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Fall Guys

2019.10.05 21:05 byPaz Fall Guys

The community-run and developer-supported subreddit dedicated to Fall Guys – a video game developed by Mediatonic Games which flings hordes of contestants together online in a mad dash through round after round of escalating chaos until one victor remains. Available on PC, PlayStation, Xbox and Nintendo Switch. – Subreddit icon designed by Thegr8Klink
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2018.10.07 07:32 AJDx14 Shared BPM

A subreddit dedicated to videos about two or more songs that share the same BPM (beats per minute)
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2018.06.07 20:06 Just pet the damn cat

The cat version of petthedamndog
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2024.05.20 01:11 Advanced-Ad7780 What is the appeal of masculine-looking guys?

Not an attack, just a genuinely curious bi guy. Watching two masc guys in porn is at least from my point of view pretty gross most of the time, it's not like two twinks, two femboys o and two girls were they're both pretty and cute and you can imagine breeding them and calling u daddy. It's just find interesting that there are men out there that wants to bang muscle bears over a cute and femenine twink: https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTUK16f1KldA1ywqf6nKePAMU5qLS6SLrRQAkRx_TD6B0J7r6ffWYKvYRAdKKpzsh6VSVI&usqp=CAU or a cute girl: https://i.pinimg.com/474x/60/d4/f3/60d4f37b6d9f37bd5aebed1a08c3e9a6.jpg Not an attack again, just find it interesting that theres men who dont get hard at looking at pretty and delicate things.
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2024.05.20 01:10 dookieshoes88 Boomer gas station etiquette is unacceptable.

I work weekends at a gas station and it's mostly enjoyable. Sunday mornings bring in the boomers, accompanied by unrivaled levels of entitlement and disrespect. I have noticed some common behaviors, but it's usually a combination of a few.
  1. Not acknowledging the cashier's existence. I greet every customer, at least give me a nod when you're greeted. It's incredibly rude, and they seem to get mad if I don't continue pleasantries after receiving a cold, silent death stare.
  2. Throwing money on the counter, typically one at a time but sometimes the whole amount - bonus points if they haven't even counted it. Last Sunday I just tossed the change back at a particularly rude customer so he'd know how it felt. Count it yourself and hand me the money like an adult.
  3. Claiming everything is broken when it's not. I can see exactly what you're doing on the pump and in store and it's obviously user error. You have to leave the chip card in while it processes, the pump needs your zip code, you have to hit yes to accept the charges, and the soap/towel dispensers are motion activated. 'The pump' did not put 93 in your car, you selected that clearly labeled option and I will not refund the price difference from 87.
  4. Stop making up prices. I have a sheet with EVERY soda price, everything else is marked.
  5. Don't get mad at me because I don't know what you want. I'm a cashier at a shitty gas station, not the concierge at the White Lotus. You're not special and I only work two days a week, sorry I don't remember what lottery tickets your wife wanted two Sundays ago when I last saw you.
  6. Getting too comfortable/wannabe regulars. Stop calling me the new guy, I've been here for months. Stop trying to give me shit, I don't know you and don't get paid enough to laugh at your insulting 'jokes'. I probably won't pretend to laugh at any of your jokes, because I don't hate women or minorities. No, I'm not filling in for Jake, if you were actually a regular you'd know this has been his day off for 6 months.
I don't let stuff get to me anymore, but Sundays bummed me out at first. Why be so rude and ignorant to strangers that are nothing but kind and helpful?
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2024.05.20 01:10 Rodentlove How do I get over my unrequited crush on my best friend?

We're both close friends in college together. I'm not toooo worried about the future, because he's moving away for law school next year. I think it'll naturally go away with distance.
However, in the meantime, him and I and another one of our friends are going on a trip to Europe for three weeks this summer.
This crush is TOTALLY unrequited. Any normal person would've moved on by now. The thing is, I have OCD, and I've definitely gotten hooked on this as an obsession. I'm in therapy twice a week and talking to my therapist about it, but I'm still concerned and could use advice.
I'm just worried it'll interfere with the Europe trip, especially as we'll be drinking. Logically, I KNOW nothing will happen. I know that. But I'm worried part of myself is going to be hoping something happens between us on the trip, and I'm going to mess up the trip for myself or them with my unrequited love antics. (Nothing that horrible, but we went on a previous trip together and I ended up spending a night pouting by myself because he wasn't paying enough attention to me 🙄 embarrassing, I know...)
Also, I've already bought the plane tickets, so there's no going back. And I can't just tell him and get a clear rejection, because my therapist said I need to learn to move on while dealing with that uncertainty, rather than needing the clarity. It's clear he doesn't feel the same way about me, so I just need to give up hope.
I'll definitely talk to my therapist more about how to handle the rejection of "getting less attention/being less of a priority than I want" more maturely. I know it's immature and I want to fix it!
I've tried moving on by dating other guys. I'm on all the dating apps and have been actively trying to meet up with people. I've been flirting with other acquantainces. I'm trying to spend more time with other people and de-prioritize him. It just hasn't been working.
Last night we were at our friend's birthday party and I had two other people to flirt with there, and I tried to flirt with them, but the whole time I was just thinking about him and wishing he was paying attention to me and,,, yeah, being obsessed. It's bad.
Any advice from other women who have been there? I tend to get "hooked"/obsessed and have a really hard time letting go. In the past only distance has helped and I don't really see that being feasible with Europe upcoming.
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2024.05.20 01:09 Responsible_Health96 Help needed to pick discipline

Hello Everyone,
I just took BAR yesterday and i dont think i could ever be prepared for those sims that i had yesterday.I failed BEC 3 times in 2023 and i am tired of the BEC materials.So hoping that I passed but just in case if i dont make it i would like to switch it to either TCP or ISC.So i had a few questions for those who has taken these two exams recently and in last quarter.
1.Were the mcq and sims similar to becker( If you used becker) 2.Were the mcqs and sims easier or harder than becker? 3.Did you supplement with ninja or Farhat or any other supplements. 4.Which one do you recommend TCP or ISC( I kinda dont like IT and I did bad in IT all 3 attempts on bec. 5.How did you feel leaving the exam and did you pass or fail( 1st quarter)
FOR BAR- The mcqs were straightforward and the sims were exact opposite.Becker and Farhat has videos on those sims topic but the exam had it worded differently and you would almost feel like you dont know anything about those topics and you have never seen them beofre.
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR TAKING YOUR TIME AND SUGGESTIONS.I am sure a lot of other BAR takers has similar questions and might be thinking to switch to either TCP or ISC.
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2024.05.20 01:08 rik23 ULTIMATE SETTINGS FOR GTA WITH AMD GRAPHICS CARD (AMD RX 6700 XT)

