at net.minecraft.class_442.handler$dom000$gbfabrictools$addConfigScreen(class_442.java:1530) at net.minecraft.class_442.method_25426(class_442.java:156) at net.minecraft.class_437.method_25423(class_437.java:297) at net.minecraft.class_310.method_1507(class_310.java:1080) at net.minecraft.class_8032.method_49296(class_8032.java:98) at net.minecraft.class_8032.method_25419(class_8032.java:90) at net.minecraft.class_8032.method_48639(class_8032.java:74) at net.minecraft.class_4185.method_25306(class_4185.java:94) at net.minecraft.class_4264.method_25348(class_4264.java:56) at net.minecraft.class_339.method_25402(class_339.java:189) at net.minecraft.class_4069.method_25402(class_4069.java:38) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_1611(class_312.java:98) at net.minecraft.class_437.method_25412(class_437.java:409) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_1601(class_312.java:98) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_22686(class_312.java:169) at net.minecraft.class_1255.execute(class_1255.java:102) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_22684(class_312.java:169) at org.lwjgl.glfw.GLFWMouseButtonCallbackI.callback(GLFWMouseButtonCallbackI.java:43) at org.lwjgl.system.JNI.invokeV(Native Method) at org.lwjgl.glfw.GLFW.glfwPollEvents(GLFW.java:3403) at com.mojang.blaze3d.systems.RenderSystem.pollEvents(RenderSystem.java:201) at com.mojang.blaze3d.systems.RenderSystem.flipFrame(RenderSystem.java:219) -- Affected screen -- Details: Screen name: net.minecraft.class_8032 Stacktrace: at net.minecraft.class_437.method_25412(class_437.java:409) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_1601(class_312.java:98) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_22686(class_312.java:169) at net.minecraft.class_1255.execute(class_1255.java:102) at net.minecraft.class_312.method_22684(class_312.java:169) at org.lwjgl.glfw.GLFWMouseButtonCallbackI.callback(GLFWMouseButtonCallbackI.java:43) at org.lwjgl.system.JNI.invokeV(Native Method) at org.lwjgl.glfw.GLFW.glfwPollEvents(GLFW.java:3403) at com.mojang.blaze3d.systems.RenderSystem.pollEvents(RenderSystem.java:201) at com.mojang.blaze3d.systems.RenderSystem.flipFrame(RenderSystem.java:219) at net.minecraft.class_1041.method_15998(class_1041.java:288) at net.minecraft.class_310.method_1523(class_310.java:1241) at net.minecraft.class_310.method_1514(class_310.java:802) at net.minecraft.client.main.Main.main(Main.java:250) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.game.minecraft.MinecraftGameProvider.launch(MinecraftGameProvider.java:470) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.launch.knot.Knot.launch(Knot.java:74) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.launch.knot.KnotClient.main(KnotClient.java:23) -- Last reload -- Details: Reload number: 1 Reload reason: initial Finished: Yes Packs: vanilla, fabric, Moonlight Mods Dynamic Assets, Essential Assets, essential Stacktrace: at net.minecraft.class_6360.method_36565(class_6360.java:49) at net.minecraft.class_310.method_1587(class_310.java:2413) at net.minecraft.class_310.method_1514(class_310.java:821) at net.minecraft.client.main.Main.main(Main.java:250) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.game.minecraft.MinecraftGameProvider.launch(MinecraftGameProvider.java:470) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.launch.knot.Knot.launch(Knot.java:74) at net.fabricmc.loader.impl.launch.knot.KnotClient.main(KnotClient.java:23) -- System Details -- Details: Minecraft Version: 1.20.1 Minecraft Version ID: 1.20.1 Operating System: Windows 11 (amd64) version 10.0 Java Version: 17.0.8, Microsoft Java VM Version: OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM (mixed mode), Microsoft Memory: 16734346176 bytes (15959 MiB) / 24092082176 bytes (22976 MiB) up to 40869298176 bytes (38976 MiB) CPUs: 16 Processor Vendor: AuthenticAMD Processor Name: AMD Ryzen 7 5800X 8-Core Processor Identifier: AuthenticAMD Family 25 Model 33 Stepping 2 Microarchitecture: Zen 3 Frequency (GHz): 4.20 Number of physical packages: 1 Number of physical CPUs: 8 Number of logical CPUs: 16 Graphics card #0 name: Virtual Desktop Monitor Graphics card #0 vendor: Virtual Desktop, Inc. Graphics card #0 VRAM (MB): 0.00 Graphics card #0 deviceId: unknown Graphics card #0 versionInfo: DriverVersion=10.54.50.446 Graphics card #1 name: Parsec Virtual Display Adapter Graphics card #1 vendor: Parsec Cloud, Inc. Graphics card #1 VRAM (MB): 0.00 Graphics card #1 