Hello po. Medyo long story po.
Kakakasal lang po namin last March. We had a civil wedding sa Manila CH. Sila po ang naghandle ng papers namin, one of the councilor’s office. Day of wedding we found out that they were trying to have us married under Article 34. My partner went to them 3x before to ask if okay na ang license namin sabi nila oo daw. Of course, umalma kami. Their solution to that is to have the ceremony (we signed the papers) and wait for the marriage license to be released in a few days at yun ang marriage date namin on paper. Kinagat na namin since we cannot delay any further. We then submitted our local certificate to PSA and nung nirelease na laking gulat namin bakit may 2nd page na “Affidavit of Solemnizing officer” claiming that we were wed under Article 34. Even though page 1 clearly says that we have a legal marriage license.
We know it is our fault for relying on the “help” of others. We just want to know po if anything can be done to ammend the marriage certificate without going to court. We will be applying for spousal visa soon din po kasi.
Main concerns po namin: 1. Is it okay to just submit page 1 to USCIS? Without the 2nd page po 2. Do they scrutinize travel records since on paper our marriage date coincides with our honeymoon abroad? 3. May maissuggest po ba kayo as a next step?

My sister got scammed buying a second hand car na nakasangla pala sa Orico financing company. I know this situation could have been easily avoided, but i hope that you guys will be gentle in the comments. Here’s the full details from her (pinalitan ko lang yung actual names).

• December 2023 - Binili yung sasakyan through marketplace for 645,000. Ang kwento ng seller is kapatid niya si Maria Santos (yung name sa deed of sale and all documents). Ang true owner daw ng sasakyan is seaman na asawa ni Maria, pero kay Maria lang ipinangalan kasi nga wala siya lagi dito since seaman siya. During the transaction, hindi na rin kami nanghingi ng ID doon sa pinag-abutan ng pera or yung kausap ko sa marketplace, kasi nga original naman lahat ng papers (as confirmed by lto main office and our local lto here). Paid na rin ng full sa bangko. Syempre sa 2x kong pagbili ng secondhand car, tiwala naman na ako na ganun lang yung process. As long as may deed of sale, original and complete papers, okay na.
  
• April 2024 - Ire-renew ko na sana yung sasakyan. But it turns out na hindi pala kay Maria Santos nakapangalan, kay Juan Cruz pala. Ang sabi ng local LTO namin is may something wrong daw na nangyari sa LTO Valenzuela. Ang hawak nating papers is March 14, 2023 nakarehistro kay Maria Santos. Ang lumalabas sa LTO March 23, 2024, pina-renew din ni Juan Cruz under his name. Ang pinagtatakahan ng local LTO namin, paano niya na-renew yun kung nasa pinagbilhan naming yung sasakyan kasi dapat pag magre-renew ka rin, yung previous original papers (which is kay Maria Santos) nakapangalan, dapat isusurrender yun sa LTO. Eh bakit may copy pa rin yung mga nagbenta sa atin noon last December 2023.
  
• May 2024 - Sinubukan ayusin yung papers sa Manila but ayaw pumayag din ng LTO doon kasi nakasangla pala yung sasakyan sa Orico Auto Finance Philippines Inc. Syempre sila rin ang hahabulin nung company. Ang sabi ng LTO, our only way is bayaran natin kung ilan pa natitirang amount sa Oricon na binayaran ni Robles. But I think, 600k+ din, kung magkano niya ring binenta yung sasakyan sa atin. It turns out na marami na din palang kaso etong si Cruz and nagtatago na talaga sa police.
  

My sister got scammed buying a second hand car na nakasangla pala sa Orico financing company. I know this situation could have been easily avoided, but i hope that you guys will be gentle in the comments. Here’s the full details from her (pinalitan ko lang yung actual names).

• December 2023 - Binili yung sasakyan through marketplace for 645,000. Ang kwento ng seller is kapatid niya si Maria Santos (yung name sa deed of sale and all documents). Ang true owner daw ng sasakyan is seaman na asawa ni Maria, pero kay Maria lang ipinangalan kasi nga wala siya lagi dito since seaman siya. During the transaction, hindi na rin kami nanghingi ng ID doon sa pinag-abutan ng pera or yung kausap ko sa marketplace, kasi nga original naman lahat ng papers (as confirmed by lto main office and our local lto here). Paid na rin ng full sa bangko. Syempre sa 2x kong pagbili ng secondhand car, tiwala naman na ako na ganun lang yung process. As long as may deed of sale, original and complete papers, okay na.
  
• April 2024 - Ire-renew ko na sana yung sasakyan. But it turns out na hindi pala kay Maria Santos nakapangalan, kay Juan Cruz pala. Ang sabi ng local LTO namin is may something wrong daw na nangyari sa LTO Valenzuela. Ang hawak nating papers is March 14, 2023 nakarehistro kay Maria Santos. Ang lumalabas sa LTO March 23, 2024, pina-renew din ni Juan Cruz under his name. Ang pinagtatakahan ng local LTO namin, paano niya na-renew yun kung nasa pinagbilhan naming yung sasakyan kasi dapat pag magre-renew ka rin, yung previous original papers (which is kay Maria Santos) nakapangalan, dapat isusurrender yun sa LTO. Eh bakit may copy pa rin yung mga nagbenta sa atin noon last December 2023.
  
• May 2024 - Sinubukan ayusin yung papers sa Manila but ayaw pumayag din ng LTO doon kasi nakasangla pala yung sasakyan sa Orico Auto Finance Philippines Inc. Syempre sila rin ang hahabulin nung company. Ang sabi ng LTO, our only way is bayaran natin kung ilan pa natitirang amount sa Oricon na binayaran ni Robles. But I think, 600k+ din, kung magkano niya ring binenta yung sasakyan sa atin. It turns out na marami na din palang kaso etong si Cruz and nagtatago na talaga sa police.
  

IBUKI-DOUJI

Class: Saber
True Name: Ibuki-douji
Gender: Female
Source: "Shuten-douji emaki", Otogizoushi​ and the like
Region: Japan
Alignment: Chaotic Good
Height: First ascension: 133cm (total length 200cm) / Second and Third ascensions: 180cm (300 cm during combat)
Weight: ??kg
Strength: A+
Endurance: C
Agility: C
Mana: EX
Luck: D
Noble Phantasm: A+
Scenario Writer: Sakurai Hikaru/Character Design: Honjou Raita CV: Yuuki Aoi
Main Appearance: Fate/Grand Order

CLASS SKILLS

○Magic Resistance A She possesses Magic Resistance of the highest rank. In fact, she can not be harmed by Mages of the present age.   ○Riding B+ She can ride most vehicles and mounts. She's not supposed to be able to ride those of the Phantasmal Species, but, as an exceptional case, she is able to ride one if she can get along with them.   ○Dragon-kind EX A skill indicating that one is a born dragon. Ibuki-douji who is endowed with the Saint Graph that strongly expresses her facet as the child of Yamata-no-Orochi, possesses the skill at an out-of-the-norm rank.   ○Divine Core of the Serpent God A A composite skill containing the Divinity skill. Since, according to the legends, she is of mixed-blood with one of her parents being a human, it should be difficult for her to possess a Divine Core, however...having come into existence as the child (bunrei) of Yamata-no-Orochi, Ibuki-douji possesses this skill at a high rank as an exceptional case. If she were to degrade into an oni, she would lose this skill and it would probably be replaced by low-rank Divinity skill.

