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hey gang! i started a blog a couple months ago, that i'm intending to be a living songbook and outlet for me to work through my thoughts on media and the creative process. yesterday, i made a post about the running lists i keep, in order to work through any writer's block-esque problems. here's an excerpt:
what’s a “running list”? gee, thanks for asking! in short, i think it’s probably something a lot of songwriters and creatives have somewhere on their person: it’s the cork-board hanging on the wall, the magnet poetry on the fridge, the lil’ notepad in your pocket, et cetera et cetera. in fact —
— elvis costello was said to have carried around bags full of notebooks with him, whenever he’d go out people-watching in the 70s and 80s. ruben nielson’s (unknown mortal orchestra) appearance on the song exploder podcast illustrated his obsession with writing down (and circling) potential album titles. and annie clark (st. vincent) has spoken in the past about writing turns-of-phrase down in her notes app. hey, me too!
not that any bigshot interviewers or members of the press are clamoring to hear about MY process, necessarily, but i also keep a “running list” on my phone, of anything and everything: interesting combinations of words, little couplets, conceits/title ideas for potential songs, and sometimes even voice memos of chord patterns/melody snippets/quick demos, all housed in my notes app. whenever i’m drafting up a song in earnest, my running list is a great reference point for whenever i get stuck. there’s usually an idea or a rhyme on the list, that you can then shoehorn in to dig you out of a problem.
the running list is partially how i’d answer those classic process questions: how do you get started with a song? words or music? but the true answer is that it always depends, and sometimes an idea you deem worthy to jot down in one minute will go absolutely-fucking-nowhere the next. the trick is to always be observing, and be quick on-the-draw whenever something noteworthy or remarkable crops up, in passing or in conversation. write quickly, write frequently, and keep it going - hence the operative word: “running.”
end quote, lol. i'm not sure if i'm allowed to link to the actual blog itself, but i'd be happy to post it on request if anyone's interested. that post in particular will also show exactly what my running list is and what it looks like.
this blog is certainly a new pressure release-valve for me, creatively, so i'd be open to any and all notes one might have to make it a more legible, enjoyable thing.
anyways, what are y'alls thoughts on the running lists? how do you organize your stray thoughts, and then later put them into song? would love to hear you discuss. cheers~

Hinge has positioned itself as a long-term relationship app, so that means your profile needs to convince her you’re true Boyfriend Material!
Sound like a tall order? Don't worry. We use Hinge on a daily basis, and have been since the app launched in 2012. You're about to benefit from our thousands of hours of direct user experience!
You see, we represent our clients on Hinge - optimizing their profiles, selecting their photo lineups, and sending messages on their behalf. We analyze everything, so we know what approaches work, what to avoid, and which strategies attract the best matches.
Thanks to our evidence-based approached, these 7 Hinge profile tips for men will make your profile irresistible! You’ll also get 11 examples of the best Hinge answers.
Let’s start with the main attraction…
Hinge Profile Tip #1: Aim For Perfection With Your Primary Photo
Don’t worry - it’s easier than it sounds! A team of European neuroscientists identified a checklist of what attributes combine to make the most attractive profile picture:
Eye contact is particularly important, as lack of it has a negative effect on her first impression of you. When she can look you straight in the eyes, you seem inherently more trustworthy and genuinely likeable.
That means sunglasses are not ideal for dating photos, and you don’t want to hide your eyes behind your hair or a Snapchat filter either.
Hinge Profile Tip #2: Embrace Quality Control
You know who gets excited about low-quality graphics? No one.
So when choosing your other 5 Hinge photos or videos, make sure they’re all high-quality images. You want your Hinge lineup to look intentional and curated, not like you pulled random images off your Facebook or phone.
Here’s the thing - when looking at images, human brains are wired to prefer simplicity and clarity.
When a picture has a high cognitive workload, it means your brain has to work harder to interpret what’s going on in the frame. The subject matter becomes less attractive the more complex it is.
Simple = attractive.
If your picture is blurry, has harsh highlights and dark shadows, or “artistic” effects that obscure your face, the odds she’s going to “like” or comment on it are drastically reduced - and that means you probably won’t match with her.
While artistic effects that complicate your photos are not good, using a black and white filter can increase the odds you’ll get some “likes” - by 106%. Try applying one to a photo or two in your lineup!
Hinge Profile Tip #3: Put Down The Selfie Stick
Selfies are problematic on Hinge for several reasons:

1. Selfies are a whopping 40% less likely to get “likes.” That number rockets up to 90% if it’s a bathroom selfie. Don’t go there.

2. Selfies are less attractive than non-selfies. A recent study compared two photos - a selfie, and a photo of that same person taken by someone else. The selfie version was perceived as less attractive and more narcissistic. Don’t cultivate that vibe on Hinge!

