Are you trying to follow for the imminent CAT examination but stressed approximately the steps? Worry no longer; by the stop of this blog, you'll thoroughly recognize the step-with the aid of-step guide on applying for CAT.
But first, let me tell you a tale. There’s a female named Nisha. Nisha has were given a sharp commercial enterprise mind and is seeking to practice for the CAT exam. However, she is barely confused about the way to move about the process. But worry not, this tale additionally has Archana who studies in an esteemed institute of control and can be assisting Nisha recognize every step.
Archana starts by way of stating that many but no longer all educational departments have a commonplace front exam, and that CAT is one of these. “The abbreviation stands for Common Admission Test and is performed by means of the Indian Institutes of Management”. Want to also prepare for CAT Exam, join the Best Online CAT Coaching.

Purpose and Particulars of the CAT Exam

As Nisha sits attentively, Archana begins explaining that the CAT exam is an entrance exam for purchasing admission to MBA schools or IIM institutes all over India.
Take observe Nisha, the examination for MBA entrance is carried out annually for college kids in India even as IIM is the only body that takes care of all reliable notifications, utility forms, undertaking and declaring the outcomes, talked about Archana. You ought to know who and why you’re writing the exam Archana says at the same time as she sips her coffee.
The senior student scrolls on line for the dates of the exam and asks Nisha to take down all of the particulars like -
MBA 2022 exam date is tentatively scheduled for November 27
The registration system will begin by way of the primary week of August.
And Archana exclaims, “consider Nisha utility mode is on-line”. Therefore, I anticipate you to sign up for reliable notifications to maintain music of the dates and essential bulletins.
In a feeble voice, Nisha asks, who can observe for the examination? While Archana smiles at her junior, she points out that a graduate from any circulate can observe for the CAT exam.
Any more doubts? Ask Archana. Umm, yes absolutely utters Nisha where will the exam be held? The MBA entrance is carried out in a hundred and fifty towns throughout India. And you could choose any 6 convenient ones as a result.

Detail Guide For Students Applying for CAT Exam

Now that we each recognize what the exam is, I’ll supply a simple student guide for MBA aspirants such as you looking to get into the pinnacle institutes in India.
Try to seize up with Nisha, Archana smiles playfully as she delves into the steps

Step 1: Online Application

Take notice, Nisha, step one is all approximately the web registration for the MBA entrance examination. Highlight this website iimcat.Ac.In to live-updated.

Step 2: Eligibility Criteria

That wasn’t so hard, was it? Let’s move directly to Step 2. With an assertive voice, Archana pats Nisha on the back and asks, “do you've got a bachelor’s diploma with an mixture percent of fifty percentage?” Yes, Nisha solutions to which Archana says, “then you definitely’re eligible to apply for the CAT exam.

Step 3: Keep Your Documents Ready

Well, now this step calls for your undivided attention, Nisha. It’s easy however tricky as properly, says Archana.
Here is a list of what you’ll want -

• Recent Passport Size Photographs
• Scanned reproduction of Signature (Black or blue)
• College Certificates (Marks Card)
• SC / ST / NC -OBC Certificate
• Contact Details
• Work Experience (in any)

Archana explains how she made the error of now not maintaining tender copies equipped and requests Nisha to maintain both tough and smooth copies ready.
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Few Tips For a Mistake-Free Application Process

Did you're making any errors whilst applying? Nisha asks Archana. Definitely yes, Archana sits again contemplating the careless mistakes. But don’t fear, all you want to do is keep an open thoughts and fill out the utility form readily.
In addition, I’ll even throw in a few hints to keep away from making any mistakes for the duration of the application system -
Since the process is performed on-line, make certain your browser is updated for immediate and clean outcomes. Google Chrome or Firefox are advocated to finish the registration.
Keep your scanned files geared up to be uploaded. Remember this Nisha! Archana exclaims to Nisha while she recalls her beyond mistake. Also, keep the documents in a separate folder with an appropriate label to avoid confusion. Yes, you want to do this Nisha, says Archana.
One detail applicants regularly omit is the dimensions and format of the pix. Therefore, take a look at for the size, print, and scan as in step with the necessities.
Since the examination happens throughout India, there are numerous centers to pick from. Ensure the cities you select are easily handy to you at the time of the MBA front exam.
Don’t leave out out on vital updates with the aid of counting on tentative dates. Keep a day by day check on any latest event at the reliable internet site of the CAT exam.
Last however now not least, continually double-check your utility form. Consider it a non-refundable flight price tag Nisha. You wouldn’t need to overlook your flight, Archana connotes the significance of the examination.

To Conclude -

Finally concluding this session with you Nisha, I would most effective suggest you maintain the stairs in thoughts. Right after the utility process, have a few a laugh with making ready for the examination, however of path, stay heading in the right direction constantly. Check the sample, notice the syllabus and resolve preceding years' query papers whenever you have loose time, Archana factors out whilst she seems at Nisha with desire.

Offering and seeking commitment for settling down in a monogamous relationship. An easygoing life of stability/certainty, no ugly surprises.
WHAT SUITS ME IN MY MIND: Modest/Traditional women. Physically slim, fit, average or just a little curvy or even bit skinny can do. Whether you're working or not doesn't matter. Atleast high school educated or homeschooled enough. Emotional disciplined/mature or willing to learn. Any religion or none but must be a believer in God or acknowledge a Higher Power. You can practice your own faith but no divination. No older than 31-32. Vegetarian or willing. No drug use as i don't. As long as you're respectful and faithful i don't desire/expect much from you.
Feel free to work, either nearby or Work-from-Home or be a Stay-at-Home wifey(preferred). If you already have something going on work-wise l can assist you greatly.
I have farmland, so if you're interested in doing something on it as your hobby or something, you're welcome.
ME AS A PERSON: 29-year-old, 5ft 10inch height(without shoes), fit physique. No siblings. APPEARANCE - alternate link.
I'm from Punjab, a northern state of India. Increasing shortage of compatible women here because of high immigration💀. My relocation anywhere isn't likely for atleast 5 years.
Fluent in Punjabi, English and Hindi. Emotionally mature and reliable, no baggage. Ambivert INTP. Peak mental health, can provide emotional and mental health support, lead meaningful/interesting conversations, can keep you smiling, etc.
Into self-education, character and spiritual development. Consistent about my ultimate goals but now i have learnt the slow pace of life so i do everything peacefully in sync. Financially disciplined and literate. *I'm an IT graduation dropout**, learnt basic carpentry last year and now looking forward to electrician skillset.
Into daily meditation and practicing non-reaction, manifestation is understood automatically this way. My religious beliefs/knowledge are mainly from Sikhism, Hinduism and Christianity, but i have a good relationship with God within and i no longer lean onto anything religious anymore. I pray everyday, into no religious rituals.
I'm self-motivated and often put extra-efforts just in case :-). I take life as a fully DIY project. I don't act entitled. I believe only living an intentional life is truly living. I love to take genuine interest in everyday living, in doing things the best and/or joyous way i can. My life is very peaceful and chill and I intend to keep it that way. Come add to it.
I have a non-stop supply of polished clean dark humour 💀 after being alive this long. I'm usually the most fun and energetic guy around in my social circles. But it's all about chemistry and compatibility. We like what we like. My life has been quite a journey and i got lots of stories, experiences to share.
I reject materialistic struggle beyond reasonable hardwork/smartwork.
HOBBIES, INTERESTS AND ELSE: Into casual gaming, movies, TV shows, badminton, Ludo, casually cooking, reading/researching and meditation is my favourite hobby, memes, etc. but gardening & woodworking in the future. I used to often hike back in Australia but no more here back home. I exercise often as i love to stay in shape. I have years of various work experiences but currently/temporarily not working by choice. Also, i listen to Punjabi and English music. I have a massive collection because of my prepper habits, of shows/movies and multi-genre e-books if you're into reading books, around 500+ games across Xboxes and PC platform if you're a gamer, as i kept buying them years ago in Australia, so there's that.
Currently i intend to move to Europe, anytime after 2028(economic recovery and newer markets will likely emerge) preferably rural areas, if migrant crisis doesn't destroy it 💀 or else will reconsider something similar.
contact as long as this is up. ask me anything.

