Hello!
So, I'm in that awkward stage of growing out a fade where everything kind of looks terrible. I very tempted to just... cut everything down and let it grow out with even length.
My hang up is: I'm a live action role-player, and have big plans for the type of hairstyle I'd want for a character I'm super excited to play. The game is in September and it'd require me to have smth to braid.
Question is: as someone who has zero experience with wigs and styling wigs, would it be possible to french braid/dutch braid a wig? Are there good wigs with kinky curly hair (my own hair type), and can you buy them from Europe? My country does not have stores with wigs like that, online or offline, so I'm prepared to order online.
Sorry if these questions are stupid, I'm as ignorant as it comes when it comes to hair and especially wigs.

Whenever I'm able to wake up later for work I would have time to do my hair and make up. Once I did my hair like Sailor Moon except I braided up my hair and pinned it. My coworker said it looked like a rose. It was interesting because I actually did want to do a rose hairstyle I saw from a Japanese magazine. Usually I get a lot of inspiration from Asian culture. It's nice to be able to do more things from my own culture. Also kinda random I finally decided to learn how to drive. I'm kinda scared but it's time.

I feel like no matter what I do or how often I cut my hair, it still becomes tangled and knots on itself. My hair has been stuck at bra strap length for so long and I'm trying to find ways to maintain my hair and not manipulate it. Every time I detangle it takes forever whereas I see everyone else being able to detangle within 30 mins.
Here is my regimen: - Wash my hair every 1-2 weeks, always detangling it and doing an oil treatment before washing it.

• After washing, my hair takes forever to dry so I blow dry it using the cold setting. To moisturize, I use a hydrating leave in and to avoid having it revert, I leave my hair in twists.
  
• Because my hair reacts poorly to heavy products, I remoisturize my hair after a few days (with a light oil mixed in) so my hair isnt dry throughout the week.
  
• I sleep with a silk bonnet every night.
  
• I take out my twists every morning for work and style; at the end of the day I put them back.
  
• I would leave my twists in for work, but it is so difficult to part my hair neatly because of these SSNs. It is time consuming.
  

I have tried experimenting with braids (no extensions), and it seems to be working better than the twists, so I am going to be working with them more.
I have also incorporated chebe powder to see if this helps. I am willing to try new hair treatments, but I cant do much without it being too time consuming. I've heard detangling with flaxseed gel helps and promotes growth so I will also be trying it out.
Can someone recommend me any tips for maintaining fine, medium-high density, natural hair? Am I missing something? Can someone recommend me some low maintenance hairstyles

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I don't say G1 designs are bad, they are/were iconic obviously, however, imo some of the redesigns are way better than the original. Take for example Venus Mcflytrap. G3 looks more colorful and like she has some more personality showing through her style and her hair is awesome, since she has twists/braids, instead of straight hair in a hairstyle.
I feel like with G3, they implemented or are trying to implement some differences between the characters fashion, that I didn't really see in G1 tbh. Not just the color options, but rather the whole style. Lagoona is more sporty, Cleo is more of a diva (which is shown through her color choices and accessories), Abbey is more cozy/maybe y2k? (Bc of the flared low waist pants), Toralei is more of a cool/bad girl type now. Not saying that they didn't do that in G1, it's just more visible now.

39F, 5 kids, weak hands from car accident during youth, hair length is about 7in above my pants. I've put my hair up and I'm bun everyday for the last 18 years since having my first kid. Because of the car accident something simple as straightening my hair is no longer simple. I used to be able to straighten my hair and go two or three days before the humidity really got to my hair, now if I breathe while straightening my hair it looks a mess. The amount of product to put in my hair to keep it under control if I wear it curly is a hassle It's expensive it's hot and I just end up sticky from all the hair product. I guess you could say I have a sensitive head when I put my hair in a ponytail bun anything it just feels so tight and so much pulling and I get bumps on my hairline from where it's tugging. I've tried different hair ties, clips ECT. I love French braids I suck at French braiding and it's hard for me to do because of the length of my hair and I really just can't seem to figure it out ugh! I have healthy hair because it's always put up and protected from being in a bun. I can't stand putting tons of little rubber bands in my hair for some of the hairstyles I see but I'm really desperate for hairstyles that will allow me to wear my hair up comfortably or find what products I should use to have more control if I straighten it and less products to be able to wear it curly if I want to. I'm just so out of touchat this point.

