Brenda e surance girl
52 [M4F] #MA, Central #NewEngland, Southern and beyond - Looking for my special someone - If you're not going to read my post, don't message me
2024.05.20 02:58 CoopDaOgre 52 [M4F] #MA, Central #NewEngland, Southern and beyond - Looking for my special someone - If you're not going to read my post, don't message me
This will be long but informational, so buckle in for some fun and reading.
Okay, this paragraph is the most important one you read in this post. So, before my regularly scheduled program, let me just say that no effort messages like "hi" or "hey" will not be answered. Same with "How you doing?" Give me a paragraph or two about you. If you can't put the effort in, neither will I. I just will not reply to you. Also, empty accounts with no post history will most likely be passed over unless you write up a great intro message. If you're not a genuine person looking for something, don't waste my time. I can sniff you out pretty damn well. So, let's start out with what I'm
not looking for. That way, if one of these are you, you can not waste both our time. (yeah, bullet points, got to love them)
- Trans or married/attached people. No judgment on you, your choices, or your lifestyle, but it's just not for me.
- Poly people. Again, there is no judgment, but I want you all to myself.
- Judgmental and uptight, easily offended, and closed-minded people. If you can't take a joke or you think you need to have control in someone else's life, move along.
- Time wasters. If you're not looking for something substantial, move along. I'm not here to just chat or make new friends. I'm looking for more than that.
- Smoking, HEAVY drinking, and drugs. I'm not into it. All deal breakers. I don't mind a little weed, but hopefully, keep it to edibles. I just can't stand the smell of that stuff. Same with social drinking. Don't mind a drink once in a while, but drinking hard just to get blackout drunk regularly is not my scene.
- Pet haters. I have a cat and a new kitten. They are my life. They're my little boy and little guy. They have full run of my place. He's a cuddle bug and is always near me. The little guy is crazy with that kitten energy. Expect to see pictures of them often.
- Kids. I don't have any, and I'm not looking to bring any into this crazy world. I'd prefer you didn't have any either, but exceptions can be made if you're really special.
- Low or no effort replies. Give me something to reply to when you message me. I don't want to guide the whole conversation or feel like I'm pulling teeth when I try to get more than a one word response. The more effort you put in, the more I will put it in. I can't stress this enough. Be willing to talk.
Okay, I'm sure that list will grow as time goes on, but it covers the basics for now.
So, onto what I
AM looking for. (Yay, more bullet points)
- Going to add this one right on top. Location. While I'm not against long distance for a little while, I'd prefer this to become something in person. So, the closer, the better. Or at least have the ability and means to visit here regularly. Anywhere within driving distance would be ideal. Pretty much all of New England, eastern New York state and northern PA is what I consider "driving distance". About 4 hours at most. Again, further is okay for a short time but not long term. And outside of the US, well, the time zone difference makes things rather difficult and it rarely works out for long.
- A sense of humor. Damn, be able to laugh. I make dumb jokes all the time. You don't have to find them funny, but don't get annoyed by them either. I have a silly yet dark sense of humor. Nothing is off limits to me. I can be inappropriate so don't be offended easily.
- Gamer friendly. I am a gamer. Have been for most of my life. Although I'd appreciate someone to play with me, you don't have to be a gamer, too. Just accept that I like to do it. I'm no longer hard-core, though. So, the game can be put aside for more important things if needed. I'm mostly on PC and have been playing a lot of WoW recently.
- Nerdy/geeky. I like comic books. I like fantasy, sci-fi, adult animation, a bit of anime, horror, and many many MANY other things. I'm a computer geek. It kind of goes with the gaming territory.
- Swearing. I work in the trucking industry, so it comes with the territory. I swear, a lot. I can censor myself most of the time, but at home or in private, the F-bombs fly. I don't care if you swear as well, but don't judge my foul language.
- Kink friendly. I have quite a few kinks and am pretty open to most "weird" stuff. So please be kinky or open to exploration. Don't be strictly vanilla. Let your freak flag fly.
- Younger ladies (or girls or women, whatever you wish to be called) I'd prefer someone between 21 and 35. I would go over that limit for the right person, but you'd need to be very special. Same for 18 through 20. No offense, but you're still young and have some growing to do.
