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A community for those who appreciate high quality writing utensils. mechanicalpencils
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2013.10.21 08:59 chupacabra_whiskey TrueOffMyChest, a place for people who need to speak their mind

A place to get personal things off your chest. Not for opinions, not for relationship advice, and not for preaching.
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2012.06.19 00:19 Peterb77 Woodturning : We take square stuff and make it round!

The Reddit corner for all things woodturning. If you have questions, projects, updates, gripes, or any other spiny wood, resin, or metal related thing, here is the place to post it. Check the /turning wiki for answers to some of the most frequently asked questions, including which lathe NOT to buy.
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2024.05.23 13:21 MallSpecialist5118 Weird beetles collecting

The presumably carpet beetles have appeared and I don't know what to do.
First saw one ~2 nights ago, flying, i killed it. Now there are more of them, but many dead for some reason. As u can see in the picture, many have collected in this 900mm²-2500mm² lid for some reason, but some are outside of it as well. I have a carpet in my room, but they aren't interested in it from what I can see, but they like yarn pieces. Currently I've boxed in the ones on the lid. I'm curious about what beetles they are, why they're behaving like this, randomly dying, and also how i can get rid of them, and send them back to whereever they came from. (How do i kill them all😭)
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2024.05.23 13:21 YhouZee I read my husband's messages with another woman

Not sure the point of this post exactly but I need to vent and I'm open to advice on what to do. I apologise as this might be a long one, but I'm really confused and don't really know how to feel.
I 26F was setting up something on my 34M husband's phone when I saw a WhatsApp message from a woman whose number was saved with a really cutesy name. I couldn't help but enter the chat, and I found that she and my husband were texting like every other day including long WhatsApp calls. They also apparently iMessage (I didn't look) and offline call a lot from the context given in the chats. Their messages go way back (I didn't get to the beginning) and there's talk of them knowing each other for ~10 years.
The messages were mostly them checking in on each other, starting conversations and apparently finishing up with calls, like 10 - 30 minutes long ones. What was most concerning was the level of emotional vulnerability going on, with her telling him how he was the only person she could really relate to, and vice versa. Talk of being lonely and having no one to talk to except each other and stuff. Anytime my husband was late in replying her (as he is wont to do) she'd barrage him with messages, sometimes in caps lock, and calls. Somewhere up she asked him for a more private number and he freely gave a number he always told me for was only family and extremely close friends. Most of their messages were very late (10 - 11pm) when my husband would generally not respond to me if I messaged.
I suspect they had a relationship in the past but I'm not sure, because at some point she was talking about feeling bad about having to run back to her ex anytime she needed to talk and I was too vexed to really understand whether she meant him or someone else.
I had a baby 3 months ago, and while I was pregnant he was updating her about his hospital visits (to see me) and less than an hour after I gave birth he told her. He sent her my raw maternity pictures, and one of the first pictures I took of my baby which I only shared to family. They talked baby care a lot, which is surprising since husband barely does anything but hold the baby for a few minutes while I poop or shower. He complained about not getting any sleep because of baby to her, while he has never risen to do anything in the middle of the night. When baby got his shots, he wasn't there, but there he was on WhatsApp whining about how immunisation days were difficult.
The heartbreaking part was when I was the subject of their chats. When my baby was 3 weeks old we had a minor disagreement (if it can even be called that) that made my husband storm out of the house and not come back or talk to me for 5 days. He stonewalls me a lot so it wasn't out of character but I was extremely disappointed that he didn't even care to hear about baby (who had spent over a week in the NICU after birth). When he finally came back I tried to talk about the issue but he literally ignored me and I let it slide to avoid more problems.
During that period he was telling this girl in the chats how I was a hard and stone-hearted person who always wanted things done a particular way and how he was always sad to be around me. She was even telling him to be kinder to me, that it might be sleep deprivation, hormones, new mom stress that made me act like that, and she had similar issues when she had her 3 babies. He asked for advice and she advised him not to further discuss the issue at all with me, to just let it die. Which is what he did exactly.
There's a lot more, talking about exchanging birthday gifts, planning meetups (not sure if they actually happened as the messages would drop off there). Now my husband has quite a number of female friends,which I'm absolutely OK with. I'm the more reclusive person and he always asks me to introduce every one of my handful friends. So why do I not know this mystery person? I'm trying not to entertain the possibility that my husband is cheating on me, because for all his faults I always pegged him to be a faithful person. I'm really, really confused and feeling very conflicted. If I bring it up I'm likely going to get an emotional outburst and/or straight up silent treatment. I'm also ashamed that I checked his messages.
It just feels so unfair really. I've never felt lonelier and unloved than in the past year. I've had no sex in several months (he can barely get or stay hard and blames it on work problems and fear of disrupting my then pregnancy), and they were very unsatisfactory before then. I try to make jokes or start topical conversations and I'm usually met with a monosyllabic response essentially shutting down the discussion. I was worried that he was depressed or something but it turns out he was just exhausting his emotional bandwidth elsewhere???
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2024.05.23 13:21 TouchMajor6473 I don’t know how to tell my girlfriend I don’t want physical intimacy