I just have these weird memories of when I was really young I’d beg my n-mom to let me help her bake/cool but she’d either say no or “next time” I remember helping her once, and that was it. I now realize that she was trying to keep me out of the kitchen intentionally. It was her playroom where she had control, and me being part of it threatened her safe space.
When I was 12, I got tired of trying to reach out and bond over making food so I started going to these cooking classes my local library would host and started practicing whenever I had free time. When is bake something and it was well received by the family, the next day she would make something similar and either move my dish elsewhere, leave it out on the counter to spoil, or throw it away. She also felt inclined to rub it in my face too.
This also extended to how I did my hair. I learned to braid my own hair and style wigs and the next day, she would have a similar hairstyle. Or she would demand I do it for her.
Did anyone ever have a competitive narc mom who felt inclined to compete with her own daughter? Or am I tripping? Lol

"From the embers of adversity, we rise as an unstoppable force, igniting the world with our power."

History in the Jujutsu World

The Bakuhatsu Clan, whose name translates to "Explosion Clan," is one of the lesser-known yet highly respected families in the Jujutsu world. Their lineage dates back several centuries, with their origins fairly unknown. Legend has it that the clan's founder, Bakuhatsu no Kaito, was a rogue sorcerer who discovered the art of manipulating explosive forces through rigorous experimentation with cursed energy.
Initially, the Bakuhatsu Clan was ostracized by mainstream Jujutsu society due to the inherently destructive nature of their techniques. However, over time, their incredible prowess in battle and their ability to turn the tide of combat situations earned them a grudging respect. Their explosive techniques proved invaluable during numerous conflicts with powerful curses and rival sorcerer factions.

Culture and Traditions

The Bakuhatsu Clan's culture is deeply intertwined with the concept of controlled destruction. From a young age, clan members are taught the importance of discipline and restraint, as their abilities can easily cause collateral damage if not properly managed. This has led to a culture of intense training and rigorous self-control.

1. Rite of the First Cut: At the age of 10, every clan member undergoes the Rite of the First Cut. This ritual involves creating their first controlled explosive wound, symbolizing their commitment to harnessing their explosive power. It is a sacred ceremony that marks the transition from childhood to becoming a novice sorcerer.
2. Explosion Festivals: To celebrate their heritage, the Bakuhatsu Clan holds annual Explosion Festivals, where members demonstrate their control over Explosive Cursed Energy through a series of competitive events and exhibitions. These festivals serve to strengthen clan bonds and showcase their abilities to the wider Jujutsu society.
3. Meditation and Control: Given the destructive potential of their abilities, the Bakuhatsu Clan places great emphasis on meditation and mental discipline. Daily meditation practices are a cornerstone of their training, helping members maintain focus and prevent accidental detonations.

Hierarchy and Structure

The Bakuhatsu Clan operates under a strict hierarchical system, with the clan head, known as the Bakuhatsu no Oyabun, at the top. The Oyabun is responsible for overseeing all clan activities, making strategic decisions, and representing the clan in the Jujutsu world. Below the Oyabun are the Elders, experienced sorcerers who provide guidance and training to younger members.
Young sorcerers, known as Apprentices, undergo rigorous training under the supervision of senior clan members. Upon demonstrating sufficient control and skill, apprentices are promoted to Explosivists, full-fledged members of the clan who can take on missions and represent the clan in battles.

Key Figures

1. Bakuhatsu no Kaito: The legendary founder of the clan, Kaito's innovative techniques laid the foundation for the clan's explosive abilities. His legacy is honored and remembered in clan lore and rituals.
2. Bakuhatsu no Akira: The current Oyabun, Akira is known for his unparalleled mastery of Explosive Cursed Energy. He is a stern yet fair leader, dedicated to advancing the clan's reputation and ensuring the safety of its members.
3. Bakuhatsu no Hana: A rising star among the clan's younger generation, Hana has shown exceptional talent and control over her abilities. She represents the future of the Bakuhatsu Clan and is being groomed for leadership.

Relations with Other Clans

Despite their initially rocky relationship with the broader Jujutsu society, the Bakuhatsu Clan has established alliances with several other clans. They are particularly respected for their combat support roles, where their explosive abilities can turn the tide of battle. However, their power also makes them a target for rival clans and curses, necessitating constant vigilance.

Physical Traits

1. Eyes of the Inferno: Members of the Bakuhatsu Clan often possess eyes with irises that seem to flicker like embers or glow with an inner light, especially when they are harnessing their Explosive Cursed Energy. This unique trait, known as "Eyes of the Inferno," is a telltale sign of their lineage.
2. Athletic Build: Due to the rigorous physical training they undergo from a young age, most clan members have a lean and athletic build. Their training emphasizes both strength and agility, resulting in a physique that combines power with speed.
3. Battle Scars: Given the nature of their abilities, it's not uncommon for Bakuhatsu Clan members to bear scars from their training and battles. These scars are often seen as marks of honor and experience, showcasing their journey and mastery over their explosive powers.