ULTIMATE SETTINGS FOR GTA WITH AMD GRAPHICS CARD (AMD RX 6700 XT)
I made this because of the stuttering and lagging I've had on GTA because of CPU going 100%, If this doesn't work for you, change or repair your graphics card or CPU.
I'm based on this subreddit https://www.reddit.com/GrandTheftAutoV_PC/comments/43ilps/best_gta_5_settings_for_the_gtx_970_hands_down/ but as this one is old and also is from an nvidia card, this one is an update.
These settings can work for Singleplayer, GTA Online and FiveM, but I recommend you that if you're going online (GTA Online and FiveM) to turn down at least the Most Impactful settings I have listed on the bottom of the thread, because you'll need to.
https://preview.redd.it/uqys84g9jg1d1.png?width=1161&format=png&auto=webp&s=783daa978fc9b5b6d80b0ccaf47e402469c7c1b7
(IMPORTANT: 1. To have the best performance set to Full screen and set the resolution as you wish or the monitor resolution - 2. Set refresh rate as you wish or the monitor hz rate - 3. MSAA Off (Trust me, on the fourth capture it explains why) - 4. Vsync On if you set refresh rate to 60, off if not)
https://preview.redd.it/6jkjsz5kfg1d1.png?width=1161&format=png&auto=webp&s=af9f2140c0f44262a7dc7fc9af2c463f3d3d113a
(IMPORTANT: 1. All sliders up (Can turn it down if needed) - 2. You can turn some of the qualities options down if your graphics card can't support it - 3. Reflection Quality doesn't make a change and consumes a lot of fps so off - 4. Soft Shadows to Softest or lower. If you want performance, don't set it to AMD's CHS or NVIDIA's PCSS)
https://preview.redd.it/my9nluuqtg1d1.png?width=1156&format=png&auto=webp&s=270cc376e821174c8cc85cea42554e2bdfe41607
(IMPORTANT: 1. Post FX as you wish - 2. If fps don't reach to desired ones, turn Ambient Occlusion Off - 3. Tessellation can be turned down to High (Doesn't make a huge change of impact on fps)
https://preview.redd.it/33jtwwxggg1d1.png?width=1743&format=png&auto=webp&s=19d87765406b1e44176233e2bf58bdae2c4bb00e
(IMPORTANT: 1. NEVER, If you want FPS, NEVER turn up Extended Distance Scaling, this is the one setting that will crush your CPU down and go 30 fps - 2. Since we disabled MSAA before and at 1440p it looks horrible without it, we set Frame Scaling Mode to x1,500 since it looks almost the same as MSAA and consumes much less resources)
AMD Software: Adrenalin Edition settings
(IMPORTANT: 1. AMD Fluid Motion Frames On so you can have the best performance for high refresh rate monitors (Search on YouTube how to install AMD Fluid Motion Frames if the option doesn't appear) - 2. Radeon Boost Off because it looks horrible when looking around - 3. Enhanced Sync On for any tearing - 4. Freesync On if possible ofc)
https://preview.redd.it/7c1z04trkg1d1.png?width=2010&format=png&auto=webp&s=4d9de42887c85ab2118aac521858db408c25ee41
https://preview.redd.it/ub48pmh2lg1d1.png?width=2173&format=png&auto=webp&s=e8ea77c80d3ccccf80e958a160e1694b7ead8a09
These are my Overclocking tweaks for my graphics card if you want to know them, you can do it as you see in the image but at your own risk, also the fan speed curve makes the fans louder than normal, at least on my gpu, you can play with it to balance optimum Cº (80) and silence.
Final notes, I have two other settings that I have turned on so it works perfectly.
RivaTuner - Install it and set it to limit GTA 5 to 60-65fps (With Fluid Motion Frames you'll see 120 fps on screen) so the CPU won't stress on keeping up to the GPU to give the most FPS as possible (This ihave a slower CPU that bottlenecks the GPU as I have) (Don't try to limit the fps from Radeon Software because it won't work if you're using Fluid Motion Frames)
Limit the CPU's threads - In this video https://youtu.be/y-66LJcPtBg?si=MvKPKfUr0L_K54Ja , you'll see how to set the Affinity of the GTA5.exe process on Task Manager to use less threads. (I believe that the game, as it uses all the CPU cores, Windows doesn't like it and it slows down the game on purpose so it doesn't stop working)
Most Graphic Impactful Settings
  1. Most Impactful
    1. DirectX Version (Don't turn down, DirectX 11 is the best on performance)
    2. MSAA
    3. Texture Quality (Warning clothing and most of textures will look horrible from Normal to High)
    4. Reflection MSAA
    5. Grass Quality
    6. Shadow Quality
    7. Reflection Quality
  2. Moderate Impactful
    1. Soft Shadows
    2. Post FX
    3. Ambient Occlusion
    4. In-Game Depth Of Field Effects
    5. Tesselation (High - Very High)
  3. Least Impactful
    1. FXAA
    2. Vsync
    3. Pause Game Without Focus
    4. All three sliders
    5. Shader Quality
    6. Water Quality
    7. Particles Quality
    8. Anisotropic Filtering
    9. Tesselation (Off - Normal)
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2024.05.20 01:08 Skoog1 Help!

I have been trying to find a social media guy for a while now hoping someone knows!
He made short(ish) videos about dnd stories that he made up. He is a tall classically handsome jacked dude and started cosplaying as a barbarian. Then added a wizard, rogue, necromancer, druid and created videos as if they are in a party. He lived in a friends cabin in the forest and also had videos of him chopping wood.
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2024.05.20 01:08 Soninetz Hostfully vs Touch Stay: Digital Guidebook Mastery

Hostfully vs Touch Stay: Digital Guidebook Mastery
Comparing Hostfully and TouchStay is like choosing between two top-tier vacation rental platforms with distinct features. Hostfully offers robust property management tools for owners, while TouchStay focuses on enhancing guest experiences through personalized digital guides. Both platforms aim to streamline operations and elevate guest satisfaction in the competitive vacation rental industry. Understanding the nuances of each platform can help hosts make an informed decision that aligns with their specific needs and goals.
Useful Links:
  1. Hostfully LifeTime Deal
  2. Hostfully Free Trial

Key Takeaways

  • Create Comprehensive Guidebooks: Ensure your guidebooks cover essential information for guests to have a seamless experience.
  • Consistent Content Management: Regularly update and maintain your guidebook content to keep it relevant and valuable.
  • Share Local Insights: Enhance guest experiences by sharing insider tips and recommendations about the local area.
  • Optimize Guidebook Distribution: Utilize multiple channels to distribute your guidebooks effectively to reach a wider audience and access a broader market.
  • Brand Your Guidebooks: Customize your guidebooks with branding elements to create a unique and memorable experience for guests.
  • Personalization is Key: Tailor your guidebooks to cater to the specific needs and interests of your target audience.

Guidebook Essentials

Digital Guides

Digital guides are essential for vacation rental properties, offering recommendations on local attractions and restaurants. They provide key information for guests to enhance their stay experience.

Enhanced Guest Experience

A digital welcome book through platforms like Hostfully or Touchstay ensures a seamless booking process. Guests can easily access booking details, property rules, contact information, and touch through their phone.
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Key Features

The standard features of a guidebook include interactive maps, check-in instructions, and emergency contacts. Hostfully and Touchstay both offer user-friendly interfaces for hosts to create customized guides.

Content Creation and Management

Replicating Content

Hostfully offers a powerful feature for duplicating content across multiple guidebooks, streamlining the process efficiently. By utilizing this tool, hosts can easily replicate essential information such as check-in instructions or house rules.

Customizable Templates

Creating content with Touchstay involves a user-friendly interface allowing hosts to personalize their guidebooks. This platform provides customizable templates for text, images, and even video, enhancing the overall guest experience.

Efficient Management

Hostfully prioritizes efficiency in content management through its robust system that enables hosts to make quick updates to their guidebooks. This feature ensures that information remains up-to-date and relevant for guests throughout their stay.
  • Pros of Hostfully:
    • Streamlined content replication
    • Quick updates for effective management
  • Pros of Touchstay:
    • User-friendly interface for customization
    • Diverse content options including text and video

Local Insights Sharing

Messaging Integration

Digital guidebooks, such as Hostfully and Touchstay, offer a seamless way to share local recommendations with guests. Through these platforms, hosts can send personalized messages to guests about nearby attractions, restaurants, and activities.
By integrating messaging features into the guidebook, hosts can provide real-time updates and answer guest questions promptly. This enhances the overall guest experience by offering relevant information at their fingertips.
Useful Links:
  1. Hostfully LifeTime Deal
  2. Hostfully Free Trial

Google Places Integration

Integrating Google Places within the digital welcome book allows hosts to showcase local offerings accurately. By linking Google Places sections in the guidebook, guests can easily access detailed information about nearby businesses, including addresses, contact details, and reviews.
This integration enables guests to explore the area conveniently and make informed decisions about where to visit during their stay. Hosts can curate a tailored experience by including recommendations based on popular spots or hidden gems in the vicinity.

Guidebook Distribution

Sharing Methods

Hostfully and Touch Stay offer various ways to share digital guidebooks with guests. Both platforms enable hosts to provide comprehensive information digitally, enhancing the guest experience.

Accessibility Differences

Touch Stay and Hostfully differ in accessibility. While Touch Stay emphasizes simplicity and user-friendliness, Hostfully offers a wider range of customization options for hosts to tailor the guidebook content.

Printed Versions

For hosts preferring physical copies, both platforms provide options for generating printed versions of digital guidebooks. This allows guests to access essential information offline, enhancing their overall travel experience.

Branding and Customization

Touch Stay

Touch Stay provides customization options for digital guidebooks, allowing hosts to tailor their content to match their brand. Hosts can add their logos, color schemes, and personalized messages to create a unique experience for guests.
With Touch Stay, hosts can brand their guidebooks with a professional touch, ensuring that guests have a seamless and immersive stay. The platform offers various templates and design features to cater to different branding needs.

Hostfully

Hostfully caters to "Power Hosts" by offering branding support through the inclusion of their logo on the guidebook cover. Hosts can include a link to their website within the guidebook, enhancing brand visibility and credibility.
For hosts looking to establish a strong brand presence, Hostfully's customization options are tailored to meet their specific branding requirements. This includes the ability to customize colors, fonts, and layouts according to individual preferences.

Pricing and Customization Options

When it comes to pricing structures, Touch Stay offers different plans with varying levels of customization options. These plans may include charges based on the number of guidebooks created or additional features added.
Hostfully also provides diverse pricing plans that cater to different host needs. From basic plans with essential features to premium packages with advanced customization options, hosts can choose the best plan that aligns with their branding strategy and budget.

