Hello Cincinnati! I am trying to get in touch with John Byong Hee, Janette John, or their kids whose maiden names are Christine and Sharon John. The parents would be in late '80s and the children would be in their mid-50's. John was an architect and Janette worked for many years at Pogue's travel and then I think for AAA.

Geniune question but have they both EVER had a job aside from social media? How are they going to survive in 10 years once their fame is gone and they’re left with 5 or 6 kids? Do they have any qualifications? The couple remind me of Jeanette Mccurdy’s parents in the fact that they don’t have jobs themselves! Not to mention them buying a 4 MILLION DOLLAR home!
I find it absolutely shocking how E is the FIRST person in her family to have a job (her dancing/commercials). I really hope she gets therapy :(

Hello Cincinnati! I am trying to get in touch with John Byong Hee, Janette John, or their kids whose maiden names are Christine and Sharon John. The parents would be in late '80s and the children would be in their mid-50's. John was an architect and Janette worked for many years at Pogue's travel and then I think for AAA.

Suggest me a book that touches on grief/aftermath of abusive parents.
I've read books (usually memoirs) about people dealing with the grief/aftermath of their parents where the parent was not abusive and I'd really just like to read something that's more similiar to what I'm experiencing.
Preferably books that touch on grief/aftermath of abusive parents, where the abusive parent isn't treated like they were an angel/saint.
My therapist recommended "I"m Glad My Mom Died" by Jennette McCurdy and "Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail" by Cheryl Strayed so I have those but wanting to see if there are any other recommendations.

Hello Cincinnati! I am trying to get in touch with John Byong Hee, Janette John, or their kids whose maiden names are Christine and Sharon John. The parents would be in late '80s and the children would be in their mid-50's. John was an architect and Janette worked for many years at Pogue's travel and then I think for AAA.

Those of us raised by an nparent are (generally) bad at spotting abuse and poor treatment in relationships. This is because we were taught that mistreatment = love. We were programmed to think that the person who loves us should be domineering, disrespectctful, and manipulative.
As a result, I am so bad at identifying and forming healthy relationships. Whenever I am with a healthy person, it feels like something is wrong. But when I am with someone who’s terrible, it feels perfectly fine, and I don’t notice anything’s wrong until a lot later.
What are some books that could help me identify when a relationship is actually healthy/unhealthy? It would be helpful if the books talked about how to spot these negative things in someone. Because my radar is broken af.
Here are some books I have already read:

• I’m Glad my Mom Died- Jenette Mccurdy
• The Betrayal Bond- Patrick Carnes
• Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents- Lindsay C. Gibson
• Will I ever be Good Enough- Carol McBride (I could stand to reread this one. It’s been a while)
• Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist

What are some books you would recommend?

Hello Cincinnati! I am trying to get in touch with John Byong Hee, Janette John, or their kids whose maiden names are Christine and Sharon John. The parents would be in late '80s and the children would be in their mid-50's. John was an architect and Janette worked for many years at Pogue's travel and then I think for AAA.

Haven't seen this shared yet, and it's interesting.
My parents derailed my entire life, blamed me for everything.
A former child actor shared a post on the raisedbynarcissists about his own lived experience. It's a moving story that seems to be typical of child actors, at least those with abusive parents.
The poster shares his personal experience with Brian Peck towards the bottom:

It’s encouraging to see the traction and reaction that Jennette McCurdys book got.. to realize people actually care about this..
And to watch quiet on set was like.. eye opening because.. I fucking knew Brian Peck. He worked on Holes. We all knew he was a predator. He tried to with my brother and I but we were different in the sense that we would have thrown fists and Brian knew that and so he didn’t. He knew he could groom Drake.
I was with my family once, two stories to share the character of my father.. we ran into Brian Peck and Drake once on the street, Drake was dressed in all black and he looked SOOOO uncomfortable and embarrassed. We knew Brian was fucking him. My dad LAUGHED at it. Brian’s got another one!!
Then encouraged us to go to Brian’s parties.

This story corroborates the details shred by Drake, that BP would take him out for a number of activities like Disneyland, dinners, etc. The detail about Drake's discomfort and embarrassment was relatable, because I felt exactly the same way at that age, except the cause wasn't someone outside of my family.

Hello Cincinnati! I am trying to get in touch with John Byong Hee, Janette John, or their kids whose maiden names are Christine and Sharon John. The parents would be in late '80s and the children would be in their mid-50's. John was an architect and Janette worked for many years at Pogue's travel and then I think for AAA.

