Sample birthday card to hubby

I wanted to put an order on my card for the points, but I had to make a payment first (I want to buy a birthday gift but my paycheck with my extra spending money to pay off the card has a few days to arrive after the birthday). I waited until the account showed the credit and I then ordered the item.
The next morning, I have 2 emails, one is from amazon saying the payment was declined at 1 am, and from the card saying my payment as posted at 4 am. I went to the order page and I can't find anything that says somethinng is wrong, it is still set to arrive in a 3 days. I check the card and it says amazon payment pending with the exact amount of the payment.
Now the following day, tracking still says set to arrive now in 2 days, but item still hasn't shipped. I want to contact them to make sure it is not stuck in a catch 22 of the system.
I started the chat window and got the canned questions so I said chat with an associate now. It says type in any details and an associate will join the chat when avaiable. The problem is, when this popped up, the typing line dissapeared and all I have is a close window button at the bottom. Did it collapse and I have to do it again, or is this right and I have to keep waiting for the associate?
Or is there a way to know if the package is not still waiting for the payment to ship that my card says it is pending?

Hear me out. My husband and I have always bought them Christmas gifts, but our families are scattered around the country and we never can attend bday parties, we have 11 nieces and nephews. Christmas was just an easier way to just send things with a card. Now that we just had our first child, I told my siblings we don’t want or expect birthday gifts from them either. My sister made a huuuge deal out of telling me she’s “not that kind of aunt”, and will buy my son birthday gifts anyway so I’ve been feeling guilty. AITAH?

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I have this book available immediately in original publisher pdf form for $7.
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Is there a signing tent this year?
In short, my kids birthday is in July and she’s a massive frank carter fan, was hoping to take along a BDay card and get them all to sign it for her if they were doing a session. I can’t see if there is one this year though?

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I dispise my MIL, but for reasons different than most of you. She, however, adores me. I took her son, that she never wanted, off of her hands.
We've been together 31 yrs and married for 25. I didn't start hating her until a few months after the wedding when I inadvertently found out that my husband's father (died when husband was 12) had been physically abusive to him. Couple that with the info I had about his mentally, emotionally and physically abusive step father, and I asked the bitch why she stayed with men that hurt her only son. Her response? "They were good providers." As in, it was ok for them to torment him, as long as SHE wasn't getting hit and had a roof over her selfish head.
This is a woman with 2 brothers and 2 sisters and all of them are loving supportive people that would have taken her and husband in at the drop of a hat. She says she didn't want to give up her independence. WTF!
I only tolerated her after that. Was civil but not overly friendly or loving at all. She probably didn't notice because shortly after our wedding she moved to the opposite side of the country. (I'm wicked witch of the west and she's wicked witch of the east now.)
Husbands grandmother lived with MIL and MIL was the only conection for him to maintain contact with GMIL. Sweet old woman and I loved her dearly. I willingly put up with the self centered skank to keep contact with her sweet mom.
Unfortunately we lost grandma last year. MIL said "not wasting money on a funeral, you don't need to come." Again, WTF! My dear husband was crushed. I swear to god he would have been better off being raised by a ferral dog.
There are many other instances where her toxicity is overwhelming. Husband knows how I feel and know it's because of her treatment of him. He knows that I too was abused when I was a kid, but my mother had the fortitude to protect her children. She konked my father over the head with a skillet when he wrapped a belt, buckle end 1st, around my brothers chest. We left permanently before dad got up off the floor.
When GMIL passed I went NC with MIL. I no longer felt the need to deal with her or see her anymore. Offered to inform her myself but DH said he preferred to tell her. I'm ok with him continuing contact. That's what he wants.
She didn't take it well. Crying fits. Multiple text. Constantly trying to call me, and I can't block her on the land line. So it goes to the machine. She planned a trip to come see us. 😂 He told her I'm going to go on a vacation with my cousin that week. She got pissed and cancelled. Threw another fit because I won't be manipulated.
Now I seek opinions. My birthday is in a couple of weeks and DH warned me last night that MIL has sent me something. Probably a gift card because she actually sent it to our home and we live rural so package delivery is sketchy. Whatever it is, I don't want it.
Should I return it to her? Have DH use it for himself? Donate it to charity?(Maybe give them her address so they can thank her properly. Lol) Any other options you can think of? I'm not above petty.