- Body type. I don't really mind here. I like them, from skinny, to fit, to average to a bit chubby even. It's more about the personality. Sure, there has to be some physical attraction, too. I understand that, and hopefully, you do too.
- Looks. Doesn't matter to me. I'm attracted to all kinds of types. Though I don't have any, tattoos or piercings don't bother me.
- Hair. Well, as long as you have some. Not much into shaven headed women. No judgment on your choice, but I don't see it. As for color, it doesn't matter, really. I do have a thing for redheads, but it's not the only thing I like. I like all hair colors. I even go for strange colors like green or purple or blue.
- Race. Who cares? If I like you and find you attractive, I don't care what your skin color or race is.
- Religion. This is a tough one. I'm non-religious. I hover between agnostic and atheist. I don't really care what (or if) you practice. I just don't want it to get in the way of a relationship. FSM for life! (bonus points if you know what that means)
- Your first message. What I'd like to see is your name, (or something I can call you) your age, your location, a bit about you, you know, hobbies, past times, what you do for work, what you look like, (sure, I'd like a picture, but I know that can be a bit much for some right off the bat so I can wait) and what you're looking for in a relationship. Ask me a question or two. Doesn't matter how silly or weird it seems, just something to open a dialogue. I mean, it doesn't have to be overly detailed. Just a bit to give me something to talk about with you. There is nothing worse than getting a "hey" or "Hi" and having an empty post history, so I got nothing to start with. Who knows how many connections have been missed due to a lack of effort in sending a message. Yes, I keep mentioning this because I still get no effort messages. I WILL not reply to them. So if you're a one liner messager then do not expect a reply.
- I will look at your post history before I reply to you. No posts or comments, or very new accounts are a bit of a red flag. I don't care if you post nudes for your own personal fun. I also don't care what you're into either. As long as it's nothing illegal or one of my major deal breakers, it's fine.
- (NEW) Have some free time to be able to talk regularly. I get it, we can both get busy sometimes. Especially during the week with work. But if you're regularly too busy 24/7 and never have time for more than a message or two a day, or worse, less, then don't waste both of our time.
So, I guess I should tell you a bit about me. (Yup, you guessed it, more bullet points)
- My name is... Well, let's save that for when we talk in private I'll introduce myself in my first reply to you.
- I'm 52. If you're not into age gaps or older guys, how the hell did you get so far into my post already? I mean the title is enough to turn you away.
- I'm a big guy. Not fat per se. But I'm kind of tall and pretty broad. Yeah, I'm a bit soft around the middle now, but that comes with age. But I'm 6'1" and built like a stereotypical biker or trucker. I look pretty intimidating at times. I can have a pretty good resting bitch face, but I'm really an easy going, nice guy. A big teddy bear really.
- I have hair. I have a beard. Early gray runs in my family (not to be confused with Earl Grey which is a delicious tea) so my hair is mostly gray. But it covers my head. My beard is big and thick too. If you're not into facial hair, move along now. As of this posting, my hair is a bit long, about shoulder length. Though I've been known to cut it short on a whim.
- I have a job. I work, rather hard too. I have a good union job that's quite physical so it keeps me in relatively decent shape. In fact, I used to be quite buff and a regular at the gym but injuries through life have put an end to that.
- I'm single. Have been all my life. Not really the marriage type but I would do it for the right person.
- I don't have kids. I don't want to have them either. Possibly a deal breaker for many, but that's how I feel.
- I don't smoke, drink or do drugs. Yeah, I mentioned this earlier and no, I don't drink at all. There's a story there but it's for when we know each other better.
- I'm easy going, I'm patient and I'm relatively happy. I don't get mad anymore. I used to have a temper but I got over it. Now I just get disappointed in things but I take a breath and move along.
- I drink tea. I prefer tea to coffee. So, yeah, the earl grey joke earlier has a bit of history. I don't mean Lipton tea bags either. To paraphrase Marcel, I got some serious gourmet shit. (bonus points for getting the reference)
- I'm a gamer, geek, nerd. Revisiting this so it is out there. You want to game with me, great. You want to watch me, fine. Don't try to take me out of this lifestyle though. I'll also happily play board games or card games or other non-video style games with you as well.
- I collect geeky stuff. My home office is filled with "junk" and stuff that I've picked up over the years. I have a ton of comics going quite a ways back. Ask me to see my Deadpool collection.
