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Windows 10(updated yesterday) 4gb ddr3 single stick 1333mhz(smth) ram An wd blue 1 tb ssd x 2 Pentium g2020 dual core cpu Integrated gpu 450w psu
I can still open 3 tabs on Firefox with bunch of extensions(ad blocker, video downloader, cookie blocker etc) Made 1080p video editing on filmora 9(bit of laggy) Can watch 1080p YouTube video Records screen in 1080p Played battlefield 4 back in 2020 at lowest settings (lagged like hell)
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2024.05.23 09:50 Judith_677 In Excel, Split Each Row of Text in Each Group and Calculate Intersection
Problem description & analysis:
Column A is the grouping column. Each group corresponds multiple rows that contain comma-separated texts in column B:
The task is to split each row of text in each group, calculate intersection of row of texts in each group and concatenate the result, and insert it to the first row in each group under column D:
Solution:
Use SPL XLL to enter the following formula:
group(~(1)) groups rows by column A; split()split each value of column B in each group; isect() calculates the intersection; concat()concatenates the result as a string; and pad() patches null values to align with column A.
esProc Desktop is FREE to download: http://www.scudata.com/download-Desktop
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Column A is the grouping column. Each group corresponds multiple rows that contain comma-separated texts in column B:
| 1 | 4,9,3,1,7 |
|---|---|
| 1 | 7,5,2,9,4 |
| 1 | 8,5,7,9 |
| 1 | 4,1,3,8,9,7 |
| 2 | 4,8,2 |
| 2 | 1,2,7,8 |
| 2 | 3,1,8,6 |
| 2 | 6,3,4,9,2,5,8 |
| 2 | 0,4,8,6,9 |
| 3 | 8,3,4,7,2 |
| 3 | 2,4,6,9,3 |
| 4 | 1,8,2,5 |
| 1 | 4,9,3,1,7 | 9,7 | |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | 7,5,2,9,4 | ||
| 1 | 8,5,7,9 | ||
| 1 | 4,1,3,8,9,7 | ||
| 2 | 4,8,2 | 8 | |
| 2 | 1,2,7,8 | ||
| 2 | 3,1,8,6 | ||
| 2 | 6,3,4,9,2,5,8 | ||
| 2 | 0,4,8,6,9 | ||
| 3 | 8,3,4,7,2 | 3,4,2 | |
| 3 | 2,4,6,9,3 | ||
| 4 | 1,8,2,5 | 1,8,2,5 |
Use SPL XLL to enter the following formula:
=spl("=?.group(~(1)).conj([~.isect(~(2).split@c()).concat@c()].pad(null,~.len()))",A1:B12) Explanation:group(~(1)) groups rows by column A; split()split each value of column B in each group; isect() calculates the intersection; concat()concatenates the result as a string; and pad() patches null values to align with column A.
esProc Desktop is FREE to download: http://www.scudata.com/download-Desktop
2024.05.23 09:04 OriginalAJM Copying and fixing a corrupt resolve postgres database without access to original windows machine
So... the NVME in my Windows 10 computer reached its end of life and quit working without warning. It locked up and went into read only mode, kicking my out of windows and apparently corrupting a few files.
I desperately needed to retrieve my very hefty Resolve Postgres Database and after googling and searching reddit I couldn't find a really clear tutorial on how to do something like this. So... here goes! Sorry in advance if I'm rehashing old territory.
TL;DR: BACKUP THE POSTGRES APPLICATION FOLDER IF YOU USE RESOLVE DATABASES
Here was my process restoring from my corrupted hard drive in case anyone finds it helpful in the future:
If this happens, you'll probably get a pg_dump: error and something mentioning pg_toast (see code at the bottom for my exact error).
If this happens, don't panic! I did some deep, deep googling into Postgres and stumbled on this solution from GitHub which actually worked.
Essentially you use a couple queries in the SQL query tab in pgadmin to search for corruption and then to delete them from your database.
Steps to doing this:
Here's my original postgres dump error as mentioned above:
pg_dump: error: Dumping the contents of table "ListMgt::LmVersion" failed: PQgetResult() failed.
pg_dump: error: Error message from server: ERROR: unexpected chunk number 14 (expected 0) for toast value 362738 in pg_toast_16788
pg_dump: error: The command was: COPY public."ListMgt::LmVersion" ("ListMgt::LmVersion_id", "DbType", "Gallery::GyStill_id", "Name", "HasCorrection", "VerType", "ImplVersion", "IncludedInRecording", "FlatPassEnabled", "RGBAOutputEnabled", "Body", "ListMgt::LmVersionTable_id", "UseVersionClipProcParams", "UserClipProcParams", "Sm2Group_id", "FieldsBlob") TO stdout;
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I desperately needed to retrieve my very hefty Resolve Postgres Database and after googling and searching reddit I couldn't find a really clear tutorial on how to do something like this. So... here goes! Sorry in advance if I'm rehashing old territory.
TL;DR: BACKUP THE POSTGRES APPLICATION FOLDER IF YOU USE RESOLVE DATABASES
Here was my process restoring from my corrupted hard drive in case anyone finds it helpful in the future:
- Locate your PostGres data files on the original now broken hard drive. They're in the C:\Program Files\PostgreSQL\[version]\data\base folder on Windows. Back this up locally. If you screw anything up you can always reuse this backup. Back these up into a spare folder on your new machine.
- Install DaVinci Resolve Server and check the postgres version it creates.
- If it's different from the version on your original drive (I had 9.5) go to the postgres website and download the version of your old database. Don't worry, you can have two installed for this purpose although you may want to remove the old version when finished. Note the username and password as you configure the initial database. You'll need this in a minute.
- Now copy the contents of your old base folder into the new, matching postgres version base folder.
- Download a copy of pgadmin and install it.
- If you have two versions of postgres now installed, open windows services (I use the search bar on 11) and right click on the newer version, click stop, and then right click on the matching version and hit start. Now you've told postgres to run
- Open pgadmin. It'll prompt you for a master password which you can reset.
- Then on the right you should see servers, twirl this down to reveal PostgreSQL 9.5 [or your version]. Double click then twirl down databases. If it prompts you for a password use "DaVinci" which is the default for Postgres I believe.
- This will now list your databases. If you're in luck you should see the names of your old Resolve Databases. This is a GREAT SIGN! That means all or most of the data is there.
- Right click on one of your databases, click "backup", set a file name, leave format as custom, encoding set to utf8, save the file somewhere you can find it and hit backup.
- IF things go well: close pgadmin, restart the "resolve servers/latest" version of the postgres service in windows.
- Add the file extension .backup to your file so Resolve can see it.
- Open resolve, click network projects, click restore, assign a name and leave the defaults as is.
- Voila! Your project is back
If this happens, you'll probably get a pg_dump: error and something mentioning pg_toast (see code at the bottom for my exact error).
If this happens, don't panic! I did some deep, deep googling into Postgres and stumbled on this solution from GitHub which actually worked.
Essentially you use a couple queries in the SQL query tab in pgadmin to search for corruption and then to delete them from your database.
Steps to doing this:
- Note the table name, found in the error message after public. eg: COPY public."ListMgt::LmVersion"
- Right click on the Database that has corruption and select "Query" to open the query box
- Then we need to find the name of the id column in the table so we can properly reference and delete the corrupted rows. I used SELECT * FROM information_schema.columns WHERE table_name = 'ListMgt::LmVersion'; [replace ListMgt::LmVersion with your table name from the error] Look for a column in "original_position: 1" and something with _id at the end and note that down. We'll refer to it as [id] from here on out.
- Now we'll run this query from GitHub, watching for errors in increments of 10,000 at a time : select * from "[resolve tablename]" order by "[id]" limit 10000 offset 0; This queries up rows 1-10,000 and if there's an error, it'll say error and if not, it'll list all the rows out. My exact query looked like this: select * from "ListMgt::LmVersion" order by "ListMgt::LmVersion_id" limit 10000 offset 0;
- If it pings you with an error, you'll need to adjust the limit to find the [id] of that exact row. Change the limit and the offset until you find the exact row that's cause you problems. You'll know you have the exact number when an error occurs when limit is set to 1 and offset is set to any number. The GitHub explains this a bit better.
- Once you've found the row by using limit and offset we need to get its ID so we can delete it. Use this command: select "[ID]" from "[table]" order by "[ID]" limit 1 offset [number];my exact query looked like: select "ListMgt::LmVersion_id" from "ListMgt::LmVersion" order by "ListMgt::LmVersion_id" limit 1 offset 200464;This should return a long alphanumeric string. Copy this for the next query.
- Delete the row with the above Id. Your going to lose that data whatever it might be, but chances are it's fine. To delete use this command: DELETE FROM "[Table]" WHERE "[ID]" = '[alphanumeric string]';my query looked like: DELETE FROM "ListMgt::LmVersion" WHERE "ListMgt::LmVersion_id" = 'f67eb81b-0f99-4ed6-998f-d79d92a875c7'; So far, it hasn't had any impact on me, but I haven't opened all my old projects yet. The few I have opened seemed to work just fine.
- Sometimes rows are inter-related and PGAdmin won't allow you to delete the row without first deleting its relative. You'll have to use a couple of queries to find the matching ID in the related table to delete its row too. I'll spare the details here but if you've made it this far, a little ChatGPT work will point you in the right direction.
- Rinse and repeat until you can scan all the rows in your table without errors.
- Export again, hopefully with success.
- If it exports okay, 99% likely Resolve will accept it.
Here's my original postgres dump error as mentioned above:
pg_dump: error: Dumping the contents of table "ListMgt::LmVersion" failed: PQgetResult() failed.
pg_dump: error: Error message from server: ERROR: unexpected chunk number 14 (expected 0) for toast value 362738 in pg_toast_16788
pg_dump: error: The command was: COPY public."ListMgt::LmVersion" ("ListMgt::LmVersion_id", "DbType", "Gallery::GyStill_id", "Name", "HasCorrection", "VerType", "ImplVersion", "IncludedInRecording", "FlatPassEnabled", "RGBAOutputEnabled", "Body", "ListMgt::LmVersionTable_id", "UseVersionClipProcParams", "UserClipProcParams", "Sm2Group_id", "FieldsBlob") TO stdout;
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For the original post, visit here: https://www.reddit.com/CharlotteDobreYouTube/comments/1cfl5w1/exposing_exhusband_coming_soon/
Hello everyone, we have some major updates to this coming Petty Revenge story that will involve exposing my ex-husband for who he is and trying to protect the next person from falling into his trap. They will be coming in a separate post once I get everything together.
This is my story for context with the ex-husband. It will be a longer post, to be warned. Trigger warning for those who may be sensitive to stories about abuse and self-harm
Since my original post, the woman who is currently with my ex-husband, (not with as in together, anymore. With as in living with currently until she can find a new place for her and her kids), we have continued to stay in contact, and boy is this the drama intensifying. In short, the ex-husband is still playing his horrible games and turning her life into an ever-living hell.
Some backstory on my side. I will shorten my ex-husband to EH.
I (28F) and EH (36 M) met when I was 18 and he was 26, so there was a bit of an age gap, but that did not matter to either of us. We got engaged roughly 4 or 5 months after we started officially dating and we moved in together at the request of my parents as we could not fit everyone into the same home we were renting at the time. Things of course started off great. He seemed like a decent man who had his life at least somewhat figured out. He loved to cook and usually worked in some form of cooking-related job. However, never really seemed to be able to keep a job for too long but at the time, I didn't think much of it, given I was 19 and wearing rose-tinted glasses.
Since he couldn't hold a job and we usually had to ask his grandmother for money to keep up with the rent (both worked basically minimum wage jobs at the time) so after a year out of the house, we had to move back in with my parents.
Once we got settled back in there, I started a better-paying job and he had started a new job that was at least okay paying as well so for a bit we were doing okay. We made enough that we adopted 2 horses together and boarded them at a nearby facility. One came in late spring, the other in the summer of about 2016. So after 2 years of being together.
We got married that same year in the fall. Everything seemed perfect. Then came the wedding night... What I thought was my monthly woke me in the middle of the night before it was time to get up to leave for our honeymoon because I was suddenly bleeding very heavily, it freaked me out and we silently went to the ER without telling my family to not cause alarm. Come to find out, I was having a miscarriage. I was a little over 6 weeks pregnant and did not know. Needless to say, not exactly the best way to start your marriage, and did not go on our honeymoon. We never told my parents it happened and very few people know.