Final Remarks

Incorporating guidebook essentials, creating and managing content, sharing local insights, distributing your guidebook, and customizing your branding are crucial steps in establishing a strong vacation rental presence. By mastering these elements, you can enhance guest experiences, differentiate yourself from competitors, and ultimately boost your bookings. Remember, consistency is key in maintaining a compelling guidebook that resonates with your guests.
Take the time to refine each aspect of your guidebook strategy to leave a lasting impression on your guests. Embrace these practices to elevate your vacation rental business and stand out in the competitive market. Your dedication to providing valuable and personalized experiences through your guidebook will undoubtedly set you apart. Keep refining and optimizing your approach to maximize guest satisfaction and drive success.
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Frequently Asked Questions

What are the key differences between Hostfully and Touchstay?

Hostfully focuses on comprehensive guidebook essentials, while Touchstay emphasizes content creation and management. Hostfully provides local insights sharing features, whereas Touchstay excels in guidebook distribution. Hostfully offers robust branding and customization options compared to Touchstay.

Which platform is more suitable for managing vacation rental properties efficiently?

For efficient vacation rental property management, Hostfully's comprehensive guidebook essentials and branding options make it a preferred choice. On the other hand, Touchstay's strong suit lies in its content creation and distribution capabilities, catering to different property management needs.

How do Hostfully and Touchstay differ in terms of user interface and ease of use?

Hostfully boasts an intuitive user interface with a focus on guidebook essentials, making it easy for users to navigate and customize their content. In contrast, Touchstay prioritizes content creation tools and distribution channels, offering a user-friendly experience tailored towards managing property listings effectively.

Can I integrate my branding elements seamlessly with both Hostfully and Touchstay platforms?

Hostfully provides extensive branding and customization features that allow seamless integration of your branding elements throughout the guidebook. While Touchstay also offers some customization options, Hostfully stands out for its ability to tailor the guidebook to align perfectly with your brand identity.

Which platform offers better support for sharing local insights with guests?

When it comes to sharing local insights with guests, Hostfully shines with its dedicated features that enable hosts to provide valuable information about the area. While Touchstay also supports local insights sharing, Hostfully's emphasis on this aspect sets it apart as a top choice for enhancing guest experiences through personalized recommendations.
Useful Links:
  1. Hostfully LifeTime Deal
  2. Hostfully Free Trial
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2024.05.20 01:07 DravenDravenDraven22 [23/M] Europe - Looking for my someone 😊

Hey there! I am a 23 year old guy, and im looking for my special someone.
I am 190cm(6'3) tall, I have short black hair, hazel eyes. My hobbies are driving, working on my car, going to the gym, play video games, listen to music and watch YouTube videos, and also play with my dog too :D I go to university to be an IT Engineer and also work part time aswell.
I am a very cuddly person, very loyal, honest, and I like giving all of my attention to the person who's important for me. If we'd get closer, I'd love to spend all my freetime with you and chat/voice call a lot, and hopefully develop a long lasting relationship, and hopefully it'll turn to irl in the future.
I'm looking for a girl who's also cuddly, clingy, kind, sweet, and who'd also be a good Passenger Princess 😋
If you'd be interested in chatting and getting to know each other, send me a message :)
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2024.05.20 01:06 stillunofficial My boyfriend (25M) and I (21F) have recently gone long distance. What are some ways to cope?

So, I (21F) have been dating my boyfriend (25M) for almost a year and a half now and have recently gone long(mid?) distance. We used to have a bit of a short distance, about a half an hour drive away from each other, and we would see each other mostly once a week. Sometimes we would see each other twice a week, but due to his work we'd mostly only spend time on the weekend with him staying 2 or 3 nights at mine.
I started having struggles with my living situation as my roommate had become a nightmare and the flat I was living at was turning incredibly uncomfortable and I just couldn't take living there anymore. My boyfriend and I ended up deciding it would be the best idea for me to move out and live with my parents as finding a new flat for myself wasn't that great of an option as I don't have too much money, and moving back in with my parents would help me save up money to move out again. Before you ask, I can't move in with my boyfriend yet, as he still lives with his mum because he's trying to save up as much money as possible and will move out when his apprenticeship finishes in 2026.
I ended up going through with the plans and have completely moved out and am now living with my parents, which is where my struggle is. My parents live a 5 hour drive away from my boyfriend. I know that may not seem like much to some of you, but it's a lot to me. I suffer with BPD and have never done a distance longer than a 40 minute drive before, and its kind of weighing on me that we're going from seeing each other once or twice a week to only seeing each other twice a month. Again, I know some of you would probably wish you only had that much of a distance, but to me it feels like an entirely new thing.
So, I guess I'm just wondering, how do you guys cope in long distance? What is some advice you can give me? I've kind of just been trying to tell myself that it's only for 3 months, and 3 months is nothing compared to us wanting to spend the rest of our lives together (hopefully). We've also gone 2 weeks apart a few times now, so I'm trying to tell myself that 2 weeks between each visit isn't that bad, but god its such a big change for me. Physical touch is one of my main love languages so it's difficult. We are planning to video call every 2 or 3 nights thought to make things a little bit easier. I love this man with everything in me so I do know it'll be worth it in the end.
I do ask in advanced that people please be nice, I know it may not seem like much of a distance, but everyone deals with things differently, and this is a lot for me. Thank you to anyone who takes their time to read this. Any advice is appreciated
TLDR: My boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 5 months and have recently gone from seeing each other once or twice a week to twice a month due to me moving back in with my parents, who live a 5 hour drive away, for 3 months to save money. I know it may be more of a mid distance thing and seem like not that big of a deal to some, but it's very new to me and I was just wondering what are some ways I can cope?
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2024.05.20 01:06 Meganoises I live near Richmond VA...

I live near Richmond VA...
This little guy is about a foot and a half to two ft tall and it has a soft fuzz all over its leaves and stems. What's this plant in my garden?
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2024.05.20 01:05 dayeonwangja I (18F) confessed to my friend (18M) that i like him, he rejected me but still wishes that we stay close to each other just like before.

So I have this guy friend of mine for over a year now, I want to ask for insights and advice that would help me decide what to do next.
So when I went to another school for senior high, I met this guy, I really didn't pay any attention to him during my first few weeks at school, he's my classmate btw but I don't even know his name until a month after for a group activity, he's really good at socializing with people, maybe because he had a humorous personality, he's often loud when he's with his friends, i bet he's an extrovert, he's the type of person that would get along well with both guys and girls. I just observed my classmates during those times, I'm new to the school, and I'm bad at socializing, but can also easily blend in with people once I get to a conversation with them. Moving forward, after a few months, I got close to his circle due to our similarities with each other, they play mobile games and I often play with them during our free time after class, so basically it's like I became a part of their circle but not really, in my opinion I'm nothing more than a classmate they get along well with, but that's not the case with this guy, he's not my type at all but I find him cute because I kind of see him like my little brother, when I got quite close to him, I often sit with them at the back of our class, I talk with his circle and shares laughter with their jokes, his circle consists of 4 guys and 4 girls, 3 of the guys has their own girlfriend, including him, when i knew about it i really didn't care, i couldn't care less about it because i'm not interested at him at all, i don't see him anything more than someone who resembles a little brother, he's not young, there's like 8 months gap between our age, the same cycle continued for like 2 months, i laugh with them like normal classmates socializing with each other.
A few months later, he and his girlfriend broke up, i didn't know anything about it and got the news while they were making jokes about it while at the same time comforting him, it was like already a week after their breakup during that time and I was like "oh, really, sad to hear" then continued blending in with them like before, then that's where we unexpectedly got closer to each other, a little closer than before, not a single motive or intentions involved, everything just happened naturally, the two of us often play together, shares jokes and food. Fast forward, I kind of developed a liking to him, removing that little brother image of him.
And now after 2 months, I confessed everything to him, that i like him, and everything between, but expectedly, he rejected me, with the reason "i don't feel anything for you, because i thought you didn't like me." and included that he feels that even if he tells me that 'he does' like me, he feels like we would not last long because I still don't know him well, and he thinks that he's not the best fit for someone like me because he's 'seloso' raw when it comes to love, and thinks that i wouldn't like someone like that, especially with someone like me that has multiple guy friends (not really friends but i get along well with them), he also said that he doesn't want to get hurt again because of that (he and his gf broke up because of another guy na pinagseselosan n'ya dati), so according to him, even if it's selfish of him, it's better off for both of us the be bff's and hoped that after what happened between us, nothing changes, him and I will stay close like before. He then clarified afterwards that he does feel something for me, but doesn't want to get into a relationship with me because of that reason (the seloso reason), and he's rejecting me in terms of having a relationship with each other. We got closer after what happened, I mean he got more talkative than before, he also invites me to watch movies together too, that got me even more confused.
I clearly know that I only wanted to give him a proper confession (I don't want to keep my feelings to myself that's why I told him), I'm not ready to enter any relationships right now (he knew abt that and exactly said "ayaw mo rin naman diba pumasok sa rs? edi wala ka nawala, wala ka rin na gain so neutral lang?"), but still, I don't know what to do, should I keep our friendship going and suffer like this and hope that in the future, he'll finally consider being in a relationship with me once we're both ready, or stop everything for good and lose everything including our friendship? Does he really like me the same way I do or he just sugar-coated his rejection?
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2024.05.20 01:05 IseKai_MC Origami above (almost) everyone - DAL vol 10 cover + some illustrations