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I’ve seen lots of FOB cards on reddit that are very entertaining, currently personally getting lots of slides with the sample on the frosted edge which baffles me, and I’ve seen mixed and matched swabs where someone has taken a charcoal swab, placed it in a dry swab container, and taped it shut wanting to send it for PCR. I’m sure you’ve all experienced something like this and I’d love to hear it

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So i’ve seen some reddit posts circulating and i really want to try after seeing all the comments.
For context, 1, 19F recently broke up with my boyfriend 20M. We both go to the same college and are from the same states. There were some things in the relationship that i was very confused about, since that was my first relationship. I would just like to list some things that he did, so i can know if they are to be expected in a relationship, the bare minimum, or anything else. (Our relationship was about 6/7months)

1. We never went to eat at a pricy restaurant. By this, i do not mean fine dining, but restaurants with menu prices more than $20. About 75% of bills are split, 20% were paid by me, and 5% was paid by him.
   
2. We never got many gifts for each other. By this i mean during anniversaries or special occasions or just a little something. At the beginning of our relationship, i would get him small things, trinkets, keychain, drinks when he's stressed. I understand that he might not like gift giving, (slight exception when he got me an expensive gift) but if he did get me something it made me feel bad. (always mentioning prices, how expensive/inexpensive things were)
   
3. Birthdays, I got him a gift of things he loved valued well over $100, and when it was my birthday, his gift was $5 including the card. (his gift were things he had from years prior that was unopened and although yes was expensive, he got it for free)
   
4. If i did anything that made him upset (did not pick up phone call) he would say something along the lines of "oh you don't want to call, it's okay" after i tell him the reason i did not pick up (e.g when i am in class, or did not hear the ring)
   
5. He loves taking photos of me and has many cute candids.
   

6.1 am not DTF, but continuously tried to change it. Doing things that started as unconsensual until i accepted. (not sex tho)

1. Texting was mostly dry, unless he talked about a topic he liked, then it was one-sided.
   
2. At the middle of the relationship, he tended to promise to call in a little bit, making me wait for hours, and as I told him I would be sleeping, miraculously appearing.
   
3. Always late. Average 30mins-1hr. Once I waited about 3hrs.
   
4. After the breakup, told me that I get jealous (sure) but the occasions he bought up was 1.Telling a stranger (now a friend of ours) something personal and refusing to tell me. 2. Dragged another girl to a private secluded area and later proceeded to give her pats.
   
5. Does not remember my favourite colour despite telling him like once every 2-3 months.
   
6. Talks about other girls attractiveness, actually rated me out of 10.
   
7. Tries to make me eat healthier, gives me vegetables, makes me drink water. (normally gives me vegetables he does not like though)
   
8. Very stubborn about specific topics; thinking people who are overweight do not respect themselves, does not like when the Igbt+ community express it too much, believes his kids will 100% be prodigies and angels)
   
9. Wants a private relationship but always PDA, and continues to even after I tell him to stop
   
10. Wrote a very cute poem for me, and spent lots of time on it.
    

This is a throwaway account, but i will be happy to answer any questions or anything. Please give me your thoughts and opinions as i really need a third-party view on this. Thank you!!
We are still in contact, but i hope he doesn't find this post

My wedding was this last weekend and everything went perfect. Everyone said it was the most romantic perfect wedding ever. I agree with them—it was so incredibly lovely, picture perfect, special, etc. Of course there were random things that didn’t happen but those mishaps didn’t bother me.
We had a 140 person wedding. Mostly friends. My finance’s family. And 7 family members on my side (including parents).
I was always nervous for my wedding because my parents are divorced. Lots of mental issues in my siblings. Toxic upbringing. So not close with anyone despite me remaining civil with all of them.
Anyway, not one card from my family. I paid for this entire wedding with my own money with my fiance. It’s not about not getting money (something I never expected). But not even one handwritten note from my mom, my dad, any of them.
Mostly disappointed about my mom because out of everyone, she is the one I have the “most” of a relationship with. She could’ve easily written the smallest card or even our guestbook. it’s so painful when in comparison my husband’s parents not only asked a million times what they could do to help (and DID a thousand things unprompted) but they also wrote multiple notes and cards. The juxtaposition between the support from my husband’s family and 0 love from my family is unnerving and ruining so much post-wedding happiness. My mom gets me a birthday present each year and the gesture is always noticed and appreciated. For her to not even like give me a candy or something she hung onto for years, or A CARD. Something that cost nothing—I’m just so shattered.