3. They don’t inspire comments. Which photo do you think will entice more comments and “likes”:

Dalmatians for the win!
Photos where you’re doing something are especially effective on Hinge, as it makes it easy for your match to start a conversation by asking about whatever is going on in the image.
Per their internal data, sports photos are the most popular when it comes to “likes,” and activity photos in general ranked highly.
Coming in dead last were pics where you’re posing with someone who could be an ex. A full 98% of singles said that was a turn off.
Hinge Profile Tip #4: Stay On The Bright Side
Now let’s talk about your profile text. The best Hinge prompts to answer let you highlight on an attractive trait or two in a positive way.
Remember, she’s looking for Boyfriend Material, so why waste space with negativity?
Take, for instance, the “Pet Peeves” prompt. It’s challenging to make your answer sound anything other than whiny, pessimistic, and overly bothered by the minutiae of daily life.
Plus, if it’s a shared pet peeve, chances are she’ll feel a flash of annoyance when she reads it - and guess who she’s going to associate that feeling with? (Spoiler alert: you).
You also want to avoid describing what she may perceive as a negative character trait or flaw:
With over 80 prompts to choose from and only 3 available slots, she’s going to wonder why you took up valuable space with what’s essentially a reason not to “like” you.
To decide which are the best Hinge profile questions for you to answer, take a minute and write down a list of things you bring to the table that you think your ideal woman would be looking for in a guy.
Stable career, physically fit, interesting hobbies, family oriented, able to afford vacations, responsible enough to care for a dog… things of that nature that illustrate why you’d be a particularly good catch.
Then compare that list to the available prompts, and choose the ones that best let you highlight a few of those traits. Simple!
Here are 4 great Hinge profile examples, plus insight into why they work:
If you’re still stuck on what to write in your Hinge profile, try using one of these creative Hinge answers that are general enough to fit anyone:
A blast-from-the-past fashion trend makes for a great conversation starter since most women can relate to it.
While these examples don’t necessarily highlight a desirable personality trait or hobby, they will bring a smile to her face.
Humor is a great strategy in a dating profile, if you can pull it off. Women can’t help but be drawn to funny guys - it’s the way her brain is wired.
Hinge Profile Tip #5: Make One Of The Prompts About Her
Marketing yourself in an appealing, intriguing way is the goal of your Hinge profile.
But including a tidbit about her is an effective strategy.
According to research, 70% of your dating profile should describe you, but 30% of it should describe what type of person you’re looking for. That’s the most attractive combination.
As you’ve already learned, keep your answer positive.
Describing what you don’t want could have the opposite effect, as you may end up sounding picky and judgemental. Or worse, bitter from your last relationship imploding.
Hinge don'ts
Instead, focus on hobbies you’d like to have in common with your perfect match, or attributes that are important to you in a relationship.
Here are 3 great ways to answer the Hinge profile questions:
Describing non-physical attributes implies you're looking for a non-superficial relationship, and mentioning a hobby you'd like to have in common gives her some insight into your personality.
These good prompt answers give her some insight into what dating you might be like, and also imply that keeping in shape is important to you (which is always an attractive quality).
Mentioning a great first date idea in your Hinge answer is a subtle way to make her envision what an hour or two with you might include.
In fact, it’s so effective that according to founder Justin McCleod, answering this prompt got the most dates for users in London:
What works in London will probably work wherever you are as well, making “I know the best spot in town for” one of the best Hinge prompts for guys to answer if it's one of the available options for you.
Hinge Profile Tip #6: Make Every Word Count
The shorter a dating app profile is, the more impact each individual word has. To create the best possible first impression, you want every word in your profile to evoke positive vibes.
Stay away from words that cause a strong negative reaction, like violence, swearing, drugs and weapons. Those can have a ripple effect that will diminish your overall attractiveness.
And since this is Hinge, not Tinder, you’ll definitely want to keep it classy.
don't do this on Hinge
Even if you’re on Hinge just to hook up, don’t advertise your intentions in your profile. And consider switching to another dating app - Hinge really isn’t the app for that.
Here a few more Hinge “Don’ts” to keep in mind:
Repeat yourself. She’s reading a max of 450 characters, which is even less than a Tinder bio. Repetition is really going to stand out. If you talk about how much you love hiking in every Hinge answer, she’s apt to think you’re a one note kind of guy.
Make grammapunctuation/spelling errors. There’s not a lot of written material feeding into that all-important first impression, so little mistakes can have a big effect. Plus, surveyed singles said bad sex was preferable to bad grammar (if they had to choose), so it’s important to get it right.
Give “non” answers. You may think it’s the height of wit to answer Hinge prompts with statements like “I’m looking for… a better answer to this question,” but that’s likely to backfire on you. If she thinks you’re not taking online dating seriously, she probably won’t invest any time in getting to know you.
Reference past relationships. If you’re in your late 20s or 30s, odds are high you’ve got at least one significant relationship in your past. Whether the breakup was good or bad, your Hinge profile is not the place to rehash it.
Hinge Profile Tip #7: Reconsider Your “Dealbreakers”
When you set up your Hinge profile, you have the option to designate match preferences as “dealbreakers.”
That's a great feature for singles seeking long-term relationships, as it eliminates the need to ask those personal questions during the first few dates.
When you specify something as a dealbreaker, you won’t see profiles of people who don’t fit that category, regardless of how many other categories they do fit. (If you don't specify something as a dealbreaker, you may see profiles of singles who fall slightly outside of your ideal preferences.)
Free members have the usual filters like age range, distance and height. If you’re a Hinge+ or HingeX member, you have access to additional filters like children, family plans, education, and politics.
Take a look at any categories you deemed a “Dealbreaker” and make sure they truly are.
For instance, if your match is 5’7” instead of 5’8” or taller, is that truly important in the grand scheme of things? Or if she’s 41 instead of under 40?
If you’re too exclusive with your filtering, you may miss out on a great match you would have really clicked with, despite a small divergence from your “ideal type.”