Whatever I doubt anyone is going to read this or even care but I wanted to write it out here because I’m having a trigger day because my mother showed up in my DMs today telling me she “doesn’t have long” and needs to know where I am.
So basically.. I grew up in a very impoverished, dysfunctional home.. parents always viscously fighting and trying to destroy each other.. father stepped out on the marriage when my brothers and I were young, and got the sake of our family my parents didn’t divorce, they stayed together but hated every minute of it, my father slept on the couch and my mother would berate him, and call him a loser to me any chance she got.
When I was 10, my brothers and I started to work as actors in LA, and it quickly became my parents meal ticket, actually it was their ONLY income. They used the excuse of “we are your managers” to take 40 percent of my earning immediately.. the rationale for the 40 percent was “both me and your father are your managers so we get 40,” because the normal rate for managers is 20 percent. But it didn’t matter that they stole that money like that, because in reality they were taking EVERYTHING. They formed an LLC and listed themselves as president and ceo, and me as an “employee.” Which gave them 100 percent access to every single dollar I ever made.
Literally nothing was saved.. my father broke into my coogan account and stole 90k from it.. for those who don’t know Jackie coogan was an actor whose parents did the same thing to him and he died broke in the streets after making like 10 million dollars. So in the late 90s they made a federal law that required 15 percent of all earning to go into a secured account. Who cares. They got it anyway.
Same thing happened to me. I bought their houses, their cars, paid their bills, paid for my little sisters entire dance career…
They stole about 2 million. Then my mother divorced my father, who claims that he agreed to the divorce on the condition that her house be mine because I paid for it… a claim she says she never agreed to.
They went to war.. and I had the weight of the world on my shoulders. A professional career with many people on payroll, and the man of the house at 12… my mom used this psychology on me… that my dad was useless and I was the real man.. but what’s funny was she only acted like this when she wanted or needed something.. before I was the bread winner I literally had nothing, no needs of mine were ever met or considered. So I learned that praise earned through me doing something “good” was how I took my self worth. I continued to pay for my family even though they harassed me and trolled me every chance they got.
When my dad was kicked out he said he repaid me by “writing the house over to you” but that never happened so hundreds of thousands of dollars will never be recouped.
Then.. as I was a TEENAGER under the most intense pressure, I needed help, and guidance from people who actually cared about my well being as a person and child. But I didn’t get the help I needed instead I self medicated with pot. Just a little pot. But when my dad left the house, and I grew vocal about my mistreatment and about the stolen money.. my mother focused her wrath onto me. She blamed me for “being a drug addict” and for “ruining her family.” She told anyone who would listen that I was violent and disturbed.. worst of all she isolated my younger sister because she “needed to protect her” and raised my sister to mistrust, disrespect and flat out despise and blame ME, for the dysfunction caused by my narc parents.
That wound took a long time heal and was separate from the anger and depression I dealt with for a decade processing what had happened to me.
I grew up alone, no one watching me, in Hollywood, which chewed me up and spit me out. As a teenager I never stopped working, but my 20s were different, Hollywood is fickle and the vultures didn’t sense any meat left on my carcas and despite how hard and how many years I had put into working, I could no longer support myself on my work, and because my mother decided to kick me out of the home that I bought, at 19 after making 2 million dollars by the time I was 18 I was no homeless living in a tent.
And keep in mind also that people would also recognize me sometimes while I was homeless or when I had to enter. The normal work force, getting recognized while I was bagging groceries was really… a difficult lesson to have to experience
My sister is ten years my junior and I treated that girl like a princess in fact the happiest memories of my life were when she was younger. But because of my mother’s lies and manipulations and the fact that she did whatever she could to not be responsible for destroying everything.. my sister grew to resent ME.. and then put the final dagger into my heart when she got pregnant by my childhoods bully.
My parents trolled me on that, posted pictures of them all over their social media… I haven’t spent any time with my father in over a decade but to see him taking happy pictures with my childhood bully really does something to my soul that I can’t explain properly here
Finally I will say a few things here, until I discovered that my mother and father a tire clinical narcissists I had so much confusion and hurt and anger. But just seeing them act textbook actually kind of makes me feel sort of sorry for them. For their disease. Not their character. They aren’t good peole.
It’s encouraging to see the traction and reaction that Jennette McCurdys book got.. to realize people actually care about this..
And to watch quiet on set was like.. eye opening because.. I fucking knew Brian Peck. He worked on Holes. We all knew he was a predator. He tried to with my brother and I but we were different in the sense that we would have thrown fists and Brian knew that and so he didn’t. He knew he could groom Drake.
I was with my family once, two stories to share the character of my father.. we ran into Brian Peck and Drake once on the street, Drake was dressed in all black and he looked SOOOO uncomfortable and embarrassed. We knew Brian was fucking him. My dad LAUGHED at it. Brian’s got another one!!
Then encouraged us to go to Brian’s parties.
The other story is, I grew up with Zach Levi aka Zach Pugh aka Shazam, and when he was younger, my father was so jealous of him, and took me to his work once, while he worked at a car wash, he parked us across the street and laughed and Zach washing the car.
Yep. Thems my folks.
Seeing Zach slay has been awesome knowing it must kill my father