PERSONAL SKILLS

○Strength of Mountains and Rivers A+ A composite skill containing the effects of the Superhuman Strength skill. Ibuki-douji possesses this skill at a high rank.   ○Eight Veins of Surging Waves B A skill gained from inheriting the nature of Yamata-no-Orochi as the god of floods, which is one of its aspects as a god. Her immutable body filled with intense aggression will destroy everything.   ○Fingertips of Impurity A Purity will be lost, honor will be absent and, finally, death shall arrive. Those touched by Ibuki-douji's fingertips will become impure, no longer allowed to show themselves before the gods or humans. It is classified as an offensive skill, but it also grants bonus effects when conversing with spirits of the dead, demonic beasts, or fallen gods outside combat.

NOBLE PHANTASM

Divine Sword - Kusanagi-no-Tachi   Rank: A+ Classification: Anti-Army/Anti-Fortress Noble Phantasm Range: 1~60 Max. number of targets: 500   Shinken - Kusanagi-no-Tachi. According to the Susanoo myths from the Kojiki and Nihon-shoki, Susanoo-no-Mikoto, having been exiled from Takamagahara, descended upon the province of Izumo and saved Kusanadahime by exterminating the enormous monster she was offered to as a sacrifice. That monster was a red-eyed apparition with eight heads and eight tails───a gigantic snake that boasted a length spanning eight valleys and eight peaks. It was Japan's greatest dragon of calamity.   Having defeated this large serpent (dragon), Susanoo-no-Mikoto obtained a divine sword from its tail. The sword's name was Kusanagi-no-Tachi. It was also known as Kusanagi-no-Tsurugi, Ama-no-Murakumo-no-Tsurugi, and Tsumugari-no-Tachi. They say it was later offered to the Atsuta Shrine and was designated as one of the Three Sacred Treasures of Japan.   This divine sword that was within her father, Yamato-no-Orochi's body is what Ibuki-douji uses as a Noble Phantasm. It is such a fearsome weapon that a single swing from it upon the release of its True Name can blow away eight valleys and eight peaks, and give birth to eight great rivers...however. According to Ibuki-douji, this is nothing but her borrowing the slightest of the divine sword's gleams for just a moment. Its true worth does not amount to something of this level, is what she means.

CHARACTER

First person pronoun: yo/atashi/watashi/ware (sometimes) Second person pronoun: omae/anata/○○ (without honorifics)/○○-kun/○○-chan Third person pronoun: ayatsu/he/she/○○ (without honorifics)/○○-kun/○○-chan
○Personality Her temperament as a "god/kami" is quite potent with her self-awareness of being a part of nature (the world) being very firm. She acts based on primitive desires. She has almost no inclination to come into contact with humans and their culture/civilization at all. She behaves as if she is unaware of the depths of alcohol, the delicacy of human lives, and the pleasure of indulging in a moment of insanity, however... Once she immerses herself in desires, she will show no mercy. Without any stimulus, she is harmless, however, in a certain sense, one could say that she is even more dangerous than Shuten-douji.   Once someone manages to pique her interest, she will be strongly fixated on them. While the target of her interest exists, her eyes will always be fixed on them. Usually, she'd stretch her long fingers towards them, touch them, and destroy them completely───or, she would corrupt them and guide them to their death.   The oni species that her other aspect also belongs to can easily pique her interest. Naturally, existences similar to her (children of a dragon god) would also make her eyes sparkle.   ◇   ...The above is the original Ibuki-douji's nature, but the circumstances of the one that materialized in Chaldea are somewhat different.   She's totally Being influenced By the modern age.   Even if she can't look at things from the same standpoint as a human being due to her origin being that of a god, her words and conduct are that of "a big sister Heroic Spirit/Divine Spirit who's gotten way too used to modern society". Her behavior shows that she's studied what human beings could be like.   She even goes around trying to seduce and provoke others, including the Master. The Heroic Spirit Sherlock Holmes speculates that Ibuki-douji had either learned about modern society somewhere, or she met a Heroic Spirit who also got accustomed to modern society in a similar way, and then forcibly brought over those records by taking advantage of the uniqueness of Chaldea's summoning system. Nobody knows whether that is true or not, however.   When she gets serious, for example when releasing her Noble Phantasm's True Name, she seems to regress to behaving according to her original nature which is that of a "god/kami", but usually, she's enjoying herself as the carefree "snake big sis".   ◇   Also, when she's in her juvenile form (the Saint Graph of her first stage), she displays speech and conduct that is like a mix of "snake big sis Ibuki" and "Ibuki, the god/kami". When little Ibuki says that things will get dangerous if she molts, she is most probably referring to becoming "Ibuki, the god/kami".
○Motives and attitude towards the Master Normally, Ibuki-douji doesn't give much special attention to the Master that summons her. It's probably because her awareness of humans is too abnormal, what with viewing them as a collective whole instead of as separate individuals. If she became able to view them as individuals, her behavior towards them would also gradually change. If she ever grows interested in you, you must stay vigilant instead of rejoicing about that accomplishment. Her fingertips are that of a god, so even defensive magecraft against poisoning or poison resistance skills would be far from enough to protect you.   However... The Ibuki-douji that materialized in Chaldea behaves in an intimate way towards the Master. Strictly speaking, she behaves in a friendly manner with everyone. For her to properly recognize the Master as an individual, they would need to build a relationship that is deep enough for that. In that sense, as expected, one must make sure whether the normal Ibuki-douji's nature stems from her roots or not.   ◇   Completely different from her usual version, there are times when juvenile Ibuki-douji views her Master as "someone to be reared". It's as if she's treating her Master as a pet... Not like she's ever kept a pet before.
○During Hell Realm Mandala Heian-kyou She is manifested by Alter Ego Limbo aka Ashiya Douman as "Taisuishin", the last of his trump card known as the Eight Cavalry Summoning that he modeled after the Eight General Gods in Taoism. (However, finding her rank as a General God and the immortality that comes with it unnecessary, Ibuki-douji discards them. Since she's already a powerful Divine Spirit, the buffs Limbo prepared are surely nothing but annoyances to her.) For a time, she is treated as the vessel of a "new 'Alien God' and Beast", but due to Limbo's sudden change of mind, she is absorbed by the Subspecies Fantasy Tree Hell Realm Mandala. However, in truth, she was alive and well inside the Fantasy Tree─── By lending her Noble Phantasm, Divine Sword - Kusanagi-no-Tachi to the Kintoki piloting the Settsu-Style Great Armour Kumano, she played a role in the destruction of the Subspecies Fantasy Tree.
○Dialogue examples (Second and Third ascensions) "───You've called for me. Just kidding. No need to freeze up like that. I see, so this is Chaldea. Hmm, it looks interesting. I'll be in your care from now on, Master-san!" "Offerings are not popular these days, you know?" "I'm in the mood for a drink..." "I-I won't strip yet, you know? I finally got to pick a modern outfit for myself and all...Ah. Or what? Did you mean you want to u-n-d-r-e-s-s little old me? Ahaha. I see~" "Good night. Have a pleasant dream."
○Dialogue examples (First Ascension) "Shall we play? Hey, hey?" "Are you, forgetting your place?" "A tsuchinoko grows by sleeping, you know? I'm gonna sleep." "Let me play a bit longer, good grief..." "───I am Ibuki-douji. Are you what they call a Master? I see, I see, so that's what you are... Alright. If you don't want to die then you better butter me up."
○Dialogue examples (Offshoot Mitama of the Serpent God) "The mundane world and the world of the dead..." "Look up to me like you'd look up at a god. Kiss me like you'd kiss a god." "I am one of Yamata's offshoot mitama (heads). A calamity that descended from the mountains───" "To put it in a way that would be easy for you to understand, let's see... I am a calamity to all you living beings."
○Character image Ibuki-douji. The alternate name of "Shuten-douji" who was from the base of Oumi's Mount Ibuki. Ibuki-douji, with her naturally inconceivable birth of having come into this world as a demon child, grew up in the mountains and eventually obtained fearsome and abnormal abilities. She moved to Mount Ooe where she became "Shuten-douji", the great monstrosity who descended on the capital and entertained herself with massacres and pillaging────   ◇   Some say she is the child of Mount Ibuki's Ibuki Daimyoujin (= Yamata-no-Orochi) and a human while others say she is the heaven-sent child of Mount Togakushi (= Kuzuryuu).^[1] Either way, she is the child of a dragon deity. With her current Saint Graph, her aspects as "the bunrei of Ibuki Daimyoujin, the child of Yamata-no-Orochi" are particularly emphasized and she has materialized as a Divine Spirit Servant. She isn't a human. She isn't an oni. She is a god.   In the end, was she really a supernatural being born as a demonic child like the legends of Oumi say? Or perhaps she was the divine child of Mount Togakushi? Or maybe, much like how spirits come into being, she might have been born in yet another way──── Regarding this matter, Ibuki-douji's lips are sealed. However, the blood of a god certainly flows in her veins, and the blade she wields as her Noble Phantasm is without a doubt the one that was pulled out of Yamata-no-Orochi's tail in those ancient legends.   ◇   It seems Ibuki-douji in her juvenile form had met Sakata Kintoki on Mount Ashigara. Kintoki, the monstrous child who was neither the spawn of a mortal nor the spawn of the oni, met her while wandering Ashigara, fought each other in a sumo brawl for some reason, and suffered a crushing defeat.   After that encounter, Ibuki-douji will disappear. She hasn't died by any means; she lived on, having transformed into a different existence, a different aspect of herself. In other words, she became the great monstrosity "Shuten-douji" in both mind and body.   By connecting the testimonies together, it would appear that Ibuki-douji and Shuten-douji existed by alternating with each other at either fixed or uncertain intervals. "It's my (Ibuki's) turn now." "Next, it will be my (Shuten's) turn." Or so the order went────
○Connection to other Characters Shuten-douji They can not accurately recognize each other's existence. To Ibuki-douji, she is nothing more than "something she does not understand well". The same goes for Ibuki-douji from Shuten-douji's point of view. They don't even try to recognize the other as a version that could possibly exist. Ibuki-douji is not "Shuten-douji's former self" and Shuten-douji is not "Ibuki-douji's new self".
Mochizuki Chiyome An object of interest. If she harbors the curse of Ibuki Daimyoujin within her body then they are like relatives. (Ibuki treats her as a younger sister in her first ascension and as a relative's child in her second and third ascensions)
Quetzalcoatl / Medusa / Gorgon / Vritra / Kukulkan A serpent god from a foreign country.
Sakata Kintoki Smells good. Has a nice eye color. Has nice bones. Very interesting. She can feel the presence of a dragon.
Ibaraki-douji / Fuuma Koutarou / Tomoe Gozen / Kijo Koyou Oni. Oni can be often seen in the mountains. Very interesting.
Minamoto no Raikou An oni that is one yet not. Instead of interesting, she finds her suspicious. "Just what is that?" is her impression of Raikou.
Habetrot A mass of cuteness. They've been getting along since they traveled in Tunguska together.