Attire and Style

1. Traditional Robes: The Bakuhatsu Clan's formal attire consists of traditional robes that incorporate elements of both historical Japanese and practical modern designs. These robes are often in deep shades of red, black, and gold, symbolizing fire, power, and resilience. Intricate patterns resembling flames or explosions are woven into the fabric.
2. Protective Gear: In combat situations, clan members wear specialized protective gear that balances mobility with defense. This gear includes reinforced gauntlets, bracers, and chest armor designed to withstand the shockwaves and heat generated by their explosive techniques. The armor is crafted from lightweight, heat-resistant materials to ensure maximum protection without hindering movement.
3. Hair Styles: Hairstyles among the Bakuhatsu Clan are diverse, but many members prefer practical styles that keep hair out of the way during combat. Common choices include short cuts, topknots, and braids. Some members also incorporate accessories like hairpins or bands with clan insignia or flame motifs.
4. Clan Insignia: The clan insignia, a stylized explosion or a flaming star, is prominently displayed on their attire and accessories. It serves as a symbol of their heritage and a warning to others of their formidable abilities.
5. Tattoos and Body Art: Many clan members choose to adorn their bodies with tattoos and body art that depict flames, explosions, and other symbols of their power. These tattoos are often seen as a rite of passage and are applied during significant milestones in their training and career as sorcerers.

Personal Items

1. Explosive Orbs: Many members carry small orbs filled with condensed explosive energy as both a weapon and a tool for training. These orbs are used to practice control and precision in their explosive techniques.
2. Meditation Beads: Given the emphasis on meditation and mental discipline, clan members often carry beads made from volcanic rock or other materials associated with fire and heat. These beads are used during meditation sessions to focus their minds and channel their energy.
3. Flame Amulets: As a symbol of protection and power, many Bakuhatsu Clan members wear amulets shaped like flames or explosions. These amulets are believed to enhance their connection to their explosive abilities and provide a sense of grounding and focus.

Detonation Wound
Explosive Cursed Energy

Hi,
I am a boy but I think I more find answer on this subreddit. I have collarbone/lob hair length and I search new hair tie and hair styles to try. Just for the moment I do a ponytail or I put a hair clip.
What new hairstyles can I try ? I don't know if I have sufficient hair length to make bun or braids.
And at the hairdresser, can I ask to have a brushing ? (it is not in the male price often)
Finally what products, shampoo or haircare routine would you advise me ?

Salam Alakum, I don't usually use Reddit, but I just wanted to make this post to see if I am not alone on this topic. I am a Shia Muslim female, almost 18, and my mom has sabotaged every attempt I've made to ever think that I was beautiful. My mom has never taken me to the salon, except when I was about 4 years old, and never again since. She has made me feel self-conscious about my hair, and literally berated me about how it "didn't look like other girls' straight hair." It didn't help that, in my earlier days before I wore the hijab, teachers would make fun of me, saying "why is your hair unkempt?" In reality, I just had frizzy, curly hair, and apparently, a single braid doesn't seem suitable for that type of hair, as my mother sent me to school like that multiple times in my early days.
But back to the point, these days I see girls, especially black girls, always going to the salon and getting their hair done, nails done, eyelashes done, and whatever else done. Meanwhile, when I come home from school and take off my hijab, my hair looks like I just got electrocuted. Whenever I mentioned to my mom that I wanted to go to the salon to feel good about myself, she always brushed off the idea with some excuse. After many years of living with untended frizzy curly hair, I developed body dysmorphia. I began to think that my face was the problem, and this persisted throughout my youth.
Eventually, I learned to accept my hair, but that never cured the body dysmorphia that had seeped into me. I began to analyze my face and notice all the flaws. I thought that I was ugly. I eventually took scissors and cut my hair to see if that would fix the problem, but it never did. I looked at my face and still saw an orc. What had been a blurry image of me turned into a clear vision of how ugly I thought I was. I looked in the mirror and seemed fine on some days, but on other days, when I took a selfie, I saw the flaws that I always despised in my face.
I started to believe that I was hideous, and my brain eventually began to complain about how hard it was being ugly. I noticed how pretty girls got treated better and how I was treated compared to them. I even thought about how nobody would want me in the future and started to believe it was true. I even wished that I was never born, thinking that maybe in another life, I could have been beautiful.
But towards the end of my teen years, I stopped caring. I began to develop a deep hatred for my family. All those years of being self-conscious about my looks could have been easily fixed by simply having a self-care day and enjoying a mother-daughter salon time, maybe getting our nails done. She never even let me buy my own clothes. The sheer reluctance to ever acknowledge me as beautiful or do something as simple as taking care of my hair could have saved me years of deep depression.
I have seen this among other Arabs too. It seems as if the only time they put on makeup and go to the salon is for their weddings. I have even seen other girls' hair, and it was almost the same as mine. So, I do not understand—do my family not value the importance of being confident in one's looks? Was it a way to deflate my ego?
P.S. I know some will say that I could go to the salon alone now and that I can get my own job, but after all the body dysmorphia and depression I’ve experienced, I am too afraid now. Also, it won't do much for me because, mind you, I still think that I am ugly. But maybe a hairstyle that covers most of my face would help. Since I wear the hijab, treating my face dysmorphia might require other solutions. Also there was one time where my grandma also said "yeah take her to the salon" after I asked my mom again. But then my mom said, "why so she can take off her hijab?" Disgusting.
Edit: I realize some of you think it's the hair problem and giving me advice on how to take care of my hair. And I appreciate that. Although I think I didn't mention is that once I got shorter hair, I learned to silk press to which eventually got me the hair look I wanted. The problem at hand is, were my family at wrong for not helping boost my self-esteem young, and never even took the chance to help it? I dont recall once that she ever mentioning that I looked good, which also hurted my self-esteem through the years. Like that could have saved me years of insecurity. Also, I have mentioned times where my mom tried my deflate my self-esteem, in which I think should not happen to any girl. Also, self-care could be as simple as exercising, in which my mom never encouraged or helped me with but I learned to actually come and love. It's these simple stuff that they seemed to not care about, to which comes a long way to earning me self-esteem. I'm interested to know your thoughts, thank you.