Hiya, so I’m looking for some book recommendations. Some books I’ve read recently that I have liked are school for good mothers- Jessamine Chan, the handmaids tale-Margaret Atwood, Mother Hens- Sophie McCartnery, The Family upstairs-Lisa Jewel.
In my list of books I want to read I have .im glad my mother died by janette McCurdy . A good girls guide to murder
I’ve read loads of Lisa jewel, Christopher berry Dee.
I’m looking for something different to a murder mystery book but like things with crime involved hence the books I’ve recently read and enjoyed. Anything else you could suggest?
Also wanting some books that aren’t crime at all, not big into mystical stuff though or teen romance 😁

I decided to get back into reading this year as part of a New Year’s Resolution. I had friends help me put together a list and then I went from there. I’ve also been visiting local book shops and browsing the free section of Spotify audiobooks. Here’s what my reading for the year looks like right now!
Finished Reading
1) I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jeanette McCurdy
2) Coraline by Neil Gaiman
3) Taste: My Life Through Food by Stanley Tucci
4) Sabriel by Garth Nix
5) The Case of Charles Dexter Ward by H.P. Lovecraft
6) Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson
7) Gideon the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
Currently Reading
1) To Hold The Bridge (Anthology) by Garth Nix
2) This Is the Honey (Anthology) by Kwame Alexander
3) Out There Screaming (Anthology) by Various Authors
4) The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab
5) 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think (Anthology) by Brianna Wiest
6) The Left Hand of Darkness by Ursula K. Le Guin
Reading Next
1) The Book Eaters by Sunyi Dean
2) Unmasking Autism by Devon Price
3) Harrow the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
4) Nona the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
5) The Jasmine Throne by Tasha Suri
6) Tales of Horror (Anthology) by Various Authors
Other Books to Read
1) Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain
2) Your Table is Ready by Michael Cecchi-Azzolina
3) Good Omens by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett
4) Persuasion by Jane Austen
5) Crying in H-Mart by Michelle Zauner
6) The Vanishing Half by Brit Bennett
7) Everyone In My Family Has Killed Someone by Benjamin Stevenson
8) The Last Wish by Andrzej Sapkowski
9) The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck by Mark Manson
10) The Good Immigrant: 26 Writers Reflect on America (Anthology) by Various Authors
11) James by Percival Everett
12) Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself by Crystal Hefner
13) Welcome to Night Vale by Joseph Fink and Jefferey Cranor
14) Why Fathers Cry At Night by Kwame Alexander
15) Counting the Cost by Jill Duggar

I decided to get back into reading this year as part of a New Year’s Resolution. I had friends help me put together a list and then I went from there. I’ve also been visiting local book shops and browsing the free section of Spotify audiobooks. Here’s what my reading for the year looks like right now!
Finished Reading
1) I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jeanette McCurdy
2) Coraline by Neil Gaiman
3) Taste: My Life Through Food by Stanley Tucci
4) Sabriel by Garth Nix
5) The Case of Charles Dexter Ward by H.P. Lovecraft
6) Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson
7) Gideon the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
Currently Reading
1) To Hold The Bridge (Anthology) by Garth Nix
2) This Is the Honey (Anthology) by Kwame Alexander
3) Out There Screaming (Anthology) by Various Authors
4) The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab
5) 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think (Anthology) by Brianna Wiest
6) The Left Hand of Darkness by Ursula K. Le Guin
Reading Next
1) The Book Eaters by Sunyi Dean
2) Unmasking Autism by Devon Price
3) Harrow the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
4) Nona the Ninth by Tamsyn Muir
5) The Jasmine Throne by Tasha Suri
6) Tales of Horror (Anthology) by Various Authors
Other Books to Read
1) Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain
2) Your Table is Ready by Michael Cecchi-Azzolina
3) Good Omens by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett
4) Persuasion by Jane Austen
5) Crying in H-Mart by Michelle Zauner
6) The Vanishing Half by Brit Bennett
7) Everyone In My Family Has Killed Someone by Benjamin Stevenson
8) The Last Wish by Andrzej Sapkowski
9) The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck by Mark Manson
10) The Good Immigrant: 26 Writers Reflect on America (Anthology) by Various Authors
11) James by Percival Everett
12) Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself by Crystal Hefner
13) Welcome to Night Vale by Joseph Fink and Jefferey Cranor
14) Why Fathers Cry At Night by Kwame Alexander
15) Counting the Cost by Jill Duggar