In 2017 I was forced to resign from my position as the Lead Teacher for an Autism program within a district. I was sought after to create an Autism program within a public high school setting. It was a job I had spent years dreaming of. I created the program and my students were thriving more than ever before, but my coworkers and administrators found every reason to belittle me. Ultimately I was told I cared too much, that I cared too much about my students and was willing to jeopardize my job for the sake of my students. They weren’t wrong. As a special education teacher my students’ needs came first, that is why I became a teacher afterall. Ultimately, the district was aware that I suffered from major depression and anxiety and they requested I get a psych evaluation done to see if I was fit to work with students. It was done with their psych of choosing of course and it was determined that I “lacked interpersonal relationship skills” and it would be best if I resigned. Of course I didn’t have to resign because they weren’t firing me and it was on grounds that they couldn’t fire me on anyway, but by that point I was so uncomfortable and afraid to go to work I had become a hermit.
I had a one year old son and almost never left the house. My identity was stripped of me. I did try to go back to work in other school settings. I worked at two private schools and one public school. No matter how hard I tried my heart wasn’t in it anymore. I lived in constant fear that if I helped a student I would be ridiculed again and have to leave another job. At the first job I took I was in a private school setting and because I worked with severely disabled children who could be aggressive I managed to receive three concussions in less than a 2 month period of time. This led to me not being able to work in that environment and I moved on to an alternative school within a district setting where students who couldn’t be within the public school setting could still have access to the public school environment. That job was a very thankless disheartening job as the parents blamed the staff for everything and the students didn’t want to be helped. For someone like me it was emotionally taxing and I went home crying daily. At that point I had a two year old son that was beginning to show signs of having Autism. Life was sure throwing me some curve balls. I moved onto another private school job by January of 2019 only to get hit in the head twice more. The neurologist told me at that point that one more bad hit to my head could leave me a vegetable, but I didn’t want to give up. I was the breadwinner in our home. I carried a lot of the weight of our household and had for years.
It became more apparent that my own son was Autistic and I had begun having multiple panic attacks daily as well as would hide in my bedroom and sleep all the time when my husband was home. I ended up having a complete nervous breakdown and ended up hospitalized. My doctors decided due to my mental health I was no longer able to work. This rocked my world. I didn’t know how to do anything but be a teacher. Filing for social security disability was a nightmare and it took me two years to finally get it. By the time I got it my marriage had fallen apart, my son was diagnosed with Autism and while trying to get treatment for my own issues we were in so much debt from not having two incomes.
On January 4, 2022, I tried to end my life. I ate castor beans. By the grace of God there was a former army medic on staff and she saved my life. Her name is Hope and I will forever be grateful to her. After I came home from treatment we did the best to pretend everything was alright but my marriage was broken. I was the only one fighting to hold it together. My mental health tore us apart, our son’s autism diagnosis and doing everything possible for his best interests led to us not communicating and becoming roommates. Last year I finally got sick and tired of being sick and tired. I told my husband we were over but I wanted to try to live as roommates because it was best financially and I thought it was best for our son. By September of 2023 I relived it wasn’t best for anyone. My mental health took a drastic decline again and I ended up in a residential treatment facility. It was the most difficult 32 days of my life. It was the first time in my sons’s life I wasn’t there everyday. I missed his first day of second grade, I missed picture day. Debt piled up again. We were drowning. When I got home I had set firm boundaries to protect myself and we agreed that after the holidays my husband would move out. Fast forward to now. It’s just my son and I. My ex sees him twice a week and helps financially when he can. Unfortunately living in the great state of NJ where the cost of living is expensive and getting financial assistance is near impossible. I’m in that place where on paper it looks like I have enough disability and child support come in so I’m not eligible for any assistance. Reality though is I can’t put food on the table. Most days I’m having to choose between a bill to see a dr. I had a hysterectomy last November and have had severe sciatica since. I’ve been to multiple doctors with no relief and every day I fear I’m going to no longer have function of my right leg/ foot. My mental health is beginning to suffer again. I can feel myself slipping backwards and I’m so afraid I won’t be able to recover this time.
I’m behind on all of my bills, household and medical. I still have 3 totes full of paperwork I haven’t even gotten a chance to look at. Collection agencies call all day long. My son needs in home therapy again but I can’t afford it and our insurance doesn’t cover it.
I’m drowning and feel like I’m stuck out in the ocean about to sink to the bottom. I question everyday if I have any fight left in me. I’m trying to do what’s best for myself and my son. I’m resorting to this, to asking strangers for help because I am honestly ashamed and have exhausted asking family and friends for help.
If you’ve read all of this I greatly appreciate you. It means the world to me that you even care enough to have read all of this. I truly hope that you can find it in your heart to help in any way possible. If you are able to help in anyway possible please send me a message. I’m more than willing to answer any questions
Thank you in advance for all the kindness and support.
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Hi!! Time to throw my hat into the ring. I have been fortunate enough to make some truly meaningful friendships online. I figured hey, if I could find them, why not look for a relationship this way too?
What I'm looking for:
End goal? A life partner, in every sense of the word. That person who will be there for you no matter what, and you for them. Someone who I can make hot cocoa for and spend all night with, huddled under blankets on the sofa watching movies and talking about life. :)
But of course, it takes time to foster a relationship that is at that point. I like to pace myself when getting to know someone for that very reason. I want to be sure that I can give my whole self to a person, you know? That is some vulnerable stuff. So to start, it'd probably just be chatting online before graduating to more and more stuff slowly.
Anyway, that’s the preamble. Now into a bit about me, I guess. I’m 26, as mentioned in the title. I’m from the northeast of the US. I love having deep conversations about life/philosophy/relationships, but also really enjoy video games, film, novels, comics, etc.
Before I go any farther, I might as well start with the "fundamentals" so I don't waste your time/vice-versa.
The fundamentals:

• Physically? I’m 6’2. Short brown hair, blue eyes, paaaaasty white.
• I’m from a Hispanic background. Still learning the language though. That’s been really fun and challenging.
• Career Goals: Currently 1 year left in undergrad. (Yeah, at 26… long story short, health issues are stupid. Happy to share if you want). I’m pretty driven and take school seriously. I'm approaching my future career with the same level of ambition and drive. I’m likely headed out to California/LA after I get my degree, just so you're aware. I’m looking for something serious that’d eventually be in person, so if that locale doesn’t work, we probably aren’t a match—but I wish you the best! :)
• I do envision having kids when I can feasibly financially support them and am in a healthy relationship.
• I lean liberal on the social and political spectrums, but I'm not staunchly liberal. It's not a major part of my identity, but I know it can be important to people, so I'm just putting it out there.
• I do believe in God. I was raised Catholic, but I'm still figuring “belief” out. Though I don't ascribe to everything in Catholicism anymore, it's still a part of my background and of who I am. If you’re from a different or no faith background, that’s totally fine, but I don't think I'd be compatible with someone who is an atheist. If that's you, no worries, everyone has their own path, and I wish you the best. :)
• I don't do drugs or smoke. I'm okay if you're 420-friendly as long as it's in moderation. I do drink, but very rarely and mildly.
• Ideally, you'd be located in the US/Canada, but if you feel that we'd really jive and you're located elsewhere, feel free to reach out anyway. :)
• Looking for someone plus or minus ~4 years in age from me.

