I realized that as long as I’m still in love with my ex there’s no point in even trying to date casually. I’m not going to be able to have a connection with anyone else. The stupid thing is he wants to get back together and I refused because I’m scared he’s going to leave again. I’m just stuck in my mind right now.

Considering the huge boom that SFTD had, with it being the breakout album of the band, even having Dave Grohl, who was a deity at the time, it was gonna be tough to follow. Josh himself said he could have easily made SFTD 2 but he refused to.
Whereas SFTD is a non stop rock barn burner (except for Mosquito Song), Lullabies is a much more restrained and experimental record. There are still rockers, but it's clear Josh went into a completely different direction, and the band would get more experimental after that (Although they did SO with Rated R before).
For those who were fans of QOTSA at the time, what was your reaction upon listening to LTP? Did you like the new direction the album oferred? Or were you expecting SFTD 2?

First I want to apologize for the long post that you're about to read but I'm really losing my sanity at this point.
I (f 21) was dating a guy (20) for about two months, he was a virgin and I was his first ever , everything was going so so well , we are very compatible and I really liked him a lot and still do like him , he also liked me a lot , until..
Before we had sex for the first and last time ever he had talked to me about STDs and I told him that he has nothing to worry about because I have never had an STD , so two weeks later we have unprotected sex , and it was really really good , ten days later he started experiencing some symptoms like a burning sensation when he pees , white or clear discharge, his penis was red and swollen, and he was going crazy and he was very very anxious and scared (rightfully so) he went to a doctor and the doctor told him that it's probably gonorrhea and he told him to start with the medication that he prescribed to him after he got a test , the test came back negative, and I also did all the STDs tests and all of them came back negative as well . (For the record we are syrians and we live in syria , so we are very tight on money and the whole process of going to doctors and taking all the std tests was very dangerous because any kind of sexual activity before marriage is not okay here) .
This guy is now convinced that I gave him something and he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, and he keeps calling me reckless (which I know I am I was diagnosed with BPD 5 years ago but my parents refused to believe it and didn't get me medication or treatment) .
My problem is that I was also too ignorant to believe it (because mental health is not really a thing in Syria) and now I feel like I desperately want him to stay in my life because I didn't do anything wrong, and I feel like my world is collapsing, and I know that I need to go to therapy and get treatment but I don't have any money, therapy is very expensive here and I don't know how to cope anymore, I truly saw something in him , and I feel like shit for losing him as a friend and as a lover , I didn't want things to go that way at all , and I don't know what to do.

I’m one of the only people on a 5 truck pull with around 1300 pieces and others are on 3 trucks..my lights are constantly on and yet I still get no help. Do I just stop caring and work at my own pace instead of trying to keep up?

I've been investing in real estate for over five years, consistently seeing reasonable returns. I always reinvest most of my earnings, keeping the momentum going. Although I'm not the best storyteller, I'll do my best to explain how I diversified my investments.
About a year ago, a lady responded to a Reddit post on my old account and introduced me to exchange rate investing. The concept intrigued me. Essentially, instead of doubling your money by investing domestically, you invest in companies in developing countries, where the potential returns can be significantly higher. You can also negotiate better terms.
Following her advice, I decided to invest $20,000 in a promising tech company based in South Africa. Given the exchange rate, my investment translated to approximately R300,000 ZAR. I was able to negotiate a deal that pays me $10,000 per month for 32 months. The company, led by an ambitious 18-year-old entrepreneur, showed immense potential. He had been developing his business idea since he was 16, and his presentation during our Zoom meeting was impressive. We still keep in touch occasionally.
May marks the 13th payment I've received from this investment, and the returns have been consistently rewarding. This approach is reminiscent of how prominent figures like Bill Gates fund innovative companies in Africa, recognizing the region's potential and talent.
To get started with such investments, you typically need a minimum of $1,000, or about 18,000 ZAR. Encouraged by my success, I expanded my portfolio and invested in ten other companies with significant potential. Recently, my financial advisor informed me that, after taxes, I've made $10 million from these investments. (Real estate and companies in South Africa.)
Now, I'm contemplating whether to share this news with my family and how best to celebrate this achievement. Any suggestions?
To the reddit lady, thank you! I lost my old account.