Hello Cincinnati! I am trying to get in touch with John Byong Hee, Janette John, or their kids whose maiden names are Christine and Sharon John. The parents would be in late '80s and the children would be in their mid-50's. John was an architect and Janette worked for many years at Pogue's travel and then I think for AAA.

I really f'n hate them. After talking to my one and only trusted family member, I learned that my mother and step father have been talking shit about me since I was a teen for SH and s* attempt as if I was "looking for attention" completely disregarding my mental health from the beginning. Physical aslt from mother since I was at least 4 or less, sx assault by her and older brother, neglect, sleep deprivation being raised in a cult until i escaped as at 18 that encourages abuse as discipline and for disobedience. And the list goes on.
I'm 27 and I've spent my adult years having moved away with minimal contact. In the last couple years no contact. And I've been second guessing myself if I should at least maintain minimal context because you know, she's my only mother. But she really hasn't changed and doesn't feel bad. I don't think I can I feel like Jenette McCurdy when she wrote her book "I'm Glad My Mom Died" as harsh as it sounds. I don't want to be miserable waiting for the emotional support I'll never get. So why should I feel obligated to give back to my mother? I'm really convinced finally that it doesn't matter to me. I don't care. I shouldn't be the one to make up for all of her abuse just because she's getting older with new medical issues and needs help. I don't see why I have to be that nice. She told me herself she be happier if I was dead after my close attempt. Consider me dead, mom! I won't come back again! Be happy!!!
It hurts me to say this. I want to regret it. I don't want it to be true! How can a parent hate their own child and call it love!! Why do I have to forgive her anymore? I don't want to regret losing her but simply having contact is abusive and manipulative and she is unapologetic that I can't fathom it. I wish it wasn't true.

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Quiet on Set: The Dark Side of Kids TV

• Wikipedia IMDB
• Youtube clips on Investigation Discovery
• Streaming on Investigation Discovery • Max

References

• Kate Taylor's Business Insider article on Dan Schneider
• Brian Peck Case Unicourt Docket
• Letters of Support Transcriptions

Reddit Research

• young_menace: What We Know About Dan Schneider - Part 2
• madmagazines: Brian Peck's Background (includes interviews)

Timeline

(Note: Some Film/TV show dates are when it was released or when a documentary related person appeared in an episode)
1981

• November 9 - Last American Virgin: Brian Peck & Kimmy Robertson (released 1982)

1984

• March - Hot Resort: Dan Schneider (released 1985)
• November 5 - February 1985 Better Off Dead: Dan Schneider (released 1985)

1986 - 1991

• Head of the Class (ABC): Dan Schneider & Brian Robbins

1987

• June 21 - St. Lucie News Tribune news clipping: "I'm Daniel Schneider, I think you've heard of me"
• August 23 - Chicago Tribunal news clipping: Dan Schneider in a teen exploitation film, not something proud to show the Academy (Hot Resort)

1988

• Kid's Choice Awards (Nickelodeon): Dan Schneider & Brian Robbins befriended Albie Hecht
• March 9 - Growing Pains Brian Peck credit (Season 3- 6) ; Cast: Joana Kerns, Alan Thicke; Steven Marshall (producer)

1990 * The Willies): Brian Peck (director & producer), Kimmy Robertson
1993

• Home Free (ABC): Dan Schneider & Brian Peck

1994

• Home Improvement (ABC): Drake Bell, also Rider Strong in 1992
• All That(Nickelodeon): Created by Brian Robbins & Dan Schneider as writer; Katrina Johnson (Season 1-3)

1996

• August 17 - Kenan & Kel (Nickelodeon): Brian Robbins, Dan Schneider, Virgil Fabian
• October - All That: Amanda Bynes first appearance

