I have had trichotillomania since I was about 7 obviously at the time I didn't know that. Funny enough it started all because I was told as a kid that when an eyelash falls out you can make a wish and blow it away. And I think you can guess what dumb little me did. I was taken to so many doctors by my family because they didn't understand why I was rapidly losing so much of my hair. It went from my eyelashes to my eyebrows and then the hair on my head. I was too afraid at the time to admit what I was doing so I always lied when I was asked if I was doing it myself. In the end the doctors were convinced I had alopecia (dunno if I spelt that right) thinking that would get my family off my ass I went through with the treatment and ended up having this cream tested on my skin before putting it on my face. I ended up coming out in a gigantic blister that was stuck on my arm for weeks and refused to ever go back to that doctor. After that a little bit of sense was kicked back into me and I tried to stop the pulling. Ever since it's been a simillar pattern, I manage to stop for a while and get some growth back before a stressful event, something I'm really excited about or I just get bored and I'll rip it all out again. Over these years I learnt that I wasn't the only person who experienced this and started looking into videos. I found all those toys that people recommend that allow you to pluck at things yet they just don't give the same effect. For me at least I like the sensation of pulling the strand out and then rolling it between my fingers but I really want to stop this. Is there any suggestions for what I can do, some people have told me to tape my fingers so I can't grip the hair with them but the feeling of it just drives me insane. Sorry for this long post I just wanted to share it somewhere people will understand.

In this video from a reaction channel of Pakistani villagers they answer the question how covid has affected their community. Starvation, unemployment, unable to sell produce, and no mention of the virus itself having any impact. Imagine the actual total cost worldwide.
One of the villagers says it best "Although I was not physically affected by it, however it ruined my business as it was programmed to ruin me" and then the dude starts laughing.
8 billion people were affected by the covid response. Official accounts of the cost health benefit of the pandemic strategy never take this into consideration. The real worldwide costs are also hardly quantified, and are obscured, censored and downplayed against overestimation of modeled projections of theoretical lives saved.
"(Global) vaccination saved at least x million lives", etc. It's just a big middle-finger towards the whole world. And apparently it's really effective propaganda, because the validity of official accounts are hardly even questioned. It just never comes to people's mind just how negatively the world was economically impacted by a manufactured crisis.
A totally egotistical adopted point of view, because it was fear that drove people to accept all of this, while using altruistic lies about protecting others and saving people to justify it. If you really want to be altruistic, or at least have an honest cost benefit analysis, you'd expect them to care about all actual costs. And that's just a common sense business approach, with no grand pompous quest of saving the world.
My point is: There is no discussion possible within the used context, that's always the trick people play and fall for. So it's about denying the false context, which is a much easier thing to do than engaging within the context. And you'll quickly recognize if your elected representatives are capable of doing their job or not, or even act dumb and play along because how are they that incompetent to not realize the false context that's being sold.

Bought a powercolor red devil 7900xtx from amazon, and the condition was used - good. I wanted to buy a new one, amd I will be returning and buying a new one. So first of all, there is no video output. Pc turns on, card spins to life, lights up, then no output. When I switched to integrated graphics, it worked most of the time. When the GPU was still in, bit I was on integrated graphics, there were sometimes where it wouldn't output at all. There were also times where my screens would start tearing/ghosting if my gpu was in while I used integrated graphics. I tried multiple times to reseat card, make sure cables are plugged in, make sure HDMI and DP are in, reinstall and delete drivers, etc. When I turn the pc on, I also get a error message from adrenalin about drivers failing to launch. I also get a message that says graphics card not supported, but the message has a clear background and nothing other than the text. Correct me if I'm wrong, but the card should come with drivers installed, or should at least automatically install when put into pc. When the card is in pc, despite saying gpu not supported, and drivers failed to launch, when I open device manager: the gpu shows up in there amd says it's working fine. I should also mention my pc works completely fine without the gpu. Specs: Cpu: ryzen 9 7950x3d Gpu: 7900xtx Mobo: asrock x670e steel legends Cooler: nzxt kraken elite 360mm AIO PSU: Thermaltake Toughpower gf a3 1050w Storage: 3tb sk hynix platinum (2+1tb) Ram: 32gb corsair dominator titanium(2x 16gb)

