Sape2 yang main mcpe tu kalau bosan jom lah main ngan aku.. Aku dah bosan main sorang2.

I’d like to visit at least 3 locations over 3 months, mostly because of the housing discount you normally get for booking 30 days.
First I’ll tell you a little about me, and my goals during my travels. I’m a 22 y.o American and enjoy racquet sports, beaches, hiking, and would probably enjoy water activities as well. I dislike clubs/party scenes (or atleast Im not naturally comfortable there), and prefer a smaller group of close friends to hangout with. I’m traveling to train Muay Thai, however in my spare time I’d like to have some fun with girls, that are preferably not freelancers, and can take me around to cool locations or nice eating spots
I’ll likely travel in late July, and would love recommendations for affordable areas with the best clean swimmable beaches, and has a culture where dating casually with Americans for just a few weeks to months isn’t taboo. My main locations in order of favorites seem to be Pattaya, Krabi, Koh Pha Ngan, Bangkok and Chiang Mai. Koh Pha Ngan seems to have the best beaches of the bunch, but housing seems less affordable for the quality, and I’d assume there are less regular girls than compared to the mainlands.
As far as Muay Thai gyms, each city seems to have a bunch and so I’ll pick one catered around the location I’d like to stay at.
I’d like to spend less than 450 per month on accommodation. Definitely affordable anywhere but I’d prefer a cheaper area so I can get higher quality, nice shower, small kitchen etc. Would be nice for when I bring anyone over as well
TLDR Main Points: Looking for 3 cities over 3 months. 22 Y.O American, Coming for Muay Thai Training, Clean Swimmable Beaches, Not a club/party enjoyer, And would prefer normal girls over professionals.
I’ve already done a lot of research and I don’t think I can necessarily go wrong anywhere in Thailand, but I’d like to hear from those of you who’ve actually lived there

Hi all! I (24/F) am doing a solo trip to Thailand primarily in southern Thailand for 17 days at the end of June/beginning of July. I have gone through countless Reddit threads so I have a good idea of what the weather will be like in the areas I'm looking at, but I keep seeing so many conflicting opinions on which islands to visit.
About Me: I want to see as many beautiful beaches and viewpoints as possible, meet lots of other solo travelers, try local food, and do a little bit of partying. I don't feel comfortable riding a bike and would prefer to avoid them if possible, but I'm aware this is the main mode of transportation on some of the islands.
I mainly need help figuring out how to split my time between Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao (or if I should skip any of these islands altogether).
My rough, flexible itinerary:

• Day 1: Bangkok, 1 night (airport hotel, get in late)
• Days 2-4: Krabi, 3 nights (Ao Nang or Railay, tbd)
• Days 5-6: Koh Phi Phi, 2 nights
• Days 7-14: Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao, 7 nights
• Days 15-17: Bangkok, 3 nights

Willing to cut time from Krabi/Koh Phi Phi to have more time in Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao. Trying to see a lot in these 17 days, but I will be flying wherever possible to cut down travel times (ex. Krabi to Koh Samui).
Any input would be greatly appreciated!

Hi all! I (24/F) am doing a solo trip to Thailand primarily in southern Thailand for 17 days at the end of June/beginning of July. I have gone through countless Reddit threads so I have a good idea of what the weather will be like in the areas I'm looking at, but I keep seeing so many conflicting opinions on which islands to visit.
About Me: I want to see as many beautiful beaches and viewpoints as possible, meet lots of other solo travelers, try local food, and do a little bit of partying. I don't feel comfortable riding a bike and would prefer to avoid them if possible, but I'm aware this is the main mode of transportation on some of the islands.
I mainly need help figuring out how to split my time between Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao (or if I should skip any of these islands altogether).
My rough, flexible itinerary:

• Day 1: Bangkok, 1 night (airport hotel, get in late)
• Days 2-4: Krabi, 3 nights (Ao Nang or Railay, tbd)
• Days 5-6: Koh Phi Phi, 2 nights
• Days 7-14: Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao, 7 nights
• Days 15-17: Bangkok, 3 nights

Willing to cut time from Krabi/Koh Phi Phi to have more time in Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao. Trying to see a lot in these 17 days, but I will be flying wherever possible to cut down travel times (ex. Krabi to Koh Samui).
Any input would be greatly appreciated!

Hi all! I (24/F) am doing a solo trip to Thailand primarily in southern Thailand for 17 days at the end of June/beginning of July. I have gone through countless Reddit threads so I have a good idea of what the weather will be like in the areas I'm looking at, but I keep seeing so many conflicting opinions on which islands to visit.
About Me: I want to see as many beautiful beaches and viewpoints as possible, meet lots of other solo travelers, try local food, and do a little bit of partying. I don't feel comfortable riding a bike and would prefer to avoid them if possible, but I'm aware this is the main mode of transportation on some of the islands.
I mainly need help figuring out how to split my time between Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao (or if I should skip any of these islands altogether).
My rough, flexible itinerary:

• Day 1: Bangkok, 1 night (airport hotel, get in late)
• Days 2-4: Krabi, 3 nights (Ao Nang or Railay, tbd)
• Days 5-6: Koh Phi Phi, 2 nights
• Days 7-14: Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao, 7 nights
• Days 15-17: Bangkok, 3 nights

Willing to cut time from Krabi/Koh Phi Phi to have more time in Koh Samui/Ko Pha-Ngan/Ko Tao. Trying to see a lot in these 17 days, but I will be flying wherever possible to cut down travel times (ex. Krabi to Koh Samui).
Any input would be greatly appreciated!