1997

• Kenan & Kel: Brian Peck as extra
• June 3 - Tollin/Robbins Productions hires Michael Goldman
• July 8 - Article on Dan Schneider finds success in All That
• July 25 - Good Burger: Brian Peck as extra, produced by Dan Schneider & Brian Robbins

1998

• Guys Like Us (UPN): Dan Schneider (actor), Brian Peck (Happy Pants the Clown) & Rich Correll (director)

1999

• February 12 - Boy Meets World (ABC): Brian Peck (extra) ; Will Friedle & Rider Strong (cast) ; Rich Correll (director) & Beth Dempsey Correll (assistant director)
• October 16 - Amanda Show (Nickelodeon) first episode date; created by Dan Schneider produced by Tollin/Robbins; Cast: Amanda Bynes, Raquel Lee, Drake Bell, Josh Peck; Virgil Fabian (director), Christy Stratton, Jenny Kilgen (writers); Brian Peck (extra)

2000

• Jenny Kilgen files a gender discrimination lawsuit against Dan Schneider
• Feb 29 - Snow Day: Josh Peck, Albie Hecht
• May 5 - Boy Meets World last episode aired
• July 2 - All That: Bryan Hearne (Season 7-8)
• July 14 - X-Men: Brian Peck, James Marsden
• September 2 - LA Times article on Amanda Bynes: Albie Hecht - She’s funny--and funny is money

2001

• December 1 - Brian Peck Case Offense Date ; Year Crime Committed
  • Ron Melendez letter citing living in Brian's house (1999, 2001-2002)
• The Amanda Show: Brian Peck credited appearance

2002

• February 2 - All That: Brian Peck credited appearance (Season 7)
• March 16 - All That: Giovonnie Samuels (Season 7-9) & Kyle Sullivan (Season 7-10)
• May - Drake & Josh Unaired pilot filmed
• June 23 - LA Times article: "Groomed to be All That" Dan Schneider and Brian Peck held comedy boot camps ; Paper copies of the article
• September 20 - What I Like About You (Warner Brothers) first episode date ; Amanda Bynes, Dan Schneider, Brian Robbins, Brian Peck
• September 21 - Amanda Show last episode aired

2003

• March 23 - Roman Polanski's wins Oscar for Best Direction, gets standing ovation
• April 12 - Jason Handy arrested ; released after bail
• April 16 - Jason Handy arrested again, no-bail felony warrant
• April 17 - LAPD report on Jason Handy's arrest
• May 2 - X2: Brian Peck, James Marsden
• June 15 - Variety reports Amanda Bynes emancipation,
  • parents fire agent at Endeavor, her manager at Tollin Robbins and her attorney at Myman, Abell, Fineman, Greenspan & Light
• August 19 - Brian Peck arrested
• August 20 - LAPD report on Brian Peck's arrest ; reported 2 weeks prior
• September 8 - Brian Peck $400,000 Bond ~
• Drake & Josh film dates: Season 1 (August 2003) ; Season 2 (December 2004-August 2005) ; Season 4 (November 2005 - July 2006)

2004

• January 10 - The Sneeze interview with Dan Schneider (Better Off Dead Tribute)
• January 11 - Drake & Josh first episode date, produced by Schneider's Bakery; Virgil Fabian (director); Kimmy Robertson, Taran Killam (guest episodes); Beth Dempsey Correll (2nd AD)
• May 10 - Brian Peck pleads no contest to 2 charges
• June 17 - Beth (Dempsey) Correll Letter #1
• June 18 - Rich Correll Letter
• June 20 - Will Friedle Letter
• June 28 - August 2004 - Love Wrecked filming date; Brian Peck as extra
• July 7 - Joana Kerns (2) Letter
• July 15 - Alan Thicke Letter
• August 30 - Pepperdine University on Zoey 101 filming in campus
• September 2- Tom DeSanto Letter
• October 5 - Beth (Dempsey) Correll Letter #2
• October 7 - Brian Peck Probation & Sentence Hearing
  • In attendance: Drake Bell, Robin & Roy Dodson, Drake's brother, Will Friedle & others
  • 41 Letters in total; 15 named ; 14 publicized
  • Undated: James Marsden (2), Taran Killam, Rider Strong (2),Ron Melendez, Kimmy Robertson, Lynne Murphy
• November 10 - Michael Goldman (Power Entertainment) new client: Dan Schneider

2005

• January 9 - Zoey 101 (Nickelodeon) released; Created by Dan Schneider
• May 18 - Love Wrecked (filmed 2004) Brian Peck, Amanda Bynes

