Mga halimbawa ng di pormal na sanaysay

alam ko naman na first time lang din maging magulang ng mga parents ko pero how i wish na sana naging responsable sila… naiinggit ako sa mga batchmates and other friends ko na kahit graduate na may support pa rin na nakukuha from their parents, or if di man ganun kayaman parents ng friend ko, nakikita ko na nagsikap talaga sila, kanina lang kausap ko yung childhood friend ko, paalis na sila papuntang dubai kasi nag sikap yung mama niya to provide a better life for them. hindi ko maiwasan mag compare, yung nanay ko 10 years na yatang unemployed, kesyo matanda na raw siya wala na raw tatanggap sa kanya, since 2013 ganyan na bukambibig niya hanggang sa kinatandaan niya na talaga, pero sa totoo lang mid 40’s pa lang siya, yung tatay ko ang laki laki ng sinasahod before pero ni isa walang naipundar, walang kaming sariling bahay, wala naman siyang ginastos sa pampaaral sa akin mula high school - college, tita ko lahat gumastos pati baon, yung tinitiran namin tita ko rin nagbabayad.
eto ako ngayon, hirap na hirap, wala ring motivation na mag sikap, naiinis ako kasi kailangan ko gawin lahat nang mag isa. wala akong maasahan kundi sarili ko lang, pagod na ako. gusto ko mag abroad pero wala akong pera, hindi ko alam kung papano. ptngna pagod na ako.
umalis ako sa puder ng tita ko kasi nasasakal na ako, wala pang limang libo sweldo ko sa isang buwan dahil nga sila nagpaaral sakin.
broken family kami, di maganda relationship ko w/ my parents, i was physically, mentally, and emotionally abused. pero gayun pa man hindi ko sila kayang talikuran, kasi nga palagi kong naiisip na first time lang din naman nilang mabuhay, gusto ko pa rin mkapag provide ng magandang buhay para sa parents ko dahil di rin maganda childhood nila, pero jusko pagod na ako.
di ko na alam gagawin ko, di ko alam paano ako kikita ng malaki, sobrang lost ko, pagod na ako, hindi ko na alam kung matutupad pa ba lahat ng mga pangarap ko, nagsasawa na akong umasa.

Hello po, 5'3 19[M] , 79 kg and currently a college student. This will sound absurd but; Anong simple physical activities na ginagawa nyo to burn more cal, na hindi nakakapawis at easy to maintain.... aside sa standing a lot (instead of sitting for long hours).
For some background. I have fluctuating weight during my JHS years nag aalternate talaga ako to overweight and normal (due to depression, puberty, and stress), pero tuwing papayat ako papakainin ako ng marami ng parents ko, wala akong magawa since sila naman naghahandle sa finances at kitchen. Kaya tumataba ulit pero not really as bad this college.
Tumaba talaga ako because stress eating and ayaw ko ang feeling ng sobrang gutom (starving) tight kasi yung sched at daming gawain, tinatakot ako ng parents ko na madaming nabaliw daw dahil aral ng aral pero nakakalimutan na kumain (ouch, not the right motivation)
Second di ako nakaka galaw masyado sa dorm dahil sakto lang ang space at may isang roomate ako, unlike sa bahay na kinukulikot ko talaga ang lahat ng sulok. Most of the time din, aral lang talaga ako ng aral dahil di akma sa strengths ko yung napiling kurso, so ayon more on sitting sa study space nagagawa ko at kain.
I have hyperhidrosis kaya unpleasant experience talaga ang exercise , nakakapagod ang paulit2 na laba, bumabawi ako sa diet pero need padin talaga ng physical activity.