Random interests:

• Long drives by the sea or through the countryside
• Dogs. I have 2 little white floofs. Pets in general are awesome too. :)
• Classic movies (and film in general). These are my bread and butter.
• Anime - Not super well-versed, but I’m in love with Studio Ghibli and Your Name. I’ve sampled a lot of other stuff too.
• Star Wars... maybe a little too much.
• Video games - low-key games like Stardew Valley or The Sims but also stuff like Overwatch, Battlefront II, and some MMOs
• And more! (If you wanna get to know me)

If you read all this, thank you. I know I can tend to ramble, but I hope this gives you a good sense of me. Figured I’d put it all out there. Honesty begets honesty.
If you‘re interested, feel free to message me. If we hit it off, we can either switch to my real Reddit account or another platform like Discord. Just as a warning though, I don't have any social media outside of that.
If you’re not interested, no worries. Either way, I wish you the absolute best on this journey that is life. :)

Hi!! Time to throw my hat into the ring. I have been fortunate enough to make some truly meaningful friendships online. I figured hey, if I could find them, why not look for a relationship this way too?
What I'm looking for:
End goal? A life partner, in every sense of the word. That person who will be there for you no matter what, and you for them. Someone who I can make hot cocoa for and spend all night with, huddled under blankets on the sofa watching movies and talking about life. :)
But of course, it takes time to foster a relationship that is at that point. I like to pace myself when getting to know someone for that very reason. I want to be sure that I can give my whole self to a person, you know? That is some vulnerable stuff. So to start, it'd probably just be chatting online before graduating to more and more stuff slowly.
Anyway, that’s the preamble. Now into a bit about me, I guess. I’m 26, as mentioned in the title. I’m from the northeast of the US. I love having deep conversations about life/philosophy/relationships, but also really enjoy video games, film, novels, comics, etc.
Before I go any farther, I might as well start with the "fundamentals" so I don't waste your time/vice-versa.
The fundamentals:

• Physically? I’m 6’2. Short brown hair, blue eyes, paaaaasty white.
• I’m from a Hispanic background. Still learning the language though. That’s been really fun and challenging.
• Career Goals: Currently 1 year left in undergrad. (Yeah, at 26… long story short, health issues are stupid. Happy to share if you want). I’m pretty driven and take school seriously. I'm approaching my future career with the same level of ambition and drive. I’m likely headed out to California/LA after I get my degree, just so you're aware. I’m looking for something serious that’d eventually be in person, so if that locale doesn’t work, we probably aren’t a match—but I wish you the best! :)
• I do envision having kids when I can feasibly financially support them and am in a healthy relationship.
• I lean liberal on the social and political spectrums, but I'm not staunchly liberal. It's not a major part of my identity, but I know it can be important to people, so I'm just putting it out there.
• I do believe in God. I was raised Catholic, but I'm still figuring “belief” out. Though I don't ascribe to everything in Catholicism anymore, it's still a part of my background and of who I am. If you’re from a different or no faith background, that’s totally fine, but I don't think I'd be compatible with someone who is an atheist. If that's you, no worries, everyone has their own path, and I wish you the best. :)
• I don't do drugs or smoke. I'm okay if you're 420-friendly as long as it's in moderation. I do drink, but very rarely and mildly.
• Ideally, you'd be located in the US/Canada, but if you feel that we'd really jive and you're located elsewhere, feel free to reach out anyway. :)
• Looking for someone plus or minus ~4 years in age from me.

Random interests:

• Long drives by the sea or through the countryside
• Dogs. I have 2 little white floofs. Pets in general are awesome too. :)
• Classic movies (and film in general). These are my bread and butter.
• Anime - Not super well-versed, but I’m in love with Studio Ghibli and Your Name. I’ve sampled a lot of other stuff too.
• Star Wars... maybe a little too much.
• Video games - low-key games like Stardew Valley or The Sims but also stuff like Overwatch, Battlefront II, and some MMOs
• And more! (If you wanna get to know me)

If you read all this, thank you. I know I can tend to ramble, but I hope this gives you a good sense of me. Figured I’d put it all out there. Honesty begets honesty.
If you‘re interested, feel free to message me. If we hit it off, we can either switch to my real Reddit account or another platform like Discord. Just as a warning though, I don't have any social media outside of that.
If you’re not interested, no worries. Either way, I wish you the absolute best on this journey that is life. :)

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Offering and seeking commitment for settling down in a monogamous relationship. An easygoing life of stability/certainty, no ugly surprises.
WHAT SUITS ME IN MY MIND: Modest/Traditional women. Physically slim, fit, average or just a little curvy or even bit skinny can do. Whether you're working or not doesn't matter. Atleast high school educated or homeschooled enough. Emotional disciplined/mature or willing to learn. Any religion or none but must be a believer in God or acknowledge a Higher Power. You can practice your own faith but no divination. No older than 31-32. Vegetarian or willing. No drug use as i don't. As long as you're respectful and faithful i don't desire/expect much from you.
Feel free to work, either nearby or Work-from-Home or be a Stay-at-Home wife(preferred). If you already have something going on work-wise l can assist you greatly.
I have farmland, so if you're interested in doing something on it as your hobby or something, you're welcome.
ME AS A PERSON: 29-year-old, 5ft 10inch height(without shoes), fit physique. No siblings. APPEARANCE - alternate link.
I'm from Punjab, a northern state of India. Increasing shortage of compatible women here because of high immigration💀. My relocation anywhere isn't likely for atleast 5 years.
Fluent in Punjabi, English and Hindi. Emotionally mature and reliable, no baggage. Ambivert INTP. Peak mental health, can provide emotional and mental health support, lead meaningful/interesting conversations, can keep you smiling, etc.
Into self-education, character and spiritual development. Consistent about my ultimate goals but now i have learnt the slow pace of life so i do everything peacefully in sync. Financially disciplined and literate. *I'm an IT graduation dropout**, learnt basic carpentry last year and now looking forward to electrician skillset.
Into daily meditation and practicing non-reaction, manifestation is understood automatically this way. My religious beliefs/knowledge are mainly from Sikhism, Hinduism and Christianity, but i have a good relationship with God within and i no longer lean onto anything religious anymore. I pray everyday, into no religious rituals.
I'm self-motivated and often put extra-efforts just in case :-). I take life as a fully DIY project. I don't act entitled. I believe only living an intentional life is truly living. I love to take genuine interest in everyday living, in doing things the best and/or joyous way i can. My life is very peaceful and chill and I intend to keep it that way. Come add to it.
I have a non-stop supply of polished clean dark humour 💀 after being alive this long. I'm usually the most fun and energetic guy around in my social circles. But it's all about chemistry and compatibility. We like what we like. My life has been quite a journey and i got lots of stories, experiences to share.
I reject materialistic struggle beyond reasonable hardwork/smartwork.
HOBBIES, INTERESTS AND ELSE: Into casual gaming, movies, TV shows, badminton, Ludo, casually cooking, reading/researching and meditation is my favourite hobby, memes, etc. but gardening & woodworking in the future. I used to often hike back in Australia but no more here back home. I exercise often as i love to stay in shape. I have years of various work experiences but currently/temporarily not working by choice. Also, i listen to Punjabi and English music. I have a massive collection because of my prepper habits, of shows/movies and multi-genre e-books if you're into reading books, around 500+ games across Xboxes and PC platform if you're a gamer, as i kept buying them years ago in Australia, so there's that.
Currently i intend to move to Europe, anytime after 2028(economic recovery and newer markets will likely emerge) preferably rural areas, if migrant crisis doesn't destroy it 💀 or else will reconsider something similar.
contact as long as this is up. ask me anything.