- I'm pretty kinky. As mentioned before, I'm into a lot. I prefer to discuss these things privately. Only things I am not into are bathroom stuff, non-sexual bodily fluids and permanent harm or damage. More can be discussed as we get more comfortable with one another. If you're feeling especially curious and brave, ask to see my toy collection.
- I'm educated. I have a college degree. I've never used it and I probably wasted all the money and time I spent on it way back when, but I do have some intellect. I'm not just a dumb slab of meat.
- I can be long winded. If I'm in a mood I can send these long, drawn out messages and posts that just go on and on and don't really go much of anywhere. Hey, it's a habit. I do a lot of reading and have done a good amount of creative writing in the past. I like to be thorough and descriptive for complete understanding of the subject on which I am talking about. Funny thing is, when it comes to speaking, I'm not as much like this.
- I'm in EST but I'm a night person. I'm up to about 2 am during work nights and later on weekends.
- I'm an average guy, nothing special, so don't go into this expecting to find a super model type. I'm no George Clooney or Brad Pitt. Or whomever the women think is a hot older guy these days.
- Bullet points. Yeah, there's a lot of them in this post. Hey, but it keeps things neat and organized.
So, you still with me here? That got as bit out of hand. But you can't say it's not thorough. I figure that the more information I list, the more I can weed out those who aren't compatible with me. Don't you agree? If you stayed with me through this whole thing, congratulations. I'm assuming, then, that you are interested. So, send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself. It doesn't have to be epic length like this was, but I do like to have some information on which to build a reply. I do, however, prefer DMs over chat, but I can work with both. I know it can be tricky to get to the DM portion of a profile when you're on mobile so I don't instantly ignore chat requests. Finally, I am looking for something to become a real-life thing. The closer you are to me, the better chance of that happening. I don't have a problem with things being online for a time, though, just in case you are a bit further away. I am tied to my location, though, so hopefully eventually you'd be able to relocate to me. But that would be something for the future us to worry about.
Last time I'm going to say it. I really shouldn't have to, but you wouldn't believe the lack of effort messages I STILL get. Put some effort into a message to me. One word or one line messages are nothing and I truly won't reply to them unless you have a vast and rich post history that shows who you are. Simple, right? You'd think so. Just for shits and giggles, to see who read this far and can follow directions, tell me your favorite color. I know my Public Speaking professor hated it ending like this, but "That's about it." So if you think we could be a match and you might be interested in talking, I look forward to hearing from you. If not, I hope you find someone to meet your needs and have a good day.
-E
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2024.05.20 02:45 passeggiata23 SFU in the age of dating apps?
I finished watching SFU for the first time last month, and the silly thought crossed my mind of how dating apps would have affected the characters had they been around at the time the series took place. Considering the sexual complexities of each character, how do you think they'd all do?
I personally think Brenda's sex addiction would have been made a lot worse.
I can picture Claire being morally opposed to them and refusing to go on them.
Nate would have been a huge hit.
Ruth would totally have gone on eHarmony!