It’s been two weeks since I posted about my wedding situation. I apologize for not answering very many of your comments on the first post. The post was intended to just talk about the situation, but it quickly turned into a mini AITA discussion, which was absolutely the farthest thing that I wanted to happen. Due to the stress and severity of everything, I had to unplug. The comments and private messages were getting to me and the messages from friends and family who caught word of the situation became overwhelming.
That being said, I got around to reading the comments after a week or so, but didn’t have the effort to say anything until now. A lot of you said I was controlling, manipulative, selfish, and racist. I can understand being called the first three, but racist genuinely hurt. I didn’t realize my actions came across as racist, but I see now how that could be assumed of me. I don’t know what to say to prove that I’m not racist, but I know that even if I did it probably wouldn’t change any minds. I’ve begun to research more on the wedding ceremonies, and just Cambodian culture as a whole, something I realize I should have done years ago.
I promise you that the decisions I made and the unfortunately “vetoed” decisions from my boyfriend all came from a place that thought it was going to be best for both of us. But like a lot of you said, it was still wrong of me to completely dismiss him and his ideas. I admit I was being stubborn about a lot of things that would have been easy to compromise on. I guess I was looking at everything through rose tinted glasses and thought that everything would just fall into place in my favor because I wanted it to. I should have heard him out more and taken his words seriously.
Additionally, a few of you called me and my fiancé out for being rage baiters and even being the same person just using different accounts. I can see how that would seem like the case, since I made this account a day after his throwaway was deleted, but I promise it was just a coincidence. I created a throwaway since my main account has content that can be traced to my other socials, and I didn’t want anyone harassing me in my DM’s or other comment sections. I think someone also brought up the fact that this account is linked to another one that has posts about being divorced? I’m not sure what that’s about.
I read the AITA post that he created and, if I can be honest, I thought it was terribly done. He made his initial post about my best friend and how he wasn’t “comfortable” with him being in the wedding, indicating that even on a minuscule level, he was uncomfortable with my friend. In the 6 years they’ve known each other he has never once voiced or shown any discomfort for him. I don’t know if he was using him as a scapegoat or what. His comments started to change the tune of the post and it started to become a “I’m not comfortable with the guy best friend” vs. “Actually, I’m being taken advantage of” type of thing. It was all so weirdly done, and his comments seemed rude and argumentative. People were judging him based on the initial question as the forum intended, but then he started to tell the rest of the story to try and gain favor or something.
But, I digress. Moving onto the actual update, my boyfriend and I had a talk a few days ago. He was home when I came back from work and it looked like he was packing some of his stuff. I asked if this meant that we were officially over, and he said he didn’t know. I asked if we could talk about it, and he said sure. I apologized to him for how I was acting and that I shouldn’t have been so controlling with the planning. I also apologized for rejecting his culture and said that I didn’t do it with malice. He asked why I really rejected the ceremonies and I told him how I wasn’t comfortable with his parents, since there was still tension between us.
He explained that they were trying to be okay with me, but what I did just made it harder. I told him I read his post and asked if he really didn’t feel comfortable around my best friend. He was kind of iffy on that, saying yes and no before saying he didn’t mind him as a person, but he was still someone he didn’t know. He offered to apologize to him since he figured I told him about what he said when I left to my parent’s house, which I did, and I said I would appreciate that. We got quiet and I asked again if he wanted to officially break up. He said he wanted to cancel the wedding, but that he didn’t want to break up permanently yet. I felt the same way, so we talked some more, and eventually agreed to go back to dating.
This may not be the outcome a lot of you wanted, since it seemed like you were all rooting for him to kick me to the curb, but I still love him and he still loves me. We’re cancelling all of the wedding plans and looking into couples counseling. And, as a promise to each other that we’re going to change, he’s going to make an effort in befriending my best friend, and I’m going to be seeing his family more and participating in/observing more cultural events. This is the last post I will make from this account. I just want to move forward and rebuild with him.
TL;DR: We broke off the engagement, but we’re still together.

My Brother in-law (bil) passed away May 26 so let just say that this last week sucked.
Everything started at about 7:00am last Saturday. This was the first weekend after school was out and the dogs bladder didn’t get the message so she woke up my son. My phone rings about that time and it is my MIL, odd enough but I answer. She starts by telling me my BIL had a medical emergency and it doesn’t look good. I wake my wife and tell her to get dressed while asking the normal questions what happened are they taking him to the hospital which hospital ect. She answers Local hospital in the Er don’t know what happened and the Dr says it doesn’t look good. I gave the general ok bye and hang up.
Now this is a side note but my wife and I both work in the hospital she an RN and I am a Biomed. So we both know how a hospital handles pt stable, unstable, or deceased.
Back to the story the in-laws all live roughly 1hr away. I still have 2 kids that are fast asleep 10f and 15f and they are notoriously slow getting up. I look at the 17 year old and tell him to finish getting dressed he needs to take his mom to the hospital in the in-laws home town. My thinking was if she hurries at worst and her brothers dies she will get to see him after he was made presentable by the hospital staff and my boy could be ushered to a waiting room until everything was done.
Do I trust my kids to stay home alone. Yes. Do I trust my kids to stay home alone in an emotionally charged situation explitive no there would be blood. The 15f mood/hormones create such a rollercoaster that I get whiplash just being in the room with her on a normal day.
So I let the girls sleep for a bit and keep in contact with my wife while they drive down. They let me know that she talked to her mom and that instead of the hospital they need to go to BIL house. He is a bachelor so no wife or kids so no good reason to be going to his house. They get there and find out that the BIL was never at the hospital he died in his house at 46. I am still at home with the girls and after finding out ask if my wife wants me to bring the girls down. I was told no so I spend the day comforting them here while my wife and son are with her family.
Arrangements are made obituary comes out and my wife and kids are listed but I am not. Mil and Fil’s in-laws are listed but my wife is not shown to be married. I have been married to her for 18 years. My Mil is pretty petty and would do something like this for spite
So am I the asshole for having my feelings hurt and looking to make this an issue with my wife since it is her parents when she get back home from work next week. I already feel like one for getting my son in the mess to start with.

IISER website don't provide information about the minimum marks for the students who get selected in these institute so that student don't get obsessed with clearing the cutt off which is really good descision.
Some platforms take reviews from their students to make safe or minimum score but their data are not accurate but an average of students reviews and problem is that some websites data have great fluctuations from other websites data , so it's really tough to decide who is accurate.
Some students needs to know about what will be the minimum marks because they have taken a drop year for that. so it is normal for them to ask the questions of minimum score to get their dream isser institute.
Help: so it is my request to all the senior (who have calculated their marks during IAT exam) , can you please provide your marks ,rank, IISER institute also provide the details about the year in which you qualified the exam so that other students could prepare themselves for that level who taken drop for such exam ?
Note: please mention your All India rank not category rank.
If you don't have calculated your marks during the exam then you don't need to say your rank because opening and closing rank are already available on website but we need rank vs marks data .