Comment from Illustrator

First, I started with the image of "a tanned dragon lady" and when I suggested that it would be fun if she was around 3 meters tall at the meeting with TYPE-MOON-san, they gave me the OK right away. I wanted her forms to differ with each ascension so I drew the first ascension to give off the impression of being her juvenile form and her second and third ascensions to be the adult form. In particular, I designed the second ascension with the image of "a 3 meters tall big sis strolling through the shopping district downtown to look for snacks to eat while drinking". Also known as "the Calamity Lady of Downtown (Disaster Woman)"; having such a motif of her in my mind, I kept working on the design. An alcohol-loving and somewhat sloppy god of calamity is cute. (Honjou Raita)
Translator notes: [1] Kuzuryuu

I'm (22F) a 4th year college student. I mainly get my money from my scholarship allowance and online part time job. Recently I find myself na masyadong maraming nagagastos. For instance, I spent almost 40k in two months: rent, travel expenses (went hiking with my boyfriend, hati naman kami but it was still a lot for me), bigay sa mga loved ones, random foodpanda orders sa gabi, college expenses, restos, fastfoods, shopee, etc.
I know I should save but pag nandon ako sa situation na mapapagastos ako, jinujustify palagi ng isip ko yun. Medyo worried ako na madadala ko yung ganitong habit kapag working na 'ko. I
When you were in college, anong spending habits niyo? Nagbago/namaintain niyo ba 'yon nung pumasok na kayo sa workforce?

Hi guys, I'm relatively new to Magic, I started playing about two months ago. I'm working on making my second deck with [[Zilortha, Strength Incarnate]] as the commander, but the only deck I've ever made by myself was a mono blue [[Kami, of the Crescent Moon]] deck that I'm still not sure came out great, so I'm hoping for some feedback on it! I'm mainly looking to just ramp up, bring out some big bad dinos, and then power them up to trample over the board. I'm also looking to keep budget ~$150USD, and this is for a more casual table -- upgraded precons-ish level.
I do have some concerns with having enough mana/the right mana, and having enough card draw as well and just overall synergy together.
Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Decklist: https://www.moxfield.com/decks/veLfz9CJ-EivgmZnLZsV1w Budget: ~$150USD

Hindi ako ganun magaling mag kwento pero gusto ko lang ilabas etong pinagaawayan namin lately ni Hubby.
Si Mother in law mabait siya, giving kapag meron padala sa states galing sa mga kapatid niya is sinisigurado niya mabibigyan ang lahat bali 6 pala ang original magkakapatid si hubby 2 sa stepdad 8 sila magkakapatid in total lahat lalaki. Si stepdad ay pastor, so eto na nga meron kasi silang kapatid na adik, pariwara, black sheep.
Meron 3 anak hiwalay sa asawa etong kuya niya npa mapa bahay man or work nalibot na niya ata lahat ng bpo company sa lugar namin. Lately nagaaway kami ni hubby, dahil binibigyan niya ng pera sinabihan ko na wag bigyan dahil hindi matutoto. Kami na hirap na hirap mag trabaho tapos etong kuya niya panay hingi para ipang bisyo man sasabihin para sa upa or gas.
Si MIL nagcchat kay Hubby na bakit hindi mo bigyan kuya mo kapag meron ka, dahil ba alam niyang well-off kami? Hindi ba kapag Christian ka alam mo ang dapat at hindi dapat, send siya ng send sa amin ng quotes everyday para magbalik loob sa Church nakikita ko naman kasi ang Church nila puro pera na lang issue, tapos plastican kaya nawawalan ako ng gana mag Church. Meron akong paniniwala pero ayaw kong makipag plastican sa Church para lang masabi na nagsisimba kami madagdagan pa kasalanan ko lol.
Si MIL pati kay mama ko nagsend ng quotes about bible rin, parehas kami paniniwala ni mama nag active rin siya sa Church before pero na encounter rin siya ng mga ganun situation.
Ang hirap lang kasi si Hubby kung anong sasabihin ng nanay niya susundin niya, parang nababaliwala yung opinion ko sa marriage namin. Nirerealtak ko na siya minsan kung maghiwalay man kami, kaya kong tumayo sa sarili kong paa at buhayin ang anak namin. Magsama na lang sila ng nanay niya 😂 ako ang main provider ng marriage. Nung siya kasi malaki ang income ng pandemic sa 2 years wala siyang naipon, hindi pa kami magkasama sa iisang bahay paano yung nanay niya pinatira lahat ang asawa ng 2 kapatid pati kuya. Asawa ko ang bumuhay, sana sa MIL ng asawa ko matuto rin na bigyan ng lesson ang mga anak niya sa 8 anak niya 3 ang palahingi at palaasa at hindi nakatapos ng college ang 8 na anak niya.