2006

• January 4 - CBS reports Drake Bell suffered a car accident in 2005
• July 28 - The Suite Life of Zack & Cody (Disney): Brian Peck, Rich Correll, Beth Correll

2007

• September 7 - New York Times labels Dan Schneider as "Norman Lear" of children's television
• September 8 - iCarly (Nickelodeon) first episode date

2009

• September 29 - CNN reports film industry demanding Roman Polanski's release

2010

• Gabe Hoffman & Mathew Valentinas approach Amy Berg to make the documentary: An Open Secret
• March 17 - New York Post reports Growing Pains producer, Steven Marshall sentenced for CP
• March 27 - Victorious (Nickelodeon) first episode date 2011
• June 2 - Love Horror Brian Peck Interview; skips Amanda Show in list of film work
• October 1 - People Magazine reports Amanda Bynes spending a lot of time with Dan Schneider & Lisa Lillien during emancipation attempt in 2003

2013

• January 4 - Brian Peck Case Hearing
• June 8 - Sam & Cat(Nickelodeon) first episode date

2014

• March 30 - Kid's Choice Awards Honor Dan Schneider with Lifetime Achievement award
• April 15 - Danwarp blog All That's 20th Anniversary ; Albie Hecht offer to develop for Nickelodeon, couldn't because under contract with WB & ABC
• November 12 - An Open Secret release date (also June 5, 2015)
• November 18 - Tweet to Drake Bell about Brian Peck

2015

• June 8 - Daily Mail reports Brian Peck still working with underage kids
• April 9 - People Magazine article on child stars suing their parents

2016

• March 25 - Angelique Bates abuse story on All That
• April 13 - Brian Peck Case Hearing
• August 4 - Brian Peck spotted in Return of the Living dead event

2017

• June 7 - Deadline reports Brian Robbins hired to oversee Paramount Players
• June 18 - Drake Bell (deleted) tweet on not being invited to Josh Peck's wedding
• June 22 - Seventeen reports Dan Schneider was invited in Josh Peck's wedding
• July 7 - The Malibu Times interview Brian Peck as local fan of Planet of the Apes
• July 8 - People magazine interview with Drake Bell on wedding snub
• July 28 - Dan Schneider instagram post on Brian Peck signing All That S8 poster "Oh Dan you can dip my pickle in dill juice anytime! I owe you!"
• August 8 - Zach Sang Show interview on Drake Bell
• August 28 - Drake Bell & Josh Peck reunite in VMA vlog
• August 31 - David Dobrik vlog surprised by Drake and Josh
• October 5 - New York Times article on Harvey Weinstein ; paid off accusers
• October 10 - New Yorker article on Harvey Weinstein accusers tell their stories
• December 1 - Drake Bell case: Cleveland Concert
• December 16 - Seventeen tweetJosh Peck missing in Drake Bell's birthday
• December 23 - New York Times on Vice Media letting go 4 employees ; 2 executives on leave (January 2, 2018)

2018

• All Your Screens Guest Column on Dan Schneider: "This is Me Screaming"
• March 9 - Washington Post report Dan Schneider leaving Nickelodeon
• March 27 - Liz Feldman (deleted) tweet: worked for Schneider, confirms inappropriate behavior
• July 23 - Drake Bell talks about feud with Josh Peck
• October 1 - Deadline reports Brian Robbins named President of Nickelodeon
• October 8 - Tana Mongeau interviews Josh Peck, hating Drake & being a child star, asked about D&J reboot
• October 10 - Dan Schneider deleted 14,000 tweets ; screenshots ; twitter thread
• October - Drake Bell's victim made a report to local police (Canada) ; forwarded to Cleveland police
• November 1 - Hollywood Reporter: Brian Robbins wants to reboot All That

2019 * March 14 - JustJared Drake Bell & Josh Peck spotted at a business meeting * March 15 - Drake Bell teases Drake & Josh reboot * March 18 - Seventeen interview of Drake Bell * November 16 - All That (Revival) Season 11 airs * December 16 - Deadline reports Turner & Hooch reboot (Disney+)
2020

• February 10 - Hollywood Reporter: Josh Peck cast in Turner & Hooch reboot
• March 4 - Reddit post video deleted, Drake said he doesnt want a reboot anymore
• March 13 - Forbes interview on Drake Bell's album
• August 12
  • Melissa Lingafelt twitter thread alleging abuse by Drake Bell
  • Variety reports Drake Bell denies abuse allegations from Melissa Lingafelt