Offering and seeking commitment for settling down in a monogamous relationship. An easygoing life of stability/certainty, no ugly surprises.
WHAT SUITS ME IN MY MIND: Modest/Traditional women. Physically slim, fit, average or just a little curvy or even bit skinny can do. Whether you're working or not doesn't matter. Atleast high school educated or homeschooled enough. Emotional disciplined/mature or willing to learn. Any religion or none but must be a believer in God or acknowledge a Higher Power. You can practice your own faith but no divination. No older than 31-32. Vegetarian or willing. No drug use as i don't. As long as you're respectful and faithful i don't desire/expect much from you.
Feel free to work, either nearby or Work-from-Home or be a Stay-at-Home wife(preferred). If you already have something going on work-wise l can assist you greatly.
I have farmland, so if you're interested in doing something on it as your hobby or something, you're welcome.
ME AS A PERSON: 29-year-old, 5ft 10inch height(without shoes), fit physique. No siblings. APPEARANCE - alternate link.
I'm from Punjab, a northern state of India. Increasing shortage of compatible women here because of high immigration💀. My relocation anywhere isn't likely for atleast 5 years.
Fluent in Punjabi, English and Hindi. Emotionally mature and reliable, no baggage. Ambivert INTP. Peak mental health, can provide emotional and mental health support, lead meaningful/interesting conversations, can keep you smiling, etc.
Into self-education, character and spiritual development. Consistent about my ultimate goals but now i have learnt the slow pace of life so i do everything peacefully in sync. Financially disciplined and literate. *I'm an IT graduation dropout**, learnt basic carpentry last year and now looking forward to electrician skillset.
Into daily meditation and practicing non-reaction, manifestation is understood automatically this way. My religious beliefs/knowledge are mainly from Sikhism, Hinduism and Christianity, but i have a good relationship with God within and i no longer lean onto anything religious anymore. I pray everyday, into no religious rituals.
I'm self-motivated and often put extra-efforts just in case :-). I take life as a fully DIY project. I don't act entitled. I believe only living an intentional life is truly living. I love to take genuine interest in everyday living, in doing things the best and/or joyous way i can. My life is very peaceful and chill and I intend to keep it that way. Come add to it.
I have a non-stop supply of polished clean dark humour 💀 after being alive this long. I'm usually the most fun and energetic guy around in my social circles. But it's all about chemistry and compatibility. We like what we like. My life has been quite a journey and i got lots of stories, experiences to share.
I reject materialistic struggle beyond reasonable hardwork/smartwork.
HOBBIES, INTERESTS AND ELSE: Into casual gaming, movies, TV shows, badminton, Ludo, casually cooking, reading/researching and meditation is my favourite hobby, memes, etc. but gardening & woodworking in the future. I used to often hike back in Australia but no more here back home. I exercise often as i love to stay in shape. I have years of various work experiences but currently/temporarily not working by choice. Also, i listen to Punjabi and English music. I have a massive collection because of my prepper habits, of shows/movies and multi-genre e-books if you're into reading books, around 500+ games across Xboxes and PC platform if you're a gamer, as i kept buying them years ago in Australia, so there's that.
Currently i intend to move to Europe, anytime after 2028(economic recovery and newer markets will likely emerge) preferably rural areas, if migrant crisis doesn't destroy it 💀 or else will reconsider something similar.
contact as long as this is up. ask me anything.

Offering and seeking commitment for settling down in a monogamous relationship. An easygoing life of stability/certainty, no ugly surprises.
WHAT SUITS ME IN MY MIND: Modest/Traditional women. Physically slim, fit, average or just a little curvy or even bit skinny can do. Whether you're working or not doesn't matter. Atleast high school educated or homeschooled enough. Emotional disciplined/mature or willing to learn. Any religion or none but must be a believer in God or acknowledge a Higher Power. You can practice your own faith but no divination. No older than 31-32. Vegetarian or willing. No drug use as i don't. As long as you're respectful and faithful i don't desire/expect much from you.
Feel free to work, either nearby or Work-from-Home or be a Stay-at-Home wife(preferred). If you already have something going on work-wise l can assist you greatly.
I have farmland, so if you're interested in doing something on it as your hobby or something, you're welcome.
ME AS A PERSON: 29-year-old, 5ft 10inch height(without shoes), fit physique. No siblings. APPEARANCE - alternate link.
I'm from Punjab, a northern state of India. Increasing shortage of compatible women here because of high immigration💀. My relocation anywhere isn't likely for atleast 5 years.
Fluent in Punjabi, English and Hindi. Emotionally mature and reliable, no baggage. Ambivert INTP. Peak mental health, can provide emotional and mental health support, lead meaningful/interesting conversations, can keep you smiling, etc.
Into self-education, character and spiritual development. Consistent about my ultimate goals but now i have learnt the slow pace of life so i do everything peacefully in sync. Financially disciplined and literate. *I'm an IT graduation dropout**, learnt basic carpentry last year and now looking forward to electrician skillset.
Into daily meditation and practicing non-reaction, manifestation is understood automatically this way. My religious beliefs/knowledge are mainly from Sikhism, Hinduism and Christianity, but i have a good relationship with God within and i no longer lean onto anything religious anymore. I pray everyday, into no religious rituals.
I'm self-motivated and often put extra-efforts just in case :-). I take life as a fully DIY project. I don't act entitled. I believe only living an intentional life is truly living. I love to take genuine interest in everyday living, in doing things the best and/or joyous way i can. My life is very peaceful and chill and I intend to keep it that way. Come add to it.
I have a non-stop supply of polished clean dark humour 💀 after being alive this long. I'm usually the most fun and energetic guy around in my social circles. But it's all about chemistry and compatibility. We like what we like. My life has been quite a journey and i got lots of stories, experiences to share.
I reject materialistic struggle beyond reasonable hardwork/smartwork.
HOBBIES, INTERESTS AND ELSE: Into casual gaming, movies, TV shows, badminton, Ludo, casually cooking, reading/researching and meditation is my favourite hobby, memes, etc. but gardening & woodworking in the future. I used to often hike back in Australia but no more here back home. I exercise often as i love to stay in shape. I have years of various work experiences but currently/temporarily not working by choice. Also, i listen to Punjabi and English music. I have a massive collection because of my prepper habits, of shows/movies and multi-genre e-books if you're into reading books, around 500+ games across Xboxes and PC platform if you're a gamer, as i kept buying them years ago in Australia, so there's that.
Currently i intend to move to Europe, anytime after 2028(economic recovery and newer markets will likely emerge) preferably rural areas, if migrant crisis doesn't destroy it 💀 or else will reconsider something similar.
contact as long as this is up. ask me anything.

I'm so sorry if this doesn't belong in here or if I broke any rules, but I don't know what to do. I've been crying all day because I don't know.
I (24F) live nearly 6 hours away from my Grandma (86). I was born and raised in the city that she is currently in up until I was 17, so I sometimes go back out there to visit, handle business, etc. I also lived with my Grandma for most of my life as my parents had me at 16 and she loved spending time with me whenever they couldn't handle it. My Grandma is the sweetest ever; she's the kind of lady who would give you everything in her wallet if you needed it. I have a younger brother (19) who also grew up at her house and recently moved into a place across the street from her. He works two jobs to afford his apartment and is always sleeping to keep up, but he still takes his time to go check on her since she's close.
It all sounds well, but my father (49) lives there as well. My Grandma stays in a studio apartment that I've been in most of my life. So has my Father. He has been living with her ever since my parents split up 14+ years ago and he's been getting on her nerves ever since. He has a history of abuse with my Mom that resulted in him going to jail for domestic violence three times, once for hitting his new girlfriend, and is known for stealing money from my Grandma and my Mom. When my parents split, my brother and I moved with my Grandma because it was a stable place and we could go to school with our friends. During that time, he stayed there, too, and we had CPS coming to the house every six months due to him severely neglecting my brother and me, and my disabled Grandma trying to do what she could. Just for context. Eventually, we went back with our Mom, and now my brother is in his own place.
My Grandma had another stroke a few days ago. The doctors said that it wasn't too severe, but she could be kept so that they could keep an eye on her and start rehab. My father told them no, brought her home, and now my severely disabled Grandma is at home alone. She can barely stand or take care of herself. My father said that he didn't want them to cut off his "in-home assistance" check and leaves her while he goes to work. He has his girlfriend running in and out of my Grandma's house when she has said before that she doesn't want her there and when are they going to move out. The last time I was over there, she was struggling to make frozen fish sticks and I bought her food, wondering where my father was. My little brother has been taking care of her ever since she came back home and is at her house more than his own. Today he broke down because he was the one who found her during her stroke and he's doing everything alone; he's only 19 and he doesn't know what to do. He's getting in trouble for missing his two jobs to be there for her, all while my father is just "put a diaper on her and leave, it's not that serious." It seems like nobody else cares when my brother and I are breaking down about this.
I work full-time at a WFH job and start my summer semester of college in literally a week. Just to give my brother a break, I'm going to go stay there so I can help. I don't know what I should be doing to help her, either. If it's bad, I might drop out of the summer semester because she's more important. I don't understand why my father thinks the checks are more important than my Grandma. I want her to be at the hospital where they can help her through this, not me crying and trying to help her and messing up. I'm sure she already feels horrible that my brother is having a hard time and she's so sweet that he had to force her to let him help her and tell her that he's there for her.
Is there anything that I can do? Any suggestions? My father is her only child and she doesn't have any other family. He has all say-so over financial and medical decisions. I don't know what to do and my Grandma doesn't deserve this. She shouldn't be going through this and my brother shouldn't be losing his jobs because nobody will help them. I want to do what I can by staying over there, but that isn't a long-term solution. I fear that the inevitable is going to happen soon, and if so, I don't want it to be like this. She doesn't deserve her final days to be in fear and that isn't how I want my brother and I to remember her. I want her to be happy and worry-free. How do I get her help? Where do I even start?