Hello, our parents left us hectares of land in our province in Mindanao (prefer not to disclose where, thanks for understanding) - it consisted of rice, coco lands and one residential land; in the tax declaration it declared the fair market value pero Wala kaming idea magkakapatid and mag pinsan kung pano ididispose..
I just wanted to ask if what would be the factors to consider in selling land kasi may isang interested buyer na mejo makulit (kinda hasty siya i.e., follow up ng follow up and MOST IMPORTANTLY, taga doon siya so mejo nasesketechyhan kami coupled with the everyday follow ups).
On to the main question, how reliable are tax declarations and its declared FMV? And what are the things to consider i.e., taxes to pay, in selling land. Gusto lang namin malaman if how fair ang fair market value from the government para mahati din namin ng maayos and di lang ma loko hehe..

I have a super extroverted boyfriend. It never bothered me kasi it was just his personality since birth. He's always that loud guy sa corridor sa school and kahit saan nalang mapapadpad na classroom kasi ang daming kakilala.
However, his main circle of friends are all girls (as in, 6 silang babae and 1 lang siya na guy). Blockmate lang naman kami lahat so of course we know each other. But I never felt comfortable hanging out with them, or maybe because introverted lang talaga ako.
For context, I'm the top of the class, active leader, I have the looks, I play instruments, and I know my worth and I know na hindi ito issue sa insecurity.
Today, I just got home from a group activity. That group happened to be ME and HIS WHOLE COF. I was quiet the whole time. Ako mainly gumagawa while nag chichikahan sila and nag tatawanan. And since my boyfriend was the only guy there, ewan, siya palagi yung tine-tease or pinagkakaisahan ng group nila. And that kind of bothered me? Kasi for me teasing and joking is such an intimate thing. Parang, diba ako lang may rights gumawa nyan?? OR IM LOSING MY BALLS
After ng project kumain kami ng dinner and sila-sila parin nag uusap. Like, I felt like thin cold air while my boyfriend was at the punchline of every joke the girls made. I wanted to drown. Parang ang bigat lang sa feeling.
Although no boundaries were crossed naman kasi those girls are smart and kind din, I still feel so dikoalam HUHU hindi ko ma explain bat ang bigat lang ng pakiramdam ko. I find it so weird kasi na I can blend in with other groups na di ko main circle quite easily. Pero sila, parang they don't recognize my existence na nandun din ako.
In a separate occasion, a few months ago pa to. I came in late sa class and to my surprise, my boyfriend was wearing make up. And he was laughing as he approached me he kept asking if bagay and stuff. Guess what? Yung girls nag make up sakanya. Like that kind of make up na clearly for fun and laughs. But it felt so invasive. Kasi again for me, IT'S SOMETHING SO INTIMATE. I love makeup and I love doing hus makeup so it shatters me na, ay, di pala to exclusive for us:) I told him it bothered me and he didnt do it naman since.
I saw a tweet once saying "dating a friendly man is not for the weak" and its so true. I trust in him completely pero bat ang weird sa feeling. I was just wondering how he would feel if baliktad yung situation. What if I was the one in an all-boys-group and he was sitting in silence sa dinner table. Is it a me problem? Maybe I just thrive and fit in better with my own circle of friends but not his? Ang weird huhu

My GF and I are working in the same company. (different department, different building - hatid sundo ako everyday) We've been together for more than a year now and that's our routine everyday.
As a backgrounder. We met during our training days (getting to know and dating stage nmin). But after training na-assign ako sa main office dito sa metro and provincial office naman sya. We lost communication. Nagkaron sya ng girlfriend almost 2 years din sila, but they broke up. We got intouch, and nalipat sya sa main office here sa metro. We started dating again and eventually naging kami. 1 year together na rin kami working here in the city. We are not legally introduced to both of our families.
I live alone in my rented condo. My girlfriend lives with her closefriend(college friend) and 3 other co-workers (condo sharing).
I asked her 3x to be exact na "mag sama nlng tayo" not really live in (pero parang gnun na rin😅) but co-living/condo sharing with her closefriend.
1st time: On our 4th month working here, it was our common friend that suggested na we should live together na lang and i said "oo nga noh?" That's why i asked her. But she declined. Jokingly she said "di ko pwedeng iwan si closefriend baka ma depress loner yun eh". Inintindi ko.
2nd time: On our 8th month working here, it was my sister (who knows our relationship) told me "sabihan mo girlfriend mo na sa condo mo nalang tumira para may kasama ka". Thats why, i asked my girlfriend given na may basbas kami ng elder sister ko. I told her "dito ka na lang daw tumira sabi ng ate ko". But then again she declined. This time medyo seryoso yung usapan namin. Nahihiya daw sya sa ate ko and the fact daw na alam kong hindi nya pwede iwan si closefriend.
(she cant leave her closefriend kasi 1.loner yun; 2.wala gaanong friend; introvert; 3.si GF lang yung maasahan/masasandalan nyang friend; 4.problematic si closefriend nya (both family and financial); and 5. dahil dyan sa no. 1 to 4, feeling ni GF sya yung mkakasave sa misery ng closefriend nya na as if pag wala sya sa tabi nya ay baka mahulog sa depression yung situation. Inintindi ko.
3rd time: More than a year working here and same routine. For the 3rd and maybe the last time. Indirect ko nang sinabi sa knya...(because i want to know kung ano plano nya or kung merun nga ba talaga syang plano) I told her na aalis na ako sa condo. Mag condo sharing na lang ako with my other co-workers.I need to make tipid and para may kasama ako. She agreed. And nag open din sya na they're planning din na umalis sa condo sharing nila kasi dadating yung boyfriend ni closefriend (na magwo.work na din sa metro malapit sa workplace namin). And told me, "maghanap na lang tayo..isama nlng natin si closefriend, malapit na dumating bf nya at naghahanap ng matutuluyan".
And I'm like 🤔, so kaya lang pumayag yung girlfriend ko sa magsama kmi kasi dadating yung bf ni closefriend nya and they need a bigger space (deep inside masakit🥺). But still i said "Sige" inisip ko na infavor din nman sakin.
Months have passed and wala manlang ka effort effort na maghanap ng new unit for us. Malaman laman ko na lang, yung closefriend nya nagdecide pala na wag nlng lumipat kasi magastos and nagtitipid daw sila🤣.
So all this time...yung desisyon ng closefriend nya ang nasusunod and wala talaga sya plano for us. Now i know. Sad🥹
But then again, i give it the benefit of the doubt na maybe wala syang plano for us together kasi hindi pa sya open sa family nya about our relationship. Na parang malaking issue sa kanya ang "live in"🥹. Feeling ko, fast pace ako sa relasyon nmin and hindi sya makasabay. Yung gusto kong i-level up yung relasyon namin pero mentally and emotionally not ready pa sya (?).
I love her, pero sa pinapakita nya sakin, parang plateauing yung relasyon nmin.
I will wait kung kelan sya magiging ready.
That's why, I'm considering the na magpatransfer sa provincial office namin (2-3 hrs away from the metro). It's not a career advancement for me but an educational advancement. Sa province..lower position, (free food and accommodation, malaki ang matitipid😅) but less workload. Given less workload, I can continue my post grad education. Sa main office kasi, as in wala talaga akong time para makapag aral, puro trabaho. Yung tipong pwede na akong maging tagapagmana😆).
Tama lang ba na iwan ko muna sya for now and chose my studies? In that way makapag isip sya at matutong gumawa ng mature na desisyon para samin dalawa.? Am I being too pushy about us living together?
To somebody out there who experienced the same or yung mga mentally matured dyan.. I need help and advice please😭
P.S. I'm afraid na baka lamunin ako ng goals ko. Schooling.Board exams. Masterals. Career. Baka mawalan ako ng time sa kanya.