We held off until the following year, 2017, to go on our honeymoon. While we were on our honeymoon, I got a call that my mare had come down with a fever and the stable owner was calling vets out to see what was wrong. The first vet played it off saying it was just minor, gave her penicillin, and told the stable owner to give her a cool bath to help her cool down and see if it helped. It did not. They called a 2nd vet after that was not working for a second opinion, and my mare was diagnosed with Potomac Fever. Since it had been a few days since she started her fever, giving her the correct medicines at that point as she was getting very poorly was a 50/50 chance of whether they would help or not. We did cut our vacation as short as we could, but we ended up having to wait to come home as our board check removed what we had left to come home on so we had no money until we got paid again, luckily that same week.
The day before we were able to return, my favorite singer, Chester Bennington passed away. I was devasted. When we did get to the stable, we bought some supplies the stable owner advised us to get, mainly wraps and bags of ice to help ice my mare's feet to try to help keep her fever at bay. We were advised by the vet when they stopped by the check on her that the next day they would bring out an x-ray machine to see if the bones in her feet had turned down or not. If they had not, then she had a chance of making a full recovery and staying sound, and everything would be okay. If they had, then she would likely never be able to be ridden again and need a lot of corrective shoeing and therapy which would be very expensive. We were also trying to keep her on her feet as if she went down and we could not get her back up, it would be a death sentence.
The next morning I went to the stable as early as I was able and.. disaster. I was met by the stable owner and he had advised that my mare had been down when he checked on her sometime in the early morning, around 3 or 4 AM. He was able to get her up then but wasn't able to tell how long she had been down before he found her and got her up, however, she had gone down again and had refused to get up. I was so heartbroken and went to her and tried for a good hour or so while my parents showed up. I was in tears telling them we'd probably be putting her down because she was down. We did get her up, but the damage at that point was done. She was down way too long and she has very noticeable nerve damage. Hardly able to walk, went to the bathroom in spurts, and was so unsteady on her feet that she could barely stay up. When the vet came, we let her know what was going on. They looked her over and advised that her fever was gone, but the damage would probably be permanent without very expensive therapy throughout the years and would never be the same again. It was the humane choice to let her go and she crossed the rainbow bridge that day. I only had her a year and 2 weeks on the nose, but she was my best friend, my heart horse, and I miss her terribly to this day, soon to be 7 years later come July.
After this happened, EH and I went through a bit of a rocky patch. For a week or so he was supportive and seemed to care that I was grieving the loss of my mare, but after a little while it turned into arguments about how I could still be upset, time had passed we still had our other horse so I should be fine, all sorts of crazy things. I couldn't understand how he could say those things to me, especially when he knew I was so close with my mare and had many great plans with and for her that were now of course, not possible. He didn't care so I just stopped going to him when I was upset about it.
Fast forward to late fall of 2018, we decided to move out of the home we were living with my brother in and move into a house owned by his grandmother for a work opportunity for my EH. He ended up getting the job which solidified us moving. Moving didn't go so bad, however, I had to leave my job to move so I was without for a bit until I got a job at the same place he was working at, which was a casino. Usually, we worked separately as he was a cook and I was a cashier for the different food areas, but sometimes we worked in the same area. I much preferred to be in a different area than him cause if we worked in the same restaurant that night, it would get exhausting with him trying to joke around and make passes at me in front of people and joke around that it was the husband and wife team and everything was great. The first few times it happened, sure it was actually kind of funny because we had worked through some stuff and were doing okay at that point, but it did get a bit old and repetitive at some point, and never had any personal space. Plus, I was the one driving because he had a suspended license at the time so I was stuck with him most of the time after the new food court opened. We got our first puppy together for my 22nd birthday the day after New Years, 2019.
We moved on to work with a co-worker at a duck farm in the area we lived which was kind of a fun job. He was hired full-time and I was part-time. We took care of thousands of ducks every day doing whatever needed to be done from farm maintenance, giving them vaccines, sorting them, tagging them, etc. I kind of miss that job as it was an interesting one to have. All was well during these times, but we did sometimes have arguments because he felt since I didn't work as much that this somehow meant I was being lazy around the house and could stand to do more cooking and cleaning (which I was already doing a majority of anyway). It turned into a lot of gaslighting arguments that made me feel like maybe I was not doing enough so I took on more than what I was already doing. With the new puppy and at that time 7 fish tanks ranging from 5 gallons to 150 gallons with over 100 total fish and the entire house to clean and outside work to do, I was busy most of the time he was not home. Of course, as soon as he got home, he would find 1 dirty little thing that I didn't get to or something that wasn't to his standards and he'd excuse me for doing nothing or not knowing how to do anything right. We got jobs working for the same place after the duck farm mysteriously let him go for unknown reasons, which I can now only assume were his fault. We met some nice co-workers and got our second puppy from one in late fall of 2019. My dogs could be Irish twins because their birthdays are a little over 9 months apart.
Things started to decline after this, especially during covid, 2020. I got it very early on when they didn't know what it was and was bad enough that I could not work at all because I was struggling to breathe and function most of the time for months afterward. He did help me some but not much more than getting cough medicine and checking on me every once in a while other than that, he wasn't around me much due to having to work or just not coming around me when he was home, which fair, didn't want to bring sickness to the workplace. We were laid off from that job though in the downsizing.
In that time, he started abusing online slot games, and the extra money we had that we had previously discussed was to be saved for either a newer vehicle or even maybe a home of our own down the road he used to get coins or boosts in his games. They were not the ones you could win actual money from so he was just purely wasting hundreds of dollars pretty much every week or every couple of weeks on these games. I also found he had been spending money online on sites such as OF and other smut websites and paying for NSFW stuff online. Also found he was cheating on me with one person on OF when I got a pinged message from his email chats on my laptop. I, of course, wanted to see what was happening and found everything he had been saying to this girl.
He was telling her around times we'd go visit my parents for the weekend that he was going out of town to his family but didn't say with whom. They would ask him how he was single and he would just say "Oh I don't know, just unlucky I guess" and things along these longs. I wasn't even given roommate status, He stated he lived alone. Had the 2 dogs, all the fish, was woah is me with it all. I confronted him about it and of course, he tried to deny everything, tried to say I was probably the one cheating, and was just trying to blame him, you know, totally normal sane reaction... not. We got into it pretty good, nothing physical, but we did not talk to each other for a bit, I had considered leaving to be with my best friend at that time, but ultimately we started talking and wanted to attempt to work things out. He of course promised not to do it again, he'd be better, all that good stuff so I decided to give him another chance. Of course, I realize that was a major mistake now, but you live and learn, unfortunately.
Things smoothed out for a bit and went back to being okay again. We had a chance to expand our animals so we took it, it was kind of an apology gift in all honesty. We gained 4 rabbits from my best friend in the late-ish summer of 2020. I met her for the first time in the at the time 8 years we had been talking (we met online) so that was great. I am coming to realize that gaining all the animals we did in our time together may have been a coping mechanism for me because I had something that was depending on me and loved on me so in some ways I realize I do have a lot of animals due to this, but I am also an animal lover and love all of my animals and they are very much spoiled rotten every day. They still bring me immense joy and are a highlight of my life even if they were gained with EH. We still had our other horse, a gelding, at this time yet as well and he had been moved to a new boarding facility that was close to where we had moved to. So things were great at this time. In 2021 in the summer I gained a leopard gecko, and in the fall I gained a Russian tortoise as well.
Backtracking a little to around the end of August 2020, I gained my current job and I was excited to start a new at-home job so I could work and not have to worry about going out and potentially getting deathly sick again. I do have RA so I do have a compromised immune system. He started back to work where we were working as they had started hiring people back, so I was happy to have a quiet background which was needed for my job. Well, that did not last long. 2 weeks after going back, he didn't go to work for a day or 2 and I asked him if he was going to work. He stated he was using his paid vacation time and had taken the next 2 weeks off because he "needed a break" from work because he was feeling burnt out even though he had only been back 2 weeks and wanted some time to do stuff around the house. I thought this was odd and he never asked if this was okay... I only found out when he stayed home instead of going to work as scheduled.
He did go back after those 2 weeks off but he only stayed about another month and it happened again that he did not go in for a day or 2 when he was supposed to be working so I asked him what was going on. He told me he had quit the job because it was burning him out and he did not enjoy the job anymore. I found this odd yet again because he did not express any of these feelings before doing so and never asked me. I was furious and asked him how he thought this was okay because in our budget I had made up for us (because he wouldn't) there was no way for us to survive on my income alone for long and we would likely have to destroy our savings to stay afloat. He stated he would look for another job right away, he just wanted some time to figure out what he wanted to do. How, when he had only just gone back to work after about 5 months off, I don't know, but it was what it was, I made it clear he had to find work.
At that time, around the beginning of 2021 or so, maybe more coming into spring, he started his online slot spending again, and I had found he never deleted his OF account and was talking to another girl that I didn't know about saying the same things he was before, except he was talking to this girl the ENTIRE TIME he was talking to the other one. I just didn't catch it cause he had deleted messages so I didn't see it apparently when I found the first one. So not only had he lied about going to delete the OF and other smut stuff, but he had actively continued to talk to another girl for the entire year and a half almost that he claimed he was working on us and our relationship.
Needless to say, I exploded internally and waited for him to come home after helping his gram with something. I had a plan. When he got home, I played it cool like any other day. Asked him how his gram was, what he did at her house, and all that, normal. Then, I calmly asked him who the OF girl was. The color of his face went pale. Or paler anyway. At first asked, who? And acted confused. I reiterated my question of who OF girl was, this time, seriously to let him know the jig is up. He stated he didn't know who I was talking about and didn't know anyone by that name. I pulled up his OF account on my computer and was like, oh really? then explain all of this, and scrolled through the months of messages with this girl.
He had the AUDACITY to continue denying it was him and said he probably got hacked. I found a picture of him fully in the nude in the full-length mirror in the bathroom that he had sent her and said, "Oh yeah? Then how do you explain this picture?" and continued to more of his parts he was sending to the girl and continued to ask and this to all them. He had nowhere to hide. I had also already downloaded copies of everything and sent them to my best friend (the one we got the rabbits from) so in case he wanted to delete everything and call me crazy, I had the proof that I was not and he did these things.
Eventually, he admitted to continuing talking to her even though he said he had stopped. His reasoning? Apparently, he didn't feel the same spark in our marriage or relationship that he had originally felt and felt like I was distancing myself from him and it just wasn't the same between us. He also stated that he felt as if his efforts to make our relationship work weren't being seen by me and he didn't feel appreciated in the relationship. I, of course, asked him what he meant because at that point I had been just trusting his word that he wouldn't do anything else and would stop. He hadn't done anything else. No romantic gestures, no help around the house, offering to grab food when we needed it, take care of me while I was sick, offer to take over any form of bills or anything financial that I was solely doing at that point because he didn't want the responsibility of and had stated beforehand he didn't want the responsibility of.. nothing. Absolutely nothing. Everything was always on me, and I was the one burdening myself and driving myself crazy, even when I had another health scare thinking I had a DVT because I had sudden swelling in my left leg around my knee area and would get sudden bouts of breathlessness and was advised to take it easy and remove as much stress as possible for a bit in case I did have one to avoid a possible clot from going into my brain or lungs. Luckily, I did not have it, or any clots. I was under so much mental and physical stress that my body was reacting negatively.
This did not stop him from continuing my stresses at all. I also developed Vocal Cord Dysfunction when I had covid and stress makes it worse so on top of the sudden swelling and breathlessness, the stress was also activating the VCD and constantly making it feel like someone was choking me full force, which would trigger anxiety attacks because of course I felt like someone was choking me full force and like I couldn't breathe and wasn't breathing or at least wasn't breathing normally. It's an awful experience that I wouldn't wish even on my worst enemies.
Despite all the cheating, I never mentioned a word to my parents even up until that point, but they had a feeling something was going on because I was probably being a bit distant with them. I didn't want anyone to know at the time and thought I could fix things. Things only got worse. When he did finally get a job, not until mid-2021, so at that point he'd been out of work almost a year, he again picked up his gambling habits. What made things worse and started to spin more out of control was the pizza shop he had gotten a job at installed slot machines for their customers to play if they wished.
