Hello,
I am interested in staying in Spain long-term. This said, I have been applying to jobs outside of the Aux program. Now I have some questions regarding the visa.
Does anyone have any experience converting their student visa to a work permit?
I’ve read online that in order to apply for a work permit, you must be living in Spain for 3 consecutive years.
Is there anyway to bypass this if you have a job offer? I am looking for some guidance…
Also, my student visa had “AUT. Trabajar” and says I can work 30 hours.
The job I am interested in is an English academy. Could I keep my student visa and have my new job/school provide me with an offer letter? I would be working less than 30 hours.
This new employer is interested in hiring me and I need to know what I would need from them to accept a position (job offer letter, sponsorship… etc.)… or is this even possible?!
Thanks!

The Remains of the Day is a remarkable book. Having not read anything like it in the past, I didn’t know what to expect going in. The book starts at a leisurely pace, with the protagonist Stevens, a traditional old English butler considering a trip around the West Country. Stevens takes us along on this trip to visit an old colleague of his, Miss Kenton, and while the book is not plot-heavy, the focus of the book is on Stevens’ reminiscence of his decades-long career at Darlington Hall, the stately home of Lord Darlington.
As Stevens slowly uncovers his life and career before our eyes, we see the detailed portrait of a man who prides himself on being emotionally repressed and impassive. Ishiguro’s prose flows beautifully, turning the most mundane events and topics such as Stevens’ ramblings about the “perfect butler” and his extremely flawed notion of “dignity”, which he considers to be the central characteristic of a great butler, into a pleasure to read.
Slowly, a lot is revealed in what is not being said, as we realise that Stevens has almost deluded himself about his life and the world in his desire to be great while accepting his place in the British class system. He is a flawed man, and I often found myself frustrated with him when he remains trapped within his ideals of extreme professionalism in the numerous stories he recounts from his life. I found myself screaming at the page, imploring Stevens to “just be human for a second!”
The book is restrained, and so understated. Events with giant implications and emotional climaxes are reached in the subtlest of ways, and still succeed in breaking your heart. Ishiguro doesn’t need a hammer, he gently pushes you over the edge like a vase and your heart shatters into a million pieces.
Ultimately, the theme of the book is regret, and the feeling that life has passed you by and hasn’t turned out the way you expected it to. It moved me in unexpected ways, and I look forward to reading it again at another point in my life and gleaning something more from it. I give it 5/5 stars, for whatever my stars are worth. It truly is a brilliant book, and all the praise is deserved.

The Quran holds immense significance for Muslims, and nurturing a love for its teachings is a cherished goal for many parents. In today’s digital age, online Quran classes offer a convenient and accessible way for children to embark on this journey. This guide explores both online Quran classes for kids and online Quran memorization programs, empowering you to find the ideal platform to cultivate your child’s Islamic knowledge and connection with the holy text.
The Advantages of Online Quran Classes for Kids

• Flexibility and Convenience: Online classes allow children to learn from the comfort of your home, catering to busy schedules and eliminating geographical barriers.
• Engaging and Interactive Learning: Reputable online platforms incorporate engaging activities, games, and animations specifically designed to keep children motivated and make learning the Quran fun.
• Qualified Instructors: Children gain access to experienced Quran teachers (Qaris/Hafizes) from around the world, enriching their learning experience with diverse teaching styles.

What to Look for in Online Quran Classes for Kids

• Age-Appropriate Curriculum: The curriculum should be tailored to a child’s age group, focusing on foundational concepts like basic Arabic letters, pronunciation (Tajweed), and short surahs (chapters) in a fun and interactive way.
• Patient and Encouraging Teachers: Qualified teachers who are patient, encouraging, and create a safe learning environment are crucial for fostering a positive attitude towards Quranic studies in children.
• Safe and Secure Online Platform: Choose a platform that prioritizes safety and security for children, with features like parental controls and a monitored online learning environment.

Benefits of Online Quran Memorization Classes (Hifz) for Kids

• Developing Strong Habits: Early exposure to memorization techniques can help children develop strong habits and a foundation for lifelong Quranic learning.
• Building Confidence and Self-Esteem: Successfully memorizing portions of the Quran can boost a child’s confidence and self-esteem, fostering a sense of accomplishment.
• Spiritual Growth: Engaging with the Quran’s message at a young age can nurture a child’s spiritual development and connection with their faith.

What to Consider in Online Quran Memorization Classes (Hifz) for Kids

• Gradual Progression: Memorization programs should be age-appropriate and follow a gradual progression, ensuring children are not overwhelmed and can retain what they learn.
• Focus on Proper Tajweed: Memorization should always be accompanied by proper pronunciation (Tajweed) to ensure accurate recitation from the outset.
• Positive Reinforcement and Rewards: Positive reinforcement and a reward system can keep children motivated and engaged throughout the Hifz journey.

Finding the Perfect Online Quran Learning Platform
With a vast array of online Quran learning options available, consider the following factors when making your choice for your child:

• Your Child’s Age and Learning Style: Consider your child’s age, interests, and preferred learning style when selecting classes or memorization programs.
• Teacher Qualifications and Experience: Seek instructors with proven qualifications in Quranic studies and a teaching style that resonates with your child’s needs.
• Platform Features: Explore the platform’s features, such as interactive tools, progress tracking options, and ease of use for both you and your child.

Embrace a Rewarding Journey
Online Quran classes and memorization programs offer a valuable resource for nurturing your child’s understanding and connection with the Quran. By finding the right platform and approach, you can empower your child to embark on a rewarding journey of Islamic learning and spiritual growth. Remember, the most important aspect is to choose a program that fosters a love for the Quran and makes learning enjoyable for your child.