Just had my grad pic with the fam today. It was all good, all smiles, all supportive. Aside don sa fam pic, may grad pic, w friends and creative shot. Sobrang tiring and buong session din ako inintay ng fam na matapos. Pagkauwi namin, ako kumilos sa chores after magpahinga ng 30mins. Need magpakain ng pets at walang kusang nagpapakain kung di ko sila aasikasuhin. Wala lang. Nakakainis lang.
Pagod din naman ako hahaha tapos kaunting kalat, saakin pa isisi kasi bakit di pa nilinis. Need ko ba sundan kalat ng mga aso?? Kakaasikaso ko pa nga lang sa sarili ko eh hahaha sobrang saya ko today pero ngayon ko naramdaman pagod ko. Buti pa kayo 'no nakapagpahinga na, tas reklamo nalang kapag naanutan niyong may kalat hahaha

Currently employed in secondary lab with NO senior medtech to supervise the probies. Everybody resigned. Lahat ng gumagalaw from recept, hema, cm, cc, and immuno ay puro newly hired (1 week palang). I oversee it and just signed with them and luckily, walang contract bond. Offer was good as someone na no job experience but hell I won't risk my license there. The staff were very nice and thoughtful but idk why the hell they would trust their whole lab sa mga bago.
And now, I want to quit after how many days working there. Reason? Very scary to move around with no senior medtech. All of us (we are 4 probies) ay nangangapa pa and everything. I don't mind the toxicity of the work and i like my workmates pero I'm scared to move around with no supervision kasi syempre every lab has its own protocol and ayoko maging traumatizing and first job exp ko (well, it is na 👹)
What should I do? Mag AWOL nalang ba or pass a resignation letter? If i'll pass a resig letter, what should I put?
Hoping for your kind thoughts huhu 🙏🏻

Hello! Sa mga nakapag dorm na dito sa Romel Bldg. (tapat ng SLU Main), kamusta experience doon? Gusto ko sana malaman living conditions doon bago mag viewing kasi nasa top siya ng list ko location wise.

Hello po, anyone here have experience using prefab po for apartments?
Well, dorm po actually yung plan ko-ibuild kasi malapit po yung lot na balak ko bilhin sa 2 colleges po. Malapit rin sa hospitals, wet market, at groceries. There's always demand for bedspace/dorm rentals.
Just wondering if meron na po nakapgtry ng prefab houses in building a dormitory/apartmernt type building and ano po ang actual experience niyo with it long term?
Prefabs po like un sa Smart House po and hindi po un mga shipping containers po.

hello po!! I am a 1st year archi student and I just want to ask po sa mga nag pass sa cut-off if safe po ang 2.00 na GWA. Also, may alam po ba kayo na nakapaaa ng cut-off kahit 2.00 ang GWA? Thank you in advance po! <3

Hello po! Gusto ko lang sana mag tanong or humingi ng advice, or ano thoughts nyo?
So, I have met this guy from our school event since their school was invited. Pero taga malayo sya, like 2hrs or 3hrs away ang papunta saknila tbh HAHAHA. LDR talaga kase di ko nakikita everyday. We talked for almost 1month, and then I told him that I liked him and he told me that he does likes me too. We decided to put a label on our relationship, at first it is kind of hard kase talaga i know na mabilis sya kase di pa kami full mag kakilala. But here me, the moment we first talked to each other I feel like i've known him my entire life. (Siguro lahat tayo nakafeel na ng ganitong feeling diba?)
To give you a background of him.
He is a busy man, he is family oriented, he takes care of his family business. Well tbh, naasahan kase sya ng fam nya and naawa na sya sa fam nya since medyo may edad na kaya gusto nya sya na gumawa nung mga ibang trabaho sakanila. He's never been in a relationship. Pero may mga naligawan na sya before pero hindi nag work.
Well tbh, he is not that type of guy na lagi mo makaka chat, video call or call kase marami syang responsibilidad sa pamilya nya. Well, nung talking stage namin bihira lang din talaga kami mag usap. Pero nung naging kami na, lagi din naman na sya nag oonline. Pero may mga times na di sya nakakapag message agad minsan almost 13hrs. Nag meet din naman kami, pag hindi kami busy. Okay naman sya for me, pero there are times na napapa overthink ako na minsan naaway ko nalang sya, pero sya naman minsan iniiwasan nya nalang yung pag aaway kase ayaw nya raw na lumalaki. Pinakilala nya na din ako sa fam nya. Okay naman.
Yung problem ko lang sakanya Nonchalant sya, may mga times na sabi nya iwork daw nya sa sarili nya pag kukulang nya saakin, pero di ko alam if bumabawi ba sya kase may mga times talaga na bland lang kami mag chat. May time din na nag sabi sya na "Hindi muna ako masyado nag iinvest ng time saatin sa pamilya ko muna kase pag nag sama naman tayo, lagi naman tayo mag kausap or magkasama." Well tbh, naawa din naman ako sakanya kase talagang yung work nya sakanila is a big responsibility din talaga so alam ko na busy sya kaya lang di ko alam ano iisipin ko pa huhu help me