deviceId: unknown Graphics card #1 versionInfo: DriverVersion=0.45.0.0 Graphics card #2 name: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 4090 Graphics card #2 vendor: NVIDIA (0x10de) Graphics card #2 VRAM (MB): 24095.00 Graphics card #2 deviceId: 0x2684 Graphics card #2 versionInfo: DriverVersion=32.0.15.5585 Memory slot #0 capacity (MB): 16384.00 Memory slot #0 clockSpeed (GHz): 3.60 Memory slot #0 type: DDR4 Memory slot #1 capacity (MB): 16384.00 Memory slot #1 clockSpeed (GHz): 3.60 Memory slot #1 type: DDR4 Memory slot #2 capacity (MB): 16384.00 Memory slot #2 clockSpeed (GHz): 3.60 Memory slot #2 type: DDR4 Memory slot #3 capacity (MB): 16384.00 Memory slot #3 clockSpeed (GHz): 3.60 Memory slot #3 type: DDR4 Virtual memory max (MB): 85532.29 Virtual memory used (MB): 51955.71 Swap memory total (MB): 20096.00 Swap memory used (MB): 74.20 JVM Flags: 4 total; -XX:HeapDumpPath=MojangTricksIntelDriversForPerformance_javaw.exe_minecraft.exe.heapdump -Xss1M 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2024.06.01 13:42 beautifulmess10 my (22F) bf (27M) lied to me but I knew the truth and I feel overwhelmed of the way he tried to gaslight me.
I’m with my bf for 4 years, going into 5 this July. There’s one thing that makes me sick and I can’t forgive easily, and that’s lying. He knows that from the moment we met, I can’t stand lies and I always want the truth even if it’s bad news.
Throughout this years there have been 3 to 4 events where I knew the truth about something, I tried asking him about it and giving him the chance to explain himself to me, but he just straight up lied to me. It was really intense because the first two times I couldn’t give him evidence that I know how things happened so he just continued with a lie. He managed to confess a day after, or even some times months later in a random conversation where we both were “fine” so he felt comfortable saying he was lying back then and that I was right about the events.
He has just started at a new job, where he is the only guy there among other 2 guys and a lot of girls. I had a work opportunity outside our country so at the moment and for 4 months I’m going to be abroad so it’s been even more difficult for us. I catch myself getting insecure sometimes when a woman I don’t know is involved, but I try to soothe myself because I do know he loves me and that I’m being unreasonable with those thoughts. For the whole month that I’m away, we always speak on the phone and two hours pass by with him rambling about work and always defending one specific girl at work. Yesterday, while he was at work, I texted him and he didn’t reply but was active on instagram. I don’t check that in any way and I don’t care, but it happened to show his profile to a friend I met here so I saw he was online and thought “he’s here but doesn’t reply to me” and thought about making fun of it because I do like teasing him. When I was at his profile, the following went up when I refreshed it, and I found out that it was the girl he’s been so much mentioning from work. I’ve already sent him a teasing message, and he replied that he wasn’t on instagram. Then, the story changed to “her sister called him on insta”. That’s a straight up lie because he never speaks on insta with his sister. He sent me screenshot of the “call”, which was made at 17:28 from his part and ended the same time from his part again. But I’ve asked why he doesn’t reply to me at 17:10, where supposedly he was speaking on the phone with his sister. I knew he was on insta to accept the request from this girl from work, so I just wanted him to tell me the truth, it’s not even a big deal. But the way he lied to me and made up stories rather than just saying that made me feel sick. I might overreacting but I physically can’t stand lies, I wouldn’t lie to anyone let alone the person I love. He was keeping up with the lies until the end of the day, even though I have him a lot of chances for him to just say the truth. At midnight, on the phone, he finally said that he was on instagram because this girl sent him a request but that happened during the end of his shift, around 20:00. He was still lying to my face so I just said to him what happened and how I knew the story and knew he was lying the whole time about something so so minor. He finally confessed that all the stories he told me was a lie, and he justify it that he “wasn’t thinking and was an immediate move to lie to me because he kinda felt guilty about it”.