I know. i know it’s a shitty situation. But i’m glad we’re not married yet. I found this out nung pasuko na talaga ko sakanya. Naaalala ko pinagdadasal ko kay Lord bigyan ako ng sign para ilaban pa relasyon namin dahil may anak kami. Then the next morning umalis siya kasi nga may aasikasuhin “daw” sa school (the truth is nagkita sila nung babae sa sampaloc manila) So, i have a gut feeling na meron something so kinalikot ko ang computer niya. Kating kati ako mabuksan main account niya at nung nagta-try nako iopen.. May nakita akong isang email log in sa fb na hindi familiar sakin. (So meron pala siyang dump account 😊) Ang ending naopen ko yung dump account niya then BOOM!! Sobrang dami kong nakitang babae niya na inaaya nya for SEX!! Including his COUSIN! At take note ginagawa na nila yon bata palang daw sila (sabi nung babaeng pinsan niya) 🤢 At kahit buntis palang ako ginagawa na niya pala talaga yung mga ganyan.
Pinaalam ko sa magulang niya at after non umalis na kami ng anak niya since live in kami ng hindi niya alam. After months of not seeing his son, Never naman din siya nag ask ng permission para makita ang bata or gumawa man lang ng action. I dont know maybe hiyang hiya sya sa ginawa niya??
Kinasuklam ko kayo, Nagalit ako sayo ng sobra sobra. I think it’s normal naman. But at the end of the day gusto ko padin magpasalamat sayo.
Sana makita niya to just wanted to say, Thank you… Dahil binigyan mo ako ng kakampi sa buhay, ng makakasama… Hindi ko na nafefeel na mag isa nalang ako simula sinilang ko siya sa mundong to. Salamat. Kasi alam kong di ko naman magagawa yan mag isa. Hindi man naging maganda pagsasamahan natin pero i genuinely love this little man so much.
Ciao.

I wish you all a fellowship enriched BABYMETAL weekend!
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I’ve been in a relationship for 4+ years now. We met right before the pandemic and we really connected off the bat. We were both in tough times in our life nung naging kami and ang bilis talaga namin nagclick legitimately na wala pa 1 month kami na. We both came off long term relationships before naging kami. Siya 5 years with her ex ako 3 years with my ex. Pandemic happened and lockdowns pero lalo lang naging solid relationship namin. We are madly in love with each other, and as in soulmate levels na talaga.
When we met, I was running a failing business (nagsara din siya ng December 2019) and she stopped working because she got sick and it’s been 3 years since she resigned and naipit na siya kasi pinakiusapan siya ng ate niya na alagaan iyong baby niya kasi OFW nurse ate niya.
Fast forward to present time, our lives are super intertwined. Our families are intertwined, anak anak-an na namin iyong pamangkin ng gf ko. We’ve traveled together and we’ve both done so much together. As recent as Nov 2023 I was planning my proposal na. However, now I’m starting to feel like I want to end it and it’s the most unreasonable reason ever - her lack of success.
From when we became a couple to now, I’ve gone from running a failing business to becoming a 6-digit earner for a private company. She’s still jobless although nagaaral naman siya and doing everything to get to where she wants to get. May 1 year pa siya ng MA niya and I asked her na multiple times kung naconsider niya magwork while studying, di niya magawa kasi may responsibility siya sa bahay nila mainly to step up for everyone and to take care of her pamangkin lalo na. Nagkakatulong sila pero wala din di tumatagal.
Ilang beses na namin napagawayan iyong unreasonable demands sa kanya ng family niya. I even told her it is tearing us apart pero di niya matiis and thoguh siya din naman maraming moments na ng galit and frustrations sa family niya, wala eh she keeps going back and helping them and enabling them.
Ilang beses ko na sinabing let’s start planning our lives together and maybe even consider looking for a potential place namin, ayaw daw niya habang wala pa siyang work ayaw daw niya na nakadepend lang sakin, which I find honorable but at the same time, bakit ayaw niya maghanap na ng work and balance it with MA para we can really start talkijg and working on the next step. Maybe and probably because of her family, her toxic family who just expects her to give and give and give.
Now I am typing this frustrated kasi mahal na mahal ko siya pero I also feel stuck now with her. Recently pa nalaman ko na almost back to square one with her pamangkin kasi she has autism and she needs extra help. Iyong ate niya wala din plano kunin anak niya kahit may path na siya to citizenship. I hate her ate so much, buhay dalaga di naman siya isang kahig isang tuka. She buys expensive bags and clothes pero sobrang hands off niya sa mga anak niya. My gf’s mom also is a big time enabler and just lets her do what she wants kahit na pabayang nanay si ate ng gf ko sa daughter niya na need ng extra help and may autism. The ate barely goes home and fully expects tita and my gf to take care of her daughter. Nag-away recently si tita pati gf ko kasi sobrang fed up na din ng gf ko pero ilang beses na to nangyari and at the end of it all, wala babalik din gf ko to step up for the family.
I do my best to be fully supportive and to get out of her way kasi ayoko talaga dumagdag pa sa problema niya, for years I always do my best to help her family and my gf kasi ayoko nahihirapan siya, ayokong siya lang nagsestep up para sa family nila. But at the same time, her family barely acknowledges me. Her ate who I hate with a passion doesn’t even acknowledge me. Di man lang mag-hi sakin kapag umuuwi siya from Australia. I feel such an outsider kahit 4 years na kami ng gf ko. I feel like I don’t belong sa family kahit na sobrang dami ko din tulong na ginagawa para sa kanila. Petty na kung petty pero kahit pasalubong di ako binibilhan, never got a bday gift from her family. Wala talaga. Meanwhile siya sobrang spoiled sa family ko, sobrang love na love siya and welcome. She keeps telling me na ganun lang talaga kasj ugali ni tita and her ate but it still freakin’ hurts. I feel like an outsider na walang karapatan kahit na marami din silang pakinabang sakin.
I communicate all my frustrations with my gf but IDK wala naman nagbabago eh. Worst pa is with recent things feeling ko reset button ulit and marami ulit expectations sa gf ko to again step up for the family. I want tk keep supporting her, I want to keep staying strong but also I’m so tired and I want to break up with her. Di na aligned plans namin and I’m honestly just really tire. Ilang taon na kami together pero ang layo pa bago kami makarating sa next step ng relationship. It’s stuck on neutral and although my gf takes steps to get our relationship to the next level (move in and marriage) sobrang tagal pang panahon IDK if I can still wait any longer. Be honest, am I being unreasonable? I still love her but I’m so tired and I’m also getting restless waiting… I don’t know anymore…

CoH3 is finally ready for its first Free Weekend! As someone playing since pre-alpha and the launch, the game has come a long way despite a super rocky road.
Some of you free weekenders may have dropped the game after launch or shortly after because you weren’t satisfied, and that’s extremely understandable.
For the curious, here is a list (in no particular order) of almost everything COH3 has NOW after its first year that it DIDN’T have on launch day:

• AMD FidelityFX Super Resolution (FSR) support
• Replays and the new “Caster” Replay UI
• Improved Pings (sound effects + minimap visibility + floating 3D indicator)
• The ability to spectate the map and chat after a game.
• Consistent multiplayer team color assignment (you’d sometimes play as Red team at launch, now your player color is consistent to the colors your teammates see)
• Viewable Player Names in multiplayer (plus ‘floating’ player names which is a franchise first)
• Players in the same party now guaranteed to spawn next to each other (franchise first)
• Hide vehicle team colors
• Vote to Surrender
• Early Leaver Penalty (franchise first)
• Map “Veto” Preference
• MAPS! 12 total maps on launch. Now there are more maps and an established internal pipeline for Community Maps to enter the official map pool.
• Viewable multiplayer matchmaking ratio (Allies % vs Axis %)
• 4 additional Battlegroups, 1 for each faction (2 are currently free to claim right now!)
• Mission Select for both Italy and Africa campaigns
• Improved Italy Campaign experience (no more repetitive skirmishes and mechanics overhaul)
• The Store and currency of Warbonds + Merit
• Skins for all factions (costing Warbonds + Merit)
• “Challenges” to earn Merit currency
• In-Game Player Profiles
• ELO ranks and leaderboards (leaderboard is viewable online)
• Customizable player titles and banners
• “Accolades” player progression (for the above rewards)
• Vehicle crush! (For balance reasons, you can crush infantry but only when they’re pinned)
• Graphical improvements (including improved ambient occlusion, atmospheric fog, bloom, and tone mapping)
• Main menu redesign (NEW vs OLD)
• Indicators for when your units are targeted by a plane loiter
• Improved plane trajectory visuals
• Off-map Smoke colors (green for unit call-in, yellow for light arty, red for RUN AWAY)
• Off-map radius indicator via 3 smoke flares instead of 1 red smoke in COH2
• Newsfeed window on main menu for news, maintenance announcements, and events.
• New and improved Tutorial for new players
• Improved pathfinding (WIP)
• Improved input-delay and unit responsiveness
• Improved weapon SFX (WIP)
• Improved Tac-Map visuals and readability
• Faction-specific mine models
• Improved map deformation from artillery (craters that give yellow cover)
• Reinforce unit speed tied to how far you are from base (farther = much slower)
• Height advantage no longer outright ignoring cover
• The ability to skip the opening cinematic by holding ESC.
• Fixed player “drop hacking” (‘sync-error detected’)
• Added 1 tick of extra zoom out (default is the same camera level as COH2 zoom)
• Difficulty Selection for Coop vs A.I.
• Capture Point flag raising/lowering animations

Let me know if I’m missing anything in the comments. Saying COH3 wasn’t great at launch and it should’ve should’ve had all of these listed things from the start is pretty much beating a dead horse at this point, but it was certainly rough and year one was excruciating waiting for all these improvements that we now have.
However, I genuinely believe the game is finally in a great state now and it’s great to see Relic’s dedication to see the game continue to improve moving forward. If you didn’t like COH3 around launch, maybe give it a chance!
If you’re new to COH3 feel free to check this subreddit’s sidebar sidebar and wiki for community resources, such as useful websites and guides! Good luck and have fun!

I’m sorry po if English mostly pero dun po ako mas sanay! This is a read.
Since January di na po kami okay ng mother ko. Only child lang po ako, present po both magulang ko and my mother was always there to support me sa mga school activities, big events, etc. Even got to provide me a debut. But she was never really present as I was growing up. Parati po siya nasa office of course to give me a comfortable life. I’m actually proud of how far my family has come, from a small bungalow house, both my parents managed to get well-paying jobs and upgraded our house to a three-story, and can afford a lot for me.
So a background of me, I(F) am now turning 20 in July. I run a Twitter account with a good amount of followers, (3k, nothing crazy) that mainly focuses on a hobby. The community is very big, but I am mostly mutuals or friends with online people who are LGBTQ+. I identify myself as a lesbian. Most of the friends I made there are also Filipinos and I’ve met up with them a few times. We don’t really do anything bad or unusual, we just geek about our hobby. Despite this, I have a balance of my irl and online friends. I have multiple circles before that made me happy, different kinds of people to hang out with.
A background of my mother(55). She’s very religious, unlike my father, but we never had time for church until this issue happened. I promise you, we never went to church even once a month, only during Holy Week. We also have a huge age gap, she was 36 when she had me. She’s very conservative and still old-schooled. So you can safely assume, she doesn’t want her only child and daughter to be a lesbian.
I will tell you, all my life, my mother was focused on me. She could always log into my Facebook account ever since I created it til I reached 18, because I remembered it vividly that she’d agreed to let me go when I reach 18. She could always read any conversation I had with friends, which was akward at times when guy friends would send inappropriate memes which is normal and not even harmful as long as it’s not directed towards me or any other girls.
Back going to the actual thing that happened that completely fucked up me and my mother’s relationship. I met and fell in love with someone, a girl, on Twitter who was also Filipino of course. Eventually we came to date and I had the stupid idea to ask her out to come over at our condo, with pure intetions at first. I asked my mother beforehand if it’s okay if someone came over but I lied and said it’s my classmates coming over. She allowed me naman. So my GF(20) came and at first we just hanged out and talked, we even took a picture together and I tweeted that out to flex about her to my friends and followers, enjoying each other’s company, but of course I couldn’t help myself but do something with her. I’m sure people will have the idea what it was. My GF got home safe and I went on with my day.
The next day, or night rather, my parents drove me back home to our province. My mother asked me to try on my new school uniform she ordered (kasi po may summer uniforms uni namin) and so I did. I changed clothes in her walk-in closet and when she walked in and saw me in just my underwear she saw the marks my GF left that I failed to hide (I actually hid them the night before with concealer but I forgot to do so the next day) So of course she got upset and asked who really did come to the condo.
Later on she reveals to me that she’s been stalking my Twitter account without me knowing. Even showed me the picture me and my GF took I tweeted out. I’ve never kept my Twitter hobby a secret from my parents, I just never told them my username. Of course I didn’t want them to see the things I posted about which were mostly just fictional lesbian characters from shows or games, inappropriate jokes, dark humor that most of my generation talks about. It was my own thing but my mother still had to become nosy about it.
After all that happened, I even came clean to make her check the condo’s logbook to even reveal my GF’s name and where she lived in PH, just because I was already scared of all the degrading and shit she told me. She never physicslly abused me, but this time, the verbal abuse really hurt me. My mother was always soft when she scolded me, hindi too far na mumurahin or bibigatan ng kamay, but this time she really was. She’s a mild helicopter parent in contrast to my dad.
I came out to her and she couldn’t accept it of course and she kept saying she was a failure as a mother. She probably raised such a nice girl, I only rebelled (even a lot as a young teenager) because my parents were strict with me. I never learned how to fight back against my bullies. I was never in any issues with anyone at school like most high schoolers have nowadays.
She threatened, “Sisirain ko ang pamilya ng sumira sa pamilya natin.” She threatened she’ll ask the NBI to track down my GF, ruin her and her family.
This is no exaggeration because my mother has lots of connections and is part of the higher-ups, a chairman of the board, from one of the Philippine’s top companies that is very well known. She boasts about getting away with running red lights because she threatens the PNP by calling the head from a city. She managed to get a security guard fired just by talking to the acting manager of SMX during that time from an Anime Convention I attended just because she wouldn’t let me in again because you had to start at the very end of the line if you left the venue. Her company and SMX have a great relationship. We manage to get into the VIP Boxes at MOA Arena for concerts because her company sells tickets to client companies.
She threatened to get my GF expelled, I begged that to not happen because she’s only also a student and I was the one who initiated what we did in bed. She threatened a lot of things and continued to berate me;
“Sana inipit nalang kita.”
“Sana hindi ka na nabuhay.”
“Napakababoy mo, baboy lang ang gumagawa sa ginagawa mo.”
“Ang bakla mas malinis pa sa tomboy.”
“Gagapang ka sa kahirapan.”
“O ano? Gusto mo lumayas? Pumunta ka dun sa pamilya ng tomboy na yun mararape ka ng tatay at mga kuya non!”
“KUNG PWEDE LANG IPARAPE KITA SA SAMPUNG LALAKI”
Those two bits are true. Those left me shocked. Hindi ko inaakala kaya yun sabihin ng nanay ko. Dun ako natakot sobra. And to give my GF’s parents credit, both of them are well-off people din with manners and my GF has no brothers.
Eventually, I had a support system and reasonable people that reassured me that my mother was bluffing about everything, she just knows how much I’m a coward against her. Even told me, “Magpasalamat nga siya di ka nagdrodroga o nagyoyosi.” I have no addiction or bisyo at all.
It was difficult to heal after almost 5 months now. She still keeps bringing it up whenever she’s frustrated with me. She’s not well educated with the LGBTQ+. Doesn’t know the differences between Gender Identity, Orientation and Preference. She uses that against me.
She believes just because I’m a lesbian I’ll be changing my look into a stereotypical masc “tomboy” from the PH. Oh did I mention, she managed to make the word “tomboy” sound like a slur to me.
She keeps saying “Babae ka! Babae ka!” And I don’t even deny it, I always reply back, “Oo nga babae ako pero gusto ko padin babae.”
Sa sobrang OA ng ermats ko and her multiple breakdowns she even mentioned that she’d offer to take me to Thailand so she could pay for a genital surgery and get me a penis. I never once thought of that, hello?
All in all, of course I admit that I was always at fault and I take responsibility for lying to my parents about bringing my GF to the condo. At this point, me and my GF are still together but we are not taking any chances meeting up even if we can and have the choice to do so because we are both scared of my mother tracking us down to anywhere.
You know what happened to me? Sa sobrang takot ko sa mother ko, I never hanged out with my uni friends ever again. I’m not even joking about it, kahit ano pong aya nila sakin na kumain dito or anywhere sasabihin ko nalang. “Sorry di ako pwede baka magalit nanaman nanay ko.”
Because you know what happened once???
Natapos lang uni class ko one time and pauwi na ko as in sasakay ng jeep tapos itetext ako ng ermats ko, “Sino kasama mo? Kasama mo nanaman yung tomboy na yun noh?” I just finished with my last period and both my parents know about my schedule. Sa tingin niyo makakatakas pa ako?
Ever since she knows about my sexual orientation she keeps bringing it up and using it against me. Di lang ako naligo once kasi hindi ako napawisan at sobrang lamig na sa kwarto ko kasi sa AC na BUONG ARAW nakabukas, sinabihan ba naman ako, “Kahit iba na gender preference mo kailangan mo padin maging malinis sa katawan naging dugyot ka na.”
Gusto niya kami makipag-ayos at nananahimik na ko sa sobrang takot ko sakaniya but she still becomes dramatic when she can’t cuddle me in bed (nasanay siya na co-sleeping kami), I only nod, shake my head or say “mmm” when she talks to me. Hindi ko naman siya iniignore and I sumusunod padin ako sa mga utos niya.
Ako Padin Ba Yung Gago dito? I’ll accept kahit parehas kaming gago.
Dedelete ko din toh if I get sufficient answers. Takot ako baka mahanap toh ng ermats ko. I don’t know what she’s capable of.