Hi, I don’t post often so please have patience. I have hip length curly hair (3b-3c) and because it’s impossible to gather it all up in one spot I keep it split down the middle and alternate between low and high braids and buns. When I leave it out it causes a lot of shedding compared to when I braid or twist it up. The signs have been there for a while but I have hair thinning all along my middle part and on my hairline (mostly in the middle). It’s in the early stages and it looks like it’s reversible. I was looking for hairstyles to give a break to my hairline and middle part but it’s either on a person with straight hair or it’s literally a slick back. I can’t have pieces hanging by my face for work and general mobility. I was wondering if anyone had any tips or hairstyles I could use to give my scalp a break and bring those areas towards recovery. I apologize for improper grammar, thanks for reading.

By no means am I good with my natural hair . There was one school year where for 2 months I was severely bullied about it , I already found my hair hard to handle because Its 4c and I’m just really tender headed. This is not a self hate problem I love black hair I just don’t like the pain I get from how heavy and tangled it gets barely even having neck length hair . I’m sure I can get good at my natural hair if I wanted but I feel like it would be a waste with me most likely getting a pixie cut soon . On the other hand most of my other friends are natural hair girls thru and thru but it seems like because of it that they’re really unopen to me talking about hair . I want to try learning quick weaves and I’m really good at wigs . But when I talk about any style I want to learn they always tell me it will look bad or they can’t see it on me ? I like full hair . Where I live it’s hot all the time as an athlete I really don’t want to deal with a full head of full braids for more then my season because of it’s heaviness. Is this weird or should I just get over it ? I think some of my friends feel like I don’t like my natural hair but with different hair types they’ve never had my problems . Some of my other friends do have 4c hair but there hair is a lot less dense then my hair . None of my friends are tender headed either . I feel left out and frustrated sometimes because of all this . When it comes to anything other the natural hair and braids they come to me and till this day I’ve never been wrong on what to get or what to do to fix their hair in 2 years. So I don’t understand why it seems so hard for them to believe I can learn more than a wig or do more . It almost feels like I’m being looked down on .

I wanted to show some love to a mod I've recently discovered that has greatly improved my enjoyment of the game! I've been using All of the Braids (+ Extended Cut) and I feel like it breathes new life into my character. I'm usually a Vanilla + type when it comes to look so the anime style character overhauls aren't my thing. This mod adds lovely, Nordic hairstyles that are just enough! It's even inspired me to pull out my cosplay wigs and start playing with some new styles. Thanks for being awesome!
All of the Braids
https://creations.bethesda.net/fskyrim/details/14e830a7-c4d5-4070-96dd-6e9b11ff0a27/All_of_the_Braids_
All of the Braids : Extended Cut:
https://creations.bethesda.net/en/skyrim/details/5beec326-7c69-471e-9e26-8bfa27c00abe/All_Of_The_Braids__Extended_Cut_