• Rob Weiss is her favorite ex-boyfriend.
• He’s the one person that was a good guy, talented, creative, and inspired her a lot. They were together for 7.5 years.
• He feels the same way about her.
• He liked her dad.
• Her mom and Weiss got along well. Her mom painted a house (her own? Weiss’?) and wanted to see Weiss’ reaction.
• Doherty avoids obstacles now, instead of trying to plow through them.
• He was on vacation in 1991, and met her at Bar One. He knew who she was. He had wanted to go into the film business.
• He made a movie, went to the Sundance Film Festival, moved to L.A.
• 2 years later, Doherty was married. Doherty started dating him around 1994.
• They moved in together quickly after Doherty left her first husband.
• They got together right before her 23rd birthday.
• He was not successful, but not a failure. He wrote “Milk Bar”. He did “American Psycho”.
• They watched Clerks together.
• Doherty says he introduced her to the indie film world.
• They were engaged. But after her first marriage, she believed a piece of paper doesn’t mean anything.
• Doherty’s mom still wears her wedding band, even though Doherty’s father died.
• They connect with each other on a soul level.
• He has a child with another woman.
• Doherty learned she needs to listen to her gut.
• They broke off the engagement a week before the wedding.
• Doherty was still following what was happening with her first husband.
• Marriage is an antiquated notion to Weiss.
• There’s no woman that’s more important to him than the mother of his child. They had dated for 3 years. But he doesn’t need to marry her.
• Doherty says Weiss is a Math Changer. (See the podcast with Doherty and Les Snead).
• Rick (another ex) was a Buyer Beware.
• Weiss says Rick has different demons. But he’s a cool cat.
• Weiss loves his dad, but he would categorize him as a toxic male. He smoked until he had lung cancer. He served in the military.
• Doherty loves Weiss’ dad.
• Doherty still adores both Rob and Rick.
• Doherty’s soul connection with Weiss will always be there.
• Rob gave Doherty the diamond heart necklace that Prue wore on Charmed.
• Weiss still has some necklaces and rings that Doherty gave him.
• Doherty had a tattoo with Weiss’ name on it. She eventually covered it up with flowers. Weiss did not want to get a tattoo with her name on it.
• He now has tattoos. Such as his son’s name. Since he likes tattoos now, he thinks maybe he would have gotten Doherty’s name on his neck, if he had to make the decision again.
• The best moment they had was in Venice, Italy. They went to get something to eat late at night. The streets were dead. Some guy started to talk to them. They told him they wanted food. They followed him. He directed them to two other people. Doherty thought they were going to get robbed. Eventually they were lead to a restaurant. It was a 24 hour restaurant. And the food was delicious.
• They went to Amsterdam. They ended up at a hostel with 5 beds in a room. She didn’t want to do that.

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• Doherty thinks it’s hard for Weiss, because he can spend 2 years writing a show. Then he pitches it, and the people he pitches it to don’t like it.
• Weiss tries to work on 10 things at the same time.
• If he had spent 2 straight years working on only one thing, it would hurt him more.
• Doherty had a birthday party at a bar, where there was a fight.
• They had only been dating for 10 days. They started on April Fools Day.
• Greg Vance gave Weiss a weird look. Weiss went up to him and his people and asked if there was a problem. He turned around to his right, and got headbutted on his nose.
• The fight spilled out onto the street.
• He doesn’t roll with a large posse anymore.
• He stopped drinking 5 years ago.
• He loved red wine.
• He can’t be hungover at 7am, with his kid, anymore. He had to set a better example.
• His son is his dad reincarnated.
• He’s been nominated 3x for Entourage.
• Doherty just found out Weiss was nominated at the Sundance Film Festival for Grand Jury Prize.
• Doherty was so excited when she, Jason Priestley, and Luke Perry presented an award at the Emmys.
• Weiss thought Entourage was going to be horrible. He didn’t think the audience would connect with the show.
• Doug Elin had wanted Weiss to play Billy Walsh.
• Weiss’ first impression of Doherty was that she was his dream girl. She was fun. She was spicy. She smoked cigarettes like a fighter pilot. Sexy, great style. Amazing cook.
• Doherty wants another relationship. She just doesn’t want to get married again.
• Weiss does better in life on some nights when he can take a bubble bath, get up at 5:30am, and does what he needs to do, without having a conversation.
• Doherty agrees, so why can’t there be a relationship where Weiss doesn’t move in with someone, and they keep their separate places? So they can have off nights as needed.
• He thinks the guy should be older, but has nothing against men who are with women 20 years older. Whatever fits one’s preference.
• He just wants a positive energy with someone.
• He’s not looking for someone to go on a cruise together with.
• Weiss and Doherty dated for 2 - 3 years before they got engaged.
• The proposal was basically Doherty going “give me the fucking ring”.
• When they were in Italy and France together, Weiss ran into an old friend. That friend was with his girlfriend, who had a 5 carat ring. Doherty then wanted a ring. So they got that friend to make a ring.
• Weiss asked for her parents’ blessing.
• Her parents heaped concerns on him.
• Weiss was surprised, because they had been dating for 3 years.
• Their relationship was from right after she left Beverly Hills 90210, to right after she left Charmed.
• She stopped living with him at some point, and got her own place.
• Dick Wolf offered Doherty a show after Charmed. But she had to move to New York. She didn’t want to do that. She was in love. Her parents were in LA. She says she was an idiot for turning it down.
• They were on again, off again a few times during those 7 years.
• Dating was more pure back then, compared to now. Now it’s transactional. Dating is now only with people that can help someone.
• Weiss calls it opportunistic. And leveraging.
• Now, people develop a fantasy relationship with someone. Then they meet them, and it’s different.
• It was easier back then, because you dated people you knew, from within Hollywood.
• Weiss has supported Doherty during her cancer.
• Weiss was devastated when Doherty’s cancer came back.

Have been watching some old Live videos from some swedish metal bands, and they where horrible at speaking english back then, but you don't notice it so much while they are performing, why is that so?

So I was a poor child who never got to play yugioh on the ds, and has recently come across ways to play them all. The question is, what tips do people have for building your own decks, especially for someone who is not up with the lingo, so if you could explain it like I am five years old, I'd love you even more. Sorry for asking about an old game, it was just the one I started with and some of the lingo is WAY over my head and not explained in plain English for those like me who have nothing to go off except for the anime. Thanks in advance, and may you find the heart of the cards when you need it most :)

{You, with a View by Jessica Joyce} is on sale for $1.99 at Amazon. According to the website, it's the best price in 30 days and it's not available via KU.
Link: Amazon US
Blurb:
Two high school enemies must reunite for a road trip inspired by their grandparents’ broken engagement in this electric debut romance.
Noelle Shepard is unemployed, living with her parents, and grieving the loss of her beloved grandmother when she discovers decades-old photos of Gram and a smitten man, tucked alongside a love letter. She creates a TikTok to search for the mystery man, which goes viral, and she’s shocked when his grandson responds—a man who happens to be her high school nemesis, Theo Spencer.
Noelle refuses to let Theo’s annoying accomplishments in adulthood—or his sexy smirk—stand in the way of meeting his grandfather and unlocking the secrets he knew about her gram as a young woman. When she learns that their plans to elope were thwarted, Noelle decides to take the honeymoon road trip they planned but never got to carry out. There’s a catch, though: Paul, Theo's grandfather, asks to come with her, and he insists that Theo join them.
It’ll be a miracle if they make it through the trip without Noelle throwing Theo out of the moving car—or the bed they end up sharing. As the miles tick by, the tension simmers hotter between them...until she discovers that Theo’s hiding a secret that could cause their tenuous relationship to end before it can restart.