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2024.05.20 02:37 Harether1an I was mean to my sister BUT FOR GOOD REASON
So my sister is always saying “I miss my man” or “my boyfriend is so cool omg”. I usually don’t care but sometimes she says it in bad times, like if somebody is crying, she says “I miss my man” 🙏🏽 one day I was going through a breakup and she just randomly said “I miss my man he’s so cool istg, I love him.” And I couldn’t help it 😭 I said “shut your bitchass mouth up girl nobody cares about your man 😡” and she said “what?! I’m just saying” 😒 and then she said “I’ll get my boyfriend to protect me 😣” and I said “girl you and your man look like fucking pizza rolls 😤” and she called her boyfriend, whom was an e boy, and he said something about don’t hurt his kitten, I couldn’t understand bc I don’t speak e boy 😔 I told him to leave my house or I’ll take him and my sister out myself like I do with the rest of the trash. They then proceeded to do the cringe “daddy protect me uwu” thing and I was like “wat da fuq 😨”
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2024.05.20 02:31 random_delet3 Don't know if this goes here or somewhere else
[fucking long] (22m) I genuinely don't remember when I was last happy, like I remember when my parents were together in a decent looking house in a higher middle class neighborhood when my second sibling was born enjoying the time we spent together just playing outside with our rude neighbors and petting our cats indoors and just being kids. Not long after that we went for a walk by a pond with some geese and my mother became irate with my father said some stuff (that I honestly don't remember) and took his tin of dip pouches, told me to eat some and threw the rest to geese. Afterwards my father tried to get me to spit them up we went home. I don't think we talked about it or even went to a doctor. 2 years after that we were staying at my grandparents house bc my grandma was terminal, and maybe a week or two after she passes. We went to the funeral I was crying and crying and I don't remember what else happened. I don't know why but after that I was told that we were going to go see Grandpa again and to get ready, when I went to my room I remember crying and choking myself with a cord to some kids magnify glass (I don't know why I did that) and I don't remember the trip. We ended moving again but were in the same town. My last sibling was born, I ended up getting to choose his middle name pretty prideful of it. My father and mother fight bc my mother feels neglected, so my father ops to work nights. My mother feels that my father doesn't help with the family, he cooks meals 4 times a week. My mother thinks we should be going to therapy, so we do. The therapist thinks I have depression, so I get prescribed antidepressants at 8. Turns out I'm allergic and break out into hives, ended up going to the hospital and getting prescribed steroids. (This happened 3 times total) Parents have a big fight bc Mom was caught with another man in the house, mother moves us to a different town closer to her family. Mom takes me with her to see father in original house at night, he's on the porch sitting in the doorway just sleeping and loopy. Mother is waking him up saying something about him having a problem. (Years later he told me that paramedics were called on him since he nearly ODed on opioids, and he nearly died) Dad comes to check on us and parents are being happy again. Mother's family doesn't like dad (apparently my grandfather is super racist and found out that my father is 1/4 aa from his grandmother. IDK why he never said bitched about it years before, but different matter.) They get back together in the original house, and not even a year later I see my mother talking to a random guy in a laundry mat bring it up to her and she starts hitting me telling me to forget it. More time they fight, we end up leaving in the middle of the night with my father being put into a cop car. (He was released a day later doing nothing to my mother. But what's funny is that the expensive stuff that was bought for my siblings and self was seemingly gone, with my father saying that he assumes that it was my mother and our pothead neighbors nextdoor.) Mother ended up moving us around three times before we stayed in a the same shitty town that my mother was born in with 3 potheads my mother said were her friends. (Personal hatred of stoners) I licked a spoon from a pot of jambalaya, so the prick that my mother was dating waited until I went to sleep and scared me awake [while wearing a balaklava and all black] holding me down, before getting off of me saying that he scared me and to never eat from the ladle again. My cousin let me smoke some weed with him that he never said was laced until I later asked(I don't remember what is was but I remember everything looking static and blocky). I threaten to call the cops on the prick that my mother was dating if he did anything to them. So my mother puts me in a program called options, I was there for a month before my father pulled me out of it. My mother moves to a trailer next to a daycare, I end up riding a short bus and end up going to the daycare. I ended up fighting with the caretaker saying that I could just take care of myself over at my home, and later that night I get into another fight with the prick my mother was dating. Got put in another options clinic further away and labeled with Asperger's before getting it changed to autism and AdHD without even testing me, was two weeks before my father pulled me out. My mother gets me again, takes me with her to a Kroger parking lot where she sells her pills to someone. I mentioned it to my father when I saw him again. Some time later we went back to the stoner house and my father goes there and started yelling and following my mother outside where she was putting us kids in the car. (Apparently he found out that my mother was letting us be around these people who 2 of them had SA charges with one of them being with a minor.) Before decking the shit out of the prick and break his jaw (unfortunately only needed to get his jaw wired for a month). Aunt saw a text message from my father on the phone that was given to me [said that he was sorry that my siblings