Yang dah kahwin baik lelaki atau perempuan, when you are horny tapi husband/wife tak nak sex apa je yang korang buat to satisfy your lust? Is masturbating the only choice? Or you guys distract your horniness dengan benda2 lain macam main game, tengok netflix, dan sebagainya. How do you handle it?

Ini adalah cerita tentang pasien nomor sembilan yang datang padaku murni sebagai pesakitan. Allsya, remaja yang terlahir dari keluarga berada tapi tak bisa menikmati bahagia. Ditempa oleh keadaan yang memaksanya untuk dewasa sebelum waktunya. Diusianya yang masih belia ia mencari tentang keadilan, perbedaan laki-laki dan perempuan, dan pembedaan perlakuan. Ketika di penghujung SMP--masa sibuknya ujian, berhasil menemukan jawaban. Patriarki. Selain dari buku yang dibacanya, ia juga mendapatkan pemahaman dari Ersya--mahasiswa yang sedang KKN di desanya. Menjalin kedekatan. Mengajari banyak hal setiap malam, berbagi perhatian, dan juga memberi perlindungan layaknya sepasang kakak-beradik. Tiga bulan sudah, tiba masanya Ersya harus pulang. Tugasnya telah usai dan harus kembali menyelesaikan studynya di kota asal. Tentu saja Allsya tak baik-baik saja setelah perpisahan. Terciptanya kebersamaan membuatnya merasa kehilangan. Terlebih ketika mimpinya dipaksa mati oleh sang ayah dengan jeratan sebuah perjodohan. Ketika ia datang padaku memberanikan diri bercerita tentang sekelumit hidupnya sebagai upaya penyembuhan diri, maka mata hatiku merubah cara pandang tentangnya. Menebas segala prasangka yang sempat tercipta karena kesaksianku yang tidak utuh. Keputusannya datang padaku adalah momentum terbaik untuk melengkapi bagian rumpang yang sering mengundang pikiran yang bukan-bukan serta kesimpulan tanpa rujukan. Namun secara tidak langsung ia mengajakku bermain-main dalam labirinnya. Bahkan bukan lagi bersifat ajakan melainkan paksaan karena ini menyangkut tanggung jawab profesi. Baiklah, dengan bantuan diary sebagai saksi bisu sang pemiliknya yang dibiarkan aku baca, kesaksian seorang lelaki yang sangat kupuja, serta mataku sendiri yang menyaksikan beberapa bagian hidupnya, aku susun benang merah dari hidup seorang pasien nomor sembilan. Silahkan, saksikan saja kinerjaku ini! Read more

The Vibes

My favorite flavor of fantasy has high stakes, suffering and loss, romance that makes you feel like you're losing your mind, and a realistic HEA or bittersweet ending.
Most importantly, I like thoughtful, well-edited writing. I see a lot of requests and recommendations for "beautiful writing" here, but that’s not exactly what I look for. Flowery prose is great! Spare prose is also great! I can even enjoy choppy, inelegant writing, as long as the author has something compelling to say. I am on my hands and knees, begging for subtext.
THINGS I LIKE:

• Third person PoV
• Slow burn and/or enemies to lovers
• Serious tone with humor sprinkled in
• Strong women who support other women
• Sad men with feral cat vibes

THINGS I DON'T LIKE:

• Pregnancy/kids
• Poly, RH, omegaverse
• Shadow Daddies™
• MC who’s the best assassin in the world or has super OP magical abilities, etc.
• Unrealistic dialogue

(A couple of these exist even in my favorite books.)
THINGS I'M FINE WITH:

• Any gender pairing
• Age gaps
• Violence, gore, horror
• Conventionally unattractive characters
• Spice level 1-4 out of 5. Explicit scenes are great, but I prefer when they drive the plot forward and make me feel like all my nerve endings are on fire because oh my god they're finally touching.
• Most content warnings. I like exploration of dark themes as long as the author doesn't promote them as good or healthy.

