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2024.06.05 06:54 cutestpopcornthecat Beware: SignalHire Steals Information

Beware of this! Look up your name on Google and see if this website has your information.
I just saw mine a few mins ago, was really creeped out! I’m assuming they got my information from LinkedIn, but the inaccuracy is crazy to the point that it could potentially do a negative impact to applications.
The reason why I stated “steals” even if they potentially got it from LinkedIn is because I have my information settings set available to LinkedIn users only and NOT public, and they reposted it on a public website. They also put a different number there, and I’m afraid when people reach out to this number thinking it’s me, it might do damage to my working profile.
If may naka experience na neto before, naparemove niyo ba info niyo?
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2024.06.05 06:37 Elijah-Emmanuel Honest questions for the community. Looking for direction.

Hello awakened family. I've missed this community, and all the stimulating conversations we've had. I've been online for a few months now after taking some time offline to get my thought straight, and reevaluate life. You may or not remember me (Mike Knoles, the US Senate candidate from Montana), but I remember quite a few of your user profiles, with plenty of new faces.
First of all, I don't say sorry for philosophical reasons, but I would like to offer my sincerest apologies to anyone I may have hurt while debating topics such as awakening, enlightenment, astral projection, et al. These topics are not simple to work through philosophically, much less psychologically, spiritually, mentally, scientifically, and so many other ways. I am, however extremely grateful for said conversations as they've lead me to where I am today, and they've helped shape me into the person I am today, and I truly love myself, something I never thought I would say a few years ago.
To update y'all, I went through a pretty dark phase of my life, culminating with me completely shedding my physical body, living on the streets of Portland, and using drugs/deep meditations to stop my heartbeat every day for a week, followed by a misunderstanding which landed me in jail for 8 months, and eventually to the recovery center I'm currently staying at while working on moving back to my parents' home while rebuilding that relationship, and things are going quite well in that area.
Now, to the crux of my reason for coming to you today, let's talk about ego. Y'all have seen my ego up and personal. I try to keep him at bay these days, but I'm happy to let him have his room to breathe, if only to teach me more on my personal path of cultivation. I've never seen ego as an inherently bad thing, although I do understand the lessons on "killing your ego" (this is what lead me to chasing physical death in an unhealthy way). When you see the Buddha in the road, kill him. Yes, we know these things, please, let's discuss this deeper.
I've found my calling studying Daoist Inner Alchemy, and Daoism in general. The infinite treasure trove of diving into the deep mysticism of the practices of Chinese Internal Medicine simply speak to me, and I feel fulfilled researching these things and putting them into practice. However, I still feel an urge that I cannot place a finger on. While I was in jail, I had a great time telling everyone I was running for president, even getting the guards to call me Mr. President and saluting me. I had fun, sue me. (If you recall, that was my political ambition before starting this journey.)
So why do I still feel this draw? I honestly feel like it's my responsibility to stand up and make the biggest change I can in this world, and I know that flies in the face of everything I'm studying in Daoism, but also it doesn't. It makes perfect sense. Now, this will certainly sound egoic, but I mean it in the least egoic way possible, but I'm frankly the smartest person on this little planet. I don't know how to say it nicely, and I don't know how to broach the topic without simply saying it. Now, if someone can prove me wrong, and find someone who understands quantum physics and spirituality in as deep a manner as it makes perfect sense to my brain, please, let's talk. Take this burden from me. But I want to put the "servant" back into public service.
So, what advice do you have for me? What should I do about this seeming paradox inside me? Chop my ego down, if that's what seems right (his name is Karsavak). Tell me how to proceed. I beg you.
Your good and faithful servant,
Michael Chantry Knoles, aka Elijah, Beatrix, Autumn, and Alf
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2024.06.05 06:35 DuePaleontologist268 Sharing social media

Why do alot of people share there instagram or snapchat on this app but not facebook? I don’t really use instagram much. I had an older account but forgot the password to it then made a new one but I don’t use it as much as fb. I’ve used facebook for way longer than instagram and it was usually more popular back when I was in high school. I only made an instagram not that long. I kinda want to share my facebook name on my bio but not sure if I should. I see some people sharing there Ig but barley anyone shares there fb info. Is it because fb is considered more private usually? I could share my Ig instead but idk if I should cause my Ig is pretty ordinary I only have a profile pic and I didn’t add as many people on Ig as on fb since fb I had for a much longer time. Im wondering why its like that but Im thinking that fb is considered a little more private plus I think instagram more people share cause some of them also want more followers. Please share your thoughts on this.
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2024.06.05 06:12 tthoma24 Paris Olympics - Asking “some guests” for additional ID verification [USA/France]

I got the following email today alleging to be from Airbnb’s Trust and Safety Team. I thought it was a phishing email, and their support confirms the legitimacy of it, but not any deadline or reason for it. Has anyone else that booked a reservation for the Olympics got an email like this? It came from reply@support-email.airbnb.com with subject line “Airbnb: Airbnb Trust and Safety”, and body as follows:
My name is Gabie and I am a member of the Trust and Safety team at Airbnb.
You have a reservation scheduled during the Paris Olympics in close proximity to the Games.
To ensure the Airbnb community is safe during the Games, we are asking some guests to take additional steps to verify their identity by submitting a photo of their Government ID. We want to ensure that our community can travel and host in confidence. We appreciate your help keeping the Games safe.
Please upload a photo of your Government ID by XX date XX or your reservation will be canceled. You can complete the additional identity verification steps on our platform by following the instructions at:
airbnb.com/account-verification
Or by following these steps on our app:
Log in > Profile > Personal information > Government ID > Add
Your Government ID is handled according to our Privacy Policy and isn't shared with your Host. To learn more about how we handle your Government ID, visit our Help Center article:
airbnb.com/help/article/464
Best regards, Gabie
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2024.06.05 06:01 Choice_Evidence1983 [New Update] - AITA for yelling at my SIL at my wedding and telling her no one cares that she is pregnant

I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/Ordinary-Coffee-2353
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[New Update] - AITA for yelling at my SIL at my wedding and telling her no one cares that she is pregnant
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Trigger Warnings: manipulation, gaslighting, enabling, obsessive behavior
RECAP
Original Post: February 20, 2024
Sorry everyone, my story was duplicated in my previous post, hopefully it was fixed
TLDR: I yelled at my SIL at my wedding that no one cares that she is pregnant after she repeatedly trued to take the attention off of my husband and I.
My husband (30 m) and I (26f) got married during covid. We couldn’t have a big ceremony because of restrictions, and unfortunately my family couldn’t be present as they live in a different country. With restrictions finally lifted, we decided to have a more traditional ceremony in my home country with my family. My husband’s family came, his parents, some friends, cousins and his sister (32 f, we’ll call her Sara) and her husband (28 m, we’ll call him Matt).
Sara and Matt live on the other side of the US than the rest of the family. They had their wedding a couple of months back in their home state, and ever since then when we have a conversation, even without our wedding coming up, Sara would say that she and Matt are planning to get pregnant on the trip for my husband and I’s wedding. No big deal, I just made sure to tell her that she needs to ovulate for that to happen, but other than that I could not care less. What started to get annoying, is when we were talking about all the activities/ excursions people wanted to do so could go ahead and book it, Sara would always say “Make sure there’s is enough time for Matt and I at the hotel so we can get busy making our baby.” Again, kind of gross, a little annoying, but whatever, they are grown ups.
About a week before we all leave to go to my home country, Sara and Matt arrive in our home state to spend time with family as they rarely see them. My husband and I, his parents, and my husband’s brother and sister in law are sitting chatting, when Sara blurts out she is pregnant. We all get really excited, congratulate them and saying how happy we are. We start asking some questions, and Sarah says she is 2 weeks pregnant. Everyone kind of loses a little bit of excitement and say wow, that’s really early, we suggest to wait before telling other people, just as a lot can happen. People usually dont even know they are pregnant until at least 6 weeks, and even then they are encouraged to wait until after the first trimester to tell people. My BIL and SIL were very happy and excited for them, but cautioned them even more as they have experienced multiple miscarriages before having their first child.
Matt replied by saying they are only telling the people closest to them, eg his parents, her parents and her siblings, no one else since it is so early. Well the next day, Sara had called her great uncle and his wife over for drinks and decided to tell them too, called her one aunt and uncle and told them, and by the end of the day basically the entire extended family knew, as well as some of her mom’s friends which stopped by the house and Sara told. With each person Sara told Matt got more agitated, as they had agreed to only tell a select few people. Matt finally gave up and asked her why she doesn’t just post it on Facebook as it will be quicker, to which she replied, she wants to, but she think it will be frowned upon.
My husband came to me and said it feels like she is trying to draw the attention away from us and our wedding, as she is known to do anything and everything to have the spotlight on her. I said to not worry about it, as when we are in my home country, she isn’t going to know many people so she wont say anything.
He agreed, but went to his parents and told them what he was feeling, and asked if they could politely suggest that she keep it to herself when we left for the trip. They agreed that it was valid for him to feel that way, as they know she hates it if the focus is not on her.
Anyway, we leave for the wedding and I see my mom for the 2nd time in 5 years. Obviously it was a very emotional reunion, but we wiped off our tears quickly and sat down for a meal with my husband’s family. After I introduced her to everyone, the waiter take our order and the first thing Sara says to my mom is, your daughter probably already told you, but I won’t be drinking this trip. My mom says that its no problem, you dont have to drink to have fun, and that Sara will still have fun, even if she chooses not to drink. Sara interrupts my mom to tell her its not by choice that she is not drinking, but that she is pregnant. (Keep in mind this is 10 minutes after she met my mom) my mom says congratulations and keeps on with another conversation. Sara intterupts my mom again and tells her how she is 2 weeks pregnant and just so excited. My mom ( who is in medicine) then tells Sara the same thing we did, that she should probably wait until she is in her second trimester to tell people, and Sara completely ignores her.
The same thing happens with my aunt, cousins, uncles, sister and grandparents, all of whom she had never met before.
My husband yet again speaks to his parents and ask them to please tell her to keep it private because it feels as though she is purposefully trying to take the attention away from our wedding. They say they will talk to her. Matt actually comes up to us and apologizes, by saying he agrees that it has gotten out of hand and that the number of people that know is way more than the number they agreed upon.
Fast forward, we are sitting eating while we wait for one of our excursions. A family that I lived with for 3 when I first moved to my husband’s country flew out for the wedding and met up with us for lunch. They have never met my SIL. The wife and I are talking about the wedding and all the arrangements, while my SIL sits across from us and listens to the conversation. My husband orders some shots for everyone at the table, when his mom says she doesn’t want one so he tells the server minus 1. My SIL hears him ordering the shots and goes off yelling across the table. “ I can’t drink alcohol!! You know I cant drink a shot! Why would you order me one?!” Everyone kind of stops and looks at her for a sec, before my husband says its not a problem as Matt said he wants 2. Everyone then continues their conversation including the wife and I. My SIL interrupts me and continues to make a big fuss over how my husband ordered her alcohol when he knows she’s not drinking. The wife then says its ok because Matt said he’ll drink it so its not going to waste. My SIL then says again how annoying it is that my husband ordered her a shot and I say to not worry about because I’ll just drink it if Matt doesn’t want it. She keeps doing this till I finally tell the wife, she’s not drinking because she is pregnant. The wife says congratulations and ask how far she is and then also tells her to be careful of telling too many people.
This situation happens about 3 more times in the week leading up to the wedding. Now this is why I might be the AH. The last time it happened she was telling my HS friends at the wedding how sick she has been, but no one asked why she was sick, they were just empathetic and saying they hope she feels better. They came over to me to talk to me and she followed again complaining about how sick she has been and kind of pushing them to ask why she has been feeling so sick, when I finally said, “ Sara, are you fucking kidding me?! No one gives a shit that you are pregnant, they don’t even know you.” Sara ran off crying and my MIL heard me say that and told my FIL who screamed at my husband saying how we hurt Sara’s feelings and how she is just excited.
My husband doesn’t think I did anything wrong, and my HS friends think I was fine too, because they know the backstory. My mom and some of my husband’s family think I was the Asshole.
So AITA for telling my SIL that no one cares that she is pregnant.
Relevant Comments
ACanWontAttitude: 2 weeks pregnant doesn't exist. If she's used the clear blue test that says 2 weeks, it actually means she's 4 weeks.
Your weeks of pregnancy are dated from the first day of your last period. This means that in the first 2 weeks or so, you are not actually pregnant – your body is preparing for ovulation (releasing an egg from one of your ovaries) as usual.
OOP: She said she knows when she got pregnant, it was their anniversary from when they started dating, and then she took a pregnancy test and it came back positive 2 weeks after their anniversary. She could also apparently ’feel when the implant of the egg happened’
ConsitutionalHistory: Here's the real problem...her husband, her parents, or even your husband should have told her off long before this reached your breaking point. You did nothing wrong...but apparently nearly everyone else was more than happy to play the role of enabler to the little princess.
Prestigious-Algae886: NTA. Sarah sounds insufferable. Is she the golden child?
OOP: Yes, never finished college after asking her dad to pay for 4 different colleges and degrees, and then still got a graduation present when she moved away to work on a ranch. She also gets a allowance for money every month from her father
 