and me had to experience all of that] and ripped it out of my hands saying that I should never talk to him. My father ended up being put in jail for a year. My mother left the prick and got together with a dirt bag that my father used to be friends with. They would typically go out to eat with his daughters leaving us at home and give us the scraps from their take out or just tell us to make something ourselves (I was 13 and never taught anything), after that I got pissed and ended up disappearing for a whole day because I didn't want to go to school and ended up having some cops looking for me and amber alert and being sent to live with my dad. (I don't care I fucking won) Some time later I ended up breaking my leg from roller skating in school and permanently getting it removed from the criteria and ruining everyone's 7th grade year. (feel like a winner) Moving to a new town with dad(final town to this day), going to highschool. [Retrospect] Some cute girl sat across from me at the library wanting to interlock hands, so I did. She asked if it felt special (I didn't know what that meant to me), I said no and she never talked to me again. Another cute girl, asked me on the last day of middle school if I was interested in anyone and if I wanted to date. I said no (I didn't think I deserved anything and didn't want to waste her time) Freshman year I ended up "e-dating" two people I met on Wattpad(I am aware how cringe I am). First person was someone who suffered anorexia and we used Skype would talk daily and she ended up breaking things up 3 weeks after. Second person was someone who wanted to talk and watch each other sleep before she ultimately changed it to having us sext(hoimomes and teens) her friend wanted her to break up saying that I was probably some old man who was a pedo. (I did not leave that area of the Internet in the healthiest way possible, both for my mental being and how I left the people on there) Pretty much zoomed though highschool stabbing someone freshman year, being thought to be a potential shooter, and overall being treated with fear and respect. Though some people did think I was wasting my potential, especially since I never did my homework but always scored high on my tests and was always asleep at home. Highschool graduation was ruined by COVID, I didn't care. Got a job working on a warehouse dock buying knifes and testing how sharp they were on the top side of only one of my arms, slowly breaking mentally before asking a friend(19m) out saying that was fearful that I was nothing more than a background friend.. 9 months and 3 grand later we broke up (and I don't talk to him to this day) Quit the job, was unemployed for a year just sleeping in bed all day, wound up poisoning my self with caffeine pills so bad that I was taken to a hospital. Got another job, wound up continuing the knife hobby before stopping (stopped feeling any emotion related to the pain, so it was pointless) and got into a different hobby (to burry any resentment or negative feelings) And that's been going up until today with me getting so bored that I was curious how much weight I would lose if I stopped eating every other day. (Lost 25lbs from 210 to 185 yoyo-ing 180 if I don't eat enough calories)
all I feel daily is nothing but empty and tired. The only reason that I am still here is the self hatred for everything I've done wrong by own admission or what I've been told by horrible mother.
Tldr: I am the mistake of two fuck ups and am still here by the means of so much self hatred that I ignore my loneliness.
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2024.05.20 02:19 Savings-Ad-7002 Genuinely is she on something?
2024.05.20 02:18 stewblock2023 Here’s an idea i would make.
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2024.05.20 02:16 woodyjunegambino Should we stay true to the original spelling of the honor name, or add an e?
We are considering the spelling of Belle. My husband first suggested spelling her middle name as Belle. Completely separately, and unprompted two close friends have wondered if we'd add an 'e'. Belle is beautiful!
However, Bell is an honor name (which is so important to me, and why we are 100% settled on Bell. The spelling of Bell is the accurate spelling. It kind of pains me to think of changing this. What do you think?
Also, if you want: What are girls' names that you feel flow well with the middle name Bell? While I prefer older, classic names, I am so curious what people feel go well with the middle name we've picked so feel free to suggest anything.
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2024.05.20 02:07 Teelilz Solid alternatives to Girl Scout cookies
2024.05.20 02:00 tay-lorde Where is he now?
2024.05.20 02:00 Wrong_Food_3141 Explanation as to why beth is an e-girl
The terms egirls and eboys are slang terms for young women and men, respectively, who are active internet users, often stereotyped as emo-styled anime and gaming fans trying to get attention on social media. Beth has most likely become a over populated mutation of a pimple because of nicos videos, she should learn to appreciate this because now she has more followers who now react to her videos. This is more of an assessment for abusive naked mole rats with bacne and a severe case of short-term memory loss. we suspect beth is suffering from all of the above causes because she is simply a pick me e-girl looking for attention online to spread the word.
Thank you for reeading.
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2024.05.20 01:55 Wrong_Food_3141 Explanation as to why beth is an e-girl
E-girls, or electronic girls, are a subculture of young people who are known for their digital personas, rather than their real lives. They often interact with their audience online, and may be active in the streaming community. E-girls are sometimes associated with the Tumblr aesthetic, which features sad, pretty girls with heavy makeup. She most likely has become a satanist for beleving in that topic. her attitude has dratically changed since 1958 when i have known her. she was my best friend to do funny business with
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2024.05.20 01:50 Redditbannedmeagain7 Old post from r/animehate hololive? More like pedolive.