I 21M have been dating this wonderful woman 20F let’s call Grace for eight months now. Things have been going great for us we’ve had a few bumps and lumps here and there in the relationship but then again what relationship hasn’t. The problem is physical intimacy, now let me start off with I love her with all my heart and she’s been my first true love but not my first lover, I’ve had a few others that were definitely used to this. Graces problem is that I’m here first boyfriend, first kiss, first partner you name it. She’s always so eager to please me and it’s the most adorable thing I’ll ever see, my problem stems back to I’m her first. She didn’t know what a handjob or fingering was none of that like she’d been living under a rock for her life. To be fair she was her mother always was the controlling type. But alas she became curious and I explained a few things and even got her more in touch with her feminine side letting her embrace it. Now my problem. She’s great looking don’t get me wrong but I think at the end of the day she can’t satisfy me the way I’d like her too call me selfish but it’s just not enjoyable for me as it is for her. I think I’d rather just snuggle in bed then have her tug at me for a few minutes as I fake an orgasm to just to save her feelings. To summarise, I love grace but she just can’t satisfy me how do I tell her gently I don’t want to be intimate or would rather just cuddle instead?
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2024.05.23 13:19 Organic-Oil-6999 Conquering IIT-JEE: Top Coaching Institutes in Delhi

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2024.05.23 13:19 hipolit99 Where is Trackmania going: Complexity vs Variety

First of all I'm glad to see that Nadeo's main focus has shifted back to creating content for tm2020 since the huge content gap between 2021 and 2023. The whole idea of bringing back old cars and blocks that fit their driving styles also sounds great on paper, but I think the backlash against these new/old cars has shown that it is not necessarily the kind of content the playerbase (or at least a big/vocal part of it) has been waiting for. That begs the question: is this how players are gonna respond to anything new in the game, or is there a fundamental flaw in Nadeo's content strategy?
I think it's safe to say that it's almost impossible to make everyone happy, especially since the trackmania community is already fragmented into so many different sub-communities that care about very different things. Besides that, not all players are able/willing to invest the same amount of time into the game. Especially with the new cars that seemed to be the main criticism and besides the much needed update/rework of the training campaign I don't see much that Nadeo can do here to change people's minds. With every car they add, the game becomes more complex and players that are interested in playing TOTD or the campaign will have to invest time into learning the new mechanics. So that's it, right? If people want more content they are going to have to invest more time into learning and if that's a problem for some players trackmania might just not be the game for them?
This is where I see the "fundamental flaw" in the recent content updates: many people are asking for more variety in the game, but what they are getting is more complexity. What do I mean by "variety" and "complexity"? To describe it in the shortest way possible: variety is when you have more things to do in the game (like different gamemodes, progression/unlock systems, etc.) while complexity is when the things you do in the game get more depth (more surfaces, effect blocks, cars, etc.). Adding variety or complexity can be great for a content update, but at least for me it never seemed like trackmania was lacking complexity. The skill ceiling has been incredibly high since the release of the game and it's always possible for the mappers to raise the difficulty in any given style (tech, fullspeed, dirt, ice, etc.).
On the other hand variety has been a bigger problem since the start. For a game that (in theory) has so much to offer, it's very sad to see that the casual player experience pretty much boils down to: 1. getting campaign ATs at the start of every season, 2. playing a couple mm matches every week on these maps and 3. playing COTD every other day. There are way more fun things to do in the game, but as for now these other gamemodes/cups are not very accessible to the wider trackmania community, so they stick to the three things I just mentioned, which gets boring very quickly.
To sum everything up: I don't mind new cars and as someone who is mainly focused on mapping I love seeing new blocks. But I don't think adding more complexity to the game is going to get most of the playerbase excited. I'm sure it's a massive challenge to come up with new gamemodes or to rework old ones (matchmaking FFA/1v1v1v1/2v2 prayge, royal community RIP) but if done right I think the response would be overwhelmingly positive and we might see more players come back to the game.
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2024.05.23 13:16 Humble-Bend-8363 My honest opinion on chapter 261

This ch just ruins so much stuff all at once in my opinion. Yes I know gojo said that he didn't cared about his own body. But damn his body just got used like that. And no one not even any of his subordinates shed a tear after he died. So his death only meant for them to use his body to fight Sukuna later? Shoko literally has a funny expression as if the thing she did is even close to moral. Atleast should have shown her expression to be empty. Also yuji just can never get a w without help. Like the mahito fight is perfect as it is. It made more then enough sense. But Sukuna vs everyone? It doesn't at all. Everyone are taking away something important from Sukuna. Yet he still is doing domains like no tomorrow. Also yuji was treated like a side character. Thrown away like that for the sake of what? So him piercing into Sukuna's heart was thrown away like that? It isn't making sense. No way gege killed off and injured so many important characters and Yuji's efforts just for Sukuna to smile and happily fight gojo (yuta) as if all of the damage he took after 236 was nothing. This isn't even good writing. Idc about power scaling. This ch was a way to steal yujis spotlight by using 2 fan favorite characters
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2024.05.23 13:14 Kcortfird At last, the anger stage cometh . . .