You can only guess what happened from there. While he was making decent money at the time, I saw hardly any of it because he would gamble most of his income at those slot machines. I would tell him what bills needed to go out of our joint account (I had a separate account for myself for my pay, but a portion went into the joint) from his pay, and he would say okay got it won't spend anything over that, won't play this week since we won't have a lot left over, etc etc etc... and magically pretty much all of the money would be gone and I would be forced to dip into our savings to save our bills from going out of date and overdue and gets fees we could not afford.
For context, the joint account was after I paid most of everything else out of my account before seeing what needed to go out of the joint account as well. Usually, the joint account would be needed to cover our rent to his gram, groceries, gas, vet appointments for the animals, medical or dental appointments for myself or him, and pretty much anything other than rent that was a necessity. I took care of the actual main bills out of my pay. As stated above, EH wanted nothing to do with the financial responsibility of ensuring all the bills such as our electricity, water, heat, phones, and internet were paid for on time because "I was better at keeping track of that stuff". I took that on because since I worked from home, I needed to make sure 100% I would have internet and electricity, or else I wouldn't have a job, and I couldn't lose my job over something so stupid as not paying my bills on time. I am not that irresponsible.
In about mid-fall 2021, he was at work and I had requested the day off to take our dogs, then 2 and 3, to the vet for their yearly check-ups and vaccinations so they were good for the coming year. He had just gotten paid the day before and I checked the joint account before I left the house with the dogs and saw that so far, he had not done anything with the money, so all was good and I proceeded to take the dogs to the vet. They did fine. It comes time to check out and pay for the vet visit and... the debit card for the joint account declines and says insufficient funds. Confused, I asked them to try it again before looking because I knew I saw that there was more than enough to cover their bill before I left. Nothing, same thing, it says it's declined due to insufficient funds.
I began to panic because, at this point, we had $0 in our savings because of his antics up until that point, and if I used my bank card, while it would go through, would put me into the negative until payday, which was not until the next week. I checked the joint account and low and behold, within the 2 or 3 hours I was gone, he somehow blew through almost $1,000 in withdrawals to gamble, pretty much his entire pay and I had less than $100 in that account. He had gambled his entire pay when he knew I was out to a vet appointment at that current moment. I paid with my bank card so I could leave, as at that vet clinic, you had to pay for the services before leaving or they would not let you leave, or not let you leave with your animals at the very least until the bill was paid in full. They had no bill me later options.
Needless to say, I was fuming the entire drive home and immediately messaged him about it when I got home and the dogs settled. He messaged me back right away with a BS excuse that he forgot that was what was happening that day even though right above those messages he could see I reminded him I was going to the vet, told him I was leaving for the vet, and was at the vet currently, all of which he replied to.
It of course ended up in an argument when he got home and after a long time arguing he stated he didn't understand what all the fuss was about since I had covered the bill just fine. He was using his pay the way he wanted and that's how it should be. He dared to say my pay went to what I wanted and it wasn't fair I was putting such a tight leash on him and his spending when I spent money on myself all the time, which is not true. I reminded him of this very quickly and showed him my bank account was in the negative because of today due to paying all of the necessary bills we needed, not because I was spending on myself and reminded him if I didn't pay the internet and electricity especially, I wouldn't be able to work which was not in the cards with how his spending was.
I forbade him from spending anything without my okay at this point and in a last-ditch effort, took away and cut up his bank cards and hid mine where he wouldn't find them. This did stop his spending because he didn't have a way to spend. I would only give him my bank card if he asked to get something we needed or he needed, and he was to give it back immediately after use or as soon as he could give it back if he took it to work to get something after work like smokes or something for the house. If any cash withdrawals went out, he wasn't allowed to take it again for a while. This continued into 2022 and it worked, I could relax a little as he was starting to earn trust. Say what you will, but it had to be done. At the end of 2021, 2 days before New Year 2022, we, unfortunately, lost our other horse to a long battle with sickness so we were down to just our dogs, the rabbits, reptiles, and 3 fish tanks because we decided to downgrade on the fish keeping. After all, water was getting expensive to maintain all 7 we had.
The loss of our gelding, unfortunately, turned out to be a good thing, as after we had him euthanized and I had allowed EH to have a bank card of his own again because he had been doing very well, it wasn't long before he was back to his old habits of draining his pays. Only, without the about $400 a month board for our gelding going out anymore, it was much worse. There would have been no way we would have been able to afford to keep him after that. It got to the point I again, took his card away, but then he started finding where I was hiding both of my cards and would drain not only the joint account but also my account. This led to us getting behind in rent especially, on some of my credit card payments which had by that time gotten completely maxed out, and on payments to loans I had taken out to try to get us back on track. Not good.
This continued to no avail throughout 2022. I had many conversations with friends trying to see if there was anything I could do. I was at my wits end with all the constant fighting over finances, continued accusations of cheating, making me feel like I was worthless and not doing enough to try to get him to see reason, wondering why I was not good enough for him to want to change and get his act together, mental and emotional abuse, manipulative actions, almost anything you can think of. I wanted it to stop and I was getting tired of trying. My mental and emotional health declined greatly. My friends of course wanted to support me in whatever I wanted to try to do, but they also didn't like seeing me decline as much as I was.
I had a mental breakdown one night and basically did a 2005 Brittany Spears to my hair. I didn't shave everything off, however, a good 90% of my hair was shaved off and what I did have left was very much chopped and looked horrible. I did get most of it fixed, but needed help with the back, so I asked him to try to fix it up so it didn't look so chopped off. I was already not the best mentally and my anxiety was through the roof. I had simply asked him to just be careful and not accidentally cut or nick me. Pretty simple. As I was anxious, I asked him a few times, and was a bit flinchy when he was close to me. He took this the wrong way and threw the scissors down and started screaming at me that if I wasn't going to calm down and hold still I could do it myself and blew past me out the bathroom door. The door almost hit me when he swung it open and I just completely lost it. I sobbed and was in such a bad state of mind that I ended up scratching my arms to the point I made them bleed and covered with scratches. He didn't care or do anything about it, he had gone outside and taken the car and drove up leaving me there alone. I bandaged up my arms. They stung for weeks and I still have a few light scars. Not a very proud moment, but one that drew me closer to knowing I had to leave. The stress I was under was too much.
My now current boyfriend, whom we'll call BF, (32 M) came into the mix towards the end of summer 2022, introduced to me by my best friend after she found him gaming in Fallout, mixed in with my friends, and took their stance as well that if I wanted to try to make things work, he would try to be as supportive as possible. Over time though, he and my friends slowly cracked and smashed through my rose-tinted glasses to help me see that what was happening was not my fault, and was not an okay situation to be in. My best friend then distanced herself thinking I was choosing BF over her after we started talking more and we were hanging out more playing games together. She decided to end our 11-year friendship amid things even though she knew I needed her and we were not replacing her with each other, we just happened to be growing closer. We attempted to include her in things but she chose to leave and distance herself, stating to me later she regretted ever introducing us.
My BF and other friends became my main support systems, and I decided enough was enough and it was time to let go. I had fallen out of love with my EH for some time but didn't want to admit to it. The marriage was over. I told EH I wanted a divorce but he did not believe me. He said I was being crazy for thinking we should end things, but I knew I was not.
While he was at work one night toward the end of October 2022, I went online and found a service that would assist me in getting the papers we needed to start the divorce process and bought them on the joint account so he could see I was serious.
When he came home, I was on the computer with my friends on Discord, playing a game together. He came in screaming with an anger I had never heard before... He had screamed at me before, but this was different. He was screaming at me to get out of the house, that I needed to get out now, he didn't want to see me in the morning, he didn't care if he wasn't allowed to do that cause he was doing it anyway, he was so angry and my friends and BF heard him through my headset. One of my friends told him to shut up and calm down and EF snapped and screamed at them to shut up and stay out of it.
He then came straight for me and slammed my laptop shut so hard I was afraid he broke it, ripped my headset off my head, and threw me from my chair, continuing to scream at the top of his lungs that he wanted me out right then and there if I wanted to me that way. It all happened so fast, I couldn't stop shaking and looking at him, not expecting this. He had never put his hands on me before. Ripping the headset off my head nearly caught on my industrial earring, which would have been horrible if it caught and ripped out. Luckily it didn't.
Once I got past the initial shock, I stood up and lit into him that he couldn't just kick me out because he was mad I was finally done with him and the relationship, and the audacity he had to lay his hands on me. I needed time to get a place to live because of my work. I needed to get my options figured out, get the animals we had sorted out if I could keep them all or not, everything. I needed to make sure I was sorted out and he would have to deal with the fact that I had to do these things before I could get out of the house.
His anger turned into tears and he began crying and pleading with me not to go and crying he'd do better and be a better person and all the things he promised beforehand. He couldn't believe what he saw when he saw the request for divorce papers, he was sorry for putting his hands on me, the works. It did not work. I assured him I was going and needed to get things sorted out.
The next day I called my parents and told them what had happened and that I needed a place to stay or at least help looking for a place to stay. My parents and brother agreed that they would take me in as they owned and lived in a house, and I could live in the basement of the house so I had a room to myself and had room for my animals as well. I did have to rehome 2 of the 4 rabbits, however, they went to a loving home with a cousin of my brother's girlfriend who was experienced with rabbits and currently had some that 2 could intermingle with. So that worked in my favor.
I didn't think I would have room for both dogs and rabbits remaining, so EH decided he wanted to keep 1 dog and 1 rabbit. He wanted our first dog (the one gotten for my 22nd birthday) and the original rabbit he chose from my now former best friend. I agreed and kept our 2nd dog and the original rabbit I chose from my former best friend. I also was keeping the leopard gecko, tortoise, and fish. However, my parents agreed that if in the future EH ever decided to get rid of or no longer wanted our first dog and the other rabbit, they would allow them to come as well (important in a bit).
I made the move to my parent's house in mid-November 2022 and started the process for divorce. While I was getting the first papers ready to go and sent to EH to start the process, EH would continuously text me and harass me even when I asked him to stop messaging me. He would continuously say he wanted me to stay with him, he would change, ask how I could do this to us as by that time we have been married 6 years and together for 8. Trying to manipulate me into coming back with promises of change.
My response was to send him the first official papers to start the divorce process. In my state, once you initiate the process and request for legal divorce, and the request is approved, you have to wait 90 days before you can then submit the final paperwork to request to make the divorce official because the relationship is not going to work, both parties want the divorce, etc.
I had to send the papers a second time because they were not done properly the first time, but the second try was approved so the 90-day waiting time to submit the final papers began.
He continued to harass and message me multiple times throughout the first month, and then his harassment to try to get me to stay turned into distasteful language and cursing me out, saying he didn't need me he already moved on and had someone else so didn't need me anymore. All ploys were more than likely to see if I would suddenly want him. I did not react other than to say good because I had also already moved on and was with someone, my BF, so I was looking forward to being rid of him so I could be with my BF in peace and not have to worry about him anymore.
At that, he stopped messaging me finally, and I moved all correspondence to email instead of text and messenger for more formal communications only when I had updates regarding our pending divorce.
In about April 2023, I had a bad feeling about the well-being of my first dog and other rabbit so in an update email to let him know we had reached the 90th day so the next day I could start getting the finalization paperwork in, I asked him how both were doing and if I may have a picture of them just to ease my mind that they were doing okay and was maybe just nerves about losing them for good.
He met this simple request with utter anger and venom, stating he didn't have to tell me how they were doing and wasn't going to send any pictures. I was being crazy, they were fine so I shouldn't be asking or worrying about anything. This set alarm bells off in my mind because it was just a simple request to see how they were doing, and so far, legally, still, partly my animals until the divorce was final. I advised him of this and this time demanded proof that both the dog and rabbit were doing well or I would be calling animal welfare as a precaution to ensure their well-being and would want them back ASAP if not met, as I wanted them back if he was not taking care of them.
He again refused stating he didn't have to prove anything and that if I asked again, he'd report me for harassment and false accusations of animal abuse. Not wanting any legal trouble with a pending divorce, I dropped it and didn't ask again.
However, 2 weeks later I got a nasty email saying if I wanted my other dog and rabbit back so badly I could have them, as the dog had been whining so much it was annoying him and he didn't want to deal with it anymore. His sister was getting married in 2 weeks, so I asked if he wanted to have them out before or after the wedding since I was attending the wedding along with my brother and his girlfriend and would be in the area, but could get them earlier if needed. He opted for the week before the wedding because he wanted her especially gone. I asked about the rabbit and he said he changed his mind and wanted to keep the rabbit, but if I wanted her too, I could take her as well. I kindly advised the rabbit would be coming back with me as well as I did not want her alone with him anymore. I told my parents what was up and they agreed they could come home much to my relief.
