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2024.06.01 15:27 OHitsaKO [WP] "You know," he thought absently as he prepared to make the final sacrifice, "I don't actually want to die. I like living, a lot." He looked back at something visible only to him, and gave an amused grin. "I guess they're worth it."
Falsch pressed the switch and the glowing red timer of the Facility Implosion Bomb began counting down.
5:00
"It's the only way. The portal has to be destroyed." Falsch reasoned.
"Damn it!" Zysind slammed his fist onto the table, the sound was heard over the communications device.
"..." Schlect stood silent as he stared down onto Falsch tired on the floor, preparing himself to eliminate the anomalies of this world once and for all.
"What is the meaning of this, Falsch?" Duvist, confused, spoke over the infuriated Zysind.
4:44
"I had a great time with you all in this base." Falsch reminisced. "Tell Bonas my thanks for pulling me outta that hell, once he wakes up from his coma that is. I got to live a second time because of him. Veru....sorry lass, but Papa has to leave. Be a good girl for me.``
“God damn you Falsch! You can’t do this! Bonas has done so much work for this.” Zysind yelled at the comms.
“God already damned me once Zysind. The Sealing Team should still be at the surface. Project Portal has to be stopped for Humanity’s good. "
Falsch muted the comms. He took a deep breath and drowned himself in thoughts.
Falsch already anticipated that it would come to this, he knew that the reason why the demons kept popping up was because of a sinner’s soul, his soul, that escaped Hell. The demons want to hunt the escaped soul and bring it back to it’s rightful place as sinner in the depths of hell.
Back then, was a lonely agony in the infinite field of darkness. He cannot remember how many years he spent over there. The looming hatred that tortured him, Schlect, was with him in his hell, constantly reminding him of his failures and mistakes in his first life.
The hell portal that emerged in Limbo that Dr. Bonas accidentally created in studying the hell portals through the Helios artifact was nothing short of an absolute miracle. Falsch entered the other side to a different Earth. Though Falsch received Hell as his punishment for his first life's sins, he got to enjoy earthly life once more for 10 years.
The world that Falsch entered was different to his yet so similar. It was like an alternate earth. As someone foreign and potentially hazardous to this world after coming out of a portal, Falsch was quarantined.
Veru was a sweet little kid at the base, a child of Dr Bonas’ sister who lost both of her parents at an early age. Veru was the person that gave Falsch his humanity over the years after decaying in Limbo. She had an innocent curiosity to what is essentially a dead man from hell. Young Veru approached Falsch after his quarantine and gave him something unexpected, something he hasn’t felt from someone for a long time. Kindness, something long forgotten by Falsch, sparked to him when Veru wanted to play with him with a doll named Molly. Ever since that day, Falsch started to feel like a regular human, and not a sinner from hell burdened by his sins. He felt good, and the weight of his regrets started to feel lighter with Veru’s company. Before then, Veru became like a daughter to Falsch, and Falsch was like the missing father to Veru.
Things would’ve been a whole lot better if it weren’t for Schlect being attached to me. But as a sinner sentenced to Limbo, I am to suffer in darkness with nothing but my dark thoughts. Schlect never fails to belittle, insult, or spite me in every single waking moment. But, I persevered and strived to become a better person for everyone here, especially for Veru.
“Sins crawling on your back sinner? Finally realized the cost of your little vacation here in this Earth? Pathetic.” Schlect sneered.
“You’re wrong, Schlect. This is my repentance and it’s for the good of everyone. I do regret that I won’t be there for Veru.”
“You aren’t just a terrible person but also a terrible father. You don’t deserve Veru.” Schlect insulted.
“Don’t put Veru into this conversation.” Falsch eyed Schlect in anger.
“Or what?”
“...”
“Idiot.”
3:17
The red emergency lights blared ever since the self-destruction countdown began. The heavy metal doors of the facility lowered down and shut all the available paths to the surface, sealing the Demons invading into their concrete coffin. The Demons screamed in anger and hatred as they tried to futilely scratch the impenetrable doors of the underground facility.
Falsch held the Helios artifact. The artifact which allowed the creation of the Hell Portals after Dr Bonas’ exploits with it. The end result… a sea of demons searching for me. Old man better not die so he could take care of Veru, otherwise i’ll be his demon in hell.
Falsch smiled to himself.
Schlect kneeled down and grinned in malice.
Falsch frowned and stared at Schlect at the sudden gesture.
“You’re still incompetent even at your second. You flipped the switch too quickly, idiot." Schlect implied something Falsch forgot.
Zanya and Tyler.
Falsch went wide-eyed, fear and anxiety coursed through his heart.
2:51
Damn it! I forgot about them. I let them do their own thing, while I supposedly did my tasked Implosion mission on the other side of this base, since I couldn’t convince them to not take the Helios artifact. Zanya and Tyler were tasked to a retrieval mission for the research data and artifact. I bloody forgot to inform them.
"You are pathetic and incompetent, Falsch. And you call this your repentance?" Schlect mocked.
Falsch unmuted his device.
"Zanya and Tyler got out right???" Falsch asked in panic at the device.
“FALSCH! YOU BETTER NOT-”
“PLEASE CONTACT ZANYA AND TYLER. THEY’D BE STUCK IN THE IMPLOSION BOMB RADIUS!” Falsch asserted.
“You haven’t even informed them yet of your suicide plan???” Duvist asked, astounded from Falsch’s negligence.
"Confirm Zanya and Tyler's signals!" Duvist commanded.
"Putting their audio in speakers right now!" Zysind followed. “
2:20
"Retrieval team, do you copy?"
Sounds of something collapsing could be heard. Struggling and bated breaths are heard in the comms.
… Silence
"Retrieval team, I repeat, do you copy?" Duvist
"Fuck! Tyler you good buddy?"
"Arghhh, I sprained my damn foot." Tyler complained in pain.
"Retrieval team, are both of you fine?"
"Yeah, we're fine and the data is with us, but not the damned artifact! We're on the surface and we're leaving here as soon as possible. Why did Falsch already activate the Implosion Bomb? What happened to his team? Are they on the truck already?"
“What the hell? Are those the Sealing Team on the truck?” Tyler asked.
1:45
Falsch smiled in relief that both of them are fine. He dropped the device from his ear and pressed it on mute.
"Good... Hehe..." Falsch lightly laughed. "You sick bastard, Schlect. You got me good, you son of a bitch." He continued.
“Laughing even after endangering their lives. Your hands deserve to be stained in blood.”
1:30
“Shut it Schlect. We got one more thing to do.”
Falsch moved and climbed into an air vent leading to the giant laboratory where the Hell Portal was located.
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He kicked down the vent grate only for it to fall and get crushed violently to the sea of Demons.
“Oh–woah. Hello there!. Looking for me?” Falsch waved at the screaming waves of red muscular and bony beings.
“You should jump to the demons, you Idiot. You sinner. You-”
“One last thing.” Falsch interrupted Schlect’s words and just ignored his continued attempts at malicious conversing.
Falsch configured his communication device to connect to Veru.
The signals clicked and the connection established.
“Papa?” Veru called in sorrow.
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“Hey there, little girl. Yes, it’s me Papa.”
Veru cried.
“Schlect, you may be half right about this! But, I want you to know, Veru, that Papa Falsch very much loves you alright?” Falsch joked around. “So don’t forget about me okay?”
“Why do this?”
“I already told you why before, sweetheart. I don’t belong here.”
“B-but, you could just throw the artifact to the portal and come back.”
“I know, but it won’t end up good. The Demons would only come soon after, and I don’t want a world where my Veru would be encumbered by me.”
“...” Veru understood.
“Love you Veru.” Falsch cried.
“I-I-I love you too Papa.”
“Goodbye.”
Falsch disconnected regretfully.
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“Goodbye, everyone!” Falsch announced to anyone that could hear.
Falsch jumped into the portal, alongside the Helios Artifact. As he almost fully crossed the portal, the implosion bomb detonated leaving nothing but a giant crater of which the base of Project Portal was constructed.
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"It's the only way. The portal has to be destroyed." Falsch reasoned.
"Damn it!" Zysind slammed his fist onto the table, the sound was heard over the communications device.
"..." Schlect stood silent as he stared down onto Falsch tired on the floor, preparing himself to eliminate the anomalies of this world once and for all.
"What is the meaning of this, Falsch?" Duvist, confused, spoke over the infuriated Zysind.
4:44
"I had a great time with you all in this base." Falsch reminisced. "Tell Bonas my thanks for pulling me outta that hell, once he wakes up from his coma that is. I got to live a second time because of him. Veru....sorry lass, but Papa has to leave. Be a good girl for me.``
“God damn you Falsch! You can’t do this! Bonas has done so much work for this.” Zysind yelled at the comms.
“God already damned me once Zysind. The Sealing Team should still be at the surface. Project Portal has to be stopped for Humanity’s good. "
Falsch muted the comms. He took a deep breath and drowned himself in thoughts.
Falsch already anticipated that it would come to this, he knew that the reason why the demons kept popping up was because of a sinner’s soul, his soul, that escaped Hell. The demons want to hunt the escaped soul and bring it back to it’s rightful place as sinner in the depths of hell.
Back then, was a lonely agony in the infinite field of darkness. He cannot remember how many years he spent over there. The looming hatred that tortured him, Schlect, was with him in his hell, constantly reminding him of his failures and mistakes in his first life.
The hell portal that emerged in Limbo that Dr. Bonas accidentally created in studying the hell portals through the Helios artifact was nothing short of an absolute miracle. Falsch entered the other side to a different Earth. Though Falsch received Hell as his punishment for his first life's sins, he got to enjoy earthly life once more for 10 years.
The world that Falsch entered was different to his yet so similar. It was like an alternate earth. As someone foreign and potentially hazardous to this world after coming out of a portal, Falsch was quarantined.
Veru was a sweet little kid at the base, a child of Dr Bonas’ sister who lost both of her parents at an early age. Veru was the person that gave Falsch his humanity over the years after decaying in Limbo. She had an innocent curiosity to what is essentially a dead man from hell. Young Veru approached Falsch after his quarantine and gave him something unexpected, something he hasn’t felt from someone for a long time. Kindness, something long forgotten by Falsch, sparked to him when Veru wanted to play with him with a doll named Molly. Ever since that day, Falsch started to feel like a regular human, and not a sinner from hell burdened by his sins. He felt good, and the weight of his regrets started to feel lighter with Veru’s company. Before then, Veru became like a daughter to Falsch, and Falsch was like the missing father to Veru.
Things would’ve been a whole lot better if it weren’t for Schlect being attached to me. But as a sinner sentenced to Limbo, I am to suffer in darkness with nothing but my dark thoughts. Schlect never fails to belittle, insult, or spite me in every single waking moment. But, I persevered and strived to become a better person for everyone here, especially for Veru.
“Sins crawling on your back sinner? Finally realized the cost of your little vacation here in this Earth? Pathetic.” Schlect sneered.
“You’re wrong, Schlect. This is my repentance and it’s for the good of everyone. I do regret that I won’t be there for Veru.”
“You aren’t just a terrible person but also a terrible father. You don’t deserve Veru.” Schlect insulted.
“Don’t put Veru into this conversation.” Falsch eyed Schlect in anger.
“Or what?”
“...”
“Idiot.”
3:17
The red emergency lights blared ever since the self-destruction countdown began. The heavy metal doors of the facility lowered down and shut all the available paths to the surface, sealing the Demons invading into their concrete coffin. The Demons screamed in anger and hatred as they tried to futilely scratch the impenetrable doors of the underground facility.
Falsch held the Helios artifact. The artifact which allowed the creation of the Hell Portals after Dr Bonas’ exploits with it. The end result… a sea of demons searching for me. Old man better not die so he could take care of Veru, otherwise i’ll be his demon in hell.
Falsch smiled to himself.
Schlect kneeled down and grinned in malice.
Falsch frowned and stared at Schlect at the sudden gesture.
“You’re still incompetent even at your second. You flipped the switch too quickly, idiot." Schlect implied something Falsch forgot.
Zanya and Tyler.
Falsch went wide-eyed, fear and anxiety coursed through his heart.
2:51
Damn it! I forgot about them. I let them do their own thing, while I supposedly did my tasked Implosion mission on the other side of this base, since I couldn’t convince them to not take the Helios artifact. Zanya and Tyler were tasked to a retrieval mission for the research data and artifact. I bloody forgot to inform them.
"You are pathetic and incompetent, Falsch. And you call this your repentance?" Schlect mocked.
Falsch unmuted his device.
"Zanya and Tyler got out right???" Falsch asked in panic at the device.
“FALSCH! YOU BETTER NOT-”
“PLEASE CONTACT ZANYA AND TYLER. THEY’D BE STUCK IN THE IMPLOSION BOMB RADIUS!” Falsch asserted.
“You haven’t even informed them yet of your suicide plan???” Duvist asked, astounded from Falsch’s negligence.
"Confirm Zanya and Tyler's signals!" Duvist commanded.
"Putting their audio in speakers right now!" Zysind followed. “
2:20
"Retrieval team, do you copy?"
Sounds of something collapsing could be heard. Struggling and bated breaths are heard in the comms.
… Silence
"Retrieval team, I repeat, do you copy?" Duvist
"Fuck! Tyler you good buddy?"
"Arghhh, I sprained my damn foot." Tyler complained in pain.
"Retrieval team, are both of you fine?"
"Yeah, we're fine and the data is with us, but not the damned artifact! We're on the surface and we're leaving here as soon as possible. Why did Falsch already activate the Implosion Bomb? What happened to his team? Are they on the truck already?"
“What the hell? Are those the Sealing Team on the truck?” Tyler asked.
1:45
Falsch smiled in relief that both of them are fine. He dropped the device from his ear and pressed it on mute.