In the vast countryside, away from the busy city of Savannah, exist hills as tall as buildings and green as emeralds. There was also an aura of calmness, with a few birds twittering away in dispersed trees, followed by the gentle swaying of the wind.
Then, out of nowhere, came a small, lonely girl wearing a once-lily-white summer dress with a striped long-sleeved t-shirt underneath it. She was also wearing a dark blue and cream-white baseball hat with the letter D on the front of it. She was moving wearily, with a pistol in one hand, and wiping her damp eyes with the other.
She knew what happened to make her weep. According to her, it was her fault that she got him killed; she was convinced by a towering man who said he knew her parents. But that was a brainless, childish lie that got Lee killed. She shouldn’t have run off. At least, Lee taught her how to use a gun and what to expect in the future before his tragic passing. But now she was all on her own.
Eventually, she came to a log, which was next to the rusted shell of a car. Anyway, she proceeded to sit down on it. Throughout all of this, she was as quiet as a mouse, only looking at her feet and wiping her blood-red eyes. She noticed that on the floor next to the log was a mixture of bullets—some shell casings and some unfired ones. Out of curiosity, she picked it up and examined it before exhaling deeply, which is when she noticed something else. Something she could just about make out if she scrutinised her eyes—something on the nearest hill—looked like two figures. One followed the other, and they looked like they stopped to look at her, making her start to hyperventilate as her eyes extended to the size of oranges. Was it someone she knew? Was it a threat to her? She didn’t know.
"Lee said I needed to find Omid and Christa before he got killed because of me." She said to herself, still looking sad, as she noticed that the two figures were now coming down the prominent hill—they didn't look like walkers. So she clasped her gun tightly until the figures came into view. She ended up not firing the gun and running towards the figures, as it was Omid and Christa, and they were alive!
Omid was a tall, slim Persian-American man with short dark-brown hair and a beard to match.
Christa, on the other hand, was a slightly taller African-American lady. She also had jet-black hair tied up in a ponytail, and she was Omid’s girlfriend.
"Clementine, honey, where's Lee?" Christa asked, kneeling to the nine-year-old.
"H-h-he's...dead." She answered with her face buried in Christa’s shoulder.
"Oh, Clementine, we’re sorry," Omid said, who started to kneel to her height as well.
"W-where's Ben and Kenny?" Clementine asked, still with her face buried in Christa’s shoulder.
Omid and Christa then looked at each other without Clementine noticing, and it was Omid who told her what happened to Ben and Kenny.
"So, it’s just us three," Clementine responded, now looking at Omid and Christa with her eyes dry again, a short while later.
"I guess, Clem, I guess so." Christa replied, "Come on, let’s go somewhere safe."
With this, the trio (Clementine, Omid, and Christa) began to walk, with Clementine tagging behind while Omid and Christa were in front. They were busily talking away, apart from Clementine, who was still looking at her feet, along holding the gun in her hand. As a result of this, she wasn't engaged in the conversation that they were having. She was too melancholy about what happened today. With her being kidnapped, seeing her walker parents, Lee dying, and now Kenny and Ben dying as well.
It was a lot for her to take in.
* * * * *
Sometime later, the trio found an abandoned house that had been abandoned for decades, as thick ivy hugged the walls. Furthermore, it reminded Clementine of that house they stayed at in Savannah; it was hard to believe that was a month ago.
Anyway, they succeeded in getting into the house rather than struggling, so now they could search within it.
Clementine, honey," Christa said, kneeling to her. "Omid, and I believe you can search parts of this house on your own. Just remember, if someone, walker or not, tries to hurt you, you got your gun. If you run out of bullets or are in a tight place, call us, and we will help you if you get into trouble. Do you understand?"
“Yeah, I do, Christa; I will be careful."
“Good," replied Christa, "let me know if you find anything."
With this, Clementine strayed a little by searching for anything useful on her own, though she stayed close to Omid and Christa.
As usual in the kitchen, she found faded, rusted cans with nothing but spoiled food inside. So she decided to head upstairs, and it seemed like they creaked with every step; as Omid and Christa were searching the enormous living room. Once she was upstairs, she clasped her pistol tightly and opened the door with one of her hands and the other on the pistol. Nothing. The room was that of a bathroom, with its normal interior—a bath, sink, toothbrushes, and some cupboards—which was stripped of life.
So she closed the door, walked to the next door, and proceeded to open it in the same manner she did for the bathroom. This room was that of a child’s room, which made Clementine remember her room back in Georgia, with its toys and books. It felt like she was just coming home from school and wanted to play with her dolls until supper time; it was hard to believe that was a year ago. Yet, here she was searching for anything useful in terms of survival—and not searching for a certain toy she wanted to play with at present.
“Just as well Lee found me when he did.” She said to herself as she glanced over at the room, trying to remember simpler times. When she went to school, she watched cartoons all day and rode her bike in the park with her parents. When she was thinking about this, she noticed that there was a medium-sized lump near the wall, cloaked in dust. It was a doll, and there was a string attached to its back, and when Clementine pulled it, it produced the word "Mama”.
Clementine remembered the doll that her mother gave her for her sixth birthday; it was probably still in the back of the wardrobe.
Eventually, she found an old pocket-sized backpack with a few flowery stickers, along with a dark-blue hoodie in her size.
“Have you found anything, Clementine?” called out Christa.
“Yeah, a backpack and a hoodie," answered Clementine, walking towards the edge of the stairs where Omid and Christa were.
“Just remember to check the bag, Clem; they might have something useful." Replied Christa.
“Ok," Clementine replied, unzipping the bag and then putting her hand into it, but not looking into it. Lo and behold, she found a working lighter, and it looked like it had a decent amount of fuel for a while.
Clementine then walked to the conclusive door upstairs, and like what she did before, however, the door required a little exertion to open. As a result of this, Clementine noticed that the noise she made alerted her to the presence of a walker heading towards her. This, of course, made Clementine a little timid, but she knew what to do. As her heart started to ram against her ribcage, likewise, a thick seal of sweat began to form on her hands, transferring onto her gun.
Always aim for the head," Clementine said to herself as she exhaled deeply and fired the gun. BANG!! The walker fell with a deafening thud, and Clementine was astounded at herself for shooting the walker that was coming towards her.
I did it, I did it," she exclaimed in a loud whisper. Which is when the door bursts open to reveal Omid and Christa with perturbed faces.
"Is everything OK, Clem? Are you hurt?" Asked Omid.
Yeah, I’m fine; I’m not hurt. Replied Clementine, as the trio all stood in stupefied silence at the walker that Clementine gunned down. "Did you find anything? Clementine asked after a minute of silence.
"Yes. We have found two cans of beans and some water." Christa replied.
"Oh."
“Well, let’s keep moving on, Clem. People might have heard the shot and might come here.” Omid said.
“Ok," responded Clementine. "I said already, but I found a backpack and a hoodie."
“Put it on, Clem; it’s starting to get colder, and we get going."
“Ok, I’ll put it on now."
Clementine then took off her hat, gave the gun to Omid, put on the dark blue hoodie, put her hat back on, and took the gun back from Omid. After that, Clementine followed Christa and Omid downstairs and out of the house and walked on.
* * * * *
Some short weeks later, the trio now situated in a substantial-sized forest under a thick canopy of leaves with Omid tending to a fire. Clementine and Christa, however, were sitting down on some nearby log around the fire.
Christa was busy talking to Omid about her pregnancy, whereas Clementine was busy herself by looking at the stars. The stars flickered and danced in the sky like a million tiny flames, casting a shimmering glow over the forest below. Furthermore, the sky itself was filled with low oranges, along with a mixture of light blues. Which were progressively getting into the realms of dark blues, purples and then full-on jet-black. Moreover, there seemed to be a chorus of crickets hiding somewhere in lush grasses, chirping away harshly.
“I would say that rabbit is cooked now, Omid.”
“Oh, right, yeah,” replied Omid, as he began to take the cooked rabbit off the spit – and handed it out to Christa and Clementine, then to himself.
"Thank you very much," Clementine said as she reached for the rabbit meat before going back to look at the stars. She thought to herself as she ate: "How many are there? Hundreds? Thousands? Millions?"
“Hm, what – sorry Christa; what did you say?”
“Omid and I said that we are going to rest here tonight and get going in the morning."
"Ok, as my legs still ache from all that walking we did today."
"Well, get some rest, you're going to need it," Omid said, rising from poking the fire.
"Ok," responded Clementine, getting up from the weather-worn log, wishing Omid and Christa a good night before she got onto the floor near the fire and began to close her eyes. She then began to dream about what she would be doing tomorrow, what would happen, and what she would see.
The next morning was filled with colours ranging from warm yellows trickling through the gaps in the trees. Clementine rubbed her eyes before getting up from the harsh, tough ground and walked to the log where she sat last night, where she saw Omid was cooking again.
"Morning, Clem," Omid said. "How did you sleep?"
"Ok, I'd rather sleep in a bed than on the floor."
"Yeah, I don't like it either, but it's necessary until we get to Wellington."
"Where's Christa?" asked Clementine, now looking around the campsite as she noticed Christa wasn't there.
But then, five minutes later, after Clementine had eaten, Christa came back - and with this, the trio began to walk on; with her now near Omid and Christa. Yet, like last time, Clementine's fingers were still wrapped around her pistol as if it were a part of her. But instead of looking at her feet, she was looking around the pensive clearing.
The clearing was serene, where only a few walkers were roaming around, but they could be seen more evidently through a few hacked trees. The trio strolled down the lane through dappled light filtering itself through the trees; moreover, the sound of the leaves rustled in the weak wind. There was also an occasional bird twittering away on a pile of stacked logs near the broad track Clementine, Omid, and Christa were walking. There was also an infrequent number of signs that littered the road.
"TWO MILES UNTIL TRUCK STOP", Clementine read as she walked on with Omid and Christa.
"How about...Isabella?" Christa said aloud.
"Nah," scoffed Omid, "James is far better."
"That's if it's a boy, Omid. Clementine, do you have any name ideas?"
"What about...Carley?"
"Yeah, that's a good name." Responded Omid, with an expression of puzzled thought in his voice.
For the next couple of miles, they (primarily, Christa and Omid) talked about what seemed to be endless baby names for Christa's child; to pass the time. Clementine wondered if her parents had this amount of difficulty when they chose her name.
Eventually, Clementine stopped a little as Omid and Christa walked on regardless; as she noticed there was a blackbird perched on a nearby tree which cawed before flying into the lush forest.
"What do you think?" asked Omid, as he poised at the truck stop over the abandoned road before crossing it with Christa and Clementine.
"Omid, you can't be serious," answered Christa.
"I am."
"We are NOT doing that."
"Why not?"
"Because one of you is enough!"