The Ratings

Many of these books are not classified as fantasy romance, but all include at least a dash of romance.
SO OBSESSED I FEEL LIKE I'M GOING INSANE:

• His Dark Materials series by Philip Pullman
  • Nothing will ever compare. I will never be whole again.
• The Old Kingdom series by Garth Nix
  • The original trilogy is the standard to which I hold all other fantasy with regard to worldbuilding and sharp plotting. It feels like the blueprint for everything I love in the genre.
• The Winternight Trilogy by Katherine Arden
  • Nobody can make me cry the way Katherine Arden can. Often it’s not even sad stuff, but I'm over here in tears anyway. A house-spirit who lives in an oven? A horse who’s also a bird? Sobbing.
• Captive Prince series by C.S. Pacat
  • An enemies-to-lovers story that makes the term feel cheap when applied to anything else I’ve ever read. The characters suffer genuinely terrible acts, often at the hands of the other. Forgiveness feels impossible, but it comes, and it’s nuanced and bittersweet and triumphant.
  • Side note: I do not recommend the audiobooks (read by Stephen Bel Davies). The narration butchers Pacat’s delicate, understated writing style. As one Audible reviewer put it, it’s "like listening to your geography teacher read erotica." They do not mean in a sexy professor kink way.
• The Raven Cycle series by Maggie Stiefvater
  • There is so much magic and tenderness and platonic love in these books. I would die for any of the raven boys or ladies of 300 Fox Way, and they would all die for each other.
  • Unlike CaPri, I highly recommend the audiobooks here (read by Will Patton).
• Howl's Moving Castle by Diana Wynne Jones
  • Thus began my enduring obsessions with magical houses and blond men.

LOVED:

• Dark Rise series by C.S. Pacat
  • Pacat has done it again. I suspect this trilogy will get bumped up to "obsessed" once the third book is released.
• The Broken Earth Trilogy by N.K. Jemisin
  • Makes me feel like I’m drowning in love and grief for every woman who's ever lived.
• Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik
  • You have to squint to see the romance and honestly I'm into that.
• A Marvellous Light by Freya Marske
  • I am absolutely feral over the first book in this trilogy. I love the overarching plot, but didn’t vibe with the main romantic pairings in books two and three.
• Emily Wilde series by Heather Fawcett
• Circe by Madeline Miller
• Uprooted by Naomi Novik
• Draco Malfoy and the Mortifying Ordeal of Being in Love by isthisselfcare (fanfic)
  • This would probably belong in "obsessed" if it were original fiction.
• Manacled by senlinyu (fanfic)

NET POSITIVE FEELINGS:

• Literally anything by T. Kingfisher
  • I’ve read and enjoyed several. I almost love them, but they fall a little short. I will continue to read her works.
• The Mistborn Saga by Brandon Sanderson
  • I prefer softer magic systems, but Sanderson is fantastic regardless.
• Shades of Magic series by V.E. Schwab
• Six of Crows series by Leigh Bardugo
• Graceling by Kristin Cashore
• A Charm of Magpies series by K.J. Charles
  • Loved the magic system. Loved the writing. Romance was rushed.
• A Taste of Gold and Iron by Alexandra Rowland
  • Pros: royal x bodyguard romance is delicious. Cons: if I wanted this much healthy communication about emotions I would go to therapy.
• A Strange and Stubborn Endurance by Foz Meadows
  • Borderline "not for me" because I may not continue the series, but I enjoyed the first book and it works okay as a standalone.

NOT FOR ME/ LOST INTEREST:

• Daughter of No Worlds by Carissa Broadbent (finished book, DNF series)
  • Man, I wanted to love this series. In theory, the plot and themes tick so many boxes for me. In practice, I felt bogged down in the writing style.
• Sorcery of Thorns by Margaret Rogerson (DNF around 80%)
  • I wanted to love this one too, but it didn’t deliver.
• Radiance by Grace Draven (DNF around 80%)
  • Cute, but in my heart I am just a girl who needs angst.
• The City of Brass by S.A. Chakraborty (finished book, DNF series)
  • I remember literally nothing about this.
• The Cruel Prince by Holly Black (DNF around 50%)
• An Ember in the Ashes by Sabaa Tahir (DNF around 50%)
• A Discovery of Witches by Deborah Harkness (DNF around 30%)
• The Bridge Kingdom by Danielle L. Jensen (DNF somewhere in first book)
• The Shadow and Bone Trilogy by Leigh Bardugo (DNF somewhere in second book)

ACTIVELY DISLIKED:

• A Court of Thorns and Roses series by Sarah J. Maas (DNF near end of second book)
  • Any criticism I could include here has already been made a million times.
• Throne of Glass by Sarah J. Maas (finished book, DNF series)
  • I hear this series gets better in the second or third book. Will I try to continue it? No.
• His Secret Illuminations by Scarlett Gale (skimmed to end of book, DNF series)
  • A delightful premise ruined by anachronistic dialogue. The characters are ostensibly living in a medieval-era fantasy realm and yet speak like Americans in the year of our Lord 2024.
• Villains & Virtues series by A.K. Caggiano (finished first book, skimmed others)
  • I loved the tongue-in-cheek humor in the opening and was excited to continue, but I found that the writing/editing quality plummeted after the first chapter. It felt like the author took extra care to get the first chapter cleaned up for querying purposes, but never bothered with the rest. Absolute slog. Kaz was the best part.
• From Blood and Ash by Jennifer L. Armentrout (finished book, DNF series)
  • All vibes and not an editor in sight.