"Good... Hehe..." Falsch lightly laughed. "You sick bastard, Schlect. You got me good, you son of a bitch." He continued.
“Laughing even after endangering their lives. Your hands deserve to be stained in blood.”
1:30
“Shut it Schlect. We got one more thing to do.”
Falsch moved and climbed into an air vent leading to the giant laboratory where the Hell Portal was located.
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He kicked down the vent grate only for it to fall and get crushed violently to the sea of Demons.
“Oh–woah. Hello there!. Looking for me?” Falsch waved at the screaming waves of red muscular and bony beings.
“You should jump to the demons, you Idiot. You sinner. You-”
“One last thing.” Falsch interrupted Schlect’s words and just ignored his continued attempts at malicious conversing.
Falsch configured his communication device to connect to Veru.
The signals clicked and the connection established.
“Papa?” Veru called in sorrow.
30
“Hey there, little girl. Yes, it’s me Papa.”
Veru cried.
“Schlect, you may be half right about this! But, I want you to know, Veru, that Papa Falsch very much loves you alright?” Falsch joked around. “So don’t forget about me okay?”
“Why do this?”
“I already told you why before, sweetheart. I don’t belong here.”
“B-but, you could just throw the artifact to the portal and come back.”
“I know, but it won’t end up good. The Demons would only come soon after, and I don’t want a world where my Veru would be encumbered by me.”
“...” Veru understood.
“Love you Veru.” Falsch cried.
“I-I-I love you too Papa.”
“Goodbye.”
Falsch disconnected regretfully.
5
“Goodbye, everyone!” Falsch announced to anyone that could hear.
Falsch jumped into the portal, alongside the Helios Artifact. As he almost fully crossed the portal, the implosion bomb detonated leaving nothing but a giant crater of which the base of Project Portal was constructed.
2024.06.01 15:26 xfallenangelx95 28/F I'm slowly losing hope I'll ever find someone new to talk to 😞 I'm looking for people who really want to make friends and talk on a daily basis - People who talk a lot and never lie to others 🤗 I'm looking for like-minded people who also have no friends and love serious yet warm discussions
(Only Europe, Please) - short note - If you're not into reading or receiving long messages,don't read any further + Please If you don't want to read everything because of my post being too long for you & instead of reading It all - ..skip some parts - find another person to talk to.Let's respect each other and our free time. All people criticizing/making fun of me & other people - will be blocked.Pretty much as people questioning my post and giving me unsolicited advice.I'm not here for any conflicts and I know I can't please everyone - I know I never will.. However It's me who should feel comfortable in my new potential friendship & obviously someone who wants to be my friend - not the whole world.. which is why I don't need any advice from people who don't even want to be a part of my life. The amount of rude people on Reddit always criticizing others and making fun of them is unbelievably high but let me tell you something - NEVER let anyone make choices for you and criticize you only because you're different! Always fight for your dreams and never let anyone make you think you're worthless! It's your life and you're the one deciding what's best for you - If you want to judge me despite not even wanting to talk to me or give me advice better block me! I'm an adult woman and I make all decisions on my own.I'm not trying to "fit in" and be like everyone else - just to get more attention.Accept me for who I am or let go - is my motto.
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Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give them one word answer and ask them another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different 🙂
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What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me
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What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and partners.. Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them (which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Please send me a message only If you're not In a relationship and don't have friends for the same reasons I've already mentioned before
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Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .
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I also want to talk to others every day because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..some people ask me "Why do you want to talk to people from Europe?" Well..Because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough
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I'm by no means criticizing people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have unimportant conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason :) All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life. I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message . Don't let anyone lie to you.
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Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk every day? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionally.
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I'm not trying to sound rude but conversations once or twice a week wouldn't be enough for me and I don't need them... Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :) It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make more time for you.
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I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you.
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I'm not interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life
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• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk?” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on a random question or? When they start talking only about themselves and don't ever ask me anything. I love conversations with people referring to everything I say...I want everything I say and do - to be reciprocated
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• No NSFW profiles (checking mental health subreddits NOT included as I'm a huge empath and always try to understand others) - Please! I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. I always check people's profiles (even comment history) - To avoid guys, trying to get inappropriate pictures from adult women or? flirt with them + I don't want to see you with no clothes on so If you're on Reddit only because you want others to see what's underneath your clothes - I'm not for you! I just simply don't want to see any s e x related activity on your profile If you want to talk to me.
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• If both of us (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English - because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just don't want to talk to a person from the same country as mine - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to improve your language skills
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• Please only adult people 18-36 (age range) It doesn't matter to me If you're younger or older than me (as long as you're not underage) So.. don't worry! I just want to have discussions with emotionally mature people :)
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• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even If It's a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - Not responding to someone's first or second message Is completely OK! If people think they wouldn't get along with a stranger - is there a reason to start a conversation? I don't think so. I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversations and seeing people changing priorities over time.. but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real. If I'm really interested in someone's message it's impossible to hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I had no time for others - I wouldn't be here. I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike most people who don't want to talk to others)
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• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.
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• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - like me - to describe your emotions In text messages. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough! I just don't like emotionless conversations.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even in a text message - Emojis are very helpful to express your emotions.I don't want to meet people who say "crying Is a weakness" - It's OK to cry even If you're a guy!
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• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you) before moving to Discord or some other app
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• I would rather talk to a homebody - not another person who always has something to do as people who are very busy don't even have time for daily conversations
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• If you're another person interested only in "childish conversations" such as "HEYOOO! I'M BORED! Ya like Pizza or cheese? xDDDD 🤣" I'm begging you! Don't send me a message.I'm not a child anymore and such messages don't make me smile or laugh.I'm looking for someone interested In serious discussions - not another person just seeking some entertainment out of boredom . Conversations with sarcastic undertones (even when It comes to some emojis such as 🤣😂) are not for me. Your typing style matters to me! Why? when It comes to online conversations with someone new - It's not always possible to know If someone Is laughing at you.. or with you. Let me tell you something else! Jokes about cancer, disabilities and death are UNACCEPTABLE to me. If you find joy In someone else's misfortune you are not a person I want to know.
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• Time response matters to me a lot! I would never ask anyone to be online all day long and I'm NOT asking any of you for any instant messaging as I'm someone who would rather wait an hour or two to receive a proper response instead of some short and pointless messages but I'm interested only in daily conversations and I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to get a message from you.I don't need unbelievably long messages either! Messages as long as the second paragraph of my post - are completely enough. If you like longer messages? you can send me a longer message, but If you want to send me one word or one sentence as a response to my post - don't expect a reaction from me. I don't want to come across as rude - I just don't want to waste your time
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• I'm strongly AGAINST picking on people you don't even want to chat with - and making fun of them! I can't stand people who criticize others publicly or make fun of them! (only because they disagree with someone they don't even know) There's no place In my life for someone using Reddit, to hurt other people
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• I'm not into foul language and I definitely don't want to talk to people who swear a lot...
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• I want to meet assertive people who know what they want and always stand up for their friends
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• I want to meet someone willing to call me In the future, someone spontaneously sending me pictures of animals or food, et cetera. I want more than just text conversations.. 🌻
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Why can’t you see any of my hobbies listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest, talkative ,understanding, caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but from my point of view - people's hobbies are important - If you want to find a gaming buddy or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's passions – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life – way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you! I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced. I wouldn't get along with people who laugh at everything.. In my opinion most people are way too sarcastic.. It's quite sad... Sarcasm can also be another form of passive-aggressive behavior.
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People who want to be to friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I highly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk as often as possible in order to become friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations. If you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night) I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone important to me. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.
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If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new. You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance - but others? They would rather hear something different 🙁Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.
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You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're responsible only for ourselves - not others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on, forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because even the best therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you. Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out! Feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else - Is very important! "Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others. If after hearing a sad story all you want to say is "forget the past and move on" you're not for me. It's important to be a good listener and provide emotional support to others
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Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abbreviations,If you don't need a stable friendship, If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship to be natural which is why I want you to contact me only If your needs are the same - I don't want you to pretend someone you're not - only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I want to finally be happy again & find someone "always" wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals. What is the most important to me? I want to find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side
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I know It's possible to meet people with exactly the same expectations as mine but It's just not easy because most people are Interested In temporary and entertaining conversations. People like me are just "different" I really want to finally find someone who loves emojis as much as I do.. someone who loves sweet, warm and serious discussions at the same time. Emojis really do - change conversations 😊
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Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give them one word answer and ask them another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different 🙂
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What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me
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What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and partners.. Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them (which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Please send me a message only If you're not In a relationship and don't have friends for the same reasons I've already mentioned before
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Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .
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I also want to talk to others every day because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..some people ask me "Why do you want to talk to people from Europe?" Well..Because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough
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I'm by no means criticizing people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have unimportant conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason :) All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life. I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message . Don't let anyone lie to you.
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Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk every day? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionally.
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I'm not trying to sound rude but conversations once or twice a week wouldn't be enough for me and I don't need them... Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :) It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make more time for you.
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I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you.
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I'm not interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life
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• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk?” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on a random question or? When they start talking only about themselves and don't ever ask me anything. I love conversations with people referring to everything I say...I want everything I say and do - to be reciprocated
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• No NSFW profiles (checking mental health subreddits NOT included as I'm a huge empath and always try to understand others) - Please! I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. I always check people's profiles (even comment history) - To avoid guys, trying to get inappropriate pictures from adult women or? flirt with them + I don't want to see you with no clothes on so If you're on Reddit only because you want others to see what's underneath your clothes - I'm not for you! I just simply don't want to see any s e x related activity on your profile If you want to talk to me.
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• If both of us (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English - because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just don't want to talk to a person from the same country as mine - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to improve your language skills
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• Please only adult people 18-36 (age range) It doesn't matter to me If you're younger or older than me (as long as you're not underage) So.. don't worry! I just want to have discussions with emotionally mature people :)
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• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even If It's a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - Not responding to someone's first or second message Is completely OK! If people think they wouldn't get along with a stranger - is there a reason to start a conversation? I don't think so. I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversations and seeing people changing priorities over time.. but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real. If I'm really interested in someone's message it's impossible to hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I had no time for others - I wouldn't be here. I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike most people who don't want to talk to others)
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• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.
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• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - like me - to describe your emotions In text messages. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough! I just don't like emotionless conversations.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even in a text message - Emojis are very helpful to express your emotions.I don't want to meet people who say "crying Is a weakness" - It's OK to cry even If you're a guy!
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• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you) before moving to Discord or some other app
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• I would rather talk to a homebody - not another person who always has something to do as people who are very busy don't even have time for daily conversations
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• If you're another person interested only in "childish conversations" such as "HEYOOO! I'M BORED! Ya like Pizza or cheese? xDDDD 🤣" I'm begging you! Don't send me a message.I'm not a child anymore and such messages don't make me smile or laugh.I'm looking for someone interested In serious discussions - not another person just seeking some entertainment out of boredom . Conversations with sarcastic undertones (even when It comes to some emojis such as 🤣😂) are not for me. Your typing style matters to me! Why? when It comes to online conversations with someone new - It's not always possible to know If someone Is laughing at you.. or with you. Let me tell you something else! Jokes about cancer, disabilities and death are UNACCEPTABLE to me. If you find joy In someone else's misfortune you are not a person I want to know.
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• Time response matters to me a lot! I would never ask anyone to be online all day long and I'm NOT asking any of you for any instant messaging as I'm someone who would rather wait an hour or two to receive a proper response instead of some short and pointless messages but I'm interested only in daily conversations and I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to get a message from you.I don't need unbelievably long messages either! Messages as long as the second paragraph of my post - are completely enough. If you like longer messages? you can send me a longer message, but If you want to send me one word or one sentence as a response to my post - don't expect a reaction from me. I don't want to come across as rude - I just don't want to waste your time
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• I'm strongly AGAINST picking on people you don't even want to chat with - and making fun of them! I can't stand people who criticize others publicly or make fun of them! (only because they disagree with someone they don't even know) There's no place In my life for someone using Reddit, to hurt other people
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• I'm not into foul language and I definitely don't want to talk to people who swear a lot...
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• I want to meet assertive people who know what they want and always stand up for their friends
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• I want to meet someone willing to call me In the future, someone spontaneously sending me pictures of animals or food, et cetera. I want more than just text conversations.. 🌻
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Why can’t you see any of my hobbies listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest, talkative ,understanding, caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but from my point of view - people's hobbies are important - If you want to find a gaming buddy or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's passions – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life – way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you! I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced. I wouldn't get along with people who laugh at everything.. In my opinion most people are way too sarcastic.. It's quite sad... Sarcasm can also be another form of passive-aggressive behavior.
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People who want to be to friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I highly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk as often as possible in order to become friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations. If you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night) I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone important to me. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.
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If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new. You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance - but others? They would rather hear something different 🙁Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.
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You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're responsible only for ourselves - not others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on, forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because even the best therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you. Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out! Feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else - Is very important! "Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others. If after hearing a sad story all you want to say is "forget the past and move on" you're not for me. It's important to be a good listener and provide emotional support to others
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Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abbreviations,If you don't need a stable friendship, If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship to be natural which is why I want you to contact me only If your needs are the same - I don't want you to pretend someone you're not - only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I want to finally be happy again & find someone "always" wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals. What is the most important to me? I want to find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side
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I know It's possible to meet people with exactly the same expectations as mine but It's just not easy because most people are Interested In temporary and entertaining conversations. People like me are just "different" I really want to finally find someone who loves emojis as much as I do.. someone who loves sweet, warm and serious discussions at the same time. Emojis really do - change conversations 😊
2024.06.01 15:26 Plane_Illustrator965 Not sure if this is misplaced anger
I have 3 step kids, 2 bios with my ex, and an ours baby with my husband. His ex follows the HCBM playbook word for word, complete with parking lot meltdowns, parental alienation, and trying to turn my husband against me. We refuse to speak bad about her to the kids, but she affirms any normal frustration they have and any consequence he gives them shes there to alleviate.