TLdR; What Os/Environment Setup do you use for BBH for feeling safe?
Hi, I just got going on hackerone and I was wondering if there is a best practice for setting up your hacking environment. I am asking this mainly because of safety concerns. Up to now I am using a Kali Linux VM which is set up with all my tools and I reset it back to a snapshot after every use for maximum safety. But I have to say I am starting to get annoyed because its quite slow and that makes it less fun for me.
What is your environment? Are you just hacking on your main system, OS?
What am I scared of? Well, I'm still a beginner, so I don't really know. But if you're doing programs, are you not potentially exposing your IP address to A. the company and B. to other hackers doing the same program? This could make you a target, right? Please correct me if this is a stupid thought.
Thanks in advance for the answers :). If this question has been already asked feel free to redirect me.

Do ankys still spawn in the redwoods on the island? I ask because I hung around there for just about an hour to tame one, didn't see 1.

As I completed the zipline and equiped it so i can get to the mayors office I went to ride it and the game stopped responding. I closed and reopened the game but it still did the same . I also tried to load to an earlier save and still the same . Anyone have a Fix?

So my 40 year old mom is a stay at home mom and has been ever since I was born. They are now divorsed but she still lives off of his money. She refuses to find a job and keeps finding these excuses, for example the fact that she is sick or that she has to take care of me. She is sick and it is true that we cant afford treatment, but that can't stop her from finding a job because I'ts proven she still has the energy to do so. Every day, manual jobs around the house, gets into arguments with me, and redacts essays targeted to my dad expressinng how much she hates him. I also know that it is not because of me that she cant work, since my dad works and isnt bothered when I'm with him. I really respect him, my dad, since he is the one who gives us food to eat and a roof over our heads. He does have anger issues and can be really scary at times, but no one is perfect. Even as I'm typing this he told me that he's trying to get us money from a client. What I'm trying to say is that my mom's not working and we've had this conversation a couple of times but it never works out.. What do I tell her? Are there any mom's reading this that might have been/are in the same situation? If anyone has anything to share, please do so. I don't hate her or anything, but right now, I feel that if she doesn't start getting her shit together, she'll really start losing my respect. Feel free to ask questions (first time using this app so I don't really know how it works) I'm 15 by the way.

hi reddit, mtf here on hormones for a few years and I'm pretty scared.
I ran out of cypro, my T blocker, yesterday and the brand recently stopped making it. I tried telling my endo about it a week ago but he didn't answer my emails, and when I tried calling yesterday and today it's always outside of the hours. Now he's closed until monday and I'm out of blockers. I still have estradiol though.
Should I call their emergency number (not even sure they can do anything), or can I wait? If I wait it will be 4 days without it, assuming I get a prescription the day of. I thought about going to the pharmacy asking for a replacement but I doubt they can do anything either.
Does anyone have experience stopping blockers for a short amount of time? I sometimes forget a day or two but never that long..

Hi there,
I am trying to enable Bulgarian and English to work on Cosmic, however shortcut never seems to work. In the settings everything is the same, however whatever I press it still doesn't seem to work.
I can't even understand if it is supposed to be only left_alt for switching. I want to make it left_alt + shift.
Here are my settings:
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rules: "",
model: "",
layout: "us,bg",
variant: ",phonetic",
options: Some(",lv3:lalt_switch,compose:rwin"),
)
Thanks upfront.