That weekend in May 2023, my brother and I went to EH's house to pick up my dog and rabbit. The moment I saw them, I was so heartbroken and angry. The rabbit was in a tiny hutch meant just to hold them while we cleaned their big enclosure that obviously had not been cleaned or taken care of in some time and dirty murky brown water to drink. It was obvious she had been couped up there for some time, as her enclosure wall panels were broken down and on the porch. My dog was completely emaciated and in horrible condition. Her nails were overgrown, and she was skin and bones. You could see her ribs, spine, and hip bones, and her face was sunken in. Neglected and not taken care of or fed in some time.
I was so angry I grabbed them and put them in the vehicle and let my brother take care of EH. He talked to him for a bit as I called my parents crying telling them what kind of state my animals were in. They were furious. When we got home, they had the dog I kept outside so he could see his sister come home and they wanted to film their reunion and also show what EH did to her. My mother broke into tears when I carefully got my dog out of the car. She was so excited to see my parents again and her brother. And he was so excited to finally see her again. He had been so depressed without her as he grew up with her of course. It was a beautiful reunion but so depressing and sad because of how deplorable of a condition she was in.
My rabbits immediately went to each other when I put the other into the enclosure with the one I kept. They knew who each other were as well and they started grooming each other and cuddling together like they used to like nothing happened. Both my dogs and my rabbits are inseparable now. They can't stand to be away from each other.
The divorce was finalized in June 2023 and I made sure I had no forms of contact with EH again, blocking him on everything.
I can say I have found a wonderful man in my BF and he has helped me so much and been with me through all of this, we couldn't be happier to be able to be together without people asking how we're together if I'm married to someone else even though I was getting a divorce and no longer with EH. Mainly very religious family members who made a fuss about it, but still was a bit ridiculous.
If you reached the end of this and read every bit, if you have any questions feel free to comment below. An update in a separate post will be coming within the next day or so about what's going on with the woman who is currently with the ex-husband.
This was my story in this, context you may or may not want as not everyone's stories gets told. I am telling mine now as everyone in these situations should.
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Hello everyone, we have some major updates to this coming Petty Revenge story that will involve exposing my ex-husband for who he is and trying to protect the next person from falling into his trap. They will be coming in a separate post once I get everything together.
This is my story for context with the ex-husband. It will be a longer post, to be warned. Trigger warning for those who may be sensitive to stories about abuse and self-harm
Since my original post, the woman who is currently with my ex-husband, (not with as in together, anymore. With as in living with currently until she can find a new place for her and her kids), we have continued to stay in contact, and boy is this the drama intensifying. In short, the ex-husband is still playing his horrible games and turning her life into an ever-living hell.
Some backstory on my side. I will shorten my ex-husband to EH.
I (28F) and EH (36 M) met when I was 18 and he was 26, so there was a bit of an age gap, but that did not matter to either of us. We got engaged roughly 4 or 5 months after we started officially dating and we moved in together at the request of my parents as we could not fit everyone into the same home we were renting at the time. Things of course started off great. He seemed like a decent man who had his life at least somewhat figured out. He loved to cook and usually worked in some form of cooking-related job. However, never really seemed to be able to keep a job for too long but at the time, I didn't think much of it, given I was 19 and wearing rose-tinted glasses.
Since he couldn't hold a job and we usually had to ask his grandmother for money to keep up with the rent (both worked basically minimum wage jobs at the time) so after a year out of the house, we had to move back in with my parents.
Once we got settled back in there, I started a better-paying job and he had started a new job that was at least okay paying as well so for a bit we were doing okay. We made enough that we adopted 2 horses together and boarded them at a nearby facility. One came in late spring, the other in the summer of about 2016. So after 2 years of being together.
We got married that same year in the fall. Everything seemed perfect. Then came the wedding night... What I thought was my monthly woke me in the middle of the night before it was time to get up to leave for our honeymoon because I was suddenly bleeding very heavily, it freaked me out and we silently went to the ER without telling my family to not cause alarm. Come to find out, I was having a miscarriage. I was a little over 6 weeks pregnant and did not know. Needless to say, not exactly the best way to start your marriage, and did not go on our honeymoon. We never told my parents it happened and very few people know.
We held off until the following year, 2017, to go on our honeymoon. While we were on our honeymoon, I got a call that my mare had come down with a fever and the stable owner was calling vets out to see what was wrong. The first vet played it off saying it was just minor, gave her penicillin, and told the stable owner to give her a cool bath to help her cool down and see if it helped. It did not. They called a 2nd vet after that was not working for a second opinion, and my mare was diagnosed with Potomac Fever. Since it had been a few days since she started her fever, giving her the correct medicines at that point as she was getting very poorly was a 50/50 chance of whether they would help or not. We did cut our vacation as short as we could, but we ended up having to wait to come home as our board check removed what we had left to come home on so we had no money until we got paid again, luckily that same week.
The day before we were able to return, my favorite singer, Chester Bennington passed away. I was devasted. When we did get to the stable, we bought some supplies the stable owner advised us to get, mainly wraps and bags of ice to help ice my mare's feet to try to help keep her fever at bay. We were advised by the vet when they stopped by the check on her that the next day they would bring out an x-ray machine to see if the bones in her feet had turned down or not. If they had not, then she had a chance of making a full recovery and staying sound, and everything would be okay. If they had, then she would likely never be able to be ridden again and need a lot of corrective shoeing and therapy which would be very expensive. We were also trying to keep her on her feet as if she went down and we could not get her back up, it would be a death sentence.
The next morning I went to the stable as early as I was able and.. disaster. I was met by the stable owner and he had advised that my mare had been down when he checked on her sometime in the early morning, around 3 or 4 AM. He was able to get her up then but wasn't able to tell how long she had been down before he found her and got her up, however, she had gone down again and had refused to get up. I was so heartbroken and went to her and tried for a good hour or so while my parents showed up. I was in tears telling them we'd probably be putting her down because she was down. We did get her up, but the damage at that point was done. She was down way too long and she has very noticeable nerve damage. Hardly able to walk, went to the bathroom in spurts, and was so unsteady on her feet that she could barely stay up. When the vet came, we let her know what was going on. They looked her over and advised that her fever was gone, but the damage would probably be permanent without very expensive therapy throughout the years and would never be the same again. It was the humane choice to let her go and she crossed the rainbow bridge that day. I only had her a year and 2 weeks on the nose, but she was my best friend, my heart horse, and I miss her terribly to this day, soon to be 7 years later come July.
After this happened, EH and I went through a bit of a rocky patch. For a week or so he was supportive and seemed to care that I was grieving the loss of my mare, but after a little while it turned into arguments about how I could still be upset, time had passed we still had our other horse so I should be fine, all sorts of crazy things. I couldn't understand how he could say those things to me, especially when he knew I was so close with my mare and had many great plans with and for her that were now of course, not possible. He didn't care so I just stopped going to him when I was upset about it.
Fast forward to late fall of 2018, we decided to move out of the home we were living with my brother in and move into a house owned by his grandmother for a work opportunity for my EH. He ended up getting the job which solidified us moving. Moving didn't go so bad, however, I had to leave my job to move so I was without for a bit until I got a job at the same place he was working at, which was a casino. Usually, we worked separately as he was a cook and I was a cashier for the different food areas, but sometimes we worked in the same area. I much preferred to be in a different area than him cause if we worked in the same restaurant that night, it would get exhausting with him trying to joke around and make passes at me in front of people and joke around that it was the husband and wife team and everything was great. The first few times it happened, sure it was actually kind of funny because we had worked through some stuff and were doing okay at that point, but it did get a bit old and repetitive at some point, and never had any personal space. Plus, I was the one driving because he had a suspended license at the time so I was stuck with him most of the time after the new food court opened. We got our first puppy together for my 22nd birthday the day after New Years, 2019.
We moved on to work with a co-worker at a duck farm in the area we lived which was kind of a fun job. He was hired full-time and I was part-time. We took care of thousands of ducks every day doing whatever needed to be done from farm maintenance, giving them vaccines, sorting them, tagging them, etc. I kind of miss that job as it was an interesting one to have. All was well during these times, but we did sometimes have arguments because he felt since I didn't work as much that this somehow meant I was being lazy around the house and could stand to do more cooking and cleaning (which I was already doing a majority of anyway). It turned into a lot of gaslighting arguments that made me feel like maybe I was not doing enough so I took on more than what I was already doing. With the new puppy and at that time 7 fish tanks ranging from 5 gallons to 150 gallons with over 100 total fish and the entire house to clean and outside work to do, I was busy most of the time he was not home. Of course, as soon as he got home, he would find 1 dirty little thing that I didn't get to or something that wasn't to his standards and he'd excuse me for doing nothing or not knowing how to do anything right. We got jobs working for the same place after the duck farm mysteriously let him go for unknown reasons, which I can now only assume were his fault. We met some nice co-workers and got our second puppy from one in late fall of 2019. My dogs could be Irish twins because their birthdays are a little over 9 months apart.
Things started to decline after this, especially during covid, 2020. I got it very early on when they didn't know what it was and was bad enough that I could not work at all because I was struggling to breathe and function most of the time for months afterward. He did help me some but not much more than getting cough medicine and checking on me every once in a while other than that, he wasn't around me much due to having to work or just not coming around me when he was home, which fair, didn't want to bring sickness to the workplace. We were laid off from that job though in the downsizing.
In that time, he started abusing online slot games, and the extra money we had that we had previously discussed was to be saved for either a newer vehicle or even maybe a home of our own down the road he used to get coins or boosts in his games. They were not the ones you could win actual money from so he was just purely wasting hundreds of dollars pretty much every week or every couple of weeks on these games. I also found he had been spending money online on sites such as OF and other smut websites and paying for NSFW stuff online. Also found he was cheating on me with one person on OF when I got a pinged message from his email chats on my laptop. I, of course, wanted to see what was happening and found everything he had been saying to this girl.
He was telling her around times we'd go visit my parents for the weekend that he was going out of town to his family but didn't say with whom. They would ask him how he was single and he would just say "Oh I don't know, just unlucky I guess" and things along these longs. I wasn't even given roommate status, He stated he lived alone. Had the 2 dogs, all the fish, was woah is me with it all. I confronted him about it and of course, he tried to deny everything, tried to say I was probably the one cheating, and was just trying to blame him, you know, totally normal sane reaction... not. We got into it pretty good, nothing physical, but we did not talk to each other for a bit, I had considered leaving to be with my best friend at that time, but ultimately we started talking and wanted to attempt to work things out. He of course promised not to do it again, he'd be better, all that good stuff so I decided to give him another chance. Of course, I realize that was a major mistake now, but you live and learn, unfortunately.
Things smoothed out for a bit and went back to being okay again. We had a chance to expand our animals so we took it, it was kind of an apology gift in all honesty. We gained 4 rabbits from my best friend in the late-ish summer of 2020. I met her for the first time in the at the time 8 years we had been talking (we met online) so that was great. I am coming to realize that gaining all the animals we did in our time together may have been a coping mechanism for me because I had something that was depending on me and loved on me so in some ways I realize I do have a lot of animals due to this, but I am also an animal lover and love all of my animals and they are very much spoiled rotten every day. They still bring me immense joy and are a highlight of my life even if they were gained with EH. We still had our other horse, a gelding, at this time yet as well and he had been moved to a new boarding facility that was close to where we had moved to. So things were great at this time. In 2021 in the summer I gained a leopard gecko, and in the fall I gained a Russian tortoise as well.
Backtracking a little to around the end of August 2020, I gained my current job and I was excited to start a new at-home job so I could work and not have to worry about going out and potentially getting deathly sick again. I do have RA so I do have a compromised immune system. He started back to work where we were working as they had started hiring people back, so I was happy to have a quiet background which was needed for my job. Well, that did not last long. 2 weeks after going back, he didn't go to work for a day or 2 and I asked him if he was going to work. He stated he was using his paid vacation time and had taken the next 2 weeks off because he "needed a break" from work because he was feeling burnt out even though he had only been back 2 weeks and wanted some time to do stuff around the house. I thought this was odd and he never asked if this was okay... I only found out when he stayed home instead of going to work as scheduled.