Did y’all hear the call where Paul is on the phone with Jenny and he’s describing an incident in the shower? Paul’s talking about some guy getting into trouble for sexually assaulting another guy and he hits the alarm and the guards run in and Paul said, “and he tried to accuse me” I honestly forget how exactly the conversation went and I’m not sure if I can even find the call. But if you do kno what call I’m talking about, there’s something in Paul’s voice as he talks about it that just…left me with cold chills. It makes me think that maybe Paul was being sexually inappropriate with the inmate, or was excited by what he seen. Idk, there was something strange about the excitement I heard and I can’t put my finger on it. Anyone kno what I’m talking about? And agree or am I overthinking?
Edit to add the video title-Shanda should have covered for Paul. It’s the first few minutes. The guy in the shower accuses Paul of attacking him, I think Paul did try to attack him, I think Paul gets off on torture and torment of others.

Hello everyone! I started my pokemon trading journey with the release of Sun and Moon, and had a lot of great memories with this community. As I've moved away from trading and the series, I wanted to do something to give back to commerate the end of 3DS online services). The prizes are:
*JPN PGL Kanto Classic Lance's Dragonite -OT:ワタル ID:03046, obtained by ninjaspidermonkey and traded to me
*20th Anniversary Keldeo -OT:GF ID:10016, obtained by HashG8, traded to CubanPete26, and traded to me
*JPN Tohoku Donation Pikachu -OT:トウホク ID:201703, obtained by flaw1ess1994 with video proof and traded to me
*JPN Melemele Island Shiny Tapu Koko -OT:メレメレ ID:170317, obtained by ExiaWind, traded to AIEDeR14, and traded to me
*2018 Legends Shiny Zygarde -OT:2018Legends ID:060218, self obtained
To enter, all you have to do is tell me about your gaming journey. Are you still playing pokemon? Onto another series? Taking a step back? Anything is good enough to enter. Be sure to include a 4-digit number and list the 3 prizes you would most like to win, in order. I will be using a random number generator to select 5 winners, one for each event. If you are the fourth or fifth winner and your choices have already been selected, you will be allowed to pick again. Trades will be completed on Sword/Shield This contest will be open until 11:00 PM GMT-4 on May 30. Good luck!

The lyrics absolutely support this theory:
"I'm feeling I'm close" close to... you know what this means "A certain tension rising in the air" 'certain' could be used to hint at what kind of tension; people say it as a way to be like "you know what 'tension' I'm talking about" "Hand's aching, fingers wet" this feels too specific to not be something sexual, why say "fingers wet" and not "hands wet" when saying you're sweating because you're nervous?
I'm also thinking that LORRAIN (OP) is very similar to Carl92 in the sense that they uploaded the snippet (which is really short) and dipped, not wanting to answer much questions because they know where it's from.
Of course there are a lot of loopholes, mainly the lyrics aren't confirmed so it could be "sudden tension" and not "certain tension", same with "hand's aching" could be "head's aching", don't know how sex could be so stressful you get a headache (lmao).
There's also "something spooky like the sheet/shade of a ghost" which, I mean, the word 'like' is in there, making it a simile, and not a focal part of the sentence, just a comparison to describe how the singer's feeling, for emphasis. Also no real idea how this ties into the porn theory, because I don't see how there would be any spooky feeling.
And in contrary to Ulterior Motives, if this theory checks out, the song could actually have been written for a porn film. "Please Don't Stop", which was found in an Israeli video company's logo (Malibu Video), was found to be made for a 1986 adult film also called "Please Don't Stop". People have said that even if TRITA's lyrics are adult-themed, pop music has lyrics talking about sex all the time, so it doesn't mean it's from a porno. However if you read the lyrics for "Please Don't Stop", you'll notice that even though the lyrics are adult-themed because it was written for a porno, there's no adult language that could make it unsuitable for radio airplay.
So, yeah. Unfortunately the porn theory isn't 100% supported because even though there's a lot of evidence pointing to it, there are some gaps, like the "jet sounds" at the end, and the unconfirmed lyrics. It's just something to help point us in the right direction.

