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2024.05.30 10:56 Odd-Independent7502 moanalissa32 ramblefaps

moanalissa32 Here's everything I could find. I compiled anything that was ramblefap/"real orgasm". I know everything isn't deleted, but some of them are. I'm happy to take down this post if you want. I also have some of the post texts if you want that. Those were too many characters for a reddit post so I left them out.

2022-06-07

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Title: [F4A] Masturbation with 2 Vibrators (Lelo Sona Cruise and Ben wa Ball) [vibrator] [masturbation] [moaning] [holding breath and gasping for air] [orgasm] [candid]
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2022-06-08

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Title: [F4M] Orgasm through Masturbation with one Vibrator [Ramblefap] [vibrator] [heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding my breath] [shaking from pleasure] [moaning][light profanity][American accent}
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2022-06-15

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Title: [F4M] [F4A] Orgasm through Manual Grinding Masturbation [heavy breathing] [masturbate] [grind][music] [pointed toes] [ramblefap] [gasping for air] [intimate] [moaning] [orgasm] [narrative] [clothed] [tremble] [holding breath] [American accent] [west coast accent]
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2022-06-19

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Title: [F4M] [F4A] Sex Dialogue and Masturbation [heavy breathing] [masturbate] [pointed toes] [ramblefap] [gasping for air] [intimate] [moaning] [orgasm] [answered question] [tremble] [holding breath] [American accent] [west coast accent] [nsfw] [light profanity]
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2022-06-23

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Title: [F4M] 3 Orgasms through Masturbation Grind, Vibrator and Vibe with Dildo [Ramblefap] [vibrator] [heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding my breath] [shaking from pleasure] [moaning][light profanity][American accent][grinding] [lelo] [dildo]
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2022-06-25

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Title: [F4A] REQUEST HYSTERICAL AUDIO: Reading Top 6 All Time Slutty Confessions with Masturbation [Masturbation] [Pavlov Dog] [Orgasm] [Training] [Penetration on Stage] [Exhibitionism] [Dildo] [Incest Dildo] [Humor] [Blow Job] [Bullying] [Cum] [Reading]
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2022-06-27

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Title: [F4A] [F4M] REQUEST HYSTERICAL AUDIO: Reading 32M Loses Virginity (28F) Slutty Confessions with Masturbation [Masturbation] [Virgin] [Orgasm] [Training] [Penetration] [Hyperspermia] [Oral] [Multiple Orgasms] [Cum] [Reading]
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2022-06-28

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Title: [F4A] HYSTERICAL AUDIO: Reading Katie's POV as a 'HotWife' with Masturbation [Masturbation] [Cuckold] [Cuck] [Bull] [Hotwife] [Orgasm] [Blow Job] [Rejection] [Oral] [Permission] [BWC] [Cum] [Reading]
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2022-07-02

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Title: [F4M] [F4A] Quick Orgasm through Masturbating with Vibrator [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [ramblefap] [pointed toes] [wet] [music] [profanity] [American accent]
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2022-07-06

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Title: [F4M] [F4A] HYSTERICAL AUDIO INTERRUPTED: Reading OLD FRIEND by TAgainAgain while Masturbating [Masturbation] [Dead Bedroom] [Cheating] [Blow Job] [Racing] [Orgasm] [Musician] [Exes] [Old Friends] [Uncircumcised] [Phone Call] [Vibrator] [Glowed Up] [Reading]
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2022-07-12

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Title: [F4M] [F4A] Breathy Orgasm through Masturbating with Vibrator [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [music] [American accent]
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2022-07-17

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Title: [F4M] [F4A] Quick Orgasm through Masturbating with Vibrator - Already Started [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [pointed toes] [wet] [American accent]
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2022-07-24

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Title: [F4M] Exclusive for My Followers Only: Interrupted Orgasm Cleaned Audio [Ramblefap] [Breathing] [Moaning] [Orgasm] [Lelo] [Vibrator]
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2022-07-24

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Title: [F4M] Long Orgasm through Masturbating with Vibrator and Dildo [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [pointed toes] [wet sounds] [big dildo] [intense] [edging] [trembling body and breath] [American accent]
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2022-07-30

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Title: [F4M] 4th Wall Breed Me Orgasm through Masturbation with Vibrator [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [pointed toes] [narration] [breaking the 4th wall] [real orgasm] [breed kink] [American accent]
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2022-08-05

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Title: [F4M] 4th Wall Fantasy Orgasm through Masturbation with Vibrator - Caught by Mom [Incest] [MotheSon] [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [pointed toes] [narration] [mom / son] [breaking the 4th wall] [real orgasm] [American accent]
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2022-08-12

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Title: [F4M] 4th Wall Fantasy Masturbation with Vibrator - Holiday Vacation [Cheating] [None the Wiser] [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [pointed toes] [narration][Lelo][4th wall] [Morning sex] [Planned Vacation] [breaking the 4th wall] [real orgasm] [American accent]
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2022-08-15

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Title: F4M] 69th Cake Day Twofer Orgasm through Masturbation with Lelo [Ramblefap] [vibrator] [heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding my breath] [trembling from pleasure][needy] [moaning][light profanity][4th wall break][American accent]
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2022-08-19

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Title: [F4M] 4th Wall Fantasy Orgasm through Masturbation with Vibrator - Conference [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [pointed toes] [narration] [meet for coffee] [maintain my innocence] [no control] [confession][breaking the 4th wall] [real orgasm] [American accent]
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2022-08-26

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Title: [F4M] 4th Wall Fantasy Orgasm through Masturbation with Vibrator - Shower [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [narration] [shower] [maintain my innocence] [no control] [confession][breaking the 4th wall] [real orgasm] [American accent]
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2022-09-02

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Title: [F4M] 4th Wall Fantasy Orgasm through Masturbation with Vibrator - Zoom Distraction [masturbating] [orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [narration] [lingerie] [zoom] [surprise visit] [profanity][breaking the 4th wall][Improv] [real orgasm] [American accent]
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2022-09-09

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap Orgasm through Masturbation with Vibrator - Just Like Before [masturbating] [real orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [ramblefap] [narration] [whisper] [pointed toes] [profanity] [American accent]
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2022-09-15

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Title: [F4M] 100 Cake Day - Come with Me [4th Wall Break][real orgasm] [vibrator] [moaning] [breathing] [GWA Voice Actress] [ramblefap] [narration] [whisper] [finger in ass] [Masturbation instruction][Confession][Mutual masturbation][Mutual edging][profanity] [American accent] [Script Fill]
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2022-09-16

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: Orgasms through Masturbation - Trifecta with My New Vibrator [real orgasms] [vibrator] [heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding breath] [pointed toes][needy] [moaning][light profanity][4th wall break][We Vibe Melt] [Needs a name][American accent]
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2022-09-23

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: Orgasms through Masturbation - New Vibrator with Big D[real orgasms] [descriptive] [heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding breath] [pointed toes][wet noises][needy] [moaning][profanity][big dildo][We Vibe Melt] [deadline][long audio][American accent]
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2022-10-01

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: Orgasms through Masturbation - New Vibe Needs a Name [real orgasms] [descriptive] [heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding breath] [pointed toes] [moaning][profanity][We Vibe Melt] [Poll][Followers decide][American accent]
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2022-10-07

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap/Hysterical Audio - Make Me Forget Him Tonight [real orgasm] [masturbation] [vibrator][heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding breath] [pointed toes] [moaning][profanity][We Vibe Melt][American accent][long audio 42 minutes] written by MyDirtySecr3t
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2022-10-14

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Title: [F4M]Is Your Partner Finally Asleep Next To You? Now Time For Us [FDom vibes] [4th Wall][GWA VA Speaker][JOI/JOE][Dirty Talk][Teasing][Degradation][Good Boy][Cheating][Shame][Guilt][Humiliation][Condescending][Breeding][Facesitting][Countdowns][Masturbation][Edging][Speaker Real Orgasm][Script Fill]
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2022-10-21

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: The Melt has a Name [real orgasm] [masturbation] [vibrator][heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding breath] [blow job mention] [moaning][profanity][We Vibe Melt][American accent]
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2022-10-28

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: Double O with the Neurolyzer [real orgasm] [masturbation] [vibrator][heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [holding breath] [minimal talking] [moaning] [pointed toes mention][profanity][We Vibe Melt][long pause after first o][American accent]
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2022-10-28

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: 3 Word Challenge - First Recorded Squirt [real orgasm] [masturbation] [big dildo][heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker orgasm] [real orgasm] [Fuck Me Harder] [moaning] [squirt][profanity][sitting on the floor][super quick 3:33][American accent]
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2022-11-04

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Title: [F4M] Hysterical Audio: I'll Be Your Fantasy - The Slut's Pledge [Fsub][obedient][confession][bjs][exhibitionism][dirty talk][self degradation][shared][daddy][sir][dtf][moaning][real orgasm][pleading][vibrator][3 hole fucktoy][voyeur][thick cock][anal][dp][creampie][Script Fill] by MyDirtySecr3t
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2022-11-11

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: Double Orgasm Post Interview [real orgasm] [masturbation] [big dildo][heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker real orgasm] [moaning] [profanity][neurolyzer melt vibrator][American accent]
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2022-11-18

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: Doctor Visit [real orgasm] [masturbation] [medical][heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker real orgasm][orgasm announced] [moaning] [profanity][neurolyzer melt vibrator][American accent]
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2022-11-21

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Title: [F4M] Your Hot TA Shows You Who is In Charge-Part 1 [gentle fdom][college][TA/student][masturbation][blow job][real speaker orgasm][listener orgasm][hand job][bald pussy][countdown][cum on tits][good boy][follow my instructions][No sex][edging][whispers][moans][American Accent] with MyDirtySecr3t
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2022-11-23

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Title: [F4M] Sorry Babe, I'm Addicted to your Best Man [confession][cheating][betrayal][pregnant][voicemail][size mention][addition][wedding night][oral][piv][masturbating to my picture][panties][lied][retreat][speaker real orgasm][progression][American Accent] Written Collab with MyDirtySecr3t
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2022-11-23

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Title: [F4M][F4A] PSpot and GSpot Guided Play with Me [JOI] [Prostate Play][Bi-positive][Sex positive][Straight Friendly][toys][listener orgasm] [performer real orgasm][anal play][pussy play][glass c toy][educational/instructional audio][masturbation][HFO] Written by Kobmoney43 (first script YAY!)
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2022-11-30

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Title: [F4M] Coworker Crush Fantasy come True - you have to share a bed with your work crush at a hotel conference [Fdom][teasing][loving][sex][blow job][taking virginity][narrative][purple lingerie][coworkers to lovers][thoughts][real orgasm][Script Fill] Written by CompliantScribe
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2022-12-02

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Title: [F4A] A sexy woman is casually reading in bed, dressed to kill. Her partner is hoping for sex, but she ignores their desires. Eventually, she can’t help but be turned on…[bored][ignored][humiliation][moaning fetish][real orgasm][seduced][fdom to fsub][smoking] Written by CompliantScribe
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2022-12-09

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: 2 Orgasms in 15 mins [real orgasm] [masturbation] [4th wall][heavy breathing] [gasping for air] [intimate] [speaker real orgasm][orgasm announced] [moaning] [profanity][face sitting][neurolyzer melt vibrator][American accent]
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2022-12-19

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: MOANday Masturbation Back to Back [4th Wall][real orgasm][moaning][breathing][loud orgasm][2 orgasms][we vibe melt][soft voice][small confession][announcing I'm close/orgasm][sensitive]
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2022-12-30

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: Exploring with Glass [real orgasm][anal plug][we vibe melt][glass][njoy pure wand][shower][edging][clitoral orgasm]
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2023-01-27

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Title: [F4M] RAMBLEFAP: Super Long Triplefap [rambling][moaning][neurolyzer vibrator][big dildo][kind loud orgasms] I talk about [meeting a sex shop worker][threesoms][polyamory/open/monogamy][real orgasms][gasping for air][loud breathing][4th wall][dirty talk][suck my toes][mention feet]
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2023-01-30

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Title: [F4M] RAMBLEFAP: Last fap of the Super Long Triplefap [rambling][moaning][neurolyzer vibrator][big dildo][kind loud orgasms] I talk about [meeting a sex shop worker][threesome][polyamory/open/monogamy][real orgasms][gasping for air][breathing][4th wall][dirty talk][suck my toes][mention feet]
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2023-02-02

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Title: [F4M]The Voicemails Your Ex Left You [No actual sex] but plenty through [voicemail][confession][awkward] at first then [drunk] [rambling][speaker orgasm] talk of [voyeurism][risky sex] [cunnilingus][blowjob][missionary][creampie] implied[sweet ending][Script Fill] Written by st0pinthenameoftits
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2023-02-07

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Title: [F4M] Alissa's Ramblefap Compilation by Special Request [real multiple orgasms][big dildo][clit sucker vibrator][long audio 1:10:00][descriptive][moaning][squirting][3-word challenge][69th day audio][edging][authentic self][grinding][lingerie][navy blue][wet sounds][trembling]
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2023-02-16

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Title: [F4M] A sexy woman seduces you with her voice teasing you with increasing intensity, until you climax with her… [gentle femdom] [JOI/JOE][blow job][sex][teasing][real speaker orgasm][moaning][breathing][vibrator][married woman][Script Fill] Written by current_mgt
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2023-02-24

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap: A little 4th Wall Break [real orgasm][vibrator][neurolyzer][thigh highs][secret/confession][cheating mention][mutual masturbation]
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2023-07-28

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Title: [F4M] Hysterical Ramblefap Audio reading Let Me Take Care of You [Narrative][ramblefap][F POV][sensual][destress][kissing][touching][blow job][cock worship][reading while masturbating][real speaker orgasm][Private Script Fill]
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2023-11-15

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Title: [F4M] Ramblefap by Follower Request [whispers][real orgasm][lelo][clitoral orgasm][moaning][breathing][intimate][piv mention][pointed toes][tingle][intense][loud][toy][undressing][4th wall][mutual masturbation][boundary break]
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2024.05.22 17:46 sethzswiper I know this isnt about periods, but I don't know what to do, I don't have a clitoris???