2024.05.20 01:43 SiedziHector BoS Recon Team build. Laser Rifleman with Grenades + Companion
Build prepared for first 50 levels.
S:2, P:4, E:2, C:7, I:5, A:4, L:4+1. All SPECIAL +1 Bubbleheads are required to finish the build.
- Armorer 4/4 - Allow to craft the best modifications for Armors and Power Armors
- Rifleman 5/5 - My weapon of choice is Laser Rifle
- Awarness 2/2 - a bit more damage done and hit chance with rank 2 in VATS
- Demolition Expert 4/4 - great solution to eliminate multiple enemies by using ovepowered grenades
- Life Giver 3/3 - More HP is never a bad idea
- Party Boy 3/3 - I dont like, when my characters have perfect background, so this one is alcoholic :D Extra profits from alcohols
- Inspiration 3/3 - i travel with companion, that wear power armor, so more damage done and carry capacity are welcome
- VANS 2/2 - mostly for extra perception from rank 2
- Medic 4/4 - improved first aid is never a bad idea on harder difficulties to stay alive
- Gun Nuts 2/4 - required for final Laser Gatling upgrades
- Science 4/4 - allow to fully upgrade all laser weapons
- Action Boy/Girl 3/3 - i use VATS a lot, so it must have for me
- Bloody Mess 4/4 - Extra damage done
- Idiot Savant 3/3 - helps to lvl up faster
- Better Criticals 3/3 - even more damage done from crits
Idea was to create a duo of light or heavy armored rifleman with grenades (player) and heavy armored power armor user with heavy weapon (companion), that will create BoS Recon Team. Effect is even better, if you will escort Scribe to explore ruins for lost technologies :D you as the leader of the team has a bit higher Charisma to manage a team and speak with others. I completely ignored sneak, because at first i use loud laser weapon and my team is well know as "the loudest" team in whole brotherhood xD As companion of choice i prefer Danse, since he is already BoS Paladin, but any other companion, that can use power armor will be fine.
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2024.05.20 01:38 kkInkr Steam Deck is Amazing with external monitor
| Original I thought a laptop is just the same. But after using it on the couch, and then a 1.6 lb external monitor with it, I found the deck is preferable than my 3.6 lb laptop blowing hot air on my lap for long sessions. Punch 15 hours in my recent game. I am happy with the portability of the Deck. Now I am yearning some co-op play along when I visit my friends. submitted by kkInkr to SteamDeck [link] [comments] |
2024.05.20 01:38 Mr__Sophistication Anybody want to buy a Vinyl Me Please Exclusive “Care for Me” Vinyl by Saba?
2024.05.20 01:37 Broad_Swan_3573 Taeyeon I Vinyl Under $1k
2024.05.20 01:28 farrah7866 is this an add?
| hey guys just wondering, is the strip chat just an add or has it been clicked on and watched? cant tell at this point submitted by farrah7866 to Internet [link] [comments] |
2024.05.20 01:16 Lomeriel Another day, another eGirl selfie pixels (Lomeriel - OC)
2024.05.20 01:15 Mike4points Toxic Relationship: 3-Days Post Break-Up (23M)
Hey guys/girls, my first real relationship that lasted a year and a half just abruptly ended. Need someone to talk to.
I met my now ex-gf (23W) around a year and a half ago. We met through social media, and were both infatuated with each other’s physical appearance. Long story short we talked online for a while after recognizing each other from high school, and quickly fell in love. However, we were legit arguing before we even met in person, man I should’ve known😭
We both developed major trust issues with each other that involved our PTSD from past occurrences with the opposite gender, we literally had the exact same issues mentally: possession, trust issues, impulsive words. We would check each others phones months into having sleep overs, find something from 2 years ago, start fights…We were so in love, but we couldn’t just get over these childish things from the past.
Well…present too. There were two times where me and her had gotten into a bad fight (which normally lasted like 6 hours and ended up with us hanging out again) and she texted one of her exes to get attention. Yeah I know I know, she’s probably not the one for me if I get E-cheated on. lol.