Wednesday Evening: It is weird the things that can set me off now days.
For those who have missed the story recounted in my other posts and comments: my late wife fought a long battle with depression, one which she ultimately lost. Over a number of years, she destroyed her poor body through over-eating and other abuses and neglect of her health. In the end, her heart failed under the strain and she died unexpectedly in her sleep at the comparatively young age of 56. The following is a passage from a post that I never made, but have cannibalized for other posts:
"I wish that I could be mad at her for doing this to me, but can’t because of my own failures as her husband. I should have tried harder to get her help. I should have acted like more of man and not cowered in the face of her self-destructive bullying."
Well today, I finally started to get a little pissed at her. Last night, while sorting through a random assortment of her papers, I happened upon the results of her taking the GRE prior to entering Grad School 30+ years ago. Her scores were as follows: Verbal Ability = 94th percentile, Quantitative Ability = 98th percentile, Analytical Ability = 98th percentile. This would, of course, be no surprise to anyone who knew her. She was sooooooo...damned...smart! When arguing, she typically ran circles around me. And any discussion of her health inevitably led to an argument . . . she saw to that.
After pondering what I had found, I started to think: how could she not know what she was doing to herself? How could she not understand what she was doing to me and to the kids? What a selfish, mean bitch! Why do I miss her so freakin' much?
Thursday Morning: Yes, she could be mean and selfish. That was especially noticeable as the bulk, the pain, and the weariness came to eclipse so much of the rest of who she was. But it was still clear that she was somebody special. I was still proud to be her husband. I still wanted to be around her, even as her deteriorating state sucked more and more of the joy out of our lives. Life can be cruel. Maybe, because of her brilliance, she was more aware of that than the rest of us. And maybe that awareness made her life too difficult to navigate "successfully". Or maybe she was just too self-centered and lazy to give a shit. In the end, the practical effect was the same. She is gone and it feels like she has taken the best part of me with her.
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2024.05.23 13:14 SignalEbb9969 Need help with plants

We had two bamboo sticks in the tank for our betta and it ended up causing him to get sick because the plant died and turned black. We changed out about 50% of the water, removed the bamboo and I tested the water before and after with the 5 in 1 strips you find at Walmart, and the ammonia strips too. The nitrates or whatever they’re called was pretty high and the water was yellow, ammonia was fine, the betta was lethargic and wasn’t eating much (started today). Obviously he needs more plants soon for oxygen. Currently in a 3 gallon tank but we are going to upgrade really soon to a proper size, found a 5 gallon aquarium kit that’s affordable. What’s a good plant for bettas that we can use in the meantime that’s as effortless as possible to care for. First fish my gf an I have owned it’s been a learning process. Also any tips that is often overlooked by new fish owners would be nice.
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2024.05.23 13:14 imkzq Wordpress + SiteGround Issues

I have been building a website on creator plan on Wordpress. It comes with its own subdomain (wpcomstaging)…
Im at the point where the website is almost ready to go live so I thought I would purchase a new hosting + domain name from SiteGround and connect to the website I have been working on WordPress.
Its been sooo much more complicated than I thought it would be.
SiteGround say they have a migration tool etc which I tried but keep getting an error…and cant seem to find answers. I can’t contact them either because it keeps going to AI chat bot and that dosent seem to provide the information im looking for.
What I want:
Wordpress site to be hosted on my SiteGround hosting plan and connected to my custom domain I also got off them. The domain is a (.au). I was thinking if that was causing the problem with there migration tool🧐 but Im not sure.
Can somebody please help me or point me in the right direction.
Thanks
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2024.05.23 13:13 nonchalantthrowaway4 How to stop self sabotaging

I’m 18 and can’t stop self sabotaging. I complain and think to myself that I need to do better in my dating life, but then when I get opportunities then I find any reason to bail. When girls come up to me interested in hookups, I shrug it off and say I am more of a relationships guy. But, when I meet a girl who is interested in dating seriously, I get weirded out by the dynamic and I push them away back into the friend zone. Idk what my issue is but I guess that’s why I’m posting here. Thanks
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2024.05.23 13:12 AutotapFootFaucet Top 9 Reasons Why Faucet Pedals Are Perfect for Commercial Kitchens

Top 9 Reasons Why Faucet Pedals Are Perfect for Commercial Kitchens
In the fast-paced environment of commercial kitchens, efficiency, hygiene, and convenience are paramount.
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2024.05.23 13:11 wackogf How do I support a friend with this diagnosis?