Heyy!! Happy weekend :> My days feel empty lately kasi nag-start na break namin before midyear. I'm currently preparing some stuff for midyear lang rn and super kabado sa paghintay ng grades kaya it'd be nice to have some company and you know chill kwentuhan lang abt random stuff tonight. I'm down to listen to you!
About me:

• Incoming tired year student
• Can converse well (depends sa social battery) but hopefully we have the same sense of humor HAHAHA
• Low maintenance friend. We can go on weeks/months w/o talking HAHAHA. I'm okay with one time usap as well.
• Likes Bojack Horseman, The Vampire Diaries, and currently watching Brooklyn nine-nine rn
• Retired kdrama enthusiast
• Kanal humor (miss ko na makipagbardagulan at asaran abxbxghabgg )

About you:

• Can converse well
• Same sense of humor
• Hopefully you're someone who's still studying pero it's not required naman.
• Has hobbies to share. Mabilis ako ma-influence so feel free to yap about your interests!
• Respects boundaries
• Not required: May alam sa games on steam kasi i have a few questions to ask hehe .

This will be thru call pala (disc/tg)! So yeah see you in my DMs! Feel free to re-message (sorry I rarely check my reddit inbox huhu).

I was coming out of a 2 year relationship that just wasn't a good fit for me so I ended it and wanted to move on with life but wasn't in a rush to find "the one" .. so one day I go into the bar with a buddy, where my mom was the kitchen manager. When I started coming in this beautiful woman who was super cool, would flirt, make comments to my mom about how she was going to marry me. She even would put Hubband on my bar tab as my name lol and I just kinda shrugged it off. She asked me to go out after a few months later. I told her no I was kinda dating other women and jokingly (but not really) just said you are too much for me. I tend to watch and observe people for awhile just so I can be sure they are who they say they are and to get a feel their character for red flags. I am a Scorpio lol what can I say. Truth be told I didn't hear good things about her from really anyone, especially my mom. Infact my mom told her to stay away from me and warned me about her. We became friends and she would always explain how everyone just didn't like her, misunderstood her, or was jealous of her. After I got to know her I was falling in love with her, like she was made for me, we had the same values and morals, likes and dislikes. After dating and being together for about a month or so her phone rang while we were in a movie with her daughter and was told her dad passed away from a massive heart attack. I felt so bad for her knowing the rough history with her dad ( just like my story. ) but the last few years were a lot better and became pretty close. I was there for her and held her for weeks when she was sobbing and did everything for her, including driving her places. At this point I knew she had bad anxiety for the last 10 years or so. Slowly her grief started to diminish a little bit and things were trending up, although her rage and arguments started mostly when she was drinking but I thought well its due to her loss and no matter what I will be there for her and do my best to support her although at times it was frustrating and hard to do. We decided to get married the following February, at this point I was head over heals for her and wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. So from here her mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. Let me explain something. My wifes main support person her whole life, her best friend the person that not only could but would set her straight and tell it like it is. Her mother passed away on july 22nd extremely fast and really unexpected due to the good prognosis from the doctors thats what everyone had thought. So now it was back to ok .. get into protection mode and prepare to support my wife. To my surprise, my wife she wasn't as outwardly upset as when her dad passed away. Thats when I knew that this has undoubtedly crushed, devastated her soul. I am sure that's a vast understatement. Our relationship since then hasn't been the same. She will go into rages that are scary to be on the receiving end of. The name calling, being blamed for all her problems in life, telling me I am worthless, not her equal, that all her other relationships the men were better than me, attacking my manhood, any kind of insecurity I have told her about when trying to be vulnerable will get thrown in my face and used as ammo. Along with any and all arguments from 2 years ago, my past relationships mistakes that I have made, and how she is a prized possession and deserves everything she wants from a man, also that I don't love her as good as other men did and how boring I am because I dont like to sit in a bar get drunk everyday so I am a stick in the mud and dragging her life down and she can do better and be with somone who is going to make her happy. Really anything in her rage is fair game and it got to the point when this happens she is unreasonable, you can't calm her down it will make it worse. She has hit me, and spit a mouth full of chewed food in my face. The things being screamed in my face is disgusting. So I leave not willing to be treated that way and go stay with my cousin for a bit to let her cool off, me cool off and let cooler minds prevail and come back. This has now been the cycle for the last year. The day after Christmas this year it happened again and it was over her preception of something... I was cast away for a month. Come to find out she struck up a relationship with an ex and before I came back deleted text and is telling me half truths about it while blaming me for her indiscretion, saying it was my fault, and had began bashing me to anyone who will listen to her. We agreed to work it out because we love and want to be together and get help for the issues we are having, I made some major changes that she asked for and I followed through and delivered for her. She lost her insurance for a few months and couldn't get her colonopin for anxiety so she had been getting some from her sister to get her by, finally her insurance is back and she goes to her primary doctor to get another prescription and her doc asked if I test you will it be in your system? Whatever she said made her primary tell her she wasn't getting it and she thought my wife was at risk for suicide and she was abusing the meds. She was referred to a psychiatrist and diagnosed with BPD and PTSD due to childhood trauma. She spent the last month on different meds and the behavior issues started up again slowly. At this point I can tell when she is on the verge of a rage filled attack I just don't know when it's going to come. Well it did last Tuesday and it was worse yet, and of course she was drinking. I have researched BPD not knowing a lot and boy it don't look good. I love her and don't want to abandoned her. But it doesn't look good. I believe she also has traits of NPD. I want it to work but I can't keep on with someone who treats me like this. My self esteem is down, she accuses me of having a mental illness and when I explained how I feel she says I am always playing a victim. She makes me question reality and I feel I am going crazy. Just slamming me to everyone who will listen .. for no reason I just dont get it. Anytime she drinks I get filled with anxiety wondering is this the day for a rage filled blow out ? I can't have friends, or my family in my life. I do love my wife. Outside of the major blow ups we are great. When the rages happen I don't know who that person is.