MY CAUTIOUSLY OPTIMISTIC TBR:

• The Priory of the Orange Tree by Samantha Shannon
• The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller
• The Scholomance series by Naomi Novik
• The Goblin Emperor by Katherine Addison
• Peaches & Honey by R. Raeta
• Girls of Paper and Fire by Natasha Ngan
• The Spear Cuts Through Water by Simon Jimenez

Reminder that these are just my opinions and I honestly understand if you disagree with any/all of them. If you think we have similar tastes, I'd love to hear what other books you've loved or hated!
ETA: I implied this, but should have explicitly stated that several of these works have pretty serious content warnings.

Hi Everyone,
We are an Indian Couple (M 32, F 31) who travelled Thailand for 8 days 7 Nights in March 2024. I first travelled to Thailand (Koh Pha Ngan, Krabi and Bangkok) back in 2019 (pre-covid) and wanted Thailand to be the first place to take my spouse on our First International Trip Together. Our itinerary this time consisted of Phuket, Khao Sok National Park and Bangkok. I had recently learned about Reddit and how to use it effectively and read a lot of info posted on this forum and now want to pay it back for future travelers. I have tried to share as much information as I can along with the transportation and accommodations we stayed during our trip. This is a packed itinerary, hence please feel free to tailor it as per convenience.
Day 1: Arriving at Phuket International Airport -> Phuket Old Town -> Wat Chalong -> A Blanket and a Pillow -> Kata Beach -> Sunday Night Market (Phuket Old Town)

• We landed in Phuket International Airport around 12 noon local time. Visa was free on Arrival and we had booked our SIMs in advance on Klook. We chose DTAC SIM Cards (10 Days Validity and 50 GB) and the counter was present as soon as you exit Immigration
• Once outside we proceeded towards Gate 6 Exit -> A short walk to Domestic Terminal Exit 3 -> Right outside you will find the Orange Bus to head to Phuket Old Town. The trip costed 100 Bhat each and we reached our accommodation at the Arbern Bistro Hotel in Phuket Old Town.
• After a brief refresh, we headed for lunch at Lao Pa Sat at the beautiful Phuket Old Town Street and then caught a Songthaew at Ranong Road to head to our first stop at Wat Chalong. We skipped the Big Buddha and directly headed via Grab for a relaxing sunset at 'A Blanket and a Pillow' followed by some beach time at Kata Beach.
• Finally once again took a Grab back to the Hotel, refreshed ourselves and went to the famous Sunday Night Market at Phuket Old Town which was just walking distance from our hotel. Tried a lot of the local foods and desserts and was a great way to End Day 1

Day 2: James Bond Island, Phang Nga Bay, Hong Island -> Back to Hotel -> Patong Beach and Bangla Road

• Booked a tour via Klook for James Bond Island, Phang Nga Bay and Hong Island with Kayaking options. Though great at first, it became a little monotonous with the constant kayaking to very similar cave structures. Lunch was decent.
• Got dropped back to the hotel and after a quick recovery proceeded to Patong Beach using the Blue Songthaews
• This was probably the best part of the trip. It was kind of like entering into a completely new vibe very different from Old Town Phuket. We had a fun time at the beach taking part in the open Zumba sessions in the evening, great food at shops and cafes and the mandatory walk down the famous Bangla road. We headed back via Grab to the hotel and called it a night.

Day 3: Phuket Old Town -> Khao Sok Village

• The next leg of the itinerary involved checking out from our stay, a short grab ride to Phuket Bus Terminal 2 and on a 3 hour bus ride to Khao Sok Village via Bus 465
• Once we reached the village, we had a hotel pick arranged to take us to "Our Jungle House" and post a quick lunch went to explore the village as well as partake in a traditional Thai massage.
• The town has a great sleepy, chill vibe but we had to get back early to our stay due to the distance and walking involved (Outside of the main road the pathways leading to the accommodation are not well lit) and called it a night.

Day 4: Khao Sok Village -> Khao Sok National Park

• We booked the 3 Day 2 Night Package with our hotel and hence Day 4 involved checking out from a Tree house stay, placing our main luggage with the Hotel and starting towards the Khao Sok National Park.
• After a 1 to 1.5 cab ride with a short stop to get some snacks, we arrived at the Pier and headed by Long Tail boat over the Cheow Lan Lake to our stay for the night - A floating bamboo house along with several other guests
• Post a quick lunch, we had some fun with snorkeling and kayaking and in the evening headed out for a hike followed by a bamboo raft ride to some caves. We were fortunate enough to witness an elephant in the forest having its daily snack.
• We witnessed a beautiful sunset and were back to our accommodation and shortly after dinner, called it a night. We had difficulty in getting sleep due to frequent power outages and warm nights as well some bit of movement from the waves.