Gusto ko (25M) lang mag-share nang nararamdaman ko ngayon kasi after ng period ng intership namin, na-block niya (24F) din ako. Finally! Matagal ko nang inaasam-asam 'to. Tahimik na uli ang buhay ko at masaya ako kaysa naman nasa relasyon ako na 'di ako masaya at napilitan lang dahil sa pressure na natanggap ko mula sa mga katrabaho niya.
Una, kaya ko lamang pinilit ang sarili ko na papasukin siya sa buhay ko kasi nasa isip ko na what if makaapekto ito sa performance grade ko sa trabaho kaya kahit immature pa 'yong feelings, nag-risk na agad ako sa kanya. Ito din kasi ang mali sa'kin e: 'di ko talaga siya gusto pero pinilit ko ang sarili ko na magustuhan siya kasi baka naman may good side ako na makita sa kanya. And boy oh boy, sobrang red flag niya para sa standards ko.
Pero huli na. Every day, pinipilit ko na maging optimistic sa trabaho kahit na pakiramdam ko naglalakad ako sa eggshells o kaya isang maling tapak ko, katapusan ko na. Kaya sa loob ng 75 days ng internship ko, laging kalkulado ang mga galaw ko. Bawat kilos ko, may nakahanda nang Plan B kung hindi gumana ang first plan ko sa araw na 'yon. Kapag kakausapin ko siya, lagi ko na lang response ay either tatango lang ako, ngingiti, minimal default response o kaya titingnan ko lang siya sa mata para magtino siya at kumalma 'yang kiffy niya sa kilig. Sa sobrang OA niya, naririndi na ako kapag kasama niya ang mga katrabaho niya pero sobra naman niyang seryoso at 'di makausap kapag ako kasama niya. Kahit sa mga chats, sobrang tipid mo na hindi ko mabasa kong interested ka ba talaga sa'kin o ano. Like, pinaglalaruan niya lang ba ako at kinukwento 'yong nagiging experience niya sa mga best friends niya? Kaya hirap na hirap akong ibigay 'yong tiwala ko kasi once na maging open ako sa'yo, for sure ikukwento mo lang 'yan at pagtatawanan, just like how my superiors always do sa mga kasamahan nila sa 'di nila gusto.
Kaya, araw-araw nag-iisip ako ng reason na pwedeng makasira sa "nabubuong relasyon" na 'to kasi 'di na ako natutuwa pero kailangang ipagpatuloy para sa magiging grado ko sa ojt. Hanggang sa may balita na may nagrereto na sa'yo kaya I took the chance na i-ghost kita kasi for sure, ma-tu-turn off ka na sa'kin kapag ginawa ko 'yon. No talks, no connection for almost one month at akala ko okay na 'yon. Pero damn, matibay ka talagang hinayupak ka at mas pinili mo pang sindihan uli 'yong apoy na binasa ko na ng tubig.
For the second time at sa kadahilanan na hindi pa din tapos ang internship namin (nangangalahati na kami) kaya napilitan na uli akong pagbigyan siya kasi still, baka makaapekto uli ito sa grade ko. This time, binale-wala ko na standards ko sa isang babae kasi baka mababago niya 'yon para sa'kin. Pero tangina, para ko na ding pinaparusahan ang sarili ko. Gusto ko na lang umiyak kasi 'di ko talaga makita 'yong connection na hinahanap ko sa kanya. Sobra ko nang kinakawawa at sinisira 'yong puso, insanity, at peace of mind ko na iningatan ko ng madaming taon para sa babae na 'to. Grabe, para na akong baliw kakaisip sa babae na 'to. 'Di ko na alam ang gagawin ko talaga kaya go with the flow na lang ako kasi 'yon na lang talaga natitirang options ko.
Hanggang sa nagkaroon tayo ng misunderstanding sa last day ng ojt namin kaya no'ng araw na bunalik kami for oir very very last day na makikita niya ako, binigyan ko siya ng letter kung saan binuhos at sinabi ko lahat ng mga bagay na gusto kong sabihin sa kanya. Nakaabot ako ng 5 pages sa pagsusulat ng liham na 'yon na inabot pa ako ng almost midnight. Parang nagsulat na din ako ng essay no'n on how to break someone's heart HAHAHAHAHA Actually, nilalaman lang naman ng sulat ko 'yong pagiging totoo ko kaya ngayon, ni-stalk ko pangalan niya sa fb at blocked na niya ako.
Sa wakas, binasa niya din 'yong mensahe ko sa kanya kasi nalaman ko na 'di pala siya nagbabasa ng message sa pm (sayang pa naman 'yong long message ko sa kanya. Kung nabasa niya 'yon, EDI SANA WALA NANG SECOND CHANCE). Kaya, please 'wag niyo akong i-judge kasi sa'kin, niligtas ko lang ang sarili ko sa kanya kasi 'di talaga genuine 'yong magiging relasyon namin kung sakali na maging kami.
Salamat sa pagbabasa. 🙂
P.S. At kung iibig man ako, gusto ko masaya ako at masaya siya, masarap kausap, interesado sa isa't isa, at may connection na hindi pilit o may kasamang pressure. Aware naman ako sa ginawa ko at HINDING-HINDI KO NA GAGAWIN 'YON. MAGIGING HONEST, STRAIGHTFORWARD, AT STRICT NA AKO SA'KING BOUNDARIES sa magiging relationship ko (at hard pass na sa isang OA).