Ok, so obviously people are pretty mad that a free game with a bunch of iconic characters already is launching with one character who isn't highly requested. People are freaking out about how the launch is the most important time for a game's life, and that if there's one singular character that people don't like, the entire game is going to die instantly. So many people are asking, "Why add a character nobody asked for?"
But, hear me out, I actually think this might make sense on a few different levels. I have no idea if any of these reasons were why he was chosen. It's possible that it's a combination of them. But here are the reasons, in no particular order:

Reason 1: He was originally fleshed out in order to be a common enemy in the PvE mode, but ended up so close to playable they just ended up going for it.

This is what I assume lead to the idea in the first place. PvE mode required a bunch of new content, and Banana Guard was part of some campaign. He was already a summonable item in the Beta, which gave them a head start already, but all he really did was run across the stage back and forth. So they had to flesh him out a bit for him to work.
So they gave him a bunch of new animations, a few silly attacks, maybe a couple dodges, maybe they made him playable as part of a developer debug mode to test him out (which is EXTREMELY common, by the way), and realized one day "oh crap, this guy is like 99% of the way to being playable!" They could either leave it or say "fuck it, let's just finish it and put it in the game!"
I assume it was just a really easy character to add at the end of the day, and that he'll end up being a very simple character as a result. Essentially a playable goomba. Which leads to my next guess:

Reason 2: Joke characters are popular in fighting games.

If you watch Adventure Time, you'll know that Banana Guards are basically completely useless. They never do anything cool at all, at any time through the entire show, and end up getting completely decimated nearly in every scene. They're weak, stupid, and totally useless cannon fodder.
So, being weak, and being totally irrelevant, makes them a pretty good candidate for purposefully bad.
It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's a staple of competitive fighting games. Dan Hibiki, Pichu, Roll, Hercule, and dozens more I don't really care to research. Like it or not, there's a huge audience that loves picking the shitty, weak, broken character and styling on their opponent anyway, giving them an additional handicap to overcome. In a way, I really can't think of a better character than Banana Guard for this role. That's practically their role in Adventure Time to begin with.