He did go back after those 2 weeks off but he only stayed about another month and it happened again that he did not go in for a day or 2 when he was supposed to be working so I asked him what was going on. He told me he had quit the job because it was burning him out and he did not enjoy the job anymore. I found this odd yet again because he did not express any of these feelings before doing so and never asked me. I was furious and asked him how he thought this was okay because in our budget I had made up for us (because he wouldn't) there was no way for us to survive on my income alone for long and we would likely have to destroy our savings to stay afloat. He stated he would look for another job right away, he just wanted some time to figure out what he wanted to do. How, when he had only just gone back to work after about 5 months off, I don't know, but it was what it was, I made it clear he had to find work.
At that time, around the beginning of 2021 or so, maybe more coming into spring, he started his online slot spending again, and I had found he never deleted his OF account and was talking to another girl that I didn't know about saying the same things he was before, except he was talking to this girl the ENTIRE TIME he was talking to the other one. I just didn't catch it cause he had deleted messages so I didn't see it apparently when I found the first one. So not only had he lied about going to delete the OF and other smut stuff, but he had actively continued to talk to another girl for the entire year and a half almost that he claimed he was working on us and our relationship.
Needless to say, I exploded internally and waited for him to come home after helping his gram with something. I had a plan. When he got home, I played it cool like any other day. Asked him how his gram was, what he did at her house, and all that, normal. Then, I calmly asked him who the OF girl was. The color of his face went pale. Or paler anyway. At first asked, who? And acted confused. I reiterated my question of who OF girl was, this time, seriously to let him know the jig is up. He stated he didn't know who I was talking about and didn't know anyone by that name. I pulled up his OF account on my computer and was like, oh really? then explain all of this, and scrolled through the months of messages with this girl.
He had the AUDACITY to continue denying it was him and said he probably got hacked. I found a picture of him fully in the nude in the full-length mirror in the bathroom that he had sent her and said, "Oh yeah? Then how do you explain this picture?" and continued to more of his parts he was sending to the girl and continued to ask and this to all them. He had nowhere to hide. I had also already downloaded copies of everything and sent them to my best friend (the one we got the rabbits from) so in case he wanted to delete everything and call me crazy, I had the proof that I was not and he did these things.
Eventually, he admitted to continuing talking to her even though he said he had stopped. His reasoning? Apparently, he didn't feel the same spark in our marriage or relationship that he had originally felt and felt like I was distancing myself from him and it just wasn't the same between us. He also stated that he felt as if his efforts to make our relationship work weren't being seen by me and he didn't feel appreciated in the relationship. I, of course, asked him what he meant because at that point I had been just trusting his word that he wouldn't do anything else and would stop. He hadn't done anything else. No romantic gestures, no help around the house, offering to grab food when we needed it, take care of me while I was sick, offer to take over any form of bills or anything financial that I was solely doing at that point because he didn't want the responsibility of and had stated beforehand he didn't want the responsibility of.. nothing. Absolutely nothing. Everything was always on me, and I was the one burdening myself and driving myself crazy, even when I had another health scare thinking I had a DVT because I had sudden swelling in my left leg around my knee area and would get sudden bouts of breathlessness and was advised to take it easy and remove as much stress as possible for a bit in case I did have one to avoid a possible clot from going into my brain or lungs. Luckily, I did not have it, or any clots. I was under so much mental and physical stress that my body was reacting negatively.
This did not stop him from continuing my stresses at all. I also developed Vocal Cord Dysfunction when I had covid and stress makes it worse so on top of the sudden swelling and breathlessness, the stress was also activating the VCD and constantly making it feel like someone was choking me full force, which would trigger anxiety attacks because of course I felt like someone was choking me full force and like I couldn't breathe and wasn't breathing or at least wasn't breathing normally. It's an awful experience that I wouldn't wish even on my worst enemies.
Despite all the cheating, I never mentioned a word to my parents even up until that point, but they had a feeling something was going on because I was probably being a bit distant with them. I didn't want anyone to know at the time and thought I could fix things. Things only got worse. When he did finally get a job, not until mid-2021, so at that point he'd been out of work almost a year, he again picked up his gambling habits. What made things worse and started to spin more out of control was the pizza shop he had gotten a job at installed slot machines for their customers to play if they wished.
You can only guess what happened from there. While he was making decent money at the time, I saw hardly any of it because he would gamble most of his income at those slot machines. I would tell him what bills needed to go out of our joint account (I had a separate account for myself for my pay, but a portion went into the joint) from his pay, and he would say okay got it won't spend anything over that, won't play this week since we won't have a lot left over, etc etc etc... and magically pretty much all of the money would be gone and I would be forced to dip into our savings to save our bills from going out of date and overdue and gets fees we could not afford.
For context, the joint account was after I paid most of everything else out of my account before seeing what needed to go out of the joint account as well. Usually, the joint account would be needed to cover our rent to his gram, groceries, gas, vet appointments for the animals, medical or dental appointments for myself or him, and pretty much anything other than rent that was a necessity. I took care of the actual main bills out of my pay. As stated above, EH wanted nothing to do with the financial responsibility of ensuring all the bills such as our electricity, water, heat, phones, and internet were paid for on time because "I was better at keeping track of that stuff". I took that on because since I worked from home, I needed to make sure 100% I would have internet and electricity, or else I wouldn't have a job, and I couldn't lose my job over something so stupid as not paying my bills on time. I am not that irresponsible.
In about mid-fall 2021, he was at work and I had requested the day off to take our dogs, then 2 and 3, to the vet for their yearly check-ups and vaccinations so they were good for the coming year. He had just gotten paid the day before and I checked the joint account before I left the house with the dogs and saw that so far, he had not done anything with the money, so all was good and I proceeded to take the dogs to the vet. They did fine. It comes time to check out and pay for the vet visit and... the debit card for the joint account declines and says insufficient funds. Confused, I asked them to try it again before looking because I knew I saw that there was more than enough to cover their bill before I left. Nothing, same thing, it says it's declined due to insufficient funds.
I began to panic because, at this point, we had $0 in our savings because of his antics up until that point, and if I used my bank card, while it would go through, would put me into the negative until payday, which was not until the next week. I checked the joint account and low and behold, within the 2 or 3 hours I was gone, he somehow blew through almost $1,000 in withdrawals to gamble, pretty much his entire pay and I had less than $100 in that account. He had gambled his entire pay when he knew I was out to a vet appointment at that current moment. I paid with my bank card so I could leave, as at that vet clinic, you had to pay for the services before leaving or they would not let you leave, or not let you leave with your animals at the very least until the bill was paid in full. They had no bill me later options.
Needless to say, I was fuming the entire drive home and immediately messaged him about it when I got home and the dogs settled. He messaged me back right away with a BS excuse that he forgot that was what was happening that day even though right above those messages he could see I reminded him I was going to the vet, told him I was leaving for the vet, and was at the vet currently, all of which he replied to.
It of course ended up in an argument when he got home and after a long time arguing he stated he didn't understand what all the fuss was about since I had covered the bill just fine. He was using his pay the way he wanted and that's how it should be. He dared to say my pay went to what I wanted and it wasn't fair I was putting such a tight leash on him and his spending when I spent money on myself all the time, which is not true. I reminded him of this very quickly and showed him my bank account was in the negative because of today due to paying all of the necessary bills we needed, not because I was spending on myself and reminded him if I didn't pay the internet and electricity especially, I wouldn't be able to work which was not in the cards with how his spending was.
I forbade him from spending anything without my okay at this point and in a last-ditch effort, took away and cut up his bank cards and hid mine where he wouldn't find them. This did stop his spending because he didn't have a way to spend. I would only give him my bank card if he asked to get something we needed or he needed, and he was to give it back immediately after use or as soon as he could give it back if he took it to work to get something after work like smokes or something for the house. If any cash withdrawals went out, he wasn't allowed to take it again for a while. This continued into 2022 and it worked, I could relax a little as he was starting to earn trust. Say what you will, but it had to be done. At the end of 2021, 2 days before New Year 2022, we, unfortunately, lost our other horse to a long battle with sickness so we were down to just our dogs, the rabbits, reptiles, and 3 fish tanks because we decided to downgrade on the fish keeping. After all, water was getting expensive to maintain all 7 we had.
The loss of our gelding, unfortunately, turned out to be a good thing, as after we had him euthanized and I had allowed EH to have a bank card of his own again because he had been doing very well, it wasn't long before he was back to his old habits of draining his pays. Only, without the about $400 a month board for our gelding going out anymore, it was much worse. There would have been no way we would have been able to afford to keep him after that. It got to the point I again, took his card away, but then he started finding where I was hiding both of my cards and would drain not only the joint account but also my account. This led to us getting behind in rent especially, on some of my credit card payments which had by that time gotten completely maxed out, and on payments to loans I had taken out to try to get us back on track. Not good.
This continued to no avail throughout 2022. I had many conversations with friends trying to see if there was anything I could do. I was at my wits end with all the constant fighting over finances, continued accusations of cheating, making me feel like I was worthless and not doing enough to try to get him to see reason, wondering why I was not good enough for him to want to change and get his act together, mental and emotional abuse, manipulative actions, almost anything you can think of. I wanted it to stop and I was getting tired of trying. My mental and emotional health declined greatly. My friends of course wanted to support me in whatever I wanted to try to do, but they also didn't like seeing me decline as much as I was.
I had a mental breakdown one night and basically did a 2005 Brittany Spears to my hair. I didn't shave everything off, however, a good 90% of my hair was shaved off and what I did have left was very much chopped and looked horrible. I did get most of it fixed, but needed help with the back, so I asked him to try to fix it up so it didn't look so chopped off. I was already not the best mentally and my anxiety was through the roof. I had simply asked him to just be careful and not accidentally cut or nick me. Pretty simple. As I was anxious, I asked him a few times, and was a bit flinchy when he was close to me. He took this the wrong way and threw the scissors down and started screaming at me that if I wasn't going to calm down and hold still I could do it myself and blew past me out the bathroom door. The door almost hit me when he swung it open and I just completely lost it. I sobbed and was in such a bad state of mind that I ended up scratching my arms to the point I made them bleed and covered with scratches. He didn't care or do anything about it, he had gone outside and taken the car and drove up leaving me there alone. I bandaged up my arms. They stung for weeks and I still have a few light scars. Not a very proud moment, but one that drew me closer to knowing I had to leave. The stress I was under was too much.
My now current boyfriend, whom we'll call BF, (32 M) came into the mix towards the end of summer 2022, introduced to me by my best friend after she found him gaming in Fallout, mixed in with my friends, and took their stance as well that if I wanted to try to make things work, he would try to be as supportive as possible. Over time though, he and my friends slowly cracked and smashed through my rose-tinted glasses to help me see that what was happening was not my fault, and was not an okay situation to be in. My best friend then distanced herself thinking I was choosing BF over her after we started talking more and we were hanging out more playing games together. She decided to end our 11-year friendship amid things even though she knew I needed her and we were not replacing her with each other, we just happened to be growing closer. We attempted to include her in things but she chose to leave and distance herself, stating to me later she regretted ever introducing us.
My BF and other friends became my main support systems, and I decided enough was enough and it was time to let go. I had fallen out of love with my EH for some time but didn't want to admit to it. The marriage was over. I told EH I wanted a divorce but he did not believe me. He said I was being crazy for thinking we should end things, but I knew I was not.
While he was at work one night toward the end of October 2022, I went online and found a service that would assist me in getting the papers we needed to start the divorce process and bought them on the joint account so he could see I was serious.
When he came home, I was on the computer with my friends on Discord, playing a game together. He came in screaming with an anger I had never heard before... He had screamed at me before, but this was different. He was screaming at me to get out of the house, that I needed to get out now, he didn't want to see me in the morning, he didn't care if he wasn't allowed to do that cause he was doing it anyway, he was so angry and my friends and BF heard him through my headset. One of my friends told him to shut up and calm down and EF snapped and screamed at them to shut up and stay out of it.
He then came straight for me and slammed my laptop shut so hard I was afraid he broke it, ripped my headset off my head, and threw me from my chair, continuing to scream at the top of his lungs that he wanted me out right then and there if I wanted to me that way. It all happened so fast, I couldn't stop shaking and looking at him, not expecting this. He had never put his hands on me before. Ripping the headset off my head nearly caught on my industrial earring, which would have been horrible if it caught and ripped out. Luckily it didn't.