Someone already posted about it but, since I kinda typed too much thing as a reply I will make it into another post copy;paste what I replied them here, so I can maybe get more about ppl's perception about the current cards and meta of this game.
[...]If I missed anything, please point it out:
"Honestly these recent formats shows how much ppl don't know how to evaluate the meta and the cards (and its the reason why I'm most concern about uniting both regions), and they end up overreacting to somethings (and even when they point out the actual issue is not with correct reasoning),and those might be the same ppl that would agree with rotation for a card game just bc placebo.
TL;DR
Restrict the following cards and call it a day: Ukkomon Promo; BT16 Ukkomon; BT14 Emissary of Hope; BT16 Magnamon X. (That's right, no patamon. Little bread with wings' not a issue, chill out).
We have samples on the further meta for other regions and know how well armor, for exemple, performs.
Looking at BT17 we have about 10 wins for Amor Vaccine and Green Base Rapid (something like 4 and 6 respectively. Meanwhile Blue Base Magna X got LOTS of top 1, still ppl thinks patamon is the main issue for armovaccine decks in general - We gonna see some yellow base performing well for starters but if it plays out as the jp format, it will just fall (anyway, I'll get back to patamon later).
Second is Numemon. I'm honestly surprise this goofmon would climb this high. For the BT17 he still got >>almost<< the same amount of tops as Blue base Magna. The instant answer ppl pointed is "hit ukkomon" and I can honestly agree but just bc is obvious. The deck have so much low cost for Lv4s that can get away with running full set of BOTH ukkomons. But... Thats just this deck no other (competitive deck) can afford such (8x)slots and bc of that i WOULDN'T ask for a Ukkomon hit by now. But another 'but' - we gotta think further ahead: More decks gonna abuse more of Ukkomons and thats awful.
So why rambled so much about Ukkomons? So I can get back to Patamon and assure that "Patomon is not a issue nor gonna be one b4 Emissary of Hope"
Meanwhile We have Vaccine decks doings "INSANE" tricks with patamon gacha, it is about it - a 01 time trick that relies on randomness of the security. The most consistent it can be if with the Starting of Pata+TK and it still will be a 01 time trick (unless they draw multiple patamons and TKs). The Vaccine decks it was meant to be played with is not even perfoming too much currently, and neither for next regular box. So the armor package is the actual problem? Not neccessarily, as I said prior, in the future Blue Base Magna performs the best.
So, why did I pointed out Emissary of Hope as the MUST hit? Bc is yellow version of Hidden Potencial Discover. It can even be worse since it can cheat out even more than 5 memory. Emissary also relives the proactive ACE digivolving without blasting. In the long run bandai can't even justify a strong Mega with 6+ evocost bc of this Option Alone. Seriously this is the insane part. I don't see the issue with patamon cheating some random Lv04 and Emissary getting overlooked. (And since its an option it gets a Security Effect. Why it adds it self and play a patamon AT THE SAME TIME???)
Sorry for the extra Ramble, but its proportional to ''patamon vs emissary'' complains.
Next topic for this meta is the one that I mentioned keeping constant wins next boxes: The new Magnamon X.
I saw some ppl actual explaining why Magna X is a issue that should be addressed meanwhile, the majority just adress the card the way I started this ramble: wrong points and overreacting biased.
To start I'll make it clear that I do think MagnaX should get restricted to 01, but bc it is a Towers. I'm fine with ''unafected cards'' existing, they add an extra layer do complexity in games and I like card games not being vanilas turbo. The main issue with him is it refreshs itself with CONSTANT +3000 - I'd would argue that +3000 is the issue here - and the constant unsuspend. Thats not many decks that can swing over it, not to mention the Armor Purge also preventing piercing getting through even if u get past the 15k min. barrier (not to mention the x-ab trait giving access to extra gimmicks) - So MagnaX is a problem due to cumination of MANY aspects of his design and its own archetype."

So i’ve seen some reddit posts circulating and i really want to try after seeing all the comments.
For context, 1, 19F recently broke up with my boyfriend 20M. We both go to the same college and are from the same states. There were some things in the relationship that i was very confused about, since that was my first relationship. I would just like to list some things that he did, so i can know if they are to be expected in a relationship, the bare minimum, or anything else. (Our relationship was about 6/7months)

1. We never went to eat at a pricy restaurant. By this, i do not mean fine dining, but restaurants with menu prices more than $20. About 75% of bills are split, 20% were paid by me, and 5% was paid by him.
   