I just noticed I don't have a clitoris but I can mastbate. How? Also I only have a urethra, vagina, I've checked pictures of a vulva and it doesn't have a clitoris on mine?? Is this clitoral atrophy or something? :(
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2024.05.13 17:48 doublelumen I (32M) am in a dead bedroom relationship with my gf (30F) of one year. Should she be moving in with me to solve this?

I met my girlfriend 1 year ago and I've had amazing time with her traveling to many countries, doing new activities together and just normal daily life with her is fun. It's been a long distance relationship and we see each other every 2-3 weeks. We are both physicians and of the same culture and ethnicity which is hard to find. She has become my best friend, we both love each other, I get along well with her family and everything is great...except for the sex.
In the beginning the sex was "ok" for me, it definitely wasn't the best sex I've ever had but because she was so amazing in other ways, it didn't bother me. I told myself not many people have sex anyway after 10 yrs or after kids and that it's the other parts of a relationship that matters more. Fast forward to our vacations together and we still had the same issue. I could be at a beach resort, super horny, want to have sex with her, but then not be able to orgasm or stay hard. I've never had this issue before in my prior relationships. I can be hard before during the foreplay, but as soon as I go inside, I don't feel anything, so I become soft or continue thrusting until I get tired. I usually have her organsm through clitoral stimulation first before I go inside her.
Eventually it got to the point where I didn't want to have sex with her, made excuses that I was tired, either from driving the 4 hrs to see her or from work or that it was too late. I feared having sex because I knew if it was unsuccessful then we would be that much closer to breaking up. I've been so successful with my life that when we had these days where the sex didn't work out I felt like such a loser and become depressed for the rest of the day. This has even happened on vacations, a time when I'm usually at my happiest. I felt like Ethan in White Lotus season 2 who is super successful, but has a boring relationship, watches porn, ignores his wife who wants to have sex. It was sad and hit me hard.
With my prior relationships with ex's, I never had a issue with sex even with my penis being on the small side. My ex's would all be surprised how good the sex was, would call me a porn star, and I would have sex almost every time I met my partner. It's very different picture in my current relationship.
I've constantly been thinking about why the sex sucks now vs my prior relationships. At first i thought it was her weight and the fact that I can only do one position with her and that I couldn't go as deep because of a fat pad. Then I thought it was because my sex drive was not high enough since i wasn't working out as much. Then I was thinking it was the stress of my board exams. Then I thought it was psychological and the fear of breaking up. I got a pill for Viagra to see if that would help and it didn't. I've tried different positions but that didn't work well. I'm now at a loss and think we are just physically incompatible. My penis is on the small end and I can't feel anything when I am inside her. She admitted she can't feel anything either. I guess I can try not wearing a condom (after she goes on birth control) and she can try kegels, but again that's putting the blame on her which is not my intention. And there's no guarantee that kegels will help.
I think if it wasn't for the sex issue I would have already been shopping around for a ring.
When we talked about this, she has decided she is willing to give up a sex life at 30 for me. Her thinking is that no relationship will be perfect and at least she knows with me, this is what she has to give up and yes she can find someone else but even that one will not be perfect and there will be something she will have to give up. She's still unhappy about it. She said she will masturbate, I can masturbate but continue to try to make it work. My thoughts are that she's still only 30, she can definitely find someone else who has better sexual compatibility and she shouldn't be giving up on her sex life because of me. I'd understand if we had kids already or we were 10 years into a relationship, but sometimes I feel like it's only been a year, maybe she's not the one for me. I'm 32, my options are getting limited, but I'm unsure if I want a life of a dead bedroom for a companion. I'm worried that this will cause resentment for both of us and lead to either infidelity or divorce which being a physician, could still financially ruin me since I still make twice as much as her. I've always been told the key to financial success is one wife.
She is moving states to live with me in a month. She has a job lined up to start in a few months. However, my parents (who do not know what they want to do in life and have no house or job) are currently living with me. Under no circumstances will my gf live with my parents, no do I want her to. So my parents will have to move out which really feels like I have to kick my parents out in order to make room for my girlfriend. My fear is that we can continue trying to work out the sex and that if she moves in with me and we break up while she is with me, she will have no where to go. No friends in the area. 6 month notice for her contract. I'm at a loss. If we don't live together, we can't work out out sexual issues.
If I also break up with her, I fear I won't find anyone else who can give me the same amount of love. I'm old, bald, short, dating apps don't work for me, and living in a rural area.
Tldr: Girlfriend of 1 year is my best friend and perfect for me but we already have a dead bedroom. She's also moving states to live with me and start a new job in a month. In order for her to move in with me, I have to kick out my parents. If she doesn't move in with me, we can't figure out the sex part.
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2024.05.04 15:17 The_trans_kid Consultation with the Lubos clinic

So, I had my consultation with the Lubos clinic yesterday. I think the wait time was about 6 months but I had to have it rescheduled ,so about 8 months ish. I had my consultation with Dr. Merz. Ideally I would've wanted it with Oliver Markovsky but I figured this would work just as well. Me and my support person are from Denmark so there's roughly a 10-12 hour drive from Denmark to Munich so we turned it into a road trip which was really nice.
We slept at a hotel in Pasing the day before and went to the clinic. It took a second to find the clinic, it's on a corner in the city and looks pretty nice. They got this wood floor and wide stairs with wide steps, overall a nice building. My appointment was at 9am and when we got there we had to fill out some consent forms, you know some basic stuff like that they're allowed to read your medical stuff etc. Around 9:30am I got to talk to the Dr. Merz. Firstly he asked me some basic questions about where i live, if i'm right or left handed, insurance etc. Then showed me this presentation with pictures and went over the basic steps of it all.
Typically the first surgery would consist of making the “Klitpen” as they call it and UL (Similar to metoidioplasty) as well as removing everything inside (hysterectomy, v-nectomy etc.) Altho I don't want v-nectomy or hysto, just ovaries removed. Altho he recommended I get my fallopian tubes removed as well because of cancer risks and such.
Plus/minus fallopian tubes doesn't make a whole lot of difference to me. Then in the second surgery would be where they take the skin graft itself, from the arm (RFF) or thigh (ALT) I asked and they only do those two methods, and yes they only do these two methods. And then he describes something I don't think I've heard before. They’d more or less invert the Klitpen and have it re-emerge higher up than it was previously located.
The doc was impressed at how fast I understood that btw, he said it took him longer to understand how that works, which ofc made me kinda happy ☺️ Ive been researching this stuff for what, almost 4 years at this point. But the best way I can describe it is after the Klitpen has been inverted and re-emerges higher up that's when they connect everything together with the graft as well as UL.
To my understanding doing UL with the klitpen first makes this whole inversion process easier (I think?) When they connect everything they do a nerve hook-up with the clitoral nerve and this other nerve called v. ilioinguinal nerve.
After that the third surgery is glansplasty and scrotoplasty. I asked about VY scrotoplasty vs Bifid and Dr. Merz said they do whichever fits my anatomy best. Basically if they can tell one would work better than the other they'll do whichever is best for the individual. On one hand I really want bifid scrotoplasty but it's also somewhat comforting to know if that wouldn't give me a good outcome that they wouldn't do that just because I said so. But he did say I could make requests, so if I really want bifid they'll see what they can do.
The fourth surgery is the erectile implant, and like Dr. Liedl at Planegg they recommended the pump over the rod but it sounded like they could do either. He also mentioned a Belgian study that showed the pump usually breaks after ~5 years rather than 10 years as they used to think. So it is something I'd need replaced. I asked him loads of questions and I wrote down as much as possible.
I asked about the expected size and he said the graft they take is ~15 cm or 16 cm but that usually most end up with ~12 cm because there's some hormone in the skin that makes it shrink. But he also said cis German men have about 13 cm on average so I wouldn't stand out. In terms of the diameter the expected size is 3,5cm so ~10.9cm circumference.
The waiting time from you show up with the indication letter ( which is all they need to proceed ) is about 6 months. They do accept if someone wanted/could pay out of pocket but but it seemed very much like they'd prefer Insurance. As for costs, I got an email from them a couple hours after leaving the clinic detailing everything in terms of costs. Altho in german ( I'm not that good at German yet so I don't understand it ) but I can read the numbers.
The first surgery aka the Klitpen comes to about €15,5k. The second surgery is €30,7k aka the creation of the phallus itself. the third surgery is €10,5k and the fourth surgery aka the erectile implant is €16,2k. So all costs would be around ~€73k total. I got my support person to translate some of the basics and it says those are the average prices and that it can change based off of the person. So for example if you have complications it can easily get more expensive.
It also said self-paying folks need to have the money up-front for each surgery. So not the full 73k but for each individual surgery. Also that when you don't have insurance certain stuff will be different. I also asked him about UL and grafts and how they usually take some part of the vaginal canal and use it for UL, which he confirmed they did.
But he said if I wanna keep my vaginal canal then they generally wouldn't do that and using the minora instead was fine. He also confirmed that after the surgeries and such penetration might not be possible and that they could do a surgery to try to open it up a bit if that's something I'd want but that even with the surgery to open it up more it's not a guarantee.
In terms of post-OP sensation he said that in the phallus there would always be most sensation where the klitpen was burried. ( we also briefly talked about the term “burried” he thought it sounded so tragic lol ) in terms of where the skin graft, he explained after they've taken the skin from the arm they'll take a strip of skin from the stomach and put over the donor site ( that's what I believe its called anyway)
Then they'll sew stuff together and basically to my understanding you'd loose some belly from it. The scar you'd get from the skin they take from the belly would be a line on the belly in a place where your swim trunks would cover them according to Dr. Merz. Personally I'm okay with that. I've been considering getting a tattoo in that area anyway.
As for recovery time, I didnt get a clear answer cause he said it'd be in the email ( it wasn't ) but from what I remember I think he said you might expect to stay in the hospital for up to a week or two depending on which surgery you get. On one of the slides he showed it said there's about 6-12 months between each surgery ( so if there's 4 surgeries total excluding compilation that means it takes between 2-4 years from first surgery till you're finished )
I also asked about medical tattooing and he said that's not something they do or cover, and he believed insurance wouldn't cover it either. He didn't know any clinics to go to etc. all he could say is that you should probably wait 1-2 years before getting medical tattooing (on your phallus).
Dr. Merz also said they do about 140-150 phalloplasties per year and showed some statistics and damn it looked good. In terms of satisfaction most gave it an 8, 9 or 10 (in that order) and there was no one who gave it a score under 4. In terms of sensation ~40% of people had 20-50% sensation and ~35% had 50% or more.
In terms of satisfaction with orgasm ~30% gave it a 10, ~17% gave it an 8 and ~16% gave it a 9. Very few gave anything below that. In terms of problems with peeing almost 60% never had issues with peeing and less than 15% had occasionally and even less percentage of people had it often.
I think that's all the info. I'll make an edit if there's anything I remember.
After the consultation I only had to pay €50 because I asked for some papers but I don't think the consultation itself cost anything? If it does I haven't been billed yet at least. That's all for now. Hope it's helpful to y'all. I also wrote a post about how it was to go and see Dr. Liedl at Planegg if you wanna read that, link to it here
If there's anything I didn't cover that you'd want to know, feel free to ask, I'll try to answer as well as I can.
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2024.05.04 15:14 The_trans_kid Consultation with the Lubos clinic (Germany) [FTM specific]