Once I got past the initial shock, I stood up and lit into him that he couldn't just kick me out because he was mad I was finally done with him and the relationship, and the audacity he had to lay his hands on me. I needed time to get a place to live because of my work. I needed to get my options figured out, get the animals we had sorted out if I could keep them all or not, everything. I needed to make sure I was sorted out and he would have to deal with the fact that I had to do these things before I could get out of the house.
His anger turned into tears and he began crying and pleading with me not to go and crying he'd do better and be a better person and all the things he promised beforehand. He couldn't believe what he saw when he saw the request for divorce papers, he was sorry for putting his hands on me, the works. It did not work. I assured him I was going and needed to get things sorted out.
The next day I called my parents and told them what had happened and that I needed a place to stay or at least help looking for a place to stay. My parents and brother agreed that they would take me in as they owned and lived in a house, and I could live in the basement of the house so I had a room to myself and had room for my animals as well. I did have to rehome 2 of the 4 rabbits, however, they went to a loving home with a cousin of my brother's girlfriend who was experienced with rabbits and currently had some that 2 could intermingle with. So that worked in my favor.
I didn't think I would have room for both dogs and rabbits remaining, so EH decided he wanted to keep 1 dog and 1 rabbit. He wanted our first dog (the one gotten for my 22nd birthday) and the original rabbit he chose from my now former best friend. I agreed and kept our 2nd dog and the original rabbit I chose from my former best friend. I also was keeping the leopard gecko, tortoise, and fish. However, my parents agreed that if in the future EH ever decided to get rid of or no longer wanted our first dog and the other rabbit, they would allow them to come as well (important in a bit).
I made the move to my parent's house in mid-November 2022 and started the process for divorce. While I was getting the first papers ready to go and sent to EH to start the process, EH would continuously text me and harass me even when I asked him to stop messaging me. He would continuously say he wanted me to stay with him, he would change, ask how I could do this to us as by that time we have been married 6 years and together for 8. Trying to manipulate me into coming back with promises of change.
My response was to send him the first official papers to start the divorce process. In my state, once you initiate the process and request for legal divorce, and the request is approved, you have to wait 90 days before you can then submit the final paperwork to request to make the divorce official because the relationship is not going to work, both parties want the divorce, etc.
I had to send the papers a second time because they were not done properly the first time, but the second try was approved so the 90-day waiting time to submit the final papers began.
He continued to harass and message me multiple times throughout the first month, and then his harassment to try to get me to stay turned into distasteful language and cursing me out, saying he didn't need me he already moved on and had someone else so didn't need me anymore. All ploys were more than likely to see if I would suddenly want him. I did not react other than to say good because I had also already moved on and was with someone, my BF, so I was looking forward to being rid of him so I could be with my BF in peace and not have to worry about him anymore.
At that, he stopped messaging me finally, and I moved all correspondence to email instead of text and messenger for more formal communications only when I had updates regarding our pending divorce.
In about April 2023, I had a bad feeling about the well-being of my first dog and other rabbit so in an update email to let him know we had reached the 90th day so the next day I could start getting the finalization paperwork in, I asked him how both were doing and if I may have a picture of them just to ease my mind that they were doing okay and was maybe just nerves about losing them for good.
He met this simple request with utter anger and venom, stating he didn't have to tell me how they were doing and wasn't going to send any pictures. I was being crazy, they were fine so I shouldn't be asking or worrying about anything. This set alarm bells off in my mind because it was just a simple request to see how they were doing, and so far, legally, still, partly my animals until the divorce was final. I advised him of this and this time demanded proof that both the dog and rabbit were doing well or I would be calling animal welfare as a precaution to ensure their well-being and would want them back ASAP if not met, as I wanted them back if he was not taking care of them.
He again refused stating he didn't have to prove anything and that if I asked again, he'd report me for harassment and false accusations of animal abuse. Not wanting any legal trouble with a pending divorce, I dropped it and didn't ask again.
However, 2 weeks later I got a nasty email saying if I wanted my other dog and rabbit back so badly I could have them, as the dog had been whining so much it was annoying him and he didn't want to deal with it anymore. His sister was getting married in 2 weeks, so I asked if he wanted to have them out before or after the wedding since I was attending the wedding along with my brother and his girlfriend and would be in the area, but could get them earlier if needed. He opted for the week before the wedding because he wanted her especially gone. I asked about the rabbit and he said he changed his mind and wanted to keep the rabbit, but if I wanted her too, I could take her as well. I kindly advised the rabbit would be coming back with me as well as I did not want her alone with him anymore. I told my parents what was up and they agreed they could come home much to my relief.
That weekend in May 2023, my brother and I went to EH's house to pick up my dog and rabbit. The moment I saw them, I was so heartbroken and angry. The rabbit was in a tiny hutch meant just to hold them while we cleaned their big enclosure that obviously had not been cleaned or taken care of in some time and dirty murky brown water to drink. It was obvious she had been couped up there for some time, as her enclosure wall panels were broken down and on the porch. My dog was completely emaciated and in horrible condition. Her nails were overgrown, and she was skin and bones. You could see her ribs, spine, and hip bones, and her face was sunken in. Neglected and not taken care of or fed in some time.
I was so angry I grabbed them and put them in the vehicle and let my brother take care of EH. He talked to him for a bit as I called my parents crying telling them what kind of state my animals were in. They were furious. When we got home, they had the dog I kept outside so he could see his sister come home and they wanted to film their reunion and also show what EH did to her. My mother broke into tears when I carefully got my dog out of the car. She was so excited to see my parents again and her brother. And he was so excited to finally see her again. He had been so depressed without her as he grew up with her of course. It was a beautiful reunion but so depressing and sad because of how deplorable of a condition she was in.
My rabbits immediately went to each other when I put the other into the enclosure with the one I kept. They knew who each other were as well and they started grooming each other and cuddling together like they used to like nothing happened. Both my dogs and my rabbits are inseparable now. They can't stand to be away from each other.
The divorce was finalized in June 2023 and I made sure I had no forms of contact with EH again, blocking him on everything.
I can say I have found a wonderful man in my BF and he has helped me so much and been with me through all of this, we couldn't be happier to be able to be together without people asking how we're together if I'm married to someone else even though I was getting a divorce and no longer with EH. Mainly very religious family members who made a fuss about it, but still was a bit ridiculous.
If you reached the end of this and read every bit, if you have any questions feel free to comment below. An update in a separate post will be coming within the next day or so about what's going on with the woman who is currently with the ex-husband.
This was my story in this, context you may or may not want as not everyone's stories gets told. I am telling mine now as everyone in these situations should.
2024.05.23 06:08 clustershit My M2 macbook is giving errors while trying to install older gems and ruby versions.
My company is using ruby 2.5.0 (they are currently upgrading to 2.7.7 but still prod is in 2.5.0) and I've been trying to install this version using rvm,rbenv and asdf. But I keep getting this error.
The same error was coming for 2.7.7 but using rvm and trying this command arch --arm64 rvm install 2.7.7 this worked. So atleast I was able to download that. Then again different compilation issues were coming when I tried to bundle install the repo. 3 packages - pg,byebug and hiredis were giving errors. Updating them worked so I somehow bundle installed it and tried rails s command. Then this error started coming -
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ruby-2.5.0 - #post-configuration - please wait ruby-2.5.0 - #compiling - please wait Error running '__rvm_make -j8', please read /Users/admin/.rvm/log/1716436777_ruby-2.5.0/make.logThere has been an error while running make. Halting the installation.
The same error was coming for 2.7.7 but using rvm and trying this command arch --arm64 rvm install 2.7.7 this worked. So atleast I was able to download that. Then again different compilation issues were coming when I tried to bundle install the repo. 3 packages - pg,byebug and hiredis were giving errors. Updating them worked so I somehow bundle installed it and tried rails s command. Then this error started coming -
bundle Traceback (most recent call last): 28: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/bin/bundle:23:in `' 27: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/bin/bundle:23:in `load' 26: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/gems/2.7.0/gems/bundler-2.1.4/libexec/bundle:34:in ` ' 25: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlefriendly_errors.rb:123:in `with_friendly_errors' 24: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/gems/2.7.0/gems/bundler-2.1.4/libexec/bundle:46:in `block in ' 23: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlecli.rb:24:in `start' 22: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlevendotholib/thobase.rb:476:in `start' 21: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlecli.rb:30:in `dispatch' 20: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlevendotholib/thor.rb:399:in `dispatch' 19: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlevendotholib/thoinvocation.rb:127:in `invoke_command' 18: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlevendotholib/thocommand.rb:27:in `run' 17: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlecli.rb:255:in `install' 16: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlesettings.rb:124:in `temporary' 15: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlecli.rb:256:in `block in install' 14: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlecli/install.rb:54:in `run' 13: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' 12: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' 11: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/bundlefetcher.rb:7:in ` ' 10: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' 9: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' 8: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/request.rb:3:in ` ' 7: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' 6: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' 5: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/time.rb:3:in ` ' 4: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' 3: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' 2: from /Users/admin/.rvm/gems/ruby-2.7.7/gems/date-3.3.4/lib/date.rb:4:in ` ' 1: from /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require' /Users/admin/.rvm/rubies/ruby-2.7.7/lib/ruby/2.7.0/rubygems/core_ext/kernel_require.rb:83:in `require': dlopen(/Users/admin/.rvm/gems/ruby-2.7.7/gems/date-3.3.4/lib/date_core.bundle, 0x0009): tried: '/Users/admin/.rvm/gems/ruby-2.7.7/gems/date-3.3.4/lib/date_core.bundle' (mach-o file, but is an incompatible architecture (have 'x86_64', need 'arm64')), '/System/Volumes/Preboot/Cryptexes/OS/Users/admin/.rvm/gems/ruby-2.7.7/gems/date-3.3.4/lib/date_core.bundle' (no such file), '/Users/admin/.rvm/gems/ruby-2.7.7/gems/date-3.3.4/lib/date_core.bundle' (mach-o file, but is an incompatible architecture (have 'x86_64', need 'arm64')) - /Users/admin/.rvm/gems/ruby-2.7.7/gems/date-3.3.4/lib/date_core.bundle (LoadError)
2024.05.23 05:52 Visual-Tradition1161 Please read my chart regarding love and marriage, finding my husband
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2024.05.23 05:43 idiot_softie riley and and kenny beachum
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2024.05.23 05:38 VisitAffectionate452 How to download hacked Bitlife with everything unlocked on you Apple device (iPhone and iPad) Answers HERE!
 | (What do you need?) - Your Apple device (Ipad or Iphone - A laptop - (Optional) Lighting cable submitted by VisitAffectionate452 to BitLifeRebels [link] [comments] STEP BY STEP TUTORIAL Step 1: On your laptop, go to https://sideloadly.io Step 2: Once you’re in the site, look for the ‘Important Window Task’ box and there you download iTunes x64 and iCloud web apple download link. On the Download Sideloadly menu, choose to download Windows 64-bit or Windows 32-bit depending on your computer configuration. Step 3: Once done downloading, first set up the iTunes App and log in with your Apple ID. Step 4: Once done setting up, go to the Account tab and click on Authorization and finally click on Authorize this computer. It will ask again for your Apple ID so make sure to log it in again then click Authorize. You must get a pop up that the authorization is successful. Step 5: Click on the phone icon on the Itunes App. On the Summary, look for Options and then make sure the box ‘Automatically sync when this Iphone/Ipad is connected’ and ‘Sync with this Iphone/Ipad over Wi-Fi’ is checked. Step 6: Set up iCloud. Once you’ve launched it and have it set up, it will ask to restart the computer and click on ‘Yes’ Step 7: Once the laptop is back on, there will be a iCloud pop-up that will ask you to sign in to your Apple Id. If you don’t get a pop-up, just launch the iCloud app again and sign in. Step 8: Look for Sideloadly on your laptop and right click on it then choose ‘Run as Administrator’. Set up the Sideloadly app (Keep everything as it is). Install it, check the two boxes, and click finish. Step 9: As sideloadly launches, you should be greeted by a window where you can see the API thing and Advanced options. Step 10: (The wireless way) Make sure two of the devices (Laptop and iPhone/Ipad) are connected on the same internet for this to work. This is very important, otherwise it wouldn’t connect your iPhone/iPad to your laptop. Once connected, you can see your device on the iDevice tab. It may take a long time so I suggest you wait for it. If it still doesn’t, try restarting your laptop or turning your wifi on both devices on and off. You must see your device with @Wi-Fi at the end. Make sure your device is open at all times. It couldn’t be connecting because it may be turned off. Step 10: (USB connected) You will see your device connect right away once you have your Apple device plugged to your laptop. Step 11: Enter your Apple ID. Step 12: (BITLIFE) (Before this, you must create an account for Iosgods as you will need it later on) Open this link and it will lead you to the Bitlife site right away. https://app.iosgods.com/store/appdetails/3938-bitlife-life-simulator-hack-no-infinite-money Step 13: As you can see, there will be an option that says download with Sideloadly and click on it. Step 14: Once you have downloaded it, back to the Sideloadly, click on the API at the side and browse for the file you have downloaded. Or, you can drag it and paste it on the API option. Step 15: Click on start. Make sure your Apple device is open at all times. The download process will start and it make take a bit long but not too long. Once you see the Installing and goes to 10% or etc, check your Apple device home screen and check if it i’s downloading. Step 16: After your installation, go to Settings > General > VPN & Device Management and trust it. There are instances that if you click on it, it wouldn’t open right away. Don’t spam click or it will lag our your device. If two taps and it doesn’t open, do this. Settings > Privacy & Security > Security > Developer Mode. Turn on your developer mode and it should restart your phone. Step 17: Once the phone is back on, you should be able to access it without problems. If not, your device may be outdated or for other reasons. Make sure your IosGods account is logged on for you to play it. Finally, enjoy. |
2024.05.23 05:36 SexyMalasada [H] RNG Service: Gens 3-5, Wishmaker, Ranger Manaphy Egg, EggRNG Gen7, SV items & more! [W] PayPal
I am offering various RNG Services across Gens 3 to 7.