Grabe talaga si Sir Brad. Di ko alam kung bakit ang bait-bait nya. Mararamdaman mo talaga yung kabutihan ng puso nya sa bawat salitang lumalabas sa bibig nya.
Naglive si sir Brad kanina para sa mga October Pinnacle Babies tapos grabe lang talaga yung puso nya para sa mga reviewees. Una, focus lang daw sa goal. Yung mga review centers daw iisa lang naman ang goal so okay lang daw kung lumipat yung iba o magrecruit para sa Pinna.
Sinabihan pa nya yung mga babies na wag pilitin yung mga reviewee mag-Pinna. Ang mahalaga raw, mapunta yung reviewee sa RC na fit ang learning style sa teaching style nito. Magpakatotoo raw tayo sa mga sinasabi, kung ano yung maganda o hindi maganda (wala naman masyado nito 🤧) sa Pinna.
Nagbigay din sya support sa mga deferred CPAs, tuloy lang daw ang laban. Inspiring din yung testimonials nung mga passers this May 2024, from different walks of life pa.
Sir, sobrang buti nyo po talaga. Kaya dasurv na dasurv nyo ang mga biyaya. Pagpapatuloy pa namin pagrecruit ng mga future siblings 😘
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Goodluck future CPAs!! SEE YOU AROUND 🫶

Ikaw anong ginagawa mo kapag toxic na yung mga nasa paligid mo?
Ako hinahayaan ko na lang. Such a waste of time kung papatulan pa.
Kaya i just usually vent out in whatever platform (X, Threads, Reddit etc.) Pero kadalasan mas old school pa din ako, i always keep a notebook as a journal/diary. Writing down what i feel makes my heart and mind quite peaceful.
Yet i tend to digitalize it na din dahil kung minsan nakakatuwa lang din kasi kapag sa com sec mayroong magsheshare ng similar experience nila. Parang kumbaga ay di lang pala ako may mabigat na isipin, nako may mas malala pa pala kaysa sa kung anong sitwasyon ako naroroon ...

worth it ba mag perps? I heard perahan lang daw and sayang tuition don. May iba pa ba good school sa laguna na maganda. Also I am from sta rosa and here are my choices Olfu laguna- bago pa lang yung bsn so medyo risky and also I heard na kulang sa mga profs. Galing din me here ng shs and di ko type standard ng school
Perps Jonelta- here ako gusto ienroll kasi malapit lang pero I heard a lot of bad things, pero may good things din naman like may sarili silang hospital and mostly naririnig ko na maraming graduates jan na nasa abroad na ngayon. Plus maganda ambiance nung campus
Smcl- dont let me start. Here ako graduate ng jhs and ayoko na bumalik jan for some personal issues. Pero idk how ang nursing dito.
Letran Calamba- malayo,and mahal tf and considering baka mag dorm ako if ever na malayo pero muka naman maganda kasi malaki campus and afaik sister school sya ng ust
Lpu Calamba- same reason w/ letran calamba Calamba doctors-gusto ko kasi yung university feels yung ambiance and hindi ko mafeel yob sa cdc. Pero it's to mababaw reason why I dont like cdc.
I know they'll say pick your poison na lang kasi every school has its own downsides pero kasi malaking pera ang ilalabas ng magulang ko and nakakahinayang yon so I need your help po.