I (F 18) met my ex best friend (we’ll call her laura for privacy reasons) in grade 2. pretty normal for elementary friendships. we werent too close at the start but our friendship grew pretty fast. in grade three it was (for reasons unknown) very popular to talk abt s3x and how it worked and what people did during s3x. Laura picked up on this information and tried corrupting me with it. eventually we started having sleepovers quite frequently and during these sleepovers she would try and do things to me while we were alone in my room. usually at night. id always push her off or tell her to stop- but eventually she would overpower me (sit on me or hold me down) while she touched my body. now you may be thinking: “why didnt you just tell an adult?”. i totally should have. but she had made a threats saying she would twist the story and make sure no one spoke to me again. she did this to me for 4 years. during the middle of grade 7, she decided she would spread a horrible rumour about me. it started by her telling her mother that i was hurting her physically at school (once it got out and everyone knew about it- none of my friends believed her because they were always with us when we all hung out and had never seen me hurt her in anyway. everyone else believed her lies though). her mother (note: she is on the school board and was in contact with the staff at the elementary school that Laura and i both went to) started taking control of the “situation”. i was forbidden from seeing Laura and she had called the school to inform them of the situation. this resulted in me being moved to a separate room all by myself. the principal would put me in this room and leave me alone for the entire school day. i wouldnt learn anything and he wouldn’t let me leave because (these are his words) he didnt trust me enough to come back. i couldnt leave to get my lunch, i couldnt use the restroom. NOTHING. he would keep me late after school and make me write apology letters to Laura apologizing about what id allegedly done. he would keep me there so late that i would miss the bus and be forced to walk home in -30 to -40 degree weather. obviously my parents were not okay with this so they stepped in. my mother and i went to speak with her mother about what exactly is going on and why i am being treated this way. she replied saying i was a bad person and a terrible influence. (keep in mind that when Laura and i were friends we played minecraft and lego friends.) my mother obviously stood up for me and at the time i had been very depressed that id stopped eating and was hurting myself so she brought up how Laura’s actions and her mothers actions have ruined my mental health as well as my chance at a good education because i was no longer allowed in the classroom. some rude words were exchanged from both my mother and Laura’s mother and we left. I finished the rest of grade 7 with these horrible conditions but thankfully Laura had decided to move schools and finish elementary at a different school than me. grade 8 was fabulous and i never had to go to the principals office once and had no issues with friends. halfway through- quarantine happened and i moved houses and didnt hear anything about her. grade 9 started and she had picked the same highschool as i did and i still never associated with her but she was still telling people i hurt her and was harassing her. eventually i got called down to the counsellors office. in the counsellors office, they explained that Laura had said that I was making her uncomfortable, which made no sense because I hadn’t been associating myself with her, stood around her or spoken to her in an entire year. my mother sent a email to the school counselor, and he replied, saying he didn’t want to bring up anything from the past, but the whole reason that I was in that office was because of stuff from the past, because I most certainly wasn’t doing anything to her at that point considering I wasn’t associating myself with her at all. anyways my mother contacted the office to let them know my side of the story to which they reply saying they arent trying to bring up things from the past which doesn’t make sense since the whole situation IS in the past. after a while they stopped calling me into the office at all and Laura was still getting called in regularly. her mother still being on the school board obviously gets herself involved then I’m back into the counsellors office. There’s more problems yada yada yada all that blows over basically and people start seeing her lies about me being abusive and they noticed that it’s really her that’s being abusive because she makes threats to her friends to her family, she threatened to hit one of my friends in the head with a lock for a locker because she wouldn’t let her hit her vape and just crazy things. she started doing a lot of drugs and skipping school, skipping class and whenever she would be caught doing these things she would blame it on her brother who passed away like four years ago I mean yes understandable your grieving, but you can’t use him as an excuse for everything. so anyway her mother saying that I am a bad influence really didn’t make any sense considering when she was friends with me we were playing Minecraft and playing with lego friends and NOW shes addicted to drugs and is failing school. Word got out that she’s a liar and that she abuses people and she eventually got called out for skipping school and was sent to the office for all her absences and was kicked out of the school and sent to a special-needs school because she was not learning well at the one that she went to at the moment. So here I am 18 years old and graduating high school with honours and she won’t graduate for another two years because of how much she missed.. Let’s just say she got what she deserved.🤷🏻‍♀️