Gen 3 to 5: Legendary RNG, Wild RNG, Gift (including Manaphy & Bonus Disc Jirachi/Celebi) RNG with custom OT & TID possible
Gen 7: Egg RNG (TSV hatch RNG possible until April 8th)
The prices for each RNG request will all be in €uro and will depend on the type of RNG, the amount of time I expect to spend on them, and any extras you may request (example: custom OT)
Base prices are as follows (per each mon):
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I can also offer a Training service & Item trade service in Scarlet/Violet & Sword/Shield, with prices as follows:
Buyer pays any required fees!
To calculate how much you need to send me accounting for fees, use THIS PayPal fees calculator!
Delivery available in Gen 8 or 9, or with Bank>HOME transfer, up to buyer's choice, where applicable.
I can provide proof of the RNG in the form of screenshots of all important steps, with all RNG information clearly visible, if requested! These pictures would all be provided within a zip file uploaded to Google Drive that I would send a link for you to download, via PM.
Please reply to this thread asking what Pokémon you'd like me to obtain, the origin game(s)/Gen(s) and if Shiny or not, so that I can work out exactly how much it would cost you for your order!
After we have discussed the above and have agreed on a deal, please send your detailed requests for RNGs (IV spreads, natures etc) through this google form: https://forms.gle/vBhoDio8obiUU47g9
Training services & Item trades don't need to go through the form.
MY TOOLS & DISCLAIMERS:
I have and use several emulators for all my RNGs (Citra - 3DS, Bizhawk - DS & GBA) using assisted overlay tools like lua scripts, as well as the standard RNG 'calculation' tools like PokeFinder.
I also have a CFW 3DS that I use to import my saves into carts with a save manager (Checkpoint), in order to then transfer the mons up to Bank, followed by HOME.
All my saves are also save-managed (backed up, extracted and injected) with tools such as Checkpoint & JKSV.
For my Training service & Item trading in Gen 9 I use my CFW Switch to multiply items in my bag such as Vitamins, Candy, TMs, Apriballs.
You can request the training service for your own mons in Gen 9, or as an extra (for the same price) on any RNG you buy from me!
Feel free to ask any questions you may have here in my thread, and thank you for stopping by!
[svirtual]
My ref: https://www.reddit.com/pokemonexchangeref/comments/18tsljf/usexymalasada_reference/
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Gen 3 to 5: Legendary RNG, Wild RNG, Gift (including Manaphy & Bonus Disc Jirachi/Celebi) RNG with custom OT & TID possible
Gen 7: Egg RNG (TSV hatch RNG possible until April 8th)
The prices for each RNG request will all be in €uro and will depend on the type of RNG, the amount of time I expect to spend on them, and any extras you may request (example: custom OT)
Base prices are as follows (per each mon):
- Gen 3-5 Wild RNG: 2€
- Gen 3-5 Legendary/Gift/Wishmaker Jirachi RNG/Ranger Manaphy Egg: 3€
- Any of the above SHINY: +2€
- Gen 3 Channel Jirachi / Ageto Celebi & Gen 4 Shiny Ranger Manaphy Egg: 5€
- Custom OT/TID (Gen 3-5): +2€ (per ONE save - ie, can be used for multiple mons)
- Gen 7 Egg RNG: 2€ (Shiny +1€)
- Flat fee per Hour spent on your RNG request: 2€/h
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I can also offer a Training service & Item trade service in Scarlet/Violet & Sword/Shield, with prices as follows:
- Training Service: 2€
- Any 10x Items Trade: 3€
Buyer pays any required fees!
To calculate how much you need to send me accounting for fees, use THIS PayPal fees calculator!
Delivery available in Gen 8 or 9, or with Bank>HOME transfer, up to buyer's choice, where applicable.
I can provide proof of the RNG in the form of screenshots of all important steps, with all RNG information clearly visible, if requested! These pictures would all be provided within a zip file uploaded to Google Drive that I would send a link for you to download, via PM.
Please reply to this thread asking what Pokémon you'd like me to obtain, the origin game(s)/Gen(s) and if Shiny or not, so that I can work out exactly how much it would cost you for your order!
After we have discussed the above and have agreed on a deal, please send your detailed requests for RNGs (IV spreads, natures etc) through this google form: https://forms.gle/vBhoDio8obiUU47g9
Training services & Item trades don't need to go through the form.
MY TOOLS & DISCLAIMERS:
I have and use several emulators for all my RNGs (Citra - 3DS, Bizhawk - DS & GBA) using assisted overlay tools like lua scripts, as well as the standard RNG 'calculation' tools like PokeFinder.
I also have a CFW 3DS that I use to import my saves into carts with a save manager (Checkpoint), in order to then transfer the mons up to Bank, followed by HOME.
All my saves are also save-managed (backed up, extracted and injected) with tools such as Checkpoint & JKSV.
For my Training service & Item trading in Gen 9 I use my CFW Switch to multiply items in my bag such as Vitamins, Candy, TMs, Apriballs.
You can request the training service for your own mons in Gen 9, or as an extra (for the same price) on any RNG you buy from me!
Feel free to ask any questions you may have here in my thread, and thank you for stopping by!
[svirtual]
My ref: https://www.reddit.com/pokemonexchangeref/comments/18tsljf/usexymalasada_reference/
2024.05.23 05:34 CompetitiveTable6074 I need somebody to put these in chronological order please
- Fall of Reach – Novel (October 30, 2001)
- Halo: Combat Evolved – Game (November 15, 2001)
- The Flood – Novel (April 1, 2003)
- First Strike – Novel (December 2, 2003)
- ILoveBees – Alternate Reality Game (July 18th, 2004)
- Halo 2 – Game (November 9, 2004)
- Halo Graphic Novel – Comic Anthology (July 19, 2006)
- Ghost of Onyx – Novel (October 31, 2006)
- Starry Night – Short Film (December 4, 2006)
- The Cradle of Life – Digital Comic (June 14, 2007)
- Landfall: Arms Race – Short Film (July 10, 2007)
- Uprising Issue #1 – Comic (August 15, 2007)
- Landfall: Combat – Short Film (August 28, 2007)
- Believe: Museum – Short Film (September 13, 2007)
- Believe: The John 117 Monument – Short Film (September 14, 2007)
- Believe: Hunted – Short Film (September 22, 2007)
- Believe: Enemy Weapon – Short Film (September 22, 2007)
- Landfall: Last One Standing – Short Film (September 24, 2007)
- Halo 3 – Game (September 25, 2007)
- Believe: Shooting a Hero – Short Film (October 3, 2007)
- Believe: Gravesite – Short Film (October 9, 2007)
- Contact Harvest – Novel (October 30, 2007)
- Uprising Issue #2 – Comic (November 21, 2007)
- Uprising Issue #3 – Comic (August 13, 2008)
- The Cole Protocol – Novel (November 25, 2008)
- Halo Wars – Game (February 26, 2009)
- Halo Wars: Genesis – Comic (March 3, 2009) {In the UK this was released one day after Halo Wars, on the 27th of February and it is a prequel to the game}
- Uprising Issue #4 – Comic (April 15, 2009)
- Helljumper Issue #1 – Comic (July 22, 2009)
- Helljumper Issue #2 – Comic (August 26, 2009)
- The Life – Short Film (September 7, 2009)
- Halo 3: ODST – Game (September 22, 2009)
- Helljumper Issue #3 – Comic (September 23, 2009)
- Helljumper Issue #4 – Comic (October 28, 2009)
- Legends: The Babysitter – Short Film (November 7, 2009)
- Legends: The Duel – Short Film (November 21, 2009)
- Evolutions – Anthology (November 24, 2009) {Was republished as 2 different volumes with 1 new story in each volume}
- Helljumper Issue #5 – Comic (November 25, 2009)
- Legends: The Package Part 1 – Short Film (December 5, 2009)
- Legends: The Package Part 2 – Short Film (December 12, 2009)
- Bloodline Issue #1 – Comic (December 23, 2009)
- Legends: Origins Part 1 – Short Film (January 2, 2010)
- Evolutions: Midnight in the Heart of Midlothian – Short Film (January 16, 2010)
- Bloodline Issue #2 – Comic (January 27, 2010)
- Legends: Origins Part 2 – Short Film (February 16, 2010)
- Legends: Homecoming – Short Film (February 16, 2010)
- Legends: Prototype – Short Film (February 16, 2010)
- Legends: Odd One Out – Short Film (February 16, 2010)
- Bloodline Issue #3 – Comic (February 24, 2010)
- Bloodline Issue #4 – Comic (March 24, 2010)
- Evolutions: The Return – Short Film (April 3, 2010)
- Birth of a Spartan – Short Film (April 28, 2010)
- Bloodline Issue #5 – Comic (May 5, 2010)
- Patrol – Short Film (August 17, 2010)
- Deliver Hope – Short Film (August 26, 2010)
- New Life – Short Film (August 27, 2010)
- Spaceport – Short Film (August 28, 2010)
- Day Before – Short Film (August 28, 2010)
- Dr. Halsey’s Journal – Fictional Journal (September 14, 2010)
- Halo Reach – Game (September 14, 2010)
- The Fall of Reach: Boot Camp Issue #1 – Comic (September 15, 2010) {24 page}
- The Fall of Reach: Boot Camp Issue #2 – Comic (October 20, 2010) {24 page}
- Evolutions Volume 1 – Anthology (November 2, 2010) {Extra story}
- The Fall of Reach: Boot Camp Issue #3 – Comic (November 24, 2010) {23 page}
- Evolutions Volume 2 – Anthology (November 30, 2010) {Extra story}
- Cryptum – Novel (January 4, 2011)
- The Fall of Reach: Boot Camp Issue #4 – Comic (February 23, 2011) {24 page}
- The Fall of Reach: Covenant Issue #1 – Comic (April 20, 2011) {22 page}
- Evolutions: The Mona Lisa – Short Film (April 23, 2011)
- Evolutions: Headhunters – Short Film (June 18, 2011)
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2024.05.23 05:34 Alilbitcloserr Does my birth chart reflect real estate to be a good career path for me?