So, I had my consultation with the Lubos clinic yesterday. I think the wait time was about 6 months but I had to have it rescheduled ,so about 8 months ish. I had my consultation with Dr. Merz. Ideally I would've wanted it with Oliver Markovsky but I figured this would work just as well. Me and my support person are from Denmark so there's roughly a 10-12 hour drive from Denmark to Munich so we turned it into a road trip which was really nice.
We slept at a hotel in Pasing the day before and went to the clinic. It took a second to find the clinic, it's on a corner in the city and looks pretty nice. They got this wood floor and wide stairs with wide steps, overall a nice building. My appointment was at 9am and when we got there we had to fill out some consent forms, you know some basic stuff like that they're allowed to read your medical stuff etc. Around 9:30am I got to talk to the Dr. Merz. Firstly he asked me some basic questions about where i live, if i'm right or left handed, insurance etc. Then showed me this presentation with pictures and went over the basic steps of it all.
Typically the first surgery would consist of making the “Klitpen” as they call it and UL (Similar to metoidioplasty) as well as removing everything inside (hysterectomy, v-nectomy etc.) Altho I don't want v-nectomy or hysto, just ovaries removed. Altho he recommended I get my fallopian tubes removed as well because of cancer risks and such.
Plus/minus fallopian tubes doesn't make a whole lot of difference to me. Then in the second surgery would be where they take the skin graft itself, from the arm (RFF) or thigh (ALT) I asked and they only do those two methods, and yes they only do these two methods. And then he describes something I don't think I've heard before. They’d more or less invert the Klitpen and have it re-emerge higher up than it was previously located.
The doc was impressed at how fast I understood that btw, he said it took him longer to understand how that works, which ofc made me kinda happy ☺️ Ive been researching this stuff for what, almost 4 years at this point. But the best way I can describe it is after the Klitpen has been inverted and re-emerges higher up that's when they connect everything together with the graft as well as UL.
To my understanding doing UL with the klitpen first makes this whole inversion process easier (I think?) When they connect everything they do a nerve hook-up with the clitoral nerve and this other nerve called v. ilioinguinal nerve.
After that the third surgery is glansplasty and scrotoplasty. I asked about VY scrotoplasty vs Bifid and Dr. Merz said they do whichever fits my anatomy best. Basically if they can tell one would work better than the other they'll do whichever is best for the individual. On one hand I really want bifid scrotoplasty but it's also somewhat comforting to know if that wouldn't give me a good outcome that they wouldn't do that just because I said so. But he did say I could make requests, so if I really want bifid they'll see what they can do.
The fourth surgery is the erectile implant, and like Dr. Liedl at Planegg they recommended the pump over the rod but it sounded like they could do either. He also mentioned a Belgian study that showed the pump usually breaks after ~5 years rather than 10 years as they used to think. So it is something I'd need replaced. I asked him loads of questions and I wrote down as much as possible.
I asked about the expected size and he said the graft they take is ~15 cm or 16 cm but that usually most end up with ~12 cm because there's some hormone in the skin that makes it shrink. But he also said cis German men have about 13 cm on average so I wouldn't stand out. In terms of the diameter the expected size is 3,5cm so ~10.9cm circumference.
The waiting time from you show up with the indication letter ( which is all they need to proceed ) is about 6 months. They do accept if someone wanted/could pay out of pocket but but it seemed very much like they'd prefer Insurance. As for costs, I got an email from them a couple hours after leaving the clinic detailing everything in terms of costs. Altho in german ( I'm not that good at German yet so I don't understand it ) but I can read the numbers.
The first surgery aka the Klitpen comes to about €15,5k. The second surgery is €30,7k aka the creation of the phallus itself. the third surgery is €10,5k and the fourth surgery aka the erectile implant is €16,2k. So all costs would be around ~€73k total. I got my support person to translate some of the basics and it says those are the average prices and that it can change based off of the person. So for example if you have complications it can easily get more expensive.
It also said self-paying folks need to have the money up-front for each surgery. So not the full 73k but for each individual surgery. Also that when you don't have insurance certain stuff will be different. I also asked him about UL and grafts and how they usually take some part of the vaginal canal and use it for UL, which he confirmed they did.
But he said if I wanna keep my vaginal canal then they generally wouldn't do that and using the minora instead was fine. He also confirmed that after the surgeries and such penetration might not be possible and that they could do a surgery to try to open it up a bit if that's something I'd want but that even with the surgery to open it up more it's not a guarantee.
In terms of post-OP sensation he said that in the phallus there would always be most sensation where the klitpen was burried. ( we also briefly talked about the term “burried” he thought it sounded so tragic lol ) in terms of where the skin graft, he explained after they've taken the skin from the arm they'll take a strip of skin from the stomach and put over the donor site ( that's what I believe its called anyway)
Then they'll sew stuff together and basically to my understanding you'd loose some belly from it. The scar you'd get from the skin they take from the belly would be a line on the belly in a place where your swim trunks would cover them according to Dr. Merz. Personally I'm okay with that. I've been considering getting a tattoo in that area anyway.
As for recovery time, I didnt get a clear answer cause he said it'd be in the email ( it wasn't ) but from what I remember I think he said you might expect to stay in the hospital for up to a week or two depending on which surgery you get. On one of the slides he showed it said there's about 6-12 months between each surgery ( so if there's 4 surgeries total excluding compilation that means it takes between 2-4 years from first surgery till you're finished )
I also asked about medical tattooing and he said that's not something they do or cover, and he believed insurance wouldn't cover it either. He didn't know any clinics to go to etc. all he could say is that you should probably wait 1-2 years before getting medical tattooing (on your phallus).
Dr. Merz also said they do about 140-150 phalloplasties per year and showed some statistics and damn it looked good. In terms of satisfaction most gave it an 8, 9 or 10 (in that order) and there was no one who gave it a score under 4. In terms of sensation ~40% of people had 20-50% sensation and ~35% had 50% or more.
In terms of satisfaction with orgasm ~30% gave it a 10, ~17% gave it an 8 and ~16% gave it a 9. Very few gave anything below that. In terms of problems with peeing almost 60% never had issues with peeing and less than 15% had occasionally and even less percentage of people had it often.
I think that's all the info. I'll make an edit if there's anything I remember.
After the consultation I only had to pay €50 because I asked for some papers but I don't think the consultation itself cost anything? If it does I haven't been billed yet at least. That's all for now. Hope it's helpful to y'all. I also wrote a post about how it was to go and see Dr. Liedl at Planegg if you wanna read that, link to it here
If there's anything I didn't cover that you'd want to know, feel free to ask, I'll try to answer as well as I can.
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2024.05.02 11:25 Cute-Ad-1294 Difficulty dealing with her openness

Hi all,
I hope you are well. I wondered if I could vent here and get your opinion on something as I feel I have been suffering with retroactive jealousy. (If it helps, I also have ADHD which sometimes really does not help me with emotional regulation.)
I (40M) have been with my partner (37F) for 8 months now and over the course of those months we have become official and have been getting on pretty well generally and have developed a real bond and connection, that has been like no other. Sex life has been amazing too, in fact, she’s been the best so far, she knows what she’s doing. And I can tell from experience she really digs me. She agrees with this when we are close and intimate.
The issues I have been facing are possibly because I have such strong feelings for her and this is bringing the issues to light.
Whilst we have been together we have spoken about sex a fair bit and her past has cropped up a few times, some of these things were down to me for asking, although mostly it was her just saying things that I really rather would not have heard, and as a result, since then, the thoughts torment me, and I am worried they will never go away, and I am also worried that I will be triggered in the future by things she says that will add to the pile.
Some examples of the things she has said:
Apologies for being so open about the details, and admittedly this all might sound pretty bad but I've tried to caveat what has been said with her and my explanations of context. I don't believe the intention was to hurt me with any of these things. But all together, it still paints only a partial picture of her past, where part of me cannot now help but feel inadequate and intimidated. I know that these are ultimately my insecurities that I have been wrestling with and wonder how much porn has played a part (I have been addicted), as well as my turbulent and abusive relationship with my mother.
I have read a few books, and listened to a few podcasts, meditated, written things down, but the thoughts and uncertainty hasn't faded as much as I'd like. (I'll admit though, writing this does help a little.) I wish I could just stop typing this and forget the whole thing and move forward and be happy in the present as I know it is the only thing that really exists. At times this issue causes me sexual anxiety with her.
I've felt at numerous times like I am at the stage where I am seriously considering ending the relationship to prevent further pain, even though in other ways, I feel like she could be 'the one'.
I also know she struggles with her own insecurities about the relationship, and I have actually apparently slept with more people than her. I am aware that she is worried i will leave her as she has been hurt before in the past.
I am not pressing her or prying her for further information, nor am I allowing it to affect our relationship negatively to the best of my ability. We have spoken a few times about this, she has apologised for being insensitive and has tried to reassure me multiple times, although I don't seek it. I definitely don't want to go further down this spiral or push her away in any toxic sense.
I do still wonder though, even if it is just my issue, why none of my other exes have been so open about their pasts, perhaps they have learned from their past not to be so open, whilst my current partner hasn't.
I’ll also add that I’ve hardly said anything about my past partners of a sexual nature, and when I have it has been because I was asked and I kept it minimal and respectful. Although perhaps, I have said stupid things too about relationships and how I have been a bit of a player, and this has caused her to try to get back at me or make herself feel better by filling in some things to make me feel just as bad or alleviate her own insecurities.
I’ll reiterate that I have heard many many coping mechanisms and strategies m, and some are great, but I still have the obsessive thoughts.
She has a great personality and she’s incredibly attractive and we do feel true love for eachother and I truly trust her. It’s just these things and potentially for her tendency in future to overshare, even though we have conversations and since set boundaries. Things have got better, although sometimes things still slip out.
Finally, I have a suspicion that this issue has spiked my blood pressure. I’m hoping not as I used to suffer with anxiety.
I am wondering if anyone has similar experiences and could offer any advice?
Thank you.
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2024.04.30 05:20 Quirky-Schedule-6788 How can I deal with ED in a new relationship?

I met the perfect man. Chemistry is so damn good. I've never been so sexually attracted to someone!
We started as friends, but confessed our romantic interest in each other via text while I was away from the city for a few months. Things got pretty serious over that time, we discussed kids and marriage. The only missing piece to this perfect picture was the sex.
I'm quite a sexual person. With men, I can only come from vaginal penetration, not clitoral, so penis quality is relevant AF. I finally am back in person with him and we've had sex a few times. the size could be better but is okay. But the issue is with the hardness. He's like always semi hard when we have sex up until he's about to come then it gets super hard. I can't come with a half flaccid penis..
But the other day he proposed that he give me a massage. He oiled me down and gave me the most sensual message I've ever had. He got so turned on and hard and the sex was excellent. But it took a long time for him to get there. Will he always need to massage me for an hour before sex for him to get hard enough to please me?
I've never had this issue with a guy before. They are usually always rock hard after a bit of foreplay. He's in his late 30s. I don't want to offend him by asking him about it. He smokes cigarettes. Maybe that's it, he wants to quit. We've only had sex like four times so maybe he's anxious. Ugh I'm just worried that it will only get worse over time. Any advice is appreciated 💜
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2024.04.22 23:03 sleepytime_rilakkuma LGBT friendly piercers?

hey all! I'm a transmasculine person looking for someone who does clitoral hood piercings. I'm on testosterone so my junk is a little different.. I'm hoping to get responses from other transmasculine people or friends of trans people who know of trans friendly piercers in the area that does what I'm looking for. anything helps!
if you're someone who has had their tdick pierced by someone locally, and are comfortable with sharing pictures of your healed piercing please reach out to me or let me know so I can message you! I want to make sure I can get the results I want :3 thank you!
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2024.04.16 21:25 13th_dudette Success story: I beat Pudendal Neuralgia… TWICE!