Update: February 29, 2024
Update to my previous post on my profile.
My hisband and i finally had our honeymoon and we were unreachable during our holiday because we were out of the country. Our whole family knew this before we left and we told them the only way to reach us in emergency was to call the hotel. We knew Sara was going in for her appointment while we were away and we told her we would call her as soon as we got back home.
My husband and I was out one day for the whole day from the hotel doing activities, and when we got back we found a note on our room to say we have to go to reception. Once we got to reception, the person told us we had 7 missed calls from family and gave us a number to call. We didn’t know who called or what about, but we thought it was an emergency. We called the number and it was Matt. He was very confused and asked why we were calling him on our honeymoon and asked if we were ok? We said that the hotel said tihs number called 7 times and asked him if everything was ok, matt said everything was fine but Sara wanted to talk to us.
Matt called Sara over and she asked us how we were having fun etc, but we just wanted to know what was going on because we were so worried. Sara said she went to the doctor and got some news, we asked her if everything was ok, because she kept not saying anything and we could hear her and Matt whisper to each other. We heard Matt say to her “did you seriously call the hotel 7 times to tell them this? It could have waited.” Sara finally gets back on the phone and said that the doctor said she was going to have twins!! We said congratulations and asked if there was anything else? We thought it was an emergency. She said no she just wanted to share the news because she is so excited and scared and she couldn’t hold it in. She said she also called my mom, and told her (thay are friends on social media) .
My husband and I both just said we were very happy for them but really didn’t want to be bothered again if it was not an emergency. Sara said we were being very rude and she just wanted to share the good news. We hung up because we had to get ready for dinner.
When we got back into the US, my inlaws picked us up from the airport and were asking us if we spoke to Sara. We said yes she said she was having twins and we were very excited for them. My FIL then said Sara told them we were extremely rude to her and Matt and we were dismissive and hung up the phone. We told them what really happened and they said that is not what Sara has told the whole family.
We are now back in our house and haven’t spoken to Sara or Matt but matt texted us both but the text only cane through later where he said he was so sorry that they bothered us on our vacation and he felt horrible. We just texted back and said all good, and that we were very excited for both of them.
All i can say about this whole situation is that i am very happy that we live on the other side of the country from Sara.
Additional Information from OOP
I spoke to my MIL today and like everyone said, Sara didn’t calculate her time right. She is actually about 8-9 weeks pregnant according to my MIL. Sara is also having twins that were 2 eggs and 2 sperms (not sure the medical name) and each has their own sack.
Relevant Comments
bobbleheadjoe:_ Did your brother go with her to the doctor? Did he see the ultrasound?
For some reason women who fake pregnancies often claim they’re having twins. Now that isn’t a super likely scenario, but this woman sounds pathologically desperate for attention.
I probably have watched too many Dr Phil episodes on women who fake pregnancies, but I’d reverse image search any ultrasound pictures she sends/posts.
OOP: I think Matt went with yes, when we got back to the US she sent us a picture of the ultrasound, im not a doctor or in the medical field at all but it looked like two babies to me.
 

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FINAL UPDATE: AITA for yelling at my SIL at my wedding and telling her no one cares that she is pregnant.: May 29, 2024 (3 months later)
Hi everyone, sorry for the long wait on the update, I have been really busy with my work.
Sara is still pregnant, due at the end of August, with 2 babies, one boy and one girl.
My husband (Sara's brother) and I have started to try and have a family of our own, no success yet, but we are not worried, it only 2 months. When we we're in my country, we were buying artwork and small furnitures from my country to put in the nursery of our future baby to have my culture too. Sara and her husband bought some things too for their house and because she was pregnant for the baby.
My mom was on the town with Sara one day when we did a trip they didnt want to do and bought some things for us, and told Sara its for the nursery for our future baby. When Sara heard what our idea for our nursery was with my culture, she decided she wanted her nursery to be like that, and bought almost everything we bought. We dint say anything because we thought she was just buying for her house and for friends, souvenirs etc.
Some time passed after everyting happened at the wedding and the honeymoon, and Sara called me to see if I can go to a store where we live and look at some baby things for her, because they dont have that store. I said yes and spend almost 2 hours with her on the videocall showing her things, taking pictures, and saying we can get it and mail to her if she needs anything, so we were on good terms.
then a week ago she posted on ig her nursery in progress and it was exactly what I said I wanted. The theme isnt something very common, but its my culture. Think like dragons for China, or Geisha for Japan. Very big part of the culture, but not usually a baby theme. I saw it and got mad, showed it to my husband and he was mad too, but said lets just give it a few days, and then talk about it again, and then we can decide what to do. I said ok.
Sara calls us a couple of days later to tell us the names she decided for her babies, and the boy name is very sweet, a mixture of a family name on Matt and Sara's family. The girl name is where the problem is. Her first name is very pretty, we love it, but her middle name is my husband's name that we said we wanted to use if we had a son. its not a girl/boy name like Taylor, its a boy name like Johnathan (not the rael name).
My husband said thats his name and she knew we wanted to use it. she said its also their uncle's name, and thats who its after. My husband kept saying but its his first name, and its boys name and we are still going to use the name if we have a son. This is where Sara loses her mind. she gets so mad and starts yelling that cousins cannot have the same name and she chose it first, and my husband just says ITS MY NAME. Finally Sara just hangs up after she said she thought my husband would be happy that she is nameing the baby the same name as him.
Again we give it a couple of days and then I had a talk with my husband and said I am still very upset about the theme and it feels like Sara always gets what she wants, no matter what other people think, feel or are affected. I told him its like the camels back broke from all the straw, over the last years. I told him I was going to call Sara and tell her how i feel and just talk about it. he said ok, but told me to wait one more day so I am not very angry when I call. I called my mom and told her what i told my husband, and she was furious. She pointed out that Sara also showed me and my husband things she thought would look good in our nursery with the theme we said we wanted, so she knew exactly what we wanted to do. I took a couple of hours to get my brain ready and called Sara to talk to her about it.
When I was talking to Sara, I made sure to tell her that the nursery wasn't the main issue, that it was just the last thing I could take. I told her it feels like everything is always about her, and how she wants it and screw everybody else. I said its almost 4 years of that, and the nursery was the last straw. I made it a point to talk to her nicely, not raise my voice and use kind words. SHE WENT OFF. She said a nursery theme isnt something you can own, and that I actually copied her. I told her its my culture so i dont know how that works. She called me such bad names and cursed me out, and i told her if she doesnt stop, i was going to hang up. She kept saying nasty things, and i told her again, and she kept going, so I hung up after i told her to lose my number and not contact me ever again. I havent had any other contact from her, and my husband either. It feels like a weight of my shoulders. I wish her the best but she cannot be a part of my life if she is acting like this. i also removed her from all socials.
So that’s that, Sara and me are done. my husband is low contact, only if she calls/ messages him, which is never. Her parents are shocked at me, but i said im done. Her mom asked if I am going to tell Sara when I get pregnant, and I said no, she is welcome to tell her, and my husband can tell her if she wants, but I am not speaking to Sara again. Sara had her shower, and I sent 2 outfits for the babies, because I brought them before the phone call, and she texted in a group chat to say thank you and I just liked the message. I told my husband that if I am home, Sara is not welcome in my house.
Thats probably the last update from me. I don’t think anything else will happen now that I am no contact. if anything, I will just comment on this post. I am not super active on reddit, so I am sorry if I don’t reply. Thank you all for the support and messages. you made me realise that I am not the crazy one. you are the best!!
Relevant Comments
EvasiveFriend: No one thinks it's weird or unusual for a non pregnant woman to make a nursery when another family member is pregnant?! What an unhealthy competition!
OOP: I go back to my country very few times. Since moving away, only 2 times in 5 years. My husband and I planned in getting stuff for our nursery when we visited, because we knew we wanted to have a baby soon, and we didn’t know when we are going back. Its very expensive to mail things, almost $$150 for a shoebox, so we got some things we could fit in our suitcases. A lot of the stuff you cannt find in Usa, so thats why we bought it there.
ObsoleteReference: I would make it very clear to parents in law you plan to use your husbands name for a boy no matter what. Don’t worry about it being confusing, unless Sara chills out considerably, you’re not going to want to deal with her pitting he her kids against anything that could distract from her being center stage.
 

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Evolution of the Infinite Enigma 20+ $6
Beast of the Crimson Ring bristle back 20+ $15
Clearcut Cavalier Timber 20+ $10
The King Of Thieves Keeper of light 20+ $10
Horror from the Deep Tide 20+ $20
Talons of the Endless Storm chaos knight 20+ $15
Carousal of the Mystic Masquerade Rubick 20+ $6
Crown of Calaphas Shadow demon 20+ $15
Wrath of the Fallen doom 20+ $20
Blacksail Cannoneer Sniper 20+ $10
Secrets of the Celestial 📷 Skywrath mage 20+ $5
Blaze of Oblivion Phoenix 20+ $10
Steward of the Forbidden Chamber Templar Assassin 20+ $25
Claszureme Incursion Void 20+ 70$
Ire of the Ancient Gaoler Arc Warden 6* C 35$
Master of the Searing Path Ember Spirit 3* C 40$

Collector's Cache 2019

Set name Hero Quantity $$
Paean of the Ink Dragon Grimstroke 1*C 15$
The Arts of Mortal Deception Enigma 21 10$
Poacher's Bane Tidehunter 20 10$
Soul of the Brightshroud Death Prophet 21 10$
Curse of the Creeping Vine Undying 6*C +1 25$
Appetites of the Lizard King Slark 18 25$
Riddle of the Hierophant Oracle 20 10$
Defender of Ruin Disruptor 22 25$
Allure of the Faeshade Flower Dark Willow 4 * C - 1 reserved 25$
Pursuit of the Ember Demons Huskar 4* C 25$
Forbidden Medicine Dazzle 3* C 35$
Priest of the Proudsilver Clan Chen 4* C 15$