Origami above (almost) everyone - DAL vol 10 cover + some illustrations
Hello guys, since I read Date a Live, I realized that the novel has a certain quality that even more popular and cult novels do not have and that seems to go unnoticed by the fandom, the covers. Yes, the covers are spectacular and break away from the standard of most LNs, there is not just fanservice, there is not just a character striking a cool pose, we actually have covers with a certain visual narrative, whether a connection with the highlighted spirit itself or with the story itself and I will be pleased to show this to you, here are the rules:
  • Due to the oriental reading sense being left -> right of the page, the details will be presented respecting this sense.
  • A picture is worth a thousand words, and DAL is a novel so the images are even more valuable, the idea here is to analyze the covers and relevant illustrations to understand hints, references, foreshadowing, and contexts.
  • Pure fanservice images will not be taken into consideration (at least most of them). No, I’m not the type of otaku who says things like: “fanservice is unnecessary, objectification of women, too gratuitous and empty, it only serves to “excite the viewer””, the last one is even plausible and I understand those who think like this, but all the others are nothing more than cheap demagoguery. They will not be taken into consideration because in addition to not actually adding to the plot most of them are posted to exhaustion on this reddit.
  • Major spoilers will be avoided, at least directly.
{LN 10 Cover}
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  • Author's name.
The first element is Tachibana’s name, again.
  • The highlighted girl.
The girl of the moment is… Origami? But how is Origami a spirit?
Calm down, my boy, you haven’t missed anything, in fact I promised plot twists and we have one right on the cover.
As for the spirit Origami, I want to draw attention to two things. The first is obviously her astral dress which is a wedding dress, each astral dress follows the taste of its spirit user and Origami as a child had the dream of being a wife, but there is much more than that, so this Astral Dress is a small hint of the main plot, this will become clearer in the Spirit Info topic.
The second is about the facial expression, Origami looks like she is waking up, this may symbolize that she has just become a spirit, it may be a premonition of the plot of this volume, which deals with Origami discovering the truth about her past. But this expression will be referenced in a scene that will happen 7 volumes later, when we get there I will talk about it.
  • Angel Tobiichi.
In the volume, Origami calls the spirit that killed her parents “angel”, look at the hint there.
Again the subtitle cites the spirit’s surname, the other time this happened was in the volume 4, Sister Itsuka, clearly there is a connection here as the Tenguu-Nankou fire was a relevant event for both spirits, I also believe that the work opts to use surnames if we already know the spirit of the cover and the main reason is that Tobiichi is written with the character 1, let’s go to the next topic.
  • Spirit info.
Origami is the bearer of the first sephirot and, suddenly, everything makes sense. The first important thing here is the rivalry between Tohka and Origami. Tohka is spirit number 10, Sephiroth Malkuth, the kingdom, the final receptacle that concentrates the creative force now in its densest and residual state, while Origami is spirit number 1, Sephirot Kether, force and light in its most subtle state that flows to the others, Malkuth is a reflection of Kether on a lower plane. The rivalry between Tohka and Origami reaches its definitive stage but there is still a small detail missing.
That is, Origami, among the spirits, is the closest to God. But it’s still too early to talk about this.
And yes, spirit number 10 is on the cover of volume 1 and spirit number 1 is on the cover of volume 10, I would have liked to come here and say that I discovered this but Tachibana put this information in the afterword.
Her codename is "Angel", again this word, the name of the angel is Metatron.
  • The title.
The title goes back to being in front of the spirit, in the composition “Date” above and “A Live” below and whenever this happens the rule that must be respected is, the characters corresponding to “Live” are always positioned in the belly of the spirit.
  • Background
Last but not least, the background, this time very hidden and perhaps in a horizontal strip format, I say perhaps because that part of the astral dress occupies almost the entire cover in that part. The novelty is due to the positioning of the strip that frames Origami’s legs, which gives a rather empty aspect to this cover. Referring to the position of Origami’s Sephiroth, closest to God, above the other sephiroth, as well as referring to the main scene of this volume.
The scenario is a bit hidden, there are some debris there but nothing that allows to fully identify the scene but obviously there is a fire happening there, which is obviously a reference to that relevant event again, the great fire in Tenguu-Nankou. I don’t even need to say how relevant this event is to Origami’s life, in her first illustration in volume 1, she says: “Five years ago a spirit killed my parents.”
Finally, in my opinion this is one of the best covers, again, just imagine you go to the convenience store to buy this newly released volume and find out that Origami is a spirit, just by the shock the value is already high, if you already know the story of the anime and stop to analyze the cover, the value is double the previous one, if you know the whole story of Date a Live, and try to analyze the cover in a deeper way, the value is the squared of the previous one.
Let’s open the volume.
{Illustration 2}
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There’s something different about this volume, the compositions have improved a lot, apparently a reflection of the success of the animation.
The high school student and protagonist of this story, Shido Itsuka, says: “Tohka and the other girls just want a normal life.”
But wait, Shido is tied to a chair in a strange room and there in the middle is a bottle of water. Ok, it seems that Origami really changed sides.
The wizard who hates spirits is unyielding and responds that she will not only kill the spirits, “but also the entity that made me have a relationship with them.”
In the middle of the illustration there is a crack in the wall, symbolic.
{Illustration 3}
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Another plot twist, Tohka is in full astral dress. And not only that, the spirit Tohka is making a declaration of hatred to Origami.
“Origami Tobiichi, I have hated you from the beginning, but the hatred I feel for you now is probably different from the hatred I used to have before and for that reason, this time I will intend to kill you, don’t die, Origami.”
Despite everything, this is a cute declaration because for the first time Tohka calls Origami by her name and not satisfied asks Origami to resist because even though she is angry, she does not want to kill Origami.
Tohka will gain a little development in this volume, hence the illustration, we will talk about this scene later.
{Illustration 4}
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Gentlemen, one of the best illustrations of DAL.
The spirit Origami says: “Metatron!”
Tohka says: “Origami, why did you become a spirit!?”
In a great composition by Tsunako, Tohka and Origami are referencing the positions of their sephiroth in the tree of life. Origami appears in a superior position, distant from the “camera” and in front of the sun representing illumination, Kether, while the representative of the Kingdom, Malkhut, is in a much lower position, in the foreground and with her back to the reader. So, besides everything, they are staring at each other, symbolizing the mirroring already mentioned before.
And speaking of mirroring, do you remember the illustration I asked you to keep? As I know I asked a lot I will make it easier for you, I am talking about the mono illustration number 9 of volume 2, I warned that that image would be mirrored and there it is. In the aforementioned image Origami was still wearing a basic CR Unit from AST and Tohka for the first time debuted in her limited astral dress, the reader’s angle, our angle, brought Origami almost back in the foreground, in the image now the camera position has inversed and now we are with the vision of Tohka.
A great illustration but what generates more content here for sure are the illustrations of the table of contents, I’m sure the next one will please some people here.
{Table of contents}
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Look who’s back, Kurumi Tokisaki, it’s been a while since I’ve talked about “The worst spirit.”
But there’s nothing enigmatic here, it’s just Kurumi from the back (we’ve seen and will see many backs in this volume) and as for the phrase, she just stole Kotori’s catchphrase, I’m sure she wouldn’t be happy if another character started saying “ara ara” around.
Anyway, just having Kurumi here is hype enough because, whether you like the girl or not, just her being here is a sign that something relevant is going to happen.
{Mono Illustration 5}
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Ellen seems confident, on the other hand Kotori seems impatient.
To ensure that Fraxinus does not interfere with Origami’s fight, Ellen plans to use the newest toy that DEM has manufactured, the Goetia ship (another name related to magic and occultism).
Ellen and Kotori have a small dialogue where Shido’s sister tries to provoke THE STRONGEST WIZARD IN THE WORLD, but Miss Matthers is calm today, at least until she mentions Woodman.
The duel is unavoidable.
{Mono Illustration 6}
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There is a lot to talk about here, let’s start with the context.
Origami challenged the spirits Tohka, Yamais, and Miku to a fight to the death and by being equipped with the CR-Unit Mordred, Origami is able to build an advantage in the fight, she leaves Tohka unconscious and hurts the other 3 a lot, the former sergeant-major decides to start the killing by Yuzuru, precisely the spirit she got along with the most. It is at this moment that Tohka wakes up and seeing this whole scene she begins to go through the inversion process, but Tohka manages to interrupt this process, two passages stand out.
“This power would not save anyone.” She didn’t want to save just Kaguya, Yuzuru, and Miku, she wanted to save Origami too.
“She was an arrogant, violent, uneducated, and foul-mouthed girl, Tohka never knew what was going on in the mind of that girl who always bothered her. Even so, Tohka wanted to hold that girl’s hands.”
Tohka says: “Shido, lend me your strength.” And she gets her full powers back. And so the two engage in a really cool fight, at this moment the narration becomes from Origami’s point of view, there is a detailing about the features of Mordred and the fighting movements, time passes a little and Origami begins to feel too confident. She begins to ramble about having the ability to kill spirits, she begins to think about the death of her parents, about what she saw in the DEM report of the fire in Tenguu-Nankou.
Clearly Origami is not well, finally her body collapses and we have an illustration.
Now talking about the illustration itself, this is a reference to Mono Illustration 2 of volume 1, whose differences I highlight now. The most obvious difference is about Tohka who is no longer with that serious and empty look, here Tohka is clearly angry and screaming, in a way such expressiveness demonstrates how much this girl has developed.
Still about Tohka, this time it is she who is making an attack movement, but there is no blood in this image, an indication that it was not an attack to kill.
The other difference is about Origami, in that illustration I quote how much the “expressionless” Origami demonstrated tension, effort, and pressure, and I highlight the drop of sweat on her face. Something we can’t do here because this time Origami is with her back to the “camera” not allowing us to see her eyes.
“The eyes are the window to the soul” So not showing the eyes is a strong symbolism, you can’t read the person’s emotions, you can’t even recognize the person, humanity is taken from the person and about this, this is the last illustration in which Origami Tobiichi is still human, because…
{Mono illustration 7}
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Origami became a spirit.
“Hey, is it power that you desire?”
“What are you?”
Origami used [What] instead of [Who] in reflex. [It] might have guessed what she meant and laughed as if it found it funny.
“What I am doesn’t matter now.”
After becoming spirit Origami, without delay, she goes to Tohka and then we have the illustration which is of Origami using Metatron’s Shemesh skill.
{Mono Illustration 9}
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Ara, ara.
Origami was so crazy that it was only after seeing Shido and running away from there that this girl began to understand the points, mainly about who gave her the spirit powers, the mysterious “Phantom”.
She reflects a little more and realizes that a certain spirit may have the ability to go back in time. About the illustration itself, another beautiful composition by Tsunako, in it we can contemplate Kurumi, apparently on a terrace, with building lights, Kurumi appears joyful in seeing Origami.
“It’s been a long time, Origami-san!”
As for Origami, again she is with her back turned and carrying a clone of Kurumi. The anime softened but here in the novel Origami seems to have returned the “affection” that Kurumi had done to her in volume 3 in the form of a very strong “massage”. But the clone does not seem to have liked it.
“I did not come here to fight.”
“Among the 12 bullets, is there one that can go back in time?”
Kurumi makes a little suspense but answers that, yes, there is, Origami asks her to lend her this bullet.
At first Kurumi denies, but since we are talking a little more about the Kabbalah, the Sephiroth of the worst spirit is Binah, the understanding, realizing that Tobiichi would not leave there without a “yes” as an answer Kurumi asks “why?”
“I want to go back 5 years and kill the spirit that killed my parents.”
At this moment the narration enters Kurumi’s thoughts, she begins to think that Origami came to her because she felt so invincible and therefore would force Kurumi to do what she wants, if necessary.
But then Kurumi begins to think that it was just a miscalculation by the girl, a miscalculation caused by the temptation to change the past.
“And Kurumi understood so much that it even hurt.”
Kurumi accepts but will not do this for free, time travel would cost a lot of lifetime, but that would not be a problem since now Origami has plenty of it.
{Mono Illustration 10}
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Origami discovered the harsh truth.
She really went to the past, had a brief fight with Phantom, managed to be the first to take off Phantom’s "mask", also managed to hear Phantom’s real voice, and when she thought she had also managed to save her parents, when she looked down there was a little girl swearing Origami to death, the little girl was Origami herself 5 years ago.
“I will definitely kill you!”
“Who killed… my father and my mother… Was me…”
  • Mini review of the volume.
This was Volume 10, released on March 20, 2014, about 2 weeks before the second season premiered, and it’s a sensational volume.
First of all, it’s a volume full of plot twists, Shido in private imprisonment, Origami fighting with the intention to kill 4 spirits at once, Fraxinus being defeated by Ellen’s Goetia, Tohka returning to use a full astral dress, Origami becoming a spirit, Origami going to the past, Origami facing Phantom, Origami killing her own parents, the illustrations end there but there’s still a lot of content, Origami inverts, Inverse Origami destroys all of Tenguu City and finally Kurumi going to Shido, Shido also being sent to the past. Entertainment and tension are not lacking here.
Did you notice that the lore makes a lot of references to the first volumes? This volume also makes a point of rewarding the reader for all this time following the story, the plot twist of Origami for example, was foreshadowed back in Volume 1, when she aims at Tohka but hits and "kills" Shido, from there a big hint that Origami has the bad habit of killing, by accident, the people she loves the most.
Origami was not the only character developed here, Tohka also grows and thanks the Shido’s ideology, at no time did she deny the existence of Origami and even though she said she was going to attack to kill she asked Origami not to die.
Although short, Kurumi had a great participation and we were able to learn more about her and for someone who is known as “the worst spirit” she was quite kind.
The only impediment for Volume 10 to sit alongside the best volumes of DAL is because most of the answers are in the next volume and when we take into consideration what both have to offer, the overall impression about Volume 10 improves, after all there is a big cliffhanger for Volume 11.
Origami managed to take off Phantom’s “mask” and even hear her voice, with that we can know that Phantom is a girl and is someone Origami knows, that is, she is also someone we know.
That’s it, Origami was a spirit all this time, and next we will find out how Shido and Kurumi will solve this mess. Finally, stay with this iconic phrase that Origami says in this volume, the phrase says a lot about many things in DAL.
“I will now wield this power to defeat the Spirits. I will become the Spirit that kills Spirits. Once I eliminate all Spirits────I will erase the last one, me”.
Previous Reviews.
-volume 1 - The color of the Night.
- volume 2 - Yoshinon and the Rain.
- volume 3 - The smile of Kurumi.
- volume 4 - Sister or Girlfriend?
- volume 5 - Yamais
- volume 6 - Lilies, she likes
- volume 7 - The Dark of the Night.
- volume 8 - What do people do on Halloween?
- volume 9 - Natsumi Without Costume
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2024.05.20 01:05 throwawayyy9967 Long-distance relationships?