Hello sa mga CBA peepz ng PUP Main! Na-experience niyo rin ba tong si Prof Echoz. Hindi nagtuturo, kasi facilitator lang daw siya. Puro reportings pero pagdating ng exam, sa materials niya kukunin mga questions. Tapos ipagmamalaki na wala daw nakakapasa sa exams niya. Hellooo??? Tapos kapag bagsak ka sa exam niya need mo gumawa ng video appeal. Like, itatapat mo sa mukha mo yung camera, tapos magmamakaawa ka na need mo pumasa kasi ganto ganyan. Tf! Tapos para bigyan ka ng uno na grades kailangan mo muna ipakita sa kanya na 100% siya sa evaluation. The nerve of this so-called law graduate pero di makapasa-pasa ng bar. Buti na lang!
Pinakamalala pa, for grades need mo bumili ng raffle ticket sa kanya worth 400. Four fucking hundred!!! Estudyante kami ng PUP, imagine kung gano kabigdeal samin ang 400 nung time na yon. Tapos one time, nagkaron ng event sa CBA, ang usapan kapag nanalo kami matik uno. So ayon, nanalo nga kami. Now, when the moment of truth came, bigayan na ng grades. We reminded him of the agreement but sabi niya, okay lang daw na hindi kami bumili ng tix sa kanya uno pa rin daw kasi nanalo kami, pero if ever maging teacher namin siya ulit, blacklisted na kami. Urgh! One more thing, CBA Torch is calling him out, at nung malaman niya na isa sa klasmeyts namin ang member non, gago binabaan niya grades.
I swear, I will never forget the face of that devil!
Lumaban ba kami? No. We can't dahil grades naming lahat ang nakataya. As someone who aspires to be a laude one day, we cannot afford to have failing grades. I wished I was strong enough to call him out, but I know in the end, ako pa rin yung talo. So, I decided to just follow him with my eyes closed and just cursed him silently.
Huli naming balita is nagkaron ata ng lawsuit against him because of CBA funds? I'm not sure. Basta may kinalaman sa CBA because he was the president at that time.
Well, deserved! At sana talaga wala na siya sa PUP o sa kahit anong institusyon, isa siyang lason! Mapagsamantala!
bobo naman

Ask ko lang, depression pa po ba ito or pagiging pabaya na? Yung sister ko kasi walang work pero ayaw na mag apply kasi ayaw na bumalik sa toxicity ng corporate world. Pero sa bahay hindi rin kumikilos. Kahit pinggan niya, pinapahugas niya sa amin. Iniiwan niya lang. Tapos sobrang gulo ng gamit niya. May father kami na may cancer, so medyo mahirap for us financially tsaka in terms of trabaho sa bahay - kasi may alagain. Ako may work, main provider, 7 months buntis pero umuwi ako sa amin para alagaan father namin, then ako ang laging sumasama sa ospital tapos minsan 12+ hours kami sa ospital in a day. Tapos pag uwi ko, ako pa maghuhugas ng pinggan at mag aasikaso sa father namin, kahit medyo hirap na ko kumilos kasi 7 months na akong buntis. Tapos yung sister ko puro laptop, cellphone, kakain at matutulog na lang. Lagi niyang dahilan, dahil sa depression niya kaya di siya makakilos. Clinically diagnosed naman po siya. Pero minsan nakakapagod na. Ginagawa ko lahat ng part ko kahit yung asawa ko ay nagtitiis na lang din - nagwowork din siya sa malayo para sa baby namin. Gusto na sana ng asawa ko na magpahinga na ako pero hindi ko rin magawa kasi di naman makausap nang maayos yung kapatid ko at ayaw talaga kumilos. Minsan yung asawa ko yung sumasama sa father ko kapag day off niya.