Collector's Cache II 2019

Set name Hero Quantity $$
Sight of the Kha-Ren Faithful Drow Ranger 31 15$
Tribal Pathways Warlock 30 10$
Directive of the Sunbound Clockwerk 31 10$
Endless Night Abaddon 30 15$
Dapper Disguise Pudge 27 15$
Fury of the Bloodforge Bloodseeker 30 15$
Automaton Antiquity Broodmother 31 10$
Grim Destiny Wraith King 29 10$
Distinguished Expeditionary Tusk 30 10$
Verdant Predator Venomancer 31 10$
Prized Acquisitions Batrider 31 5$
Fowl Omen Necrophos 34 30$
Echoes of the Everblack Abaddon 4*C 25$
Souls Tyrant Shadow Fiend 1 * C 45$
Tales of the Windward Rogue Pangolier 3 * C 45$

The International 2018 Collector's Cache I

Set name Hero Quantity $$
Trail of the Sanguine Spectrum Bloodseeker 20 10$
Insights of the Sapphire Shroud Dark Seer 18 4$
Pillar of the Fractured Citadel Spirit Breaker 21 $10
The Murid Divine Necrophos 22 25$
Molokau Stalker Venomancer 21 $10
Morbific Provision Witch Doctor 22 10$
Raptures of the Abyssal Kin Queen of Pain 20 15$
Grasp of the Riven Exile Weaver 20 5$
Fate Meridian Invoker 2 *C 30$
Visions of the Lifted Veil Phantom Assassin 1 *C 40$
Grasp of the Riven Exile Weaver 4 *C 20$

The International 2018 Collector's Cache II

Set name Hero Quantity $$
Pitmouse Fraternity Meepo 37 10$
Fires of the Volcanic Guard Ember Spirit 37 10$
Shackles of the Enduring Conscript Axe 37 S 6$
Shimmer of the Anointed Nyx Assassin 29 5$
Loaded Prospects Brewmaster 39 15$
Ire of Molten Rebirth Phoenix 36 10$
Pattern of the Silken Queen Broodmother 26 5$
Third Awakening Dragon Knight 7 *C -2nonR 35$
Dread Ascendance Doom 5 *C 40$
Raiments of the Obsidian Forge Underlord 22 20$

The International 2017 Collector's Cache

Set name Hero Quantity $$
Rumrunner's Carronade Brew master 20 15$
Abyssal Vortex Enigma 27 10$
Samareen Sacrifice Huskar 22 10$
Shadowforce Gale Luna 24 20$
Mechalodon Interdictor Gyrocopter 27 + 3*C 15$
Cunning Corsair Riki 24 20$
Pressure Regulator Clockwerk 3 *C 20$
Meranth Dragoon Sven 2 *C 35$
The Dread Prophet Nature's Prophet 2 *C 35$
Riptide Raider Monkey King 2 *C - 1nonrev 20$

The International 2016 Collector's Cache

Set name Hero Quantity $$
Nightsilver's Resolve luna 2 M* dtygod* 20$
Oni Knight the Dark Conqueror Chaos Knight 3C + 2 dtygod dopey* 20$
Rising Glory Magnus 2C+ 1 moiz 20$
Dirgeful Overlord Undying 3 *C 25$
Iceburnt Elegy Winter Wyvern 1 *C 25$
Wartorn Heavens Zeus 1 *C 35$
I've updated my policy and no longer entertain joy riders. If you're interested in adding me, I request a $3 deposit in items upon adding me.
This $3 deposit will be deducted from your total set cost.
Please refrain from adding me if you're not comfortable with the listed prices.
Keep in mind that prices are subject to change, and sets may go out of stock even if you're waiting for one, as someone else may purchase it before you.
If you're interested in reserving sets, please make sure to do so.
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2024.06.05 05:52 Throwaway_Fantasy_Ad [F4M or F] Ghost and the 'Rookie'? ~CoD~ [1x1, discord, romance/drama/action]

Helllooooo again.
Let's not blame me for this ad, let's blame social media for deciding I needed a new crush. Please and thank you. And yes, I'm aware this is a long shot.
Ghost. From Call of Duty. That's who the internet decided I needed. And now I do in fact need it. So that's great.
I read too much, so I'm an easy woman to please.
I like my men, and women, tall, strong, dangerous and borderline toxic, sometimes simply toxic - but that's entirely fine. It's a story, no harm no foul.
Before we move onto the reason we are here, a little info and some rules:- - I am a 25-year-old female. I will not write with anyone under the age of 20. I would prefer it if you were closer to or above my age. - This will be 18+. I do not wish for a smut-focused rp, more story-focused, but there will be adult themes in here and I am also not against the former. So again. 18+ ONLY. - I have been writing for about twelve years or so, so I can write a fair bit, and will ask that it is not simply a few sentences. - I only write on discord in third person. - I am GMT time, but I am more of a night owl, so timing usually isn't too much of an issue. I don't sleep much anyways. So that should work out well. - OOC chat is not necessary, but it is something I enjoy. Being able to chat about normal stuff, about the story, send in things regarding it, that sort of thing. But it's not a deal breaker if you don't like that. - There is likely things I am forgetting right now, and I apologise. But please feel free to ask anything I haven't listed!
So, ideally, what I'm looking for is someone to write a version of Ghost against an OC. There are a few things that would need to change though. For instance his real name (or her name if you wanna write a female version of Ghost, just replace the he's with she's). I've known a 'Simon' and that would take away from the rp. So a new name (The name Greyson pops into mind, I don't know why. Well, I do know why, I like the name, but I don't know why here specifically XD)
I'm looking for a man that towers over her, is strong enough to crush another yet is gentle with her, the OC (Unless circumstance calls for it differently - I will not incriminate myself on this post so that one is left to you to figure out).
I want protective, possessive, jealous, borderline obsessive, dominant Ghost. Very 'don't touch what's mine lest you lose a hand or your life' sorta vibes. If it's not clear, I'd like to write the shorter, submissive female whos also a badass (And no, not god-modded. I hate that) My characters very rarely end up being the submissive (to the right person) type or the female, I'm a people pleaser. So I'd like to try stick to that this time.
I want all the angst, all the drama, the tension and romance. If you like torturing your characters like I do then we will mesh well.
As for ideas. I've got a few floating around my head. Ones that go from their first meeting, or they've known each other for a few weeks/months, even years. But that detail, among others, can be decided together as this is a story for both of us. Not just one, so I want to make sure it works and fits for us both. It doesn't have to be set within the COD universe, we can make our own. But I do like the idea of the same sort of work being done, because let's be fair, the team is a great one. Plenty of opportunity for drama within that sort of job. Also, what do you think Ghost's favourite flavour of cookie would be? (Yes, that's the password)
The only completely different addition I'd make, to keep with the theme of my profile and past ads, is I won't at all complain if he is either vampire or werewolf, just as a little add-on because that honestly is just perfection in my mind right there. It's not a necessity, but won't be turned down, at all, ever, in any universe.
I will ask for some forgiveness on this post, it's almost 5am for me, so it's going to be a bit messy XD But I promise that is not usually the standard of/with my posts.
I hope to talk to you soon if you made it through this mess!
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2024.06.05 05:14 MewhoUwho Stuck between Fraudsters!!

Sorry for the long ass paragraph i just thought of letting the whole story out,but my real concern is at the last paragraph.just read that and help me I'm scared for life.
This all started 2 days ago. There was this message in one of my students community grp, which said available jobs at a TELECALLING company which is offering 20,000 + incentives monthly, and also has payments on a weekly to daily basis. It lured me just like many others. I messaged the guy after some inquiry said I'm interested (as I'm desperate for a small time job, which makes ppl like me easy target), he made me register to DEMAT account through M,stock by merea asset link. Nxt day i was added to a grp which had other ppl (30+) with multiple admins. Day 1 they sent a link to join the zoom meeting said not much abt the company which was expected. 5 mins into the meeting i knew these guys are fishy ppl. I've had my fair share of experience with MLM scamers before but never fell for them only this time things got out of hand. These guys are no MLM guys.These were the demat acnt referral guys. Back to the story, during the meeting they gave us a script raatta marne ke liye. That script said to introduce yourself as the HR of the said company. And i was like wtf!! We just joined a random company grp and in no less then a day we are HRs and suddenly we are also recruiting😒. 2nd day we got promoted to another group (they said 3 day training,each day graduates us to the next step or a new group). This group asked us to read out the script and send voice notes as this our mock test, I didn't do that i just resend one of the guys VC. On the 2nd day meeting there was this girl who's been training us since day 1, she was being rude at times and covering up with nonsense reasons if someone asked basic questions,even scolding some at times (you can tell she's from hyd). I lost my shit here, I opened up my mic The first thing i asked was is their company a legit one because I sure can't find anything abt them. I asked them to send any of the government registration ppr of their company,as expected she was covering it up. I asked a few more questions abt how they are just recruiting ppl out of nowhere (they just wouldn't tell this is a pyramid or networking job). The girl said NIHAL sir(which this whole reddit post is abt) this guy is their head, he pays them and manages the people. If something goes south he is the one these guys turn to and he handles them,which happened to me. Just as she said nihal sir i knew he would give more nonsense reason to cover up or be rude to me and kick out of the meeting. I just said your fraudsters and left before nihal showed up. I left that 2nd grp in the heat.I went straight to YT and searched for a scam relating to this matter. That video just explained how things work here, i put 1 to 1 and started making sense of this group with the help of this video. I understood My claims were right. This is a SCAM. I sent this video link to the day 1 grp which to our surprise has new joinings(new targets)(they asked us to leave the 1st grp as we are now in 2nd grp) i didn't do that, i stayed to see their dance over there. With the video i shared asked ppl to not believe these guys some of the ppl responded with your right this is a scam. And the dalle admins(recruiters) of that grp asked me to not share this here, Gaslighting me, asked me to leave the grp i said i wouldn't do that i will let every new member know abt this until you delete my messages and kick me out yourselves to prove that im right(thats what they did). A girl messaged me( the one that said I'm right) asked if what I'm saying is right. I said yes and she too stood against them after i was removed. I messaged each one personally in 2nd grp (as i had already left the grp already)sent them the video and asked them to not fall for them. Many of this ppl were either junior girls or house wives with kids, i just couldn't ignore not letting them know abt the scam.This is where i MESSED.as i was messaging random numbers of that grp, i mistakenly sent it to the scamsters own ppl. They got to know that I'm trying to help other ppl by messaging them personally. This all happened last night from 7 pm when the meeting started to 10 pm)
Now last night i was getting personal messages from those scam grp admins to not share the expose video. And here comes the main guy NIHAL. He WhatsApp calls me like 15+ times (i didn't pickup once) he starts to send me WhatsApp voice notes threatening me of hurting me in person. He was cursing my family mostly abusing my mother(which you would expect from a low life guy like this). He said he has my info (adhar ,pan card) i don't know if he truly has them, I'm guessing he's just using it to scare me. The reason I'm in a position of doubt is because when the recruiter asked me to register a DEMAT acnt in M,stock by merea asset link which he sent, i gave up all my credentials there,such as adhar pan and my bank ifsc code. After registration i sent the guy an ss of the M,stock link which said "Thank you (my name)" login id :- ********* (i put stars here but the original ss showed the login id number but it didn't show my password in the message). Now this rascal Nihal sends me this ss with my name and login id. And says i have your CARDS. This is where I'm scared. I didn't give them anything abt me just the ss which i mentioned and my number. They can't do shit with my number that i know but I don't know if their claims are true. This is where i need your help fellow redditors. Am i safe,can they access my info from the m,stock where i made my profile from the LINK THEY SENT ME. Also this bastard nihal messaged the girl that stood with me threatening her too. I thrashed his business a little bit yesterday and really pissed off nihal.
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2024.06.05 05:02 WhyThoBoi Shopfinder Login Update

Hi guys, gals, and other pals!
Took me a while since life got hectic, but I added the ability to login to Shopfinder using Google login. You can now view all the stores you've created from the My Shops page, and if you are the owner of a shop you can even edit it to adjust the price of items, delete items, and add custom items to your shop! This update includes a privacy policy and the ability to delete your account should you choose to.
The only data I collect is the bare minimum google makes me, which is your first name, your google email, the public I.D. number associated with your account, and your profile picture.
Up next on the list is a random item picker and a spellbook generator!
As always, if you find any bugs or issues just let me know, happy playing!
https://shopfinder2e.com
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2024.06.05 04:38 Leona_Main03 SkyUI simply not working.