Day 5: Khao Sok Village -> Surat Thani Airport -> Bangkok

• We woke up pretty early to witness a beautiful sunset, headed out for a short boat ride to witness birds and limestone structures in the morning, had breakfast and headed back to the Pier
• Once at the pier, we went back to our hotel in Khao Sok Village, had lunch and then had a mini van arranged to take us to the Surat Thani Airport for the flight to Bangkok
• We arrived in Bangkok at 9 30 pm and then took the A2 Bus to Victory Monument. These buses are parked in front of the Arrival Hall on the first floor of Terminal 1 (Exit No 6)
• After a 1 hr ride to Victory Monument, had dinner and proceeded to our accommodation for the next 3 nights at Fyn Park Hotel near Victory Monument

Day 6: Grand Palace -> Wat Pho -> Wat Arun -> Asiatique Riverfront -> Khao San Road

• Started our bright and early and proceeded from Victory Monument BTS to Saphan Takshin BTS - Proceeded to Sathon Pier and took the boat with the Orange Flag.
• Proceeded to the Grand Palace, went for Lunch at a place called "The Sixth", Wat Pho followed by Wat Arun. In Wat Pho we also partook in a Traditional Massage and was a great experience. Wat Arun was bit of a surprise with a lot of locals dressed in traditional clothing and having photographers clicking their pics. It was difficult to navigate or admire the beauty of the place without getting in someone's way.
• Post the temple visit, we took the Ferry to Asiatique Riverfront - Absolutely loved the vibe of the place and spent a good 1-2 hours exploring the different food joints.
• We then took the last Ferry out from Asiatique to Phra Arthit to explore the infamous Khao San road. The Ferry ride in the night moving from the well established side of Bangkok with High rise buildings to witnessing the beautiful Wat Arun in the night was a tourist attraction in itself. Finally arrived at Phra Arthit and proceeded to have dinner at "Madame Musur Bar and Restaurant".
• It was time to hit Khao San road and man what an experience. Loud Music, line of people inviting us to step into their pubs and bars, it was confusion and chaos at max. We briefly stepped into a Seven Eleven to catch up breaths and hydrate ourselves and witnessed the biggest line in a Seven Eleven I have seen in all of Thailand. Multiple people queuing up with liquor, snacks, quick bites and then proceeding to head out in the jungle of Khao San.
• We then booked a grab back to our stay after thoroughly enjoying what Khao San had to offer.

Day 7: Klong Lat Mayom Floating Market -> Chinatown -> Talad Noi -> Lumpini Park -> Jodd Fairs Night Market

• Once again an early start to the Victory BTS to Bang Khun Non MRT and then took Exit 3 to catch the free feeder bus to Klong Lat Mayom Floating Market. Explored the market for a couple of hours as well as went on a boat ride along the riverways of the market
• Returned back via feeder bus to the BTS station and headed to Wat Mangkon MRT which is the famous Chinatown - Had a quick lunch and first ventured to Talad Noi to capture in the beauty of the wall paintings as well as a quick coffee stop at Mother Roaster.
• Proceed to walk around Chinatown, grab snacks along the way and then headed to Lumpini Park via BTS
• Spent the evening at Lumphini park and took a grab back to the hotel
• Post some time, we proceeded towards the Jodd Fairs Night Market at Rama 9 for Dinner and returned back to the hotel

Day 8: China Town Shopping

• Our final day was reserved for Shopping and we went to Chinatown to pick up souvenirs and gifts for friends and family. We did want to go to Chatuchak Weekend Market but the shopping at China Town took a lot more time than expected and we could not get to see this amazing place. Hopefully next time we will have the fortune of visiting Chatuchak.
• Checked out from the hotel, took a grab to DMK Airport and post the mandatory duty free liquor and chocolate shopping landed safely at the Chennai International Airport

Note: This is my first time detailing out an itinerary and would love to seek feedback. I plan to add photos and probably add a few places to the list which have been missed. Please let me know in the comments if there is any specific information which is needed from our Itinerary. I really enjoy travelling to Thailand and experiencing the beautiful country and thankful for this reddit group with awesome tips and guidance.