i have a best friend for almost 9 years, like the others i used to treat him as the other half of me. Coz sure it's 9 long years, we've seen and witnessed each other grow from those lil boys wondering how to make friends in high school to now a fine young adults. I always defend his name, since he is not liked by many and there were times that they really came to me to tell me and make me realize what's really the deal with him. But I would always say that he's my best friend and no one can make me not like him. My trust on him is really something that even our friends (in our circle) started to notice his not so desirable side, I turned a blind eye. I was even asked the question "how can u stay with him that long?". I never really listened to anyone, as long as my bestfriend is here with me. Not until we went to college, same school, same program and same block. I thought that was perfect coz we're side by side navigating this journey. At first, everything's fine ang going smoothly, not until I felt alone and disrespected. I was never the 'madamot' if I know something that you don't know I am willing to teach you until you can grasp the process or help you with works when you're struggling and i had mine finshed early. Because Im that kind of friend, i'll go above and beyond for you. I'll lend you a hand so you can stand up even when i can't even help myself to do the same. I'll keep you afloat even though it means I have to hold my breath beneath the water. That's how I love. That's how i show your part in my life. I can't find reason for you to make me feel that I am no help. You were enjoying your life and became complacent about your acads coz u know that I am here and I can't just let you down. And until u get used to me saving ur ass when you are in the edge of trouble and i think that's the biggest mistake i've done. There was only one time I said no to your request coz it's getting too much and I want to make that as a wake up call but u know what's funny he reasoned out he was busy partying around that's why he can't do his responsibilities. I felt disrespected, u were busy hanging out while i was drowning to get my works done and u make me feel i was selfish for saying no. Lol. I called you out twice, u never said sorry not that i was expecting tho. I want change in behavior but nothing happened. I even had a breakdown and ranting how our studies draining my whole system, that was my silent cry to wake my bestfriend because I want my bestfriend back. I expected for a warm embrace from the arms that was once my safest place, but I received none. U just looked at me like im just someone with familiar name and face. Masakit mabitawan ng mga kamay na kasabay mong hinubog ng panahon. Mukha mo parin ang hahanapin ko sa kumpol ng mga tao, pero hindi na ako tatakbo patungo sayo. :(

tangina ng supervisor ko legit, im a psychology intern in one of the centers of DSWD, nung unang kita ko palang sa supervisor namin, alam ko na yung vibes niya, malambot na talangkera na baklang vibes, yung tipong skwater talaga ang pananalita? ganon siya. during my internship grabe magalit yun sobrang lala ng mood swings niya, nagalit siya samin ng sobra one time kasi di kami sumasagot agad pag nagtatanong siya dahil takot kami sakanya, kesyo kung bitch daw kami ay mas bitch daw siya, nung nireport siya ng school namin sa field office ng DSWD, nagalit ulit siya dahil matatanggalan pa raw siya ng trabaho dahil samin. sobrang dami niyang arte, kahit nung nakaharap siya ng mga prof namin nabad vibes na sila agad. ngayon tapos na kami sa internship pero andami pa niyang ccheckan na reports namin, 63 files lahat ng checheckan niya, baka umabot pa raw ng 1 month bago matapos macheckan lahat eh graduation na namin next month.

Bago pa lang po ako sa ganitong set up and want to learn some new thing gaya po netong freelancing, ano poba tips para sa mga begginer and best job to learn from scratch. balak kopong magjob hunt sa onlinejobph di pa kasi masyadong enhance skill ko sa video editing and photo shop kaya manghingi sana ako ng idea ano indemand sa onlinejobph na madaling matutunan para ma-aral ko agad mga dapat matutunan. Ayaw ko naman pong Ma-Spoonfeed need ko lang po ng guidance ng mga pro gaya nio salamat po.