Reason 3: No Publicity is Bad Publicity.

Whether you agree or disagree, chances are, you've heard this statement. And this outrage, I wouldn't be surprised if that was part of why specifically he was chosen for a relaunch character. We need people talking about the game, so why not have people talk about a totally out-there character? A few clickbait articles about the new character everybody hates? That's a huge new audience that's hearing about Multiversus for the first time, and learning it came back.
This creates controversy, and gets people talking. Talking about Multiversus, creating free word-of-mouth advertising.
Personally I think that's giving WB marketing WAY too much credit, and frankly I don't think they're smart enough to intentionally do that. With all the Banana hints on Twitter, I think it's pretty clear that, regardless of what the community thinks is obvious, THEY truly believe it to be an awesome, hilarious character. That it's just hilarious to play as a Banana in a fighting game.
But intentionally or not, I think it's working. I've seen WAAAAAAAAY more discussion about Banana Guard in the past 6 hours than ANYTHING pertaining to the Joker, who I think we can all agree, is a billion times more popular and iconic. Joker is expected. Banana Guard is controversial.
Which actually leads me to my next guess:

Reason 4: To create Fortnite Brand Confusion, and Capitalize on Popularity of Minions (yes really).

I'm not sure if this reason is genius or stupid. But look at Fortnite. In every single advertisement for the game, EVERY SINGLE ONE, they advertise Peely front and center. He's practically the game's mascot behind Jonesy (the blond guy). And I'm sure kids LOVE Peely, and going around shooting people as a giant Banana Man.
Obviously Banana Guard isn't literally Peely, but I can see them adding him in as a way to attract Fortnite players. "We can't get Peely, buuuuuut we got somebody else pretty close!"
Also I realized when describing Banana Guard from Adventure Time, there's quite a lot of overlap between them and the Minions from Despicable Me. Both are dumb, silly, useless, incompetant Yellow stubby "funny" boneheads. I really wonder if Banana Guard was chosen to be the honorary Minions Rep.

Reason 5: Hype is a Marathon, not a Sprint.

This is why I think, specifically, he's being released on Day 1 (assuming that is, indeed, the case) rather than, say, Dexter or Beetlejuice. Or any other big heavy hitter.
People are panicking right now, so hard, that Multiversus will be "dead on arrival". That it'll die unless it receives 10 Banger new characters day 1.
And I get the fear. Lots of Live Service games die. You need to hook an audience in. But here's what I think: They already did that just fine.
The game's been offline for a year, and their "Mic Test" exploded on the internet. People want this game to just come back. People are chomping at the bit. People spend every single day bitching on this subreddit about them not saying enough, or not coming back fast enough.
People are hyped, but more importantly, they need to STAY HYPED. Not just on launch, but for the next year, and the year after that, and the year after that, and so on.
I get the idea that Multiversus devs should just blow their load entirely and release 10 new banger top-shelf characters on Day 1 to create the biggest Explosion of Hype possible. But they need to save a heavy hitter for 2 months from now, when people are getting bored and need to be hooked into playing for another 2 months with a new rush of players and brand new content, and so on and so fourth. If the Launch is full of excitement and wonder, with trillions of new players hooked and waiting for new exciting content, and the devs are left with their dicks in their hands with nothing to show because they released all their best characters at launch, where does that leave Multiversus? Pretty much exactly where they were at the end of the Beta.
And I don't think Banana Guard is going to bring that hype back, after a few months have passed. I've seen a lot of people say this isn't the time, that adding a joke character like this at launch will tank the game, and they should save a character like this for the "right time", 10 characters or so from now. But the thing is, what if the hype is dying down then? What if Multiversus REALLY needs a boost that, say, Dexter or Daffy Duck or Beetlejuice could provide? But Multiversus already revealed them at the start, and all they have left is Banana Guard waiting to be released? That's not gonna bring people back after 10 months!
The relaunch already has Joker, [INSERT CHARACTER 3 HERE], and the entire Beta Cast, as well as new PVE content. I'd look at Banana Guard as a side-bonus, not a hype-killer. Just the cherry on top of the sundae. Not enough heavy hitters? Just wait a couple months, when the devs will want to add another influx of new players.
Remember, the Beta didn't end because the characters they picked weren't good enough and people didn't stick around (despite what I've seen some people claim). Players left because, after months of characters being released every 2 weeks at a completely unsustainable pace, the Devs ran out of characters and we went an entire season with only Marvin the Martian left. I don't think that would've changed if it was Harry Potter instead, the Beta still would've died either way.

Reason 6: It's just a really, really, REALLY silly fighting game.

Imagine that. Imagine if one of the fighters was a Green Dog that spit fireballs? Or Shaggy, but the meme version where he has DBZ powers? Or Lebron James from Space Jam 2? Or Velma revealing the opposing player is actually Old Man Jenkins in desguise. Or Taz transforming you into a giant cooked chicken that runs around.
Imagine if they released Joker, and gave him a move referencing "I'm the Joker, Baby!" Or if they copyrighted Big Chungus to use as a character probably eventually. Or if they released an advertisement TODAY where Finn and Jake rap and Kevin Controy Batman calls himself a "Queen" with a crown graphic on top of his head. Or if the official Multiversus Twitter and all it's affiliates made non-stop Banana Puns when they were supposed to be advertising the game instead.
Basically...maybe relax?
I'm not saying you aren't allowed to be disappointed that you didn't get a different character. But I think some perspective can help. I think remembering what kind of game this is, always was, and always will be, can help set the tone for this.
This is gonna be the fighting game where Batman can fight Lebron James, Big Chungus, Ultra Instinct Shaggy...and a talking stupid Banana. This is completely 100000% on-brand for the game you signed up for.