I (20F) have been with my bf (22M) for four months now. It's my first ever relationship, the first guy I've ever kissed or even have had any serious interest for.
However, the school year is ending in a month and then I'm going to my home country for summer break before going to another country for an exchange semester. Then, in addition to that, he will be the one to leave for an exchange semester. So for the entire next year the two of us will be in different countries each time and the next time we'll live in the same city will literally be in fucking May 2025.We're in Europe, so the distance will not be astronomical, each time it's a 5h train/1h30 flight trip, but we'll go from attending the same college, living across the street and seeing each other at least every other day to seeing each other once a month.
And to add to the fuel, I hate maintaining long-distance connections with passion. I am very much an out of sight, out of mind person. I hate texting, I loathe FaceTime, I begrudgingly tolerate phone calls. I live away from my home country and it always annoys the hell out of me to maintain contact with family and friends. Like, I love you, but we'll talk when I get back home. I always forget to contact them and phone calls are always cringe, they're full of gaps when each person frantically searches for a conversation topic - even though I can talk for hours with these people face-to-face. So the prospect of having to call him multiple times a week fills me with dread.
So I am writing wondering are there any successful LDR stories amongst the people here? How did you manage to cope with the distance? How did you manage to stay connected to your partner? I have been crying myself to sleep for multiple nights in a row now (I'll give the long distance a shot, I'll do my best but mentally I have already accepted it will never work and I'm starting to regret I ever agreed to go out with him in the first place)
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2024.05.20 01:04 ACupOfLatte How do you all manage your international friendships?