2021

• February 8 - Twitter thread naming Drake Bell as Brian Peck's victim
• April 23 - Rick Ellis reflections on working on Schneider piece
• May 23 - Rick Ellis article on the iCarly reboot
• June 4
  • Deadline reports Drake Bell arrested in Ohio
  • Daily Beast exclusive: Melissa Lingafelt abuse allegations against Drake Bell
• June 23 - Deadline reports Drake Bell plead guilty to 2 charges: attempted endangering of children & disseminating matte harmful to juveniles
• June 30 - The New York Times Dan Schneider article
• July 2
  • Kayla Alpert tweet on Schneider as worst person to work with, said "women aren't funny"
  • Christy Stratton tweet about Schneider being vindictive
• July 4
  • Rick Ellis article on The New York Times and Its Whitewash of Dan Schneider
• July 12
  • Law & Crime video on Drake Bell sentencing
  • New York Times article mentioning Drake Bell "will have to register as a sex offender"

2022

• March 17 - BFFs podcast with Josh Peck about Drake Bell; never close & confronting at VMAs
• March 20 - Drake & Janet video where Drake Bell clarifies his feud with Josh Peck (clip)
• May 2 - Medium article We (Don't) Need to Talk About Dan Schneider
• June 13 - Sony Pictures TV deal with Maxine (Quiet on Set production company)
• August 3 - New York Times article on Jennette McCurdy
• August 9 - Release of Jennette McCurdy book "I'm Glad My Mom Died", published by Simon & Schuster
• August 31 - Business Insider article by Kate Taylor: Dan Schneider Expose
• September 1 - Christy Stratton tweet on Schneider having her agent and manager fire her
• September 14 - Drake Bell (deleted) tweet: "You want the real truth about what went on behind the ORANGE curtain? You want the stories that will crush an entire network? Give me a call (a)simonschuster"
• September 25 - All Good Things podcast interview with Josh Peck; mentions Amanda Show offered by Nickelodeon president
• December 17 - CDAN post that Drake Bell will end up as the next Aaron Carter (Dead)

2023

• Early 2023 - Drake Bell first approached by Quiet on Set film makers (as mentioned in this QoS panel)
• April 10 - Good Guys podcast Josh Peck on Dan Schneider as "tough boss" ; blocked by Jennette McCurdy and scrapped episode, "owes us" comment
• April 13 - USA Today reports Drake Bell found safe after going missing
• April 21 - Entertainment Weekly reports Drake Bell's wife files for divorce
• April 22 - Drake Bell tweet compliments Jennette McCurdy's book I'm Glad My Mom Died
• April 27 - New York Post reports Drake Bell seen sucking on balloon
• May 5 - Brian Peck Case Motion Hearing (Also June 7 & July 10)
• July 17 - Drake Bell tweet writing a book called "I Found a Way"
• October 4 - Variety reports iCarly reboot canceled by Paramount+ after 3 seasons
• October 21 - Cancelled podcast Josh Peck on Dan Schneider "not a fan"
• October 30 - Deadline reports Paramount $1.62B sale of Simon & Schuster to KKR Investment firm
• November 22 - Good Burger 2 release