2. We never got many gifts for each other. By this i mean during anniversaries or special occasions or just a little something. At the beginning of our relationship, i would get him small things, trinkets, keychain, drinks when he's stressed. I understand that he might not like gift giving, (slight exception when he got me an expensive gift) but if he did get me something it made me feel bad. (always mentioning prices, how expensive/inexpensive things were)
   
3. Birthdays, I got him a gift of things he loved valued well over $100, and when it was my birthday, his gift was $5 including the card. (his gift were things he had from years prior that was unopened and although yes was expensive, he got it for free)
   
4. If i did anything that made him upset (did not pick up phone call) he would say something along the lines of "oh you don't want to call, it's okay" after i tell him the reason i did not pick up (e.g when i am in class, or did not hear the ring)
   
5. He loves taking photos of me and has many cute candids.
   

6.1 am not DTF, but continuously tried to change it. Doing things that started as unconsensual until i accepted. (not sex tho)

1. Texting was mostly dry, unless he talked about a topic he liked, then it was one-sided.
   
2. At the middle of the relationship, he tended to promise to call in a little bit, making me wait for hours, and as I told him I would be sleeping, miraculously appearing.
   
3. Always late. Average 30mins-1hr. Once I waited about 3hrs.
   
4. After the breakup, told me that I get jealous (sure) but the occasions he bought up was 1.Telling a stranger (now a friend of ours) something personal and refusing to tell me. 2. Dragged another girl to a private secluded area and later proceeded to give her pats.
   
5. Does not remember my favourite colour despite telling him like once every 2-3 months.
   
6. Talks about other girls attractiveness, actually rated me out of 10.
   
7. Tries to make me eat healthier, gives me vegetables, makes me drink water. (normally gives me vegetables he does not like though)
   
8. Very stubborn about specific topics; thinking people who are overweight do not respect themselves, does not like when the Igbt+ community express it too much, believes his kids will 100% be prodigies and angels)
   
9. Wants a private relationship but always PDA, and continues to even after I tell him to stop
   
10. Wrote a very cute poem for me, and spent lots of time on it.
    

This is a throwaway account, but i will be happy to answer any questions or anything. Please give me your thoughts and opinions as i really need a third-party view on this. Thank you!!
We are still in contact, but i hope he doesn't find this post

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I’m using the Anki top 2000 common polish words and some cards have 2 forms of a word for one card. Since I grew up with polish in my home, I’m very familiar with cicha (being scolded plenty of times lol) but not with milczący. These cards have sample sentences to show the word in context and I’m editing the cards to learn the different forms.
Long story short, is there a difference in meaning between cicha and milczący? How would I change this sentence to use milczący?
to biła cicha noc
I’m thinking of
to biła nocy milczący
What am I not understanding here? Thanks in advance.

To remind me why I went NC and also to confirm to myself they are in fact fucked up and not normal, like I thought at the time.
Here are just some samples of his gems over the years;

• This one was when I was like 4? Idk, told me this a few times over the years, I don't remember not knowing it lol: “You were an accident, your younger sibling was more planned, because we wanted someone to play with you, so you’d bother us less about it." Also "I never really wanted kids untill I saw my coworkers little girls run up to him yelling daddy, daddy. Then I did want that." And "I think your mom did want to get pregnant with you, so that she could get away from her controlling parents. ” He’d say it in a cheerful, casual way, I don’t even think he was trying to hurt me really.
  
• When I was 7 or 8: “I don’t want to be a regular dad, I want to be more like a friend you can share everything with”. He was talking about dating and sexual stuff, he was weirdly eager for me to talk to him about that. He didn’t usually care to listen about much else, that I actually wanted to talk about, like my school or interests. It was always him unloading his problems on me and me being flattered that he was "treating me like an adult" and actually having conversations with me lol.
  
• When I was 14: “You know, I lost my virginity at 11 with a girl from the same apartment block, but we didn’t really know what we were doing. I waited a long time before I had sex again”. I really didn’t want to know that, thanks. He was trying to have another one of those talks where I can "share everything".
  