Hi, I 26M was in a relationship for almost 8 good years with my 26F partner. Everything was going good and the day prior to our breakup it felt like we put aside all our differences.
Context: My GF basically claimed to have a very tough schedule to keep up at work. She would be the solo stakeholder for any tasks at her firm. Also she would pursue freelancing after work hours as a consultant. In between all of these, she also intends to study for law. I totally understand her perspective that her schedule is packed and obviously she wouldn’t be able to make time for us.
And yes, in the past I’ve been needy and borderline didn’t respect her boundaries. Also I’ve been working on myself too. This being my first real relationship, I definitely sensed a connection which somehow restricts me from moving on. I mean I could move on by myself by working on myself and being the best damn self to show up. However, I have select few questions that constantly haunt me. If it’s too late for me to make changes and be my best self in order for her to witness that I’ve not taken her for granted.
Also, how long do I wait for her to come back? Considering this is the second time we ended up breaking up cuz she was feeling too overwhelmed with her work line and also unable to deal with the toxicity of her own family.
This current breakup seems exactly just like the previous one and in both, I ended up screwing things. It’s all so new to me and I really want to be the best for this girl. I’ve been in therapy for a while and it helped me realise where did I go wrong and also helped me find myself too. But end of the day it’s not like I’m chasing something that doesn’t exist. I’m holding on to the hope that yes somewhere she’s also waiting for me.
From her end, she at the time of breakup told me that she definitely loves me and that’s something that won’t go away and she’s not gonna get into relationships right away( including with me ). Considering she needs to figure things out in her life as well just like I’m making changes in my life. Also she says she’s too overwhelmed with work, so till she figures that out, the idea that she’s not in a relationship is kinda liberating and not like she’s burdened.
From many online blogs and videos I’ve watched, this seemed to me like signs of a dismissive avoidant. And there I’ve also heard, DA does come back and is capable of change provided they themselves feel the need to change.
So here you have it, please guide me as to what my plan should be for reconciliation. Currently I’m in No contact and her birthday is coming up too so pretty clueless there as well.
Please I could definitely use some advice or some help here.
Thanks :)

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Burden:

If a person claims that X exists and is real then the burden is on that person to supply some support for that claim, some evidence or proof that others can and should examine before accepting it. It is incorrect to think that X exists and is real until someone can prove that there is no X. It is also wrong to think that just because you can not prove that X exists that does not mean that X does not exist and therefore X does exist.

Shifting of Burden

The burden of proof is always on the person making an assertion or proposition. Shifting the burden of proof, a special case of ~argumentum ad ignorantium~, is the fallacy of putting the burden of proof on the person who denies or questions the assertion being made. The source of the fallacy is the assumption that something is true unless proven otherwise

Burden of Proof in a Civil Case

The plaintiff’s burden of proof in a civil case is called preponderance of evidence. Preponderance of evidence requires the plaintiff to introduce slightly more or slightly better evidence than the defense. This can be as low as 51 percent plaintiff to 49 percent defendant. When preponderance of evidence is the burden of proof, the judge or jury must be convinced that it is “more likely than not” that the defendant is liable for the plaintiff’s injuries. Preponderance of evidence is a fairly low standard, but the plaintiff must still produce more and better evidence than the defense. If the plaintiff offers evidence of questionable quality, the judge or jury can find that the burden of proof is not met and the plaintiff loses the case.

Circumstantial and Direct Evidence

Two primary classifications are used for evidence: circumstantial evidence or direct evidence.
Circumstantial evidence indirectly proves a fact. Fingerprint evidence is usually circumstantial. A defendant’s fingerprint at the scene of the crime directly proves that the defendant placed a finger at that location. It indirectly proves that because the defendant was present at the scene and placed a finger there, the defendant committed the crime. Common examples of circumstantial evidence are fingerprint evidence, DNA evidence, and blood evidence. Criminal cases relying on circumstantial evidence are more difficult for the prosecution because circumstantial evidence leaves room for doubt in a judge’s or juror’s mind. However, circumstantial evidence such as DNA evidence can be very reliable and compelling, so the prosecution can and often does meet the burden of proof using only circumstantial evidence.
Direct evidence directly proves a fact. For example, eyewitness testimony is often direct evidence. An eyewitness testifying that he or she saw the defendant commit the crime directlyproves that the defendant committed the crime. Common examples of direct evidence are eyewitness testimony, a defendant’s confession, or a video or photograph of the defendant committing the crime. Criminal cases relying on direct evidence are easier to prove because there is less potential for reasonable doubt. However, direct evidence can be unreliable and is not necessarily preferable to circumstantial evidence. If an eyewitness is impeached, which means he or she loses credibility, the witness’s testimony lacks the evidentiary value of reliable circumstantial evidence such as DNA evidence.
Sources:
https://open.lib.umn.edu/criminallaw/chapte2-4-the-burden-of-proof/
https://www.qcc.cuny.edu/socialSciences/ppecorino/PHIL_of_RELIGION_TEXT/CHAPTER_5_ARGUMENTS_EXPERIENCE/Burden-of-Proof.htm

Yo I need someone, I know someone out there has a ss of jids story of his gf saying wack stuff about her being out looking nice. Need the photo back I accidentally deleted it can any1 help me lmfao it’s for a video 🙏🙏🙏🙏

There was this video from when I was younger than talked about like all these different high tech things, and one of them was like a keyboard that went on your fingers, and you had to touch a surface and it would put a vowel or a specific letter.
Does anyone know what I'm talking about, or am i going insane?