The title says it all. I've had many errors during all the modding I did in Skyrim. But SkyUI simply not working is the very first time, this never happened even on Oldrim. I, in all honesty, dont have a clue of what's going on.
I have the latest SKSE version, did a clean install and all that. Just doesn't work. First time playing (and modding) SSE and as of now I might aswell just uninstall it. I've tried adding screenshots and videos to this post but I dont know how lol I'm not really used to using reddit. Any guesses???
Load order:
0 0 Skyrim.esm
1 1 Update.esm
2 2 Dawnguard.esm
3 3 HearthFires.esm
4 4 Dragonborn.esm
5 5 ccBGSSSE001-Fish.esm
254 FE 0 ccQDRSSE001-SurvivalMode.esl
254 FE 1 ccBGSSSE037-Curios.esl
6 6 ccBGSSSE025-AdvDSGS.esm
254 FE 2 _ResourcePack.esl
RSkyrimChildren.esm
Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch.esp
EFFCore.esm
LegacyoftheDragonborn.esm
3DNPC.esp
Obsidian Mountain Fogs.esm
Water for ENB.esm
arnima.esm
RigmorCyrodiil.esm
Coldhaven.esm
Penitus_Oculatus.esp
TheBawbsWardenOfTheCoast.esp
Falskaar.esm
Vigilant.esm
WheelsOfLull.esp
Wyrmstooth.esp
MzarkWonders.esp
LCHB_HomeBase.esm
ThievesGuildDagger_SE_ENG.esl
TrueHUD.esl
SmoothCam.esl
SkyUI_SE.esp
Particle Patch for ENB.esp
SMIM-SE-Merged-All.esp
Audio Overhaul Skyrim.esp
Immersive Sounds - Compendium.esp
AOS_ISC_Integration.esp
TrueStormsSE.esp
Unlimited Training.esp
The Paarthurnax Dilemma.esp
SRC_ERS.esp
FTF_Core.esp
SRC - All In One.esp
aMidianBorn_Book of Silence.esp
Weapons Armor Clothing & Clutter Fixes.esp
Castle Volkihar Rebuilt.esp
JKs Skyrim.esp
LC_Citadel.esp
Cutting Room Floor.esp
Skyrim Immersive Creatures Special Edition.esp
Civil War Overhaul.esp
Locked Chests Have Keys.esp
The Great Town of Karthwasten.esp
Helgen Reborn.esp
Awesome Artifacts.esp
TCBM.esp
Brynjolf and the Riften GuildSE.esp
Embers XD.esp
HoneysideLowProfileForBrynjolfSE.esp
SeranaDialogAddon.esp
OpulentThievesGuild.esp
Immersive Encounters.esp
Ambriel.esp
Odin - Skyrim Magic Overhaul.esp
Fort(ified) Dawnguard.esp
Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp
Dawnguard - Tweaks and Enhancements.esp
radiantBlocker.esp
LCO_Framework.esp
LCO_LostValleyRedoubt.esp
Skyrim On Skooma.esp
ArcheryDummyXP.esp
Comprehensive_Falskaar_Fixes.esp
Better Vampire NPCs.esp
OldBlood.esp
SkyrimsUniqueTreasures.esp
TheFrontierFixed.esp
Dwarfsphere.esp
zMirai.esp
FloatingSwordFollower.esp
DragonmournInn.esp
Tel Mithryn.esp
WarmongerArmory_SSE.esp
Cloaks.esp
OBIS SE.esp
Inigo.esp
SRC - AIO - 3DNPC Patch.esp
TheDomain.esp
ForgottenCity.esp
ForgottenCity - Good Ending Tweaks.esp
DBM_HelgenReborn_Patch.esp
AdalMatar.esp
RigmorCyrodiilPatch.esp
3DNPC0.esp
TacticalValtheim.esp
Skaal Village.esp
HearthfireMultiKid.esp
Arcanum.esp
LCO_BleakwindBluff.esp
BrhuceLegacy.esp
Immersive Weapons.esp
Innocence Lost - Quest Expansion.esp
DBM_AHO_Patch.esp
Immersive Weapons_WACCF_Patch.esp
DBM_IW_Patch.esp
DBM_Vigilant_Patch.esp
SSKMovingBoats.esp
Infiltration - Quest Expansion.esp
LCO_MolderingRuin.esp
Skyrim Flora Overhaul.esp
Hothtrooper44_Armor_Ecksstra.esp
Deadly Shadows over Solitude.esp
DawnguardArsenal.esp
Immersive Patrols II.esp
The Heart Of Dibella - Quest Expansion.esp
Deadly Shadows of Markarth.esp
TheOnlyCureQuestExpansion.esp
LCO_FalkreathWatchtower.esp
DBM_JKSkyrim_Patch.esp
LCO_RedwaterDen.esp
Deadly Shadows of Windhelm.esp
Deadly Shadows of Riften.esp
JKs Skyrim_Mirai_Patch.esp
SRC - AIO - Tactical Valtheim Patch.esp
DBM_CRF_Patch.esp
Fyr Manor Merged.esp
LCO_RiftWatchtower.esp
LCO3D_RiftWatchtower.esp
Northern Marsh Bridges SE.esp
LCO_CradleStoneTower.esp
blackreachrailroadnew.esp
LCO_StendarrsBeacon.esp
Sneak Tools.esp
Better Vampire Weapons.esp
Embers XD - Patch - JKs Skyrim.esp
Shortcuts.esp
Headhunter - Bounties Redone.esp
The Whispering Door - Quest Expansion.esp
PrvtIRoyalArmory.esp
DBM_RoyalArmory_Patch.esp
DBM_SUT_Patch.esp
DBM_Falskaar_Patch.esp
LCO_Nilheim.esp
SRC - AIO - Inigo Patch.esp
Caught Red Handed - Quest Expansion.esp
LCO_ShorsWatchtower.esp
LCO_PinefallBridge.esp
Vampirelordroyal.esp
DBM_BeyondReach_Patch.esp
DBM_CloaksofSkyrim_Patch.esp
NightingaleArmorOverhaul.esp
DBM_ISC_Patch.esp
WACCF_Survival Mode_Patch.esp
DBM_WACCF_Patch.esp
Sneak Tools Vanilla Hoods.esp
Sneak Tools Vanilla Masks.esp
AngisCampTweaks.esp
DBM_Wyrmstooth_Patch.esp
LCO_DragonBridgeOverlook.esp
LCO_FourSkullLookout.esp
LCO3D_FourSkullLookout.esp
DragonPriestMasks.esp
DBM_WheelsofLull_Patch.esp
DwemerSpectresLegendary.esp
FaceSculptorExpanded.esp
Opulent Thieves Guild - USSEP Patch.esp
SeranaCureQuestPlus.esp
Defeat the Dragon Cult.esp
Aethernautics.esp
LCO_BannermistTower.esp
LCO_BleakFallsTower.esp
LCO3D_Nilheim.esp
LCO_SnowpointBeacon.esp
LCO_BthalftRuins.esp
My Home Is Your Home.esp
LCO3D_FalkreathWatchtower.esp
Alduin Bane Fix.esp
Apocalypse - Magic of Skyrim.esp
dD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Realistic.esp
ElementalArrows.esp
Dr_Bandolier.esp
LrsamwaysExpandedSkyrimWeaponry.esp
Realistic-Voice.esp
Perk-Vigilant.esp
MBW Dragon Souls to Perk Points - v3.esp
RGMsAlchemistsCompendium.esp
AdoptionAndMovingFix.esp
HearthfireMultiKid_LastName.esp
BarenziahQuestMarkers.esp
Common Clothes and Armors.esp
Cloaks - Dawnguard.esp
Cloaks_WACCF_Patch.esp
1nivWICCloaks.esp
IcePenguinWorldMap.esp
EFFDialogue.esp
Cloaks - USSEP Patch.esp
MoreThievingReward.esp
Bijin Wives.esp
Bijin NPCs.esp
VampireLordsCanActivate.esp
RSC CRF Patch.esp
RSC Forgotten City Patch.esp
PumpingIron.esp
RSC 3DNPC Patch.esp
AllThievesGuildJobsConcurrently.esp
Better Stealth AI for Followers.esp
True Scholar.esp
Wounds.esp
RaceMenu.esp
XPMSE.esp
RaceMenuPlugin.esp
Artful Dodger - Dynamic Pickpocket Cap.esp
Volkihar Knight.esp
HothFollower.esp
WardsFunctionalitiesExtended.esp
DBM_RSChildren_Patch.esp
FloatingSwordFollower_LODPatch.esp
DBM_OBIS_Patch.esp
Daedric Voice.esp
RSChildren.esp
3DNPC - CRF Patch.esp
Opulent Thieves Guild - Sneak Tools Patch.esp
Opulent Thieves Guild - FPS Fix.esp
Opulent Thieves Guild - SUT Patch.esp
H2HBlockDual.esp
Perks from Questing.esp
Summermyst - Enchantments of Skyrim.esp
dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp
AOS_EBT Patch.esp
More Dialogue Options.esp
More Dialogue Options - TCBM patch.esp
Silent Unarmed.esp
CBBE.esp
RaceMenuMorphsCBBE.esp
Sithis Armour.esp
Smart_NPC_Potions.esp
DBM_DwemerSpectres_Patch.esp
WICourierRadiant.esp
Shields_Of_Glory.esp
DBM_SMIM_Patch.esp
DBM_ForgottenCity_Patch.esp
Legendary Alpha Shields.esp
lullstation.esp
shalidor's maze fixes.esp
MCMHelper.esp
SensibleBribes.esp
EBT - IC PATCH.esp
Immersive Encounters - RS Children Patch.esp
LCO_PinemoonCave.esp
LCO_MarasEyeDen.esp
StrangeRunes.esp
SIC WACCF Patch.esp
OBIS WACCF Patch.esp
DawnguardArsenal_WACCF_Patch.esp
dD-Larger Drips.esp
Nord Raven Battle Armor.esp
Nord Vagabond Armor.esp
KS Hairdo's.esp
TrueDirectionalMovement.esp
DBM_IA_Patch.esp
DBM_DGA_Patch.esp
SDA Castle Volkihar Rebuilt Patch.esp
Hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation_WACCF_Patch.esp
CuttingRoomFloor_WACCF_Patch.esp
RSChildren_WACCF_Patch.esp
Titus Mede I's Armor - My version by Xtudo.esp
College of Winterhold Quest Start Fixes.esp
Precision.esp
Cathedral Weathers.esp
Cathedral Weathers - Patch - Rudy ENB.esp
Summermyst - WACCF Patch.esp
3DNPC1.esp
Book Of Shadows.esp
The Whispering Door QE - USSEP Patch.esp
More Dialogue Options - Immersive Encounters patch.esp
TrueStormsSE_AOS.esp
CC-Fishing_WACCF_Patch.esp
Water for ENB - Patch - Wyrmstooth.esp
Water for ENB - Patch - Falskaar.esp
Water for ENB - Patch - Beyond Reach.esp
NordicLeatherArmor.esp
Vigilant Voiced.esp
Innocence Lost QE - USSEP Patch.esp
NPCs React To Invisibility.esp
The Heart of Dibella QE - RS Children Patch.esp
CWOLeveled.esp
Dynamic Activation Key.esp
VampireFeedingTweaks.esp
ShameOfSkyrim.esp
Take A Peek - New Stealth Mechanic.esp
SDA Serana Cure Quest Plus Patch.esp
Sidequests of Skyrim.esp
NPCsReactToFrenzy.esp
Immersive Death Cycle.esp
Bandit Lines Expansion.esp
NPCs Take Cover.esp
PickUpBooksSimple.esp
Take a Nap.esp
Infiltration QE - CRF Patch.esp
DTE - USSEP Patch.esp
Chapter II - Soundtrack mod by Dreyma Music.esp
HonedMetal.esp
Immersive Citizens - AI Overhaul.esp
Rigmor.esp
The Brotherhood of Old.esp
TheChoiceIsYours.esp
SaveTheIcerunner.esp
ww_AlternateDBEnding.esp
TCIY_CRF_Patch.esp
Convenient Horses.esp
BCS_TCIY_Patch.esp
SDA Convenient Horses Patch.esp
CC-Saints&Seducers_TCIY_Patch.esp
More Dialogue Options - Immersive Citizens patch.esp
SaveTheIcerunner_TCIY_Patch.esp
Water for ENB (Shades of Skyrim).esp
Water for ENB - Patch - Rudy ENB.esp
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2024.06.05 04:34 Alice-Lapine ReQovering from the Anxiety of Uncertainty - insight from a former QAnon