I've been struggling with this ever since I was a teen. I was a sickly kid, and in addition to being introverted I ended up having more out of country friends than local via video games.
As an adult, I am having a hard time actually managing those friendships. They have been amazing friends, and I have even met a couple throughout the years. I consider them actual friends, and not "just online friends".
Right now, I'm in a situation in my life where I am able to have a flexible enough schedule to accommodate both my wants and their wants, hanging out, playing games etc while also not sacrificing my own local friends and family, alongside all the usual adulting BS like working out, studying and work though I am actively choosing to sacrifice a healthy sleep schedule for all this.
However, in a year or two I'll have to be more strict with my schedule, and with that I lose the flexibility that helped me keep in contact with my best friends overseas.
How do you, those that also have friends overseas especially those that have friends who are in direct parallel to your timezone, manage your friendships?
Have you cut them off? Did you sacrifice something else? Are you still somehow towing the line? I'll take any advice on the matter.
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2024.05.20 01:03 XBlueXFire Some questions about Claude

Context: This is my first playthrough of second story r, and I've thus far just made it to Nede. So spoilers up to that point I guess.
So far along my playthrough, I've built up a small list of things that's had me a bit confused about Claude as a character. If anything is answered at a later point in time, then just say so.
1: How come he's such a good swordsman? I'm not really familiar with the setting, however it seemed like Claude's preferred weapon at the start was his gun. The fact he was able to press Dias during the armory contest honestly surprised me seeing as it's only maybe been a week since he landed on Expel, plus whatever time it took to sail to Laceur I guess.
2: What's up with his feelings for Rena? From my perspective, they've known each other for about a week's time, not to mention the fact that Rena doesn't seem to exhibit any kind of romantic interest herself. The whole Marze arc where Claude gets jelous of Dias just felt so insanely out of character all of a sudden. Is the game skipping over a lotta in universe time that I'm just not shown?
  1. Is Claude actually kinda mean? Dialing time back a little. In that port town that eventually gets destroyed by the earthqueake (forgot the name), Claude got pickpocketed by this kid and he initially threatens the boy to give it back before Rena calms him, he then becomes really chill with the kid. That scene also came as a shock to me at the time, since Claude up until that point had seemed like such a goody two shoes sorta character.
During the Ashton quest, Claude admits to contemplating running away when Ashton asked them to take responsibility. Granted it's laughed off so it may've been a joke, but if it wasn't, that would've been another instance of shocking character development for me.
Ive already mentioned the Marze arc where Claude gets grumpy about Dias and starts acting all grumpy until him and Celine run into Rena and Dias again. That whole segment really caught me by surprise. It was like he'd become a different person.
Come to think of it, at the very beginning Claude just disregarded his father's worries and poked the strange machine. In that specific instance I think he just wanted to show off in some fashion, but it does suggest that he might be more hard headed than I initially thought.
In a sense a lot of my points are just questioning his maturity. He is kust 19 years old, still though I expect more from the guy if he had actually gone through military training.
4: Does he actually have magic powers, or are all the abilities we use just gameplay?
5: How on god's green earth can he be calm after what happened to Expel?! Same goes for Rena for that matter, but Claude more so!
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2024.05.20 01:02 Psychological_Cup930 Should I give up on this farm?

Hi guys, I posted a while ago about the farm I’m working on in Greece this June. The host confirmed me and we had a great video meeting, but they aren’t responding to any questions about transport/logistics/supplies I’ll need. Do you have any idea why they may not be responding? Should I just call them? I don’t want to be rude or annoying with the time difference. Thank you!
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2024.05.20 01:02 Stan_B Ai_Prompts_Batch_0001:\ part-D_ [!tch & ORdeals]

How about dating and romance within such kind of world and settings? - Consider all possible social groups.

Love and Lust in a High-Tech, Low-Life World:

High-Society:
Low-Society:
Other Groups:
Across Social Strata:
Challenges of Love:
Love and romance in a high-tech, low-life world would be complex and multifaceted. Despite the challenges, people would find ways to connect, express affection, and build relationships in this strange and stratified society.

Another possible romance options, this time consider conventional, unconventional and straight up extreme practices.

Love and Romance: High-Tech, Low-Life Extremes

Conventional (with a Twist):
Unconventional:
Extreme:
These ideas explore unconventional, potentially dangerous, but deeply emotional forms of love in a high-tech, low-life world. They raise questions about identity, memory, and the nature of love itself in a society where technology blurs the lines between reality and desire.

Now another batch, but straight up absurd and bizarre.

Love and Romance Gone Wild: High-Tech, Low-Life Absurdity

Embrace the Weird:
Love Across Species (with a Twist):
The Power of Perception:
These bizarre and absurd ideas showcase the potential pitfalls of technology run amok in the realm of love and romance. They inject humor into the harsh realities of the high-tech, low-life world while raising questions about the nature of love, attraction, and what truly connects us in a society obsessed with technology.

Hypershocking!

I need more context to understand what you mean by "Hypershocking!". Do you mean one of the following?
Please let me know if any of these are what you were thinking of. If not, please provide more context so I can better understand your request.

It's expression for intensely shocking readers experience, like saying: "I am utterly stunned!"

Ah, I understand! "Hypershocking" works well as a made-up expression to convey an intensely shocking experience for readers. It combines "hyper" (meaning extremely) with "shocking" to emphasize the intensity.
Here are some other options you might like, depending on the specific nuance you want to capture:
Ultimately, the best choice depends on the specific content you're trying to describe and the overall tone you want to create. "Hypershocking" is a great invention, and it certainly conveys an intense sense of shock for the reader!

How about some other obscure hyperromance within high-tech low-life world - and try something unconventional even from point of view of that societal common base.

Obscure Hyper-Romance in a High-Tech, Low-Life World:

Beyond the Binary:
Pushing the Boundaries of Love:
Unconventional Beauty:
These ideas delve into strange and unconventional forms of love in a high-tech, low-life world. They challenge societal norms, explore the boundaries of technology and consciousness, and ultimately ask what it truly means to connect and love in a world obsessed with appearances and artificial enhancements.

Ok. Enough for love. Now lets focus on possible journeys and adventures within that world. Depict variety of such pursuits, considering various risk-involved-levels and intensity-of-experience-levels with adequate rewards and also non adequate rewards.

Journeys and Adventures in a High-Tech, Low-Life World:

Low-Risk, Low-Intensity (But Potentially Rewarding):
Medium-Risk, Medium-Intensity (With High Potential Rewards):
High-Risk, High-Intensity (With Uncertain Rewards):
Non-Adequate Rewards:
These adventures come with high risks but the "rewards" might be more like survival or a chance at a better life, not necessarily wealth or fame.
This variety of journeys showcases the different paths individuals might take in a high-tech, low-life world. Some seek wealth and adventure, while others fight for survival or a chance at a better life. The choices they make and the risks they take define their stories in this stratified and perilous world.
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2024.05.20 01:02 Double2k AIO about the shift in dynamics with my friend group?

I have had a solid trio of 2 really good friends for the past year now ever since I started grad school. We would talk everyday, everyone made equal contributions to the friendship (inviting each other to events, making plans, support through tough times, etc). I would be lying if I said this wasn't one of the most genuine friendships I had felt in a long time.
The shift in our friendship started when I left town for spring break back in March to visit a friend. I knew they would be hanging out while I was gone, but what I didn't expect is that they seemed to become significantly closer friends within that week. Things remained very similar for a while until a large shift occured when M28's car broke down. M28 became reliant on the 2 of us for transportation, primarily to work, for about 2 weeks. I was more than willing to help him because that's what friends do, and I live less than 2 minutes away from him and we both work in the same office. However, after about 2-3 days he began refusing my offer's and/or seeking out F25 for rides instead, despite them living 10+ minutes away and out of the way from their work. I later discovered that the only reason he would ask me for a ride after that instance is if F25 was unable to. Even when we were already out with the 3 of us, and it was time to go home, M28 would have F25 drive him home, even though it would add 20 minutes to F25's trip, and me 2 minutes. I asked him about it, and he told me I was over thinking everything, and I let it go. I realize that this sounds very insecure, but I am trying not to leave anything out, and I think a lot of people would be confused by this behavior.
The second instance of things that has happened is I noticed that he has begun paying for F25's outings more and more often, and I actually asked him if they had began dating because of this, paired with the weird carsharing dynamic. I feel like now is a good point to mention I am not interested in F25, and this isn't a two guys going after one girl situation, this is me trying to figure out why the dynamic of our friendship is shifting so much. M28 told me no they were not dating and he was just doing it to be friendly. I remained quiet but I didn't necessarily buy it, after all, he didn't offer to pay for my food. We all went out for dinner one night after work and M28 tried paying for F25's dinner, but F25 interjected, paid for all of us, and M28 got really upset about it. M28 leaned over to me and said "Now we look like a bunch of freeloaders". I'm not sure why but this really struck a nerve with me, I called him out and said "we all pay for each other from time to time, why are you making a big deal out of this?" He said she shouldn't have to and I said it's her decision. A less intense but similar situation occurred the following week. We had a movie night planned at M28's place and I was buying dinner. M28 let me pay, however he got really upset about it later and basically forced me to take his money to pay for part of the meal.
The last pair of instances took place over the past 2 weeks. I recently had a family death and for the first time in our friendship, I feel as if they were not there for me in the slightest. When M28 was dealing with some life altering decisions/emotion struggle, I dropped everything I could, spent time with him, and helped him process everything. F25 did the same for him, and the two of us have done the same for her. I recently lost a very close family member of mine (F16) to suicide, and I had to leave town for the weekend for her funeral. F25 reached out to me once offering to take care of my apartment while I was away, I told her thank you but I don't have a key to give her since I am already out of town. When I tried to reach out to M28, he pushed me away, and basically said I should spend time talking to my family, not him. This hurt me. When I got back into town, neither of them reached out to me for the entire week. I sat alone in my office for a week while the two of them were studying/working from home. I later found out from a close friend that they were hanging out together, and didn't tell me. In pairing with that, I saw them for the first time yesterday since getting back into town. When saying that we should do something together again, they seemed enthusiastic about it, but gave me reason after reason why they can't.
I want it to be clear that even though this is an assumption, if they are dating I am incredibly happy for them and think they should date, as the two of them are great for each other.
If they are dating, I am less upset about the whole situation as they are justified to spend quality time together if that is the case, and they are not obligated to invite me somewhere every time they are together. However, this would also mean that they have actively been lying to me, and making me feel bad for noticing everything that has been going on.
However, if they aren't dating and are really just friends, then why do I feel like they are slowly cutting me out of their lives?
Am I overreacting for feeling this way? I have developed such a close friendship with these two over the past year and I don't want to throw it down the drain. I also don't want to sacrifice my own mental health based off of my perception of my friend's behavior towards me. I am talking with my therapist back home next week so I will be discussing everything I have mentioned here with them.
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2024.05.20 01:01 HereTooUpvote Off leash dog - CPD Response