Hi. This is a short one but it's my birthday and I stood up playing games with my girlfriend and a friend until midnight and once it became midnight my friend said happy birthday to me then my gf finally stopped watching yt shorts to wish me a happy birthday and I said "thank you!" Then to tease her a little I said "butttttt" I checked my phone and said "your two minutes late" and by the way I just wanna say that I said all this in such a goofy manner so I wasn't serious at all then she said she's about to cry then she left our lobby and started texting me about how she wants to cry and how hurt she feels, etc etc. And even said don't even bother coming to her birthday next year, and called me saying about how I hurt her first, etc etc. It's more of the same and she said to not count on falling asleep with her on video chat tonight and to not bother calling her on her phone and discord, I still just don't know what I did wrong.

Hey guys, I'm back here again sadly until I go see a neurologist on the 13th next month. Kinda sick of just going back and forth but my health anxiety just doesn't let me leave....I'm gonna break this down in a few sections.
This all started with a twitch in my thenar area for about a week, after a week twitch goes away and a tremor remains for whatever reason. My tremor happens when I adduct my thumb towards my index finger....my index finger also tremors when I point it downward. Of course I'm deathly afraid of ALS and am hyper analyzing my body for weakness and atrophy due to my health anxiety.
I've noticed when I hold things In my right hand I have the smallest of shakes but enough to notice...my wrist/forearm will also feel fatigued after I hold something heavier for a while. I will sometimes have pain in my thenar area, top of thumb, wrist and forearm out of nowhere. I know clinical weakness is a large tell for ALS, I can still hold a cup, pick things up type, etc. However, it's more shaky and I can feel something wigging out near my thumb.
I'd like to add that I also have random spasm's or twitches on my eye, ankles, back, abdomen, forearm, etc. I hope a lot of this is just being triggered by my anxiety and I'm tripping but, I just don't know until I see a neuro.
For whatever reason my tremor stops at night time as if it was never there which is weird...once it leaves that's when I start searching for weakness etc (crazy I know) My tremor is also worse when I put my arm behind my head and do the same adduction I mentioned previously. I have no idea what's going on and quite frankly, I am very afraid but am doing the best I can to manage anxiety.
I'll leave a pic to my thumbs down below, my right thumb is the one I'm concerned about, as well as a video of my tremor as some of you may have seen already. Thank you all
Atrophy? (I'm a natural ectomorph) https://imgur.com/a/LXfSTVy
Tremor https://imgur.com/a/Qx0Isgo

Hey guys, I'm back here again sadly until I go see a neurologist on the 13th next month. Kinda sick of just going back and forth but my health anxiety just doesn't let me leave....I'm gonna break this down in a few sections.
This all started with a twitch in my thenar area for about a week, after a week twitch goes away and a tremor remains for whatever reason. My tremor happens when I adduct my thumb towards my index finger....my index finger also tremors when I point it downward. Of course I'm deathly afraid of ALS and am hyper analyzing my body for weakness and atrophy due to my health anxiety.
I've noticed when I hold things In my right hand I have the smallest of shakes but enough to notice...my wrist/forearm will also feel fatigued after I hold something heavier for a while. I will sometimes have pain in my thenar area, top of thumb, wrist and forearm out of nowhere. I know clinical weakness is a large tell for ALS, I can still hold a cup, pick things up type, etc. However, it's more shaky and I can feel something wigging out near my thumb.
I'd like to add that I also have random spasm's or twitches on my eye, ankles, back, abdomen, forearm, etc. I hope a lot of this is just being triggered by my anxiety and I'm tripping but, I just don't know until I see a neuro.
For whatever reason my tremor stops at night time as if it was never there which is weird...once it leaves that's when I start searching for weakness etc (crazy I know) My tremor is also worse when I put my arm behind my head and do the same adduction I mentioned previously. I have no idea what's going on and quite frankly, I am very afraid but am doing the best I can to manage anxiety.
I'll leave a pic to my thumbs down below, my right thumb is the one I'm concerned about, as well as a video of my tremor as some of you may have seen already. Thank you all
Atrophy? (I'm a natural ectomorph) https://imgur.com/a/LXfSTVy
Tremor https://imgur.com/a/Qx0Isgo