Starting with set 2, and going forward with each new set, a sticky thread will be posted a month before a set’s release and stay up until a month after release. For example, with set two releasing July 12th, this thread will be stickied from June 12th - August 12th and while this thread is up, the following topics should be kept in that thread. All related post flare will be taken offline during this time as a reminder and any new posts made will be taken down.
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Please use this set thread for the following:
- Pulls Posts - new posts showing what you got in your pack or box, asking how much something is worth, asking if a card is a misprint, etc.
- Local prerelease and release events - If you are an event organizer for a regional or official larger event, still feel free to make a new post but for all the local prereleases / releases, use this thread.
- Rules questions - For rules questions relating to the new set's mechanics and/or cards, please post them here or in the individual card's "card preview" post. We are still seeing a lot of the same rules questions being asked (unique rules, leaders leaving play or not, etc.) so if anyone wants to take the initiative and make an FAQ, I would love to link that on the right under the quick links.
- Looking for Group - For people looking for local play groups or local stores that support the game.
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Why is this thread being made?
Reddit only allows a sub to have two sticky threads up at a time and the mod team wants to reserve at least one of those slots for notices, official news, AMA's, or other relevant items that may come up that we feel the sub would want to be made aware of. That leaves us only one other sticky thread so we are trying to balance the two thoughts of "leave the sub wide open and let the people decide" and "put everything into a sicky thread" groups of people.
This thread is a compromise that tries to funnel a majority of the same traffic into a consolidated place when excitement is high (new set release) while also relaxing the rules during the "off-peak" season between sets.
As always, we are open to ways to improve the sub but please remember that decisions like these need to be made with the collective whole in mind, and not cater to a small number of people's personal tastes.
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Background. Me 42, ex 37. 8 years together. Married 2 years. Her affair came out 1 day before our 3rd wedding anniversary on Oct 27 2021. Caught her by snooping thru her phone. Confronted, gave her the boot, tried to reconciled for the kids. couldn’t trust her. Filed for divorce. Became free man in Dec 2023.
I posted a month ago how my ex sent me a text asking me if I can take time off from my work to watch the kids while she take a mini vacation. I replied “u don’t have a job but u going on a vacation? Karma is a b. How does a feel get fired, get pumped and dumped.” I got slammed by a lot of people for being immature and petty. A lot of you guys were right. I was petty and it did felt good. But in the end she still the mother of my boys and if she suffer my kids suffer. Ever since the divorce I been cold to her. Pretty much grey rock. When we exchange kids, I don’t look at her, load/unload kids and out. She is repulsive to me. I can’t stand seeing her nor hearing her voice when she FT the kids. I didn’t send her anything for Mother’s Day or her bday this year or last year. I’m still working towards indifference. Maybe one day, I’ll be able to look at her.
Yesterday was my bday and she had my boys FaceTime me in the morning and in when they got home from school. I know it was her idea because my kids don’t like to FaceTime much. They always playing games on their iPads. I picked up my kids yesterday after work and my feelings for her changed. I actually pity her now. She a shell of herself. O yea awhile back she cut her own risk and I had to call the police and she was taken to the hospital for evaluation. I knew it was a bluff trying to get my attention. She was let out a few hours later. I know she blew up my life and the kids life wife her affair and I could have taken the kids away from but choose not too. Probably get slammed for this. She is a great mother, just a shitty partner. She takes the kids to school. Pick them up. To all the kids appointments. She blamed me for not giving her attention. I know that bs for cheating but i admit i gave my attention to the kids first . O well. Can’t change the past. Plus I am at my best right now. Got a promotion and I’m in the best shape of my life. Maybe I should thank the ex.
Here’s the thing. I will never have romantic feelings or touch my ex wife ever again. She tainted to me. Should I continue to be cold to her? I can’t ghost her until my youngest turns 18 so I’m stuck wit my ex for at least another 15 years. So my question. How many of you betrayed spouse went from stone cold to being friends? And how long did it take. I will probably get slammed too for trying to be friends with my ex. Maybe I changed. Maybe I’m getting weak. Maybe it’s indifference. IDK. Thanks for reading.

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Your grandma’s on her death bed. You and your family gather around to say your final goodbyes. After hours of waiting for her to pass, your family starts leaving one by one because it looks like she’ll make it through the night. You stay though, because you love your grandma so SO much. When it’s just the two of you left, she talks to you softly from her weak, dying throat. She tells you a WILD but totally believable story. She says that the reaper came to her to take her, but she refused to leave, so the reaper gave her a choice: either she comes with him willingly or they play a game of Mortal Kombat 1 (cause he’s chill like that) and if she wins, he’ll leave her alone and let her live. Now, the problem is that your grandma who you love so much has never played Mortal Kombat in her life. The reaper gave her 3 days to train, during which she’ll be granted good enough health to practice. However, because the reaper’s a bit of a bitch who’s scared to lose, he says that she can’t practice by playing MK1 or her soul will immediately be claimed.
So now you, her loving grandson, have to help her get good enough in 3 days to beat the reaper, and the only games you can choose for her to practice on are the previous Mortal Kombat games and not MK 1. Which one would you choose to help get her good enough to beat the reaper in Mortal Kombat 1?