There is so much that is not understood about the QAnon experience - especially the tremendous challenge of exiting and recovering. I hope to shed light on this subject.
The following is an excerpt from my book - telling my full story of how I fell into, experienced, and got out of QAnon. “ReQovery: How I Tumbled Down the QAnon Rabbit Hole and Climbed Out” will be available on Amazon July 1.
I have posted a couple other excerpts to this sub and to QanonCasualties which I think you can find via my profile page.
~~~~ excerpt ~~~~
“Alice, your anxiety is wearing on me. As much as I love you, I don’t know how much longer I’ll be able to endure being around you. If you don’t get a handle on this, it’s going to break me. It will break us.” It’s been almost six months. His patience is running thin.
Charlie’s words land hard. I have no doubt he’s speaking his truth. If the tables were turned, I wouldn’t want to endure being around me either. This state of seemingly endless fear, anxiety, and paranoia is not only eating away at me, it’s taking a toll on my ability to be present, loving, and attentive—not only to Charlie, but also to my now very small social circle of politically left-of-center friends. I know I need to find a way to shift my state, but I don’t know how to do that while adequately addressing all the things I am frightened might happen.
A couple of days later my dad sends me a dharma talk from meditation and mindfulness teacher Jack Kornfield, entitled “Beauty and Human Goodness Amidst It All.” Kornfield starts off by acknowledging how easy it is to get lost in the problems and crises that we face, suggesting there is a bigger picture that is essential to grasp, especially in these divisive and uncertain times. He asserts that learning how to navigate this kind of predicament is at the heart of the teachings he received from his spiritual teacher.
Kornfield tells a story about his time in a monastery in Burma (around 1970), where he studied Theravada Buddhist meditation practices with his teacher, Mahasai Sayadaw. Bombers often flew overhead, and explosions were regularly heard only a couple miles away. The students would ask the teacher what they should do and how they should prepare. The most common answer they received from this teacher was a smile as he would say, “It’s uncertain, isn’t it?” Kornfield’s teacher embodied the ability to be calm and joyful, focused on the present moment and the immediate task of teaching, regardless of the obvious uncertainty of the situation. Kornfield goes on to express the wisdom of living peacefully in the midst of precariousness.
If Kornfield and his colleagues were able to cultivate inner peace and live relatively normal lives in a monastery while bombers were flying overhead and dropping explosives only a couple miles away, perhaps I can live in uncertainty too, as my concerns are mostly fearful projections into the future. I take a moment to recognize that no imminent threat is to be seen from the comfort of my home; the sun is shining, birds are singing, and the only airplanes in the sky are passenger planes. With this insight a door opens. I am one step closer to being able to live in uncertainty.
However, even with this source of inspiration, my fears continue to spin, and I feel the constant effects of cortisol overload in my body. Despite my efforts to meditate and think positive thoughts, the fears keep creeping in, as does my compulsion to go online. At best, I curb my web time, attempting to keep it to social connection in order to feel less alone.
But whenever I go on the internet, I read or see something that restimulates all the dread that lies just under the surface, the fear I am trying to override.
Later that day, my dad sends me a conversation between Oprah and Eckhart Tolle called “Free Yourself from Anxiety.”
Jack Kornfield: “Beauty and Human Goodness Amidst It All Dharma Talk”
Oprah: Supersoul Podcast: “Oprah’s and Eckhart Tolle Free Yourself From Anxiety”
~~~ end excerpt ~~~
This marks the very beginning of pulling myself out of the emotional torment I experienced as a result of being in QAnon for six months… I was spinning out with fear, depression and anxiety, but I found my way through it all, and others can too.
Alice and Charlie are made up names. Our real names will be in the book.
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2024.06.05 04:28 flowingfrequency 29 NB4M / NB4NB SouthFlorida/Online: cute alt non-binary femme looking for an intentional & long term connection!

Hey everyone! My name is Victory and I am a 29 non-binary femme in south fl looking for a long term and serious partnership with a guy or another non-binary person. I would prefer someone nearby but am not opposed to building a relationship online! :)
I’d prefer someone who is kind, passionate, laid back, funny, interesting, has their own hobbies and passions, and someone who I can goof around with and hit it off pretty well in terms of conversation! I am an alt plus size Latine cutie with pink hair, brown eyes, and a big cheeky smile :) would love to get to know someone and eventually meet/date.
About me: I would say I am an eclectic and vivacious individual who is intentional, passionate about the people and things I love, and ready to connect with the right individuals in my life. I do social media for work as well as organize events and shows for my community within the local music and art scene in south Florida. I am passionate about music and art, as you may be able to tell! 😄 I am classically trained and have been DJing and producing electronic music and performing in the local scene for a few years now. I love all sorts of genres and enjoy finding rare and obscure music, whether that be perusing online or in the local vinyl shop. I am really into vintage stuff like cameras, video games, and music electronics. I love video games and consider myself pretty nerdy as I like your typical nerd stuff like anime, movies, science, and tinkering with things. I create all sorts of art and am very crafty. I am also a huge animal and nature lover and enjoy spending time outside. I love hiking, hammocking, going on picnics, to the beach, or camping. I definitely am an outdoorsy person. I am also very spiritual and what you may call “witchy”. I have lived and researched with shamans so I am very much into Andean spirituality, esoteric and occult practices, as well as plant medicine and herbalism. I am very 4/20 friendly as well as a huge advocate for psychedelics and plant medicine as mental health and holistic health frontiers. My other interests include mycology, anthropology, psychology, quantum physics, and mediumship. I feel I am an incredibly well-rounded person and have several hobbies I’ve picked up throughout my life which include painting, community organizing, reading, gardening, flow arts, fire spinning, and cooking. Yes, you read that right, I fire spin! 😄 I am a trained fire performer and regularly attend jams near my area so if you’re a social person who likes fire you may find me interesting ☺️
I am very sex positive and open minded! I lean towards an independent and liberal political mindset and am pro-Palestine, pro-abortion, pro-trans, pro-LGBTQIA+, and believe in the principles of transformative justice and resonate deeply with the structures of black feminist theory. These are non-negotiables for me. I am open to talking about these things more in extent when the time comes and if we hit it off :)
If you feel like we’d be a good pair and we’d vibe, feel free to send a DM. I request you eventually send pictures of yourself and verify age so I know you’re forreal! I am happy to send pics but you are free to check some out on my profile. Looking for mature adults willing to connect and be vulnerable. No ghosting, no scams, no weirdos, no nsfw pics. I will not respond to folks who send me unsolicited pictures or messages with no info about yourself! Please be respectful! I am looking for something intentional and serious. DM me if interested and I’ll respond if I feel we would vibe with one another ☺️✨🖤
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2024.06.05 04:13 Ralts_Bloodthorne Nova Wars - Chapter 68