If anyone just arrived here and think they can learn about personal finance and get useful advice from this sub, my only advice is to leave this sub and don't even look back. This sub is simply an echo chamber of people echoing useless, low impactful, financial advice.
If getting out of the rat race is your goal (ie: not spending the best 40 years of your life in 9-5 work, waste 1~2 hours in commute everyday, have absolute no chance to retire early and enjoy your life while you are physically capable), then you need to stop follow 90% dumb advice from this sub.
Take a look at the T1(RM10,960+)/T2(RM15,039+) of T20 threshold in our country, look at Credit Suisse and UBS global wealth report, or check out World Inequality Database, you will find that the net worth threshold to get into Malaysia 1% is merely RM1.5~2mil, that amount can't even get you into 10% of US and 99% Malaysian don't even have that.
What I'm trying to say with above paragraph is, asking for any financial advice here is like asking another guy that struggle as much as most 99% Malaysian do, and expect them to give you a million dollar financial advices.
Most people here don't even have ways to improve their income, they don't even have the wealth for them to learn about managing their finance, 99% of the advices here are dumb with zero financial sense, it's joke for anyone that had proper degree in finance.
90% of the people here don't even know how to explain the logic behind diversification and thought putting some money here and there is call diversified.
Anyway, here's an advice from the T0.1% to you all, stop listening to the parrots here that only know how to echo dumb advices, go look for some proper finance education which many are free anyway, learn the real underlying logic behind every finance decision, and if you want to discuss finance, go discuss with people that are having foundation in finance, don't discuss with 99% Malaysian that are still struggling here.
(There's an exception, if your life ambition is to work until 60, living with EPF dividend and enjoying the gradual downgrade in quality of life due to weakening purchasing power of our currency, then yeah take advice from here.)
Alright B40M40T20, send me your downvotes now!

I've just found this website that contains a lot of useful information not just about Marth but melee in general. I was wondering if it's still getting updated because it might be the best website on the internet haha

We met in the uni and despite we are not studying in the same class, we have a same group of friends, so that's how we met and fall in love to each other. ( that's also a consideration for me to ask for a breakup because we have a same group of friend and it probably will be hard for us to hangout with our friends after our breakup)
The reason i don't feel love anymore in our relationships:

1. He is a normal guy, before he met me, he likes to play computer games, coding and read manga, quite a boring guy for me. I like to socialize with people and hangout with friends, participating in uni activities, so actually im always the one who bring him to meet my friends and socialize, i feel like he dont have his own social circle and never bring me to his friend at all.

2.he is just too boring, im always the one who keep non-stop talking in our relationships, im a talkative person but sometimes when im not in a mood to talk or something i just hope that he could be the one that can at least lead the atmosphere for a bit, or at least think of a topic

1. im always the one who plan for our dates. i told him im abit annoyed by this before, he tried it once , but screwed up our dates, and kinda disappointed me deep inside my mind but i still keep it in my heart and try to comfort and encourage him, but since that he gave up on planning our dates
   
2. he cant provide me any emotional support, and even will give me negative effects sometimes due to his negativities and low self-esteem. I need to get positive energy when i hangout with my friends, and when im with him too long, i feel like im drained.
   