TLDR: I’ve got PN twice, once due to a sports injury (1.5 years of leg pain and 7 months of clitoris pain), and the 2nd time due to an electric shock (pretty much all the symptoms you’ve ever seen associated with PN). Both times I healed by administrating 90% of the treatment myself, with the remaining 10% performed by physical therapists. No surgical procedures or dry needling.
If you wanna go down the road of doing self-treatment, this is the literature that was the most helpful to me:
You will find pretty much all the information I used to develop my treatment in these 2 books. Each person is different, and their PN is provoked by different factors - therefore reading the books yourself is much better than just replicating exercises/massages I did.
I am not a medical professional, therefore things I share should not be taken as medical advice.
__________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________
I cannot believe that I am finally making this post! For the ones that are here for the full roller coaster, here we go:

Part 1: “It WiLl PaSs On ItS oWn”

In September 2022, I was stretching after a long day of work and a pole dancing session. I was a bit tired and distracted, which made me slide on my yoga mat and weirdly rotate my leg (this will be important later in the story). I felt instant pain down my whole leg, assumed it might just be a pulled/overstretched muscle, and tried to continue my life as normal.
Not only that the pain did not go away with time, but it kept getting worse, to the point that I had to work remotely 80% of the time and drop pole dancing altogether. I saw 5 different doctors (of which 3 were sports injury specialists) in a span of one year, and I received nothing useful. I was told it would pass on its own, that I was weak, and even that I was too old (28 at the time). Done 2 different MRIs, nothing.
I accepted that perhaps I was stuck with this pain forever. With some stretches/exercises and shoe soles I managed to bring pain to acceptable levels, and even tho I could not do any demanding physical activities or walk for a long time, I made peace with it.

Part 2: The Curse of PN

Fast forward to September 2023, after a couple of days of increased activity and walking, I woke up with clitoris pain. Initially, it was not that bad, even tho it was constant. Sex was painful but still manageable. I was misdiagnosed with fungus infection 2 times, treatment changed absolutely nothing.
It was slowly getting worse and culminated in late Novembeearly December.
Let me tell you, I am no stranger to pain. For most of my life, I lived in the Balkans, and our mantra over there is to just “suck it up”. I was subjected to intense unnecessary pain on many occasions (including complex dental procedures without anesthesia).
Nothing could compare to that insane clitoral pain at all times, for days and days in a row. I felt I was going insane. I do not have a history of any mental health problems, that was the first time ever that something pushed me over the edge of considering ending it all. One night I really could not take it anymore - however my husband talked me out of doing anything bad to myself, and the next day I got a prescription for xylocaine. Since my clitoral pain was very local, it helped a bit. Was not perfect, but was enough to survive.
In January, I started seeing pelvic PT, and while the pain reduced a bit, it never really stopped, not since September. I was mentally and physically tired and just wanted the pain to stop at least for a moment. You can see here my 1st post on this subreddit and how I felt at the time.
I also started seeing a bunch of different specialists in hopes of getting an answer, with little success.

Part 3: The final straw

So after 2 months of waiting, I finally got an appointment with a well-known gynecologist in the area, who was apparently a specialist in complex female issues. Not only that he spent 80% of our appointment typing with 2 fingers my information (that I had already provided beforehand), but he also told me that he could not help me AFTER I finished his little “interview”. He was also insisting on putting me on birth control, even tho I already mentioned that I cannot have sex at all for multiple months.
The final straw was when I mentioned that lower back massage sometimes helps me feel less pain, and he told me it's all in my head because these 2 things are not connected in any way.
EXCUSE ME? At that time, I had zero knowledge of how nerves work. But, while lying down and receiving treatment from PT, I was staring at the image of the pudendal nerve on the wall. With no medical background whatsoever, I could tell, based on the vague memory of that image, that it starts in the lower back, and eventually one of the branches ends in the clitoris.
Needless to say, I was furious.

Part 4: “Fine, I’ll do it myself”

That very same night I thought to myself “How can this guy be a doctor? I would do a better job than that”, and that’s how it all started.
I started learning about the human body from scratch. I wanted to be sure that nothing was left unchecked. Literally going through what are cells, different types of cells, what are their roles, etc., all the way up to the bigger picture. I dropped all the other activities in my life, I was only reading all day. Learning about anatomy and neuroplasticity was really helpful - I was less scared when I finally understood what was (and especially what wasn’t) at stake in my case.
Eventually, I stumbled upon the information that damaged muscles can pressure the nerve and cause all sorts of problems. Damaged muscles are known to be contracted, with painful points inside of them. I decided to put this knowledge to the test and see if that was perhaps where the answer lies.

Part 5: Symptom-free in only 2 weeks (Trigger point release)

I quickly found that one of the muscles in my thigh was kind of stiff. Massaging it (or putting TENS machine on it) would significantly reduce the symptoms (up to 90%) for a while. However, they would return. I knew I was close to a breakthrough.
I started to explore nearby muscles because I learned that damaged muscles sometimes lead to dysfunction of the surrounding ones. I came across obturator internus. Now this muscle is particularly interesting, because not only does it wrap around the clitoral branch of the pudendal nerve (image: https://imgur.com/a/xwEG0XT) , but it also can affect the sciatic nerve (responsible for leg pain). And, surprise, surprise, this is the muscle engaged when we ROTATE THE LEG (remember - thats how my problem started in the first place, I rotated the leg weirdly).
I was both furious and excited - how could so many doctors miss such crucial connection, especially because I would always mention leg pain and clitoral pain, just in case it was related? No one ever told me it could be.
Anyway, I started treating this muscle, together with piriformis which also seemed to have painful points. I used the combination of stretching and strengthening exercises focused on obturator internus/piriformis I found on YT, together with the myofascial trigger points release massage method I was learning about at the time.
I shared with my PT what I found, and she also started treating me using the same technique on those same muscles.
In 2 weeks, I was symptom-free. I cannot begin to explain to you guys how happy I was! I was working on my success post, but then, a disaster happened.

Part 6: The Downfall

Even tho my symptoms were pretty much gone, some work was left to be done. My muscles still had a "habit" of contracting themselves (google the effects of chronic pain on the central nervous system), therefore continuing PT was beneficial (it’s fully covered by insurance in my case, so why not). Little did I know that would become my greatest regret.
My therapist had some personal issues, so another girl was replacing her. She suggested we do electrostimulation of muscles, to which I agreed, because I used it successfully at home too.
I have exactly the same machine, same brand, at home (I purchased it inspired by my PT). Thats how I know I am extremely sensitive to electricity, and I use it on the lowest settings. I repeated that to the girl twice and she said okay. I even told her exactly which mode and level to put.
The next thing I feel is AGONIZING BURNING in the whole left side of the body. I screamed and jumped from the therapy bed, she turned off the thing the same second. But the damage was already done. That girl eventually admitted that she put more than double what I asked for because “she was distracted”. The symptoms I developed literally in one second due to that “treatment” were (I will probably miss some):
I was not back to square one, I was at square minus one hundred. More than 90% of the symptoms I had were completely new and they were scary.
I still do not know how I found the strength to accept my new situation and start the healing journey from the beginning. But I did it and here we are.

Part 7: Final success

With a bit more research I realized that what happened due to this shock was SI joint inflammation, so I treated that first, with back massages, TENS machine, stretches, and anti-inflammatory creams. I was also treating trigger points. After some time of pretty much all-day self-therapy and research, symptoms significantly reduced.
The only symptoms that were left were thigh-burning, pain when sitting, and clitoral pain. The remaining contracted muscles did not respond to my massage anymore, they were too traumatized.
I visited a therapist who specialized in McKenzie technique, and while this method is not focused on pelvic problems, it is:
(As far as I know, this method is not proven to have long-lasting effects, without being combined with other methods, be mindful of this)
He gave me a couple of exercises to try and perform every day, which I added to my usual treatment. Combined with myofascial trigger points massage, in which I became even better with time, the remaining symptoms eventually vanished.
Today I woke up symptom-free.
This is clearly not the complete end, because neither muscles nor nerves can heal overnight. But I am pain-free, and very motivated to continue treating myself with the same level of eagerness and diligence, so the symptoms do not come back again. ___________________________________________________________________

Conclusion

I encourage everyone in this subreddit to seek knowledge.
I am not talking about googling the symptoms and reading random internet pages/watching tiktoks that cite no credible source for their claims. I am telling you to truly dive into this. It will take time, effort and discipline, but you can help yourself. All of these doctors got their knowledge from somewhere, and we can do it too.
There are SO many reasons for PN to occur, and you know yourself and your life the best. Armed with knowledge, not only you can perform a variety of PT techniques yourself, you can also be more confident when visiting doctors. I cannot explain how differently I am treated now, when I can speak “their language”.
The effect on mental health is also incredible. The more you understand what is happening within your body, the less anxiety you feel over your future.
I would like to end this post with a quote that inspired me throughout my journey (which is the opening line of the first book I shared here):
We only see what we look for, and we only look for what we know.
-William Boyd

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2024.04.14 03:04 throwaway_725194 Confused about my labia minora.

I’ve been wanting to do more research about the vulva since I really know nothing about it (i literally thought the inner labia WAS the clit 🤦‍♀️)They only taught us about the inner reproductive system in school and even then it was not very good.
I did some research and i now know the basic anatomy, but my inner labia doesn’t look like the diagrams I see online.
My clitoral hold is quite long so I have to pull it all open to actually see. I think I found the clit, since it’s right underneath the hood and is quite sensitive, but the rest I can’t seem to pinpoint. In all the diagrams, it looks like the uretha is underneath the clit, but I can’t see any opening at all. And i can’t find the vaginal opening either. Is it because of my hymen? I do see something right in the center. It’s like a nub that kind of sticks out (maybe 1 cm long), and it looks like it should be where the vaginal opening should be. I did see a tiny hole near it, but it was not in the center and very small. Maybe a hymen tear. I don’t know. 😭😭😭
I’m 17 so i dont think i should share any pictures. I could try to draw what I see when I get the time.
I know I shouldn’t care this much, but if I’m going to be an adult that will eventually have sex, I want to know where everything is so I can properly take care of myself.
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2024.04.06 21:03 AstralCryptid420 I went from severe to mild PSSD in 7 months