I am a home cleaner for elderly people. Me and one of my clients created a deep bond, we are both diagnosed with a mental disorder. I have BPD, she is diagnosed with schizoafective disorder. She is 70 yo and has an alcohol problem. At the beginning, I loved visiting her, but recently her behaviour is getting more and more challenging. She is on medication and seeing a psychiatrist. There were a few instances when she became very hostile and irrtated towards me and other people for reasons that make no sense (at least to me and other people). For example, she would invite me and her friends over to keep her company, but them become passive agressive and rude to us like we were bothering her by coming over. When we tried to leave, she would not let us, but continued to be abusive and insult us.
She rarely admits that her behaviour is abusive although when I got angry with her a few times and told her to not speak to me that way she backed off. I don´t know what to do. I am a very patient person, but I can´t deal with her rude behaviour and constant need for attention. She would call me late at night to come and keep her company, but the next day she would insult me and suggest I was not welcome in her home. I am still her employee, but I care deeply for her. I hang out with her, sometimes we drink or smoke weed together. I am 26. But I am getting to the point when I am dreading every visit because her mood is unpredictable and I don´t know if she is going to be nice to me or insult me. She is very childish for her age and expects people to solve her problems or assist her with basic tasks. As she is elderly I rarely refuse to help, but there is a line even I don´t want to cross. I am not her relative, just a friend, but I want to help. She has very rocky relationship with her daughters who are reluctant to help her, even when she was injured and couldn´t move, they didn´t even take her in. I know it´s probably because she is like this, but I can´t help but feel bad for her because her daughters clearly blame her mental illnes on her.
How do I approach this situation? Will having a conversation about this be helpful? I tried to tell her that her behaviour upsets me and that I wouldn´t like her to be this way again when she invites me over, she avoids talking about it and kinda makes it seem like everything is my fault and her reaction was justified. Any tips on how to help and also keep myself sane? Thank you.
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2024.05.23 13:11 Time_Arm1186 A. Malcolm - why did they mess up the dialogue?

I love this episode, of course, and I love the book. I love pretty much all of the changes they chose to make in the show, like turning Claires thoughts into lines: ”Do it now! And don’t be gentle!” 🔥
But how could anyone slaughter the dialogue like this: ”Is that how you felt the first time we layed together?” ”It’s always been forever for me, Sassenach.”
…by leaving out Claires previous line:
”I didn’t know it would be forever. I meant to go - then.” …meaning she was still looking for a way to get back to the stones at that time. Such an important line, showing how they went in to this relationship with totally different perspectives. And the last line doesn’t even make sense on its own!
Another messed up piece of dialogue is when they’ve taken their clothes off and Claire asks: ”are you as scared as I am?” After that they skipped the lines ”I don’t think I can be, you have gooseflesh all over, come to bed” or something like that, and then she discovers that he is all warm but he is still shivering all over, which results in the line: ”I recon I must be afraid, aye?”. The show chose to only keep the last line, which again makes no sense on its own!
It might seem like small stuff but it makes me so sad when this episode is so close to perfection! I wish I could change it, just put in the 2-3 lines that’s needed.
And btw, in the show they’ve never said ”do not be afraid, it’s the two of us now”, before, right? Only in the book? And ”when we were first wed, you said it’d be easier if we touched” doesn’t refer to anything we’ve seen before either?
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2024.05.23 13:10 earliestbird555 Immortal Great Souls by Phil Tucker is awesome (and features a slow-burn romance sideplot)

I recently finished reading the series (3 books in, with more coming in the future) and holy shit, this is peak progression fantasy.
The first book established all the good stuff - a unique world, interesting characters, unexpected twists and turns of events, and a constantly struggling MMC to stay alive. The main love interest already appears in the first book, but no romance just yet. 4/5
The second book really dropped the ball in my opinion. I won't spoil anything concrete, and it has nothing to do with the romance. There was just a big event that, I felt like, should have mentally affected the main character a lot more. Like permanent trauma for the rest of his life kind of effect. And he just shrugs it off a week later. 2/5
The third book was one of the best novels I've read in the past few years. The stakes ramp higher, more of the world opens up, and yes, we finally get that romantic plotline going between the MMC and his girl. With their intense personalities, it's a joy to see unfold. 6/5
Progression fantasy can be difficult to set up with increasing showcases of power, but if the series keeps going in this direction, it could be a worthy rival to Cradle.
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2024.05.23 13:08 pigd0glove Husband won’t stop even though it’s slowly killing him