Hi this is my first time writing, sorry for bad grammar and formatting. (20F)I have been feeling down a lot of times whenever I interact with my dad. My dad and I have almost have been is some sort of agreement. Whenever we talk he makes me feel like I useless a disappointment bc I don’t look, behave or like something that he believe his daughter should be.
Since I was little my parents would continuously tell me to watch what I should eat and that I was fat or growing big in an unflattering way. At that time I was extremely picky with my food and would not eat anything at school, with the exception of pizza and sweets that I like. This made me eat a lot of food during dinner. I was also doing some sports like horseback riding and swimming for half a week.
Whenever they say this I would obviously would get upset and will retort back that I didn’t like how they would steer the conversation back to my weight. They would then say that they were telling the truth and being realistic. As well state if I wanted them to lie to me. Which I don’t, I just wanted them to stop bringing up my weight every time we talked. My mom backed off as time goes on,but my dad hasn’t.
Instead it has gotten worse with my dad. He always say that my face looks like mosquitoes have feasting my face, that I’m have to get skinnier (abt 4-5lb less)or people will not like me as much. I am about 127lbs (57kg). Everyday he is nagging me to go to the gym for years. He makes hate the gyms bc of the negative feelings I get from the gym. And when I eventually do go to the gym, he says good or one time a day is not good enough, you have to go 2 times a day for 2hrs. Whenever I say that I’m beat after going to the gym for a hour, he says that it’s not enough. You may say that I am not putting enough effort. Today I was running 2sets of 10min run at 6mph and weighted squats. I did 10 mins of walking between the runs.
My weight isn’t the only thing he criticizes me about. He judges my clothes. Literally told me last week that I will have to tryout all my clothes in front of him to see if he like it or not. How I style my hair even though I am just staying home. What I eat and when I eat. I lose most of my appetite afterwards. He even will interrupt me from talk to criticize how I should be talking because I would describe a story too long.
I remember how he would get so angry when we are in the car and I don’t want to talk or am listening to music. He would be yelling and screaming. Throwing my phone to the floor. When he does this I just shut down most of time as he is calling my stupid and rarely threatening to break my nose. Then a minute later he acts like nothing happened. Like it never existed.
Another incident was when his dad passed away beginning of freshman or sophomore year. My mom and dad left to attend the funeral outside the country. My little brother and I just got home. When they got back I think a week or so, I was watching a video and relaxing with my headphones. I didn’t realize my parents got back until he was behind me. He was angry because I was playing around and not doing work. As well as I think he assumed I would be more upset and sad. He yelled at me and , take this with a grain of salt, but I feel like he had slapped me on the face. I mean it would be the first. He slapped me when my brother was chasing me around the house and I accidentally slammed the door on his fingers. I froze when my brother started crying. Parents came and that’s when he did it.
Junior and senior year parents didn’t care that my brother was always hiding in my room to scare me. This also meant my brother would hide in my dark closet while I was in the shower to later go out in only a towels to jump scare me. We finally had a conversation when I so tired about this I actually started to cry. Mom laughed the whole time same with brother til he saw dad being serious. I told them what brother was doing and it took me till I cry for one parent to take it serious.
What I’m getting at is that I don’t feel like a member of the family. I’m introvert and I talk abt niche stuff. I feel like I’m my dad’s trophy daughter. I don’t to be a trophy I just want to be my own person without fearing what he would criticize me this time and what I would cause it might tick him off or without him making me feel so disgusted by his and any person’s touch(hugs,cheek kiss, etc). Idk what to do I feel so inhuman on some days and failure that I don’t know what I should feel. And I feel like I shouldn’t put myself first or else I’m a bad person.
Thank you for letting me rant. Hope you have a good day.

I don’t know if any of you have seen Lala’s video. She did three today. But one of the ones I watch she told us she did file charges against Nika for the death threat. She heard from the police today and they will inform Lala when Nika is in custody!!!! With any luck, when they arrest her, they’ll have to notify children’s services. Keep your fingers crossed!