• When I was 15/16 and he found a new partner with her own younger kids which he started actually parenting: “I want you to visit me more often, so you can see what a real family looks like”. That one still hurts. I never really felt part of his new family, I felt very much like I was there to observe him finally get his perfect life he always wanted, but we failed to give him.
  
• This was when I was 16/17 and his new partner was pregnant with his son. Also I had just lost a bunch of weight: “You look great now. I love "my partner", but honestly, I’ve always been attracted to thinner women”. That made me feel super disgusting. Also, I lost weight cause mom had no job and we were super poor at the time (electricity, heating and phone all got shut off at one point, a lot of our main meals were just cup noodles and often that was my first meal of the day). Plus I was developing an eating disorder cause I loved the admiration that being underweight was getting me from society. But I didn’t want him to comment on it, especially not like that…
  
• Also when I was 16/17 and he’d just taken a massage course: “Make sure when you choose a partner that he knows something about giving massages, cause then you’ll know he’s good at touching a woman’s body”. This isn’t verbatim but it captures the gist of the weirdness that was that comment. He was also often eager to give me a massage and I always felt weird about it and avoided it.
  
• When I was in my 20s and he was separating from his second partner, putting his 7yr old autistic son in the middle and badmouthing her in front of him: “He already knows she’s the reason we’re not together anymore, he’s a smart kid. It doesn’t matter if I complain about her faults to him, because he can also see them.” At that point I was still hopeful he could change (he had the capacity to show remorse for his poor choices, something my mom still lacks).
  

After I saw him treat my baby brother exactly the same as how he treated us in the divorce when we were that age, I just couldn’t do it anymore. No contact for almost 3 years now and I barely even feel guilty anymore (except over not being there for my brother).
He also shilled Herbalife for years, loved every get rich quick scheme and hated that he had to pay CS for us. He was also a flat eartheantivaxxer last time we spoke, so you can probably imagine exactly the type of narcissist he is. He's tried to reach out several times with "how are you"s and invitations to birthdays, but I stayed away. I just can't, it makes my skin crawl.

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I have this book available immediately in original publisher pdf form for $7.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1aUx8qT5ej26FgpbsECGbX4nhCsE79QtX/view?usp=drive_link
I offer a book-finding service for $7 for the first book and $3 for each additional book in the same transaction, as long as I have them, so if there are any others, I will do them cheaply if I can find them Upon your agreement that you will pay the $7, I will create a sample that includes the cover up to the first page of chapter 1, and then pages 100, 200, 300, 400, and 500. You can then pay via PayPal, Venmo, Cash App, Wise, Zelle, or debit/credit card. I can also accept BTC.
Upon payment, I will provide you with the book in a permanent Google Drive folder.
Just contact me if interested.

I have a few questions regarding SSI/SSDI and the PERC process and what happens if you had deposited some money into your bank account before and/or after applying for disability. I applied for SSI/SSDI last year in 2023 and while I have not worked or made any money I have deposited some money into my bank account (checks from my parents to help me pay off my credit card bills and birthday/christmas money). I have done this since I first stopped working back in 2021. Theres a lot of random checks and cash deposits throughout these few years that I deposited into my bank. I had no idea this was not allowed and thought they only cared about the no more than 2K in bank account. I do have less then 2k in the bank and have for most of the time during my application. I‘m reading now how they look at your bank account and all transactions and any money deposited would count as income. Am I screwed now for depositing money while I was applying? Would they think I’ve been working all this time seeing the deposits and deny me for both SSI and SSDI? I am so worried now and feel so stupid. But how else could I pay off my credit cards when I have no income? I should add, while the deposits aren’t technically that much money, the money I used to make as income when I worked before wasn’t much either as I have only ever worked part-time. So even though its not much I deposited I’m just worried they will think I have still been working during this time almost the same as I was before and think I lied. If they think I lied could I get in trouble or how do I prove I didn’t lie? If I‘m still be eligible for SSI or SSDI even with the deposits I’m guessing they would just reduce the amount I get? If so can someone explain how they do that? I was reading some explanations on here but now I can’t find the posts. I am specifically talking about just the timeframe since I applied. Or I guess since I stopped working. And do they do that for both SSI and SSDI? This is all so confusing. If I’m screwed and am ineligible for both now does that mean I will be ineligible forever or could I reapply again sometime down the road, like five years from now? But if I did that wouldn’t they still look at my bank account from when I first stopped working?