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Way of the Means Field Captain Strechen stood next to the Dra.Falten she had come to think of as 'her charge', one Rifleman Tawtchee. To her left stood the scientist Hrekkel and 'Call me Leeu'. On her right was the Captain and the First Officer, both of the females reaching up to nervously comb at the hair at the back of their heads repeatedly.
While the big ships were ornate, the dropship that Strechen could see on terminal maneuvers, controlled by the ship's docking computer, was lean and mean looking. Greenish-black metal with a hint of blue, black material where windows should be, wings with additional thrusters that folded inward, and a set of four engines in the back.
"Combat craft," Tawtchee said, standing up on his toes to speak softly in Strechen's ear. "See the bay doors on the side? That's for power armor or other infantry dismount as well as door gunners. See the bubbles with the strip cut into them? Those are firing blisters, crew or passengers can push the barrel of their weapon through and still maintain atmosphere. See those outlines? Some of those are compartments holding weaponry so that the craft can maintain its flight and sensor profile."
Strechen just nodded. She'd known it was a combat craft, but Tawtchee had pointed out things she didn't know about.
"Battlescreen projectors, about four times what we have as far as visible emitters. Point defense bubbles, probably lasers with a spinning mirror," Tawtchee said softly. "Capable of in and out of atmosphere as well as deep space work. Be careful, Field Captain, what we see in their shuttlecraft may be a reflection of how dangerous they are as a people," he touched her lower back, almost making her jump from startlement. "These are a people ready for a fight. What they did to those 'Mar-gite' they could easily do to the Empire."
Strechen just nodded slightly. She glanced over and saw that Leeu had her hand on Hrekkel's shoulder, almost as if she was restraining the obviously excited male.
A glance showed the Captain and her recently promoted Executive Officer looked almost sick as the ship thumped into place with the feeling of a great weight nudging the Dra.Falten ship.
The airlock pressurized and the lights went orange to signify that it was safe.
"They did not transmit any atmospheric requirements," the XO said nervously.
Tawtchee looked over at her. "Anything we can survive they can breathe."
The XO started to open her mouth to retort angrily, saw Strechen's expression, and shut her mouth, facing forward with her back and ears going rigid.
The light went red to warn that the inner airlock was going to open and Strechen found herself tensing.
She remembered the Terrors from the Path of the Traveler and the meeting after the nightmare inducing teleportation system. Despite everything, Magnus and his sister Surscee had been polite, almost friendly (if you discount the Sorceresses pants-wetting self-introduction she had performed) when Strechen had watched the video. The one they had met behind the desk had seemed only as malevolent as any other bureaucrat. She knew that whatever was going to come through that door was not going to be like any others.
The airlock door irised open, decontaminate mist shin high flowing out.
There were four of them. Three males and a female, the males arranged two behind the female and one male at the back. They wore no weapons, just a boots, belts, and comfortable looking gray and black camouflage uniforms. They had atmo-tanks at their waists, with masks hanging off of them.
They were also massive.
Strechen knew she shouldn't be shocked. She'd seen that Tawtchee only came up to halfway up Magnus's chest, slightly below Surscee's mammaries.
But the four Terrors in the airlock gave the impression of large, immovable, and powerful beings just standing in the airlock. The males were almost as tall as the airlock, their shoulders wide enough that they could only fit two abreast in a corridor meant for power armor troops to pass easily through.
"May we come in?" the female asked, her Dra.Falten perfect.
"Permission to board granted," the Captain said, stepping forward.
The female gave a closed mouth 'smile' that Strechen had learned was an expression of pleasure, happiness, joy, and, in rare cases, danger.
The male's expressions didn't change from stern blankness, although Strechen could see their eyes looking around the bay.
She took two steps forward and stopped, looking at each person.
Strechen realized that she had grass green eyes, with a faint hint of amber in the depths.
"I am Specialist Grade-Nine Caoimhe," she said. "Representing High Lord Captain High Lord Knight of Aesir O’Byrne, in command of Task Force Niamhchloch, which has been named Task Force Warhammer for your ease of speech."
Strechen noted it sounded like KEE-va and her implant translated it to meaning "kind", although, to be honest, the large Terror looked anything but kind. The words seemed overly complicated and had an odd weight to them.
For a moment, Strechen could swear she could smell hot, freshly spilled blood.
"I am Captain Helt.rika," the Captain said. "I serve the Empress's will."
There was silence.
After a moment she motioned and the three males stepped out. The two behind her moving to her left and right, the one at the back standing in the doorway of the airlock. The males spread their feet shoulder-width apart and then put their hands behind their back in a smooth, crisp movement.
Strechen noted that all three males performed the action at the same time, as if they'd rehearsed it.
"Tradition demands that any joint venture, such as defending someone's homeland from invaders, requires representatives of the other party to be present," the female said, looking around slowly. "In most times, a representative of high rank, even a member of a royal family or highly placed government official, is required."
She paused for a second and when none of the Dra.Falten present spoke, she continued.
"However, the requirements of reality often conflict with tradition, so we of the Sancti Ordo Spiritus Tyr are willing to accept no less than two and no more than twenty representatives of your species aboard the High Lord Captain's flagship," she said.
"The Admiral has agreed to five," the Captain said, feeling a flutter of nervousness.
Those huge males didn't move, didn't even seem to breathe, just stared slightly over the female's head at the ceiling.
But Captain Helt.rika couldn't shake the feeling that they were a split second from ripping apart everything around them, unarmed or not.
The female nodded slowly, her eyes and expression unreadable.
The males just stared.
Captain Helt.rika felt sweat slick down her spine and barely restrained herself from bruxing her teeth nervously.
"As discussed with your Admiral, two ships will be remaining here to intercept and destroy any additional Mar-gite constructs that enter the system," the Terror Caoimhe said. "There will be additional negotiations with the Lord Captains of those ships, but that is not yet any concern of ours."
Helt.rika nodded, starting to reach up to tug on one ear and barely stopping herself.
"Your medical officers transmitted hydration, nutrition, humidity, and atmospheric requirements already. We have verified that our shipboard manufacturing systems can provide a comfortable environment for your species," the female stated. "We are unsure of your habitation requirements in stressful environments, so the High Lord Captain wishes me to assure you that we will make all possible realistic accommodations for your people."
"We understand," Captain Helt.rika said. She turned and pointed at Hrekkel. "Senior Scientist Hrekkel and his guard Imperial Expediter First Class Ee'eerlee'u," she then pointed at Strechen. "Field Captain Strechen and Male-9912743, her guard."
The Captain pointed at the XO.
"And, at the insistence of the Admiral, my Executive Officer Navelu'uee."
"What?" the XO blurted out. She looked at the Captain, then looked down.
The female Terror nodded, her face expressionless.
"The Lord Captain of the ships staying will discuss their requirements with your Admiral," the female said. She turned. "If you will accompany me onto the shuttle, we will move to the warship and get you settled in."
Strechen felt her stomach clench at the idea of being trapped in an enclosed area, even smaller than the receiving bay, with the Terrors.
Tawtchee touched the small of her back and she suddenly felt better.
Hrekkel nearly ran onboard, with Leeu rolling her eyes and bruxing her teeth in amusement as she followed behind. Commander Navelu'uee glared at the Captain, but followed Leeu.
Tawtche waved Strechen on, then followed her as they went down the boarding tube.
The shuttle was obviously highly militarized. Rather than comfortable seats or recliners, there were bench seats with locking restraints.
Strechen closed her eyes and swallowed as one of the male Terrors checked the straps and then the locking restraint.
"In case of an emergency, a shell will descend in front of you and you will be ejected from the craft with a search and rescue beacon. Based on your physiology, you will be able to survive two hundred sixteen hours while within the life pod," the female said, moving to the front.
"Does it come with free beer if we have to eject?" Tawtchee asked the Terror checking his belts.
"No such luck. Sucellus doesn't love us that much," the male Terror said back quietly, flashing a smile.
Once the belts were checked the door slid shut and Strechen could feel the craft vibrate slightly. There was a faint noise of an engine.
"Is that sound normal?" Navelu'uee asked, reaching up to comb at her ears nervously.
"My people do not trust any machine that is silent, we believe it is a bad sign or omen if a machine suddenly becomes silent," the woman, Caoimhe, said.
Strechen suddenly understood why. If the sound stopped, the machine has stopped working, and that meant something had gone terribly wrong.
It made startlingly simple sense.
"If you will pay attention to the video, the instructions you will see will ensure that there are no major problems," Caoimhe said, reaching up and pulling down a thin white sheet of material.
Strechen looked over in time to see one of the males reach up and activate a projector hanging from the roof.
A pleasing pattern appeared on the white material. A pair of crossed swords inside a diamond appeared.
"TERRAN INTERACTION AND YOU!" sounded out, with the words appearing below.
Strechen watched with interest and was surprised that several times Tawtchee burst out laughing.
The word "YES" showed a polite introduction. It was next to "NO!" which showed a Dra.Falten shooting at a Terror with a rocket launcher.
"YES!" eat politely and put away your plate.
"NO!" eating out of the garbage can and throwing food everywhere.
"YES!" sharing a drink with a Terror.
"NO!" drinking from the toilet by sticking their head in it.
"GOOD TERRAN!" showed a Terran talking politely to a Dra.Falten.
"BAD TERRAN!" showed a screaming Dra.Falten being chased by a Terran wearing some kind of mask, with a blocky machine in its hands that had a long blade with rotating teeth, swinging it wildly.
"GOOD TERRAN!" showed the Terran having a drink with a Dra.Falten.
"BAD TERRAN!" showed the Terran ripping off the Dra.Falten's head and drinking the blood.
"YES!" showed a Dra.Falten waiting for the airlock to cycle while wearing a vac-suit.
"NO!" showed the Dra.Falten wearing a party mask, a conical hat with a tassel, and just lower modesty clothing while the airlock cycled, drinking from bottles held in each hand.
Strechen found herself chuckling along with Tawtchee, Leeu, and Hrekkel at some of the cartoon antics.
The Commander sat, her back rigid and her posture offended.
"And remember, cooperation and understanding creates a bond that the enemy cannot break with his guns," was the final part, which showed a Terran and a Dra.Falten beating a five armed creature with sticks while cartoon sparkles and streamers burst from the creature's body.
There was a slight bump feeling, then the sound of machinery winding down.
The Terrans pushed up the locking restraints, undid the harnesses, then helped the Dra.Falten do the same. The female moved over by the door.
"Welcome, ladies, gentlemen, both or neither, to the Final Sight of Black Night, flagship of Task Force Warhammer," she said.
She slapped the button and the airlock cycled.
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2024.06.05 04:06 WinterCompetitive201 Subreddit Update: Quick Reminder & Rule Refresher

Hello, wonderful sub members! Since we have had a recent influx of new members, we wanted to touch base quickly to remind everyone of some of our more “forgotten” rules, explain some of our newer rules, & answer some frequently asked questions🫶 Full disclosure, if this sounds like a robot wrote this, it’s because i used chatGPT to rephrase everything in order to hopefully make sense, rather than just word-vomit in a post. 😭

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2024.06.05 03:41 bunsnmangoes A quick reminder that you shouldn't use or recommend Notability

I made this post 9 months ago on an account that I deleted: https://www.reddit.com/ipad/comments/1670w5l/the_notability_team_ginger_labs_expects_respect/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
I haven't visited notabilityapp because the devs are the mods of the subreddit and have been twisting the narrative to their own taste by deleting posts that criticize their app or their attitude towards their customers.
I'm posting this because according to other redditors, nothing seems to have changed.
Same community manager, same devs, same problems. Cherrypicking, banning, and manipulating. I'd add their Reddit names and LinkedIn profiles out of spite, but you can find that on the Notability LinkedIn pages and the subreddit yourselves.
Do your friends, family, and yourself a favor and use other apps. I suggest Noteful or GoodNotes.
<+> TL;DR of all the problems for those who find the post to be too long:
  1. Buggy Update: The transition to a subscription model introduced significant bugs and random shutdowns.
  2. Censorship: Notability moderators deleted critical posts and comments, which felt like an attempt to silence valid user feedback.
  3. Selective Engagement: The team only engaged with positive feedback, ignoring or deleting critical posts.
  4. Functional Issues: The update caused lag, unresponsiveness, and cloud file loading problems, severely affecting professional workflows.
  5. Lack of Transparency: The team failed to communicate openly about the changes and didn’t acknowledge user concerns adequately.
  6. Poor Customer Relations: Notability’s actions showed a disregard for existing loyal users, prioritizing a prettier design over functionality.
  7. Manipulative Practices: Delaying post deletions to create a false sense of community acceptance felt manipulative.
  8. General Disappointment: The overall handling of feedback and updates showed a lack of respect for the user base.
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2024.06.05 03:41 Complete-Crazy7834 Part 2: Am I (F29) crazy or is my bf a toxic mf(M29)?