My step son seems to be following in his moms footsteps and cant fathom that his actions have consequences. My husband coaches his baseball team and got on him a few months ago for bullying his teammates, cheating at school, and lying. He decided he didnt like this and sent my husband a text that he wasnt coming back home and was staying at his moms to avoid the consequences from all of this at our house. This same thing happened last year with my step daughter and my step daughter made it 6 months over there before she came running back.
Anyway, we are traveling right now for a game and my step son and his teammate walked by me and my son. The teammate said hi to my toddler but my step son just completely snubbed his brother.
My husbands ex flipped shit when she found out we were expecting, during my postpartum time at the hospital she was constantly texting my husband that she couldnt do xyz for her kids and he needed to leave and go do them (he only agreed to one of these requests as it was a valid reason picking up SS from school). Shes screamed at him in front of her own kids that my toddler isnt the kids real brother, and that my husband clearly doesnt give a shit about his “other kids” anymore (even though 2 of the 3 live here 50/50 and he coaches their sports teams. Doesnt seem to fit her narrative that shes telling people which just makes her look crazier).
I feel like all of this is turning my SS against his brother and now he wont even acknowledge him. And at this point i am kind of wondering if i even want SS coming back here if he decides to. He treats my other 2 kids like shit, he cries if hes critiqued about anything, his entire social media is a narcissistic cesspool, and is turning into a compulsive liar.
Im not sure if this is something i need to be more understanding of because hes had his mom actively creating this mess for all of them for years, or if i have a right to be pissed off because it feels wrong being pissed off at a kid to the point of not wanting him back in our house with this behavior. At the same time though, per my therapist, hes old enough to know right from wrong even if he does have a mom who is encouraging this.
Would like some perspective from step parents
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My step son seems to be following in his moms footsteps and cant fathom that his actions have consequences. My husband coaches his baseball team and got on him a few months ago for bullying his teammates, cheating at school, and lying. He decided he didnt like this and sent my husband a text that he wasnt coming back home and was staying at his moms to avoid the consequences from all of this at our house. This same thing happened last year with my step daughter and my step daughter made it 6 months over there before she came running back.
Anyway, we are traveling right now for a game and my step son and his teammate walked by me and my son. The teammate said hi to my toddler but my step son just completely snubbed his brother.
My husbands ex flipped shit when she found out we were expecting, during my postpartum time at the hospital she was constantly texting my husband that she couldnt do xyz for her kids and he needed to leave and go do them (he only agreed to one of these requests as it was a valid reason picking up SS from school). Shes screamed at him in front of her own kids that my toddler isnt the kids real brother, and that my husband clearly doesnt give a shit about his “other kids” anymore (even though 2 of the 3 live here 50/50 and he coaches their sports teams. Doesnt seem to fit her narrative that shes telling people which just makes her look crazier).
I feel like all of this is turning my SS against his brother and now he wont even acknowledge him. And at this point i am kind of wondering if i even want SS coming back here if he decides to. He treats my other 2 kids like shit, he cries if hes critiqued about anything, his entire social media is a narcissistic cesspool, and is turning into a compulsive liar.
Im not sure if this is something i need to be more understanding of because hes had his mom actively creating this mess for all of them for years, or if i have a right to be pissed off because it feels wrong being pissed off at a kid to the point of not wanting him back in our house with this behavior. At the same time though, per my therapist, hes old enough to know right from wrong even if he does have a mom who is encouraging this.
Would like some perspective from step parents
2024.06.01 15:25 pauseglitched 5e homebrewed advanced alchemical items, looking for feedback.
I am starting work putting together a DnD 5e campaign for level 5 adventurers that would go up to level 11. The main hook will be Rogue (not the PC class) alchemists and performance drug dealers in conflict with the guilds of the 6 Nation's Unified Guilds and local law enforcement.
With alchemy being a major theme, I brainstormed a bunch of things for more advanced versions of adventuring gear for the guilds or criminals to sell, or the party to loot off their corpses. Elemental resistance and vulnerabilities will play a part in the homebrew enemies.
I am looking for feedback on
•how much to charge for the items. •Any recommendations on changes to damage or DCs. •wording changes for clarity.
(Some Ideas are more thought out than others)
Here we go.
Alchemist's Fire (flask)
This sticky, adhesive fluid ignites when exposed to air. As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action you can throw this flask up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. Make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the alchemist's fire as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 1d4 fire damage at the start of each of its turns. A creature can end this damage by using its action to make a DC 10 Dexterity check to extinguish the flames.
War Fire (flask)
This alchemically enhanced adhesive fluid ignites when exposed to air. A vial held in hand may be thrown up to 20 ft. replacing an attack made as part of the attack action on your turn shattering on impact. Make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the alchemist's fire as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 2d4 fire damage at the start of each of its turns. A creature can end this damage by using its action to make a DC 12 Dexterity check to extinguish the flames. Hit or miss, the liquid ignites a square 15 ft on a side of the ground centered on the target. Creatures who enter an ignited area for the first time on a turn or start their turn there take 2d4 fire damage. A square 5 foot section of ignited area can be extinguished as an action.
Dragons breath (Canister) This volatile concoction is illegal to carry into most cities. Typically stored in a magically reinforced container, militaries and criminal master alchemists are the only source, neither of which are likely to give up their secrets. As an action you can speak the command word and throw the canister up to 30 ft where it shatters in a conflagration. Everyone in a 15 ft radius must make a DC 16 Dex save taking 6d4 fire damage on a failure and are ignited. Objects not worn or carried automatically fail this save. Ignited creatures take 6d4 fire damage at the start of each of their turns. A creature may use an action to attempt to put out the fire on themselves or others with a DC 16 Dexterity Check. Creatures who succeed on their saving throw take half damage and are not ignited.
caltrops As an action, you can spread a single bag of caltrops to cover a 5-foot-square area. Any creature that enters the area must succeed on a DC 15 Dexterity saving throw or stop moving and take 1 piercing damage. Until the creature regains at least 1 hit point, its walking speed is reduced by 10 feet. A creature moving through the area at half speed doesn't need to make the saving throw.
Barbed Caltrops
As with caltrops, but the damage is 1d4 piercing and the caltrops stick to those who fail their saving throw dealing 1 point of piercing damage for every 5 feet of movement spent. The caltrops can be removed as an action and they must be removed before recovering HP in order to regain movement speed.
Footbane caltrop bag
This magic bag contains 20 caltrops. When the command word is spoken, the caltops spring out of the bag to a location within 15 ft of the caster and spread themselves out over a 10-ft square area. They continue to move around that area until another command word is spoken to return them to the bag, an hour passes, or five creatures fail their saving throw against them as they become too spread out to be effective. Any caltrops not returned to the bag within 1 hour become non-magical. The constant movement of the caltrops make them impossible to hide, however, it also means that moving at half speed does not let a creature avoid having to make the save. If caltrops are lost or left behind they can be replaced by filling the bag with 20 non-magical caltrops and leaving them in the bag for 8 hours.
Acid Vial
As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this vial onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw the vial up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the acid as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 2d6 acid damage.
Elemental vial As with acid Vial, but dealing fire, frost, poison, lightning, or thunder damage.
Clinging acid As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this vial onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw the vial up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the acid as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 3d6 acid damage. At the end of each of the creatures' turns it takes a number of D6s of acid damage one less than the previous instance. (If it took 3d6 last time it takes 2d6 this time.) A creature may take the use an object action to reduce the next instance of this damage on themselves or an ally within 5 ft by 1d6. A creature proficient with alchemy tools may use the tools as part of the use an object action to reduce the next instance of damage damage by 2d6 instead.
Dragon's Bile [Flavor text] As with clinging acid but the starting damage is 5d6, creatures have disadvantage on saving throws to maintain concentration and while taking the ongoing damage, and the action now requires a DC 15 dexterity check to succeed. (alchemy tool proficiency applies)
Holy water
As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this flask onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw it up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged attack against a target creature, treating the holy water as an improvised weapon. If the target is a fiend or undead, it takes 2d6 radiant damage.
Sacred oil As an action you can apply this oil to a melee or ranged weapon. For 1 minute, attacks made with the weapon are considered magical and deal an additional 1d6 radiant damage to fiends or undead. This oil smells abhorrent to fiends. Once opened, and for one hour after it is applied to a weapon, fiends within 100 feet of the open vial or weapon will not suffer the surprised condition.
Tears of the Saints/Blood of the Martyrs [Flavor text] As an action, you speak a command phrase (usually a prayer of censure) and throw the reliquary up to 30 feet away from you. The souls of the wronged cry out for vengeance and each undead (for tears) or Fiend (for blood) within 30 feet of the target location, that can see or hear, takes 2d6 radiant damage and must make a DC 15 Wisdom saving throw. If the creature fails its saving throw, and its CR is 1 or less it is destroyed (undead) or banished to its home plane (fiends). A creature above CR 1 that fails it's save is turned for 1 minute or until it takes any damage.
A turned creature must spend its turns trying to move as far away from the target location as it can, and it can't willingly move to a space within 30 feet of it. The creature also can't take reactions. For its action, it can use only the Dash action or try to escape from an effect that prevents it from moving. If there's nowhere to move, the creature can use the Dodge action.
Healing potion You regain 2d4+2 hit points when you drink this potion. Drinking or administering a potion takes an action.
Bloodmush! "For people who don't have enough blood in them, so that they can have more blood in them!" -NoRefunds, wandering kobold trader
"Usually made by those who are not serviced by the guilds and do not have the necessary expertise or available raw materials to make healing potions, satchets of this dark red paste are far more likely to be found in orc, goblinoid, and kobold tribes than civilized areas." Archaic Alchemy of the Six Nations, chapter 7
You regain 1d4+1 hit points when you eat this paste or apply it directly to a wound. This takes an action.
Salve "There has been a great deal of arguments regarding Salve. Some claim it is merely another means of applying a healing potion, but be wary. Salve is not regulated by the guild, so there are no laws protecting its quality. Use at your own risk." -Archaic Alchemy of the Six Nations, chapter 2
As an action, one dose of Salve can be swallowed or applied to the skin. The creature that receives it gains benefits according to the following list.
Fake Salve: pain is relieved, but receive no actual benefits.
Fowl Salve: gain 2d4+2 temporary HP. At the end of 1 minute take 2d4 poison damage and lose any remaining temporary HP.
Mediocre salve: regain 1 HP and 2d4 temp HP. At the end of 1 minute if any temp HP from this salve remains, lose the temp HP and regain the same amount of HP.
Quality salve: regain 2d4+2 HP.
Exquisite salve: regain 2d8 + 2 hit points, cease to be poisoned, and becured of up to one non-magical disease.
Unidentified salve: can be identified by using it, or by a creature proficient in alchemist's supplies making a successful DC 15 Intelligence (Alchemist's tools) check as part of a short rest. When identified, roll a D20 and compare it to the following table. 1 fake Salve 2-3 fowl Salve 4-10 mediocre salve 11-19 quality Salve 20 exquisite Salve
DM note: the range of Salve quality in the setting is worse than indicated by the table. The fact that most sellers will not intentionally sell fake or fowl Salve to the heavily armed, notoriously violent adventurers skews the table in their favor.
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With alchemy being a major theme, I brainstormed a bunch of things for more advanced versions of adventuring gear for the guilds or criminals to sell, or the party to loot off their corpses. Elemental resistance and vulnerabilities will play a part in the homebrew enemies.
I am looking for feedback on
•how much to charge for the items. •Any recommendations on changes to damage or DCs. •wording changes for clarity.
(Some Ideas are more thought out than others)
Here we go.
Alchemist's Fire (flask)
This sticky, adhesive fluid ignites when exposed to air. As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action you can throw this flask up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. Make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the alchemist's fire as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 1d4 fire damage at the start of each of its turns. A creature can end this damage by using its action to make a DC 10 Dexterity check to extinguish the flames.
War Fire (flask)
This alchemically enhanced adhesive fluid ignites when exposed to air. A vial held in hand may be thrown up to 20 ft. replacing an attack made as part of the attack action on your turn shattering on impact. Make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the alchemist's fire as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 2d4 fire damage at the start of each of its turns. A creature can end this damage by using its action to make a DC 12 Dexterity check to extinguish the flames. Hit or miss, the liquid ignites a square 15 ft on a side of the ground centered on the target. Creatures who enter an ignited area for the first time on a turn or start their turn there take 2d4 fire damage. A square 5 foot section of ignited area can be extinguished as an action.
Dragons breath (Canister) This volatile concoction is illegal to carry into most cities. Typically stored in a magically reinforced container, militaries and criminal master alchemists are the only source, neither of which are likely to give up their secrets. As an action you can speak the command word and throw the canister up to 30 ft where it shatters in a conflagration. Everyone in a 15 ft radius must make a DC 16 Dex save taking 6d4 fire damage on a failure and are ignited. Objects not worn or carried automatically fail this save. Ignited creatures take 6d4 fire damage at the start of each of their turns. A creature may use an action to attempt to put out the fire on themselves or others with a DC 16 Dexterity Check. Creatures who succeed on their saving throw take half damage and are not ignited.
caltrops As an action, you can spread a single bag of caltrops to cover a 5-foot-square area. Any creature that enters the area must succeed on a DC 15 Dexterity saving throw or stop moving and take 1 piercing damage. Until the creature regains at least 1 hit point, its walking speed is reduced by 10 feet. A creature moving through the area at half speed doesn't need to make the saving throw.