I have been on/off the wagon for a few years now. After a recently blackout where I accidentally called the police and broke my foot, I decided once and for all that enough is enough. It’s only been five days but that’s the longest stretch I’ve had in probably 6 months.
My husband drinks more than I do. 6/7 days a week he drinks half a 750ML of tequila. The only reason he doesn’t drink one day week is when he has to go into his office. He also “needs” a drink before doing certain activities outside of the house. Before we met 11 years ago he went to AA for alcohol and a klonopin addiction stemming from PTSD; he was sober for a year.
He has pre-diabetes, sleep apnea (uses a CPAP) and fatty liver. He’s only 40. I don’t know what to do. He knows he needs to stop but says he “can’t relax” without it.
His job has been sucking lately so he’s been getting angry when he drinks (which never really was the case before). He doesn’t get physical but he’ll say mean shit to me or accuse me of cheating on him (literally never have and there’s no evidence to say otherwise. I WFH and hardly go anywhere without him or our kids).
I’m feeling really frustrated. I don’t believe in ultimatums because I know they don’t work, but I can’t keep living like this.
When I ask him not to drink or remind him how it’s hurting him, he tells me I’m not being supportive and just want to control him. I just want to have a normal family/life that doesn’t revolve around alcohol. And I don’t want to fuck our kids up.
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2024.05.23 13:07 New-Recognition-9414 Resolving Common BitLocker Issues on Windows 10: A Complete Guide

Resolving Common BitLocker Issues on Windows 10: A Complete Guide
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Microsoft Windows users know BitLocker as a great security system that sometimes won't work. Our meaning is clear if BitLocker is giving you trouble on Windows 10. Try not to give up. The vast majority of BitLocker problems are pretty normal and are quickly fixable.
Today, we're going to try to figure out what you're having trouble with and give you suitable answers. Troubleshooting BitLocker, TPM, restore keys, and other topics will be covered.

Describe BitLocker

If you care about keeping your data safe, you probably already know about BitLocker. If this is your first time hearing about it, let me explain it quickly.
Windows OS has a security system called BitLocker that can be used for many things. It's meant to protect your whole hard drive, not just certain files. No matter what, BitLocker will need a password or a smart card to open the locked drive. A lot of the time, people lose their original password. A BitLocker recovery key given during setup is the only way to unlock the Windows drive in this case.
With these passwords, you can't get into a hard drive that has been encrypted with BitLocker's Advanced Encryption Standard (AES) algorithm, which is a strong lock.
A lot of businesses use BitLocker because they know how important it is to keep data safe. But BitLocker can have bugs, even though it's very safe. It might be hard for you to turn on BitLocker, find the recovery key, or even keep your disk protected.

How to Fix Problems with BitLocker on Windows 10

BitLocker isn't working right, and you don't know what. For Windows 10 users, BitLocker problems include forgetting or losing the password and protection not working. To fix your BitLocker problem, though, we need to first figure out what's wrong.
Find and recognize the issue
You can find a history of BitLocker events in Windows OS by going to the Event Viewer app > Windows Logs > Application. It's simple to find BitLocker event logs, but not so simple to read them. First, they need to be copied to text files, which requires writing code.
Luckily, mistake messages aren't too hard to understand. They are coded, which means that each error has its own code, but it's easy to understand them and look up what caused them and how to fix them.
If you get a BitLocker error warning, here's what it means:
  • Error 0x8031003A: Wrong/unsupported key protector ID
  • Error 0x80310068: Your PIN is too short
  • Error 0x803100CC: PIN is alphanumeric
  • Error 0x8028400F: TPM cannot be found
  • Error: You can’t store BitLocker recovery info in Active Directory
Find out everything you can about the problem.
You'll need as much useful information as you can find, not just about BitLocker, in order to figure out what's wrong. You also need to know what kind of hard drive you have that is protected with BitLocker and what version of Windows OS your computer is running.
Find out important things about your hard drive this way:
  • Press Windows Key and R.
  • Type MSINFO32 and press Enter.
  • Go to Components > Storage > Drives (standard info) or Disks (detailed info).
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  • Make sure that the TPM is turned on.
If TPM is not turned on, BitLocker will not work. The Trusted Platform Module, or TPM, is a piece of hardware in your Windows computer that manages security keys.
There are computers that don't have a TPM chip at all. That can be checked in this way:
  • Find Device Manager by going to Start and typing its name.
  • Go to Security Devices in the app once you open it. You can be sure that your computer does not have a TPM chip if there is nothing there.
  • A TPM chip is built into all modern devices, but it is sometimes turned off by default. There is a simple way to tell if your TPM chip is on or off:
  • Look for tpm.msc in Start.
  • Check the box next to Status in the Trusted Platform Module app. It will say "The TPM is ready for use" if your device has a TPM chip and it is turned on.
  • Check for Any Pending Updates
  • If you don't update your computer for a while, it may get bugs and stop working right. So you should check for changes before you use the motherboard to fix BitLocker. That will save you a lot of time and trouble if there are changes.
  • Go to Start > Settings.
  • Under Windows Update, select Check for Updates.