***** I am mainly sending this because I want my evidence back and because I’m pissed that the police department allowed this to happen with next to 0 consequences. Names and identifying info redacted. Let me know if I should change anything, I genuinely am thinking about sending this to whoever I can find emails for at my local PD.
To Whomever This May Concern,
My name is *. I am 21 years old and am a recent graduate of the University *. I have made the difficult decision to write this letter because I am truly disgusted and horrified by the manner in which ** County, the ***** Police Department, and the Child Advocacy Center of *****, NY handled my allegations of rape, sexual assault, and stalking that were filed in 2019. I have allowed myself to move on and grow from this atrocious act that has significantly impacted my life, but my development as a functional, healthy adult has been drastically hindered due to the treatment and negligent investigation into this case.
I would like to describe my story in order to fully convey my frustrations. When I was fifteen years old in late July of 2018, just after my freshman year of high school, I began babysitting the child of a thirty-six-year-old man who my family and I knew quite well and had considered a family friend since I can remember. The premise of the childcare was to assist this man with daily tasks regarding his three-year-old daughter. The man in question was unemployed, but had a difficult time caring for his autistic child alone due to his anger issues, as recognized by the Department of Social Services.
When I began working for this family, the man in question, ****** (*) was in the home at all times in which I was present in the home. The events that led up to the detrimental and life-changing abuse that I experienced are too difficult to describe in one email. To summarize, this man groomed me, sexually assaulted me, and raped me on several occasions in his home over the course of six months. ** sexually abused me in his home, at my home, and in a vehicle. He bragged to his close friends, and specifically, his neighbor ***** and friend ****** about the things he had done to me. These witnesses were willing to comply with any investigation at the time of these events, but were not ever asked to answer questions. In addition, this man isolated me from family and friends, threatened to murder my entire family, and stalked me for a year after I ceased contact with him, which included 5+ drives by my home daily, waiting outside of my place of employment, and cyberstalking. This man used hard drugs in front of me and forced me to participate in and witness several illegal acts. I cannot convey with strong enough language, the impact that these events had on me as a naïve and innocent teenager. He genuinely ruined my life and I deal with the effects every single day.
These events have seriously impacted my development into an adult, and hindered my growth on levels that the recipient of this email may not comprehend. During the end of my relationship with this individual, I had realized that this situation was extremely unsafe and had attempted to break contact. He threatened suicide as a punishment if I left him, so I agreed to meet with him at ******** high school in the mornings after I had gotten off the bus, as I was not yet old enough to drive myself. He forced me to remain in his vehicle from 8am until 9:30am during school hours for multiple days in a row. Several times during these meetings, in the parking lot of the school, he sexually abused me and at other times, drove at dangerous speeds with me in the vehicle on Route 8 in *******. School officials and police officers were well aware of these events after my whereabouts during several of these mornings had been discovered. This individual was then arrested on charges of endangering the welfare of a child but was released on bond the very next day. After much difficulty and explaining, I was granted with a temporary restraining order, which did not stop his advances. To this day, when I return to my hometown to visit family, I am afraid for my safety as I have to see this man in public at a gas station or at a local restaurant.
After a few months, in 2019, I had realized that I wanted to tell my story and that I wanted this man to be held accountable for what he had put me through. At just 16 years old, I went through a series of interviews held at the Child Advocacy Center in ***, NY, which only further traumatized me. A female officer involved with my case made me feel as if I had brought this onto myself due to the sympathy I felt for my abuser and the guilt that I felt about everything that had occurred. To clarify, I was a victim of abuse as a child and did not fully comprehend the extent of said abuse. The female officer was unwilling to recognize that I was a vulnerable, disadvantaged child who did not have the means to advocate for myself. Another male officer, Detective **** collected evidence from me, including an expensive necklace given to me by my abuser with, to my knowledge, a value of $3,000, as well as a letter from him where he confessed his love and relationship with me. He looked me in the eye and promised that I would receive justice. This officer never contacted me again after the interview. If nothing is going to be done about this rage-filled, aggressive, and dangerous pedophile, I would like the necklace and letter back that was entered into evidence in 2019.
I will never understand how a person can be subjected to such atrocious and vile acts, and nothing will be done about it. I am not a religious person, but I wake up every single morning praying that he has not found another victim to control and destroy. I pray for his family, especially his child, and I pray for those who have to encounter him. I pray for myself and my family, as my case has been dismissed and invalidated time and time again by the ***** police department. I pray that no other girl or woman has to experience the things I did, nor has to grow up so quickly the way I did. The treatment of this case taught me that I cannot rely on law enforcement, or on those who are supposed to protect me. I hope that my statements throughout this email encourages more thorough investigations into cases like mine. Women and girls need to be protected fiercely, strongly, and wholeheartedly. I was not provided with further resources to assist with my mental health during this time. The town I have grown up in and have always loved is forever tainted as the place where my life was ruined.
Today, as a strong, accomplished, and college-educated woman, I am extremely disappointed with the way my trauma and physical safety was dismissed by the ***** police department, ***** County as a whole, and the Child Advocacy Center of ******, NY. I will no longer be silenced by fear. I will say his name, as the guilt and shame I have experienced is not mine to bear. I am not looking for retribution, I am simply asking that you dedicate resources to believing victimized women and offering bare minimum, necessary support to women like me in the future.
Thank you for your time,

Sorry english is not my first language.
Almost 1 yr old boy, refuses any formula and cows milk, or pumped milk, even if it was just produced.
In terms of behavior he is an angel in the day, eating solids since 6 months old. It is at night that he cries like someone is killing him.
I am living with my parents still and each time this happens, interday lately, I get the shame on you look, my mother says "I cant believe a mom cant calm down her own baby, whats wrong with you?"
Baby's dad or my parents cant calm him either or put him to sleep for naps or at night, only me! He cant fall asleep on his own. At night it usually is harder and I can spend up to 1 hour to make him fall asleep.
I really try... each time I try to hug more or give kisses to the baby when he is in a crisis I feel like it is worse, he pushes me away or beats me and scream louder.
He cant be sleep trained because my parents wont allow me to let him cry because they say that is heartless and cruel, the baby gets trauma, etc. Of course I know that is not true, but their house, their rules.
I believe it is important to mention he breastfeeds from only one boob since a long time ago, when he was 4 months old, because he didnt like my other nipple, both were inverted but only one managed to get out. I also really tried to fool him to take the other boob, it worked some nights and one day he just would not take it anymore and it dried.
I try to eat a good dinner and drink a lot of water, I also have snacks at night but some days there is just no letdown or if he is sick and cant suck, it becomes a real drama, I have to put him in the stroller and try to rock him there with fingers crossed so it wont take more than one hour.
I WFH full time and get help in the day from my father to play with the baby, take him out, feed him with solids. But the night I sleep alone with him because babys dad is a medical resident and sleeps in another room and is all day out usually or doing night shifts.
Baby never slept more than 3 hours. I am really tired phisically, emotionally and of course it hurts to see baby suffer and know I cant help him. I am performing low at work also, had fights with my partner because of me being jealous I am the only one not sleeping because of the baby.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

Apologized for bad English and I might not be phrase this in a good way.
TLDR; My son was diagnosed with Eosinophilic Asthma. He's always have problems with low Neutrophil, but when his Neutrophil is over-raise, his Asthma changes to what looks like both Eosinophilic and Neutrophilic Asthma. Pulmonologist isn't well coordinated with us. Am I crazy? Is it a thing?
(Something that I don't know related or not to this post, he have Hypereosinophilic Syndrome and EGPA [Eosinophilic granulomatosis with polyangiitis]. But these diagnosis is made years after EOA diagnosis.)