Barbed Caltrops
As with caltrops, but the damage is 1d4 piercing and the caltrops stick to those who fail their saving throw dealing 1 point of piercing damage for every 5 feet of movement spent. The caltrops can be removed as an action and they must be removed before recovering HP in order to regain movement speed.
Footbane caltrop bag
This magic bag contains 20 caltrops. When the command word is spoken, the caltops spring out of the bag to a location within 15 ft of the caster and spread themselves out over a 10-ft square area. They continue to move around that area until another command word is spoken to return them to the bag, an hour passes, or five creatures fail their saving throw against them as they become too spread out to be effective. Any caltrops not returned to the bag within 1 hour become non-magical. The constant movement of the caltrops make them impossible to hide, however, it also means that moving at half speed does not let a creature avoid having to make the save. If caltrops are lost or left behind they can be replaced by filling the bag with 20 non-magical caltrops and leaving them in the bag for 8 hours.
Acid Vial
As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this vial onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw the vial up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the acid as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 2d6 acid damage.
Elemental vial As with acid Vial, but dealing fire, frost, poison, lightning, or thunder damage.
Clinging acid As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this vial onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw the vial up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the acid as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 3d6 acid damage. At the end of each of the creatures' turns it takes a number of D6s of acid damage one less than the previous instance. (If it took 3d6 last time it takes 2d6 this time.) A creature may take the use an object action to reduce the next instance of this damage on themselves or an ally within 5 ft by 1d6. A creature proficient with alchemy tools may use the tools as part of the use an object action to reduce the next instance of damage damage by 2d6 instead.
Dragon's Bile [Flavor text] As with clinging acid but the starting damage is 5d6, creatures have disadvantage on saving throws to maintain concentration and while taking the ongoing damage, and the action now requires a DC 15 dexterity check to succeed. (alchemy tool proficiency applies)
Holy water
As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this flask onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw it up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged attack against a target creature, treating the holy water as an improvised weapon. If the target is a fiend or undead, it takes 2d6 radiant damage.
Sacred oil As an action you can apply this oil to a melee or ranged weapon. For 1 minute, attacks made with the weapon are considered magical and deal an additional 1d6 radiant damage to fiends or undead. This oil smells abhorrent to fiends. Once opened, and for one hour after it is applied to a weapon, fiends within 100 feet of the open vial or weapon will not suffer the surprised condition.
Tears of the Saints/Blood of the Martyrs [Flavor text] As an action, you speak a command phrase (usually a prayer of censure) and throw the reliquary up to 30 feet away from you. The souls of the wronged cry out for vengeance and each undead (for tears) or Fiend (for blood) within 30 feet of the target location, that can see or hear, takes 2d6 radiant damage and must make a DC 15 Wisdom saving throw. If the creature fails its saving throw, and its CR is 1 or less it is destroyed (undead) or banished to its home plane (fiends). A creature above CR 1 that fails it's save is turned for 1 minute or until it takes any damage.
A turned creature must spend its turns trying to move as far away from the target location as it can, and it can't willingly move to a space within 30 feet of it. The creature also can't take reactions. For its action, it can use only the Dash action or try to escape from an effect that prevents it from moving. If there's nowhere to move, the creature can use the Dodge action.
Healing potion You regain 2d4+2 hit points when you drink this potion. Drinking or administering a potion takes an action.
Bloodmush! "For people who don't have enough blood in them, so that they can have more blood in them!" -NoRefunds, wandering kobold trader
"Usually made by those who are not serviced by the guilds and do not have the necessary expertise or available raw materials to make healing potions, satchets of this dark red paste are far more likely to be found in orc, goblinoid, and kobold tribes than civilized areas." Archaic Alchemy of the Six Nations, chapter 7
You regain 1d4+1 hit points when you eat this paste or apply it directly to a wound. This takes an action.
Salve "There has been a great deal of arguments regarding Salve. Some claim it is merely another means of applying a healing potion, but be wary. Salve is not regulated by the guild, so there are no laws protecting its quality. Use at your own risk." -Archaic Alchemy of the Six Nations, chapter 2
As an action, one dose of Salve can be swallowed or applied to the skin. The creature that receives it gains benefits according to the following list.
Fake Salve: pain is relieved, but receive no actual benefits.
Fowl Salve: gain 2d4+2 temporary HP. At the end of 1 minute take 2d4 poison damage and lose any remaining temporary HP.
Mediocre salve: regain 1 HP and 2d4 temp HP. At the end of 1 minute if any temp HP from this salve remains, lose the temp HP and regain the same amount of HP.
Quality salve: regain 2d4+2 HP.
Exquisite salve: regain 2d8 + 2 hit points, cease to be poisoned, and becured of up to one non-magical disease.
Unidentified salve: can be identified by using it, or by a creature proficient in alchemist's supplies making a successful DC 15 Intelligence (Alchemist's tools) check as part of a short rest. When identified, roll a D20 and compare it to the following table. 1 fake Salve 2-3 fowl Salve 4-10 mediocre salve 11-19 quality Salve 20 exquisite Salve
DM note: the range of Salve quality in the setting is worse than indicated by the table. The fact that most sellers will not intentionally sell fake or fowl Salve to the heavily armed, notoriously violent adventurers skews the table in their favor.
2024.06.01 15:25 Practical-Ad-9289 Looking for a Genuine Longterm Friendship
Hey there
I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
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I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
- "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." – Elbert Hubbard
- "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" – C.S. Lewis
- "I'll be there for you (When the rain starts to pour) / I'll be there for you (Like I've been there before)" – The Rembrandts, I'll Be There for You
- "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." – Walter Winchell
- "Lean on me, when you're not strong / And I'll be your friend / I'll help you carry on." – Bill Withers, Lean on Me
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
2024.06.01 15:24 pauseglitched Advanced versions of basic alchemical items.
I am starting work putting together a DnD 5e campaign for level 5 adventurers that would go up to level 11. The main hook will be Rogue (not the PC class) alchemists and performance drug dealers in conflict with the guilds of the 6 Nation's Unified Guilds and local law enforcement.
With alchemy being a major theme, I brainstormed a bunch of things for more advanced versions of adventuring gear for the guilds or criminals to sell, or the party to loot off their corpses. Elemental resistance and vulnerabilities will play a part in the homebrew enemies.
I am looking for feedback on
•how much to charge for the items. •Any recommendations on changes to damage or DCs. •wording changes for clarity.
(Some Ideas are more thought out than others)
Here we go.
Alchemist's Fire (flask)
This sticky, adhesive fluid ignites when exposed to air. As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action you can throw this flask up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. Make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the alchemist's fire as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 1d4 fire damage at the start of each of its turns. A creature can end this damage by using its action to make a DC 10 Dexterity check to extinguish the flames.
War Fire (flask)
This alchemically enhanced adhesive fluid ignites when exposed to air. A vial held in hand may be thrown up to 20 ft. replacing an attack made as part of the attack action on your turn shattering on impact. Make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the alchemist's fire as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 2d4 fire damage at the start of each of its turns. A creature can end this damage by using its action to make a DC 12 Dexterity check to extinguish the flames. Hit or miss, the liquid ignites a square 15 ft on a side of the ground centered on the target. Creatures who enter an ignited area for the first time on a turn or start their turn there take 2d4 fire damage. A square 5 foot section of ignited area can be extinguished as an action.
Dragons breath (Canister) This volatile concoction is illegal to carry into most cities. Typically stored in a magically reinforced container, militaries and criminal master alchemists are the only source, neither of which are likely to give up their secrets. As an action you can speak the command word and throw the canister up to 30 ft where it shatters in a conflagration. Everyone in a 15 ft radius must make a DC 16 Dex save taking 6d4 fire damage on a failure and are ignited. Objects not worn or carried automatically fail this save. Ignited creatures take 6d4 fire damage at the start of each of their turns. A creature may use an action to attempt to put out the fire on themselves or others with a DC 16 Dexterity Check. Creatures who succeed on their saving throw take half damage and are not ignited.
caltrops As an action, you can spread a single bag of caltrops to cover a 5-foot-square area. Any creature that enters the area must succeed on a DC 15 Dexterity saving throw or stop moving and take 1 piercing damage. Until the creature regains at least 1 hit point, its walking speed is reduced by 10 feet. A creature moving through the area at half speed doesn't need to make the saving throw.
Barbed Caltrops
As with caltrops, but the damage is 1d4 piercing and the caltrops stick to those who fail their saving throw dealing 1 point of piercing damage for every 5 feet of movement spent. The caltrops can be removed as an action and they must be removed before recovering HP in order to regain movement speed.
Footbane caltrop bag
This magic bag contains 20 caltrops. When the command word is spoken, the caltops spring out of the bag to a location within 15 ft of the caster and spread themselves out over a 10-ft square area. They continue to move around that area until another command word is spoken to return them to the bag, an hour passes, or five creatures fail their saving throw against them as they become too spread out to be effective. Any caltrops not returned to the bag within 1 hour become non-magical. The constant movement of the caltrops make them impossible to hide, however, it also means that moving at half speed does not let a creature avoid having to make the save. If caltrops are lost or left behind they can be replaced by filling the bag with 20 non-magical caltrops and leaving them in the bag for 8 hours.
Acid Vial
As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this vial onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw the vial up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the acid as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 2d6 acid damage.
Elemental vial As with acid Vial, but dealing fire, frost, poison, lightning, or thunder damage.
Clinging acid As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this vial onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw the vial up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the acid as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 3d6 acid damage. At the end of each of the creatures' turns it takes a number of D6s of acid damage one less than the previous instance. (If it took 3d6 last time it takes 2d6 this time.) A creature may take the use an object action to reduce the next instance of this damage on themselves or an ally within 5 ft by 1d6. A creature proficient with alchemy tools may use the tools as part of the use an object action to reduce the next instance of damage damage by 2d6 instead.
Dragon's Bile [Flavor text] As with clinging acid but the starting damage is 5d6, creatures have disadvantage on saving throws to maintain concentration and while taking the ongoing damage, and the action now requires a DC 15 dexterity check to succeed. (alchemy tool proficiency applies)
Holy water
As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this flask onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw it up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged attack against a target creature, treating the holy water as an improvised weapon. If the target is a fiend or undead, it takes 2d6 radiant damage.
Sacred oil As an action you can apply this oil to a melee or ranged weapon. For 1 minute, attacks made with the weapon are considered magical and deal an additional 1d6 radiant damage to fiends or undead. This oil smells abhorrent to fiends. Once opened, and for one hour after it is applied to a weapon, fiends within 100 feet of the open vial or weapon will not suffer the surprised condition.
Tears of the Saints/Blood of the Martyrs [Flavor text] As an action, you speak a command phrase (usually a prayer of censure) and throw the reliquary up to 30 feet away from you. The souls of the wronged cry out for vengeance and each undead (for tears) or Fiend (for blood) within 30 feet of the target location, that can see or hear, takes 2d6 radiant damage and must make a DC 15 Wisdom saving throw. If the creature fails its saving throw, and its CR is 1 or less it is destroyed (undead) or banished to its home plane (fiends). A creature above CR 1 that fails it's save is turned for 1 minute or until it takes any damage.
A turned creature must spend its turns trying to move as far away from the target location as it can, and it can't willingly move to a space within 30 feet of it. The creature also can't take reactions. For its action, it can use only the Dash action or try to escape from an effect that prevents it from moving. If there's nowhere to move, the creature can use the Dodge action.
Healing potion You regain 2d4+2 hit points when you drink this potion. Drinking or administering a potion takes an action.
Bloodmush! "For people who don't have enough blood in them, so that they can have more blood in them!" -NoRefunds, wandering kobold trader
"Usually made by those who are not serviced by the guilds and do not have the necessary expertise or available raw materials to make healing potions, satchets of this dark red paste are far more likely to be found in orc, goblinoid, and kobold tribes than civilized areas." Archaic Alchemy of the Six Nations, chapter 7
You regain 1d4+1 hit points when you eat this paste or apply it directly to a wound. This takes an action.
Salve "There has been a great deal of arguments regarding Salve. Some claim it is merely another means of applying a healing potion, but be wary. Salve is not regulated by the guild, so there are no laws protecting its quality. Use at your own risk." -Archaic Alchemy of the Six Nations, chapter 2
As an action, one dose of Salve can be swallowed or applied to the skin. The creature that receives it gains benefits according to the following list.
Fake Salve: pain is relieved, but receive no actual benefits.
Fowl Salve: gain 2d4+2 temporary HP. At the end of 1 minute take 2d4 poison damage and lose any remaining temporary HP.
Mediocre salve: regain 1 HP and 2d4 temp HP. At the end of 1 minute if any temp HP from this salve remains, lose the temp HP and regain the same amount of HP.
Quality salve: regain 2d4+2 HP.
Exquisite salve: regain 2d8 + 2 hit points, cease to be poisoned, and becured of up to one non-magical disease.
Unidentified salve: can be identified by using it, or by a creature proficient in alchemist's supplies making a successful DC 15 Intelligence (Alchemist's tools) check as part of a short rest. When identified, roll a D20 and compare it to the following table. 1 fake Salve 2-3 fowl Salve 4-10 mediocre salve 11-19 quality Salve 20 exquisite Salve
DM note: the range of Salve quality in the setting is worse than indicated by the table. The fact that most sellers will not intentionally sell fake or fowl Salve to the heavily armed, notoriously violent adventurers skews the table in their favor.
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With alchemy being a major theme, I brainstormed a bunch of things for more advanced versions of adventuring gear for the guilds or criminals to sell, or the party to loot off their corpses. Elemental resistance and vulnerabilities will play a part in the homebrew enemies.