Now: we abruptly broke up 3 days ago, both said absolutely terrible things to each other, more me than her. I wasn’t happy when I was with her, half of the time I genuinely felt like she was a terrible person for certain things she did, but I’m unhappy without her now. I’m staying busy, just started a new routine: Lift at 4:00AM, manage a small stock portfolio from 5:30-7:30AM, work a full shift at my 9-5, and sleep when I get home. But today is Sunday and it sucks a lot to be alone with no one. Sorry if this is long, I’m broken but I’m trying to stay strong, loved the girl a lot, what a terrible ending.
Now…the girl that replaces her, is she actually gonna be better if I keep working on myself😓
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2024.05.20 00:45 VersauceyBwoii Sushi, Red Lights, and... [OC] (Ch 165 Spoilers)
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2024.05.20 00:38 DoctorRandomman Do vladats created transylians as we see them in ben 10 omniverse?
First of all, I'm very sorry for deleting the previous post I simply was made aware I posted it based on my speculation. Now to the topic.
Like I said, the question is, do Transylians look like they do to vladats? In my opinion, it is possible, given the evidence:
First of all, let's consider that all Transylians look like zombies (scar skin, etc.), and the evidence allows us to assume that they really are.
1: They are resistant to cold, lack of oxygen, heat, or high voltage, they are also stronger and more resistant than humans. All these powers indicate that they do not have to be living creatures, as corpses are much more resistant to most of these factors. Add to it Transylians are not people, it can be assumed that their physical attributes are slightly different from ours, so their corpses may also behave differently than humans (rot slower, be more resistant, etc.)
2) Among the transylians seen in the Galactic monster arc, at least I didn't detect any newborns, only one small girl. If Transylians are zombies, then Zombies lose 100% of their reproductive abilities, therefore they cannot have children
3) Dr. Victor is a genius, and his knowledge is many times higher than that of humans. As we know, people only have as much knowledge in their lives as they can accumulate during their lifetime minus the period when they are too young to learn. Transylians, on the other hand, are a race with intelligence close to primitive humans (fear of fire, etc.) Ergo, to achieve his level of knowledge, Dr. Victor had to live long enough... put it simply to be long-lived like a zombie.
The question is how they became these zombies.
Now let's note that Transylians generate electricity through a symbiotic relationship with nanomachines and Tesla coils on their backs. Such a symbiosis is probably impossible to achieve naturally, so someone had to initiate it, but who and why? And this is where vladats comes in.
Note that this race feeds on energy and is known to be a predator of the Transylians, as Dr. Victor talked about it this way:
Lord Transyl and other Vladats used my people as slaves. We were nothing more than beasts of burden, and ultimately we were food!
Also, as the Ben 10 wiki notes:
Vladats are arrogant, cruel, and both literally and figuratively bloodthirsty. They consider other creatures to be inferior. To them, other creatures are only useful as slaves and/or food. They have an overwhelming urge to feed on the energy of their preys.
This means that here we have a cruel, energy-hungry race that sees others as food or slaves.
There is a well-known case in the history of mankind when people similarly treated people, and this cruelty always included various inhuman experiments. Now let's think what could such people do if they had better technology?
Exactly, most likely something indescribably cruel, so could Vladats have done the same? Well, their behavior and what Dr. said. victor points it out as possibility.
So how could it be?
In my opinion, the Transylians were not Vladat's first victims, but one of the next. The Vladat conquered other races and used them as a source of energy until they ran out of energy and then they switch to another. (In this way, Ormeowon could be born i.e. a race of zombies, because as we know from the Ben 10 Wiki, Vladat victims look like Michael Morningstar's victims, ergo zombies) However, this system was ineffective for them, because firstly, it forced frequent changes of feeding grounds, and secondly, it could cause an interplanetary rebellion. Therefore, to avoid such a scenario, they chose a stupid race that hardly anyone cared about... the Transylians and enslaved them. However, instead of eating immediately, they performed a cruel experiment on them... they connected them to nanotechnology, which turned their bodies into living batteries but also detached them from life. The Transylians became nothing more than an easy snack that, even if sucked dry, did not die, it was simply recharged. And everything was fine, but only until it turned out that now they couldn't die because the machinery kept them alive, and this terrified the other races of the anur system. Then probably the ectonurite race used this fear to overthrow the Transylians (ectonurites are not alive in the human sense, maybe they don't even generate energy like other races, ergo they wouldn't have to be afraid of the vladat turning them into batteries,and besides hates vladat guts, so could use it as opportunity), and became the new high ectonurites of the anur system. Meanwhile, the Transylians fell under the rule of new tyrants who had no intention of leaving them in eternal peace. They simply became zombie cyborgs, who life thanks to electricity current through their bodies, slowly rotting without chance of dying.