5.he cant even do anything when im sick, which disappointed me the most. His body his bit weak, which im acceptable to it, and when he's sick, i'll always do my best like walk to a pharmacy 1km far away to buy medicines for him, buy food for him, help him massage, etc but when the ridiculous part is when im sick his only respond is just im uncomfortable too/ rest well babe, im really pissed of his attitude

1. NO CHANGES. I already told him all the things im annoyed above, his excuses is always he tried already, but he's just dumb or born to be a boring person, but i really don't see his changes at all
   
2. The most ridiculous part is : he talked to me about his ex. this is literally a red flag for me. im a person who never been in a relationships, he is my FIRST, so his ex is always been a torn in my heart and i know i will be uncomfortable with it so i never ask about the details when they were dating, but one random day, he just talked to me about the details when they were dating , this makes me so uncomfortable
   

8.HE LIED. after the no7, i confronted him one day and told him im damn uncomfortable after he told me about the story. he then told me that actually the whole story is kinda made up, he never actually really dated the girl before, they are more like in a situationship that time. That makes me feel so weird.

1. THE LAST. He still following the girl's social media, which makes me feel so confused. but the weird part is he blocked the girl and just only he can see the girl status, this makes me feel weird, and im gonna tell him ASAP. the saddest part is his mom and the gurl even still following each other....

WHAT SHOULD I DOOOO GUYSSSS....

Maintaining optimal oral hygiene is essential for overall health, as poor oral hygiene can lead to various dental problems, such as cavities, gum disease, and bad breath. Two of the most commonly recommended tools for interdental cleaning are dental floss and interdental picks. While both are effective in their own right, each has distinct advantages and disadvantages. This essay delves into the comparative analysis of flossing and using interdental picks to determine which is superior for achieving optimal oral hygiene.

Dental Floss: The Traditional Choice

Dental floss has been a staple in oral hygiene for decades. It consists of a thin, flexible strand of nylon or Teflon that can be inserted between the teeth to remove plaque and food particles.

Advantages of Flossing

1. Effectiveness: Flossing is highly effective at removing debris from tight spaces between the teeth that toothbrushes cannot reach. This is crucial for preventing plaque buildup, which can lead to tooth decay and gum disease.
2. Versatility: Dental floss can be used between any two teeth, regardless of their position or the spacing between them. This versatility makes it an excellent choice for individuals with varying dental structures.
3. Comprehensive Cleaning: Flossing can effectively clean the entire interdental area, including the sides of the teeth and just below the gumline, where plaque tends to accumulate.
4. Cost-Effective: Dental floss is generally inexpensive and widely available. It is a cost-effective solution for maintaining oral hygiene on a daily basis.

Disadvantages of Flossing

1. Technique Sensitivity: Effective flossing requires proper technique. Incorrect flossing can lead to ineffective cleaning or even cause injury to the gums. Many individuals find flossing difficult to master and may not use it correctly.
2. Time-Consuming: Flossing can be time-consuming, especially for individuals with braces, bridges, or other dental appliances. This can discourage people from flossing regularly.
3. Dexterity Issues: People with limited dexterity, such as the elderly or those with arthritis, may find it challenging to maneuver dental floss properly.
4. Discomfort: Some individuals find flossing uncomfortable or painful, particularly if they have sensitive gums or teeth.

Interdental Picks: The Modern Alternative

Interdental picks, also known as dental picks or interproximal brushes, are small, brush-like tools designed to clean between the teeth. They come in various sizes and shapes to accommodate different interdental spaces.

Advantages of Interdental Picks

1. Ease of Use: Interdental picks are generally easier to use than dental floss, especially for individuals with limited dexterity. The brush-like design allows for easy insertion and manipulation between the teeth.
2. Comfort: Many people find interdental picks more comfortable to use than floss. The soft bristles can be less abrasive on the gums and more pleasant to use.
3. Effectiveness for Wider Spaces: For individuals with larger gaps between their teeth or those with periodontal disease that has caused gum recession, interdental picks can be more effective than floss. The brushes can cover a larger surface area and remove debris more efficiently.
4. Convenience: Interdental picks are convenient for on-the-go cleaning. They are portable and can be used without the need for a mirror or precise technique.