I know it’s a minor issue at the moment of the way it happened, but it has happened before with much bigger problems, I’ve always told him that I can’t respect someone who lies to my face and is fine about it, but I just can’t help myself to think of how he was okay lying, and how many other “lies” I might have believed only because I didn’t know the truth or didn’t have the ways to prove my gut feeling. He says he won’t ever lie to me again and that he don’t want to lose me. I love him and I also don’t want to lose him but I do feel overwhelmed and can’t stop thinking about how he lied straight up and even got offensive when I tried to tell him the truth.
TL/DR: my (22F) bf (27M) lied to me but I knew the truth and I feel overwhelmed of the way he tried to gaslight me.
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Throughout this years there have been 3 to 4 events where I knew the truth about something, I tried asking him about it and giving him the chance to explain himself to me, but he just straight up lied to me. It was really intense because the first two times I couldn’t give him evidence that I know how things happened so he just continued with a lie. He managed to confess a day after, or even some times months later in a random conversation where we both were “fine” so he felt comfortable saying he was lying back then and that I was right about the events.
He has just started at a new job, where he is the only guy there among other 2 guys and a lot of girls. I had a work opportunity outside our country so at the moment and for 4 months I’m going to be abroad so it’s been even more difficult for us. I catch myself getting insecure sometimes when a woman I don’t know is involved, but I try to soothe myself because I do know he loves me and that I’m being unreasonable with those thoughts. For the whole month that I’m away, we always speak on the phone and two hours pass by with him rambling about work and always defending one specific girl at work. Yesterday, while he was at work, I texted him and he didn’t reply but was active on instagram. I don’t check that in any way and I don’t care, but it happened to show his profile to a friend I met here so I saw he was online and thought “he’s here but doesn’t reply to me” and thought about making fun of it because I do like teasing him. When I was at his profile, the following went up when I refreshed it, and I found out that it was the girl he’s been so much mentioning from work. I’ve already sent him a teasing message, and he replied that he wasn’t on instagram. Then, the story changed to “her sister called him on insta”. That’s a straight up lie because he never speaks on insta with his sister. He sent me screenshot of the “call”, which was made at 17:28 from his part and ended the same time from his part again. But I’ve asked why he doesn’t reply to me at 17:10, where supposedly he was speaking on the phone with his sister. I knew he was on insta to accept the request from this girl from work, so I just wanted him to tell me the truth, it’s not even a big deal. But the way he lied to me and made up stories rather than just saying that made me feel sick. I might overreacting but I physically can’t stand lies, I wouldn’t lie to anyone let alone the person I love. He was keeping up with the lies until the end of the day, even though I have him a lot of chances for him to just say the truth. At midnight, on the phone, he finally said that he was on instagram because this girl sent him a request but that happened during the end of his shift, around 20:00. He was still lying to my face so I just said to him what happened and how I knew the story and knew he was lying the whole time about something so so minor. He finally confessed that all the stories he told me was a lie, and he justify it that he “wasn’t thinking and was an immediate move to lie to me because he kinda felt guilty about it”.
I know it’s a minor issue at the moment of the way it happened, but it has happened before with much bigger problems, I’ve always told him that I can’t respect someone who lies to my face and is fine about it, but I just can’t help myself to think of how he was okay lying, and how many other “lies” I might have believed only because I didn’t know the truth or didn’t have the ways to prove my gut feeling. He says he won’t ever lie to me again and that he don’t want to lose me. I love him and I also don’t want to lose him but I do feel overwhelmed and can’t stop thinking about how he lied straight up and even got offensive when I tried to tell him the truth.
TL/DR: my (22F) bf (27M) lied to me but I knew the truth and I feel overwhelmed of the way he tried to gaslight me.
2024.06.01 13:42 Lopsided-Criticism13 Yall I just binged and WILL keep it down
Ive been on quasi for so long but mental hunger was always a btch. I ended up bp once a week, then it was twice a week, and lately I just want to bp every hour because I restrict and do exercise. I don’t have a period.