To summarize the current appearance of the Transylians, it may be the result of Vladat's attempt to obtain eternal food, but ended up in terrible mistake that created race of undead cyborgs.
And that's all from me,so what do you think?
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2024.05.20 00:28 salmonpaddy I think my (23F) best friend’s (23F) boyfriend (25M) is into me, and I don’t know if I should say anything
My best friend and I have known each other since freshman year of college, so like 5 years now. We are super tight, she’s the funniest person I know and we’re like ride-or-dies.
Her and her boyfriend have been dating for 1.5 years now (I think), and I’ve met him more than a few times. He’s cool! But I am not into him like that.
I was in a LTR for 2 years but recently broke up, so I’m single again. I went out with my best friend (i.e. Jessie), her boyfriend (i.e Sean), and a couple other of our mutual friends (both girls). I was visiting them in Chicago for the weekend by the way, but I don’t live there.
Throughout the entire night, Sean would single me out to ask me things, or try to dance with me. For example, he would say “Hey, Salmonpaddy, what’s the tattoo on your back mean?” or “I like your outfit, Salmonpaddy” (which was a tight cropped tube top and baggy jeans lol).
Eventually he pulled me to dance with him, in front of my best friend, and I just danced super rigidly. Or he would grab my hand. And he knows I play some video games, so every time I see him he asks me to play video games with him, to set up a date/time to play together, the two of us.
He made me pinky promise that we would play Fortnite together this Wednesday at a specific time, he said he’ll buy me skins. I’m like. Bro😐. And he only talks about this stuff when she’s not around! So I asked if it’s possible to play with three people, since we should play with Jessie too, and he seemed awkward after that and switched topics.
Jessie went to the bathroom with a friend of mine, and I was with my drunk friend making sure she was good, and Sean. Sean starts talking to me again, and asks me in a teasing way, “So when are you gonna move to Chicago?” I replied that I have no plans to move to Chicago, and said I am actually going to move to NYC soon. He seemed shocked and asked how soon, I said a couple weeks, and he said “No, Salmonpaddy you just broke my heart! Don’t go that far! I’m barely gonna see you!” I said we don’t even see each other that often right now (like once every few months) and that I’ll see him and Jessie the same amount still! He was unsatisfied with that, and buckled down on trying to find ways to spend time with me. He said we should play games together, start a podcast, make a song together (I make music). Half of this stuff he repeated throughout the night, directly in front of Jessie, and it started to piss me off because he should be pouring that energy into her, not me, and I just felt bad that she just had to watch him constantly try to make plans with me or dance with me.
One more thing that made me skeptical is how he tried to disrupt men talking to me. I had quite a few men come up to me, and I spoke with one of them for a slightly longer time. Harmless conversation, the guy was cute though and I gave him a small peck on the cheek as I rejected his advance to dance with me. Yeah, mixed signals, but I’m dealing with my own stuff at the moment. Lol.
Anyways, Sean suddenly taps me and waves me to come talk to him, in like an urgent way. I asked him what was up, I thought maybe we were leaving, and instead he says “Are you into that guy??” and I said uhhh, I mean yeah I was talking to him but nothing serious. He apologized and said I could go back and talk to him, and I just laughed uncomfortably and went to go dance with Jessie instead.
Point is, Jessie is head over heels in love with Sean, yet I really don’t feel like he is being loyal to her in this way. I think he’s a cool person, but she’s my best friend before anything else and his behaviour as her boyfriend is giving me the ick.
How do I approach this situation?
TL;DR: I think my BFF’s boyfriend is into me and I don’t know how/if I should address it. She loves him so much but I feel like he is not as loyal as he should be, and I feel like he is lowkey hitting on me.
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