Common BitLocker Problems and How to Fix Them on Windows 10

If you look at the problem messages, check for TPM, and update your PC, you should have a good idea of what to do next to fix BitLocker. If the problem is still there after all the changes, it means you have a more specific BitLocker problem.
Let's get to work. Based on what other BitLocker users have said, you're probably having one of the following problems. These steps will fix most BitLocker issues:

Unfortunately, you are not turning on BitLocker

BitLocker won't work on your device because either your computer doesn't have a TPM chip built in or the TPM chip has been turned off. We already told you how to check your TPM status above, in case you just wanted to go to the answer.
Is your TPM turned off? For this, you'll need to use UEFI. How to do it:
  1. Open Start > Settings > Update & Security.
  2. Select Recovery and click on Restart Now under Advanced Startup.
  3. Choose Troubleshooting.
  4. Click on Advanced options.
  5. Go to UEFI Firmware Settings.
  6. Next, click the Restart button.
  7. Select the Trusted Platform Module and press Enter.
  8. Choose the Enabled option. Press Enter.
  9. Exit the UEFI settings and restart the computer.
The TPM chip in your machine is missing? BitLocker can still be turned on without the Trusted Platform Module, but you'll need a good USB flash drive and to plug it in every time you turn on your PC. Also, you need to change the following BitLocker settings:
  • Insert a USB flash drive into your PC.
  • Run Start and search for BitLocker. Open the BitLocker Drive Encryption app.
  • Click on Turn on BitLocker on the Operating System Volume.
  • Go to the Set BitLocker Startup Preferences page and select Require Startup USB Key at Every Startup.
  • Select the inserted USB flash drive and click Save.
  • Choose Save the password on a USB drive and click Next.
  • Ensure the Run BitLocker System Check option is checked before you click Continue.
  • Click on Restart Now to reconfigure BitLocker.
Before this, you may need to use the Group Policy Object Editor to turn on BitLocker's advanced startup choices. Type gpedit.msc into the Start search bar. Then go to Computer Configuration > Administrative Templates > Windows Components > BitLocker Drive Encryption.
To turn on BitLocker Drive Encryption, go to Control Panel Setup and click on Enable Advanced Startup Options. To make sure the change is made, click Apply > OK.

Your BitLocker Recovery Key Is Lost

If you set up BitLocker on your PC yourself, you were given a recovery key that you can use to get into the encrypted drive if you lose your ID. You might not remember where it is. Windows gives you the following choices for saving a BitLocker key during setup:
You can safely keep your backup key in one of these places, unless someone else set up your BitLocker. All you have to do is remember which choice you made.
But sometimes you might lose or delete your BitLocker recovery key. What can you do to fix the BitLocker recovery problem? You can use a tool like BLR Bitlocker Data Recovery Software to do it. Professional bitlocker data recovery software that can get data back from BitLocker-protected drives but only if you know the password or key.
You can use BLR Tools to look through your backup drive in depth and find your long-lost recovery key. It's an easy process that will work every time:
  • Download BLR Bitlocker software from the official website and install it on your PC.
  • Launch the tool and select the drive you want to scan for the recovery key.
  • Watch the progress in real-time and pause or stop it when you see the key.
  • Preview the TXT file with your recovery key to ensure everything is there.
  • Click on Recover to get it back. Choose a safe place to store it and click Save.
Anytime BLR can't find the TXT file with the recovery key on your hard drive or USB storage device, it means the file never existed. Find the key in either your Microsoft Account or the place where you keep your important papers. This book can help you remember things.

Not Working Anymore BitLocker

When you unplug the encrypted hard drive from the PC, BitLocker stops for a short time. When you use BitLocker to lock an SSD or another external drive, that's what happens. It's easy to fix, though. All you have to do is make sure the drive is hooked to the PC correctly.
The connection and the power supply are two things that could be wrong that you should check again.

Complete Failure of BitLocker Encryption

Your BitLocker might not be able to secure a drive message could mean a number of things. It turns the person away without telling them what's going on, so we call this a total BitLocker encryption failure. It's annoying that you can't figure out what's wrong.
Because we've seen it happen before, this usually happens when you try to update your PC to a newer version of Windows OS and need to change a few settings.
It is known that TPM and Security Chip settings can get in the way of BitLocker. If so, you will need to change how BitLocker is set up so that it can work with a USB drive even if you don't have a suitable TPM. We talked about this earlier when we were talking about problems with turning on BitLocker.
But a missing or wrongly set TPM is not the only reason why BitLocker encryption fails completely. You have one more choice if changing the chip settings doesn't work: delete the section and make it again. In most cases, that fixes the whole crypto problem.