I quit 10mg of Prozac on July 26th after taking it for six weeks. Cold turkey because it gave me mania, I was on it for OCD. On August 28th, my genitals went completely numb, my whole groin felt anesthetized, and I had no access to my emotions. I had complete anhedonia and severe panic attacks. I couldn't empathize with others and I felt completely disconnected from friends and family, even my adorable two year old niece. I had DP/DR really bad and the numbness extended to other parts of my body, mostly my thighs and toes. My clit would not get hard at all and it had a weird texture. It was very pale and retracted. I was drier than the Atacama desert. I never had complete anorgasmia, but my orgasms were next to nothing, I couldn't feel them at all and I could only have one with a vibrator in one position. No libido, just the urge to keep "fap checking" as you say. Weed wasn't fun anymore, but I could still feel high. My brain felt like a block of wood and my memory was shot. It was almost like I had amnesia. Aphantasia.
The OCD was gone, but at what cost?
I never had sexual dysfunction, anhedonia, or emotional blunting in my life. I was a horny little pleasure machine who didn't like to kill stuff in video games because it made me feel bad.
I had an incredible, yet brief window in September from smoking weed while drinking a full up of coffee. Ever since I did that, I got windows. (DO NOT DO THIS, THIS HAS CRASHED PEOPLE SEVERELY) This has kept me going. I get windows that are two weeks long after I menstruate that were mostly about sensation and emotion. I was waiting for such a window to write this.
I had ups and downs, a couple crashes from things like taking too much vitamin D, drinking caffeine for a few days in a row, and deciding to smoke weed again. I caught covid and had a massive crash from that, but I completely recovered from it.
My depersonalization/derealization was the first symptom to go, it was 90% gone by January. (although I have DP/DR from physical and verbal abuse as a child, but I never experienced months of disassociation like this) Right around that time, I started getting icy, zappy sensations in my forehead and left cheek. I got the same sensations on my thighs and in my vagina later. When the persistent DP/DR lifted, a lot of my mental and emotional symptoms improved.
Next, my anhedonia started to lift as well. I had horrible musical anhedonia, which was really sad to me because I loved music so much and it brought me so much pleasure. I started to notice frission (music chills) while I was watching TV and there was a good song in the show. I was getting into the stuff I was watching and I was finally able to absorb it. I started playing my favorite game again. I can't feel music with the same intensity as before yet, but it is increasing all the time.
I still have some emotional blunting, but it's definitely less. I feel connected to the people I love again and I cry if I think about killing myself. But it's like I have the Diet Sprite of emotions when I used to have a full cup of Dr. Pepper. I don't know who I am without emotions, without empathy. My empathy could definitely use more work. I hate being like this, I don't feel like myself yet.
Orgasm gradually improved, but hit a bump when I got covid. I had anorgasmia for a week and then it slowly came back, that was really scary and depressing because it's the only symptom I didn't have. I'd rate them at 6/10 on average now. The feel good brain chemicals are released, there is contraction of my pelvic muscles, but there is something wrong with my sensory nerves and I just can't feel it right.
My clitoris and vagina have regained some sensation and I have a tiny amount of erogenous sensation at baseline, windows go up to 50%. My groin no longer feels anesthetized, but I still have a severe loss of sensation.
In the beginning, my clit and vagina were in really bad shape. My clit was retracted and pale and just felt disgusting to touch. It has since consistently been perky and poking out like it used to, but it's still not as firm as it should be and my clitoral hood also feels loose. I always had a little dent on one side because my labia is asymmetrical and that dent has become super prominent. My vagina on the other hand has gone from being slack and dry to almost completely normal. I'm still missing a little grip strength and wetness, but I wouldn't call it weak, loose, or dry.
Aphantasia is still a problem, but it's decreasing by itself. My brain makes weak flashes of images and I can form a shitty mental picture. I used to be an artist, this was once a strong skill of mine. I hope I can be an artist again, I went into student debt to learn how to draw as well as I do.
I still have almost no libido, but sometimes it shows up. I very much had one yesterday, I masturbated three times and actually felt horny for the first time since September. I would get these brief flashes of arousal when I thought of my friend-with-benefits, but I could never maintain anything. I hope I'm turning a corner with that symptom. Spontaneous arousal still doesn't really happen. But just this week, my FWB opened up about their kinks and we talked about how I could indulge them within my boundaries and that made me horny for the first time in months.
The numbness in my clitoris was so bad I couldn't feel the tip of a sewing needle on it. Now I very obviously can, it's painful again. I'm still missing some pain perception though. I can put my fingertip under my clitoral hood when that used to be too painful. (my clitoral hood also used to be tighter and the tip of my clit was larger)
My clitoral erections are softer than they should be and my clit feels thinner than it should be, but I get clitoral erections more often with my vibrator. I can get wet enough to have penetrative sex, it just wouldn't feel good so I don't bother.
I have been doing a few things to help myself. From the beginning, I was taking walks every day because I read that exercise helps nerve regeneration, and my nerves felt injured. Unfortunately I stopped walking when it started to snow, but I'm back to walking for half an hour every day if the weather permits.
I masturbated at least once every day since like week 3 of this bullshit.
I use a TENS device on my posterior tibial nerve, which increases blood flow to the pelvic area. I'm focusing on things that don't alter me neurochemically, but support blood flow and nerve health. I eat a mostly healthy omnivorous diet. I've been eating beets, which have a ton of nitric oxide and folic acid this week and I have a significant improvement in bloodflow to my clitoris, so I'm looking into beet juice and nitric oxide supplements. I started taking vitamin C for bloodflow, ACE2 upregulation (covid fucks up these cellular receptors) and demethylation as well. I'm also trying to find the right dose of vitamin D that won't crash me so I can treat my deficiency.
I also quit smoking weed, but I did try a little recently and I could feel it more! It was just crumbs from my grinder but I was acceptably high for two hours. It does give me temporary crashes, so I do not smoke and I will not smoke until I am completely healed. I also don't drink because of health issues I have, and I was never a big drinker.
I might add more to this post if I think of something I missed. I think my odds of beating PSSD are good. I'm going to continue with no herbal supplements or anything and just wait. I think I'm still way off from being recovered, I'd consider myself "almost there" if I could orgasm through rubbing my clitoris again. I feel like I'm halfway there, or at least out of the pit.
Update: For all of April 2024 I have felt sudden and massive improvements in anhedonia and emotional blunting and both of those are almost gone! I feel like myself, just a little washed out. A pastel version of me. Diet Coke instead of full sugar Dr. Pepper.
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2024.04.05 19:51 vrryRXXRE Hole on my clit?

I have a really large clitoral hood that's difficult and semi painful to pull back and so I typically don't uncover and look at my clit. Last time I did this I was probably 15, I'm 25 now. I recently did out of curiosity and is this normal? I have what appears to be a hole on the tip of it. I haven't been able to find other pictures of similar looking vaginas. I know vaginas have a lot of variety so it's probably nothing but figured I'd ask anyways.
https://imgur.com/a/dILYP0Z
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2024.01.21 03:19 britnee814 My clitoris is disappearing. Can I reverse this?

I noticed a few months back that masturbating and even oral was starting to feel different. Harder to achieve and having to do things differently (stroking in different directions, etc). I got a mirror and am HORRIFIED to see what my glans is basically gone when you lift the hood. I have been doing all sorts of google searches. I have clob ointment and am using it nightly now. But, I see people stretching their hood, using the steroid ointments, and some even using topical testosterone… has anyone successfully reversed the fusing or burying that’s already occurred? Also, why in the world isn’t there many helpful pictures online of clitoral fusing? Mine doesn’t look as extreme as pics on google, but it’s absolutely happening.
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2024.01.19 19:45 throwawayblah00000 Pregnant for first time.. is my hooha meant to look like this?!

Anyone that's ever been pregnant before please just let me know what your vagina looked like and if this is normal!!!!! 😭😭 27 weeks pregnant !!
Okay so obviously my main vaginal opening has gotten bigger-that was expected. Everything's gotten bigger actually, and foldy-er... having to cotton bud around clitoral hood and inner labia as discharge is getting stuck in the darndest of teeny tiny places. My question is, before-i just had my main vaginal opening and you could clearly see my urethra at the top and then the clit. All fine and dandy. NOW there's this... protruding bit, kind of where my g spot is, that's almost being pushed out of my vagina-i'm assuming from pressure from baby. Is this normal? and what body part exactly IS it? Is it just a bit of my vaginal wall? Or is it my bladder that's like gonna fall out?! I can no longer tell where my urethra is... but there is a new thing protruding out that's bigger and slightly lower that might be it?!?! I'll post a picture in the comments.... PLEASE HELP! JUST TELL ME MY HOOHA ISNT GONNA FALL OUT! Cannot feel it/doesn't get in the way during sex. Edit to add: Could it be a varicose vein that's popping out of my inner wall?!
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2024.01.04 18:40 ThrowRA-7765 My girlfriend (F28) and I (M28) have extremely different sexual preferences and I do not know what to do about it

Here's some background on us:
We've been together for 5 years now and haven't had much sex through the whole time. We have a decent relationship that takes some work, but we give it the time that it requires for us to talk things out, understand each other better after every problem and we sort life out on the go. And to add to the background - She has been sexually abused/molested by some of her friends before I was in the picture and that affects her severely even till date.
I've been patient, extremely patient to the point where I don't let anything escalate beyond a certain point until she really would like to get there. It also does happens that sometimes when I'm sleeping beside her and hug her at night, she actually turns around and assures herself that it is indeed me who's sleeping beside her and not someone else.
So, I've been understanding. Very much so. At least, I hope I was.
But sexually, we are very different. She does not like PIV because it hurts her a lot (she can't last 30s), and says that she likes everything being sensual. She loves getting fingered and stimulated clitorally, but simply cannot handle PIV because she says I'm too big for her.
FYI, I'm not. I'm average as hell.
And my sexual preferences are extremely different than hers, I love going down on her, I love getting a blowjob, I love PIV, I love being rough and would love it if she's rough too.
And she hates all of that.
So, to the older couples here, how do I navigate this situation? Don't just say breakup, get over it. Because that's not what I'm looking for. I don't think she'd be okay with swinging or ENM, but I'm kinda feeling hopeless about it.
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2024.01.04 14:06 RichPermission2117 HOW TO SELL HOMEMADE PORN: A GUIDE TO MAKING MONEY BY SELLING YOUR OWN ADULT CONTENT

HOW TO SELL HOMEMADE PORN: A GUIDE TO MAKING MONEY BY SELLING YOUR OWN ADULT CONTENT
Since everyone else seems to be getting in on the amateur sex scene lately, why not you too? Hey, all you really need to make money doing homemade porn is:
High self-confidence (like, extremely high!)
Strong commitment
And yes… connections!
But we're not talking about knowing special people up in the California adult industry.
You don't have time for all that networking!
We're going to show you how to find all your "connections" online, from all the coolest tube sites and Okfans pages that can help, to the basic equipment that all amateur porn stars have.
Finally, we'll talk about that extra "edge" you need to stand out from all the other amateur stars out there and actually succeed in this line of work.
Selling amateur porn isn't as easy as it looks!
You Need Followers & Social Media