2024

• January 19 - Vulture interview with Taram Killam, mentions Michael Goldman, same manager as Amanda Bynes
• February 5 - Quiet on Set trailer drops
• February 19 - Pod Meets World episode on Brian Peck
• February 27 - Indiewire reports Zaslav is out of Paramount Business
• March 5 - Business Insider reports Drake Bell as Brian Peck's victim
• March 13 - Rick Ellis article on Quiet on Set
• March 17
  • Quiet on Set episode 1 & 2 airs
  • Amy Berg tweet Dan Schneider as boss; he left Nickelodeon to work on Guys Like Us
• March 18
  • Quiet on Set episode 3 & 4 airs
  • New York Times issues a retraction on Drake Bell article (removed sex offender claim)
• March 19 - Business Insider interview with Drake Bell
• March 20
  • Nancy Sullivan on Drake Bell
  • Hollywood Reporter exclusive: Dan Schneider Breaks Silence
  • Youtube video: Dan Schneider talks about Quiet on Set
• March 21
  • Drake Bell Tiktok telling people to take it easy on Josh Peck, talked privately
  • Angelique Bates on why she declined Quiet on Set
  • Allie Dimeco story on underage girl / older man kiss on Naked Brothers Band
  • Jack Salvatore on Dan Schneider as a boss
  • Madisyn Shipman statement
• March 22
  • Michael Bower's story about Brian Peck
  • Matt Bennett statement
  • Josh Peck statement
  • Abby Wilde statement
  • Chris Massey & his mom's reaction
  • Marc Summers tweet on Quiet on Set bait and switch
• March 24 - Amber Frank story on porn in laptops
• March 15 - Drake Bell Interview with Yordi Rosado
• March 27
  • Raquel Lee reaction on Quiet on Set
  • Quinton Reviews video on Dan Schneider
• March 29 - Matthew Underwood on child abuse & responses on reddit
• March 31
  • Quinton Reviews video on Timmy Turner movies (feat Drake Bell)
  • Jenny Kilgen letter to SAG
• April 2 - Drake Bell interview in Not Skinny but Not Fat podcast
• April 4 - Deadline article on Marc Summers walking out
• April 6 - Drake Bell tweet: about talking to Rider Strong privately and has forgiven him
• April 7 - Quiet on Set episode 5 (Additional: Shane Lyons & Soledad O'Brien; Will Friedle soundbite from Pod Meets World podcast)
• April 9 - Drake Bell interview on We Are Man Enough podcast
• April 11
  • Quiet on Set cast panel (Drake, Gio & Brian)
  • Raquel Lee reaction on not being invited to panel
• April 12 - Chelsea Fagan tiktok regarding Jennette McCurdy footage
• April 16
  • Entertainment Weekly article on Christy Calrson Romano callin QoS "Trauma Tourists" ; Romano is co-hosts with Will Friedle on another podcast
  • Alexa Nikolas reaction on not being invited to panel & Christy Carlson Romano article
• April 18 - Sony in Talks to Join a Bid to Buy Paramount
• April 19 - Salon article on unethical filmmaking practices and deceiving interviewees

Let me know corrections / things to add. Organized references to follow.

Hello Cincinnati! I am trying to get in touch with John Byong Hee, Janette John, or their kids whose maiden names are Christine and Sharon John. The parents would be in late '80s and the children would be in their mid-50's. John was an architect and Janette worked for many years at Pogue's travel and then I think for AAA.

I just finished "I'm Glad My Mom Died," by Janette McCurdy and loved it. Prior to this I read "Man's Search for Meaning," and also really enjoyed it. I started to read "The Handmaid's Tale," and although it's interesting it's just too wordy for me. I'm not sure how to explain it. I like books that say what they mean to say and then move on. I feel like adult books have too much extra stuff in them that slow down the story and make me zone out. Does anyone have any adult book suggestions that keep the reader interested without being too much?

I shared my story here once in a different account and I'll save you the gory details but it was bad. Today, I was reflecting on trauma, and I revisited this site which tells you what your ace score is.
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/02/387007941/take-the-ace-quiz-and-learn-what-it-does-and-doesnt-mean
If you score 3 or higher, it is very likely for your childhood to affect you physically and mentally as an adult. "As your ACE score increases, so does the risk of disease, social and emotional problems. With an ACE score of 4 or more, things start getting serious. The likelihood of chronic pulmonary lung disease increases 390 percent; hepatitis, 240 percent; depression 460 percent; attempted suicide, 1,220 percent." Oh, and once your score is like 6 or higher apparently your life span can also be decreased by years due to toxic stress.
My ace score was 6. Which is literally 95% higher than all Americans! WOW, an A! you're telling me I had emotionally immature abusive parents who demanded nothing less than perfection, and all I get is a top percentile ACE score, CPTSD, and therapy fees for the rest of my life.
I cut them off from my life. It had literally been my dream since I was 11 (even Jeannette McCurdy didn't come to the realization her mom was batshit until adulthood,) and since then I've been living the life of my dreams! I had health issues as a kid because they medically neglected me, but I now I actually see the doctor for my shit and I'm healthier at 30 than I ever was as a minor. My sister is still in contact w/them and dealing with some stuff like chronic pain and depression but we've both done pretty well and not turned into narcissistic assholes considering who "raised" us.
Jokes aside, I hope everyone that's on here - do what you need to do to be free if your family is abusive but please keep your health in mind. Trauma can take its toll on your body and soul.
Also note that having a lower score doesn't mean you're not traumatized. It's a warning for those with higher scores, please take care of your health, see a doctor, and prioritize yourself. But know that the rest also doesn't encompass a lot of other traumas like bullying, racism, traumatic accidents, disability etc.
Sending you all love.