Going to Disk Manager is the best way to delete a drive partition in Windows 10:

  • Open Start and search for Disk Manager.
  • Select the drive with the partition you want to delete.
  • Right-click the partition you want to delete and select the Delete Volume option.
  • Deleting volume on windows 10
  • Click Yes to confirm your choice.
Do not forget! If you erase a drive partition, all the data that is saved there will be lost. You should save a copy of your files first. If the damage is already done and there's no going back, the steps above should help you get back deleted info using BLR.

Conclusion

In general, BitLocker is a good method that won't let you down. BitLocker problems on Windows 10 don't happen very often, so you should be fine. When problems happen, always make sure the TPM is turned on and look for any changes that need to be installed. In case you lose it, you should also look for your restore key. If the encryption fails completely, you may need to delete your drive section. In this case, you'll need BLR to get back the data you lost.
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2024.05.23 13:05 1925374908 What do you do when secondary students won't/can't do work?

I am a first year teacher at a specialist government school that offers our subjects after school hours.
I have a question for teachers at all stages: what do you do when, particularly towards the end of a long lesson, students will not or cannot muster up the energy to complete formative tasks?
I inherited a diverse but capable cohort of year 11 and 12 students. They do relatively well in summative assessments but I find that with the formative, trivial (to them) preparatory work, they get worn out and the last 25% of the lesson is basically a write-off. Unfortunately my classes only meet once a week, so for me this is about 45 straight minutes down the drain.
My question is not about how to make learning experiences more engaging. There is a lot I could do and am doing in that respect. Currently I fill the time with either a different activity or a language game, but in the back of my mind I know the students aren't learning anything at this point.
I think we can all agree that school (especially on top of my specialist lessons!) is mentally and physically draining for all involved, even with frequent breaks. What I want to know is when you and the students have given it your best efforts, how do you react when students well and truly give up on a task? What do you think to yourself and say to the students?
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2024.05.23 13:05 Blue_Reaper_2k apartment debt

as the title suggests, I have a fairly large apartment debt in collections. I intend to pay it, primarily because its less than a year old and it's getting in the way of renting. it has been sent to collections.
it happened because I had a roomate who I moved in with. he then kept quitting his jobs leaving me to pay the bills until I eventually ran out of money. we were told to either pay, return the keys, or be evicted. of course I tried the honest route and seeing as how paying wasn't an option we returned the keys.
this was NOT an eviction. the debt is just ridiculously high fees for having to break the lease early and without notice.
my questions are as follows:
when I pay it off, can I negotiate a pay to delete for apartment debt? or is that only for credit cards?
also, if I can't have this deleted, what sort of impact can I expect it to have on my ability to rent if it shows that there was a collection but it was paid in full? what effect is it likely to have on my credit score?
TL;DR: I have an apartment debt that is composed primarily of early lease breaking fees and other nonsense of the like. it was not an eviction, but a surrender because we couldn't pay. if I pay it off in full, can I negotiate a pay to delete, and if not, will having it paid in full still make it easier to rent? and what effect will it have on my credit?
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2024.05.23 13:04 Leemirle Am I aroace in denial or nah?