I am looking for feedback on
•how much to charge for the items. •Any recommendations on changes to damage or DCs. •wording changes for clarity.
(Some Ideas are more thought out than others)
Here we go.
Alchemist's Fire (flask)
This sticky, adhesive fluid ignites when exposed to air. As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action you can throw this flask up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. Make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the alchemist's fire as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 1d4 fire damage at the start of each of its turns. A creature can end this damage by using its action to make a DC 10 Dexterity check to extinguish the flames.
War Fire (flask)
This alchemically enhanced adhesive fluid ignites when exposed to air. A vial held in hand may be thrown up to 20 ft. replacing an attack made as part of the attack action on your turn shattering on impact. Make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the alchemist's fire as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 2d4 fire damage at the start of each of its turns. A creature can end this damage by using its action to make a DC 12 Dexterity check to extinguish the flames. Hit or miss, the liquid ignites a square 15 ft on a side of the ground centered on the target. Creatures who enter an ignited area for the first time on a turn or start their turn there take 2d4 fire damage. A square 5 foot section of ignited area can be extinguished as an action.
Dragons breath (Canister) This volatile concoction is illegal to carry into most cities. Typically stored in a magically reinforced container, militaries and criminal master alchemists are the only source, neither of which are likely to give up their secrets. As an action you can speak the command word and throw the canister up to 30 ft where it shatters in a conflagration. Everyone in a 15 ft radius must make a DC 16 Dex save taking 6d4 fire damage on a failure and are ignited. Objects not worn or carried automatically fail this save. Ignited creatures take 6d4 fire damage at the start of each of their turns. A creature may use an action to attempt to put out the fire on themselves or others with a DC 16 Dexterity Check. Creatures who succeed on their saving throw take half damage and are not ignited.
caltrops As an action, you can spread a single bag of caltrops to cover a 5-foot-square area. Any creature that enters the area must succeed on a DC 15 Dexterity saving throw or stop moving and take 1 piercing damage. Until the creature regains at least 1 hit point, its walking speed is reduced by 10 feet. A creature moving through the area at half speed doesn't need to make the saving throw.
Barbed Caltrops
As with caltrops, but the damage is 1d4 piercing and the caltrops stick to those who fail their saving throw dealing 1 point of piercing damage for every 5 feet of movement spent. The caltrops can be removed as an action and they must be removed before recovering HP in order to regain movement speed.
Footbane caltrop bag
This magic bag contains 20 caltrops. When the command word is spoken, the caltops spring out of the bag to a location within 15 ft of the caster and spread themselves out over a 10-ft square area. They continue to move around that area until another command word is spoken to return them to the bag, an hour passes, or five creatures fail their saving throw against them as they become too spread out to be effective. Any caltrops not returned to the bag within 1 hour become non-magical. The constant movement of the caltrops make them impossible to hide, however, it also means that moving at half speed does not let a creature avoid having to make the save. If caltrops are lost or left behind they can be replaced by filling the bag with 20 non-magical caltrops and leaving them in the bag for 8 hours.
Acid Vial
As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this vial onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw the vial up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the acid as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 2d6 acid damage.
Elemental vial As with acid Vial, but dealing fire, frost, poison, lightning, or thunder damage.
Clinging acid As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this vial onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw the vial up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged Attack against a creature or object, treating the acid as an improvised weapon. On a hit, the target takes 3d6 acid damage. At the end of each of the creatures' turns it takes a number of D6s of acid damage one less than the previous instance. (If it took 3d6 last time it takes 2d6 this time.) A creature may take the use an object action to reduce the next instance of this damage on themselves or an ally within 5 ft by 1d6. A creature proficient with alchemy tools may use the tools as part of the use an object action to reduce the next instance of damage damage by 2d6 instead.
Dragon's Bile [Flavor text] As with clinging acid but the starting damage is 5d6, creatures have disadvantage on saving throws to maintain concentration and while taking the ongoing damage, and the action now requires a DC 15 dexterity check to succeed. (alchemy tool proficiency applies)
Holy water
As an action, or replacing an attack as part of the attack action, you can splash the contents of this flask onto a creature within 5 feet of you or throw it up to 20 feet, shattering it on impact. In either case, make a ranged attack against a target creature, treating the holy water as an improvised weapon. If the target is a fiend or undead, it takes 2d6 radiant damage.
Sacred oil As an action you can apply this oil to a melee or ranged weapon. For 1 minute, attacks made with the weapon are considered magical and deal an additional 1d6 radiant damage to fiends or undead. This oil smells abhorrent to fiends. Once opened, and for one hour after it is applied to a weapon, fiends within 100 feet of the open vial or weapon will not suffer the surprised condition.
Tears of the Saints/Blood of the Martyrs [Flavor text] As an action, you speak a command phrase (usually a prayer of censure) and throw the reliquary up to 30 feet away from you. The souls of the wronged cry out for vengeance and each undead (for tears) or Fiend (for blood) within 30 feet of the target location, that can see or hear, takes 2d6 radiant damage and must make a DC 15 Wisdom saving throw. If the creature fails its saving throw, and its CR is 1 or less it is destroyed (undead) or banished to its home plane (fiends). A creature above CR 1 that fails it's save is turned for 1 minute or until it takes any damage.
A turned creature must spend its turns trying to move as far away from the target location as it can, and it can't willingly move to a space within 30 feet of it. The creature also can't take reactions. For its action, it can use only the Dash action or try to escape from an effect that prevents it from moving. If there's nowhere to move, the creature can use the Dodge action.
Healing potion You regain 2d4+2 hit points when you drink this potion. Drinking or administering a potion takes an action.
Bloodmush! "For people who don't have enough blood in them, so that they can have more blood in them!" -NoRefunds, wandering kobold trader
"Usually made by those who are not serviced by the guilds and do not have the necessary expertise or available raw materials to make healing potions, satchets of this dark red paste are far more likely to be found in orc, goblinoid, and kobold tribes than civilized areas." Archaic Alchemy of the Six Nations, chapter 7
You regain 1d4+1 hit points when you eat this paste or apply it directly to a wound. This takes an action.
Salve "There has been a great deal of arguments regarding Salve. Some claim it is merely another means of applying a healing potion, but be wary. Salve is not regulated by the guild, so there are no laws protecting its quality. Use at your own risk." -Archaic Alchemy of the Six Nations, chapter 2
As an action, one dose of Salve can be swallowed or applied to the skin. The creature that receives it gains benefits according to the following list.
Fake Salve: pain is relieved, but receive no actual benefits.
Fowl Salve: gain 2d4+2 temporary HP. At the end of 1 minute take 2d4 poison damage and lose any remaining temporary HP.
Mediocre salve: regain 1 HP and 2d4 temp HP. At the end of 1 minute if any temp HP from this salve remains, lose the temp HP and regain the same amount of HP.
Quality salve: regain 2d4+2 HP.
Exquisite salve: regain 2d8 + 2 hit points, cease to be poisoned, and becured of up to one non-magical disease.
Unidentified salve: can be identified by using it, or by a creature proficient in alchemist's supplies making a successful DC 15 Intelligence (Alchemist's tools) check as part of a short rest. When identified, roll a D20 and compare it to the following table. 1 fake Salve 2-3 fowl Salve 4-10 mediocre salve 11-19 quality Salve 20 exquisite Salve
DM note: the range of Salve quality in the setting is worse than indicated by the table. The fact that most sellers will not intentionally sell fake or fowl Salve to the heavily armed, notoriously violent adventurers skews the table in their favor.
2024.06.01 15:24 Practical-Ad-9289 25M Looking for a Genuine Longterm Friendship
Hey there
I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
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I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
- "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." – Elbert Hubbard
- "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" – C.S. Lewis
- "I'll be there for you (When the rain starts to pour) / I'll be there for you (Like I've been there before)" – The Rembrandts, I'll Be There for You
- "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." – Walter Winchell
- "Lean on me, when you're not strong / And I'll be your friend / I'll help you carry on." – Bill Withers, Lean on Me
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
2024.06.01 15:23 Practical-Ad-9289 [25/M] Looking for A Genuine Longterm Friendship
Hey there
I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
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I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
- "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." – Elbert Hubbard
- "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" – C.S. Lewis
- "I'll be there for you (When the rain starts to pour) / I'll be there for you (Like I've been there before)" – The Rembrandts, I'll Be There for You
- "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." – Walter Winchell
- "Lean on me, when you're not strong / And I'll be your friend / I'll help you carry on." – Bill Withers, Lean on Me
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
2024.06.01 15:23 Part-European-Psycho (M4A) looking for a long term partner + pal!
Hey there, my names Greyson and I’m a 17 year old high school grad! First off, as I’m 17 (turning 18 and in a few weeks) please be within the age range of 17-19! I really would rather be friends and write with fellas around my age, no exceptions
Anyways if you made it past that little roadblock here’s an introductory type thing:
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Anyways if you made it past that little roadblock here’s an introductory type thing:
- I’m a guy but I DONT care what your identity is as long as you’re cool
- I’m in the CST time zone and I BEG you are also near that, it’s so much harder for me to talk to people in other time zones
- I have a part time job, but other than that I’m about as chronically online as possible
- I love talking about random stuff, but I struggle with texting first anxiety when I’m just getting to know you so bare with me! So OOC is a huge must for me, be friendly and be silly
- I’m autistic (doesn’t really matter but Yknow whatever)
- I draw as much as I can and would 100% be down for drawing our guys doing silly stuff, that’s like the best part of this. ALSO I do have an example of my art on my profile! I swear it’s literally a scroll down, so please do check it out you will get a feel for the sort of characters I create
- I only write on discord and in 3rd person when roleplaying
- I only main male characters, though for side characters I can write any gender! I only ask that you are fine with writing side characters as well
- On that note I am fine with any MxF/MxM pairing, whatever! At the moment I am leaning towards M4M, but I go either way
- Please be fairly literate, I love writing a lot- sometimes from 4-6 paragraphs. I ask that you can do the same when a situation calls for it
- I’m a huge history geek especially in the time periods of the 1800s-1980s, anything from cowboys to yuppies is my jam
- Supernatural elements are always welcome! I don’t require that at all, but I’m always down for something unique
- I’m a horror buff so I’d love that sort of element. I’m fine with natural horror (my favorite honestly) or supernatural like mentioned above ^
- I love any sort of action or conflict imaginable, the crazier and scarier the better
- Crime and whatnot always interests me, it’s part of my major
- Romance is cool, but what’s really cool to me is a slow burn enemies to lovers type beat. And I mean REAL enemies cliche, not just mild dislike
- I’m kind of into a lot of stuff that’s hard to put into words so here’s some media that I enjoy: Hannibal both OG and NBC, fear & Hunger (Termina especially), Darkest Dungeons, Yakuza, Dexter, the Mafia trilogy, LA Noire, Pathologic, Disco Elysium, Hotline Miami, Dishonored, any film bro movie, Fallout New Vegas, Bioshock, re just a couple to name a few (please note that I’m not interested in fandom rps, only OCs!)
- Also, I am not very interested in writing/creating teen or young adult characters. I really enjoy giving depth to characters and not basing things off of conventionality. So PLEASE keep this in mind, I know a lot of people aren’t into that but I am
2024.06.01 15:23 jijisku First time dating on Tinder, didn’t go so well.
Here's the thing. I met a guy on Tinder over a month ago, and we've been meeting up every week since we met. Everything was going well, but the thing is, English isn't my first language and I still have a lot to improve (when I speak). So sometimes we get stuck because of that. Also, we're really different. He's like a spoiled kid who doesn't have to worry about anything, and I'm the complete opposite (we're both 29 years old). I'm constantly thinking about how to overcome the obstacles life throws at me, while he's thinking about his next vacation. Despite all this, he was always attentive, messaging me from morning until night, but that changed about a week ago. Suddenly, he stopped messaging me much.
So, I wrote to him asking about the change, saying it was fine but that he could tell me if something was up (even though I saw it coming). I decided to delete the message because I sent it in the morning and he hadn't opened it all day (and I know he's someone who's glued to his phone). Apparently, he read it and replied the next day, saying he understood he was less chatty and that we should just be friends. I replied okay. He didn't say anything else until the next day when he sent me a picture from his hiking trip in Italy. I responded politely; he asked how I was doing, and I said I was fine. And that was the end of the conversation.
Here's my question: I understand we're very different, but I really liked this guy a lot despite our differences. Seriously, a lot. He seemed so cool... and then he changed overnight. Even though I'm communicative and tried to ask or let him vent about what's going on (because I thought maybe it had nothing to do with me), he said nothing was wrong. But after that, he changed.
Also, two days before he told me we should be friends, he asked me to come sleep over after his night shift and have breakfast together. Which I did, and he knows it takes me an hour to get to his place... so yes, I felt a bit humiliated. That's it. I repeat, he seems like a good person, but I think he treated me poorly. It's obvious.
How would you react?
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So, I wrote to him asking about the change, saying it was fine but that he could tell me if something was up (even though I saw it coming). I decided to delete the message because I sent it in the morning and he hadn't opened it all day (and I know he's someone who's glued to his phone). Apparently, he read it and replied the next day, saying he understood he was less chatty and that we should just be friends. I replied okay. He didn't say anything else until the next day when he sent me a picture from his hiking trip in Italy. I responded politely; he asked how I was doing, and I said I was fine. And that was the end of the conversation.
Here's my question: I understand we're very different, but I really liked this guy a lot despite our differences. Seriously, a lot. He seemed so cool... and then he changed overnight. Even though I'm communicative and tried to ask or let him vent about what's going on (because I thought maybe it had nothing to do with me), he said nothing was wrong. But after that, he changed.