So sumakay ako ng Grab tapos nakipag chikahan si koya driver.
Bumungad sya with "eto ma'am tignan mo mga kotseng to. Pumipila sa left lane papuntang BGC. Medyo mga bagu bago at walang alam na driver pa to. Dito tayo sa right lane, tapos mamaya sisingit tayo. Hindi tayo magtuturn signal kasi di tayo papasukin niyan. Kailangan makahanap ng puwang tapos bigla tayo sisingit." Bangag pa ako nun at di ko naintindihan masyado na may balak pala syang sumingit. Ginawa nya lahat ng sinabi nya at nakasingit amidst the cacophony of angry drivers na nasingitan. Sabi nya "Sorry na lang, pero kita mo? Laking oras natipid natin?" I laughed nervously na lang.
Bigla syang nagkwento na call center agent sya na graveyard shift at Grab driver sa umaga. Breadwinner daw kasi sya at sya sumusuporta sa asawa't dalawang anak tska nanay na 56 yo at batang kapatid. Natutulog daw sya 2-3 hours lang kada araw. Pero sabi nya kapag inaantok sya tumatabi na lang at nagnanap. Sabay hikab habang nagddrive. "Wala ma'am, running on adrenaline na lang talaga ako. Yung kinikita ko ngayon oang survival lang talaga." Ok lang daw antukin sa Metro Manila kasi traffic naman. Wag lang sa mga highway kasi siraulo mga driver.
Tinanong ko, wala ba trabaho asawa at mama mo? Sabi nya "traditional ako ma'am eh. Kailangan mag alaga ng bahay at anak mga babae. Pinapili ko talaga asawa ko. Either mag career sya o mag alaga ng anak." Well obviously pinili nya mag alaga ng anak. No judgment as long as that's what she actually wants. I notice the rosary na nakasabit sa rear view mirror.
Nakaabot na kami sa destinasyon. "GOD BLESS MA'AM!"

Planning to apply po sa ING kaso inaalala ko yung background checks nila may unsettled loans and credit card po ako :( wala na po ba chance?
Please dont judge me po. Currently working sa International Bank din po pero when I started here wala pa nman ako mga utang ngwowork na ako dito nung mgkaroon ako ng mga utang :(

Ayoko na. Wala na rin akong maisip na pang gaslight sa sarili ko para ijustify yung mga disrespect na ginawa mo sakin hahaha
Ang gago mo, sana di ka na lang pumasok sa buhay ko kung di mo kaya panindigan hanggang dulo.
Alam ko sa sarili ko na ayoko na e. Pero ang sakit pa rin. Karmahin ka sana putangina mo hahahahs
Sana bukas okay na agad
Gustong-gusto ko nang makamove on sayo

I recently passed the May 2024 CPALE. Honestly, wala pa po akong plan, ang nasa isip ko lang po kasi noon is to survive yung mismong araw habang pinagsasabay yung mga responsibilities at review. Ano po bang next na dapat gawin? May idea po ako pero di ko alam pano ba dapat gagawin. Like for example po, sa government ID, national ID pa lang po kasi ang meron ako. Yung mga SSS, Philhealth, TIN, po ba kapag employed na po ba yan maaasikaso or pwede na po now? Tapos sa paghahanap po ng work, ano po ang mabibigay nyong advice sa pag-aapply sa mga firms? May mga signing bonus po ba sila lahat kahit hindi topnotchers? Sorry po ang daming tanong 😅 pero I want to start this new chapter right. Thank you po sa mga sasagot.
PS. Thank you rin po pala sa mga nagpagaan ng loob ko rito before CPALE sa mga previous posts ko huhu CPA na po ako, maraming salamat po!! 💙