Am I (F29) crazy or is my bf (M29) a toxic mf?
I don't know how to feel about the entire situation and would like to get 3rd person's perspective. I met my bf in 2020 right when covid hit. We were both new in a different country and that bonded us. We were together throughout covid and actually moved in too soon (within 1 month). I was not sure if I wanted to be in a serious long term relationship at that point as I wanted to explore in a new country and had also just gotten out of a relationship a few months ago. I told that to my bf and he assured me that he is okay taking it slow but he was too much into it. He would always go over the top and do things for me. This would make me feel guilty because I was not at the same place in the relationship and I would often lose my shit over it and try to end the relationship over minor inconveniences. Quarantine was also a difficult time in a new country with no other support system and family so I eventually grew emotionally dependent on him and accepted the relationship (after 6-10 months). We had our issues but he was always very calm to deal with things and never lost his temper on me whereas I would often get angry at small things and blame him for things. He was always insecure about the fact that I was looking at the relationship as long term as he was and I thought I was doing m best. All my close friends knew about him and we were living together - what else. I was headstrong and not willing to adjust on certain things and situation. I would like to accept that I was immature enough and didn't realise that I was not treating him like a permanent person in my life and did my fair share of mess ups. But I was always honest and upfront about things. Never hid anything or lied about any part of my life. After 1.5 years or so I even started adjusting more and making even more efforts to change my ways to be with him. Compromised more, tried to understand his perspective more and appreciate him more. We were even thinking of telling our families at this point. We moved cities together to start new jobs.
16 months in -I had never looked at his phone or laptop or any personal belongings. I always had unquestionable trust because I knew he was so much into me he could never do anything wrong. He was more than an ideal bf in terms of making effort and making me feel safe and special and always respected me in every way possible. We were out one day and I took his phone to send myself some pictures and saw his ex gfs chat on top of his WhatsApp. I did not react at that time since we were in a public place and waited for him to tell me since he had seen me look at it. He never came to speak to me about it and later when I saw the chat was also deleted from his phone. When I asked hom a week later he said he was reaching out to 'give her closure' as his cousin back in his home country had recently met her and told him that she was still not over the relationship and how it ended (because of long distance). It seemed shady and I made a huge deal about it but eventually forgave him since it was the first time something like this was happening. He also said the chat got deleted when he was blocking her. I let it go and we moved on. At around 20 months in, one day something flipped inside me. I randomly opened his laptop to find his WhatsApp chat open with another girl that he had claimed to be his ex gf. Later on it turns out he never dated her but wanted to show me that he has dated pretty girls so lied about dating her. Turns out this was his friend from uni and they had been talking on and off since the last 20 months of our relationship. He was cracking vulger jokes with her when I was grieving the death of my dog. he would call her when I was out for work (he was ALWAYS working from home). Most of the conversation was innocent but there were some flirty texts here and there. What hurt me was the fact that I had no idea about this person in his life that he spoke to so often and always behind my back. I asked him to pack his bags and leave at 2am in the middle of a snow storm. This happened in early 2022. I was heartbroken and so angry. I knew he had nowhere to go and knew no one in the city but I was so hurt I did not know what to do at that point. He left and somehow managed to find a place at his co worker's friend's apartment who was on vacation.
He asked to meet me after 3-4 days when my anger had subsided. I met him and he confessed that he had been looking at my phone since we started dating. He was reading all my texts between my best friends back home and everything I was discussing with my friends. Now mind you I moved to a new country right before the pandemic and have no friends. So my only support system is my group of best friends back home and I have known some of those ppl since decades. I have overshared things with them (which was probably my fault idk) and this guy has read everything. He would check my phone after I would fall asleep and has violated my privacy. This means he knows when I am thinking what and has acted in ways that was convenient for him. He knows how I have felt about situations and incidents because I have shared that with my girlfriends from school and university and he knows what advise they have given me. When I have had arguments with my friends he has acted very smartly to behave in a way that is favourable to him. I have also had some fallouts with some ppl during this time and I went in a loop if all the things that happened was because of him. He was my point physical point of contact throughout 2020-2021-2022 and his presence has obviously influenced my life heavily since he was the only person physically around me.
He goes on to tell me how heartbroken he has been to be with me all those times. Yet h e stayed because I was not the person he saw on texts. He read the times I would talk to my friends and bitch about something he did. Or when I would discuss how I am not 100% sure about him. basically all my dark thoughts. all post fight conversations with my friends. He sais he has cried so many times reading how I have spoken about him. I felt terrible because I had truly said some terrible things about him. None of these conversations were between me and any guy. This was all between me and my girlfriends. He had shown concerns about the fact that I was friends with mt exes (even a v close friend who i dated for 2 months in 2013 and we realised we are better off as friends and had been besties since then and he was dating someone else). He said he is not comfortable with me talking to anyone that I have ever been intimate with and so I had reduced speaking to guys in my life. Only a few friends but never shared a lot of relationship issues with them. Only my girls. in too much detail. I felt terrible about it. I thought about how I dont even remember half the shit I had said about him early on in the relationship and felt guilt af. He said he knew he was wrong to have invaded my privacy but he loved me so much and wanted to make it work so bad that he couldn't stop. He thought I would grow and realise and change and he said he noticed how I was getting serious. but in doing this he said his mental health was in the bin and he could not help himself. He just wanted to be the best person in my life and he was ready to do whatever he could to be that. He then went on to tell me his personal issues with himself and how he was always compared to his younger brother growing up who was smarter than him and how he felt unloved and unappreciated by his family. How he was always trying to prove his worth to ppl and all he wanted was to feel loved. Which made him do what he did. I asked him if there was something else I didn't knew and he said no. He apologised with the most sincere apology possible and I forgave him. I thought I was wrong as well and how he has always been so kind and loving towards me. Always respected me. gone over and beyond to make me happy. celebrated every little thing about me and only wanted the best for me. How he has helped me when I got panic and anxiety attacks and motivated me to do better over the years and put me infront of him and his needs ALWAYS. We decided to work on the relationship and do better this time. This is Feb 2022.
Cut to one month later and I have become more careful now. We are trying to make things work. He has new issues because I have told all my friends about what he did after I made him leave the apartment at 2am and now he is insecure about how my friends, who have such a big influence on me, see him. And they hate him. I said a lot of mean and rude and disrespectful shit to him when he was leaving that night and he has issues with the things I said when I was angry. (Yes ai agree they were v v mean. Things like "I was settling with you anyways. I can do better" and " I hope you have a daughter someday and then you realise what you have done to me" "I hope your family suffers" ) There are new issues to be dealt with and we are struggling but still trying to figure it out. One day I wake up to get ready to go to work and his phone is next to me. I open it and start scrolling. He had told me a year ago he is off all social media because its a waste of time and he wants to focus on his life and make money etc etc. I do not find anything on his phone. It is wiped clean. I am about to keep it down but I just open up his imesseges and start scrolling. Nothing here. literally 5 seconds before I am about to put it down I see the "verification code" for a DATING APP!!! I redownload multiple apps and find his profiles on it. MULTIPLE APPS. Those profiles are from 2021 summer. When we were having a rough patch. There is not much on there just small talks but then I see him asking this girl to connect on IG. I then find his alternate social media profiles where he is not that active but they are profile nonetheless. I find chats from 2020 year end (when we were 6 months int dating) and he is talking to some girl i have no idea about like he is single. He had hooked up with her before we met and is telling her how he craves companionship (while he is dating me lmao). I am shocked but I do not respond like I did last time. I calmly wake him up and show him what I found. He has nothing to say to me. I tell him to find a new place and move out by the end of the week and that it is over.
He makes arrangements to leave and go back to the other city from where he moved to live with me back in 2020. He has one week and he tries everything to make it up to me. He cries and apologises and gives reasoning. He explains how it was his mental health and he only wanted to feel loved and he was not feeling that with me. He says he never met anyone and as I must have noticed it was just small talk. I am not convinced. Instead I now know there is more to this shit. i started keeping my old phone's recorder on while leaving for work at 8:30 and would come back at 6:30 and listen to what happened while I was gone. I find him talking to his guy friends in a completely different way than I knew him. His friend advising him to just cry and beg me to forgive him and him saying how fucking headstrong I am and I need to understand the reasoning behind every action before I can even think about forgiving him. How I do not have the capacity to understand blah blah. He is also accepting how he has majorly fucked up and there is nothing that can be done at this point. It's like he is a different personality with this guy he is talking to. in 20 months I had never seem him talk like this. Somehow a week goes by and he leaves. I am heartbroken and destroyed. I am crying and somehow making it through each day. I still don't have any friends or support system in this city. It had been 3 years since I left home and I decide to go back to visit my family.
I come back feeling a little better.
Cut to May 2022. He starts calling me up and apologising again. Says he is ready to do anything and everything possible to make this work and accepts everything and how he fucked things up and has realised his fault. He literally emails chapter long messages - apologising and trying to make me understand his view and how he has loved me and how his intention was never to hurt me but my actions made him so such things. How he has insecurities and because I did not treat him well and he felt unloved he did all this.
I am not convinced and I am just trying to figure my life out. A month later my brother is diagnosed with cancer back home. I am all alone and my employer does not let me go back. My immigration status is at stake and my parents tell me to stay where I am and prepare for my bar exams and that they will take care of it. They say it is not life threatening and he will get better then come to me for further studies - after his treatment. Now I have to clear the bar and get a better job so when my brother comes I am ready for him and to sustain him. I have to save money and get a better place and get my license so I can take care of my brother after his surgery and treatment. I am completely alone and broken. I am helpless because I can't go back and I dont know what to do here in this country when my family needs me but my entire life and career and last 3 years are at stake and I can not leave either.
I cave in to this guy again and forgive him for my own selfish reasons. He supports me like never before. He takes the next flight to be with me and take care of me. He stays with me and makes sure I am eating properly and reassures me when I am losing my shit. He was always good at that. He was always the perfect bf on face. It was the shit he did behind my back. I do not trust him but I let him stay. End of 2022 I fail the bar and he is there. he supports me. He is there for me throughout. He is all I had so I let him stay. He gets a chance to make it upto me. He tries to be as transparent as possible this time.
2023 my brother gets better. I study for the bar again and pass this time. He cries with me when I open my result and pass because he as seen how hard I worked and how difficult it was for me to do this while my family was back home dealing with so much. I get a better job. He helps me move. I am not financially dependent on him. I never was since 2020. It is the emotional dependency.
Now he thinks we are trying to fix things and make it work but I can just never trust him. That trust is gone. Absolute 0. He is still trying. He is of the opinion that what happened was both of our fault and it was because we were 25 year old immature kids who didn't know any better. Throughout 2023 I give him a lot of shit over my trust issues and he 90% of the time takes it. Anything happens and I am ready to end the relationship. He somehow still manages.
Now August 2023 it has been 1.5 years of us trying to fix things. He wats to tell his family about us as they are pushing him to get married (Indian culture). I tell him I do not 100% trust him and need more time. We are having this discussion and he starts telling me things he needs me to change about myself if we are to move ahead. Things like how I sometimes react. Things like my smoking habit. Now I am not a chain smoker and have quit multiple times. I smoke a joint at the end of the day to sleep. I also realise it later that it is an escape for me and I do not smoke when I am around my family and loved ones. I tell him he has nothing to worry about. I have a family of my own and I know how to handle elders. Obviously I am not going to expose his family to my smoking habits. he always said that the thing he loves the most about me is how I am with my family and how I handle relations. I am v close to me family and have a bond with even long distance relatives. Now suddenly he is saying the opposite.
The discussion gets heated and ends with him saying "you have to quit smokeing for ever. i am not okay with u smoking at all. not even rarely or once a month". I am shocked because he has known about my smoking since we met. He used to sometimes smoke with me. Now suddenly it has become a deal breaker for him. And his reasoning is "i thought you would grow and eventually quit. We were 24-25 back then and we are 28-29 now we have to grow up and leave these things". I tell him to fuck off.
That's it we dont talk for 4 straight months. LOL
He always messeges first. He always says sorry. And specially here when he has been putting such weird allegations on me, I want for him to reach out. When he doesn't I'm like whatever. It is hard but I dont reach out either. I move on. I download dating apps and start talking and meeting new ppl. I have been single after 3.5 years. I start exploring. I plan a solo birthday trip for myself and basically try to just move on. It was hard but I am too headstrong. In the meantime my brother gets better and comes to the country I am in. So I get busy with him and helping him settle. I am making sure he is comfortable and I am providing him with everything I can. he should not face the issues I did when I immigrated in 2019.
Now cut to December 2023 and this guy again reaches out to me. Saying he is not okay and he can not live without me. How the way he reacted was totally his fault and he has realised how wrong he was. Now I have also met my fair share of people and honestly it is exhausting starting all over again. Meeting guys and getting disappointed back to back. So like a fool I think - we have gone through the worst of the worst together. Had the ugliest fights and seen each other at our best and worst. What more could happen? (My only issue is that when I get angry I get really mean. I say things that I know will hurt the other person. And I have done that while arguing with him a lot and I do feel guilty about those things).
So Christmas 2023 he is once again back in my life.
Now I still dont trust him and there are still issues. And I don't know if it is even worth trying. I will be turning 30 this year and there is pressure from my family to find a guy and I have been on the apps and have met ppl but it is so scary to start again and I did not find anyone in 4-6 months that we were apart.
We are still having those same issues. Still bringing up the past. Things are a bit better but issues remain. After 6 months of being understanding he is still pushing my buttons and pushing me to quit smoking in the name of "it is healthy for you only".
I don't know if I should cave in and fix it with him or just let it go. It has been 4 years now. This person has seen me at my worst and still not left my side. Yes he has made major mistakes but I have done my fair share too (not as much as him tho - who is to decide who was more wrong anywaya?). There is attachment. Since last year I have stopped sharing anything with my friends. Nobody knows we are trying to make it work because I did not want their opinion to overpower me. I wanted the relationship to just eb between us and see how I feel.
On some days I think this is it and he is the best choice. We have so much history and we have come such a long way. He is just insecure and needs love. He will keep me happy or die trying. I have a tendency to be a bitch when I knew the other person is not going anywhere and I did take him for grated A LOT.
On other days I feel like wtf am I doing here with this guy? so what if I am almost 30. I can find someone new and do so much better. He is toxic and manipulative and a liar who will do anything to get his way.
At this point I don't know how I feel.
Just looking to get a neutral perspective form someone who is not getting anything out of this.
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2024.06.05 03:31 Icedpwn Seeking advice on mending the trust in my [M27] relationship with my GF [F26] after a heavy talk involving her use of a dating app (to which, according to her, is to learn English by having friendly chats with strangers, by that I meant English-speaking foreigners) while in a relationship with me.