ramai pesan, kalu bercinta jgn lama2 sbb semakin lama bercinta dugaan semakin byk dan berpenghujung dgn kecundang.
bila aku start bercinta baru aku merasa azabnya. aku mmg tak berminat utk bercinta lama2 sbb tu lepas 6 bulan bercinta aku terus gi jumpa parents dia utk bgtau yg aku minat n nak kawen dgn awek aku tu.
so, parents dia pun setuju dan jemput family aku dtg merisik n ikat tunangan terus.
seminggu lg parents aku nak dtg merisik dia dan seperti yg kwn2 old timer ramai pesan mmg dugaan mesti muncul menggugat hubungan kami. mng kebetulan seminggu tu la berduyun2 awek masuk dm kat yahoomessenger (jaman tu lom ada wasap) aku.
so, sambil bermadah pujangga cintan cintun dgn awek aku, pada waktu sama dok sexting dgn pompan gatal. ntah kenapa makin ramai pulak pompan dtg menggedik menggatal dgn aku so, tiap mlm mmg jari aku bz. haha.
ym punya ym ntah mcm mana aku boleh tersilap send kat awek bakal tunangan aku.
" suck cock? jilat? ramas tetek?? siapa dia XXX nih?? amboi... bukan main gatal lagi ayat2 u nih?? mesti u silap hantar kat i kan?? dgn i takde pulak u chat segatal ni ya! "
demm... acaner la boleh tersilap hantar, adoii... letih jugak aku mujuk si dia. aku kata dorang tu suma aku tak kenal saja2 melayan je.
2hari lepas tu aku kuar dating ngan awek dan sblm balik aku singgah mesjid utk maghrib. selesai je solat aku nampak dari jauh awek aku muka da masam. check poket aku... aduhh, fon tinggal dlm keta.
masam mencuka, awek aku tak bercakap. hanya airmata je mengalir tak henti2. adoii... aku lost. takde perkataan aku boleh ayat utk pujuk dia dah. aku tau dia terbaca sms aku nak dtg pickup fwb lepas hantar awek balik rumah dia.
sbb kantoi big time kali ni. aku cancel jumpa fwb tu. balik termenung kat rumah.
sepanjang 3 hari awek aku tak berkata apa, aku pun takdpt contact dia. balik rumah nangiss je kat bilik. mak dia mmg dah berleter bila si adiknya bgtau bf akak ada pompan lain.
" ko bgtau mak betul2, budak tu kalu ada pompan lain mak cancel tunang tu nanti! "
itulah pengalaman aku kantoi yg da jd sejarah pun.
2006 dia sah jd bini aku cuma sapai skang kami masih honeymoon. akhir2 ni asyik la terpikir nak cari anak angkat. kalu boleh yg comel2 umur 20an jadik la. haha

Aku ni tklah muda sgt,tpi bila aku layari tiktok,dimana budak2 skolah main,aku dapat masuk dalam dunia diorang,trend menari,starboy la,dll..Terdapat gejala sosial di mana di tiktok ia ditayang,dan dinormalisasikan,dapat sambutan.Berzina lah apa lah..Aku tk ckp generasi dulu tkde yang teruk,setiap generasi ada masalahnya masing2 terutama generasi muda zaman mana skali pun..
Tapi bagi korang lah kan,adakah lebih hebat bila seseorang lelaki mempunyai 5 girlfriend atau seorang isteri dan family??Bagi seorang perempuan,lebih cantik jika tayang badan atau pakai baju tutup tunjuk kesopanan dan pekerti??Adakah seseorang lelaki kuat apabila suka bergaduh dan pemarah,ataupun seseorang yang dapat menahan marah dan mengurus keadaan dengan baik..Adakah kekuatan merujuk kepada keupayaan untuk memuaskan nafsu atau menahan nafsu??Kalau kau senior dan kau lebih kuat daripada budak junior,adakah kau kuat bila kau buli org yang lemah,ataupun kau pertahankan golongan lemah??
Alah bisa tegal biasa,Biar mati anak,jangan mati adat..Adat kat sini maksudnya agama lah…Identiti orang Melayu terletak pada Agama,bukan kulit kerana orang Filipina juga muka mcm Melayu..Cuma nak korang jawab sendiri apa maksud kekuatan bagi seorang Insan?

Hello! My friend and I are traveling to Thailand in May and going to be there for 24 days. We will be in Bangkok and Chiang Mai from May 6-11th. From there we need some guidance on the different islands. This is what we are currently thinking:
May 12 - Krabi
May 13/14 - Railay Beach
May 15 - Ko phi phi day trip
May 16 - Kong Island Day trip
May 17/18 - Ao Nang
May 19-22 - Koh Tao for scuba diving course
May 23/24 - Koh Pha Ngan for full moon party
May 25/26- Koh Samui
May 27 - Travel to Krabi for flight
May 28 - Fly out @ night
My main question is if this is realistic and if it’s worth doing Koh Samui for those 2 days or just stay longer in Koh Pha Ngan. Open to all advice as this is our first time!
Are there any other islands to hit that you recommend that are must sees?
EDIT: indentation