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The room was quiet.
No one said a word.
I looked around at their grim faces, and decided to break the silence. "Ares?" I asked. "As in... the god of war?"
"The very one," Apollo acknowledged. "We are doomed."
"Well, actually," Artemis said from the doorway. "He is... just sort of walking around."
Athena lifted her eyebrows, "What? Explain, Sister."
"I do not know how to further explain," said Artemis, adopting a pained expression. "He is not tearing this lodge to shreds as he would if..."
"... If he knew we were here," Athena finished her sentence. "Do you think he hasn't detected us?"
"Impossible," Hephaestus huffed.
"I agree with Hephaestus," Apollo said, leering at the windows on the north side of the room. "Ares can detect us almost anywhere on Olympus. Certainly he can feel us from the other side of this wall, no?"
"Out there?" I asked, gesturing toward the north wall.
Artemis nodded gravely. "Yes. He must be preparing something."
I started toward the window when Apollo jumped in front of me. "Excuse me, are you mad?"
"He wouldn't recognize me," I said, scooting past him. He lifted a hand as if to stop me, but simply looked to Athena for help.
She tilted her head and shrugged, "He has a point. We're all finished anyway. What could it hurt?"
I stood at the window and peered out at the people gathered around the fountain. There was a taller than average man in gleaming golden armor standing among them. His donned a crimson cape that blew in the breeze— he was a magnificent sight to behold. It was as though his very being was shimmering-shiny.
"He's... asking people questions," I narrated. "He's the guy in the golden armor right?"
"Yes," came Artemis's voice next to me. "If he is speaking, I may be able to hear him if I sharpen my focus. I am good at this. Everyone, please remain quiet." She knelt down, closed her eyes, and pressed her ear against the wall.
I watched him speak to people and occasionally point to the sky. Everyone around him seemed taken by his fancy appearance, but they were all shoulders; they had no idea what he was on about.
"None of you?" asked Artemis. "None of you saw a group of people come from the sky?" She spoke slowly as she listened. "I sensed them here in this town when I arrived. Now they have disappeared. Have you done something?"
"I don't believe it," Hephaestus spoke, a spark of hope in his heart. "He cannot sense us. But how?"
"Perhaps this lodge is magical," Apollo said, a small smile appearing on his face. "What luck! What unbelievable luck!"
I couldn't help but smile at our good fortune as I watched them breathe sighs of relief. My gaze stopped on Athena however, as she was staring at me with narrowed eyes as though deep in thought.
"It is... possible that I was mistaken," Artemis spoke. "But I could have sword upon my steel that I sensed all of them this way." She looked up at me and smiled. "Buck, he is leaving!"
I watched through the window as the god turned and heaved a frustrated sigh. He looked up at the sky before leaping up and out of view. The people by the fountain gasped so hard I could hear it through the walls of the lodge.
"He's gone!" I exclaimed. "He took off!" I turned to find Athena right next to me and my back hit the wall. Her eyes were inches from mine. "Oh- uhh- hey, Athena," I said nervously, sidling away from her. "You, uhh... You good?"
"What is it?" asked Artemis as she stood up. "What do you sense in Buck?"
The others gathered near the window caging me in as Athena stared into my soul. I swallowed and glanced around. "What?"
"Nothing," Athena smiled.
"Nothing?"
"I sense... nothing." she clarified.
"Now that you mention it," Apollo leaned in. "I too sense no aura from the new god."
"Hm," Hephaestus scratched his temple. "You know... I cannot sense him either. Not even a little of him."
"Can't sense me?" I asked. "I don't know, you're all looking awfully hard at me."
"You have no aura," Athena clarified. "Every god and goddess has an aura without exception," she explained.
"To put it to you in terms you will better understand," said Apollo. "Think of when you go to visit someone you know at their house. Their house has a distinct smell, no?"
"Yeah," I nodded cautiously. "Yeah, I know what you mean. Not always like a bad smell, but a scent."
"Now imagine," Artemis chimed in. "That you can smell that person's home-smell when they are close."
"Within a mile," Athena added. "We can sense others of our kind in such a way. Some can sense it stronger than others."
"... And you're saying I don't have one?" I asked. "Like at all?"
"Perhaps because he was first human," Hephaestus offered.
"No," Apollo smiled, looking at Athena.
"We're on the same page, Apollo," Athena smiled back.
"Hm?" Artemis placed her hands on her hips. "If you have figured something out, please share it."
"I believe," said Athena, pointing playfully at me. "That our friend here is camoflauge, so to speak."
"A god of isolation," Apollo said in wonderment. "If he does not wish to be found..."
"My word," Hephaestus smiled. "If that is truly a power of yours... I am jealous."
"You think I'm hiding your auras?" I asked, a half-smile on my face. "Seriously?"
"Seriously," Athena answered with a relieved sigh. "I believe merely being close to you erases our presence from those that seek us."
I looked down at my own hands and tightened them into fists. It was amazing. I was emitting godlike powers without even trying. It was just a part of who I was now. What luck that I was lonely enough in life to assert a domain that could hide me in plain sight from those that would wish me harm. I was so happy to be useful I couldn't even form it into words.
"We should run further still," Artemis cut in. "I am a piece of Father, and if I know him, he will still not give up the search. Unable to sense our auras, he will still search high and low with his eyes and ears. He will follow our trail."
"Agreed," Athena answered quickly. "We must not stay here."
"Well, where do we go?" I asked.
"To Asgard," Hephaestus answered firmly.
"I believe it was you who said Odin would not take us in, yes?" asked Apollo.
"We are not going for shelter," Hephaestus smiled a devilish grin. "We are going... for materials."
Asgard wasn't what I expected. Truth was, I didn't know what to expect, but it wasn't this. The sky was a splauched watercolor painting of blues and violets, and even black in some places as the winds blew across the roiling water beneath. The plane seemed to be on the brink of a major storm that never quite arrived. The air was salty and cold as we were rowed across the noisy waters toward the great hall on the hill. I could see it through the fog with a mighty hearth fire burning at the port.
"It's kind of dreary," I noted as the Norseman rowed us to shore.
"I adore this type of weather," Artemis grinned widely. "It is so exciting, would you not agree?"
"I must admit, I too enjoy the calm before a storm," Hephaestus agreed. "Great power swells within the clouds. The potential is hair-raising."
"I would oft come to earth just for this feeling," Apollo spoke next. "There's nothing like it."