My GF[F26] and I[M27] are in a (somewhat) long distance relationship, we're both Filipinos but live in different regions in the Philippines. We've been officially bf-gf since March 15, 2024. Though we've been talking since Feb/March of 2023.
For context: The entire thing started with myself. I was at work, and my mind wanders as usual.
I had the thought that, my GF might be unhappy due to me not being with her close physically and just not as flexible as a closeby boyfriend?
(and yes, I know I am in the wrong to have that doubt in the first place but I still wanted to start a healthy conversation with her to see where we currently stand without sounding imposing or accusing her of any wrong doing.)..
So I went ahead and told her that I want to have a serious talk for a bit since I have some doubts (my big mistake here is not clarifying that me saying 'doubts' refers to me doubting my capability as good boyfriend).
She replied, in a confused tone, that she was happy.. and then repeats to me the reasons she told me before as to why she doesn't chat or reply sometimes (busy, not in the mood, she misses me and avoids talking to stop missing me more, etc. etc.).
So I dig further and asked if she's still using dating apps? She said yes and recently just installed one (dating app used was "Bumpy") but she clarified that it's all in good fun as she was simply bored at work and just needed to chat with anyone, that she doesn't use her name and other info.
At this point I was ready to end the topic. I simply said that if one chats with her (in the dating app) just be honest and say that she has a BF and not pretend being single and looking for a soulmate.
To which she said yes, don't worry, just practicing my English.
Since it was all good fun, I asked if I can see the full convo. She sent me a screenshot of the convo (though I can sense that it's simply not the full thing). She then messaged the other part but not a screenshot anymore since she said she can't access the app any more for some reason.
I still had a little doubt so I asked if that was the full convo and that I feel like there's more I'm not seeing.
To which she replied saying why don't I just access the dating app and speak with him? ( I understood this as accessing her dating app and speak with who she was chatting with)
So I did. Installed the app and tried to login with her email (she shared it before during a time she can't access it and needed help) and logged in successfully.
while this was happening she said that she'll just uninstall the app, for my jealousy might worsen.
Then I finally saw her profile in full, along with the chat she is pertaining to.
She tells me to stop after I told her I saw what's on the profile and the chat. Telling me the conversation might go somewhere else.
I replied saying to have no worries, that I trust her, although it does kinda feel hurtful seeing you say "same and someone special" on the chat <-- this part is the hidden part of the convo screenshots as mentioned earlier. Basically the person she's chatting with said that he was simply using the app to look for new friends, "same and someone special" was her reply, conveniently left out.
She then told me not to log any of her accounts without her permission (but she just did give permission?), so I said that she told me to access it..
Then she reasons out saying that sometimes she used dating apps way back. That dating apps were where she was able to find people that were smart to talk to in real life even when I wasn't there yet (by that meaning before we met). But she only speaks to english-speaking foreigners and not Filipinos to sharpen her English.
So I replied that I get what she said, that it's all clear now. That I trust her not to do anything mysterious.
She replied that if I don't have any trust on her, it's fine, since she told me anyway while also pertaining to me saying mysterious as if I am thinking that she is like a pornsite online videocaller (I do not know how she even made that connection).
Then I repeated myself, telling her that I trust her. That I had doubts but they're gone. That she has no fault to me. (I think I am too lenient with this). I also clarified that my use of 'mysterious' had no sexual intention or meaning.
She said this was annoying since her ex was like this before.
So I said that what matters is she be honest, but all is clear. That we should forget and start on a clean slate.
She replied saying to end the topic since she might think of this topic all over again tomorrow. (fair, I think?)
I agreed, i immediately ended the convo, saying forgiven and forgotten, that I won't ever bring this up again. (big mistake saying 'forgiven and forgotten', i meant to use the idiom but now looking at it, it looked like I was forgiving her of a wrong doing out of nowhere). I immediately explained this after she asked what I meant with 'forgiven".
She then stopped the convo, stating she'll cook for now instead.
So in her absence, I messaged her, clarifying that she did me no wrong, that let's just forget it, start over, since I am looking like I am now fighting her.
She then replied saying that why would she even say yes to being my gf if she would look for someone else later on. She then added that if that was the case then she would break up with me first and then look for someone.
Then I repeated my self and added more. I told her she has no fault to me, That I had my doubts but now I can see they were unfounded. That nothing has changed, that in fact, I am wrong for even letting doubt get to me and ask her about these things.. then I apologized.
The Question:
Any advice on how to mend my relationship with her, since this is obviously me touching on a trust issue? I made mistakes, there's no denying that. Though her hiding a part of the convo with the stranger really put me off the wrong way.
I think another thing that really put me off was the fact that she put the effort in installing a dating app, making a profile, set her preferences and then wait for strangers to chat with her just for talking with foreigners and learning English? I feel like there is a much safer and more neutral alternative like literally going to an English learning forum and meet friends with similar interests to learning English, or even interact with the comments section on a YouTube video (like I did to learn further English way back in elementary). Since I feel like doing this through a dating site has that 'vibe' that you're doing it for more than just friends no matter what your true intention is (this is just an opinion, not stating it as a common fact, because a dating app is that, for dating, you can use it for friends, but it is primarily for dating).
I really want to fix this, I do, but I would need opinions from a third party. I know I made wrong moves and so did she.. but.. I kinda also want to know how valid my concerns were?
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Banned and sketchy users - https://www.reddit.com/fragranceswap/wiki/banned
* Always use PayPal/Venmo G&S when buying from someone with under 15 flair on the sub. A scammer will give a BS reason why they can't accept G&S. Anyone with under 15 flair MUST accept G&S as a form of payment according to the rules of the sub. This rule is non-negotiable. If they will not, please report them to the mods.
* Ask a potential seller to comment on your post. This proves that they are not banned from the sub. That doesn't always mean they are a scammer though. It could just mean that they do not meet the sub requirements to become an approved member. They still need to accept G&S though. Check the banned list and vet the seller through their profile.
* Ask for specific timestamped pictures. A "timestamp" is a picture a seller takes with a handwritten note including their username and date next to the item they are selling. Ask for this with "odd" requests such as a picture of the bottle on its side or with the cap off, etc. If they are not willing to provide that then avoid the transaction and report them to the mods. Scammers are becoming crafty and often try and photoshop the timestamp in with a picture they found on google. Be aware and inspect timestamps closely for evidence of photoshopping. Look for blurred edges of paper, shadows not matching up with others in the picture, etc. If you are in doubt, don't hesitate to contact us with the picture.
* "Sellers" who start the conversation off with "WTS (insert frag you're looking for)" are 99.99% most likely a scammer. Scammers will always give you a great deal, or ask you to name your price. Any "seller" who is willing to accept half payment upfront then the other half after delivery to avoid using G&S is most likely a scammer. If it seems to good to be true or fishy, it most likely is.
Please do your due diligence, folks. If you're ever in doubt, reach out to us. Stay safe!
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2024.06.05 01:17 FirrenJanne Tea has been spilled!

Before we start. English is not my first languish and I have Dyslexia. Good Luck!
My brother (30M) lets call him Daniel, met a girl (28F) lets call her Hanna a few years ago. They fell in love and got married about a year ago. Two days before december 31 2023 (new years), about six months after the wedding my parents had to pick my brother up from a mental hospital becuse Daniel and Hanna had gotten a wery sudden devorce (they seemed fine at christmas a few days prior) and they thougt there was a risk of self harm. Daniel swore up and down that it was mutual and they where still friends.
Now! I knew things werent perfekt but this is a true shit show. As the weeks have gone by some things have been reveald.
  1. The divorce wasent mutual. She had met a new man. It happens it is no ones fault. The man in question is 62 and a mutual friend who have been slowley turning Hanna against Daniel by saying things like: "How can you love Daniel when he never tells you he would die for you? I would" Daniel was within earshot so he heard a lot of what was sead often, and other female friends of theirs had told him the 62 year old had been speaking to all of them about leaving their significant others and go live with him. The last few weeks Hanna had called the 62 year old crying everytime Daniel said something like:" good morning" but not sheerie enough or dident inklude: "my love" at the end. Daniel heard everything all the time. She dident even try to hide it. It sounded as if she was mentaly harming him on purpose.
  2. Daniel had been more of a nurse than a boyfriend to Hanna. Daniel told me that when she had her "mental episodes" he had to carry her to the shower and bathroom, wash her, make shore she took her medicin, wipe her ass, do all the household shorse, take care of the four cats and one dog, work the few hours he had, seach for a new job and take care of himself. Daniel forgott his medicin once and she said: "I'm I your f-ing mother!? And constantly complained that he dident do anything for her.
  3. Hanna was a sexworker when they met. Daniel had told Hanna to get tested before they would do the devils tango when they first met. I thought my brother was just beeing overly scared. She was like 22 when they met and the way she talked about sex and her past made it sound like she wasent the type to do "hook ups" and Daniel was her first real boyfriend. Nope, Hanna was not walking the streets she just slept with people at their school for money.
  4. Hanna had sheeted on Daniel at least once, and Daniel had confronted her another time when he found out Hanna planed to f his coworker. This happend every time he had a hard time. Daniel was told every time that it was his foult she cheated becouse he wasent there for her.
  5. The day Hanna told Daniel she wanted a divorce so she could go be with the 62 year old. He just said fine, picked up his phone and filled in the form online. When she realised the divorce was happening right now she had a anxiety attac and told him it was to fast for her. He just told her that she wanted to be free. Be free. After he came out from the hospital Hanna started to call him like every day to tell him she loved him and wanted to be with him if he just went to therapy. Hannas plan was: Daniel would go to therapy for his issues and she would be with the 62 year old until Daniels therapy was over and she could go back to him. She had even talked about getting remarried. She did not need therapy and the fact that Daniel asked her to go to therapy was why he needed to do therapy.
Three months later he realised how toxic and dissfunctual it all had been and blocked her. She went nuts and have been contacting him thrue others for weeks and she wisited his Facebook page 142 times in one day. (He gets a notification every time someone klicks on his profile and shows who surched his name) he got nothing from the divorce not even the dog he loved and she hated. He moved back to our parents house with a backpack of things. The rest she destroyed.
To close this story up. The mental health problems is no laughing matter. They both need help. Daniel now go to therapy, has a new job, have contacted old friends and have started to go back to the jolly person he was before. Hanna went to two appointmeants but stopped when she realised the therapist dident think she was fine.
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