Also, two days before he told me we should be friends, he asked me to come sleep over after his night shift and have breakfast together. Which I did, and he knows it takes me an hour to get to his place... so yes, I felt a bit humiliated. That's it. I repeat, he seems like a good person, but I think he treated me poorly. It's obvious.
How would you react?
2024.06.01 15:23 Practical-Ad-9289 25M Looking for a Genuine Longterm Friendship
Hey there
I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
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I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
- "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." – Elbert Hubbard
- "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" – C.S. Lewis
- "I'll be there for you (When the rain starts to pour) / I'll be there for you (Like I've been there before)" – The Rembrandts, I'll Be There for You
- "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." – Walter Winchell
- "Lean on me, when you're not strong / And I'll be your friend / I'll help you carry on." – Bill Withers, Lean on Me
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
2024.06.01 15:22 Practical-Ad-9289 25M Looking for a Genuine Longterm Friendship
Hey there
I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
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I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
- "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." – Elbert Hubbard
- "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" – C.S. Lewis
- "I'll be there for you (When the rain starts to pour) / I'll be there for you (Like I've been there before)" – The Rembrandts, I'll Be There for You
- "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." – Walter Winchell
- "Lean on me, when you're not strong / And I'll be your friend / I'll help you carry on." – Bill Withers, Lean on Me
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
2024.06.01 15:22 redwhite680 I hate when my(20M) GF(20F) goes out. What should I do?
Hi everyone, throwaway account here.
I've been with my GF(20F) together for almost three years now, living together for a year. We usually get along really good, had some arguments in the past, but nothing too big.
The main issue in our relationship is that she is more extroverted, having her small group of girlfriends (all of them are single now) since they were little, why I usually preferred spending time alone/with my family. Before we started dating, she was partying/clubbing pretty much every weekend and with any occasion she got, but after we met she greatly reduced these activities because of me (she also gave up drinking/smoking), but in the same time she also distanced herself from her girlfriends, and now she wants to start going out with them again. I know how important they are to my GF, but I absolutely hate when she says that she will go out with them, going to music festivals, clubbing and so on. I have already said 'no' to her a couple of times, but that won't do any good in the long run.
It's almost like I hate knowing she's out having fun, but I don't know why I feel this way. I am not afraid that she's cheating on me or that something can happen to her, but I just don't like knowing she's spending her nights in clubs or festivals or whatever. She usually texts me and responds to my messages, so she's not giving me reasons to believe she's cheating. Also, if she's gone during the day I really don't mind, but during nighttime it's when I start freaking out.
I have tried doing things while she's gone (playing video games, watching movies, talking on discord with friends), but I can't ignore all my thoughts when she's out. I am also pretty afraid that she will start smoking again or drink too much as all of her girlfriends do, but I don't want to be controlling and toxic for her as these years should the best years of our lives.
Please give me advice on what to do with our relationship. Are we too different and it won't work out, or should I just suck it up and get used to it? We really love each other and we have been together through a lot during these years. Breaking up could be quite difficult for both of us, as this is our first relationship, and on top of that we still have to live together until our renting contract ends (in about a month). Please tell me what you think, and sorry for the long post.
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I've been with my GF(20F) together for almost three years now, living together for a year. We usually get along really good, had some arguments in the past, but nothing too big.
The main issue in our relationship is that she is more extroverted, having her small group of girlfriends (all of them are single now) since they were little, why I usually preferred spending time alone/with my family. Before we started dating, she was partying/clubbing pretty much every weekend and with any occasion she got, but after we met she greatly reduced these activities because of me (she also gave up drinking/smoking), but in the same time she also distanced herself from her girlfriends, and now she wants to start going out with them again. I know how important they are to my GF, but I absolutely hate when she says that she will go out with them, going to music festivals, clubbing and so on. I have already said 'no' to her a couple of times, but that won't do any good in the long run.
It's almost like I hate knowing she's out having fun, but I don't know why I feel this way. I am not afraid that she's cheating on me or that something can happen to her, but I just don't like knowing she's spending her nights in clubs or festivals or whatever. She usually texts me and responds to my messages, so she's not giving me reasons to believe she's cheating. Also, if she's gone during the day I really don't mind, but during nighttime it's when I start freaking out.
I have tried doing things while she's gone (playing video games, watching movies, talking on discord with friends), but I can't ignore all my thoughts when she's out. I am also pretty afraid that she will start smoking again or drink too much as all of her girlfriends do, but I don't want to be controlling and toxic for her as these years should the best years of our lives.
Please give me advice on what to do with our relationship. Are we too different and it won't work out, or should I just suck it up and get used to it? We really love each other and we have been together through a lot during these years. Breaking up could be quite difficult for both of us, as this is our first relationship, and on top of that we still have to live together until our renting contract ends (in about a month). Please tell me what you think, and sorry for the long post.
2024.06.01 15:22 Practical-Ad-9289 25M Looking for a Genuine Longterm Friendship
Hey there
I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
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I'm a 25-year-old guy with a Bachelor of Medicine and Surgery under my belt, standing tall at 5'11". If you're looking for a friend who shares your passion for the intricacies of the universe and the wonders of fandoms, you're in the right place.
A Bit About Me:
I'm a nerd in the truest sense, forever curious and always exploring new realms—whether they be in comics, novels, TV series, movies, or video games. From the Marvel Universe to the intricate world of Tolkien, I dive deep into multi-verses and fandoms, always eager to discover and discuss the latest theories and plot twists.
I have a particular love for: - Reading Comics and Novels: My bookshelf is a chaotic mix of graphic novels, sci-fi sagas, and fantasy epics. - Binge-Watching TV Series: From "Stranger Things" to "The Expanse," I can discuss plotlines and character arcs for hours. - Enjoying Movies: Whether it's a Marvel marathon or an obscure indie film, I'm always up for a good watch. - Playing Video Games: My consoles are well-loved and well-used. From RPGs to FPS, I enjoy a wide variety of genres.
The Academic Side:
As someone deeply invested in the world of medicine and surgery, I love researching various topics, such as: - Medicine: Always on the lookout for new advancements and innovations. - Science: From the tiniest particles in nuclear physics to the vast expanses of the cosmos. - Marine Biology: The mysteries of the ocean captivate me as much as the mysteries of space. - World History and Geography: Understanding our past and how it shapes our present fascinates me. - NanoTech in Medicine: The future of medicine and surgery is being revolutionized by nanotechnology, and I can't get enough of it.
Languages:
I’m a polyglot of sorts, fluent in English, Hindi, and Urdu, and dabbling in Klingon and Arabic, along with some regional and fictional languages. Whether it's discussing the intricacies of different cultures or just trying to perfect my Klingon, language is a bridge to understanding the world and connecting with others.
Looking for:
I'm on the lookout for a friend who shares similar interests. Whether you're a fellow medical student, a science enthusiast, a fandom nerd, or just someone who loves deep, meaningful conversations, let's connect! If you're studying, we can be study buddies, helping each other out and sharing knowledge.
To give you a glimpse into how I view friendship, here are some of my favorite quotes and lyrics about friendship:
- "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." – Elbert Hubbard
- "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" – C.S. Lewis
- "I'll be there for you (When the rain starts to pour) / I'll be there for you (Like I've been there before)" – The Rembrandts, I'll Be There for You
- "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." – Walter Winchell
- "Lean on me, when you're not strong / And I'll be your friend / I'll help you carry on." – Bill Withers, Lean on Me
In a world where it's easy to feel disconnected, I'm looking to form genuine connections with like-minded individuals. Whether we're discussing the latest episode of a TV show, diving deep into a scientific topic, or just sharing our thoughts on life, I'm here for it.
If you're interested in exploring the multiverse together, or if you need a study buddy who's as passionate about learning as you are, drop me a message! Let's embark on this journey of friendship and discovery together.
Looking forward to meeting you...
2024.06.01 15:22 incognito-throwawayy Standing up for myself
 | We're currently LDR, but we used to be together in the same city. I (31f) was planning to move back to his (31m) city in the fall. Relationship has been 4 years of emotional abuse, him cheating, DARVO, trauma bonding, walking on eggshells. I always hoped it would get better. submitted by incognito-throwawayy to abusiverelationships [link] [comments] Yesterday we were talking on the phone and I brought up that I would like to go to an outdoor concert this summer in my city, to see a band that I really like. It's a family-friendly event, pretty chill, nothing crazy. I sent him links and details. I got the response I feared: "people will hit on you" "do you think you'll be able to control yourself?" "So you're just going to go and do whatever you want?" And then he asked "When we're moved in together, are you going to be going to concerts all the time?" I said no not all the time, but that it would mean a lot to me if a band i really love is playing a show. I never said anything about going by myself, yet he got bothered and made some comment about me excluding him: "we're a couple, we're supposed to do everything together." I told him I would love it if he came with me to concerts, but then he said concerts are a waste of time anyway. And yet, I'm excluding him somehow. Anyway the whole conversation devolved into him criticizing me about not caring about the relationship, how I'm constantly putting the relationship in "regression." Just because I mentioned I would like to go to concerts. We had a similar argument a while back because I had mentioned I would like to make friends when I move back to his city (pink texts). "How are we supposed to grow as a couple when you're spending your time making friends?" Yesterday I saw the whole thing for what it was. He wants to limit my freedom even from 1000 miles away, just so I can be under his thumb when we live together. His texts here are the usual song and dance, so I called him out on it. After 4 years I'm just sick and tired of everything. I miss my old city, but I'll be better off staying where I am. Anyway thanks for reading! I needed a place to vent. |
2024.06.01 15:21 ImM3llow 26 [M4F] USA / Anywhere / Online. Free Golden Retriever energy BF, let me love you❤️
Edit: DO NOT message me a simple hi or hello, with no information about you, Put some effort in to your message like i have, come on. Day+Attempt#200
Hello everyone, Thank you for taking the time to read, I know its long, I know - I know. But its worth the read, Trust me. I appreciate you immensely.
Here's a bit about me,
My name is Jay, I live on the East coast of the US. I'm looking for love - like everyone else on here.., but you may not believe or even be doubtful that I've never had a GF before with me being 26, but its true. I'm simply just not willing to "be with" just anyone and I'm very picky. I want us to be a match, more than just have similar things in common.
One thing I have always been told is that I'm a "Real Catch, I'd be extremely lucky to have someone like you" - WELL THEN TAKE ME. I'M FREE. LOL.
About me:
Physically -
~I'm a semi-tall guy, around 5'10.
~I'm thin but muscular.
~I have dirty blonde/ brown hair.
~Changing colored eyes.
~A voice nice enough to melt all your safeguards and get right into your heart and weak spots.
~I do not have any tattoos or piercings. Though I would like to get some eventually.
If you'd like to see a picture of me just ask and I'll show you - IF I may see you as well, I simply just don't want a picture of me out there for anyone to see.
-If there's anything else you'd like to know just ask.
Otherwise -
~I do have 3 pet bunnies I would be more than happy to show you, they are extremely cute.
~I'm a very honest and down to earth guy.
~I'm very patient and easy going.
~I'm very curious and inquisitive. I will try to ask everything I can to learn all about you haha.
~I'm Very VERY Kind & Caring, I will probably ask how you are feeling a bajillion times a day, simply out of care for you.
~I can get pretty clingy, and will always want your attention and to be talking with you. If i have someone im interested in i wont want to talk to anyone else🤷♂️
~I'm very trustworthy - you can confide in me, and entrust your deepest secrets and I wont tell a soul.
~I'm a HUGE hopeless romantic, im old fashioned and will always try to impress you.
- I'm, a BIG softie even though I may look a smol bit intimidating, but I'd do just about anything to see you smile or laugh. And yes.., I do mean anything.
~I'm a big goof - I will get up to some silly shenanigans ALL the time, I will crack dumb jokes and send you memes and tik toks just to make you happy, even if its from across the room I'd wait to see your reaction lol.
~I'm extremely loyal, and would never even think of cheating.
~I will cook for you, and clean up too, even around the house, I'm very self productive and don't ask for much. Just don't forget to kiss the cook.
~I'd also love to just cuddle up and watch a movie or read a book together, anything to get us closer. Id try to take you out on dates whenever possible haha. I have a million SUPER romantic date ideas I have but have never had anyone interested enough in me to take out. Here's your chance ;)
~I will always want to share stuff I find interesting with you, and try to share every moment of every day with you. I'm not looking for someone who can only talk for a small amount of time, I want someone who's willing to put in all the effort I put into them back into me, it goes both ways. If I'm "with" someone you are my TOP priority nobody and nothing else would be. You would be the only person I'd truly want to talk to, so rest assured I would NEVER cheat, even more so because no one is interested in me - Hence why I'm here hahaha.
I'm sure there is more to me than this snippet but I cant think of more at the moment haha, so get to know me and find out more about me.
Some of my interests are: Engineering- I'm a nerd. I admit it. I love being technical and hands on, I love building things. All kinds of things, from furniture, machinery, and reverse engineering anything I find. I love learning how things work and trying to improve things.
Music - I prefer music with a very fast pace, or with some very meaningful lyrics I can relate to. I love to sing along to music and songs that have a deep meaning behind it I can sympathize with makes it all the better. Some bands I like are: Bad Omens, Beartooth, Demon Hunter, MIW, I9K - The list goes on. I'm a bit of a metalhead unfortunately.
TV Shows & Movies - I love watching shows, and I'd love to stream some shows and have some E-dates with you, to get to know you, or if you are close to me, maybe we could do it in person. Some shows I like or more of the Fantasy/Sci-Fi, Comedy, Action, stuff like: National Treasure, Halo, BattleBots, Rick and Morty, AHS, Anything Marvel or DC, The Witcher, Wednesday, The Sandman, The Magicians, The Umbrella Academy, ETC.