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Awalnya gua mau tanya di Perempuan aja, tapi kayaknya gua juga mau tau perspektif cowo2 di sini in general.
Kenapa kepikiran bikin pertanyaan begini, karena gua kalau main ke Millennials udah beberapa kali ngeliat post vilifying dating apps, dan pengalaman gua pribadi ga seburuk itu.
Memang gua pernah dapat cowo super abusive dari Tinder yang beberapa tahun baru bisa gua putusin, tapi setelahnya gua malah belajar cukup banyak dari bermain2 di beberapa apps tersebut (Tinder, Bumble, CMB, OkCupid, ada lagi tapi lupa).
Perlu ditekankan I'm not into hookups dari apps. Gua selalu memang serius mencari pasangan, walau emang yang ketika ada yang kelihatan berpotensi ya ada juga ke arah sananya setelah 4-5 dates, never on the first date. Tapi setelah hanya beberapa kali melakukan itu I didn't really like it, gua prefer to take things slow.
On the bright side, gua matched sama orang2 yang memang cukup bagus potensinya menjadi pasangan, dan sekarang dapat temen2 baru (yang cukup beneficial buat sama2 cari cuan dan ngomongin finances) dari sana. Gua belajar untuk gak takut ketemuan dan interaksi sama orang baru. In fact, gua yang jadinya ngajak cowo buat ketemu. Karena ga ada gunanya buang2 waktu chat2an doang, ketika kita harusnya ngeliatin vibesnya cocok atau nggak. Gua bisa mencari2 topik untuk diomongin ketika udah abis, gua bisa mencoba memisahkan apa hal2 tentang diri gua yang acceptable buat langsung diungkapkan di first date, second date, etc. The most important part, gua bisa mengungkapkan dengan mudah whether I like the guy or not. Buat apa buang waktu kalau gak berasa chemistry-nya.
At the end of my dating app adventure (yaitu setelah 6 bulan mencoba match2 ria dan bertemu dengan banyak match gua setelah putus dari cowo abusive tersebut), gua menjadi orang yang confident kalau ngobrol sama lelaki yang gua baru kenal. Dan di saat itu pula gua juga udah lelah banget main dating apps, rasanya gak ketemu2 aja dari sana.
Worth noting that akhirnya my last relationships semuanya gak dari dating apps, tapi gua merasa itu semua bisa jadi relationship thanks to dating apps, karena gua ga canggung lagi di depan cowo seperti dahulu kala. Juga karena gua sekarang menjadi no bullshit jadi langsung ungkapin aja how I feel setelah 3 dates.
Edit: I'm now in a happy relationship yang dapetnya juga dari dikenalin temen. But I still don't vilify dating apps, karena dari temen2 gua banyak success storiesnya.
What are your experiences? Adakah yang udah menikah dengan pasangan yang ketemu di dating apps? Do you want some tips on how to build your profile to attract people? Kalau iya maybe nanti2 gua edit post ini lol.

Hai, saya (lelaki 22 tahun) ada soalan serius sebab saya tak tahu hal hal ni.
Baru baru ni abang ipar saya ada melawak dengan saya tanya saya nak kahwin ke tak, saya pun cakap ya. Lepas tu dia kononnya tawarkan janda dekat saya, saya pun cakaplah ya. Lepas tu dia kata jangan, sebab janda ni bermasalah sikit (saya pun tak tahu kenapa, susah nak jaga ke ape?).
Jadi saya buat post pertama dekat sini sebab nak tau kenapa ada orang yang rasa kahwin ngan janda ni tak ok. Mohon yang tua dan ada pengalaman jawab. Sebenarnya saya pun tak pasti nak ngorat orang yang macam mana lagi ni (saya takda duit masa ni) (⁠ ⁠･ั⁠﹏⁠･ั⁠)
Btw, abang kedua saya kahwin ngan janda.
UPDATE SEHARI KEMUDIAN: selepas membaca semua pendapat saya dapat rumuskan bahawa ia merupakan sebuah tanggungjawab yang lebih besar kerana:

1. kos sara yang melambung sebaik saja kahwin.
2. kena jaga anak tiri yang mungkin bermasalah
3. pasangan mungkin bermasalah

Saya sebenarnya bukan nak kahwin lagi, tapi elok la saya dah tau benda ni. Maklumlah, geng geng lelaki suka melawak benda macam ni.
terima kasih atas semua respons. *^____^*

hye Assalamualaikum.. aku seorang pelajar f5 nk tanya pendapat korang.. imma very competitive person.. I want to be the 'perfect' who can be good at everything.. ik it's not good bcz yeah imma normal human being.. tapi dari sikap aku yang tak suka kalah ni lah yang buat aku terbaik..
First of all Alhamdulillah.. aku kat sekolah agak cemerlang dalam sukan hingga dpt anugerah sekolah.. aku jugak boleh main music band and combo such as guitar.. dari segi pelajaran jugak aku antara yang not bad kat sekolah.. dari segi agama pulak.. org kat sekolah kenal aku ngan antara pelajar 'alim' di sekolah yang tak mencarut suka dakwah and so on
Bukan nk showing off but i wanna ask something.. i let my friend critic me yesterday.. she said aku tak reti duk dia kalau ada org lain lebih drpd aku.. yeah aku sedar benda tu but id think it's bad think sbb aku ambik benda tu sebagai cabaran.. ik my limit and selagi aku rsa boleh.. aku try jee
oleh itu nk tanya.. 1. Adakah sifat terlalu kompetitif ni baik? 2. Boleh ke teruskan hidup dgn dunia sekarang dgn personaliti ini? 3. Do I need to change myself?
Terima kasih krn sudi membaca ni walaupun benda ik this will make you annoyed.. sorry sbb kadang² eng kadang² Bm.. Mohon pandangan sahabat ajarian sekalian..