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Your followers don't have to be "fans" - just friends. You can find lots of buddies and followers on social media just by providing PG-rated photos on sites like Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and the like.
Use sex-related hashtags and follow some pages/people producing adult content!
As your fan base grows, you can then start posting sexier content on Pornhub, Xvideos, Xhamster, and other tube sites. You could even do Skype shows, or Chaturbate, or BongaCams.
The point is not only to attract attention but also to provide social media links so followers can keep in touch with you. Don't give away for free what people are willing to pay for.
Post "free" stuff that is a teaser for the higher quality buys.
You Need Some Basic Business Savvy
It's very important to take after the smart porn stars of old and actually run your escapades as a business, not just a hobby. Think of your shows and your showbiz personality as a "brand", a company name.
When you start a new company you have to think about the fundamentals of business and turning over a profit.
Pricing, marketing, and branding are crucial!
You don't need to be the next Steve Jobs, but it's good to learn some business 101 if you want to start selling homemade porn videos.
You Must Know How to Set Prices
First, consider how much the average porn star makes, then scale it down a bit to what you need to make on a weekly basis. Porn star paychecks vary greatly, from $1,500 to over $15,000 per month.
Try to be modest at first!
Many believe that joining a web cam model site is the only real option for beginners. When you work as a webcam model you receive "tokens" and then pay a commission to the company that sponsors you.
The commission rate usually starts at about 50% of your earnings, so don't forget that 50% of those earnings are going to the platform and then an additional percentage is going to taxes!
Yikes.
Get more tokens by doing private shows, or spy shows. What you're actually stripping for is tokens not just attention. Your goal then is to earn as much as possible during the hours when you're online.
Once you find an audience that likes you, it's time to sell pictures, video clips, and other multimedia content. You can start receiving residual payments for a monthly membership fee or unlock special clips or photos unavailable to the general public.
Original homemade porn videos tend to sell for $1.00 per minute, though you could certainly raise the price for custom content.
How much are camming site tokens worth?
Tokens themselves are not equal to dollars.
On average, one token costs approximately 10 cents, depending on the site. Once your balance hits a certain amount (usually about $50) you can convert tokens to money and receive it via direct deposit, or various ePayment vendors.
Every site does it differently, so make sure you check the rates before you set your prices as a webcam model.
Read this guide on how to be a cam model here.
You Must Know How to Market Yourself
Look for niche fans, rather than general fans.
General fans watch lots of free porn and hardly remember it. Niche fans look for something specific and that's where you can stand out - by reaching for those niches.
Niches and fetishes include things like:
Foot fetish
BDSM & Femdom
Roleplays
Smoking
JOI (Jack-Off Instructions)
Cosplay
It's better to have a dedicated cult following than a broad following that will likely lose interest and go elsewhere after a while.
The secret to marketing in the adult industry is to view the web cam sites as a stepping stone to selling unique video content, where you can set your own price and get numerous clicks for membership and unlocked porn videos, drastically increasing your payout.
You Must Know How to Start a Brand
A brand is not the same thing as a company.
If you (and only you) want to try selling your porn online (and not employ other people) you will be spared the paperwork of starting a company. Lucky you!
However, you can still create a "brand" for your services by:
Choosing a memorable name (that's easy to spell!)
Finding a specific audience
Having a sexy porn persona
Researching your competitors
Writing down ideas for slogans, contests, etc
Creating a distinct logo
Branding everything with your logo & name
Even if you don't think of yourself as a "brand", that's how you need to treat your amateur porn career if you want to get paid and be taken seriously.
You Need Age Verification
Practically every cam site and porn site requires that you be over the age of 18 and have the ability to provide name, date-of-birth, and other identifying information (such as Social Security Number for tax purposes).
DO NOT sell porn if you're underage.
You Need Sex Toys & Lingerie
Selling adult content is largely about the tease and the virtual foreplay that comes before the orgasm(s).
That's why many performers spice things up with sexy lingerie, an attractive bed for the background (not to mention decent furniture and set decor), and the most innovative chat-interactive sex toys.
Go for variety when shopping for outfits. But when choosing sex toys, buy the top-selling toys that web cam sites recommend.
Interactive Sex Toys That Sync With Camming Sites
If you spend time of camming sites, you've probably seen bright pink sex toys hanging out of camgirls and camboys - but what are they?
Lovense and OhMiBod offer interactive sex toys that let viewers pleasure the performer using either tip amount-controlled vibrators or sound-activated vibrators.
Popular toys include: Lovense Lush 3, or the competing OhMiBod Esca 2, which targets the G-spot.
The Lovense Nora is a rabbit vibrator that offers both clitoral and G-spot stimulation while the Lovense Domi 2 focuses on clitoral stimulation.
The Lovense Hush is an anal toy and the ShockSpot Fuck Machine is exactly what it sounds like - an automatic rapid-fire dildo machine for those who want it rough.
You Need High-Quality Camera & Lighting Equipment
While there are a number of HD cameras to buy, it's equally important to learn the very basics of filming porn. Soft lighting is the most flattering and many porn stars actually use softboxes which are like cheap, studio-imitation lights.
3-point adjustable stand lights lighting systems work best. 3-point systems give you two lights on each side and one in front, which is basically the industry standard.
Don't put lights in view of the camera!
For making sex videos or cam chat, you must buy a high-quality HD camera, preferably with Digital Single Lens Reflex (for better visual clarity) and a minimum of 1080p resolution. Choose a camera that connects to a tripod for better camera shows.
What about my computer and internet?
Make sure your PC has at least 2.4 GHz of processing speed, a minimum of 4 GB of ram, and at least 300 GB of hard drive space.
You might not even think about stuff like a mouse or keyboard but visitors do like to chat. Get a quality wireless mouse and a portable keyboard so you can answer (the best) users when they ask questions or make flirty comments.
Finally, don't forget unlimited internet at the highest possible speed.
Top 5 Best Sites To Sell Amateur Porn Online in 2021
Whether you're camming or selling your content to dedicated fans, here are 5 sites that are perfect to sell your content and make money in 2021!
  1. Okfans - Best for Established Porn Stars
Okfans is a popular site because it lets performers lock content from the general population, give content to regular subscribers, and even unlock special video/photos for a price.
As you can imagine, it's a great site to use when you've already established a following. That way, you don't have to pay high commission fees in tokens.
Pros
Sell porn videos directly to fans
Unlockable sexy content
Monthly subscriptions to you
Cons
You need a following
  1. Chaturbate - Best Live Camming Site For Amateurs
Chaturbate
Chaturbate is one of the top cam sites online, with 1000S of users online at any given time in a variety of niches.
Nonetheless, there are also small rooms with just a few viewers if you want a more intimate chat. Chaturbate is also the easiest site to use, as well as one of the most fun!
Pros
Sophisticated & popular site
Good for amateurs & established names
Lots of viewers
Sell amateur porn & sex videos too
Cons
Higher commission than other sites
3. LiveJasmin - Best For Experienced Cam Girls
LiveJasmin operates like Chaturbate, with live shows and a lot of competition from models.
However, experienced cam girls like LiveJasmin the best because of the lower commission rate, sometimes letting performers keep up to 60% of tips.
They also offer private shows, gifts, and a high amount of traffic.
Pros
More options for experienced cam girls
Multiple fetish options
Limited free membership for viewers
Cons
Many professionals here - amateurs don't last
4. ManyVids - Best For Selling Homemade Porn Videos
Manyvids
ManyVids has a distinctly homemade look to it, with girl next door types, some live cam shows, and a variety of X-rated activities for sale.
For the videos, the price for viewing the show is shown immediately, letting viewers pick according to budget. Shows may be as little as a dollar or as high as $19.99, depending on the content.
Pros
Girls-next-door & amateurs welcome
Sell videos or do live cam shows
Advanced filtering for users
Cons
Not as popular as other cam sites
5. Bongacams - Best Cam Site For Low Commission Fees
bongacams
Bongacams offers a higher percentage of gross to the cam girls, from 50 to 70 percent.
Girls next door and amateur performers can find work and it's the best place to work if you don't want to compete with the "perfect-looking girls" at LiveJasmin.
The best way to make money is to start selling videos on-site and get a break from the commission.
Pros
Down-to-earth girls
No difficult screening process
Sell video content & get a bigger payout
Multiple categories
Cons
Less generous tips than Chaturbate or LiveJasmin
Why Should You Sell Homemade Porn?
OK, so you're kind of psyched at the idea so far but you're also holding back.
The problem is, not committing fully yourself to the career could be the reason you don't make it. Let's talk about the reasons why you should want to sell your videos and homemade porn:
You can make more money selling porn than working in an office or retail job
You can make money even when under lockdown
You can set your own hours every week
You can use porn as a stepping stone to producing, writing, directing etc.
Sex is always recession-proof!
For the right kind of person, making money by titillating people online is the dream!
Homemade Porn Tips - How to Make Amateur Porn That Sells!
"Don't be fake. Rock your own personality! Guys want authenticity."
"If you're naturally dominant, or shy and nerdy, or goofy, work that into the act."
"Whatever weird fetish turns you on, rock that too! Guys want more niche stuff."
"Spend time scouting the competition and watching more porn for ideas."
"Study what works and what doesn't. If an idea falls flat, try again. If it works, do that more."
"HIGH-quality cameras, good lighting, great lingerie, and the best sex toys! High production value at all costs!"
"Try to set a regular schedule for yourself. Guys need to know when you're on they can find you."
"Encourage guys to follow you so they can get notifications.
"Spend time researching keywords (specifically for selling adult videos), as well as hashtags, link trees, and other stuff the adult community is trying. Don't be an island….share the wealth!"
"Do live shows with a sex partner(s) or crossover with other cam girls to boost views. Multiple partners rake in the dough!"
Homemade Porn FAQs
Still have questions about making porn under hot lights? Don't sweat it! We have answers.
Will People Find Out Who I Am?
If you never use your real name or any personal identifiers, you'll probably be fine. Use a screen name, a stage name, and keep your sex life on live streaming only or locked videos, which hides private content from search engines.
Also consider hiding your face or any scars/tattoos, but you'll make more money if you do show your full self on cam.
If you stick to these simple rules and avoid talking about it to the family (always a must with grandma!), it's highly unlikely you will be approached by strangers.
You can even take advantage of features like geo-blocking local city folk from your homemade porn shows. That way, you have a far less chance of being recognized!
What If People Steal My Adult Content?
Practically all the major cam sites have "DMCA systems" in place, which assist you in locating copyright pirates and forcing them to take down illegally acquired videos and links.
Most will back down the second a Chaturbate lawyer sends them a message!
Besides, if you have good relationships with your fans, THEY will help you find these pirates too, and make sure you're covered.
So, Should You Sell Amateur Porn Online?
If you have a lot of self-confidence and want to commit to making this a profitable job, you can do it! Be smart about it, start from an established and trustworthy website like Chaturbate, and then grow your fan base.
When you find your fanclub take them over to Okfans and let them willingly pay for content, content requests, and get all the other perks of being an official member of your brand.
No, not "everyone" is making big money, making homemade porn. Only the best will succeed and you have to have that drive and determination to see your plans through. Be stubborn and be business-minded and you CAN start making money.
Good luck!
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2023.12.27 13:11 Warm-Ad9167 Weird lump on my vulva

Won't be posting a picture because I'm not comfortable with that, but I'll try to explain my best.
The other day I felt really weird while wiping after being on the toilet. I notice this lump to the right of my clitoral hood. It's sensitive to the touch. I've had this before, but on the other side. Last time I was annoyed with it for hurting all the time I tried to pop it, thinking it was a pimple. It wasn't, because all that came out was blood. To pop it I used a needle that a held over a flame as to not potentially get an infection. It's protruding and I can feel it like all the time. I've tried to Google it but I can't really find anything like it. Does anyone have experience with something similar? What has happened?
I know I should probably see a doctor but although he's nice, I recently got a new doctor and don't really trust him yet, should I see a gynecologist? I'm 20 years old and haven't had sex in a long time, if that helps
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2023.12.24 21:13 Burner7378 I need help with my anatomy

Hi reddit, I made a burner to ask a few questions I've been having about my vagina. I (F18) have never really made a point to explore myself or understand anything about my vagina, partially due to bullying I received from friends at the start of my teenage years. Anything related to my private areas or masturbating is something I feel a lot of shame towards. I've never masturbated. I have a boyfriend (M19) and we've been dating for a couple of months. Things are starting to get more serious between us and we've talked about having sex. I've sharing some of my concerns with him and he has been nothing but supportive, telling me he'll wait as long as I need. However, a lot of aspects of this have really been stressing me out and I have a few questions that Google just can't seem to answer. And before anyone makes any assumptions, my boyfriend is not pressuring me to do anything at all, but he has encouraged me to explore myself to learn about my likes and dislikes, become more comfortable with sexual activity, and to just be more okay in my skin. I'm very grateful to have him in my life, and as I said before, there is no pressure here and he is willing to wait over a year if that is what it takes.

First question: I can't find my own clit. I've literally looked for years and never been able to find it. I'll try and explain my anatomy a bit to get a better picture: at the top, where the clit should be according to all the pictures and diagrams I've seen, there is nothing but what looks like tissue. I don't have any sort of indication that here is a clitoris or any clitoral hood or anything. Do I just not have one? I once mistakenly identified my urethra as my clitoral hood-that's how little I know about myself. I have none of that pleasurable sensation when I really rub the tissued area. Does anyone have any idea what to do?

Second question: My vagina is very dry. I don't know if there is an underlying problem here or what, but if anyone with vaginal dryness could give some advice that would be great. My vagina has always, for as long as I can remember, been pretty dry. It's actually kinda uncomfortable in my regular everyday life. I can literally count on one hand the times I remember getting wet from sexual attraction, and it's very, VERY minimal. Even just getting regular discharge is kinda rare for me. I don't know what to do because this also causes problems with issue number 3 as well as daily living.

Third question: I can't insert anything into my vaginal opening. Not even my pinky finger. Nothing goes past maybe 1-1.5cm deep. I can't use tampons. I have done some research and believe it could possibly vaginismus. I'm not looking for a diagnosis, I'm just very unsure what to do here. I would try to finger myself to try and train it to get used to having things up there, but I can't even do that. And even if I could, it would be really uncomfortable and sometimes itchy because of the persistent dryness. Does anyone have any advice on what to do for this? I've decided to try kegels in hopes that it might loosen my pelvic muscles a little bit, but I'm not feeling very optimistic.

Last question: I have a low libido. It's not that I don't want to have sex-emotionally, I do. It's just that phyisically, I don't feel much of anything. When my boyfriend touches any part of me or we make out or do anything sexy, I don't feel much. Occasionally I do, but it's very rare, faint, and doesn't last for long. My boyfriend mentioned that masturbating might solve this problem, but I can't even work on that until at least 2 of the top questions are solved. I feel like I'm stuck in a loop with these problems, not knowing what to do. I don't think I'm asexual; I think this is less of an attraction thing and more of a there-might-be-something-physiologically-wrong-with-me thing.