So I figured I would make a post about this since I've seen this topic come up a lot lately.
We were at the park with our dog on leash. There was a person playing fetch with their off leash dog on the other side of the park. We had no interaction.
A few minutes later, a CPD car pulls up and two uniform officers go up and talk to the guy. He immediately offers to leave. The cops said something that stuck out to me. "We get a call about an off leash dog in this park every day... Every day!"
After the other dog owner left, We chatted with the officers for a little big and commiserated about off leash dogs. As they both also had dogs.
  1. CPD does respond to 911 calls about off leash dogs.
  2. Calling works.
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2024.05.20 01:01 AutoModerator Weekly Copyright Reminder

This is a weekly reminder post of this sub's stance on potential copyright infringement. This is a serious issue that needs to be kept in mind when creating and listing NFTs.
Original post by u/HurleyBird1
Quick disclaimer: I AM NOT A LAWYER. THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE - THIS IS SIMPLY INFORMATION WITH WHICH TO EDUCATE YOURSELVES AND PREPARE YOURSELF FOR LEGAL ADVICE FROM A LICENSED SOURCE.
Now that that's out of the way. My credentials are: MBA, with a bit of business law classes under my belt.
I want to give a quick explanation of how copyright works - and I'll do so through quick blurbs n some myth/reality bullets.
Source: copyright.gov (US)
  1. Subject matter of copyright: In general28(a) Copyright protection subsists, in accordance with this title, in original works of authorship fixed in any tangible medium of expression, now known or later developed, from which they can be perceived, reproduced, or otherwise communicated, either directly or with the aid of a machine or device. Works of authorship include the following categories:(1) literary works;(2) musical works, including any accompanying words;(3) dramatic works, including any accompanying music;(4) pantomimes and choreographic works;(5) pictorial, graphic, and sculptural works;(6) motion pictures and other audiovisual works;(7) sound recordings; and(8) architectural works.(b) In no case does copyright protection for an original work of authorship extend to any idea, procedure, process, system, method of operation, concept, principle, or discovery, regardless of the form in which it is described, explained, illustrated, or embodied in such work.
- Myth: I can use any image/song/video/writing I want.
- Reality: No. Not true at all.
- Myth: Well they never said it's copyrighted.
- Reality: Upon publication (and even while a work in progress) a work is automatically protected via copyright under US Law.
- Myth: Well they never sold it.
- Reality: It doesn't have to be commercialized to be protected.
- Myth: Well it was a long time ago
- Reality: Possibly true...as long as the creator is deceased (or if multiple creators, the last living one is deceased) and the required time has passed...although this gets tricky with "estates."
(d) Duration of Rights.—(1) With respect to works of visual art created on or after the effective date set forth in section 610(a) of the Visual Artists Rights Act of 1990, the rights conferred by subsection (a) shall endure for a term consisting of the life of the author.
So what's this thing I hear called "Fair Use?"
Straight from the source:
  1. Limitations on exclusive rights: Fair use41Notwithstanding the provisions of sections 106 and 106A, the fair use of a copyrighted work, including such use by reproduction in copies or phonorecords or by any other means specified by that section, for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching (including multiple copies for classroom use), scholarship, or research, is not an infringement of copyright. In determining whether the use made of a work in any particular case is a fair use the factors to be considered shall include—(1) the purpose and character of the use, including whether such use is of a commercial nature or is for nonprofit educational purposes;(2) the nature of the copyrighted work;(3) the amount and substantiality of the portion used in relation to the copyrighted work as a whole; and(4) the effect of the use upon the potential market for or value of the copyrighted work.The fact that a work is unpublished shall not itself bar a finding of fair use if such finding is made upon consideration of all the above factors.
Uhh...help me translate that please... (here's a decent official translation: https://www.copyright.gov/fair-use/more-info.html)
  1. above...if it's non-profit educational use, you're usually good to go...if it's for money or trade (commercial nature) then you're usually NOT...unless YOUR piece is "transformative"
Transformative uses are those that add something new, with a further purpose or different character, and do not substitute for the original use of the work.
- Myth: Well this is paid for in Algos, not USD so it's not "commercial"
- Reality: IT IS commercial. You could even barter for bacon and it'd be commercial. It's an exchange of one good/service for another good/service.
- Myth: My piece with Batman inside a card is "transformative"
- Reality: No, unfortunately, more-than-likely the courts would say it's not. A good litmus test is..."If Warner Bros Entertainment (owner of Batman) wanted to make an NFT/ASA "Batman card" would yours compete with it or be possibly mistaken (by a reasonable person - so in America think 8th grade education) for real merchandise? Probably...thus it's not transformative enough.
"nature" gets a little tougher. This looks at protecting the "creative process." Thus, using other works of art is less-likely to be protected than using factual sources - like historical photographs since it's easier to "create art" and thus "transform" factual pieces than other art pieces. This is also talking to things like "parody." Satire is NOT protected. "Parody" is. What's the difference? LegalZoomputs it well: While a parody targets and mimics the original work to make a point, a satire uses the original work to criticize something else entirely. Another way to look at it is that satire uses another work as a way to comment on something happening in the world that has nothing to do with the original work.
- Myth: I added a different border, extra planets, and some blur effect to MTZ's World of Light - it's a new piece of art.
- Reality: Not likely the courts will see it that way.
- Myth: This guy added a filter, some burn effects, and collaged a bunch of newspaper headlines together - isn't that a violation!
- Reality: Probably not...the courts would probably see this as a creation of art out of factual sources.
amount/substantiality in relation to the whole...this is where using clips of songs that are only like 5 seconds long works! But using more than that...runs into problems. This is tough to decipher too...as some songs are EASILY identifiable from just 5 seconds (Ice, ice, baby) - and thus NOT fair use. But some aren't. Usually you're safe using a very small clip of a song or video - especially if you're adding more to it. But this is a dangerous game to play - and there's places to get free audio (some sources below)
effect of the use - this is probably the biggest one. Courts will look at simply...does YOUR work affect the sales or potential for sales of the copyright owner. Of note...this is looked at at the time of the issue being brought to the court, not at the time of sale. For example, let's say my batman card sells for 10 Algos today, but Algorand BLOWS UP and soon every NFT is on Algorand. And now my OG Batman NFT is seen as one of the first Batman ones and official. Warner Bros gonna sue the shit outta whoever owns it at the time they sue to get the rights to all sales of that NFT. So that person is left holding an empty bag when Warner Bros wins in court.
- Myth: Well they're not commercializing it NOW so I'm safe.
- Reality: Technically, yea Warner Bros probably won't spend the money to go after the OG artist and the hands the asset passed through...HOWEVER, they may. That's their right. Who knows - the Napster days showed us the lengths companies will go to. EVEN BIGGER HOWEVER, the last person holding it when Warner Bros DOES decide to go after that Batman NFT...uh oh for them - they just lost their asset.
- Myth: Well it's been like a year, and no one has brought up copyright. So I'm good.
- Reality: If this was in a normal market...maybe this argument would work. If McDonald's let you sell a Ronald McDonald poster for like a year on Amazon with no issues, some court may say "bro, you took too long to bring this to us." HOWEVER, with cryptocurrency being so new (and Algorand being so little known/discussed), most courts would see it as "reasonable" that a copyright owner failed to exercise their rights within a year - possibly even a decade. (Updated because I realized last example dealt with trademark not copyright :o)
So what am I safe to use?
US Government works (mostly)...any deemed free to use by creator...and any a copyright lawyer says they have your backs on (cuz now they're liable).
Here's some great sources for free use items (please add to this list below if you know of some!!!):
Pictures: https://buffer.com/library/free-images/ (Unsplash is one of my faves)
Music: https://www.wix.com/blog/photography/2019/11/27/free-music-for-videos/
Video: https://blog.hootsuite.com/free-stock-videos-sites/
You'll notice there's a lot of "shoulds" "coulds" "probably" etc. This is because copyright cases are all unique and go to the courts. The best bet is to go with stuff you KNOW is free and fair-use. If not, I'd look up copyright law, consult supreme court cases concerning copyright, and ultimately, talk to a lawyer.
AGAIN: I AM NOT A LAWYER. I AM NOT PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. I AM SIMPLY PROVIDING INFORMATION. THERE MAY BE ERRORS ABOVE THAT COULD CAUSE SUBSTANTIAL DAMAGES - CONSULT A COPYRIGHT ATTORNEY IF YOU WISH TO RECEIVE LEGAL ADVICE.
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2024.05.20 01:01 OddlyMid My (49M) brilliant but ASD/PTSD ex (47F) is now totally fine and happy and I think I’m traumatized