I (F 18) met my ex best friend (we’ll call her laura for privacy reasons) in grade 2. pretty normal for elementary friendships. we werent too close at the start but our friendship grew pretty fast. in grade three it was (for reasons unknown) very popular to talk abt s3x and how it worked and what people did during s3x. Laura picked up on this information and tried corrupting me with it. eventually we started having sleepovers quite frequently and during these sleepovers she would try and do things to me while we were alone in my room. usually at night. id always push her off or tell her to stop- but eventually she would overpower me (sit on me or hold me down) while she touched my body. now you may be thinking: “why didnt you just tell an adult?”. i totally should have. but she had made a threats saying she would twist the story and make sure no one spoke to me again. she did this to me for 4 years. during the middle of grade 7, she decided she would spread a horrible rumour about me. it started by her telling her mother that i was hurting her physically at school (once it got out and everyone knew about it- none of my friends believed her because they were always with us when we all hung out and had never seen me hurt her in anyway. everyone else believed her lies though). her mother (note: she is on the school board and was in contact with the staff at the elementary school that Laura and i both went to) started taking control of the “situation”. i was forbidden from seeing Laura and she had called the school to inform them of the situation. this resulted in me being moved to a separate room all by myself. the principal would put me in this room and leave me alone for the entire school day. i wouldnt learn anything and he wouldn’t let me leave because (these are his words) he didnt trust me enough to come back. i couldnt leave to get my lunch, i couldnt use the restroom. NOTHING. he would keep me late after school and make me write apology letters to Laura apologizing about what id allegedly done. he would keep me there so late that i would miss the bus and be forced to walk home in -30 to -40 degree weather. obviously my parents were not okay with this so they stepped in. my mother and i went to speak with her mother about what exactly is going on and why i am being treated this way. she replied saying i was a bad person and a terrible influence. (keep in mind that when Laura and i were friends we played minecraft and lego friends.) my mother obviously stood up for me and at the time i had been very depressed that id stopped eating and was hurting myself so she brought up how Laura’s actions and her mothers actions have ruined my mental health as well as my chance at a good education because i was no longer allowed in the classroom. some rude words were exchanged from both my mother and Laura’s mother and we left. I finished the rest of grade 7 with these horrible conditions but thankfully Laura had decided to move schools and finish elementary at a different school than me. grade 8 was fabulous and i never had to go to the principals office once and had no issues with friends. halfway through- quarantine happened and i moved houses and didnt hear anything about her. grade 9 started and she had picked the same highschool as i did and i still never associated with her but she was still telling people i hurt her and was harassing her. eventually i got called down to the counsellors office. in the counsellors office, they explained that Laura had said that I was making her uncomfortable, which made no sense because I hadn’t been associating myself with her, stood around her or spoken to her in an entire year. my mother sent a email to the school counselor, and he replied, saying he didn’t want to bring up anything from the past, but the whole reason that I was in that office was because of stuff from the past, because I most certainly wasn’t doing anything to her at that point considering I wasn’t associating myself with her at all. anyways my mother contacted the office to let them know my side of the story to which they reply saying they arent trying to bring up things from the past which doesn’t make sense since the whole situation IS in the past. after a while they stopped calling me into the office at all and Laura was still getting called in regularly. her mother still being on the school board obviously gets herself involved then I’m back into the counsellors office. There’s more problems yada yada yada all that blows over basically and people start seeing her lies about me being abusive and they noticed that it’s really her that’s being abusive because she makes threats to her friends to her family, she threatened to hit one of my friends in the head with a lock for a locker because she wouldn’t let her hit her vape and just crazy things. she started doing a lot of drugs and skipping school, skipping class and whenever she would be caught doing these things she would blame it on her brother who passed away like four years ago I mean yes understandable your grieving, but you can’t use him as an excuse for everything. so anyway her mother saying that I am a bad influence really didn’t make any sense considering when she was friends with me we were playing Minecraft and playing with lego friends and NOW shes addicted to drugs and is failing school. Word got out that she’s a liar and that she abuses people and she eventually got called out for skipping school and was sent to the office for all her absences and was kicked out of the school and sent to a special-needs school because she was not learning well at the one that she went to at the moment. So here I am 18 years old and graduating high school with honours and she won’t graduate for another two years because of how much she missed.. Let’s just say she got what she deserved.🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m 31 years of age, graduated in 2010 and took about a 9 to 18 months break before starting college. 2011 was when I began going to community college and was very happy to begin a new chapter in my life such as starting school but this time getting paid for my hard work and focus through financial aid.. next thing you know my oldest brother died in 2012 and it completely ruined me. I was about 19 at the time and didn’t drive until 20.
I was so happy before I heard the bad news from my mom calling me while I was at in n out with friends, crying while telling me that my brother had been shot. (I always wondered how my life would’ve been if I never picked up the phone or call while I was out eating with friends). This scared me for life and it’s why I don’t really enjoy in n out I should. It changed me forever.
I then got a job with some friends about a year after the tragedy but for some reason my mom told me not to tell people like my uncle that I was employed. I always wondered why but now thinking back by being raised by narcissistic parents, it’s all a control thing.
For instance my mom doesn’t work and was collecting ssi and welfare benefits. Me being young and finally having a sense of independence I was very proud of myself but I never understood why my parents never clapped for me..
When my father got home I guess they told each other about what I had going for myself and she insisted that I didn’t work because it would affect our housing situation and rent. This made me very sad because I was never able to reach my full potential and felt limited.
I always viewed life in the sense that you’re either working or going to school or you aren’t doing much with your life. With that being said, my narcissistic parents didn’t want me to work… therefore I took the school route because I was smart enough to do mental labor instead of physical to generate income. So from 2012-2016 I just kept going to school to keep myself busy and not focus on what had happened to me and my brother.
This was when shit but the fan and I took too many units and financial aid wouldn’t credit me for it anymore. I basically dropped out in 2016 because myself school stopped paying me. It was around the same year that Wells Fargo gave me a student credit card with a 500 $ limit after opening a bank account to buy things online. I then taught myself about stocks and when a friend of mine told me about Robinhood. From 2016 til about COVID started I didn’t go to school and was unemployed.
When Covid hit, this was when my little brother started college and motivated me to go back to school. Around this time was when I signed back up for financial aid and took courses online and was very happy and surprised when they allowed me to acquire more funds from school.
I started getting money from Covid because this was when colleges received aid through Covid relief programs. During this time I finished school and graduated in 2021. I also started working and got my first job as an Uber eats driver a few days after Father’s Day in 2021, this was when I told my sister because I was very happy. I guess my dad was ear hustling and started eavesdropping and was upset that I had a job once again.
After finishing school with 2 undergrad degrees, I also had left over money and this was when I decided to get braces. I remember asking my dad if I should get them and he said were will you get the money from. I never told him I had been saving.
He smokes cigarettes and never brushes his teeth and had teeth falling out due to his bad oral hygiene. He got jealous when I got braces.
A few days ago, it’s been about 12 years now since I had my first job and incident occurred he hands his phone over and wants me to request paperwork from Edd so we can continue to get housing benefits.. I’m on the phone talking to this girl about my living situation and told her that I’ve been stagnant and in the same position I was when my brother died because even if I get a job after I graduated with 2 degrees, it would interfere with how my dad gets benefits from welfare or low income housing.
This I don’t understand because my whole entire life, it felt as if I’m trapped here with my parents that won’t me work..
I’m 31 years of age, super traumatized by my parents and have ptsd from what happened to me. This is why me and my dad never really talked.
Now I’m 31 years old, with 2 degrees and just confused and disappointed because how am I supposed to leave the nest if my parents won’t let me work while living with them due to our shitty situation where my dad doesn’t make enough money and we have to ask for government assistance to cover rent..??
I also got my wisdom teeth removed sometime in September and it was one of the dumbest decisions I’ve ever done, I have braces but never trusted the process and went and got my wisdoms out simply because my insurance covered it..
Each day I’ve been regretting life and thinking about what I could’ve done different instead of removing two healthy teeth that I was eating or chewing with. On top of that, I’m in about 3-4k debt but won’t have any money to pay it off because I lost leverage trying to make capital tons off my scholarship money.
My teeth are bad again, my confidence is super low and I’m balding now, and I hate my dad.
It’s been months now, I don’t even wash my clothes anymore and have been neglecting my oral health due to depression. I’m in debt, parents won’t let me work.. and been suicidal everyday due to removing healthy wisdom teeth that I used to eat with.. I still have my bottom 2 and each day when I brush my teeth and eat I’m reminded by my dumb decision.
Not only has my bite and teeth feel weird but my right sinus has closed and nose/face have changed significantly because I keep losing bone where the teeth once were.
I lost ocular dominance, and the ability to breathe properly out of my right nose and I’m pretty sure it has caused me brain damage due to lack of oxygen. Before bed I have to hold my right nostril to the right in order to breathe properly.. I also have forward posture from tmj and symptoms of icr. Wisdom teeth removal creates jaw surgery and I’m afraid that I’ll need it in order to feel normal and breathe properly again..
Past 2-4 months I’ve been in the er twice and they dismissed me saying that I have anxiety and never reallly helped me and idk if I can take it anymore.
I’m losing hair, lost 2 functional teeth that I thought I didn’t need.. my mouth has gotten smaller, lips have changed and become super weird. Things I used to enjoy like smoking weed,eating and drinking doesn’t feel the same. I’m numb to everything and this is. Dry dangerous because what I used to do for fun, I can no longer do.
I miss singing, smoking weed and having a good nights sleep or rest without any complications. I know that there’s nothing I can do to get my wisdom teeth. and it’s why I been feeling suicidal everyday… I’m no longer happy, no longer leave the house and my parents don’t even talk to me Anymore because they don’t believe my complications.
This is too stressful and I’m in pain and just wanna end it all but don’t wanna leave my family with another dead son. But the way things are going I know that if I do suicide, they will try and tell everyone that I’m crazy and make it about them and pretend that they loved me. I feel dead because I have no reason to live anymore and I just want my teeth back..

Hey guys! I got this 2 page doc that my employer wants me to sign in my exit interview:

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It's rather quick turnaround (tomorrow afternoon, not sure why it's being done tomorrow this early) so I feel a bit pressured and it seems rather quick. I want to push back on 1 of the 3 points outlined above because the basis of that work was originally my thesis in grad school. And what they wrote was so broad..
Is this even legal in the state of California? Would appreciate any thoughts on this. Industry is aerospace and I am an electrical and materials science engineer. Thanks!!

I’m an incoming transfer student coming to sfsu in the fall, and I was wondering after the cost of tuition, classes and housing, how much money would I have left over? The reason why I’m asking is because San Francisco is really expensive and I would like to have income since I plan on not working for the first semester. I’m a California resident and I’m 26 years old, which makes me an independent student. I’ve considered looking into private student loans, but I’d like to exhaust all my options before doing that. My award letter says I’m eligible for $25,979 for the school year. If anyone has some insight or experience with financial aid at SFSU, I’m curious to hear about it.