Sorry for all the questions and for such a long post. I just feel a lot of shame surrounding my vagina and I don't even feel comfortable asking my mother (she is very kind and supportive it is just something I'm so embarrassed by). I wish my vagina was normal because it doesn't feel like it is.
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2023.12.16 23:06 SanderSo47 Directors at the Box Office: David Cronenberg

Directors at the Box Office: David Cronenberg

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Here's a new edition of "Directors at the Box Office", which seeks to explore the directors' trajectory at the box office and analyze their hits and bombs. I already talked about a few, and as I promised, it's David Cronenberg's turn.
Cronenberg grew up by reading tons of books at his house. His father tried to introduce him to art films like The Seventh Seal, but Cronenberg preferred pirate and western films instead. As an avid reader, he was fascinated by the works of Ray Bradbury, Isaac Asimov and Philip K. Dick. He was also a big fan of comic books, and despite later considering comic book adaptations as artistically limited, he maintains some fondness for the character of Shazam. While he had seen a lot of films, it was Bambi that made him consider a career in filmmaking. After making short films, he decided to start experimental films.
From a box office perspective, how reliable is he to deliver a box office hit?
That's the point of this post. To analyze his career.

Stereo (1969)

"Tile 3B of a CAEE Educational Mosaic"
His directorial debut. The film follows Ronald Mlodzik, Jack Messinger, Iain Ewing, Clara Mayer, Paul Mulholland, Arlene Mlodzik, and Glenn McCauley, and follows several young volunteers who participate in a parapsychological experiment.
As an experimental film with a very low budget ($8,500), it didn't have a theatrical run. It premiered at the National Arts Centre, before a representative from the Museum of Modern Art bought the rights to screen it.

Crimes of the Future (1970)

His second film and it shares the same cast as his previous film. In a dystopic world where a plague is killing off pubescent human females, an esoteric researcher seeks his missing mentor while trying to retain morality in the sex-obsessed society he lives in.
Similar to his previous film, it was an experimental film. Both films are not well received among Cronenberg's fans, and this film in particular was criticized for wasting a good premise. And to be clear, besides the title, this film has no relation in the slightest to his newest film.

Shivers (1975)

"Terror beyond the power of priest or science to exorcise!"
His third film. It stars Paul Hampton, Lynn Lowry, and Barbara Steele, and follows the residents of a suburban high-rise apartment building who are being infected by a strain of parasites that turn them into mindless, sex-crazed fiends out to infect others by the slightest sexual contact.
While in France, Cronenberg attended the Cannes Film Festival, where he realized that he needed to expand his abilities beyond the experimental films if he wanted to be considered a serious director. The Canadian Film Development Corporation invested $179,000 on the budget, but Cronenberg admitted the fears of having to make the film on a tight schedule, as he had no idea how to make a film.
In Canada, the film earned $5 million ($3.7 million in US dollars), making it a very profitable film. The film was poorly received at first but grew in appreciation, although it was still far from Cronenberg's best films. But it was a good place to start.
  • Budget: $179,000.
  • Domestic gross: $3,711,378.
  • Worldwide gross: $3,711,378.

Rabid (1977)

"One minute they're perfectly normal. The next..."
His fourth film. The film stars Marilyn Chambers, Frank Moore, Joe Silver, and Howard Ryshpan, and follows a woman who, after being injured in a motorcycle accident and undergoing a surgical operation, develops an orifice under one of her armpits that hides a phallic/clitoral stinger she uses to feed on people's blood. Those she bites become infected, and then feed upon others, spreading the disease exponentially. The result is massive chaos, starting in the Quebec countryside, and ending up in Montreal.
In Canada, it hit $1 million, barely doubling its budget. Critical reception was also very favorable.
  • Budget: $500,000.
  • Domestic gross: $1,000,000.
  • Worldwide gross: $1,000,000.

Fast Company (1979)

"Lonny drives a funny car, Sammy is his girl. Together, they live life in the fast lane."
His fifth film. The film stars William Smith, John Saxon, Claudia Jennings and Nicholas Campbell, and follows a race-car driver who decides to steal a car after his sponsor replaces him with his arch rival.
The film deviated from Cronenberg's previous works, as it was an action film in contrast to the horror and psychological elements from the previous films. While critical reception was positive, Cronenberg is not fond of the film even as he loved drag racing, as he felt the script did not respect his original vision, and admitted to making it solely for the money.

The Brood (1979)

"They're waiting for you!"
His sixth film. It stars Oliver Reed, Samantha Eggar, and Art Hindle, and follows a man and his mentally ill ex-wife, who has been sequestered by a psychiatrist known for his controversial therapy techniques. A series of brutal unsolved murders serves as the backdrop for the central narrative.
The film earned $5 million in its initial run, making it a box office hit. While it had not-so-enthusiastic reviews at first, its status has grown as a cult film. It also marked the debut of Howard Shore as composer, and he would become a frequent collaborator with Cronenberg.
  • Budget: $1,400,000.
  • Domestic gross: $5,000,000.
  • Worldwide gross: $5,000,000.

Scanners (1981)

"There are 4 billion people on Earth. 237 are Scanners. They have the most terrifying powers ever created... and they are winning."
His seventh film. It stars Stephen Lack, Jennifer O'Neill, Michael Ironside, and Patrick McGoohan, and the plot revolves around "scanners", psychics with unusual telepathic and telekinetic powers. ConSec, a purveyor of weaponry and security systems, searches out scanners to use them for its own purposes.
Cronenberg came up with the concept in the early 1970s, and pitched it to Roger Corman, who was not impressed with the script. It had a very rushed production, and Cronenberg had to film without having a complete script ready by the time the cameras started rolling. Cronenberg stated that "the first day was the most disastrous shooting day I've ever had" as "there was nothing to shoot" and a distracted truck driver watching the film crew hit a car killing two women inside it.
The film was a bigger box office hit than Cronenber's previous films, becoming his first film to hit #1. It wound up earning $14 million, well above its $4 million budget. Initial reviews were mixed, but it's now regarded as one of Cronenberg's finest films. This was deemed the film that elevated him into a more popular director.
  • Budget: $4,100,000.
  • Domestic gross: $14,225,876.
  • Worldwide gross: $14,225,876.

Videodrome (1983)

"First it controls your mind. Then it destroys your body."
His eighth film. It stars James Woods, Sonja Smits, and Debbie Harry. Set in Toronto during the early 1980s, it follows the CEO of a small UHF television station who stumbles upon a broadcast signal of snuff films. Layers of deception and mind-control conspiracy unfold as he attempts to uncover the signal's source.
Since he was a kid, Cronenberg stayed up at night to pick up American television signals from Buffalo, New York, after Canadian stations had gone off the air, and wondered if they could something not meant to be seen. This was his first film to be financed by a major studio (Universal), and he was given a then career-best $5 million budget. However, Cronenberg and Universal often fought over the film's final cut, as the latter made some edits for fear that the MPAA would give it an X rating.
Even with the backing of a major studio, the film bombed with just $2.5 million in North America, with Cronenberg blaming the studio for choosing a wide release instead of selling it as an art film. But the film received very positive reviews from critics, and it has been one of his most analyzed films.
  • Budget: $5,500,000.
  • Domestic gross: $2,120,439.
  • Worldwide gross: $2,120,439.

The Dead Zone (1983)

"In his mind, he has the power to see the future. In his hands, he has the power to change it."
His ninth film. Based on Stephen King's novel, it stars Christopher Walken, Brooke Adams, Tom Skerritt, Herbert Lom, Martin Sheen, Anthony Zerbe, and Colleen Dewhurst, and follows a schoolteacher, Johnny Smith, who awakens from a coma to find he has psychic powers.
As King was growing in popularity, the film was a box office success, earning over $20 million domestically. It was also well received.
  • Budget: $7,100,000.
  • Domestic gross: $20,766,616.
  • Worldwide gross: $20,766,616.

The Fly (1986)

"Be afraid. Be very afraid."
His tenth film. Loosely based on George Langelaan's short story and a remake of the 1958 film, it stars Jeff Goldblum, Geena Davis and John Getz. It tells the story of an eccentric scientist who, after one of his experiments goes wrong, slowly turns into a fly-hybrid creature.
Fox was interested in a remake of The Fly, but they wanted another studio involved as they had doubts over the script. The producers successfully convinced Mel Brooks in producing the film, and Brooks would leave his name off the film's credits, to avoid confusing viewers who might expect "a Mel Brooks film" to be a comedy. As the original director, Robert Bierman, had to exit due to a personal tragedy, Brooks approached Cronenberg about possibly directing. Cronenberg was busy as the assigned director of Total Recall, but decided to helm The Fly instead. After failing to convince Pierce Brosnan, John Malkovich, Richard Dreyfuss, Michael Keaton and John Lithgow to accept the lead role, Goldblum was chosen as he was was willing to perform with prosthetic makeup.
The film's selling point was, obviously, the make-up. The transformation was intended to be a metaphor for the aging process. To that end, Brundle loses hair, teeth and fingernails, with his skin becoming more and more discolored and lumpy. The intention of the filmmakers was to give Brundle a bruised and cancerous look that gets progressively worse as the character's altered genome slowly asserts itself, with the final Brundlefly hybrid creature literally bursting out of Brundle's hideously deteriorated human skin. The creature itself was designed to appear horribly asymmetrical and deformed, and not at all a viable or robust organism.
The film was a hit, grossing $60 million worldwide and becoming Cronenberg's highest grossing film. It was critically acclaimed as well, with its make-up receiving the most praise (and winning an Oscar). However, Cronenberg was surprised that people saw it as a cultural metaphor specifically for AIDS, since he originally intended the film to be a more general analogy for disease itself, terminal conditions like cancer and, more specifically, the aging process. A sequel was released three years later, but neither Cronenberg, Goldblum nor Davis were involved and it was poorly received.
  • Budget: $9,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $40,456,565.
  • Worldwide gross: $60,629,159.

Dead Ringers (1988)

"Two bodies. Two minds. One soul."
His 11th film. It stars Jeremy Irons in a dual role as twin gynecologists who take full advantage of the fact that nobody can tell them apart, until their relationship begins to deteriorate over a woman.
While Cronenberg was on a roll, this wasn't a hit, bombing with just $14 million. But the film received acclaim, and Irons' performance(s) was hailed as some of the best in his career.
  • Budget: $13,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $8,038,508.
  • Worldwide gross: $14,038,508.

Naked Lunch (1991)

"David Cronenberg and William S. Burroughs invite you to lunch."
His 12th film. Based on William S. Burroughs' novel, it stars Peter Weller, Judy Davis, Ian Holm, and Roy Scheider. After developing an addiction to the substance he uses to kill bugs, an exterminator accidentally kills his wife, and becomes involved in a secret government plot being orchestrated by giant bugs in a port town in North Africa.
The film cost $16 million, which was his most expensive film by that point. But that didn't pan out to box office success, hitting just $2 million in North America. Critical reception was positive, but not glowing.
  • Budget: $16,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $2,641,357.
  • Worldwide gross: $2,641,357.

M. Butterfly (1993)

"Passion. Power. Revenge. In all their majesty."
His 13th film. The film stars Jeremy Irons, John Lone, Ian Richardson, Barbara Sukowa, and Annabel Leventon., and is loosely based on true events which involved French diplomat Bernard Boursicot and Chinese opera singer Shi Pei Pu.
While Cronenberg was a critics darling, that luck ran out here. It was poorly received, with many considering that he reduced it to a soap opera. It also bombed at the box office, and he attributed it to competing with The Crying Game.
  • Budget: $18,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $1,498,795.
  • Worldwide gross: $1,498,795.

Crash (1996)

"Love in the dying moments of the twentieth century."
His 14th film. Based on J. G. Ballard's novel, it stars James Spader, Deborah Kara Unger, Elias Koteas, Holly Hunter and Rosanna Arquette. It follows a film producer who, after surviving a car crash, becomes involved with a group of symphorophiliacs who are aroused by car crashes and tries to rekindle his sexual relationship with his wife.
At the 1996 Cannes Film Festival, a screening provoked boos and angry bolts by upset viewers. Cronenberg stated that he believed Francis Ford Coppola, the jury president, was so vehemently opposed to Crash that other jury members in favor of the film banded together to present Cronenberg with a rare Special Jury Prize. So great was Coppola's distaste for the film that, according to Cronenberg, Coppola refused to personally present the award to the director.
That reaction wasn't reserved solely to festivals. The film's themes drew negative attention, and the MPAA gave it an NC-17 rating. Some theater chains had to hire special security guards to make sure no one under 17 would sneak into the screenings. Because of the limitations, the film bombed with just $3 million in North America. But the film is now one of Cronenberg's most beloved films. And we can all agree it is the best film called Crash.
  • Budget: N/A.
  • Domestic gross: $3,357,324.
  • Worldwide gross: $3,412,380.

eXistenZ (1999)

"Play it. Live it. Kill for it."
His 15th film. It stars Jennifer Jason Leigh, Jude Law, Ian Holm, Don McKellar, Callum Keith Rennie, Sarah Polley, Christopher Eccleston, Willem Dafoe, and Robert A. Silverman, and follows Allegra Geller, a game designer who finds herself targeted by assassins while playing a virtual reality game of her own creation.
While the project was well received, it became another bomb for Cronenberg, earning less than $3 million.
  • Budget: $15,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $2,856,712.
  • Worldwide gross: $2,856,712.