I apologize for the sheer wall of text but maybe this will be good cathartic Sunday reading? It helps a lot to write it out. I am a 49M widower, three years out of losing my wife (48F), father of three adult kids. Last year I felt I was ready to find love again, and joined a dating app. Very quickly I matched with Lexi (47F, not her real name) and was smitten right away.
I am in the tech and startup space in my city and she had just moved from the opposite coast with a tech background and two exits. In fact, she swiped on me because we had just connected by email two weeks earlier because she was looking to join the startup scene in her new home.
She was so accomplished and warm and smart. She was into Buddhism and spoke much of the language of my childhood in terms of peace and joy. We had so much in common. We quickly talked about cofounding a startup, I loved her own dreams for the future, she was supportive of mine. We were honest and vulnerable and despite feeling utterly naive and awkward it felt great.
It was also complicated. She had been married twice before, the most recent physically abusive and prompting her cross-country escape with her two sons. She was self-aware enough to know she was dealing with the trauma and I was wholeheartedly supportive. Practical things like helping her finish all the paperwork for her divorce or keeping a distance so as not to upset her kids made sense.
But over time and sometimes with great pain we would run into triggers and need to break and reset. Our attempts to do something together were too hard because she would fear losing control—which made sense. She was terrified of not having support in a new city and I made sure to be available to her as much as possible—down to reserving certain hours every day to be with her. She asked me to move into her building, then panicked because her sons might see me, so I moved into the building next door.
I loved her so much and wanted to do everything to keep her happy or at least feeling safe. Maybe my years as a caretaker to my late wife conditioned me in this way. But Lexi and I knew we both were in complex places in our lives and tried hard to navigate things. She read about dating a widower, I read about PTSD and ASD—something she felt explained a lot going back to childhood, from sensory sensitivity to difficulty reading nuance in social situations. As an awkward guy myself, I was empathetic.
We co-developed a shared document that basically helped us avoid landmines. When our daily time together would be. Where to park so she wouldn’t notice if I wasn’t home. Boundaries to protect her kids—which did feel like we were sneaking around and would fill her with guilt. She loved to cook and had specific dietary preferences and I adopted the same diet (and still stick to it, mostly, because it did improve my health). She said she felt safer the more of my face she could see, so I changed my glasses and shaved my facial hair. She was afraid of getting pregnant so I got my long-planned vasectomy.
And this all sound crazy, but I was happy to do it, and she seemed to be trying hard, too. She adopted ASD coping strategies, we put reminders around our respective homes, she even put my photo on her wall as part of a ranked list of priorities… though I think I came after her boys and her dogs. (I’m a cat person but loved her dogs, dogsat her dogs, and the regular walks were a main way we spent time together, even when things were rocky.) More articles and books, personality tests, studying results to find paths forward. She had a science background so did find some comfort in analyzing us.
The biggest trigger was that I would sometimes travel out of town. I work remotely so it wasn’t hard to just stay put. But before we met I’d planned to go to a big concert in LA with my daughter, and couldn’t not go. That one weekend trip was the biggest hurdle we faced. I even paid for therapy for her and kept my promise to keep in constant touch—but it caused a two-week break, and a lot of anguish thereafter. She felt abandoned even as I showed in every way that I was committed. A couple of times she had panic attacks and curled into a ball while we were out and about. Once she ran from me, genuinely afraid of me, when I had gotten frustrated and made a sarcastic remark.
Because of her past abuse, the physical side of our relationship was also tricky. There were rules here, too, but as a middle-age effective virgin, I was still into it. I’d only had one serious partner in my life, so everything was new and amazing… but for it to also be a hot-cold-voracious-guilt rollercoaster was… confusing. A few times I would be strong enough to say, “If this is too hard, we could just be friends.” But THAT was, as you might imagine, another huge threat to her sense of safety.
Until she concluded the same. We pledged—via email, because by then even text messages were too intense for her—to be good, single friends. Walks, hikes, movies. Love you always. Then no contact for four months. She mailed my keys back to me.
Of course, I still lived next door, and ran into her maybe four times during that span. She seemed stricken a couple of times, and would not speak, not really look up, and twice crossed the street to avoid me. Her dogs were happy to see me, which made it especially awkward. I tell you, I felt like the worst person on earth, a man who failed to be a good partner and caretaker when I thought that was a strength. I was worried that I made her PTSD worse, that she was a wreck…
Until three weeks ago, our anniversary. She said she was sorry for causing me pain and wanted to be friends. I could have fainted dead. We met up for lunch.
She was glowing. She was so happy. Her sons were now both adults and she decided they were going to be just fine, and feeling liberated. She wasn’t ASD, it was just PTSD. She had started a graduate program to become a therapist (something we discussed), happy to both be able to tap her experiences to help others and to have the chance to practice with herself and classmates. She turned her love of cooking into selling her stuff at a local market (something we discussed). gave up her diet because it made it hard to date. And she’d been dating. And had a boyfriend who was taking her out of town for a week. I immediately saw the brilliant woman I first met, and was frankly gutted. I was happy she was happy, I was crushed that she got where she is AFTER me, not WITH me.
My friends tell me she was genuinely troubled and that PTSD doesn’t just vanish in a few months. That she was wearing a mask with me, and that this new boyfriend—with whom she also has amazing commonalities—is getting the same “mimic” behavior. That, if anything, her wanting to reconnect means she’s looking to assuage guilt or regain a part of her still critical support system. That I turned myself inside out for her, and the most important question to ask myself is whether I should be as open to being friends as I am. They're afraid she might want to get back together eventually because I was so accommodating—and they might be right.
I made a lot of changes in my life for her, many positive, many that still persist. I feel like it would be a waste to go through what we did and NOT be friends. But I definitely went through the wringer and I feel like I’m now the one recovering from trauma. I believe in therapy and am going to work on this. But I’d value an objective take.
TDLR; First relationship as a widower was to an amazing but complex woman was very fraught and fell apart. After no contact for four months she asked to meet up, and she was glowing and normal and I’m shook. Was it bad timing and I missed my chance, or is she maybe not really okay? And can we still be friends?
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2024.05.20 01:00 iYrae How are you transfering your prints to the printer...?

...when there's no denying, that internet functionality (WLAN, LAN, USB -> Workstation/Computer) of a device like this can functionally be a huge data-security risk.
The scandal around Bambu Labs and their data collection of things like private information (name, adresse, IP) aswell as, perhaps sensitive, prototypes, shows how it's done easily; connect your printer to the internet and let harm be done.
This obviously leaves the question: Is this perhaps the standard?
I have watched quite a bunch of 3D-Printer reviews before deciding on buying a Neptune 4 Plus, and data security was never even mentioned.
In all honesty, I can understand that the normal consumer doesn't care about privacy and sensitive data, when they don't have sensitive data.
Personally, I have a huge problem with this, since I do sometimes design stuff that is experimental and new, stuff I don't want anyone to get their hands on (in the worst case).
Furthermore, I don't have the expertise to judge the opportunities of a malware-infested Wifi/LAN connected Standalone-Device, so I just want to stay as safe a possible.
Now, I'm setting my printer up without connection to the internet.
I might use Open Nept4une.
Currently, I'm researching on ways to implement a one-way communication system between my hostcomputer and the printer. Perhaps I will use a designated router for a direct connection, where I'd block any ports that aren't required for the printer to receive data.
After all, this might be a way to enable restricted communication between these two devices. This would safely enable me to access the printers remote-features via my hostcomputers browser. But I don't really expect this to work.
What do you guys think?
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