I have made poor choices. I graduated with my B.S in Public Policy in May 2022 from a prestigious university (11.4% acceptance rate) full-ride. I decided to pursue my Masters of Health Administration and I started courses during my junior year of undergrad (university has a progressive degree program) this allowed me to only have to take out $5k in loans due to financial aid covering my grad courses during undergrad, 20k outside scholarship and half tuition scholarship with my expected graduation date being May 2023.
I got my first full-time job as a project coordinator at a clinic in Feb 2023 making me a full-time employee and full-time grad student. I had to report to the CEO who was a micromanager, made me feel incompetent, created a hostile environment and made rude comments. I was super stressed trying to balance everything out and I ended up getting a C- in stats (had to get a C to pass) so I had to retake the class making me take out another 5k in loans (10k in total) and pushing my graduation date.
I ended up getting fired from my job on Nov 2023 (9 months after) due to “not meeting expectations” and I grew to hate project management making me super sad during class and finals. Thankfully, I ended up passing stats and received my diploma in Dec 2023. I started looking for jobs and got some interviews here and there. I ended up getting an interview for a Project Specialist-Administrative position at the university’s hospital which I was excited about bc not only is it super relevant to my degree but this department provides health services to the homeless and I’m passionate about community health even tho idk if I even like project management but the skills seemed very beneficial long term. I did great in the interview and they moved me to the second round. For some dumb reason, I lied about still working at the clinic on my resume, interview and in conversation. I then realized many organizations do background screens and employement verification (Yes ik I’m dumb but I had never gotten a background screen done before so I didn’t know). During this time, I got another interview for a Resource Coordinator - Case Management at another hospital (Provides clerical support for Case Management team, assisting team with problem solving and facilitating inpatient and post hospitalization care)
I ended up getting an offer for the PS job ($29.44) and the RC job ($27 & $41 overtime). I ended up passing the background screen for RC job bc I didn’t lie about the dates but was nervous for the PS job. In the PS offer letter it stated that if there is any inaccuracy between the application and background screen they may rescind the offer so I ended up declining their offer due to fear of ruining my reputation or getting blacklisted. I’m so sad rn bc they probably would’ve still hired me with my real dates. Also, the PS job is bachelors required , masters preferred and has tasks that are high level while the RC job is high school required and doesn’t seem like someone w an MHA would do due to it being entry level. So I feel like I’m falling behind. I feel like my life is over at 24. I don’t even know what to do anymore. I guess I’ll try to stay at the RC job for at least 1 year and a half to show longevity but I’ll be 25 by the time and still at an entry level job with a Masters. Thank you for reading my rant, I suggest to learn from my mistakes even tho I’m probably the only person this would happen to bc I’m dumb 😭

Howdy Community,
Instead of explaining the situation completely. Please ask if you would like a more complete rundown, SO I THOUGHT BEFORE STARTING ON THIS QUESTION,; honestly there is more.
If TLDR, please read and answer the off-set question at the bottom and mark by TLDR. Thank you in advance for those who did read. Peace, Love, and Harmony!
There are a lot of details including full use of the attendance process, DCYF, home-visits, police department, Behavioral Health Team (which includes a LMHC), and honestly positive peeadult connections at the school. Incentives for getting on the bus and being at school for even 2 days in a row (which gets for reasons despite our school being an all-walking school), coaching the parent about routines and establishing boundaries, and others I cannot remember (2 year on-going issue) have not worked. We have showered them with resources, which they have taken advantage of (and not, any follow through with work on their end results in nothing) such as any work we have provided for them to do has resulted no action on their part unless it is providing a gas or food card. The student has lost Learning Assistance Program (LAP) services due to the lack of attendance, which should have been dropped long ago due to attendance, but the patience and great connection between that teacher and the student kept the student rostered. (Please keep in mind that multiple CPS reports have been filed.)
With those things in mind, I work in a silo as an elementary school counselor (my reaching out to my colleagues in other schools is not a resounding "yes" or "no" and feeling within the ASCA ethics is not addressed.)
There are more details, but SUBSTANCE ABUSE is STRONGLY SUSPECTED with great reason: sores on the face; reported by a parent of substance use in the school parking lot (with good description of the vehicle) which the parent unexpectedly had to come into the office to talk with us (no one suspected the parent of being under the influence at the time); this was the first encounter with the parent to talk about attendance, which dropped off significantly despite above interventions; blaming of lack of attendance on (abuse of parent as a child, sexual abuse from the step-brother [(another child to be mentioned later), the abuse has never been mentioned by the student to the LMHC who has a good rapport with the student nor me] importantly that step-brother is no longer in the household and has been moved across the country] *side note* I believe it, but I would like the student to admit to me (a male) or the LMHC (a female). She is very talkative guarded about what goes on at home except she does not have to listen to her grandparents (according to the student, not the parents). Parents leave her with grandparents (TRYING to move across country for at least 2 years; I meant to keep that part out.) with whom the parents don't get along (they leave in the middle of day and it is questionable when they are home; they have mentioned "squatters rights"; I have scrambled each summer to help set the parents up with different housing, but not follow through.), the above said "brother-in-law" moved across country to live (?, with ?) because the police were involved when he provided narcotics to another similar aged peer (both were in middle school); her younger sister was on my radar, so learned of it. My question on that: where did he get the narcotics as a MS student?
If you read the whole thing, THANK YOU VERY MUCH! you will be better well informed to answer the question.
With the ambiguity of the ASCA ethics, the lack of action with DCYF, the lack of cause of the police department, lack of follow through and excuses of the parent, and the inadequacy of our attendance policy (parents didn't but I did show up to an Community Engagement Board;
IS IT ETHICAL AND JUSTIFIED (I think it is justified due to the above) TO DIRECTLY CALL OUT AND ADDRESS SUBSTSANCE ABUSE BY THE PARENTS IN A MEETING?
-Edited above for clarity, and forgot to mention mom is now pregnant (no job by either, "about" to lose housing, and still blaming my student.
Thank you for reading. I nor any colleague have any idea what to do. This is not the only student in this type of situation.
PEACE, LOVE, & HARMONY and may you have a GLORIOUS DAY!

Being vague to not dox
Texas resident + Asian male + first gen
Major: CS for public schools. Data science (Stats/applied math if not offered)/Cognitive Science/Econ for private schools
Academics:
GPA: 4.5/4.0 weighted, 3.98/4.0 unweighted Rank: 1/~600 SAT: Haven’t taken yet but most likely 1500+ with 800M

• 16 APs, 3 dual credit

3 sophomore - AP physics 1 (5), AP Psychology (5), AP world history (4)
8 junior - AP Pre-calculus, AP English language, AP biology, AP statistics, AP computer science principles, AP physics c mechanics, AP physics c electricity & magnetism, Dual credit US history
2 junior summer - Dual credit speech, Dual credit federal government
6 senior - AP English literature, AP economics, AP calculus BC, Academic decathlon, AP physics 2, AP art History
ECs:
Prestigious summer program (11th, summer) Accepted into a very well known summer program that I will attend this summer Won’t say the name, but think the level of MITES, SSP, YGS, etc
Research at local university, advised under lecturer Research project on some data CS topic.. Trying really hard to get a paper published before college apps
AI/Data Science Intern at Local University (Internship, 11th, 12th) Worked under Senior Ph.D Student and assisted with existing projects and subtasks. Examples include building/training ML models
Passion Project () (Other, 10th, 11th, 12th) Self taught programming and created project that integrates cognitive science and CS. Will probably submit it to science fairs and stuff
Mu Alpha Theta 3 years President (10th, 11th, 12th) (Science/Math) Participated in math competitions and helped organize meetings to make members stay active
Robotics club 11th-12th Competition Manager (Robotics) Lead programmer for VEX robotics; Conducted workshops to make curriculums that help members and the officer board learn about robotics
Tutoring at nonprofits (11th, 12th) Assisted with friend’s non-profit by conducting workshops and teaching STEM concepts Helped build a curriculum for a summer camp for a different, student led non-profit Tutoring officer in school club that aims to help students with certain subjects
Karate club 7 years Captain (9th-12th) (Athletics: Club) Did this since middle school; Current black belt that will help create parts for martial arts performance. Obtained multiple awards throughout the year
Academy program (Math/Science, 9th-10th) Accepted out of a competitive applicant pool; Attended meetings that consisted of reputable guest speakers (doctors, JHU admissions officers, Yale/Harvard alumni) and took notes. Also have 100 hours of volunteering through this club
Financial Investment club (10th), President Founder of a financial club to educate about finance. Executed an annual stock market game for the school
Awards/Honors (weakest point): USACO Silver Division (National) Academic Excellence (School Award) PSAT national merit (National) AP Scholar with Distinction (National) AP Scholar (National)
UT austin: EA (CS/CSB/Turings)
Rice: RD
Texas A&M: RD (CS/ECE)
Georgia Tech: RD
Vanderbilt: RD
UCLA: RD
Caltech: RD
UCB: RD
Cornell: RD
Columbia: RD
Carnegie Mellon: RD
MIT: RD
Stanford: RD
Yale: RD
Princeton: RD
Harvard: RD
Brown: RD
Duke: RD
John Hopkins: RD
UPenn: RD
Do I have a chance of hitting something beyond UT, like a T15 school? It’s been lowkey a dream for me lately. Ik my awards aren’t the best, so I’ll try to improve them by December