Today I binged and will keep it down, I will show my body that food is not scarce and hopefully mental hunger and food noise will die down. Im not afraid of weight gain, Im sick of this.
I will also have lunch in like an hour lmao Im so full. But I still want more lol.
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Today I binged and will keep it down, I will show my body that food is not scarce and hopefully mental hunger and food noise will die down. Im not afraid of weight gain, Im sick of this.
I will also have lunch in like an hour lmao Im so full. But I still want more lol.
2024.06.01 13:42 beautifulmess10 My (22F) bf (27M) lied to me but I knew the truth and I feel overwhelmed of the way he tried to gaslight me?
I’m with my bf for 4 years, going into 5 this July. There’s one thing that makes me sick and I can’t forgive easily, and that’s lying. He knows that from the moment we met, I can’t stand lies and I always want the truth even if it’s bad news.
Throughout this years there have been 3 to 4 events where I knew the truth about something, I tried asking him about it and giving him the chance to explain himself to me, but he just straight up lied to me. It was really intense because the first two times I couldn’t give him evidence that I know how things happened so he just continued with a lie. He managed to confess a day after, or even some times months later in a random conversation where we both were “fine” so he felt comfortable saying he was lying back then and that I was right about the events.
He has just started at a new job, where he is the only guy there among other 2 guys and a lot of girls. I had a work opportunity outside our country so at the moment and for 4 months I’m going to be abroad so it’s been even more difficult for us. I catch myself getting insecure sometimes when a woman I don’t know is involved, but I try to soothe myself because I do know he loves me and that I’m being unreasonable with those thoughts. For the whole month that I’m away, we always speak on the phone and two hours pass by with him rambling about work and always defending one specific girl at work. Yesterday, while he was at work, I texted him and he didn’t reply but was active on instagram. I don’t check that in any way and I don’t care, but it happened to show his profile to a friend I met here so I saw he was online and thought “he’s here but doesn’t reply to me” and thought about making fun of it because I do like teasing him. When I was at his profile, the following went up when I refreshed it, and I found out that it was the girl he’s been so much mentioning from work. I’ve already sent him a teasing message, and he replied that he wasn’t on instagram. Then, the story changed to “her sister called him on insta”. That’s a straight up lie because he never speaks on insta with his sister. He sent me screenshot of the “call”, which was made at 17:28 from his part and ended the same time from his part again. But I’ve asked why he doesn’t reply to me at 17:10, where supposedly he was speaking on the phone with his sister. I knew he was on insta to accept the request from this girl from work, so I just wanted him to tell me the truth, it’s not even a big deal. But the way he lied to me and made up stories rather than just saying that made me feel sick. I might overreacting but I physically can’t stand lies, I wouldn’t lie to anyone let alone the person I love. He was keeping up with the lies until the end of the day, even though I have him a lot of chances for him to just say the truth. At midnight, on the phone, he finally said that he was on instagram because this girl sent him a request but that happened during the end of his shift, around 20:00. He was still lying to my face so I just said to him what happened and how I knew the story and knew he was lying the whole time about something so so minor. He finally confessed that all the stories he told me was a lie, and he justify it that he “wasn’t thinking and was an immediate move to lie to me because he kinda felt guilty about it”.
I know it’s a minor issue at the moment of the way it happened, but it has happened before with much bigger problems, I’ve always told him that I can’t respect someone who lies to my face and is fine about it, but I just can’t help myself to think of how he was okay lying, and how many other “lies” I might have believed only because I didn’t know the truth or didn’t have the ways to prove my gut feeling. He says he won’t ever lie to me again and that he don’t want to lose me. I love him and I also don’t want to lose him but I do feel overwhelmed and can’t stop thinking about how he lied straight up and even got offensive when I tried to tell him the truth.
TL/DR: my (22F) bf (27M) lied to me but I knew the truth and I feel overwhelmed of the way he tried to gaslight me.
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Throughout this years there have been 3 to 4 events where I knew the truth about something, I tried asking him about it and giving him the chance to explain himself to me, but he just straight up lied to me. It was really intense because the first two times I couldn’t give him evidence that I know how things happened so he just continued with a lie. He managed to confess a day after, or even some times months later in a random conversation where we both were “fine” so he felt comfortable saying he was lying back then and that I was right about the events.