Hi! Kakalog in ko lang dito. Nakikita ko lang to sa tiktok and aliw na aliw ako magbasa. So I like to share din. Just to let it out.
This is about my lovelife. I don’t know kung nakasanayan ko na ba to. Dahil sa mga past relationships ko. Feeling ko nga magnet na ako ng mga manloloko e. Palagi na lang napupunta sakin ung may cheating issue. Alam ko naman yung tama o mali pero I cant help it. Ganon akong tao e. Tanga kakayanin hanggang maubos. Or feeling ko magbabago at naniniwala pa din sa mga kasinungalingan niya.
Back story: Im 34F and LGBT kami - . Lesbian (37F) yung partner ko, actually pulis sya. Nagmeet kami sa HER, online dating. Andami dami kong namatch dun pero di talaga nagtatagal. Sya lang talaga yung nakakuha ng loob ko. Sobrang galing magsalita. Parang totoo ang lahat ng sinasabe at pinapangako nya. By the way, dito ako sa quezon province ngayon and siya naman sa manila. Going 6 months na yung relationship namen peroooo sinampal na ako talaga ng katotohanan nung february palang. Hanggang ngayon andito pa din, nagpapaloko. Hay!
Red flags ni ulaga- Tanginang yan- tatlo ang facebook account! Andun pako sa dummy account. Wtf dba?
Tapos nung february dahil sa detective skills ko nakita ko yung main account nya at nakita ko na may jowa pala talaga sya!!!! Profile pic pa nga nung girl UNTIL NOW!
Pangako na magllive in kami- eh ni hindi nga nya ako mapakilala or madala man lang sa bahay nila. Sa part ko- kilala na sya ng pamilya at kaibigan ko. Lahat ng malalapit sakin kilala niya. Ako? Wala kahit isang kaibigan nya wala ako nameet.
Nagwowork yung relationship namen kase nageeffort din talaga kaming dalawa. Umuuwi sya dito tapos ako naman pumupunta sa manila para magkita kami, minsan every 2weeks or minsan weekly. Okay na okay siya e. Mabait at maalaga sakin. And problema lang talaga napakababaero! Akala mo sobrang gwapo niya.
Nung una, parang napakaemotional ko, iyak ako ng iyak. Overthink ako ng overthink! Pero ngayon, parang hinahayaan ko na lang. Magsinungaling sya, go. Di naman ako nagkakasala at sya naman. Mambabae sya, go lang. Gustong gusto kong iwan e. Ilang beses n nga kami nagbreak pero lagi niya akong sinusuyo.
Kaya ngayon, hinahayaan ko na lang sarili ko. Kung anuman ang mangyare, sige lang. Alam ko naman na mauubos din ako.

Okay so nakipag break ako last week, kasi di ko na kinakaya yung katamaran niya as a whole person tapos marami pang ibang dahilan. Tapos last nov kasi nabasa ko yung convo niya abt mga babaeng "nasibak" niya na oo beh yan talaga yung word sarap tagain eh pero so eto na nga maraming bagay kaya ako nakipagbreak pero di naman ito yung main reason, oo minor reason pa yan so kasi na nagsinungaling siya sakin tapos nalaman ko dun sa convo nila ng kuya niya nung nov
Add ko lang pala, nagsinungaling siya nung bago pa kami na virgin daw siya pero nalaman ko thru a mutual friend na hindi naman talaga tas ang dahilan sakin eh baka raw kasi di ko siya tanggapin... pwede ba magmura dito T.T
Okay so yung mga nalaman ko nung nov na di ko siya kinonfront is

• 4 na raw "nasibak" niyang babae pero ang kwento sakin (after ko paaminin dun da lie niya na virgin) is 3 palang daw so okay sino yung isa diba
  
• yung last fling niya kasi kaklase niya until now tapos galit daw siya don kasi pinagmukha daw siyang cheater kahit na si girl daw yung bumalik sa ex nung talking stage sila (puta ang funny kasi nito ko lang narealize, nagra rant pa yang lalake na yan na di niya raw maiintindihan mga babae na galit sa mga lalake na maraming kausap pag single, eh sila tong talking stage palang din pero nila label niya na si girl na cheater kasi bumalik sa ex habang talking stage sila
  

Nalilingat sorry so eto na nga, si last fling niya kwento niya sa kuya niya "nanghihinayang" siya na di niya nasibak tapos kung natira niya raw di siya iiwan
Putangina nakakadiri eh bat ko ba to pinatulan huhu
So ang tanong ko ay DIBA MICROCHEATING NA YON?! HAHAHAHAHAHAH
Last nov ko pa yon nabasa pero di ko siya kinonfront, nito lang nung nakikipagbreak ako tapos ang sagot sakin "oo sige magalit ka sakin tungkol dyan kahit na hanggang salita lang naman yan kasi galit talaga ako dun sa taong yun" si atecco ayaw paawat HAHAHAHHS
Hindi ako nagsisisi na nakipag break ako, sadyang napapaisip lang hehe

Okay so nakipag break ako last week, kasi di ko na kinakaya yung katamaran niya as a whole person tapos marami pang ibang dahilan. Tapos last nov kasi nabasa ko yung convo niya abt mga babaeng "nasibak" niya na oo beh yan talaga yung word sarap tagain eh pero so eto na nga maraming bagay kaya ako nakipagbreak pero di naman ito yung main reason, oo minor reason pa yan so kasi na nagsinungaling siya sakin tapos nalaman ko dun sa convo nila ng kuya niya nung nov
Add ko lang pala, nagsinungaling siya nung bago pa kami na virgin daw siya pero nalaman ko thru a mutual friend na hindi naman talaga tas ang dahilan sakin eh baka raw kasi di ko siya tanggapin... pwede ba magmura dito T.T
Okay so yung mga nalaman ko nung nov na di ko siya kinonfront is

• 4 na raw "nasibak" niyang babae pero ang kwento sakin (after ko paaminin dun da lie niya na virgin) is 3 palang daw so okay sino yung isa diba
  
• yung last fling niya kasi kaklase niya until now tapos galit daw siya don kasi pinagmukha daw siyang cheater kahit na si girl daw yung bumalik sa ex nung talking stage sila (puta ang funny kasi nito ko lang narealize, nagra rant pa yang lalake na yan na di niya raw maiintindihan mga babae na galit sa mga lalake na maraming kausap pag single, eh sila tong talking stage palang din pero nila label niya na si girl na cheater kasi bumalik sa ex habang talking stage sila
  

Nalilingat sorry so eto na nga, si last fling niya kwento niya sa kuya niya "nanghihinayang" siya na di niya nasibak tapos kung natira niya raw di siya iiwan
Putangina nakakadiri eh bat ko ba to pinatulan huhu
So ang tanong ko ay DIBA MICROCHEATING NA YON?! HAHAHAHAHAHAH
Last nov ko pa yon nabasa pero di ko siya kinonfront, nito lang nung nakikipagbreak ako tapos ang sagot sakin "oo sige magalit ka sakin tungkol dyan kahit na hanggang salita lang naman yan kasi galit talaga ako dun sa taong yun" si atecco ayaw paawat HAHAHAHHS
Hindi ako nagsisisi na nakipag break ako, sadyang napapaisip lang hehe

hi! i'm currently a first year stats student and im buying a tablet sana that would last until my last year. i'll be using it po mainly for streaming videos, taking notes, and a little bit of programming (until second year lang yata kami magpprogramming). my choices are:
tab s9+ , 256gb 12 ram (php 40,500 from chrisgadgets) why: malaki screen 12.4 inch 120 hz no need na icharge nung pen dex mode
ipad air 5 , 256gb (php 37,000 from kaizen shop) why: mas tatagal daw
never pa ako nakapagtry ng apple product that's why nagdadalawang isip ako if bibili po nung ipad since i'm scared na i'll messed up with its battery life, tapos based sa mga nababasa kong reviews, mas tumatagal daw talaga yong ipad sa lahat ng tablet kahit old models, striving pa rin daw until now.
sa s9+ naman po, nagdadalawang isip ako if legit yong unit nung chrisgadget kasi ang baba po nung presyo nya nung tab eh flagship model po yon, hindi FE lang.
ano po mas suitable na gadget for me? mas pinapahalagahan ko po talaga yong longevity more than any other factors po. thank you!!