Dear daughter,
I’m writing because I have asked if I can adopt you and you have stopped speaking to me. I’d like to tell you about the previous times I have attempted to adopt you.
When your mom and I were engaged we had several discussions about having me adopt you, and I was so excited to be your dad. She reasserted several times that I would have to adopt you if I wanted to marry her, implying somehow that I might not want to, and I reassured her repeatedly that I did want to. I did want to. But that did not happen.
Several times in the first year I asked if we could move things forward with the adoption and the general responses from your mom were that the paperwork we needed was in our home town and she would need to visit some government offices there for the documents. She promised that she would get it worked out the next time she visited. That did not happen.
In the second year we moved back to our home town, and I asked if we could get the adoption completed again. We were behind on our finances and your mom told me that we would need a lawyer and couldn’t afford it. I felt like we could if we made it a priority, but your mom was in charge of our finances at the time. And it did not happen.
In years three and four we went to marriage counseling and decided to have a baby. In therapy I asked why we hadn’t done the adoption yet. I asked if I could try to get the documents together. I pressed harder for a real answer than I had before. I overcame three or four objections in the course of several months.
We didn’t have the money. We do now though.
I’ve been busy with everything. I can do it.
It’s like you don’t trust me to do it. Ok, then you do it.
Why’s it so important now? It doesn’t make you not her dad. It’s just paperwork. It’s important to me.
This wasn’t a quick conversation. It took months of arguing over and talking through these issues. It took working through tangent problems when we had started talking about this one. I called a few lawyers for information which made her mad for some reason I didn’t grasp. After a time I unearthed the reason that stuck.
We’ll have to post a public notice and what if her biological dad wants to come after her?
I felt like it was worth that risk. Your mom never said no. She needed to think about it. I guess she’s still thinking about it. I accepted that this wasn’t something I could do unless your mom wanted to, and your mom didn’t want to. I waited for her to feel like it was safe. I gently inquired occasionally, and your mom would gently brush it off.
After a few more years and skipping some major events in our relationship we found ourselves in therapy again. Your mom asked why I had never adopted you after so long. She was mad about it. She was sad that you were asking why our names are different and other people have the same name. She sounded incredulous that I had done this. I was confused. I reassured her that I do want to adopt you. I’m ready to sign whatever I need to. I was excited.
She went to research what we needed to do and came back with information that there was some sort of clerical error with our records that we would have to fix first but it was no big deal. I would need to sign some things to verify our marriage documents with the state since we had moved away right after getting married. I got updates for a few weeks on how the progress was going. After a month or so I began asking what we needed to do next. She told me that she had sent the paperwork in. She hadn’t.
I did the best I could to be your dad while I waited on your mom to be ready, and I tried to reassure you that I would always be your dad no matter what. I wish I could have told you that I wanted to adopt you very much, but I didn’t want to tell you that your mom hadn’t let me. I didn’t know another answer to tell a young girl that would still be true.
Again I waited for some years only asking occasionally. Again we ended up in therapy. Again we began to talk about adoption. Your mom was still worried about the requirement to file a public notice somewhere before the adoption could be completed. The therapist mentioned that these notices weren’t in particularly well read places where anyone would notice unless they were really looking for it. I argued that you were old enough at this point that maybe it didn’t matter that much if he did want to have some contact. It would take time for him to get it anyway. Those arguments didn’t seem to be incredibly compelling to your mom. She didn’t say no. She needed to think about it. I guess she’s still thinking about it.
I want you to know that this wasn’t the main source of conflict in our therapy or in our marriage. It didn’t have anything to do with our separation. It’s just the issue that I’m focusing on in this letter. For better or worse, both of us knew exactly where this issue stood. We were largely in agreement about it. If your mom wanted to let me adopt you, she would. And if she didn’t, she wouldn’t. I believed at the time that this was normal. I patiently waited for her to realize that I loved you and that I loved her and that I deserved to be your dad.
That patience was a mistake. Allowing fear to control our lives was a mistake. This dynamic wasn’t normal, and I shouldn’t have accepted it. It gave your mom absolute and total control over every parenting decision. It served as a threat to me if I didn’t fall in line. It hurt you and normalized family dynamics that will require therapy for you to recognize as abusive. I should have accepted nothing less than equal parenting rights to stay married, and I should have drawn the line in year one. You deserved to have a father who was fully empowered to be your parent, one who’s promises were backed by signed documents and not just good intentions, and one who was ready to protect you - even if it was from your mother. You didn’t get that. I’m sorry.
When we agreed to get divorced we had already been separated for some time. Your mom asked if I wanted to adopt you. I said that I did, but my lawyer told me that the judge wouldn’t approve it if we were separated - and he would know that we were separated because we had separate addresses. Your mom gestured some visible disgust. I couldn’t tell if it was because she thought I was lying to get out of it or because she thought I was trying to force her to move in together, but I was just relaying what I had been told. Your mom had long since began inventing motives for my words and actions that were wildly different from how I saw myself. I had long since stopped trying to convince her that she was wrong. I’ve yet to lie to your mom or try to manipulate her. I told her that if her lawyer thought something different, then I would really like to see if there’s a way that I could do the adoption. I never heard a response on that.
After the divorce was finalized, I asked your mom if we could find a way for me to adopt you. I wasn’t sure if that was going to be more difficult now that we weren’t married, but I asked for your mom’s cooperation. She was not willing to talk about it, and I asked to understand why. Eventually I was led to the understanding that she didn’t want my income to show up on your college forms or she would have to pay more in tuition. This was phrased along the lines of me trying to threaten your financial well-being. It was insinuated that she would be willing to talk about it if I paid for all of the tuition at whichever school was chosen. And after conveying that information she no longer responded on the subject. For whatever it’s worth, your mom and I left our divorce with the same amount of money. It’s my current understanding that only one parent’s income is reported to FASFA when the parents are divorced.
So, after you turned twenty, I asked YOU if I could adopt you. I realized that this should be your choice at this age. I researched what the process would be for an adult adoption and it is much, much simpler. I spoke with an attorney to make sure that this would not affect your mom’s rights in any way, and I was assured that it wouldn’t. I asked if it would affect your rights in any way, and I was assured that it wouldn’t. It may not feel like it yet, but you are an adult now. You don’t need either of our permission to do whatever you decide in life. I ask that you speak with the lawyers, therapists, financial aid, or whoever you need to — to understand the decision for yourself.
I realize that this information and perhaps this choice has come many years too late. I have been incredibly and very deeply hurt by your mother’s choices, and I didn’t talk about this hurt because I didn’t want to taint the view you had of your mom. I realize now that I was over cautious in how long I maintained this silence, because silence is what allows cycles of generational trauma to continue. We should have been able to have meaningful conversations about our experiences before now, and we haven’t.
You’re not required to say yes for me to continue to be your dad, and I will always love you no matter what difficult feelings and conversations this may bring.
I love you,
Dad