Gaming - Yes yes I know, Basic guy likes basic stuff. But gaming has been a thing for me since forever. I know most of you wont care or want to hear that, but I'll leave out the specifics on this part unless you are interested in that, MEGA Bonus points if you are.
Here's a lists of Cons to dating me-
~I'm not Ryan Reynolds. Disappointing, I know.
~I will fight you on what goes on pizza lol.
~I'm not rich.., Yet.
~I can't pronounce Worcestershire.
~I'm slightly forgetful, but with good reasoning.
~(Not really a con but- some might disagree) I still have ALL of my firsts, Do with that what you will c:
~I've got an endless pile of love and affection and no one to give it to! What a dilemma! Help me fix it?
Other than that I'll save the rest for a bit more of getting to know each other.
Here's a bit of what I'm looking in you:
~Preferably someone with lots of free time, and loves to chit chat. I'm seriously not interested in getting 1 message a day. Though I understand people get busy, I personally am not willing to try to learn about you and form something with 7 responses a week. Effort gets reciprocated and I appreciate the time you put in me.
~Physically: -I’m not personally attracted to anyone who’s “curvy/ chubby”, I apologize. Not a shallow thing, I just dont have the attraction chemical in my brain for that, I’m sorry. -If you’re shorter than me, thats a plus to me. -I love dimples, if you have those when you smile, bonus points 😊 - I’m not sure what else to put.., but as for nsfw wise find out😂
~I'm a sucker for a different accent other than American, and if you have an Posh English accent you have already won my heart.
~I'm also only really looking for someone within the ages of 18-35. I don't want anyone old enough to be my mom lol.
~I'd prefer (But not a must) people NOT on the other side of the world, as other time zones SUCK. I don't expect to find anyone who also has never had a boyfriend either, but that would be a real plus. I also don't mind a LDR, but I don't want that forever. But it gives us time to get to know each other.
But as for attributes I'm looking for in you:
~Someone who is above all else very very Loyal and would never cheat.
~Someone who is Honest, and will tell me the truth over a little white lie.
~Someone who is Kind & Caring, who'd constantly check on me, and accept me for who I am & help me improve day to day.
~Someone who is trustworthy, and I can count on to keep my secrets safe, or even just help me remember things.., I do tend to be somewhat forgetful.
~Someone who is very Patient and wants to see me succeed and will help me do so, just like I would help you. Even if its small day to day things, I would appreciate your company ANY time.
~I want a partner who is Affectionate, can reciprocate, and loves to snuggle and talk about their day, and what their interests are, and what makes them happy.
~Someone who can admit they get clingy or overprotective is a bonus.
~A partner with good communication is key, if something wrong we have to be able to talk about it.
~A partner who likes to game with me or at least watch me play would be a plus but not a requirement.
~Someone with a good sense of humor and like to joke around, I am a big goof after all and I love to joke around. Sending memes is always appreciated and good to cheer people up too!
~I'd prefer someone with the same music taste, but not a requirement, Plus if you wouldn't mind if I send you love songs occasionally that's a bonus, or sending me some back haha.
~Being willing to voice call is a must, Texting forever is not the way to go. I have to know what your voice is like haha, later on we can video call if you are comfortable with that. I prefer chatting on Discord because Reddit messages of any kind I'm sure you know are unreliable and sucky in general. So please send me your discord if you have one :)
~I would LOVE to see picture of your pets if you have any. Bonus points if it includes your beautiful self haha.
I'm sure there is more I'm looking for but I cant think of it right now haha, I will have to edit this when I think of it.
Please tell me about you as an opener! I told you a good bit about me, now its your turn haha.
Tell me some things like -
~What's your name?
~Where are you from?
~How old are you?
~What are your hobbies / interests?
~What about my post interested you?
~Where is my TV Remote?!
~Selfie? Pet pics?
~Hit me with your best joke or meme :)
~What's your favorite candy?
I'd LOVE to get to know you, and see where things go.
But yeah, I know it was long I'm sorry haha. Send me a message and lets get to know each other! :)
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Hello everyone, Thank you for taking the time to read, I know its long, I know - I know. But its worth the read, Trust me. I appreciate you immensely.
Here's a bit about me,
My name is Jay, I live on the East coast of the US. I'm looking for love - like everyone else on here.., but you may not believe or even be doubtful that I've never had a GF before with me being 26, but its true. I'm simply just not willing to "be with" just anyone and I'm very picky. I want us to be a match, more than just have similar things in common.
One thing I have always been told is that I'm a "Real Catch, I'd be extremely lucky to have someone like you" - WELL THEN TAKE ME. I'M FREE. LOL.
About me:
Physically -
~I'm a semi-tall guy, around 5'10.
~I'm thin but muscular.
~I have dirty blonde/ brown hair.
~Changing colored eyes.
~A voice nice enough to melt all your safeguards and get right into your heart and weak spots.
~I do not have any tattoos or piercings. Though I would like to get some eventually.
If you'd like to see a picture of me just ask and I'll show you - IF I may see you as well, I simply just don't want a picture of me out there for anyone to see.
-If there's anything else you'd like to know just ask.
Otherwise -
~I do have 3 pet bunnies I would be more than happy to show you, they are extremely cute.
~I'm a very honest and down to earth guy.
~I'm very patient and easy going.
~I'm very curious and inquisitive. I will try to ask everything I can to learn all about you haha.
~I'm Very VERY Kind & Caring, I will probably ask how you are feeling a bajillion times a day, simply out of care for you.
~I can get pretty clingy, and will always want your attention and to be talking with you. If i have someone im interested in i wont want to talk to anyone else🤷♂️
~I'm very trustworthy - you can confide in me, and entrust your deepest secrets and I wont tell a soul.
~I'm a HUGE hopeless romantic, im old fashioned and will always try to impress you.
- I'm, a BIG softie even though I may look a smol bit intimidating, but I'd do just about anything to see you smile or laugh. And yes.., I do mean anything.
~I'm a big goof - I will get up to some silly shenanigans ALL the time, I will crack dumb jokes and send you memes and tik toks just to make you happy, even if its from across the room I'd wait to see your reaction lol.
~I'm extremely loyal, and would never even think of cheating.
~I will cook for you, and clean up too, even around the house, I'm very self productive and don't ask for much. Just don't forget to kiss the cook.
~I'd also love to just cuddle up and watch a movie or read a book together, anything to get us closer. Id try to take you out on dates whenever possible haha. I have a million SUPER romantic date ideas I have but have never had anyone interested enough in me to take out. Here's your chance ;)
~I will always want to share stuff I find interesting with you, and try to share every moment of every day with you. I'm not looking for someone who can only talk for a small amount of time, I want someone who's willing to put in all the effort I put into them back into me, it goes both ways. If I'm "with" someone you are my TOP priority nobody and nothing else would be. You would be the only person I'd truly want to talk to, so rest assured I would NEVER cheat, even more so because no one is interested in me - Hence why I'm here hahaha.
I'm sure there is more to me than this snippet but I cant think of more at the moment haha, so get to know me and find out more about me.
Some of my interests are: Engineering- I'm a nerd. I admit it. I love being technical and hands on, I love building things. All kinds of things, from furniture, machinery, and reverse engineering anything I find. I love learning how things work and trying to improve things.
Music - I prefer music with a very fast pace, or with some very meaningful lyrics I can relate to. I love to sing along to music and songs that have a deep meaning behind it I can sympathize with makes it all the better. Some bands I like are: Bad Omens, Beartooth, Demon Hunter, MIW, I9K - The list goes on. I'm a bit of a metalhead unfortunately.
TV Shows & Movies - I love watching shows, and I'd love to stream some shows and have some E-dates with you, to get to know you, or if you are close to me, maybe we could do it in person. Some shows I like or more of the Fantasy/Sci-Fi, Comedy, Action, stuff like: National Treasure, Halo, BattleBots, Rick and Morty, AHS, Anything Marvel or DC, The Witcher, Wednesday, The Sandman, The Magicians, The Umbrella Academy, ETC.
Gaming - Yes yes I know, Basic guy likes basic stuff. But gaming has been a thing for me since forever. I know most of you wont care or want to hear that, but I'll leave out the specifics on this part unless you are interested in that, MEGA Bonus points if you are.
Here's a lists of Cons to dating me-
~I'm not Ryan Reynolds. Disappointing, I know.
~I will fight you on what goes on pizza lol.
~I'm not rich.., Yet.
~I can't pronounce Worcestershire.
~I'm slightly forgetful, but with good reasoning.
~(Not really a con but- some might disagree) I still have ALL of my firsts, Do with that what you will c:
~I've got an endless pile of love and affection and no one to give it to! What a dilemma! Help me fix it?
Other than that I'll save the rest for a bit more of getting to know each other.
Here's a bit of what I'm looking in you:
~Preferably someone with lots of free time, and loves to chit chat. I'm seriously not interested in getting 1 message a day. Though I understand people get busy, I personally am not willing to try to learn about you and form something with 7 responses a week. Effort gets reciprocated and I appreciate the time you put in me.
~Physically: -I’m not personally attracted to anyone who’s “curvy/ chubby”, I apologize. Not a shallow thing, I just dont have the attraction chemical in my brain for that, I’m sorry. -If you’re shorter than me, thats a plus to me. -I love dimples, if you have those when you smile, bonus points 😊 - I’m not sure what else to put.., but as for nsfw wise find out😂
~I'm a sucker for a different accent other than American, and if you have an Posh English accent you have already won my heart.
~I'm also only really looking for someone within the ages of 18-35. I don't want anyone old enough to be my mom lol.
~I'd prefer (But not a must) people NOT on the other side of the world, as other time zones SUCK. I don't expect to find anyone who also has never had a boyfriend either, but that would be a real plus. I also don't mind a LDR, but I don't want that forever. But it gives us time to get to know each other.
But as for attributes I'm looking for in you:
~Someone who is above all else very very Loyal and would never cheat.
~Someone who is Honest, and will tell me the truth over a little white lie.
~Someone who is Kind & Caring, who'd constantly check on me, and accept me for who I am & help me improve day to day.
~Someone who is trustworthy, and I can count on to keep my secrets safe, or even just help me remember things.., I do tend to be somewhat forgetful.
~Someone who is very Patient and wants to see me succeed and will help me do so, just like I would help you. Even if its small day to day things, I would appreciate your company ANY time.
~I want a partner who is Affectionate, can reciprocate, and loves to snuggle and talk about their day, and what their interests are, and what makes them happy.
~Someone who can admit they get clingy or overprotective is a bonus.
~A partner with good communication is key, if something wrong we have to be able to talk about it.
~A partner who likes to game with me or at least watch me play would be a plus but not a requirement.
~Someone with a good sense of humor and like to joke around, I am a big goof after all and I love to joke around. Sending memes is always appreciated and good to cheer people up too!
~I'd prefer someone with the same music taste, but not a requirement, Plus if you wouldn't mind if I send you love songs occasionally that's a bonus, or sending me some back haha.
~Being willing to voice call is a must, Texting forever is not the way to go. I have to know what your voice is like haha, later on we can video call if you are comfortable with that. I prefer chatting on Discord because Reddit messages of any kind I'm sure you know are unreliable and sucky in general. So please send me your discord if you have one :)
~I would LOVE to see picture of your pets if you have any. Bonus points if it includes your beautiful self haha.
I'm sure there is more I'm looking for but I cant think of it right now haha, I will have to edit this when I think of it.
Please tell me about you as an opener! I told you a good bit about me, now its your turn haha.
Tell me some things like -
~What's your name?
~Where are you from?
~How old are you?
~What are your hobbies / interests?
~What about my post interested you?
~Where is my TV Remote?!
~Selfie? Pet pics?
~Hit me with your best joke or meme :)
~What's your favorite candy?
I'd LOVE to get to know you, and see where things go.
But yeah, I know it was long I'm sorry haha. Send me a message and lets get to know each other! :)
2024.06.01 15:20 clancysdad How do I join the queer community? / thoughts about patriarchy
Happy pride!! My mom texted me this morning asking if i knew pride was happening in the nearest big city, and i got so happy thinking she thought that was important for me to know. I havent really felt like i was a part of the queer community and also felt some insecurity about my sexuality, feeling like i need to prove it (but i try to just let i be and give myself space for doubt and mixed emotions!). I am a 24 year old bisexual woman. But lately i have been feeling a bit down, wondering who the hell i am, what i want and where i belong.
I've just finished a year at a new school, and the year before that i was at a different school. I've noticed how both years started out with me being very open and wanting to connect with lots of people and immediatly falling in love with the most charismatic straight guy! Then as the social dynamics and groups start to form, i start to feel more and more resent towards the patriarchal dynamics. AND this connection that i built with the guys i fall in love with, just goes to hell. To me it has felt like, that they (the guys) really like me in the beginning and that we connect on different levels. But then as the year goes by i start to get annoyed by their social role, how they always have to be the center of attention and everyone just supports that, laughing even when what they say isnt funny. Note, both of these guys have had girls who are very kind as their closest friends troughout the year. And at the same time i feel like the more i am myself, and set boundaries, the less they like me. This was kind of a side story, but i think it's funny because it's kind of like a metaphor for how i feel as a woman in society. Sure you are applauded for taking up space, joking and being a leader when you at the same time accomadate the social rules and uphold the mood, but not if you say no and act the way you feel, then you are just annoying and bossy.