He has just started at a new job, where he is the only guy there among other 2 guys and a lot of girls. I had a work opportunity outside our country so at the moment and for 4 months I’m going to be abroad so it’s been even more difficult for us. I catch myself getting insecure sometimes when a woman I don’t know is involved, but I try to soothe myself because I do know he loves me and that I’m being unreasonable with those thoughts. For the whole month that I’m away, we always speak on the phone and two hours pass by with him rambling about work and always defending one specific girl at work. Yesterday, while he was at work, I texted him and he didn’t reply but was active on instagram. I don’t check that in any way and I don’t care, but it happened to show his profile to a friend I met here so I saw he was online and thought “he’s here but doesn’t reply to me” and thought about making fun of it because I do like teasing him. When I was at his profile, the following went up when I refreshed it, and I found out that it was the girl he’s been so much mentioning from work. I’ve already sent him a teasing message, and he replied that he wasn’t on instagram. Then, the story changed to “her sister called him on insta”. That’s a straight up lie because he never speaks on insta with his sister. He sent me screenshot of the “call”, which was made at 17:28 from his part and ended the same time from his part again. But I’ve asked why he doesn’t reply to me at 17:10, where supposedly he was speaking on the phone with his sister. I knew he was on insta to accept the request from this girl from work, so I just wanted him to tell me the truth, it’s not even a big deal. But the way he lied to me and made up stories rather than just saying that made me feel sick. I might overreacting but I physically can’t stand lies, I wouldn’t lie to anyone let alone the person I love. He was keeping up with the lies until the end of the day, even though I have him a lot of chances for him to just say the truth. At midnight, on the phone, he finally said that he was on instagram because this girl sent him a request but that happened during the end of his shift, around 20:00. He was still lying to my face so I just said to him what happened and how I knew the story and knew he was lying the whole time about something so so minor. He finally confessed that all the stories he told me was a lie, and he justify it that he “wasn’t thinking and was an immediate move to lie to me because he kinda felt guilty about it”.
I know it’s a minor issue at the moment of the way it happened, but it has happened before with much bigger problems, I’ve always told him that I can’t respect someone who lies to my face and is fine about it, but I just can’t help myself to think of how he was okay lying, and how many other “lies” I might have believed only because I didn’t know the truth or didn’t have the ways to prove my gut feeling. He says he won’t ever lie to me again and that he don’t want to lose me. I love him and I also don’t want to lose him but I do feel overwhelmed and can’t stop thinking about how he lied straight up and even got offensive when I tried to tell him the truth.
TL/DR: my (22F) bf (27M) lied to me but I knew the truth and I feel overwhelmed of the way he tried to gaslight me.
2024.06.01 13:42 Standard_Mode9882 My AI startup, 0 to 1
Hello everybody,
In this post, I'll share a bit about how I started my AI startup and how it's going (still in the very early phase).
And that's all for the moment!
Want to try it? Send me a DM!
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In this post, I'll share a bit about how I started my AI startup and how it's going (still in the very early phase).
The Failure
I started about 6 months ago, developing an AI system for making restaurant calls without doing any prior research (spoiler: total failure). I developed the product (1-2 months) and launched it to the market. I thought it was a great idea and even wrote some posts discussing it in-depth. However, the product was a total failure—no one wanted to use it, even for free! So, instead of wasting time trying to find someone who would use it (I reached out to over 100 people), I pivoted. I repurposed the AI system into a fun platform where you can have fluent conversations with the AI.Preventing Failure
Market Research! For the second attempt and the new product idea, I researched to see if there was a market fit and potential traction. I didn't have concrete data but wanted to move quickly. I looked at search trends for similar apps, asked in forums if the product could be useful, and received positive responses (I know, not the best market research, but I had to move forward).The New Product
I developed the new product idea in almost a month. What is the product about? It's an app to practice fluent and common conversations in any language, like ordering a coffee at Starbucks or asking for directions on the street. You can practice any common situation in a fun way, with added objectives to make the conversations dynamic. I plan to add features to make conversations even more enjoyable while you learn another language.First Milestone!
After reaching out to some people I had contacted before, making new posts, and engaging with potential users, I hit my first BIG MILESTONE: I gained 20 users in a week. It might seem like a small number, but it shows the product has potential, which is very exciting for me.Road to Market Fit, 100 Users, and More! (Currently Here)
Now, I'm thinking about how to achieve the next goals: improving the product based on feedback, studying how to help users more effectively, and planning the next marketing strategies.And that's all for the moment!