"Perhaps it is a sense of godlike nostalgia among Zeus's children," Athena said before taking a big wiff of the air. "We all love storms, it seems."
I preferred sunny weather, but it wasn't like I didn't understand. There was something exilerating about a storm so intense that it knocked the power out. We'd gather together in the living room and light all our candles, and play board games while we listened to the rolling thunder over our heads.
I missed that.
I missed my family.
And it was striking me just then as we pulled up to the shore that I might never see anyone I loved ever again. I had been so caught up in getting away from an angry deity that I hadn't really had the time to sit and think about the state of my life.
The longboat rumbled beneath us as it bore into the rocky shoreline. The other gods climbed out and onto the shore, and I followed quietly behind them. We marched up the torchlit path to the great hall under heavy fog. The rocks crunched under my boots as I moved up the incline. I never did tire or run out of breath— divinity had robbed me of such mortal difficulties. I should have been thrilled, but my heart was heavy. Would I never know the challenge of exercise again?
I shook the thoughts away. I kept thinking like a poet inside my head. It was so weird having my inner monologue change. Would I be speaking like Artemis eventually? Or could I keep a more natural sentence structure like Athena? At least she used contractions. Artemis sounded like a language model; like Microsoft Sam, or Starfire from Teen Titans or something— like she was still getting a grasp on the language after thousands of years.
When we reached the top of the path, we stood before the great hall's massive wooden doors. We beheld them for only a moment before they parted in the middle and creaked open. A tall man— taller than any of us strode out of the hall. He wore what looked like an animal pelt across his silver shoulder pauldrons, and the rest of his outfit was made up of dark leather that thinly veiled his abdominal muscles. He surveyed us through a single eye, brushing his long grey hair out of his face and behind his ears. I couldn't tell if he was smiling beneath his thick beard.
"You have ten seconds to explain," he spoke harshly.
It was a safe bet that he wasn't smiling.
"It's the new deity," Athena spoke quickly. "Brian," she clarified, turning and looking over her shoulder at me.
"Me?" I cried out in surprise. "I haven't done anything yet!"
"His domains are indulgence, isolation, and humor... so far as we know. It the second of his domains that concerns you."
"But we promise," Artemis interjected. "He cannot control it yet! And you will understand, soon enough, that it is best that we cannot be detected."
The man looked me over, his frown softening into a look of curiosity. "How about that?" he asked, moving through the crowd of gods nearer to me. "I didn't know about it," he said in a deep tone. "Do you have any idea," he asked, looking me dead in the eyes. "... How long it has been since I didn't know something?"
The valleys of age that ran across his face didn't for a single second betray the enormity of his might. I could feel the weight of his power on my shoulders as he studied me. I didn't have to ask who he was. I could feel it in my bones— this was Odin.
This was the All-Father.
Athena appeared at his side and smiled sweetly at him. "How does it feel?" she asked.
"Unnerving," he answered. "And yet... exhilerating, I could not sense any of you approaching. I didn't know you would be here before I heard the horns of the boatmen." he turned to her. "How is this possible?"
"Well, now," Athena said in her most charming voice. "How would you like to hear a story you haven't heard before? One you didn't immediately know as the pen met the page?"
"Ha," he placed a thick hand on her shoulder. "I knew I would like you, Athena." He turned to the others and smiled genuinely. "Come! Join me at my table! We have about an hour before Poseidon shows up asking for you."
I was in awe.
He was completely omniscient it seemed.
He knew all— except for me.
I couldn't help the feeling of unease as we followed him into the hall and the gargantuan wooden doors closed behind us. If Odin felt I was a threat to him...
I was certain none of us would be able to stand up to him.
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Locked up in the BSU again, or dare I say it? She will end up fucking shot at this rate… I’m here to tell you, local law enforcement are a bunch of gun nuts who will shoot first and ask questions later. They’re all morons. So, those of you trying to call local authorities? Please don’t waste local tax payers dollars on this shit. They’re not going to do anything. Troopers likely won’t either, bc they need charges that actually stick. Everything she has been doing lately is too vague to charge.
CPS is not going to do anything. I know parents who live in almost squalor and have mental health issues and all still have their kids. The standard is: will this kid die if they stay in this situation? Yes? CPS takes them for placement. No? CPS monitors for 60-120 days. I’m sure everything for these two morons has been unfounded.
Eddie Oropollo used to be Corning PD and he caught charges as an Elmira PO for I believe manslaughter for pinning a man down while he had a mental health crisis. He was found not guilty, but it was huge that he was charged. He and his wife Trish are absolute trash. Besides the point, but that’a a pretty typical response, locally.
That’s the local temperature on mental health in this area. We are so rural we don’t have any mental health professionals let alone anyone who could deal with the complexities of this issue. Morgan likely has an undiagnosed dissociative identity disorder, her coping mechanism for stress or triggers is a huge spectrum and you all say “we see demons in her eyes” yet she can still function and not get in trouble etc bc she’s still somewhat there… This is my own arm chair diagnosis!!! I’m not a professional!!
I can say from personal experience when I was overprescribed adderall, I was not in a healthy place. That’s the last drug she needs to be on, in the midst of a manic spiral? Yeah, no fucking way. She needs a week in the BSU just to SLEEP!
If she has DID from the cPTSD? From everything Justin does to her etc? She’s an asshole for not getting real with herself and getting the help she deserves to get for her child’s sake. And, in the same breath, fuck Justin for triggering her to this point. That’s cruel.
Justin is quietly proving what a control freak she is, and she just happily hops in the trap he sets for her every single time.
Again, she’s not gonna get in trouble. She’s simply not. She might get a two day stay at chateau deux saint Joseph’s, but she’s not going to get in trouble. Mark my words.
As a local, stop wasting our tax dollars on these two assholes!!! Lol, everyone is aware!! There’s truly nothing they can charge her with. Even riding with a bumper on her kids lap? Not a sound idea to you or me, but also still not illegal!!