My son's current Pulmonologist is a new pulmonologist, as his old one is already retired. But the new Pulmonolgist isn't well coordinate with us, planning to find another Pulmonologist, but before that, I try Reddit.
My son is having Asthma since he was around 2. But before that, he already has had many respiratory and lung problems (he was born with congenital heart disease that also affected his lungs and primary immune deficiency, causing many infections). He have high IgE, and then diagnosed with Eosinophilic Asthma. The Asthma is categorized as "severe" and to be honest, isn't well controled yet. But we working on that.
Since my son was younger, he's always having problems with low Neutrophil (for various reasons) and at some point, his Neutrophil could fall to 0. We try every moves to raise his Neutrophil, and sometimes it worked but then Neutrophil fallen again.
Now the problem, sometimes his Neutrophil will over-raised for some reason, and when that happen, his Asthma attacks are multiple times worse and suddenly nothing would help. All the meds and inhalers that we have at home don't do anything and we ended up in the ER.
Tests they run showed accumulated of both Eosinophil (>5%) and Neutrophil (500 × 10⁴/ml or slighty higher), in the mucus sample.
I asked the Pulmono "Does it means my son is now have Eosinophilic and Neutrophilic Asthma (but only when his Neutrophil is over-raise)?" But he shrug me off.
Is this something I need to push the Pulmonologist, or should I be worry? TIA!

Apologized for bad English and I might not be phrase this in a good way.
TLDR; My son was diagnosed with Eosinophilic Asthma. He's always have problems with low Neutrophil, but when his Neutrophil is over-raise, his Asthma changes to what looks like both Eosinophilic and Neutrophilic Asthma. Pulmonologist isn't well coordinated with us. Am I crazy? Is it a thing?
(Something that I don't know related or not to this post, he have Hypereosinophilic Syndrome and EGPA [Eosinophilic granulomatosis with polyangiitis]. But these diagnosis is made years after EOA diagnosis.)

My son's current Pulmonologist is a new pulmonologist, as his old one is already retired. But the new Pulmonolgist isn't well coordinate with us, planning to find another Pulmonologist, but before that, I try Reddit.
My son is having Asthma since he was around 2. But before that, he already has had many respiratory and lung problems (he was born with congenital heart disease that also affected his lungs and primary immune deficiency, causing many infections). He have high IgE, and then diagnosed with Eosinophilic Asthma. The Asthma is categorized as "severe" and to be honest, isn't well controled yet. But we working on that.
Since my son was younger, he's always having problems with low Neutrophil (for various reasons) and at some point, his Neutrophil could fall to 0. We try every moves to raise his Neutrophil, and sometimes it worked but then Neutrophil fallen again.
Now the problem, sometimes his Neutrophil will over-raised for some reason, and when that happen, his Asthma attacks are multiple times worse and suddenly nothing would help. All the meds and inhalers that we have at home don't do anything and we ended up in the ER.
Tests they run showed accumulated of both Eosinophil (>5%) and Neutrophil (500 × 10⁴/ml or slighty higher), in the mucus sample.
I asked the Pulmono "Does it means my son is now have Eosinophilic and Neutrophilic Asthma (but only when his Neutrophil is over-raise)?" But he shrug me off.
Is this something I need to push the Pulmonologist, or should I be worry? TIA!

Remember the good old days when people actually mail letters to the networks? Like fan letters and feedback letters. And when they receive so much that they have to carry it into their office in heavy boxes? That should get QUITE A BIT of attention on being vocal on this BS cancellation. If not, at least other potential takers will bat an eye on the news and this fan base's efforts. If each of us just sends one letter...
EDIT: If you think this is a good idea and want to pitch in, please comment where you want to start with. We can all then tally up the marks and start there. (Please read the first 3 comments for some details and the direction we're heading with.) Thanks guys!!! Toddies for life

From the snippets I was super hyped for this one and still am, but Bub Styles?
I already know Killer Mike will kill it on this track but again, Bub Styles? From what I’ve heard from him his rapping style just won’t suit this type of beat and production, much the same as it didn’t suit Flea Market on Mile 0. Not to mention his voice makes Struggle Jennings sound like an 8 year old it’s that raspy, hoarse and unpleasant on the ears.
This was a perfect track for Young Buck IMO, I’m really disappointed he didn’t make the album after all the time him and Wolf have been in the studio together in the past year or two.

Businesses use nostalgia marketing to evoke emotions and drive sales

Introduction

In a world where consumers are bombarded with constant marketing messages, businesses are turning to nostalgia marketing to cut through the noise and create a deep emotional connection with their audience. Nostalgia marketing taps into consumers' fond memories of the past, evoking positive emotions and driving sales. This article explores how businesses use nostalgia marketing to evoke emotions and boost their bottom line.

Understanding Nostalgia Marketing

Nostalgia marketing involves using themes, imagery, and references from the past to create a sense of longing and familiarity among consumers. This strategy leverages the power of positive memories to create a connection between the brand and the consumer, making the marketing message more impactful and memorable.

The Psychology Behind Nostalgia

Nostalgia is a powerful emotional trigger. It is the feeling of longing for a time gone by, often associated with positive memories and experiences. Psychologically, nostalgia can provide comfort, reduce stress, and enhance mood. When brands evoke nostalgia, they tap into these emotional responses, making their marketing more effective.

Why Nostalgia Marketing Works

Emotional Connection

Nostalgia marketing creates an emotional connection with consumers. When people see or hear something that reminds them of their past, they experience a rush of positive emotions. This emotional response can make consumers more receptive to a brand's message and more likely to make a purchase.

Trust and Credibility

Brands that successfully evoke nostalgia can build trust and credibility with their audience. Familiar references from the past can make a brand seem more trustworthy and reliable. Consumers are more likely to trust a brand that brings back fond memories.

Boosting Brand Loyalty

Nostalgia can also boost brand loyalty. When consumers have positive associations with a brand from their past, they are more likely to remain loyal to that brand. Nostalgia marketing can strengthen these associations, encouraging repeat purchases and long-term loyalty.