At the end of both years i have been wondering if i am ever gonna be happy in a heterosexual relationship with a cis guy, thought a lot about feminism and felt very strongly about it and women in general, and also felt more attracted to women than men. I do have friends who are gay, but none that really attend pride or go to gay clubs. Im not sure exactly what im asking, but maybe just wondering if anyone has had the same kind of thoughts and feelings, and if you have any advice on how to join queer communities. Lots of love from a young gal who wants to feel comfortable in her sourrondings and MORE of life :)
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I've just finished a year at a new school, and the year before that i was at a different school. I've noticed how both years started out with me being very open and wanting to connect with lots of people and immediatly falling in love with the most charismatic straight guy! Then as the social dynamics and groups start to form, i start to feel more and more resent towards the patriarchal dynamics. AND this connection that i built with the guys i fall in love with, just goes to hell. To me it has felt like, that they (the guys) really like me in the beginning and that we connect on different levels. But then as the year goes by i start to get annoyed by their social role, how they always have to be the center of attention and everyone just supports that, laughing even when what they say isnt funny. Note, both of these guys have had girls who are very kind as their closest friends troughout the year. And at the same time i feel like the more i am myself, and set boundaries, the less they like me. This was kind of a side story, but i think it's funny because it's kind of like a metaphor for how i feel as a woman in society. Sure you are applauded for taking up space, joking and being a leader when you at the same time accomadate the social rules and uphold the mood, but not if you say no and act the way you feel, then you are just annoying and bossy.
At the end of both years i have been wondering if i am ever gonna be happy in a heterosexual relationship with a cis guy, thought a lot about feminism and felt very strongly about it and women in general, and also felt more attracted to women than men. I do have friends who are gay, but none that really attend pride or go to gay clubs. Im not sure exactly what im asking, but maybe just wondering if anyone has had the same kind of thoughts and feelings, and if you have any advice on how to join queer communities. Lots of love from a young gal who wants to feel comfortable in her sourrondings and MORE of life :)
2024.06.01 15:19 FallenDawnCult So there's this boy...
I left a bad relationship. Though I wish that person the best, I remained bitter and scared. I was alone, as they were the only one I had. So with them gone, I started talking to random people for company. Joining servers and games, anywhere really. Then there was this boy who popped up seemingly no where. We met the same way I met my past lover. The same game too. But I was friends with his abusive boyfriend at the time. We'll call them Boy and Boyfriend. Boyfriend was a cheater, and often flirted with me. Wanting to have a sexual relationship. Whenever I asked about Boy, he would brush it off. Saying how Boy was okay with it. I saw the sighs of abuse from Boyfriend, but I didn't say anything. After all, I only saw a few things from them. He was friendly, so I gave him the benefit of the doubt. What broke me is that he ended up masturbating, moaning my name in call in front of Boy. They ended up having a mental break, blaming Boy right after. I couldn't take it, despite it only being a week. I had a private call with Boy and told him the behaviors and signs. He didn't even realize the bad behavior since Boyfriend has been like this to them for 5 years. Long story short, Boyfriend confessed to me. I rejected him, which caused him to break up with Boy. Boy and I pretended to date after, and kick Boyfriend out. Boy ended up pretending to date me as a way to get out of sticky situations. They had a friend who was also in love with him but was poly and wouldn't leave Boy alone. Fast forwarding, it's been 9 months already. Honestly, I'm surprised how fast time moved. The first few months of my ex leaving me, I was shattered. Desperate and wishing to go back with them. Boy changed that for me, as we started hang around each other 24/7. He ended up confessing to me once basically a month after Boyfriend, and I rejected him. Telling him he needed to heal. But he constantly left me loving messages and blew up my phone from all the attention he was giving me. I have to admit, I liked it. I started getting feelings around month 5, where I was telling my feelings to a mutual friend of ours. We'll call him Mutual. Mutual and I were on a server call, and I was telling him about my emotions for Boy. I didn't know if it was desperation or truly love. Mutual kept saying it was love. But I didn't want to fall in love again. I always get hurt by it. The person always ends up cheating on me and fucking off. I felt pathetic. Whilst Mutual and I were talking, Boy joined in. Mutual slips up about our convo, and I quickly shut him up. Boy mistook it as me hiding something from him. I told him to not worry about it. He ended up getting silent in call, which made me feel guilty. I ended up telling him about my feelings, but I said I'm still confused. Boy left call after. I sent him an apology. And then he explained how he left isolated for me not telling him. I ended up yelling at him, saying how those were MY feelings. Not his. And how I wasn't ready to tell him anything yet. He apologized after, but that situation never left my mind. It's been 4 months after, Boy has been as flirty as ever. I started sending him long messages and calls, essentially every day, all day together. We would go on rants, have deep emotional talks. We planned our future together, ways to get married, such personal things that I forget my fears and started looking foward to the future. But after he leaves, I feel get the moments where I should leave. Cut contact, run away because I get scared. And it barely has been a year with them, and yet I've fallen so deep. I know how I am when I'm in love, I get obsessive over them. I hate the person I become when I fall. I wish I never had to rely on love, it's a drug to me.
Sometimes I thank him for being there but at the same time, I wish he wasn't there. So that way, I never would have feel the things I feel. I know I suffer through depression, but I will never admit it. He doesn't know that I do, he doesnt know if he wasn't there, maybe I wouldn't be here. And I can't tell if that's a good or bad thing. I ended up attempting at one time. I told my friends how I needed to be alone, and staged it as isolation. I put a belt around my neck and tightened it to the point I couldn't breathe. It was the same way my cousin died, so I copied after her. I stopped because Boy texted me. I can't even remember the text, but I know it was a text full of praise for me with all possible heart emotions he could have used. I broke after that, as Boy technically saved my life.
I never told anyone about that attempt. I stopped self-harming, but still go through intense episodes and suicidal thoughts. Boy distracts me from them. He spends hours with me even when he's tired. He listens to my rants, my crazes, and whenever there's something that remotely interests me, he researches it to talk to me about it. And all I could question is "Why? How could you do that for someone like me?" I wish he would go away already. So I won't get attached. Because I know in my heart, he would leave me again.
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Sometimes I thank him for being there but at the same time, I wish he wasn't there. So that way, I never would have feel the things I feel. I know I suffer through depression, but I will never admit it. He doesn't know that I do, he doesnt know if he wasn't there, maybe I wouldn't be here. And I can't tell if that's a good or bad thing. I ended up attempting at one time. I told my friends how I needed to be alone, and staged it as isolation. I put a belt around my neck and tightened it to the point I couldn't breathe. It was the same way my cousin died, so I copied after her. I stopped because Boy texted me. I can't even remember the text, but I know it was a text full of praise for me with all possible heart emotions he could have used. I broke after that, as Boy technically saved my life.
I never told anyone about that attempt. I stopped self-harming, but still go through intense episodes and suicidal thoughts. Boy distracts me from them. He spends hours with me even when he's tired. He listens to my rants, my crazes, and whenever there's something that remotely interests me, he researches it to talk to me about it. And all I could question is "Why? How could you do that for someone like me?" I wish he would go away already. So I won't get attached. Because I know in my heart, he would leave me again.
2024.06.01 15:17 L666x Migrate / transfer / import messages and folders from Gsuite email to free gmail account
I'm sorry if this has already been posted and resolved, but I'm over an hour searching in an ocean of help posts that do not resolve my issue.
Context:
Process: On {username}@gmail.com
I tried:
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Context:
- Have a Gsuite (or Workspace, or whatever it is called now) subscription that I want to end.
- Have primary email address {my-old-username}@{my-expired-domain-name}.com
- I was accessing my emails through gmail. My old domain name is expired but I still access Gmail with all my data.
- I can still send and receive messages. Not sure why. GoDaddy hold on the domain name to attempt to sell at auctions. I stopped renewing and DM expired april last year.
- I have a free {username}@gmail.com
Status : POP is enabled for all messages.I read about an option "Access for less secure apps". I couldn't find any such option in my Goggle account privacy settings neither anywhere else in Google account. I have 2-steps verification enabled and an app password created
Process: On {username}@gmail.com
I tried:
- Accounts and import > Import mail and contacts
- Accounts and import > Add a mail account
Username: {my-old-username} POP server: mail.{my-expired-domain-name}.comI'm out of ideas. Anyone out there that can help me ?
Port: 110
Username: {my-old-username}@{my-expired-domain-name}.com POP server: gmail.com[mail.gmail.compop.gmail.com] Port: 995
2024.06.01 15:17 eric117007 25M - Would love to meet my new best friend!
Hello, my name is Eric! As the title suggests I’m looking for a new best friend! I’m 25! I’m from the United States.
I’m a huge gamer, I love video games, so if you do as well, that’s even more a huge plus. We could play some games together! I’m a cat dad to my beautiful baby girl, her name is Sassy! I will always spam pictures of her for you.
I am a huge metal head, so I’ll most likely send you my Spotify playlist if you wanted it! I would love to discover new type of music. I play guitar.
I’m in school right now getting a bachelors for information technology. (I’m a huge nerd). I love building computers, and fixing software/hardware.
The only thing I ask is if you is if you decide to message me, please don’t ghost. I’m tired of people just talking, it’s the worst and kinda hurts. Also, please send more than one worded responses.
I text back pretty quickly so that’s always a plus. I would also send you TikTok’s and memes. It’s definitely a love language for me.
The only thing I ask is you have discord! It’s way better talking over there than here on Reddit!
Can’t wait to hear from you - Please introduce yourself a little when you message me!
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I’m a huge gamer, I love video games, so if you do as well, that’s even more a huge plus. We could play some games together! I’m a cat dad to my beautiful baby girl, her name is Sassy! I will always spam pictures of her for you.
I am a huge metal head, so I’ll most likely send you my Spotify playlist if you wanted it! I would love to discover new type of music. I play guitar.
I’m in school right now getting a bachelors for information technology. (I’m a huge nerd). I love building computers, and fixing software/hardware.
The only thing I ask is if you is if you decide to message me, please don’t ghost. I’m tired of people just talking, it’s the worst and kinda hurts. Also, please send more than one worded responses.
I text back pretty quickly so that’s always a plus. I would also send you TikTok’s and memes. It’s definitely a love language for me.
The only thing I ask is you have discord! It’s way better talking over there than here on Reddit!
Can’t wait to hear from you - Please introduce yourself a little when you message me!
2024.06.01 15:16 eric117007 25M - Would love to meet my new best friend!
Hello, my name is Eric! As the title suggests I’m looking for a new best friend! I’m 25! I’m from the United States.
I’m a huge gamer, I love video games, so if you do as well, that’s even more a huge plus. We could play some games together! I’m a cat dad to my beautiful baby girl, her name is Sassy! I will always spam pictures of her for you.
I am a huge metal head, so I’ll most likely send you my Spotify playlist if you wanted it! I would love to discover new type of music. I play guitar.
I’m in school right now getting a bachelors for information technology. (I’m a huge nerd). I love building computers, and fixing software/hardware.
The only thing I ask is if you is if you decide to message me, please don’t ghost. I’m tired of people just talking, it’s the worst and kinda hurts. Also, please send more than one worded responses.
I text back pretty quickly so that’s always a plus. I would also send you TikTok’s and memes. It’s definitely a love language for me.
The only thing I ask is you have discord! It’s way better talking over there than here on Reddit!
Can’t wait to hear from you - Please introduce yourself a little when you message me!
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I’m a huge gamer, I love video games, so if you do as well, that’s even more a huge plus. We could play some games together! I’m a cat dad to my beautiful baby girl, her name is Sassy! I will always spam pictures of her for you.
I am a huge metal head, so I’ll most likely send you my Spotify playlist if you wanted it! I would love to discover new type of music. I play guitar.
I’m in school right now getting a bachelors for information technology. (I’m a huge nerd). I love building computers, and fixing software/hardware.
The only thing I ask is if you is if you decide to message me, please don’t ghost. I’m tired of people just talking, it’s the worst and kinda hurts. Also, please send more than one worded responses.
I text back pretty quickly so that’s always a plus. I would also send you TikTok’s and memes. It’s definitely a love language for me.
The only thing I ask is you have discord! It’s way better talking over there than here on Reddit!
Can’t wait to hear from you - Please introduce yourself a little when you message me!
2024.06.01 15:16 eric117007 25M - I would love to meet my new best friend!
Hello, my name is Eric! As the title suggests I’m looking for a new best friend! I’m 25! I’m from the United States.
I’m a huge gamer, I love video games, so if you do as well, that’s even more a huge plus. We could play some games together! I’m a cat dad to my beautiful baby girl, her name is Sassy! I will always spam pictures of her for you.
I am a huge metal head, so I’ll most likely send you my Spotify playlist if you wanted it! I would love to discover new type of music. I play guitar.
I’m in school right now getting a bachelors for information technology. (I’m a huge nerd). I love building computers, and fixing software/hardware.
The only thing I ask is if you is if you decide to message me, please don’t ghost. I’m tired of people just talking, it’s the worst and kinda hurts. Also, please send more than one worded responses.
I text back pretty quickly so that’s always a plus. I would also send you TikTok’s and memes. It’s definitely a love language for me.
The only thing I ask is you have discord! It’s way better talking over there than here on Reddit!
Can’t wait to hear from you - Please introduce yourself a little when you message me!
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I’m a huge gamer, I love video games, so if you do as well, that’s even more a huge plus. We could play some games together! I’m a cat dad to my beautiful baby girl, her name is Sassy! I will always spam pictures of her for you.
I am a huge metal head, so I’ll most likely send you my Spotify playlist if you wanted it! I would love to discover new type of music. I play guitar.
I’m in school right now getting a bachelors for information technology. (I’m a huge nerd). I love building computers, and fixing software/hardware.
The only thing I ask is if you is if you decide to message me, please don’t ghost. I’m tired of people just talking, it’s the worst and kinda hurts. Also, please send more than one worded responses.
I text back pretty quickly so that’s always a plus. I would also send you TikTok’s and memes. It’s definitely a love language for me.
The only thing I ask is you have discord! It’s way better talking over there than here on Reddit!
Can’t wait to hear from you - Please introduce yourself a little when you message me!