Spider (2002)

"The only thing worse than losing your mind... is finding it again."
His 16th film. Based on the novel by Patrick McGrath (who also wrote the screenplay), it stars Ralph Fiennes, Miranda Richardson and Gabriel Byrne. A mentally disturbed man takes residence in a halfway house. His mind gradually slips back into the realm created by his illness, where he replays a key part of his childhood.
The film enjoyed some of the best reviews for Cronenberg. But the limited release in theaters dampened its potential, and bombed with just $5 million.
  • Budget: $10,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $1,642,483.
  • Worldwide gross: $5,808,941.

A History of Violence (2005)

"Tom Stall had the perfect life... until he became a hero."
His 17th film. Based on the graphic novel by John Wagner and Vince Locke, it stars Viggo Mortensen, Maria Bello, Ed Harris, and William Hurt. In the film, a diner owner becomes a local hero after he foils an attempted robbery, but has to face his past enemies to protect his family.
The film was Cronenberg's most expensive film at $32 million. It wasn't profitable in its theatrical run, but it amassed $61 million, becoming his highest grossing film ever. Reviews were insanely positive, and is often considered among his best works.
  • Budget: $32,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $31,504,633.
  • Worldwide gross: $61,385,065.

Eastern Promises (2007)

"Every sin leaves a mark."
His 18th film. The film stars Viggo Mortensen, Naomi Watts, Vincent Cassel, and Armin Mueller-Stahl, and tells the story of Anna, a Russian-British midwife who delivers the baby of a drug-addicted 14-year old trafficked Russian girl who dies in childbirth. After Anna learns that the teen was forced into prostitution by the Russian Mafia in London, the leader of the Russian gangsters threatens the baby's life, and Anna is warned off by his menacing henchman.
The film was critically acclaimed, especially for its accurate depiction of Russian gangsters. It grossed $56 million worldwide, but it was a flop as it cost $50 million, another record budget for Cronenberg and his eighth bomb in a row. Mortensen was nominated for Best Actor at the Oscars, losing to Daniel Day-Lewis for There Will Be Blood.
  • Budget: $50,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $17,266,000.
  • Worldwide gross: $56,107,312.

A Dangerous Method (2011)

"Based on the true story of Jung, Freud, and the patient who came between them."
His 19th film. It stars Keira Knightley, Viggo Mortensen, Michael Fassbender, Sarah Gadon, and Vincent Cassel. Set across a span of time from 1902 to the eve of World War I, it follows the turbulent relationships between Carl Jung, founder of analytical psychology, Sigmund Freud, founder of the discipline of psychoanalysis, and Sabina Spielrein, initially Jung's patient and later a physician and one of the first female psychoanalysts.
Once again, this was another acclaimed project. And after 8 box office bombs, Cronenberg finally had a needed hit as it earned $30 million.
  • Budget: $14,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $5,704,709.
  • Worldwide gross: $30,519,436.

Cosmopolis (2012)

"How far can he go before he goes too far?"
His 20th film. Based on on Don DeLillo's novel, it stars Robert Pattinson, Paul Giamatti, Samantha Morton, Sarah Gadon, Mathieu Amalric, Juliette Binoche, Jay Baruchel and Kevin Durand. Riding across Manhattan in a stretch limo in order to get a haircut, a 28-year-old billionaire asset manager's day devolves into an odyssey with a cast of characters that start to tear his world apart.
The film premiered at Cannes, where critics were polarized over its content. That didn't help in its commercial prospects, where it bombed with just $7 million.
  • Budget: $20,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $763,556.
  • Worldwide gross: $7,029,095.

Maps to the Stars (2014)

"Eventually stars burn out."
His 21st film. It stars Julianne Moore, Mia Wasikowska, John Cusack, Robert Pattinson, Olivia Williams, Sarah Gadon, and Evan Bird, and follows the plight of a child star and a washed up actress while commenting on the entertainment industry's relationship with Western civilization as a whole.
Like his previous film, we found a polarizing reception and very awful box office performance. Oh the humanity.
  • Budget: $13,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $350,741.
  • Worldwide gross: $4,510,934.

Crimes of the Future (2022)

"Enter the heart of darkness."
His 22nd film. The film stars Viggo Mortensen, Léa Seydoux and Kristen Stewart., and follows a performance artist duo who perform surgery for audiences in a future where human evolution has accelerated for much of the population. Although the film shares its title with Cronenberg's 1970 film of the same name, it is not a remake as the story and concept are unrelated.
The film received very positive reviews after its premiere at Cannes. But it earned just $4 million on its $27 million budget, marking another bomb for Cronenberg.
  • Budget: $13,000,000.
  • Domestic gross: $2,452,882.
  • Worldwide gross: $4,551,565.

Other Projects

He has also acted, even in projects not created by him. Some of these included Jason X, Alias and Star Trek: Discovery.

The Future

He's currently in post-production on his new film, The Shrouds. It stars Diane Kruger, Vincent Cassel and Guy Pearce, and follows a grieving widower, who builds an innovative device to help people connect with the dead.

MOVIES (FROM HIGHEST GROSSING TO LEAST GROSSING)

No. Movie Year Studio Domestic Total Overseas Total Worldwide Total Budget
1 A History of Violence 2005 New Line $31,504,633 $29,880,432 $61,385,065 $32M
2 The Fly 1986 Fox $40,456,565 $20,172,594 $60,629,159 $9M
3 Eastern Promises 2007 Focus Features $17,266,000 $38,841,312 $56,107,312 $50M
4 A Dangerous Method 2011 Sony Pictures Classics $5,704,709 $24,814,727 $30,519,436 $14M
5 The Dead Zone 1983 Paramount $20,766,616 $0 $20,766,616 $7.1M
6 Scanners 1981 New World $14,225,876 $0 $14,225,876 $4.1M
7 Dead Ringers 1988 Fox $8,038,508 $6,000,000 $14,038,508 $13M
8 Cosmopolis 2012 Entertainment One $763,556 $6,265,539 $7,029,095 $20M
9 Spider 2002 Sony Pictures Classics $1,642,483 $4,166,458 $5,808,941 $10M
10 The Brood 1979 New World $5,000,000 $0 $5,000,000 $1.4M
11 Crimes of the Future 2022 Neon $2,452,882 $2,098,683 $4,551,565 $27M
12 Maps to the Stars 2014 Focus Features $350,741 $4,160,193 $4,510,934 $13M
13 Shivers 1975 Cinépix $3,711,378 $0 $3,711,378 $179K
14 Crash 1996 Fine Line $3,357,324 $55,056 $3,412,380 N/A
15 eXistenZ 1999 Miramax $2,856,712 $0 $2,856,712 $15M
16 Naked Lunch 1991 Fox $2,641,357 $0 $2,641,357 $16M
17 Videodrome 1983 Universal $2,120,439 $0 $2,120,439 $5.5M
18 M. Butterfly 1993 Warner Bros. $1,498,795 $0 $1,498,795 $18M
19 Rabid 1977 Cinépix $1,000,000 $0 $1,000,000 $500K
He made 22 films, but only 19 have reported box office grosses. Across those 19 films, he has made $301,813,568 worldwide. That's $15,884,924 per movie.

The Verdict

Not reliable.
While he was on the rise during the 80s, it seems like Cronenberg is not interested in aiming for huge box office returns. He is content in being known as a cult filmmaker, and that's fine. The surprise is that a lot of his movies in subsequent years got huge budgets, which is surprising considering he doesn't have a fantastic track record. It helps that most of his films are international co-productions, interested in seeing what Cronenberg can make. But once again, if people have to think of "iconic horrocult directors", Cronenberg must be up there.
Hope you liked this edition. You can find this and more in the wiki for this section.
The next director will be Joe Johnston. A well known journeyman in the industry. However, as next week will be very busy for me, there won't be a post during that timeframe. So we'll have to wait 2 weeks for this.
I asked you to choose who else should be in the run and the comment with the most upvotes would be chosen. Well, we'll later talk about... Ridley Scott. He deserved a post a long time ago, and now it's time. Should his brother Tony (RIP) be next?
This is the schedule for the following four:
Week Director Reasoning
December 25-31 Joe Johnston The first MCU director to get a post.
January 1-7 Michael Bay I want to get all details, cause I don't wanna miss a thing.
January 8-14 Chris Columbus He was on top of the world. What happened?
January 15-21 Ridley Scott So many hits, so many bombs.
Who should go next after Scott? That's up to you.
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2023.11.20 18:00 Kazeindel The Harvest Druids of the Grove of Nemeteth invite you to a feast

The Harvest Druids of the Grove of Nemeteth invite you to a feast
We druids of Nemeteth cordially invite you all to our grove for a grand feast!
There are a few rules if you wish to show up and enjoy the festivities, however.

  1. This is neutral territory that is a haven, a place of armistice. Whatever rivalries you have are left at the door. Do not start chaos, do not testicular torsions or clitoral cumbustions here. No fighting. We are here to enjoy ourselves and share in this year's great harvest! You will have to (begrudgingly) sit next to whoever you hate in peace until you leave our lands. Sorry.
  2. Do not harm the forest creatures, they're here to relax and enjoy the food as well. Many of them are familiars and friends of the druids.
  3. Please, bring your apprentices! They should be able to have a day off and relax. Not required but encouraged. Except Steve. Last time Steve was here he tried to fireball the grove. Steve, you're banned buddy.
  4. Have fun!

We will have games, performances, and plenty of food for everyone! On top of that, we will be passing out a few free potions of healing, mana, as well as minor remedies and lotions. Enjoy yourselves, friends! With all the disasters going around, here's hoping a little bit of joy brings up everyone's spirits.

Also don't feed Marko, pictured below. He always begs for food and WILL get fat if you feed him.
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2023.11.16 17:16 skielandrianna At Home Loosening of Clitoral Adhesions Guidance

Hello. I am 50 and have some keratin pearls and have just realized that I have moderate clitoral adhesions. I've gotten some pearls out painfully on occasion but now that I have done a little more research and realize I have adhesion that is causing the smegma to get stuck, I would like to work on unfusing my adhesion at home. I will seek help for non surgical lysis at some point if needed, but for many reasons that is not my ideal solution nor really plausible at this point.

I have read many posts and looked at photos of adhesions, and even have watched the Lichen Schlerosus youtube videos, but understandably there is no "how to" video or diagram I have found for exactly HOW to get the adhesions to separate. I've seen people suggest tools to help pry it apart (using blackhead removal tools or forceps or cuticle tools), and have read that you can use lidocaine and VMagic, but again I have not seen a picture or drawing or video of HOW to go about doing it.

Can anyone help me please? I don't want to mess up. I will go slowly and my partner is willing to help as well if needed. Thank you so much!!
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2023.11.16 17:14 skielandrianna DIY Clitoral Adhesion Removal Help?

Hello. I am 50 and have some keratin pearls and have just realized that I have moderate clitoral adhesions. I've gotten some pearls out painfully on occasion but now that I have done a little more research and realize I have adhesion that is causing the smegma to get stuck, I would like to work on unfusing my adhesion at home. I will seek help for non surgical lysis at some point if needed, but for many reasons that is not my ideal solution nor really plausible at this point.

I have read many posts and looked at photos of adhesions, and even have watched the Lichen Schlerosus youtube videos, but understandably there is no "how to" video or diagram I have found for exactly HOW to get the adhesions to separate. I've seen people suggest tools to help pry it apart (using blackhead removal tools or forceps or cuticle tools), and have read that you can use lidocaine and VMagic, but again I have not seen a picture or drawing or video of HOW to go about doing it.

Can anyone help me please? I don't want to mess up. I will go slowly and my partner is willing to help as well if needed. Thank you so much!!
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