Want to try it? Send me a DM!
2024.06.01 13:39 delliamcool She got a DUI
My sister who I’ve posted about in this subreddit before got a DUI this week. It’s her first one. I saw her the night it happened, I was over at my family’s house watching a movie with my other sister on the couch. Q sister came in and said goodnight to us and that she was going to bed and upstairs.
My sister and I woke up to her calling our phones from jail at 2 AM, but when the recording said press 1 to accept this call it would say she didn’t have any money in her account and so it couldn’t connect, so we didn’t actually get to talk to her or find out what jail she was in, and what happened until the next day. She was pulled over for reckless driving in a suburb 40 minutes away from the house (we still have no idea why she was up there) failed her sobriety test and blew a .17 on the breathalyzer. She could have killed herself or someone else. She’s out of jail and waiting to be arraigned. My mom wanted to pick her up from jail and tell her she could go directly to rehab or that she’d drive her to any drop off spot of her choosing but she could not live at the house anymore if she did not go to inpatient rehab. My sister agreed to go to rehab, but it has been impossible to find her a spot that her insurance will cover. She’s been out of jail for two days now and we still have not been able to find her a spot anywhere. So she’s just at the house watching TV. From what I googled she’s definitely going to have to pay thousands in fines and could get up to 90 days in jail in our state. I’m terrified for her, she’s a very sensitive and anxious person and I can’t imagine her in jail.
My family’s house is old and creaky and it is impossible to come downstairs without the entire house knowing someone is on the stairs, there’s literally no way she could have snuck down them and we never saw her come downstairs to leave, which means she must have snuck out on the roof. She’s 26.
For some reason I can’t get the image of her deciding to climb onto the roof and shimmy down to sneak away out of my mind. What kind of grown adult does that? She used to pack my lunches for me when we were kids and I had a field trip. She used to drive her car close to where I exited the building after high school and wait for me so I wouldn’t have to walk around looking for her car in the line, even though this put us at the back of the line every day and meant we got home 20-30 minutes later. I feel like I don’t even know her anymore.
I’ve spent every free minute I have had over the last 3 days trying to find her a rehab spot. I have 6 college assignments due tomorrow at midnight and haven’t started a single one and my apartment is a wreck but I can’t think about anything else other than her.
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My sister and I woke up to her calling our phones from jail at 2 AM, but when the recording said press 1 to accept this call it would say she didn’t have any money in her account and so it couldn’t connect, so we didn’t actually get to talk to her or find out what jail she was in, and what happened until the next day. She was pulled over for reckless driving in a suburb 40 minutes away from the house (we still have no idea why she was up there) failed her sobriety test and blew a .17 on the breathalyzer. She could have killed herself or someone else. She’s out of jail and waiting to be arraigned. My mom wanted to pick her up from jail and tell her she could go directly to rehab or that she’d drive her to any drop off spot of her choosing but she could not live at the house anymore if she did not go to inpatient rehab. My sister agreed to go to rehab, but it has been impossible to find her a spot that her insurance will cover. She’s been out of jail for two days now and we still have not been able to find her a spot anywhere. So she’s just at the house watching TV. From what I googled she’s definitely going to have to pay thousands in fines and could get up to 90 days in jail in our state. I’m terrified for her, she’s a very sensitive and anxious person and I can’t imagine her in jail.
My family’s house is old and creaky and it is impossible to come downstairs without the entire house knowing someone is on the stairs, there’s literally no way she could have snuck down them and we never saw her come downstairs to leave, which means she must have snuck out on the roof. She’s 26.
For some reason I can’t get the image of her deciding to climb onto the roof and shimmy down to sneak away out of my mind. What kind of grown adult does that? She used to pack my lunches for me when we were kids and I had a field trip. She used to drive her car close to where I exited the building after high school and wait for me so I wouldn’t have to walk around looking for her car in the line, even though this put us at the back of the line every day and meant we got home 20-30 minutes later. I feel like I don’t even know her anymore.
I’ve spent every free minute I have had over the last 3 days trying to find her a rehab spot. I have 6 college assignments due tomorrow at midnight and haven’t started a single one and my apartment is a wreck but I can’t think about anything else other than her.