Okay so I’ve been questioning who I am for 3 years now. Lets start this off with what I felt as a kid. As a kid I literally believed I had to pick out some random goodlooking dude and marry him and have a family (literally thought like that till I was 13). Im a woman and it seemed like thats what every adult woman around me was doing.
In middle school, I saw people get in relationships so I kept picking out random classboys who looked most decent I suppose and had a “crush” on them. By that I mean that I did get somewhat butterflies when they talked to me but only cuz I felt I was closer to “my” future goal (thing I mentioned above of family and blah blah) and never cuz I actually felt sth towards them personally. I was so confused how people were heartbroken when they got broken up with cuz it all seemed like they were dating for dating itself and not cuz they cared for their partner.
In 2020, bored, stuck in quarantine, I found couples vids on TikTok and that was the first time I saw that relationships were meant to be more than just finding someone to have a family with (funnily enough I dont even want kids). And that I want someone like that. On that same year I also got a close online guy bestfriend few months later. Like a really close one. And I think I was somewhat attracted. Only thing is, I think I was more attracted to the attention and again, finding someone to go on cutesy dates with, rather than someone I truly love. Their face reveal didnt make me feel too different, it just made me be like “cool”.
2021 I found out bout lgbtq+ and was wondering that maybe im Pan. My conclusion was that since I felt the same way about everyone, I must not care for gender. Then I realized I was probably aroace. But then again, idk if im delulu or not, but I wanted to believe I was greyaroace or demiaroace. I still want a partner and that friendship in 2020 made me realize if my connection is deep enough, I do actually slowly start wanting for small things like hugs (couldnt give em through screen but point being that as a hug hater, that was odd to happen).
Just to note that I highly doubt I can experience sexual attraction towards people because I dont find ppl hot that way and sometimes seeing someone cool on pinterest gives me butterflies for 5 seconds and its gone (applies for cool ppl ive spotted there of any gender identity). Idk if their beauty is just too aesthetically pleasing or its actual attraction for a moment. And I have never dated, I dont even have crushes so idk how id date.
As of today, Im confused, because I still dont know who I am but what I do know is that regardless if Im attracted to them or not, I would not date a man. To me, emotional bonds are the most important part of finding someone and Ive found that my emotional bonds with men tend to be more toxic and/or unhealthy than those with women/enbies. (I dont hate my guy friends I just have wayyy more awkward moments with them than with non-men.) Especially because I feel like girls understand girls better and idk, enbies r chill. I know I want a relationship but because I have not had any friendships as close as the one in 2020, I truly cant say if I would slowly start romantically adoring another bestfriend who was not a man. So am I just too delusional to accept I may never truly be attracted to someone or does anyone have any other ideas? 😔
Btw I dont fall in love with every bestfriend I have, but cuz im sure IF I do love someone its cuz im demi, that means that bestfriends would most likely fit for that. I name people my bestfriend if theyre my #1 person to go to so thats why its bestfriendS and not singular one, cuz they change overtime.
As of right now I think Im demiaroace sapphic (sapphic being so that technically idk if Im lesbian/bi/pan, I just know if I was to date then Itd probs be a woman). But Im just unsure if im aroace in denial.
Whoever did read this, thanks for reading it through and any suggestions would help.
Before anyone mentions, yes, I dont need to label myself. But I love being open with my identity so knowing whats my identity is important to me. I love wearing lil pins of my interests and myself as a person as a way to slightly display who I am :)
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2024.05.23 13:04 Bassadde Feeling cringe and bad regarding latest sparring session.

I just came back to sparring after 6 months and started the session with this guy I never seen before. I asked his name and we said hello and got to work. In my experience we only do light sparring but this guy had a different mentality because he was hitting hard. Im rusty aswell because of my time off so he was hitting me alot. I felt that I couldn't just put up guard because he was punching thru it and so I decided that I needed to put out offense so he would back off.
I started to land and things just got harder and harder. When the rounds ended the next partner I sparred with said I was dripping blood out my nose(It happens), but I got mad when I realized the blood..
I felt my adrenaline rise and I confronted the guy. I asked him if he has a hard time getting hit and always wanted to give back harder.. something like that. He apologized but my stupid ass still couldn't let it go and I said something in the likes of "We can go without gloves no problem.." and the coach overheard and said "Or you can just tell him not to hit that hard" Im like "true that".
At the end of the session , a bit more comfortable, I asked for 2 more rounds with the guy. I told him that I will hold guard harder and that we can chill a bit. He started landing and I, being away for so long, felt that I needed to pull out my aces to keep up. I got a decent questionmark kick and hit him a couple times, lightly I may ad, and he got frustrated so the guy threw a spinning heelkick at like 80%. I lean away just enough but that kick could have been crazy. I get in his face and said like "Seriously?? Slow down, spinning heelkick hard??" I was so close to loosing it. People overheard of course and said to the guy that he should chill.
All and all I made 2 scenes on my first sparring session in 6 months and I feel lika an emotion cringelord.
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2024.05.23 13:01 Severe_Development96 What do i do now?

This is more of a scream into the void thing than asking for advice but it's reddit so pkease share your thoughts
I'm gonna try to keep this short or I'll post an essay and this is hard enough
I've been in love with my best friend since high school. He knows this and we had some almost moments but he ended up deciding he was straight and i respected that. The thing is he thought i moved on but i never did. I just tried to and found every reason i could to be around him. Never tried to hit on him though because i knew he didn't want that. His girlfriends have all hated me anyway.
Ive tried dating women and it always ended with them leaving me because i seemed uninterested. That's true. Eventually with time and distance and therapy i stopped trying to convince myself i was straight and came out as gay to my other friends. I've legitimately moved on from my friend. I accept that's not gonna happen and moved away from that guy for my benefit. But I don't know what to do now
Because of all this I'm 32. Minimal dating experience. Super self sufficient. I make really good money. I've been alone forever so I don't know how to bring someone into my life. I've always done everything on my own. I want a partner though. I'm not a virgin but the idea of hooking up with a guy kind of intimidates me. I want to be part of this community and have thought about it for years but now that I've come out and decided to try I'm totally frozen. But at the same time I don't think id care enough to be scared if I didn't think it could work. I'm not ready for a boyfriend. Maybe I'll just go to gay community events and meet folks. I do live near sf. I got no idea what I'm supposed to do next. But it feels good to get all this off my chest. I'll tell my family at some point i guess
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