waktu aku terlibat dgn satu pojek binaan dulu, member aku kerap sgt melawak dgn kontraktor. masaj masaj masaj. itu je dok main kat mulut dia.
tetiba suatu pagi tu kontraktor ajak minum jauh skit dari site. kami ber3 je. aku tak sangka plak lepas ngopi tu kontraktor terus belanja gi masaj.
kami pun masuk 3 bilik berlainan. so, aku taktau la apa citer masing2. taklama pastu dtg sorang amoi, milf (lebih kurang mcm baya aku je) masuk bilik tu pakai spender ngan coli kulit kaler merah. coli dgn spender dia longgar2 pulak tu. best pulak aku layan skodeng waktu dia masaj tu.
kena masaj dgn amoi, mana bleh tahan beb. geram! aku pun cakap "sambil ko urut tu meh la bukak sikit bg aku tgk". tapi amoi yg masaj aku tu mmg jenis "bekerja" so, tak reti melayan pelanggan. muka ketat je.
"kalu mau main sek, kita extra caj ok, mau ka?" jwb amoi dgn muka selamba. tadak senyum pun.
"aku nak tgk je bukan nak main pun, tgk pun takbleh ka? moi, bukak la sikit pliss" aku try ayat.
amoi tu dok ulang lg "u mau masaj ka mau main? kalu mau main kita extra caj maa" adoii... amoi ni takbleh kawtim langsung. nak taknak aku terpaksa gak setuju main.
amoi tu mmg pandai scam customer. aku ni da tua, darah pun da suam. sblm main syarat dia kena mandi dulu. mmg padam terus la puntung rokok aku. huhu.
lepas mandi, amoi tu pun start keje nak stimkan aku balik. dia mula kucup2 badan aku, ramas2 konek aku. aku ni mmg jenis penakut. dlm kepala da mula serabut mcm2. kalu kantoi kena serbu, mcm mn?? kalu kena serbu, gi balai. pastu mesti balai panggil bini dtg. kantoi dgn bini lagi. adoii... aku ni bukan player. aku familyman jenis syg bini. kusut abis kepala aku so, mmg taknaik2 la konek pun. haha.
dlm pada kusut kepala, aku pun risau gila konek layu. rugi extra caj kalu takmain.
pastu dia start bj. konek aku pun da start keras balik. bila da keras tu, dia pun start sarung kondom. aku tgk tetek dia aku pun nak ramas la, dia tepis pulak. geli la! katanya.
adoii... amoi ni mmg keje serius rupanya. jenis nak settle keje cepat tapi taksuka kena sentuh.
aku pun start la nak mendayung. tapi, biasa la lubang kering mana la bleh sumbat je. aku nak sentuh bg amoi basah stim dia takmau pulakk. haihh...
nak taknak aku ludahkan lubang dia. pastu try nak masuk konek, tapi kepala kusut. takut dlm hati. konek layu balik.
cabut kondom, amoi bj lagi. keras sikit, try masuk balik, layu lg, amoi bj lg. dan gitu je la berulang. last2 aku terpaksa terima hakikat. anggap je la konek aku cuti haritu. hrmm....
itu la 1st time aku main pakai kondom, satu2nya pengalaman aku main amoi dan aku failed. padan muka aku. looser!

Hi everyone, I am heading to Thailand kater this month (yaaaay), with my also 20F friend. We are Australian and have gone to Vietnam together before and had a greaaaaat time. We have pretty much booked everything. I’ll write our itinerary below and am just hoping for some tips/recommendations and suggestions for the places we are going. Thank u in advance 😋
Koh Pha Ngan (Feb full moon festival woooo) Koh Samui Phuket Chiang Mai (flower festival I think) Pai Bangkok
Soooo excited. We do like going out & dancing & we will be doing a mixture of hotels & hostels because we love meeting people, but I’m not a bit drinker and will probably mainly be dabbling in the 🍃🍃🍃 Yay!

Hi everyone, I am heading to Thailand kater this month (yaaaay), with my also 20F friend. We are Australian and have gone to Vietnam together before and had a greaaaaat time. We have pretty much booked everything. I’ll write our itinerary below and am just hoping for some tips/recommendations and suggestions for the places we are going. Thank u in advance 😋
Koh Pha Ngan (Feb full moon festival woooo) Koh Samui Phuket Chiang Mai (flower festival I think) Pai Bangkok
Soooo excited. We do like going out & dancing & we will be doing a mixture of hotels & hostels because we love meeting people, but I’m not a bit drinker and will probably mainly be dabbling in the 🍃🍃🍃 Yay!