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2024.05.23 05:05 mansplanar Tinder Alternatives: 10 Top Dating Apps like Tinder for 2024
 | https://preview.redd.it/92z0i73k622d1.png?width=1008&format=png&auto=webp&s=a7937ddc34b431bc779f02c6f3c28e20e472beca submitted by mansplanar to MatchMeBro [link] [comments] Dating apps like Tinder are exceptionally booming because these applications have become the most entertaining sources for meeting new people and having fun in their lives. No wonder, we have one booming and profitable example in the marketplace “Tinder.” It is the most entertaining and trending app, and therefore many entrepreneurs trying to build an app like Tinder. Apart from dating app development, millions and more people are trying Tinder and looking for more alternatives to try new apps. If you want to know about the trending and top dating apps like Tinder, then this blog is just right for you. We are about to discuss many things; such as what are dating apps, how these work, features, alternates, and more. So read and let’s figure out some important factors about dating apps. So let’s get started. What is Tinder?Apps like Tinder is a free dating app that allows users to swipe “yes” or “no” on potential matches. If two users swipe “yes” they are then able to chat with each other through the Tinder interface. Tinder works because it takes rejection off the table, and taps into a distinctly millennial activity – texting.Every gesture to find out if the person is worthy of an in-person date, more and more people are opening up to the digital world of Tinder, Bumble – hoping to find their special someone, still these dating apps need some moderation. Such dating platforms have made both genders comfortable footing the bill for a positive dating experience. Off late dating apps market has lost sheen, but advertisers must still not ignore hopeful singles. How Does Tinder Work?Tinder is the one mobile dating app, that allows users to meet new people, make good friends, go on dates, find their casual hook-up partners, and more via swiping right and left. In this application, people find their partners to have fun. Girls look for boys, boys look for girls, and overall people look for their preferred gender partner. The users are supposed to upload pictures and videos to showcase themselves on the dating apps like Tinder. The people using Tinder will swipe right to accept and swipe left to reject other people. There are many other best Tinder alternatives available, which can also provide some valuable and worthwhile experiences to the users.Top Tinder Alternatives: Popular online top dating apps for 2024
1. OkCupid – Free online dating apphttps://preview.redd.it/ao8jcnjt722d1.png?width=805&format=png&auto=webp&s=d6e763e3559d3398a2b02ba722a2b3dbc3765358It’s a popular dating app that allows people to have blind dates. Millions of users follow OkCupid because of many fun features that make it unique. OkCupid is a free, basic, and efficient dating app for every single, where people can find similar interests shared with users. If you want to find suitable and shared interest matches, then ensure to be honest with your profile. Answer every question honestly; so that the app can suggest the right interested and suitable users to swipe right. It is the most inclusive dating app with 20+ sexual orientations and various types. There are two upgrades available in OkCupid: Free and Premium. Paid versions have more features; such as super likes, advanced filter options, etc. Key Features of OkCupid :
2. Bumble – Location-based dating apphttps://preview.redd.it/srmq1tuy722d1.png?width=806&format=png&auto=webp&s=ced9fd4a3f279cf897933a03f4fc669524901c27Bumble is one of the most popular tinder alternatives that give women a chance to proceed with the chat. The text window expires in case “she” does not respond within 24 hours. BFF features help users meet new people. Bumble is more for women, who are seeking friends, connections, and networking. There are 2 separate features in Bumble called; Buble BFF (friends) and Bumble Bizz (networking). Men cannot message at the start, it is a women-oriented application where she can initiate the conversations. It is not like Tinder, where the girl can wait for 24 hours after swiping to share messages. The narrow messaging window option, and especially the women-oriented app makes it a bit better compared to other apps like Tinder. Key Features of Bumble:
3. Plenty Of Fish – Canadian free online dating appPlenty of Fish is the application, considered the most friendly way to date. It is an old and already-established dating application that helps vast-based users to interact with other users. Even more, the users can share messages without matching first. They can talk to know whether it is the right match or not to continue their relationship. It is a free-to-use application, which is available with its premium version though. You can pay for the subscription model, and use it further with extra features.Key Features of Plenty of Fish:
Turn your dating app ideas into reality with Konstant Infosolutions4. Zoosk – Online dating appZoosk is a flexible dating site available in 25 languages and 80+ countries for short-term to long-term relationship seekers. It is one of the most popular and preferred dating sites in the world. Zoosk is the best alternative to Tinder, which is used by singles for hookups, casual flings, dating, long-term relationships, and more. It has nearly 40 Million users base worldwide making it the most demanding and best dating application. Zoosk matching algorithms work more precisely, and they connect the users based on interest and behavior on the application. Even more, it creates live streams, shares virtual gifts, allows users for virtual speed dating, etc.Key Features of Zoosk:
5. Happn – Local Dating appHappn is the one dating app, which works based on locational technology. Happn will suggest you for the users, with whom you have crossed paths once in real. It has an additional unique twist feature, which makes the application more adventurous compared to others. Happn is one of the best hookup apps compared to Tinder because it lets you connect with women who live and work closely.Key Features of Happn:
6. Skout – Location-based datingSkout is an online dating platform to choose their partners by preference and proximity, chat, broadcast yourself and watch others’ stream themselves, checked who viewed your profile, save your favorite users, get updates from nearby users, browse profiles and pictures and simultaneously promote your profile with in-app features.Same goes with Tinder like apps, Raya, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, Happn, The League, Clover, Match, eHarmony – where users get to learn about their potential matches, share their interest. Some of these Tinder like apps reveal deal-breaking information that might be useful to users and let them know the potential person in a much better way. Key Features of Skout:
7. Coffee Meets BagelCoffee Meets Bagel is an alternative to Tinder, which is a free app for Android and iOS users and does not ask for Facebook Registration during registration. Users can set up their chat preferences according to the pop-up on their screen displays. In this application, the users will get a chance to earn beans by making a purchase or by referring the application to a friend in which the users can get many additional features.Key Features of Coffee Meets Bagel:
8. HingeHinge allows users to connect with their Facebook friends, friends of friends, and other users of the program though. Moreover, this will introduce you to others who might show interest in you. This application will ask various questions from users during the profile registration process to learn what kind of person the user is, who will be the right interest people for certain users, and more features that make it one of the best Tinder alternatives. It functions like Tinder, where you have to swipe left and right for acceptance and rejection.Key Features of Hinge:
9. Match DatingMatch is the most popular dating app; which has a vast user base. Among other matchmaking platforms in the marketplace such as social media platforms and blog platforms, Match Dating App has great popularity. Therefore, users are more familiar with and in favor of Match.com. Foremost, the app assesses the taste of users with other users to discover their potential right match for you. Even more, users can create their profiles, and have to answer some relatable questions for more profile authenticity.There are most of the features in Match Dating, which can be found in other Tinder-like apps. This application enables the users to find and choose the person of their interests. You can smoothly connect and communicate with a person through Match dating application. Key Features of Match Dating:
10. Meet MeMeetMe is an older dating app like Tinder that has more than 100 million downloads and is still going strong. It allows you to search for matches within and near your area, using a basic but colorful interface.Users must exercise caution when learning about phony profiles since there have been a few incidents of victims being drawn to fraudulent persons because people use this app to maintain healthy and long-term relationships with matching profiles. Key Features of Meet Me:
ConclusionDating apps are based on maximum user interaction. Dating app developers need to study the functionality principle of the dating app, analyze the main benefits and use cases before they build a dating app. Additionally, they must create the structure and design of a dating app and make use of the right technology stack to create a dating app. Moreover, android and iOS developers need to add MVP features to the dating app and ultimately choose a monetization strategy.It sums that creating one of the best dating apps requires studying a competitive market and applying skills at hand, in addition to the demand in the market to fetch the best results. This would save you some dilemma at the time when you need to have your dating alternative to Tinder. The thoughts and tips shared within this excerpt are common sense and attainable. For the most part, every post listed in this category is driven by a perspective on a better way to maximize time, efforts and money. Keep reading, label it in your next charter as “market research” and share your queries with us! |
2024.05.23 04:54 humanitysPancakes Discord Ping Spikes and Other Issues HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi okay I'm gonna totally butcher all of the tech language because I don't really understand how a lot of it interacts/works, but I will TRY MY BEST! Sorry if this is all over the place
My discord has been having ping issues over the past month or two. It happens after I've been in a call for about an hour or so (give or take 15 minutes) and usually when watching a stream. It'll all be fine and then suddenly my ping will spike and I get INSANE lag. I'm talking like 10-15 second delays at the worst. I can barely send messages (when I do I get insane delays), load any channels, and leaving the call itself also takes a long time.
When this happens, I leave the call and A) quit discord via taskbar, B) restart my entire laptop, or C) just give up and leave call for the rest of the night because it's annoying. It usually ends up being C because both A and B do not "reset" my hour long timer before I start to lag again and I just have the same issue all night and end up not being able to do anything.
Now that you have context, let me set out everything I know and have done to try and fix/make this issue better.
So far to try and fix my issues I have..
So I ALSO have this issue with the discord desktop app where whenever I try to turn on my camera, my computer just completely freezes and I have to shut the whole thing down by force. This has been going on for YEARS. It started probably mid 2022 because I used to be able to turn on my camera during lockdown and have no issues.
My camera is fine, and my discord doesn't have the permission off or something like that because I can turn it on browser discord and on mobile. It's just the discord desktop app and I have no clue why. It's done it through every single driver and computer update these last couple of years. Haven't ever been able to figure it out, so I just go on phone or browser discord when I want to turn on my camera
Any and all help is appreciated!!! Also if you can, please explain things to me like I'm stupid and as plainly as possible (or as plain as you can cause I get it still might be complicated) so I can do my best to understand too! I'll also be putting this on a few different subreddits, so lmk if there's a specific one that could help me better and I'll put it up there, too!
tl;dr, discord ping issues that haven't been solved by reinstalling/updating everything i can possibly think of, randomly happening, and idk what to do. also turning my camera on when using discord desktop app crashes my entire laptop! help!
Thanks for reading!
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My discord has been having ping issues over the past month or two. It happens after I've been in a call for about an hour or so (give or take 15 minutes) and usually when watching a stream. It'll all be fine and then suddenly my ping will spike and I get INSANE lag. I'm talking like 10-15 second delays at the worst. I can barely send messages (when I do I get insane delays), load any channels, and leaving the call itself also takes a long time.
When this happens, I leave the call and A) quit discord via taskbar, B) restart my entire laptop, or C) just give up and leave call for the rest of the night because it's annoying. It usually ends up being C because both A and B do not "reset" my hour long timer before I start to lag again and I just have the same issue all night and end up not being able to do anything.
Now that you have context, let me set out everything I know and have done to try and fix/make this issue better.
So far to try and fix my issues I have..
- Updated all drivers on my computer
- Reinstalled Discord (which I did last week and did not resolve my issues)
- Restarted my computer MANY times
- Done any and all windows updates available
- Restarted the modem for my internet
- Removed a ton of files (100+ GB) from my computer to an external drive so I have more free space.
- My computer is ~4 years old, and it's a shitty dell laptop (inspirion 38 something). It's on its second harddrive (replaced August 2021) with a little less than 400 GB of storage.
- At the times when I have this issue, my brother is usually also on his own, separate discord call or streaming/gaming at the same time. He does not have any ping issues, and the one issue he did have with discord was solved with a reinstall.
- At the same time, my parents are usually streaming something (YoutubeTV usually) downstairs on our Samsung smart TV. They have no issues either.
- I usually try to ONLY run discord when these issues happen. I close Firefox and whatever other game (Minecraft or Stardew Valley usually) is running. This doesn't stop the issues.
- Our modem is old. I'm not sure exactly how old - my mom guessed about 5 years but I think it's newer than that. Maybe 3 years-ish.
- I did an internet speed test while having the issues and upload was around 1 mps and download around 15 mps. A speed test just now while I'm not having the issues and only Firefox (to run the test) + Discord open is upload 4.75 mps and download 9.71 mps. I know it isn't great at ALL so I'm wondering if we should replace the modem/how to do that. (We have spectrum because AT&T was bad and overcharged us a lot)
- None of the other server members in my VCs experience this or any similar issues. We are majority in the same timezone (CST) so I don't think server region should affect this?
So I ALSO have this issue with the discord desktop app where whenever I try to turn on my camera, my computer just completely freezes and I have to shut the whole thing down by force. This has been going on for YEARS. It started probably mid 2022 because I used to be able to turn on my camera during lockdown and have no issues.
My camera is fine, and my discord doesn't have the permission off or something like that because I can turn it on browser discord and on mobile. It's just the discord desktop app and I have no clue why. It's done it through every single driver and computer update these last couple of years. Haven't ever been able to figure it out, so I just go on phone or browser discord when I want to turn on my camera
tl;dr, discord ping issues that haven't been solved by reinstalling/updating everything i can possibly think of, randomly happening, and idk what to do. also turning my camera on when using discord desktop app crashes my entire laptop! help!
Thanks for reading!
2024.05.23 04:39 PunkTransGamer PRA TODO MUNDO QUE ME ENCORAJOU, EU NÃO DROPEI DO FO1, OBRIGADO!!!
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