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He currently is/was enrolled in a Day-1 CPT university and was in the last semester when they terminated his sevis yesterday on the basis of "Failure to Enroll". The university has agreed to issue a new initial 1-20 with new Sevis ID for a late summer program starting on July 8. This means he will have to re-enter the country. Re-instatement is not an option because of how time taking it is.
He was also employed , but with the termination of Sevis it means his employment was terminated too. His H1 was picked in this year's lottery. The employer has agreed to re-hire him on July 8 and also file the H1-B petition in the meanwhile.
Has anyone ever been in the same boat and could you please share your experience with the re-entry process. Which port of entry did you use? What questions were asked by the CBP? I understand this is risky, but any insight would be appreciated.
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I am giving some particular exam and am currently preparing for it. So the thing is my result of another exam came 12-13 days ago and it was a very disappointing result for me. It lead to me being sluggish in studies. I got up late, lurked on reddit and slept late. Was very inactive didn't study nor did workout.
Now 4 days ago I met a girl on reddit and she was a fellow aspirant. We started talking and I could see that we had similar interests and a similar mindset. She was talking very nicely and sweetly, she even made me a planner for my studies and stuff. We decided to wake up early the next day and study. It affected me greatly in a good sense as I woke up, studied productively for the first time in maybe 2 weeks, went to the gym and she seemed as a good person I could look upon to study and get my life going. Even though it seems wrong to be dependent on another person to sort your shit, I felt comfortable with her being, existing and talking with me.
But then 2 days later that is yesterday evening, she started acting cold and distant, although not visibly but the way she used to talk with me was all gone. She'd reply with stickers and like 0 texts. Now this fucked me. Don't get me wrong I view her nothing more than a friend because this year is crucial for me and her as well so I just did not want any distractions as such. I had cut-off from every friend due to the same reason. Now her acting like this made me question if I said anything wrong. Asked her straightaway, she said that I did not.
This thing is f-ing my mind because I just need closure on what exactly went wrong. So what do I do? I figured she might be going through a bad phase or having some medical emergency but still the overthinking is killing me and I am not able to stop it. Do I confront her straightaway or whaatt help please.
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Do not take your life DEATH COMES FOR US ALL IN TIME my friend .
I too attempted suicid at 19 then got sectioned which didn’t help I may add. But I would advise you don’t do it the immediate thought I had was FUCK ! But was too late. I was lucky enough to have my gf at the time only been with 4months find me and help me. I had now married that woman and have three children with her. The point I’m trying to make though is that life can be shit it can feel like shit hell I still have these thoughts of suicide now and I’m 28 now.
There are things that can help though the saying life’s a piece of shit is true on one hand and on the other life is beautiful is true on the other if you slow down and really picture life in the present moment it really can be beautiful.
Things to keep in mind are Be present don’t worry about what you don’t have don’t compare instead look and see what is around you who is around you what have you got available around you and what can you do to affect and change the things around you if they need changing at all ( not the best analogy but almost like a video game.
Mind set is also a big game changer not at first but with training can become a great tool remeber long that you can’t be positive all the time unless you are just an all around positive person.
There is always a way forward I don’t like bringing religion into it but almost picture yourself as a best friend or son/daughter that needs taking care of at first.
This can be done by finding what interests you for example start little could be a simple walk to something more complex like body building
Set goals and try your best to hit them It could be something as simple as in 6 months I want to be stronger than before then set up a routine and a discipline to complete these goals.
Ask yourself what is making me unhappy you will get the answer trust me! Now ask yourself
Is this a permanent issue? Most of our issues aren’t permanent or are usually based on an external or comparison perspective.
Why does it bother me? Is another question that the answer is usually linked to something we either compared ourselves too or circumstance
And then Lastly ask what can I do to change it? This will fire your brain into go mode and believe me it will find a way This is where you will find purpose action and joy, (you will feel fear at first and then unwillingness the what’s the point sort of thoughts will kick in but stick it out because change is coming.
I don’t like to bring religion into it when it comes to a life but it’s the only way I can put something into a mindset or concept of understanding
Think of your thoughts as between 3 forces 1 the observer (god 2 the wicked (the devil 2 the saint (the angel
The wicked deals with thoughts or feelings of Negativity Aggressions Pleasure Spite Self obsession Ect
The saint deals with Positive Caring Love Giving Serving Selflessness
Now the observers role is special but needs you to choose The observer can only watch these thoughts but needs you to pick and choose The observers role is to simply observe both forces at work this is your reasoning, the why, the judge, the gatherer if you will
Then there’s you stuck in between it all the observer gives you the thoughts the inside voice if you will and then you decide what to do with it
I hope I’m not rambling but it’s a handy tool that helped me with my life so far
Remember also to try to be present in the moment with who is around you and what’s going on and see what way you could impact life around you directly you will be surprised what little action it takes to make a difference.
I hope you reconsider and know that you will love many lives in one lifetime as the old saying goes “ I hope you die a thousand deaths” not negative or to be taken literally but a metaphors for the life you had the person you were has been laid to rest it’s time to recreate yourself in a new image.
I hope you reconsider my friend even your post has had an impact on me today know that a world with you in it is still a better world than you without stay strong and always moving my friend
As I say DEATH COMES FOR US ALL EVENTUALLY enjoy life and the simple art of taking a breath it’s a wonderful feeling my friend the simplicity of breathing alone is a pleasure many take for granted much love too you