How Businesses Implement Nostalgia Marketing

Retro Packaging and Product Design

One common tactic in nostalgia marketing is the use of retro packaging and product design. Brands often revive old packaging designs or create new products with a vintage look to evoke memories of the past. This approach can attract both older consumers who remember the original designs and younger consumers who find the retro style appealing.

Revival of Classic Products

Bringing back classic products is another effective nostalgia marketing strategy. Brands can re-release popular products from the past, capitalizing on consumers' desire to relive their memories. This approach not only appeals to long-time fans but also introduces the products to a new generation.

Nostalgic Advertising Campaigns

Advertising campaigns that incorporate nostalgic themes, music, and imagery can be highly effective. By featuring elements from the past, such as popular songs, TV shows, or cultural references, brands can create a strong emotional connection with their audience. These campaigns often evoke a sense of longing and warmth, making them memorable and impactful.

Leveraging Pop Culture References

Pop culture references are a powerful tool in nostalgia marketing. Brands can incorporate references to popular movies, TV shows, music, and other cultural phenomena from the past to create a sense of familiarity and connection. This approach can resonate with a broad audience, making the marketing message more relatable and engaging.

Case Studies in Nostalgia Marketing

Coca-Cola's "Share a Coke" Campaign

Coca-Cola's "Share a Coke" campaign is a prime example of successful nostalgia marketing. By replacing their iconic logo with popular names and encouraging consumers to share a Coke with friends and family, Coca-Cola tapped into the universal theme of connection and sharing. The campaign evoked memories of good times shared with loved ones, driving a significant increase in sales and brand engagement.

Nintendo's Classic Console Re-releases

Nintendo has successfully used nostalgia marketing with the re-release of its classic gaming consoles, such as the NES Classic Edition and the SNES Classic Edition. These re-releases appealed to older gamers who grew up with the original consoles and introduced the classic games to a new generation. The limited availability of these consoles also created a sense of urgency, driving demand and sales.

The Role of Social Media in Nostalgia Marketing

Engaging Content and User-Generated Content

Social media plays a crucial role in nostalgia marketing. Brands can create engaging content that evokes nostalgia and encourages users to share their own memories and experiences. User-generated content can amplify the nostalgia effect, creating a sense of community and shared experience among consumers.

Creating Community and Shared Experiences

Nostalgia marketing on social media can also help brands create a sense of community and shared experience. By encouraging consumers to share their nostalgic memories and engage with the brand, businesses can foster a loyal and engaged community. This sense of belonging can strengthen the emotional connection between the brand and its audience.

Challenges of Nostalgia Marketing

Balancing Nostalgia with Innovation

One of the challenges of nostalgia marketing is balancing nostalgia with innovation. While it's important to evoke positive memories, brands also need to stay relevant and innovative. Finding the right balance between the old and the new is crucial for the success of nostalgia marketing campaigns.

Avoiding Overuse and Clichés

Another challenge is avoiding overuse and clichés. If every marketing campaign relies on nostalgia, it can quickly become tiresome and lose its effectiveness. Brands need to use nostalgia strategically and sparingly to maintain its impact.

Measuring the Success of Nostalgia Marketing Campaigns

To measure the success of nostalgia marketing campaigns, brands can track various metrics, such as engagement rates, sales, and customer feedback. Analyzing these metrics can help businesses understand the effectiveness of their campaigns and make data-driven decisions for future marketing efforts.

Future Trends in Nostalgia Marketing

As technology and consumer preferences evolve, so will nostalgia marketing. Future trends may include the use of augmented reality (AR) and virtual reality (VR) to create immersive nostalgic experiences, as well as leveraging data analytics to personalize nostalgia marketing campaigns.

Conclusion

Nostalgia marketing is a powerful tool that businesses can use to evoke emotions and drive sales. By tapping into consumers' fond memories of the past, brands can create a deep emotional connection, build trust and credibility, and boost brand loyalty. While there are challenges to overcome, the benefits of nostalgia marketing make it a valuable strategy for businesses looking to engage their audience and increase sales.
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Before starting, English isn’t my first language and it’s my first time posting on Reddit so sorry if I make mistakes.
For context, we are in a long distance relationship. I was in engineer school so I had to go overseas to study for 6 months and that’s where I met my gf. After getting back to my country we continued texting and started calling everyday and she asked me to be her bf after a few months.
The relationship was going great and everything was perfect so I talked about her to my parents and she came to my place for a month last year. At the time I was doing my last internship for my studies so I couldn’t be with her all the time and I felt really bad and guilty for leaving her like this.
Everything continued and it was great so I went to her place for a month in October and then she came back with me to stay at my place until December. She really wanted to spend more time together so she even stayed 2 weeks more and missed a bit her classes. During this trip I talked to her mom and her husband on the phone for the first time and I thought they liked me bc everything went well.
After this she traveled to Vietnam with her mom to celebrate the new year. She was supposed to stay there for 2 weeks but she couldn’t get along with her mom and left after 5 days. After this she ghosted me for 3 days and started to be really distant with me. She was supposed to come for 3 months in April but she always had something to delay the trip so she came just for one month (we are together now).
After what happened last year I felt so bad that I decided to not start working directly after getting my diploma and start after she leaves instead to spend the whole time with her to make her happy but since she arrived she has been really distant. She used to get mad at me if I didn’t give her attention for more than 5 minutes but now she rejects me everytime I wanna hug or kiss her and she don’t wanna do anything together. She is also really protective with her phone and does everything for me to not have access to it. It made me really suspicious so I searched in her phone and it turned out she’s been using tinder since she got back from Vietnam and she was texting other guys. She also cheated with an old random guy that saw her story once and decided to stalk her and brought her to his room after making her drunk.
When I saw this my heart dropped and I felt so bad. It really broke the image I had of her. She’s my first gf and I’ve never been in love before so it was really hard for me. When I confronted her she said that her mom told her that I’m not a good guy for her bc I don’t have a work yet and I didn’t buy any gift for her family so she should find an other man and that’s why she used tinder. I don’t really know what to think now and I’m really confused bc even after I found out she is still very protective with her phone and acts suspicious. She even changed her password so I don’t see anything so I really wonder what else she can try to hide from me.
This happened 2 days ago and today she told me that her dad wanted to meet me next November and that she still wants to get married with me and live with me in my country after finishing her studies as we planned. I’m really lost and I don’t really know what to do now so if you have any advices about this it would really help me