Disadvantages of Interdental Picks

1. Not Suitable for Tight Spaces: Interdental picks may not be effective for very tight spaces between the teeth. They can sometimes be too bulky to fit into narrow gaps, which limits their utility for individuals with closely spaced teeth.
2. Cost: High-quality interdental picks can be more expensive than dental floss. Additionally, they may need to be replaced more frequently, which can add to the cost over time.
3. Limited Reach: While interdental picks are effective for cleaning the sides of the teeth, they may not reach as far below the gumline as dental floss can. This could leave some plaque and debris in hard-to-reach areas.
4. Technique Sensitivity: Despite being easier to use than floss, improper use of interdental picks can still cause gum damage or fail to remove plaque effectively.

Comparative Analysis

To determine which tool is better for optimal oral hygiene, it is essential to consider various factors, including effectiveness, ease of use, comfort, cost, and individual dental needs.

Effectiveness

Both dental floss and interdental picks are effective at removing plaque and food particles from between the teeth. However, the effectiveness of each tool can vary depending on the individual's dental structure. For tight spaces, dental floss is generally more effective, as it can reach areas that interdental picks cannot. Conversely, for individuals with larger interdental spaces or gum recession, interdental picks may be more effective due to their ability to clean a larger surface area.

Ease of Use

Ease of use is a significant factor in maintaining consistent oral hygiene habits. Interdental picks are generally easier to use, especially for individuals with limited dexterity or those who find flossing challenging. The ease of insertion and manipulation of interdental picks makes them a more user-friendly option for many people.

Comfort

Comfort is another important consideration. Many individuals find interdental picks more comfortable to use than dental floss. The soft bristles of the picks can be gentler on the gums, reducing the discomfort associated with flossing. However, individuals with very tight spaces between their teeth may still find flossing more comfortable, as interdental picks may be too bulky.

Cost

Cost can be a determining factor for many people. Dental floss is generally less expensive than interdental picks, making it a more cost-effective option for daily use. However, the convenience and comfort of interdental picks may justify the higher cost for some individuals.

Individual Dental Needs

Ultimately, the choice between dental floss and interdental picks may come down to individual dental needs. People with tight interdental spaces, braces, or dental bridges may find flossing more effective. On the other hand, individuals with larger gaps between their teeth, gum recession, or limited dexterity may benefit more from using interdental picks.

Professional Recommendations

Dental professionals typically recommend a combination of tools for optimal oral hygiene. The American Dental Association (ADA) states that both dental floss and interdental picks can be effective when used correctly. They emphasize the importance of daily interdental cleaning, regardless of the tool used. The key is to find a method that fits the individual's needs and encourages consistent use.
For those unsure about which tool to use, a consultation with a dentist or dental hygienist can provide personalized recommendations. Dental professionals can assess the individual's oral health and recommend the most suitable tools and techniques for maintaining optimal oral hygiene.

Conclusion

Both dental floss and interdental picks have their unique advantages and disadvantages. Dental floss is highly effective for cleaning tight spaces and reaching below the gumline, but it requires proper technique and can be uncomfortable for some individuals. Interdental picks are easier to use, more comfortable, and effective for larger gaps, but they may not reach as deep as floss and can be more expensive.
Ultimately, the choice between floss and pick depends on individual preferences, dental structures, and specific oral health needs. A combination of both tools, along with regular dental check-ups and good brushing habits, is likely the best approach for achieving and maintaining optimal oral hygiene. Consistency is key, and finding a comfortable, effective method that encourages daily use will lead to the best outcomes for oral health.

When I launch the game it freezes at the loading screen and then the critical error text pops up then it says the game crashed I tried verifying the files restarting the computer updating my graphics drivers but still nothing can someone help its Ben like this for almost two weeks